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You might've seen this week's guest, Andrew Gurza, in the news lately. An activist and advocate for people with disabilities, he recently drew headlines for talking openly about how sex workers have changed his life, and why he believes the government should pay for them. Andrew has a new book coming out this month called Notes from a Queer Cripple: How to Cultivate Queer Disabled Joy (and Be Hot While Doing It!). And for this week's Sewers of Paris, we're diving into the archives to revisit my conversation with Andrew from 2017. At that time, he was hosting a podcast called Disability After Dark, and had recently organized a successful accessible sex party in Toronto. Now, his mission has continued: To demolish cultural taboos around disability and sex.
Not sure what's missing from your sex life? Sex educator Emily Nagoski talks about her research on sex and connection, covering everything from common myths about intimacy to why we're so uncomfortable talking about sex. Learn how to figure out what you want from sex and how to bring it up with your partner. There are so many societal expectations around sex and relationships. We're going to get into the reasons we tend to like sex, how to determine exactly what you like, and Emily answers your toughest questions about sex submitted directly to me by lovely listeners. 0:33 How Men Are Deprived of Feelings 5:31 How Do We Know What We Like? 10:30 How To Talk About Sex 26:14 Turning Off Your Brain 29:40 Sex During Political Collapse 31:30 Why Don't We Talk About Sex? 40:15 Practicing Ecstasy 44:14 Masturbation 56:35 Sex While Managing Disabilities 1:01:51 Sex & SSRIs Listen to Disability After Dark. Find a sex therapist at AASECT. For more from Emily, find her on Instagram @enagoski or online at www.emilynagoski.com. Order her newest book Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz's book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now! To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome. This episode is sponsored by: LMNT: go to DrinkLMNT.com/LizMoody to get a free LMNT sample pack with any order. The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast. This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 315. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Andrew Gurza is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant whose written work has been featured on BBC, CBC, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK & Huffington PostAs a host, Andrew presents the award winning “Disability After Dark” which shines a light on Disability stories and sexuality. He was nominated for a Canadian Podcast Award, a Queerty Award and was chosen as an honouree at the 2020 Webby Awards.Andrew has appeared on Dan Savage's Savage Love and Cameron Esposito's Queery. He has spoken all over the world on sex, disability and what it means to be Queer and Disabled.-Guest Links:Website:https://www.andrewgurza.com/Podcast:Disability After DarkInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza6Twitter:https://twitter.com/andrewgurza6Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe
Episode Notes On E359 of Disability After Dark, Andrew Gurza sit down with President, CEO and Co-Founder of New Disabled South, Dom Kelly. We talk about his work championing disabled people in the south. Then we move into the differences and similarities of our experiences with Cerebral Palsy + so much more! Enjoy! You can follow New Disabled South here: www.newdisabledsouth.org You can follow Dom Kelly on Twitter here: https://twitter.com/the_tattooedjew Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code ANDREWGURZA at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Join the Patreon and get the show days early and ad free at www.Patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
I know there's always the risk with this show of completely romanticising queer spaces as these glistening oasis' of tolerance and acceptance. But, that's really not the case - despite how wonderful and freeing they can be, they can also be a bit shitty and exclusionary. And I was reminded of that this week when I sat down to talk to talk to Andrew Gurza, who is a disability awareness consultant and activist, as well as being the host of the Disability After Dark podcast. We caught up to discuss The Edge, which was a gay bar in Ottawa, Canada, and held so much promise for Andrew but pretty much failed to deliver. But, that's not to say that this is a totally depressing episode. That Andrew is one horny guy, and he seems to have mastered the art of turning every conversation into one about blow jobs, so penises and giggling come up a lot, as well as the despair we both feel about mainstream gay male culture! So, in other words - something for everyone (?)! Do you have any memories of The Edge, or clubbing from your own scene that you want to share? Well, if you have please get in touch - I want to create the biggest online record of people's memories and stories - go to www.lostspacespodcast.com and find the section 'Share a Lost Space' and tell me what you got up to! Bonus points for embarrassing photos! You can also find me on Facebook (www.facebook.com/lostspacespod), Instagram (www.instagram.com/lostspacespod) and Twitter (www.twitter.com/lostspacespod) Find out more about Andrew by following him on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza6/) or visiting his website (https://www.andrewgurza.com/). Finally, make sure you listen to his podcast Disability After Dark! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/k-anderson/message
