Podcasts about beloved spiritual living

SHOW NOTES In our heads, we know that being is more important than doing. But the reality of our day-to-day life is that we easily drift into a performance-based relationship with God and others. Jesus modeled a different way to live. In today's episode, we learn how Jesus lived a life that began with acceptance by his Heavenly Father and ended by achieving more than any human being ever has. He has shown us the way---living as the beloved of God.   RESOURCE The Sacred Cycle Summary – Free Download   RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST Moment to Breathe:  Belovedness Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri J.M. Nouwen Clinical Theology, a Theological And Psychiatric Basis to Clinical Pastoral Care by Frank Lake The Cycle of Grace: Living In Sacred Balance by Trevor Hudson and Jerry P Haas   Support the Podcast: Donate Here for an individual contribution or on Patreon to set up monthly support. Sign up to receive email notifications as future episodes are available: Sign Up Here

On Austin Pride weekend, Christopher Mack looks through the Gospel of Luke's portrayal of a woman bent down to ponder what it looks like to stand up in solidarity for the marginalized. [Luke 13:10-17]   Reflection How might you allow your formation in the Divine Womb to shape your identity? Where might our habitual patterns and comfort zones be pressing down on the marginalized? How might we confront the powers of resentment and rejection with steadfast joy?   Resources Pride 2022 Research & Resources Books “Beatitudes for a Queerer Church” from The Backwater Sermons: Poems by Jay Hulme In the Margins: A Transgender Man's Journey with Scripture by Shannon T.L. Kearns Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World  by Henri J.M. Nouwen Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin “Who Said It Was Simple” from The Collected Poems of Audre Lorde Prayer A Prayer: We Are Holy. We Are Sacred. We Are Divine. By Rev. Theresa Soto  Documentary My Name Is Pauli Murray

Notes:These notes includes affiliate links.The Verbivore loosely quotes several sections of the books we discuss. Here are the actual quotes:“Come, dear, [Gwendolen rises] we have already missed five, if not six, trains. To miss any more might expose us to comment on the platform.” ― Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest“I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train.” ― Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest“By day it is filled with boat traffic - water buses, delivery boats, gondolas - if something floats and it's in Venice, it moves along the Grand Canal. And by daylight it is one of the glories of the Earth. But at night, especially when the moon is full and the soft illumination reflects off the water and onto the palaces - I don't know how to describe it so I won't, but if you died and in your will you asked for your ashes to be spread gently on the Grand Canal at midnight with a full moon, everyone would know this about you - you loved and understood beauty.” ― William Goldman, The Silent GondoliersThe Verbivore mentions the Fforde Fiesta where fans of Welsh author Jasper Fforde's work get together and play games. It's strange, but looks pretty fun. The next one is on the 28th and 29th of May, 2022 in Swindon, UK. Here is a link to information in case you're interested:https://www.ffordeffiesta.co.uk/ Books & Movies Mentioned:The Importance of Being Earnest by Oscar WildeThe Importance of Being Earnest (2002) - Directed by Oliver ParkerReady Player One by Ernest ClineMonty Python and the Holy Grail - Directed by Terry Jones, Terry GilliamThe Princess Bride: S. Morgenstern's Classic Tale of True Love and High Adventure by William GoldmanThe Silent Gondoliers by William GoldmanThe Alchemist: A Fable About Following Your Dream by Paulo CoelhoPride and Prejudice by Jane AustenPride and Prejudice (2005) - Directed by Joe WrightPride and Prejudice (1995) - Directed by Simon LangtonPersuasion by Jane AustenEmma by Jane AustenNorthanger Abbey by Jane AustenSense and Sensibility by Jane AustenAnne of Green Gables by L. M. MontgomeryAnne of Green Gables (1985) - Directed by Kevin SullivanAnne of Avonlea (1987) - Directed by Kevin SullivanAnne of Avonlea by L. M. MontgomeryThe Eyre Affair: A Thursday Next Novel by Jasper FfordeShades of Grey by Jasper FfordeThe Last Dragonslayer: The Chronicles of Kazam, Book 1 by Jasper FfordeCatching Fire by Suzanne CollinsThe Magnolia Sword: A Ballad of Mulan by Sherry ThomasCaraval by Stephanie Garber The Wrath and the Dawn by Renee AhdiehThe Rose and the Dagger by Renee AhdiehThe Beautiful by Renee AhdiehFlame in the Mist by Renee AhdiehSmoke in the Sun by Renee AhdiehTil We Have Faces: A Myth Retold by C.S. LewisThe Space Trilogy (Out of the Silent Planet, Perelandra, That Hideous Strength) by C.S. LewisThe Princess and the Goblin by George MacDonaldGift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri J. M. NouwenMusic from: https://filmmusic.io 'Friendly day' by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com) Licence: CC BY (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/)

