Biblical character in the Third Epistle of John
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QUOTES FOR REFLECTION“Hospitality means primarily the creation of free space where the stranger can enter and become a friend instead of an enemy.”~Henri J.M. Nouwen (1932-1996), Dutch priest, professor and theologian.“Here in our house you'll find a royal welcome; Have supper first, then tell us what you need.”~From Book 1 of Homer's Odyssey“What you leave behind is not engraved in stone monuments but what is woven into the lives of others.”~Pericless (495-429 BC), Greek general“Christian hospitality has much more to do with good relationships than with good food. There is a fine line between care and cumber. In many instances, less ado would serve better.”~Kevin DeYoung, American pastor and theologian“The focus of entertaining is impressing others; the focus of true hospitality is serving others.”~Tim Chester, British pastor and authorSERMON PASSAGE3 John 1-15 (ESV) 1 The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth. 2 Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. 3 For I rejoiced greatly when the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are walking in the truth. 4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. 5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are, 6 who testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they have gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support people like these, that we may be fellow workers for the truth. 9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. 10 So if I come, I will bring up what he is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers, and also stops those who want to and puts them out of the church. 11 Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself. We also add our testimony, and you know that our testimony is true. 13 I had much to write to you, but I would rather not write with pen and ink. 14 I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. 15 Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends, each by name.
In "If the Truth Be Told" (3 John), we see how even the shortest book of the Bible can pack a powerful message. The Apostle John highlights the faithfulness of Gaius, the dangers of pride in Diotrephes, and the example of humility in Demetrius—reminding us that faithfulness inspires, partnership enables, and discernment protects. This letter is more than ancient words; it's a guide for how to live, serve, and guard the truth in our own communities today. Join us as we discover how one small chapter can shape the way we follow Jesus and strengthen His church.
Click here for the DRB Daily Sign Up form! TODAY'S SCRIPTURE: Jeremiah 50-51; 3 John 1 Click HERE to give! Get Free App Here! One Year Bible Podcast: Join Hunter and Heather Barnes on 'The Daily Radio Bible' for a daily 20-minute spiritual journey. Engage with scripture readings, heartfelt devotionals, and collective prayers that draw you into the heart of God's love. Embark on this year-long voyage through the Bible, and let each day's passage uplift and inspire you. TODAY'S EPISODE: Welcome to the Daily Radio Bible! On this episode for August 26th, 2025, join your host, Hunter, as we journey together through another day in God's Word. Today, we dive into the powerful prophecies found in Jeremiah chapters 50 and 51, where we hear God's message concerning the fall of Babylon—a tale of justice, redemption, and the unwavering faithfulness of the Lord. We'll also read from 3 John, reflecting on the contrasting lives of Diotrephes and Demetrius, and considering what it means to walk in the truth with humility and grace. As always, Hunter guides us not only through the scriptures, but also into a time of prayer, personal reflection, and encouragement. Whether you're a daily listener or just tuning in, take these minutes to nurture your soul, rest in God's love, and set your heart for the path ahead. So, grab your Bible, find a quiet space, and let's encounter God together—remembering, as always, that you are deeply loved. TODAY'S DEVOTION: Diotrephes and Demetrius, they couldn't be more different. Diotrephes was known to speak lies. He loved to be the leader and he made his life all about him. Demetrius spoke the truth. He was a humble traveling messenger that spoke the truth of the good news. His words of truth set people free, because that's what the truth does. John said everyone speaks highly of Demetrius, as does the truth itself. The truth will always point us not to ourselves, but to God. And God's truth will set us free and give us joy. So let's choose the way of Demetrius, the humble, truth speaking pilgrim, growing in the truth, being set free and knowing his joy. May God give us the heart of Demetrius. That's the prayer that I have for my own soul. That's the prayer that I have for my family, for my wife, my daughters, my son. And that's the prayer that I have for you. May it be so. TODAY'S PRAYERS: Lord of heaven and earth, you have awakened us in your mercy once more. Still our anxious minds, quiet our striving hearts, and help us to rest in the knowledge that we are held by you. May we walk in step with your spirit today, not ahead, not behind, but beside you in trust and love through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. O God of all peoples, you formed every soul in your image and breathed life into every heart. Open the eyes of the nations, soften hearts grown cold, and teach us to live as neighbors and friends. Let your spirit move in power, renew the face of the earth and usher in your reign of peace. Amen. And now, Lord, let me be a bearer of your peace. Where voices divide, let me speak grace. Where fear takes root, let me plant trust. Where the world rushes on, let me walk with you. May I seek not to climb but to kneel, not to win, but to love, not to grasp, but to give. For it is in emptying that we are filled, in surrender that we are strengthened, and in union with you that we find our truest joy. Amen. And now, as our Lord has taught us, we are bold to pray: Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory, forever and ever. Amen. OUR WEBSITE: www.dailyradiobible.com We are reading through the New Living Translation. Leave us a voicemail HERE: https://www.speakpipe.com/dailyradiobible Subscribe to us at YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dailyradiobible/featured OTHER PODCASTS: Listen with Apple Podcast DAILY BIBLE FOR KIDS DAILY PSALMS DAILY PROVERBS DAILY LECTIONARY DAILY CHRONOLOGICAL
Join Jamie Pierce at Star Point Church for a powerful and heartfelt message from the book of 3 John. As part of the summer book series, Jamie unpacks this deeply impactful letter, exploring themes of faithfulness, hospitality, conflict, and truth. Through the story of Gaius, Diotrephes, and Demetrius, we are invited to reflect on what it means to live a life of integrity, generosity, and mission—both in the early church and today.Jamie connects the timeless truths of 3 John to modern church life, highlighting how small acts of faithfulness can have lasting impact. Whether you're facing personal struggles or church challenges, this message offers encouragement to stand firm in truth, love well, and find lasting peace through Jesus.
