Podcasts about social confidence

Do you panic at the thought of blushing in public? That rising heat in your chest… the burning in your ears… the shame of knowing people see it? I used to live in fear of that exact moment. In this episode... I share my personal story of dealing with chronic, uncontrollable blushing in social situations, where it started, how it became tied to my social anxiety, and what I tried (unsuccessfully) for years to stop it. Eventually, I discovered a way to release the shame, the fear, and the obsessive thoughts. It wasn't willpower. It wasn't exposure therapy. It was acceptance, combined with a powerful technique called EFT tapping. You'll learn: Why blushing becomes an obsession and what fuels it How past experiences create emotional triggers in the body Why most solutions don't work (and what finally did) How I released the deep self-judgment and stopped caring… and then, the blushing stopped too What I now use with my clients to help them overcome blushing and social anxiety for good This is a vulnerable, honest episode that can shift how you see yourself and give you hope that change is possible.

In this episode... Most people think they'll accept themselves after they overcome social anxiety. But what if that mindset is exactly what's keeping you stuck? In this episode, Sebastiaan and psychologist Steve Wells reveal why self-acceptance is the starting point for true social ease, and how tapping can help you get there gently and effectively. To start reducing your anxiety today and feel more at ease socially, get my free mini-course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence  bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast   Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 

Join me for episode #235 where the discussion is all about how the key to speaking in public is more about your thoughts about your ability to speak coherently and less about the words you say.  **   Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com   LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

In this episode...If you grew up hearing “don't be so sensitive” or “man up,” this might forever change how you see yourself. In this short minisode, Seb and ex-MMA fighter Tom Woodfin get real about what it's like to grow up hiding your sensitivity—especially in a world that sees it as pathetic or weak. They share how years of inner work helped them shift that shame, own their sensitivity, and transform it into deep confidence and connection.

In this episode... "Can you be shy… and still feel confident in social situations?" In this live EFT tapping session, Sebastiaan helps a volunteer release shame and anxiety around being labeled “shy.” Together, they explore how childhood messages shaped her identity—and how tapping can shift self-perception fast.

In this episode... If rejection terrifies you, you're not alone, and you're not broken.  In this episode, Social Confidence Coach, Sebastiaan van der Schrier, and EFT expert, Rick Wilkes, reveal what's really behind your fear of rejection… and why it lingers, even after therapy or exposure. You'll discover how to gently dissolve the emotional charge behind past rejections, and why tapping (EFT) helps you feel safe being yourself, without needing approval from everyone. Get the free “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” mini course here → bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb  

Have you ever been teased, humiliated, or bullied... and felt like you should be over it by now, but it still haunts you? In this episode, Seb shares how bullying in his own past triggered years of social anxiety, and why those early experiences can quietly shape how safe you feel in the world today. You'll hear a short but powerful conversation with EFT Master Tania Prince.  She explains how bullying memories get stuck in your nervous system, why they still affect you today, and what you can do to finally break free. • Why some painful moments still feel so fresh • What bullying does to your sense of identity and safety • How EFT tapping helps release those emotional charges • A surprising truth about the beliefs that make us more vulnerable to being bullied If you're ready to let go of the past and finally feel safe being yourself...

In this eye-opening episode, we'll look at how taking a pass on after-work social events could be costing you money, missed opportunities, new business, and promotions. What You'll Learn: The psychological principles that make face time so powerful for career advancement Why remote workers need to be even more intentional about creating social connection opportunities Practical strategies for non-drinkers and introverts to navigate workplace social events ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com   LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

In this episode... Tiffany shares her powerful journey of healing social anxiety after decades of sadness, isolation, and self-judgment. She talks openly about the trauma that shaped her, how she discovered what was really driving her anxiety, and how she gently found freedom through deep inner work. We worked together for 17 sessions using the best of psychology, EFT tapping, and energy psychology. And what unfolded was a quiet but profound transformation.

