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Meet Faye, the founder of Untoxicated, and a “grey area” drinking coach. She was a heavy drinker for many years, but never really saw herself as an alcoholic, because on paper her life looked pretty successful. That was until 2017, when she wound up in hospital from her drinking. But she turned it all around, and part of her comeback story is that she has created a thriving community of people who are also giving up alcohol. And you know what? She's also a late diagnosed ADHDer. So we got her on the show to pick her brain about the connection between ADHD and addiction, and what we can do about it. Want to connect with Faye? Check out Untoxicated here. Her website is here. Her Insta is here. And her Facebook is here. —---------------------------- Thank you for listening! Please take the time to hit subscribe, review our show and share with others, so that we can get our message out there :) If you'd like to connect, you can do so here: Instagram. Facebook. Or reach out via our website at https://latediagnosisadhd.com. —---------------------------- We live and work on Gubbi Gubbi land and would like to pay our respects to their elders past, present and emerging.
Stephanie Fisher, AKA From the Daisies, is a super talented, world-class wedding photographer with a passion for connection and an editorial eye. Today, we get into the mystifying world of advertising for photographers. I asked her questions like, “Where do you buy ads? How do you get them? Is there a way of making sure your money is having an impact?” Having bounced around from Illinois to Colorado, New York to California, she's had to build and rebuild a client base after every relocation and creating ads for herself has helped her find work wherever she goes. And although this was originally meant to be a conversation strictly about ads and marketing, I couldn't help but ask her about her photography, too! Obviously. Because scrolling through her feed, it's easy to lose track of time and get sucked into her stunning world of beautiful images and emotive stories. In this episode, we talk about how to create your first ad, what the pros and cons are of paid advertising, how to attract clients who trust you, and why she got summoned to the Judge Judy courtroom once upon a time. This conversation is informative, funny, relatable, and so so packed with value you'd be silly to miss it!Her website:https://www.fromthedaisies.com/Her Insta:https://www.instagram.com/fromthedaisies/
Aida Glowik is an intimate wedding and elopement photographer based in Salem, Germany, and today she's on the podcast to talk about organizational strategies that she's learned over the years that are essential for helping a photography business grow. As self-described “chaotic person” in rehabilitation, she's had to force structure into her life and she's seen her creativity skyrocket and her overwhelm disappear as a result of that. From tips on batch working, to workflows and strategies that support her through the slow season, she's here to show you that it's possible to get everything done and not burn out.Her website:https://wedding-photography-podcast.com/Digital Planner: https://wedding-photography-podcast.com/plannerHer podcast:https://wedding-photography-podcast.com/Her Insta:https://www.instagram.com/aidaglowik/Wedding Photography Retreat in Corsica, France: https://wedding-photography-podcast.com/book-a-wedding-photography-workshop-in-corsica-france
In this episode, Mint dives deep into the 7th Fruit of the Spirit, faithfulness. She talk about the biblical definition, as well as practical ways we can build our faith muscles so we can be faithful. In addition, her special guest, Sarah, shares an incredible story of being faithful amidst a very painful marital situation. Would you stay faithful if you were in Sarah's shoes? Don't miss this episode! As a reminder, FREE resources on our site. Want to support Sarah and help fight human sex trafficking? Sarah's Etsy shop is here.Her Insta store is here.Support the show
This week we have the simply delightful Kelsey Peeples! She is a renowened photographer, traveler, TikTokker, and really cool lady! Her Insta - @kelseypeeplesphoto Her facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kelseypeepphotography her photo website - http://kelseypeeples-photo.squarespace.com/ this episode is sponsored by Still Austin Whiskey, Crush Downtown, Lit Arcade Bar, Sa*Vor Tapas Bar and the Drunken Oyster! #AmarilloRocks #reverendguitars #stillaustin #crush #litarcadebar #drunkenoyster #headrushfx! #savor #crushamarillo
Cloie Parfitt is a psychotherapist, originally from Tennessee in the United States, now living in Norwich in the UK. A former nurse, she switched to psychotherapy when she realised that she found the hospital environment and long shifts too much of a sensory challenge. She now works with many neurodivergent clients, and is currently undertaking a professional doctorate in counselling and psychotherapy at the University of Edinburgh, where she works collaboratively with autistic women to explore their experience of psychological trauma and trauma therapy. In our conversation we talk about ➡ Her experiences of social isolation, sensory overload, burnout and depression ➡ Psychotherapy and autism ➡ Why some types of therapy don't always work for autistic women ➡ Barriers to effective treatment, and how mental health practitioners can better mitigate these challenges. Squarepeg is a podcast in which neurodivergent women, and trans and nonbinary people, explore navigating a neurotypical world and share their insights, challenges and successes. I hope that these conversations will be inspiring and thought provoking, open you up to new ways of thinking about being neurodivergent, and help you feel more connected to a worldwide community of people with similar experiences. I'm Amy Richards, and after being diagnosed autistic at the age of 37 I'm now on a mission to learn more about different perspectives and issues around being a neurodivergent adult in a world that feels like it doesn't quite fit. EPISODE LINKS: Cloie's website: www.diversemindstherapy.org Her Insta: https://www.instagram.com/the_neurodivergent_therapist/ Samantha Craft's list of traits: http://www.myspectrumsuite.com/samantha-crafts-autistic-traits-checklist/ VOTE FOR SQUAREPEG IN THE BRITISH PODCAST AWARDS If you haven't voted in the British Podcast Awards yet, there's still time! I've been nominated for a Rising Star award for Squarepeg – and you can vote for me in the Listeners' Choice award. Voting closes on Sunday 17 July. It would be amazing if Squarepeg could win something, as it will help spread the word and allow more people who could benefit from it to find the podcast. >>> If you want to vote, click here and search for ‘Squarepeg' with no space to find the right show.
