Podcast appearances and mentions of molly demellier

PR isn't about hosting parties and drinking cosmos in the Hamptons - even if that's what Samantha Jones and Sex and the City led us to believe.  This week, Heather is joined by Molly DeMellier, PR Lead at Acast, and she sets the record straight on what PR actually is! Acast is the hosting distribution and monetization platform for podcasts across the open ecosystem, and Molly shares her insider knowledge about how PR is closely related to podcasting.  Tune in to hear Heather and Molly answer: What is PR?  Who really owns an ad?  Does every brand need a branded podcast? If so, how do you run a successful one?  Where should you start with podcast trade publications?  ______________________________________ More of a visual person? Watch this episode on YouTube.  Ready to learn more? Check out our blog for more podcast advertising tips.  If you get value from the content, please consider subscribing and leaving a review! You can also follow us on social Twitter - @truenativemedia Instagram - @truenativemedia YouTube - Heather Osgood LinkedIn - Heather Osgood | True Native Media | Podcast Advertising Playbook  

In this episode, I sit down with Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, co-hosts of the The Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast to discuss all things dating. We touch on why someone who would unmatch on a dating app, dating app prompts, and are you needy or is asking for your needs just secure? Professional comedian Erica Spera and businesswoman Molly DeMellier are well-educated, driven, former NCAA athletes who know how to get what they want — except when it comes to men. With humor and candor, they explore the complicated, frustrating and bizarre realities of dating as headstrong, twenty-something women in New York City. Never the wallflowers, Erica and Molly go against the grain and take the initiative to ask men out —even if it means sliding into DMs with a bold intro or sending a drink to a stranger across the bar. But they also bring a candid and honest point of view to the experience — with Erica's recent herpes diagnosis adding another layer onto navigating sexual encounters, dates, loneliness, family and societal pressures, and more. Use code LIANA15UNICORNSNOT for 15% off on all products at unicornsnot.com. I would love if you could subscribe, rate, and review this podcast and spread the word to your family friends, and former ghosters :p as it really helps the podcast grow! Please feel free to reach out to my personal Instagram @lianacolada or the podcast Instagram @ghosts_ofdatespast. You can also shoot me an email at lianapavane@ttylnyc.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ghostsofdatespast/support

We've reached Molly's final episode of the podcast this week so we've turned the tables and Erica interviews her as her first guest. The two discuss how far they've come over the last two and a half years and the way their perception of dating has or hasn't changed in certain scenarios. Molly also spills on who were her favorite guests, top episodes, new outlooks she has for herself, what she would tell “The Rules” founders if she had the chance, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Podcast: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we dive back into Bruce Bryans' work to discuss his book "What Women Want in a Man." Erica and Molly discuss Chapter 2: How to Become the Man that She Needs and debate where power dynamics should play into relationships. The two also share their own opinions on what behavior from men is most attractive to them and whether nice guys really do lose out in dating. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Podcast: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Do you have a 'type' or pattern in your dating life? Have you ever wondered what that might actually say about you? Well we do. So this week we dive into the article '10 Different Types of Guys -- And What Your Attraction To Them Says About You' by Paul Carrick Brunson. Erica and Molly discuss the types of guys they believe they most often attract and debate the ways their own behaviors may perpetuate their problems in love. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we're joined by founder of Smart Dating Academy Bela Gandhi (TODAY Show, GMA, The Steve Harvey Show) to talk all about making better choices in dating. Bela shares with Erica and Molly how she came to launch Smart Dating Academy, the common mistakes she sees clients making in their dating lives, the advice she gives them to help solve these problems, and more. Bela even tells a story of how she shot her shot with her now husband. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Smart Dating Academy: instagram.com/smartdatingacademy Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we're joined by Three Day Rule Matchmaking Founder Talia Goldstein to talk about the business of love. Talia shares with Erica and Molly how she went from setting up friends and colleagues at dinner parties to launching her own business, how Three Day Rule determines compatibility, tips for first dates, dating trends in the Covid era, the bold move she made to reel in her husband, and much more. Join Three Day Rule's free database or matchmaking services here: threedayrule.com/erica 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Three Day Rule: instagram.com/threedayrule Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we welcome back to the pod Sara Levine (Betches Media) to chat through a few "Am I the A**hole?" scenarios. Sara chats with Erica and Molly about if and how to tell a partner they smell bad, body shaming, lying about height, first date nightmares, and more. After each scenario the three cast their vote for who is the a**hole in the situation. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Sara Levine: instagram.com/saralememe Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Welcome back to the best day of the week fam! This week we're turning to TikTok to play a little game of rapid fire using recent viral dating advice videos. Erica and Molly chat about the extent to which they agree or disagree with the advice and speak to examples from their own lives. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

