Sex With Emily

We all have fears around sex, whether we're aware of them or not. Maybe you're worried someone's not going to like your body, or that if you and your partner try something new, it'll be awkward or weird. Maybe you're worried you'll never have sex with anyone ever again. I'm here to tell you this: your sexual anxieties are completely normal. Listen in as my callers and I work through theirs and develop actionable solutions to take the next step. When you're a vulva owner, and something comes out when you orgasm, are you peeing or squirting? When preparing for a threesome, how can you get over the fear that your partner won't want sex with just you anymore? When the sex has fallen off entirely, how do you start initiating again? All this and more in today's sexual anxieties episode.Show Notes:Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials4 Penis Problems and 4 Ways to Solve ThemSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)VIIA Hemp Co's Lowdose 2mg Delta 9 Microdosing Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Author Elise Loehnen has thought a lot about women and desire. In her new book On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good, she breaks down the cultural forces that teach women to be desirable rather than desiring, and the shame attached to a woman wanting something: whether it's sex, success, or a damn slice of pizza. Whether it's lust, and the way we encourage women to police others' sexuality, or sloth, and the way women are encouraged to be their husbands' caregivers, these invisible expectations serve none of us. Instead, Elise talks about ways we can liberate ourselves in ways that improve our sex lives and beyond: how to balance masculine and feminine energies in relationships, how to shed sexual shame, and so much more. As Elise says, “Our bodies are portals; lust is the invitation to enter.”Please note that this episode includes discussions of sexual trauma. If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 19:35-25:13, 41:36-43:03.Show Notes:4 Penis Problems and 4 Ways to Solve ThemWhat's a Sexual State of the Union & Why Should You Have One?Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Yarlap Kegel Exercise Kit & System (code EMILY for $35 off)On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good: Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Bookshop More Elise Loehnen: Podcast | Newsletter | Instagram | Website | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It can be difficult to meet new people and cultivate relationships, especially when looking for romantic partners. But don't let that hold you back from trying: you might just need a new strategy. On today's show, I take your calls on modern dating and how to solve the problems you're running into. Let's say you want to date an older woman but don't have confidence in your communication - how do you improve your conversation game? When you've been single for years and fear rejection, how do you break out of romantic stagnation? Or what about breadcrumbing: when someone gives you just enough to keep you interested without outright ghosting you. How can you directly communicate without coming off as pushy? Finally, what are the signs of love bombing? One caller asks me if that's what's happening to her. Spoiler: yep.Show Notes:What's a Sexual State of the Union & Why Should You Have One?Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

All sexual fantasies have one thing in common: they trigger an arousal response inside our bodies, laced with erotic flavor. But how do you actualize your fantasy with a partner who's wary of it? Even turned off by it? On today's show, I'm taking your calls on this exact predicament. First up: when your partner wants you to drastically change your appearance for their pleasure, should you do it? Or when your partner wants to watch you with a third, how do you find that person? Next, if you're not naturally dominant in bed, but your partner's begging for it, how do you step into your power? I also get into urine fetishes (yep, like golden showers), how to introduce them to an otherwise vanilla sex life, and how to explore same-sex adventures in a hetero marriage. Show Notes:Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)SmartMouthFetLifeKasidieFeeld Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You shouldn't have to be an Olympic gymnast to have sex. But let's be honest – certain positions can be hard! So inspired by the Positions chapter in my new book Smart Sex, I'm bringing back this Best Of episode. You'll hear quick tips to make ambitious moves easier and classic moves more exciting. First, I share the most-searched sex positions in the country: can you guess America's favorite sex move? Next, we look at the much-hyped reverse cowgirl. I give suggestions to make it feel as good and sexy as it looks. As for oral: I talk you through the Kivin Method, which stimulates vulva owners' K-points, and how to make 69 more relaxing. Finally, don't go to the emergency room from shower sex – just listen to my tips to keep it steamy AND stable.Show Notes:How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential PhrasesMoms Deserve Pleasure Too: A Sexy Self-Care GuidePRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: How to Master These Awkward Sex PositionsI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When resentment builds up in a relationship, it compromises our sexual connection. We feel taken for granted, unappreciated, and unseen. Most of all, we feel emotionally unsafe, which makes it impossible to let loose and feel free in bed. So on today's show, I talk through a study that connects the dots between a quality sex life and regular expressions of gratitude. Next, I take your calls: when long standing issues with your partner inhibit your desire, how do you break through that impasse? When your partner says you're not meeting their sexual standards, how much of that messaging do you take in? And when you crave words of affirmation, but they just can't seem to give them, is it time for new therapy or to respectfully end the relationship?Show Notes:How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential PhrasesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)VUSH We Come First