Welcome to season 2 Episode 6 ; Ruth is a fashion journalist turned striptease artist and sex coach. Having a background in journalism she became a spokeswomen for the industry . She also became a campaigner for the sexual rights for the individuals with disability . She does 1 to1 coach as well as having courses you can go on, to learn more about intimacy. She advises from experience she has seen it all and done it all . Whether it be being comfortable naked, BDSM , dominatrix or any subject under the sun that comes under intimacy. She will teach you about erotic energy and help you to explore ways you can enjoy sex especially focusing on sex you would like to have . How to be more confident , how to voice what you would like in intimacy . In this episode we then explore examples of kink whether it be questionnaires , types of power play physically , or psychological power play and what people may prefer. We then go on to speak about the erotic spark and how to maintain it. Distance breeds desire . To connect with Ruth : Her website : https://www.ruthramsay.com/weekend Her Insta : ruthramsay_ To connect with me : Insta : Gentletouchpodcast Email: gentletouchpodcast@gmail.com Check out my other YT Chanell: Miss Castro
My love, I'm so happy to share on the topic I'm chatting about today! It's just such a helpful tool to have in your arsenal against victim mode. In today's episode I talk you through some of my favourite types and ways of 'reframing', or 'flipping' the negative or unwanted stuff that happens to ALL of us! I'm so OB-SESSED with this 'cos it's uber useful. Anyway, I can't wait for you to listen and start using reframes more in your life. I'd super love to hear from you if you use any of the tips I share today! We're in this together I'm so thankful for you joining me! Big love, Zofie x To join my membership community and gain instant access to over fifty guided meditations, (including the meditations I've made just for children) head to this link: www.relaxmehappy.co.uk/membership Use the code ASK and you'll get a month FREE on signing up! You can also sign up for my monthly emails and receive a FREE guided meditation here: www.relaxmehappy.co.uk And, if you'd like to submit your own question, DM me on Insta (I'm @Relaxmehappy), or drop an email to me @ info@relaxmehappy.co.uk Other Resources: The Shawn Achor video I mention is here: https://youtu.be/GXy__kBVq1M Rosie from Self Love Coaching With Rosie's Insta Handle is @selflovecoachingwithrosie. Rosie shares heaps of useful content on her Instagram and often runs FREE Workshops. You can work with her one to one, in a group format, plus she has an online course! To dig into Human Design my go to guru is Erin Claire Jones. Her Insta handle is just @erinclairejones Oh, and the sweet film I mention is called Falling For Figaro!
In this expander series episode, I interview Chrissy Roil. She beautifully read my complete human design chart a couple months back and it was such a powerful experience for me as it's led me to have a deeper understanding of myself and others. After that I knew I needed her on the channel to share her wisdom with other people. "Chrissy Roil is a life design coach, igniting the Soulstress within. She really gets a kick out of seeing women walking this earth fully expressed, expansive and divinely radiant. Chrissy reminds us where to look... within. She empowers women to stop looking outside of themselves and playing by the one size fits all rule book. She illuminates and ignites women to their soul's purpose through her signature process, pathway to purpose, weaving in the magic of human design and embodied soul guidance”Her Website: https://www.chrissyroil.com/Her Insta; @chrissyroilWebsite: www.flowschool.com.auInsta: @flow.schoolFacebook: Flow SchoolEmail: info@flowschool.com.auI hope you have a beautiful sparkly day.
