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Feeling unprepared for the challenges of fatherhood? You're certainly not alone. In this Rewind episode, Editor-In-Chief Tyghe Trimble, formerly of Fatherly, joins us to navigate the roadmap to modern dadhood. When we chatted with Tyghe in November of 2021, he and his team at Fatherly had just released the insightful book Fatherhood: A Comprehensive Guide to Birth Budgeting, Finding Flow, and Becoming a Happy Parent. Tyghe joined us to discuss the book, as well as actionable strategies for effective communication with your partner, maintaining your social life amid the craziness of parenthood, and the art of roughhousing with your kids. Listen to the end for a sidesplitting installment of Confessions.Tyghe Trimble, a New York City-based dad of two and former Editor-In-Chief of Fatherly, joins the conversation to chat about:• What exactly an "Editor-In-Chief" does• Why (and when) communication with your spouse can be hard• The importance of shared values• The unique structure of Fatherly's book• A staggering statistic around new fathers' social lives• The profound importance (and many benefits) of roughhousing with your kidsAfter, the guys get their Confessions on... and Marc takes things to a dark and hilarious place.LINKS:FatherlyFatherhood (excerpts from the book)Fatherhood (the book at Powell'sFatherhood (the book) on AmazonModern Dadhood Tees and DadhoodiesRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeModern Dadhood (website)AdamFlaherty.tvStuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (YouTube)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
In Episode #149 of the “Art of Raising Humans”, Sara and I have a blast getting to talk with Dr. Anthony DeBenedet. Dr. Anthony is a practicing gastroenterologist, author, and behavioral-science enthusiast. He is the author of Playful Intelligence: The Power of Living Lightly in a Serious World, a book about the surprising ways that playfulness influences adulthood. He is also coauthor of Unplug and Play: The Ultimate Illustrated Guide to Roughhousing with Your Kids and The Art of Roughhousing: Good Old-Fashioned Horseplay and Why Every Kid Needs It, parenting books about the importance of parent–child physical play. His interviews and writings have run in various media outlets, including the New York Times, the Today show, the Washington Post, Psychology Today, and TIME Ideas. Dr. Anthony shares how roughhousing not only deepens our connections with our children but it actually helps wire their brains for emotional regulation. He also shares how this type of play teaches kids to get off of screens and explore more imaginative play. After this episode, parents will have all the information they need to start making roughhousing an important part of their play with their children. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com.View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/how-roughhousing-can-dramatically-change-your-relationship-with-your-childVisit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comThe Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Jacob reenacts the time when a bully socked him in the stomach at school. Jay gets emotional when he has to engage in horseplay with a pal. Bobby got punched in the face by the great Colin Quinn while driving a car and drinking coffee! Bob also accuses him of chasing him with a hatchet. Jay believes that Bob is enabling this abusive relationship. Colin calls in to explain that sometimes friends just have that energy between them. Some friendships include dangerous roughhousing. *To hear the full show to go www.siriusxm.com/bonfire to learn more FOLLOW THE CREW ON SOCIAL MEDIA: @thebonfiresxm @louisjohnson @christinemevans @bigjayoakerson @robertkellylive @louwitzkee @jjbwolfSubscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes of The Bonfire ad-free and a whole week early. Start a free trial now on Apple Podcasts or by visiting siriusxm.com/podcastsplus.
In the special segment “Mom Confessions,” Laura and Shanna share their recent embarrassing or hilarious parenting experiences, diving into the topics of desperate decisions and rough realizations. Also, Shanna reports on a surprising new development in her family's life, and Laura talks about how the roughhousing between her sons has intensified. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6 and 8.5 years old, and Laura's kids are 5.5 years old and 3.5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: -Different ways of moving on from grief -Family pets -Roughhousing between siblings -Mom confessions This episode's full show notes can be found here. Want to get in touch with Shanna and Laura? Send us an email and follow us on social! Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @bfppodcast Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. Visit our website! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today's podcast is a Q&A episode with Joel Smith. Topics include the role of roughhousing games for individual sport athletes, sandbag training, and rhythm-cadence in movement. Joel explores youth sports trends, breaking jump plateaus, and the benefits of flywheel loading. He also covers infrasternal angle training, rotating speed and plyometric days, and integrating team play with weekly speed work. This, plus, a discussion on the value of band resistance in sports training rounds out this comprehensive conversation on optimizing athletic performance. Today's episode is brought to you by TeamBuildr's Gym Studio. Use the code “justfly25” for 25% off any Lila Exogen wearable resistance training, including the popular Exogen Calf Sleeves. For this offer, head to: Lilateam.com For a Gym Studio 14-day free trial, head to gymstudio.com View more podcast episodes at the podcast homepage. Main Points 00:14- Roughhousing games for non-team sport athletes 08:42- Training Changes Over the Year 33:23- Observations on Youth Sports 36:44- The Role of Fun in Training 40:37- Jump Imbalances and Breaking Jump Plateaus 44:53- Flywheel Loading 46:37- Infrasternal Angle Concepts and Training over Time 53:36- Sprint and Jump Training Programming 59:14- Utilizing Exergeny in Training 1:00:43- Games as Speed Training 1:05:37- Basketball vs. Plyometrics 1:08:24- Band Resistance in Sport Training About Joel Smith Joel Smith is the founder of Just Fly Sports and is a sports performance and track coach in Cincinnati, Ohio. Joel hosts the Just Fly Performance Podcast and has authored several books and coaches in both the high school and private sectors. Joel was a strength coach for 8 years at UC Berkeley, working with the Swim teams and post-graduate professional swimmers, as well as tennis, water polo, and track and field. A track coach of 17 years, Joel coached for the Diablo Valley Track and Field Club for 7 years and also has 6 years of experience coaching on the collegiate level, working at Wilmington College, and the University of Wisconsin, LaCrosse. He is currently coaching high jump at Milford High School. Joel has coached 4 national champions, multiple All-Americans, and NCAA record holders in track and field. In the realm of strength and conditioning, his programs have assisted 5 athletes to Olympic berths that produced 9 medals and a world record performance at Rio in 2016.
Jason guest today is Frans de Waal, a renowned primatologist who explored morality in apes, highlighting his contributions. He then shifts to a Wall Street Journal article about wealthy Americans renting homes instead of buying due to housing market changes. He emphases the financial advantages of renting high-end properties and investing in entry-level homes. He also touches on political risks and the benefits of flexibility in renting. He concludes by criticizing current immigration policies and mortgage approvals for undocumented individuals, stressing the need for political reform. Jason then welcomes Frans as they discuss the differences between chimpanzees and gorillas in terms of emotions, emotions, and gender ideologies. Frans shares his experience working with chimpanzees and their closest relatives, gorillas. They emphasize the importance of accepting that animals have emotions and feelings and that they should be treated like humans. They also explore the similarities and differences between humans and chimpanzees, such as social relationships, intellectual differences, and ability to communicate with each other. They also mention that chimpanzees have a sense of humor just like humans do. #Primatology #AnimalBehavior #FransdeWaal #HumanEvolution #GenderIdeologies #Psychology #PrimateResearch #SocialDynamics #EmotionsInAnimals #EvolutionaryPsychology #AnimalEmotions #BehavioralScience #PrimateStudies #Anthropology #HumanAnimalConnection Key Takeaways: Jason's editorial 3:20 Millionaires renting instead and the RTV ratio 7:09 Trump to ban mortgages for undocumented migrants 9:08 Kamala and Willie Brown 9:58 Upwards of 5,000 loans to 'undocumented people' 10:31 There is no such things as 'left' or 'right' anymore Join us! https://www.empoweredinvestor.com/ Frans de Waal interview 12:00 Frans' broad body of work 13:51 The Alpha Male ideal 15:35 Empathy in animals 16:43 Emotions and industrial treatment of animals 18:21 Exhibiting humor in animals 19:14 "Our inner ape"- Abstract thought and why are we who we are 20:48 Different: Gender through the eyes of a primatologist 24:06 Nature versus nurture 27:00 Agenda: gender reassignment and the variability in nature 29:34 Roughhousing and primates' play behavior 31:53 The leadership of males and females 34:34 The age factor 36:06 Violence and the absence of rape 37:35 Bonobo culture 39:04 The Monogamy Debate and hypergamy 42:05 Buy Frans' book https://www.facebook.com/franspublic/ Follow Jason on TWITTER, INSTAGRAM & LINKEDIN Twitter.com/JasonHartmanROI Instagram.com/jasonhartman1/ Linkedin.com/in/jasonhartmaninvestor/ Call our Investment Counselors at: 1-800-HARTMAN (US) or visit: https://www.jasonhartman.com/ Free Class: Easily get up to $250,000 in funding for real estate, business or anything else: http://JasonHartman.com/Fund CYA Protect Your Assets, Save Taxes & Estate Planning: http://JasonHartman.com/Protect Get wholesale real estate deals for investment or build a great business – Free Course: https://www.jasonhartman.com/deals Special Offer from Ron LeGrand: https://JasonHartman.com/Ron Free Mini-Book on Pandemic Investing: https://www.PandemicInvesting.com
If you like outlines, you're going to LOVE this week's synopsis! Navigating life with oblivious kids? You'll need the patience of a saint and a sense of humor the size of Texas. Roughhousing: where childhood fun meets a near-certain trip to the ER. Gold mining: a high-stakes game of “Will I strike it rich or just strike out?” TV shows: where even the simplest task turns into a life-or-death struggle, because who needs realism? Reality TV: more about dramatic glances and less about actually doing the thing they’re supposed to be doing. Society’s greatest hits: pretending you’ll keep in touch, and convincing yourself that all babies are adorable. Asking real questions: it’s rude until it’s not, and suddenly, you’re deep in conversation about life’s big mysteries. Social interactions could use a lot less small talk and a lot more “Let’s be real for once.”
If you like outlines, you're going to LOVE this week's synopsis! Navigating life with oblivious kids? You'll need the patience of a saint and a sense of humor the size of Texas. Roughhousing: where childhood fun meets a near-certain trip to the ER. Gold mining: a high-stakes game of “Will I strike it rich or just strike out?” TV shows: where even the simplest task turns into a life-or-death struggle, because who needs realism? Reality TV: more about dramatic glances and less about actually doing the thing they’re supposed to be doing. Society’s greatest hits: pretending you’ll keep in touch, and convincing yourself that all babies are adorable. Asking real questions: it’s rude until it’s not, and suddenly, you’re deep in conversation about life’s big mysteries. Social interactions could use a lot less small talk and a lot more “Let’s be real for once.”