Join Jamie Pierce at Star Point Church for a powerful and heartfelt message from the book of 3 John. As part of the summer book series, Jamie unpacks this deeply impactful letter, exploring themes of faithfulness, hospitality, conflict, and truth. Through the story of Gaius, Diotrephes, and Demetrius, we are invited to reflect on what it means to live a life of integrity, generosity, and mission—both in the early church and today.Jamie connects the timeless truths of 3 John to modern church life, highlighting how small acts of faithfulness can have lasting impact. Whether you're facing personal struggles or church challenges, this message offers encouragement to stand firm in truth, love well, and find lasting peace through Jesus.
The sermon emphasizes the importance of imitating good and avoiding evil, drawing from the epistle of 3 John to illustrate the contrast between faithful believers like Gaius and those who prioritize self-interest, such as Diotrephes. It underscores the value of a good testimony, both from outsiders and from the truth itself, and highlights the significance of genuine friendship and community within the church, reminding listeners that even in times of adversity, they can find solace and strength in Christ's unwavering presence and the support of fellow believers, ultimately encouraging a life of faithful obedience and joyful devotion.
Who is Diotrephes? And, what can we learn from him? That's what we'll learn as the Apostle Paul introduces us to a man Dr. McGee calls “a rascal in the early church.” Travel back to the first century as we study Diotrephes' malicious statements against the apostles, his refusal to entertain missionaries, and how he excommunicated those who did entertain missionaries.
John ends his 3rd letter by encouraging Gaius to look to Demetrius as an example of spiritual excellence.
The sermon explores the importance of faithfulness and discernment within the church, drawing from 3 John to contrast the welcoming hospitality of Gaius with the prideful and obstructive behavior of Diotrephes. It emphasizes the necessity of submitting to Christ's authority, upholding biblical truth, and welcoming those who proclaim the gospel, while warning against the dangers of self-promotion, exclusion, and the spread of false teachings. Ultimately, the message calls for vigilance against spiritual error and a commitment to embodying humility and genuine fellowship in service to Christ.
The sermon emphasizes spiritual growth as a collaborative work between God and the believer, requiring willingness, obedience, and humility to recognize shortcomings and embrace personal sanctification. Drawing from 6th and 11th verses of 3 John, it highlights the importance of serving others, particularly strangers, as a practical expression of love for God and a pathway to Christian maturity, contrasting the selfless example of Gaius with the divisive and controlling behavior of Diotrephes. Ultimately, the message calls for believers to cultivate a servant's heart, reject negativity, and actively contribute to unity and fellowship within the church.
John encourages Gaius to continue to help traveling teachers who are working to proclaim and spread the Gospel.
A Study of the epistle of III John and the difference between Gaius and Diotrephes and their involvement in the local church
A Study of the epistle of III John and the difference between Gaius and Diotrephes and their involvement in the local church
A Study of the epistle of III John and the difference between Gaius and Diotrephes and their involvement in the local church
In this message from the book of 3 John, Isaac Mardirosian examines what authentic Christianity looks like in our daily lives. By contrasting the faithful charity of Gaius with the prideful preeminence of Diotrephes, he illustrates how our treatment of others, especially missionaries and fellow believers, is a direct reflection of our personal relationship with God. The sermon challenges us to move beyond simply knowing the right words to truly knowing the Shepherd, urging listeners to faithfully demonstrate their love for God by actively encouraging and supporting fellow helpers of the truth.Eastland is a Place to BelongEastland Baptist Church is located in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are a welcoming and close-knit family community that loves to care for each other through the Church. We strongly believe in loving and supporting each other and our neighbors. Our members don't just attend our Church; they feel a strong sense of belonging.Join Us Find service times and our location at https://www.eastlandbaptist.org/join. Connect with UsWebsite: https://www.eastlandbaptist.orgFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/eastlandbaptisttulsaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eastlandbaptistTo support the ministry of Eastland Baptist Church, tap here: https://www.eastlandbaptist.org/give.
“The Church's Obligation to Support Missionaries” 3 JohnPrayer for the Beloved Gaius - 1:1-4Prayer of Intercession ProsperitySpiritual HealthPhysical HealthPrayer of Praise for Walking in TruthSelflessness of Gaius - 1:5-8Commended for His Love & HospitalityObligation to Continue Supporting MissionariesWho - Sent OnesWhat - Supports the MissionWhy - Coworkers in Truth and No One Else WillSelfishness of Diotrephes - 1:9-10He Puts Himself FirstHe Talks Wicked NonsenseHe is Not WelcomingImitate Gaius, Not Diotrephes; Support Demetrius - 1:11-12
What happens when someone in the church refuses to repent? Is it loving to confront them; or should we just stay quiet? In this sobering episode, Stephen Davey explains the biblical framework for church discipline and the holy obligation members have to one another in matters of sin and accountability. Using passages from 1 Corinthians, Titus, Galatians, and 3 John, Stephen traces how church discipline is a spiritual act of love, not judgmentalism. He highlights the difference between discipling the willing and disciplining the defiant. You'll hear what happened when one early church member, Diotrephes, abused his power and divided the church. Stephen also answers tough questions about judging others, when discipline is necessary, and how to respond with grace and truth. Whether dealing with doctrinal error, divisive behavior, or moral failure, the goal is always repentance, restoration, and the health of the body. Church discipline isn't easy, but it's essential. Without it, churches drift. With it, they grow stronger. This message will equip you to understand, embrace, and uphold a practice many fear, but Scripture clearly commands.