Happy Monday to you all, and welcome back. This week on the show, we have a very special guest, please welcome Michele Benevento! Michele is a Spiritualist who specializes in Reiki therapy, and readings using Tarot cards, and a connection to The Spirt. I know that you will be as amazed as we all were. That is all I'm gonna say. Ladies and Gentlemen, this is the quietest one Kevin Kane has ever been in his entire life. Listen and enjoy. Not only our families will know just how close Michele was in her readings of us. Please reach out to her for a reading at bareprayers@gmail.com. Her Insta which she'll be on tonight 10/11/2021 is reikiangel1 Also Michele will be launching an App in the App Store this week. Search for bare-souls-journey.passion.io. I Know I will! We will have Michele back soon as a guest, please enjoy
OK- I know I'm probably s'posed to be selling this episode to you, but I get SO awks 'selling myself!' So instead I'm just gonna keep it real! In today's episode I babble on about a thing that happened with me and my son last week, in the hope that it'll help you with your kids, in your life! I hope it helps! My inner critic is telling me it's just a load of random drivel, but he's full of crap so let's just ignore that shall we
Dani chats with Connie Weissmuller, MS, RDN, about fat phobia ingrained in the medical field, ageism, her Nutrition 101 course, internalized bias for thinness, juice cleanses, diet culture influence on instagram, healing relationship with movement and restorative yoga, COVID weight gain, Brene Brown, perfectionism and much more. You can find Connie's website here. And her amazing Nutrition 101 course here. Her Insta handle is: @constancelyeatingKeep up with me on Insta @dietitiandanicast for updates on the pod and more anti-diet content.Talk soon! Dani
On this episode of 'the Nostalgic Vagabond' podcast, I talk with Sixtina from sixmilesaway.com her website and blog. Sixtina says that travelling and living in diverse countries has helped shape her into the person she is today. Evolving from a self-proclaimed rebellious teenager, intolerant and stubborn, who wanted things her own way to a more rounded, simple-living woman who speaks multiple languages, is more tolerant, more patient, open-minded, spontaneous and good-humoured. Is this the result of the expat life? In conversation, Sixtina talks about her first living abroad experiences which happened in the USA on high-school exchange to improve English (6:55) of course but many other things too. We go on to talk about the meaning of the term 'expat' (8:55) at least what it means to us. I ask Sixtina what she believes makes for a good expat or a not so good one (10:15). We discuss stereotypes, pre-judging people and how we have to be aware of how easy it can be to hold prejudices, boxing people into who we think they are, based on where they come from (15:40). On the road, we can always be surprised. That is one of the great things about travelling. Sixtina shares some of the occasions where her expectations have not been met, (23:20) both in good ways and not so good ways. Being involved in the community (28:55) is important to Sixtina's expat existence. She has some information on how she assimilates when she is abroad and gives tips on volunteering opportunities that can be found all over the world and websites like "Work Away" that facilitate this exchange of culture and goodwill. We talk about Homesickness. Can you become immune or is it something that will creep up on you from time to time (39:10) especially when far away from your family during special holidays? Sixtina has some tips on how to cope from her many years of experience living as an expat in the Netherlands, Mexico, Ireland etc where the customs are different from that of her native Germany. No matter whether you are a beginner expat, or have been playing this game for a while we can always improve. Sixtina tells us how she intends to continue to improve and be the best traveller and expat she can be (48:55). It's good stuff. So are you ready? Enjoy! Don't forget to get out Sixtina on social media. Her blog: https://www.sixmilesaway.com/ Her Insta handle: @sixmilesaway And Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SixMilesAway Further links:- Work Away: https://www.workaway.info/ A big thanks to Tom Forfar for creating the title tracks for the podcast series. And, any comments or feedback feel free to email the_n_v@yahoo.com
Isis Duncan is a poet and photographer from Cleveland, USA devoted to young women growing up with healthy attitudes and practices around self and body including menstruation/fertility, self-pleasure, relationships and more. ~ She writes, "I came to my passion of teaching young women about confidence, spirituality and acceptance through my art when I was in high school. I grew up with a lot of abuse, harassment, conflicting sexual feelings and self confidence issues but I always found a passion in helping people so they didn't feel how I felt. That led me to where I am now, showing women the beauty in their natural being no matter if it's in spoken word or tangible photos." ~ In this conversation she models and expresses knowing yourself and your worth and your boundaries, being able to fulfill yourself emotionally and sexually, and from there entering into relationships where you can be yourself and grow and create. Her Insta channel is @sexual_spiritual_natural_ with website on the way. ~Thank you Isis for speaking from such deep heart, reflections and work for healthy women and society. ~Comments on this show and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to hsrthankyou@gmail.com or Instagram @hsrthankyou. Thanks for listening. ~Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/healthysexandrelationships)
THURSDAY! Ok, i think we are back on track! I cant' wait for you to hear today's guest! Not only is she an excellent podcaster but she turned out to be a great person to boot! You may know here from Embassy Row's Scissoring Isn't A Thing podcast or the Tuesday co host of The Taylor Strecker Show! Her Insta is @listentoliz! I love this kind of convo where we just go everywhere and have a lot of fun. Hope you guys do too! Talk to you on Friday!Remember to subscribe and join me Monday thru Thursday for interviews with podcasters and reality starts, show recaps, Garth and Justin, Bill and Becky Bailey and so much more!! Plus, tell your friends. I, honestly, think there is something for everyone in these pods. The more the merrier! ALSO GO CHECK OUT THE PATREON patreon.com/sobaditsgood. Support what we are doing here. THANK YOUUUUUUU!!!!!If you’re enjoying the insane amount of blood, sweat and literal tears of this pod consider telling a friend or rating us 5 stars on iTunes! Special shoutout to Maritza Lopez (Insta: @maritza.gif) for all of her insanely hard work creating these beautiful pieces of art on my instagram and patreon page!! Twitter: @ryanbailey25Instagram: @sobaditsgoodwithryanbailey, @ryanbailey25
This episode is jam packed full of goodies. Karla talks about how she got Covid and how she dealt with it as a T1D. Also, her comparisons of the UK health system vs Australia. Karla would love to connect with you
Julie Stewart has the superpower of making new friends and new connections with people - all people. In this podcast she shares skills that are good advice for any age, but especially for women over 50 that are entering new phases in life and want to explore new interests and find new friends to last into the second half of life. There are so many takeaways from this podcast and I encourage you to listen for your "nuggets", but Julie's biggest piece of advice for women over 50 who are determined to become more social is this: Make yourself accountable to other people to force yourself to be more social because being social is the #1 factor for maintaining your cognitive skills as you get older. So make it a priority. Schedule meet ups. Encourage conversation.Julie is always looking for adventure race partners, accountability partners, just anyone that may want to hang out, chat, and do something fun. You can reach her on FACEBOOK at Julie Stewart (from Frankfort). Her websites are http://juliestewart.juiceplus.com and http://juliestewart.towergarden.com. Her Insta handle is @julieduttonstewart and email address is: juliecdstewart@gmail.com - mention that you heard her on the podcast.Thank you so much for listening - if you enjoyed the podcast, take a screenshot and share on your social media so people can find me and my guests. Also, please SUBSCRIBE, RATE, and REVIEW so that the algorithm gods smile on me.I will return on Friday with another Friday Night BeerBlog with Mike here or on my website at https://llmcshane.com. And as usual you can follow me on Instagram @llmcshane or @lamcshane.
