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“The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible. 

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    • May 20, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 12m AVG DURATION
    • 151 EPISODES

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    The BFF: Black, Fat, Femme podcast is an incredible show that deserves all the praise it receives. From its early days at CSUSB to its current success, Dr. Jon Paul and Jordan Daniels have created a truly remarkable podcast. This show is a must-subscribe for anyone who appreciates content that speaks truthfully, affirms queerness and Blackness, embraces femme energy, and celebrates the voices of Black, fat, and femme individuals. In a world that can be unkind to these communities, it is crucial to have platforms like this where their perspectives are centered and heard.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is its ability to heal and entertain listeners. Each episode features thought-provoking guests and the hosts ask beautifully timed questions that incite deep conversations. The content stands on its own merit and offers a much-needed space for diverse voices to be amplified. It feels like spending time with close friends as you laugh, learn, and find healing through the relatable discussions.

    Unfortunately, there are some negative aspects as well. Some individuals leave fake low ratings out of hatred or ignorance towards the topics discussed on the show. It's disheartening to see people try to silence voices that challenge beauty standards and racism. However, it's important not to let these saboteurs deter us from supporting this podcast.

    In conclusion, The BFF: Black, Fat, Femme podcast fills a critical part of the podcast ecosystem by bringing joy, introspection, honesty, insight, thought-provocation, and cultural critique to its listeners. Dr. Jon Paul Higgins and Jordan Daniels create an authentic and dynamic show that resonates with diverse audiences. Despite any negative reviews fueled by prejudice or closed-mindedness, it remains essential to uplift shows like this that promote inclusivity and understanding among different communities. I highly recommend The BFF podcast for anyone seeking relatable content with a meaningful message.



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    Rejecting Perfection (...and the Tariffs)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 56:54 Transcription Available


    This week your bffs talk about what they have learned from being in the Beyhive, the struggles that marginalized people have to ignore perfection and the impact it has on Black youth. We also talk about why Sofi has the WORST layout ever and why you too should be rejecting the tariffs. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Meet DoctorJonPaul on their book tour in a city near you. Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-TokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    I Can't Charm a Robot!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 73:56 Transcription Available


    This week your BFFs get into their tech bag and discuss how tech has changed their lives as they’ve grown up and the realness of Black Mirror (why it gotta be Black?!). We also discuss why we hate self check out. an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Meet DoctorJonPaul on their book tour in a city near you. Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-TokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    I Am Because We Are (Featuring Denali Joël)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 75:12 Transcription Available


    This week the BFF's talk to the stylish and ever etherial Danali Joël about Black art, Black influence and why people need to keep their thoughts and opinions on religion to themselves. Amen? Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Or meet them on their book tour in a city near you. Help Denali get to freedom and peace! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Denali: Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    One, Four, ATE! (Featuring Star Amerazu)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 44:53 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's are joined by your favorite's fave Star Amerazu to talk being a digital girl in a digital world and why we all want to make space Gayle King & Katy Perry's permanent home. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Head over to the Loveable Trans Auntie column! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Star: Instagram | Tik-Tok | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    I Believe in Miracles!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 67:43 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's dive into a conversation about faith, spirituality, the easter bunny (we know we late) and yarmulkes. Grab you a cup of the blood of Christ before Joho drinks it all! Article reference in this episode: Click Here Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Or meet them on their book tour in a city near you. Support the Starter House! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-TokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    She Done Already Done Had Herses!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 55:38 Transcription Available


    This week, your BFF's talk Rupaul Drag Race Season 17, why drag is so important in this climate and who truly deserves to be in the top 4. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Or meet them on their book tour in a city near you. Support the Starter House! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-TokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    And They Were Sisters

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 72:10 Transcription Available