What happens when someone in the church refuses to repent? Is it loving to confront them; or should we just stay quiet? In this sobering episode, Stephen Davey explains the biblical framework for church discipline and the holy obligation members have to one another in matters of sin and accountability. Using passages from 1 Corinthians, Titus, Galatians, and 3 John, Stephen traces how church discipline is a spiritual act of love, not judgmentalism. He highlights the difference between discipling the willing and disciplining the defiant. You'll hear what happened when one early church member, Diotrephes, abused his power and divided the church. Stephen also answers tough questions about judging others, when discipline is necessary, and how to respond with grace and truth. Whether dealing with doctrinal error, divisive behavior, or moral failure, the goal is always repentance, restoration, and the health of the body. Church discipline isn't easy, but it's essential. Without it, churches drift. With it, they grow stronger. This message will equip you to understand, embrace, and uphold a practice many fear, but Scripture clearly commands.
What happens when someone in the church refuses to repent? Is it loving to confront them; or should we just stay quiet? In this sobering episode, Stephen Davey explains the biblical framework for church discipline and the holy obligation members have to one another in matters of sin and accountability. Using passages from 1 Corinthians, Titus, Galatians, and 3 John, Stephen traces how church discipline is a spiritual act of love, not judgmentalism. He highlights the difference between discipling the willing and disciplining the defiant. You'll hear what happened when one early church member, Diotrephes, abused his power and divided the church. Stephen also answers tough questions about judging others, when discipline is necessary, and how to respond with grace and truth. Whether dealing with doctrinal error, divisive behavior, or moral failure, the goal is always repentance, restoration, and the health of the body. Church discipline isn't easy, but it's essential. Without it, churches drift. With it, they grow stronger. This message will equip you to understand, embrace, and uphold a practice many fear, but Scripture clearly commands.
What happens when someone in the church refuses to repent? Is it loving to confront them; or should we just stay quiet? In this sobering episode, Stephen Davey explains the biblical framework for church discipline and the holy obligation members have to one another in matters of sin and accountability. Using passages from 1 Corinthians, Titus, Galatians, and 3 John, Stephen traces how church discipline is a spiritual act of love, not judgmentalism. He highlights the difference between discipling the willing and disciplining the defiant. You'll hear what happened when one early church member, Diotrephes, abused his power and divided the church. Stephen also answers tough questions about judging others, when discipline is necessary, and how to respond with grace and truth. Whether dealing with doctrinal error, divisive behavior, or moral failure, the goal is always repentance, restoration, and the health of the body. Church discipline isn't easy, but it's essential. Without it, churches drift. With it, they grow stronger. This message will equip you to understand, embrace, and uphold a practice many fear, but Scripture clearly commands.
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Spiritual Wellness Check: Lessons from 3 John explores the powerful contrasts between godly and ungodly leadership in the shortest book of the Bible. This message unpacks the stories of three individuals - Gaius, Diotrephes, and Demetrius - who represent different approaches to Christian leadership and character.
After all the deep truths covered in 1 John, we see an added “P.S.” in John’s following epistles. Pastor Greg Laurie shares they’re filled with love, warning, and encouragement. Notes: Focus verse - 2 John 1 2nd and 3rd John are filled with love, warning and encouragement. We can find comfort in God’s Word—His ultimate love letter to us. 1st John was written to give assurance to believers.(1 John 5:13) The Bible promises, “He who began a good work in you will complete it.”(Philippians 1:6) Salvation is God’s work from beginning to end. It’s not based on how you feel, it’s based on what Jesus did. John was refuting something called Gnosticism. Gnostics did not believe that God came into this world and walked among us. “If a person claiming to be a prophet acknowledges that Jesus Christ came in a real body, that person has the Spirit of God.”(1 John 4:2) To be a Christian, you must believe that Jesus was born of a virgin and was God among us; that He was fully God and fully man and He died on the cross for our sins, and He bodily rose three days later and will come again. 1 John can be divided into three sections:1. God is Light (1 John 1:1–2:2)2. God is Love (1 John 2:3–4:21)3. God is Life (1 John 5) Read: 2 John 1:1–3 1. God wants us to walk in truth and love. Truth without love is harsh. Love without truth is hollow. Truth anchors us while love moves us.Truth gives us the message; love gives us the method. Love is obeying the Lord. 2. When we walk in truth and love the devil will be opposing us.(2 John 1:7–8) John has warned us about both Antichrist and Antichrists. 3. God cares about every area of your life.(3 John 1:1–2) “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”(3 John 1:2) God does want us to prosper, but what is Biblical prosperity?In short, it is knowing and walking with God and bringing forth spiritual fruit. God can and will bless you with wealth, but with that wealth comes responsibility.(1 Timothy 6:17–18) If you are blessed financially that’s not a sin, it’s a stewardship. “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”(3 John 1:2) God does not heal everyone, but He does still heal today. 