Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

Do you panic at the thought of blushing in public? That rising heat in your chest… the burning in your ears… the shame of knowing people see it? I used to live in fear of that exact moment. In this episode... I share my personal story of dealing with chronic, uncontrollable blushing in social situations, where it started, how it became tied to my social anxiety, and what I tried (unsuccessfully) for years to stop it. Eventually, I discovered a way to release the shame, the fear, and the obsessive thoughts. It wasn't willpower. It wasn't exposure therapy. It was acceptance, combined with a powerful technique called EFT tapping. You'll learn: Why blushing becomes an obsession and what fuels it How past experiences create emotional triggers in the body Why most solutions don't work (and what finally did) How I released the deep self-judgment and stopped caring… and then, the blushing stopped too What I now use with my clients to help them overcome blushing and social anxiety for good This is a vulnerable, honest episode that can shift how you see yourself and give you hope that change is possible.

In this episode... Most people think they'll accept themselves after they overcome social anxiety. But what if that mindset is exactly what's keeping you stuck? In this episode, Sebastiaan and psychologist Steve Wells reveal why self-acceptance is the starting point for true social ease, and how tapping can help you get there gently and effectively. To start reducing your anxiety today and feel more at ease socially, get my free mini-course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence  bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast   Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 

In this episode...If you grew up hearing “don't be so sensitive” or “man up,” this might forever change how you see yourself. In this short minisode, Seb and ex-MMA fighter Tom Woodfin get real about what it's like to grow up hiding your sensitivity—especially in a world that sees it as pathetic or weak. They share how years of inner work helped them shift that shame, own their sensitivity, and transform it into deep confidence and connection.

In this episode... "Can you be shy… and still feel confident in social situations?" In this live EFT tapping session, Sebastiaan helps a volunteer release shame and anxiety around being labeled “shy.” Together, they explore how childhood messages shaped her identity—and how tapping can shift self-perception fast.

In this episode... If rejection terrifies you, you're not alone, and you're not broken.  In this episode, Social Confidence Coach, Sebastiaan van der Schrier, and EFT expert, Rick Wilkes, reveal what's really behind your fear of rejection… and why it lingers, even after therapy or exposure. You'll discover how to gently dissolve the emotional charge behind past rejections, and why tapping (EFT) helps you feel safe being yourself, without needing approval from everyone. Get the free “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” mini course here → bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb  

Have you ever been teased, humiliated, or bullied... and felt like you should be over it by now, but it still haunts you? In this episode, Seb shares how bullying in his own past triggered years of social anxiety, and why those early experiences can quietly shape how safe you feel in the world today. You'll hear a short but powerful conversation with EFT Master Tania Prince.  She explains how bullying memories get stuck in your nervous system, why they still affect you today, and what you can do to finally break free. • Why some painful moments still feel so fresh • What bullying does to your sense of identity and safety • How EFT tapping helps release those emotional charges • A surprising truth about the beliefs that make us more vulnerable to being bullied If you're ready to let go of the past and finally feel safe being yourself...

In this episode... Tiffany shares her powerful journey of healing social anxiety after decades of sadness, isolation, and self-judgment. She talks openly about the trauma that shaped her, how she discovered what was really driving her anxiety, and how she gently found freedom through deep inner work. We worked together for 17 sessions using the best of psychology, EFT tapping, and energy psychology. And what unfolded was a quiet but profound transformation.

In this episode... “If I feel confident… I'll be humiliated.” This is a fear many people with social anxiety carry, but almost no one talks about. In this live coaching session, you'll hear a Social Confidence Club member gently unpack that exact fear. What unfolds in under 15 minutes is a calm, respectful release of what's been blocking her from feeling confident. No pressure.No pushing through fear.Just a powerful example of what happens when your system feels safe enough to let go. This is part of what I call the ART approach: Allowing acceptance, Releasing resistance, and Terminating triggers And it's also the kind of work I do with VIP clients, people who are serious about overcoming their social anxiety once and for all.