    This week, Joho flips the script on Doctor Jon Paul, and puts them in the hot seat to talk alllll about their book, "Black, Fat, Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself." Also, Joho has some words for furniture makers! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Or meet them on their book tour in a city near you. Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-TokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Joy Takes Time (Featuring Marie-Adélina AKA Loveable Trans Auntie)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 63:25 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's are joined by Marie-Adélina (Loveable Trans Auntie) to talk all things trans joy, visibility and why we need to uplift the trans community now more than ever. We also dabble into Jordan's Taco Bell obsession. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Head over to the Loveable Trans Auntie column! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Marie Adélina: Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Five G's Please! (Featuring Latrice Royale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 71:31 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's are joined by the queen Goddess Latrice M*tha F*ckin' Royale - A house fave contestant of Rupaul's Drag Race and We're Here fame - to talk he legacy in drag, what it was like to be asked to write a foreword on a book and why the book is so important and needed now. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Latrice: Instagram | Tik Tok | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Rewind: Dare to Be Outspoken

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 68:34 Transcription Available


    Originally released March 20, 2023. This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy Jon's book: https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Watch us on the Tube of You: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    If It's Free, It's For Me (Featuring Marcy Guevara-Prete)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 88:43 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's chat with Marcy Guevara-Prete about sizism, fat fashion and why The Plus Bus is so much more than just a boutique. We also get into a conversation about forgiveness and why we are gonna need to offer more grace to those in community, especially now. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Marcy: Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    They Don't Know GAWD! (Featuring Bay Davis)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 68:46 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's link with the illustrious Bay Davis to talk being Black 365, why we need to redefine community (yes we go there) and why we are so thankful to be Black, fat, femmes. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Bay Davis: Instagram | Twitter | Tik-TokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Don't Do It Babes...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2025 71:31 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's dive share their thoughts about living in the (not-so-always-sunny) SoCal and what things folks need to consider when they tell BFF's that they will be "fine" in this climate, considering all the things we are up against. We also revisit the topic of authenticity and talk openly about why we need to stop telling folks NOT to be scared. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Question EVERYTHING (Featuring Jessica Marie Garcia)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 85:38 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's continue to celebrate Black History Month by talking to our favorite accomplice Jessica Marie Garcia about why, now more than ever - we have to work in solidarity to get free. We also talk about the true meaning of farm-to-table and why in 2025, we don't need another thinking piece. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jessica Marie Garcia: Instagram | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Black Anthems and a Sexy Catfish (Featuring Jade & XD)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 60:27 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade & XD (Jade & XD/Gettin' Grown) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jade: Instagram Follow XD: Bluesky | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    That Dopamine Hit

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 68:28 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's dive a bit deeper into the DEI conversation, while touching on a much needed conversation around capitalism and asking the question, "Can capitalism ever be equitable?" We also get into why Bojangles (didn't) hit in Las Vegas and why people need to walk their dogs on a leash. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    That's All I Got, and All I Had

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 62:39 Transcription Available


    This week, the BFFs are getting silly! We talking about some of our favorite historically Black phrases (see, what happened was...we got inspired by our good judys). Catch the phrases that move our spirit as we talk about how having McDonald's money has healed our inner children. Also, Joho rants about why One of Them Days is a must-see movie. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    An Ode to Altadena

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 74:06 Transcription Available


    Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Forgive, But Don't Forget

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 73:52 Transcription Available


    Happy 2025! This week we discuss the wild ride that is already 2025, forgiveness and how folks can navigate ideation (we have added a chapter for Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam so you can skip). In addition, we also discuss the SoCal fires and why we are done with Influencers. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Rewind: Life is Better (Featuring Kid Fury)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 69:29 Transcription Available


    Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Kid Fury: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Rewind: Laugh at My Pain (Featuring Amber Ruffin)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 79:10 Transcription Available


    Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here! Check out more information on George Floyd Square here. Check out Amber's new show, "Have I Got News For You" here. Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Amber Ruffin: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    2024, There's the Door! - A Best of 2024 Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 67:11 Transcription Available


    Hey BFF's! Yes we've reached the final episode of the year. We asked you all to share your favorite moments and we mashed them all together to give you all the high's (and lows) that made you chuckle. Black Fat Femme will return with new episodes Tuesday, January 14th, 2025. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Knotty Pine!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 78:20 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Betting On Yourself (featuring Archie Jay)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 68:58 Transcription Available


    On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and Archie: The Podcast host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow Archie: Instagram l Podcast l Tik-Tok l Website Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    A.M. E-40

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 55:22 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's talk Black telekinesis, what makes A.A.V.E. (African American Vernacular English) so special and how we plan to stop being so hard on ourselves in 2025 - because honestly, life is already hard enough. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don't forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Standing on BIG Business (Featuring Miss Lawrence)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 71:43 Transcription Available


