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Send us a textYou know you're enough—but the second your partner mentions her, the spiral starts. Sound familiar?In this honest, grounding episode, I break down the real costs of comparison in non-monogamous relationships—like the way it quietly erodes your presence, self-trust, and peace.You'll hear:Why “knowing better” doesn't stop the spiralHow patriarchy conditions us to compete—even in open dynamicsWhat comparison really steals from youAnd the exact reframe and tools that help you come back to yourself
Send us a textStruggling with comparison in your non-monogamous relationship?Whether it's jealousy, insecurity, or spiraling thoughts when your partner mentions someone new—you're not alone, and you're not broken.In this episode, we explore why comparison shows up in polyamory and non-monogamy, how it impacts your nervous system, and what you can do to stop the spiral and build emotional safety.You'll learn:Why comparison hits hard in non-monogamy (even when you “know better”)How internalized patriarchy and survival instincts fuel insecurityGrounding tools to manage triggers in real-timeDaily practices to rebuild self-trust and self-worthHow to reframe your value beyond your partner's other connections
Today we're talking about metamour relationships with Alex Alberto. Alex is a queer author, publisher, and filmmaker. Last year, Alex published their memoir, “Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home” through Quilted Press, a collective of independent authors they co-founded. This year, Alex is producing a short film called “Coming Out Polyamorous for Thanksgiving,” which is based on an essay from Entwined. Alex also leads writers' retreats and courses at Scrappy Literary, and some of their classes focus on helping writers of all levels write about non-monogamy and unconventional relationships. Alex is originally from Montreal but lives in Upstate New York with their partner, metamour, and kids. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand. Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. The Seattle Erotic Art Festival is May 2, 3, &4. Get 10% off select festival passes at seaf.art/tickets! We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feeling like you have to make yourself scarce in your own home can get old very quickly.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month.Our discussion question this week came from the Odder Being Polyamory Conversation Cards. Pick up your own copy using my affiliate link and use NONMONOHELP at checkout for 10% off.Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com.Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
If your metamour is a little cold to you, when do you decide to tell your partner? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month. Our discussion question this week came from the Odder Being Polyamory Conversation Cards. Pick up your own copy using my affiliate link and use NONMONOHELP at checkout for 10% off. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com. Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question or record your question on nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact
We're back with another Q&A from our lovely subscribers! Today, we're discussing mono-normativity, metamour relationships, and polysaturation as we answer some questions posed by our listeners. Visit multiamory.com/join to become part of our excellent community! Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play! Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share their stories of joy in polyamory at the request of a podcast listener… ……plus, finish the list they were chatting about in the last show, of unusual kinks. Links mentioned on the show: Enjoy!!! Dan and dawn Discounts on our books, free eBooks, weekly exclusive content, and support Dan & dawn https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening ***************************************** Find us on YouTube, Discord, Facebook, TikTok; check out our Podcast, our books, calendar, and sign up for our Monthly Newsletter! Instagram - @eroticawakening X - @dananddawn Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eadananddawn www.eroticawakening.com
This is The Briefing, a daily analysis of news and events from a Christian worldview.Part I (00:13 - 14:00)Mormons Take on the Transgender Issue: LDS Church Clarifies Participation of Transgender Persons in Church Services and ActivitiesLGBTQ advocates say Mormon church's new transgender policies marginalize trans members by The Associated Press (Deepa Bharath)Part II (14:00 - 17:40)Transgenderism Collides with Mormonism's Doctrine of God: The Clash of the LGBTQ Revolution with Mormonism Goes Far Deeper Than the LDS Handbook PolicyPart III (17:40 - 25:34)‘Ethical Non-Monogamy,' ‘Kitchen-Table Polyamory,' ‘Metamour' — USA Today Brazenly Seeks to Educate on the Alphabet Soup of the Sexual RevolutionWhat does ENM mean? Your polyamory questions, answered. by USA Today (David Oliver)Sign up to receive The Briefing in your inbox every weekday morning.Follow Dr. Mohler:X | Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeFor more information on The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, go to sbts.edu.For more information on Boyce College, just go to BoyceCollege.com.To write Dr. Mohler or submit a question for The Mailbox, go here.