In this episode... Do you feel like you have to be perfect just to be accepted? Or to avoid criticism or rejection? This unconscious belief can quietly fuel social anxiety, burnout, and relentless self-pressure In this short minisode, EFT Founding Master and psychotherapist Carol Look shares a powerful insight to help uncover where this pressure really comes from and how to begin letting it go

Always trying to be cool... but just end up feeling anxious?

In this episode... You'll tap along with a live coaching moment from inside the Social Confidence Club, where Seb helps a volunteer work through social perfectionism: the intense pressure to speak fluently, sound smart, and never mess up in social situations. As the session unfolds, our volunteer opened up about a painful childhood moment that shaped this pattern. Together, they tap through the fear of being seen as “a dumbass” and begin to let go of the emotional weight. By the end of the session, his tension dropped significantly, and his insight is one many can relate to:

Shame is at the core of social anxiety. Yet, most people don't realize it. Emma Roberts does. She's lived it. Once held back by deep embarrassment and fear of being seen, Emma now trains therapists around the world. In this episode, she shares: How shame manifests and why it often goes unrecognized Her raw, personal story (including hiding in a bathroom before a training!) Why EFT Tapping is uniquely powerful for releasing shame and anxiety A simple Heart Anchor technique you can use immediately What makes healing possible, even after decades of suffering Emma is a world-renowned EFT Master, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and NLP Master Practitioner. She co-founded Integrated Energy Techniques, which blends energy psychology, coaching, and cognitive psychotherapy. “Don't waste time thinking you're stuck. You can take control of your life and change it faster than you might think.” — Emma Roberts

In this episode... We share a replay of a live EFT tapping coaching session with James, where we focus on easing the fear of judgment—one of the most common struggles for those dealing with social anxiety. You'll hear how anticipatory anxiety showed up for James before the session, how self-judgment and the belief of "I'm not good enough" made social situations feel unsafe, and how physical tension and emotional discomfort were part of his experience. Together, we explore these feelings, clear resistance to change, and use tapping to reduce the intensity of these emotions. By the end of the session, James felt calmer, lighter, and gained new insights into what was really fueling his anxiety. If you relate to the fear of being judged, or the constant worry about how you come across in social situations, this session can offer helpful perspectives and possibly relief by simply following along.

Join now: https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub In this episode... If you've been struggling with social anxiety, feeling trapped in overthinking, fear of judgment, or avoiding social situations—this video is for you. Hear directly from members who have transformed their lives inside the Social Confidence Club. From avoiding social settings to confidently engaging in conversations, giving presentations, and even hosting events—these are real success stories of people just like you.

In this episode... Have you ever heard the saying from Henry Ford: "Whether you think you can, or can't, you're right." It's a powerful reminder that what we believe shapes our actions and our outcomes. When you don't believe you can succeed, it's easy to give up, or not try at all. This leads to results that prove your initial belief: "I can't change." But here's the good news: You can change! We'll tap together to reduce the doubt holding you back. Let's bring in hope and belief in your ability to overcome social anxiety—no matter how long it's been an issue. Ready to feel more hopeful and empowered? Tap along now!

Ready to overcome social anxiety and unlock effortless social ease?

In this episode... Tired of social anxiety holding you back? In just 6 minutes, discover the 5 stages that will take you from social anxiety to social ease—all from the comfort of your own home. Learn how the Social Confidence Club supports you at every stage with structured support, guided tapping, and expert coaching. Whether you're starting from scratch or refining your confidence, our step-by-step approach offers a proven path for anyone ready for lasting change. Learn from others who have successfully overcome social anxiety. Join a community that understands your journey and supports you every step of the way.

In this episode... If EFT (tapping) hasn't worked for your social anxiety yet, it's not because it doesn't work—it's likely because you've been making one of three common mistakes: ❌ Tapping alone ❌ Not tapping enough ❌ Tapping on the wrong targets Inside the Social Confidence Club, we address all of that with 7 different kinds of powerful live webinars. Here's what you'll experience inside the Club:

In this episode... Imagine feeling calm, confident, and completely at ease in social situations—without the overwhelming worry, dread, and self-doubt. The Social Confidence Club offers a proven, step-by-step path to social ease. With structured lessons, guidance from an expert who has been there, and a supportive community, you'll be guided through building lasting confidence. We combine psychology, EFT tapping, and gentle energy techniques to help you transform your social experiences. Here's what you'll experience inside the Club:

In this episode... Struggling with social anxiety and looking for an effective way to build confidence and feel at ease? In this powerful interview, Sebastiaan Van Der Schrier sits down with Tapas Fleming, the creator of the Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), to explore how combining TAT with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT Tapping) can support your journey toward social confidence.

