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Chris Moles joins us to talk about manhood, abuse, and women in the church.  Chris Moles is a Pastor and Biblical Counselor who helps churches and families confront the evil of domestic violence and promote healthy, God-honoring, relationships.    Become a Patreon Supporter. 

Resources Register here for Leslie's free workshop, "I'm Not Okay When You're Not Okay" Leslie's Quick Start Guide Introduction Have you ever felt trapped in a relationship that looked perfect on the outside but was suffocating behind closed doors? In this episode, Michelle shares her courageous journey from hiding abuse within the walls of the church to stepping into freedom, healing, and a mission to help other women recognize when difficult crosses into destructive. If you've ever questioned whether your struggles in marriage were just normal hardships or something more harmful, Michelle's story will provide clarity, validation, and hope. Key Takeaways 1. Recognizing Red Flags in Christian Courtship Michelle reflects on the early warning signs she overlooked during dating. While her relationship seemed like a picture-perfect Christian courtship, subtle yet significant issues surfaced: boundary-pushing, controlling tendencies, and an inability to respect her differing opinions. If a man says one thing but does another—especially when it comes to physical boundaries—that's a serious character concern. A man's integrity matters more than his words. 2. When Submission Becomes Oppression Michelle shares how scripture was twisted in her marriage, particularly regarding intimacy. Instead of mutual love and respect, biblical teachings were weaponized to demand compliance. She felt like an object rather than a cherished wife. This distortion of faith kept her stuck, believing she had to endure rather than address the toxic dynamic. 3. The Loneliness of an Unseen Battle Perhaps one of the most heartbreaking moments Michelle describes is standing alone in the kitchen late at night, feeling used and unseen, while her husband slept peacefully. She cried out to God, struggling to reconcile her suffering with the belief that divorce was not an option. Her prayers shifted over time—from asking ‘How long, O Lord?' to pleading for rescue. 4. When Christian Marriage Advice Keeps You Trapped Books like Love and Respect made Michelle believe that if she just respected her husband enough, things would change. But no amount of respect can fix a heart unwilling to change. In a healthy marriage, both partners seek growth, repentance, and mutual love. The problem isn't just about how a wife behaves—it's about whether both people are truly honoring God in their marriage. 5. Isolation and Control: A Subtle Form of Abuse Michelle's husband worked to isolate her from friends by criticizing their parenting or questioning their submission. She initially believed his concerns, but over time, she realized it was a tactic to keep her dependent. Meanwhile, he maintained his own friendships, often mentoring men and encouraging their wives to submit, reinforcing harmful dynamics. 6. The Breaking Point: When Abuse Turns Physical Michelle recounts the night her husband physically removed her from their car and abandoned her miles from home. Despite years of emotional and spiritual abuse, this moment shattered her sense of security. Yet, even then, she felt trapped, unsure of where to go or whom to tell. The shame of staying weighed on her, but she also feared the unknown. 7. A Divine Wake-Up Call In 2023, Michelle experienced a powerful moment with God—a dream, a whispered name, and a podcast episode that spoke directly to her situation. This was her turning point. She finally recognized that her marriage wasn't just difficult; it was destructive. With courage, she sought help, setting boundaries and eventually moving out when it became clear her husband was unwilling to change. 8. Finding Strength and Support in Conquer As Michelle searched for answers, she discovered Leslie Vernick through a podcast with Lysa Terkeurst. She dove deep into Leslie's teachings, and after joining the Conquer group, found the validation and strength she needed to break free. With guidance from a Christian counselor and the support of Conquer, Michelle gained the confidence to make empowered decisions for herself and her children. 9. Understanding True Repentance A key revelation for Michelle came from a conversation between Leslie Vernick and Chris Moles. She learned that true repentance isn't just words—it's a heart transformation. A truly repentant man focuses not on regaining control of his wife but on her healing and well-being. This realization helped Michelle recognize that her husband's apologies lacked genuine accountability and change. 10. A New Future: Education and Independence Despite opposition from her husband, Michelle pursued a master's degree, taking one class per semester since 2020. Now, as she approaches graduation in classical studies, she is excited about her future in education, curriculum development, and potentially women's ministry. Her newfound independence is a testament to her resilience and faith. A Call to Freedom If Michelle's story resonates with you, you are not alone. Abuse—whether emotional, spiritual, or physical—is not God's design for marriage. You do not have to stay stuck. There is hope, there is help, and there is a way forward. For more support, visit Leslie Vernick & Co. and explore resources to help you discern truth, find your voice, and take courageous steps toward healing. Closing Encouragement You are precious in God's eyes. He sees your pain, and He does not call you to endure suffering in silence. If you are struggling in a destructive marriage, reach out for help. Healing, freedom, and a life of true peace are possible. You don't have to walk this path alone—God is with you, and so is this community of women who have found strength to step into the light. Stay strong, stay hopeful, and take the next step toward your healing journey today.

