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Dear Jessamyn is a bi-weekly, cannabis-infused audio advice column, where Jessamyn Stanley and her girlfriend mull over, banter about, and likely misunderstand her Instagram DMs. Season 1 is all about polyamory, and all the sexy and messy not-safe-for-work details that come along with the lifestyle.…

Tenderfire Media


    • Oct 4, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 39m AVG DURATION
    • 87 EPISODES


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    Why Am I Judging Myself For Being Fat? (Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2022 51:29


    This episode of Dear Jessamyn is the last planned recording of the show. Before this possibly long (or never ending) hiatus, a newly fat Deary asks about how to love her new body. We love you all.This episode mentions: Baby News Network; Adipositivity; Substantia Jones; Samantha Irby; Bitches Gotta Eat Blog; and 2 Whole CakesDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. This episode was edited by ashe and Produced by Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Breaking It Down (A Replay)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 38:02


    This week, we're taking a look back at a crucial episode for the show from 2021 - episode 204.We're keeping it real and breaking [it] down. Jessamyn and ashe review an unpublished recording while answering Carrie's question, “Were we in fact dating the same person over and over again?” and their own questions about selling a product versus authentic art. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com Our Editor/Producer is Kylee RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Why Are We In Relationships?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 55:08


    Two things: 1. Love you like you know me. 2. Moving onto an RV is anti-dating. ashe and Jessamyn are back on the mic, giving us a solid What's New In Paradise. HINT: Relationship update. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. This episode was edited by ashe and Produced by Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Play, Parties & Psilocybin: What Are Your Wellness Trends?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2022 19:38 Transcription Available


    In the last Summer Session of this year, ashe and Jessamyn discuss their current wellness trends. Inspired by Aidy Bryant and Bowen Yang's Weekend Update bit:  Trend Forecasters.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Producer Talks Back: Have You Ever Been Fired?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 22:27 Transcription Available


    Okay, but who is your celebrity crush?? In the fifth summer session, our Producer Kylee C. Roberts joins ashe and Jessamyn to play a short round of We're Not Really Strangers. Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it answered on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Neurodivergent & Terrible Flirt: How Do I Start A Summer Romance?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2022 25:44


    In the fourth installment of our Dear Jessamyn: Summer Sessions, ashe and Jessamyn answer a Deary Queery from a 40 y/o, queer, nonbinary married person who started HRT five months ago.  Since starting T, they feel happier and more comfortable in their body, wanting to make friends with more queer people, date some folks, have a summer romance. It's a lot! So the question is, how should they go about this?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    What Is Your Dream Metamour-Ship?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2022 26:26 Transcription Available


    Record scratch and rewind! ashe and Jessamyn are revisiting a question from season 1, episode 4 of the podcast: What The F**k is A Metamour? They're chatting about their relationship evolution, wants and needs.Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it answered on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    What Are Y'all Watching This Summer?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 19:28


    Summer Session #2: We all have our comfort watches, but if you need some suggestions, ashe and Jessamyn are coming in hot with their recent and favorite shows and movies across streaming platforms.This episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone Land.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Were You the Ghost? Or Were You Ghosted?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 17:32 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Summer Sessions! In these shorter form episodes, ashe and Jessamyn are stickin' to one topic they've been dying to discuss. This week: Have Y'all Been Ghosted?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    320 What Are You Doing This Summer?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 64:17


    It's the last episode of the season and we are saluting Virgo rising.  For the last time until the fall, our hosts invite in gratitude, share their favorite things and answer a Deary Queery about summer planning in a polycule. This episode mentions: Undrowned: Black Feminist Lessons from Marine Mammals by Alexis Pauline Gumbs, What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey; the television shows “Veronica Mars” and “Hacks”; The Pattern app. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Mimmi Bangoura, DAJANA, Particle House and King SisFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    319 In A Hetero Relationship, How Do I Connect To My Queerness?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 54:18


    This week, Jessamyn and ashe are calling in joy and levity and  spirit presence happy good and bright and meant to be and always was and here. ****  Episode mentions: Out of the Closet, Logic, Kathryn Budi, Asha Patel Designs collab, Tenderfire Media's newest podcast I Hate It Here, Planet Earth, The Planet Podcast This episode was recorded on stole Ohlone land. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