We're stepping up the confidence in 2022. This week Erica and Molly dive into Matthew Hussey's video "3 Confident Female Mindsets That Drive Guys Wild." The two debate his advice and share their own experiences that have and haven't gone quite according to plan. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Happy (almost) New Year everyone! We're ready for a clean slate and are looking at ways to reset our dating mindsets in 2022. In this episode, Erica and Molly look at the AskMen article "20 Ways to Find Love in 2022" by Danielle Paige and discuss the tips shared by various dating expert and therapist sources. The girls also share a few of their own tips and new intentions for finding love in the new year. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Happy Holidays fam! This week we're diving back into the book "Calling in The One" by Katherine Woodward Thomas and have a fresh view. Patreon gang knows all too well the introspection that Molly has been up to lately and this week she shares her journey so far in going through the exercises from the book. Together she and Erica unpack the fourth lesson in the book called, 'Love for Love's Sake' and discuss what motivates them to give and receive love, overcoming the subconscious mind, "Essence Qualities", affirmations and incantations and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week Erica and Molly return to “Make Your Move” and “Date-onomics, but this time sit down with author Jon Birger to chat about his work. Jon explains the lopsided dating pool that he discovered in his book “Date-onomics” and the challenges it presents for singles today. The three also discuss whether gender matters when making the first move in relationships, dating apps, how to make bold moves to find your life partner, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Jon Birger: instagram.com/jon_birger1 Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we are joined by the mastermind behind the viral @FindingMrHeight - Ali Jackson. Ali chats with Erica and Molly about how to really stand out on your dating profiles and in the messages you send. She also dives into her texting scripts and when to use a script and move on. The ladies also discuss some major red flags as well as the green flags to look for in new dating prospects. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Ali Jackson Finding Mr. Height: instagram.com/findingmrheight Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

T'is the season… to stress over what to get your S/O for the holidays. The very funny Nathan MacIntosh (The Tonight Show, Colbert), joins Erica and Molly this week to talk about buying gifts and fills the girls in on what men really want at the holidays. They chat about the best and worst gifts they've given and received as well as what point in the relationship to buy a gift, if you should set a budget, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Nathan Macintosh: instagram.com/nathanmacintosh Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

I'm joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We're diving into the results of the Instagram polls you've voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone's relationship history matters, if you need closure to move on, if "the one" is out there, and more. Erica runs a private virtual Herpes Support Group. Sign up here or email herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com for more information or if you're interested in joining! Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! We're calling across the pond for this American holiday and chatting with everyone's favorite ex-pat TikToker Kacie Burns. We talk with Kacie about how a solo trip to Italy a few years ago led her to her dream man, their long distance relationship that unfolded after just 3 days together, and how she ended up becoming a viral TikTok sensation living in Florence, Italy with her boyfriend. Kacie shares some of the cultural differences she experienced while building her new life abroad, moving to a new country with a significant other, homesickness, and so much more. 60% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD for Black Friday now until December 1st! 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Kacie Burns: instagram.com/KacieRose_ Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we dive into Founder of Flirtology Jean Smith's “The Science of Flirting: Being a H.O.T A.P.E” - and it's bananas. Erica and Molly debate the flirting tactics outlined by the acronym and share some of their personal wins and losses in the flirting game. They also talk about how this theory differs from typical advice that's often given to women in dating and debate which tactics would be more effective for men as opposed to women. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Buckle up for this one kids. This week we're joined by the very funny Steve Furey (World on Drugs Podcast, Hulu) who shares some stories that he's been saving just for the Shooters Gotta Shoot fans. We talk break up nightmares, herpes scares, how long to wait before sleeping with someone you're interested in dating, women making the first move, and much much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Steve Furey: instagram.com/scubastevefurey Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