Listen in on the first episode of Second Baptist's newest podcast, "Just Wondering With Andrea and Connie." This week, we're talking about the woman at the well. It seems like a simple story on the surface, but there are a lot of deep things we can talk about. Come and wonder with us. Show NotesLife of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri Nouwen 

In this podcast, Kim Pino and her daughter, Caroline, discuss life's issues from a multi-generational, biblical worldview. In this episode, Kim and Caroline discuss how and why we make idols out of relationships. They also offer steps to take in prioritizing relationships. If you are looking for a place to be refreshed in a world that seems to be running dry of truth, come be a part of the Conversations at the WELL. All other links mentioned can be found here: https://linktr.ee/wellwomensministry Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri M.J. Nouwen Scriptures mentioned: Isaiah 2:22 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah+2%3A22&version=ESV Psalm 51: 10-12 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm+51%3A+10-12&version=ESV Isaiah 6: 1-9 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah+6%3A+1-9&version=ESV Genesis 2: 15-25 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+2%3A+15-25&version=ESV Psalm 139: 13-14 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm+139%3A+13-14&version=ESV John 11: 38-44 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+11%3A+38-44&version=ESV Link to the opening song: (Take Over, Shane&Shane) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kN51OUqIxI0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/conversations-podcast/message

Brian Morykon rejoins the show in this two partner to help us understand the impact of Henri Nouwen on his leadership perspective, and with a little something from the Desert Fathers as it relates to “society”. Much-needed ancient wisdom. For a deeper look at Nouwen and the Desert Fathers (and Mothers), check out Nouwen’s book The Way of the Heart. You can find out more about Brian, his music, his perspective, and sign up for his newsletter at Morykon.com Other Books Referenced: In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World The Return of the Prodigal Son

A version of this sermon was preached Sunday, November 22, 2020. It reflects on the passages from Ezekiel 34:11-16, 20-24, Ephesians 1:15-23, & Matthew 25:31-46 and incorporates reflections on Henri Nouwen’s book “Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World.”