In this episode... What if your anxiety wasn't the enemy but an ally? I sit down with EFT specialist Gene Monterastelli from the Tapping Q&A podcast to explore the power of acceptance in overcoming social anxiety. We dive into why anxiety exists, how our system is actually trying to protect us, and how embracing acceptance can ease social discomfort. Plus, Gene guides you through a simple yet powerful tapping exercise to help shift your mindset and bring more ease into your life.

In this episode... I'm sharing my personal journey of overcoming social anxiety and how EFT tapping played a major role in my transformation. I'll explain why the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge is such a powerful tool for breaking through the barriers that hold you back from social ease, even if nothing has worked for you before. You'll hear about my first life-changing shift with tapping and why it's the key to unlocking lasting results. Plus, I'll share a powerful client breakthrough story that shows how subconscious resistance can keep you stuck—and how you can overcome it. If you're ready to experience your first shift and begin your journey to social confidence, sign up for the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge today! For a limited time, you can join for just $7—an offer available only for the next 72 hours. Don't miss out—take the first step toward a more confident, social you! Hurry, this offer ends soon! Get the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge (Was $99, now just $7 – offer ends on Jan 26, 23:59 EST!)

In this episode... Does social anxiety hold you back? Seb shares a guided EFT tapping session to help you reduce social anxiety and boost self-acceptance. Whether you've been struggling for years or are just starting to address it, this powerful tap-along exercise is for you. You'll Learn: ✅Why social anxiety is something you experience—not who you are. ✅How to release shame and self-judgment through EFT tapping. ✅A simple routine to gently expand your comfort zone and feel more confident.

In this episode... Seb shares an inspiring story from Martin, a member of the Social Confidence Club, who experienced both a setback and a breakthrough in his journey to social confidence. After feeling ignored at a meeting, Martin used EFT tapping to address his emotional trigger—and the very next day, he won the best improv speech award at Toastmasters, feeling calm and confident. He discusses how setbacks in the journey to social confidence aren't failures, but opportunities to heal unresolved emotional triggers. With EFT tapping, these moments can lead to profound breakthroughs and unexpected social confidence wins. Tune in to hear Martin's story, and learn how tapping can help you overcome social anxiety, stay on track, and make progress—even when challenges arise.

In this episode... A comprehensive study involving 5,000 patients across 11 clinics over 5.5 years compared the effectiveness of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in treating anxiety. The findings revealed that 90% of patients receiving EFT showed improvement, compared to 63% in the CBT group. Notably, only three EFT sessions were needed to reduce anxiety, whereas an average of 15 sessions were required for CBT. Complete relief of symptoms was observed in 76% of the EFT group, compared to 51% in the CBT group. One year later, improvements were maintained by 78% of the EFT group, compared to 69% of the CBT group. The study: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/2515690X18823691 ______

In this episode... I'm sharing some inspiring success stories from members of the Social Confidence Club who have made incredible progress on their journey from social anxiety to effortless social confidence. Here are a couple of highlights: Graham's Big Win: He went to a concert of his favorite artist fully sober—something he never thought he could do. And not only that, but he danced the night away! Alexander's Breakthrough: After struggling for years with a lump in his throat that made it hard to speak, Alexander now has his voice back and can speak freely without the fear of being triggered. These are just a few examples of how the Social Confidence Club has been transforming lives, and we're only getting started. With six weeks left until the next opening of the club, stay tuned for more incredible stories and tips to help you unlock your own social confidence!

In this episode... I'm sharing powerful stories from participants of the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, starting in just a few hours! Listen to inspiring feedback from people who've experienced real change—feeling more relaxed, less anxious, and socially confident. These incredible milestones prove that real change is possible. Whether you're just starting your journey or want to see what's achievable, this episode shows how the 30-Day Challenge helps people break free from social anxiety and step into their true social confidence.