If you like outlines, you're going to LOVE this week's synopsis! Navigating life with oblivious kids? You'll need the patience of a saint and a sense of humor the size of Texas. Roughhousing: where childhood fun meets a near-certain trip to the ER. Gold mining: a high-stakes game of “Will I strike it rich or just strike out?” TV shows: where even the simplest task turns into a life-or-death struggle, because who needs realism? Reality TV: more about dramatic glances and less about actually doing the thing they’re supposed to be doing. Society’s greatest hits: pretending you’ll keep in touch, and convincing yourself that all babies are adorable. Asking real questions: it’s rude until it’s not, and suddenly, you’re deep in conversation about life’s big mysteries. Social interactions could use a lot less small talk and a lot more “Let’s be real for once.”
If you like outlines, you're going to LOVE this week's synopsis! Navigating life with oblivious kids? You'll need the patience of a saint and a sense of humor the size of Texas. Roughhousing: where childhood fun meets a near-certain trip to the ER. Gold mining: a high-stakes game of “Will I strike it rich or just strike out?” TV shows: where even the simplest task turns into a life-or-death struggle, because who needs realism? Reality TV: more about dramatic glances and less about actually doing the thing they’re supposed to be doing. Society’s greatest hits: pretending you’ll keep in touch, and convincing yourself that all babies are adorable. Asking real questions: it’s rude until it’s not, and suddenly, you’re deep in conversation about life’s big mysteries. Social interactions could use a lot less small talk and a lot more “Let’s be real for once.”
Resident Human Potential & Parenting Expert, Nikki Bush on how to turn roughhousing and wrestling into a positive experience with your kids can transform powerlessness into confidence and isolation into human connection.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Resident Human Potential & Parenting Expert, Nikki Bush on how to turn roughhousing and wrestling into a positive experience with your kids can transform powerlessness into confidence and isolation into human connection.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this powerful episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher sits down with Mark Craven, bestselling author of Dads, Kiss Your Sons. Mark's journey into fatherhood and his personal transformation story will inspire and challenge you to rethink what it means to be a man in today's world. Mark shares profound insights on the importance of showing up for those who need you, even when you don't feel like it, and the true essence of masculinity beyond biological definitions. Discover how embracing vulnerability and authenticity can lead to personal growth and deeper connections with your loved ones. You'll also hear Mark's touching nightly affirmations to his son, Kai, a testament to his commitment to fostering love, security, and confidence in his family. Whether you're a new dad, about to be a dad, or simply seeking wisdom on living a purpose-driven life, this episode is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt stories that resonate. Tune in to explore: The transformative power of fatherhood Practical steps to becoming a more authentic man How to navigate and appreciate differing views on gender and identity The importance of resilience and showing up when it matters most Don't miss this enlightening conversation that blends humor, honesty, and profound life lessons. Listen now and start your journey toward a more fulfilling and authentic life. More From Mark Craven: Dads, Kiss Your Sons: https://www.amazon.com/Dads-Kiss-Your-Sons-Craven-ebook/dp/B0BXQ35H6N Website: https://www.successupahead.com/ In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher is joined by Mark Craven, author of 'Dads Kiss Your Sons.' Mark shares his unique journey to fatherhood, including the challenges he faced growing up without a father and learning at age 25 that he was biracial. Mark discusses overcoming fears as a new dad, the importance of positive affirmations and physical affection, and his experiences with mental health. Mark also offers valuable advice on handling divorce and custody battles from his own recent experiences. Tune in for an insightful conversation on resilience, love, and personal growth. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to Mark Craven's Journey 00:50 Supporting Manlihood ManCast 01:59 Introducing Mark Craven 02:55 Mark's Fear of Fatherhood 05:23 The Reality of Becoming a Dad 13:04 Mark's Childhood and Family Background 14:20 Discovering His Real Father 18:13 Mental Health and Parenting 21:41 Political Views and Mental Health Advocacy 28:04 Writing 'Dad's Kiss Your Sons' 31:47 Navigating Uncomfortable Conversations 32:26 The Importance of Physical Affection 32:58 Science Behind Physical Touch 35:13 Balancing Affection and Boundaries 36:58 Roughhousing and Parenting 37:57 Coping with Divorce and Fatherhood 39:52 Self-Representation in Court 42:35 Therapy and Emotional Health 47:26 Defining Manhood 52:30 Affirmations and Self-Love 54:07 Final Thoughts and Advice 55:40 Closing Remarks and Resources --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manlihood/message
Today's podcast features Rafe Kelley, owner of Evolve Move Play. Rafe has studied and taught a multitude of movement practices spanning gymnastics, parkour, martial arts, weightlifting, and more for over 20 years. His passion is to help people build the physical practice that will help make them the strongest, most adaptable, and most resilient version of themselves in movement and life. Rafe has had a profound impact on my coaching and training philosophy and has helped me expand my views on the totality of the bio-psycho-social model of movement and human performance. Much of modern training is overly prescriptive, reliant on drills, and overemphasizes winning. This leads to practices with a reduced learning potential, a downplay of creativity, and a lowered ceiling of movement and skill potential. It also leads to less engaging practices in general. In today's episode, Rafe delves into his unique methods and teachings that foster creative and adaptable athletic movement. He explores the interplay of constraints and play in sport and skill training, underscores the significance of creativity and improvisation in movement (and how to cultivate it), and shares insights on the role of joy in movement. Rafe also touches upon collaborative movement training, rough-housing, dance, and movement improvisation, and how these elements can shape better learners and movers in their respective sports or movement practices. By gaining a deeper understanding of play, exploration, and constraints, we can unlock the full potential of human performance. Today's episode is brought to you by TeamBuildr, the Plyomat, and LILA Exogen. Use the code “justfly25” for 25% off of any Lila Exogen wearable resistance training, including the popular Exogen Calf Sleeves. For this offer head to Lilateam.com TeamBuildr is an online software for coaches and trainers. Use the code “JUSTFLY” for a free 30 day trial of the TeamBuildr software at https://teambuildr.com. The Plyomat is a functional, intuitive, and affordable contact mat for jump and plyometric training and testing. Check out the Plyomat at www.plyomat.net View more podcast episodes at the podcast homepage. Main Points 2:30- The balance between constraints and free play in coaching, as well as children's skill development 15:30- Training based off of “following one's joy”, versus more set skill rehearsal 25:30- Creativity and improvisation in human movement and sport performance 32:30- Athleticism, dance, and individual dancing versus dancing with others, in context of sport 41:00- Roughhousing and links to team sport movement and problem solving 48:00- Forms of play that are both done for winning, as well as learning, exploration and mutual growth 57:30- Scaling and continuums of effort in individual and team sports, for improved learning 1:07:00- The use of roughhousing, and contact improv oriented work, on facilitating play states, and opening up movement options in a donor sport format Rafe Kelley Quotes “Soccer works because there is a set of constraints; there are structures that allow the game to exist, but there are infinite degrees of freedom once the constraints are in place” “Usually I'll have 3 areas I'm working in, and then one core skill” “At the end of the session, I'll ask them “What was your rose, your bud and your thorn”. They get to reflect on what they want to hold going forward” “Sweet, we are playing tag. How do we add a little more speed demand to that tag. How do we play a version of tag that looks like this, and gives you the thing you are looking for?” “Creativity is the ability to create a solution to a movement problem, in a sport situation” “What made Barry Sanders special wasn't that he did set plays better than anybody else” “A gymnast doing a high bar routine, is actually adjusting constantly to try to achieve the goal; they are not doing the exact same thing… but that's far less ...
The Correlation of the withdrawal of dads and The Lack of masculinity In the US, divorce rates more than doubled from 2.2 per 1,000 in 1960 to over 5 per 1,000 in the 1980s. Marriages are decreasing Lack of dads and the increase of anxiety-ridden children Great Society - 1964 The government started taking the place of Fathers in the household and the marriage rates started to decrease in the 80's around 20 years for the new generation to start having kids. Dad's the Disciplinarian Dads the Mentor Dad baggage links https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322877#Is-anxiety-increasing-in-the-U.S.? For instance, a meta-analysis published in 2010 took data from studies that included over 77,000 young people; the scientists found generational increases in mental health issues in 1938–2007. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/marriage_rate_2018/marriage_rate_2018.htm Increase anxiety and depression Summary In this episode of The Relaxed Male, the host, Bryan Goodwin, discusses the crucial role that dads play in their children's mental well-being. He addresses the issue of dads being overlooked in the parenting process and the favoring of mothers in the court system. While recognizing the importance of moms, Brian emphasizes the need for dads to be actively present in their children's lives. Brian challenges common arguments against father involvement and highlights the benefits of having both parents actively participate in raising a child. He also delves into the historical context, discussing how social welfare programs have impacted marriage rates and subsequently led to a decline in mental health. The main speaker then shifts the focus to concerns about the mental well-being of younger generations, particularly millennials and Gen Z. They reference an article from Business Insider that raises alarm about Gen Zers bringing their parents to job interviews, suggesting a lack of independence and fortitude among this generation. Bryan argues that society lacks involved fathers, not just married men, but fathers who feel excluded or unwanted by women. They assert that this lack of father involvement contributes to the increase in mental health problems. While acknowledging that women can raise good kids without a dad, they emphasize the importance of having a father figure in a child's life. The roles of a father as a disciplinarian and provider of roughhousing play are highlighted as crucial for teaching restraint and discipline. Bryan criticizes the degradation of the role of dads in society, attributing it to the rise of toxic masculinity as a concept. They assert that toxic masculinity is not synonymous with masculinity itself but rather the absence of proper masculinity. The speaker believes that boys require male role models to learn what it truly means to be masculine. Addressing the issue of homelessness, Bryan argues that the absence of fathers in homes contributes to the problem. They suggest that living outside the city can be a more affordable option despite additional commuting costs. The speaker contends that homelessness has become comfortable for some individuals due to society's sympathies, emphasizing the need for discipline and mentorship from fathers. The importance of mentorship is further emphasized, as Bryan suggests that fathers should transition into becoming mentors for their children from the age of 13. Concern is expressed over the increasing number of girls identifying as boys and vice versa, with the speaker emphasizing the unique challenges faced by individuals of both genders. In the podcast, Bryan also discusses how kids are becoming more susceptible to manipulation and coercion, resulting in irreversible harm. They highlight the importance of waking up to these issues and taking action to protect children from the woke agenda. Taking funds away from schools is presented as an effective way to change teaching approaches, and the failed voucher program in Oklahoma is mentioned as an example. Bryan encourages dads to fight for their children and make sacrifices to be closer to them. They challenge the idea of being just an employee and suggest taking on bigger projects to generate income. The speaker offers a coaching package to help dads be better men and mentors for their children, with limited availability and a discounted price mentioned. The podcast concludes with Bryan providing contact information and encouraging listeners to reach out for assistance if needed. 00:00:00 The Importance of Dads for Kids' Mental Health 00:01:44 The Role of Dads and Moms in Raising Children 00:04:15 Dad's Role in Mentally Healthy Kids 00:11:35 Roughhousing and Disciplinarians: The Role of Fathers 00:13:20 The Decline of Fatherhood since the 1960s 00:14:47 Homelessness, Choices, and Mentorship 00:21:42 The Importance of Dads in Schools 00:23:42 Taking Control of Your Life and Being There for Your Kids 00:25:11 Mentoring Children for Success and Confidence
Today we return for another installment of our D&D campaign. Holden (Ditzmari) joins the team as the party arrives in Phandalin and meets with the NPCs that dwell there. Join the team as they confront the threat of the Redbrand Ruffians. Join us on our quest with twists at every turn. Recorded: 9/2/23 ___ Thanks for listening to today's episode! Come back again soon for more great CFNC content and check out whatever we are up to now at the link below! If you enjoyed today's episode, share it with a friend and rate us on Spotify and Apple Podcasts! Linktree: linktr.ee/cfncpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cfnc/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cfnc/support
In Episode 80, Sara and Kyle, LPCs, discuss the 9 benefits that come from roughhousing. We reference a book titled “The Art of Roughhousing” and discuss the importance of making this an integral part of parenting resilient children.
