Because We Said So... The Podcast for Moms Who Do It All

In this episode, Jess and Anissa spill all the tea on dating, craving personal space, and navigating the emotional rollercoaster that comes with big life changes. From chaotic family dynamics to tearful goodbyes and awkward new beginnings, it's a full-on ride. They get real about how self-care isn't a luxury—it's survival—and why sometimes, you just need to leave and romanticize your life in a hotel robe.

On this week's episode, Jess and Anissa are in full catch-up mode...talking about moving chaos, messy work moments, summer dreams, and all the real stuff in between. From feeling cute one minute to spiraling the next (we've all been there), this convo is like a FaceTime with your funniest, most unfiltered friends. Pop in your earbuds and come hang out.

One year in, and we are just getting started.

Jess and Anissa take you on a wild ride from closet clean-outs to closet drama on the secret lives of reality TV. They talk sweaters, plastic surgery, and that one childhood toy you're definitely still emotionally attached to. Add in a dash of social media spirals, personal boundaries, and a surprise shout-out to South Africa—this episode's got more layers than your winter wardrobe.

This week on Because We Said So—we're talking chaos, commitments, and the beautiful insanity of Mother's Day. Jess and Anissa break down what it really looks like to celebrate motherhood (spoiler: it involves zero sleep, a lot of slime, and saying yes when you probably shouldn't). From wild family gatherings to those rare, sacred moments of peace, this episode is a hilarious, heartfelt reminder that parenting is the ultimate high-wire act—and you're not alone on the tightrope.If you've ever needed a nap, a laugh, and a reason to say no… this one's for you.

This week, Anissa and Jess dive headfirst into the chaos — from travel curveballs and podcast tech drama to parenting pressure, affirmations that actually hit, and the mindset hacks that keep them moving forward. It's real talk, high energy, and full of laughs.Oh—and quick reminder: women run the economy. Full stop.If you've ever juggled ten things at once and still made it look good? This one's for you. Let's break it down, level up, and keep it moving — Because We Said So.

Jess and Anissa are back, swapping hilarious, real-life stories about parenting chaos, awkward family moments, and the wild ride of trying to balance it all. It's raw, relatable, and feels like venting with your funniest, most unfiltered friends.

Jess and Anissa are spiraling (in a good way). They're talking moving stress, making friends as adults (spoiler: it's weird), self-care that's not just face masks, and how AI is lowkey stalking us. It's laughs, feels, and a reminder that we're all just trying to keep it together. Tune in!

In this episode, Jess and Anissa go all in, unpacking family drama, wellness routines, life disasters, and the wild ride of growing into the best version of yourself. It's funny, it's real, and it's packed with the kind of energy that gets you fired up to crush your day.

In this episode of Because We Said So, Anissa and Jess are back after a little break and are spilling all the juicy details. They're talking about NYC adventures, chaotic birthday parties, and the highs and lows of parenting—because, let's be real, kids are basically tiny CEOs. They dive into the craziness of balancing work, life, and a big move to Florida (goodbye winter, hello sunshine). Plus, they chat about how family support is literally everything, why self-care is non-negotiable, and how teamwork makes the dream work. And, of course, they throw in some fab product recs and glam tips along the way!  

Jess and Anissa are diving headfirst into the beautiful chaos of life—from parenting struggles and dating misadventures to the hilarious realities of getting older. They're keeping it real, sharing unfiltered stories about moving meltdowns, relationship rollercoasters, and why seasonal changes somehow feel personal. With plenty of laughs, hot takes, and a healthy dose of self-deprecating humor, this episode is all about embracing the unpredictability of life, finding joy in the mess, and realizing that none of us actually have it all figured out—and that's totally okay.

Jess and Anissa dive into real estate, health, and parenting with their signature mix of strategy and laughs. Jess is deep in the house-hunting game, figuring out how to negotiate like a pro, while Anissa keeps things sharp on communication. They break down the importance of vitamins, the chaos of parenting, cultural takes on food, and why reality TV is more absurd than ever. Plus, weekend adventures in Soho and a new friend sets Anissa straight.LET'S GOOOOOOOOOO

Parenting, real estate, relationships, and self(ish)-care—Jess and Anissa cover it all. From selling homes to surviving tantrums, they share the highs, lows, and laugh-out-loud moments of balancing it all. Whether you're closing deals or just trying to get through the day, this episode is packed with real talk, big energy, and game-changing insights." Lets gooooooooooooooooooooo

Birthdays, beauty, and pop culture—oh my! In this episode, Jess and Anissa dive into everything from aging (gracefully… or not), the chaos of adulthood, and the never-ending pursuit of youth. They swap engagement stories, fangirl over Kate Hudson, and break down beauty trends with their signature humor. Family, love, personal growth—it's all here, wrapped up in a fast-paced, laugh-out-loud conversation. Buckle up, because this one's a ride!

This just in!! Anissa is on a decluttering spree, Jess is trying to sell her house without losing her mind, and somehow, pets and family drama make it into the mix. They break down real estate struggles, social media nonsense, and why setting future goals actually matters. If you've ever tried to clean out a closet and ended up questioning your entire life—this one's for you. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and maybe even some motivation (no promises).

Alright, everyone—buckle up, because Jess and Anissa are bringing the energy, the real talk, and the ultimate deep dive into parenting, reality TV, family drama, social media madness, and all the chaos that comes with everyday life.This episode is packed with everything you love—hilarious personal stories, the highs and lows of parenting, the art of surviving family get-togethers, and how meditation might just be the secret weapon to keeping it all together (or at least pretending we are). Plus, we're talking about aging parents, evolving friendships, and why reality TV is basically therapy at this point.If you're balancing a million things, trying to prioritize self-care, and still finding time to binge your favorite shows—this one's for you. Let's go!

Jess and Anissa are diving deep into the wild world of parenting, health fads, and the ridiculous ways celebrity culture messes with our minds. From decoding text messages (because, let's be honest, they always get misread) to surviving single parenting with a sense of humor, they're keeping it real. They're also calling out the latest health trends—because, spoiler alert, not everything on Instagram is actually good for you. Add in a little community support, questionable food choices, and the joys (and disasters) of motherhood, and you've got a conversation you won't want to miss. Let's laugh through the chaos together!

Okay, so this episode is literally a rollercoaster, and I'm obsessed. Jess and Anissa somehow go from struggling with tech issues (relatable) to discussing cow hoof trimming (yes, you read that right) to deep dives on relationships, parenting wins and fails, and the power of a well-decorated home. Oh, and of course, we sprinkle in a little beauty talk, because priorities. If you love hearing hilarious tangents mixed with actually useful life advice, this one's for you. Grab a coffee (or wine, no judgment) and let's get into it!

Jess and Anissa are keeping it real—from Lunar New Year celebrations to health struggles, family chaos, and the wild ride of self-care. They're tackling the pressure of doing it all, the frustration of doctor visits, and the power of putting yourself first. With plenty of laughs and a touch of nostalgia, this episode is your reminder to embrace the mess, own your journey, and never forget to prioritize YOU.

In this episode of Because We Said So, Jess and Anissa dive into a heartfelt and hilariously real convo about life's curveballs and how they're learning to care less about the nonsense and more about what truly matters.

In this spicy episode of Because We Said So, Jess and Anissa dive deep into the chaotic cocktail of life—relationships, parenting, and reality TV, oh my! They spill the tea on why timing is everything (in love and in life), how setting boundaries can save your sanity, and what reality TV teaches us about authenticity. From juggling family drama to finding time for self-care, they keep it real, raw, and laugh-out-loud funny. Get ready for the life lessons you didn't know you needed, all wrapped up in a relatable, unfiltered convo you won't want to miss!

Happy New Year!! Jess and Anissa are back, bringing all the laughs and real talk about surviving the holidays. From the chaos of traveling with kids to indulging in festive treats and sneaking in beauty treatments, they're covering it all. With heartfelt moments about gratitude, generosity, and finding joy in the little things, this episode is your guide to navigating the season with humor and heart. Tune in and let's make the holidays a little brighter together!!!

Jess and Anissa are here to bring the laughs and real talk as they dive into the holiday madness. They're spilling the goods on family traditions, the chaos of potentially hosting, and the wild expectations around holiday food (who even eats cranberry sauce?). With sleep deprivation in full swing, they chat about balancing parenting, family traditions, and how social media sneaks into it all. Plus, they're dishing on recent movies, those little moments that bring the most joy, and how setting boundaries can save your sanity this season. Grab a plate, a drink, and join the party—it's about to get festive!

In this episode of Because We Said So, Jess and Anissa are back to discuss the wild ride that is parenting. They tackle the sleep-deprived madness of transitioning kids from cribs to big-kid beds (spoiler alert: it's not smooth), and Jess dreams of a family vacation that doesn't involve more stress. With Thanksgiving creeping closer, they dish on family dynamics, holiday planning disasters, and the beautiful trauma of motherhood. From personal stories that will have you saying, “Same!” to tips on keeping it together during the holidays, this episode is all about embracing the imperfect, hilarious, and heartfelt moments of family life.

Jess and Anissa are serving up laughs and life lessons in this episode as they unpack everything from the power of affirmations to the eternal struggle of finding underwear that actually fits. They get real about body image, family events, and the chaos of grocery shopping—because who hasn't looked for something that is right in front of them? With a mix of personal stories, holiday prep disasters, and self-care tips, this convo is like hanging out with your funniest, most relatable friends. If you're into personal growth, wellness, and maybe a little too much snack talk, this episode's for you.

In this episode, Jess and Anissa delve into the complexities of family dynamics or drammmaaa, particularly focusing on boundaries and emotional manipulation (let's not get too carried away this is sister stuff). Anissa shares a personal experience regarding her sister, leading to a broader discussion on coping mechanisms during tough times, including binge-watching TV and target hauls, of course. The conversation shifts to exploring human design as a tool for self-discovery and understanding personal traits. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and reflect on their personal growth journeys. The episode concludes with a note of gratitude and optimism for the future because, after all, everything is fucking great. keywords: family dynamics, boundaries, coping mechanisms, human design, self-discovery, personal growth, relationships, gratitude, mental health, emotional well-being

In this episode, Jess and Anissa dive into the absolute rollercoaster of parenting—think school breaks, parent-teacher conferences, and somehow keeping it all together. They're spilling on what it's like balancing mom-life with self-care (yes, they actually go to the gym) and how therapy, humor, and a little bit of daily support help keep them sane. They also chat about body image, relationships, and finding their own personal growth even when life feels like a nonstop treadmill. Grab your coffee, wine, or whatever gets you through, and get ready for a raw, real, and ridiculously relatable convo on all things motherhood.

In this episode, Jess and Anissa dive into the wild world of mom friendships (yes, it's a thing!) and how the pandemic threw even more twists into the mix. From balancing family life to keeping structure without losing their sanity, they spill on the real talk about setting boundaries, managing expectations, and understanding generational quirks that pop up in parenting styles. They also share what it's like to juggle self-esteem and social dynamics while navigating motherhood and why having a strong friend circle matters more than ever. Happy Halloween!

Okay, besties, in this episode of Because We Said So, Jess and Anissa are serving up some seriously cozy vibes and spilling the tea on all things life. We're diving into parenting wins (and fails), relationship drama, and how to keep the spark alive when you're just trying to survive. Plus, there's talk of our forever love for cozy moments, the craziness of family dynamics, and the ups and downs of shopping addiction. And, of course, we get real about self-care, fashion trends, and why we'll never stop growing and glowing. Buckle up for some laughs, some truths, and maybe a little TMI—it's all part of the fun!

In this episode of Because We Said So, Jess and Anissa are celebrating Indigenous Day while diving into parenting, family fun, and trying to be domesticated. They get real about keeping kids entertained (because, let's be honest, it's a full-time job), juggling personal projects like gardening (yeah right), and still finding time for a solid skincare routine. Are my eyes dark? They even chat about natural disasters (because safety is key!), prepping for Halloween, and some health and wellness tips. All with their usual hilarious, light-hearted vibes.

In this episode, Jess and Anissa are back, and Anissa's giving us the full scoop on her wild family trip to Orlando. Think chaos with little kids, Disney madness (because strollers are basically the enemy), and some hilarious moments in the land of Gators. —To top it off, they dive into holiday plans, parenting highs and lows, a Yankees game and the juggling act that never ends. We LOVE this little life we live!!

In this episode of Because We Said So, Anissa and Jess are back after a little break and are spilling all the juicy details. They're talking about NYC adventures, chaotic birthday parties, and the highs and lows of parenting—because, let's be real, kids are basically tiny CEOs. They dive into the craziness of balancing work, life, and a big move to Florida (goodbye winter, hello sunshine). Plus, they chat about how family support is literally everything, why self-care is a non-negotiable, and how teamwork makes the dream work. And of course, they throw in some fab product recs and glam tips along the way!  

Anissa and Jess are spilling the tea on all things chaotic and hilarious, from tech nightmares (why does figuring out a cell phone plan feel like a bad Tinder date?) to the wild ride that is parenting. They're dropping relatable stories about growing up, managing kids who act like mini CEOs, and how self-care isn't just a buzzword—it's a survival strategy. You'll hear them riff on everything from family dynamics to the moments where you just need to scream into a pillow. Oh, and they throw in some nostalgic jams, cultural refs, and those laugh-so-you-don't-cry moments we all get. It's real, it's funny, and honestly, you'll feel like you're right there with them.

Summary  So, Jess and Anissa finally reconnect after a week of living their separate lives, and let me tell you, it's like they never skipped a beat. First, they dive into all things Airbnb, sharing their dream stays and, of course, the absolute struggle of wrestling with duvets (like, why is making a bed harder than a workout?). They bond over their love for a stocked fridge on vacation—because who doesn't want to open the fridge and feel like they're starring in their own episode of Cribs? Jess is knee-deep in potty training with her youngest and spilling all the tea on the mess (literally and figuratively). Meanwhile, both of them are over the morning wake-up struggles—kids, alarms, you name it. Anissa recounts her LA adventure, which, plot twist, includes a hotel reservation snafu that's the stuff of rom-coms. They don't stop there—oh no, these two cover everything from smoothie bowls (yum) and the mystery of finding lost items (cue the Twilight Zone theme) to the joys of oven cleaning (aka, the adult version of a horror movie), car washes, and tennis matches. And because it wouldn't be a proper catch-up without a little nostalgia, they share hilarious stories about their moms and their childhoods. The convo is light, full of laughs, and honestly, just the kind of banter you'd expect from these two. Keywords Airbnb, vacation, stocked fridge, amenities, potty training, waking up, hotel reservation, vivid dreams, smoothie bowls, lost items, cleaning, oven, car washes, tennis, moms

Welcome back to the podcast, where we're diving headfirst into the wild, messy, and oh-so-rewarding world of parenting. If you've ever found yourself in a standoff with a toddler over the last piece of chocolate, or tried to explain why bedtime is non-negotiable (spoiler: they don't care), this episode is for you. So grab your wine (or coffee, no judgment), and get ready to feel seen, because we're covering it all—patience-testing negotiations, the quest for fairness, and the precious moments that make parenting the ultimate rollercoaster ride. Keywords: parenting, challenges, joys, chaos, balance, self-care, overstimulation, negotiating, patience, fairness, sleep, time, role modeling, unconditional love, joy, milestones, snuggles, memories.

In this episode, Jess and Anissa dive into the ups and downs of parenting and everyday life with their signature humor and honesty. They open up about the challenge of navigating a sea of parenting advice and how, at the end of the day, trusting your gut is key. The duo also shares some hilarious stories about dealing with annoying drivers and the unique struggles that come with being a vegetarian. They explore how different generations communicate and the simple joy that comes from something as old-school as receiving mail. The importance of carving out alone time is a theme they both cherish, emphasizing how those quiet moments can be essential for recharging. Keywords: Parenting, trusting instincts, annoying drivers, vegetarianism, generational communication, joy of mail, alone time, manifestation.

Summary Hey besties! In this episode, Jess and Anissa rant on all the things—like how to keep our hair looking fab, dealing with that never-ending work stress, and why speaking up for yourself is a total game-changer. They also spill the tea on their skincare battles, chat about the wild differences in food from place to place, and share food difrences from coast to coast. Keywords hair care, work stress, speaking up, skincare, regional food, grocery shopping Takeaways Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself and let your voice be heard Skincare can be a stress fest Food and grocery shopping habits can be wildly different in CA vs NY Balancing work and personal life is still not mastered Having a boss who's got your back and a supportive work environment can totally transform your job vibes

In this hilarious and relatable convo, Anissa and Jess spill the tea on their latest fashion experiments, the struggle of decluttering, and the chaos of hosting guests in tiny spaces. Anissa cracks us up with her tales from the mom community and surviving social events, while Jess keeps it real about potty training nightmares and managing the never-ending whine fest from her little ones. They don't shy away from the tough stuff—discussing how to find that elusive balance and the importance of self-care. Their chat is a perfect blend of laugh-out-loud moments and heartfelt advice for all you fabulous moms out there. Keywords: fashion, decluttering, hosting, motherhood, social events, potty training, whining, self-care, balance Takeaways: Fashion choices are all about having fun and expressing yourself, even if it's a little out there. Decluttering your space can lead to a peaceful, organized life. Hosting guests is a mix of joy and stress, especially in a small space. Motherhood is a wild ride with its ups and downs, and having a mom squad is a lifesaver. Potty training is messy and tough, but every kid eventually gets it. Whining is just part of the deal with young kids, and consistent boundaries help manage it. Self-care and finding balance are essential for staying sane and happy.

Summary Join Jessica and Anissa as they navigate the wild terrain of parenting, pet forgetfulness, and the elusive quest for kid-friendly venues. Dive into their hilarious banter about setting up birthday traditions for their little ones, all while fangirling over Hannah Berner's Netflix show. We are gigglers, and we rode at Dawn. Giggly Squad forever. Emotions run high as they tackle the serious issue of men's three facial expressions and the art of preparing for chaos. Their chat isn't all cupcakes and giggles; they also dive deep into Tumblr nostalgia, love languages, relationship woes, and the delicate dance of communication. Spoiler alert: it's as messy as your junk drawer. Pets: Forgetting where you left the dog again? Jessica and Anissa share their tales of pet mishaps. Birthday Traditions: Creative ideas that will make your kids think you're a birthday magician. Hannah Berner's Show: Why this Netflix gem is a must-watch Emotional Men: Confirmed—men still only have just three facial expressions. Kid-Friendly Places: The struggle is real when your town lacks toddler-approved hangouts. Chaos Prep: Tips for mentally and emotionally gearing up for life's inevitable chaos. Tumblr Nostalgia: Who was an emo girly, and why does my dad still have Tumblr? Is this a weird kink Relationship Dynamics: Secretly wishing your partner would do more than just exist. Preserving Memories: The joys and pains of photo hoarding and why you should ditch those old mumus. Communication: Striking the perfect balance between bluntness and diplomacy—because saying “no” nicely is an art. Tune in for a laugh, a nod of agreement, and maybe even a plan to finally throw out those old mumus. pets, birthday traditions, Hannah Berner, emotions, kid-friendly places, chaos, Tumblr, love languages, relationships, organization, memories, communication, balance, mom struggles, toddler mom, mom life, working moms

Welcome to our podcast, where Jess and Anissa dive into everything from hair care to parenting, and finding that elusive work-life balance. Tune in as they chat about getting their hair done, the highs and lows of parenting, and the importance of balancing work and personal life. They also celebrate the success of their podcast and the impact it's having on their listeners, all while keeping things light-hearted and filled with humor. Join the conversation as Jess and Anissa explore internal monologues (do you have one?), the world of TikTok influencers (authenticity, who?), and the dreaded task of deep cleaning. They share real talk about setting boundaries and the power of transparency, emphasizing the importance of being true to oneself and not conforming to societal expectations. Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of relatable moments! Keywords: hair care, parenting, work-life balance, podcast, internal monologue, TikTok influencers, deep cleaning, authenticity, transparency, boundaries

Jess and Anissa spill the tea on their lives as working moms and the juggling act that comes with balancing work and family. They dish on how crucial it is to carve out some 'me time' and how their weekly podcast is like therapy. They get real about being vulnerable and why keeping it 100 in relationships is a must. From parenting woes to self-care hacks and the insane pressure to be supermom, they cover it all. And of course, they throw in a hilarious rant about the art of flashing that picture-perfect smile, even when life's a hot mess. working moms balancing work and family self-care vulnerability open communication parenting

In this conversation, Jess and Anissa discuss the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. They talk about the challenges of balancing work and family responsibilities, dealing with distractions, and finding time for themselves. They also touch on the topic of road rage and the impact of hormones on mood. It's just your usual crazy soup.  Keywordsboundaries, self-care, work-life balance, distractions, road rage, hormones, mental well-beingTakeaways Setting boundaries will save your mental well-being Balancing work and family responsibilities is wild Self-care is important for overall happiness - send treats  Hormones can affect mood and behavior (watch out) 

In this conversation, Anissa and Jess discuss various topics, including their love for podcasts, jokes, dealing with deals, body issues, real estate, and their aspirations for their podcast.  The conversation is light-hearted and filled with humor. Keywordspodcasts, jokes, deals, body issues, real estate, aspirations, wealthy upbringing, parents' visit Takeaways Listening to podcasts is a great way to disassociate you are welcome  Dealing with deals is not our things  Body issues can stem from childhood experiences we have zero advice  Real estate can be a challenging industry, how the F did we get here  Anissa and Jess have big aspirations for their podcast and hope to connect with listeners worldwide.

Jess and Anissa discuss various topics including technical difficulties, their fashion choices, the challenges of parenting, owning dogs, taking the drug Ozempic, being influenced by Amazon picks, and hiring a handyman. They also mention an upcoming Netflix special and their plans for the future. Keywords: podcast, technical difficulties, fashion, parenting, dogs, Ozempic, Amazon picks, handyman, Netflix special, Owning Manhattan Takeaways Technical difficulties can happen when recording a podcast. Fashion choices can be a fun topic of conversation. Parenting can be challenging, especially when dealing with constant noise. Owning a dog can provide a sense of companionship and a break from parenting. Taking the drug Ozempic can have mixed results and side effects. Being influenced by Amazon picks can lead to both positive and negative experiences. Hiring a handyman can be a convenient way to improve your living space. Having a clear goal and taking action can lead to positive changes in life. Upcoming events and plans can create excitement and anticipation.

Laugh with us through the challenges and experiences of motherhood, particularly in relation to finding time for oneself and managing the demands of parenting. The hosts discuss the difficulties of traveling with children, the need for personal time and self-care, and the importance of maintaining friendships. They also touch on the idea of moving away from the city to prioritize a higher quality of life. The conversation concludes with a reflection on finding happiness and fulfillment in both personal and professional aspects of life Keywords: motherhood, challenges, time management, self-care, travel, friendships, moving, quality of life, happiness, fulfillment Takeaways Finding time for oneself and self-care is essential for mothers Traveling with children can be stressful and requires careful planning Maintaining friendships and social connections is important for mental well-being Moving away from the city can offer a higher quality of life Finding happiness and fulfillment requires reflection and prioritization Finding Happiness and Fulfillment Making Time for Yourself and Self-Care "Yeah, because we said so." "Because we said so. I think it's important." "Stop wallowing and find a resolution."

Anissa and Jess introduce themselves and their podcast, which focuses on mom life, careers, relationships, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of balancing work and motherhood, the importance of setting boundaries, and the constant juggling act of being a high performer in all areas of life. They share funny and relatable stories about their experiences with toddlers, including dealing with poop incidents and the chaos that comes with parenting young children. They express their desire to create a podcast that feels like hanging out with friends and providing a space for moms to feel understood and supported. Takeaways Balancing work and motherhood is a constant challenge, and it's important to set boundaries and prioritize self-care. Being a high performer in all areas of life can be overwhelming, and it's okay to ask for help and support. Parenting young children, especially toddlers, can be chaotic and messy, but finding humor in the situations can make it more manageable. Creating a community of moms who can relate to and support each other is essential for navigating the ups and downs of motherhood. Keywords: mom life, careers, relationships, personal growth, balancing work and motherhood, setting boundaries, high performers, toddlers, poop incidents, chaos, relatable stories, support