Podcasts about independent children

Anxiety is everywhere right now. It's in our culture, in our homes, and often in our own nervous systems. So how do we raise brave, resilient children without unintentionally reinforcing the fears we're trying to protect them from? I'm Dr. Shelly Mahon, your host, and in this episode of the Parenting Well Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Samantha Grigsby, clinical psychologist and founder of Foothills CBT, to break down what every parent needs to understand about how anxiety works and how to interrupt the cycle that keeps it growing. We explore how to distinguish normal developmental anxiety from anxiety that needs support, and why avoidance, though well-intended, often strengthens fear over time. Dr. Grigsby explains the anxiety cycle in practical terms and shares why Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) are gold-standard treatments for anxiety and OCD. We also discuss how rescuing, over-accommodating, minimizing stress, or offering constant reassurance can unintentionally perpetuate anxiety, as well as what supportive parenting actually looks like when a child is struggling. Finally, we examine the cultural pressures amplifying stress today and how to keep our own anxiety from shaping the emotional climate of our homes. Because bravery isn't the absence of anxiety. It's feeling it — and moving forward anyway. Register to hear her talk at the Stress & Anxiety Conference  In this podcast, we talk about: How to tell when anxiety is normal and when it's limiting your child The hidden ways loving parents accidentally reinforce anxiety Why avoidance and reassurance make anxiety stronger What actually works (CBT & ERP explained simply) How to stop passing your stress onto your child Key Takeaway: Avoidance might be contributing to your child's anxiety. The very things we do to reduce our child's distress can quietly make it stronger. Support and accommodation are not the same thing. One builds resilience. The other builds dependence. Do you see this in your family? Reassurance feels loving but it can train the brain to doubt itself. What happens when children learn to tolerate uncertainty instead Bravery doesn't mean calm. It means moving forward while your nervous system is loud. Your anxiety shapes the emotional climate of your home. Not because you're failing but because nervous systems are contagious. We live in an expectation-amplified world. Unrealistic standards, social comparison, and constant input may be fueling more stress than we realize. Self-criticism keeps the cycle alive. Self-compassion may be one of the most powerful anxiety interventions for both parent and child. You don't have to eliminate anxiety all together to raise a confident child. You may need to look at whether you are protecting them from having uncomfortable feelings. Resources: Website  LinkedIn Self-Compassion.org:  Kristin Neff's website has many exercises, guided meditations, and other resources on mindful self-compassion Book: Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children. By Reid Wilson and Laura Lyons

The Independent Children's Monitor says it's clear our child protection system is under immense stress. Its review shows carers killed 24 children between December 2021 and June 2025. It finds no improvement, despite recommendations in a review of the murder of five-year-old Malachi Subecz in 2021. Children's Monitor CEO Arran Jones told Mike Hosking that while there are deep-seated issues that go beyond what the agencies can respond to, there are certainly things that can be improved. He says the lack of progress up to this point is an issue of prioritisation, and it's about making sure the problem is front of mine not only for Oranga Tamariki, but for all the agencies that have a role to play. LISTEN ABOVE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Politics Thursday is back with Labour list MP Ayesha Verrall and National MP for Otaki Tim Costley. They join Nick in the studio to tackle the political issues this week. First up — is the second Mt Victoria tunnel up in the air? Or will congestion charges mean we don't need it? We also confront some tough social issues. The new review from the Independent Children's Monitor shows more should be done when it comes to protecting our children? And with serious dog attacks happening right now, are current laws strong enough, or do they need tightening? Plus do we have too many ministers around the Cabinet table? LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Piano Parent Podcast, we're talking about practical ways to help your child grow in responsibility, confidence, and problem-solving—both at the piano and in everyday life. You'll learn: • How teachers encourage independence during lessons • Simple daily habits that build responsibility • Why natural consequences are powerful teachers • How to support practice without doing everything for your child Learn more at www.PianoParentPodcast.com/375.