    This week on the show your BFF's invite LEGEND Miss Lawrence to the mic to talk self preservation during the holidays, standing on BIG business and how we plan to fix our plates for turkey day, sans Christopher Columbus.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don't forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Miss Lawrence: Instagram  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Art as Resistance (Featuring Anania)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 66:58 Transcription Available


    This week on the show your BFF's invite our new sister to the show, Anania, to talk top and bottom of the crop bops, art as resistance and why we really need to keep praying to the ancestors for guidance at this time in history.  MY. GAWD.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don't forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website  Follow Anania: Instagram  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    I See Your True Colors

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 68:36 Transcription Available


    In this week's episode, Jon and Joho break down their reactions to the election, and explore the role toxic masculinity may have played in its outcome. Also, your faves talk about the best candies, and knocking down transphobes.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    REWIND: The DI-ASS-PORA (Featuring Dexter Mayfield)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 84:09 Transcription Available


    This week on the rewind, listen to one of our favorite episodes with the iconic and super funny Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you for making our show what it continues to be.  We will be back with all new episodes next week.

    Okay Ladies - Now Let's Get INFORMATION...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 87:42 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's get political and talk about direct implications of trans bills and California propositions. We also discuss why folks need to leave earlier for the airport.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Paris is STILL Burning! (Featuring Mayhem Miller)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 81:42 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's rejoined by our good Judy Mayhem Miller and talk about the ever-iconic and ever-relevant Paris is Burning! We also dive into our beauty secrets, and Joho got a salacious no ma'am pam tell-all. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Mayhem Miller: Twitter | InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Love is (Not) Blind

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 70:54 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's talk the vulnerability of coming out, the problems we have with Netflix's "Love is Blind" show and why we all need to move with more audacity.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Life is Better (Featuring Kid Fury)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 70:19 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!  Watch the live recording for free on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here.  Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Buy Tickets to Kid Fury's tour here.  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Kid Fury: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    How (Not) to Die Alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 94:17 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's share their thoughts on conferences, the new hit Hulu Show, "How to Die Alone" and why Chappell Roan needs a chaperone.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Laugh at My Pain (Featuring Amber Ruffin)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 78:21 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here.  Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Check out more information on George Floyd Square here.  Check out Amber's new show, "Have I Got News For You" here.  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Amber Ruffin: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    But Who Did the Pomeranian? (Featuring Darren Calhoun & Esther)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 84:33 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by Darren & Esther from the Second Sunday to chat the difference between being spiritual vs. religious, how one get's over religious trauma and why Jesus and Michelle have the same meaning.  If you know, YOU KNOW.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Listen to Second Sunday podcast here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Call Me Mother...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2024 82:19 Transcription Available


    This week the BFF's talk about the thing that every millennial can relate to - parenting the parent. We also talk things our parents said to us when we were younger (that we now get as adults) and why Jon might actually like Sade.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Teleport Us to Mars, Telletubbie! (Feature Bebe Soft)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 58:17 Transcription Available


    This week your BFFs invite the incomprehensible Bebe Soft on to talk about life, finding love for yourself while in transition and how fun it can be to deconstruct gender and identity expectations on the internet.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our YouTube page here!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Bebé: Twitter | Instagram | YouTubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    I am doing ENOUGH!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 84:25 Transcription Available


    This week, the BFFs do a deep dive into activism, how Black folks are sometimes made to be activists without their permission, and how we are actually doing ENOUGH. We also get into last week's DNC and Joho gives his mama a special shoutout. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Solu-lu is Delu-lu!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 71:19 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's dive into a nuanced conversation on why each of us are the sh*t and what it has taken us to get there and why sometimes you gotta believe it to achieve it.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Shades of Colorism

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 79:51 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's talk the anniversary of #FadeintheWater (Montgomery Riverfront Brawl 2024), Colorism and why ANYTHING is better than Panda Express.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Falling Out of a (Racist) Coconut Tree

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 72:47 Transcription Available


    This week your BFF's talk adulting, things that feel racist and the name that's on EVERYONE's tongue - our good sis COMMA - LA (Kamala).  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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