They say there's power in numbers, but could being single really be your greatest superpower? This week we're joined by Case Kenny (New Mindset, Who Dis? Podcast) to talk about his workbook “Single is Your Superpower.” Case discusses with Erica and Molly how being single can create opportunities to be more mindful about what you need from a relationship and shares tips on how to set better intentions for your dating life. The three also chat about the importance of being introspective about our dating life and habits. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Case Kenny: instagram.com/case.kenny Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Your girls have had a week and we needed some Matthew Hussey wisdom (read: hot accent) in our lives. We dive into two of his videos about how to get that sought after commitment from your partner. We discuss how to invest in your partner when it's still early in your relationship, how to test their response, times we've done too much for partners who weren't reciprocating our investments in them, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we dive into a listener recommended book, "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge" by Jon Birger. We discuss the chapter 'The Make Your Move Offline Dating Challenge' and tips for meeting new prospects while on a dating apps cleanse. Erica and Molly talk about how to be direct in shooting your shot, making - and ranking- lists of offline dating prospects, when rejection is a good thing, and the power of vulnerability. They also debate an interesting 'Would You Rather...' scenario at the start of the episode. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week the girls revisit a tried and true book "Attached: The Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep Love." Specifically they discuss the chapter on effective communication and explore how various attachment styles both struggle and succeed in communicating with their partners. The girls also share their own experiences with communication efficacy and breakdowns in past relationships. Erica approaches the conversation having tested as a 'secure' attachment style and discusses times that she's related to the 'anxious' and 'avoidant' styles in her attempts to communicate with partners. Molly, a rarer 'anxious-avoidant' attachment style, talks about her past struggles to communicate needs and emotions to romantic partners. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

New Book City. Population: Us. This week Erica and Molly dive into "Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You" by Susan Forward, Ph.D and Donna Frazier. The two talk about the times they've experienced emotional blackmail in their relationships (in both small and big ways), what constitutes emotional blackmail, the role victims play in this game of emotional rollercoasters, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Your two favorite nerds are back in the books and take on Ty Tashiro's "The Science of Happily Ever After." Erica and Molly debate what actually is true love, talk about biological and societal occurrences that have shaped modern dating and how marrying for love is a relatively new concept for the human race. They also discuss the qualities that were originally considered most attractive in a mate and how they have or have not changed today. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we are joined by Ben Higgins (The Bachelor) and although all of the roses have been given out, there are still many more stories to tell. Ben dishes to Erica and Molly about his engagement and upcoming wedding, as well as about how he made a bold move on his now fiance. Ben also shares how his experiences on The Bachelorette and as The Bachelor impacted his future relationships, what he learned about dating from the shows, and even tells stories of shooting his shot and missing. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Ben Higgins: instagram.com/higgins.ben Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we take a fan recommendation and dive into Helen Fisher's TedTalk "Why we love, why we cheat." We unpack the MRI studies of human brains when individuals are in love and when individuals are experiencing heartbreak. Erica and Molly also discuss the biology behind love and attachment, the three brain systems of romantic love, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

You were always told to listen to your grandma, but on dating advice too? This grandma- absolutely. This week we're joined by Kim Murstein and her Grandma Gail, (co-hosts of Excuse My Grandma Podcast) to chat about old school vs new school dating. Grandma Gail offers her wisdom, while Kim, Erica and Molly bring their experiences - and challenges - with modern dating to the conversation. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Kim Murstein: instagram.com/kimmurstein // Excuse My Grandma: instagram.com/excusemygrandma Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week we are joined by none other than co-author of The Rules series, Sherrie Schneider. Erica and Molly have cracked open The Rules at various points over the years and in this episode chat with Sherrie about what inspired her and her co-author Ellen Fein to write the books, what rules have worked in her own relationships and eventual marriage, if she has ever broken rules, what's different in today's dating scene, and much more. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Sherrie Schneider: instagram.com/therulesbook Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Grab the vodka and olives and pour one out as you listen, because our guest this week holds nothing back. Danielle Silverstein (Marriage and Martinis Podcast) joins us to talk about wedded bliss and when it's a miss. We discuss overcoming challenges in relationships like mental health, financial inequality, severe illness, loss of intimacy and much much more. Danielle also chats with Erica and Molly about her new eBook "Date Night Questions" and when to take them on with your partner. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Danielle Marriage and Martinis: instagram.com/marriageandmartinis Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

