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Do you struggle with playing with your kids? When playfulness is required to make a difficult moment easier, do you feel blocked, stuck, shut-down, or reactive?In this episode, therapists Cara and Rythea dive into the transformative power of playing with your kids, no matter their age. They explore the why behind play—why it's essential for healthy development and connection—and dig into the research on the benefits of play in strengthening the parent-child relationship. Through both personal stories and professional insights, they discuss the systemic and emotional barriers that can prevent parents from embracing play and share practical ways to overcome these obstacles. Cara sheds light on how to guide kids through story and play, especially neurodiverse children, drawing from her experience working with families and ND kids. From letting go of perfectionism to using improv skills to meet kids on their level, Cara and Rythea discuss how to become more playful and attuned as parents, regardless of past experiences with play.Tune in to discover how to turn playtime into meaningful, joyful connection time with your kids!Resources from this episode:Rythea's book recommendation: Playful Parenting: An Exciting New Approach to Raising Children That Will Help You Nurture Close Connections, Solve Behavior Problems, and Encourage Confidence by Lawrence J. Cohen, PhDResearch on play referenced in this episode: Brown, E. A., & Dunn, J. (2010). The role of play in social development. Child Development Perspectives, 4(2), 91-95.Fisher, K. R., & Hirsh-Pasek, K. (2012). Playing around in school: The role of play in development. American Journal of Play, 4(2), 155-175.Hakkarainen, P., & Palviainen, T. (2011). Cultural tools and practices in the development of young children. European Early Childhood Education Research Journal, 19(1), 43-56.Harter, S. (2012). The self-perception profile for children: Manual and questionnaires. University of Denver.Kaderavek, J. N., & Justice, L. M. (2013). Shared storybook reading: A new strategy for language and literacy. Language, Speech, and Hearing Services in Schools, 44(3), 245-258.Ladd, G. W., & Burgess, K. W. (2015). Peer relationships and school adjustment. Child Development, 86(3), 720-731.Morris, A. S., et al. (2013). The role of parenting in children's emotional regulation. Emotion, 13(2), 238-249.Piek, J. P., et al. (2010). Motor skills and developmental coordination disorders. Developmental Psychology, 46(5), 1132-1141.Pizarro, J., et al. (2017). Play therapy for children experiencing stress. Journal of Child and Family Studies, 26(3), 778-785.Shlafer, R. J., & Poehlmann, J. (2010). Attachment and parenting. In Handbook of child psychology (Vol. 3). Wiley.--It's important and essential to put our voices (Rythea and Cara) in a context. We are two white, cis-gender, straight, middle-class women living with financial and societal privilege. Because of this, our perspectives are limited and do not reflect the realities of all our listeners. This podcast will feature guests with expertise around conscious parenting who differ in gender, race, class, abilities, sexual orientation, and histories from us, to broaden the conversation and reflect the lives of as many people as possible. 25% of the proceeds of this podcast will go to creators of color who have been mentors and influences on our work and in our growth as parents. You can donate to this podcast by going to https://linktr.ee/yourkidsdontsuck
Chapter 1 What's Playful Parenting Book by Lawrence J. CohenPlayful Parenting is a book written by Lawrence J. Cohen. It was published in 2001 and provides a guide for parents on how to engage in playful interactions with their children in order to strengthen their relationship, promote emotional well-being, and resolve conflicts. The book emphasizes the importance of laughter and playfulness in parenting, and provides practical tips and strategies for incorporating play into everyday activities.Chapter 2 Is Playful Parenting Book A Good BookPlayful Parenting by Lawrence J. Cohen is generally well-regarded and has received positive reviews from many readers. It offers insights and practical advice on using play to build deeper connections and improve communication with your children. The book focuses on encouraging playfulness, empathy, and active listening to strengthen the parent-child relationship. However, personal preferences may vary, so it's worth reading reviews, checking its summary, and considering your own parenting style and goals before deciding if it suits your needs.Chapter 3 Playful Parenting Book by Lawrence J. Cohen SummaryPlayful Parenting is a book by Lawrence J. Cohen that emphasizes the importance of incorporating play into parenting for effective communication and building healthy relationships with children. The book provides various strategies and techniques to help parents create a playful atmosphere at home, where children feel understood, validated, and loved.The main theme of the book is that playing with our children is not