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Lindsay Clancy's last voluntary act before her three children died was checking herself into a psychiatric hospital on New Year's Eve. The complaint filed against her providers says she waited three days for a doctor who never came, was discharged with a clear bill, and went home to a house full of children and prescriptions and no diagnosis.Wrapped around four clips from ADA Shanan Buckingham's opening statement at Plymouth Superior Court, this breakdown goes through the state's case as she presented it to twelve women and six men.The premeditation argument runs on timing — a restaurant five miles out, a pharmacy stop, a fourteen-second phone call. Underneath it is the premise that organization proves sanity. The research on postpartum psychosis says close to the reverse, and this episode puts the claim against what the literature actually documents about command hallucinations and functioning during psychosis.The Massachusetts legal standard gets covered in full — the two-door test most coverage is misstating, and the burden that stays with the prosecution on both. Then the provider record from the civil complaints, line by line against the state's characterization. A woman the prosecution says manipulated her doctors and a husband who testified she begged them for help. And a final appointment the day before that the state's opening never goes near.END_LINKSJoin Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodDISCLAIMERThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.HASHTAGS#LindsayClancy #ShananBuckingham #TrueCrimeToday #PostpartumPsychosis #PlymouthSuperiorCourt #OpeningStatements #InsanityDefense #PatrickClancy #DuxburyMassachusetts #TrueCrime

A woman in a psychiatric crisis drove herself to a locked ward on New Year's Eve and checked herself in voluntarily. The malpractice complaint filed against her providers says she was not seen by a doctor for three days. She was discharged after five with no indication she was a danger to anyone. Three weeks later her three children were dead.Built around four clips from the prosecution's opening statement at Plymouth Superior Court, this breakdown follows ADA Shanan Buckingham's argument and tests it against the record.The state's premeditation theory rests on a clock and a fourteen-second phone call. Underneath it is a premise the prosecution never states directly: that organization proves a sound mind. The clinical literature on postpartum psychosis runs the other direction, and this episode goes through what it actually documents. Then the Massachusetts standard that gives the defense two doors and requires the Commonwealth to close both beyond a reasonable doubt.The provider record laid out in the civil complaints is where the case lives. Thirteen medications. Five prescribers, none holding the full picture. A referral that went unanswered. An appointment the day before that the state's opening skips entirely. And the prosecutor's own observation about Clancy's access to care, offered as proof of guilt, that may be the most damaging sentence about the system anyone said that morning.END_LINKSJoin Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodDISCLAIMERThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.HASHTAGS#LindsayClancy #ShananBuckingham #HiddenKillers #PostpartumPsychosis #McHoulStandard #PlymouthCounty #PatrickClancy #InsanityDefense #MedicalMalpractice #TrueCrime

There are two examinations of Nolan Wells and nobody outside a very small circle knows what either one says. The Mississippi State Medical Examiner's Office handled the first. The family's legal team arranged the second, sending his body to Washington, D.C.Live, Tony Brueski works through the mailbag on that split — and the biggest question is the collision nobody wants to name out loud. If those two examinations don't match, what happens next? Whose science gets believed? Who decides?Neither result has been released. Cause and manner of death for the eighteen-year-old Ocean Springs athlete remain undetermined. Attorney Ben Crump indicated early on that the independent results would come quickly, and later said he hoped to share them soon.Underneath it all is the credibility problem. Officials said they believed Nolan drowned and did not suspect foul play at a point when no completed autopsy existed. The same sheriff's office has stressed that investigators are working diligently to determine exactly what occurred. Those two positions have been sitting side by side for weeks.There's the phone, too — carried off the island by his friends, according to Crump, and returned to the family with messages deleted, also according to Crump. His experts and county investigators agreed to a mutual inspection of the device.District Attorney Angel Myers McIlrath has told the Wells family the case will be presented to a grand jury once the investigation wraps. What charges look like when nobody will officially classify the death — and whether leaving someone behind on a barrier island ten miles out is a crime or just a regret — is what the mailbag keeps circling.Bring your questions. This one is about what's in those two envelopes.END_LINKS:Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/ Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodDisclaimer:This publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.Hashtags:#NolanWells #BenCrump #HiddenKillersLive #JusticeForNolan #JacksonCountyMS #MississippiNews #GrandJury #TrueCrime #TrueCrimePodcast #IndependentAutopsy

When Rafael Nodal and AJ Fernandez team up, the cigar world listens. Following the massive success of the original #1 Cigar of the Year (2019) and the heavily praised Sonata, the duo has returned with the third movement in their musical lineup: the Aging Room Quattro Nicaragua Concerto. Inspired by the intricate balance of classical compositions, Nodal designed the Concerto to mimic a solo instrument playing alongside a grand orchestra. The “soloist” here is a stunning, exclusive hybrid Criollo '98 wrapper grown on Fernandez's Finca La Lilia farm. Underneath, AJ Fernandez orchestrated a blend of deeply aged Nicaraguan tobaccos—some resting for nearly 12 years—to create a complex flavor. Wrapper: Nicaraguan Criollo Hybrid (Finca La Lilia) Binder: Nicaraguan Filler: Nicaraguan Country of Origin: Nicaragua Factory: AJ Fernandez (Factory not specified) Vitola: Toro Size: 6 x 52 Final Score:  89

When Rafael Nodal and AJ Fernandez team up, the cigar world listens. Following the massive success of the original #1 Cigar of the Year (2019) and the heavily praised Sonata, the duo has returned with the third movement in their musical lineup: the Aging Room Quattro Nicaragua Concerto. Inspired by the intricate balance of classical compositions, Nodal designed the Concerto to mimic a solo instrument playing alongside a grand orchestra. The “soloist” here is a stunning, exclusive hybrid Criollo '98 wrapper grown on Fernandez's Finca La Lilia farm. Underneath, AJ Fernandez orchestrated a blend of deeply aged Nicaraguan tobaccos—some resting for nearly 12 years—to create a complex flavor. Wrapper: Nicaraguan Criollo Hybrid (Finca La Lilia) Binder: Nicaraguan Filler: Nicaraguan Country of Origin: Nicaragua Factory: AJ Fernandez (Factory not specified) Vitola: Toro  Size: 6 x 52 Final Score:  89

How quickly can you train as a coach without compromising the quality, depth and credibility of your learning? It is one of the questions we are asked most often by people considering coach training. On the surface, it sounds like a practical question about dates and deadlines. Underneath it, there is often a much bigger story. Many people have been thinking about becoming a coach for several years. They have researched courses, imagined a different career and questioned whether coaching could become part of their future. By the time they finally decide to take action, they are ready to begin immediately. We understand that feeling. Zoe reflects on how she can spend a long time thinking through a decision, yet once she has made it, she wants everything to happen straight away. Jo shares a different perspective. When she trained as a coach, she wanted a rigorous and challenging programme that gave her enough time to absorb the experience and grow through it. In this episode, we explore the different routes available for becoming a qualified coach and explain how long each coaching qualification can take. For someone seeking foundational coaching skills, an ILM Level 3 Certificate in Coaching can potentially be completed in as little as three months. It provides a recognised coaching qualification and can be a strong route for people who want to introduce coaching into an existing role, develop their communication skills or explore coaching before committing to a deeper programme. The Level 3 route can also work well for professionals who already support people in another capacity. This could include counsellors, teachers, nurses, physiotherapists, driving instructors or practitioners working in wellbeing and personal development. They may already have considerable experience working with people and want to add a structured coaching approach to their existing skills. For those wanting to become an independent coach and support clients through more complex personal or professional change, an ILM Level 5 or Level 7 coaching qualification may be more appropriate. These programmes offer a deeper, highly experiential coach training experience. Learners are coached regularly, practise their coaching skills throughout the programme and work with a larger number of practice clients. The training explores areas such as mindset, identity, beliefs, values, emotions and sustainable behavioural change. The fastest completion time for the Level 5 programme has been around nine months, while the Level 7 programme has been completed in approximately twelve months. More commonly, learners complete Level 5 in around twelve to eighteen months and Level 7 in approximately sixteen months to two years. The length of coach training depends on several factors. The format of the programme matters, as weekly evening sessions will create a different timeline from intensive full-day training. The availability of practice clients also plays a part, along with how many coaching relationships a learner feels able to manage alongside work, family and other commitments. There is flexibility within the process. Learners generally have up to three years to complete their qualification, and additional support may be available when unexpected life events affect their progress. The aim is not to force every learner through the same timeline, but to provide a pathway that allows them to complete their coaching qualification in a sustainable way. We also discuss an important misconception: you do not necessarily need to wait until every assignment has been completed before beginning to develop your coaching business. While learners are building their coaching hours, they can start exploring their message, audience, services, branding and pricing. Practice clients may ask to continue working together or recommend the coach to someone else. With the right insurance, ethical boundaries and transparency about where they are in their training, learners may begin taking paid clients during their qualification. The real question is therefore not only, "How quickly can I train as a coach?" It is also: What type of coaching do I want to offer? How deeply do I want to develop my skills? What learning environment will help me thrive? How can I begin creating my future while I am still training? Speed matters, particularly when you feel ready for change. However, choosing the fastest coaching course is not always the best strategic decision. The right programme should reflect the type of coach you want to become and the clients you hope to support. One of the most interesting things we see is that people often begin their training eager to qualify quickly. Once they are immersed in the programme, meeting other coaches and experiencing their own personal development, many of them no longer want to rush. Coach training can become far more than a professional qualification. It can reshape how you listen, communicate, lead, think and relate to the people around you. You can begin training as a coach as soon as you make the decision and enrol. The length of the journey will depend on the route you choose, but the learning and transformation can begin from day one. Timestamps 00:00 How quickly can you qualify as a coach? 00:54 Balancing speed, credibility and depth 02:13 Why people delay the decision and then want to move quickly 03:36 The ILM Level 3 coaching qualification 05:41 Practice clients, supervision and flexible learning 08:04 The deeper experience of Level 5 and Level 7 training 08:52 Typical completion times for each qualification 11:14 Building coaching hours around work and family 11:48 Extensions, unexpected life events and learner support 13:02 Building a coaching business while training 15:26 Why shortening the timeline should not reduce quality 15:37 How coach training begins from the moment you enrol 17:51 Personal transformation during coach training 19:22 Choosing the right coaching qualification for your goals Key Lessons Learned An ILM Level 3 Certificate in Coaching can potentially be completed in around three months. Level 3 training is well suited to people seeking foundational coaching skills or adding coaching to an existing profession. Learners wanting to offer transformational coaching as an independent practitioner may benefit from a Level 5 or Level 7 qualification. A Level 5 qualification commonly takes around twelve to eighteen months, while Level 7 may take approximately sixteen months to two years. Course format, personal capacity and the availability of practice clients can significantly affect the completion timeline. Coach training should be selected according to the type of coaching you want to offer, rather than speed alone. Learners can begin developing their coaching business, services and positioning while completing their qualification. Ethical practice, appropriate insurance and transparency are essential when beginning to work with paying clients during training. A coaching qualification can create personal transformation as well as professional development. Many learners begin wanting to qualify quickly but later value having more time to absorb and enjoy the experience.   Keywords: how quickly can I train as a coach, how long does it take to become a coach, coach training, coaching qualification, become a qualified coach, coaching certification UK, accredited coaching course, ILM Level 3 coaching, ILM Level 5 coaching, ILM Level 7 coaching, transformational coaching, professional coach training, start a coaching business, coaching practice clients, online coaching qualification,