We're celebrating 100 episodes this week by taking a look back on what we've learned and how far we've come since launching the pod. Erica has also been a Friends rewatch binge lately, so the girls dive into the Bustle article "The Best Dating Advice From Your 'Friends'" to give their take on advice from the iconic show. They also share advice that their own friends have given them through the years that has stuck with them. In celebration of 100 episodes we're giving away a free Womanzier vibrator from our partner WOW Tech Group once we reach 500 reviews on Apple Podcasts. Leave your review for your chance to win! 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Kim (@kimmurstein) and Grandma Gail are joined by co-hosts of the dating podcast ‘Shooters Gotta Shoot', Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier. The two ladies challenge old school dating methods with their outlook that women should often make the first move. They also discuss how to approach someone at a bar, the importance of safe sex, … Excuse My Grandma's Take on Shooting Your Shot (ft. Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier of Shooters Gotta Shoot Podcast) Read More »

We've brought you the Hot Girl Summer of episodes people, so pour a drink on ice and settle in for this one. Erica and Molly dive into Dr. Emily Morse's (Sex w/ Emily) article published in AskMen "What Men Need To Know About The Female Body." The girls share what they think is most important for men to know about how to turn women on, what they think most men don't know, and debate the tips in the article based on their own experiences -- good, bad and of course the mind blowingly sexy. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Kim (@kimmurstein) and Grandma Gail are joined by co-hosts of the dating podcast ‘Shooters Gotta Shoot', Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier. The two ladies challenge old school dating methods with their outlook that women should often make the first move. They also discuss how to approach someone at a bar, the importance of safe sex, … Excuse My Grandma's Take on Shooting Your Shot (ft. Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier of Shooters Gotta Shoot Podcast) Read More »

This week, Pam & Sarah get up close and personal with the gorgeous geniuses behind Shooters Gotta Shoot Podcast, Erica Spera & Molly DeMellier! We're chatting about allll things dating with this dynamic duo, and getting schooled on dating app culture, common missteps in the minefield of dating during a global pandemic, and getting a special glimpse into what makes their pod so damn special. And you know we're here for you with two kick-ass games! First up, a brand new one -- Vocabulary, Schmocabulary -- the gals put Molly & Erica to the test, to see if these former star athletes can decode some tricky terms that could either be about dating or bball. Then, we're keeping it classic with Bang, Marry, or Bench -- Erica & Molly take turns filling in their roster with some lucky celeb dream dates. Who will make the cut, and who's getting benched? Co-hosts/Co-creators: Pamela Riley & Sarah Armstrong-BrownSpecial Guests: Erica Spera & Molly DeMellierEditing & Mixing: Joseph HazanRecorded at Newsstand Studios at Rockefeller CenterTheme song by: Eric Tsavdar and Mike Armstrong-Brown Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're talking all about the anatomy of love and our individual personality traits that make up the way we express ourselves. Erica and Molly took Helen Fisher's Personality Test, which tests the degree to which a person expresses four broad styles of thinking and behaving, each associated with one of four basic brain systems: the dopamine, serotonin, testosterone and estrogen systems. The girls discuss the traits that they believe have been complimented and hindered in past relationships as well as what traits they need in a future partner. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

It's been a minute since either of your girls have gone through a breakup (or locked someone down), so with plenty of time to process the demise of our past relationships we're chatting with Kendra Allen, also known as the Breakup Bestie. We talk about some of the biggest mistakes that people often make fresh off of a breakup, if you should cut ties with your exes friends and family, what it means when your ex watches your Instagram stories, "winning the breakup" and so so much more. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Kendra Allen: instagram.com/yourbreakupbestie Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