Today we're talking about anxiety—how it shows up in families, how it affects our kids' growing independence, and what we can do to keep worry from running the show. My guest, Lynn Lyons, is a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, and leading voice in the treatment of anxiety disorders in children, teens, and adults. In our conversation, Lynn and I unpack the dynamics of anxiety within families—what happens as kids begin asserting independence, how parents can best support their social and emotional growth, and how to notice when our own habits might be feeding the cycle. She offers practical, compassionate strategies for shifting from worry to courage and for helping both our kids and ourselves move through anxiety with more confidence and calm.   About Lynn Lyons Lynn Lyons is a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist in Concord, New Hampshire. She has been in private practice for 35 years specializing in the treatment of anxiety disorders in adults and children. She is a sought after expert, appearing in the New York Times, Time, NPR, Psychology Today, Good Morning America, Today Show and other media outlets. Lynn is a featured expert in the 2023 documentary Anxious Nation. With a special interest in breaking the generational cycle of worry in families, Lynn is the author/coauthor of several books and articles on anxiety, including Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, and the companion book for kids, Playing with Anxiety: Casey's Guide for Teens and Kids. Her latest book for adults and teenagers, The Anxiety Audit was released October '22. Lynn is the co-host of the popular podcast Flusterclux. Things you'll learn from this episode How anxiety can take on a powerful “cult leader” role within families, influencing thoughts and behaviors Why parents often unknowingly bargain with anxiety in early childhood to maintain calm or control How growing social pressures and the shift toward independence can heighten anxiety for both parents and kids Why changes in sleep, participation, and social engagement may signal deeper anxiety concerns How the loss of parental control during adolescence can trigger its own layer of worry and stress Why understanding these family dynamics is essential for effectively supporting children's mental health Resources mentioned Lynn Lyons' website Flusterclux podcast Lynn on Instagram Anxiety Disruptor series on the Flusterclux Podcast Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous and Independent Children by Lynn Lyons & Reid Wilson The Anxiety Audit: Seven Sneaky Ways Anxiety Takes Hold and How to Escape Them by Lynn Lyons Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, Jay sits down with Kris Jenner for a raw and candid conversation about her roots, family, and the incredible lessons she’s learned. Kris was raised by her mother and grandmother, two driven and hardworking women who modeled independence, discipline, and purpose. She shares how those early lessons in responsibility and perseverance laid the foundation for the life she would later build, both as a businesswoman and as the matriarch of a global family brand. Throughout their conversation, Kris speaks about her devotion to family, her faith, and her unshakable sense of gratitude. She reflects on the importance of being present in a fast-paced world that often glorifies busyness and distraction. Jay and Kris explore what it means to slow down and truly feel present in each moment, to look beyond the screens, the schedules, and the noise, and to rediscover joy in the simple things. Kris opens up about motherhood and the unique bond she shares with each of her six children, how she worked intentionally to raise them with structure, compassion, and drive while fostering unity instead of competition. She talks about her daily prayers for guidance and peace, finding meaning even in moments of hardship, and choosing to lead with love, even when met with misunderstanding or pain. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Lead with Gratitude Every Day How to Raise Ambitious but Grounded Kids How to Slow Down and Be Fully Present How to Build a Family Rooted in Love, Not Competition How to Balance Success with Inner Peace How to Protect Your Peace in a Noisy World Life has a way of reminding us that true success isn’t measured by status or possessions, it’s found in the quiet moments of gratitude, in the love we give, and in the peace we choose to protect. Each challenge we face holds a lesson, each chapter an invitation to grow with grace and faith. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:15 Welcome Kris Jenner 02:38 Growing Up with Strong Women 08:49 Doing Your Best in Every Role 11:24 Family Traditions and Christmas Joy 12:51 Lessons from Humble Beginnings 16:24 The Power of Slowing Down 20:42 The Trap of Instant Gratification 24:19 Embracing Life at 70 26:47 Raising Passionate, Independent Children 32:37 Timeless Parenting Lessons 35:10 Learn to Forgive Those Who Hurt You 40:25 Mental Health Has Become a Silent Pandemic 44:38 Are You a Disney Fan? 45:36 How Do You Forgive Someone Who Hurt You? 50:44 Finding Peace Through Prayer 53:01 Finding Growth in Every Challenge 54:28 The “Rule of 12” for Letting Go 58:48 Protecting Your Inner Peace 01:00:35 Respecting Time and Commitment 01:01:48 Showing Up Fully as a Parent 01:04:52 Starting Over After Motherhood 01:07:41 Making Sure No One’s Left Behind 01:08:16 What Motherhood Has Taught Me 01:13:42 Healing from Miscarriage and Loss 01:15:41 Compassion for Those Facing Infertility 01:17:43 Leading with Love and Kindness 01:19:26 Choosing Where to Invest Your Energy 01:20:27 Seeing Yourself Through Others’ Eyes 01:22:16 Kris on Final Five Episode Resources: Kris Jenner | TikTok Kris Jenner | Instagram Kris Jenner | Facebook Kris Jenner | XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A disproportionate number of children in state care face harm when returned home. Oranga Tamariki's annual report shows an overall increase in abuse or neglect in state care, with 530 children experiencing harm in the year ending March. That's 23 up on the previous year. Independent children's monitor, Arran Jones, says about half of children return in an unplanned way. "You've got voices of parents there saying - I just wasn't ready for my young person to come home, I've got drug and alcohol issues, I've got mental health issues I haven't been able to address, I'm not ready to have them home." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On the Early Edition with Ryan Bridge Full Show Podcast Thursday 23rd of October 2025, an estimated 100,000 teachers, nurses, dentists and medical staff are all walking off the job today, PPTA President Chris Abercrombie tells Ryan some rallies have been called off due to severe weather. Labour's keeping the policy train rolling and this time it's all about video games, New Zealand game developers Association Executive Director Joy Keene shares her thoughts. The Children's Commissioner and Independent Children's Monitor have called out the Children's Minister for cherry-picking statistics on abuse in state care, Karen Chhour makes her case. Plus, US Correspondent Mitch McCann has the latest on Trump demanding the Justice Department pay him $230 million in compensation for the federal investigations into him and the government shutdown is now entering its fourth week. Get the Early Edition Full Show Podcast every weekday on iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you feel like parenting is one constant power struggle?The truth is, your kids don't need more control—they need more independence. In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning share their proven “fortress framework” for raising confident kids: strong family boundaries on the outside, with freedom to choose inside.This approach gives children the chance to practice decision-making, learn from natural consequences, and grow into responsible, respectful adults—without constant nagging, yelling, or punishments.

