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As a leader, you communicate constantly. But are you communicating in the most effective way? What are some best communication practices when there's conflict? What are some practical strategies you can implement today to better your public speaking? In this leadership rewind episode, I chat with Carrie Sharpe, a homeschooling mom of five, wife, and business owner. We dive into the topics of effective communication, including the best way to talk through conflict and practices to become a better public speaker. Carrie shares how she manages her different responsibilities + roles, and how she takes a rest from all the noise and busyness. This conversation originally aired in Oct. 2018 as part of our relationship series, and we're bringing it back into our podcast feed as one of the deep cuts that you may have missed. We think you will love hearing (or re-listening to) Carrie's story.   For the full show notes on the episode, check out https://estherlittlefield.com/episode16 Check out all the epsiodes in the Relationship Series here.   Connect with Esther and the Christian Woman Leadership Podcast: Website Esther's Instagram

In our last episode we talked about how, after a LONG time, real-life, in-person networking events are a thing once more. Some of you might be full of joy at the idea, but an equal number of you will be horrified that you're going to have to get out there once again. So how can you make the best out of these opportunities and put yourself and your business out there in a way that still reflects your true, authentic self? To help you out, my guest today is Carrie Sharpe, a Communication Consultant, Speaker, and Co-Owner of He Says, She Says. She is also the co-host of the Speaking with Ryan & Carrie Sharpe podcast. With over twenty-five years of experience and training, Carrie coaches clients in communication and public speaking skills.  We talk about how in-person networking (and pitching) should be like courtship. And don't worry, introverts - we've got your back! Topics covered include: The work that Carrie does alongside her husband, Ryan, and how they serve their clients What a networking plan is, and why you should be thinking about creating one How to approach planning for events of different sizes - from smaller in-person networking events, all the way up to multi-day conferences The way to build relationships at events without seeming gross - including how to create your ‘elevator pitch', and the importance of leveraging referrals from the people you connect with How to navigate large in-person networking events if you're an introvert - even down to where to stand in a large room Tactics to make the most out of the connections you make at events - making sure that we're engaging in dialogue and conversation rather than word-vomiting Why Carrie doesn't like to be pitched and prefers to be courted - with an example of what she means! I hope you found this episode useful and that it has given you some tactics which you can put into your next IRL events. And if you're going to create your own networking plan, take a screenshot of this episode in your podcast player and tag me and Carrie on IG @angie_trueblood and @ryancarriesharpe. Resources mentioned in this episode: Get immediate access to Angie's Pitch Like a Pro masterclass and learn how to leverage podcast guest interviews as a way to connect with new audiences and grow your network.  Book a discovery call or a 1:1 Fix My Pitch strategy session Follow Angie on Instagram - and submit your screenshots when you're ready to Go Pitch Yourself Listen to Go Pitch Yourself episode 50: Making Connections in Real Life… Again! Listen to episode 35 of the Speaking with Ryan & Carrie Sharpe podcast: Planning 2021 With Flexibility Visit RyanCarrieSharpe.com and check out the Speaking Society, with a FREE first month's membership Follow Ryan and Carrie on Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter Listen to the Speaking with Ryan & Carrie Sharpe podcast Now it's time for you to get out there and Go Pitch Yourself! Be sure to screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram @angie_trueblood and let me know that you are ready to #gopitchyourself! I'll add your post to my story and help you spread the word!  Can't wait to connect again! Feel like you need a little support in getting started pitching yourself? >>> Get a free downloadable version of my roadmap for podcast pitching success Follow & Review in Apple Podcasts Are you following the podcast? If not, I'd love for you to do that today so you don't miss ANY episodes. Click here to follow via Apple Podcasts! And, if you are SUPER pumped about the show, I would be so thankful if you would pop over to Apple Podcasts and leave a review. Crazy enough, reviews help other folks find my podcast and they help me get a real sense of what you love about the show. Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” and let me know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Much love, friend. Special thanks to Steve Woodward at PodcastingEditor.com for handling all the behind-the-scenes tech pieces of production.