Studies have shown that churches are often among the first places people turn when they are experiencing domestic abuse, but unfortunately churches aren't always well-informed when it comes to how to help victims. Chris Moles and Stacey Womack, who work independently in organizations PeaceWorks and Abuse Recovery Ministry Services, join Juli to talk about what churches need to know when it comes to helping abuse victims.     Guests: Chris Moles and Stacey Womack     Chris's Website: chrismoles.org PeaceWorks Podcast Website:PeaceWorks Podcast PeaceWorks Live: Peaceworks Live 2024 Stacey's Website: Abuse Recovery and Ministry Services National Domestic Violence hotline Sign up for Second Cup! Learn more about Authentic Intimacy membership.   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

In this episode we talk with Chris Moles, pastor, counselor and director of Peaceworks. Peaceworks is an organization that is designed to educate the Church in domestic abuse prevention and intervention. Chris shares the importance of growing in awareness of abuse and its effects, and he talks about the ways in which Peaceworks can help. He offers a podcast and an educational program called Peaceworks University. He also shares about the upcoming conference, Peaceworks Live, coming in October. Make sure to check out these valuable resources!Become a friend of the podcast by subscribing! Our subscribers are invited to quarterly zoom calls with the hosts, and they have exclusive access through Patreon messages which allows them to ask questions and make suggestions for episodes. Subscribers are also automatically entered into drawings for free books and resources given away by our sponsors. But most importantly, for just $3 a month you become part of the family of friends that keep the Counsel for Life podcast going! Your small membership fee helps to cover the production costs encountered by hosting a free podcast. Thank you for choosing to become a friend of the podcast we are glad you are here and are grateful for you! (Memberships are for one year and automatically renew each month.)To learn more, visit our website: www.counselforlifepodcast.com

Topic: Reconciling After Separation In this episode, we discuss a question regarding reconciliation after a 34-year marriage marred by issues of pornography and verbal abuse. Despite the challenges, both individuals have made personal progress over the years and are now contemplating the possibility of reuniting. Key Points: Assessing Individual Growth: One crucial aspect is evaluating individual growth and whether both parties have made positive changes over the years. It's essential to consider if the person seeking reconciliation has demonstrated genuine efforts to address past issues, such as seeking therapy or counseling. Exploring Expectations: Questions about expectations for the future arise, including whether the desire to reconcile stems from genuine personal growth or external pressures. Both individuals should reflect on their personal desires and needs, independent of society's or family's expectations. Establishing Boundaries: Setting boundaries is crucial, especially regarding behaviors that contributed to the initial separation, such as pornography use or verbal abuse. Both parties must demonstrate respect for each other's boundaries and be willing to uphold them consistently. Testing Compatibility: Before considering moving back in together, it's advisable to test compatibility through short-term arrangements or trial periods. Spending extended time together, such as weekends or vacations, can provide insight into whether reconciliation is viable in the long run. Prioritizing Self-Care: Individuals should prioritize their own well-being and personal growth throughout the reconciliation process. This includes maintaining boundaries, seeking support from a community or therapist, and engaging in self-reflection. Conclusion: Deciding whether to reconcile after a significant separation involves careful introspection, communication, and a commitment to personal growth. It's essential for both parties to prioritize their well-being and assess compatibility before making any long-term decisions. Resources: Video: When to Separate and When to Reconcile For men seeking resources on personal growth and relationship improvement, Chris Moles and Andrew Bauman offer valuable insights and support. Books such as "How Not to Be a Jerk in Your Marriage" by Andrew Bauman provide practical guidance for men navigating relationship challenges and personal growth. The book, Emotional Intelligence 2.0 can help individuals develop emotional intelligence and strengthen interpersonal relationships. If you are a man who wants to change: video.  Disclaimer: Individual circumstances vary, and the decision to reconcile should be based on careful consideration of personal needs, boundaries, and compatibility. 

Rush Witt spends the hour with Chris Moles, a leading pastor and biblical counselor who helps churches and families confront the evil of domestic violence and promote healthy, God-honoring, relationships. They talk about domestic abuse ministry, how pastors and church members can grow in this ministry, and whether or not abusers can really change.CHRIS MOLES ONLINE Website Facebook Twitter/XMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse Something Scary Happened by Darby StricklandMiles the Lamb (Plushy)Trauma and Abuse Minibook Sample PackLearn more about the podcast here.Timestamps:1:27 - Intro 3:28 - Chris shares his story of domestic abuse ministry11:38 - How prevalent is domestic abuse?19:40 - An abused person's experience provides a key entry gate for ministry22:17 - How does abuse ministry look different in various situations?26:36 - What does "safety plan" mean in domestic abuse ministry?29:19 - What can a pastor do to begin growing in usefulness for abuse ministry?38:53 - Christ coaches Rush43:42 - Can abusers really change, and how often do you see change happen?56:00 - How might other people help and encourage your ministry PeaceWorks University?58:30 - Farewell