New research paints a stark picture of the consequences of Oranga Tamariki's system not helping young Māori enough. An Independent Children's Monitor report shows tamariki and rangatahi Māori are over-represented - and being let down. They make up two-thirds of those in care and more than three-quarters in youth justice custody. Monitor Chief Executive Arran Jones says young Māori adults involved in the system as children are nine times more likely to have lived in emergency housing. "This report makes the case for that investment approach - putting the right people in place at the earliest time." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

An Independent Children's Monitor report finds almost half the reports of concern relate to young Māori. They make up two-thirds of those in care - and more than three-quarters in youth justice custody. Voyce Whakarongo Mai Chief Executive Tracie Shipton told Ryan Bridge that change is possible. She says it's a stark reminder if we get in early with wrap around services for whanau and young people, we can make a difference. LISTEN ABOVE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A child protection advocate says an increase in abuse and neglect in care cases comes as no surprise. A report by the Independent Children's Monitor has found the number of young people being abused in state care has increased, and children aren't receiving the minimum standards of care required. Child Matters Chief Executive Jane Searle told Mike Hosking things need to change. She says the report shows Oranga Tamariki is still not doing what it was designed to do. Searle says changes need to start with the huge workload of social workers. LISTEN ABOVE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There's warnings significant change is needed, as Oranga Tamariki continues to fall short. The Independent Children's Monitor's fourth annual report to July - shows the Ministry still isn't meeting National Care Standards, formed in 2019. It's not facilitating enough social worker visits and more children are being abused or neglected under its watch. Monitor head Arran Jones says state care still needs an overhaul to reduce incidents. "Kids that are coming into youth justice residences are more likely to be care experienced - and what we're saying is, unless you're actually doing right by these kids who are coming from broken homes, who've suffered abuse and neglect themselves - unless you're doing the right thing to care for them, what you'll see is negative outcomes." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Independent Children ~ Encouraging your child's independence - a short interview with parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch. Listen to caller's personal dramas four times each week as Dr. Kenner takes your calls and questions on parenting, romance, love, family, marriage, divorce, hobbies, career, mental health - any personal issue! Call anytime, toll free 877-Dr-Kenner. Visit www.drkenner.com for more information about the show.

Known as Free online, this week's dad, host of the Freedom Uncut show joins me to discuss raising independent children.S H O W  N O T E SFreedom UncutWait Song: Smoke RisingMusic by: CreatorMix.comVideo