 Welcome to Episode 9 of the FOUR12 Canada PodcastNOTE: This episode was recorded earlier this year.Listen to the podcast and access the show notes here or search for the FOUR12 Canada Podcast on iTunes, Spotify, Google or wherever you get your podcasts and listen for free.We are so excited to share this conversation with Joanna la Fleur! She is a creative communicator from Toronto, Canada. Kim had the privilege of meeting her at Faith Baptist Church at a training event for our hosting teams in February. Joanna has a podcast and she is on the Christian talk show "See Hear Love". She served at Sanctus Church, then stepped into her current role to help others. For 15 years, Joanna has helped churches become the best possible communicators sharing the most important message in the world.  Connect with Joanna WEBSITE | PODCAST | INSTAGRAM Links from the PodcastFluid ConferenceCanadian Church Leaders ConferenceOur Common Calling Recommended ReadingLife of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri J. M. NouwenCreativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration by Ed CatmullLeading on Empty: Refilling Your Tank and Renewing Your Passion by Wayne CordeiroBetter Together: How Women and Men Can Heal the Divide and Work Together to Transform the Future by Danielle StricklandGod Has a Name by John Mark Comer PODCAST HIGHLIGHTSThings Have Changed in Church CommunicationWe used to call people weekly on the phoneNow we can learn on the goCommunicate in the digital world because that's where people are nowFinding Yourself in VolunteeringVolunteering is a place to find yourself and understand what you are good at and not good at, learning your strengths and weaknessesBalance volunteering and everything else in lifeBe committedEffective Ways to Encourage VolunteersUse food as a way to bring people together and remind them why we are hereLook people in the eye and thank them like you mean it!Show sincere gratitudeSend thank-you cards"Most people are serving because they want to, not for a gift card."Developing a Social Media TeamThis is a primary way to communicate with people nowPick one platform and do it well before trying to do them allMake a realistic plan (e.g., start with Facebook and or Instagram, depending on the demographics of your church)To develop a team, ask, "Who already does this well? Who's active on the social media platforms we want to use? Are they trustworthy? Can they write interesting things...and put a proper sentence together?"Talk to people in person and let them know they do a great job, so this team might be a good fit for themThis is a great way for the church to use people's different skills and interestsConsider getting your name on all the platforms so that if you want to use it in the future you have the handle"As a church, we want to talk to people where they are"Practical Ways to Get StartedPlan out posts in advance (e.g., use a spreadsheet)Write out what you want to say on each post and check to make sure it matches the voice of the churchBuild a Google photo drive to share pics that could be postedGet a leader to provide some direction on the church's valuesKeep a consistent voice regardless of who is postingPractical Ways to Encourage Those Around YouIf you see something that was great, say something! Get in touch and encourage them right awayThanks for listening! We hope this episode has equipped you for greater influence through serving. We don’t want you to miss a single episode so if you haven’t done so already, subscribe to the podcast wherever you listen to podcasts. Help us reach more people by writing a review for the podcast! The FOUR12 Canada podcast is a ministry of Faith Baptist Church in Huntsville Ontario. Explore everything FOUR12 Canada at four12.ca. Thanks for spending some time with us. See you next time! Up Next Season 1 Episode 10: Dom Ruso on Leadership and Culture and How that Impacts the Church, Not Moving Forward Yet but Instead Cultivate Interior Character and Trust God in the Season of Waiting

Vulnerable. Gentle. Pastoral. These words describe Henri J.M. Nouwen, (1932-1996), the spiritual writer and priest who experienced both academic status at Harvard and Yale and service at L’Arche, a community of people with intellectual disabilities and their caregivers. Nouwen speaks honestly of anguish and freedom, struggle and belovedness, with insights that touch us even today. Meet host Karen Wright Marsh, and learn more about the show here: www.karenwrightmarsh.comGuest Donyelle McCray, Assistant Professor of Homiletics at Yale Divinity School, writes about the ways African American women and lay people use the sermon to play, remember, invent, and disrupt. Her book, The Censored Pulpit: Julian of Norwich as Preacher, offers a homiletical reading of Julian’s life and ministry. Her current research examines the preaching and spirituality of the Rev. Dr. Pauli Murray. She is also working on a documentary film on Race, Church, and Theological Practices. Learn more at https://divinity.yale.edu/faculty-and-research/yds-faculty/donyelle-mccrayFor more reading, Karen recommends Henri Nouwen (Modern Spiritual Masters): Writings Selected with an Introduction by Robert A. JonasThere are numerous books by Henri J.M. Nouwen. Among them are:The Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular WorldThe Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of HomecomingIn the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian LeadershipBecome a podcast partner! Make your gift at: www.theologicalhorizons.org/giving. Thank you!Support the show (http://www.theologicalhorizons.org/giving)