Ever walked into a networking event and immediately felt your confident professional persona dissolve into awkwardness? In this episode, we tackle the art of conversation at business socials and reveal how accomplished professionals can transform these dreaded events into genuinely enjoyable—and valuable—experiences. What You'll Learn: Why "What do you do?" is the conversation killer you need to eliminate from your repertoire The psychology behind why social settings feel more challenging than structured work environments A simple approach to breaking the ice that feels generous rather than awkward The perfect balance between asking questions and sharing about yourself Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur who dreads industry mixers or a corporate professional who gets tongue-tied at company events, this episode provides immediately applicable techniques to showcase your authentic self in any social business setting. Resources Mentioned: Free download: "The Ultimate List of Conversation Starters”   Get on The School of Social Mastery Priority Access List   **   Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com   LinkedIn Instagram TikTok  

In this episode... “If I feel confident… I'll be humiliated.” This is a fear many people with social anxiety carry, but almost no one talks about. In this live coaching session, you'll hear a Social Confidence Club member gently unpack that exact fear. What unfolds in under 15 minutes is a calm, respectful release of what's been blocking her from feeling confident. No pressure.No pushing through fear.Just a powerful example of what happens when your system feels safe enough to let go. This is part of what I call the ART approach: Allowing acceptance, Releasing resistance, and Terminating triggers And it's also the kind of work I do with VIP clients, people who are serious about overcoming their social anxiety once and for all.

In episode #228, we tackle the uncomfortable truth about why smart, accomplished professionals hold themselves back socially—and the far-reaching consequences of this hesitation. If you've been telling yourself that your social skills are "just how you are" or that it's "too late to change," this episode will challenge those beliefs and offer a clear path forward. This episode is for high-achieving professionals and business owners who know they could have greater impact if only they could overcome their social hesitation. Learn why waiting isn't an option and how taking action now creates positive ripple effects across all areas of your life. ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your social skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com   LinkedIn Instagram TikTok  

In this episode... Do you feel like you have to be perfect just to be accepted? Or to avoid criticism or rejection? This unconscious belief can quietly fuel social anxiety, burnout, and relentless self-pressure In this short minisode, EFT Founding Master and psychotherapist Carol Look shares a powerful insight to help uncover where this pressure really comes from and how to begin letting it go

Always trying to be cool... but just end up feeling anxious?

In this episode, we explore how those seemingly small social moments from childhood continue to shape your professional behavior decades later. If you've ever wondered why you hold back in meetings, avoid the spotlight despite your expertise, or feel anxious before networking events, this episode reveals the surprising connection to childhood social experiences. Whether you're a business owner, entrepreneur, or corporate professional feeling held back by inexplicable social anxiety, this episode provides compassionate insights and actionable solutions to help you finally step confidently into the spotlight your expertise deserves. **   Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com   LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

In this episode... You'll tap along with a live coaching moment from inside the Social Confidence Club, where Seb helps a volunteer work through social perfectionism: the intense pressure to speak fluently, sound smart, and never mess up in social situations. As the session unfolds, our volunteer opened up about a painful childhood moment that shaped this pattern. Together, they tap through the fear of being seen as “a dumbass” and begin to let go of the emotional weight. By the end of the session, his tension dropped significantly, and his insight is one many can relate to:

Shame is at the core of social anxiety. Yet, most people don't realize it. Emma Roberts does. She's lived it. Once held back by deep embarrassment and fear of being seen, Emma now trains therapists around the world. In this episode, she shares: How shame manifests and why it often goes unrecognized Her raw, personal story (including hiding in a bathroom before a training!) Why EFT Tapping is uniquely powerful for releasing shame and anxiety A simple Heart Anchor technique you can use immediately What makes healing possible, even after decades of suffering Emma is a world-renowned EFT Master, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and NLP Master Practitioner. She co-founded Integrated Energy Techniques, which blends energy psychology, coaching, and cognitive psychotherapy. “Don't waste time thinking you're stuck. You can take control of your life and change it faster than you might think.” — Emma Roberts

Whether you are stepping into new environments or navigating famliar ones, stay your authentic self with ease and confidence with "Socially Confident." The sister episode to this one is Episode 496 Socializing With Friends https://AffirmationPod.com/SocializingWithFriends This episode is brought to you by AquaTru. AquaTru is a water purifier that transforms your tap water!  AquaTru removes 15x more contaminants than ordinary pitcher filters and AquaTru filters last from 6 months to 2 years! I use mine daily for drinking and cooking! AquaTru also comes with a 30-day Money-Back Guarantee. Use promo code AFFIRMATION to get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier at AquaTru.com This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Great days start with better nights! Thanks to Cozy Earth's advanced temperature-regulating technology, their bedding promotes uninterrupted and freshing sleep. Your special offer is 40% OFF Cozy Earth bedding and more when you use code AFFIRMATION at CozyEarth.com Ready to change the way you think and start seeing real results? Want to start thinking more positively and feel more confident? Secure your one-on-one coaching spot at AffirmationPod.com/Coaching WANT MORE EPISODES LIKE THIS ONE? Episode 376 Making New Friends https://AffirmationPod.com/MakingNewFriends Episode 272 Affirmations After Being Ghosted https://affirmationpod.com/Ghosted Episode 192 Self Image and Social Media Comparisons https://AffirmationPod.com/SelfImage Episode 152 Social Confidence https://AffirmationPod.com/SocialConfidence Episode 49 Dating Affirmations https://AffirmationPod.com/Dating LISTENER LOVE