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Social psychologist Jonathan Haidt's mission is to empower parents, educators, and communities to better navigate the complexities of raising children in an era marked by anxiety, polarization, and rapid change. You've probably heard of his most recent bestselling book, The Anxious Generation, which provides a powerful exploration of how social media, shifting cultural norms, and increasing societal pressures are impacting the mental health of today's youth. In today's episode, Jonathan sits down with Molly and Emese to discuss his powerful vision for a healthier, more connected future, and how we can collectively raise a generation that thrives in the face of anxiety and adversity. Whether you're a parent, teacher, or just someone interested in the psychology of today's youth, this conversation is sure to inspire new perspectives and actionable strategies for creating a brighter future for the next generation.  Mentioned in the episode: The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt The Let Grow Movement   A Sony Music Entertainment production.   Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts  To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ken Wiesenfeld is a husband of 30 years, with 2 amazing young adult sons, who he could not be more proud of.  He wishes that he had the wisdom of those lessons most recently learned about parenting while he was "winging it" during the pre-teen years.  In addition to spending time with his family, Ken is the proprietor of a financial consulting practice, providing accounting, finance, and acquisition support to clients.Lonny Anger has been married for 23 years, and has 3 children, and 2 dogs. He views being a parent as a great gift that comes with no instructions. He is proud to pass on his love of Billy Joel, skiing, and good food onto his children. When he is not with his family, Lonny owns a general contracting company that specializes in commercial interior renovation, and a separate company that builds pickleball courts (as well as tennis and basketball.)Jessica and Carrie are joined by their husbands. They discuss the overwhelming stress parents face today. They explore the impact of social media on parenting, the importance of work-life balance, and the evolving roles of dads. The conversation also touches on conflict resolution, mindful parenting practices, and the legacy parents wish to leave for their children. Throughout the discussion, the importance of communication and support in parenting is emphasized, along with practical advice for new dads.TakeawaysCommunication is crucial.Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.Your own experiences will shape your role as a parent.Timestamps00:00 Introduction to the episode and guests03:15 Discussion on the article about parental stress07:45 Ken and Lonnie share why they sent the article12:30 Lonnie on societal pressures and social comparisons15:50 Ken emphasizes work-life balance and shared responsibilities19:00 Generational shifts in parenting roles22:45 Importance of communication in managing parenting roles26:10 Personal experiences influencing parenting methods30:00 Impact of conflict resolution visibility on children33:20 Advice on mindful parenting and being present37:00 Personal values and hopes for their children's future40:15 Closing thoughts and appreciation for the podcast work42:00 Invitation for listener feedback and final remarks

Violence towards children is one of the most concerning issues in New Zealand.   It's an issue that debates decades, back when Child, Youth and Family was responsible for our most vulnerable, before it was replaced by Oranga Tamariki.  And that government agency bears the brunt of trying to look after our children, and keep them safe from harm – but recent reports have shown that not only has little changed in terms of family harm, children that do end up in care are still at risk of abuse still.   Today on The Front Page, NZ Herald senior reporter Nicholas Jones joins to discuss one recent case he's investigated where child protection services had to apologise for getting it wrong.   And to discuss a recent report by the Independent Children's Monitor, released two and a half years after the death of Malachi Subecz, The Front Page also speaks with Arran Jones from the Independent Children's Monitor,   Follow The Front Page on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. You can read more about this and other stories in the New Zealand Herald, online at nzherald.co.nz, or tune in to news bulletins across the NZME network. Host: Chelsea DanielsSound Engineer: Paddy FoxProducer: Ethan SillsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does it really mean to raise confident and independent kids? How can parents instill strong values while making learning engaging and fun? And what practical steps can you take to prepare your children for a successful future? In this episode, I chat with Scott Donnell, a serial entrepreneur and expert in family financial education. Scott shares insights from his work with the Gravy Stack app and his book "Value Creation Kid," offering strategies for teaching kids life skills in a way that is both educational and enjoyable. In this interview, you'll learn . . . How to make learning engaging and fun for kids Strategies for teaching kids life skills during your daily routine The importance of instilling values and fostering independence Practical tips for building confidence and responsibility in children How to overcome common obstacles in teaching kids essential skills Creative ways to engage kids in learning through games And more . . . So, if you're ready to help your children develop the skills and values that will benefit them throughout their lives, click play and join the conversation. --- Timestamps: (08:00) How did studying high net worth families help in teaching kids about finances? (09:33) The concept of "heritage over inheritance” (10:40) What are the 12 principles and can you share a few that stand out? (20:34) What is the “home economy” system? (23:55) What are the 3 E's? (29:43) Have you encountered resistance from parents about implementing these principles? (36:19) Healthy struggles vs. unhealthy struggles (40:10) What types of healthy struggles should parents consider introducing to their kids? (46:27) What are your thoughts on the statement "If we model these behaviors, we are a lot of the way there"? (51:27) What are some of the most important skills we should teach our kids? (57:27) Why is interdependence, not independence, the goal in parenting? --- Mentioned on the Show: Value Creation Kid Dinner Table App Scott Donnell Instagram Thinner Leaner Stronger Triton Legion Training Quiz

The Children's Minister has set out five new reporting instructions for Oranga Tamariki going forward.  How the ministry is performing across these new criteria will be publicly reported every quarter starting from the 2024/2025 financial year. These include frequency of visits to children in care, timeliness around Reports of Concern, caregiver reports, complaint management and addressing youth offending. Minister Karen Chhour says data from the Independent Children's Monitor says the ministry has failed to meet these standards. "I'm going to make sure we get these quarterly reports, so we can see it in real time and actually make sure we're improving things." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Independent Children's Monitor says at-risk kids are no safer now than they were in 2021, when five-year-old Malachi Subecz was murdered by a carer. Children's commissioner Claire Achmed spoke to Corin Dann.