just about having fun, but also a powerful tool for building connection, resolving conflicts, and teaching important life skills. Cohen argues that play allows children to feel safe, express their emotions, and develop social and problem-solving skills. By engaging in various forms of play, parents can effectively communicate with their children, build trust, and foster a positive parent-child relationship.The book introduces different types of play, including physical play, imaginative play, and emotional play, and provides practical advice on how to incorporate them into daily routines. Cohen suggests that parents should actively listen to their child's emotions during play and use it as an opportunity to empathize and validate their feelings. By actively participating in their child's play, parents can also balance their authority and create a sense of equality within the parent-child dynamic.Additionally, Playful Parenting addresses common parenting challenges such as tantrums, power struggles, and discipline issues. Cohen offers playful alternatives to conventional discipline methods, encouraging parents to approach these situations with empathy, creativity, and a sense of humor. Through playful interventions, parents can guide their children towards positive behaviors and problem-solving techniques, rather than resorting to punitive measures.Overall, Playful Parenting emphasizes the importance of play in parenting and provides practical guidance for parents to create a more playful and connected relationship with their children. It encourages parents to view play as a valuable tool for communication, problem-solving, and emotional development, allowing both parents and children to enjoy a more joyful and fulfilling parenting experience. Chapter 4 Playful Parenting Book AuthorLawrence J. Cohen is a clinical psychologist and author specializing in children's play and parenting. He is best known for his book "Playful Parenting," which provides techniques and ideas to help parents use playfulness to connect with their children and resolve conflicts. The book was first published in 2001.In...
In this episode, Lawrence Cohen joins me on the show to talk about how play and roughhousing can help you in your parenting. We talk about everything from why we need to be playful, to aggression, to calming our kids down, and incorporating more fun and play into our days. Lawrence J. Cohen, PhD, is a psychologist and the author of Playful Parenting and The Opposite of Worry. His newest book is Unplug and Play: The Illustrated Guide to Roughhousing with Your Kids, co-authored with Anthony Debenedet. We talk about: [5:50] How Lawrence got into this work, and about his new book [6:45] The importance of roughhousing [8:15] How Lawrence became a more playful parent [11:15] Advice for parents who shy away from roughhousing and play [19:20] Having ‘personal agency' [21:20] Building self-determination of risk [25:45] The Knot of Tension concept [28:50] Handing unsavory behavior when it comes to play [35:00] Responding to aggression with playfulness [41:10] When ‘play' turns aggressive [45:50] Tips for getting play to stop [49:35] What to do when your kid swears [54:20] Lawrence's advice to his younger parent self Resources mentioned in this episode: Free ‘How to Stop Yelling' Course: www.sarahrosensweet.com/yelling Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting The Opposite of Worry by Lawrence Cohen: https://amzn.to/3LFgyLI Playful Parenting: https://amzn.to/427erpu Unplug and Play by Lawrence Cohen: https://amzn.to/3AJzByl Connect with Lawrence Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Larrycohenplayfulparenting/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Larjack1 Website: www.playfulparenting.com Connect with Sarah Rosensweet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup Website: https://www.sarahrosensweet.com Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php
Sign up for the email list to get the behind-the-scenes view. https://www.subscribepage.com/kcmo Want to try a coaching call-- sign up for a free 30-minute call: https://calendly.com/christythomas/exploratory-call-free GOOD ENOUGH MOM SOCIETY (christythomascoaching.com) You are exactly the right mom for your kids. I am so glad to know you. 328. Rough Housing is Good! Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., is the author of Playful Parenting, an award-winning book that has been translated into 18 languages. He is also the author of The Opposite of Worry, which addresses the anxieties and fears of children (and parents). Larry is also the co-author of two books on children's social development: Best Friends Worst Enemies and Mom They're Teasing Me. His most recent book, co-authored with Anthony DeBenedet, is Unplug and Play: The Ultimate Illustrated Guide to Roughhousing with Your Kids. Playfulparenting.com Email Larry@playfulparenting.com to get the newsletter. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/playful-parenting Self-Care: Larry does yoga and chi-gong. His favorite 10-second self-care is called pat the baby. Pretend you have a baby on your shoulder and pat the fussy baby. Play: Rough House! Sit with your family in a circle, with all the feet towards each other. Socks on, no shoes. 1-2-3- go. Your goal is to keep the socks on your feet, get everyone else's socks off, and have fun! Find me on Instagram: Happiest Mom You Know (@everyday_runner_christy) • Instagram photos and videos Don't forget to leave a rating or review. Email me Play4life.Christy@gmail.com
Kristen describes playful parenting and provides a script to get you started. You can find the book she mentions here: Playful Parenting, by Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D.. -- You can find Kristen's books at: Kristensraw.com/blog/coffee-self-talk Join the Coffee Self-Talk Facebook group: facebook.com/groups/coffeeselftalk Instagram: Instagram.com/coffeeselftalk
As you may know, Season 4 of this podcast is all about responding to YOUR questions. Your interests. And lately, I have been asked a LOT about my parenting philosophy. Which honestly, I think is RICH because I really don't know what the hell I'm doing. BUT, I do have 15 years+ of experience of being a parent, and I have worked EXTREMELY hard at being the best version of myself as a mother, without being weird about it. So this episode is my attempt to offer parents of all stripes (this isn't just a mothering conversation) three things: The core beliefs that have been essential to me as a parent The systems and habits that have paid massive dividends to our little fam, and lastly … The #fails. The What I Wish I'd Knowns. The things I'd love to impart to the young parents coming up—or the ones who still have time to course-correct before their chickens fly the coop. Give it a listen, and below are the books/resources I mention during the show: Blessings of a Skinned Knee: Raising Resilient Children by Wendy Mogel Love & Logic Positive parenting workshops, books, resources Playful Parenting by Lawrence J. Cohen As always, I thank you for your ears and hearts. Can't wait to hear what you think about this one. It's a deeply personal episode for me.
Do you find that all too often you're having to bark orders to get things done? What if there was a better, more playful way to get your kids to cooperate? Today, I talk with Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen, psychologist and author of Playful Parenting and The Opposite of Worry, about the importance of play in childhood and how we can tap into our child's innate desire to play to build connection. *New!* Watch video clips from this episode on the Mindful Mama Youtube channel! If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to Apple Podcasts or Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! 3 Takeaways: Be honest about your emotions with the volume turned down. After feeling big emotions, share with your child what you did to work through them. Children need connection and confidence, and they need to know they have a safe home base. Lawrence J. Cohen, PhD is a psychologist and author. His books Playful Parenting and The Opposite of Worry have been translated into 18 languages. He is also the co-author of The Art of Roughhousing, Best Friends Worst Enemies, and Mom They're Teasing Me. Get Hunter's book, Raising Good Humans now! Click here to order and get book bonuses! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.
Let's imagine a scene, where you take your daughter to a playground on a beautiful sunny afternoon. While playing on the slide, your daughter is almost slammed on the head by a boy who was impatiently sliding down after her. A few minutes earlier the same boy had caused another child to cry. The boy's mother rushes over and hits him in the arm, aggressively scolding him, “I told you never to do that again, why don't you ever listen to me? Now stop playing and let's go home!” She then tugs and drags the boy away while he cries. The mother is evidently frustrated by the child's action, but her method of educating and correcting the boy is counterproductive. Now imagine a different scenario where a boy pushes a little girl off the slide. When his mother comes over, she doesn't yell at the boy, rather she apologizes to the girl and her mother. She then grabs a toy and tells her son, “Hey, why don't we play a game. Let's go down the slide.” Hearing that his mother wants to play a game with him, the boy gets very excited and quickly goes up the stairs of the slide. “Go quickly, go quick!” the mother says, and proceeds to push him with the toy she was holding. The mother pushes him a bit too hard, and makes him slide down fast and fall on the foam board carpeted at the bottom of the slide; the boy then gets very upset. Noticing this, his mother walks up to him and says, “Look, isn't it dangerous to get pushed like this? When you push other children just like I pushed you, they will also be very upset, won't they?”, the boy then nods in agreement. What do you think will happen afterwards? From now on, the boy will most likely wait until the other children have reached the bottom of the slide before sliding down after.
Be inspired with silliness and discover ways to be playful with your kids from toddlers to teens. With Chiara Rossetti, Aware Parenting InstructorYou are going to LOVE this episode! So much fun & silliness with the fabulous Chiara Rossetti who's an Aware Parenting Instructor with 2 teenage children. She is amazing at bringing play to all situations and you'll be able to see how you, too, can incorporate such fun & silliness into your family.We cover a range of topics including:- starting out simply with your child - using their hands- ways to improve meal-times- teeth-cleaning- helping your child to separate & return to you, especially if you've separated from their dad- dealing with rude words- addressing your own triggers & big reactions- the importance of your child crying too- play with teenagersLINKSChiara's fantastic list of silly games ideasPlayful Parenting by Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D.Attachment Play by Aletha Solter Ph.D.Connect with Chiara directlyDiscover how to incorporate play into your day to help your children with their emotions & their behaviour with my FREE Workshop: Transform Your Child's Behaviour with Play!
Adding a new baby can bring many emotions, for us and especially for siblings are essentially being dethroned! How can we help them through this transition smoothly? In this episode we talked with Hannah and Kelty of the parenting resource Upbringing. Certified in Simplicity Parenting, Positive Discipline and trained in Foundations of the respectful parenting approach, RIE, Hannah & Kelty empower parents to grow up alongside their babies and kids elevating their discipline practices one conversation at a time! And this is one of them. We break down environment changes and routines that can reduce stress, preparing our kids with the right information and supporting them emotionally. RELATED EPISODES Child Play Troubles, Defiant Kids, and Our Easy Affirmations Routine Using Play to Diffuse Power Struggles and Connect With Your Child (based on Playful Parenting by Lawrence J. Cohen) Learn more about their new baby course, Right From The Start and their discipline-related guides on their website, and catch their live Dismantling Discipline Q&As weekly on their thriving Instagram community or their top-rated parenting podcast of the same name. Website: www.Upbringing.co Instagram: @upbringing.co Right From The Start Course + Free Roadmap: https://yourparentingmojo.com/rightfromthestart/ EPISODE SPONSOR Utah House Doctors: Everyone knows that the market is hot right now and it is the perfect time to sell your home, but what you may not know is using a professional in this type of market will actually make you more money then if you try and sell your home yourself, or sell with a discount brokerage. We have experienced the service of Utah House Doctors, and they make buying and selling homes so easy and painless. You can find them at Instagram at @utahhousedoctors or on their website, http://www.utahhousedoctors.com. Thank you for the kind reviews! We appreciate them so much. Here is how to leave a review for us on iTunes: Open Find the Magic in the podcast app Scroll to the bottom of the page Click on write a review Tap the stars to rate us and then write us some feedback:) Hit SEND Review of the week! AK Lonski, 06/01/2021 OB-SESSED I am so happy I found this podcast at exactly the right time in my life! Thank you so much for creating exactly what I needed!
Sarah Peyton is a well-known author of her book “Your Resonant Self” and brings a whole different way of healing into the world. She is also a Certified NVC Trainer. We get the honor to have a discussion with her on our show and give you Living Connected listeners a taste of her amazing knowledge and experiences. Resources:Sarah's Website: https://sarahpeyton.com/ Sarah mentioned: 1. Allan Schore: http://www.allanschore.com/2. Iain McGilchrist: https://iainmcgilchrist.com/3. Mel Sears: https://nvctraining.com/index.php?option=com_k2&view=latest&layout=latest&Itemid=2004. Lawrence J. Cohen PhD: https://www.playfulparenting.com/CONTACT INFORMATION:Email: Livingconnected.nvc@gmail.comInstagram: livingconnectednvcFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/LivingConnectedNVC/Website: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1153175 Music is brought to you by: https://www.purple-planet.com/
In our Season One Finale, Dawn Williams speaks with Blue School Advisory Board member Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen. Larry shares tools and suggestions for how to parent, play, and foster autonomy through the uncertainty created by COVID-19. Larry is a licensed psychologist specializing in children's play, play therapy, and the author of parenting books including: Playful Parenting, The Opposite of Worry and The Art of Roughhousing.Visit Blue School's new website to learn more about our education philosophy and Fall 2020 offerings. BlueSchoolConnected.org
Today’s episode discusses Playful Parenting by Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D. This interesting book offers us entertaining stories and useful anecdotes to show parents (and teachers) how to build closer connections with their children. Through the use of play, parents and teachers can help to solve behavior problems, build confidence, and assist children to work through emotional … Continue reading "154 Playful Parenting" The post 154 Playful Parenting appeared first on Teach Suzuki Podcast.
In Folge 20 ist unser UX-Profi Stefan Blumauer zu Gast. Er ist bei uns im Liechtenecker Lab unser Chef für Design und User Experience. Wir widmen uns folgenden Büchern: Antifragilität von Nassim Nicholas TalebDie besprochenen Highlights aus dem Buch: Warum ist robust nicht das Gegenteil von fragil? Was ist Antifragilität und warum ist sie für uns Menschen sowie für Unternehmen erstrebenswert? Playful Parenting von Lawrence J. Cohen.Die besprochenen Highlights aus dem Buch: Warum es wichtig ist aus seinen vorgeschriebenen Rollen auszubrechen, Dinge spielerisch anzugehen und warum Vorstellungskraft und Kreativität für unsere Zukunft wichtig sind.
Taa-daa! Today we are celebrating our first special guest on the podcast, the wonderful Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen, psychologist and the author of Playful Parenting, The Opposite of Worry and co-author of The Art of Roughhousing. Talking Play Talk on this episode turns to two of Larry's favorites styles of play - aggressive and risky play. If you've ever seen your child thrash a toy to pieces, order you locked in jail or speed down a steep slope on a skateboard you are probably aware of these play types and the stress they can cause us, as parents! Is our child too aggressive? Will they grow up aggressive? Shouldn't we be learning something? What if they get hurt? The Play is a Symbol When we can see these ways of playing as symbols of what's affecting a child, we can embrace them, because, as Larry says, when a child is laughing and engaged in aggressive play, we can be sure deep work is happening. But these can be the trickier bits of play to navigate. Larry helps us address the issues that come up when our children play aggressive or risky. What can we do with own fears when our children play aggressively? Why we should be joining our children in play How we can trust our children with their own risk management How we can stop saying "be careful," and start reflecting and wondering around play (or taking risks ourselves!) Evaluating when you need to step in The episode ends with some ideas of games to try with your children since play, at its heart, is all about connection. More Tools and Support for Handling A Child's Aggression You can find Larry at Playfulparenting.com and on his Amazon page. There's a review here of how one mom used Larry's book The Opposite of Worry With Children on the Spectrum (a guest book review) If you are interested in the risky play organization Larry mentions at 14.24 you'll find it at www.Anjiplay.com We bumped up the playtimes post to 15 Quick Games You Can Use When Kids Challenge Your Parenting Learn more about what causes aggression and what you can do in this class, Helping Your Child With Aggression Join the Hand in Hand Community We’d love to hear about your parenting challenges. You can follow Hand in Hand on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram. Be sure to drop Elle and Abigail a message Sign up for our Monthly Newsletter
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Tornano i Libri a Colacione, la rubrica dei libri di Tutto Esaurito su Radio 105! Ecco i BookBlister consigli della settimana: Le paure segrete dei bambini di Lawrence J. Cohen e Cuore di seta di Shi Yang Shi.E se non vuoi perdere nessun libro in pillola e gli spetelibress libreschi ti aspetto su www.bookblister.com
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This podcast is dedicated towards helping the busy parent who has an anxious child. Each episode is five minutes in length and focuses on one aspect of parenting an anxious child. Obviously, in five minutes I can't be comprehensive, but hopefully I can provide with some tips and pointers and get you started in the right direction. In the podcasts that follow I will be talking specific strategies you can use with your child. You will about the "Worry Motel" and "Two part sentences" and other techniques. I will also discuss specific conditions such as Obsessive-Compulsive disorder, Selective Mutism, and Aspergers and many other topics. And of course nighttime is a favorite time for anxiety to show up and so I will be talking about what you can with those fears. For those of you that have time to dig deeper into this topic here are my favorite books on the topics. I will explain in a future podcast what I like about each book. Tamar Chanksy, Freeing Your Child from Anxiety: Powerful, Practical Solutions to Overcome Your Child's Fears, Worries and Phobias Dawn Huebner What to Do When You Worry Too Much: A Kid's Guide to Overcoming Anxiety. Lawrence J. Cohen The Opposite of Worry: The Playful Parenting Approach to Childhood Anxieties and Fears. Reid Wilson and Lynn Lyons Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous and Independent Children