We're closing out the season with something different: a multidisciplinary breakdown of episode six of Heated Rivalry. Not a recap. Not a fan theory session. A real conversation about what the show gets right — and what it gets wrong — about male performance anxiety, queer identity, female arousal physiology, and the stories we tell ourselves about our own bodies.To be clear: this isn't about hockey. It's about what happens when good storytelling accidentally becomes a teaching moment for sexual health.What We CoverPerformance anxiety isn't in your head — it's in your nerves, arteries, and muscles. Erectile function is vascular and neurological before it's psychological. Medication, alcohol, dehydration, stress — all of it shows up in the body before it shows up in the bedroom. We break down why "just relax" is the least useful advice you can give a man who's struggling, and what's actually happening physiologically when performance doesn't match desire.Shane's coming out arc, and why identity evolution isn't linear. The show doesn't hand Shane a clean, tidy arc — and that's the point. We talk about how culture, family history, and internalized norms shape the timeline of coming out, and why real identity work rarely looks like the movie version.Communication is the actual plot device. Underneath the hockey, the drama, the trauma — the show works because the characters eventually say the thing. We talk about why authentic communication is the real special effect in any story about intimacy, on screen or off.Behind the scenes: setting, production choices, small details you'd miss on a first watch — and yes, a detour into tentacle erotica as a case study in how sexual expression keeps evolving in media, and why that's worth understanding rather than dismissing.Key TakeawaysErectile response is biological first, emotional second — treat it that way.Female arousal physiology doesn't disappear at menopause; it changes, and imaging confirms it.Coming out stories are shaped by context, not just courage.Good storytelling about sex requires vulnerability, not perfection.Expanding your sexual literacy — even through fiction — is part of the work.You are not broken. Your body isn't broken. And apparently, neither is prestige TV's ability to sneak real sex ed into a hockey drama.Season two, see you soon.— KellySubscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs it.

You just spent two years writing a book. Now what? That's the question at the center of this conversation about book publicity, expectations, and the long game of building a body of work. Bill Sherman sits down with Sandy Smith, CEO of Smith Publicity, to unpack what a smart book launch actually looks like — and why most of the excitement (and anxiety) authors feel in the 60 days around publication misses the point. Sandy's first move with any client is to ask what success looks like a year out. That reframe — from launch week to long horizon — shapes everything else: how to define goals, how to find the right audience for a big idea, and why a book should be treated less like a product drop and more like a two-to-three-year (or longer) relationship-building asset. The conversation moves through sharp, practical territory: the difference between an audience that's ready for your message and one that isn't (yes, even when they need it most), how publicists match authors to podcasts, bylined articles, and expert commentary opportunities, and why revisiting an author's earlier books can sometimes be more valuable than pushing the new release. Sandy and Bill also talk through the emotional arc of a launch — the pre-launch momentum, the 60-day flurry, and the letdown that can follow once the initial push ends. Underneath the tactics is a bigger idea both return to again and again: books create relationships. They let readers spend time with an author's thinking in a low-stakes, high-trust way, and that trust compounds over years, not weeks. The episode also touches on what makes an idea worth an audience's attention in the first place, and why generosity — not ego — tends to separate thought leaders who build lasting influence from those who burn out chasing a moment. Whether you're planning a first book launch or trying to get more mileage out of one published years ago, this episode offers a grounded, experience-based look at what actually works. Three Key Takeaways: • A launch is a beginning, not a finish line. Treat the book as a two-to-three-year (or longer) asset rather than a 60-day sprint — the real payoff comes from what you do with it after publication week ends. • Define your goal before you plan tactics. Whether the aim is sparking conversation, building visibility, or attracting clients, that goal should shape everything from media targets to messaging. • Audience readiness matters more than audience size. The right strategy meets people who are already primed to hear your idea, then lets them bring others along — rather than forcing a conversation an audience isn't ready for. This episode landed right in the middle of launch week for The Thought Leadership Handbook — the new book from Bill Sherman, Peter Winick, and Naren Aryal — and everything Sandy Smith unpacked about goals, audience readiness, and building a lasting asset is exactly what's behind it. If you want to see those ideas in practice, head to thoughtleadershiphandbook.com for a free excerpt, your own thought leadership avatar, and tools to sharpen your strategy. Then preorder your copy today at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Bookshop, or Amplify — and become part of the conversation this book is meant to start.

As Frank starts his vacation, the 2 Guys are releasing a series of "interludes," watchalongs with terrible movies that give a glimpse into the oft-referenced Saturday night Zoom calls that Frank, Chris, and friend of the podcast Orion Wellmaker have. This episode finds Frank and Chris watching the 1985 giallo Nothing Underneath, starring Donald Pleasance. 

Each week, RNIB Connect Radio sit down with Simon Antrobus, CEO of RNIB, to look at some of the big stories coming from the UK sight loss charity.If you, or someone you know, would like information on the support and services available from RNIB, go to www.rnib.org.ukYou can call our Helpline on 0303 123 9999Or ask your Smart speaker to call RNIB's Helpline.Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white and black background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underline with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font. 

The story I'm bringing you today is one that you've probably never heard of before. Because, for one, it involves a continent that very few people have been on: Antarctica; and secondly, it involves a concept that very few people are familiar with: gravity holes. And right off the bat, I'll mention that it's not science fiction, nor is it a conspiracy theory. Gravity holes really do exist. The earth's outer layers have different densities in different places (because the distribution of mass beneath the crust and the mantle isn't consistent)—the effect of gravity is not perfectly uniform across the whole planet. It's weaker in places that are less dense. In those places, you get what are known as gravity anomalies, where the gravitational pull is measurably weaker than the global average. Colloquially, these are known as gravity holes. These gravity holes can affect a person's weight (you would weigh a little bit less if you were standing in one of these regions)—and also, they can affect sea levels (weaker gravity means that the ocean surface sits a little bit lower in those places). Interestingly, the largest gravity hole on the planet happens to be located beneath the most sparsely populated continent on the planet: Antarctica. Just earlier this year, a new study was published that worked to map out not only the mantle layer of the Earth beneath Antarctica, but also the 70-million-year-long process in which it was formed. Let's go through it together.