In this episode, Carrie and I talk all about how to develop your keynote, get clear on your message, and how to intake relevant content so you can output relevant content. Today's episode is super fun, so make sure to take a listen! Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant, Speaker, and Co-Owner of He says, She says. She is also Co-Host of the Speaking with Ryan & Carrie Sharpe podcast. Carrie earned her degree in Political Science and Psychology from Lake Superior State University. A highly sought-after international speaker, Carrie coaches clients in communication and public speaking skills. Carrie is a Huffington Post Contributor and has been quoted in a variety of publications including LiveStrong, Forbes, Business Insider, and Bustle. She resides in northern Michigan with her husband, Ryan, and their five children. She homeschools her children and works from home. To book Carrie, you can visit her website here: https://ryancarriesharpe.com/pages/speaking To join theForge, subscribe here: www.theforge.community/membership --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dontbestuck/support

Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant, Speaker, and Co-Owner of He says, She says.  Carrie will share several speaking options that are available (beyond speaking from the stage), show you how to choose which ones are best for you, and teach how best to connect with audiences so your message makes an impact and expands your influence. Register today for the Become Influential Virtual Summit where 40+ experts will be covering a variety of topics and sharing actionable tips that you can implement in your business (and life) right away! The best part? It's FREE! Grab your free ticket at becomeinfluentiual.com Learn more about the FamilyPreneur Business Accelerator and join today at »familypreneur.co« I'm committed to building an inclusive and anti-racist business. I support LGBTQIA+ rights and the rights of all intersectional identities. I believe that business should be a force for dismantling systems of oppression and actively invest in my own learning to fulfill this role. »Read My Full DEI Statement HERE« Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.

Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant, Speaker, and Co-Owner of He says, She says.  Carrie will share several speaking options that are available (beyond speaking from the stage), show you how to choose which ones are best for you, and teach how best to connect with audiences so your message makes an impact and expands your influence. Register today for the Become Influential Virtual Summit where 40+ experts will be covering a variety of topics and sharing actionable tips that you can implement in your business (and life) right away! The best part? It’s FREE! Grab your free ticket at becomeinfluentiual.com

As we continue our special conversation about working from home during the COVID-19 pandemic, I am joined by Carrie Sharpe of He Says, She Says. She will share tips for working from home with young children in the home and other distractions that you are likely facing during this crisis. Carrie has worked from home for some time while simultaneously homeschooling her children, placing her in a unique position to speak on this topic. ⭐A special message from Carrie and Ryan Sharpe: "Have you ever wished you had someone to reach out to when you had a question about sales, networking, giving a speech, or a communication issue in your office? When you’re a member of the Speaking Society with Ryan & Carrie Sharpe, YOU DO! Join our community to accelerate your communication, connection, and confidence. Once you join, tell us you joined because you heard us on this podcast, and we'll give you one FREE virtual office hour with us! Join now at https://speaking-society.mn.co/." ⭐Amy's Complex Lady Boss Guide to Running an Online Business from Home (ebook) Connect with Carrie: Website: https://www.ryancarriesharpe.com Podcast: https://www.ryancarriesharpe.com/blogs/podcast-speaking-ryan-carrie-sharpe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ryancarriesharpe Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/The_Sharpes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryancarriesharpe Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/carriesharpe LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carriesharpe If you are interested in being interviewed for this season because you believe you can help with information, resources, and tips for better work-life balance through this crisis please reach out info@amylynnwriting.com

Carrie Sharpe thought she would apply her master's degree to a broadcast media career, instead she found herself on a path to entrepreneurship. She shares with us her journey that led her to open the first AIR Aerial Fitness location in the northeast. See what AIR Aerial fitness is all about. Learn more about Seton Hall alumni events and ways to become involved.

[Series Two: Lakeside Conference Speakers] In Episode 20, hear from Carrie Sharpe of He Says, She Says, and learn more about attracting new clients through speaking from stage, at networking events, and by guesting on podcasts. We also discuss the biggest mistake people make when speaking for their business, and what promoters look for when […] The post 20: Attracting New Clients Through Public Speaking With Carrie Sharpe appeared first on Women's Business Workshop.

