Making Milestones

Annnd we're back! This week's episode is the Making Milestones return following hiatus and it encompasses the important discussion of building identity outside of the horse world and how the pressures to conform within the sport can impact our decision making. This is a heartfelt episode that goes in depth on discussions surrounding how horse people react to new information and why there may be so much resistance to change.Support the Podcast:Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.comShop my clothing and bridles: ⁠http://shopmilestoneeq.com⁠Check out free resources, webinars and more: ⁠http://milestoneequestrian.ca⁠Subscribe to Patreon: ⁠http://patreon.com/sdequus⁠Tip jar: ⁠http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian⁠ Follow me elsewhere:⁠http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96⁠⁠http://instagram.com/sdequus⁠⁠http://tiktok.com/@sdequus⁠ 

Welcome to this enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where we delve into the intricate journey of our special guest, Carol Odell, a seasoned therapist and author of the upcoming memoir "Girl Groomed". In this thought-provoking conversation, Carol shares her personal story of growing up in the horse world while navigating an abusive trainer-student dynamic.Listener discretion is advised, as Carol and our host Shelby discuss sensitive topics including sexual assault and abusive dynamics. This episode aims to shed light on the darker sides of the horse industry, providing a platform for recognition and healing.Join us as we explore how Carol's passion for horses and her inspirational journey towards healing led her to write "Girl Groomed" as a beacon of hope and awareness for others who may have endured similar experiences. Through candid conversations and reflections, this episode seeks to empower and encourage listeners to acknowledge their own stories and find strength in their healing journeys.Whether you're a horse enthusiast, a survivor of similar experiences, or someone with an interest in mental health and emotional resilience, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement to face even the most challenging of pasts. Support the Podcast:Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.comShop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.comCheck out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.caSubscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequusTip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian Follow me elsewhere:http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96http://instagram.com/sdequushttp://tiktok.com/@sdequus 

Welcome to this week's episode of Making Milestones Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of elite dressage with Susan Wachowicz, the founder of Dressage Hub and the World Equestrian Federation. Join us as Susan shares her eye-opening journey from the glitzy arenas of Wellington to becoming a controversial yet pivotal voice in the horse community.In this insightful episode, we unravel the complexities of the dressage world, addressing pressing issues such as horse welfare, the politics of scoring, and the often-overlooked behind-the-scenes controversies. Susan sheds light on the questionable practices pervasive in high-level competitions and the crucial need for reform within the sport to prioritize animal welfare and ethical standards.Listen in as we discuss potential solutions and Susan's innovative efforts in creating the World Equestrian Federation, a new platform aiming to provide fair competition with a focus on horse welfare, education, and community. Whether you're a dressage enthusiast or an advocate for ethical sports practices, this episode offers a compelling perspective on how we can collectively foster a more humane and inclusive equestrian environment.Support the Podcast:Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.comShop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.comCheck out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.caSubscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequusTip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian Follow me elsewhere:http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96http://instagram.com/sdequushttp://tiktok.com/@sdequus 

This episode explores the often solitary journey of shifting your approach to horse training and the impacts it has on personal relationships and self-perception. Join us as we discuss the discomfort and growth involved in questioning traditional practices and the courage it takes to forge a new path. Whether you're navigating the changing tides of horsemanship or facing personal growth, this episode offers insights into finding comfort in solitude and embracing your true self.   Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.com Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

Let's talk about the changes and shifts that I would like to create in my life in 2025 and how I intend to go about it. This is a reflective episode on manifesting the life that I hope to create for myself and some personal changes that I wish to continue to do throughout 2025, as well as new ones I hope to apply. Vote for me: https://entrepreneurofimpact.org/2025/shelby-dennis Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.com Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