Domestic violence is a complicated topic. Even though I worked for a time in a domestic violence court, I'd never seen a case like this before. A case where a child was made to kill - by her mother.    Welcome to another episode of The Unlovely Truth. I'm your host, private investigator Lori Morrison. Join me for another captivating true crime story, where physical, spiritual, and emotional safety takeaways are waiting for us. If you are listening, I believe you have a unique calling—to become a different kind of PI, not a typical private investigator, but a person of impact!   This is Season 4, Episode 40. Our book this week is “My Mother's Soldier” by Mary Elizabeth Bailey. Our guest is Chris Moles, who edited and contributed to “Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse” written by a team of biblical counselors. Chris is a pastor, a certified biblical counselor, an author, and a podcaster. He's going to help us unpack some areas where the church needs to grow when it comes to responding and ministering to families that have experienced domestic abuse.   Childhood wounds plague us all, but it's hard to imagine any worse than those of Mary Elizabeth Bailey. When she was just 11 years old she committed a murder. That's incredibly shocking for most if not all of us. What's even more shocking and perverse is why she did it. Mary killed her abusive step father, not because she thought it was the only way to stop the abuse. She killed him because her mother told her to.   Proverbs 3:27-28 NLT   Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it's in your power to help them. If you can help your neighbor now, don't say, “Come back tomorrow, and then I'll help you.”   It's in our power to help people stay safer more often than we think. Mary's mother could've kept her children safer if she'd made less selfish choices. You'll have to trust me that I didn't go into as many details as the book did. Mary's grandmother could've called the authorities. Maybe she feared losing the kids to foster care but that's what happened in the end anyway. Brother Jim and Mrs. Kay probably did more for Mary than anyone.    We don't know if the schools that Mary attended did much. To be fair, her family moved a lot which is quite common among families where abuse is happening. If the abuser doesn't let you get close to anyone, it's less likely you'll get help. It doesn't seem as though neighbors did much, or at least if attempts were made they weren't successful.    But we are all supposed to do good things for people whenever we can. We aren't supposed to put it off! Keeping a battered wife and an abused child safe is certainly good. If you suspect that someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, there are several different ways you can help. If you fear for that person's immediate safety, call 9-1-1. Today's verse says not to say you'll help tomorrow. For some victims of domestic violence, tomorrow will be too late.   You can also tell the person you are concerned about them and want them to know that you are a safe person to talk to when they are ready. Make sure you let them know that a hotline exists that they can call for confidential help from trained advocates. I've put that number in the show notes for you so be sure you store that number somewhere you can access it.    Anyone experiencing domestic violence needs to be reminded that they don't deserve what is happening to them and that they are not to blame. They need to be believed. They need to know that God's plan for loving relationships, especially marriages, is that each partner puts the other's needs above their own. Children are to be seen as a blessing and not a burden.    We need to tell them how much God loves them, but we can't stop at mere words. We have to show that love by doing whatever good is in our power to do for them. I challenge all of us to find someone in our circle who needs us to see them, believe them, and offer practical help to them.   Let me know what you think! Send me an email a lori@theunlovelytruth.com or message me on social media. I love it when people are willing to have those hard, but impactful conversations!   Visit my website to access more episodes, read my blog posts, or check out ways you can financially support the podcast so that together we can impact more people, more families, and more communities. If you would like to contact me about booking me as a speaker, or ask about my consulting and investigative services, please email me at lori@theunlovelytruth.com.    Get Chris's newest book (and support The Unlovely Truth by using this affiliate link)   For church leaders - grab a copy of The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for Men Who Use Control and Violence in the Home (affiliate link)   Visit Chris's website   Check out www.menofpeace.org   Share the episode    Other episodes on Domestic Violence: Domestic Violence Statistics Don't Lie: Meet the Man Trying to Change Them, Domestic Violence: There is Help Available   Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn   Let me know how The Unlovely Truth has made a difference in your life!     Need Help? Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) to reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline  

This episode features Chris Moles, pastor and contributing author of a new book, Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse. Chris shares with us about the need for a comprehensive, Christ-centered response to the spiritual, emotional, and physical harm that domestic abuse causes to the abused spouse, the abusive spouse, and their children.  The new book is a guide for pastors and ministry leaders who want to bring compassion and renewal to families affected by domestic abuse. Become a friend of the podcast by subscribing! Our subscribers are invited to quarterly zoom calls with the hosts, and they have exclusive access through Patreon messages which allows them to ask questions and make suggestions for episodes. Subscribers are also automatically entered into drawings for free books and resources given away by our sponsors. But most importantly, for just $3 a month you become part of the family of friends that keep the Counsel for Life podcast going! Your small membership fee helps to cover the production costs encountered by hosting a free podcast. Thank you for choosing to become a friend of the podcast we are glad you are here and are grateful for you! (Memberships are for one year and automatically renew each month.)To learn more, visit our website: www.counselforlifepodcast.com