In episode #223, we look into the avoidant behaviors that hold socially reluctant professionals back from reaching their full potential. What you'll learn: Why "can't" thinking is actually a lie your brain tells you to avoid discomfort The 10 most common social avoidance behaviors among professionals with social anxiety A proven framework to transform your mindset from "I can't" to "I literally can" Practical strategies to overcome resistance and build the discipline muscle How to break the reward cycle that reinforces avoidant behavior Key avoidance behaviors covered: Declining speaking opportunities Skipping networking events Putting off client calls Dreading spontaneous interactions and more! Discover how The School of Social Mastery can help you transform your relationship with social situations and become the confident professional you're meant to be. ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your people skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Have a question that needs an answer. Email Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

In this episode... We share a replay of a live EFT tapping coaching session with James, where we focus on easing the fear of judgment—one of the most common struggles for those dealing with social anxiety. You'll hear how anticipatory anxiety showed up for James before the session, how self-judgment and the belief of "I'm not good enough" made social situations feel unsafe, and how physical tension and emotional discomfort were part of his experience. Together, we explore these feelings, clear resistance to change, and use tapping to reduce the intensity of these emotions. By the end of the session, James felt calmer, lighter, and gained new insights into what was really fueling his anxiety. If you relate to the fear of being judged, or the constant worry about how you come across in social situations, this session can offer helpful perspectives and possibly relief by simply following along.

The Social of Social Mastery is opening for enrollment March 12th. In episode 221, we shares personal experiences with group coaching and explain why The School of Social Mastery is transformative for socially reluctant professionals. What You'll Learn: Why group coaching is especially powerful for introverts and socially anxious professionals How community support accelerates personal growth compared to going it alone The unique benefits of learning in a curated, goal-focused environment Why you don't need to participate actively to receive tremendous value How seeing others with similar struggles eliminates the "I'm a unicorn" syndrome Practical ways to overcome hesitation about joining a group program Key Takeaways: There's no badge of honor in figuring things out alone—just wasted time Social skills are learnable skills, not inherent traits you should already possess You get to decide what your experience in a group will be Even the most socially anxious people can transform in the right environment Complete certainty is impossible, but growth requires taking that step anyway  Want to dive deeper? Enroll in The School of Social Mastery  ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your people skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

In this game-changing episode, I'm sharing the exact 5-step daily practice that's helping my high-achieving clients transform their social confidence and build meaningful connections that accelerate their success. This simple but powerful exercise has helped countless professionals overcome "toxic humility" and develop the social intelligence needed to advance their careers. What You'll Learn Why even the most competent professionals hit an invisible "social ceiling" in their careers How to break free from the negative thought loops sabotaging your social confidence The critical difference between confidence and arrogance (and why confusing them is holding you back) A proven 5-question framework for building your "social confidence muscles" daily The visualization technique that makes new confidence beliefs stick permanently Why your relationship with yourself is the foundation of all your professional relationships Resources Mentioned The School of Social Mastery - Opening in March! Get on the waitlist for early access and exclusive bonuses at socialconfidencepro.com/mastery Key Takeaway "Your social skills are just as crucial to your success as your technical skills or work ethic. Maybe even more so as you advance in your career."   Connect With Me: Linkedin/TikTok/Instagram: @SocialConfidenceCoach Website: SocialConfidencePro.com   Want to dive deeper? Enroll in The School of Social Mastery  ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your people skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Join now: https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub In this episode... If you've been struggling with social anxiety, feeling trapped in overthinking, fear of judgment, or avoiding social situations—this video is for you. Hear directly from members who have transformed their lives inside the Social Confidence Club. From avoiding social settings to confidently engaging in conversations, giving presentations, and even hosting events—these are real success stories of people just like you.