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In this episode, Lawrence Cohen joins me on the show to talk about how play and roughhousing can help you in your parenting. We talk about everything from why we need to be playful, to aggression, to calming our kids down, and incorporating more fun and play into our days. Lawrence J. Cohen, PhD, is a psychologist and the author of Playful Parenting and The Opposite of Worry. His newest book is Unplug and Play: The Illustrated Guide to Roughhousing with Your Kids, co-authored with Anthony Debenedet. We talk about: [5:50] How Lawrence got into this work, and about his new book [6:45] The importance of roughhousing [8:15] How Lawrence became a more playful parent [11:15] Advice for parents who shy away from roughhousing and play [19:20] Having ‘personal agency' [21:20] Building self-determination of risk [25:45] The Knot of Tension concept [28:50] Handing unsavory behavior when it comes to play [35:00] Responding to aggression with playfulness [41:10] When ‘play' turns aggressive [45:50] Tips for getting play to stop [49:35] What to do when your kid swears [54:20] Lawrence's advice to his younger parent self Resources mentioned in this episode: Free ‘How to Stop Yelling' Course: www.sarahrosensweet.com/yelling Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting The Opposite of Worry by Lawrence Cohen: https://amzn.to/3LFgyLI Playful Parenting: https://amzn.to/427erpu Unplug and Play by Lawrence Cohen: https://amzn.to/3AJzByl Connect with Lawrence Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Larrycohenplayfulparenting/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Larjack1 Website: www.playfulparenting.com Connect with Sarah Rosensweet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup Website: https://www.sarahrosensweet.com Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php
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How do you keep your very active kids safe when they constantly want to roughhouse with each other? Someone in our Facebook group asks: Boy moms… help! The fighting, the yelling, the running, hitting, jumping, climbing…I have a 4.5yo and a 3 yo… Any advice or tips? We separate them to different levels when it gets out of hand. Or we say any running needs to happen outside, but it's difficult to execute when I'm home alone (which is often). How do you all handle it? Margaret, who has two boys of her own who love roughhousing, explains the house rules around the "sport" that work for her family. There are actually a lot of benefits to letting kids roughhouse with each other once there are certain safety parameters in place. It gives kids the joy of physical touch, the opportunity to explore and set boundaries, and the benefit (for you!) of tiring them out! You may find that MORE, not less, roughhousing is just the ticket for your active kids! Here are links to the resources Margaret references: Jessica Wozinsky Fleming for The Washington Post: "Why roughhousing is good for kids, and how to keep it safe" Big Body Play by Frances M. Carlson The Art of Roughhousing: Good Old-Fashioned Horseplay and Why Every Kid Needs It by Anthony T. DeBenedet and Lawrence J. Cohen Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction by Catherine Pearlman Special thanks to our sponsor, Pampers: For trusted protection, choose Pampers, the #1 Pediatrician Recommended Brand. Download the Pampers Club App today to start earning free diapers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this podcast, Dr. Lawrence Cohen, psychologist, author, and consultant, speaks to the amazing benefits of roughhousing on children's physcial, psychological, and emotional development. Dr. Cohen explores how rough-and-tumble play can nurture close connections, solve behavior problems, boost confidence, and grow the brain in unimaginable ways. To learn more about the art of roughhousing, purchase Dr. Cohen's book here Want to learn more from Dr. Cohen? We have an incredible recorded workshop called "Playful Parenting" based on his best-selling book. Have you ever stepped back to watch what really goes on when your children play? In his course Dr. Cohen will help you understand that play is children's way of exploring the world, communicating deep feelings, getting close to those they care about, working through stressful situations, and simply blowing off steam. That's why “playful parenting” is so important and so successful in building strong, close bonds between parents and children. Use code PLAYFUL30 to take 30% OFF https://instituteofchildpsychology.com/product/the-principles-of-playful-parenting/ You can also watch this workshop as part of our membership -- podcast listeners can take 40% OFF their annual membership (or $19.99/m). Get your 7-Day Free Trial today!
Sign up for the email list to get the behind-the-scenes view. https://www.subscribepage.com/kcmo Want to try a coaching call-- sign up for a free 30-minute call: https://calendly.com/christythomas/exploratory-call-free GOOD ENOUGH MOM SOCIETY (christythomascoaching.com) You are exactly the right mom for your kids. I am so glad to know you. 328. Rough Housing is Good! Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., is the author of Playful Parenting, an award-winning book that has been translated into 18 languages. He is also the author of The Opposite of Worry, which addresses the anxieties and fears of children (and parents). Larry is also the co-author of two books on children's social development: Best Friends Worst Enemies and Mom They're Teasing Me. His most recent book, co-authored with Anthony DeBenedet, is Unplug and Play: The Ultimate Illustrated Guide to Roughhousing with Your Kids. Playfulparenting.com Email Larry@playfulparenting.com to get the newsletter. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/playful-parenting Self-Care: Larry does yoga and chi-gong. His favorite 10-second self-care is called pat the baby. Pretend you have a baby on your shoulder and pat the fussy baby. Play: Rough House! Sit with your family in a circle, with all the feet towards each other. Socks on, no shoes. 1-2-3- go. Your goal is to keep the socks on your feet, get everyone else's socks off, and have fun! Find me on Instagram: Happiest Mom You Know (@everyday_runner_christy) • Instagram photos and videos Don't forget to leave a rating or review. Email me Play4life.Christy@gmail.com
In Religion of Sports' latest podcast series, Host Iggy Monda takes listeners inside America's locker rooms and field houses to explore hazing in high school sports today. Through deeply personal stories of kids who have hazed, parents who have fought for accountability, coaches who are scared of what their players do when they're not looking, and people who have hazed others, he ultimately asks why hazing is so ingrained in American culture – and what it says about us. Find and follow ROS Presents: Roughhousing for the full series.
In Religion of Sports' latest podcast series, Host Iggy Monda takes listeners inside America's locker rooms and field houses to explore hazing in high school sports today. Through deeply personal stories of kids who have hazed, parents who have fought for accountability, coaches who are scared of what their players do when they're not looking, and people who have hazed others, he ultimately asks why hazing is so ingrained in American culture – and what it says about us. Follow ROS Presents: Roughhousing for the full series. CONTENT WARNING: episode contains descriptions of violence and violent ideation.
In Religion of Sports' latest podcast series, Host Iggy Monda takes listeners inside America's locker rooms and field houses to explore hazing in high school sports today. Through deeply personal stories of kids who have hazed, parents who have fought for accountability, coaches who are scared of what their players do when they're not looking, and people who have hazed others, he ultimately asks why hazing is so ingrained in American culture – and what it says about us. Find and follow ROS Presents: Roughhousing for the full series.
Having trouble with your kids fighting during playtime? In today's episode, Michelle answers questions from one of her followers and gives us all tips for dealing with that one child who has gone offline and how she uses special time and roughhousing to get them back online again. Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It's a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you. Enjoy today's episode? Please share it with a friend or leave a rating and a review. Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling. Are you a coach, or an online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast at no extra cost to you. Follow Peace and Parenting: YouTube: Peace and Parenting Instagram: @peaceandparenting Facebook: @peaceandparentingla LinkedIn: @Michelle Kenney M.Ed Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music
Why do boys....? Bringing up boys brings up all kinds of questions! Jen & Janet have answers. Photo by Pixabay Tamara asks: Why do boys communicate through physical touch/aggression and use sarcasm for communication rather than regular conversation? Katrina worries that her son may be alienating himself from his friends -- and missing out on social opportunities -- because he's so dedicated to his sport. She says: I'm afraid he's distancing himself from his friends and will one day find himself without them. How do I bring it up without seeming like a nag?? Elena wants help answering her son's question: My older son complained that, “all the girls wear ‘girl power' shirts… why don't they have ‘boy power'-type shirts?” and says: My son wants to feel powerful and able to say it without being considered a pompous ass. But… how? Are there any “boy power” slogans and tees that don't undermine others or make him look like our family doesn't respect the accomplishments of all types of people?? Jessy asks: Will raising a strong-willed boy be too challenging for elder and sick parents to handle when he reaches teenage age? In this episode, Jen & Janet discuss: Boy communication Sarcasm vs. disrespect Roughhousing & aggression Whether parents should push boys to socialize Helping boys navigate girl power Raising strong-willed boys Parenting when you're not physically or emotionally well Intergenerational friendships Asking for help Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: Teacher Tom Talks About Boys, Emotion, & Play -- ON BOYS episode (mentioned at 14:37) The Art of Roughhousing (w Dr. Lawrence Cohen) -- ON BOYS episode (mentioned at 15:48) Boys Get Eating Disorders Too -- ON BOYS episode featuring Oona Hanson (mentioned at 20:56) Helping Boys Develop Healthy Body Image -- ON BOYS episode Gender Equality, Boys, & Men -- ON BOYS episode featuring Richard V. Reeves (mentioned at 25:34) This Boy Can Tshirts -- super awesome shirts that'll make boys feel great! My Boy Can with Sassy Harvey -- ON BOYS podcast (mentioned at 30:03) Parenting Through Health Challenges -- ON BOYS podcast featuring Jen Singer (mentioned at 33:31) Need help with your boys? Subscribe to Jen's newsletter, Building Boys Bulletin Join Janet Allison's real-time, monthly group coaching program, Decoding Your Boy
It's rivalry week! Okay, not THE rivalry week, but we have a true rivalry game on the schedule! Justin and Jared give you the best BYU-Utah State preview known to man, then continue on to a College Football Week 5 Preview, including their Tipsy Ten Picks of the week! Enjoy!