Meghana and Shreya discuss teasing their shared partner, finding chosen family and how the colonization of India ruined everything. "I Could Never..." is a Chill Polyamory podcast. For more info and episode transcripts: https://www.chillpolyamory.com/icouldnever Chill Polyamory on IG - @chillpolyamory Chill Polyamory on TikTok - @chillpolyamory Chill Polyamory on YouTube - @chillpolyamory Meghana Raveendra on IG - @thecurlyvagabond Shreya Satapathy on IG - @shreya_satapathy_ Cover Artwork by Anni Jyn - @annijyn All music is sourced from the Free Music Archive, under a Creative Commons 4.0 Attribution License (CC BY 4.0) Intro/Outro: Ruffling Feathers by Jesse Spillane, Transitions: City Line by Beat Mekanik
20 years ago Sandy and Burt dated. Their paths crossed again, and eventually, Burt invited Sandy to date once more... this time he was a married man newly exploring an open marriage with his wife. Even though Sandy had some experience with non-traditional relationships, this was new for her too. What kind of risks would her heart and soul encounter as she worked through mitigating attachment, desire and honoring sacred boundaries? Listen as we navigate through the pushes and pull of her story!
Today, we're challenging everything you thought you knew about love with Adam Lyons, a world-renowned dating coach and psychology expert who's turning traditional views on their head.Adam argues that love isn't just an emotion; it's actually deeply rooted in science, specifically tied to the chemical oxytocin. He'll share how understanding the triggers of attachment, attraction, and happiness can completely transform the way we approach dating and relationships.Adam has a fascinating journey into polyamory and a rich background in both psychology and business, and hes outspoken in his desire to reshape our understanding of romantic relationships. Living in a polyamorous throuple and raising a family within this dynamic has given him a unique perspective on love's complexities. Today, he's here to debunk the myths we've been fed—from fairy tales to Hollywood romances—and to offer practical advice for navigating love in today's world.Prepare to have your perceptions of love and relationships profoundly challenged and enriched. Let's dive into a conversation with Adam Lyons about redefining love beyond the conventional.Want to Connect with Adam? Visit askthedatingcoach.com to take the free personality test and gain insights into your dating life and self-sabotage patterns.Connect with Adam Lyons on Instagram at @theadamlyons for more dating and relationship advice and tips. To claim your free clarity chat with Ellecia visit https://elleciapaine.podia.com/clarity-chat Do you feel like you could use some help with your relationships? Get on a free call with Ellecia to see how she can help you move through the challenges of jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens your relationships, deepens your trust, and communication, and leaves you feeling confident. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/clarity-chatSupport the show
Gabrielle Alexa, non monogamy educator and author of "How to Live With the Internet and Not Let it Run Your Life," joins us for a candid exploration of modern love and relationships. We delve into the intricacies of getting along with your partner's partners (metamours), shedding light on the dynamics of polyamory vs swinging, the complexities of unicorn hunting, and the reality of navigating breakups in non-monogamous dynamics. To watch the unedited version and read all about my dating life, consider joining my Patreon!
In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss polyamory in kink dynamics over a tumbler of The Balvenie Single 14-Year Malt Scotch Whiskey (Extra Matured in Rum Casks).Support the showListen on Podurama https://podurama.com
On today's episode we discuss our recent appearance on national television in Australia. We talk about the process of filming our short documentary for Channel 10's "The Project", and unpack the reactions and comments that we have received since the show aired.To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was blocked by their partner's fiancé. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode we talk with Megan Bhatia from the popular Amory Podcast. Megan is a Self-Love and Relationship Coach living in Costa Rica with her husband and children.Megan shares her story of being featured in American Vogue, polyamorous living arrangements, learning how to date again after monogamy & metamour relationships. To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGuest Links:Amory Podcast:https://amorypodcast.com/Vogue Article:https://www.vogue.com/article/the-rise-of-consensual-non-monogamy
Sometimes knowing way too much about your partner's relationship with their metamour can seriously impact your relationship. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/non-monogamy-help/message
Lisa und Emy begeben sich ins Polyversum und erklären Begrifflichkeiten aus diesem.