Couples Connection Kit (Kit is 30% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYWCF) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all need to mix it up sometimes. Has your masturbation routine gone stale? Is sex with your partner too predictable? With creativity and a little teasing, absolutely everyone can spice up their sex life – and I'm here to tell you how. First, we'll talk about planning a "sex-cation" with low-lift ideas you can try right at home. Next, when you and your partner have already tried all the new things, what's left? I advise one caller on sexual teasing and how denying your pleasure can heighten the intensity. We also discuss ways to make your solo sex more interesting and arousing, and how to have more fun with casual sex if your current routine – even with new people! – is leaving you bored.Show Notes:Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)LELO Tor 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo SexArticle: The Best Masturbation Techniques to Try TonightQuinn Audio Erotica Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wondered if there's more to your sexuality than you ever realized? Or relationship models that challenge everything you're used to? Men's Health and Cosmo sex columnist Zachary Zane has been there. As a self-proclaimed “boyslut,” he's radically open about his journey as a bisexual, polyamorous man and tells all in his forthcoming book: BOYSLUT: A Memoir and Manifesto. He shares how he came to understand his attraction to all genders, his experience living in a polycule, why it's healthy for all of us to get used to rejection, and how bisexuality for men is gaining more visibility. He also helps me answer your questions on exploring bisexuality while in a long-term relationship, how to respond if you're in a hetero relationship and your partner tells you they're bisexual, and how to find casual, no strings attached sex.Show Notes:Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?The Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto: Bookshop | AmazonMore Zachary Zane: Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yes, it's true: I'm talking with my own mother today about sex. A ton of you have asked me how I got into the sex education business in the first place: now, you get to hear from the person who raised me! First, my mom and I talk about her sexual journey, coming up in a time when open communication around sex wasn't normalized and female pleasure wasn't valued. She also helps me your questions on sex and relationships, like how to give a partner feedback when they're doing something that turns you off, what to do if menopause is tanking your sex drive, how to negotiate with your partner when you've got different definitions of cheating, and how to approach a partner who does NOT want to spice up your sex life – but you're dying for some variety. Show Notes:The Future of Sex TechThe Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order)PenumaI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why.MagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There's often someone who initiates the sex, and someone who says “yes” or “no.” These roles can work long-term, but what happens when sexual initiations become a problem? When you're always hearing no, or when you always say no? On today's show, I'm talking about sexual initiations and how to make this moment a better experience for all. When you're the initiator, but want your partner to do it more often, how do you talk to them about it? We'll also get into spontaneous vs. responsive desire, and as someone with responsive desire, I'll share my routine for getting turned on for sex. Finally, when you and your partner are so busy that no one's initiating, what's the conversation you need to have? I advise a caller in this exact situation.Show Notes:The Future of Sex TechThe Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)SmartMouthVUSH I Come First - Self-Connection Kit (Kit is 50% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYICF)I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why.MagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's holding you back from having good sex? Is it self-confidence? A problem with your partner? Are you under so much stress that it's impossible to feel erotic and turned on? In today's Best Of episode, I'm talking about the 6 most common roadblocks to sex and how to move past them. I'll talk you through how to navigate each of them and also take your questions on personal sexual roadblocks. For example, if you're coupled, is it cheating to get on OnlyFans? What do you do if you're not always wet for sex? And finally, what's the best way to work with a partner who's prone to jealousy? All this and more on our roadblocks show.Show Notes:How to Use a Vibe With a PartnerHigh Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)LELO LILY 3 (code EMILY for 25% off sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's a new day in the world of cannabis and sex. So many of you have asked me for this show! While wide scale research is still thin, there are many encouraging signs that cannabis can help you unlock more sexual pleasure, whether it's erotic arousal, help with erections, less anxiety, or less pain. But I get it: cannabis isn't legal everywhere! And it's also not right for everyone. So on today's mini show, I'll be discussing the latest research on cannabis and sex, how to know if it's a good choice for you, delivery methods like edibles and drinkables, and vetted product recommendations for sexy times, both partnered and solo. Show Notes:High Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)VIIA Hemp Co's High Love – THC Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 20% OFF sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's a common stereotype you've heard about sex? Maybe it's that “guys just want one thing” or that “once you have kids, say goodbye to your sex life.” But not only are these stereotypes tiresome on a societal level, they actually hurt your sex life. Why? Because if you buy them, they limit your pleasure potential. So on today's show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they're long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want. Show Notes:How