Markus Watson is a pastor and host of Spiritual Life and Leadership podcast. Today, Markus shares the story of how he found a new life with Christ after nearly losing his career. Markus tells us the story of how he gave up his Hollywood dreams, became a pastor, and suffered through false accusations of child porn. The accusations ultimately cost Markus his job but the experience led him to a richer, less performance-based faith. This story reminds us that suffering is often the tool with which the Lord shapes us. Listen to Markus' story now! Stories Markus shared: Growing up in Los Angeles as a pastor's kid Being a little judgey as a young Christian The stages of making a decision to live for Jesus Joining Campus Crusade for Christ and learning leadership skills Working in Hollywood and finding his priorities Discovering his passion when he started seminary How the ordination process helped him to let go of his Hollywood dream Moving to Kentucky to become a pastor Going home to California The call from the executive presbyter that changed his life Being accused of porn addiction and the resulting investigation The dark night of the soul he experienced during the investigation How this experience messed with his self-worth Meditating on God's love for him on a surfboard Losing his job to false accusations How suffering has changed him and his ministry Great quotes from Markus: To embrace preaching meant that I was letting go of something that I'd been holding on to. I've always believed God loves me unconditionally but in that moment, I finally understood. When I think of discipleship, I think of it in terms of becoming more fully ourselves. Resources we mentioned: Markus' website Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri Nouwen The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg & Robert Guelich The Emotionally Healthy Leader: How Transforming Your Inner Life Will Deeply Transform Your Church, Team, and the World by Peter Scazzero Surrender to Love: Discovering the Heart of Christian Spirituality (The Spiritual Journey) by David Benner Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri Nouwen Abba's Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging by Brennan Manning Related episodes: Mary DeMuth and the Safest Place for Sexual Abuse Survivors Jim Barnard Finds Hope in Suffering through Community Misty Phillip and the Counterintuitive Ways of God Notice: JavaScript is required for this content. The post Markus Watson and How Suffering Transforms appeared first on Eric Nevins.

SHOW NOTES What does hiking the Pacific Trail have to do with being the beloved of God? Only our co-host Joe Chambers could answer that question in such a unique and personal way. Listen in as Joe weaves his own personal stories from the trail with the four words that Henri Nouwen talks about in his timeless classic “The Life of the Beloved.” THE FOUR WORDS 1. Chosen “To be chosen as the Beloved of God is something radically different. Instead of excluding others, it includes others. Instead of rejecting others as less valuable, it accepts others in their own uniqueness. It is not a competitive, but a compassionate choice.” ― Henri J.M. Nouwen, Life of the Beloved 2. Blessed: Psalm 103: 1-5 What are you thankful for? Some of what Joe mentioned in the podcast: First sip of the first cup of coffee of the day Laugh of grandchildren Taste of corn chowder First night of sleeping on clean sheets Children prayers Poetry of Mary Oliver 3. Broken: 2 Cor 12:6-10 4. Given: “Our greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.” ― Henri J.M. Nouwen, Life of the Beloved “For me, God is the one who calls me the Beloved, and I have a desire to express to others how I try to become more fully who I already am.” ― Henri J.M. Nouwen, Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World Join us for the conversation and be reminded that you are the beloved of God and how it can bring wholeness to a fragmented soul in a broken life.   RESOURCES MENTIONED IN PODCAST Scripture where the four words can be found: John 6 John 21 Luke 22 Luke 24 I Cor. 11 “Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World” by Henri J.M. Nouwen  Moment to Breathe - excerpt from “Life of the Beloved” by Henri Nouwen Text Audio

Dr. Mark Laaser and Randy Evert continue their series, Featured Authors. In this episode, Mark unpack the life and work on Henri Nouwen, including his books, "The Inner Voice of Love: A Journey Through Anguish to Freedom," and "Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World." (Originally aired on 6/29/2018)