Episode Notes Welcome back to Disability After Dark friends! On episode 340, I sit down with self-proclaimed “disabled dick-slinger” Rachele Manett. We talk about their experiences being disabled with scoliosis, how they got into sex education and disability – finding that space to talk about what we're not supposed to talk about. We talk about pleasure focused education and disability + so much more… Enjoy! Follow Rachele on IG @romp_roast **Episode Sponsors ** Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Leave a 5 star review with Apple, Spotify or wherever you podcast! This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Andrew Gurza, host of Disability After Dark, joins the pod and shares about their experience navigating these times as a severely disabled, queer person. We talk about the power of sex work, Andrew's coming out journey, the unique challenges of accessing queer spaces as a disabled person and the double edged sword of anti-queer sentiment in disabled spaces. Andrew's approach of giving grace and educating with humor and radical transparency, while actively challenging ableist beliefs and institutionalized erasure of the experience of disabled people is powerful and palpable in everything they do. Our conversation with Andrew is all the things... enlightening, heartening, funny, and queer AF.Andrew Gurza (they/he) is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant and the Chief Disability Officer and Co-founder of Bump'n, a sex toy company for and by disabled people. He was the subject of an award winning National Film Board of Canada Documentary “Picture This”. He is also the host of Disability After Dark: The Podcast Shining a Bright Light on Disability Stories which won a Canadian Podcast Award in 2021, was a Queerty Award nominee, and was chosen as an Honoree at the 2020 Webby Awards. The show is available on all platforms. Andrew is also the creator of the viral hashtag #DisabledPeopleAreHot.You can find out more about Andrew by going to www.andrewgurza.comResources mentioned in this episode:Andrew's Podcast Disability After DarkCripping Up SexThe Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability (Andrew is a Contributor)Find Andrew on IG @andrewguza6Find us on TT & IG @fuckyeahpod, YouTube @fyeahpod or email us at fyeahpod@gmail.com!
Episode Notes In Episode 02 of our new series, Popcorn and Powerchairs, Andrew explores whether the classic 1982 Sci-Fi Family flick, E.T. has connections to disability, and yup we find some: from some of the language they use, to the medicalization of E.T.s body, this film definitely has some disability markers that we can talk about. Enjoy! To be a guest on Popcorn and Powerchairs or Disability After Dark, e-mail andrew@andrewgurza.com Leave a 5 star review wherever you get your podcast. Music design of Popcorn & Powerchairs by Dani Saldo. This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On E335, I sit down with guest Kate McLennan as we talk about experiences with a starter pack of disabilities including CMT and Bechet's. We go into Kate's experience feeling shame around disability but also we delve into what brings Kate joy and so much more in this episode. Enjoy it! Sign up to be on Disability After Dark + send in minisode letters and show ideas to: andrew@andrewgurza.com Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support another great Disability themed pod! Listen to You First: A Disability Rights Florida Podcast. This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes Happy Disability Pride Month! On Episode 334, I sit down with a disabled drag king who has the best drag name ever (I'm jealous!) Ru Palsy. We talk about their experience of Cerebral Palsy & being blind in one eye, the comedy in disability, the accessibility of drag and so much more! Enjoy! Follow Ru Palsy here: www.instagram.com/rupalsy Sign up to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing me at andrew@andrewgurza.com Episode Sponsor Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support another great Disability themed pod! Listen to You First: A Disability Rights Florida Podcast. This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes In this special episode, Disability After Dark has partnered with KUOW in Seattle to bring you an episode of one of the most notable podcasts of 2023, Ten Thousand Things, where host Shin Yu Pai -- the current reigning Civic Poet of Seattle! -- sits down with award-winning disability rights activist Alice Wong to discuss her long history of advocacy. From lobbying her university for disability-related curriculum to being appointed to the National Council on Disability, not to mention founding the Disability Visibility Project, Alice is an awesome human being who's disrupting the status quo. Needless to say, this is a “can't miss” conversation, and if you want to hear more like it, be sure to follow Ten Thousand Things on your favorite podcast app. (And tell them we sent you!) With that said, here is Ten Thousand Things. Enjoy! This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Wayne Goodman in conversation with Andrew Gurza, Disability Awareness Consultant and host of the podcast Disability After Dark
CN: this episode contains content of a sexual nature, swearing, and poop talkAward-winning disability consultant and potato-chip enthusiast Andrew Gurza joins Elle for her most raucous interview yet. It's an action-packed episode, touching on their dreams of disability-centered cooking shows, the tensions of caregiving and care-receiving, the ableism of queer spaces, and that time Andrew was carried up the stairs by a really hot muscled bouncer.Subscribe to Hoorf! Radical Care in a Late Capitalist Heckscape wherever you listen to your favorite podcast:AppleSpotifyGoogleBecome a Patron: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hoorfpodcast/membership Connect with Elle Billing: Website: www.hoorfpodcast.com / www.elleandwink.com Instagram: instagram.com/hoorfpodcast Support the show