to Use a Vibe With a PartnerHigh Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)Penuma.com/PodcastArticle: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva OwnersArticle: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis Owners Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There's a lot to be said for sex toys. For one, they stimulate nerve endings much deeper than hands alone can reach – and that's true no matter what genitals you've got. But how do you incorporate toys into partnered sex? And which ones are right for your body to give you mind-blowing orgasms? On today's episode, we're talking all things sex toys so you can play in new and different ways. First, is it alright to always bring a vibe to partnered sex? One penis owner says “absolutely.” Speaking of penis owners, which toys are best for this crowd? I also talk about squirting with toys, how to change up your solo sex routine, and if there's anything wrong if you can ONLY orgasm with a toy. Spoiler alert: nope! Show Notes:The Basics of Safe Sex Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These QuestionsSign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)CERĒ Spellbound Stimulator (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide)BellesaI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever used a “Yes, No, Maybe” List for sex? It's a menu of sex acts that prioritizes consent and communication among sexual partners. It's one of my hands-down favorite tools to explore new ideas and spice up sex lives. But how do you actually use the list and turn your choices into realities? On today's show, I reveal my NEW and IMPROVED "Yes, No, Maybe" List, and show you how to use it individually or with a partner. I share new ideas we added to the list, like orgasm denial, bondage, and electrostimulation, as well as success stories from folks who have filled it out. Plus, we'll talk about what to do if your answers differ from your partner's, and how a real couple worked through that sticky situation together. Show Notes:The Basics of Safe Sex Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These QuestionsSign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why.Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Pleasure Planner, Tips for Communication & Other Guides Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you're not sure about the best way to approach it? On today's show, I help you get more comfortable with anal play by answering your top questions. How can you use foreplay and communication to relax into the experience? If you've tried anal play before but didn't love it, what are some toys and techniques you can use to feel more pleasure? What's the safest way to train with an anal toy, and can you hurt yourself by having too much anal? Bottoms up, because your anal education starts now.Show Notes:I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why.Get to Know The Clitoris and How to Pleasure ItPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureLELO LOKI Wave 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you give incredible, life-affirming oral sex to a vulva owner? While every body is different, I'm here to tell you that these are the techniques you absolutely need. First, we'll talk the art of the tease. I explain how to use your tongue to intensify sensations and encourage arousal. I also get into everyone's favorite: the Kivin Method. Next, I show you how to help facilitate a G-spot orgasm by answering your top questions. For example, when you're 100% down to give oral but your partner doesn't like receiving, what do you do? When you're the vulva owner and want to squirt, how do you get there? Finally, I talk overcoming insecurities when you're the receiver, and how to make giving oral more physically comfortable.Show Notes:I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here's Why.Get to Know the Clitoris (& How to Pleasure It)PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva?Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)Podcast: Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah SundahlArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I *Actually* Start Squirting? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it mean to be sexually confident? In my opinion, it comes from a sense of security in who you are, what you bring to the table, and knowing that it's OK to ask questions. It's not having all the answers, because let's be honest: sex would be boring if we knew everything already. But when your self-image takes a hit, how do you recover your sexual confidence and combat performance anxiety? I'm talking to callers with precisely that question. What do you do when your partner keeps talking about how hot strangers are, even when you told them it makes you uncomfortable? What happens when you're not maintaining your erections, and it's causing anxiety? How about when your partner is more sexual than ever – but not towards you? All this and more in today's sexual confidence episode.Show Notes:3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis OwnersPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePenuma.com/Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In my opinion, masturbation is one of the healthiest self-care practices out there. But so many of you tell me how ashamed you feel about masturbating! Especially since the only pop culture examples you saw growing up were cringey. That changes today, as I take your calls on masturbation, taking time to explore your body, and unlocking different kinds of orgasms during solo sex. I also discuss masturbation frequency, and if there's such a thing as too much. Speaking of frequency: is it possible for vulva owners to have multiple orgasms during solo sex? Let's find out. I'll answer your questions on group masturbation parties, jealousy toward your partner's vibrator, and what to do when your partner can only orgasm through masturbation.Show Notes:3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis OwnersPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureEmily x Christina Aguilera: HelloPlayground.com/XtinaCERĒ Spellbound Stimulator & Reverie (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide)LELO TOR 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex is inherently vulnerable, which is partly why it's so hot. But how do you take the extremely vulnerable – even awkward – step of telling a partner something sensitive? Maybe their breath is bad. Maybe you're bored with the sex itself. Or maybe you're afraid to tell a partner you've fallen in love with them. On today's episode, I'm helping listeners find the right words for these sensitive moments. What happens when you don't feel anything during penetration? Or your partner's afraid to tell you they have a small penis? How about when you're into something kinky, tried it out virtually, and got caught? And finally, when you disagree on what makes good sex, is that a deal breaker? All this and more on today's sexual feedback show. Show Notes:The 7 Secrets of Making OutHow to Have the Sexiest Spring EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSmartMouthPenuma.com/Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been to a sex party? Are you curious about what goes down in one, and if it's something you'd like to explore? Are they held in dungeons? Upscale clubs? Someone's house? There's a lot more interest in sex parties lately, so on today's episode, I'm talking sex parties 101. I'll go over the various types of parties out there, how to find them and specific sex events you might be interested in, sex party etiquette, what you can expect when you walk in the door, how to interact with fellow attendees, and of course…what to wear. Show Notes:The 7 Secrets of Making OutHow to Have the Sexiest Spring EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureFetLifeFeeld#OpenKinky Rabbit ClubMorgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The vagina is a beautiful place. But from orgasms to vaginismus, do you know your way around a vagina and how to properly care for it? Whether you want to maximize a vulva owner's pleasure or improve your own vaginal health, this episode is for you. We'll start with the internal clitoral network: I'll talk about how recent our scientific knowledge of the clitoris is. Later I'll discuss clitoral orgasms versus G-spot orgasms -- which one's stronger, and what do they feel like? My listeners also bring me questions about vaginas and sex: is a clitoral piercing painful? Will it affect your sexual sensations? And when sex is painful, how can you reclaim your sexuality? All this and more on today's vagina episode.Show Notes:Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here's Your Singles' Survival Kit6 Ways to Improve Sleep for Better SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Je Joue's New Bullet Vibrators & Endometriosis Collection (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF everything)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily (use this link to save $50)This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want to give 10/10 pleasure to a penis? Whether you're giving or receiving oral sex to a penis, this episode is for you. From where to start as an absolute beginner, to upgrading your oral sex game, this is a comprehensive episode on the art of the blowjob. First, we'll map the penis anatomy so you know what pleasure points you're dealing with. Next, I'll teach you techniques to build anticipation, tease, and make your oral sex that much more memorable: eye contact, how to use your hands, and the best lube for the job. We'll also get into sensation play, testicle and perineum stimulation, and if swallowing or deep-throating is in the cards for you. (It's totally OK if not.) Plus, I've got tips for dealing with anxiety when you're the receiver. Don't blow this episode off: your oral sex mastery starts now. Show Notes:6 Ways to Improve Sleep for Better SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWhen it's Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandPodcast: Everybody Loves OralArticle: 6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a VulvaArticle: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been into something so strongly, you couldn't stop fantasizing about it? Maybe it's getting spanked or tied up, to name a couple common turn-ons. Whatever your turn-on is, does it arouse you so much that you just have to make it a reality? Or are you apprehensive to take your fantasy IRL? On today's episode, I'm taking your calls on kinks, fetishes, and everything in between. I'll teach you how to introduce your fantasy to a partner, especially if you're turned on by something very specific. From spandex to group sex, squirting to infantilization, I'll help you understand the difference between a kink and a fetish, how to safely explore your options, and how to communicate your desires to a partner. All this and more on today's turn-on show!Show Notes:Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here's Your Sexy Survival KitPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureOkay, What's Really the Difference Between Kinks and Fetishes?Yes No Maybe List, Tips for Better Communication & Other GuidesFirmTech Rings (code EMILY20 for 20% off sitewide)FetLifeKasidieLELO SORAYA Wave (code EMILY for 25% off all products)This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let's talk about porn, people. In my opinion, porn isn't inherently good or bad – it's your relationship to it that matters. Sexy media can be used for inspiration, education, even healthy arousal, but you can also become dependent on it for sexual stimulation and have a negative impact on you or your relationship in the process. So on today's show, I'm taking your porn calls to help you find a healthy balance. She's worried her boyfriend depends on porn for arousal and isn't attracted to her anymore: what now? He's married and wants to watch porn with his wife, how should he broach the subject? Finally, her father was a porn addict and she's worried her boyfriend might be too – I give her communication tips to ease the anxiety. All this and more on today's porn show!Show Notes:How Do I Prep For Sex?PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureArticle: So, Where's the Porn for Women?ScarleteenXConfessions.comThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I'm getting more questions than ever about non-monogamous relationships, but is it right for you? Today I'm taking your calls about what