A call for action, with urgency, to keep New Zealand children safe.   The Independent Children's Monitor says tamariki are no safer today than when Tauranga five-year-old Malachi Subecz died in 2021.  He was murdered by his carer in 2021, and a damning review recommended sweeping changes, but they are still yet to been implemented.  Children's Commissioner Claire Achmad told Mike Hosking we still lose one child every five weeks, on average, to homicide.   She says it has to galvanise New Zealand to real action, because we can't afford to keep leaving New Zealand children in environments where they can potentially be harmed.  LISTEN ABOVE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Government agencies are being urged to get on with changes to child protections. A review in 2022 after Tauranga five-year-old Malachi Subecz was murdered recommended sweeping changes. The Independent Children's Monitor says they haven't happened, and children are no safer today than when Malachi died. Chief Executive Arrun Jones says these findings are disappointing. "We'd hoped to see more progress, so it's disappointing not to have seen that." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tonight on The Huddle, NZ Herald senior writer Simon Wilson and Capital Director Ben Thomas joined in on a discussion about the following issues of the day - and more! A new report by Independent Children's Monitor says the child protection system has not shifted enough since the death of Tauranga five-year-old Malachi Subecz - despite a 2022 review recommending sweeping changes. How appalling is this? How are we finding the Olympics so far? What did we think of last night's triathlon? Two women were trespassed from an Auckland movie theatre after they got caught bringing in hot food, snacks and beverages. Should the restrictions banning outside food be lifted? What do we make of this? LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nicky Davies is a Family Lawyer, Independent Children's Lawyer, and Chief Executive Officer of Legal Aid Queensland. Earlier this year, she was recognised for her contribution to the legal profession when she was awarded the Queensland Law Society's President's Medal. On this episode of The Callover, we discuss the work of Legal Aid and explore the important role that independent children's lawyers play in in court proceedings. Find the transcript here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parenting Independent Children When a child grows up independent, it is a gift, but it can also hurt. Where did my little boy go? Why do they have to grow up so fast? I don't want to lose our bond! Watch as I tell my own stories of raising independent children, and I give 5 tips to parents along the way! Discover how these 5 tips saved my heart and my sanity through the adolescent years and beyond!   LINKS MENTIONED IN THE RECORDING https://theimpactfulparent.com/app Download the FREE Impactful Parent App! Available on Apple and Android App Stores. FREEBIES from episodes included! Apple Store: https://theimpactfulparent.com/ios Android Play Store: https://theimpactfulparent.com/android https://theimpactfulparent.com for more FREE Resources and paid programs.   Rate, Review, & Subscribe! "I love Kristina and all the FREE tips that she has to offer!  Thank you for making my parenting journey better!" 

This podcast episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing attachment disruption in children to prevent emotional damage and ensure their well-being.In the segment, DJ and special guest Laurie Couture discuss the significance of attachment and early intervention in nurturing and empowering children for healthy development. Tune in to hear them talk about the importance of creating a secure attachment bond, building relationships with teachers, and prioritizing physical touch in parent-child interactions. Stay tuned as Laurie highlights the long-term emotional damage that can result from disrupted attachments in children, particularly in the context of adoption and foster care. Laurie A. Couture is a licensed mental health counselor and the author of Instead of Medicating and Punishing and the best seller, Nurturing and Empowering Our Sons. She is developing The Couture Protocol, an evidence-based, whole-child program of treating developmental and generational trauma in children, youths, and their families. Laurie provides consulting, presentations, training, and research reports to industries, agencies, and programs that directly serve children, youths, and families.TIMESTAMPS4:01 - DJ and Laurie discuss attachment disruption in children, especially those in foster care or adopted.13:14 - Laurie Couture explains secure attachment occurs when parents meet children's needs, while insecure attachment results from parents' failure to meet needs.18:04 - The conversation covers the impact of trauma on a child's education and the options for alternative schooling.31:03 - Laurie argues that society's emphasis on independence and peer relationships can lead to children being "skin-to-skin starved," and that parents should prioritize continued skin-to-skin contact as their children grow older.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleLaura Couture - Website: https://laurieacouture.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LaurieACoutureAuthor/Twitter “X”: https://twitter.com/laurieacoutureLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurieacouture/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/LaurieACouture