    318 Have You Ever Dated a Narcissist?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2022 62:28 Transcription Available


    Have you ever dated someone with an STD? Is it selfish to pursue a relationship with a married person? This week's Deary is an Aquarius with some impactful queries. Episode mentions: Words of Wisdom by Ram Dass, Dharmacosm,  Ekhart Tolle's Power of Now audiobook, Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke and DSM5's definition of Narcissistic Personality DisorderThis episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone land.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. Tags: love, relationships, trivia, Harriet the Spy, Michelle Trachtenberg,astrology,jessamyn stanley,RV,camper,traveling,ULTA,skincare,skin,eczema, Nickelodeon, astrology,Roe v Wade, supreme court, abortion

    317 Does Your Roommate Clap Cheeks In Front of You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 44:42 Transcription Available


    Wait, there's a platypus controlling you? What? ANYWAY. This week, Jessamyn and ashe are diving into their favorite things (RE: the first sentence of this description), giving last week's trivia answer (hint: Durham native), responding to some listener feedback and answering a Deary with a Queery. Episode mentions: Pauli Murray, Barbara Lau and Ep. 312: Does Your Therapist Know Your AstrologyDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    316 How Did This Happen? Eczema, Chick-Fil-A and Janie Gibbs

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2022 55:30


    There's something in the air this week as Jessamyn and ashe record after the partial solar eclipse. Our hosts review 315's trivia answer (hint: Cancerian Black genius immigrant) and talk about recent skincare adventures. Also, fu*k the Supreme Court. This episode mentions Ashe's white guilt from Ep. 313 and Harriet The Spy.This episode was recorded on stolen lands of the Kiauwee Confederacy.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    315 Can You Enter A New Season Without Your Partner?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 55:36 Transcription Available


    Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it's like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.This episode mentions: Haus of Phoenix, @HungryHUngryHeejin, Four AgreementsDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    314 How Do You Tantrum?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 38:49 Transcription Available


    What does it look like to be luxurious with time? Jessamyn and ashe are here with updates from camper on the East Coast, continuing conversations about conflict. This week we're also introducing our newest segments: Our Favorite Things and Trivia! Hey quick reminder: No One Should Be In Jail For Weed.This episode mentions the We Go High Shop, Song Exploder, Waxahachee and RadiotopiaDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    313 What's Your Conflict Animal?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 47:48 Transcription Available


    When was the last time you thought about what makes you mad and what that was actually about? This week Jesssamyn and ashe are individually reflecting on the context of their internal and relationship conflicts, and yes, what their conflict animals mean.MentionsConflict is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair by Sarah SchulmanThe Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet MillsDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: bomull, Viriya, Vicki Vox, Soara, Iso Indies and Tyra ChanteyFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    312 Does Your Therapist Know Your Astrology?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 41:02 Transcription Available


    Does your therapist know your Big Three, Myers-Briggs and attachment style? Jessamyn and ashe discuss the importance of openness with your therapist. There's also some conversation about capitalism. Cue the O'Jays.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Particle House, Cody High,  DAJANA, Arc De Soleil and Mimmi BangouraFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    311 What's Your November?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 42:21 Transcription Available


    It's April, but we thought we should ask. Jessamyn and Ashe discuss what's new in paradise, all of Jessamyn's recent travel and answer Tyler The Creator's question; What's Your November? Do you know where you are on your journey?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: SINY, Shy5, DAJANA, Tyler the Creator and The WhitesFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    310 Can A Monogamous Person Be Wild?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 54:03 Transcription Available


    Jessamyn and Ashe ponder a question from a Deary: Can a monogamous person find as much adventure and challenge as a polyamorous person can? Upon  reflection during What's New In Paradise, Jessamyn also shares that she may be asking for more vulnerability from Ashe than she typically offers from herself.Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Mimmi Bangoura, DAJANA, Particle House and King SisFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed.

    309 When Fire Meets The Ocean

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 50:00 Transcription Available


    We're taking some time to spring clean today! It's time to reflect on the past; think on where you've been and what you're carrying and what you're going to bring forward this season. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Replay - 106 Am I Poly Or Am I Bored

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 39:19


    In this replay episode from May 2020, Jessamyn and ashe ask; Are you dreaming of the day quarantine is over, and you can finally head over to your friend's house so you can ruin your friendship with sex? We are too. What a different world!I mean, what else are we thinking about these days? Ashe and Jessamyn finish their conversation about compersion, having sex with friends, having good communication with friends later and deciding that you don't need to do that anymore, and ultimately, loving yourself. I know you are shocked at that one.In this episode, we mention an entirely fake hookup app that we made up because we think it should exist. And then we realized that hookup apps are somewhat a thing of the past, or at least they should be right now, please. Stay safe out there, y'all. We're in this together means, please stay home if you can and be careful with your precious life. And everyone else's.Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    308 Where's A Queer Supposed To Live?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 50:58 Transcription Available


    A fabulous question from “Bi and Large” came through our hosts' inbox inquiring on the coolest weed-friendly, queer-friendly, dog-friendly places to visit and live. After having traveled throughout a lot of the US recently in their RV, Jessamyn and ashe are the perfect people to answer!Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and Mimmi Bangoura, DAJANA and Arc De SoleilFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    307 How Much Power Should Your Third Have?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 47:20 Transcription Available


    Jessamyn and ashe recount a frustrating, yet sometimes funny, sexual scenario with a third. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and Mimmi BangouraFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    306 What Are Our Responsibilities As Friends?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 52:15 Transcription Available


    Jessamyn and ashe finished the first season of the HBOMax original And Just Like That, and are here to chat to say that sometimes you're gay, and sometimes you have a husband. Our hosts are reviewing the character growth of the cast, and the real world expectations of their actions.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and Mimmi BangouraAnd audio clips from FansFamily 2.0 on YouTubeFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    305 Why Is Patriarchy So Boring?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 44:41 Transcription Available


    Can you be somewhat poly? Jessamyn and Ashe discuss a Deary Queery about opening up to non-monogamy, and the importance of radical honesty in every relationship.This episode mentions Jessica Fern's Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual NonmonogamyDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Shy5 and King Sis, along with instrumentals from Alannis Morissette's “All I Really Want” and Sheryl Crow's “If It Makes You Happy” and “Strong Enough.”Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    304 How Do You Transition From Lover to Friend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 45:37 Transcription Available


    What are our options in long distance relationships? What are the pros and cons of cohabitation? This week Jessamyn and ashe answer a Deary Queery that unlocks these subsets of dating and relationships. As Venus stations direct and Mercury continues in retrograde, our hosts wonder what the best ways of communicating (and not) with loved ones are. This episode mentions: We Go High NC, Underbelly Yoga, PortlandiaDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Particle House, DAJANA, Frigga, Mimmi Bangoura, and the instrumentals of “Just A Friend” from AugustsTruly   Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    303 Can I Be Monogamous With A Poly Person?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 40:10 Transcription Available


    Follow up question: have y'all tried couples therapy? While Venus is in retrograde, Jessamyn and ashe talk out their relationship frustrations and revelations since moving to California. This week, our hosts also focus on a Deary Queery: Is it foolish to date someone and fall in love even if their base beliefs are different? Can a monogamous person date a poly person?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Sarah, The Instrumentalist; DAJANA, Particle House and King Sis also have music in here. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    302 So, Y'all Like Che Diaz?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 46:17 Transcription Available


    Are you a Carrie, Miranda, or Che Diaz? In this week's Sex and the Titty segment, Jessamyn and ashe discuss the themes and character development within the HBOMax series, And Just Like That. We learn why Jessamyn relates to Big, and why ashe is totally a Carrie. The Astrothought of the Week focuses on the moon in Cancer, and all of the luscious emotions that come with it. Dear Jessamyn is hosted by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Tiki Tiki and God Mode also have music in here. This episode mentions from Loose Leaf: Dorthy Allison, “I Am Not My Mama” https://vimeo.com/127155033 Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    301 Do Folx Choose To Be Boxed In?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 63:30 Transcription Available