For our full show notes: Visit our Episode Webpage This week, we're hearing from Carrie Sharpe, Heather Vickery, Kate & Liz as they answer the question: How can someone make you feel more appreciated and honored? Listen to guests: Carrie Sharpe from Episode 07Heather Vickery from Episode 28Kate (Mom Deconstructed Co-Host)Liz (Your Other Mom Deconstructed Co-Host) MORE FROM OUR GUESTS: Carrie Sharpe | Heather Vickery | Liz Sanicola | Kate Turza | Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For our full show notes: Visit our Episode Webpage This week, we're hearing from Lisa Sugarman, Amanda Rowe, Alison Donaghey, Jen Dary, Carrie Sharpe, Heather Vickery & Katie Rössler as they answer the question: What do you want to teach your kids about living outside their comfort zones and trying new things? Listen to guests:  Lisa Sugarman from Episode 69Amanda Rowe from Episode 55Alison Donaghey from Episode 65Jen Dary from Episode 41Carrie Sharpe from Episode 07Heather Vickery from Episode 28Katie Rössler from Episode 49MORE FROM OUR GUESTS: Lisa Sugarman | Amanda Rowe | Alison Donaghey | Jen Dary | Carrie Sharpe | Heather Vickery | Katie Rössler | Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

[Series One: Lakeside Speakers] In Episode 6, I am talking with Carrie Sharpe, a communication consultant and owner of He Says, She Says, a communications agency. Carrie and I are talking about building a community through in-person networking. Carrie is sharing tips on how to make the most of these opportunities, how to plan ahead […] The post 006: In-Person Networking to Build Your Community With Carrie Sharpe appeared first on Women's Business Workshop.

How do you cope as a leader when relationships are hard? How can you respond when you’ve been hurt, or when you disagree with those in leadership? What do you do when you are struggling in your marriage? We’ve been going through a series about Healthy Relationships, and the goal has been to help support you in your leadership to be able to develop and nurture healthy interactions with those around you. But we also know this: sometimes, relationships are just plain hard. There isn’t always an easy answer, and sometimes you can be doing all the right things, but nothing seems to change. In this episode, we address 3 of those situations and offer some encouragement for you if you are dealing with a hard relationship. We’re going to discuss what to do when you’ve been hurt, when marriage is hard, and when you disagree with leadership over you. When you’ve been hurt: Determine whether you need to address the person who hurt you. Refer to Episode 16 with Carrie Sharpe. She gave us 6 tips on how to deal with conflict. Give yourself time to process & heal. Writing. I’ve found writing to be extremely helpful during times when I’ve been hurt. Check out Episode 21 where Gayla Grace shared about how she’s used writing in her life. Self-Awareness. We learned a lot about self-awareness in Episode 17 with Beth McCord. One of the ways self-awareness can be helpful when you are in a situation where you’ve been hurt is to reflect on how you react to that hurt. Turn to God through prayer and scripture. When marriage is hard: We talked about marriage with our husbands in Episode 18, and we shared some of our stories and experiences as couples who lead together. But we didn’t share a lot about what to do when marriage is hard. Here’s a few brief ideas for you when marriage is hard. Take care of yourself. Physical wellness - Keep your body healthy, especially when you are under stress. This might include exercising, eating healthy, and morning and nightly routines. Spiritual health - Stay connected to God through your spiritual disciplines and stay involved in a church community and small group, if possible. Mental & emotional health - Find things that you enjoy and fill you up. Also, seek additional professional support such as therapy if needed. Relational wellness - Maintain relationships outside of your marriage such as friendships and extended family. Find other people who will encourage you and support your marriage. It’s important to know who is safe and have appropriate boundaries when it comes to sharing about your marriage challenges. This could be a friend, accountability partner, or mentor. Control your attitude and your mindset. This is super hard, but it can be done with God’s help. Look for little ways to appreciate your spouse. Our thoughts precede our emotions and our actions, so can you reframe your thoughts to find something positive to think about your husband? If you can’t find something positive currently, think back to a time when your relationship was healthy and remember something positive from that experience. When you disagree with the leadership over you: Understand that you may not have the whole picture. This means that your leaders may have information that you do not have. Trust them enough to handle the information and make decisions based off of that.    Speak love over your leaders. Make sure that you don’t tear down your team members or your leaders. Key Quotes from episode: “There is no human relationship that can fully fulfill you.” “It’s important that we hold other leaders up and encourage them, even when we disagree with them.” For the full show notes for this episode, visit estherlittlefield.com/episode22. Connect with Esther and the Christian Woman Leadership Podcast: Website Instagram Facebook Group Facebook Page  Episode Sponsor: Morningstar Media Services This episode was originally published on estherlittlefield.com/episode22. To join the Purposeful Leadership Facebook Group, go to estherlittlefield.com/group.

As a leader, you communicate constantly. But are you communicating in the most effective way? What are some best practices for communicating when there’s conflict? What are some practical strategies you can implement today to better your public speaking? Today’s guest, Carrie Sharpe, shares her best principles on communicating as a leader. We dive into the topics of effective communication, including the best way to talk through conflict and practices to become a better public speaker. Carrie shares how she manages her different responsibilities + roles, and how she takes a rest from all the noise and busyness. For the full show notes, visit estherlittlefield.com/episode16. Key Points: Carrie reminds us that in life there will always be conflict and well that there’s a way to manage it without burning bridges. She gives six best practices to communicate in conflict effectively and shares her principles for public speaking. Quotes from the episode: You can’t stay bossy and be a good leader. God gives us experiences and gives us skills in order to share those things with other people. You cannot do that on your couch. Other episodes and links mentioned: Carey Nieuwhof’s Podcast Personality Plus Connect with Carrie Carrie’s website: He Says, She Says Facebook group: Communicate to Connect Facebook Group Facebook page FREE AUDIO: 3 Tried & True Ways to Connect with an Audience Connect with Esther and the Christian Woman Leadership Podcast: Website Instagram Facebook Group Facebook Page This episode was originally published on estherlittlefield.com/episode16. To join the Purposeful Leadership Facebook Group, go to estherlittlefield.com/group.

About The Guest:  Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant, Speaker, and Co-Owner of He says, She says. She earned her degree in Political Science and Psychology from Lake Superior State University. A highly sought-after international speaker, Carrie develops courses and coaches clients in communication and public speaking skills. Carrie is a Huffington Post Contributor and has been quoted in a variety of publications including LiveStrong, Forbes, Business Insider, and Bustle. She resides in northern Michigan with her husband, Ryan, and their five children. She homeschools her children and works from home.   Where to Find Carrie Online:  Website Facebook Join Carrie's Facebook Group!  Instagram Episode Summary Carrie shares her journey through motherhood and how she came into the career as a communication consultant. It started when she gave birth to her third child Maverick and almost lost him, she and her husband had to really learn how to communicate such a difficult time to her family. It was through their experience in the NICU that sparked her speaking career. Carrie and I talk about the best way to share our message in our own brand. Carrie says that the best way is to find out what message you would want to put out into the world! You're allowed to make changes in your business but you should always make sure that what you're communicating is in line with your core value, beliefs, and what results; you want your clients to have. "What are you trying to communicate to your clients and what do you hope that they receive from you!" - Carrie Sharpe  What are the best ways to communicate with your own team? Carrie shares a story of working with a copywriter and how she was very clear with her mission and when you tell your team what exactly that is, it makes it that much easier and you'll still be able to share your message in your own voice! How can you produce content and share your message in a clear way? Carrie says that she creates content in many ways but the main ones are video and/or audio and this works best for her business. It's about choosing what is best for you and your business! There are so many ways that you can reach out to your audience and it's up to you to choose what you enjoy using! If you don't like using Pinterest, there is no shame in that and you don't have to use it if you don't want to! They say it's just to be yourself in your business but should you share everything to everyone? Carrie shares how in her business, she chooses what she puts out to the world and what she doesn't. She continues to be herself and show her best self but there are certain topics that she keeps to herself because she doesn't want to alienate her audience! Decide what is best for you and YOUR messaging! "Decide who you are and be proud of it!" -Carrie Sharpe Let’s Connect! See all that Stacey has to offer at The Busy Mom Collective! Join The Busy Mom Collective Facebook Group and continue the conversation! Connect more with Stacey on Facebook and Instagram!

Kate & Liz talk about heading back to school after summer.  We discuss the change back into full time school routine and how we are gearing OURSELVES up for it.   Listen as we share how we’ve managed heading back to school in the past, and what we are doing to prepare.   Keep it simple, don’t add things to your routine other than school starting. Schedule it (even if it’s only in your mind!). The great homework debacle - to do it right after school or after some playtime? Routines: do they help? Giving space for tired children at the end of each day for a couple weeks. Getting the kids involved in the the chores.   Links mentioned in the episode: Liza Tremblay’s and her calendars - Episode 09 Battling Summertime Boredom - Episode 13 Carrie Sharpe and motivating her children to help with chores - Episode 07 MORE FROM MOM DECONSTRUCTED: Support this podcast on Patreon. Leave a review on iTunes here. Sign up for our newsletter here. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Facebook. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Instagram. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Twitter.   MORE FROM KATE: Kate Turza, Postpartum Doula Follow Kate on Facebook Join Kate’s Facebook Group, Reality Tykes   MORE FROM LIZ: Mom...In The Works Follow Liz on Facebook Follow Liz on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we are deconstructing our conversation from last week with Carrie Sharpe.  Here’s that episode.  Carrie is a mom of 5, who is navigating “older” children as her first child prepares to leave the nest. Liz and Kate discuss: Bonuses of having older children. How children can contribute to the household, using incentives! Carrie’s tips for keeping her relationship with her husband strong. Where you can find time for your relationship when you have young kids. Letting go of the guilt to go on date night. How partnership is work. Here’s more more about Carrie’s son (Maverick’s) birth & harrowing NICU journey.   Quotables: “We all get stuck in a rut, we need to remember to re-evaluate.” - Kate “It is in those times of crisis that brings challenges and strengths to the forefront.” - Liz “It’s always a work in progress.” - Liz “Marriage is portrayed as blissful all the time, and it’s NOT.  There are really hard times you need to work through.” - Kate   MORE FROM CARRIE: Follow Carrie on Facebook. Follow Carrie on Instagram. Follow Carrie on Twitter.   MORE FROM MOM DECONSTRUCTED: Support this podcast on Patreon. Leave a review on ITunes here. Sign up for our newsletter here. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Facebook. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Instagram. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Twitter.   MORE FROM KATE: Kate Turza, Postpartum Doula Follow Kate on Facebook Join Kate’s Facebook Group, Reality Tykes   MORE FROM LIZ: Mom...In The Works Follow Liz on Facebook Follow Liz on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant and Speaker and co-owner of He says, She says. A highly sought-after international speaker, Carrie develops courses and coaches clients on public speaking skills, interview skills, and other communication topics. She earned her degree in Political Science and Psychology from Lake Superior State University. Carrie is a Huffington Post Contributor and has been quoted in a variety of publications including LiveStrong, Business Insider, and Bustle. She resides in northern Michigan with her husband, Ryan, and their five children.   Listen as Carrie shares how her mothering journey has evolved as her children have gotten older: She’s preparing for her oldest to leave the nest. Days truly do go slow, but years fly by. She stays present and creates memories with her family. To keep your relationship strong after having children. Everyone contributes to completing household chores. She homeschooled all her children. To say “No” without guilt   Quotables: “Just because it works today, doesn’t mean you won’t be tweaking it tomorrow.” - Carrie Sharpe   “There are years of my life I don’t even remember.” - Carrie Sharpe   “When you’re in a crisis, you see the best and worst of each other.  Any issues in the relationship are magnified during and after the event.” - Carrie Sharpe   “The older I get, the more inclined I am to say no to obligatory things.”- Carrie Sharpe   “Is this a necessity right now? Is this my priority or someone else’s?” - Carrie Sharpe   MORE FROM CARRIE: Follow Carrie on Facebook. Follow Carrie on Instagram. Follow Carrie on Twitter.   MORE FROM MOM DECONSTRUCTED: Support this podcast on Patreon. Leave a review on ITunes here. Sign up for our newsletter here. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Facebook. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Instagram. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Twitter.   MORE FROM KATE: Kate Turza, Postpartum Doula Follow Kate on Facebook Join Kate’s Facebook Group, Reality Tykes   MORE FROM LIZ: Mom...In The Works Follow Liz on Facebook Follow Liz on Instagram   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Working Christian Mom Podcast, I sit down with my friend Carrie Sharpe. Carrie is a mama to five children, including one child they almost lost right after childbirth and a set of twins. We talk about how God met her in crisis, why communicating with our spouses is so important and what it is like to run a business and home school. Connect with Carrie: Connect with Carrie: Website /  Facebook / Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube In this episode you’ll hear: How God showed up in the middle of a major crisis with one of Carrie’s sons What happened when Carrie fully surrendered the life of her child to God How Carrie and her  husband were able to  keep the lines of communication open between them, even through their world seemed to be falling apart. What it is like to go through conceiving another child after you almost lost one. How Carrie is able to run her home, run her business, homeschool her children and keep up with everyone’s extracurricular activities. How Carrie feels about her kids becoming big kids and learning how to drive, getting ready to leave for college, etc. Carrie’s self care tips. For the full show notes to this episode, click here to be taken to the Working Christian Mom website. Did you know that that there is a community of mamas who love Jesus, their kids and who work? Yep! There sure is! The WCM is a soft spot to land and is full of encouragement, community and authenticity. Click here to join us.

When you want to grow your business, you need to build the know, like and trust factor. Our guest today is someone who helps business owners to hone their speaking skills and create effective speeches. Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant and Speaker at He says, She says. She has been married to her husband, Ryan, for over nineteen years. They have five children, including twin daughters. Carrie believes that the foundation of every great relationship is effective communication, so she loves to help people overcome communication challenges and strengthen their relationships. She coaches clients in public speaking, marriage and family communication, workplace communication, and pageant interview skills. Carrie earned her degree in Political Science and Psychology from Lake Superior State University. She homeschools her children full-time, and she runs her communication business from home. She is a Huffington Post Contributor and has been quoted in a variety of publications. Carrie has spoken across the United States and Canada about marriage, relationships, and communication skills. IN THIS EPISODE 2:08 Carrie's fun fact is that she's worn a dirndl multiple times. 4:22 Confidence and comfortability is important when you are married and sharing a conversation. While someone may need to speak to their husband or someone else, it's a lot easier to talk to a third party about the problems instead of talking with that person about what's bothering you. You have to be courageous enough to get vulnerable. You have to be courageous to get vulnerable. 8:55 If there are brain patterns of having anxiety, getting yelled at, negative experiences, from the past, you have to work through those emotions and deal with them. There are mindset issues you have to walk through. In coaching, Carrie works through these emotions differently depending on what she's coaching on. 9:09 If it's a public speaking coaching, I try to get them to switch their mind from feeling scared to feeling excited. I tell them to say "I'm so excited to share this," "I'm so excited." 9:52 If it's networking, a lot of that fear comes from them not being comfortable with what they're selling. If I get them to understand that what they're selling is helpful and useful to their audience. 10:31 Change the brain. It's all about what you're telling yourself. If you're telling yourself that people are going to hate what you're offering, telling yourself that you hate this. If you change the story then you can change the outcome. 12:13 Start with a one on one conversation at a networking event. Instead of seeing the crowd, see a person you can talk to. If you do that, you'll get better results because you're building that relationship. Conversation starts can be asking good questions of someone. They feel like they can connect with you and they'll sing your praise. That will make them feel comfortable and you can build the conversation off of the answers they give. Names are really important to remember and if I say them during the conversation, it helps me feel important and remember the person's name. 20:23 What I hear from people is I know I need to speak and get my message out, but I don't know what to talk about. So I first dig into what they're already talking about and then we work on that message. So many times we're asked a few questions frequently. You find what you're most excited and passionate about are what you can develop into a message. Then there are other fears that are developed and questions that come up. That's when having a coach is helpful. We work on an outline for the talk and find an outcome for that talk. We set things up to support that one topic and it's 3-5 bullet points and every point needs a story. Stories are what make you human and what allows you to be human and memorable. Keep it simple and narrow down on one particular thing. 26:51 We know so much, we want to be so helpful and we want to cram it all in, but you're being more helpful when you leave it out. You don't need to change their life, you just need to change their day. 28:29 I love seeing results. I have clients who come in with so many ideas and then seeing them develop a speech, and deliver it is amazing. 29:34 Someone needs to hear your story. So get out there and share it. So many of us don't give ourselves the credit for the experiences we've had. 31:31 You've been given these experiences in your life for a reason, if you don't go out and share them, then your experiences were for nothing. You want to share them and make that experience worthwhile. And it doesn't have to be speaking, it can be online on Facebook Live, it can be in so many ways. [bctt tweet="Someone needs to hear your story. So get out there and share it." username="tonyarineer"] KEY TAKEAWAYS Confidence and comfortability is important when you are married and sharing a conversation. How Carrie works with her different coaching clients to overcome fear or anxiety. Changing the brain makes a difference in how you see a situation. How to handle a networking event. You don't need to change their life, you just need to change their day. Someone needs to hear your story. So get out there and share it. EPISODE RESOURCES Free Money Mindset Training- just in case you're ready to take your profit power to the next level! Hang out with us inside our free Facebook Community- where every day is a party! CONTINUE THE PARTY WITH CARRIE Carrie's website Communicate to Connect by He Says, She Says Facebook group Twitter Instagram Pinterest  

Jessica Rhodes Jessica Rhodes found herself knowledgeable in podcasting almost by accident, but now owns her own company that books guests onto podcasts. This episode is sponsored by Carrie Sharpe of He Says, She Says. Carrie is a communication expert, speaker and mom of 5 who homeschools alongside running a business with her husband at home. Carrie believes […]

Roxanne Ferber Roxanne is a mom who believes there are no perfect moms, just perfect moments that she takes advantage of with her twin daughters.    This episode is sponsored by Carrie Sharpe of He Says, She Says. Carrie is a communication expert, speaker and mom of 5 who homeschools alongside running a business with her husband […]

Jessica Rasdall Jessica is a business owner by passion and a motivational speaker by accident. Her story will make you think hard about consequences and how to overcome painful and heart breaking experiences in your life.  This episode is sponsored by Carrie Sharpe of He Says, She Says. Carrie is a communication expert, speaker and mom of […]

Sarah Li Cain Sarah is a writer and storyteller focusing on finance and money mindset.   This episode is sponsored by Carrie Sharpe of He Says, She Says. Carrie is a communication expert, speaker and mom of 5 who homeschools alongside running a business with her husband at home. Carrie believes that the foundation of every great relationship […]

Carrie Sharpe Carrie is a communication expert, speaker and mom of 5 who homeschools alongside running a business with her husband at home. This episode is sponsored by Write.Publish.Sell! Do you want to write a book, but don’t know where to start? How about if you could get your first step done – and write your […]

Carrie is a communication consultant and speaker. She runs “he says she says” with her hubby and homeschools her 5 kids.   Sunit says that the relationship with your partner is such a big part of parenthood. She brings up the article written about Giuliana Rancic's controversial comment about how putting her marriage first has actually been the best thing she's ever done. Carrie says she didn't like that women are laughing about the fact that their husband comes last. She asks “why even get married” if that's how you would feel. Marriage is a partnership and your husband should be your closest ally in this journey. Carrie says that if you don't make your marriage a priority, you won't have a marriage that lasts.   Common reasons why women are not enlisting the hubby's support in the early days:the first 6-8 weeks goes so fast and is such a blur that if you haven't planned for it, you are so engrossed in learning how to be a mom, you forget to be a wife. Dads are so insecure about fatherhood because they are not given the opportunity to participate. Giving them the chance to participate fully allows them to make their mistakes and learn, and allows moms time to themselves. Plan to give dads a chance.   Carrie talks about pre-emptively quitting law school to be a stay at home before she even had kids. She talks about Maverick and his health issues and how they ended up public speaking about their struggles.   By the way:Maverick is healthy and happy today despite the fact that drs said he wouldn't make it and if he did he would be delayed.   Ryan and Carrie serve women, men, and couples, BEFORE there is a problem. They work with couples whose marriage is GOOD but they want to be proactive and prevent issues. They teach better listening skills, better communication, and conflict resolution.   Carrie also works with moms who need help communicating with their teenagers. Her husband works with dads. Together they work with couples. Sunit asks about the resources and packages on the their website and if it's self directed or led by Ryan and Carrie. Carrie says they have various offerings.   Sunit asks what benefit there is in couples invest in themselves before baby comes. Carries says that it will help them not fall apart. Having a vision built up in your mind of what motherhood SHOULD be can throw you off if you're not well prepared. They talk about all the things that can throw off your marriage once you become parents. Carrie says the divorce rate for couples going through a traumatic birth or child illness is very high. You need to be aligned so you are prepared for all the things that could unexpectedly happen. Communication is the number one thing in relationships. What advice does Carrie have for the woman who says her husband does not like to communicate? Carrie says to have the talk but don't start it with “we need to talk”. Carries says you should lovingly talk to your partner about your wishes for parenthood. Sit down and talk about it. Women will say “my husband xyz” but 9 times out of 10 women haven't even talked about it with their husband. Don't make assumptions.   Sunit brings up the article again and how important it is to place the marriage high on the priority list. It should be first BEFORE your kids. Carrie's OB told her to have a date night before her 6 week post partum check up. It's not where you go or what you do its about having time to reconnect without a baby in the mix. “Dad is the most important person in my life, Im the most important person in his life”. Have your bedroom be off limits.   It's never too early to establish your marriage as the priority. It's hard but important for you, your marriage and your sanity.   If there any dads listening today-who want to be a good dad and a supportive husband but need some tips to get started-what tips do you have for him? Carrie says be patient and roll with the punches. Hormones and emotions can be tough to deal with. Also, dads should be patient with themselves. It takes time to learn how to be a dad especially when you are working outside the home and don't have as much time as mom to get acquainted with the baby. Also, schedule date nights-regardless of whether mom says she wants it or not. Just plan it.   Dads play their own role with their kids-you don't have to be the mom. Each of you have your own role. Sunit asks Carrie for one piece of advice:Start talking to your partner now and keep talking. Talk about expectations, hopes, dreams, fears. Talk every day and accommodate as they change. It's the only way to make sure conflict is resolved and you are continually evolving.   Sunit asks Carrie to talk about what she has maintained or reconnected with about her SELF. Carrie realized after bringing her business online that she could fulfill her love for having her own businesses while still being a mom who homeschools and runs a business with her hubby.   You can find her at: www.ryancarriesharpe.com (He says She says)   The article they reference at the beginning of the episode:   http://www.success.com/blog/secret-to-a-happy-marriage-put-your-spouse-first?utm_source=sumome&utm_medium=facebook&utm_campaign=sumome_share&utm_term=sumome_facebook

How to step out and speak in public with Carrie Sharpe. In this episode of the Boss Mom Podcast, Carrie and Dana talk about communication and public speaking to benefit your business. This podcast is sponsored by Home Made Luxe. Subscribe to the podcast in iTunes:  In this episode you’ll hear: Carrie's Boss Mom journey, raising five kids and working at home with her husband. How she got started with speaking. Her coaching and consulting practice. Advice on how to prepare and share your story. Giving your talk in the shower then rehearse on video. Speaking at events and ways that you can speak without traveling. How Carrie keeps recovers from over whelm. Show Sponsor: Home Made Luxe All moms need Mommy Alone Time in their lives so Keitha started Home Made Luxe a DIY Home Decor subscription box. Every month, Keitha from Home Made Luxe sends ladies (and some crafty gents) around the country a gorgeous, Pinterest-inspired home decor project. The best part is that ladies get to walk around their homes and see their beautiful, custom pieces and think about the next mommy alone time moment! For the special Boss Mom discount of 10% off your first box, use the code BossMom. Recommended links and resources: Boss Mom Facebook Community Can I quote you on that?  Homeschooling our kids and running our business from home is a lot of time management. - Carrie I love helping my clients work through their communication challenges. - Carrie Fear is what keeps people from public speaking. - Carrie Every story matters. - Carrie You want to have what you're saying be natural. Rehearsing will help you in this process. - Carrie More about our guest, Carrie Sharpe. Carrie Sharpe is a Communication Consultant and Speaker. She and her husband, Ryan, have five children whom Carrie homeschools. Carrie earned her degree in Political Science and Psychology. She is a Huffington Post Contributor and has spoken across the United States and Canada about marriage, relationships, and communication skills. Website / Facebook / Twitter / Instagram Connect with Dana: Instagram / The Boss Mom Facebook community (her total happy place) We love hearing from you guys! If you’ve got a question about today’s episode or want to leave us some inbox love, you can email us at hello@boss-mom.com Or, you can always find both Dana hanging out in our Boss Mom Facebook Community.  We would LOVE it if you’d leave a podcast rating or review on iTunes. We also know it can be kind of tricky to figure out. Here are a few step by step instructions on how to leave an iTunes rating or review for a podcast from your iPhone or iPad Launch Apple’s Podcast app. Tap the Search tab. Enter the name of the podcast you want to rate or review. Tap the blue Search key at the bottom right. Tap the album art for the podcast. Tap the Reviews tab. Tap Write a Review at the bottom. Enter your iTunes password to login. Tap the Stars to leave a rating. Enter title text and content to leave a review. Tap Send.