Shana is an academic who looked, by all outward measures, like a calm, high-functioning, successful person. Underneath, she'd spent decades in fight-or-flight — anxiety, panic attacks, and a nervous system that never quite felt safe.She came to Enfold after her brother went first and came back changed. Ten months later, she joins Arthur to talk about what happened in between.Shana describes a full-release ceremony that felt less like her own story and more like witnessing generations of inherited suffering — war, grief, fear — and finally being able to let it go. She talks about coming back into her body after a lifetime of living in her head, the strange and clarifying experience of bonding with five strangers who seemed to have nothing in common with her, and the months of small, conscious choices that followed: noticing old habits in real time and choosing, again and again, whether to pick them back up.She also talks about what's changed in how she relates to the unknown, and a new commitment to taking life a little less seriously.—Enfold offers safe and sacred transformational experiences combining psychedelic medicines, breathwork, coaching, and somatic modalities, with a grounding in Buddhist philosophy. We come together as a community to support one another on the path of transformation with events, circles, and ongoing programs.Ready to embark on your own transformational journey? Learn more about our programs at: https://enfold.org

Fluent Fiction - Danish: Underneath København: Discovering Courage in the Storm Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/da/episode/2026-07-17-07-38-19-da Story Transcript:Da: Under de brostenbelagte gader i København lå en glemt verden, mørk og stille.En: Beneath the cobblestone streets of København lay a forgotten world, dark and silent.Da: Freja, Mikkel og Jens kiggede rundt i den støvede bunker.En: Freja, Mikkel, and Jens looked around the dusty bunker.Da: Freja huskede med et stød af ængstelse sine barndomsminder om tordenvejr — den gang, da lynet havde slået ned i deres nabos hus og alt blev mørkt.En: Freja remembered with a jolt of anxiety her childhood memories of thunderstorms — the time when lightning had struck their neighbor's house, and everything went dark.Da: "Vi skal gøre klar," sagde Freja fast.En: "We need to get ready," Freja said firmly.Da: Den forestående sommerstorm truede over byen, og bunkerens stand var forfærdelig.En: The impending summer storm loomed over the city, and the bunker's condition was dreadful.Da: Malingen skallede af væggene, og den svage lugt af indelukket luft fyldte rummet.En: Paint was peeling off the walls, and the faint smell of stale air filled the room.Da: I hjørnet stod nogle få gamle feltsenge og en bunke af støvede konservesdåser.En: In the corner stood a few old canvas cots and a pile of dusty canned goods.Da: En enkelt glødende pære gav et flakkende lys, der kastede skygger over de forladte hylder.En: A single glowing bulb gave flickering light that cast shadows over the abandoned shelves.Da: Mikkel, altid ivrig efter et eventyr, råbte: "Jeg kan finde flere forsyninger!En: Mikkel, always eager for an adventure, shouted, "I can find more supplies!Da: Vi har brug for mad, vand og lys."En: We need food, water, and light."Da: Han smilte, trods det alvorlige arbejde foran dem.En: He smiled, despite the serious task ahead.Da: "Jens," begyndte Freja med en roligere tone, "kan du hjælpe med at sikre dørene og vinduerne?En: "Jens," Freja began in a calmer tone, "can you help secure the doors and windows?Da: Vi kan ikke være for forsigtige."En: We can't be too careful."Da: Jens nikkede med sin varme pålidelighed, der uden ord beroligede Frejas indre uro.En: Jens nodded with a warmth and reliability that wordlessly calmed Freja's inner turmoil.Da: De tre satte sig i gang med beslutsomhed.En: The three set to work with determination.Da: Mikkel forlod bunkeren for at finde forsyninger i den nærliggende købmand.En: Mikkel left the bunker to find supplies at the nearby store.Da: Jens brugte hverdagens genstande for at forstærke de gamle døre og sikre, at intet uventet kom snigende ind.En: Jens used everyday objects to reinforce the old doors and ensure that nothing unexpected could sneak in.Da: Inden længe begyndte regnen at tromme mod overfladen.En: Before long, the rain began to drum against the surface.Da: Vindens hyl blæste gennem ventilationssystemet, og Frejas hjerte slog hurtigere.En: The howling wind blew through the ventilation system, and Freja's heart beat faster.Da: Hun fortalte sig selv, at alt var under kontrol — de havde Jens' ro og Mikkels optimisme.En: She told herself that everything was under control — they had Jens' calmness and Mikkel's optimism.Da: Pludselig, midt i stormens rasen udenfor, slog et lyn ned tæt ved.En: Suddenly, in the midst of the storm's raging outside, a lightning bolt struck nearby.Da: Et øjeblik brød Annas værste frygt fri.En: For a moment, Freja's worst fear broke free.Da: Bunkeren blev kastet i dybt mørke.En: The bunker was plunged into deep darkness.Da: Panik skyllede ind over hende, men før den kunne overtage, tog hun en dyb indånding.En: Panic washed over her, but before it could take over, she took a deep breath.Da: Hun huskede Jens' beroligende stemme og Mikkels barnlige tillid.En: She remembered Jens' soothing voice and Mikkel's childlike confidence.Da: De var her for hende.En: They were there for her.Da: "Vi gør det sammen," sagde Jens roligt og strakte hånden ud.En: "We'll do it together," said Jens calmly, reaching out his hand.Da: Mikkel tændte en lommelygte, hans smil endnu bredt i det dansende skær.En: Mikkel turned on a flashlight, his smile still wide in the dancing beam.Da: "Intet problem!En: "No problem!Da: Vi har lanterner."En: We have lanterns."Da: Freja var hurtigt med dem, satte de små nødlys rundt omkring.En: Freja quickly joined them, setting up small emergency lights all around.Da: Mørket bøjede sig for lysets lette flakker, og som rummet blev oplyst, opløstes også Frejas frygt.En: The darkness bowed to the soft flicker of light, and as the room lit up, Freja's fear also dissolved.Da: Sammen sad de omkring det svage skær af lanternerne, lyttede til regnen og stormens dalende rasen udenfor.En: Together, they sat around the faint glow of the lanterns, listening to the rain and the storm's waning rage outside.Da: I det øjeblik fandt Freja en ny styrke indeni.En: In that moment, Freja found a new strength within.Da: Hun vidste, at hun ikke længere var alene, at frygten ikke kunne styre hende.En: She knew she was no longer alone, that fear could not control her.Da: Da stormen langsomt døde ud, sad de stadig sammen, nærmere hinanden end nogensinde.En: As the storm slowly died down, they still sat together, closer to each other than ever.Da: Freja så på sine venner og tænkte, at disse stunder og deres skæve lys gjorde den gamle bunker mere hjemlig end nogensinde før.En: Freja looked at her friends and thought that these moments and their skewed light made the old bunker feel more like home than ever before.Da: I stilheden efter stormen havde de fundet fred.En: In the silence after the storm, they had found peace. Vocabulary Words:cobblestone: brostenbelagteforgotten: glemtbunker: bunkeranxiety: ængstelsethunderstorms: tordenvejrstruck: slået nedimpending: foreståendeloomed: truededreadful: forfærdeligpeeling: skalledestale: indelukketcanvas cots: feltsengeflickering: flakkendeeager: ivrigsupplies: forsyningersecure: sikrecalmness: roventilation: ventilationssystemetturmoil: urofear: frygtplunged: kastetsoothing: beroligendeflashlight: lommelygteemergency: nødlysflicker: flakkerwaning: dalendepeace: fredstrength: styrkewords: ordenreliability: pålidelighed

The Beach Access Project works with partners to enhance and improve the accessibility of the UK's beaches.A pilot scheme at Weymouth Beach has secured funding from Dorset Council and is aiming to make the beach a leading example in accessibility.Amelia spoke to Beach Access Project Founder, Will Bahenna, to learn more...Learn more on the Beach Access Project Website - Beach Access Project – Beach Access ProjectImage shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white and black background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underline with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font. 

Look at almost any arts and cultural database and one segment towers over the rest. At TRG, we call them Tryers: people who came once and never came back.  This group makes up more than 90% of most databases, regardless of region or business model. As the team puts it, that's the hole at the bottom of the bucket. You can pour new audiences in all year, but if they keep flowing straight out, you never get ahead. Acquiring a first-time attender is expensive, yet our field has historically focused far more on attracting new audiences than keeping them. In this episode, the TRG team explores why retention starts long before the curtain rises, how small moments before and after a visit shape future behavior, and why timely invitations, thoughtful loyalty strategies, and early offers are far more effective than last-minute discounts. Underneath it all is a bigger leadership question. Arts organizations need renewable, "count-on-able" income to support artists, staff, and their mission year after year. That doesn't come from constantly replacing first-time attenders, it comes from building stronger relationships with the people who have already said “yes.” What you'll take away: Who Tryers are, why they make up more than 90% of most databases, and why most never return. Why acquiring new audiences won't solve your long-term revenue challenge. Why 75–85% of first-timers never come back, and why most organizations don't know if it's happening to them. Why audience retention starts the moment someone books, not after they attend. The one audience metric every leadership team should be tracking.