In this special end-of-year episode, we reflect on the transformative events and personal growth that characterized 2024. Join as I dive into the challenges and triumphs that marked this year, exploring the transitions in relationships, personal goals, and the pursuit of a more authentic self. From the unexpected start of the year with a rare night out in Vancouver to the introspective journey of finding joy in solitude and self-care, this episode delves into the journey of healing and self-discovery. Through the highs and lows, from professional milestones to personal insights, I explore the lessons learned and the commitments made for 2025 and beyond. Tune in as we recount the experiences that shaped the year, from road trips to relationship revelations, and discover how embracing change led to a newfound freedom to live life unapologetically. Whether you're a long-time listener or just tuning in, this episode is an invitation to reflect, reassess, and embrace the path to personal growth.   Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.com Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus      

Welcome back to the Making Milestones podcast after a brief hiatus! In this episode, we explore the critical theme of developing self-assurance and trusting your own decisions, especially in the often judgmental world of horse management. Learn how to stand firm in your convictions without seeking external validation, and understand the impact of insecurity on personal relationships and interactions within the equestrian community.   Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.com Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus      

Welcome back to the Making Milestones podcast! This week, we dive into the challenges of balancing life's daily struggles with broader societal issues. As I return from a brief hiatus, I share my personal experiences dealing with mental and physical health challenges, business responsibilities, and day-to-day chores. Join me as I discuss how these pressures intersect with societal expectations, leading to burnout and emotional suppression. We explore how societal norms often force us to hide our true feelings and the long-term impacts this can have on both mental and physical health. This episode also touches on the significant gap between mental and physical health perceptions and the role of societal structures in maintaining this divide. Delving into broader themes of capitalism, societal fairness, and the weight of global issues, I aim to provide a comforting space for those feeling overwhelmed by similar struggles. Tune in for an honest reflection on these topics and discover ways to manage your own mental health amidst the chaos of today's world.   Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.com Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

In this thought-provoking episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve deep into the intricate topic of the "disposable mindset" prevalent in the horse industry. Building upon a previously discussed subject, we explore how societal conditioning has shaped our views on horses as expendable assets, rather than sentient beings deserving of lifelong care. The episode challenges listeners to confront uncomfortable truths about the equestrian world, addressing why such practices evoke strong emotional reactions in those involved. By reflecting on personal experiences and industry norms, we aim to foster a dialogue about ethical stewardship and the responsibilities of horse ownership.   Support the Podcast: Send listener stories or topic requests: makingmilestonespodcast@gmail.com Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

In today's discussion, we delve into the discomforts associated with personal growth and changing perspectives, especially within the realm of equestrianism. How do traditional training methods impact self-esteem and personal development? Explore the dynamics of traditional versus science-based training approaches and the transition between them. This episode emphasizes the importance of questioning outdated norms and embracing new methodologies that promote both human and equine well-being and touches on the broader impacts of these shifts on everyday life and personal perspectives, stressing the value of kindness over cruelty. This episode also goes over the power of manifestation and spirituality, encouraging you to trust the process of growth even amidst discomfort. Hear about experiences that underline the courage needed to stand firm in a rapidly changing world and learn how embracing change can lead to enhanced personal authenticity and resilience.   Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

In this episode, we are thrilled to introduce our special guest, Lynda Vanden Elzen from Sound Hoof Trimming. Linda shares her extensive knowledge and expertise in modern hoof care, offering insights into innovative strategies for addressing common hoof issues such as underrun heels and long toes. Throughout the episode, Linda discusses the importance of frog support in horseshoes, the controversy surrounding traditional shoeing methods, and the impact of caudal failure on horse soundness. She also delves into the pros and cons of composite versus metal shoes and provides valuable advice for horse owners looking to transition their horses to barefoot. Join us as we explore the intricacies of hoof health and learn practical tips for improving your horse's hoof condition. Whether you're a seasoned equestrian or new to horse care, this episode offers a wealth of information to enhance your understanding of hoof trimming and farrier services.   Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