This episode features a conversation between Dr. E and Lynn Lyons, LICSW. Dr. E and Lynn discuss how to balance parental intervention and accommodations to avoid the pitfalls of excessive worry and anxiety that could cripple a child's development. They emphasized the need for regular parental modeling, skill-building, and promoting flexibility rather than rigidity. - TOPICS:  (04:48) GENERATIONAL ANXIETY IS REAL  (09:41) PARENTS NEED TO BE INVOLVED IN THEIR KID'S TREATMENT, TOO  (16:15) HOW PARENTS CAN MANAGE THEIR OWN ANXIETY  (37:29) PARENTS NEED A SELF-CARE ROUTINE  (47:00) WHERE TO BEGIN IF YOU'RE AN ANXIOUS PARENT  -  MORE ON THIS EPISODE'S GUEST, LYNN LYONS:  Lynn travels internationally as a speaker and trainer on the subject of anxiety, its role in families, and the need for a preventative approach at home and in schools. She is a sought-after expert, appearing in the New York Times, Time, NPR, Psychology Today, Good Morning America, the Today Show and other media outlets. Lynn is a featured expert in the recent documentary Anxious Nation.  With a special interest in breaking the generational cycle of worry in families, Lynn is the author/coauthor of several books and articles on anxiety, including Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, and the companion book for kids, Playing with Anxiety: Casey's Guide for Teens and Kids. Her latest book for adults and teenagers, The Anxiety Audit was released October '22.   Lynn is the co-host of the popular podcast Flusterclux.  -  Ask Dr. E a question of your own!  Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum  Explore our SMart Center success stories!  Get started at the SMart Center  Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here.  -  This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting  For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

Nearly half of children in Oranga Tamariki care are not seeing a social worker as often as they should. The Independent Children's Monitor has released another grim report into the agency tasked with caring for vulnerable tamariki. Its annual report on state care found instances of children being neglected or abused while in care increased, despite there being fewer kids in the system. Niva Chittock reports.

A new report has found Oranga Tamariki doesn't know whether the children in care are receiving annual health and dental check ups. The report by the Independent Children's Monitor found some are being given pain relief, instead of a proper check up. Krystal Gibbens reports.

Oranga Tamariki doesn't know whether it has been implementing basic health checks for the children under its care, according to a new report from the Independent Children's Monitor. The review reveals a lack of compliance and poor record-keeping for doctor and dentist visits. The chief executive of the Independent Children's Monitor, Arran Jones, says the message is simple: caregivers must note down whether the child has been to the doctor - and if not, get them there. Jones spoke to Corin Dann.