On Monday 13 July 2026 representatives from across the sight loss sector along with a number of employers and visually impaired people came together at the House of Lords for the launch of the Employment Gap Report: Out of Sight – Out of Work by Lord Holmes which is making recommendations for Government and the Department of Work and Pensions to bridge the gap in employment for blind and partially sighted people. RNIB Connect Radio's Toby Davey was at the launch event and caught up with Lord Chris Homes of Richmond MBE to find out more about the findings and recommendations of the report and what can be done to bridge that employment gap for blind and partially sighted people.(Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underlined with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font)

On Monday 13 July 2026 representatives from across the sight loss sector along with a number of employers and visually impaired people came together at the House of Lords for the launch of the Employment Gap Report: Out of Sight – Out of Work by Lord Holmes which is making recommendations for Government and the Department of Work and Pensions to bridge the gap in employment for blind and partially sighted people. RNIB Connect Radio's Toby Davey was at the launch event and caught up with Josh Feehan, Head of Internships, Thomas Pocklington Trust who gave a presentation at the event.(Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underlined with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font)

On Monday 13 July 2026 representatives from across the sight loss sector along with a number of employers and visually impaired people came together at the House of Lords for the launch of the Employment Gap Report: Out of Sight – Out of Work by Lord Holmes which is making recommendations for Government and the Department of Work and Pensions to bridge the gap in employment for blind and partially sighted people. RNIB Connect Radio's Toby Davey was at the launch event and caught up with Khadija Raza, RNIB Policy Lead on Accessibility who also gave a presentation at the event.(Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underlined with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font)

On Monday 13 July 2026 representatives from across the sight loss sector along with a number of employers and visually impaired people came together at the House of Lords for the launch of the Employment Gap Report:  Out of Sight – Out of Work by Lord Holmes which is making recommendations for Government and the Department of Work and Pensions to bridge the gap in employment for blind and partially sighted people. RNIB Connect Radio's Toby Davey was at the launch event and caught up with Laura Davies from the British Association for Supported Employment who gave a presentation at the event.(Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underlined with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font)

This time for our regular browse through the RNIB online shop with Charlee Jarvis, RNIB Shop's Buying Administrator We are looking at an adjustable LED light and fan plus some great end of year tactile cards for teachers, exams and graduation.You will find out more about the LED light and fan, the range of end of year tactile cards along with many other products by visiting the following link to the RNIB Online Shop - https://shop.rnib.org.uk/connect(Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underlined with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font)

On Monday 13 July 2026 representatives from across the sight loss sector along with a number of employers and visually impaired people came together at the House of Lords for the launch of the Employment Gap Report:  Out of Sight – Out of Work by Lord Holmes which is making recommendations for Government and the Department of Work and Pensions to bridge the gap in employment for blind and partially sighted people. RNIB Connect Radio's Toby Davey was at the launch event and caught up with Diane Lightfoot from the Business Disability Forum to find out more about the BDF and her thoughts on the report and its recommendations.(Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underlined with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font)

Send us Fan MailLEARN THE CAPITAL RAISING STRATEGIES AND FRAMEWORKS used by alternative asset professionals: https://go.fundraisecapital.co/applyThis episode is brought to you by Reef Pass | Serial Acquisition Investors: Reef Pass Investors has spent the last 10 years focused on partnering with founders to launch and build long-term holding companies, and has a proven track record doing exactly that.To reach out to Reef Pass Investors, email holdcofounders@reefpassinvestors.comDOWNLOAD The AI Infrastructure Capital Scorecard: https://go.fundraisecapital.co/100m-blueprint-860536-648168-166304-426463-122119-538372-417197Download Ryan Miller's AI Infrastructure Capital Scorecard to evaluate AI investments, identify infrastructure opportunities, and avoid speculative risk. Is AI a bubble?AI infrastructure investing is the question defining private capital in 2026 and most fund managers are answering it wrong.In this episode of Making Billions, Ryan Miller asks the sharper question: where in the AI capital stack do contracted, asset-backed cash flows actually live? This episode delivers the framework every serious allocator needs. Not hype. A five-rung capital stack separating infrastructure money from bubble money and a scoring tool making it impossible to confuse the two in a live deal.The pattern has played out before. In 1999, dot-com equity was vaporized, trillions gone. The fiber laid during that bubble still carries traffic 25 years later. The bubble lived in the equity. The durable money lived in the infrastructure. AI is following the exact same pattern in real time. Allocators who see both things at once come out of this era wealthy.[THE HOST]: Ryan Miller is a fund manager, capital strategist, and former CFO turned angel investor in technology and energy. He is the founder of Fund Raise Capital and Aequor Capital Partners, and has mentored over 1,000 fund managers across private equity, private credit, venture capital, real estate, and alternative assets globally.Subscribe on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTOe79EXLDsROQ0z3YLnu1QQConnect with Ryan Miller:Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rcmiller1/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmilleroffical/X: https://x.com/_MakingBillionsWebsite: https://making-billions.com/Support the showSupport the showDISCLAIMER: This podcast is for entertainment and general informational purposes only — not legal, financial, tax, or investment advice. Nothing herein constitutes a solicitation or offer to buy or sell any security or investment product. Past performance does not indicate future results. Always consult qualified legal, financial, and tax professionals before making any investment decision. NAME NOTICE: "Making Billions with Ryan Miller" reflects the profile and aspirations of guests featured — it is not a promise, projection, guarantee, or representation of any financial result, income, or outcome for any listener, viewer, or reader. Most individuals who consume this content do not raise any particular amount of capital, and many achieve no financial result whatsoever. "Fund Raise Capital" is a brand identifier only — it is not a promise, guarantee, or representation that any member, subscriber, or listener will raise capital, attract investors, or achieve any financial or professional outcome. This show does not constitute a business opportunity, franchise, investment program, or offer of any product or service of any kind. No part of this show should be construed as a solicitation for investment in any way. Guest views are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the show or host. Host and/or guests may hold positions in assets discussed. This episode may contain paid sponsorships, advertisements, or endorsements. Sponsored content is identified where...

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What if the fight you keep having with your spouse isn't really about dishes, money, or who said what last Tuesday? What if the two of you aren't even fighting each other at all?In this solo episode, Todd Creager — licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship coach with over 30 years of experience working with couples — walks you through a framework he uses with couples every day: the three internal parts that show up in virtually every relationship conflict. Once you can see them, the whole fight starts to make sense.Todd breaks down the Firefighter — the part that attacks, raises its voice, and catalogues every grievance from the last six months. It looks strong, but it's actually operating from fear. Then there's the Manager — the part that goes quiet, pulls back, or tries to smooth everything over. From the outside it looks calm, but inside it's just trying to survive the moment. Underneath both of those protective parts lives what Todd calls the wounded or exiled part — the younger, more vulnerable self that feels unseen, unimportant, unsafe, or like it doesn't belong.Todd shares a real couple he's working with right now: a wife who grew up in a loud household where no one really listened, and a husband who was told as a child he should never have been born. Their fights look like her escalating and him withdrawing — but what's really happening is two wounded parts trying desperately to protect themselves. As Todd puts it, their protective parts are actually making things worse for each other, even when that's the last thing either of them wants.The shift happens when couples stop seeing each other as enemies and start recognizing the parts driving the conflict. That awareness — paired with compassion for your own internal experience — is what makes real repair possible.If you and your partner keep getting stuck in the same cycles, this episode gives you a clear, honest way to look at what's actually going on beneath the surface.Todd works with couples navigating communication breakdowns, intimacy issues, infidelity recovery, and long-standing patterns that feel impossible to move through. If you're ready to work with him directly, visit toddcreager.com to learn more about his couples therapy and coaching services. If this episode resonates with you, please share it with someone who could benefit and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to transform their lives.Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  HELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYMBe...

Each week, RNIB Connect Radio's Allan Russell sits down with Simon Antrobus, CEO of RNIB, to look at some of the big stories coming from the UK sight loss charity.This week Simon talks about new Trustees for the RNIB board and audio described sport on tv.]=If you, or someone you know, would like information on the support and services available from RNIB, go to www.rnib.org.ukYou can call our Helpline on 0303 123 9999Or ask your Smart speaker to call RNIB's Helpline.Image shows the RNIB Connect Radio logo. On a white and black background ‘RNIB' written in bold black capital letters and underline with a bold pink line. Underneath the line: ‘Connect Radio' is written in black in a smaller font. 

Aliu Adewale: The Over-Communicator vs. The Over-Ambitious—Two Patterns Every Scrum Master Should Recognize Read the full Show Notes and search through the world's largest audio library on Agile and Scrum directly on the Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast website: http://bit.ly/SMTP_ShowNotes. The Great Product Owner: The Over-Communicator Who Negotiated Every Scope Change Read the full Show Notes and search through the world's largest audio library on Agile and Scrum directly on the Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast website: http://bit.ly/SMTP_ShowNotes.   "This is a guy who over-communicates everything." - Aliu Adewale   The best Product Owner Aliu ever worked with did something simple that almost no PO does. Before each refinement, he'd pull up the Jira board, record himself walking through every user story, explaining acceptance criteria, talking through the end goal one ticket at a time—and post the video to the team a day or two ahead. This was before Loom existed. The result: refinement felt less like discovery and more like "walking it back"—the team arrived already prepared, with real questions, ready to engage. He still attended every refinement and never missed a comment in Jira. But the second skill Aliu names matters even more: negotiation. This PO never let scope creep into a sprint mid-stride without consulting the team first. "If we add these two requests from leadership, what's the impact? Do we need to take something out?" And if the team said no, he didn't force it. He went back to leadership and named the consequence: "If we add this, here's what happens. Are you okay with that?" Over-communication and negotiation—two skills that protect the team and the product at the same time.   Self-reflection Question: When was the last time your PO asked the team's permission before adding work mid-sprint? The Bad Product Owner: The Over-Ambitious PO Who Never Said No Read the full Show Notes and search through the world's largest audio library on Agile and Scrum directly on the Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast website: http://bit.ly/SMTP_ShowNotes.   "Every yes to something unimportant is a no to what matters." - Aliu Adewale   The Product Owner Aliu names as the anti-pattern is the over-ambitious PO—the one who never says no. Never to stakeholders, never to the business, never to a new feature request. He never considered the size of the team or the capacity of the team. He was blind to it. Underneath the behavior, Aliu sees a pattern: POs who want to keep their job by saying yes, stakeholders who keep asking because they think they have to, and a team on probation that doesn't feel safe pushing back. The damage compounds—more features delivered, less value per feature, and eventually the team itself starts to break. Aliu's framing is sharp: "More features don't equal more value. Sometimes more is just less." The job of the Scrum Master here is to coach the PO on when to say no, when to say yes, and how to recognize that on the phone in front of you right now, 90% of the features in that app you're staring at—you never use them. Built. Shipped. Ignored.   In this segment, we refer to Product Owner anti-patterns and the courage required to challenge stakeholder demands.   Self-reflection Question: Is your PO measuring success by features shipped, or by features used?   [The Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast Recommends]