In this episode... Seb answers the most common questions about the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge. Wondering how it works or if it's right for you? This video covers it all. Here's a sneak peek of what's inside: 1. What Is the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge? Seb explains what the challenge is and how it's designed to help you overcome social anxiety. 2. Does EFT Really Work? Discover the science behind Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and why it's proven to reduce anxiety. 3. Do I Have to Do Awkward Social Exposures? Find out if this challenge requires any uncomfortable exposures to people or situations. 4. What If Tapping Hasn't Worked for Me Before? Learn why EFT might not have worked for you in the past and how this challenge offers a new approach. 5. Can I Commit to Just 15 Minutes a Day? Get an idea of how the challenge fits into your busy schedule with just 15 minutes of daily commitment. 6. Is This Just Another Quick Fix? Seb explains how this challenge is a structured journey for lasting social confidence—not a quick fix. 7. Why Should I Trust This? Seb shares his personal experience with overcoming social anxiety and how this challenge is built on what worked for him. 8. Can I Stay Anonymous? Concerned about privacy? Find out how you can participate anonymously in the challenge. 9. Is This Only for Social Anxiety? Seb clarifies whether this challenge is for social anxiety alone or if it's applicable to other issues as well. 10. Will I Overcome My Social Anxiety in 30 Days? While complete freedom from anxiety isn't guaranteed, Seb discusses the progress you can expect. The 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge starts on January 1st and is completely FREE. Don't miss out—sign up today and take the first step toward transforming your social confidence. Join the challenge now: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge ______

In this episode... Are you tired of being stuck in a cycle of worry? In this video, I'll show you a quick and powerful technique to release your worries and feel better fast. Worrying often happens when our minds try to control uncertainty. But what if there was a way to break free from the endless cycle of "what ifs"? I'll guide you through a simple method to help you let go of those fears and find calm, with the added power of EFT tapping. Whether it's social anxiety, stress, or daily worries, this technique will help you regain control and feel more at ease. Remember, this is just the beginning. For more techniques and support, join my FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, where you'll get 30 more strategies to help you feel confident and in control. It's 100% anonymous and done from the comfort of your own home.

In this episode... We dive into what you can expect from the free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge and the progress you'll make. Hear real stories of participants who have found hope, relief, and excitement for change. You too can experience this progress—sign up for the challenge at bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge and start your journey toward social confidence now! "I looked forward to each email and video every day of the challenge, and it was a breeze." - Benny "Knowing there's something that can help me, rather than just withstand the feelings of social anxiety, is really empowering." - Maddy We can't wait to see you inside!

In this episode... Seb walks you through a life-changing free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge program. It is specifically designed to help you build lasting social confidence—without doing any terrifying exposures. Here's a sneak peek of what's inside: 1. Program Overview: Seb takes you through the structure of the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, showing you exactly how it's tailored to help you succeed. 2. Seb's Personal Story: Discover the driving force behind the creation of this challenge, as Seb opens up about his own struggle with social anxiety and how it shaped his coaching journey. 3. What a Day Looks Like: Get an inside look at what you'll be doing each day, the time commitment, and how simple yet powerful steps can lead to big changes. 4. The Power of EFT Tapping: Seb explains the psychology behind this transformative tool and how it can reduce anxiety—no scary exposure required. 5. What to Expect: Learn about the progress you can make in just 30 days, from improved confidence to new perspectives on social interactions. 6. Stay Motivated: Find out how to stay motivated through the challenge and keep your momentum going as you overcome social anxiety for good. Don't let this opportunity pass by! This is your only chance in 2025 to join the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge—running only on January 1st. Secure your spot now and start transforming your social confidence today!

In this episode... We're diving into real stories and real results from participants of our 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge. These powerful testimonials from day six of the challenge show how even small shifts can make a huge difference in overcoming social anxiety. Hear from Henrik, Jean, and Maddy as they share their progress, moments of relief, and newfound optimism in just six days. The challenge is designed to bring you little shifts each day, offering practical tools and insights that help you feel lighter and more confident as you move forward. Ready to start your journey toward social confidence in 2025? The challenge begins on January 1st! Sign up now and join thousands of others in experiencing the life-changing benefits of tapping. "This challenge made me feel that there's hope, and a way out of living social anxiety once and for all." - Henrik "I noticed that while still blushing, the lingering after-effects of anxiety are now less extreme than usual." - Jean "I now feel that there's light at the end of the tunnel" - Maddy We can't wait to see you inside!