This exciting episode featuring a special guest, Alexa Linton, an osteopathic manual practitioner and equine sport therapist. Together, they dive into the innovative concept of the paddock paradise system and its benefits for horse welfare. Shelby and Alexa discuss the origins of the track system, its implementation, and how it can transform the way horses are kept, especially in challenging climates like the rainy Pacific Northwest. They explore how these systems can promote natural horse behaviors, enhance movement, and improve overall well-being.   Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

Join us this week on the Making Milestones podcast for an eye-opening conversation with Martha Figueroa, a passionate equestrian and advocate for marginalized communities in the Gaza Strip. Martha shares her journey of supporting both people and animals in war-torn regions, highlighting the critical role horses play amidst the ongoing conflict. In this heartfelt episode, Martha delves into the everyday challenges faced by Palestinian horse owners, the impact of military actions on their lives, and the resilience of the human spirit. Discover how the global equestrian community can unite to support those in need and learn about practical ways to contribute to their well-being. Listen in as we explore the power of empathy, the importance of advocacy, and how small acts of solidarity can lead to meaningful change. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who believes in the strength of community and the enduring bond between humans and animals.   How you can help: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-coach-Ahmed-and-his-children-survive-in-Gaza https://equuscan.my.canva.site/equestrians-in-gaza https://www.savethechildren.org/us/where-we-work/west-bank-gaza#:~:text=Save%20the%20Children%20has%20been%20providing%20essential%20services%20and%20support,the%20West%20Bank%20and%20Gaza. https://crisisrelief.un.org/opt-crisis https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/ https://www.palestinercs.org/en https://pcrf1.app.neoncrm.com/forms/gaza-relief https://www.allmep.org/donate-now/ https://pennyappeal.ca/palestine/   Palestine news coverage: https://www.instagram.com/translating_falasteen?igsh=a2k3OHlneXh0eWhn https://www.aljazeera.com/ https://www.instagram.com/wizard_bisan1/ https://www.instagram.com/eye.on.palestine/   https://horsenetwork.com/2024/04/show-jumping-school-in-gaza-dreams-of-rising-from-the-ashes/?amp=1&fbclid=IwAR0Oe1y6BsNSjON_YMhpaEAzpK_aeNWqpuy2jvAObVyeQZh2b2a867hYPxE_aem_AclRWLL_T7WCfPvFYdayZY-ek2V_LHlHDAwZutnEPtATz5VHKWbJR1HDk5Ug8EMCIDk https://www.chronofhorse.com/article/a-long-distance-friendship-brings-the-story-of-palestinian-riding-school-stateside/     Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

In this episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve into the intriguing intersections between horse culture and broader societal dynamics. Shelby explores how societal conditioning, capitalism, and the demand for productivity permeate the horse industry, challenging long-held beliefs about the necessity of work for fulfillment, both for humans and their equine companions. Through a critical lens, the discussion reveals how human emotions, societal biases, and the concept of 'earning one's keep' affect horse training and care. The episode also touches upon the broader implications of capitalism on human welfare and the environment, urging listeners to rethink the status quo and consider more holistic, community-centered ways of living and interacting with animals. Join Shelby as she reflects on the need for empathy, understanding, and a shift towards more ethical practices in both human and animal communities. Plus, enjoy a few light-hearted moments with Queso, the new kitten, who makes a cameo with his playful antics.   Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

This episode delves into one of the most debated topics in the equestrian community: the use of treats in horse training. Shelby explores the common fears and misconceptions surrounding rewards-based training and offers insights into why these fears might be unfounded. Join in as we unravel the truth behind the age-old belief that feeding treats leads to aggressive behavior in horses. We discuss the science of operant conditioning and how it applies to horse training, drawing parallels with methods used in training other animals, including predators in zoos. Discover how rewards-based training can not only be safe and effective but also enhance the bond between horse and rider. For those interested in learning more, additional resources such as webinars and books are available. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of equine behavioral science and how it can transform your training practices. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus    