In this episode hosts, Michael, Shauna, and Jeremy discuss all the details of The 2023 Called To Counsel Conference. We're excited about this year's conference with all of our speakers and new track introductions. Register HERE CALLED TO COUNSELApril 27-29, 2023Doxology Bible ChurchFort Worth, TXPlenary SessionsEsteeming God's Graces in CounselingFor the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. And no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give account. Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace in time of need.Hebrews 4:12-16Plenary One: God's Word and Gaze in Life and Counseling (v.12-13) - Jeremy LelekPlenary Two: The Ascended Savior and Instilling Hope (v.14) - Jeremy PierrePlenary Three: The  Heart of Christ in Our Weaknesses (v.15) - Tim ChalliesPlenary Four: God's Sanctuary of Mercy and Grace (v.16) - John HendersonPre-ConferenceCounseling through ProverbsPre-Conference 1: "Wisdom in Responding to Fools" - Brad HambrickPre-Conference 2: "Discernment: A Matter of the Heart" - Alasdair GrovesPre-Conference 3: "Growing in Discerning: Wisdom vs. Foolishness" - Julie LowePre-Conference 4: "Wisdom from Anger" - Mark VroegopTrack OptionsABC offers specialized tracks taught by leading practitioners in the field. Each of the following tracks will include eight insightful sessions. Attendees will choose one track during registration, and will attend all sessions in that track throughout the duration of the conference. Note: Track sessions are listed in the order that they will be delivered.  Track A - Holistic Soul Care  Objective: To provide attendees with a biblical perspective that targets both the physical and the spiritual dimensions of our makeup, and how both apply to counseling others. While the spiritual will always take precedence when it comes to biblical care, God has given us an abundance of research that helps us to understand how the brain, the heart, and the gut impact our emotional states. Therefore, drawing from this data as an adjunct to our care for others can prove quite helpful. A framework will be given that will foster a counseling context that reflects the counsel of Paul who wrote, “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Cor. 10:31)."Two Books, Two Ages, Two Parts: Theological Foundations and Distinctives for a Holistic Approach" - Adam Sandlin"A Biblical Theology of the Body" - Matthew LaPine"A Practical Approach to the Body and Wellness" - Eliza Huie"The Habits of the Body in Emotional Life" - Matthew LaPine"Biblical and Scientific Grounds for a Psychology of the Heart" - Eric Johnson"Carditive Therapy: Working with the Heart in the Care of Souls" - Eric Johnson"Life Is Liturgy: Putting It All Together" - Jeremy Lelek"Life Is Liturgy: A Case Study" - Jeremy Lelek and Tim WatsonTrack B - Domestic AbuseObjective: To carefully define domestic abuse, present a biblical understanding of the trouble, and then provide practical, Christ-centered, and exegetical sound guidance for those who counsel marriages where abuse is or has been a reality."Is it Abuse? Understanding and Identifying Abuse" - Darby Strickland"Hearts Shaped by Trauma" - Darby Strickland"Responding to Abuse: Caring for Victims and their Children" - Darby Strickland and Kirsten Christianson"Understanding the Abuser" - Greg Wilson and Chris Moles"Responding to Abuse: Caring for Perpetrators" - Greg Wilson, Chris Moles, Kirsten Christianson"Separation, Divorce, and Marriage Reconciliation Issues" - Chris Moles"Domestic Abuse Case Study: What it looks like on the ground" - Panel"Considerations for Church Care in Abusive Marriages" - Kirsten ChristiansonTrack C - Fundamentals of Biblical Soul CareObjective: The Fundamentals of Soul Care track seeks to foster and equip believers in the church to grow a culture of soul care and mutual ministry in and throughout the body of Christ. For discipleship and soul care to happen at every level in and through the local church there must be a biblical understanding of what God's call to the church is when it comes to the care of souls. Heart focused mutual ministry is not just the call of the biblical counselor. This should be every member ministry. Fundamentals for Biblical Soul Care will explore the biblical and theological convictions from Scripture that should inform and drive the ways that Biblical Soul Care is implemented and equipped in the local church."Soul Care: God's Design for His People" - Lee Lewis"God's Story: A Discipleship & Care Framework for You and Others" - Robert Cheong"Building a Culture of Soul Care in the Church" - Garrett Higbee"Paradigm Shifts Needed to Grow a Culture of Soul Care in the Church" - Garrett Higbee"Building a Church Biblical Counseling Center to Support the Church" - Emily Dempster"Abiding in Christ: Experiencing the Care We Need" - Robert Cheong"Implementing a Seamless Model of Equipping and Soul Care" - Lee Lewis"Using Biblical Counseling Resources to Train Counselors and Minister to the Community" - Emily DempsterTrack D - AddictionsObjective: Delivered by a team of people who have walked through various addictions and been transformed by God's Word, the Addiction Track seeks to help people understand the fundamental nature of addiction as a worship disorder. True transformation is only possible when the gospel opens eyes and transforms hearts to worship the only One who truly deserves all worship. We provide foundational truths relevant to all addictive issues and demonstrate how they practically apply to particular situations like substance abuse, eating disorders, and sexual addiction."The Fertile Ground of Addiction–Understanding a Person's Story" (Biblical Anthropology) - Michael Snetzer"Understanding Addiction Biblically–Gospel Response" - Dave Dunham"Counseling Substance Addictions" - Michael Snetzer“Understanding Eating Disorders and How to Work Together Towards Healing" (motives, core issues, & restructuring) - Krista Dunham“Pornography Addiction - Counseling husbands who have hurt through pornography" - Curtis Solomon"Pornography Addiction - Sharing grace to wives who have been hurt by pornography” - Jenny Solomon“Helping Others Break Destructive Habits" - Dave Dunham“Using Scripture to Counsel Addiction" - Full Panel with Q&ATrack E - Marriage and FamilyObjective: Biblical counseling ministry lays vital groundwork for understanding the purpose of marriage and family and therefore establishing the paradigm through which we understand, evaluate, and operate in our marriages and families. This track will address how marriage reflects Christ, to grasp roles and responsibilities of the family unit, and how to have joy in the difficulty of marriage and family. It will also provide an emphasis on how to counsel children and adolescents in the context of family."For the Glory of God" - John Henderson"Before the Face of God" - John Henderson“In Service to God" - John Henderson and Julie Lowe"Learning to Live as One" - Michael and Shauna Van Dyke"Learning to Love Other" - Michael and Shauna Van Dyke"Counseling Children in the Context of Family" - Julie Lowe“Counseling Adolescents in the Context of Family" - Julie LoweConclusion and Panel DiscussionTrack F - GriefObjective: Participants in this track will be better equipped to guide the people they counsel through the grief that accompanies the loss of loved ones. They will learn how the Bible speaks to grief and how they, as counselors, can lead others toward hope, peace, and perseverance."When Through the Deep Waters I Call You To Go" - Tim Challies"When Sorrows Like Sea Billows Roll" - Rachel Rosser Schulte"He Lives Triumphant From the Grave" - Mark Vroegop"Strength for Today and Bright Hope for Tomorrow" - Rachel Rosser Schulte"We Shall Meet on That Beautiful Shore" - Paul Tautges"When Other Helpers Fail and Comforts Flee" - Mark Vroegop"In ev'ry Change He Faithful Will Remain" - Panel"Bear Patiently the Cross of Grief or Pain" - Paul TautgesTrack G - Gender and SexualityObjective: Few topics generate conversation and confusion as much as gender and sexuality. Are clarity, compassion, conviction, and civility even possible within this conversation? The Gender and Sexuality track will seek to offer biblical clarity on topics related to gender and sexuality from both a pastoral, discipleship, and counseling lens. From understanding how an LGBTQ person's story and background impact their struggle to how the church, parents, friends, and others can better help and address strugglers. Our presenters will seek to offer biblically faithful truth while helping the attendee grow in wisdom and discernment."A Scripture-Shaped Story of Human Sexuality & Gender" - Jonathan Holmes"Identity: What Is It and How Is It Formed?" - Jonathan Holmes"Understanding the Landscape of Sexual Identity" - Part 1 - Jonathan Holmes"Understanding the Landscape of Gender Identity" - Part 2 - Jonathan Holmes"Story and Suffering: Understanding How a Painful World Impacts Our Hearts and Beliefs" - Ellen Dykas"Desires and Life Expectations: How They Work Together to Shape Beliefs and Behavior" - Ellen Dykas"Familial Concerns" - Ellen Dykas and Jonathan HolmesPanel Discussion Q&ATrack H - Conflict ResolutionObjective: The Conflict Resolution track traces conflict resolution from good (what allowed the relationship to initially build trust) to bad (what went wrong) to hard (why conflict is difficult to navigate) back to good (a restored, healthy normal). Participants in this track will gain an appreciation for the journey each of their counselee's is taking and biblical concepts / skills necessary to effectively walk alongside their counselee's on that journey."A Full Journey Perspective" - Brad Hambrick“Experience and Heart When Deeply Hurt" - Alasdair Groves“Helping People in Conflict Acknowledge the Limits of Their Perspective", Part 1 (Humbly Articulating/Acknowledging “Your” Perspective) - Jeremy Pierre“Helping People in Conflict Acknowledge the Limits of Their Perspective", Part 2 (Lovingly Understanding “Their” Perspective) - Jeremy Pierre“Clarity in the Conflict (3 types of conflict)" - Susan Thomas"Forgiveness: The Pivotal Point in the Story" - Brad Hambrick"Overcoming Anger and Releasing Bitterness" - Susan ThomasPanel Discussion

What constitutes abuse? How should the church help abused women? Does the Bible have anything to say about these and other difficult matters regarding submission in marriage? You bet! That's why Bobby, Matt, and Rachel are continuing to answer your questions on the topic in this episode of NorthWoods Church Matters! Books mentioned:  Conscience: What It Is, How to Train It, and Loving Those Who Differ by Andrew Naselli. When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson. The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for Men Who Use Control and Violence in the Home by Chris Moles. Is It Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims by Darby Strickland. Men and Women in the Church: A Short, Biblical, Practical Introduction by Kevin DeYoung.

Domestic violence may be among the most mismanaged and most misunderstood topics that is facing the church today, says ministry founder and pastor of Men of Peace Chris Moles. Chris has been working with survivors and perpetrators of domestic violence for 17 years, and his goal is to keep the focus on Jesus Christ throughout the healing process. Marriage restoration is a goal of improving the situation, he says, but it is not the goal. Only Jesus can spark true heart change in a person. As a counselor and author of The Heart of Domestic Abuse, Chris also points out the confusion surrounding triggers for domestic violence, which he explains are often rooted in both fear and pride. Find out what solutions are available to get help if you or a loved one are a victim of domestic violence or if you are the perpetrator. TAKEAWAYS Chris offers an online, self-paced class for perpetrators at MenOfPeace.org Abuse, pride, and entitlement are the three main problems at the heart of all domestic abuse Mental health problems and past trauma contributes to domestic violence, but it does not cause it Confession and repentance of sin on the part of a domestic violence perpetrator can lead to discipleship and true change

Domestic violence may be among the most mismanaged and most misunderstood topics that is facing the church today, says ministry founder and pastor of Men of Peace Chris Moles. Chris has been working with survivors and perpetrators of domestic violence for 17 years, and his goal is to keep the focus on Jesus Christ throughout the healing process. Marriage restoration is a goal of improving the situation, he says, but it is not the goal. Only Jesus can spark true heart change in a person. As a counselor and author of The Heart of Domestic Abuse, Chris also points out the confusion surrounding triggers for domestic violence, which he explains are often rooted in both fear and pride. Find out what solutions are available to get help if you or a loved one are a victim of domestic violence or if you are the perpetrator.   TAKEAWAYS Chris offers an online, self-paced class for perpetrators at MenOfPeace.org Abuse, pride, and entitlement are the three main problems at the heart of all domestic abuse Mental health problems and past trauma contributes to domestic violence, but it does not cause it Confession and repentance of sin on the part of a domestic violence perpetrator can lead to discipleship and true change  

Pastor Chris Moles joins Pastor Steve Viars in this episode. As a pastor and biblical counselor, Chris Moles comes alongside churches and families to confront domestic abuse and promote healthy, God-honoring relationships.

Pastor Chris Moles joins Pastor Steve Viars in this episode. As a pastor and biblical counselor, Chris Moles comes alongside churches and families to confront domestic abuse and promote healthy, God-honoring relationships.

In this episode James and Jon finish their discussion on What is biblical Counseling A few resources that they recommend further on this topic. Chris Moles & the Peaceworks Podcast: http://www.chrismoles.org/podcast/2022/5/10/episode-224-chris-are-you-still-a-biblical-counselor Curtis Solomon & the 15:14 Podcast: https://biblicalcc.podbean.com/e/abuse-and-biblical-counseling/

Domestic violence is an extremely challenging issue to address. Chris Moles, has over 17 years of experience dealing with this difficult topic. Chris has worked with the state and through the church to help both the victims and perpetrators of domestic violence. He and Curtis discuss some of the issues related to this challenging topic and offer resources for further education. Support 15:14 – A Podcast of the Biblical Counseling Coalition today at biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/donate.

Episode Notes: In this episode, host Mike Van Dyke is joined by author, pastor, biblical counselor, special guest Chris Moles. Chris shares his genesis of entering into domestic abuse work as a pastor and how The LORD used it to develop the ministry of peaceworks and the men of peace self-paced course work. The Men of Peace Self-Paced Course is the compilation of all of Chris Moles' past Men of Peace coaching content plus brand-new material. This course will walk men through the three-fold Men of Peace process of Information, Transformation, and Reformation, educating and guiding men who are ready to take ownership of their abusive behaviors and surrender themselves fully to the Lord in true and lasting repentance. Please be aware this course DOES NOT include a direct coaching component with Chris Moles. Instead, the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course is designed to be used within the context of an already established biblical counseling or coaching relationship, with the abusive man enlisting the discipleship and accountability support of a local counselor, pastor, or mentor. Once purchased, each course participant will have permanent access to all course materials.Episode Resources:chrismoles.orgPeaceworks PodcastMen of Peace Self-Paced Course

Mindy has has been advocating for woman for over twenty years. She thought she understood what abuse was, but one day a light went on and she began digging deeper. She is now trauma-informed, domestic violence-informed and she has helped her church to implement systems for helping survivors. She also serves on the board with Called to Peace Ministeries. If you and/or your church would like to receive training to help make your church safer, we highly recommend Called to Peace Ministries (https://www.calledtopeace.org/), Chris Moles with Peace Works University (https://www.chrismoles.org/coaching-with-chris) and Psalm 82 Initiative (https://psalm82initiative.wordpress.com/). Ladies, you are welcome to join us on Facebook at Held & Healed: Christian Women Rebuilding After Abuse (https://www.facebook.com/groups/616663178999357/). Or, contact me at (https://heatherelizabeth.org/). --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Before you immediately dismiss your need to listen to this episode, we'd challenge you to have an open mind. When we hear the words "domestic abuse", we often think of videos of athletes in elevators, but can we recognize more subtle forms of abuse? Use of Power to Control others through Fear or Intimidation is Abusive even if there are never any bruises or broken bones. Join us as we begin a two-part series on this important topic.  We talk today with Chris Moles (chrismoles.org), a pastor and Biblical counselor who helps churches and families confront the evil of domestic violence. If this discussion sparked any questions in you, check out Chris's article - Am I Abusive?   We also get to hear a couple of songs from Aaron's new album, The End of the Fall.  You can listen and download the entire album at https://soundcloud.com/aaron-porter-778791650/sets/the-end-of-the-fall.   The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

Chelsey Gordon Thu, Aug 6, 6:19 AMto mePeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

PEACEWORKS LIVEWe are excited to announce our first virtual conference, PeaceWorks Live!This exclusive two-day domestic abuse training event will feature worship music, a survivor story, four plenary sessions with Chris Moles, along with bonus sessions from Joy Forrest, Darby Strickland, and Greg Wilson.www.chrismoles.org/events

PEACEWORKS LIVEWe are excited to announce our first virtual conference, PeaceWorks Live!This exclusive two-day domestic abuse training event will feature worship music, a survivor story, four plenary sessions with Chris Moles, along with bonus sessions from Joy Forrest, Darby Strickland, and Greg Wilson.www.chrismoles.org/events

Domestic violence is an extremely challenging issue to address. This week's guest, Chris Moles, has over 17 years of experience dealing with this difficult topic. Chris has worked with the state and through the church to help both the victims and perpetrators of domestic violence. He and Curtis discuss some of the issues related to this challenging topic and offer resources for further education. Support 15:14 – A Podcast of the Biblical Counseling Coalition today at biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/donate.

Today's speaker is Chris Moles, a Certified Biblical Counselor and Cedarville University alumnus. Rev. Moles turns the light onto the problem of abuse in our society. He shares that we must serve, value, and empower others, and accept and embrace accountability.

PEACEWORKS LIVEWe are excited to announce our first virtual conference, PeaceWorks Live!This exclusive two-day domestic abuse training event will feature worship music, a survivor story, four plenary sessions with Chris Moles, along with bonus sessions from Joy Forrest, Darby Strickland, and Greg Wilson.www.chrismoles.org/events

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).PEACEWORKS LIVEWe are excited to announce our first virtual conference, PeaceWorks Live!This exclusive two-day domestic abuse training event will feature worship music, a survivor story, four plenary sessions with Chris Moles, along with bonus sessions from Joy Forrest, Darby Strickland, and Greg Wilson.www.chrismoles.org/events

PEACEWORKS LIVEWe are excited to announce our first virtual conference, PeaceWorks Live!This exclusive two-day domestic abuse training event will feature worship music, a survivor story, four plenary sessions with Chris Moles, along with bonus sessions from Joy Forrest, Darby Strickland, and Greg Wilson. www.chrismoles.org/eventsPeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuse

PEACEWORKS LIVEWe are excited to announce our first virtual conference, PeaceWorks Live!This exclusive two-day domestic abuse training event will feature worship music, a survivor story, four plenary sessions with Chris Moles, along with bonus sessions from Joy Forrest, Darby Strickland, and Greg Wilson.www.chrismoles.org/eventsPeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

Jon interviews Joy Forrest about what domestic abuse is and how misuse of the Bible in the pulpit has an impact on domestic abuse. Joy is the director of Called to Peace Ministries, conference speaker, Certified Biblical Counselor, and the author of Called to Peace: A Survivor's Guide to Finding Peace and Healing After Domestic Abuse. Link to Joy's book: https://www.amazon.com/Called-Peace-Survivors-Finding-Domestic/dp/1948449013/ref=sr_1_2?crid=RH3PA06UPQDT&dchild=1&keywords=called+to+peace+joy+forrest&qid=1597328811&sprefix=Called+to+Peace%2Caps%2C538&sr=8-2 Link to Called to Peace Ministries: https://www.calledtopeace.org/ Link to the Power and Control Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/understanding-power-control-wheel/ Link to Chris Moles website and resources: http://www.chrismoles.org/

PeaceWorks University is our membership site, which exists to train and support people helpers in a variety of ministry contexts to address domestic violence with the gospel of peace. PeaceWorks University has two main components: education and equipping through our online membership site and community building, peer support, and networking through our private PeaceWorks University Facebook Community group. In addition to a vast archive of Chris' past trainings, we offer new resources regularly:Monthly video Master Classes with experts in the fieldPeriodic success paths accompanying select Master Classes which will provide members with additional teaching from Chris in order to improve specific skill sets and ministry responsesMonthly practical, ready-to-use resources from our ministry ToolboxMonthly Live Q&A's with Chris in the PeaceWorks University Facebook Community groupLive viewing parties (via Zoom) with Chris Moles and friends to watch and discuss the recently released IBCD Observation DVDs on domestic abuseTo sign-up for a PeaceWorks University membership for only $20/month or $200/year, visit our website (http://www.chrismoles.org/peaceworks-university).

Chris Moles — Chris is a certified counselor and a trained group facilitator in domestic violence intervention and prevention. He talks with Elyse and Eric about domestic abuse response in the local church.   http://www.chrismoles.org    The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for men who use control and violence in the home — https://amzn.to/2y3fX3s

In this episode of the Hope + Help Podcast, Christine Chappell interviews authors and biblical counselors Chris Moles, Joy Forrest, and Ann Maree Goudzwaard via Facebook LIVE about domestic abuse care in today's COVID-19 context. Together, the panel discusses cautions for victim/counselor communications, the danger of handling domestic abuse situations as marriage counseling cases, various ways to get equipped for one-another care when face-to-face contact with high-risk women and children is restricted, the basics and importance of developing a safety plan, and much more. View the full show notes & links for this episode: https://ibcd.org/domestic-abuse-moles-forrest-goudzwaard/ The Hope + Help Podcast offers biblical conversations about life's challenging problems. The podcast accomplishes this by offering a mix of interviews with seasoned biblical counseling professionals and ministry leaders on a variety of topics. Listeners can expect to receive biblical wisdom as well as practical steps for facing suffering, struggling, and sin with courage and grace. Hosted by author/writer Christine M. Chappell. To learn more about the show and to access helpful resources, visit ibcd.org/hopeandhelp. Connect with host Christine Chappell and subscribe to her weekly Christ-centered biblical counseling resources at christinemchappell.com. IBCD's Hope + Help Podcast is available on most podcast streaming platforms, so please don't keep the show a secret! If you know someone walking through a challenging season of life, please share the Hope + Help Podcast with them.

Featuring: - First steps in responding to domestic abuse - Building involvement and offering hope - How to keep a victim safe? - What if I am scared to counsel in this situation? - Complementarianism and domestic violence Resources: The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for Men Who Use Control and Violence in the Home - Chris Moles https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Domestic-Abuse-Solutions-Violence/dp/1936141272 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2016/3/14/6cp1qk9y14xwrrioccoc2s6xxete00-zd6a2-4t7pf http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/8/9/jonah-judgement-and-a-call-to-nineveh-a45k2 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/7/28/telling-the-truth-to-yourself-m9hg4 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/3/4/the-blame-game-jn4wk http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/3/25/putting-off-and-putting-on-bd9l7 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/3/11/is-change-really-possible-xxkz7 Want a FREE abuse counseling training series from ACBC delivered to your inbox? Text ACBC to 66866 for free access. Or visit https://biblicalcounseling.com/abuse-care/

Featuring: - First steps in responding to domestic abuse - Building involvement and offering hope - How to keep a victim safe? - What if I am scared to counsel in this situation? - Complementarianism and domestic violence Resources: The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for Men Who Use Control and Violence in the Home - Chris Moles https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Domestic-Abuse-Solutions-Violence/dp/1936141272 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2016/3/14/6cp1qk9y14xwrrioccoc2s6xxete00-zd6a2-4t7pf http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/8/9/jonah-judgement-and-a-call-to-nineveh-a45k2 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/7/28/telling-the-truth-to-yourself-m9hg4 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/3/4/the-blame-game-jn4wk http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/3/25/putting-off-and-putting-on-bd9l7 http://www.chrismoles.org/news/2018/3/11/is-change-really-possible-xxkz7 Want a FREE abuse counseling training series from ACBC delivered to your inbox? Text ACBC to 66866 for free access. Or visit https://biblicalcounseling.com/abuse-care/

In this episode, Christine Chappell and Reverend Chris Moles unpack the heart of domestic abuse. Chris shares why he believes there has been some push-back from the Christian community about pursuing violent men with the hope of the gospel, the problem with treating domestic abuse as an anger issue, reasons why focusing on abuse as spiritual rebellion is so important, realistic ways of measuring intervention "success," and words of admonishment (as well as hope) for the man who senses he is abusing his power and wonders what true change will require. He also shares a variety of reliable resources that the audience can explore to further educate themselves on the issue of domestic violence, or to find guidance for next steps if they are in a abusive relationship. View the show notes for this episode: https://wp.me/p6NcCC-Nc "The Hope + Help Project" podcast offers compassionate biblical conversations about life's challenging problems. The purpose of the podcast is to share Christ-centered comfort and clarity for those seeking biblical solutions for the struggles they face. The podcast accomplishes this by offering a mix of interviews with seasoned biblical counseling professionals and ministry leaders on a variety of topics. Listeners can expect to receive biblical wisdom as well as practical steps for facing suffering, struggling and sin with courage and grace. Hosted by author/writer Christine M. Chappell. To learn more about the show and Christine's ministry, please visit faithfulsparrow.com. To subscribe to Christine's weekly Christ-centered resources for those struggling, suffering, and supporting, visit faithfulsparrow.com/email. The Hope + Help Project podcast is available on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud, and Spotify. Please don't keep the show a secret! If you know someone walking through a challenging season of life, please share The Hope + Help Project with them.

Chris Moles is an Alliance pastor and a biblical counselor who has extensive experience and expertise in dealing with and ministering to those who have dealt with domestic abuse. Chris provides helpful first steps for prevention and intervention to churches that are not adequately aware of or prepared to deal with this issue. Resources www.chrismoles.org www.cmalliance.org www.equippingu.org  

How can the church do a better job of supporting women in domestic abuse environments? Admittedly, we fail women in our church communities far too often. What is a biblical definition of domestic abuse? Chris Moles joins us today to help us better understand domestic abuse and how to help those suffering from it.

How can the church do a better job of supporting women in domestic abuse environments? Admittedly, we fail women in our church communities far too often. What is a biblical definition of domestic abuse? Chris Moles joins us today to help us better understand domestic abuse and how to help those suffering from it.

How can the church do a better job of supporting women in domestic abuse environments? Admittedly, we fail women in our church communities far too often. What is a biblical definition of domestic abuse? Chris Moles joins us today to help us better understand domestic abuse and how to help those suffering from it.

Domestic violence is an extremely challenging issue to address. This week's guest, Chris Moles, has over 17 years of experience dealing with this difficult topic. Chris has worked with the state and through the church to help both the victims and perpetrators of domestic violence. He and Curtis discuss some of the issues related to this challenging topic and offer resources for further education.

Our keynote speaker Chris Moles sits down with Craig and Jim to discuss how he got into counseling domestic abuse cases and ministering to abusers. They also discuss his book, ͞The Heart of Domestic Abuse.͟ This interview was recorded live at the 2017 Institute "Addictions: Grace for the Journey."

In this session author Chris Moles will discuss the important factors involved in counseling controlling husbands.

Substance abuse is often a factor in situations of domestic violence. In this session author Chris Moles will help counselors learn to deal with situations like these.

The church and church leaders have a biblical responsibility toward the vulnerable and children. In this session author Chris Moles will discuss both social and theological considerations of the impact of domestic violence on children.

In this session author Chris Moles will teach how to give real help, hope and healing to victims of domestic abuse.

In this session author Chris Moles will define domestic violence, explain the motivations and tactics of perpetrators and discuss the various manifestations of domestic violence including physical, sexual, emotional, economic and psychological abuse.

To close out season 2 of the Care & Discipleship Podcast, Craig Marshall sat down with Jim Newheiser (Director of Biblical Counseling at RTS Charlotte) and Tom Maxham (pastor of Grace Bible Church, Escondido and staff counselor at IBCD) to discuss the tenuous situation of dealing with domestic abuse when counseling a couple. This episode is a response to a listener question and addresses a very relevant issue in the church today. The counselors discuss how to respond not only to physical abuse but also how to think through verbal and emotional abuse. They detail the various ways in which churches tend to make mistakes regarding verbal and emotional abuse and articulate a proper response.  They also engage with the book The Heart of Domestic Abuse written by Chris Moles who will be speaking on the issue at the 2017 Summer Institute and Pre-Conference.