Sara and I are talking about her experiences with polyamory and some of mine too! We cover coming out to family and friends as polyamorous, how polyamorous people might handle breakups of their partners, and how to deal with metamour relationships. Dr. Sara Sohn, DPT, PT, WCS is a highly accomplished and experienced pelvic floor physical therapist, sex counselor, and mentor for leaders working in taboo areas. Sara holds a strong belief that pleasure is a fundamental right and dedicates her efforts to mentoring health and wellness providers to become courageous leaders in sexual literacy. With over half a decade of experience as a leading pelvic health provider, Sara has dedicated herself to educating the community, speaking nationally, and preparing others to lead in areas that are often stigmatized or taboo. Additionally, she has a personal lifestyle of polyamory, long-term partnership with two partners, and enjoys solo backpacking and singing. To learn more about Sara and her work, visit the links provided.
20 years ago Sandy and Burt dated. Their paths crossed again, and eventually, Burt invited Sandy to date once more... this time he was a married man newly exploring an open marriage with his wife. Even though Sandy had some experience with non-traditional relationships, this was new for her too. What kind of risks would her heart and soul encounter as she worked through mitigating attachment, desire and honoring sacred boundaries? Listen as we navigate through the pushes and pull of her story!
In CNM Kontexten gibt es viele neue Begriffe und Label um Gefühle, Beziehungen oder Identitäten besser greifbar und kommunizierbar zu machen, wie zum Beispiel Compersion, Metamour oder frubbly. Aber warum ist das eigentlich wichtig und kann es dabei nicht vielleicht auch zu ungewollten Abgrenzungen kommen? In dieser Folge sprechen wir über Sprache, Sozialkonstruktivismus und viele schöne neue Worte.
Record scratch and rewind! ashe and Jessamyn are revisiting a question from season 1, episode 4 of the podcast: What The F**k is A Metamour? They're chatting about their relationship evolution, wants and needs.Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it answered on the show!Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed.
Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it's like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.This episode mentions: Haus of Phoenix, @HungryHUngryHeejin, Four AgreementsDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of Staffhttps://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. No one should be in jail for weed.
On this week's episode, we're talking metamour relationships! The authors of the Metamour Bill of Rights, Evita Sawyers and Chanee Jackson-Kendall, join Jhen for a conversation about navigating metamour relationships and how to manage metaships when technically, your meta don't owe you shit. Check out the detailed show notes on where to find our guests and tidbits from the episodes HERE Where can you find Monogamish Pod online? Twitter Instagram YouTube Facebook TikTok Bonus! Check Jhen out on the latest episode of the Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast! Write a Love Letter to help Jhen win some sponsorhsip funds for Monogamish Pod! Don't forget to answer the poll and the questions on Spotify! Support The Podcast!!!! Spend some money on the pod! This allows me to keep creating amazing content while paying for the software and assistance with the transcripts and uploading old episodes to YouTube. And guess what? You can get benefits too! Subscribe to Patreon: Bonus episodes, photos, bloopers, special Patreon merch Buy from the Merch Shop: Rep Monogamish Pod everywhere you go with a mug, tote bag, shirt or any of the other amazing offerings in the shop Anchor Support: You can support the pod for as low as 99c a month! Watchu waiting for? Tell a friend about the pod and rate & review us on your favourite podcatcher including Spotify, Apple Podcasts and Podchaser. Happy Valentine's Day Everyone! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/monogamishpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/monogamishpod/support
Listen to the full erotic audio story: Metamour and Me
Listen to the full story: https://audiodesires.com/story/metamour-and-me/ In this erotic audio story, a hot FFM threesome blossoms from a dinner party where a polyamorous couple is introducing another person into their relationship. Indulge in this sexy open-relationship fantasy right now.
Listen to the full story: https://audiodesires.com/story/metamour-and-me/ In this Audio Porn story, a hot FFM threesome blossoms from a dinner party where a polyamorous couple is introducing another person into their relationship. Indulge in this sexy open-relationship fantasy right now.
If you're in a polyamorous relationship, it's easy to blame a lot of problems on your metamour. But here's the truth: If your metamour is in control of your relationship then either you or your partner is doing something wrong. The power in your relationship doesn't lie with another person. It lies with you and your partner. And when your relationship is solid no one can tear you apart.
Really ringing in the new year over here! Our hosts are back, answering the question: When you add another metamour to the pile, what happens? And most importantly, are they breaking up?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comYou can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our theme. Features more music By DAJANA and Sarah, The InstrumentalistNo one should be in jail for weed.