4. Coming to Christ is life-changing; continuing with Christ is life-sustaining.(3 John 1:3–4) “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.”(3 John 1:4) “A good character is the best tombstone. Those who love you and were helped by you will remember you, so carve your name on hearts, not marble.” —C.H. Spurgeon 5. God’s people should underwrite God’s work.(3 John 1:5–8) It pleases God when we support God’s Word financially.(3 John 1:6) We should not have a discomfort talking or hearing about giving.The Bible speaks more about giving than prayer or faith. There are over 2,000 verses on the topic of money, possessions, and giving. Giving is not just about finances, it’s a test of trust and obedience to God. We share in the reward when we invest our money. 6. There are real and fake believers in the church.(3 John 1:9–11) Ultimately, it is God who will sort out the real and the counterfeit. 7. Be a Demetrius not a Diotrephes.(3 John 1:9, 12) Demetrius v. DiotrephesHad a good testimony. Had a poor testimony.Respected by all. Rebuked by John for being divisive and proud.Welcoming and faithful. Kicked people out of the church and drove them away. 1. Walk in truth and love.2. Support God’s people and God’s work.3. Be a bridge-builder, not a bridge-burner.4. Leave a godly legacy.5. Don’t be a Diotrephes, be a Demetrius. Learn more about this year's Harvest Crusade! --- Learn more about Greg Laurie and Harvest Ministries at harvest.org. This podcast is supported by the generosity of our Harvest Partners.Support the show: https://harvest.org/supportSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After all the deep truths covered in 1 John, we see an added “P.S.” in John’s following epistles. Pastor Greg Laurie shares they’re filled with love, warning, and encouragement. Notes: Focus verse - 2 John 1 2nd and 3rd John are filled with love, warning and encouragement. We can find comfort in God’s Word—His ultimate love letter to us. 1st John was written to give assurance to believers.(1 John 5:13) The Bible promises, “He who began a good work in you will complete it.”(Philippians 1:6) Salvation is God’s work from beginning to end. It’s not based on how you feel, it’s based on what Jesus did. John was refuting something called Gnosticism. Gnostics did not believe that God came into this world and walked among us. “If a person claiming to be a prophet acknowledges that Jesus Christ came in a real body, that person has the Spirit of God.”(1 John 4:2) To be a Christian, you must believe that Jesus was born of a virgin and was God among us; that He was fully God and fully man and He died on the cross for our sins, and He bodily rose three days later and will come again. 1 John can be divided into three sections:1. God is Light (1 John 1:1–2:2)2. God is Love (1 John 2:3–4:21)3. God is Life (1 John 5) Read: 2 John 1:1–3 1. God wants us to walk in truth and love. Truth without love is harsh. Love without truth is hollow. Truth anchors us while love moves us.Truth gives us the message; love gives us the method. Love is obeying the Lord. 2. When we walk in truth and love the devil will be opposing us.(2 John 1:7–8) John has warned us about both Antichrist and Antichrists. 3. God cares about every area of your life.(3 John 1:1–2) “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”(3 John 1:2) God does want us to prosper, but what is Biblical prosperity?In short, it is knowing and walking with God and bringing forth spiritual fruit. God can and will bless you with wealth, but with that wealth comes responsibility.(1 Timothy 6:17–18) If you are blessed financially that’s not a sin, it’s a stewardship. “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”(3 John 1:2) God does not heal everyone, but He does still heal today. 4. Coming to Christ is life-changing; continuing with Christ is life-sustaining.(3 John 1:3–4) “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.”(3 John 1:4) “A good character is the best tombstone. Those who love you and were helped by you will remember you, so carve your name on hearts, not marble.” —C.H. Spurgeon 5. God’s people should underwrite God’s work.(3 John 1:5–8) It pleases God when we support God’s Word financially.(3 John 1:6) We should not have a discomfort talking or hearing about giving.The Bible speaks more about giving than prayer or faith. There are over 2,000 verses on the topic of money, possessions, and giving. Giving is not just about finances, it’s a test of trust and obedience to God. We share in the reward when we invest our money. 6. There are real and fake believers in the church.(3 John 1:9–11) Ultimately, it is God who will sort out the real and the counterfeit. 7. Be a Demetrius not a Diotrephes.(3 John 1:9, 12) Demetrius v. DiotrephesHad a good testimony. Had a poor testimony.Respected by all. Rebuked by John for being divisive and proud.Welcoming and faithful. Kicked people out of the church and drove them away. 1. Walk in truth and love.2. Support God’s people and God’s work.3. Be a bridge-builder, not a bridge-burner.4. Leave a godly legacy.5. Don’t be a Diotrephes, be a Demetrius. Learn more about this year's Harvest Crusade! --- Learn more about Greg Laurie and Harvest Ministries at harvest.org. This podcast is supported by the generosity of our Harvest Partners.Support the show: https://harvest.org/supportSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In a world full of conflicting voices, how do we know who to follow? In 3 John 9–14, the Apostle John contrasts two men—Diotrephes and Demetrius—to show us the difference between prideful leadership and Christlike character. This message challenges us to examine our own hearts and relationships, urging us to imitate what is good and reject what is evil. Join us as we explore how humility, integrity, and truth shape a life worth following.