In this episode... Have you ever heard the saying from Henry Ford: "Whether you think you can, or can't, you're right." It's a powerful reminder that what we believe shapes our actions and our outcomes. When you don't believe you can succeed, it's easy to give up, or not try at all. This leads to results that prove your initial belief: "I can't change." But here's the good news: You can change! We'll tap together to reduce the doubt holding you back. Let's bring in hope and belief in your ability to overcome social anxiety—no matter how long it's been an issue. Ready to feel more hopeful and empowered? Tap along now!

Ready to overcome social anxiety and unlock effortless social ease?

In this episode... Tired of social anxiety holding you back? In just 6 minutes, discover the 5 stages that will take you from social anxiety to social ease—all from the comfort of your own home. Learn how the Social Confidence Club supports you at every stage with structured support, guided tapping, and expert coaching. Whether you're starting from scratch or refining your confidence, our step-by-step approach offers a proven path for anyone ready for lasting change. Learn from others who have successfully overcome social anxiety. Join a community that understands your journey and supports you every step of the way.

In this episode, we dive deep into why traditional "practice makes perfect" advice falls short when it comes to social skills, and explore how identity shifts create lasting change in your social confidence. Learn five powerful strategies to transform how you show up in social situations.   Episode Highlights Why technical practice alone won't make you more socially confident The "robot effect" in social interactions and how to avoid it Introduction to the VALUE framework for meaningful conversations Step-by-step guide to the 30-day video challenge How to rewrite your internal narrative for lasting change Key Takeaways Identity shifts are more powerful than technique practice Physical embodiment creates mental confidence Focus on giving value rather than performing in conversations Your environment shapes your social identity Join: Social Skills Mastery Inner Circle Facebook Group   Connect With Me: Linkedin/TikTok/Instagram: @SocialConfidenceCoach Website: SocialConfidencePro.com   Want to dive deeper? Get on the priority list for The School of Social Mastery   ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your people skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Susan Callender reveals the critical mindset shifts that lead to greater charisma and confidence. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) Six steps for overcoming shyness 2) How to quickly curb nervousness and anxiety 3) The small shifts that improve your professional presence Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1033 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT SUSAN — Susan Callender is a success coach and founder of Social Confidence Pro, where she runs The School of Social Mastery. She helps sharp, high-achieving yet socially reluctant professionals polish their people skills and step into the spotlight. Through her school and coaching, she helps chronic overthinkers create a bigger impact and add more value to the careers they love. Susan shares her expertise as host of the Social Skills Mastery podcast, transforming clients from Boston to Bangkok and beyond.• Website: SocialConfidencePro.com/breakthrough — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy— THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Earth Breeze. Get 40% off your subscription at earthbreeze.com/AWESOME• BambooHR. See all that BambooHR can do at bamboohr.com/freedemoSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode... If EFT (tapping) hasn't worked for your social anxiety yet, it's not because it doesn't work—it's likely because you've been making one of three common mistakes: ❌ Tapping alone ❌ Not tapping enough ❌ Tapping on the wrong targets Inside the Social Confidence Club, we address all of that with 7 different kinds of powerful live webinars. Here's what you'll experience inside the Club:

In this episode... Imagine feeling calm, confident, and completely at ease in social situations—without the overwhelming worry, dread, and self-doubt. The Social Confidence Club offers a proven, step-by-step path to social ease. With structured lessons, guidance from an expert who has been there, and a supportive community, you'll be guided through building lasting confidence. We combine psychology, EFT tapping, and gentle energy techniques to help you transform your social experiences. Here's what you'll experience inside the Club:

Boost your Communication Skills and get the life and job you want

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In this episode... Struggling with social anxiety and looking for an effective way to build confidence and feel at ease? In this powerful interview, Sebastiaan Van Der Schrier sits down with Tapas Fleming, the creator of the Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), to explore how combining TAT with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT Tapping) can support your journey toward social confidence.