Episode Notes Happy New Year! On episode 321, I sit down with the President of QCarePlus Quinton Rasberry as we talk about the accessibility and the importance of at home testing kits for HIV and why home delivery of things like PREP is important for the disabled community. I also give Quinton the opportunity to ask me questions about disability, because I believe that one of the ways that we dismantle ableism is through asking questions. Enjoy this one! You can learn more about QCarePlus and their mission at www.qcareplus.com Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com or e-mail a guest request to disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com & andrew@andrewgurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On Episode 320, I sit down with disability activist Derek Schmitz as they share with us what it's like to be 18 and have Cerebral Palsy, but also what it's like to be queer and disabled. We talk about queerness and disability, they/them pronouns and their connection to disability, the abject policy failure around Covid & disability + heaps more. Enjoy! ‘ Follow Derek here: https://derekschmitz.com/links/ Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com or e-mail a guest request to disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com & andrew@andrewgurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On episode 319, I sit down with my friend and colleague, the multihyphenate, Tiffany Yu, CEO and Founder of Diversability. We talk about her journey to acceptance of disability, and how there are so many layers to that acceptance that we don't really explore. Tiffany and I explore those layers here. We also talk about what it's like when family doesn't acknowledge your work in disability + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Tiffany here: https://www.tiffanyyu.com/links Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com or e-mail a guest request to disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes BONUS EPISODE!!!! **** On this bonus episode of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my friend and disabled writer EC O'Reilly. We talk about her new book Who's Afraid of The Chair? OUT NOVEMBER 25, 2022, and how it centers around a disabled character and her experiences, but it is also a sexy thriller with the disability experience at its core! We also talk about her disabilities, why she wanted to write work like this, and I gush about how important the book is to disabled storytelling. Enjoy! You can buy Who's Afraid of The Chair? Here in Canada You can buy a copy here in the US You can reach out to EC O'Reilly by e-mailing: ecoreillybooks@gmail.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On this episode of Disability After Dark, we sit down again with Jeremy Andrew Davis to talk about his experiences of learning he was autistic at 40, what having multiple disabilities is like for him AND we talk about the kind of roles around disability we want to see in movies. Like, what if James Bond were a wheelchair user? Plus so much more, enjoy! Follow Jeremy here: https://www.jeremyandrewdavis.com/ Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes In episode 316 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my friend Denise DiNoto and we talk about the ways to make healthcare accessible, her role as a Program Manager for the New York State Department of Health and more. We also talk about her experiences managing her own attendant care and some of our feelings about that & a whole lot more you won't want to miss! Follow Denise's work: www.deescribesblog.wordpress.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes In episode 315 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with Dr. Allison Mitch of Ignite Wellbeing who is a disabled person with EDS and a physiotherapist among many other things. We talk about their experience of disability, death cafes and disability, being a disabled parent, finding ways to bring joy to her clients and so much more. Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes One of the series that we do on this podcast is asking non-disabled queer people to explore what would happen if they became disabled tomorrow. On this episode, I sit down with Hugh Crothers, Founder of Drip as he considers how his life would change with a disability. We honestly explore how his routines would change; from his morning routine to his sex life with his partner and so much more! Enjoy! Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes In the latest installment of Great Flix and Joysticks, I sit down to review one of the most ableist films of the year, Sia's “Music.” It's a masterclass in how not to be ableist on film. Featuring neurotypical people playing autistic people, disabled characters almost being institutionalized, and disabled people being used to make able-bodied people fall in love + so much more. Listen to me tear this film to shreds. You can watch the film on Amazon Prime in Canada or AppleTV+ and other streamers elsewhere. Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes I watched this trashfire of a film all about a well to-do sorority girl, Carolyn, who falls in love with an intellectually disabled person and can't deall with it. Pumpkin is full of ableist slurs, sexual ableism and so much more. The make the movie all about these people unable to deal with their ableism, and use disability as a dramatic plot point that ruins their able-bodied privilege. Ugh! Enjoy! You can watch hate watch with me on Amazon Prime in Canada and Apple TV elsewhere Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com Episode Sponsors: Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Support SIECCAN as they are doing work to help autistic and disabled youth and service providers gain access to sexual health information across Canada. Find out more by e-mailing inclusivesexualhealth@sieccan.org, going to www.inclusivesexualhealth.ca or by going to www.sieccan.org to learn more. Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes This week we look at Bryan Cranston's “business decision” of a film The Upside, based on a true story (they should have hired a disabled actor) of a wealthy man who gets injured and hires an ex-con as his “life auxiliary”. Get comfy, cozy and crippled as we see Bryan Cranston crip up, Kevin Hart learn about catheters, wheelchair repair + so much more. Enjoy! Follow all my links for Disability After Dark (sign up to guest, patreon and to listen) & my work by going to www.aagurza.com EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Support SIECCAN as they are doing work to help autistic and disabled youth and service providers gain access to sexual health information across Canada. Find out more by e-mailing inclusivesexualhealth@sieccan.org, going to www.inclusivesexualhealth.ca or by going to www.sieccan.org to learn more. Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes To kick off our first themed month on Disability After Dark, I decided to do a whole month of the Great Flix & Joystick series that we do here, and I thought what better film to review than Crip Camp! So grab your popcorn, sleeping bag and your flashlights because we're off to Camp Jened where we meet a young Judy Heumann, Jim LeBrecht and a slew of important people, who from this camp, pioneered the disability rights movement! Enjoy! Watch along here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFS8SpwioZ4 EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Support SIECCAN as they are doing work to help autistic and disabled youth and service providers gain access to sexual health information across Canada. Find out more by e-mailing inclusivesexualhealth@sieccan.org, going to www.inclusivesexualhealth.ca or by going to www.sieccan.org to learn more. Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes In episode 309, I sit down with The Grumpy Grammarian, Autumn Tompkins. We talk about how Autumn got into her job, tokenism and ableism in the workplace, why some mornings we both wake choosing violence. Autumn shares how SMA plays a role in her life + so much more. This one was really fun! Enjoy! Follow Autumn's work here: https://grumpygrammarian.com/ Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Episode Sponsors Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
Episode Notes On episode 308, we meet a kinky new friend, Adrianna Garza. We talk with them about finding accommodations through kink, how kink helped them come to terms with parts of the disability experience and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Adrianna at @misfitsmavis on Instagram. Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com
Episode Notes On episode 307, I bring you a hilarious story about a perforated bowel on a cruise ship with my new friend, sex therapist and author, Dr. Stefani Goerlich. We talk about all things disability here, along with discussions of deafness, not feeling disabled enough and so much more! This was a fun one! Enjoy! Connect with Dr. Stefani Goerlich here: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/ You can order her books below! Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair https://a.co/d/atcAtNj The Leather Couch https://a.co/d/flnjaNM Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com
Episode Notes On episode 306, I sit down with long-time listener and fan of the show, James Geiger. He shares with us his experiences of living with Cerebral Palsy and a speech impediment, and he highlights some examples of ableism that he experiences as a result. We also talk about queerness & disability and how ableism plays a role for him there as well + a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow James here: https://www.instagram.com/jamesability84/ https://www.tiktok.com/jamesability Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com
Episode Notes On episode 305, I sit down with Alexandria LaRue (aka BodyByBlunts) as we explore their experiences of being a black disabled sex worker in Texas. We talk about when to hide your disability to feel safe, the intersections of ableism and racism + so much more and we laugh along the way. This episode was very important. Enjoy! You can follow BodyByBlunts here: www.bodybyblunts.com Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com
Episode Notes In episode 304, I sit down with my friend and fellow queer podcaster Kyle Getz from the hit show Gayish. They reached out to me to explore how their experiences of depression were disabling, kept them from jobs, friendships, etc. We talk about so much here and it is so important to explore depression as a disability. Enjoy! You can follow Kyle here: https://www.kylegetz.com/ Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark EPISODE SPONSORS Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Reach out to Kristen Williams for Disability centric counseling at kristen.williams10@gmail.com
Episode Notes On episode 303, I sit down with my new best disabled author friend, Rebekah Taussig. She penned Sitting Pretty in 2020, one of the most important books on disability ever. We talk about all things disability; motherhood, community, relationships, her book + so much more. Enjoy! Follow Rebekah Taussig and buy Sitting Pretty here: www.rebekahtaussig.com Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Episode Sponsors Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com