God's Word for Today26 June, 202520 For lack of wood the fire goes out, and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases.21 As charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire, so is a quarrelsome man for kindling strife.-Prov 26:20-21 ESV DON'T ADD FUEL TO THE FIRE A fire must be fueled, must it not? In the ancient past, this almost always required wood. When no more wood is added, the fire extinguishes. The fire fades and burns itself out. Take away fuel, and nothing sustains the flames. In a parallel way, hearsay, bickering, slander, and other hostile speech do fuel disagreements and arguments, don't they? When gossiping ceases, much of the fuel for conflict is gone. Being argumentative, in general, is another way to prolong disputes (Prov 26:21).The Hebrew word refers to someone who grumbles, gossips or criticizes behind others' backs. The term is similarly used elsewhere in the Old Testament (Deuteronomy 1:27; Psalm 106:25; Proverbs 16:28). One of these uses is Proverbs 18:8, which warns about the enticing words of a "whisperer." The same phrasing is used later in this passage (Proverbs 26:22).In the New Testament, James explains how evil the tongue is. He relates it to fire, that is, damaging, scarring, able to spread quickly, and hard to control. James writes, "How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell" (Jas 3:5–6). Paul corroborates this by saying in Galatians 5:14–15, "For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.""Quarrelsome" people are those who cause strife and division. It means to someone prone to fighting or eager to argue. Solomon advises us to have a careful, calming approach instead of looking for an excuse to start a fight. (Prov 15:1, 4) The prior teaching (v.20) noted that a gossiper is someone a "whisperer." (Prov 16:28) He adds fuel to disagreements. Paul mentioned the name Alexander the coppersmith, who caused trouble to him. Probably, he was a "quarrelsome" man. He said to Timothy, "Alexander the coppersmith did me great harm; the Lord will repay him according to his deeds. Beware of him yourself, for he strongly opposed our message" (2 Tim 4:14–15). Jude also wrote about those who opposed the faith by saying they "cause divisions, worldly people, devoid of the Spirit" ((Jude 1:18; cf. 2 Peter 3:3; Jude 1:19). John mentioned Diotrephes, who caused trouble within the church. He writes, "So if I come, I will bring up what [Diotrephes] is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us" (3 John 1:10). These characters, definitely, were inside the church but don't belong to Jesus. They are unregenerate so they are troublesome by nature.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lPuuvKVODmgListen and FOLLOW us on our podcast Spotify: http://bit.ly/glccfil_spotify Apple Podcast: http://bit.ly/glccfil-applepcast Audible Podcast: http://bit.ly/glccfil-audibleFollow us on various media platforms: https://gospellightfilipino.contactin.bio#gospellightfilipino#godswordfortoday
In this sermon, Daniel Sumoge introduces the latest installment in our series 'The Forgotten Letters.' Focusing on the book of 3rd John, Daniel emphasizes the unavoidable nature of drama and how it can be dealt with in a Christ-like manner. He discusses the importance of walking in truth, building peace, and imitating good rather than evil. By examining the characters of Gaius, Diotrephes, and Demetrius, Daniel highlights how these biblical figures demonstrate different approaches to handling church conflict and personal drama. The sermon concludes with practical action steps for bringing peace and resolving conflicts face-to-face, mirroring the example set by Jesus.00:00 Welcome and Introduction00:25 Teen Camp Excitement01:19 Series Overview: The Forgotten Letters02:07 Personal Confession: 90 Day Fiance Addiction04:15 Drama in Life and Church08:31 Walking in the Truth13:03 Building Despite Drama16:16 Confronting Church Drama17:30 The Danger of Ignoring Wisdom18:00 The Slow Drift of Pride19:05 Pride vs. Humility20:00 Handling Drama in the Church22:02 Avoidance, Engagement, and Leaving22:32 Personal Struggles with Drama24:40 Imitating Good vs. Evil27:51 The Example of Demetrius29:41 Building Peace Face-to-Face31:46 Final Encouragement and CommunionClick here to donate to the programClick here for more sermonsOC Church of Christ
123 John Part 16: Jesse struggles with pronouncing the name Diotrephes and presents the last of John's letters. --Scriptures Explored: 3 John--123 John Series:Part 1 - Introducing 3 Letters - 1 John 5:13; & 1 John 1:1-2Part 2 - The Foundation of Christian Fellowship - 1 John 1:1-4Part 3 - Congruent with Christ - 1 John 1:5-10Part 4 - Jesus our Propitiation and Advocate - 1 John 2:1-6Part 5 - A New Commandment - 1 John 2:7-11 Part 6 - Poetry in an Epistle? - 1 John 2:12-17Part 7 - Abiding and Antichrists - 1 John 2:18-27Part 8 - Abiding as Children - 1 John 2:28-3:3Part 9 - Practice Makes "Perfect" - 1 John 3:4-10Part 10 - Child of God - 1 John 3:10-23Part 11 - Spirits and the Holy Spirit - 1 John 3:23-4:6Part 12 - The Victory of the Love of God - 1 John 4:7-5:5Part 13 - The Dividing Line - 1 John 5:6-12Part 14 - The Honor Christ Has Given Us - 1 John 5:13-21Part 15 - You Just Got [Another] Letter - 2 John--Jesse Turkington is the executive director of Parable Ministries and has been a Bible teacher since 2014. When Jesse was just finishing high school, he started a little Bible study at his parent's house. Little did he know, this Bible study would change the direction of his life. He fell in love with the richness of the Bible and he wanted to pursue serious study. About 10 years later, Jesse still carries that passion for the Bible and from this passion was born Parable Ministries - a Bible teaching resource.--contact@parableministries.comhttps://www.parableministries.comhttps://www.instagram.com/parable_ministries/--If you feel led, give to the work of Parable:https://www.parableministries.com/donate--Music created by Chad HoffmanArtwork created by Anthony Kuenzi
John concludes his epistles with living examples, commending Gaius and Demetrius for imitation, and condemning Diotrephes' opposition to the gospel messengers. The post 1, 2 & 3 John Episode 10: Commendations and Condemnations from John appeared first on Two Journeys.
John concludes his epistles with living examples, commending Gaius and Demetrius for imitation, and condemning Diotrephes' opposition to the gospel messengers. The post 1, 2 & 3 John Episode 10: Commendations and Condemnations from John appeared first on Two Journeys.
John concludes his epistles with living examples, commending Gaius and Demetrius for imitation, and condemning Diotrephes' opposition to the gospel messengers. The post 1, 2 & 3 John Episode 10: Commendations and Condemnations from John appeared first on Two Journeys.