Enjoy this replay episode from April 2020 as we gear up for a new year. If you had your dream metamour situation, what would it be? Sister wives (or sibling spouse, as ashe calls them)? Don't ask, don't tell? Best friends? Brunch at the house? Do you want kids with your triad? Do you want a long-distance boo who has a primary partner? Do you want your metamours to come to your birthday party? Do you want to go to theirs?Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.comOur Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Foster and Nya Williams do our social mediaJanie Leopard does our episode art Anna Rooney is Jessamyn's Chief of StaffAmber Richardson is Ashe's Chief of StaffFruit Snack does our music. You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. No one should be in jail for weed.
Ho-Ho-Ho! It's that time of year when we recap all the things that have affected our sexual freedom. The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom founder, Susan Wright is back for our Christmas tradition. What did you miss this year? There is a bunch of things that could enter into our lives as kinksters. Here are a few… Stealthing, Model Penal Code update, Consent Survey, New Resources, Consent Policy Model for Groups, Diversity Inclusion, Metamour Day, and the Coalition Partner Meeting! All this and an organization that protects your interests and lobbies for governmental change. NCSF is one of the most important allies for people in the alt-sex world. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/413---ncsf-christmas-showho.html
Polyamory 101 is in session! In this episode, we explore the following questions: What is a metamour? What different kinds of metamour connections are there? What's the difference between a meta and a partner? Can two people be metas and partners at the same time? Want to ask a question for our upcoming Q&A episode? Go to bit.ly/learnpoly Want to join us on Facebook? Go to facebook.com/learnpoly
This episode, we're talking all about boob jobs with Erin's metamour Katie. Tune in to hear about hard nipples, bursting boobies, and saline versus silicone. Brought to you By: The Sonar Network https://thesonarnetwork.com/
This episode, we’re talking all about boob jobs with Erin’s metamour Katie. Tune in to hear about hard nipples, bursting boobies, and saline versus silicone. Brought to you By: The Sonar Network
Even if you have confusing boundaries and you're not “official”, lying by omission can still feel like cheating. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is a non-monogamous setup that wouldn't work for you? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.
What is it like to love the same person? What kind of relationship is available for those who share a partner? Do you have to know your lover's lover?Effy and Jackie revisit an old episode where a panel of poly folks discusses their experiences connecting with their lovers' lovers.To find more about Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla, follow them at @wearecuriousfoxes, @coacheffyblue, and @jacquelinemisla on Instagram.If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 201-870-0063, send us a voice memo or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.com.Follow us on social media for further resources on this topic:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)
Your partner's partner's partner doesn't seem like they're good for your metamour, but what can you actually do? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - How many of your friends know each other? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! More about Non-Monogamy Help: Read the column Subscribe to the newsletter Become a patron Follow us on Twitter Email nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com with your question.
In the past we've talked about feeling competitive with a meta especially when playing the "compare" game. But in this weeks episode we take it from a different angle! Have you ever felt in competition with your PARTNER? Maybe it's who earns more money or who has more partners but sometimes it happens.We discuss some ways to recognize it and tips to process it and move through. Oh and you don't want to miss this explanation of what an actual "competitive relationship" is according to lgbtawiki.org in Monsuta's intro!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media!For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon!Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On.Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show.Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff.For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife GroupAlso, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff.You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;)Finally,As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.comorText us or leave us a voicemail!TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)
Monsuta takes the reigns and flies solo for this week's discussion. This week is answering questions from the TYPO phone, from first dates to breakups. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media!For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon!Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On.Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show.Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff.For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife GroupAlso, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff.You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;)Finally,As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.comorText us or leave us a voicemail!TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)
Being at a place today where our relationship is stable and healthy and we feel pretty confident in our relationship skills its easy to forget some of the struggles and difficult feelings that came up in the early days. The anxiety around dating a new person when you already have a partner. Or the fear around sex with someone new. So many speed bumps to maneuver when you are first moving from monogamy to polyamory and today we talk about and share some of our experiences getting over those speed bumps. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media!For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon!Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On.Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show.Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff.For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife GroupAlso, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff.You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;)Finally,As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.comorText us or leave us a voicemail!TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)
How do you deal with jealousy in a new relationship? How do you make Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (DADT) work? What do you do when your partner hates your other partner? In today's episode, we answer these questions and more.