Over the years mentoring women, I’ve started to see reoccurring themes in our conversations. As well, Bailey Greenlees (my magnificent ministry assistant), has also seen these same themes while mentoring college women. Today on the podcast, Bailey and I share our three must-have conversations while mentoring women. We touch on ideas that we talk about with our dear daughters frequently, and we share some great books and tools to take with you as you love others well! I’ve linked below all the books and tools that Bailey and I chatted about on today’s episode. Bailey is a cutie and I just adore her, I know you will too! SHOW NOTES God Calling My Utmost for His Highest Dear Daughters: Love Letters to the Next Generation The Gift of Wonder: Creative Practices for Delighting in God The Book of Comforts: Genuine Encouragement for Hard Times Catching Contentment: How to Be Holy Satisfied Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World Gift of the Sea As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram: A Handbook for Harmony and Transformation The Grace Guide DD Episode: How to Deal with Disappointment | Liz Carter DD Episode: Spiritual Growth & Transitions | Janet Davis DD Episode: How Memories Impact Your Spiritual Life | Casey Tygrett Dear Daughters Coffee & Conversation with Kennesha Poe-Buycks La Grange, Texas Book Signing at The Busy B Come see me in Springdale, Arkansas at Euna Mae’s. Dear Daughters is a template for those multi-generational conversations and relationships you’re craving. Dear Daughters is meant to be a bridge between two groups of women–dear daughters and spiritual mamas. Dear daughters are young women in search of spiritual guidance and spiritual mamas are women just a little further down the road with age-old wisdom to share. Each group has valuable insight for the other and the hope is that the reader will invite someone to come alongside them, pore over the included letters together, and pass along wisdom and advice that will make both lives more beautiful, wherever they are in their God story. This book, ideal for a gift, is a casebound hardcover with ribbon. Finally … grateful, grateful for Davis sharing her music for the DD Podcast. :)

Who am I? What am I about? If you have ever asked yourself those kinds of questions, then you likely have also had to look back at your story. Author and spiritual director, Casey Tygrett, says that remembering your past is often one of the most courageous things you can do.  He spent the past few years researching and unpacking the idea that we are who we are, because of our memories. And his newest book, As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life, speaks to these questions and more. Casey serves as Theologian in Residence at Parkview Christian Church near Chicago, Illinois. He and his wife, Holley, have been married for 18 years and have one daughter, Bailey. I’m deeply grateful for the work that Casey is doing. We talk about letting God redeem our past, for the good of our present. It’s something that has impacted my life, and I’m sure will impact yours too. Casey is amazing, listen in! SUBSCRIBE IN ITUNES SHOW NOTES  Casey’s website Casey’s Podcast: otherWISE The Apprentice Gathering As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life Becoming Curious: A Spiritual Practice of Asking Questions Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World Unafraid: Trusting God in an Unsafe World My church: Austin Christian Fellowship The Dear Daughters signed book + bistro mug bundle is here for a limited time! Dear Daughters is a template for those multi-generational conversations and relationships you’re craving. Dear Daughters is meant to be a bridge between two groups of women–dear daughters and spiritual mamas. Dear daughters are young women in search of spiritual guidance and spiritual mamas are women just a little further down the road with age-old wisdom to share. Each group has valuable insight for the other and the hope is that the reader will invite someone to come alongside them, pore over the included letters together, and pass along wisdom and advice that will make both lives more beautiful, wherever they are in their God story. This book, ideal for a gift, is a casebound hardcover with ribbon. Finally … grateful, grateful for Davis sharing her music for the DD Podcast. :)