MAY. 4, 2025Why can't we work together? (1)"Diotrephes, who loves to have the preeminence." 3Jn v. 9 NKJVReason one: insecurity. The Florentine philosopher Machiavelli said, "The first method for estimating the intelligence of a ruler is to look at the men he has around him." Insecure leaders are threatened by talented individuals, so they surround themselves with weak people. As a result, the work suffers, and everybody involved suffers too. When a leader responds to a genuine question by saying, "How dare you challenge my authority," they're dangerous and often not worth following. Insecure leaders usually fail for two reasons: They want to maintain control over everything, or they're afraid of being replaced by someone more competent.Either way, leaders who don't encourage teamwork weaken their own potential and discourage those around them. President Woodrow Wilson said, "We should not only use all the brains we have, but all that we can borrow." John the Apostle tells us that Diotrephes, a leader in the church, "loves to have the preeminence." What was this man's problem? He wanted to blow everybody else's light out in order to let his own light shine. So, John writes: "When I come, I will report some of the things he is doing and the evil accusations he is making against us. Not only does he refuse to welcome the traveling teachers, he also tells others not to help them. And when they do help, he puts them out of the church. Dear friend, don't let this bad example influence you. Follow only what is good. Remember that those who do good prove that they are God's children, and those who do evil prove that they do not know God" (3Jn vs. 10-11 NLT). Let God's approval— which you already have—make you secure!Why can't we work together? Let God's approval make you secure!Share This Devotional"Go ahead; I am with you heart and soul." 1Sa 14:7 NIVReason two: naivety. An old Chinese proverb says, "Behind every able man there are always other able men." Even if you can do the job yourself, isn't it wise to stop and ask, "Who do I know who could help me to do it better?" That question defines the difference between mediocrity and excellence. Business consultant John Ghegan keeps a sign on his desk that reads, "If I had it to do all over again, I'd get help." We all need that sign! When you have a few victories under your belt, you're at an increased risk of thinking you can do anything and everything by yourself. But when your dream is from God, it will always be greater than your individual capacity and gifts, which means you will have to reach for others. Two men, Jonathan, and his armor-bearer, wiped out an entire Philistine garrison. How? "Jonathan said to his young armor-bearer, 'Come, let's go over to the outpost of those uncircumcised men. Perhaps the Lord will act in our behalf.Nothing can hinder the Lord from saving, whether by many or by few.' 'Do all that you have in mind, his armor-bearer said. 'Go ahead; I am with you heart and soul'" (vv. 6-7 NIV). Jonathan, the leader, needed the encouragement and support of his armor-bearer. And his armor-bearer needed the courage and leadership of Jonathan. Together they accomplished amazing things for God.The truth is teamwork is at the heart of all impressive triumphs. The question isn't whether teams have value; it's whether you are humble enough to acknowledge that fact and become a better team player.Why can't we work together? Become a better team player.Share This DevotiSend us a textSupport the showChanging Lives | Building Strong Family | Impacting Our Community For Jesus Christ!
Pastor Lance shares that true spiritual life is rooted in faith in Jesus, with Scripture serving as divine guidance. He emphasizes the importance of humility and service, contrasting self-love with the call to servanthood. He talks about the negative influence of Diotrephes highlighting the need for godly leadership and a return to true Christian values.
Pastor Phelps preaches on 3 John, comparing Gaius with Diotrephes and asking us the probing question, "Who are you like?" Message originally preached Sunday morning March 2, 2025.
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3 John 1-15 1 The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth. 2 Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. 3 For I was overjoyed when brothers came and testified to your truth, that is, how you are walking in truth. 4 I have no greater joy than this, to hear of my children walking in the truth. 5 Beloved, you are acting faithfully in whatever you accomplish for the brothers and sisters, and especially when they are strangers; 6 and they have testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their way in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they went out for the sake of the Name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support such people, so that we may prove to be fellow workers with the truth. 9 I wrote something to the church; but Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, does not accept what we say. 10 For this reason, if I come, I will call attention to his deeds which he does, unjustly accusing us with malicious words; and not satisfied with this, he himself does not receive the brothers either, and he forbids those who want to do so and puts them out of the church. 11 Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. The one who does what is good is of God; the one who does what is evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself; and we testify too, and you know that our testimony is true. 13 I had many things to write to you, but I do not want to write to you with pen and ink; 14 but I hope to see you shortly, and we will speak face to face. 15 Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends by name. BIBLE READING GUIDE - FREE EBOOK - Get the free eBook, Bible in Life, to help you learn how to read and apply the Bible well: https://www.listenerscommentary.com GIVE - The Listener's Commentary is a listener supported Bible teaching ministry made possible by the generosity of people like you. Thank you! Give here: https://www.listenerscommentary.com/give STUDY HUB - Want more than the audio? Join the study hub to access articles, maps, charts, pictures, and links to other resources to help you study the Bible for yourself. https://www.listenerscommentary.com/members-sign-up MORE TEACHING - For more resources and Bible teaching from John visit https://www.johnwhittaker.net
Daily Dose of Hope February 25, 2025 Day 3 of Week 48 Scripture: Ezra 5-6; 3 John Welcome back to the Daily Dose of Hope! This is the devotional and podcast that goes along with the Bible reading plan at New Hope Church in Brandon, Florida. Our Old Testament reading is Ezra 5 and 6. Work on the temple had been delayed (due to the opposition) for about sixteen years. Now, it was time to get back to work, time for a new beginning. However, the restarting of construction arouses suspicion among the pagan politicians of the area. Thus, they inquire of the Jews about the building project. The Jewish leaders quite eloquently laid out a brief history of the temple, why it was destroyed, and why they were rebuilding. But the governor of the area is determined to get to the bottom of the situation. He actually sends a letter to the king to verify that Cyrus really did give permission for this work to take place. But we see God's hand of intervention here. The governor does not stop the work, he allows it to go on as they are waiting to hear back. Keep in mind, it could take five or six months to simply receive a reply. The Jewish people are faithful, they keep working hard on the temple, unsure of what the king's answer will be. Ultimately, they trust God. They forge ahead, trusting that God is the one