    Jessamyn and ashe are bringing in season 3 from a brand new location - their new home in California! This week, our hosts talk about adjustments to their lives and relationships since moving from the RV to a "permanent" residence.Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    How Was Season 2?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 2:20


    After 32 episodes of profanity, sex talk, weed smoking, and a bunch of other shit that's just not for everyone, Dear Jessamyn is starting Season 3 soon!Don't forget that we still want to hear from you! Got thoughts on Sex and the City or The L Word? What's new in paradise? Any relationship questions you need talking out? Head to dearjessamyn.com/queery to submit.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Will You Take me As I Am?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 46:59


    Applause if you get the episode title reference! Jessamyn and ashe record from southern California as they continue conversations about the evolution of their relationship within their nomad travels.Adapting to an east coast work schedule from the west coast seems to be working so far; Aaaannd now it's the end of the calendar year, so j+a are calling in presence and patience.  Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. If you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. This episode mentions San Francisco's Public Library Staff book of the month, Yoke: My Yoga of Self-Acceptance by Jessamyn StanleyThere's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme. Features music By DAJANA and Sarah, The InstrumentalistNo one should be in jail for weed.

    How Gay Was Your Yuletide?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 40:30


    Jessamyn and Ashe are sharing cheer, Sagittarius season vibes and plans for a road trip to Cali. Content warning: Talk of violence and school shootingsFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme. Features music By DAJANA and Sarah, The InstrumentalistNo one should be in jail for weed.

    Wait, Are Y'all Breaking Up?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 59:50


    Really ringing in the new year over here! Our hosts are back, answering the question: When you add another metamour to the pile, what happens? And most importantly, are they breaking up?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme. Features more music By DAJANA and Sarah, The InstrumentalistNo one should be in jail for weed.

    Replay - 104 What the F**k is a Metamour?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2021 47:36


    Enjoy this replay episode from April 2020 as we gear up for a new year. If you had your dream metamour situation, what would it be? Sister wives (or sibling spouse, as ashe calls them)? Don't ask, don't tell? Best friends? Brunch at the house? Do you want kids with your triad? Do you want a long-distance boo who has a primary partner? Do you want your metamours to come to your birthday party? Do you want to go to theirs?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    229 Should We Do A Shot?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 47:26


    It's Dear Jessamyn After Dark AND the last show of the year! Closing out 2021, our hosts talk about their trip to California, and the implications Ashe's new beau has on their relationship and journey. Features music By DAJANAFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    228 What Do The Holidays Bring Up For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 40:21


    "This show is about something different."As many can relate around the holidays, Jessamyn and Ashe aim to talk about one topic and end up discussing topics that are 'way too f*ckin' far."  But in the spirit of this show, it's always about love. This week, our hosts chat about the complicated emotions around being home for the holidays Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    227 Where Do Threesomes Fail?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 49:22


    Has Jessamyn been converted?? What are the aspects of a threesome that make it work? Our hosts discuss their most recent sexual encounter with a third; what did and didn't make them feel sexy?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    226 Did You Say Greedy or Gritty?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 42:44


    Happy Giving Tuesday!! Jessamyn and Ashe giving YOU an update on What's Happening in Paradise. As they continue adjusting to camper life, our host are also learning more and more about work-love-balance.  This week, Ashe is inviting in backbone, and learning  who am I? And what do I stand for? While Jessamyn brings in patience for herself and others around her. This Astrothought of the Week pertains to the full moon that occurred on October 20th - bringing out courage while Mercury stations direct. What's y'all's excuse now? Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    225 Who Says You Can't Go Home Again? Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 49:07


    Is home really where the heart is? What's the spectrum of breaking up? And is Jessamyn warming up to threesomes? In this episode, our hosts continue to analyze their return to Durham.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    224 Who Says You Can't Go Home Again? Pt. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 29:06


    As Bon Jovi said, "There's only one place they call me one of their own / Just a hometown boy born a rolling stone." In this part one of two episodes, Jessamyn and Ashe talk about returning to Durham, and their relationship to parental figures in their lives.This episode mentions:The UnderbellyWhen We Are No More: How Digital Memory Is Shaping Our Future by Abby Smith Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.