Jeff Caliguire is called to help people pursue their God-given talents. Jeff discusses how he has been able to coach others for the past 18 years in the areas of calling, career, personal growth, productivity, and purposeful leadership. Learn more about Jeff’s work as a 10-book author and being in service of clients as a licensed financial planner through his firm Convergence Point Wealth Advisors.   Show Notes: How did the college degrees in Government and Systematic Theology and founding a church in Boston lead to his calling in life? Jeff’s senior year included health issues, a wake-up call and key pivot towards his calling Marriage and being a Reverend, and the low point in the depth of despair and depression provided a key transition point on Jeff’s calling journey What does it means to go from cursed to blessed when you are supposed to have all the answers What was Jeff’s process of becoming aware of how to take on his true Calling journey We live in a world with so much choice that finding purpose is difficult Figure out how to do the useful things that fill you up with life and urgency People are really exhausted because they are working in the wrong place The free and true version of our self can be found in our fourth-grade self Identify and define your personal values to know your values What is the mission that what you do needs to fit into Coaching comes from the vehicle word “coach”, helping people get from one point to another What do you believe that needs to exist that other people don’t see? What are the gifts you have and the habits that will bring them to life?   3 Key Points:    The glory of God is a man fully alive.    FInding meaning in our work brings life to businesses and people    We have glimpses of our genius in the things that we’ve done as kids.     Tweetable Quotes: - “What can you do that brings life to you, that doesn’t drain you, that you’d never get tired of doing?” - Jeff Caliguire - “ Take more risks. Reflect on what you do more. Live for something that outlasts you” - - Jeff Caliguire   Resources Mentioned: Download your FREE eBook – Unlocking Your Convergence Point - jeffcaliguire.com @JeffCaliguire Book Jeff Recommends: “Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World” by Henri J. M. Nouwen Book Jeff Recommends: “Finding a Job You Can Love” by Ralph T. Mattson and Arthur F. Miller

Dr. Mark Laaser and Randy Evert continue their series, Featured Authors. In this episode, Mark unpack the life and work on Henri Nouwen, including his books, "The Inner Voice of Love: A Journey Through Anguish to Freedom," and "Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World."

Lee Blum is an author and Mental Health Practitioner whose story has become a testimony of how God can use the ugliest parts of your life and turn them into something beautiful. For much of her youth, Lee lived with deep depression and a life-threatening eating disorder. After being hospitalized, and by God’s grace, she made the decision to begin the brave journey to choose a different life - not a perfect life, but one defined by bravery, strength and brokenness.  What we chat about: Accepting that God's plan for our lives is likely different than our own Understanding the factors that can lead to eating disorders A healthier way of speaking about food to our children Building community through transparency The struggle to see ourselves through God's eyes  Links mentioned: Table in the Darkness: A Healing Journey Through an Eating Disorder Brave Is the New Beautiful: Finding the Courage to Be the Real You Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World Compared to Who?: A Proven Path to Improve Your Body Image Where to find Lee: website // facebook // twitter Episode Sponsor: Cultivate What Matters Shop by Lara Casey The Write the Word Bible journal is unique. With my small business, and three littles running under the same roof, my "quiet time" each day is pretty loud! I prayed one morning for God to give me a simple way to connect with Him, right in the thick of it, and the Write the Word journal was born. On each page, you'll get a selection of specially-selected key verses to write out, along with space to write your thoughts, prayers, or whatever God places on your heart. Use your Write the Word Bible journal in whatever ways you wish! These journals are all about grace and digging into God's life-giving truth. Buy yours today! Save 15% off Write the Word journals through October 24 with code MOMSTRUGGLINGWELL Support the show: Shop Amazon Affiliate Link Share the Struggle! Find me on Instagram or Facebook because I want to hear YOUR thoughts on this episode!  If you've been encouraged by the show, please share it with another mom.  The struggle is real.  We might as well do this together!