When words fail, images and colors can reach our hearts like nothing else. Images we can wrap around us can be just the comfort our aching hearts need. As fiber artist Liberty Worth says, “Textiles have an amazing ability to hold memory.” Part of her creative output is the work she does with families to create stunning memory quilts from the clothes of a lost loved one. While we reel from a pandemic, Liberty works to help us grieve our losses. We talk about the power of family, story, and using your talents for good. Please check out Liberty's work here. Her Insta is @libertyworthart. We talk about Silver Spoons, the film Tree of Life, the art of Silvia Gallini, and her Hearthside Salon episode. As always, info and registration for our screenwriting workshop and coaching is at PageCraftWriting.
Welcome, this week's guest Athina Crilley! Athina Crilley suffered with an eating disorder for 7 years from the ages of 13 to 20 and has been fully recovered for almost 5 years now. She's recently released a book all about her recovery and loves to speak about her story to spread her message of recovery and hope. She also has her own podcast where she talks about "Finding her Fit". https://anchor.fm/findingmyfit Her Insta: https://www.instagram.com/athinacrilley/?hl=en Her book: https://amzn.to/2FwshNu This week I talk with Athina about her story, talking about her journey through the eating disorder that she faced for many years. We explore what it was like when it started and during it, and how she was able to come to a place of recovery. We focus a lot on the many reasons why someone might develop an eating disorder and possible solutions that can be used to assist in recovery. We transition later on to talking about vision boards and I share the 6th vision board success that I had, yet again it's interesting how it relates to the conversation. In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life. I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you! Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! Thanks for listening! Benjamin Fincher You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. (until the end of the week I've got a Holiday Season Gift for free mentoring!) I've also got videos, links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. You can also apply to be a guest on the show there! So head on over and see what's up!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/starlightmentoring/support
I’m sure it’ll surprise no one when I say I had a complicated relationship with my hair growing up. Desis are supposed to have this super glossy, shiny, long, full straight hair and I had - and have - a gigantic curly mane. And that’s just on my head. I’ve got hair on my arms and legs, face, stomach. Once, in the third grade, my friend helped me shave my mustache - secretly, quietly, in her bathroom - and I had a lot of explaining to do when I got home. So if there’s a silver lining with mask wearing, it’s that I’m sitting in the threading chair a lot less these days. In this episode of Brown Mom, I talk to Hitha Palepu about hair. Hitha Palepu is a multi-hyphenate - an entrepreneur and investor, an author, a wife and mother. And while she says she spends more time than she should on Instagram, I'm glad she does. Her Insta content speaks deeply to me. Follow Hitha on Instagram @HithaPalepu Subscribe to Hitha's newsletter, #5SmartReads: https://hitha.substack.com/ Follow Brown Mom on social media: @Raakstar on Twitter @RaakstarWrites on Instagram And if you liked the episode, leave us a review and subscribe. Don't like it? Shhhh. Positive vibes only.
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In this episode, I'm chatting with one of my incredible Rock Your Business alumni, Jodie Brown!Jodie's been a hairstylist for 15 years (or longer. She did her first foils at 11!). She's also a brand strategist and Instagram educator for beautiful professionals who want to leverage their online presence to build a consistent brand and use Instagram without the overwhelm.We first met virtually in the fall of 2019 when Jodie was experiencing the aftermath of a few really hard years. We clicked immediately, and she decided to sign up for my Rock Your Business! You'll be blown away with how far she's come since last fall.So buckle up, because this is a good one!Here's what you'll get in this episode:Jodie's story and the breaking point that led her to sign up for Rock Your Business.The crazy serendipity of how we met, from Jodie's perspective!The REAL value of Instagram when it comes to growing your business. (And how she became an Instagram educator.)The importance of allowing yourself to feel your pain without minimizing it.Why I call bullshit on manifestation.The glory of online booking and why you need it.One of the biggest steps that moved the needle in Jodie's business.Why you need business buddies (and where you can find them!).I say this all the time: It doesn't matter what your life looks like on the outside. Success and fulfillment happen on the INSIDE, and that's what I try to teach and facilitate in my courses and masterminds.Jodie didn't just create a life that looks good on the outside. (Though she definitely did that. Her Insta is gorgeous!) She created a life and business that supports her from the inside out, and you can do the same!This episode is so inspiring, and I know you're going to love it. Go say hi to Jodie on Instagram @itsjodiebrown! Make sure to grab the free goodies in her bio, and watch for her upcoming Instagram course and private coaching!LINKS MENTIONEDhttps://www.instagram.com/itsjodiebrown/https://www.dawnbradley.com/ryb
On this episode I get to talk to Akiko Stehrenberger, movie poster artist. Woot! We talk about her work, sure, but also how she chills after a hard day at designing posters for the likes of Spike Lee movies (Da 5 Bloods) and many others. Her Insta is @doyrivative, and you could do yourself a favor and follow her. She also has a super-cool art-filled and high class coffee table book out HERE.
Hey Loves Welcome Back to the Hey Loves Podcast with me Kenzie Lee! Today we have Lauren Esposito on the Podcast we talk all things about what it's like ACTING in LA, (as she starred in the Conjuring 2 + more), STARTING A FITNESS TRAINING BUSINESS, HEALTH + FITNESS MINDSET + GOING PLANT-BASED + MORE!!! Lauren is such a sweetheart and offers her advice on the acting and fitness industries during the episode! Today's episode was brought to you by Baddie Bands! #QuaretineLife Stay tunned for NEW Episodes EVERY MONDAY AND FRIDAY!! FIND ALL THINGS PODCAST AND MORE ON KENZIE'S BLOG- https://xoxokenzie.com Here's the brand new Hey Loves Insta- https://www.instagram.com/heylovespodcast/ Kenzie's Insta- https://www.instagram.com/xoxokenzie/ CHECK OUT BADDIE BANDS PREMIUM FITNESS RESISTANCE BANDS WITH COUPON CODE "HEYLOVES" for an exclusive listeners discount! www.shopbaddiebands.com CHECK OUT LAUREN'S SOCIALS + SITE!! HER INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/laurenkesposito/?hl=en HER SITE: https://laurenespositofitness.com/ EXCLUSIVE QUICKBOOKS DEAL FOR HEY LOVES LISTENERS: https://quickbooks.grsm.io/heylovespodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/yourlifeselfmade/support
This week I am joined by Christine, a sleep advocate who also has Narcolepsy, a sleep disorder. In this podcast you will learn: - What Narcolepsy is (in the first ten minutes of the podcast) - How to get a good night's sleep - Why we need good quality sleep and what healthy sleep looks like - How sleep affects our imagination, concentration & focus - Why sleep is a key pillar for good health - Importance of dreams - How to keep our mental health on fleek - Nutrition for good sleep Connect with Christine Her Blog: http://thegirlwhoranawayinhersleep.com/ Her Insta: https://www.instagram.com/thegirlwhoranawayinhersleep/
This week I have an epic and inspiring mega-rant for you, with Dani Galvin, eating disorder survivor, insta influencer and fat activist from @iamdaniadriana. Dani is unapologetically HAPPY and embracing life, and because she dares to do all of this in a larger body, she’s a troll magnet. Trolling on the internet sucks, but trolling fat people for simply existing takes things to a new low. Join us for an awesome and fierce conversation about why the world needs fat activists, the psychology of troll mentality, what it’s like to have an eating disorder when you’re fat, and much, much more! Show Notes Dani has had a gutful of trolls on her Insta account, who on a daily basis harass and threaten her via DM and public posts on her Insta account. The aim of trolling isn’t debate or healthy criticism – it’s bullying, and they want to scare people off the internet. Dani’s convinced that the trolls have some deep seated psychological issues. Happy people just don’t feel compelled to bully strangers on the internet. Dani believes that forgiveness is a powerful tool – it helps her to let go of the impact. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t speak out against it! Places such as Reddit are dark holes where the hatred is real. Dani gets a lot of DM’s with links to Reddit, which is always bad. Or messages from people accusing her of promoting obesity. These people aren’t even reading her captions, they just look at her body at make judgements. It pisses them off that Dani exists and doesn’t feel ashamed of her body. She’s had trolls say things such as they ‘wouldn’t even rape her’. As if rape is a privilege? Trolling like this reveals the multiple levels of hatred and misogyny underpinning this kind of behaviour. This is not normal. Louise used to work with sex offenders in gaol, and agrees with Dani that threats of sexual or other violence is all about control – not sex. It’s using sex as a weapon to intimidate and exert power and control over women. Louise’s hat is off to all fat activists on SM! This message is so needed, but to think about how dangerous it is because of the constant trolling – it’s another level of trauma. It doesn’t bother Dani as much anymore. She’s had so many micro aggressions against her body in the real world, that online doesn’t matter. It worries Dani that the level of aggression towards people like Dani will scare other people in larger bodies away from fat activism or even just being ‘out and fat’. It’s a huge process to wake up from diet culture, to reject the idea that something is wrong with you or your body, and to stand against diet culture. It takes a long time, and everyone ends up in different places. Not everyone will end up being a fat activist! It’s ok for people in the body positivity process to be in different places. We’re all different and we need to respect that difference of experience. We need to think of the concept of psychological diversity as well as body diversity! To get over the trauma of diet culture, we all need to go through the stages of grief in order to let it go. This can take time, and it’s not easy. Regardless of how far you move away from diet culture, it’s not realistic to wake up every day loving your body! It’s not about loving your appearance. It’s about finding peace and acceptance. It’s about honouring and riding the tough stuff. And the reason you feel like this isn’t your fault – it was taught to you by diet culture. The default is diet culture, and it’s easy to be performative in that. It’s harder to stand up and cognitively and emotionally work through this shit. Dani has been in LOTS of therapy, and has done a lot of work to get where she is now. She didn’t wake up one day glowing with body love. Many of us are expected to be ‘performative’ in diet culture, by which Dani means we are expected to perform certain social rituals to meet social norms. Such as, taking part in body shaming when we’re with a group of women, or taking part in conversations which encourage food guilt. Diet culture performances, like feeling bad for eating the office birthday cake, is so in-built and multi generational. It’s literally never questioned in diet culture. Why can’t we just go to the party and enjoy the cake? There’s this strong idea that we need to diminish ourselves in front of others in order to be a ‘good person’. We’re doing it to fit in, to be accepted by others. Diet culture emphasises that what we eat equals who we are. And that certain types of food consumption patterns make us better or worse people. This is monstrous and serves to further oppress marginalised groups. When you’re a fat person in diet culture, how does the performative stuff show up? Being performative in diet culture as a fat person means always trying to lose weight – being a ‘good fatty’. There’s this strong idea that you can’t start living your life until you meet the goal of being thin. Dani had a list of things on her computer that she’d never do until she lost weight. These included going on a holiday, falling in love, wearing a swimsuit and getting a tattoo – things she’s done now, in her fat body! Dani had an extreme eating disorder for many years. She is scared by statistics that show that 1 in 4 people who diet will develop an eating disorder. There’s a push in certain research circles to say that dieting doesn’t lead to eating disorders in fat people. For Dani, dieting was a ‘gateway drug’ to an eating disorder. Not the only factor, but definitely a big one. Dani thinks the reason eating disorder professionals are making these claims is because now that eating disorders in higher weight people are being recognised, they don’t feel comfortable not prescribing weight loss! Weight stigma anyone? Dani’s eating disorder was really vicious, and she remembers being given the seriously screwed up mixed messages – ‘you’re taking it a bit far…but you’re doing really well.” Comments and perceptions like this meant that for Dani, during the last 2 years of having her eating disorder, all she thought about was wanting to die. Eating disorders have the highest mortality rate of all mental illnesses, and a large proportion of these are suicides. How many people in larger bodies are dying because of weight stigma in eating disorder treatment? The DSM needs to stop using the BMI as a criterion for diagnosis. No other mental illness has a weight requirement. Imagine just how high the eating disorder rate in people in larger bodies is. Dani suffered terribly from her eating disorder, but because of her higher weight, she struggled for it to be recognised and properly treated. It was by chance that she stumbled across a therapist who finally saw her and what was going on. Without that, Dani might not be here. There’s a lot of evidence to show that the impact of weight stigma on health is just as impactful as BMI itself. Dani appeared on a tv show alongside some of the ex Biggest Loser contestants (who had put on all of the weight again) and a whole pile of people doing weight loss surgery. Dr Dixon was there, spruiking the fact that diets don’t work therefore give everyone surgery. Dani was the lone voice of body positivity! We’ve let weight and diets become our church and we’re now equating our appearance to something spiritually meaningful. Dieting is literally the new religion. It’s healthist and exclusionary. The ‘obesity epidemic’ rhetoric puts all fat people in the same category and labels them as diseased, AND pretends that body size is a choice. This rhetoric keeps us all imprisoned, as thin people are terrified of fat too. It's rare to come across a health professional that actually cares about your experience as a human on the planet, to see beyond your BMI. Dani’s wish is to continue to advocate for larger people via her Insta platform, and she won’t let the trolls stop her! Her hope is that if she has kids or grandkids and they’re fat, that their experience won’t be like hers was. Her Insta account is a safe haven for people in larger bodies. Find Dani on Instagram @iamdaniadriana Resources Mentioned: Dani’s website The article which gives an overview of how weight stigma is potentially responsible for all of the health impacts usually attributed to higher BMI. The TV segment we were talking about with Dani featured – this version has been edited by Dani, so it’s not triggering. Where Dani gets all of these amazeballs bikinis! – on Insta: @alwaysforme @eloquii @asos @alwaysformellc
This week I have an epic and inspiring mega-rant for you, with Dani Galvin, eating disorder survivor, insta influencer and fat activist from @iamdaniadriana. Dani is unapologetically HAPPY and embracing life, and because she dares to do all of this in a larger body, she’s a troll magnet. Trolling on the internet sucks, but trolling fat people for simply existing takes things to a new low. Join us for an awesome and fierce conversation about why the world needs fat activists, the psychology of troll mentality, what it’s like to have an eating disorder when you’re fat, and much, much more! Show Notes Dani has had a gutful of trolls on her Insta account, who on a daily basis harass and threaten her via DM and public posts on her Insta account. The aim of trolling isn’t debate or healthy criticism – it’s bullying, and they want to scare people off the internet. Dani’s convinced that the trolls have some deep seated psychological issues. Happy people just don’t feel compelled to bully strangers on the internet. Dani believes that forgiveness is a powerful tool – it helps her to let go of the impact. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t speak out against it! Places such as Reddit are dark holes where the hatred is real. Dani gets a lot of DM’s with links to Reddit, which is always bad. Or messages from people accusing her of promoting obesity. These people aren’t even reading her captions, they just look at her body at make judgements. It pisses them off that Dani exists and doesn’t feel ashamed of her body. She’s had trolls say things such as they ‘wouldn’t even rape her’. As if rape is a privilege? Trolling like this reveals the multiple levels of hatred and misogyny underpinning this kind of behaviour. This is not normal. Louise used to work with sex offenders in gaol, and agrees with Dani that threats of sexual or other violence is all about control – not sex. It’s using sex as a weapon to intimidate and exert power and control over women. Louise’s hat is off to all fat activists on SM! This message is so needed, but to think about how dangerous it is because of the constant trolling – it’s another level of trauma. It doesn’t bother Dani as much anymore. She’s had so many micro aggressions against her body in the real world, that online doesn’t matter. It worries Dani that the level of aggression towards people like Dani will scare other people in larger bodies away from fat activism or even just being ‘out and fat’. It’s a huge process to wake up from diet culture, to reject the idea that something is wrong with you or your body, and to stand against diet culture. It takes a long time, and everyone ends up in different places. Not everyone will end up being a fat activist! It’s ok for people in the body positivity process to be in different places. We’re all different and we need to respect that difference of experience. We need to think of the concept of psychological diversity as well as body diversity! To get over the trauma of diet culture, we all need to go through the stages of grief in order to let it go. This can take time, and it’s not easy. Regardless of how far you move away from diet culture, it’s not realistic to wake up every day loving your body! It’s not about loving your appearance. It’s about finding peace and acceptance. It’s about honouring and riding the tough stuff. And the reason you feel like this isn’t your fault – it was taught to you by diet culture. The default is diet culture, and it’s easy to be performative in that. It’s harder to stand up and cognitively and emotionally work through this shit. Dani has been in LOTS of therapy, and has done a lot of work to get where she is now. She didn’t wake up one day glowing with body love. Many of us are expected to be ‘performative’ in diet culture, by which Dani means we are expected to perform certain social rituals to meet social norms. Such as, taking part in body shaming when we’re with a group of women, or taking part in conversations which encourage food guilt. Diet culture performances, like feeling bad for eating the office birthday cake, is so in-built and multi generational. It’s literally never questioned in diet culture. Why can’t we just go to the party and enjoy the cake? There’s this strong idea that we need to diminish ourselves in front of others in order to be a ‘good person’. We’re doing it to fit in, to be accepted by others. Diet culture emphasises that what we eat equals who we are. And that certain types of food consumption patterns make us better or worse people. This is monstrous and serves to further oppress marginalised groups. When you’re a fat person in diet culture, how does the performative stuff show up? Being performative in diet culture as a fat person means always trying to lose weight – being a ‘good fatty’. There’s this strong idea that you can’t start living your life until you meet the goal of being thin. Dani had a list of things on her computer that she’d never do until she lost weight. These included going on a holiday, falling in love, wearing a swimsuit and getting a tattoo – things she’s done now, in her fat body! Dani had an extreme eating disorder for many years. She is scared by statistics that show that 1 in 4 people who diet will develop an eating disorder. There’s a push in certain research circles to say that dieting doesn’t lead to eating disorders in fat people. For Dani, dieting was a ‘gateway drug’ to an eating disorder. Not the only factor, but definitely a big one. Dani thinks the reason eating disorder professionals are making these claims is because now that eating disorders in higher weight people are being recognised, they don’t feel comfortable not prescribing weight loss! Weight stigma anyone? Dani’s eating disorder was really vicious, and she remembers being given the seriously screwed up mixed messages – ‘you’re taking it a bit far…but you’re doing really well.” Comments and perceptions like this meant that for Dani, during the last 2 years of having her eating disorder, all she thought about was wanting to die. Eating disorders have the highest mortality rate of all mental illnesses, and a large proportion of these are suicides. How many people in larger bodies are dying because of weight stigma in eating disorder treatment? The DSM needs to stop using the BMI as a criterion for diagnosis. No other mental illness has a weight requirement. Imagine just how high the eating disorder rate in people in larger bodies is. Dani suffered terribly from her eating disorder, but because of her higher weight, she struggled for it to be recognised and properly treated. It was by chance that she stumbled across a therapist who finally saw her and what was going on. Without that, Dani might not be here. There’s a lot of evidence to show that the impact of weight stigma on health is just as impactful as BMI itself. Dani appeared on a tv show alongside some of the ex Biggest Loser contestants (who had put on all of the weight again) and a whole pile of people doing weight loss surgery. Dr Dixon was there, spruiking the fact that diets don’t work therefore give everyone surgery. Dani was the lone voice of body positivity! We’ve let weight and diets become our church and we’re now equating our appearance to something spiritually meaningful. Dieting is literally the new religion. It’s healthist and exclusionary. The ‘obesity epidemic’ rhetoric puts all fat people in the same category and labels them as diseased, AND pretends that body size is a choice. This rhetoric keeps us all imprisoned, as thin people are terrified of fat too. It's rare to come across a health professional that actually cares about your experience as a human on the planet, to see beyond your BMI. Dani’s wish is to continue to advocate for larger people via her Insta platform, and she won’t let the trolls stop her! Her hope is that if she has kids or grandkids and they’re fat, that their experience won’t be like hers was. Her Insta account is a safe haven for people in larger bodies. Find Dani on Instagram @iamdaniadriana Resources Mentioned: Dani’s website The article which gives an overview of how weight stigma is potentially responsible for all of the health impacts usually attributed to higher BMI. The TV segment we were talking about with Dani featured – this version has been edited by Dani, so it’s not triggering. Where Dani gets all of these amazeballs bikinis! – on Insta: @alwaysforme @eloquii @asos @alwaysformellc
In this episode Neena Jay talks all about her journey to date, her amazingly supportive husband, the value of networking, why it’s important to never stop learning and how she has overcome impostor syndrome. You can find Neena Jay at: Facebook: www.facebook.com/neenajay Instagram: www.instagram.com/neenajaybrows (Her Insta stories are fantastic, and she invites you all to DM her and share your business journey!)
How Instagram Can Transform Your Business Time is a huge factor when it comes to mums stepping into any courses or programs to better their business. If you're afraid of time as a bizmum, I have some advice for you: Time is going to pass by, whether you have a strategy or not. I know what it feels like to experience Instagram overwhelm, to feel like you always have to come up with good content but you don't know what content to post, the guilt that comes along with having your face buried in an app instead of spending time with your family, and to feel bummed by not getting likes, clicks, or generating an income from Instagram. This is why I've reverse engineered my strategies and methods to help you skip the learning period and start generating Instagram success. My course Hashtag Hustle will give you time back and help you make the most of your business. Today, I've invited an awesome Hashtag Hustle graduate onto the podcast to chat about her experience with Instagram before and after Hashtag Hustle! LET'S GET INTO IT I am seriously so excited to introduce today's guest 'cause she's here to discuss how her business has thrived on Instagram (even during her total rebrand!), simply because she puts in the work. She's graduated from Hashtag Hustle and has been implementing the strategies she learned along the way! Today's guest is Angela Sibley, a mum to three girls who initially started her biz as a creative outlet. Angela has a natural love for home decorating and organisation, so she brings her customers a range of interior decorations and DIY tips, tricks, and hacks that are unique, bold and distinctive to the Decor Me brand and your home. During this episode, Angela is going to talk about her major struggles and hurdles on Instagram, how difficult it was to grow a brand on Insta before knowing any form of strategy, her wins post-course, and her transformations into the Insta queen she is today! So give a huge welcome to Ange, and let's get into it! THE RECAP I absolutely adore Angela for being so honest about her marketing game on Instagram before Hashtag Hustle. During this chat, you will learn that Angela has such a drive to better her biz and really soak up as much knowledge as she can to make the most of her business. A true mother hustler! 1. Introducing Angela! Angela has been a mum with hustle for so long! If you look at her journey, she has always been a dedicated, and determined busy bee, so it's no surprise that her business is taking off. Key Points We Discussed: Who is Angela Sibley? What is Angela's biz journey? Why is it important to Angela to invest in herself? Why do you think being organised is so important for mum and in particular bizmums? 2. Angela's Journey With Growing A Tribe on Instagram Angela's passion to learn about Instagram is amazing! Her Insta transformation is something I've been so proud to witness. Key Points We Discussed: What was Angela's biggest struggles and hurdles when using the platform? What was the most frustrating part about growing a tribe was before Angela took Hashtag Hustle? At what point did Angela realise she needed help mastering Instagram? What is Angela's tip to getting stuff done? Angela plans everything into her week, but she always allow herself to be very flexible #becausekids. Think ahead and plan courses, challenges, etc. into your life. 3. Angela's Hashtag Hustle Transformation Angela was a serious introvert within her biz before she took Hashtag Hustle. Now, she's a natural on camera! Her transformation after taking Hashtag Hustle is incredible!! Key Points We Discussed: Was there something that had a profound effect on the way Angela approaches business and marketing on Instagram as a result from taking Hashtag Hustle?? Angela reports increased confidence in posting on her Insta Stories. How using Instagram Stories helped Angela relaunch her business? 4. Angela's Biz Rebrand Doing a biz rebrand is hard.