The funnel most marketers grew up on – see the ad, click, browse, add to cart, buy – did not gradually erode. It came apart almost overnight, as shoppers got comfortable discovering, deciding, and buying inside social feeds and LLMs, often in a single moment. Recorded live at K:LDN 2026 in London, this is the close-out conversation for the series, a step back to ask what actually replaces the funnel and what it demands of the brands trying to keep pace. Alicia Esposito of Future Commerce sits down with Kelsey Capps, who leads Klaviyo's product work across analytics, personalization, and AI, and so has a front-row seat to the change. A shopper can now find a product in a TikTok comment, buy it, and post about it before the marketing team has time to react, which means the advance-planning window marketers relied on has all but vanished. Kelsey's argument is that brands have to rebalance, away from a roughly 80/20 split of campaigns over automated flows and toward signal-triggered automation that can react in the moment, like a flow that fires when someone arrives from a ChatGPT referral. Underneath the tactics sits a bigger shift: optimizing your site and product data so the machines doing the discovering can actually surface you, and building an operating model around understanding customers rather than merely targeting them. Her closing note is optimistic. The data advantage that once belonged only to enterprises is now within reach of the smallest brand, and because customer intelligence compounds, the brands that start building the model first are the ones that pull away. What you'll learn What replaces the linear funnel once discovery, comparison, and conversion happen at once Why the advance-planning window has collapsed, and what to do about it How to rebalance from campaigns toward signal-triggered automated flows Why optimizing your product data and brand voice for machines is now table stakes How a single wrong recommendation breaks trust, and why understanding beats targeting Why customer intelligence compounds, and why first movers pull away Pull quotes "Customers don't want to be just targeted, they want to be understood." — Kelsey Capps [13:50] "You can see when someone came to your site from ChatGPT. That's just a UTM source on an event, and a brand could automate a workflow around it." — Kelsey Capps [16:15] "This conversation used to be confined to the four walls of industry events. Now your family and friends are having the same conversations about how their data is being used." — Alicia Esposito [23:01] "Even your smallest mom-and-pop shop can take advantage of their first-party data in a way they just never could before." — Kelsey Capps [24:55] Chapters 0:00 Cold open and introductions 5:23 Perpetual commerce and the collapse of the funnel 6:11 Discovering and buying inside a TikTok comment 11:43 Understanding customers, not just targeting them 14:46 Optimizing your data for the machines doing the discovering 15:40 The vanishing planning window, campaigns versus flows 17:08 Composer and orchestration pulling it together 19:03 Vision in the age of autonomy 22:00 The turkey-sub story, how a bad recommendation breaks trust 23:43 What Kelsey is optimistic about, and the urgency for laggards In-Show Mentions: Learn more about Klaviyo's Composer Associated Links: Check out Future Commerce on YouTube Check out Future Commerce Plus for exclusive content and save on merch and print Subscribe to Insiders and The Senses to read more about what we are witnessing in the commerce world Listen to our other episodes of Future Commerce Have any questions or comments about the show? Let us know on futurecommerce.com, or reach out to us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, or LinkedIn. We love hearing from our listeners! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Your audition might win you the seat, but your day-to-day behavior decides whether people actually want to sit next to you for the next 20 years. The Cello Sherpa Podcast Host, Joel Dallow, is joined by cellist Jennifer Humphreys, currently with the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra, to talk about the orchestra etiquette music school rarely teaches: the quiet, practical choices that signal professionalism the moment you walk on stage. From the “fake five” being in your seat early to simple introductions that build instant trust, we dig into what colleagues notice right away.We also get specific about section life. Jennifer explains what it really means to follow bowings (not just directions, but bow placement and length), what to do when you disagree with a principal, and why some “small” habits like phones on stage, gum, or practicing excerpts during service can erode focus and respect. We talk marking parts without creating crutches, how to stay flexible when seating changes, and how tidy pencil work can literally make rehearsal smoother for everyone sharing the stand.Then we zoom out to what makes a section player genuinely valuable: knowing the full piece, listening across the orchestra, understanding when to play out or pull back, and using the right communication chain so questions get answered without derailing rehearsal. Underneath it all is the real challenge of professional ensemble playing: setting ego aside to create a unified sound that no solo player can make alone.If you're preparing for your first orchestra job or want to level up as a section string player, subscribe, share this with a stand partner, and leave a review so more musicians can find it. What's one unwritten orchestra rule you wish someone had told you earlier?For more information on Jennifer: https://slso.org/person/jennifer-humphreys/You can also find Jennifer on Facebook and Instagram: @31jumphreysIf you are looking for in person/virtual cello lessons, or orchestral repertoire audition coachings, check out www.theCelloSherpa.comFollow us on Facebook, Instagram, Threads & YouTube: @theCelloSherpaFor more information on our sponsor: www.CLEAResources.com 

Stephen Soderberg's third movie is the marquee release this week, King of the Hill (1993), an adaptation of A.E. Hotchner's memoir of being poor in Depression-era St. Louis. Also slid in here is Soderberg's fourth movie, The Underneath (1995), a remake of the Robert Siodmak's 1949 noir Criss Cross. Accompanying each is an introduction from Soderberg about how much he loathes the films, which makes it hard to like them ourselves -- though The Underneath is certainly the worse film. Ultimately we spend a lot of time wondering why Criterion bothered to put these out, particularly together, and I think came to a satisfying if bleak answer.

This episode is a companion to the upcoming Thought Leadership Handbook — part of a series where Bill speaks with exemplars featured in the book about how they actually practice thought leadership. There are plenty of books explaining what AI is. This one is about the person who decided to write a book that tells you what to do about it instead — and who's spent 25 years turning disruption into frameworks other people can actually use. Charlene Li joins Bill Sherman to talk about her new book, Winning with AI, co-written with Katia Walsh, and why this one felt different from her five previous titles. It's less an explainer, she says, and more a "doing book" — built for a moment when the case studies go stale before the ink dries. That tension opens into a bigger conversation about how ideas get made and shared. Charlene walks through the origin of Groundswell, the book that made her a New York Times bestseller, written entirely remotely with co-author Josh Bernoff while she was still an in-house analyst at Forrester. She's candid about what co-authorship actually requires — not just complementary skills, but real trust built over years, disagreements included. The conversation also digs into a business model question that shaped her career: when she left Forrester to found Altimeter, she gave research away for free, betting that value would come back around. It did — inbound demand from companies who'd read the free work and wanted the deeper conversation. Bill connects this to economist Elinor Ostrom's work on knowledge commons. Underneath it all is a simple throughline: frameworks outlast the moment they were built for. The "ladder of engagement" from Groundswell is still taught 18 years later — not because the case studies held up, but because the thinking did. If you're building a book, a body of research, or a career on ideas that might get overtaken by the next news cycle, this one's worth your time. Three Key Takeaways: • Co-authorship runs on trust, not just talent. Charlene describes working with multiple co-authors over her career and is clear that the deciding factor was never just complementary skill sets — it was years of built trust, the ability to disagree productively, and knowing when to step away from a deadline argument and come back with a clear head. • Give the idea away first — the business follows. At Altimeter, Charlene made research free when competitors charged for it, building an audience of 100,000+ readers almost overnight. The resulting inbound demand became the foundation of the business, illustrating a "blue ocean" alternative to the traditional pay-for-access analyst model. • Durable frameworks outlive their case studies. Charlene expects Winning with AI to need a new edition once roughly 20% of its examples go stale — but she draws a distinction between outdated examples and outdated thinking, pointing to Groundswell's "ladder of engagement," still taught 18 years after publication. If you enjoyed hearing Charlene Li unpack the thinking behind Winning with AI, go back to her first appearance on the show — episode 113, recorded back when she was preparing to launch The Disruption Mindset. Both conversations trace the same throughline: how Charlene builds frameworks that outlast the moment they were written for, whether she's leaving Forrester to found Altimeter or navigating a fast-moving AI landscape years later. Hearing the two together shows how consistent her approach to thought leadership has been across three very different books and two decades of change. Listen to "Leveraging Thought Leadership With Peter Winick — Episode 113" with Charlene Li.