It's the best day of the week once again and your girls are talking all about FOMO and FOBO with the creator of the terms himself, Patrick McGinnis (TEDX). They discuss the difference between The Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) and The Fear of a Better Option (FOBO) and how both can negatively impact modern dating. They talk about how to make better decisions in relationships and how being more decisive can actually make you a better partner. They also chat about outside factors that can increase FOMO and FOBO and how to navigate those factors. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Patrick McGinnis: instagram.com/patrickjmcginnis Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week Erica and Molly unpack relationship psychologist James Bauer's Hero Instinct Theory. They dive into the article "19 Ways to Unveil the Hero Instinct in Men" and discuss ways they feel they have failed and succeeded to bring out the Hero Instincts of men in their past relationships. They also debate whether the pieces of advice given in the article would be well received by men and suggest ways to approach certain situations. The two also discuss the difference between needing a man and wanting a man -- and which will win him over in the end. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

The best day of the week is back and your girls are talking all things summer flings. Erica and Molly unpack summer fling do's and don'ts recommendations from relationship expert Bela Gandhi. They discuss whether summer flings are still a thing, the difference between a fling and hot girl summer, if you can make a summer flame a longer term relationship, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

The hilarious HANNAH BERNER (Bravo, Berning in Hell, Giggly Squad) is back and showing off some new hardware. Since Hannah was last on the podcast she's stepped into the next chapter of her relationship with an engagement to comedian Des Bishop and away from Summer House. Erica and Molly chat with Hannah about her tips for women hoping to get engaged, the challenges of a pandemic relationship, how to tell your partner what you want in an engagement, navigating her relationship through the scrutiny of the public eye, setting rumors straight and much more. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Hannah Berner: instagram.com/beingbernz Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Fan favorite JOURDAIN FISHER (The Tonight Show) is back this week with Erica and Molly to unpack advice from image consultant and YouTuber, Kevin Samuels. The three discuss clips from Kevin's YouTube video, "Single Women Are Getting Older, Educated, And Aren't Willing To Settle." They talk about whether age should factor into the value that women bring into relationships and if society views older men the same way. They also debate how socio-economic status impacts relationships, the different ways it can be felt by men and women and much more. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Jourdain Fisher: instagram.com/jfishercomedy Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

On Thursdays we take down the patriarchy. This week Erica and Molly dive into Bruce Bryan's book "The 7 Irresistible Qualities Men Want in A Woman" to upack Chapter 7: An Attribute That Keeps Him Loyal (A Woman's Secret Weapon." The two call out that women feel pressure to "keep" a man loyal, when fidelity should be an individual responsibility, They also debate the author's recommended tactics for how women can make themselves irresistible, discuss what is means to be a "proactive lover", and question why there is less focus on men to match women's efforts in relationships. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Your girls are on one this week as we dive into the book "Calling in The One" by Catherine Woodward Thomas. Erica and Molly take a deep read of Chapter 23: 'Setting an Intention' and debate what it really means to date with intention. They discuss whether you can actually manifest what you're hoping for in a relationship by adjusting your outlook and attitude as well as how to take consistent action in order to get what you want. To no one's surprise, the pair has some hard opinions on "speaking to the Universe" that you definitely don't want to miss. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Don't sleep on this one folks! This week we sit down with Rachel Wright, a licensed sex therapist and sex educator, to talk all about polyamory / ethical non-monogamy. We break down the terms to understand the difference between the two, as well as other lifestyles. Rachel shares details of her current relationship, what led her and her husband to open up their marriage after nearly 8 years, navigating jealousy in an ENM relationship, the "agreements" of non-monogamous relationships, and much much more. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything! Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Rachel Wright: instagram.com/thewright_rachel Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

This week on the podcast, Maria talks to the co-hosts of the Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast, Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier. NCAA athletes Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier have always taken shots on and off the court. They know how to get what they want, except when it comes to men. Recently, dating has become harder to navigate with Erica getting diagnosed with herpes and Molly’s sister/best friend excommunicating herself from the family. But instead of giving up on love, they've made a pact to challenge each other to test modern and old school dating methods. They'll stay in the game and laugh at the rejections they take along the way. Erica Spera is a New York City comedian originally from Binghamton, NY. Spera was named one of Conan's 2017 TBS Comics to Watch and since then has opened for Patton Oswalt, Bert Kreischer, Judah Friedlander, and more!  Molly DeMellier is a New York City podcaster, writer and communications expert with experience spanning a variety of industries including entertainment, comedy, travel, sports, tech, and enterprise software.  Follow Molly on Instagram at http://instagram.com/theguaca_molly Follow Molly on Twitter at http://twitter.com/theguaca_molly     Follow Erica on Instagram at http://instagram.com/spericaa Follow Erica on Twitter at http://twitter.com/spericaa  Learn more about the Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast on Instagram at http://instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod  Enroll in the next Agape Intensive: https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/  Follow Maria on Instagram Follow Maria on TikTok Have a question for Maria? Visit http://askamatchmaker.com To learn more about how Maria and how her team can help you find love, visit agapematch.com  