Episode Notes In episode 302, Disability After Dark goes back to its sexy roots, and talks with Aussie porn star Gabe Woods, and we explore my fave question “What Would Happen If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?” He shares how he thinks porn might change, we talk about what will happen when we hook up, Gabe asks questions about disability, we flirt a lot + so much more! Enjoy! This episode is explicit You can follow Gabe here: www.gabewoods.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at Patreon.com/DisabilityAfterDark Episode Sponsors Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com
Episode Notes Well, Holy Fuck, we hit 300! THANK YOU! For episode 300, I sit down with my new disabled bestie, Youtuber, Podcast Host of Confidently Insecure & Co-Host of Guilty Pleasures, Kelsey Darragh. We chat about whether or not she should be using disability as a label, her experiences of Trigeminal neuralgia and Anesthesia dolorosa, how one of her conditions sounds like a stripper name, how blowjobs are different with chronic pain, canceling as a content creator with pain and so much more. This was awesome. Enjoy! You can follow Kelsey here: linktr.ee/kelseydarragh Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Episode Sponsors Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com
Episode Notes In episode 299, I sit down with the author of Easy Beauty, Chloe Cooper Jones, as she talks about her experience of disability with sacral agenesis. We talk about her book of course, but also so many more facets of disability; motherhood, disability and the right to life, ableism. Her memoir made me want to write more about my experiences as a disabled person, and I cannot wait for you to hear this interview. Enjoy! You can pick up your copy of Easy Beauty and connect with Chloe at www.chloecooperjones.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Episode Sponsors Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca Clone-A-Willy or Clone-A-Pussy all your own and get 20% off sitewide by using coupon code DARKPOD at Checkout. www.cloneawillycom. Get 15% off your next purchase of sex toys, books and DVDs by using Coupon code AFTERDARK at checkout when you shop at trans owned and operated sex shop Come As You Are www.comeasyouare.com
Episode Notes On this bonus episode of Disability After Dark, I want to introduce you to my brother Quincy Morrison-St. Kitts! He is an amazing visual artist, who has created fantastic art pieces that look at everything from superheroes to pop culture icons and more. Quincy has also just been diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum, so we talk about his journey of diagnosis, what inspires him to make art, whether or not he wants to incorporate disability into his art + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Quincy and his art here: @quearts I will be helping him to offer some of his fantastic pieces for sale, through my Instagram too, so be on the look out for that here: @andrewgurza1 Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca
Episode Notes In this very special episode of Disability After Dark, I was given the opportunity to mentor a young disabled person about podcasting for a new documentary called Breaking Character. Today, I sit down with Tai and we explore what it would be like for him to possibly create a podcast around disability and all that entails I love being able to mentor the next generation of disabled folks, and I did that here. Enjoy! You can watch the full documentary series, Breaking Character here: https://www.ami.ca/breaking-character/episodes Episode Sponsors Support Bump'n and the Fund an O Campaign. Head over to www.getbumpn.com today to donate money so that disabled people can get a Bump'n Joystick to access sexual pleasure. Sign up to be a part of the free, virtual Parks Accessibility Conference taking place August 23-25th, 2022 by going to www.parksaccessibilityconference.ca
Episode Notes On episode 298 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with Zee as we explore the nuances of being disabled in your 20s with FSHD, a form of Muscular Dystrophy. We also chat about how they navigate identity, disability joy and grief, poetry around disability, non-binary + queerness and so much more. This one was really, really good. Enjoy! You can follow Zee at these IG handles instagram.com/@zeezelinski instagram.com/@the.beautiful.gods Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at patreon.com/disabilityafterdark
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Episode Notes Back in summer 2021, I got to sit down with Lindsay Mixer, who shines a light on her experiences with fibromyalgia, blood clots, PTSD, and autism. We dive into the importance of fan fiction and how it can be a safe space to explore disability, queerness and so much more. This was a fun one to do, and I hope you enjoy listening! You can connect w/ Lindsay on Twitter here: https://twitter.com/ladymixerlot Apply now to be on Disability After Dark, This Shit Is Real or other fun episodes by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
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Episode Notes In episode 296, I sit down with Max Charney, a trans teen living with Tourette's, and a Youth Ambassador of Tourette Association of America. We talk about teenagehood with Tourette's, misconceptions, dating, disability and a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow Max on Instagram here: instagram.com/maximus__ts Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Support Bump'n and donate so everyone can access self-pleasure by going to www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Support Disability After Dark on Patreon at patreon.com/disabilityafterdark This podcast is powered by Pinecast.