In 1991, tennis superstar Andre Agassi appeared in a television ad for a camera called the Canon Rebel. On the set, the fashionably dressed Agassi steps out of a white Lamborghini sports car, lowers his ray bans halfway down the bridge of his nose, gazes cockily into the camera, and says, “Image is everything.”   I watched that old commercial on YouTube the other day and thought to myself, “Wow, that guy's a poster child for all the not very self-aware Enneagram Threes in the world.” Enneagram Threes are called The Performers. These folks are success-oriented, image conscious, and wired for productivity. They are motivated by a compulsive need to succeed or to appear successful, and to avoid failure at all costs. Performers see a world that values people more for their accomplishments, for what they do, not for who they are. Driven by the need for approval and admiration, Threes focus all their energies on winning and looking good doing it.   As you listen to today's show, you'll realize that there's a lot to love about Threes when they're healthy, and my guest Jeff Goins proves my case. He's doing all the necessary work (or dare I say ‘successfully' doing the work) to become his most authentic self. Jeff is an award-winning blogger, sought after speaker, and best-selling author of five books. He teaches online courses and is pretty sure he makes the world's best guacamole. He lives with his family here in Nashville, and more importantly, he's my friend. SUGGESTED READINGS: Becoming Who you Are, by James Martin, SJ Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self, by Richard Rohr Abba's Child: The Cry of the Human Heart for Belonging, by Brennan Manning Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular Age, by Henri J.M. Nouwen ---- To download a PDF of a chapter from Ian's book called Finding Your Type, visit TypologyPodcast.com. You can follow us on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. And if you like the show, we'd love for you to go over to Apple Podcasts and leave us a review. It helps us know what you think, and it helps others find out about the show.

In the early morning hours of Wednesday, Nov. 16th, I received the news of my nephews death. Lost in grief, I turned to the writings of Henri Nouwen to find comfort. Reading Nouwen's book, "The Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World," I wrote a series of reflections to process my pain. These reflections were written for cousins and all the other Beloved people coping with death and the struggles of daily living in a secular world.

There are two stories in the Bible that have gripped my imagination for the last 5-6 years. One is the story of Jesus at his baptism, specifically in the gospel of Mark 1:9-11, which records the voice of God the Father in Heaven declaring to his son Jesus (while the Spirit is descending like a dove), "You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased." Here is the passage: 9 At that time Jesus came from Nazareth in Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan. 10 Just as Jesus was coming up out of the water, he saw heaven being torn open and the Spirit descending on him like a dove. 11 And a voice came from heaven: “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.” (NIV) The other story is found in Genesis 32-33 and records the story of Jacob as he prepares to be reunited with his estranged brother Esau. In earlier years jacob had stolen Esau's birthright and blessing and is now preparing to meet up with again...with some fear and trembling I might add. I am fascinated by the story of Jacob wrestling with God. I am fascinated with this scene: 24 So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak. 25 When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. 26 Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.” But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” 27 The man asked him, “What is your name?” “Jacob,” he answered. 28 Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel,[f] because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.” 29 Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.” But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there. 30 So Jacob called the place Peniel,[g] saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.” 31 The sun rose above him as he passed Peniel,[h] and he was limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the Israelites do not eat the tendon attached to the socket of the hip, because the socket of Jacob’s hip was touched near the tendon. But what is really fascinating to me is the ensuing encounter that Jacob has with Esau after he has wrestled with God. There is a beautiful play on the word for eyes in Hebrew, and a very beautiful encounter of not only seeing God face to face, but seeing his brother Esau face to face. Both of these stories are examples of a person being and living out of their Truth, and therefore, they lend insight to us about what that might look like for us to be and live in our Truth in our lives. Identifying, acknowledging, being, and living out of your Truth is a hard task for most people that I know. Many feel they don't know or have a Truth, while others struggle to practice and access it in their daily lives. The reality is, is that living in our Truth is not a work of perfection, or arriving at it permanently, but rather an ongoing struggle to believe and live beyond ourselves. For when we do this, not only are we transformed, but so are our relationships. In this episode I explore: what it means to be in our Truth Jesus' baptism and the model it presents for being in our Truth Jacob wrestling with God and what it teaches us about being in our Truth how being in our Truth impacts not only us, but our relationships 3 sources for finding our Truth Henri Nouwen and his book, In the Name of Jesus   Please listen and subscribe to my podcast in the following places, and then leave a comment letting me know what you liked about the show, or what guest you would like to hear from. Thank you so much for your support. iTunes -- Stitcher Player FM -- Libsyn   Resources Mentioned in this Episode Henri Nouwen and In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership Henri Nouwen and Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World Genesis 32 and 33 Mark 1:9-11 Restoration Therapy