Oranga Tamariki looks to have fallen short of its responsibility for children's health checkups. The National Care Standards require Oranga Tamariki to annually check medical and dental needs, when a child comes into care. But a new report has found Oranga Tamariki has failed to properly keep track - and not all children had regular checkups. Independent Children's Monitor Chief Executive Arran Jones says they are vital for improving long-term health outcomes. "It's of utmost importance that the state, acting as the parent, does everything that they can to look after them. And that includes making sure that they're healthy, that they're connected up to the health services that they need." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome, ladies, to the Real Estate InvestHER Show! In this episode, we are going to learn some valuable insights on money management and raising financially savvy children with Maya Corbic. Maya is a passionate CPA and mother with over a decade of experience in teaching kids financial literacy, as well as empowering parents to raise their children to become financially independent adults. Her passion for this topic stems from her own personal experience as a first-generation immigrant from war-torn Bosnia, where her family lost everything in the war and immigrated with only two suitcases and $50. She understands firsthand the value of financial stability and independence and is committed to sharing her knowledge and experience with others. In this episode, Maya shares her story of moving from Bosnia to the US after losing everything in the war and how her experiences have taught her crucial lessons about budgeting and being a savvy spender. She then explains four different allowance methods that can be used to best equip kids with a successful approach to money management: chore-based, age-based, percentage-based, and need/want-based methods. Maya stresses the importance of teaching kids with family values in mind so that parents can create a personalized money teaching plan for their children.   “In order to teach our kids the abundant mentality, we need to have it ourselves.” (12:29 – 12:36) “We all need to be teaching about money based on our family values, what it is that we believe in, and whatever works best for our family.” (15:07 – 15:16) “Allowance is often misunderstood as a gift, but it's actually a valuable tool for children to learn money management in low-stakes situations.” (15:58 – 16:14)             Connect with Maya:a Instagram: @teach.kids.money LinkedIn: Maya Corbic Website: Dinarii Financial Education   Resources Mentioned:   Atomic Habits by James Clear   How To Join the InvestHER Movement   1) InvestHER CON 2023 Scottsdale, Arizona, May 18-19 Generational Wealth - You Come First   Here is what you can expect at InvestHER CON 2023: Pre-event network 2 Full days of transformational experiences Access to over 20 Sessions with Keynotes and Speakers Recordings from all sessions Access to investors, mentors, and influencers Mindful networking Opportunities to connect with our sponsors + vendors Coffee and Lunch included Final Reception: Red Party Live 30-day Group Accountability Virtual Session with the Founders Liz and Andresa Exclusive Breakfast for STRIVE members only. "InvestHer CON was truly a transformative experience. I have felt alone for so long and now I feel like a have a community of support. I don't have to be the master of everything and take it all on my shoulders, I just have to do what I am excellent at."  Heather Giammichele   We reserved the entire resort for us!    Join us in. Get your ticket today!   https://www.therealestateinvesther.com/investhercon   2)  InvestHER Community on Facebook: a safe place for women to ask real estate investing questions and gain the support they need to achieve their goals!    3)STRIVE Membership - for highly ambitious and decisive Real Estate investors looking to grow your Real Estate portfolio on your own terms while making deeper relationships with successful women playing at the same level.  APPLY today at https://www.therealestateinvesther.com/membership   4) InvestHER Meetups Around the Globe: attend in-person meetings held monthly by experienced InvestHER Leaders! Find the location near you HERE!     5)The Real Estate InvestHER Podcast - straight talk and inspiration for current and aspiring female real estate investors to live both balanced and financially free lives. Subscribe here.   6)InvestHER™ ORG with eXp: all-woman investment group for agents and build your personal portfolio while creating generational wealth! Get the benefits of being part of a team without extra fees! Click here and schedule a discovery call. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome, ladies, to the Real Estate InvestHER Show! In this episode, we are going to learn some valuable insights on money management and raising financially savvy children with Maya Corbic. Maya is a passionate CPA and mother with over a decade of experience in teaching kids financial literacy, as well as empowering parents to raise their children to become financially independent adults. Her passion for this topic stems from her own personal experience as a first-generation immigrant from war-torn Bosnia, where her family lost everything in the war and immigrated with only two suitcases and $50. She understands firsthand the value of financial stability and independence and is committed to sharing her knowledge and experience with others. In this episode, Maya shares her story of moving from Bosnia to the US after losing everything in the war and how her experiences have taught her crucial lessons about budgeting and being a savvy spender. She then explains four different allowance methods that can be used to best equip kids with a successful approach to money management: chore-based, age-based, percentage-based, and need/want-based methods. Maya stresses the importance of teaching kids with family values in mind so that parents can create a personalized money teaching plan for their children.   “In order to teach our kids the abundant mentality, we need to have it ourselves.” (12:29 – 12:36) “We all need to be teaching about money based on our family values, what it is that we believe in, and whatever works best for our family.” (15:07 – 15:16) “Allowance is often misunderstood as a gift, but it's actually a valuable tool for children to learn money management in low-stakes situations.” (15:58 – 16:14)             Connect with Maya:a Instagram: @teach.kids.money LinkedIn: Maya Corbic Website: Dinarii Financial Education   Resources Mentioned:   Atomic Habits by James Clear   How To Join the InvestHER Movement   1) InvestHER CON 2023 Scottsdale, Arizona, May 18-19 Generational Wealth - You Come First   Here is what you can expect at InvestHER CON 2023: Pre-event network 2 Full days of transformational experiences Access to over 20 Sessions with Keynotes and Speakers Recordings from all sessions Access to investors, mentors, and influencers Mindful networking Opportunities to connect with our sponsors + vendors Coffee and Lunch included Final Reception: Red Party Live 30-day Group Accountability Virtual Session with the Founders Liz and Andresa Exclusive Breakfast for STRIVE members only. "InvestHer CON was truly a transformative experience. I have felt alone for so long and now I feel like a have a community of support. I don't have to be the master of everything and take it all on my shoulders, I just have to do what I am excellent at."  Heather Giammichele   We reserved the entire resort for us!    Join us in. Get your ticket today!   https://www.therealestateinvesther.com/investhercon   2)  InvestHER Community on Facebook: a safe place for women to ask real estate investing questions and gain the support they need to achieve their goals!    3)STRIVE Membership - for highly ambitious and decisive Real Estate investors looking to grow your Real Estate portfolio on your own terms while making deeper relationships with successful women playing at the same level.  APPLY today at https://www.therealestateinvesther.com/membership   4) InvestHER Meetups Around the Globe: attend in-person meetings held monthly by experienced InvestHER Leaders! Find the location near you HERE!     5)The Real Estate InvestHER Podcast - straight talk and inspiration for current and aspiring female real estate investors to live both balanced and financially free lives. Subscribe here.   6)InvestHER™ ORG with eXp: all-woman investment group for agents and build your personal portfolio while creating generational wealth! Get the benefits of being part of a team without extra fees! Click here and schedule a discovery call. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A new Independent Children's Monitor report has found vulnerable children are being let down by the very system that's supposed to be caring for them. The Returning Home From Care report found inconsistencies, data gaps and communication issues, when children are returned home while in State care. The results have angered those with first-hand experiences, who say it appears nothing has changed in decades. Delphine Herbert reports

The head of the government agency that recently took over monitoring of Oranga Tamariki says the current time is a big test of his newly reconstituted office's capacity. The Independent Children's Monitor, which has a complementary role to that of the Children's Commissioner, has been around for a few years as a business unit within the Ministry of Social Development overseeing children in state care. Independent Children's Monitor's executive director Arran Jones spoke to Ingrid Hipkiss.