This week we're talking about all things infidelity! We debate tips shared by Steve Harvey from his Good Morning America segment, "Why Do Men Cheat?" and Erica and Molly discuss their own experiences with cheating. They also answer the questions: Should you ever stay with a cheater? What makes a person cheat? Would you date someone who has cheated on a past partner? Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? And much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Happy Monday... it's That Time of the WEEK!!!! Maddy is in the studio with brand new guests Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, co-hosts of the Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast. The gals answer some questions that Maddy's Instagram followers shamelessly asked, talk about their #1 quarantine purchases (shoutout CBD oil and candles!!!). They also talk: - Kim and Kanye DONE-zo! - Megan and Harry no longer royals! - much more! LOVE the pod?! Full video episodes drop on Sunday and Maddy's weekly solo pod are available at PATREON.COM/MADDYSMITH. Join now - it's worth it! Follow the pod on IG: @thattimeoftheweekpod Follow the gals: @somaddysmith @spericaa @theguaca_molly

Who said women cannot ask a guy out in the first place? I'm talking to Molly DeMellier on how she takes charge when it comes to dating, and we shouldn't be afraid to make the first move.

In this episode, we discuss stigmas, baggage, and overcoming fear and shame to go after what you want. Shooters Gotta Shoot is a podcast breaking the stigmas around herpes, sex, and women who go after what they want. Professional comedian Erica Spera and businesswoman Molly DeMellier are well-educated, driven, former NCAA athletes who know how to get what they want — except when it comes to men. With humor and candor, they explore the complicated, frustrating and bizarre realities of dating as headstrong, twenty-something women in New York City. But they also bring a candid and honest point of view to the experience — with Erica's recent herpes diagnosis adding another layer onto navigating sexual encounters, dates, loneliness, family and societal pressures, and more. In this episode, we discuss: ·      How to overcome shame and blame when it comes to the baggage we carry with us into relationships. ·      The stigma around having herpes and the added element it brings to navigating the already complicated dating scene. ·      How your childhood upbringing may impact your attitude towards dating as an adult. ·      How long women should wait before they put out. ·      Relationship sex vs casual sex and the role losing your virginity plays into which one you prefer. ·      How an awareness of feminine energy vs. masculine energy can provide insight into your current dating strategies. ·      And I also get a big lesson in today's dating scene and how ALL the different social media platforms are part of it, not just the dating apps. You can find and follow Erica and Molly here: Shooters Gotta Shoot Shooters Gotta Shoot Instagram @shootersgottashootpod Shooters Gotta Shoot Facebook @shootersgottashootpod Erica Instagram @spericaa Molly Instagram @theguaca_molly Check out my new SHOP! Company highlight - Royal is redefining sexual health and personal care products. From condoms, to lubricants, to body wipes, every Royal product is vegan friendly, organic, and all natural to give your goodies what they deserve. Get 15% off your using code: TheBetterYou at checkout. Please SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, RATE, and REVIEW the podcast! Follow the podcast on Instagram @TheBetterYouPodcast or Facebook @TheBetterYouPodcast. And you can email the podcast at TheBetterYouPodcast@gmail.com Follow me on all the socials: Instagram @kaciemain_writes, Facebook @kaciemain.write, or Twitter @kaciemain_write. Find my book – I Gave Up Men for Lent, the story of a jaded, hopelessly romantic, health-conscious party girl's search for meaning – on Amazon, Kindle, and Audible. And for everything else you want to know about me, visit my website at www.kaciemain.com       Some links are Amazon Affiliate links.