All of the sudden you have the ick & now they can't do anything right. The annoyances pile on but is it a me problem or a sign this isn't right? The girls talk through what might be causing you to get the ick or be overly annoyed at things that used to not bother you. Married, single, dating, roommates, friendships, no one is immune to finding flaws & wondering what to do next. Chat with the Call Her Holy girls this week to uncover what's going on underneath & what to do about it. Love you holy babes, Laura & Nico Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever tried to do something good for yourself, only to feel guilty the second someone else had a reaction to it? In this episode, I'm answering listener questions about what happens when self-care becomes visible and the people around us have feelings about it. I'm talking about morning workouts, girls' trips, hobbies, and the guilt that can show up when we start making room for ourselves. Underneath each question is a deeper one: how do I get my own needs met without feeling like the villain in someone else's story? This episode is for you if you're ready to protect the practices that help you feel like yourself, without over-explaining, hiding, or asking for permission. Show Highlights: ● Why visible self-care can feel so complicated. [02:02] ● The listener question behind this Dear Cherylanne episode. [03:34] ● Why self-care does not need to become a debate. [12:12] ● How to handle guilt around time away. [18:58] ● The difference between privacy and secrecy. [27:04] ● Why hobbies deserve space in a full life. [31:30] ● How guilt changes as kids get older. [33:12] ● The difference between guilt, judgment, and grief. [40:52] ● What it means to be strategically selfish. [45:08]  Submit a Dear Cherylanne question: https://brilliant-balance.com/dear-cherylanne Join The Coaching Circle to apply what you learn on the podcast with structure & support: https://brilliant-balance.com/coachingcircle Subscribe for weekly content from Cherylanne straight to your inbox: https://brilliantbalance.substack.com/   Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: www.instagram.com/cskolnicki

Ben Braverman dropped from 240 pounds and a couple of prescriptions to a sub-3:40 marathon, and he says the real transformation happened somewhere between his ears.   Ben joins Dr. Andrew Fix to talk about what actually changes when someone moves from the far end of the wellness spectrum toward something closer to optimization. His story starts with running for beginners in its truest form: a guy on a treadmill who couldn't run a mile, slowly building toward a marathon a few years later. The physical numbers are real: weight loss, a faster marathon, and blood pressure readings that finally started moving in the right direction. But Ben keeps circling back to something harder to quantify. He calls it mental clarity, the sense that decisions got easier, stress got more manageable, and his work and relationships improved almost as a side effect of taking care of his body.   What does it actually feel like to operate without a constant mental fog? And how much of that fog do most people simply accept as normal because they've never known anything else?   The two also dig into why personal growth rarely moves in a straight line. Ben's second year of running was slower than his first, and a coach's advice to celebrate small wins kept him moving forward when the personal records stopped coming. Andrew frames health less as a finish line and more as seasons of pushing and pulling back, a pattern borrowed from how elite athletes train and recover. Underneath all of it sits one quiet but stubborn idea: consistency, not intensity, is what actually moves people from the left side of the spectrum to the right. The conversation touches on nutrition, sleep, and the discomfort that seems to accompany any real change, landing on a simple idea: the gap between feeling okay and feeling genuinely well might be smaller than most people think.   Quotes "For someone that's never really felt fit, you're always a little tired because you're eating poorly. You're always a little fatigued." (16:07 | Ben Braverman) "You don't need to be running forty, fifty, sixty miles a week, lifting four to five times a week, cold plunging five times a week, hot yoga three times a week…If you get out there and you run for 30 minutes four times a week, and getting some resistance training two times a week, you probably will see changes if you're on that left side of the spectrum." (23:41 | Ben Braverman) "If you don't have a coach, you should. I would give it a shot. If you're trying to get faster or just trying to accomplish something, it's helpful to have that expert." (50:42 | Ben Braverman) “I feel like I process stress better. And I think that's a byproduct of mental clarity. Being able to process the down days." (43:41 | Ben Braverman) "If you know somebody that's struggling with fitness, like I was on the left side of the spectrum, send them this pod, because you can transform even much later in life." (53:55 | Ben Braverman) Connect with Ben Braverman: Connect with Ben on LinkedIn  The In Good Order Podcast with Ben Braverman   Mito Red Light (5% off)   SideKick Tool   Movemate: Award-Winning Active Standing Board 15% off Promo Code: DRA15   RAD Roller   Revogreen   HYDRAGUN    Athletic Brewing 20% off: ANDREWF20     Connect with Physio Room: Visit the Physio Room Website Follow Physio Room on Instagram Follow Physio Room on Facebook Andrew's Personal Instagram Andrew's Personal Facebook     Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Taylor Swift Today with Lyla: after the spectacle and the debate, the softer side of the story. Underneath all the celebrities and secrecy, this was a wedding — two people promising each other forever. Guests say it was Travis, not Taylor, who got emotional first: the six-foot-five Super Bowl champion reportedly teared up promising to protect her, and that's what made the bride cry. Plus the officiant who stole the show, a down-to-earth family overwhelmed by it all, and the strong signs a whole new Taylor era is on the way. Here's the tender version.

Getting laid off twice early in your career could make you crave stability. It did the opposite for Brian Balthasar. After two rounds of corporate layoffs, he decided that starting his own machine shop was the safer bet. This is another one of our Gen CNC conversations. Brian founded Balthasar Industries in 2022, and he just bought his first building in North Tonawanda, New York. We walk through the leap: buying a mill and a lathe before he had customers, learning that the sales cycle can run a year or more, and finding out how fast the costs that have nothing to do with machines pile up. Some of the most useful parts are about money. The SBA 7(a) loan that got him started, the tooling and support gear that blew past every budget, and why his original business plan turned out to be 10 to 20 percent right. We add the rule every shop owner learns eventually: plan on it costing twice as much and taking twice as long, then pressure test that plan against the worst case. We also get into growing past a one person shop, standardizing on DN Solutions, and building a tech stack in the right order, with connectivity first. Brian shares the CAM path that let him run a shop knowing only basic G code, and where he wants to take the business next, from complex turning and mill turn work to the optics, aerospace, and defense jobs around Buffalo. Underneath all of it is an idea we keep circling back to. Growth is a calculated risk. You run the numbers, decide how much risk you can live with, and then, as Brian puts it, burn the boats and go. There's also a DN Solutions machine giveaway coming at IMTS this year, and you can sign up at makingchips.com/giveaway. What's Covered in this Episode (1:57) Learn more about Brian Balthasar and his journey in manufacturing (4:56) Why starting a shop felt less risky than another corporate job (6:22) Take your shop high-end with DN Solutions (7:35) Buying machines, hunting for customers, and learning sales (10:41) The startup costs nobody budgets for (15:04) Plan on twice as long and twice as much, then pressure test it (16:11) Boost spindle uptime with the Hennig workflow automation system (17:03) Buying the building and adding a third machine (18:33) Financing gear and getting a line of credit before you need it (21:09) Win a DN Solutions SVM 4100 at IMTS 2026 (22:37) The SAE effect and the community that shapes young founders (26:19) Growing past a one person shop and protecting your balance (27:48) Invest in yourself first with ProShop ERP (29:24) Building the tech stack in the right order, connectivity first (34:19) The CAM journey and running a shop on basic G code (36:06) Where the equipment is headed and a wild GM grinder story (39:34) Positioning for optics, aerospace, defense, and AS9100 (44:36) Closing advice: decide your risk threshold and burn the boats Resources Mentioned DN Solutions Hennig Workflow Automation ProShop ERP IMTS Bryce Barnes: The Tech Stack Advantage Connect with Brian Balthasar Balthasar Industries Balthasar Industries on LinkedIn On Instagram On Facebook Email Connect with MakingChips www.MakingChips.com On Facebook On LinkedIn On Instagram On Twitter On YouTube

Google launched a real estate product pairing listings with buyer's agents. Every platform is pitching you their pipeline. Underneath all of it is the same message: pay to play, or fall behind. We don't buy it. And when you see the actual math, you might not either.In this conversation, we get into what buying real estate leads actually costs, when it can work, and why it's almost never the answer people think it is. We unpack the video that started this whole conversation (a strong take that agents need to buy Google placements or they're making a "dumb business decision"), why the 3% conversion rate is the benchmark most agents don't want to hear, the math that says 1,500 leads a year turns into 45 deals if you're doing everything right (which is 4.2 leads a day you have to actively work).Our take, you can outperform the agents buying leads, by developing a strong 100 person database that you show up for consistently and let the seven-year cycle plus referrals do the heavy lifting. Done right, you stop chasing strangers at a 3% conversion rate and start running a business that compounds every year you stay in it. Not to mention is a whole lot more fun!