Are you tired of holding back in meetings, second-guessing your decisions, or letting the fear of judgment keep you from sharing your brilliant ideas? In this value-packed episode, we're diving deep into how to break free from approval-seeking behavior and show up powerfully in your professional life. What You'll Learn: Why our brains are wired to seek approval (and how to work with this instinct instead of against it) The "Validation Vacation" technique for building unshakeable professional confidence How to use the "Perspective Pivot" to transform anxiety into impact The power of "Strategic Vulnerability" in building authentic leadership presence A systematic approach to handling feedback without losing your confidence The game-changing "Future Self Focus" method for making bold decisions   Resources Mentioned: "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson   Did you enjoy this episode? Your review helps other professionals find these game-changing strategies! Screenshot your listening experience and tag me on Instagram - I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway! Want to dive deeper? Enroll in The School of Social Mastery  ** Don't even know where to begin in improving your people skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Your professional persona is shaping your success right now—whether you realize it or not. People are constantly judging, observing, and deciding if they like, trust, and respect you. So, how can you make sure you're leaving the right impression? In this episode, we're diving into five key areas that will elevate your presence, boost your credibility, and make you magnetic in any professional setting. How to craft a powerful first impression that opens doors and opportunities Why your words matter—and how to speak with clarity, confidence, and impact The silent power of body language (and how to make sure yours is working for you, not against you) The secret to effortlessly navigating conversations and social situations How to make people feel at ease so they're drawn to you like a magnet This isn't just about looking polished—it's about becoming someone people respect, listen to, and remember. If you're ready to level up your professional presence, hit play now! Resources & Next Steps:

In this episode... What if your anxiety wasn't the enemy but an ally? I sit down with EFT specialist Gene Monterastelli from the Tapping Q&A podcast to explore the power of acceptance in overcoming social anxiety. We dive into why anxiety exists, how our system is actually trying to protect us, and how embracing acceptance can ease social discomfort. Plus, Gene guides you through a simple yet powerful tapping exercise to help shift your mindset and bring more ease into your life.

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In this episode... I'm sharing my personal journey of overcoming social anxiety and how EFT tapping played a major role in my transformation. I'll explain why the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge is such a powerful tool for breaking through the barriers that hold you back from social ease, even if nothing has worked for you before. You'll hear about my first life-changing shift with tapping and why it's the key to unlocking lasting results. Plus, I'll share a powerful client breakthrough story that shows how subconscious resistance can keep you stuck—and how you can overcome it. If you're ready to experience your first shift and begin your journey to social confidence, sign up for the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge today! For a limited time, you can join for just $7—an offer available only for the next 72 hours. Don't miss out—take the first step toward a more confident, social you! Hurry, this offer ends soon! Get the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge (Was $99, now just $7 – offer ends on Jan 26, 23:59 EST!)

In this episode... Does social anxiety hold you back? Seb shares a guided EFT tapping session to help you reduce social anxiety and boost self-acceptance. Whether you've been struggling for years or are just starting to address it, this powerful tap-along exercise is for you. You'll Learn: ✅Why social anxiety is something you experience—not who you are. ✅How to release shame and self-judgment through EFT tapping. ✅A simple routine to gently expand your comfort zone and feel more confident.

2025 is here, and we're sharing all the tips you need to become your most confident self, inside and out. we dive into what true confidence really means, covering physical, mental, and emotional confidence, and so much more. today's episode is all about transforming the way you think about confidence!

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In this episode... Seb shares an inspiring story from Martin, a member of the Social Confidence Club, who experienced both a setback and a breakthrough in his journey to social confidence. After feeling ignored at a meeting, Martin used EFT tapping to address his emotional trigger—and the very next day, he won the best improv speech award at Toastmasters, feeling calm and confident. He discusses how setbacks in the journey to social confidence aren't failures, but opportunities to heal unresolved emotional triggers. With EFT tapping, these moments can lead to profound breakthroughs and unexpected social confidence wins. Tune in to hear Martin's story, and learn how tapping can help you overcome social anxiety, stay on track, and make progress—even when challenges arise.

In this episode... A comprehensive study involving 5,000 patients across 11 clinics over 5.5 years compared the effectiveness of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in treating anxiety. The findings revealed that 90% of patients receiving EFT showed improvement, compared to 63% in the CBT group. Notably, only three EFT sessions were needed to reduce anxiety, whereas an average of 15 sessions were required for CBT. Complete relief of symptoms was observed in 76% of the EFT group, compared to 51% in the CBT group. One year later, improvements were maintained by 78% of the EFT group, compared to 69% of the CBT group. The study: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/2515690X18823691 ______

In this episode... I'm sharing some inspiring success stories from members of the Social Confidence Club who have made incredible progress on their journey from social anxiety to effortless social confidence. Here are a couple of highlights: Graham's Big Win: He went to a concert of his favorite artist fully sober—something he never thought he could do. And not only that, but he danced the night away! Alexander's Breakthrough: After struggling for years with a lump in his throat that made it hard to speak, Alexander now has his voice back and can speak freely without the fear of being triggered. These are just a few examples of how the Social Confidence Club has been transforming lives, and we're only getting started. With six weeks left until the next opening of the club, stay tuned for more incredible stories and tips to help you unlock your own social confidence!