Today we have a question from an anonymous TYPO Phone caller which we felt could be a whole episode on its own.What's the first thing that comes to mind when someone mentions they're a swinger? It's often times some 60s or 70s house key party. And while we love a good house party... this doesn't quite capture the full essence of swinging.We want to help discuss swinging in a way to bring some enlightenment around today's question, which is a perfect example of someone trying to break out of the comfort zone society created. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media!For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon!Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On.Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show.Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff.For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife GroupAlso, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff.You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;)Finally,As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.comorText us or leave us a voicemail!TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)
Many of us grew up being told and believing that in order for things to be "fair" they needed to be equal. For those who are perhaps a little younger this reminds me of those participation trophies. However, as we've grown up, we've realized that not everyone needs the same things in life. While one person might need the validation of a participation trophy another person may need to be challenged and earn their 1st place ribbon. It's all based on individual circumstances. That's how equity in relationships works! One partner wont have the same needs, wants, or desires so dishing it out the same and treating all partners equally may not get you the desired result you thought you were working for and it may not make each partner happy. Tune in on your favorite podcast platform to listen in as Bella and Monsuta talk relationship equity this week!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media!For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon!Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On.Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show.Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff.For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife GroupAlso, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff.You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;)Finally,As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.comorText us or leave us a voicemail!TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)
Building an intimate relationship often needs all parties involved to show some level of intimacy. To open up and let others in is being vulnerable but in order to do that there needs to be things like trust and acceptance which happen to be key factors in building intimacy. So in this episode we visit how vulnerability and intimacy go hand in hand and how they impacted our weekend trip away to Bend, Oregon. For more information on intimacy here are a few places to start:8 Books on Sex and Intimacy, recommended by sex educator Dawn Serra. This list includes inclusive, empowering titles such as “Ecstasy Is Necessary” by Barbara Carrellas.5 Relationship Books That Will Profoundly Change the Way You Love, a list compiled by relationship coach Kyle Benson. This list includes books that aren’t only focused on sex and romance, like the self-development book “SuperBetter” by Jane McGonigal.Consider individual and relationship therapy. By working with a therapist one-on-one, a family therapist, or a couples counselor, you can get some personalized insight on intimacy. Here’s information on finding a therapist and some affordable therapy options for every budget.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really helps new listeners find us. If you want some more of Bella and Monsuta head over to our Patreon page for bonus episodes and to join our Polyam Fam Facebook group! And of course you can reach out to us all over social media!For additional episodes and content, come join our Patreon!Follow our Facebook page called Polyamory: Get Your Heart On.Find the link to our episode and share your comments about the show.Our Instagram is @TalkYourPolyOff.For the kinkier polyamorists, cum join our TYPO Kinkster Fetlife GroupAlso, check out our Twitter, @TalkYourPolyOff.You can also hit up our website and bookmark it so you can watch us as we grow. ;)Finally,As mentioned a moment ago, we welcome listener input, feel free to send us an email with your thoughts at talkyourpolyoff@gmail.comorText us or leave us a voicemail!TYPO Phone (209) 536-TYPO (8976)
Why We Fight and How We Make Up "What if your partner made you a bouquet of spoons?" This week on the Ready for Polyamory Podcast, Laura talks with Orphne Sicarius, an awesome person who keeps their internet presence pseudonymous because their in-person work as coordinator and clinician for a county-wide Forensic Nurse Examiner Program for living victims of violent sexual trauma requires a certain amount of delicate handling. They've been polyamorous and out in all areas of their life for about five years and were happy to lend their perspective on interpersonal conflict and conflict resolution for this podcast episode focused broadly on Love Languages and Apology Languages, and how these concepts apply in polyamorous networks. They have a broad ranging conversation rolling between general information about love languages and apology languages to trauma informed interpersonal interaction to what different kinds of more and less invested conflict can look like (and whether we agree about only getting in big fights if it's a hill we're willing to die on). It was a pretty great conversation to get to have, and we hope you enjoy listening to it. Related blog posts at Ready for Polyamory include: Love Languages: https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/love-languages-and-polyamory Apology Languages: https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/apology-languages Is this fight a hill worth dying on?https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/is-this-a-hill-i-m-really-willing-to-die-on Fighting to lose: https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/fighting-to-lose Breakups in polyamory: https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/breakups-in-polyamory As always the blog is at www.readyforpolyamory.com; the Patreon at www.patreon.com/readyforpolyamory; and the ko-fi at ko-fi.com/readyforpolyamory and I am eternally grateful for your support. Special Guest: Orphne Sicarius.