Listen in as we explore the misconceptions surrounding equine behavior and how management practices play a significant role in shaping what many perceive as a horse's personality. Join us as we examine the ethical implications of buying and selling horses. We discuss how horses are often treated as commodities, the industry's pressure on riding and performance, and the often-overlooked emotional impact on horses when they are uprooted from their homes. Whether you're a seasoned equestrian or new to the horse world, this episode offers valuable perspectives on how to truly connect with your horse and the ethics of equine sales. Tune in to learn more about creating a fulfilling partnership with these magnificent animals. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis

In this episode, we delve into the often unspoken challenges faced by horse trainers, highlighting the misconceptions surrounding the profession. While many dream of turning their passion for horses into a career, the reality is often far from glamorous. We explore the pressures and risks trainers endure, from physical injuries to mental strain, and the often toxic dynamics within the equestrian industry. Join us as we discuss how to navigate these challenges while staying true to your values and ensuring a healthier environment for both trainers and horses. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting, this episode provides valuable perspectives on making meaningful change in the horse world.     Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis

This episode tackles a deeply important and timely topic as we approach the fall and winter seasons: the rising costs of horse care and the difficult decisions horse owners face regarding their aging or injured horses. Shelby delves into the unsettling trend of rehoming horses that are no longer rideable due to age, injury, or health issues. She discusses the industry's mindset that often views horses as replaceable commodities and the social acceptability of endlessly rehoming them. The podcast also highlights the emotional and ethical complexities surrounding the euthanasia of horses, advocating for it as a compassionate alternative to uncertain futures and potential suffering. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, Shelby challenges listeners to reconsider their approach to horse care, emphasizing the importance of giving horses a good death over subjecting them to potentially harmful and unstable rehoming situations. She also explores the broader implications of how we value our horses and the responsibilities we owe them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone involved in the horse industry, providing a thought-provoking perspective on a subject many find difficult to discuss. Join Shelby in this candid conversation that aims to foster a more compassionate and responsible approach to horse ownership. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis      

Welcome back to the Making Milestones podcast with Shelby Dennis of Milestone Equestrian. In this episode, she dives into the challenges and logistics of moving an entire farm, sharing the ups and downs of this significant life transition. This episode offers a raw and honest look at the complexities of balancing personal and professional life during a period of significant change.    Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis    

 After a brief hiatus, we're diving into a bit of everything in today's episode. First, I'll share a personal life update, discussing the busy summer months, managing multiple business ventures, and the challenges that come with it. Next, we delve into the transitional stages of horsemanship, exploring the shift from traditional training methods to more science-based, rewards-focused approaches. We'll talk about the realism and effort required to change long-standing habits, both in ourselves and our horses, and the importance of patience and empathy in this journey. Additionally, we'll discuss the unrealistic expectations humans often place on horses and how shifting our perspectives can lead to better treatment and understanding of these magnificent animals. From the way we house them to the demands we place on them, it's crucial to view their behavior through a horse-centric lens rather than a human-centric one. Lastly, I'll touch on the importance of self-care, mental health, and maintaining a positive outlook despite the challenges we face. Whether you're in a transitional stage of your life or simply looking to better understand your horse, this episode aims to provide insights and support. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis    

Today, we're diving into a multifaceted discussion on some pressing issues in the horse world, recorded live while running errands. The focus? A tragic incident at a dressage competition where a horse died after bolting and running into a stone wall. We'll explore the underlying causes of such extreme behaviors, from training practices to environmental stressors, and why it's crucial to address them. This episode also touches on the role of the equestrian community, media, and organizations in either perpetuating or alleviating these issues. We'll discuss the importance of recognizing stress behaviors in horses, the impact of punishment-based training, and the need for a shift towards more compassionate and scientifically-informed practices. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis  

Welcome to a poignant episode of Making Milestones where we delve into the highs and lows of life, tackling issues such as financial struggles, seasonal depression, and the pursuit of dreams. We explore the roller coaster ride of adulting, highlighting how things like unexpected repair bills and new business ventures can test one's resilience. However, amidst the tumult, we spotlight the strength of community spirit and the magic of dreaming big. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis

Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where we uncover one of the most debated topics in the equestrian world - positive reinforcement vs negative reinforcement in horse training. We dissect these two methods, clarifying common misconceptions, and shed light on aversive pressure versus neutral pressure. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis

Welcome to an enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where I shift focus from horse training to delve deep into the world of personal growth and spiritual awakening. Listen as I share my journey of self-discovery and transformation, shedding light on critical areas of self-awareness, ego death, and the value of authenticity. I also confront society's inherent flaws within our capitalist system and propose embracing spirituality as a reinvigorating solution. We explore the harsh reality of how wealth accumulation often leads to disconnect with society and environment, revealing an unfillable void that materialistic pursuits cannot satisfy. I will also discuss how aspects of the horse world, specifically equine behavioral science, have shaped my outlook on life. Come with me as I highlight the challenges I faced in finding my individuality, breaking free from societal expectations and prejudices, and cultivating an environment for self-expression and happiness. Explore with me the significance of developing authentic connections in relationships and learn from my experiences of handling criticism by maintaining authenticity. Tune in to hear about my journey from toxic relationships to embracing solitude, all in a quest for a happier, more authentic self. Learn about how psychadelics have influenced my spiritual growth and why I found value in alternative medicinal practices. The episode concludes with a powerful message on embracing our true selves, moving away from societal judgment or expectations, and embracing the freedom and happiness we all deserve. Join me on this journey of spiritual awakening as we explore it in a raw, unscripted, and authentic manner. Support the Podcast: Shop my clothing and bridles: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out free resources, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow me elsewhere: http://facebook.com/milestoneequestrian96 http://instagram.com/sdequus http://tiktok.com/@sdequus http://youtube.com/c/shelbydennis      

In this compelling episode of the Making Milestones podcast, Shelby about her transformative journey from a traditional to a modern, compassionate horse trainer. This shift not only revolutionized her approach to horse training but also challenged her identity and provoked a deep internal reassessment. This episode encompasses upturns and downturns as Shelby faced disillusionment, professional obstacles, and emotional turmoil on her path to transformation. Navigating through turbulent times, she cherishes the period of downfall as it bestowed her with a fresh perspective and a commitment to prioritize horse welfare over commercial success. Furthermore, she elaborates on the challenges of authenticity in a profession rife with skepticism and traditionalist beliefs. Concluding the discussion on a transformative journey, there is emphasis accepting the trials of life to reconstruct identity and shape a more fulfilling professional path.   Support the podcast: Shop apparel and horse bridles http://shopmilestoneeq.com Tutorials, Q&As and more http://patreon.com/sdequus Webinars, learning resources and more http://milestoneequestrian.ca Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian  

In this eye-opening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve into an often overlooked issue within the equestrian world: misogyny. Despite being a predominantly female industry, gender biases still pervade, creating an oppressive undercurrent that female riders and trainers have to navigate.  We also delve into gender-related issues beyond women's experiences, acknowledging the struggles of non-binary individuals and members of the LGBTQ+ community.   Support the podcast: Shop apparel and horse bridles http://shopmilestoneeq.com Tutorials, Q&As and more http://patreon.com/sdequus Webinars, learning resources and more http://milestoneequestrian.ca Tip jar: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian  

Welcome to a captivating episode of Making Milestones podcast, where we delve deep into my personal narrative of neurodivergence. This episode presents my life's journey from being diagnosed with ADHD to embracing this newfound understanding and how it transformed my worldview and interactions, especially with horses. Support the podcast: Shop my store: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Subscribe to Patreon for Q&As, tutorials and more: http://patreon.com Check out my website / buy my book: http://milestoneequestrian.ca/my-book One time donation: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian Engage in our heartfelt conversation as we critique societal norms, dispel stereotypes around ADHD, and highlight the legitimacy of self-diagnosis. We emphasize the importance of authenticity and explore the intriguing intersections of neurodivergence among humans and animals, pushing Equestrian boundaries. Immerse yourself in our informative discussion on brain anatomy, stress, trauma, and neurodivergency in horses. We highlight the profound impact of early life trauma on equine behaviour, reinforcing the necessity for compassionate training methods and adequate care. Discover the moving stories of Mustangs and the traumatic experiences they endure, reinforcing the similarities between horse and human responses to trauma. Our focus extends to human-induced traumas on these majestic creatures and our collective responsibility to change how we perceive and treat them. We also probe into the fascinating parallels between human wealth hoarding and individual desires. In the process, we highlight the importance of transforming ourselves and how these changes cascade to improve the mental wellbeing of the horses under our charge. This episode underscores our collective responsibility to create safer and empathetic interactions with all lives around us. This enlightening episode will resonate with listeners who have an affinity for horse care, personal growth, and the neurodivergent community, inviting them on a journey of self-understanding and inspiring change.

How is horse welfare impacted by patriarchy and capitalism? Listen to find out. *note* sorry about the audio on this, I used a new mic and it was not great but didn't want to re-record as I felt it was a good discussion.   Order limited edition merch: https://milestone-equestrian.creator-spring.com/ Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my store: http://shopmilestoneeq.com See my blog, training help, webinars and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca Order my book: http://milestoneequestrian.ca/my-book  

Talking more about lessons I've learned in 2023 and things I want to work on in the new year.   Support my work: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca   Year end / new year journal prompts: https://instituteofyou.org/year-in-review-50-powerful-questions-to-reflect/  

Reflecting on 2023, the good the bad and the ugly...   Support me elsewhere: http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://patreon.com/sdequus http://milestoneequestrian.ca  

Talking about disconnection and how it enables abuse in and out of the horse world.   Other ways to support my work" http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca  

A little life update, why I've been a little subdued and MIA, talking about the current world situation and my thoughts about it. This is not very horse related so if that bothers you, don't listen.   Resources & charity orgs: http://instagram.com/motaz_azaiza http://instagram.com/belalkh http://instagram.com/wizard_bisan1 http://instagram.com/jvpny http://instagram.com/jewishvoiceforpeace http://instagram.com/ifnotnoworg http://instagram.com/danielmate http://instagram.com/gabormate http://instagram.com/solutionsnotsides http://instagram.com/byplestia http://instagram.com/reprashida http://instagram.com/breakingthesilenceisrael http://instagram.com/whatifpolitics http://instagram.com/goubtube http://instagram.com/nemahsis http://instagram.com/mohannadalkhteeb Support my work:   http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca http://patreon.com/sdequus http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian  

Interviewing Temple Grandin about her work with animal welfare and neurodivergency/autism advocacy.   Check out her books and other info: https://www.templegrandin.com/templegrandinbooks.html https://templegrandin.com/   Support me/the podcast: Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my store: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Donate to Phoebe's surgery: https://gofund.me/a766d361 http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian  

Talking about my experience in Paris, France at a Horse Welfare Conference on Hyperflexion that the FEI sent representatives to attend...   Help support the podcast / my work: http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://patreon.com/sdequus http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian  

Talking to Dr. Tomas Teskey, an equine veterinarian specializing in hoof care about all things hoof.   Support the podcast: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com   Check out Dr. Teskey's pages/book: https://www.facebook.com/insighttoequus https://www.insighttoequus.com/  

Discussing how we can still harm welfare even with good intentions, especially with normalized practices in the industry and what we can do about this.   Help support my work: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca   Donate: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian    

Talking about my experience with leaving toxic relationships and how I built self esteem afterwards. How to deal with hateful comments and mean people without letting it damage your self concept.   Help support my work: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca  

Discussing how we can reduce harm in the horse world even in situations where we may have less control to make big changes.   Support my work: http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://patreon.com/sdequus http://milestoneequestrian.ca http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Get a free diet analysis for your horse: http://madbarn.com/analyze-diet/?ref=1329 Get a discount on MadBarn products with code SDEQUUS

Discussing my experience with toxic relationships and thoughts on it.   Support my work: http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://patreon.com/sdequus http://milestoneequestrian.ca http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Get a free diet analysis for your horse: http://madbarn.com/analyze-diet/?ref=1329 Get a discount on MadBarn products with code SDEQUUS

Discussing the horse welfare movement, realistic change and weird things the industry has normalized as being completely benign when there are indicators of harm caused.   Join the horse welfare movement and sign the petition: http://linktr.ee/allianceforhorsewelfare Subscribe to Patreon for tutorials and more: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my product line: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Support my work: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian See my website for training webinars, behaviour consults, resources and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca  

Discussing the horse welfare movement, realistic change and weird things the industry has normalized as being completely benign when there are indicators of harm caused.   Join the horse welfare movement and sign the petition: http://linktr.ee/allianceforhorsewelfare Subscribe to Patreon for tutorials and more: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my product line: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Support my work: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian See my website for training webinars, behaviour consults, resources and more: http://milestoneequestrian.ca  

Discussing the journey to self confidence and self love.   Check out my links & support the podcast below: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Sign the petition and support the new welfare organization: http://linktr.ee/allianceforhorsewelfare  

Discussing the horse welfare movement and need for immediate change in the industry.   Join the welfare movement and sign the petition: http://linktr.ee/allianceforhorsewelfare Subscribe to my Patreon to support my work & access tutorials and more: http://patreon.com/sdequus Help support me in my journey to Paris to speak at a welfare conference: http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian Shop my products: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Checkout my resources page: http://milestoneequestrian.ca/resources    

An update on the absolute insanity that has been life lately.   Checkout my links: http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://patreon.com/sdequus http://milestoneequestrian.ca    All Info on the Alliance for Horse Welfare In Sport http://linktr.ee/allianceforhorsewelfare  

A discussion with Ansley Bevan of AB Equine Therapy on a variety of common issues we see in horses and how they affect the overall biomechanics of the horse.   Shop my products: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Subscribe to Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus     Follow Ansley on Instagram: http://instagram.com/abequinetherapy Follow Ansley on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abequinetherapy    

A discussion about horse welfare and modern equine science with equine ethologst, Renate Larssen.   Support the podcast: http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://patreon.com/sdequus http://paypal.me/milestoneequestrian   Follow Renate: http://instagram.com/renatelarssen https://www.facebook.com/theequineethologist  

Talking with Lockie Phillips of Emotional Horsemanship about a number of different aspects of the horse industry. This is an inspiring and emotive episode that was such an excellent conversation to have. Thank you Lockie! Where to find Lockie: http://emotionalhorsemanship.com http://instagram.com/emotional.horsemanship   Support the podcast: Subscribe to Patreon for behind the scenes, tutorials and more: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my product line: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Check out my new book: http://milestoneequestrian.ca/my-book My website: http://milestoneequestrian.ca  

Discussing punishment culture in the horse world and how I think it starts within how we treat ourselves and other humans for doing the "wrong" thing.   Check out my store: http://shopmilestoneeq.com Subscribe to my Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus  

A messy mishmash of a podcast episode prior to the end of the year. See y'all in the new year after a break.   Follow up article: https://horsenetwork.com/2022/12/lets-talk-about-that-kalinka-video/   Support me elsewhere: http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com http://milestoneequestrian.ca/my-book  

In this episode I talk about autonomy for horses and how it can actually facilitate reinforcing the behaviours we want and doing away with problem behaviours.   Check out my Patreon: http://patreon.com/sdequus Shop my product line: http://shopmilestoneeq.com My new book: http://milestoneequestrian.ca/my-book  

"Treats make horses nippy!" "I want the horse to do it for me, not the food!" "You'll be reliant on treats forever and then they won't listen."   Support me elsewhere: http://milestoneequestrian.ca http://patreon.com/sdequus http://shopmilestoneeq.com