In this coaching call with Seodhna, we talk about the challenges that have popped up with her intense, sensitive, and strong-willed son. Seodhna is the mom of 3 boys- ages 3, 6, and 8. She asked me for help with her oldest child, who often is quite challenging and demanding of her and her family. We spoke on three separate occasions over the course of a year as she went through the process of getting a diagnosis for her son. We also came up with strategies to help them both during those very intense moments. We go into: [4:20] What it means to be ‘sensory seeking' [7:55] Exercises Seodhna does with Ronan thanks to occupational therapy [15:30] Introducing laughter and roughhousing to help unpack a full emotional backpack [25:45] ‘Masking' as it relates to autism [37:20] Check in #2: How the initial strategies and recommendations worked for Ronan [40:55] Practicing co-regulation [44:50] Planning for a professional assessment of Ronan [48:30] Check in #3: Life post-assessment and how their family is doing now [52:35] The power in having answers Resources mentioned in this episode Roughhousing ideas Stop Yelling At Your Kids Course Kristy Forbes resources Petey the Rescue Dog Episode 27: Understanding Autism with Kristy Forbes Kristy's course about PDA Coke bottle analogy Connect with Sarah Rosensweet On Instagram On Facebook https://www.sarahrosensweet.com Book a short consult or coaching session call
Raising boys brings up all kinds of questions! Kristen asks: Is it normal for a 9-10 year old boy to get into physical altercations with friends at every play date? Juliann asks for help figuring out how to best support a son who is "generally non-ambitious" when he finally identifies and pursues an ambition. She asks: How can I tell when I'm giving enough support without smothering or causing learned helplessness? Leslie finds herself in "constant battles" with her 11-year-old son. An example: If I ask him nicely to put his shoes away (example: Hey bud, will you please put your shoes up?) he'll take his shoes to his room and throw on the floor. I'll tell him nicely to put them up in his closet (where they've gone since he was 5), and he'll throw a huge fit about it. Anything that takes time away from him doing what he wants it's a battle. Some days are better than others, but this is literally every day since he was about 6. Brenda wonders: How to graciously acknowledge the almost daily calls and emails from school regarding behavior. And then discuss with my 6th grader. And not feel like a failure on the process. Jennifer wants to know: How do you help them stop complaining about EVERYTHING??? Sarah, a mom of three boys, wants to know how to handle bathroom messes: I've told them SO many times - in different tones- to just clean it up, to lift the seat, to sit down instead…etc. My question is: what can I do to encourage them to care about this and to take ownership to make choices to prevent it and in the case of accidental drips they clean it up themselves?! Petra, a mom in the middle of separating from her son's father, has noticed that... our son is not only being more and more alike his father. But he speaks often to me as his father, as if he wanted to speak for him, to help him to make me down. ...and wonders how to respond. In this episode, Jen & Janet: Playdates & roughhousing Boy friendships The fine learn between "helping" and "smothering" Picking & choosing your battles Feeling like a failure Managing emotions Communicating & collaborating with teachers Trusting our boys Teaching (& modeling) gratitude Bathroom messes Parenting sons through divorce & separation Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: The Art of Roughhousing (w Dr. Lawrence Cohen) -- ON BOYS episode Managing Emotions -- ON BOYS episode Homework and Boys -- ON BOYS episode Emails & Phone Calls from Teachers -- ON BOYS episode Why You Need to Stop Focusing on Your Boys' Bickering - BuildingBoys post Parenting Boys thru Divorce -- ON BOYS episode Need help with your boys? Subscribe to Jen's newsletter, Building Boys Bulletin Opt-in at Boys Alive! for your free guide: Boys & Big Emotions with Janet
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How many of these myths & misconceptions about boys have you heard? How many do you believe? "Boys are easier than girls." "Boys are less emotional than girls." "Boys leave their families when they grow up." "With boys, you don't have to fight over clothing choices." "There's less to worry about with a son than a daughter when they're teenagers and dating." "Boy mom" & writer Jessica Wozinsky Fleming, a mom of 4 sons (ages 7, 5, 3 & 3) has heard all of these before. (As has Jen, our resident "boy mom!") "When people found out that our last pregnancy was two boys, we heard a lot of comments like, 'oh, should I congratulations or I'm sorry?' and 'Oh! You'll have to keep going!'" Jessica says. "And these comments were often in front of my other boys, who were old enough to understand what's being asked." Such comments are difficult to explain to young boys - who may assume that those statements imply girls are more desirable than boys -- and can bring up complicated feelings of sadness in parents who initially dreamed of parenting boys and girls. Parenting boys has taught Jessica that many things people believe about boys simply aren't true. (Or, at least, not true for all boys.) "So many people have told me that boys are less emotional," she says. "But there are a lot of big emotions at my house!" Jessica Fleming & Jen (not Janet!) In this episode, Jen & Jessica discuss: Myths & misconceptions about boys Public reactions to all-boy families Helping boys recognize myths & misconceptions about boys Teaching boys about consent & talking about sexual violence Making space for boys Roughhousing Potty training boys Adapting your parenting to your kids' individual personalities Brother relationships How gender stereotypes still limit boys Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: jessica-fleming.com -- Jessica's website All Boys? -- classic Building Boys post To Raise a Boy (w Emma Brown) -- ON BOYS episode (mentioned around 16:00) Why Roughhousing is Good for Kids, & How to Keep It Safe -- Jessica's Washington Post article The Art of Roughhousing (w Dr. Lawrence Cohen) -- ON BOYS podcast Need help with your boys? Subscribe to Jen's newsletter, Building Boys Bulletin Opt-in at Boys Alive! for your free guide: Boys & Big Emotions with Janet Sponsor Spotlight: Sambucol Use the BOYS15 discount code to SAVE 15% off your next order of $9.99 or more
In this episode, Bryan and Kristen talk about how although their home is not the best place to host gatherings for adults, because of all the kid's decorations and lack of furniture, they believe it is a great place to host gatherings for young ones. Life Level 1 is a general topic podcast about life from the humorous perspective of Bryan and his broad, Kristen. Bryan has a background in video game development and Kristen has a background in life. The thoughts and opinions expressed on this podcast are those of the individual contributors alone and are not a reflection of their employers.
Kate's 8 and 7 yr old boys love to roughhouse and tease their little sister—common, ordinary kid behaviors that can provoke real fears and even panic in the most progressive of parents. Fear and projections of her own past play into how Kate mitigates this natural kid behavior. Bonnie shows how storytelling, natural consequences and letting kids come up with the answers are far more effective than lecturing or punishing when managing potentially dangerous behaviors.Bonnie Harris, MS.Ed., director of Connective Parenting, 30+ years of coaching, teaching, and writing for parents. https://linktr.ee/bonnieharrisparentingWebsite: bonnieharris.com Email: bh@bonnieharris.comProduced, mixed, and scored by Echo Finch www.echofinch.com
If you could do something simple to improve your child's mental and physical health, you would do it right? Well, it turns out that Anna has been telling her husband to not do this one simple thing for years!
Do you find that all too often you're having to bark orders to get things done? What if there was a better, more playful way to get your kids to cooperate? Today, I talk with Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen, psychologist and author of Playful Parenting and The Opposite of Worry, about the importance of play in childhood and how we can tap into our child's innate desire to play to build connection. *New!* Watch video clips from this episode on the Mindful Mama Youtube channel! If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to Apple Podcasts or Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! 3 Takeaways: Be honest about your emotions with the volume turned down. After feeling big emotions, share with your child what you did to work through them. Children need connection and confidence, and they need to know they have a safe home base. Lawrence J. Cohen, PhD is a psychologist and author. His books Playful Parenting and The Opposite of Worry have been translated into 18 languages. He is also the co-author of The Art of Roughhousing, Best Friends Worst Enemies, and Mom They're Teasing Me. Get Hunter's book, Raising Good Humans now! Click here to order and get book bonuses! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.
On this episode I'm joined by Ibrahim Khalif and we discuss Astroworld As well as Kyle Rittenhouse trial and other things. In the intro I discuss the NBA and NFL season. As well as the BMF series breakout star.
Try to transport yourself back to the months before you became a dad. What did the word "fatherhood" mean to you? Prior to kids, your definition may have been colored by your relationship with your own father. Would your current definition of "fatherhood" be different? Modern Dadhood welcomes Thyge Trimble, father of two, and Editor in Chief of Fatherly, to chat about his team's new book, aptly titled "Fatherhood." The book has something for everyone—whether you're a dad-to-be or a seasoned professional. Also, things get dark in a new installment of "Confessions."Modern Dadhood Episode 56 opens with reflections on Marc and Adam's preparedness to become fathers, which includes far more than learning how to change a diaper or do a proper swaddle. The guys discuss relationships with their spouses, family values, and pushing forward when times get tough. The conversation is inspired by a new book from the editors of Fatherly entitled "Fatherhood: A Comprehensive Guide to Birth, Budgeting, Finding Flow, and Becoming a Happy Parent." Tyghe Trimble, a New York City-based dad of two and Editor in Chief of Fatherly, joins the conversation to chat about some of the topics in the book and why it's a valuable read for ALL dads. Topics include:• What exactly an "Editor in Chief" does• Why (and when) communication with your spouse can be hard• The value of shared values• The unique structure of the book "Fatherhood"• A staggering statistic around new fathers' social lives• The profound importance and many benefits of roughhousingThe guys get their "Confessions" on... and Marc takes things to a dark and hilarious place. LINKS:FatherlyFatherhood (excerpts from the book)Fatherhood (the book at Powell'sFatherhood (the book) on AmazonModern Dadhood Tees and DadhoodiesRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal
Marina & Brian debunk the 5 most common things that dog owners are told cause aggression: Playing Tug, Roughhousing, Staring At, E-Collars, and Other Dogs. Take a listen and found out why these things DO NOT cause aggression, what their actual purpose is, and how to get the most benefit from them.
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Like us, Teacher Tom is concerned about how we raise our boys. "In our culture, we have a society where men are lonely, men have higher suicide rates and men are more prone to violence, and sexual abuse. And I don't think that's in the nature of men. I think it's somehow in the nature of how we're raising men," says Tom Hobson, aka "Teacher Tom," a preschool teacher at Woodland Park Cooperative Schools. "A big piece of it -- and huge piece of it -- is around emotions." The only negative emotion males are allowed in society, he says, is anger. Boys as young as 4 and 5 begin walling off their emotions. "We treat boys and girls differently, and we treat their emotions differently," Tom says. "We need to let them know that whatever they feel, it's OK to feel that." Of course, giving kids time and space to experience their emotions isn't always easy when you're being pulled in a thousand different directions. Whenever possible, though, Tom suggests prioritizing the people who need support with their emotions. Allowing wrestling and roughhousing can also help boys manage their emotions and friendships. "Wrestling can be an act of love between boys," Tom says, noting that many adults (especially women) misunderstand boys' motives and stop what they view as aggression. "It you watch two boys wrestling, most of the time, they are paying such close attention to each other, to one another's bodies and their facial expressions. Half the time, they're looking into each other's eyes as they're wrestling, and it is a beautiful thing to see." In this episode, Jen, Janet & Tom discuss: Males in early childhood education The influence of gender expectations on emotional development Helping boys deal with emotions Societal changes that have made it difficult for families to thrive ("We've made parenting unnecessarily difficult," Tom says.) The role of bickering in boys' development Creating a "yes space" in your house Boys' friendships What female teachers & parents misunderstand about boys, wrestling & roughhousing Agreements vs rules Why you have to give boys time to respond Teaching boys consent Encouraging curiosity, wonder & questioning Loose parts play Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: Teacher Tom -- Tom's blog Teacher Tom's Facebook page It "Works" Every Time -- Tom's 2019 blog post about creating space to finish a cry (mentioned at 13:47) Teacher Tom's Play Summit 2021 -- FREE online summit, June 20-25 (mentioned at 50:17) The Art of Roughhousing (w Dr. Lawrence Cohen) -- ON BOYS episode Why Boys Do What They Do - classic Building Boys blog post, mentioned at 43:46 Sponsor Spotlight: Hiya Health HEALTHY children's vitamins — no sugar or “gummy junk” included! Made from a blend of 12 farm-fresh fruits & veggies, Hiya Health vitamins are the easy way to get your boys the nutrition they need. Use discount code ONBOYS at checkout to save 50%.
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Kids often struggle to keep their hands to themselves– and this can be especially true for boys, who love to punch, tackle, and poke at anyone who gets near them. This week Emily asks: As a mom of boys, I am finding that my five-year-old son is very handsy with his friends and boy cousins. It's like my younger son and other boys are magnets that cannot keep their hands off each other. It's not aggressive, it's just constant touching, tickling, purposely running into each other, etc. I am not sure how to curb it,or if it's even possible. And even if I get my son to break the habit, how would I keep other kids from putting their hands all over him? It's not that I am any more of a germaphobe than anyone else, I just feel like it's a recipe for disaster... and when he goes to school in the fall ,I don't want him to be off task and missing directions. Is there anything I can do, or is this just a boy thing? Watch any nature show with a group of young lions and you'll see the cubs wrestling, biting, and tussling with each other (often to the non-delight of their mama). The same holds true for our own kids. Roughhousing and other forms of physical contact serve many purposes, helping youngsters find and test boundaries, express anxieties, manage aggression. So Margaret is extremely pro-touching among kids as long as a few simple guidelines are followed: All physical contact and especially roughhousing should be among "equals" - no big kids whaling on little kids, and no little kids pawing at uninterested bigs. Keep an eye on consent - make sure that everyone involved in the physicality is comfortable with it. Spaces and places- wrestling, roughhousing, and physical play is appropriate in the yard but not in the living room. Kids tend to get less physical as they get older and keeping "touch-free" spaces (this will probably happen naturally at school) is a great way to help kids start to gain control over their physicality. By the way: when it comes to germs, once Covid is taken out of the equation, there's not too much to worry about. While Covid is still a threat physical distancing should be maintained– but post-Covid, check out this article for a reality check on germs. In this episode Margaret also cites this article by Anne-Marie Gambelin for Motherly: Relax, Mama- roughhousing is good for your kids–really Special thanks to our "Question of the Week" sponsor: Jane.com is a boutique marketplace featuring the latest in women’s fashion, accessories, home decor, children’s clothing, and more. You will not believe the prices! Visit jane.com/laughing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode, Tim talks with friend, Matt Myers about the need and value of play for our physical, mental and emotional health. This is a thought-provoking conversation about returning to the ways of a child. To learn more about Matt and the references he mentions, look here: "Play. Full. E-book" https://books.apple.com/us/book/play-full/id1366453917 Nerdfitness.com Article on Exercising with Kids to make it more playful: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/how-to-exercise-with-your-kids-work-out-as-a-family/ Play by Stuart Brown https://www.amazon.com/Play-Shapes-Brain-Imagination-Invigorates/dp/1583333789/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=play+by+stuart+brown&qid=1614268815&s=books&sr=1-1 The Art of Roughhousing by Anthony T DeBenedet https://www.amazon.com/Art-Roughhousing-Old-Fashioned-Horseplay-Every/dp/1594744874/ref=sr_1_1?crid=ANEH7WNVLFKY&dchild=1&keywords=art+of+roughhousing&qid=1614268802&s=books&sprefix=art+of+rough%2Cstripbooks%2C153&sr=1-1 Exuberant Animal Playbook by Frank Forencich https://www.amazon.com/dp/0972335897?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860 Playing with Movement by Todd Hargrove https://www.amazon.com/Playing-Movement-Dimensions-Physical-Performance/dp/0578502615/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=playing+with+movement&qid=1614268789&s=books&sr=1-1 Evolve Move Play Website and Podcast https://www.evolvemoveplay.com/ Movement Snacks Instagram Account https://www.instagram.com/movementsnacks/ Mary Beth Gangemi Instagram Account https://www.instagram.com/marybethgangemi/ Get Wildly Fit Instagram Account https://www.instagram.com/getwildlyfit/ BeMonkeyFit Instagram Account https://www.instagram.com/bemonkeyfit/ Playformance Instagram Account https://www.instagram.com/playformance/ Moving.Creatures Instagram Account https://www.instagram.com/moving.creatures/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/original-strength/support
Lieutenant Dave Siev, New York City Police Department, has over twenty years of law enforcement experience. In addition to his policing, he is the president of the Fighting Finest Boxing Team which is an organization where cops box and raise money for charity. Dave Siev is the author of Operation: Blue Christmas and i-boxer (Volume 1). According to the book description of Operation: Blue Christmas, “When you become a police officer they tell you to expect the unexpected. But how to know what the unexpected is? In a precinct in Brooklyn , when a turn of events bring a new twist to an old Christmas concept, the unexpected happens. A gang of cops have a good handle on what's right and wrong-but seem to bend the rules on everything else.... Police work, robberies, the carrying of large bags-all get thrown together into the mix of the Blue Christmas. Roughhousing and dollar-taking are all par for the course. But you've got to be careful, because the real secret of Blue Christmas is that these tough cops just might steal your heart!” Teddy Atlas, Boxing Trainer of Champions, ESPN Boxing Analyst said of i-boxer (Volume 1), “In the boxing world it is often said if you talk the talk, then you need to walk the walk. Well in a new book called “i-boxer, the internet boxer”, you can hear talk about the “sweet science” but now you can also see just how some of the top fighters have walked the walk. You might just want to put your gloves on as you ‘enter the ring’ in this new experience of reading and learning.” --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/otcpod1/support
Adam and Gareth discuss what you're simply not allowed to do in WWE...Reaching into the crowd!Certain terminology!Streaming!Roughhousing the boss...sometimes!Having pets backstage?!ENJOY!Follow us on Twitter:@AdamWilbourn@GMorgan04@WhatCultureWWEFor more awesome content, check out: whatculture.com/wwe See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
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What words come to mind when you hear the phrase "teenage boys"? Messy? Stinky? Frustrating? Lazy? Moody? Dangerous? Teen boys can be all of those things. (So can teen girls!) But there's also a lot more beneath the surface, and if we're to effectively parent and educate our teen boys, we have to go deep. We need to remind ourselves -- and each other -- that teenage boys are complex human beings who deserve our respect and support. "Inside every teenage boy is a 4-year-old who is confused about life and desperate to know that you will love him unconditionally -- especially when he cannot love himself," says Maggie Dent, Australia's "boy champion" and author of From Boys to Men: Guiding Our Teen Boys to Grow Into Happy, Healthy Men. Though our first instinct is often to come down hard on our boys when they fail to follow our rules or meet expectations, Maggie suggests trying kindness instead. Most boys feel terrible when they mess up, whether they show us that or not; our lectures and punishments further add to their self-loathing -- and cause them to distrust our love for them. Going against the grain and offering your son kindness and compassion in lieu of punishment may strengthen your connection and help your son feel safe enough to share what's really going on. "We don't think teenage boys are sensitive, but they are," Maggie reminds us. "What we see on the outside is not necessarily what's going on inside." In this episode, Jen, Janet & Maggie discuss: Why teenage boys seem so confused, scattered and disorganized Teen boys' fear and anxiety How shame shapes (& limits) boys Kindness vs. harsh discipline How to get teenage boys to listen How roughhousing teaches boundaries Helping boys connect during the pandemic Why you don't necessarily need to worry if your son lose his temper while gaming online with friends Surrounding boys with stories of good men Talking to boys about tough stuff Moms' role in boys' lives Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: maggiedent.com — Maggie’s website. Jam-packed with resources! From Boys to Men: Guiding Our Teen Boys to Grow Into Happy, Healthy Men -- Maggie's latest book https://www.youtube.com/user/MaggieDentAuthor -- Maggie's YouTube channel Parental as Anything - Maggie's podcast Maggie Dent on Mothering Our Boys (Part 1) -- ON BOYS episode 139 Maggie Dent on Mothering Our Boys (Part 2) -- ON BOYS episode 140 7 Tips for Parenting Teenage Boys: "Nagging Them is Like Shouting Into a Void" -- Maggie's Guardian article (mentioned at 7:20) The Decline of Play -- TED talk by Peter Gray, who Maggie mentions at 9:20 The Art of Roughhousing (w Dr. Lawrence Cohen) -- ON BOYS episode Orange Sky Australia-- organization providing free showers and laundry for the homeless; founded by 2 teen boys (mentioned by Maggie at 16:21) A Fiver for a Farmer - charity started by a young boy from Sydney that has raised over $1.6m for Australian farmers since 2018 (mentioned by Maggie at 17:00) STAY CONNECTED WITH JANET & JEN: Join the Building Boys FB group and the Boys Alive! FB group Be sure to opt-in at Boys Alive! .com for your free report “3 Simple Tips to CONNECT with Your Boy.” And subscribe to Building Boys Bulletin, a weekly email newsletter filled w boy-specific info & inspiration. Follow us on Instagram: @on.boys.podcast and @boys.alive Twitter: @ParentAdvisor and @BuildingBoys LinkedIn: use this link for Janet and use this link for Jennifer
An obligatory open about the the world's goings-on. The casino bar. Misunderstanding people and not reading lips due to the mask. Being on your phone while driving. A once certain but not some much now death sentence. Briiiine knows about women's hairdos. Brian projects about Brittany's childhood. Showering at school. Roughhousing with the boys in Dorchester. Cancelled trips and non-refundable tickets. Targeted ads. The lack of definitive UFO proof. Brittany carries a burden from years past. The best booger. Getting out. The shopping cart litmus test... Twitter: @BatsBelfry Email: batsbelfrypodcast@gmail.com Recorded - 5/12/20
Desde el hijo boxeador hasta el que salió músico. Hoy los papás comparten ideas acerca de las famosas "luchitas", o como lo llama Urquidi "Roughhousing". LOS CUATRO PAPÁS: Indalecio Montemayor (Lencho o Inda) tiene 12 años de casado y tiene 5 hijos. Es cofundador de Familink. Sus redes son: https://www.facebook.com/indamontemayor/ (Facebook) https://www.instagram.com/indamontemayor/ (Instagram) https://twitter.com/indalecio_mc (Twitter) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-3RVybvr4buHoDeSuXmfSg?view_as=subscriber (YouTube) Página de https://www.familink.mx/ (Familink) TikTok: familink Mike Salazar es papá de 3 hijos y tiene 9 años de casado. Es miembro activo de la comunidad Jesed y socio de Makore https://www.instagram.com/mikesalcer/ (Instagram) Gabriel Rivera Rio está casado desde hace ocho años y es papá de dos princesas de 6 y 4 años. Cofundador de https://my.captivate.fm/www.matrimoniosporsiempre.com (Matrimonios por Siempre) https://www.facebook.com/riverario.zambrano (Facebook) https://www.instagram.com/matrimoniosporsiempre/ (Instagram) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuxYVqXY9Ea9_Hz37hLSqxg (Youtube) José Manuel De Urquidi se casó hace ocho años, es papá de una niña de 5, un niño de 3 y en mayo del 2020 viene un bebe nuevo. Fundador de https://my.captivate.fm/JuanDiegoNetwork.com (JuanDiegoNetwork.com) Derrepente escribe en https://my.captivate.fm/PapaIntencional.com (PapaIntencional.com) https://www.instagram.com/urquidi/ (Instagram) https://twitter.com/urquidi/ (Twitter) Podcast parte de https://my.captivate.fm/JuanDiegoNetwork.com (JuanDiegoNetwork.com)
On this episode of the podcast, the guys recap the results of round 1, give their predictions and previews of the ongoing round 2 and also discuss the recent postponement of games along with other league news --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-frozen-four-podcast/support
In our Season One Finale, Dawn Williams speaks with Blue School Advisory Board member Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen. Larry shares tools and suggestions for how to parent, play, and foster autonomy through the uncertainty created by COVID-19. Larry is a licensed psychologist specializing in children's play, play therapy, and the author of parenting books including: Playful Parenting, The Opposite of Worry and The Art of Roughhousing.Visit Blue School's new website to learn more about our education philosophy and Fall 2020 offerings. BlueSchoolConnected.org
Roughhousing can teach boys about healthy touch. Photo by SnarkleMotion via Flickr Society teaches boys that there are two kinds of "acceptable" touch for males: sex, and aggression. No wonder so many boys and men turn to sex and aggression to meet their very human need for touch! Physical play -- including play wrestling, "chase" games and roughhousing -- give boys multiple opportunities to experience healthy touch while learning about boundaries and consent. "Roughhousing is really more like dancing than fighting," Dr. Cohen says. "It can look like fighting, but the participants have to be really tuned in to each other." Building in frequent stops and starts can prevent physical play from getting out of control, Dr. Cohen says. Make it fun: "Freeze!" "OK, go!" Not sure if the kids are having fun or legitimately trying to hurt one another? Ask. A question that's not asked nearly enough, Dr. Cohen says, is "Are you enjoying this?" Also: tears don't necessarily mean the session was a disaster or ill-advised. "Tears are fine as long as there's comforting and a pause and connection," Dr. Cohen says. "If it's tears and then humiliation, it's the humiliation that's the problem, not the tears." In this episode, Jen, Janet & Lawrence discuss: The importance of healthy touch Difference between fighting & roughhousing Why moms should roughhouse with their boys The "sock game" Ground rules: yay or nay? How to keep roughhousing from getting out of control When to intervene in rough play NOTE: The sound quality on this episode is still less-than-ideal. Jen was experiencing technical difficulties. The good news is that those episodes are now resolved. :) Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: The Art of Roughhousing: Good, Old-Fashioned Horseplay and Why Every Kid Needs It, by Dr. Lawrence Cohen & Dr. Anthony T. DeBenedet Playful Parenting: An Exciting New Approach to Raising Children that Will Help You Nurture Close Connections, Solve Behavior Problems and Encourage Confidence, by Dr. Lawrence Cohen PlayfulParenting.com — Lawrence’s website 6 Reasons Why You Should Roughhouse with Your Kids - the article that led us to Dr. Cohen Rough and Tumble Games to Play with Boys This Summer -- BuildingBoys blog post Sexual Abuse Affects Boys Too -- our first ON BOYS conversation w Dr. Cohen LIKE THIS EPISODE? Share it with your friends (and thanks!): Twitter: Use this link Facebook: Use this link Linkedin: Use this link STAY CONNECTED WITH JANET & JEN: Join the Building Boys FB group and the Boys Alive! FB group Be sure to opt-in at Boys Alive! .com for your free report “3 Simple Tips to CONNECT with Your Boy.” And opt-in at BuildingBoys.net, too! Follow us on Instagram: @on.boys.podcast and @boys.alive Twitter: @ParentAdvisor and @BuildingBoys LinkedIn: use this link for Janet and use this link for Jennifer
Are you ready to Rumble! I hope so because today I want to talk about roughhousing, wrestling, and rough and tumble play. Roughhousing is essentially any activity such as wrestling, pillow fighting, sliding down the stairs, jumping off the bed and many other such activities. Many people are somewhat hesitant about roughhousing but without it you are missing out on a valuable and important way of connecting with your children. When children are still babies we can connect with them by holding them, gazing into each other’s eyes, soothing and cuddling them. As they get older though there may still be peaceful moments of connection by reading a book together or cuddling, but children are not always in the mood to sit down quietly. The great thing about wrestling is that it is an active interaction that can promote connection and confidence within your children. The message of roughhousing is; “Your power is welcome here. This is a place for you to be strong and connected, without hurting anyone.” Find me on: My Websites: justusfrank.com and frankeducation.nz Bitchute: https://www.bitchute.com/channel/lifeoflearning/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JustBeingFrank8 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/justus.frank Minds: https://www.minds.com/Arphy/ Medium: https://medium.com/@justus_71245 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/justusfrank Photo courtesy of: http://www.agnesgrace.co.nz --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/justus-frank/message
Listen, y’all. There’s only one way that we’re getting through this thing, and I think we all know exactly what way I’m talking about. It is imperative, now more than ever, that we get Richard Gere to be a top-tier YouTuber.Suggested talking points: What’s Funny?!, Lying Ants, Snip Tunes, Roughhousing, Netflix Prophecies, Liminal Chalupa
Warren Thomas Farrell is 77. He is an American educator, activist and author of seven books on men's and women's issues. All of his books are related to men's and women's studies, including his March 2018 publication “The Boy Crisis”. Farrell initially came to prominence in the 1970s as a supporter of second wave feminism; he served on the New York City Board of the National Organization for Women (NOW). Although today he is generally considered "the father of the men's movement" he advocates for neither a men’s nor a women’s movement but a gender liberation movement. Warren chairs the Coalition to Create a White House Council on Boys and Men amongst other things to influence change. In the session Warren opens up about his own family set-up and his experiences and challenges as a step-dad of 2 girls. His one daughter was adopted by his wife before they got together and the other daughter is a biological child from his wife and her previous partner. Warren also shares amazing insights and learnings from a few decades of research. We talk about adoption, mom-style parenting and dad-style parenting and the effects, father involvement - or the lack thereof - and the consequences. Fir instance: Warren told me the single biggest predictor of suicide for boys is a lack of father involvement. Another topic he elaborates on is how much can be gained simply by making sure dad and mom are both aware and honour the contribution dads make by means their intuitive actions. The most powerful takeaways for me as a dad where: Structured family dinner nights help everybody in the family feeling heard and fostering positive ties. Roughhousing leads to children being more empathetic and understand the difference between assertiveness and aggression - so keep on going dads. The single biggest predictor of success is postponed gratification “Moms can’t hear what dads don’t say.” Please do get involved in our mission to facilitate family success by sharing any two parenting two parenting podcasts that have inspired you with with two dads or moms you love. Enjoy! Links from this episode: www.dadicated.com Warren Farrell on Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Farrell Coalition to Create a White House Council on Boys and Men: http://whitehouseboysmen.org/ Warren’s official website: https://warrenfarrell.com/ #warrenfarrell #boycrisis #feminism #dads #fatherlessness #absentfathers #sons #daughters #whitehouseonfamilies #adoption #moms #couplescommunication --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dadicateddotcom/message
Back in December they were as dead as a trout in a bucket of motor oil. wsg Craig Ross This Podcast Has a Sponsor: Michigan Law Grad Jonathan Paul is the guy with the C you want skating next to the ref and pleading your case. He's also a good guy to sit next to at the hockey games. --------------------------------- 1. The ND and Minnesota Series starts at 0:50 Deflating series against the super-defensive Domers. Get a split or get two wins and Michigan's in the driver's seat to win the conference, but they just didn't have the guys who can get a bucket. Then they go to Minnesota, who's been hotter than Michigan in the back half of the season, expecting to finish 7th in the Big Ten. Gophers pour it on, and Strauss Mann is a wall. Weird bounce goal brings Minnesota back to 2-1, and then they call a really weak major that steals the game and what could have been a sweep. Craig likes Granowicz because he can do the Holmstrom heavy in front of the net. Mann is a god. 2. Craig's Penalties, Big Ten Tournament, MSU Preview, Pairwise starts at 28:41 Fifteen seconds for horseplay, 30 seconds for hijinks, 45 seconds for tomfoolery, a minute for shenanigans, and giving him the business is a minute and a half. Roughhousing is 1:45, two minutes for roughing, and then various levels of Mayhem: 1st, 2nd, 3rd degree. Big Ten MVP? Have to get past MSU and their very good goalie to have a shot at OSU again. Sweep MSU and they're in the tourney? Pairwise can get to 12th at best, 14th likely if they don't get help. MUSIC "NHL on ESPN Theme" "Passacaglia/A Bud and A Slice"—Joe Jackson "Ice Hockey (NES) theme" THE USUAL LINKS Helpful iTunes subscribe link General podcast feed link
If a picture is worth a thousand words, then a story is worth countless lessons. Each person who listens to a tale can see it freshly from the frame of their own life experiences and glean from it a level of wisdom that may have never been otherwise captured. More so, because we continually grow and gain new insights throughout the course of our lives, as we return to these stories time and again we find that they offer us new wisdom that we hadn’t been ready to receive before. John Vervaeke speaks of this as being a kind of sacredness; a relationship between person and narrative that affords an inexhaustible fount of insight and discovery. Throughout history and across cultures, the most prevalent theme humans have been sharing with one another is the epic struggle between order and chaos. It is a universal truth that life begets conflict and that the most admirable trait a person can aspire to is the ability to face the challenges of their life head on. To us, movement practice is a path towards that aim. It is a lifelong road that leads us from the “unbearable present” to the “ideal future”. A daily commitment to becoming the self we most admire. Today Rafe is going to revisit the stories he told on our last podcast episode and tie them back into the frame of movement practice. He will explain how these concepts of order, chaos and the heroic journey can be powerful tools to aid us on our own path of self transformation. SHOW NOTES 00:00 - Intro and Forward 02:35 - Movement and the Heroic Journey 04:44 - Rafe’s History 11:54 - Congruent Principles 15:50 - Order, Chaos and the Heroic Practice 22:24 - The Dragon, The Slayer and The Tamer 33:17 - The Dark and Light of the Archetypes 37:04 - Parkour and the Parched Kingdom LINKS [2 Heroic Conflicts] https://www.evolvemoveplay.com/the-heroic-quest-emp-podcast-33/ [Roughhousing] https://www.evolvemoveplay.com/do-you-remember-roughhousing/ [The Self Worth Esteeming] https://www.evolvemoveplay.com/the-self-worth-esteeming/
Time out. Spanking. Taking toys and activities away. Grounding. What is your go to punishment? Is it working? Let's talk about why we choose not to use punishments and how we manage "misbehavior." If you like what you hear, rate, review and subscribe!! We appreciate you so much! Check out two books we love: Art of Roughhousing and No Drama Discipline.
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What do you do when a young toddler is constantly grabbing toys from a sibling? How do you teach sharing at such a young age? Do they even understand any of it? Erin helps a mom navigate this issue she is having with her 20 month old twin girls. Then how do you handle roughhousing that seems to get too rough and the kids keep going back for more?! A common scenario with young kids, Erin helps a mom figure out some boundaries to set around rough play and how rough is too rough. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/parenting-beyond-discipline/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I’m letting you guys be a fly on the wall in a coaching session with me. We are speaking about sibling roughhousing and how to have a productive conversation about this hot topic! I also discuss why this a perfect area to start teaching your kids about personal boundaries when it comes to their bodies. So important! Topics Covered: Sibling rough play and when to intervene Parenting: 1. Establish rules. 2. Repeat often 3. Follow through consistently Personal body boundaries and advocating for yourself Seeing the sibling relationship as an opportunity to teach conflict resolution Your family team Productive convos For more help, reach out to me for support: http://Randirubenstein.com/discovery Get my Free Guide! This guide contains the condensed nuggets of my mind mastering parenting recipe. I've been developing my signature Mastermind Parenting method for over twenty years and I'm BEEEyond thrilled to share it with you. It has the power not to just improve the conversations and relationships in your family but digging in and doing this work will change your life. I can't wait for you to get started so I can teach you everything! Head over here to get your copy https://mastermindparenting.com/freeguide Apply for Free Coaching! Thank you so much for listening and being an amazing mama that listens to parenting podcasts! I absolutely love connecting with other moms during the Real Coaching with Randi monthly segment and share their story. If you would like to get some free coaching on a future episode, head over to https://mastermindparenting.com/freecoaching/ and hit the Apply button. Get my book! Hear about my family history and the tools that have helped me replace old parenting patterns that simply don’t work with these puzzling kiddos. It's my way of paying it forward as a human that wants our kids to experience a kinder and more generous world. Head over here to get your copy https://mastermindparenting.com/book Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on iTunes or Stitcher. You can also subscribe from the podcast app on your mobile device. Leave us an iTunes review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on iTunes, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on iTunes.
This episode of The Woof Meow Show from March 9th, 2019 is the second show in a three-part series. Kate and Don discuss; play biting, roughhousing, the importance and benefits of starting a Puppy Headstart class by the time the puppy is 10-weeks old, handling for grooming and routine care, managing kids and a puppy, growling, stealing, play, and chewing. You can find a list of links to corresponding articles on Don’s blog labeled as: Especially for New Puppy Parents – http://bit.ly/EspcNewPuppyParents Part one in this series addressed things you will want to consider before you bring a puppy home; like choosing a veterinarian and a dog trainer and getting signed up for a training class that uses pain-free, force-free, and fear-free methods. Then Kate and Don move on to things you will need to do when you bring that cute ball of fluff home, and the first thing they emphasize is the need for patience. Kate and Don conclude the episode by addressing these critical puppy topics; socialization, alone training, and housetraining. This episode is available as a podcast at Podcast – Especially for New Puppy Parents – Part 1 – http://bit.ly/WfMw-Esp_Pups1 The third show in this series will address the initial training tasks you will want to focus on with your new puppy. That includes; handfeeding for attention, food as a powerful reward and motivator, and how to use life rewards. They will also address the importance of learning how to keep yourself and other people from inadvertently rewarding behavior that you do not like, such as jumping. Based on their experience teaching thousands of people how to train their dogs Kate and Don discuss why training takes time, commitment, and consistency and how to avoid common training mistakes. You can hear The Woof Meow Show on Z62 Retro Radio, AM620, and WKIT HD3 at 9 AM on Saturday. If you are not near a radio, listen on your computer at http://bit.ly/AM620-WZON or your smartphone or tablet with the free WZON 620 AM app. A podcast of the show is typically posted immediately after the show. You can download this show and others at http://woofmeowshow.libsyn.com/, at Don’s blog http://bit.ly/Words-Woofs-Meows and the Apple iTunes store.
10 years ago Steve Buist wrote the Code Red series for the Spectator, outlining weaknesses in social safety nets, and the effects of poverty on health. He joins Scott to talk about the "devastating" information he has learned while writing the sequel series, Code Red: 10 Years Later. Guest: Steve Buist, investigative reporter and feature writer with the Hamilton Spectator - Two schools in Quebec are now considering "rough play zones." Are these beneficial? Guest: Anthony DeBenedet, author of 'The Art of Roughhousing' - Don Robertson of the Dundas Real McCoys is in the studio with Scott for Sports Talk. Is Mark Stone being paid an appropriate amount? What will happen to Patriots owner Robert Kraft since he has been officially charged on two counts of first-degree solicitation? Scott and Don take on all this and more from the world of sports. Guest: Don Robertson, of the Dundas Real McCoys
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Chris Ruffolo is a physical educator based out of Oregon. She provides the space and framework for her students to explore their creativity and physicality through roughhousing and inventing new rules for classic games such as basketball. My favorite part of our discussion was around victimhood mentality with the children she teaches. Take a listen to see how Chris is working around this and providing a space where her kids can get out of these limiting ideas. Some topics we discussed: - Similarities and differences between teaching older and younger populations - Victimhood and Identity in children - Roughhousing and physical intelligence in P.E. You can find Chris' daily practice of exploration on Instagram @ruffolous and on her blog, postcompetitiveinsight.com, as well as her platform for sharing the work of other teachers on thinkmovement.netSupport the show
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Young children are very physical beings and have great fun rolling around in the grass, jumping, wrestling, chasing and tickling each other. As parents, that roughhousing sometimes makes us uneasy, bringing out worries that someone will get hurt or the kids will get so riled up that they won’t be able to sleep for a week. But early childhood educator Mike Huber, a supervisor at St. David’s Center for Child & Family Development (a supporting partner of Mom Enough), understands how valuable rough and tumble play is to children’s learning and development. Mike joins Marti & Erin in this week’s show for a lively discussion of this often overlooked aspect of children’s experience, prompting funny memories for Marti & Erin and inspiring them to do a little roughhousing themselves. To what extent do your kids engage in rough and tumble play? How do you encourage or discourage roughhousing? After listening to this Mom Enough podcast, what things might you try to do differently? For St. David's Center, click here. For 6 Signs Your Child Could Benefit from Rough and Tumble Play, click here. For Mike's Importance of Social Skills article, click here. For the Rough and Tumble Play sheet, click here. For The Importance of Play to Children’s Learning sheet, click here. For Mike's author page, click here.
I found an article a while back talking about these benefits (link in the shownotes below) but it was after an epic wrestling session in the living room that highlighted all of these benefits for my son and I. https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/6-big-benefits-rough-tumble-play-kid/ Links to check out: Sign up for updates: www.drjaywarren.com/dadhood Join The Dadhood Journey Private Facebook Group Follow Jay Warren on Instagram: @doctorjaywarren Learn about Men of Iron: www.drjaywarren.com/menofiron
Show summary On today’s show we talk about two cities that make the top-five list on both Mercer’s and Monocle’s “the most livable cities” rankings: Munich and Vienna. Having lived in both cities, we compare our own anecdotal evidence with these two livability rankings. We also chat about how some cities in North America are starting to plan their cities for people instead of cars. To finish, we discuss how happiness is not a goal, but rather a side effect. Show notes 0:28 - The most livable cities in the world (Wikipedia article) 1:48 - Many of the most livable cities are in Canada and Germany 3:15 - The ranting U-Bahn operators in Munich 4:48 - Strangers in Munich are friendlier than strangers in Vienna 5:10 - Comparing Munich’s infrastructure to Vienna’s infrastructure 7:15 - Munich has hundreds of bicycles hanging upside-down in trees (The Local news article) 7:54 - Why are there so few American cities in "the most livable cities" rankings? 9:29 - The affordability of accommodations doesn’t seem to be accounted for in "the most livable cities" rankings 11:00 - Some of the Viennese apartments we looked at appeared to have never been renovated since Mozart’s time 12:17 - Fun fact: Bavaria has over 5000 castles (List of the major castles in Bavaria) 13:12 - The first step to making a city a better place to live in: change the attitude to change the living standards 15:48 - Old school city planners designed most North American cities for cars 17:07 - Halifax, Nova Scotia used to have a railway network of street cars, but they were replaced by cheaper electric and later diesel buses (Article by the Halifax Transit) 18:46 - Organic city design vs. planned city design 21:00 - In Canada, not being a car owner impacts your social standing with your friends, family and co-workers 24:12 - North American cities like Halifax are starting to change the way they plan cities #CitiesForPeople 24:35 - Some cities are starting to convert their car-only streets to pedestrian streets (See the before-and-after photos) 25:52 - Dodging cars while walking to work in Canada was commonplace (cars turning right on a red light was often a problem) 27:40 - Was the #CitiesForPeople concept always a thing in Germany? 28:34 - A free universal transport system might be an option for some cities (New article) 31:02 - Only investing in a city’s outer-core and suburbs is a losing strategy for the city’s tax payers 33:45 - Happiness is not a goal; it’s a side effect (Podcast on YouTube) 37:36 - Preparing for Father’s Day: appreciating the importance of fathers and grandfathers in society 40:09 - Roughhousing is beneficial for a child’s physical and psychological development (Research article about rough-and-tumble play)
Jordan Peterson talks to Warren Farrell about roughhousing and why fathers’ play is so important for child development.
Jordan Peterson talks to Warren Farrell about roughhousing and why fathers’ play is so important for child development. The post BA032 – Jordan Peterson and Warren Farrell on Roughhousing – Bettina Arndt appeared first on Talkhub.
WEDNESDAY 04.18.2018 The baseball traditions. Getting sucked out of a plane. Russ vs. the spoiler. RRR - Juggle these. Shreen Kassam in studio. Fresh Jays. Woman sex secrets. EDBD with Vince. News with Debra Roberts. Nerdy news with Jeff Kaufman. Monster Sports. Email.
Taa-daa! Today we are celebrating our first special guest on the podcast, the wonderful Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen, psychologist and the author of Playful Parenting, The Opposite of Worry and co-author of The Art of Roughhousing. Talking Play Talk on this episode turns to two of Larry's favorites styles of play - aggressive and risky play. If you've ever seen your child thrash a toy to pieces, order you locked in jail or speed down a steep slope on a skateboard you are probably aware of these play types and the stress they can cause us, as parents! Is our child too aggressive? Will they grow up aggressive? Shouldn't we be learning something? What if they get hurt? The Play is a Symbol When we can see these ways of playing as symbols of what's affecting a child, we can embrace them, because, as Larry says, when a child is laughing and engaged in aggressive play, we can be sure deep work is happening. But these can be the trickier bits of play to navigate. Larry helps us address the issues that come up when our children play aggressive or risky. What can we do with own fears when our children play aggressively? Why we should be joining our children in play How we can trust our children with their own risk management How we can stop saying "be careful," and start reflecting and wondering around play (or taking risks ourselves!) Evaluating when you need to step in The episode ends with some ideas of games to try with your children since play, at its heart, is all about connection. More Tools and Support for Handling A Child's Aggression You can find Larry at Playfulparenting.com and on his Amazon page. There's a review here of how one mom used Larry's book The Opposite of Worry With Children on the Spectrum (a guest book review) If you are interested in the risky play organization Larry mentions at 14.24 you'll find it at www.Anjiplay.com We bumped up the playtimes post to 15 Quick Games You Can Use When Kids Challenge Your Parenting Learn more about what causes aggression and what you can do in this class, Helping Your Child With Aggression Join the Hand in Hand Community We’d love to hear about your parenting challenges. You can follow Hand in Hand on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram. Be sure to drop Elle and Abigail a message Sign up for our Monthly Newsletter
What can hands do? What shouldn't hands do? Andrew & Polly ask Frankie, Ellie, Matteo and Palmer all about those wriggly things at the end of their arms and talk to a professional stunt woman about what it feels like when you get hurt. Kids are physical. Whether they are bouncing off the walls, roughhousing or even hitting, children use their bodies to connect to the world around them. This episodes asks kids what to do when you hurt someone or someone hurts you. Also, fun games for hands to play. To be on the show or for more information about Ear Snacks, visit earsnacks.org. Rate & review Ear Snacks in your podcast app by November 1 and send your review to earsnacks@andrewandpolly.com. We'll pick one reviewer at random to receive this awesome sock puppet kit! For more information: Jessica Erin Bennett is a stunt woman and fight choreographer. Fore more information about Jessica, grown-ups can go to jessicaerinbennett.com Jessica's Stunt and Circus Camp can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/Stunt-and-Circus-Camp-715793651806114/ "We Can Make It" by Andrew Barkan & Polly Hall (ASCAP). For more information about the music on this show, visit andrewandpolly.com If your child is hitting, you might be interested in: The Art of Roughhousing by Anthony T. DeBenedet & Lawrence J. Cohen - https://www.amazon.com/Art-Roughhousing-Anthony-T-DeBenedet/dp/B01L97OCC4 or this great episode from Janet Lansbury's podcast: https://soundcloud.com/janet-lansbury/aggressive-toddler-behavior-hitting-biting-spitting If your child is being hit by a peer, you might be interested in these other great episodes from Janet Lansbury's podcast: https://soundcloud.com/janet-lansbury/dealing-with-your-childs-aggressive-playmate & https://soundcloud.com/janet-lansbury/no-tolerance-for-bullying
Ohhhh! Oh-oooohh! It's Wrestlemania! Just like that! Just like that! Pump it up! Pump it up! That's right, folks! We're back with our annual Wrestlemania special and to talk about this year's Wrestlemania Dallas Cowboys Star, we've got Megan Nielsen and Elle Collins of the Hard Times Podcast to offer up lots of insights. We've got predictions for every match, lots of unflattering discussion of Flo Rida, a related booking idea for Randy Orton's surprise return, high hopes for Titus O'Neil to come back, opinions about Ric Flair's likely involvement in the Divas title match, thoughts on how the world title match could actually work and much, much more!
Today’s show is sure to do two things: Make you laugh. And make you think about laughing! We’re talking about the importance of laughing with Dr. Anthony DeBenedet, author of The Art of Roughhousing. Current research confirms that there are numerous health benefits attributed to laughing including lower blood pressure, increased tolerance to pain and – most importantly – a reduction in stress. As parents, a better understanding of the value of laughing – for ourselves and with our children – can be one more tool to living a happy, healthier life. Children laugh a lot. About 300 to 400 times a day! The average adult laughs about 20 times a day! We’ll talk about the causes and implications of that dramatic reduction over a typical life. We’ll also discuss: How simulated laughter provides the same benefits of spontaneous laughter Why you need to integrate more laughter into your family’s life How to do a DIY Laughter Festival! The results you will enjoy if you lighten up and use some humor in your daily interactions How laughter can be a bonding element between a parent and child What you can do if you don’t think of yourself as a “funny” person So stick around. This promises to be a fun time! References from this Podcast: Dr. DeBenedet's website
Billy and Devo discuss various things including Kevin Durant's MVP, a little league baseball intentional walk fail, roughhousing with your kids, and our How Many Beers? game.Intro Music credit:Ice Flow, Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/
I talk to Dr. Anthony T. DeBenedet author of the book, The Art of Roughhousing. We discuss what the research says on the benefits of roughhousing with your kids. Basically, body slamming your kid on the bed makes him awesome.
If you think roughhousing is wrong and that you have to halt all horseplay, then think again! This is a show your won't want to miss! Today's guest is Anthony DeBenedet, co-author of The Art of Roughhousing: Good-Old Fashioned Horseplay and why Every Kid Needs It. This is a book that promotes the scientific reasoning for moms and dads to get down on their knees, toss out their inhibitions, and do some serious playing with their kids. You'll hear why roughhousing will make your kids smarter and how it nourishes their emotional and physical health. Horseplaying with parents, when done with thoughtful intent, can help children learn self-control, strengthen their emotional dimmer-switch, teach them trust, experience empathy, and fine-tune self-handicapping skills. The added bonus? It's fun for the kids! "There's a fine line between roughhousing and aggression," says DeBenedet, explaining how "roughhousing" with parents can teach children the difference between safe "rough" play and the unhealthy, dangerous brand of roughhousing - a prelude to bullying. DeBenedet shares how to figure out your child's "peak arc" of energy, how you can help them control their emotions, and how you can use roughhousing as a "tool" to help your child on the playground and at home. Do children get the same benefits from sibling roughhousing as parental roughhousing? DeBenedet shares his thoughts on emotional intelligence and "self-handicapping." You'll hear how to keep your children safe - even if they have a large age difference - and how you can keep playtime from becoming "bullying" time. "What are we doing when kids are playing" asks DeBenedet. In an era where you can check your e-mail from your cell phone, many parents find themselves distracted when they don't even know it! Are you missing out on valuable opportunities to connect with your kids? A little controversial? Perhaps. But at the end of the day, this is a message that is all about connecting with your child, building a bond, and giving your child skills to last a lifetime. Tune-in! References from this Podcast: Anthony's Facebook Page Information on the book, The Art of Roughhousing
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Reclaiming play as a priority in our lives can transform and perhaps even heal us in powerful and unexpected ways. Unfortunately, from the moment we leave childhood, our inner sense of play is attacked. Whether it's in our workplaces, schools, or homes, play is thwarted by a pervasive culture of seriousness and productivity. But what if play is just as important as genetics or personal choices when it comes to health, quality of life, and longevity? Would we set different priorities? Through science and personal anecdotes, we will explore the play-health connection. And hopefully, in the process, reawaken the playful child that lives within all of us. Husband, dad, physician, author of The Art of Roughhousing, and champion for play. Anthony has appeared on The Today Show, in The New York Times and many other media outlets to advocate for play. He is also a health and parenting writer for TIME Magazine's online opinion think tank, TIME Ideas. He frequently speaks to groups about the importance of play and offers parent-child play workshops around the country. Anthony lives with his wife and three young daughters in Ann Arbor, Michigan.