In this episode... Seb shares how you can transform your social anxiety in just 10 minutes a day with his free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, starting January 1st. By joining, you'll experience: ✅ A noticeable reduction in social anxiety suffering ✅ Less fear of getting anxious or being seen anxious ✅ Feeling less awkward and self-conscious in social situations —all from the comfort of your home! With daily emails and easy-to-follow EFT Tapping exercises, you'll feel more empowered, lighter, and hopeful about overcoming social anxiety. Thousands have already benefited, gaining insights into the psychology of anxiety and building lasting confidence. Sign up for free, join the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge starting January 1st, and take the first step toward social ease!

In this episode... I share a powerful testimonial from Deborah, a participant in last year's free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, who found relief and clarity through tapping. After struggling with social anxiety for 10 years, Deborah felt isolated and disconnected. However, tapping gradually helped her become less anxious, more confident, and better equipped to interact with others. Participating in the 30-Day Challenge was a turning point, providing her with motivation, new insights, and a clear path toward reducing her social anxiety. Her story is a testament to the power of perseverance and shows that overcoming social anxiety is possible with the right support and approach. "The 30-Day Challenge was the perfect way to approach tapping and to actually start reducing social anxiety" - Deborah Tune in to hear how Deborah gained clarity, understood her goals, and took significant steps toward overcoming her social anxiety. If Deborah's journey resonates with you, join the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge starting January 1st. Take the first step toward reducing your social anxiety and finding your path to confidence. Sign up now! ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

In this episode…  I'll explain: ✨ Why anxiety isn't the root problem—it's a symptom of deeper issues.✨ How your subconscious mind perceives danger in social settings.✨ The limiting beliefs that keep you stuck in social anxiety. ✨ How EFT Tapping combined with the best of psychology can retrain your mind to feel safe. When your subconscious mind no longer sees social settings as threat, you'll stop experiencing the fight-flight-freeze response—and your anxiety will fade away for good. Start Your Journey to Social Confidence:

In this episode... I share a powerful testimonial from Tess, a member of the Social Confidence Club, who experienced an incredible breakthrough in her public speaking anxiety. Tess had always struggled with presenting, feeling agonizing anxiety before and during every session. But after using EFT tapping and a couple of key tools from the Club, she faced her latest presentation with barely any anxiety, staying present, interacting effortlessly, and even laughing—something she never thought was possible. "Stay persistent, everyone—this stuff works!" - Tess Tune in to hear Tess's journey and how combining the best of psychology with EFT tapping can truly transform your social anxiety. Ready to start speaking confidently in front of any audience? Grab our free Mini Course "The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence", and begin your journey to eliminating your public speaking anxiety. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

In this episode…  I break down: ✨ Why EFT alone might not resolve social anxiety.✨ The deeper underlying issues that keep anxiety in place.✨ Essential strategies to combine with EFT for real, lasting transformation. Social anxiety isn't just a feeling; it's a symptom of deeper struggles like unresolved trauma, limiting beliefs, and subconscious resistance to change. By addressing these root causes, you can move beyond temporary relief and step into lasting social confidence.

In this episode... We share an inspiring testimonial from someone who overcame significant resistance to attend a camping music festival after years of avoidance. Despite facing intense triggers like big crowds, self-comparison, and social pressure, she used EFT tapping to manage her anxiety in the moment. Her journey highlights a powerful truth: with tapping, you don't have to feel helpless or avoid situations that once overwhelmed you. She not only made it through the event but ended up having a fantastic time, even making new friends along the way. Tune in to hear how tapping helped her expand her comfort zone and build confidence step by step. This is a reminder that the journey from social anxiety to social ease is achievable—one trigger and one tap at a time. Gain more new perspectives on how you can completely overcome your social anxiety using EFT Tapping by getting our FREE Mini Course: “The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence” ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