On episode 295, I invite Cam Fraser back on Disability After Dark to talk about my own experiences with premature ejaculation and disability. We take a deep dive into my shame around it, experiences of it where ableism was a factor and Cam offers me some possible tips and tricks to stop the shame and so much more. This was an important episode. Enjoy! You can follow and support Cam Fraser here: https://linktr.ee/camfraser400 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
On episode 294, I sit down with Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach Cam Fraser to let him ask me questions about sex and disability. We explore language, how to make Cam's coaching practice more accessible, Cam interrogates some of his own ableism and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow and support Cam Fraser here: https://linktr.ee/camfraser400 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.
On Episode 293, we're talking all about accessible housing and home modifications with CEO of Rose, Cameron Carter. Cameron talks with us about why he created Rose to connect individuals who need home modifications and certified contractors who understand the importance of accessible housing to the quality of life for disabled people. Cameron talks about his personal connections to disability, his background that brought him to want to create Rose and so much more! Enjoy! A transcript for Episode 293 is available here You can follow and support Rose here: www.accessrose.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark For Masturbation May, help everyone participate in self-pleasure and Donate to Fund/Share An Orgasm at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.
In episode 292, I sit down with disabled filmmaker Cameron S. Mitchell as he shares why he is so passionate about disability in film. He shares why disability is so important in his life and in his work, and why we need more disability in film. We talk about his important film projects, interdependence and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Cameron S. Mitchell at www.cameronsmitchell.com or IG at instagram.com/@camerons.mitchell or on tiktok, Twitter and Facebook at csmdop. Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.
Welcome to the Tangent City Podcast! On episode 291 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with fellow chronically ill podcaster Lauren Freedman, host of The Uninvisible Podcast. We talk about all things chronic illness, pop culture, other podcasts, the “wellness space”, internalized ableism and so much more. You can follow Lauren and the Uninvisible Podcast here: www.uninvisiblepod.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.
In Episode 289, I sit down with three co-founders of the Harvard Undergraduate Disability Justice Club; Emma, Sarika and Melissa, as they share with me their passion for disability justice but also how inaccessible Harvard can be. They share with me why they started HUDJC, some inaccessibility they've each faced on campus + so much more. This one is really cool and important! Enjoy! You can connect with HUDJC here: https://linktr.ee/harvardhudj Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.
In this bonus episode of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my friend Maisha Elonai as we explore her experiences of disability through discussions of Bipolar II, morbid obesity, surprise institutionalization, kink and so much more. CW: This episode does explore suicidality, self-harm, sexual assault and other heavy themes. Maisha talks about how kink is cathartic for her and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Disability Pride at www.disabilitypridepa.org Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.
On Episode 288, I sit down with my new friend Jennifer Decker as we talk about her experiences in queerness, disability and having Cerebral Palsy. We hear about her journey of self-acceptance and self-love, and sometimes just how difficult all that can be when you have all these different identities and labels to contend with. We talk about a lot here, and I genuinely enjoyed this one! You can connect with Jen on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/jen.decker.73 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.