it takes to navigate different kinds of relationships, and how our listeners' failures and success stories can help those considering opening up. When you're long-distance, is an open arrangement actually ideal? Or is the relationship itself a distraction from the people right in front of you? When you're married monogamously, but one of you starts flirting with someone else, is an open marriage the right move, or not so much? And when you're in a heterosexual relationship, but want to explore your bisexuality, is bringing in a same-sex third a healthy fix? All this and more on today's episode.Show Notes:How Do I Prep For Sex?PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureHow Do I Explore Bisexuality While in a Relationship?What Exactly is an “Open” Relationship? OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50Yes No Maybe List & Other GuidesPromescent.com/Emily for 15% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

While I believe orgasms are not the end goal of sex, who can blame themselves for wanting one? Whether you're having partnered or solo sex, orgasms have incredible health benefits: boosted levels of estrogen and collagen, a huge dose of endorphins and oxytocin, better sleep and immunity. But namely? You want an orgasm because it feels good. That's why on today's show, I'm helping you reach climax. How can you still have numerous, deep orgasms? When you love anal play, but haven't had an anal orgasm quite yet, how can you make it happen? And can all vulva-owners really have multiple orgasms? Find out all this and more on today's orgasm show. Show Notes:Penis Issues & Innovations with Dr. KarpmanPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePromescent.com/Emily for 15% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's holding you back from your best sex? Are you worried you'll be judged? Is emotional trauma rearing its ugly head? Or maybe you just want to have anal without hurting yourself! The truth is, we've all got a pleasure block or two, so on today's show I'm taking your calls to move past them. When you're recovering from an epic ghosting, how do you move on with your confidence intact? I offer tips for releasing the pain, and setting intentions for a future partner. When you're nervous about neighbors hearing you have sex, how can you relax into your body? And finally, when your partner's looks haven't changed, but you're suddenly wondering whether you're attracted to them, is it really about their appearance? I'll be unpacking these and many more roadblocks to the pleasure you deserve.Show Notes:Penis Issues & Innovations with Dr. KarpmanPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSmartMouthPenuma.com/PodcastEpisode: Does Size Matter? w/ Dr. Karpman Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Exploration is sexy. You don't have to know everything about sex to be hot in bed, but if you're curious? That'll blow their mind. So let's look at some less talked-about pleasure acts and how you can incorporate them into your sex life. From nipples to the labia, what unexplored erogenous zones and tools can enhance your orgasms? When your partner's got a large penis, how do you explore anal without hurting yourself? Plus, how do you find friends and community when you've just entered the BDSM lifestyle? And how do you maximize your partner's pleasure? All this and more on today's pleasure points show.Show Notes:How to Have Great Sex During Perimenopause, Menopause and BeyondPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure#openFetLifeOdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50When it's Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandJe Joue (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% off)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Kivin Method: 5 Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine's Day Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Insecurities around our bodies can make sex and pleasure more difficult to enjoy, especially when it comes to our more intimate parts. And one body part I always get asked about is the penis, from people with penises and those sleeping with them. That's why I'm bringing in board-certified urologist, Sex With Emily regular, and my friend, Dr. Edward Karpman to answer all your questions about the penis. We'll answer questions from delayed ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, to yes, penis size. All this and more in today's episode.Show Notes:Sex Toys for Penis Owners: A GuidePRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePenuma.com/PodcastMore Dr. Karpman: Healthy-Male.comThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here's the truth about getting turned on. It's a thousand times easier to feel sexual with others, if you're already in the habit of getting sexual with yourself. But what does that look like? On today's show, I'm talking sexy self-care practices that I recommend to everyone of every age, every gender, every relationship status. We'll go over sensory engagement, breath work and solo sex techniques and toys, so you can keep your pilot light lit and feel erotic all the time. Plus, I take your questions: the difference between internal and external orgasms, arousal ideas for vulva-owners, how to approach sex with a new partner when you've been out of the game for a while, and much more.Show Notes:Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine's Day5 Last-Minute, Ultra-Sexy Valentine's IdeasPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureHigherDOSE Sauna BlanketBreathing App: Apple | Google PlayJe Joue: Vita | Amour | Duet (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF)When it's Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandPromescent.com/Emily for 15% OFFBellesaTryQuinnXConfessions.com&JaneThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's almost Valentine's Day, but listen. Whether you're a romantic or a cynic, there's one thing we can all benefit from on this holiday. No, not more candy message hearts. I'm talking actual knowledge, on how to build sexual tension on Valentine's Day and truly, any day. So on today's episode, I'm talking sexts, scents, and sex toys to create an erotic vibe with your partner all day long. Next, I'll be answering all your