who has authority over every human king and governor. The Lord of all will ensure that HIS will is done. In chapter 6, the decree from King Cyrus was found in the royal archives and sure enough, it was clear that Cyrus had given permission and resources for the Jewish people to rebuild the Temple of the Lord. King Darius wrote back stating that the Jews were to be left alone in the building, no more obstacles, and that their expenses were to be paid from the royal treasury! Wow! God is pretty amazing. Thus, work resumed on the Temple until it was complete. When they finished, there was a big celebration. They dedicated the house of God with many animal sacrifices, by properly installing the priests, and then celebrating Passover with one another. This got me thinking about celebrations. How important it is for us to celebrate together as a people of God. We need times of fellowship and joy as a way to remind one another of the amazing work of our God. In the midst of everyday tasks and the struggles of daily life, we forget. We have short memories. Friends, we need to celebrate. We need to come together, to laugh, to dine, to say, “Our God is so good!” Honestly, I don't think we celebrate enough. We need to work these experiences into the rhythm of church. John's third letter is the shortest book in the Bible. Unlike 2 John, which is addressed to a whole church, this letter is addressed to an individual named Gaius but also includes references to two other people–Diotrephes (the troublemaker) and Demetrius (probably the bearer of the letter). There isn't a lot of theological meat in the letter but it does give insight into church dynamics, particularly personality conflicts and the fact John fears his authority is being dismissed. If you read through the text (and I hope you all have), the general sense of the letter is one of encouragement and praise up until we get to the main issue. It seems there is a problem that John feels the need to address. Diotrephes is refusing to host the missionaries that John is sending to the church; a failure to show hospitality would have been shocking in their culture and certainly embarrassing for John. The phrase “who loves to be first” might be better understood as the one who wants the authority for himself. His refusal of the missionaries wasn't just a rejection of the missionaries but truly disrespect and rejection of John himself. Plus, Diotrephes is spreading gossip and refusing to welcome other believers. He is ruling the church with an iron fist. No wonder John feels the need to address this issue immediately. This has the potential to destroy the young church and damage their witness for Jesus in the community. I know this will be shocking but ambition, arrogance, and gossip still have a tendency to find their way into the church (I know, gasp!) They are just as damaging, just as destructive, just as heart-breaking today as they were then. I'm guessing that all of us know at least one person who was hurt by a church-goer who was too heavy-handed, patronizing, dehumanizing, or just plain mean. People leave churches all the time because of these things. For me, it is literally painful to think about. And yet, I totally get it. Churches are filled with humans and humans are sinful. So what's the answer? How do we get a group of sinful people to live the faith and not be all about themselves? The only answer is Jesus within us. It was the only answer in John's day and it's the only answer now. We must actually have the desire and the motivation for Jesus to transform us, I mean really change our hearts. We have to repent of our selfishness, humble ourselves, and allow God to use us as HE pleases. Blessings, Pastor Vicki
Teacher: Adam BarnettThe elder, To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth.Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well. It gave me great joy when some believers came and testified about your faithfulness to the truth, telling how you continue to walk in it. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you. They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honors God. It was for the sake of the Name that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans. We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people so that we may work together for the truth.I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will not welcome us. So when I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, spreading malicious nonsense about us. Not satisfied with that, he even refuses to welcome other believers. He also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church. Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God. Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself. We also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true.I have much to write you, but I do not want to do so with pen and ink. I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. Peace to you. The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name. – 3 John 1:1-15 “3 John is a treasure that provides a glimpse into early church dynamics, provides a much-needed exhortation to Christians today, and makes a significant theological claim about where the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ is to be found.” – Karen Jobes1 - Walk in the truth.“If we were on trial for being a Christian, would there be enough evidence to convict us?” - Josh McDowell 2 - Practice hospitality.When we extend hospitality, we make our faith visible. 3 - Imitate good.Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God. – 3 John 1:11Who has influence in my life, and is their example one I should imitate?
“Walking in Truth and Love Through Hospitality” February 23, 2025 3 John Pastor John Choi Sermon Application [file] ----more---- 3 John 1 The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth. 2 Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. 3 For I rejoiced greatly when the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are walking in the truth. 4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. 5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are, 6 who testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they have gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support people like these, that we may be fellow workers for the truth. 9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. 10 So if I come, I will bring up what he is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers, and also stops those who want to and puts them out of the church. 11 Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself. We also add our testimony, and you know that our testimony is true. 13 I had much to write to you, but I would rather not write with pen and ink. 14 I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. 15 Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends, each by name. Christians walk in truth and love by imitating Christ and lifting up one another. • Prosperity gained in truth and love (1-4) • Others lifted up in truth and love (5-10) • Christ imitated in truth and love (11-14)
The Apostle John's letter to Gaius encourages emulating goodness over evil, highlighting the behaviors of Demetrius and Diotrephes. John stresses that our choices reflect our understanding of God, linking small acts of kindness to divine presence. Through intentional decisions, we embody Christ's love and goodness in daily life.
3 John 1-15 The book of 3rd John is a study of personalities—about three men with very different personalities, Diotrephes, Demetrius and Gaius. And in these men we see a picture of the church, both then and now. Dr. James Boice contrasts these three men and directs us in the characteristics of the ones that we should follow.