Returning HomeRuth 1Teacher: Pastor Tommy BaileyDate: July 5, 2026The book of Ruth is a quiet story tucked between the tumultuous period of the Judges and the rise of Israel's kings. In the first chapter of Ruth, a famine drives a small family from Bethlehem, the house of bread, into Moab, a pagan land far from the presence and promises of God. There, in a country that was never home, Naomi loses her husband and both of her sons, and is left with her grief, two widowed daughters-in-law, and a longing to return home.Join Pastor Tommy as we open Ruth 1 and follow Naomi and Ruth on the road back to Bethlehem. In her season of loss, Naomi hears that God has visited his people, and she sets her face toward home. Ruth, a Moabite who had every reason to stay behind, clings to Naomi: “Your people shall be my people, and your God my God.” Underneath all the sorrow and lament, God is quietly at work, moving toward this grieving family with a steadfast, covenant love that will not let go, making a way for the weary and the wandering to come home.Support the showTo find more resources like these, follow us:Website: https://thevillagechapel.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQVTzDbaiXVUAm_mUBDCTJAInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tvcnashville/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tvcnashvilleX: https://twitter.com/tvcnashvilleTo support the ongoing mission of The Village Chapel go to https://thevillagechapel.com/give/. If you are a regular giver, thank you for your continued faithfulness and generosity!

If you've ever felt like something was missing in a relationship with a covert narcissist — a flatness, a lack of depth, a sense that you're never quite reaching the real person — this episode is for you. In this episode, Renee breaks down the mask covert narcissists wear using a new framework: not a costume hiding a "true self," but a crown covering an exposed nerve that never developed protection. This reframe explains why the mask never fully comes off, and why even gentle honesty can trigger a reaction that feels wildly out of proportion. You'll learn why DARVO, stonewalling, disproportionate rage, and hollow apologies aren't calculated manipulation so much as reflexive alarm responses. You'll also understand why walking on eggshells around someone never actually works — because real intimacy means eventually touching the nerve, no matter how careful you are. This episode reframes narcissistic abuse recovery around a compassionate but clear-eyed truth: the emptiness you sensed was real, and it was never your failure to look hard enough. If this episode resonates and you're ready for support in moving forward, I invite you to learn more about my coaching program at covertnarcissism.com. You don't have to untangle this alone. The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not to be used for diagnosis purposes and not intended to be a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a health care provider for guidance specific to your case. This material discusses narcissism in general. Renee shares stories from her personal experiences as well as from those she has talked with for several years. Her material does not claim that any specific person has narcissism and should not be used to refer to any specific person as having narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or support a claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the material and information provided. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Mark Vicente returns to the show — South African filmmaker, twelve-year NXIVM survivor, and one of the central whistleblowers in HBO's The Vow — for a conversation timed to the release of his new documentary The Narcissist's Playbook. Years of interviewing self-confessed narcissists, cult survivors, and clinicians have given Mark a clear lens on what most people sense but can't name: the same pathology that runs a cult runs a marriage, an activist movement, a political party, a society. Dissociation is the operating system. Mimicry is the mask. The pathology of the leader becomes the blueprint of the whole. Underneath all of it, Mark argues for the unfashionable thing — that authenticity is a dying breed, that the only real antidote is returning to your own feeling, your own stillness, your own discernment. The conversation ends in hope, earned the hard way.(00:00) Cold Open(00:37) Opening Conversation(02:26) Show Start(03:14) Narcissist's Playbook Film(08:47) Defining Narcissism / Interviewing Narcissists(13:34) Trauma or Choice(20:14) Narcissistic Injury(23:29) Power and Politics(27:56) Psychopath Acting Tricks(34:30) Facing Inner Rage(36:35) Cults and Low Vibe Policing(42:45) Healing Means Feeling(47:48) Devices Kill Stillness(56:49) Does Abuse Catalyze Growth?(01:03:35) Forces Of Disconnection / Collectivism As Psyop(01:11:20) Activism And Selective Outrage(01:19:53) Trigger Words And RadioactivityGUEST LINKSMark Vicente → https://markvicente.com/The Narcissist's Playbook (film) → https://www.narcissistsplaybook.com/WTF is on My Mind (podcast / Instaguru series) → https://www.youtube.com/@markvicente7Instagram → https://instagram.com/markvicenteCONNECT WITH USStart the Free 7-Day Self-Esteem Reset → https://selfesteemreset.com/Follow us on Instagram → https://instagram.com/areyouhereforthetruthJoin our membership Friends of the Truth → https://hereforthetruth.com/friends/Watch All Episodes → https://hereforthetruth.com/episodes/

Are you exhausted from chasing outcomes that never quite deliver the peace you're after?Underneath every goal is a feeling — security, love, peace, worthiness. And that feeling is already available to you through abiding in Christ, not through achieving. In this episode Jill opens a new series called Simply Remain, anchored in John 15 and Andrew Murray's The True Vine. She names the works of the flesh we don't recognize because they look like diligence, introduces the idea of hard moments as portals into faith rather than detours around it, and shows what remaining actually looks like in a real moment of grief and loneliness.In This Episode•Why the fruit of the Spirit is not a to-do list•How to trace any outcome back to the feeling underneath it•The works of the flesh that look like virtue but quietly deplete you•What remaining in Christ looks like in a real hard moment•Why your hardest circumstances are doorways into abidingKey Takeaways•You're chasing the feeling underneath the outcome — and it's already available through abiding•The branch has one job: to stay•Striving and controlling are works of the flesh — they never deliver what they promise•Your hard moments are portals, not interruptionsSeries NoteEpisode 1 of the Simply Remain series, based on John 15 and Andrew Murray's The True Vine.Keywords•Abiding in Christ•John 15 vine and branches•Fruit of the Spirit•Christian podcast for women•Overcoming striving and perfectionism•Spiritual growth for womenIf you want to take this work and apply it, visit myhappyvault.com. That's where I share free resources and ways to stay connected.Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

“Produce more than you consume” is five words, but they're a compass. I start most mornings with one quiet question: What am I going to make today? Not what I'm going to buy, watch, scroll, or order to the door but what I'll bring into the world with my own two hands. That simple shift has become the backbone of my self-reliance mindset, and it's the most practical productivity habit I know for building competence, confidence, and a calmer mood.I talk through how easy it is to become a consumer without noticing: packaged food, outsourced repairs, nights filled with entertainment, and eventually paying other people to live big parts of your life for you. When my business came apart, I had to face a harder question: what can I actually do if nobody is coming and nothing is getting delivered? That humbling answer became the beginning of everything that followed and it still shapes how I spend an ordinary day at the cabin.We also get specific about what “production” really means. It can be splitting and stacking wood, fixing a fence, cooking from scratch, sharpening a tool, turning a garden bed, practicing a skill, or learning something you can pass on. I share the nightly “quiet accounting” I use to stay honest about the balance, why rest is part of the process, and why efficiency culture can miss the point. Most important: you can do this in an apartment too, with small wins like mending, growing herbs, building a shelf, or repairing a bike.If you want to be around people choosing competence over convenience, I also point you toward the community at myselfreliance.com and what I'm thinking for a Facebook space. Subscribe, share this with someone who's been feeling stuck, and leave a review if the idea helps you take one real step today.Support the showMy Self Reliance YouTube Channel- https://youtube.com/@MySelfReliance?si=d4js0zGc5ogYvDtOShawn James Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5L_M7BF5iait4FzEbwKCAgMerchandise  - https://teespring.com/stores/my-self-reliance

Welcome to the Christmas series! Underneath the starlit sky, surrounded by hay and animal filth, the Savior of the World and Hope of Heaven is born. The climax of creation and crescendo of the cosmos takes place in the most humble of contexts.  Sign up for special devotionals at StoriesoftheMessiah.com. As we dive deeply into iconic Bible heroes' enthralling narratives, we find more than just stories of faith and miracles. We discover a recurrent theme, a spiritual undertone that connects each tale to the grandeur of the Gospel. They're not just standalone legends; they're threads in a divine tapestry, weaving a story that foreshadows Jesus Christ, the ultimate hero, the promised Messiah who brings light to the darkest corners of history. For more Bible stories download the Pray.com app.  To learn more about Rabbi Schneider visit https://discoveringthejewishjesus.com/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If the data on overwork is this loud, why do otherwise rational leaders keep flooring it? Episode eight of the Busy Is Broken series names what's running under the hood. After twenty years of coaching CEOs, Bill has found five engines that keep smart leaders stuck in patterns they know aren't working. They're not character flaws. They're operating systems. And most leaders run on at least two or three simultaneously.Engine one — Identity: your sense of self is welded to the role. When "I am the business" becomes your operating identity, rest feels like death. Engine two — Fear: the quiet saboteur dressed as caution. Sounds like diligence. "I'm not micromanaging, I'm double-checking." Underneath: if this goes wrong, people will think I'm not good enough. Engine three — Habit: yesterday's survival reflex running tomorrow's company. The habits that built the company are the same ones trapping you inside it. Engine four — Culture: visible effort signals competence. Research shows people infer higher status from whoever appears busier. Being indispensable feels like winning. Engine five — Adrenaline: the dopamine of the save. That was Bill's. He loved being the one who got the call.These compound. Fear drives micromanagement. Micromanagement feeds the identity of being needed. The adrenaline of firefighting masks the strategic neglect underneath. And the four sins they produce — poor delegation, micromanagement, perfectionism, strategic myopia — feed each other in a doom loop. This week's invitation: name your engine out loud. Don't pick the one that sounds least bad. Pick the one that's actually driving your behavior. Say it to someone you trust. Naming it is the first step to choosing something different. Next episode: the Italy Test — what happens when you put a real date on the calendar to step away.Links:Busy Is Broken book and free diagnostic: https://busyisbroken.comQ20 Growth Diagnostic: https://scalingcoach.com/Q20Mentioned in this episode:Busy Is BrokenHave you ever had a week where you're completely slammed but somehow nothing actually moved? Is this one of those weeks? That's not really a time problem. It's a busyness habit problem. My new book, Busy Is Broken: Do Less, Scale More, is about growing by doing less, not more. Read or listen to a sample chapter, over at busyisbroken.com. That's busyisbroken.com. Also on amazon and other booksellers.

Look for their newest game “Per Your Last Email” and find all of their stuff at BiscuitWolfGames.com https://itch.io/search?q=biscuit+wolf www.instagram.com/biscuitwolfgames/ You can support and follow all things us at www.Linktr.ee/RealLifeSciFi We stream every Sunday at 4pm pacific at www.SchrabHomeVideo.com Thank you for supporting us and thank you for having friends with different beliefs. Cheers. recorded 6/16/26 #tunnels #losangelestunnels #lizardpeople #Losangelestunnelsystem Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

If you've spent any time on social media as a chiropractor, you've probably been pitched a "hack" for ranking number one on Google Maps. Someone is always discovering a secret, and they're always willing to share it with you for a fee. In this episode, Jerry breaks down a real example he came across recently: a guy claiming to rank well by paying people with burner phones to fake driving to his office, creating the illusion of traffic and interest. Jerry explains why this works in the short term, why Google's pattern detection catches it eventually, and what actually happens when it does, including the kind of shadow banning and blacklisting that is much harder to undo than it was to create. He also walks through a second, more subtle example: incentivizing patients with raffles or contests to get them to post photos to your Google Business Profile. It sounds harmless on the surface, but Jerry explains why it crosses into the same bribery and incentivization territory that Google explicitly prohibits, even when the intent feels innocent. Underneath both examples is the same core idea Jerry keeps coming back to on this podcast: relevance, proximity, and prominence are what actually build trust with Google and AI, and prominence in particular cannot be faked without consequences. He closes with a clear list of the basics that actually work, the unglamorous stuff that nobody wants to hear because it isn't a shortcut. Topics Covered Why "secret hacks" being sold to chiropractors on social media should make you cautious The burner phone scheme: paying people to fake traveling to your office to manufacture fake interaction signals How Google detects abnormal patterns and what happens when you get caught Why Jerry would report a competitor gaming the system, and why that isn't "being a jerk" The trust analogy: why undermining trust with Google works the same way as undermining trust with a person The Google Business Profile photo raffle example and why incentivizing photo posts counts as bribery The difference between asking a patient to share a photo and incentivizing them to The real, unglamorous list of things that actually build prominence over time Want to Get Help? If you want a free look at your website and local search, request a review at RocketChiro.com. If you want more help with the business and marketing side of practice, check out the Next Step program at RocketChiro.com.

Today, a look at a much zanier Friday session in US equities than the almost flat close on the S&P 500 suggested as market internals have become wildly divergent, much of it linked to the market's bucketing of AI winners and losers. Elsewhere, as Volkswagen sets up a possibly 100,000 layoffs, in part on weaker Chinese demand and greater competition from cheaper Chinese EVs, and as Europe roasts with record high temperatures, will Europe's trade policy toward coal-burning China harden on climate grounds? As usual, macro and FX and much more also on today's pod, which is hosted by Saxo Global Head of Macro Strategy John J. Hardy. Links See Friday's John J. Hardy substack, in which I discussed the AI winners and losers on the very day when market internals went especially haywire along the fault lines of this theme.  A WSJ article suggests that one of China's latest AI models may match the ability to exploit cybersecurity vulnerabilities shown by Anthropic's Mythos.   FTAlphaville with an excellent article wondering whether the current AI revolution may echo some of the impacts on labor and capital that marked especially the early decades of the Indutrial revolution.   About twice per week (in normal times, hopefully soon to resume), you will find links discussed on the podcast and a chart-of-the-day over at the John J. Hardy substack. Read daily in-depth market updates from the Saxo Market Call and the Saxo Strategy Team here. Please reach out to us at marketcall@saxobank.com for feedback and questions. Click here to open an account with Saxo. Intro music by AShamaluevMusic DISCLAIMER This content is marketing material. Trading financial instruments carries risks. Always ensure that you understand these risks before trading. This material does not contain investment advice or an encouragement to invest in a particular manner. Historic performance is not a guarantee of future results. The instrument(s) referenced in this content may be issued by a partner, from whom Saxo Bank A/S receives promotional fees, payment or retrocessions. While Saxo may receive compensation from these partnerships, all content is created with the aim of providing clients with valuable information and options.  

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1942DM A concussion in college forced Meg Josephson to stop everything. No drinking. Just silence and darkness for a long recovery. That stillness changed her relationship with alcohol for good. Here she gets honest about why we reach for a drink, our phones, food, anything that helps us avoid what's bubbling under the surface. Underneath the habit is usually a wound, and the behavior is just a way to feel safe. Her take on presence is the part that sticks. Being present doesn't mean feeling good. Sometimes it means feeling kind of awful and staying there anyway. The practical piece is simple enough to try right now. Inhale for four. Exhale for six. It won't erase the anxiety, but it tells your body you're safe. And noticing the anxiety instead of running from it? She calls that a huge step. A great place to start. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Topics Meg Josephson, Lewis Howes, anxiety relief, coping mechanisms, nervous system regulation, breathing techniques for anxiety, sitting with discomfort, mindfulness and presence, addiction root causes, people pleasing Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Alexis, 29, and Edwens, 30, a married couple with a 10-month-old baby and two completely different ideas of what money should look like in a marriage. Edwens immigrated from the Dominican Republic less than two years ago, and personal finance is still new to him. Alexis has been trying to teach him, manage the bills, build the budget, and create a future for their family. And yet, their biggest fight keeps coming back to one question: Why won't Edwens open a joint bank account? But the account is only part of the story. What Ramit uncovers is a marriage where Alexis wants partnership, transparency, and a shared family system, while Edwens is still holding on to independence, privacy, and the idea that giving her $1,000 a month should be enough. Alexis feels like she has become the household manager, the bill payer, and eventually more like his mother than his wife. Edwens feels criticized and controlled, especially around credit cards and spending. Underneath all of it are cultural differences, childhood money patterns, and a couple with a baby who are still trying to turn two separate money lives into one shared future. In this episode we uncover: Why a joint bank account becomes the breaking point in their marriage What Alexis means when she says Edwens still acts like a single man Why Edwens sees separate money as independence, not betrayal The $1,000 arrangement that leaves Alexis managing everything alone How cultural differences shape their money rules Why Edwens struggles to understand credit cards and debt The moment Ramit almost ends the session Why Alexis feels like she has become Edwens's mother, not his wife How childhood money patterns are showing up in their marriage Why their cheap rent is a financial gift they are not fully using The moment they finally start building a shared money system Chapters: (00:00:00) “He still operates like a single man” (00:01:58) The joint bank account fight (00:07:19) “I don't want to be married without a joint account” (00:12:19) She wants partnership. He hears control. (00:18:05) The credit card argument (00:25:50) Why does he listen to Ramit, but not his wife? (00:30:56) Ramit almost ends the session (00:35:31) Their real income changes the conversation (00:45:20) The bills, the $1,000, and who actually manages the money (00:55:04) Repeating their parents' money fights (01:02:25) Building a new money culture as a couple (01:07:13) Alexis has been carrying the household alone (01:15:20) “I feel like his mom, not his wife” (01:21:52) Breaking the generational money pattern (01:27:54) Why therapy needs to happen before it's too late (01:32:33) Rebuilding their Conscious Spending Plan (01:43:16) From separate money to real partnership (01:48:02) Follow-up This episode is brought to you by: Facet | As of the date of this recording, Facet is waiving the enrollment fee for new annual members, and for my audience, Facet is offering $300 into your brokerage account if you invest and maintain $5,000 within your first 90 days. Head to facet.com/ramit to learn more about which membership option is best for you. Offer has been extended to 12/31/2026. #FacetAd Fabric by Gerber Life | Join the thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply today in just minutes at https://meetfabric.com/ramit Shopify | Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/ramit Gelt | Gelt is taking on new clients now. Find out if you qualify at https://joingelt.com/ramit. DeleteMe | Get 20% off all consumer plans when you go to https://joindeleteme.com/ramit and use promo code RAMIT at checkout Connect with Ramit • Get my new book, Money For Couples • Get Money Coaching with Ramit  • Download the Conscious Spending Plan • Listen to my book—now on Audible • Get my New York Times best-selling book • Get my no-numbers journal • Other episodes • Instagram • Twitter • YouTube Single in LA? Apply now to star in my new reality series about love and money at https://iwt.com/datingshow Calling LA couples: Apply to be coached for free on this podcast at https://iwt.com/apply