questions to create amazing Valentine's Sex, including body-positive sex positions, how to have sex when one or both of you is tired, and how to lean into your sub side when you've been domming for decades.Show Notes:3 Things You Need To Know About Your Scent & Sexual AttractivenessPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureHiNote AppEye Of Love (code EMILY for 15% off sitewide)SmartMouthLELO SORAYA WAVE (code EMILY for 25% off all products)Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you dress for the occasion? And by “occasion,” I mean sex. Because wearing things that make you feel hot can make a huge difference. That's what we're talking about today: listening to your feelings, and dressing or undressing your way toward your sexual desires. In this Best Of episode, I'm talking leather, lingerie, and how to wear your sexual fantasies on your sleeve. Or your thigh highs. Next, we talk DDLG, or Daddy Dom Little Girl, a kink that might be exactly what you're looking for…but only with the right boundaries. Finally, I get into green flags and red flags with your partner, and how to spot toxic traits before you're in too deep.Show Notes:3 Things You Need To Know About Your Scent and Sexual AttractivenessPromescent.com/Emily for 15% offPre-Order Emily's Book: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWhen it's Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandArticle: How to Start a DDLG DynamicArticle: The Truth About DDLG As Told by a LittleFleur Du Mal x Sex With Emily Bundle (code FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A stale sex life can cost us much more than our orgasms. When we stop physically connecting with our partners, we grow resentful, distrustful and uninvested in our relationship's future. And while it's common for sex with the same person to become monotonous over time, relationships need intimacy to survive. That's why today's show is all about spicing up your sex life. From a partner who doesn't want to open up about their sexual preferences, to growing tired of the same old routine - I offer ideas from gamifying your sexual communication to taking penetration off the table. We'll also hear plenty of real-life success stories of couples reviving their intimacy, which I know will inspire you to do the same. If it's better sex that you and your partner want, there's hope on the horizon. Show Notes:Sex Drive Boosting WorkoutsGifts For Every Turn On: Valentine's Day Guide 2023OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50Yes No Maybe List, Mutual Masturbation Guide, & MoreLELO SONA 2 CRUISE (code EMILY for 25% off all products)Lube Shooter 4-Piece Set Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are there so many hang ups around oral sex? For starters, many of us don't know how to give it, or receive it. So how do we bring amazing, orgasm-inducing oral into our sex lives? Today's episode is a great place to start. I answer your questions on oral upgrades, so you can blow more than just their mind – and get the pleasure you deserve. When you're new to sex, how do you coach a partner to give you great oral? Or how about when you go down on your partner, but they refuse to kiss you afterwards – should you say something? And what if your penis-owning partner can't finish…no matter how good your oral game is? I'll also discuss how porn can distort what we think is good oral sex, so you can take what you need from the screen and leave the rest to your IRL abilities.Show Notes:Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine's Day Guide 2023LELO TOR 2 (code EMILY for 25% off all products)Podcast: Sex Toys for Penis OwnersArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever stumbled across a surprise fantasy? Something you didn't realize turned you on…but here you are. It's super hot, and now, you can't stop thinking about it. Our sexual fantasies are here to help us understand ourselves better, so on today's show I take your calls on sexual fantasies, what they mean, and how to turn them into a reality. First, she masturbates in the bathroom when she knows her neighbors are home, within earshot. He loves nipple play on his body and watching his wife do it to herself. They're dabbling in prostate play, so I provide step-by-step instructions for finger stimulation. She's afraid of rejection, but also fantasizes about it: how can she indulge this fantasy in a healthy way? All this and more on this revealing episode. Show Notes:Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine's Day Guide 2023VUSH Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)Yes No Maybe List & Other GuidesEMDRIA Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all have personal demons. Whether it's anxiety in your relationship, dissatisfaction in your sex life, or something hurtful from the past that's infecting your present. But how do we heal so that our sex drive can thrive? That's what today's episode is all about. I talk to callers about their sexual mental blocks, and how to move past them for a more empowered future. When outside circumstances create stress for your family, how can you still prioritize intimacy? When one partner is inhibited in bed, how can they learn to relax, and find their authentic sexual voice? And when you've been through the death of a loved one, how can you make room for a new relationship while honoring their memory? All this and more on today's show. Show Notes:OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50Promescent.com/Emily for 15% offArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?Yes No Maybe List & Other GuidesPodcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game-ChangerEMDRIAMore Dr. Amen: Instagram | TikTok | Twitter | WebsiteYour Brain Is Always Listening by Dr. Amen Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Real talk: penis problems are more common than you think. But don't let shame stop you from healing - both inside and out. Today, we're normalizing the experience of penis challenges, and providing tools to help mend your member. She wants to end a relationship because he can't keep it up - are there other issues at play beyond sexual incompatibility? Can erection issues from a sex-related injury be reversed? I offer some science-backed treatments to check out. Another