In this episode…  I'll reveal 3 clear ways you can tell your social anxiety is improving—so you can track your progress and stay motivated on your journey to social confidence. Here's what we'll cover: Frequency: Are you triggered less often? For example, if you feel anxious in 8 situations at work, like meetings or lunch breaks, and manage to eliminate anxiety in one of those areas, you're making progress! Intensity: Is your anxiety less overwhelming? Imagine your anxiety used to be a 9/10 around your boss, but with consistent EFT tapping, it drops to a 4/10. That's a huge improvement—even if it's not yet zero. Duration: Does your anxiety fade more quickly? For instance, if social anxiety during lunch used to linger for the entire hour, but now fades within a few minutes, you've shortened its grip on you. Progress is built on these small but meaningful steps. When you focus on these wins—reducing triggers, lowering intensity, or shortening duration—you'll see how far you've come on your journey to effortless social ease.

In this episode… I share the first of 12 reasons why people often struggle to overcome social anxiety: Unrealistic Expectations. Discover why social anxiety isn't an overnight fix and how understanding this can help you break free and build lasting social confidence. KEY POINTS COVERED:

In this episode… I'll share powerful insights and techniques to help you shift from self-criticism to social ease. Drawing from personal experience with social anxiety and over a decade of coaching others, I'll explain how EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) works to release emotional tension and reframe limiting beliefs. In This Episode, You'll Discover: ✨ My journey from intense social anxiety to confidence✨ Why certain beliefs create fear in social settings✨ How EFT tapping works to reduce anxiety and improve self-acceptance✨ Practical steps for lasting relief from social anxiety ✨ Upcoming release of a new tapping video and live demonstration with a social anxiety sufferer on my YouTube channel. Stay tuned for more info!This episode provides a compassionate, effective approach to overcoming social anxiety. Start today to move toward feeling calm, confident, and at ease in social situations.

In this episode… I'll walk you through a gentle EFT tapping session to help reduce anticipatory anxiety. By following along, you'll learn how to calm your emotions and prepare for social interactions with greater confidence. In This Episode, You'll Discover: ✅ What EFT Tapping Is – A simple, powerful technique for emotional release✅ Guided Tapping Exercise – Tap along with me to ease pre-social event anxiety✅ Why Anxiety Appears – Understand the deeper roots of social anxiety and how tapping helps address them✅ Practical Tips – How using EFT ahead of social situations can help you feel naturally calm over time Link to studies as mentioned in the video: Scientific Research On EFT Tapping Links to recommended YouTube testimonials: She massively reduced her social anxiety in 7 months! "I suffered From Social Anxiety For 50 Years" | Amazing Video Testimonial

In this episode… I'll walk you through releasing self-judgment and easing the emotional tension that often shows up after social situations. Follow along as we tap on acupressure points to help you let go of self-criticism and make space for self-acceptance. What You'll Experience in This Episode: ✅ Guided EFT Tapping – Reduce self-criticism and feel emotionally lighter ✅ Process Emotions Gently – Shift from anxious thoughts to self-compassion ✅ Practice Anytime – Use this session after social situations that leave you feeling stuck This session is just a taste of how EFT tapping can transform the way you handle post-social anxiety. With time and practice, you can start feeling more at ease in social settings—and let go of those lingering judgments.

In this episode... I guide you through a step-by-step EFT tapping session to help you calm down in the moment and reduce the intensity of your social anxiety.

In this episode, I'm back with exciting, more powerful solutions to help you overcome social anxiety faster and with less stress! Here's what you can expect: ●     Weekly Videos: Starting every Thursday, with some episodes featuring animations to simplify key concepts for easier learning. ●     Expert Interviews: Conversations with therapists, coaches, healers, and EFT masters, all focused on delivering effective solutions for social anxiety. ●     Free Live EFT Tapping Session: Join me on Saturday, November 30th for a live YouTube session that will walk you through powerful tapping techniques. ●     Fast Social Anxiety Relief: A new product designed for quick results – stay tuned! ●     Social Confidence Club 6.0: Our most comprehensive program yet, guiding you from social anxiety to effortless social ease in 5 stages.