    Replay - 102 Polyamory is Not For Everybody

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 46:06


    We're taking a quick break, so enjoy this fan favorite from season 1! "Can you locate the things in yourself that you are holding back because you are scared your partner won't like it?” We're talking polyamory. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.  ----So your partner is clear they want something that you are not. Okay, so they didn't say they want that thing and NOT you, but worse! They want to fulfill something that is entirely about them and doesn't seem to be centered around your needs or what you were hoping was going to happen. What the frack do you do now?

    223 Can You Be Lonely When You're Not Actually Alone?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2021 41:29 Transcription Available


    In this What's New In Paradise? episode, Jessamyn and Ashe talk about boundaries and more things they've learned on the road. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    222 How Does One RV?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 40:10 Transcription Available


    After two months of living in their RV full time, Jessamyn and Ashe's lives have changed - will they ever comfortably live in a brick and mortar home again?!? Here's an initial list of things they wish they knew before starting the camper life. This episode mentions:Kathryn BudigHaus of PhoenixYoga GlowFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    221 What Happens After Hours?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 29:50 Transcription Available


    They're taking shots and being honest. Jessamyn and Ashe circle back to discuss how they may have been holding back during the previous episode. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    220 Do We Need Drama?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 31:13 Transcription Available


    All will be well, all is fine, but do we need drama to keep it interesting? This week during Sex and the Titty, our hosts discuss Carrie's dilemma as she navigates a seemingly perfect relationship.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    219 Liquor In The Front

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 50:05 Transcription Available


    Jessamyn and Ashe check in from a beautiful motel in Vermont (then on the side of the road) to introduce Liquor in the Front, where they discuss scenes and themes from The (original and new) L Word. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    218 The Virgin Queens

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 49:07 Transcription Available


    Hey, they're new at this! Ashe and Jessamyn are talking about some of their favorite parts of their Virginia visit! As they travel across the U.S., the co-hosts will be acknowledging indigenous land; going over bodies of water, hikes, their trip to the VMFA and run in with TreePD.Episode mentions:We Go HighJessamyn Stanley YouTube Virginia Museum of Fine Arts (VMFA)Exhibit - The Dirty South: Contemporary Art, Material Culture, and the Sonic ImpulseNational Cannabis FestivalFollow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Ledford does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    217 Deep Virgo Energy

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 17:38 Transcription Available


    The season of organization and communication is upon us! In the Virgo spirit, Ashe and Jessamyn are getting their footing as creators on the road as they record from Virginia.This week during Astro-Thought of the Week (8:39) the co-hosts discuss how the season has already started to affect them and their Virgo rising placements.This episode mentions the National Cannabis Festival and We Go High.Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. 

    Replay - 103 Threesome City

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2021 51:50 Transcription Available


    As we take some time to rest, enjoy this very popular episode from season 1.  Our Deary Queery is: How can I possibly be okay with my boyfriend wanting a threesome when I'm not interested and I wish he wasn't too?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. --"How can I possibly be okay with my boyfriend wanting a threesome when I'm not interested and I wish he wasn't too?" Should our question-asker:   A) try the threesome again, see what she thinks and then decide   B) trust her gut, tell him to kick rocks, encourage him to just go for it with his co-worker Amber, spend some time alone thinking about what she wants, and masturbate     C) Stick it out, stay with him and come up with a compromise that will work for everyone   D) Break up with him and ask Amber out on a date without him   E) Decide nothing and dream of a day when her self-worth is not tied up in her partner's sexual attraction       F) prioritize herself, smoke some weed, chill out, take a bath, think about the things she needs in life to feel well, read a book, journal, communicate with her partner, try some new things, reconnect with herself, do yoga on The Underbelly, and engage with her pleasure in small ways all the time.   Tell us what you think after the show!

    Replay - 101 Is Sexual Identity A Choice?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2021 50:07 Transcription Available


    While we take a short break, enjoy our very first episode of Dear Jessamyn ever! We still want to know, can you choose between polyamory or monogamy? Is Sexual Identity A Choice?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsMelody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed. --What if your partner used to be polyamorous but now they are with you and y'all are monogamous? Did your partner change who they are? Did they change for you? Is that even a thing? Are they definitely, secretly cheating on you, as Jessamyn believes about most people?

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