Tomorrow the high-profile role of the Children's Commissioner will officially be disestablished, replaced with a board of three to six members - a move many fear will significantly weaken the power of the role. The Oversight of Oranga Tamariki System Act 2022 splits the office's advocacy role from its monitoring function, creating a new entity called the Independent Children's Monitor, which will be housed within the Education Review Office. The change has been highly controversial and was opposed by all political parties, apart from Labour. Of the 499 public submissions, only eight expressed their support, with an overwhelming majority strongly opposing the bill. Opponents were concerned the change would dilute the office's role as an advocate and would lose its independence, ultimately leading to worse outcomes for tamariki. Kathryn speaks with Judge Frances Eivers, the current Children's Commissioner, who follows Judge Andrew Becroft, Russell Wills, John Angus, Dame Cindy Kiro, and the late Ian Hassall, who have all been powerful advocates for children.

Oranga Tamariki is still not meeting minimum standards for children in care, according to a report by an independent watchdog.The Independent Children's Monitor, Aroturuki Tamariki says there has been no meaningful improvement since the last report, and the agency is still failing to meet the basic needs of tamariki in state care. The report found Oranga Tamariki was not able to provide data to show whether a child's education and health needs were being met. It did report that only 53 percent or children are registered with a GP or medical practice, down from 60 percent the year before. The Experiences of Care report also found only 65 percent of children in care were visited by a social worker in the last year. Oranga Tamariki has custody of more than 6000 children and is supposed to meet minimum standards of care that came into force in 2019. Kathryn speaks to Arran Jones, executive director of the Independent Children's Monitor, Aroturuki Tamariki.

Oranga Tamariki is defending its care of children despite a new report showing it's failing to reach some minimum standards.. The latest Independent Children's Monitor report shows that in two years the Ministry has made barely any improvements. Ashleigh McCaull reports.  

New figures are laying bare the failings of Oranga Tamariki. The Independent Children's Monitor has found the agency is placing a third of children into care, before completing caregiver assessments. Social workers are only making 29 percent of their planned visits to children in care. Executive Director Arran Jones told Mike Hosking these children come into care because their home life is unstable. He says they've been removed from their family to keep them safe, so important these standards are met, so they can have a better quality of life. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Today's episode with Chris and Holly Santillo discusses the importance of teaching our children independence and resilience in a generation that has become heavily focused on dependency. Many millennial parents are fearful of allowing their children to live independently because they worry about the disconnect in the relationship. However, Chris and Holly discuss how independence actually creates a real connection between parent and child.  They discuss the importance of allowing our children to explore, to make decisions on their own, to fail and learn from that failure - and so much more.  Purchase their book here: Raising Resilient Children in an Era of Detachment and Dependence by Chris and Holly Santillo Follow along with Lindsey on IG @livingeasywithlindsey.

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We all want our children to eventually fly from the lovely nests we've created for them, but giving our children the independence they need to do so can sometimes be as hard on us as it is on them. We talk about the baby steps you can take to start teaching independence to kids of all ages (it can be as simple as a playdate!) and how fostering an independent mind is as important as giving them physical freedom. Then, we dive into the wonders of summer camp. We're big fans around here, and we'll tell you why we think every kid should experience it and how it changed the lives of two generations in our family.

Have you been warned against making a rod for your own back by carrying your child? Has someone told you that slings and carriers are just a new trend or something used only by a certain 'type' of parent?What about the idea that they won't ever learn to walk if they are always carried?Zoe Woodman from The Sling Consultancy joins me for this week's episode to dispel these ideas and share her knowledge and expertise all about carrying, child psychology and infant neural development. We discuss how to foster authentic independence and resilience, as well as make our lives as parents more convenient! Many of us are living in a culture that celebrates separation over connectedness. And certainly, separation-based parenting strategies like sleep training do "work" - but at what cost?To find out more about Zoe go to www.theslingconsultancy.co.ukThe TED talk by Dorsa Amir that Zoe references is here: http://www.tedxcambridge.com/talk/modern-childhood-is-strange/

We start with our current Highs and Lows (i.e., spending the weekend with friends, processing the abortion ban in Texas, settling into the school year). Then we shift into Today's Topic focused raising secure, independent children. Next we share a couple of Tips & Tricks (EMDR and picking up the house together after dinner). Finally, we close out with Facing Forward to share what we want to make true in our lives in the next two weeks as we work to cultivate lives full of joy, purpose, and community.

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