In this episode... I break down the four worst pieces of advice I've come across regarding social anxiety—and why they can actually make things worse. I'll explain why these approaches fall short and often lead to more anxiety in the long run. I also share my proven 5-step method to help you overcome social anxiety for good. What You'll Learn: 1. Why "Fake it till you make it" leads to inauthenticity and worsens anxiety. 2. The problem with the "stop caring what people think" mentality. 3. How “avoiding everything” shrinks your life and makes anxiety stronger. 4. Why "just face your fears" isn't the solution you think it is. 5. A 5-step method to truly overcome social anxiety. Ready to start your journey to social confidence? Get my free course, "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" here. Check out these real-life social anxiety success stories here

In this episode... Have you ever wondered if you can be completely free of social anxiety? In this episode, I reveal what life after social anxiety really looks like and share my personal journey toward becoming social anxiety-free. I also discuss: ⁠Real-life examples of recent situations where I experienced mild anxiety and how I managed it using EFT tapping. ⁠The five stages of overcoming social anxiety and how you can progress to a life of effortless social ease. How to expand your comfort zone and handle anxiety in new situations effectively.  I also dive into what it truly means to be “social anxiety-free,” breaking down the common perfectionistic thinking trap that many fall into. Listen to the full episode to gain a deeper understanding. For more inspiration, explore success stories of people who have overcome social anxiety here. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcastand receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

In this episode... In this inspiring interview, Seb talks with Mary Henderson, a former client who conquered lifelong social anxiety using a new approach. Hear how Mary went from crippling anxiety to confidently speaking on stage and enjoying social interactions. Key Points: •⁠  ⁠Mary's struggle with social anxiety and her turning point. •⁠  ⁠Why traditional self-help books didn't work for her. •⁠  ⁠Effective techniques like EFT tapping that changed her life. •⁠  ⁠How she started an Airbnb & event business and now loves hosting. •⁠  ⁠Insights on reframing social anxiety to empower growth. Quotes: •⁠  ⁠“Before I worked with Seb, I couldn't even go out to coffee with my best friend without feeling nervous for days.” •⁠  ⁠“I went from being completely terrified to even saying my name in a group setting to speaking in front of dozens of people confidently.” Watch the full interview to learn: •⁠  ⁠How to overcome social anxiety. •⁠  ⁠Practical steps for personal growth. •⁠  ⁠Real-life success stories and techniques. Resources: •⁠  ⁠[Free Mini Course] The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow •⁠  ⁠⁠VIP Coaching program: https://bit.ly/socialanxietycoach PS: Seb rarely offers one-on-one coaching outside the Social Confidence Club, but there are currently two 6-month intensive coaching spots available. Details here: https://bit.ly/socialanxietycoach ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcastand receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

In this episode... Do you feel 'ugly' and believe that you cannot be socially confident? Discover how to overcome social anxiety and build self-confidence, even if you think you have something 'unacceptable' about yourself. Seb shares his personal story about being teased for his physical appearance and an inspiring transformation story of a female client who felt insecure about her looks. Seb provides a realistic approach on how you can: - Change how you feel about yourself - Improve the way you perceive yourself He shares three psychological ideas to soothe suffering and seven EFT Tapping actions you can take to feel socially at ease, even if you're not the best looking. To learn more about using EFT Tapping to completely overcome your social anxiety, get our FREE Mini Course: The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence Go to: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

In this episode... Have you ever avoided talking to someone because you thought they disliked you, only to discover they were just shy? This common misperception can significantly intensify your social anxiety without you even realizing it. Discover how misperceptions fuel social anxiety and learn how EFT tapping can manage and reduce these anxieties in daily social interactions.

In this episode... Ever wonder why your social anxiety won't go away fast? You will discover why feelings like frustration, fear, and shame often make social anxiety linger. You will learn how embracing acceptance can be your first step to overcoming it. We'll introduce you to EFT tapping, a practical tool to help you move towards a healthier relationship with yourself. This quick but impactful video offers a glimpse into our proven method for overcoming social anxiety completely. Ready for more? Dive deeper with our free Mini-Course: The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence. Get it here: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb