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DCS is venting today! Both men and women are getting it! Plus DCS talks your keeping kids safe on the internet, a woman giving birth and she didn't know she was pregnant, and Kanye's written apology.
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Marriage and co-parenting isn't hard because of the big stuff—it's the little, daily annoyances that slowly drive us crazy. In this episode, Sean and Jordan help you process that stuff... the repeated choices that test your patience...and your marriage. Listen in... This will help. You'll learn how to stop reacting, start understanding, and shift from frustration to empathy. Sean and Jordan break down why your spouse's annoying habits hit your emotional buttons, how to communicate without attacking, and how to create a calmer, more connected marriage—one that's built on maturity, not resentment. Go deeper with Sean at SaveMyFamily.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Marriage and co-parenting isn't hard because of the big stuff—it's the little, daily annoyances that slowly drive us crazy. In this episode, Sean and Jordan help you process that stuff... the repeated choices that test your patience...and your marriage. Listen in... This will help. You'll learn how to stop reacting, start understanding, and shift from frustration to empathy. Sean and Jordan break down why your spouse's annoying habits hit your emotional buttons, how to communicate without attacking, and how to create a calmer, more connected marriage—one that's built on maturity, not resentment. Go deeper with Sean at SaveMyFamily.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dana In The Morning Highlights 9/3Carnegie Vanguard and Debakey High School for Health Professions made Top 100 in USNew 3-story Welcome Center is expected to be completed by 2028 in College Station20% of people say they would leave their partner over the bad habit of how they chew
Whether you are single by choice or design, this episode may remind you that sharing your life with someone is not a walk in the park. Or a suck of an eye. Or a drink of a breast.To stay up to date with the Weekly Roast make sure Follow/Subscribe wherever you listen and tell Mark what he should roast next @MehiganMark
Join Robert 'Big Shot Bob' Horry as he shares hilarious personal anecdotes, including a memorable college story, and discusses the legacy of NBA legends on TNT's 'Inside the NBA.' Dive into discussions about memorable NBA moments, the importance of sportsmanship, and the criteria for being considered the greatest player in the league. Also, enjoy the fun debates over celebrity crushes, nostalgic TV characters, and everyday pet peeves. 00:00 Introduction and Shoutouts 00:43 Farewell to Inside the NBA 02:05 Craig Sager's Legacy 03:48 Memorabilia and Sentimental Keepsakes 04:51 SGA and the Greatest Thunder Player Debate 07:40 Face of the League Discussion 09:34 Record Low Attendance at MLB Game 12:19 Gold Digger Test and Relationship Insights 15:54 Tom Cruise's Les Grossman Comeback 16:33 Favorite Characters to Bring Back 18:40 Celebrity Crushes Discussion 22:35 Annoying Habits and Pet Peeves 23:26 Hygiene Etiquette in Public 25:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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I often think of the famous quote from Charlie Brown, “I love mankind; it's people I can't stand.” It's the everyday little annoying habits of the people we associate with that can be more tiresome, more frustrating than more significant issues, don't you think? Of course, we're not quite so aware of our own little annoying bad habits that others may find troublesome, but no doubt we all have them. So, I want to explore with you some of these little annoyances which can become obstacles in good relationships. Annoying Habit Number One: You work with a person who makes daily calls to his or her mate or partner, and since you work in an open setting, you can't help but hear the conversation. Depending on how they are getting along on any particular day, you may hear a nasty conversation with anger and accusations, or you may hear what sounds like sweet murmurings of baby talk. Obviously, if you hold a supervisory position over this person, it should be addressed directly with clear instructions—those kinds of conversations should be on personal time rather than on company time. However, if you are not this person's manager, you may be able to bring this to your coworker's attention in such a way they will see the benefit of changing that annoying habit. Proverbs 17:27 says: The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered. Your words would need to be carefully chosen, delivered kindly, and done with the right motivation. For example, you might find the right moment—a private moment—to say something like, “You probably are not aware that your conversations with your mate can be heard by other people. I thought I'd let you know because, I know if it were me, I wouldn't want others to listen in to my personal conversations. You might want to reserve those calls for times when you're alone.” There's a lesson for all of us to learn in this: Use our working time to work, not to rob our employer of the time which we are paid to work with elongated personal conversations, whether they're overheard by others or not. As Christians in the workplace, these little annoying habits can do damage to our testimony for Jesus Christ, so we should make sure we're not guilty of these. Annoying Habit Number Two: You have a coworker who just can't ever seem to make it to work on time. Someone who is habitually late is not committing a great offense—this is simply an annoying bad habit. I find many who are guilty of habitual lateness frequently want to justify it by saying they work late to make up for it, or they have a very long commute—all of which may be true. But the facts are this: If your company has a certain start time, everyone should be there on time consistently. Why? Because it's the right thing to do. This is a management issue. If it's important for people to be on time, management must set the priorities, communicate them clearly, and hold people accountable. There would have to be some kind of negative consequence for the person who will not change theannoying habit. However, if you're not this person's manager, there's not a whole lot you can do. One thing you don't want to do is make snide remarks or communicate your annoyance with body language or harsh words. Unfortunately, this happens too often. People don't confront the real issue and instead display their displeasure in other ineffective and unkind ways. If a coworker's habitual lateness is having a direct negative impact on your ability to get your job done, it might be an indication that it needs to be addressed. First, try to kindly explain to the coworker the need you have for them to be on time and see if that works. But remember, unless you're the manager, you don't have the authority to demand anything from that person. Isn't it interesting how something so small as this annoying habit can so easily turn into a real issue between two people and eventually lead to other,
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SEE US LIVE IN NEW YORK CITY | February 6th, 2025: https://citywinery.com/city-vineyard-nyc/events/bone-to-pick-podcast-live-6e8tvj Robert, Paul and Mike have a Bone to Pick when your wife has no common courtesy when you take a few minutes to relax, when people make plans for you without telling or consulting you and more! Keep them coming to bonetopickcast@gmail.com Bone to Pick Podcast starring Robert Kelly & Paul Virzi Join our new Patreon for unedited content, bonus weekly Fan Bone Episodes & early release of the podcast: www.patreon.com/bonetopickcast Follow the show! https://linktr.ee/bonetopickcast EMAIL US YOUR BONES: bonetopickcast@gmail.com Shoutout to Brady O'Keefe for the intro song! https://linktr.ee/bradyokeefe when your wife has no common courtesy when you take a few minutes to relax people make plans for you without telling or consulting you
Have we ever had an embarrassing moment on a date? If Roz had the chance to critique everyone's fashion, what would he say? What's our most annoying habit? How many hidden photos do we have on our phone? What's the lowest test score we've ever received?
Comedians Robert Kelly and Paul Virzi are back with another hilarious episode of the Bone to Pick Podcast! From rants about cutesy highway safety slogans to dining disasters and fan-submitted parking frustrations, they tackle life's everyday annoyances. They also dive into moral hypocrisies and how society picks and chooses its outrage. Bone to Pick Podcast starring Robert Kelly & Paul Virzi Join our new Patreon for bonus weekly Fan Bone Episodes & early release of the podcast: www.patreon.com/bonetopickcast Follow the show! https://linktr.ee/bonetopickcast EMAIL US YOUR BONES: bonetopickcast@gmail.com
Welcome to the Knowledge of Nothing (KON) podcast! In this week's show, Brian, Tony, Oren, & Wayne (aka The KONMen) share what Spotify thinks best represents what and who they've listened to in 2024 as well as some interesting feedback from last week's Annoying Habits episode. The KONMen decided to give you, our listeners, the “full monty” and expose what they've enjoyed beyond music. This includes TV/streaming shows, movies, games (video/board/card), and books that stood out in 2024. Did any of yours make their lists or were there some that should have made the cut?! Tune in and let us know via our socials below!Contact us at info@theknowledgeofnothing.com and follow us on our socials!https://www.facebook.com/theknowledgeofnothing/Instagram: @theknowledgeofnothingTwitter: @TheKONMen1Bluesky: @thekonmen.bsky.social
Welcome to the Knowledge of Nothing (KON) podcast, where your hosts, Tony, Brian, Oren & Wayne, discuss the mundane & inane until they sound insane! In this week's episode, Wayne flips the script and drops a last minute change to the show's main segment. Brian and Tony will have to decide which of the 32 annoying habits is the worst! Did they pick the best worst one? Were there any annoying habits missing?! And did you also realize that you had some of these annoying habits like the KONMen did?!? You'll have to tune in to find out! Contact us at info@theknowledgeofnothing.com and follow us on our socials!https://www.facebook.com/theknowledgeofnothing/Instagram: @theknowledgeofnothing
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The Max, Shannon and Porkchop Uncensored Five Minute Podcast
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On this week's Spencer & Vogue: Spen's been told he's the bravest man, love for Kevin Bridges, Eurovision, annoying habits & don't try and make Vogue watch SciFi. Remember, if you want to get involved you can:Email us at Spencerandvoguepod@gmail.com OR find us on socials @voguewilliams @spencermatthews AND @spencer_and_vogueListen and subscribe to Spencer and Vogue on Global Player or wherever you get your podcasts. Please review Global's Privacy Policy: https://global.com/legal/privacy-policy/
I go over 7 annoying habits men do that women hate. If you find yourself doing any of the things on this list, don't panic....Just STOP doing them! These don't just apply to men, but these are annoying for anybody to do. Thank you all for watching and let me know what you think some annoying habits are.CONTACT/ FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @courtneycristineryanhttps://www.instagram.com/courtneycri...EMAIL/COLLAB: courtneycristineryan@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Dad Mind Matters: Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health For Men
Have you ever wondered why some marriages last for 25 years or more & others crumble after weeks? In today's episode, we're diving into five practical tips from individuals who've successfully navigated the complex journey of marriage.As we explore these tips, think about your relationship, in a world where over half of marriages end in divorce, discovering the secrets to a lasting marriage is more crucial than ever. Whether married, in a relationship, or aspiring to find a lifelong partner, these insights will resonate with you. Join us as we unravel the wisdom that can transform your approach to marriage.Gain a deep understanding of the first crucial tip: "Accept and allow." Learn why accepting your partner for who they are is the foundation of a successful marriage.Imagine your life without your partner. Discover how this perspective shift can strengthen your relationship, especially during challenging times.Uncover the power of humour in Tip #3. Find out how maintaining a sense of humour can be the glue that keeps a marriage resilient.Explore the importance of flexibility in Tip #4. Understand why being less stubborn and prioritising kindness over being right can lead to a happier marriage.In Tip #5, learn the significance of choosing your adventure within the marriage. Discover why maintaining individual goals and ambitions is key to a thriving partnership.Now, don't miss out on the chance to transform your approach to marriage. Hit play to uncover these invaluable tips and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship today. Your journey to a lasting marriage begins with a single click.
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Hit and Run Amanda. Dallas' Dish. Do we really need Groundhog Day? But Wait 1. #MyLittleSecret: " I caught him looking at my twin sister!" Who said the SAVE THAT (the way you asked us to do it!) The most INSANE THINGS people brought with them to the ER. Show Wants To Know. Which one of these ANNOYING HABITS bothers you the most? But Wait 2. The job EVERYONE should have to do at some point. Dallas' identical cousins Larry and Barry. What we learnedSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Welcome to The Relationship Maze podcast! Today, we're diving into the 10 most annoying habits that partners have, and exploring what it means for your relationship. Tom and Angela discuss common grievances that can become major frustrations and provide insights on how to address these annoyances and create a more harmonious relationship. Stay tuned to learn how to navigate through these common relationship pitfalls and improve your connection with your partner.00:00 Dealing with annoying partner habits for better relationship.03:36 Engage in active listening for effective communication.08:22 Overcoming challenges in perception, noise, and therapy.12:15 Celebrate small tasks to associate good feelings.13:46 Household task imbalance causes relationship dynamic shift.16:50 Limit phone use in important situations.22:23 Controversial BBC show teaches dog training for husbands.24:30 Visit relationshipmaze.com for relationship improvement tips.
Based on an article, what are some small everyday things that annoy you?
Today we chat about the annoying traits of your partners! The stuff you despise but it's not really big enough to complain or break up with them! We're talking cupboard doors open, chewing with your mouth open, disgusting bathroom habits and more. Grace apparently does all of them… To contribute a story, you can email us at sometimesfunnypod@gmail.com Support the show:Join our fortnightly subscription “Sometimes Extra” for bonus exclusive episodes.Sometimes Extra on SpotifySubscribe within the feed on Apple PodcastsFollow Maddy on TikTok and InstagramFollow Grace on InstagramFollow the podcast on TikTok and Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today we chat about the annoying traits of your partners! The stuff you despise but it's not really big enough to complain or break up with them! We're talking cupboard doors open, chewing with your mouth open, disgusting bathroom habits and more. Grace apparently does all of them… To contribute a story, you can email us at sometimesfunnypod@gmail.com Support the show: Join our fortnightly subscription “Sometimes Extra” for bonus exclusive episodes. Sometimes Extra on Spotify Subscribe within the feed on Apple Podcasts Follow Maddy on TikTok and Instagram Follow Grace on Instagram Follow the podcast on TikTok and Instagram
Your Spouse's Annoying Habits
John's daughter Abbey moved in with her boyfriend a month ago and is quickly learning that he has some habits she never knew about before. What were the annoying habits your partner has that you didn't learn about until you moved in together?
Christian opened up a discussion with his kids that he soon came to regret: What annoying habits does he have as a parent... We're opening it up to children and parents alike, what is the annoying habit of your parents?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of the Wise Decision Maker Show, Dr. Gleb Tsipursky speaks to Yulia Mamonova, Head of Content at Lemon.io, who talks about the annoying habits of supervisors that harm remote worker retention. You can learn about Lemon.io at https://lemon.io/
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You are an adored woman and should enjoy Mantourage Dating™, but what happens if you start hyperfocusing on just one man? Find out in this episode of Single Smart Female LISTEN HERE: Important Links and Mentions in this Episode: Find out how to Mantourage Date™ the right way Want to surprise Jenn and […] The post 317 The Most Annoying Habits Hyperfocused Women Have Part 2- Dating Help With Single Smart Female appeared first on Have Him Your Way with Jenn Burton.
Hyper-focus on one particular man will inevitably lead to the demise of the relationship even before it ever gets started. And it comes with nasty habits to boot that you need to recognize before you sabotage your chances with him. IMPORTANT LINKS MENTIONED: You need to Mantourage Date™ the right way >http://mantouragedating.com/ Want to surprise Jenn and show Single Smart Female your love? XO!!! >>http://jennburton.com/nostrings XO, Jenn
Hyper-focus on one particular man will inevitably lead to the demise of the relationship even before it ever gets started. And it comes with nasty habits to boot that you need to recognize before you sabotage your chances with him. Find out in this episode of Single Smart Female LISTEN HERE: Important Links […] The post 316 The Most Annoying Habits Hyperfocused Women Have Part 1 – Dating Help With Single Smart Female appeared first on Have Him Your Way with Jenn Burton.
Yeah, footballers are cool and entertaining, but they can get really annoying, too. And today, we want to take a look at 10 footballers and their annoying habits that will absolutely blow your mind.
In this episode we chat about the “slang embrace”, manifesting a soft cervix and the annoying things your partner does that drive you up the wall (like when he calls you bro…) Follow Maddy on TikTok and Instagram Follow the podcast on TikTok and InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of Quit Bleeping Around®, awesome superachiever, author, and self-improvement expert Christina Eanes interviews Valerie Fridland. Valerie, an expert on the relationship between language and society, is a professor at the University of Nevada in Reno with a Ph.D. in linguistics. In this episode, Valerie talks about how those “verbal fillers” we use when speaking are there for a purpose. If you'd like to learn more about Valerie, visit ValerieFridland.com. To order her book, visit: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/671558/like-literally-dude-by-valerie-fridland/ For more info about Christina, visit ChristinaEanes.com Episode Credits: Series Announcer: Seth D. Meyers (sethdmeyers.com) Host: Christina Eanes (quitbleepingaround.com) Outros Announcer: Linnea Sage (linneasage.com) Intro/Outro Music: “Dangerous Dog” by Charlie J. Smith/SI Publishing
Brian & Stacey talk birthdays, fourteeners, gin rummy and the double edge sword that flying Frontier Airlines presents. The questions range from favorite memories of their relationship and Brian being overconfident on their wedding night and wanting to have six kids. They discuss the necessity of heartache to feel joy. Brian is proud that he found a super retro Pan Am commercial. The moment they felt closest to each other is very surprising to both. Stacey again assaults Brian's bad hygiene and he mounts his Horse of Stonewalling to fight back. Stacey introduces a new game within the game : A weekly scratch off date challenge ! Spotify Musical Guests : Pickin' & Singin' , Coupons, Old 97's, Stick Figure
Hery & Mike talk about peoples annoying habits. They also talk about the new series "Black Bird", the new Netflix movie, "Day Shift", the documentary "I just killed my dad" and the Hulu series "Under the banner of heave"
Do you remember the famous quote from Charlie Brown? “I love mankind; it's people I can't stand.” Well, sometimes life seems that way, doesn't it? As Christians we are to love the world, and we do things to help mankind all over the world. But what about the people, the individuals, you have to work with everyday? They can be a lot more difficult to love. That's because we all have annoying habits that can start to grate on people's nerves, and we've been looking at some of the annoying bad habits of coworkers this week. For example, suppose you work with someone who is always in crisis mode and frequently asks you to “do them a favor” and bail them out. But the reason they're in crisis mode so often is because they procrastinate and put everything off until crunch time. Are you supposed to continue to go the extra mile and “do them a favor,” as they ask? In Matthew 5 Jesus exhorts us to turn the other cheek and go the extra-mile. There's no question that Christians are supposed to do more than they have to do. So, on occasion when your coworker needs an extra pair of hands to get a job done, you should be willing to do that. But I don't believe Jesus intended for us to go extra mile after extra mile. That would lead us to becoming enablers, making it possible for others to shirk their own responsibilities, and that is neither right for us nor for the other person. So, with that crisis-mode coworker, you might say, “I'll help you this time, but in the future, you can avoid this last-minute crunch by . . .” and then explain how it can be avoided, making it clear that you won't be available to help with every crisis they have. Again, these words need to be spoken in love, from an attitude of helpfulness, not annoyance. You know, so often it's the way you say things that makes all the difference, and you could help this person break a bad habit of procrastination by combining a willingness to help with a little softly-given advice. Who knows; they might even listen and learn. Remember, no one is in your life by accident, not even the annoying coworker. And we are called not only to love mankind, but to love the individual who can be annoying! (Please click here if you would like to download the entire devotional for this week.)
What is the most annoying habit of a coworker that you've had to deal with on your job? Well, that's the way life is sometimes, right? So how should a Christian respond to these annoyances? We've looked at several annoying habits already. Now, here's another one: It's the coworker who interrupts you continually, sometimes for work-related issues, sometimes not. But the interruptions are often unnecessary, and they definitely impact your productivity—as well as annoy you. There's no doubt that one of our major time wasters is interruptions. Every time we start and stop what we're doing, we lose time. So, you need to think of creative ways to eliminate these unnecessary interruptions. First, determine if you're doing something to encourage the interruptions. For example, when they walk by your desk or office, don't look up and give eye contact, which can invite a trivial interruption. And if that candy dish on your desk is too inviting, you may need to remove it. Secondly, for necessary interruptions with work-related questions, it might be helpful to establish a daily time for interaction. You might suggest that the two of you get together first thing each morning to go over the day's agenda. Frankly, managers can be the worst interrupters, and you could even suggest to your manager that an established daily meeting could save both of you lots of time—just to set the agenda and go over questions for the day. Or you may have to become a bit more assertive, and simply say to the habitual interrupter, “You know, I just don't have time to chat right now. Can we talk later?” That's much nicer than showing annoyance through body language or harsh words. Obviously, this is not a major issue. It's just an annoyance. But these little things can start to add up and before you know it, you have a major issue on your hands. So, think of a positive, pleasant approach to try to change that annoying habit, but don't let it cause you to respond poorly. Paul wrote to the Colossians: “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” (Colossians 4:6). In responding to annoying people, we want to make this our objective—to be gracious and kind.
Annoying bad habits of coworkers can start to drive you crazy! I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. These are not major issues—just little things that can become real stumbling blocks to good working relationships. We need to know the best way to respond to a coworker with an annoying habit, and more importantly, make certain we get rid of any of our own annoying habits. So, here's the third annoying habit: The coworker who tends to gripe and complain a great deal. This can be terribly annoying and if you're not careful, they can bring you right down to their level and you'll find yourself griping and complaining more than you should. One negative person can poison the atmosphere where you work. It only takes one. If you happen to work with that one person, you must first learn how to tune them out and not allow their negative talk to infiltrate your own mind. Then remember that a person's attitude is always their choice, and we don't have the power to change anyone else's attitude. So, if your coworker chooses to gripe and complain a great deal, your best way to deal with it is to respond in positive ways. Do it nicely, kindly, but firmly—don't be afraid to be positive in the presence of a person who is negative. And of course, pray for that person. Underneath that negative exterior is something else that is causing the problem. You may never know exactly what that is; it could be baggage from childhood. But you can still pray that God will help you to respond in kindness, to have sympathy for that person, to show them mercy and grace even when you don't want to. It is in these small issues of life that we have the greatest opportunity to demonstrate God's love. Maybe not in words or by quoting scripture, but simply by remaining joyful and peaceful even when dealing with an annoying negative coworker. Have you ever thought about your own tendency to be negative? Years ago I finally began to pay attention to my own negative attitude, and realized I was far more negative than I thought I was. I heard myself saying lots of negative junk in any given day, and I began to monitor my own attitude. It's a very good habit to form—to just make sure you haven't caught the negative disease yourself.
Do you work with someone who just can't ever seem to get to work on time? Someone who is habitually late is not committing a great offense. This is simply an annoying bad habit. But then, that's what we're talking about this week, annoying bad habits of coworkers and how we should respond to them. I find that many who are guilty of habitual lateness frequently want to justify it by saying that they work late to make up for it, or they have a very long commute, and that may be true. But the facts are, if your company has a certain start time, everyone should be there on time consistently. Why? Because it's the right thing to do. This is a management issue. If it's important for people to be on time, management must set the priorities, communicate them clearly, and hold people accountable. There would have to be some kind of negative consequence for the person who will not change that annoying habit. However, if you're not this person's manager, there's not a whole lot you can do about this annoying habit. One thing you don't want to do is make snide remarks about it or communicate your annoyance with body language or harsh words. Unfortunately, that happens too often where people don't confront the real issue and instead display their displeasure in other ineffective and unkind ways. If a coworker's habitual lateness is having a direct negative impact on your ability to get your job done, that might be an indication that it needs to be addressed. First, try to kindly explain to the coworker the need you have for them to be on time, and see if that might work. But remember, unless you're the manager, you don't have the authority to demand anything from that person. Isn't it interesting how something so small as this annoying habit can so easily turn into a real issue between two people and eventually lead to other, more major problems. That's because we dwell on these little things, allow them to occupy too much thought time, and develop an attitude pretty quickly. If you are powerless to either change or address this annoying habit of a coworker, then it's time to let it go. Colossians 3:13 tells us to “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Just let it go—it won't kill you!