In this episode... I'm sharing powerful stories from participants of the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, starting in just a few hours! Listen to inspiring feedback from people who've experienced real change—feeling more relaxed, less anxious, and socially confident. These incredible milestones prove that real change is possible. Whether you're just starting your journey or want to see what's achievable, this episode shows how the 30-Day Challenge helps people break free from social anxiety and step into their true social confidence.

In this episode... Seb answers the most common questions about the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge. Wondering how it works or if it's right for you? This video covers it all. Here's a sneak peek of what's inside: 1. What Is the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge? Seb explains what the challenge is and how it's designed to help you overcome social anxiety. 2. Does EFT Really Work? Discover the science behind Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and why it's proven to reduce anxiety. 3. Do I Have to Do Awkward Social Exposures? Find out if this challenge requires any uncomfortable exposures to people or situations. 4. What If Tapping Hasn't Worked for Me Before? Learn why EFT might not have worked for you in the past and how this challenge offers a new approach. 5. Can I Commit to Just 15 Minutes a Day? Get an idea of how the challenge fits into your busy schedule with just 15 minutes of daily commitment. 6. Is This Just Another Quick Fix? Seb explains how this challenge is a structured journey for lasting social confidence—not a quick fix. 7. Why Should I Trust This? Seb shares his personal experience with overcoming social anxiety and how this challenge is built on what worked for him. 8. Can I Stay Anonymous? Concerned about privacy? Find out how you can participate anonymously in the challenge. 9. Is This Only for Social Anxiety? Seb clarifies whether this challenge is for social anxiety alone or if it's applicable to other issues as well. 10. Will I Overcome My Social Anxiety in 30 Days? While complete freedom from anxiety isn't guaranteed, Seb discusses the progress you can expect. The 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge starts on January 1st and is completely FREE. Don't miss out—sign up today and take the first step toward transforming your social confidence. Join the challenge now: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge ______

In this episode... Are you tired of being stuck in a cycle of worry? In this video, I'll show you a quick and powerful technique to release your worries and feel better fast. Worrying often happens when our minds try to control uncertainty. But what if there was a way to break free from the endless cycle of "what ifs"? I'll guide you through a simple method to help you let go of those fears and find calm, with the added power of EFT tapping. Whether it's social anxiety, stress, or daily worries, this technique will help you regain control and feel more at ease. Remember, this is just the beginning. For more techniques and support, join my FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, where you'll get 30 more strategies to help you feel confident and in control. It's 100% anonymous and done from the comfort of your own home.

In this episode... We dive into what you can expect from the free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge and the progress you'll make. Hear real stories of participants who have found hope, relief, and excitement for change. You too can experience this progress—sign up for the challenge at bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge and start your journey toward social confidence now! "I looked forward to each email and video every day of the challenge, and it was a breeze." - Benny "Knowing there's something that can help me, rather than just withstand the feelings of social anxiety, is really empowering." - Maddy We can't wait to see you inside!

In this episode... Seb walks you through a life-changing free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge program. It is specifically designed to help you build lasting social confidence—without doing any terrifying exposures. Here's a sneak peek of what's inside: 1. Program Overview: Seb takes you through the structure of the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, showing you exactly how it's tailored to help you succeed. 2. Seb's Personal Story: Discover the driving force behind the creation of this challenge, as Seb opens up about his own struggle with social anxiety and how it shaped his coaching journey. 3. What a Day Looks Like: Get an inside look at what you'll be doing each day, the time commitment, and how simple yet powerful steps can lead to big changes. 4. The Power of EFT Tapping: Seb explains the psychology behind this transformative tool and how it can reduce anxiety—no scary exposure required. 5. What to Expect: Learn about the progress you can make in just 30 days, from improved confidence to new perspectives on social interactions. 6. Stay Motivated: Find out how to stay motivated through the challenge and keep your momentum going as you overcome social anxiety for good. Don't let this opportunity pass by! This is your only chance in 2025 to join the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge—running only on January 1st. Secure your spot now and start transforming your social confidence today!

In this throwback episode, we have Myke Macapinlac joining us. Myke is the founder of Social Confidence Mastery, an incredible resource for those in the STEM industries or men who consider themselves introverted. If that's you, he's going to talk directly to YOU about how to step outside of your brain and become a master at confidence, flirting, escalation and so much more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/AskWomen/support