penis-owner can only orgasm through solo sex, are trust issues to blame? We talk through some exercises to help get to orgasming with a partner. I'll cover all this and more in this episode.Show Notes:When It's Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic WandLELO Tor 2 (code EMILY for 25% off all products)Promescent.com/Emily for 15% off Delay Sprays, Arousal Gels, VitaFLUX & MoreBoston Scientific treatment options for EDPRP Injections (John Hopkins Medical)Podcast: Best Of: Power to the Penis w/ Dr. Edward KarpmanSKYN CondomsOne Condoms “Find My Fit”Pjur Woman Aqua LubricantThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Consuming your own ejaculate: a kink on the rise. Whether it comes from porn or curiosity, a ton of you have asked me about it in the last few years. But that's not the only trending sex topic: from porn to mental health, these are some of the most frequently asked questions we get at Sex With Emily. First, is porn healthy or harmful? It's all about your relationship to it. Next, anxiety and low self-worth can make it more difficult to get turned on with a partner. I offer strategies to one listener for restoring their self-love practice. Finally, eating your own semen: yay or nay? I explain why this is not only a totally normal question – but a totally acceptable practice.Show Notes:When It's Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic WandJe Joue Ami 3 Step Kegel Training Set (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% off)Article: The Ins And Outs of Ethical PornPodcast: Find Your Sexual Voice w/ Lake BellXConfessions.comTryQuinnThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Just how many pathways are there to your best orgasm? It's more than you realize. Today's episode is all about creative ways to climax, so you can unlock even more pleasure the next time you have sex. First: are breastgasms a thing? I explain to one caller how they work, and give her ideas for stimulating them and her other erogenous zones. Next, a couple calls in with a common problem: he finishes during penetrative sex, she doesn't. I give them some orgasm gap hacks to solve it. Finally, why is it often easier to have a G-Spot orgasm with a toy, but not during sex? I give you tips for getting there with a partner and more tips to maximize your pleasure.Show Notes:When It's Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic WandUberlube “Good to Go” Travel Sets from Good Vibrations Woo More Play Coconut OilPjur's Back Door LubeArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo SexThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever feel like your relationship is on cruise control? Do you continue to have the same conflicts, stale sex routine, or toxic dynamics and want to break the cycle and be with someone who's actually a great fit? I'll help you break out of all that. Today's episode is designed to help you build better sex, dating and relationship habits. From incorporating kink and exploration into a relationship with someone who's more reserved, to tips to work through jealousy in a relationship - we can all learn so much from this episode. I'll also go over some exercises to build intimacy and share your top “green flags” when it comes to dating. All this and more on today's show.Show Notes:Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023VUSH Empress 2 (code SWE50 for 50% off)Tips for Better Communication & Other GuidesArticle: How to Have More Sensual SexArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Tell a New Partner About My Fantasies?Article: What to Do When Your Partner Says ‘No' to Trying New ThingsThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your sexual needs are key to your sexual satisfaction and overall wellness. And when you've got a need that just can't be met, I'm here for you. On today's show, I give one caller who's never had an orgasm surefire masturbation tips to help her get there. Next, she's 23 and loves her boyfriend, but he wants to move in together and she's… not so sure. Psychologist and dear friend Dr. Jen Freed and I coach her on next steps. Another caller asked her partner to be more dominant in bed, and now he thinks they're sexually incompatible. Finally, she needs more sexual experience – should she snag a friends with benefits? All this and more as we unpack your sexual needs and give you specific, sexy steps to achieve them.Show Notes:Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023Odela Health (use this link for $50 off your 1st prescription)7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandPleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave? Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today's show, we'll discuss her new audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.Show Notes:Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?Lake Bell's New Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: Audible | PushkinMore Lake Bell: Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As the year comes to an end, what are the biggest revelations you've had when it comes to pleasure? What is something new you've learned that has redefined your sex life - now and in the new year? To answer this, I turned to you - the Sex With Emily community - for a roundup of the best of the best. From oral secrets to solo sex, your sex language and your sex fantasies, these are some of my favorite moments from the episodes you listened to the most this year. Consider this your end of year send off, from Emily with love. Show Notes:Article: How to Write Your New Year's Sex ResolutionsMagic WandBreathe AppPodcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, RevealedPodcast: Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen FreedPodcast: How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim a & Vanessa BennettPodcast: Best Blow Job EverPodcast: Orgasms with a Capital OPodcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun TPodcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game ChangerPodcast: Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you considering opening up your relationship? When and how did you decide to do so? And did moving away from monogamy change your perspective on sex and pleasure? Today, I'm taking your calls all