"I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth." These words, penned by the apostle John, echo through the centuries, reminding us of the profound connection between truth and joy in the Christian life. This letter is addressed to a Christian leader named Gaius, whom John commends for his hospitality and faithfulness to the truth. However, another—Diotrephes—is criticized for his pride and rejection of church authority. The Rev. David Boisclair, Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Overland, MO, joins the Rev. Dr. Phil Booe to study 3 John. In these epistles, John defends the truth of Jesus Christ against false teachings, calling believers to remain steadfast in their faith and grounded in the apostolic witness. He emphasizes the essential connection between truth, love, and fellowship, urging Christians to walk in the light, love one another, and reject anything that denies the person and work of Jesus. Through 1 John, we explore the assurance of salvation, the battle between light and darkness, and the call to abide in Christ. In 2 John, we are reminded of the importance of holding fast to the truth while guarding against deceivers. Finally, in 3 John, we see a personal glimpse into the challenges of church leadership, hospitality, and Christian unity. Together, these letters challenge us to live faithfully as God's children in a world that opposes His truth. Thy Strong Word, hosted by Rev. Dr. Phil Booe, pastor of St. John Lutheran Church of Luverne, MN, reveals the light of our salvation in Christ through study of God's Word, breaking our darkness with His redeeming light. Each weekday, two pastors fix our eyes on Jesus by considering Holy Scripture, verse by verse, in order to be strengthened in the Word and be equipped to faithfully serve in our daily vocations. Submit comments or questions to: thystrongword@kfuo.org.
The Apostle John wants to see the gospel grow and multiply throughout the world. And there are a few key ways the local church can facilitate that growth. By thinking of ourselves less and sacrificing for others more, we can all participate in the supernatural growth of the gospel.Application Questions: 1. Who are the brothers and sisters serving the kingdom who need your hospitality and support?2. Where do you see the spirit of Diotrephes at work in the church or in your own heart?3. Who is a "Demetrius" in your life? Who, specifically, should you be imitating?
In this episode, Dr. John Neufeld talks about the challenges and beauty of the local church, using the short book of 3 John. He compares the faithfulness of Gaius, who welcomed traveling missionaries, with the actions of Diotrephes, a church leader who sought power. Dr. Neufeld also highlights Demetrius, a faithful believer whose life showed godliness and truth. These examples remind us of the importance of staying faithful in the church, even with its flaws, and how everyday Christians can make a lasting impact by living out their faith.A Portrait of Christian Faithfulness: In spite of its brevity, 3 John provides us with a portrait of what faithful Christians in the early church did when it came to living a life of faith. It is a reference point of what a life of faithfulness should look like—even if we don't work in full-time ministry. It's amazing what God can do when we allow ourselves to be taught by His Word! A characteristic of a faithful Christian is someone who fully trusts God with their life without wavering, but what else does faithfulness entail? Does living a life of faith stop inside of us, or is faithfulness a quality that others can see from the outside?
Pride and power can be dangerous forces within the church. Dr. John Neufeld explores the story of Diotrephes from 3 John 9-10, a man who, driven by self-importance, rejects the authority of the apostles and manipulates the church for personal gain. In contrast, Gaius serves as an example of humility and faithfulness. This study challenges us to reflect on the destructive nature of pride and the importance of humility in our walk with Christ.A Portrait of Christian Faithfulness: In spite of its brevity, 3 John provides us with a portrait of what faithful Christians in the early church did when it came to living a life of faith. It is a reference point of what a life of faithfulness should look like—even if we don't work in full-time ministry. It's amazing what God can do when we allow ourselves to be taught by His Word! A characteristic of a faithful Christian is someone who fully trusts God with their life without wavering, but what else does faithfulness entail? Does living a life of faith stop inside of us, or is faithfulness a quality that others can see from the outside?
Jesus is the good shepherd – and in this world of sin and death (Romans 5 v.12) how urgent it is to find and hear the voice of the good shepherd. There have been many shepherds over the Centuries that have been good up to a point; for example, David, Solomon, Elijah and Hezekiah – and in recent Centuries, men of the calibre of Tyndale may well qualify. But they have been far outnumbered by worthless shepherds – and sadly is that not just about totally the situation today? Our thoughts travelled along these lines as we read the 11th chapter of Zedekiah. Verse 12 has that intriguing reference to those “who weighed out my wages thirty pieces of silver.” Those who readily paid over the money to Judas Iscariot were extreme examples of worthless shepherds, totally blind to the “good shepherd” . The one who received the 30 pieces of silver was the worthless one among the 12 Jesus was training to be shepherds to take his place after he left the earth. Do such shepherds exist today? The final verse of Zechariah 11 says, “Woe to my worthless shepherd, who deserts the flock …” Tragically worthless shepherds think they are serving God – the scribes and Pharisees are outstanding examples of this. They have existed in every generation; John, in his old age, wrote of a church leader called Diotrephes (see 3 John v.9,10) who was such a person and John adds, “whoever does evil has not seen God.” Our minds must have spiritual vision to “see” God. Doing evil starts in small ways, but whether small or not so small, there is a common factor says Jesus, “the world …. hates me because I testify about it that its works are evil.” [John 7 v.7] Do we avoid reading God's word because it pricks our conscience? It is tragic that worthless shepherds think they are serving God, Diotrephes surely did, but those who constantly read and absorb God's word, learn to be in awe of God, and so progressively develop an attitude that fits them to be seen by God and His Son as worthy shepherds, In the process of this they learn what it is to endure:- this brings us to our concluding thought in today's ch. 13 of Revelation. Verse 8 tells us of “the book of life” and those whose names are not written there. How tragic! But then comes the challenge -“If anyone has an ear, let him hear … here is a call for the endurance and faith of the saints.” [v.10,11] And as we try to endure we can add a parallel thought, ‘if anyone has an eye, let him read' and, as a result, really follow in the footsteps of the good shepherd.
In this episode, we dive into 3 John, exploring the life of Gaius, a man who faithfully supported missionaries, despite opposition from Diotrephes, a self-centered church leader. Through Gaius' example, we learn the importance of being a rope-holder—supporting those who carry the gospel to new places. We'll also look at the dangers of selfish leadership that can disrupt a church's mission. This episode calls us to examine how we support missionaries and serve alongside those spreading the good news. Join us as we unpack the lessons of generosity, selflessness, and the critical role of supporting God's global mission.