Dutchess Zane helps Big Cat unpack the bloodlust he experiences when playing DBZ fighters with his metamour. Then the two explore the first impression energy of Dutchess Zane. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
This episode was meant to be centered on finding local community, meeting people near you, integrating into new polyamorous social circles, and so on - and went rather off the rails because I invited a very old friend to do it with me. Talya recently re-relocated (she was kind of migratory for a while) to Mexico City, and is exploring polyamory in that cultural context in a more serious way for the first time, which colored the conversation. Current events colored the conversation. Familial interruption colored the conversation. So, I've cut you a delightful, entertaining, and (I think) educational episode of me picking this brilliant woman I've been lucky enough to call a friend for many years' brain, and I hope you enjoy it. As always, the intro and outro music is provided by the talented Vince Conaway. (www.vinceconaway.com) Talya is a polyamorous holistic mental health coach, mother and pagan eclectic witch with an M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Concordia University in Montreal, Canada. She has been polyamorous for more than a decade and draws on her experiences in polyamorous relationships, as well as her own mental health journey, to empower others to find their own ways of expressing their authenticity. She recently relocated to Mexico City and is exploring polyamory in this new cultural context. You can follow her journey and musings on Instagram: bluelotusmind The blog, of course, is at www.readyforpolyamory.com; I'd love it if you subscribed at the Patreon (www.patreon.com/readyforpolyamory) or threw a coin in the hat at ko-fi (www.ko-fi.com/readyforpolyamory). Special Guest: Talya Grumberg.
Laura and Seva discuss the good, the bad, and the meh, as regards relationships with metamours. Mostly an interview of Seva and discussion of the past. The ladies largely agree that 80-90% of metamour relationships are good to "meh", and bad relationships are few and farther between, as well as often being initiated by partners or "partner problems, rather than meta problems." Small content warning: allusions to adult/sexual activity content, no explicit descriptions. If you're looking for encouragement that good metamour relationships, or at least better ones, are coming, skip the nine to ten minutes after the intro, that's Seva reliving her worst ever metamour relationship, which was definitely a partner problem, but she was new enough to not know that yet. Seva is largely anonymous on this show due to not being out at work but teaches in the poly and rope communities and helped build upline rope; you can find the link in her guest link below. As always, intro and outro music is provided by Vince Conaway (www.vinceconaway.com) Special Guest: Seva.
Rev. Amanda visits with one of her partners, her husband John. They talk about some of their experiences as she began her ministry and life in an ethically non-monogamous relationship.
Discussing dating as a polyamorous person to being aware of your personal needs, Lee is joined this week by Cunning Minx from Poly Weekly Podcast. We talk frustrations and poly families, connections in open relationship dynamics and deciding how we want to spend our time. Can you still be poly when your relationship looks monogamous? Will my approach to poly match theirs? Join us as we lay it all on the table while Minx shares her personal journey to explore these topics ** Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul Erotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Contact Cunning Minx: Website: http://www.polyweekly.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cunning.minx Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/cunningminx Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/+CunningMinx/posts Tumblr: http://cunningminx.tumblr.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/cunning.minx Links, Events, People and Movies Mentioned: Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory: http://www.polyweekly.com/8-things-book Minx's Online Poly Education: http://www.polyweekly.com/classes Graydancer: http://www.graydancer.com/ Susie Bright: http://susiebright.com/ Black box theatre: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_box_theater Lusty Lady Strip Club: http://www.lustyladysf.com/ Raven Kaldera: http://www.RavenKaldera.org Robert Heinlen – Stranger in a Strange Land: https://www.amazon.com/Stranger-Strange-Land-Remembering-Tomorrow/dp/0441790348/ref_=as_li_ss_tl&tag=pass-20 Minx's User Manual: http://polyweekly.com/2011/04/rtfm-the-user-manual/ NRE (New Relationship Energy): http://polytripod.blogspot.com/2013/01/polyamory-101-new-relationship-energy.html Metamour: http://polydictionary.com/?p=61 Poly Living Conference: http://www.lovemore.com/conferences/polyliving/ Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul