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Amidst the divisiveness and emotions of our culture, how can a leader maintain a non-anxious presence? Carey Nieuwhof, Bestselling Author, Speaker, Podcaster, Founder and CEO of Carey Nieuwhof Communications, discusses how the COVID-19 pandemic became both a disruptor and an accelerator in his work supporting ministry and business leaders. In this episode, Carey provides a glimpse into the challenges we face in our busy culture and how a sustainable rhythm is the best cure.Guest Links:Carey's LinkedInCareyNieuwhof.comConnexus ChurchCarey's PodcastCarey's YouTube ChannelAt Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy & Priorities Working in your FavorDidn't See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone ExperiencesLasting Impact: 7 Powerful Conversations That Will Help Your Church GrowLeading Change Without Losing ItParenting Beyond Your Capacity: Connect Your Family to a Wider CommunityCredits: Lisa Nichols, Host; Scott Crosby, Executive Producer; Daniel Williams, Recording Engineer; Jenny Heal, Guest Coordinator; Morgan Cochran, Marketing Support

Do you ever feel that you and your spouse are just too different sometimes? It can be difficult to pursue our marriage when we feel that our spouse doesn't see things the same way we do. Join us on today's podcast as we talk with our guest, Carey Nieuwhof, about "marriage success killers" and about how to continuously be curious about our spouse. Carey has one incredible piece of advice "Curiosity combats cynicism". It's time to be curious about our spouse and seek to understand them, even though they may handle things or think about things differently than we would. Being different can actually be an immense blessing--it just means that there is a lot more to discover! #26: To the couple who is SO different from each other (with Carey Nieuwhof) Mentioned in This Episode: Where you can find Carey: careynieuwhof.com Follow Carey on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter Books: Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor Also Mentioned Toni Nieuwhof's Podcast (Carey's Wife)     More information: Get our FREE eBook, 7 Days to an Awesome Marriage Learn more about us and our story Check out Radiant Marriage Academy, a FREE 16-session experience designed to help you set your marriage on a solid biblical foundation. Remember to follow us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Pinterest!

Ok, so this episode is a little late due to an unexpected stay in the hospital But, here we are at last celebrating pastor appreciation month. So, basically, I shoved a microphone in front of several confused pastors and asked them each, "When, as a pastor, do you feel most appreciated?" My prayer is that through this episode you will not only gain a better appreciation for your pastor, but learn how to express that appreciation in a meaningful way.Recommended Resources:For God's Sake, Rest! by James L. AndersonDidn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences by Carey Nieuwhof The Care of Souls: Cultivating a Pastor's Heart by Harold L. Senkbeil Church Elders: How to Shepherd God's People Like Jesus by Jeramie Rinne See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In today's episode, we cover peak performance and burnout with Carey Nieuwhof. Carey is the author of the best selling “Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences” and the host of one of our favorite podcasts, The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast. Introduction With all of the pressure to increase output and creativity these days, burn out is a real threat, so what are the warning signs you're entering a dangerous burn out cycle, how can you avoid it, and how can you improve your skill set without risking burn out? What to Listen For Introduction and Carey's history with burnout – 2:00 How do you manage the risks of burnout when building a business or focusing on your career? What does it mean to be at your best? – 14:10 What is one of the biggest myths about building a fulfilling career and life? What forms does burnout take and how can you recognize when you need help? The stress spiral and how to avoid it – 25:09 What are the warning signs you are stuck in the destructive stress spiral? What are the three types of energy zones we all have in a day and how do you identify them so you know when to do your best work and when to avoid doing work? Always be working on your gifts and skills – 43:45 How do world-class performers work to improve their talents and abilities? What do many of us allow our lives to be filled with that we should be saying no to? What exercise can you use to easily structure your week ahead of time so you don't end up feeling overwhelmed or burned out? Why should you set goals for yourself if you want to learn how to start saying no effortlessly? If you are feeling burnt out at work, it might have less to do with how much you're working and more to do with when you're trying to work. It has been shown that humans have a specific window of peak energy during the day, and if you try to push yourself too far outside of that window, the effects can be detrimental to your productivity as well as your physical and mental health. By structuring your day around your individual peak window, you can revitalize your passion and productivity while easily saying no to work and appointments that don't serve you. A Word From Our Sponsors Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 13,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here! Resources from this Episode At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor by Carey Nieuwhof Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences by Carey Nieuwhof The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube

Carey Nieuwhof is a best-selling author, leadership expert, podcaster, attorney and non-profit leader. As the host of the top-rated Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast and curator of one of the most widely-read leadership blogs, Carey is uniquely positioned to help leaders thrive in all areas of their life. His content is accessed over 1.5 million times a month. Carey's 20+ years in leadership are heavily focused on teamwork, leadership in change and personal growth. In his keynotes, he explores the challenges and provides solutions for leaders at all levels of an organization. His books include Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects But Everyone Experiences, Lasting Impact: 7 Powerful Conversations That Will Help Your Church Grow, Leading Change Without Losing It and Parenting Beyond Your Capacity, co-authored with Reggie Joiner. His newest book, At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy & Priorities Working in Your Favor, releases September 2021. Carey and his wife Toni live north of Toronto, Ontario and have two grown sons. In his spare time, you'll catch him barbecuing on his Big Green Egg, cycling or boating.   For show notes, visit https://calwalters.me/ 

About the Episode In the latest Craft & Character episode, Steve Carter interviews author, leader and former senior pastor of Connexus Church Carey Nieuwhof about how to get time, energy and priorities for every preacher working in their favor. Carey speaks candidly about what he learned from burning out and the wisdom he has acquired along the way that will help every single communicator to get out of the stress spiral and live well in the thrive cycle. Who is Carey Nieuwhof? Carey Nieuwhof is a former lawyer and founding pastor of Connexus Church.  Carey's passion for helping people thrive in life and leadership is evident in his latest book, At Your Best: How To Get Time, Energy And Priorities Working In Your Favor. Pastor Niewhof is also a gifted speaker and the best-selling author of, Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects But Everyone Experiences. From Carey: “I met the most amazing woman in my first year of law school. We got married before we graduated. By far...she's the best thing to come out of law school for me!  The second thing that happened was I experienced a call to ministry.  Honestly, the call confused me as much as it compelled me. I finished law and out of obedience, enrolled in seminary. In 1995, as I was wrapping up seminary, I started ministry as a student pastor among three little mainline churches an hour north of Toronto. When I started, one of the churches had an average attendance of 6 (not making that up). Much to my surprise I had discovered a community I'm still a part of over 20 years later. Our church has changed everything in those two decades...the music, the buildings, our governance, our mission, our vision....everything, really. We even left our denomination and now are a multisite church with three locations reaching over 1500 people each weekend. Along the way, I developed a passion for helping other leaders lead like never before.”

On today's episode, Alan has a phenominal conversation with poser couple, Toni and Carey Nieuwhof. Toni shares about her book Before You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriage.that releases TODAY! Toni and Carey also have a great discussion about their marriage journey, battle with depression, burnout, and how they have cultivated a strong and healthy marriage.  We challenge you to listen to this individually and collectively with your spouse or significant other. Leadership is hard and so is marriage. The Niewwhof's offer some very practical thoughts that can be applied to help you navigate your own relationships. About Toni and Carey Nieuwhof Toni Nieuwhof is an author, speaker and family law mediator, and has spent decades of her professional life practicing law and combining her professional careers of pharmacist and lawyer in leadership roles for hospitals. Her most challenging and rewarding work as a lawyer involved advising and representing people going through the journey of divorce. In her roles as mediator and lawyer, she is a steadfast voice for the well-being of the children involved. Toni co-founded and co-hosts the Smart Family Podcast to help people 'love being home'. Toni and her husband, Carey Nieuwhof started a highly influential church in the same rural community where they raised their two sons and continue to reside. They love exploring the wild outdoors anywhere, but especially in their locale north of Barrie, Ontario. Carey Nieuwhof is a former lawyer and founding pastor of Connexus Church. He's the author of several best-selling books, including his latest, Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects But Everyone Experiences which has spent months at #1 on Amazon in Christian leadership. He holds degrees in law, theology and history. Carey speaks to leaders around the world about leadership, change and personal growth. He writes one of today's most widely read Christian leadership blogs at www.CareyNieuwhof.com and hosts the top-rated Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast where he interviews some of today's best leaders. His podcasts and blogs are accessed by millions of leaders each year. Carey's previous books include Lasting Impact: 7 Powerful Conversations That Will Help Your Church Grow, Leading Change Without Losing It and Parenting Beyond Your Capacity, co-authored with Reggie Joiner. He is passionate about helping people thrive in life and leadership, both personally and in leadership. He and his wife Toni live north of Toronto, Ontario and have two grown sons. In his spare time, you'll catch him barbecuing on his Big Green Egg, cycling or boating. Connect with Toni and Carey Toni: Twitter and Instagram @ToniNieuwhof Carey: Twitter & Facebook: @cnieuwhof | Instagram: @careynieuwhof Take your next right step Practical Leadership tweaks delivered to your inbox Join the FREE Five Day Jumpstart to get productive and gain momentum

Have you ever gone to an opera or a seen a musical? You know when they have that intermission break in between acts where you get to get up, go get a snack at the snack bar, get a cup of coffee or hot cocoa and chitchat with friends? Well, that's what we're doing with this episode as we take a quick intermission break before we finish the High Sierra Trail series. SHORT TRAILS AFTER THE HST:Rocky Peak Trail - Simi Valley, CAPotato Chip Rock via Mt. Woodson Trail - Poway, CARay Miller Trail (end of the Backbone Trail) - Malibu, CAStunt High Trail/Saddle Peak - Calabasas, CATowsley Canyon Trail - Newhall, CAQUARANTINE ENTERTAINMENT:"Cotton Candy Skies"A Quaran-Tune by Julia Cagashttps://open.spotify.com/album/6Uk9UlpxP8hkGZsBHSSeA9?si=AZbaeK_bTtOyR9-DzMuK3gBOOKS I'VE READ OVER THE QUARANTINE"Everybody, Always"Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult PeopleBy Bob Goffhttps://bobgoffstore.com/collections/bob-goff-store/products/everybody-always-softcover"Rhythms of Renewal"Trading Stress and Anxiety for a Life of Peace and Purposeby Rebekah Lyonshttps://store.rebekahlyons.com/collections/rhythms-of-renewal-trading-stress-and-anxiety-for-a-life-of-peace-and-purpose"People Fuel"Fill Your Tank for Life, Love, and Leadership by John Townsendhttps://www.amazon.com/People-Fuel-Fill-Your-Leadership/dp/0310346592/ref=nodl_"Didn't See It Coming"Overcoming the Seven Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiencesby Carey Nieuwhofhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0782YHS8P/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1"Scouting The Divine"Searching for God in Wine, Wool, and Wild Honeyby Margaret Feinberghttps://www.amazon.com/Scouting-Divine-Feinberg-Margaret/dp/0310331544/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1602701630&sr=1-1"How To Break Up With Your Phone"The 30-Day Plan to Take Back Your Lifeby Catherine Pricehttps://www.amazon.com/How-Break-Up-Your-Phone/dp/039958112X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=7S5LW6BN78AD&dchild=1&keywords=how+to+break+up+with+your+phone&qid=1602701687&s=books&sprefix=how+to+break+up+with+your%2Cstripbooks%2C205&sr=1-1How I got a hold of this book: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/BOOKS I AM CURRENTLY READING:"Hungry For God"Hearing God's Voice in the Ordinary and the EverydayBy Margaret Feinberghttps://www.amazon.com/Hungry-God-Hearing-Ordinary-Everyday-ebook/dp/B004DCAV6E/ref=sr_1_14?crid=7UWXHANWYLM5&dchild=1&keywords=margaret+feinberg+books&qid=1602701731&s=books&sprefix=margaret+feinb%2Cstripbooks%2C201&sr=1-14"Reckless Faith"An inspiring collection of true stories about real people who, when faced with real challenges, chose to trust God – is a call to every reader to live with Reckless FaithBy Beth Guckenbergerhttps://www.bethguckenberger.com/beths-books/reckless-faith"Blackout"How Black America Can Make Its Second Escape from the Democrat PlantationBy Candace Owenshttps://www.amazon.com/Blackout-America-Second-Democrat-Plantation/dp/1982133279/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=OUR COFFEE COMPANY:www.yondercoffee.comMUSIC I AM REALLY INTO RIGHT NOW:Strahan Musichttp://www.strahanmusic.com/Follow us on IG @StuffBelleSays and let's have a conversation!

On today’s episode, we get to have a discussion with the authority on quality leadership, Carey Nieuwhof. When he was a young man working at a law firm, Carey had a vision that he was supposed to be a pastor. Following that calling led him to become a founder of Connexus, now one of the most influential churches in North America. Carey has been an instrument of change that has helped the church evolve drastically over time to better serve its community, and has since found his passion for helping leaders all over the globe thrive and become the best versions of themselves. In this episode, Carey walks us through what to do when we get burned out, exhausted, and life seemingly falls apart. How do we recover from that in a way that helps us become exceptional leaders? How do we learn to balance each important element of our lives, each of which seem to demand too much from us? Carey discusses the difficulties of establishing boundaries in today’s ever-connected world, how to build better relationships with people, and how to live in a way that will help us prosper tomorrow.    Links, Products and Resources Mentioned: Carey Nieuwhof Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast “Didn’t See It Coming: Overcoming the Seven Challenges that No One Expects and Everyone Sees” book Connexus Church Osgoode Hall Law School The Genesee Diary: Report from a Trappist Monastery History of the Eagles Documentary Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Andy Stanley Lysa Terkeurst Archibald D. Hart, Ph.D., FPPR  ”Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward” book *This episode discusses suicide. If you or a loved one are experiencing thoughts of suicide, there is free and confidential support for you. Call the National Suicide hotline at 1-800-273-8255 to receive prevention and crisis resources.   Interview Quotes: “Andrew Steen, a physicist at Cambridge and a person of faith, talks about how physics informs the way that we think about God and theology; and in the 17th century Newtonian physics, the universe is like a giant machine. So thinking about God and His sovereignty in a pretty mechanical way kinds of made sense. Everything is cause and effect. Now with the law of indeterminacy, reality looks so much different and [Steen] says it actually fits the story of the Bible better because the God of the Bible is a God of improvisation.” —John Ortberg    “When you're on the outside looking in, or you're 25 years old, you think, Oh, all these successful people, they're successful because they don't have any struggles right there.They're just really gifted, really talented. They work hard,they hustle and therefore they succeed—and they must not have the struggles that I have. They don't get tired. They don't argue with their spouse.They don't struggle with identity or purpose or any of that. I've had the great privilege over the last decade plus of meeting a lot of the people I used to read or admire or listen to. And you realize, when you get to know them as people, they've all got that story. And one of the ones that almost everyone moves into is the end of what they can accomplish.” —Carey Nieuwhof, on our perception of others   “Most people, if they don’t have a burnout story, there is a pivot that happens where they really, really struggle with, with the limits of what they can do.” —Carey Nieuwhof, on life’s essential moments   “I think one of the traps that got me was, Oh, so working for God must earn me points of some kind. And, oh, to not work harder is probably unfaithfulness. And so all through my thirties I cheated my family. And as our church grew, more people equals more hours, and more success equals more accolades. And I was winning church, but losing at home. And I realized when you're winning at church and losing at home, you're losing. That is a temporary victory, an empiric victory, an empty victory. But it's not really a victory.” —Carey Nieuwhof, on untangling his job from his personal faith   “I think technology has made [life balance] more complicated because we're never really on and we're never really off anymore. You know, the office is something we used to go to and now the office goes to us. And that is really difficult because as a CEO or as a founder or an entrepreneur or a pastor, you've got 11 inboxes and you're available 24/7, and this device that you're using to figure out where you're going to go for dinner with your wife is the same device that your team is emailing you on.”—Carey Nieuwhof, on having life balance “By the time this race is over, I want the people closest to me to be the people who are most grateful for me. I want [my] relationships to be healthy, and good, and real, and the friendships deep, and the team that I actually work with day to day and have to put up with me day to day to want to work with me day to day.” —Carey Nieuwhof, on relationships with others   “We are designed to be fully known by God and by a handful of others.” —Carey Nieuwhof    “Let God go deep—go deep into whatever this dysfunction is, or this season is—go deep. Because if God wants to go deep, it's because He wants to take you far.” —Carey Nieuwhof    “We just get used to mediocre living. We get used to living drained or with a lack of motivation, or inspiration, or elevation, or a dream. And nobody sets out for that. Nobody says, ‘I want to live a life where I'm exhausted or tired or not inspired.’ We just get used to it.” —John Ortberg ________________________    Connect with John Ortberg John Ortberg website Twitter Instagram Facebook

In this episode, you will hear Carey Nieuwhof discuss his new book, "Didn't See it Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges That No One Expects and Everyone Experiences."To find ways to connect with Carey and links to everything we discussed, and a transcript of this interview, go to http://www.l3leadership.org/episode208.About Carey:CAREY NIEUWHOF is a former lawyer and the founding pastor of Connexus Church in Barrie, Ontario, one of the most influential churches in North America. He is a much sought-after conference speaker, podcaster, and thought leader. With millions of listeners regularly tuning in, The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast features today's top leaders and cultural influencers. Carey and his wife, Toni, reside near Barrie, Ontario and have two children.Sponsors:Future Forward Cohort: https://www.futureforwardchurches.com/the-cohort/Henne Jewelers - http://www.hennejewelers.com Alex Tulandin - http://www.pittsburghpropertyshowcase.com Subscribe to our podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/l3-leadership-podcast-leadership-entrepreneurship-business/id495751888?mt=2 Listen on TuneIn: http://tun.in/piVUO Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3CBHbRL6rJtSXwpKBaamNo?si=8ZllK41EQnaKHcqNkNUj5wSubscribe to our podcast on Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/learning-to-lead-podcast Subscribe on Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/listen?u=0#/ps/Iehhmsctsgmvmoyvhxsv6yfzoiu L3 Leadership exists to build and develop a community of leaders that grow to their maximum potential, develop the courage to pursue their dreams, and to become great leaders in their families, communities, cities, nations, and their world. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/l3leadership)

Have you ever run into an obstacle or situation that you just didn’t see coming? Carey Nieuwhof is a former lawyer, and founding pastor of Connexus Church in Barrie, Ontario just north of Toronto, Canada. Carey’s latest book, Didn’t See it Coming looks at the 7 greatest challenges that no one expects and everyone experiences. Today on the podcast, we jump into what he hopes the book will do for you as a leader and how to overcome cynicism as a leader. Welcome to episode 37 of the Young Church Leaders Podcast with Grant Vissers!

In this episode of the 5 Leadership Questions podcast, Todd Adkins and Daniel Im are joined by Carey Nieuwhof, author of Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges that No One Expects and Everyone Experiences. During their conversation, they continue their discussion on the challenges that everyone faces. Will you give us an overview of irrelevance? How do we keep from sliding into pride and narcissism as we continue to grow? What will only humility get you out of that pride got you into? Let's move on to the next challenge no one expects to face: emptiness. How do we see burnout coming? BEST QUOTES “It’s inevitable that you become irrelevant unless you decide not to.” “You think you are cutting edge because you used to be cool, you used to be great, and nobody 15 years younger than you believes that anymore, but you are the last guy to know.” “The antidote to irrelevance is change.” “Relevance simply gains you permission to speak into the culture.” “I think you can communicate understanding without communicating agreement.” “If I can understand their world I have a better chance of speaking into it.” “Our crisis is not a crisis of information it’s a crisis of meaning.” “The gap between how quickly you change and how quickly the culture changes is called irrelevance.” “You want to make sure you are imparting meaning to a culture that is changing rapidly in a way that that culture can understand.” “Most leaders pride comes not from narcissism, but from insecurity.” “Push other people into the spotlight.” “I think as you get older, your job is not to hog the spotlight, it is to push younger leaders into the spotlight. It’s to give them the opportunity.” “Only humility will get you out of what pride got you into.” “Humiliation is involuntary humility.” “When you have to confess it, you have to address it.” “There is a whole in the middle of your heart that really only Christ can fill.” “I’ve got to live in a way today, that will help me thrive tomorrow.” RECOMMENDED RESOURCES Pipeline 2018 Conference Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges that No One Expects and Everyone Experiences by Carey Nieuwhof

In this episode of the 5 Leadership Questions podcast, Todd Adkins is joined by Carey Nieuwhof, author of Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges that No One Expects and Everyone Experiences. During their conversation, they discuss some of the challenges that everyone faces. What are the types of cynicism that we often face and how do we address those? How does compromise play a role? How do leaders often disconnect? What does that look like and what is the result? BEST QUOTES "I didn't feel my heart grow bigger in ministry, I felt it grow smaller. And that's how cynicism starts." "Most cynics are made not because they don't care, but because they did care." "If you close your heart to people, you close your heart to God." "The curious are never cynical, and the cynical are never curious." "There is social research that suggests that the average person tells about 200 lies a day." "If you let yourself get away with the little things, will you let yourself get away with more?" "If you find yourself in that, humble your public talk and accelerate your private walk." "You cannot be intimate in a hurry." "I have a tendency to disconnect from human relationships, which kind of goes back to the book of Genesis. That we have a tendency to disconnect from God." RECOMMENDED RESOURCES Pipeline 2018 Conference Didn't See It Coming: Overcoming the 7 Greatest Challenges that No One Expects and Everyone Experiences by Carey Nieuwhof