about being in open relationships. First up: a group sex success story after a married couple learned to communicate their fantasies – always love hearing those. Next, they have a great sex life, but after a threesome gone wrong, she's worried he'll leave. How can she alleviate her anxiety and share her fears? Finally, we define compersion and discuss what to do when your partner wants a threesome… but you don't. We get into all this and more on today's hotline show. Show Notes:Article: The Podcast Eps + Articles You Loved in 2022PromescentArticle: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?SWE Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & More Guides Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That's why I've done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer's market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy. Show Notes:Article: How to Train Your PenisVUSH (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Next Gen Vibes)Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Podcast: What's Your Arousal Type?The 36 Questions That Lead to LoveOhMiBod blueMotion Panty VibePodcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun TFleur Du Mal x SWE Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)Je Joue Luxury Massage Candle (Emily30 for 30% off all products) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alex Cooper, host and creator of “Call Her Daddy” knows a thing or two about the pursuit of a more fulfilling sex life. From transcendental oral to disastrous anal, she walks us through the good, the bad, and the funny when it comes to trying new sexual experiences. Alex also shares her mindful masturbation routine and what her partner does to make oral incredible (hint: vulva worship). All this and more in today's fan favorite best of episode. Show Notes:Emily on Call Her Daddy: How to Have an Orgasm | 104- The Roadmap to his A**hole | 96- The Orgasm Gap & Forced Sex FantasiesArticle: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo SexArticle: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for BeginnersMore Alex Cooper: Instagram | TwitterCall Her Daddy: Website | Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mismatched sex drives: it's one of the most common issues longterm relationships face. Frequently one partner has an insatiable appetite for sex, while the other treats sex more like a chore. But just because your libidos aren't synced up now doesn't mean they'll be that way forever. On today's Hotline show, I answer questions all about you and your partner's differing sex drives and how to communicate your way to better alignment. From a caller who misses the drama and excitement their sex life once had, to another whose partner's medication has caused his desire to be depleted - I'll break down step by step how to broach this sensitive subject. Because if left unaddressed, issues around sex can be fatal to a relationship - and working through it will only make you and your partner stronger.Show Notes:Article: Best Sexy Stocking Stuffers 2022FirmTech Tech Ring (Emily20 for 20% off)Article: These Are the 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We've all heard of “body positivity” - the idea that we should celebrate the skin we're in, rather than emphasize how we think others see us. But in practice, how really is your relationship with your body? Today's show is all about giving our bodies the respect they deserve. I'm first joined by Bethany C Meyers, whose fitness company the be.come project aims to change our motivation behind working out. Bethany also shares why sex takes on a new, rich depth when we learn to connect with our movement on a daily basis. Afterwards, I'll answer questions from listeners struggling to accept their own bodies. Because if we can't learn to love our own bodies, how can we share them intimately with someone else?Show Notes:Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty, They Double As ArtArticle: Ask Emily: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?PromescentMore Bethany C. Meyers: Instagram | TwitterThe Become Project: Website | Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we wind down the year, what are your pleasure goals? Do you want to explore your body? Incorporate a new pleasure ritual? Try out a new toy? Today on the show, I pull back the curtain on Sex With Emily and invite my team to share their pleasure goals and the toys to get there. From vibrators to arousal gels, they give their honest reviews on what to stuff your stockings with this holiday season. I'll also break down the science behind them that makes them so effective. If you're looking to create your own pleasure goals for the new year, these products are a great place to start.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily's Picks for 2022 HolidaysArticle: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty they Double as ArtBook: Court of ThornsGuide: The Pleasure Planner7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandGood VibrationsJe Joue (Emily30 for 30% off all products)OhMiBod bluMotion NEX1 Wearable Panty VibratorLelo Sona 2 CruiseB-Vibe TripletLelo Hugo Prostate MassagerPlayground Lube (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Promescent Female Arousal GelFleur Du Mal Sex With Emily Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off all orders) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's the question married men often ask themselves: why is my marriage just OK? How do I get the spark back? And when did our sex life become so mediocre? Life coach and fellow podcaster Larry Hagner has not only worked through these issues himself, but has devoted his life to helping other men become better husbands and fathers. His project the Dad Edge was inspired by both his struggles in parenting and a lack of having a father during his own childhood. On today's best-of show, Larry breaks down his four pillars of a good marriage (which absolutely includes sex), as well as how to talk to sons about sex, porn and masturbation.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily's Picks for 2022 HolidaysVush Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)More Larry Hagner: The Dad Edge | Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.