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A love and relationship podcast for women of color who have been through some sh*t and are now on a personal growth journey because they want healthy relationships or no relationships at all. This is a no-nonsense, deep-diving conversation into controversial personal growth and relationship topics w…

Candice Harper


    • May 20, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 49m AVG DURATION
    • 205 EPISODES


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    Repelling the Diddy Types *Bonus Episode*

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 14:44


    Welcome to a bonus episode. Candice addresses her own DV history and one small way to safeguard yourself in these dating streets. #diddy #celebrelationships #safety #vetting If you or someone you know is in a dangerous relationship situation get help. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 799 7233. Music Arrangement: Wes Kilgore candiceharperlovecoach.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Girl, Do You Really Want A Leader? Ep. 290

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2024 41:03


    Candice is back! This week she talks about how to recognize a leader in the wild and get clear about whether you really want one in the first place. #blacklove #relationships #singleblackwomen #influentialblackwomen #luxury #thatgirl #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #getyourgloat http://candiceharperlovecoach.com Music Arrangement: Wes Kilgore --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    5 Lessons to Learn From Amanda Seales on Shay Shay Ep. 289

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2024 38:19


    Love her or hate her, Amanda Seales has some ways that EVERY woman would benefit from learning. Join Candice for 5 Lessons to learn from Amanda Seales's interview with Shannon Sharpe. #communication #relationships #amandaseales #clubshayshay #dating Music Arrangement By: Wes Kilgore http://candiceharperlovecoach.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Pitfalls and Practices for Healthy Love Ep. 288

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 27:25


    This week Candice breaks down some of the pitfalls that we succumb to and some of the practices that will have us attracting a mate for our soul. Music Arrangement by: Wes Kilgore #relationships #blackwomen #blacklove #datingcoach #datingadvice #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice https://candiceharperlovecoach.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Are You Your Person's Person? Ep. 287

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2024 52:55


    This week Candice lays out exactly what magnetizes your mate. Find out if you are your person's person, and if not, what to do to get there. #relationshipcoach #datingcoach #datingadvice #blackwomen #blacklove #singleblackwomen https://candiceharperlovecoach.com Music Arrangement By: Wes Kilgore --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Mothers and Daughters, Whoo Chile!! Ep. 286

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 37:59


    This episode is for when you know your relationship with your mom is f*ing with your love life. Candice breaks down one main thing that we absolutely need to do to clear it and get healthy. candiceharperlovecoach.com. #motherdaughter #relationships #blackwomen #blacklove #singlewomen #datingpodcasts #relationshippodcasts Intro and Outro music arranged by Wes Kilgore. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Are You Waiting On God for A Husband? Ep. 285

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2024 37:32


    Candice talks about 7 possible reasons God may be waiting on you? Musical arrangement by: Wesley Van Kilgore Website: candiceharperlovecoach.com #relationshipcoach #blacklove #blackwomen #datingcoach #lovingrelationships #healthycouples #singlewomendatingformarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Wendy Williams and Transactional Relationships Ep. 284

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2024 40:28


    As a former staffer of The Wendy Williams Show, Candice breaks down her point of view about "Where's Wendy Williams?" the documentary and what it teaches us about transactional relationships. #whereswendywilliams #relationships #dating #relationshipcoaching #blackwomen #blacklove Music Production: Wesley Kilgore --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Who TF Did I Marry & Single Girl Shame Ep. 283

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2024 28:06


    Candice talks about Reesa Teesa and the WTFDIM saga. Also, how "single girl shame" is everybody's downfall in or out of a relationship. Find out the one F-word that will release all of our addictions and how you can get Candice's Interactive Journal "7 Days to Freedom From Single Girl Shame" so you will never have to ask the question #whotfdidimarry #relationshipcoach #blackwomen #blacklove Musical Arrangements by Wes Kilgore --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    How I Got In A Safe, Stable, Loving Relationship & More Ep. 282

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2024 36:18


    I been drankin', I been drankin'! This week I'm talking about booze, how I got my GLOAT, and the magic of hypnotherapy. #blackwomen #lovecoach #blacklove #datingcoach #lovecoach #relationships #lovingrelationships #datingandrelationships #datingcoachforblackwomen --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Constant Criticism/Parentalizing Partners Ep. 281

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2024 31:19


    Do you know what it's like to be constantly criticized? Have you ever been in a love relationship where you felt like you were dealing with your dad or your mom? This show is for you. #blackwomen #blacklove #womenofcolor #lovingrelationships #conversationstarters #podcasts #lifestylepodcast #healthyrelationships #loveyourself #love #lovecoach #selflovecoach #selflovecoaching #couplescoach #singlescoach #couplescoaching #datingadvice --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    5 Things A Dating Entrepreneur Needs to Know Ep. 280

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2024 37:59


    Are you an entrepreneur who's neglecting your love life? Are you trying to get more established first, or waiting until you reach your Q1, Q2, Q3... goals? Listen in. #lovecoach #blacklovecoach #lovingrelationships #singlewomen #singleblackwomen #blackwomenentrepreneurs #lovecoach #datingcoach --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Dr. Antoinette Candia-Bailey Ep. 279

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2024 48:01


    When you have followed all of the protocols and taken every possible action to feel heard... what next? Tune in and let's talk about what we can learn from this tragic story. TRIGGER WARNING: Suicide NATIONAL SUICIDE HOTLINE: Call or Text 988 #sayhername #drcandiabailey #commuication #selflove #toxicworkenvironment #hopelessness #blackwomen #professionalblackwomen #blackwomenrelationshipsuccess --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Speak Your Heart, Sis Ep. 278

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2024 30:20


    WELCOME TO SEASON 10! What are you not saying? It's probably the exact words that will free you from frustration, isolation, and being unable to satisfyingly communicate with someone you love. Tune in and let me know your thoughts. #relationships #loveanddating #datingapps #findinglove #blackwomen #blacklove #loveadvice #womenofcolor #wealthysingleblackwomen #professionalblackwomen #blackwomenfindinglove #eliteadvice --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Meet Your Bae By New Year's Day Ep. 275

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2023 66:42


    The Coochie Coach, Nikki Brown joins me for a fabulously free discussion about the heart/p*ssy connection, the importance of vaginal education, and our upcoming 5-day challenge "Meet Your Bae By New Years Day" Sign up here. bit.ly/meetyourbaenewyearsday Follow us on Instagram @thecoochiecoach @candylovecoach --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Does Your Fashion Style Dictate Your Love Life? Ep. 273

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2023 74:14


    Join us for Friday's broadcast of "Loving Relationships for Women of Color" the podcast, where we're thrilled to welcome the fabulous Kyla Brown, renowned image consultant and style educator! Get ready to dive into a world where fashion meets passion! Our special guest, Kyla Brown, founder of It's Kyla Not Kayla, brings her unique flair and expert insights to the table. Certified by the London College of Fashion, Kyla has a knack for empowering brilliant women to curate equally brilliant closets. Her approach isn't just about clothes; it's about crafting a holistic, authentic personal image that resonates with who you truly are. In this episode, we'll explore how the right style can not only boost your confidence in the streets but also spark romance in the sheets. Kyla will share her top tips on dressing for success, balancing professional prowess with personal charm, and how to let your wardrobe reflect your true authentic self. To work with Kyla go to: itskylanotkayla.com, Instagram: @itskylanotkayla To work with Candice go to: candiceharperlovecoach.com, Instagram: @candylovecoach #style #kylanotkayla #blackwomen #datingandrelationships #relationships #relationshipcoach #blacklove #womenofcolor #entreprenuers #datingadvice --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    The Love Alchemy Blueprint w/Chanel Caldwell Ep 271

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2023 58:58


    The Love Alchemy Blueprint Ep. 271 Another extraordinary episode of "Loving Relationships for Women of Color," the podcast that's rewriting the script on love, one fascinating topic at a time. This week, we have a special treat for you: Chanel Caldwell, a true curator of love, will be revealing "The Love Alchemy Blueprint." Hosted by the ever-charming Relationship Coach and Hypnotherapist, Candice Harper, Chanel Caldwell is bringing her magic to the table, sharing her secrets on transforming love into an art form.

    Surviving Betrayal Trauma w/Kisha Benjamin Ep. 270

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2023 68:16


    Get ready for an empowering episode of "Loving Relationships for Women of Color," the podcast that's transforming lives one conversation at a time. This week, we're diving deep into a topic that affects so many of us: "Betrayal Trauma." Hosted by the brilliant Relationship Coach and Hypnotherapist, Candice Harper, our special guest is none other than Kisha Benjamin, a renowned Life Coach, Speaker, and Author of the acclaimed book, "Surviving Betrayal Trauma."

    The Men That Are Better Than Single Ep. 269

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2023 28:45


    The Men That Are Better Than Single Ep. 269 ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Join relationship coach and hypnotherapist Candice Harper on an eye-opening journey to love and happiness! In this week's episode, Candice delves into the intriguing world of statistics that suggest the happiest individuals are single women and married men. But there's a crucial group missing from this equation: those in relationships with partners who align with what they truly desire. Candice Harper, your trusted host, brings you an insightful discussion that challenges conventional wisdom about happiness in relationships. With her expertise and compassionate approach, Candice reveals the power of alignment within relationships and how it can lead to profound happiness and fulfillment. Tune in as Candice shares real-life stories, expert insights, and practical advice tailored especially for women of color. Discover the keys to nurturing loving relationships that empower and inspire you to be your authentic self. Get ready to unlock the secrets of true happiness in love, exclusively on "Loving Relationships for Women of Color"! Subscribe to @LovingRelationshipsforWOC

    When Do I Give Up On My Dreams of Love? Ep. 268

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2023 46:02


    Wondering if the time has come to give up on your dreams, desires, and hopes for a loving relationship? Join us for an insightful conversation that delves deep into the heart of the matter.This week, we are delighted to have Jaida Pervis, a certified matchmaker, as our special guest. Together, we'll explore a range of compelling topics, including:

    Blocked After Sex (Replay) Ep. 263

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2023 32:37


    You didn't just get ghosted. You got BLOCKED! After SEX!! What now? Here's a 7-step triage. #relationshipcoach #blackrelationshipcoach #blacklove #datingandrelationships #coachingforwomen #gettingghosted #gettingblocked http://candiceharperlovecoach.com

    Love Life Lessons from Your Mama w/Arlene Washburn Ep. 260

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2023 66:31


    Celebrating Your Single Season w/Meika Joseph Ep. 259

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2023 71:39


    In this powerful conversation, Meika Joseph, a renowned Thought Healer and Business Coach, sheds light on how to release single girl shame by breaking free from societal pressures and stereotypes. Discover how to embrace your status, create clarity, and foster fulfilling connections. https://bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforWOC https://candiceharperlovecoach.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Empowering Embraces w/Dr. Beloved

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2023 63:51


    What can we embrace in order to alchemize trauma and create loving relationships? Join the conversation. http://candiceharperlovecoach.com. Sign up for my newsletter and receive a FREE copy of 7 Days of Releasing Single Girl Shame. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Are You The One for The One? Ep. 257

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2023 8:46


    They say that the one you seek is seeking you but how do you know if you are a space for your ideal partner? Tune in for 7 tips to be the one for the one. #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoachingforblackwomen #lovelife #selflove #selfcare http://Candiceharperlovecoach.com http://bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforWOC --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    8 Practices to Let Love In Ep. Ep 256

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2023 7:34


    Here are 8 things we as women of color have to start doing right now in order to let love in. http://candiceharperlovecoach.com bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforwoc #singlewomen #blacklove #womenofcolor #dating #relationships #lovingrelationships --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Forgiving My Mom Ep. 255

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2023 11:50


    I'm going to share what I was believing that made it impossible to forgive my mom. Then I'll share what I learn that freed me from resentment. http://candiceharperlovecoach.com, bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforWOC #motherdaughterrelationships #selflove #relationships #healingtrauma #healingwithparents #selfacceptance --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Do you really want a relationship? Ep. 254

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2023 9:26


    If you really want a relationship, do you know why? Your "why" can tell you a lot about whether you really want a relationship. #relationships #kelisandbillmurray #relationshipcoach #love #dating #singleblackfemale bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforWOC --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Are you sabotaging love with good intentions? Ep. 253

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2023 37:11


    This week I talk about 7 well-meaning things you may be doing to sabotage early dating and 3 things you can do to turn it around. Happy Pride!! bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforWOC #relationships #womenofcolor #dating #bipocdating --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    For When You Feel Insignificant Ep. 252

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2023 27:41


    Everyone feels insignificant at some time or another. Listen in and let's talk about how to alchemize that feeling for the sake of your love life. Check out our website. http://candiceharperlovecoach.com. Click to learn about "A Love Life That Loves You Back" - Digital Course bit.ly/lovingrelationshipsforWOC #relationships #singleblackwomen #dating #partnership #relationshipcoaching #womenofcolor #bipoc --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Hang-Ups v. Core Values Ep. 251

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2023 44:17


    Want to learn how to turn your negative hang-ups into magnetic core values and stop sabotaging your love life? #wouldyoudateabusdriver #dating #singleblackwomen #lovingrelationships #romance #joy #attraction --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Is Your Mom Happy About Your Love Life? Ep. 250

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2023 23:34


    Do you have the love life your mother wanted you to have? No matter who she was raising you or what she told you, at the base of it she probably wanted you to be happy and fulfilled. #mothersday2023 #blackmoms #BIPOCmoms #motherdaughter #lovingrelationships #BIPOCwomen #womenofcolor --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Is Eboni K. Williams on a Masculine Energy Tour? Ep. 249

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2023 20:57


    I just watched the interview between Eboni and Iyanla this past week so I know I'm all late but can we talk about some of what's unfolding in the aftermath? #iyanlavanzant #ebonikwilliams #thebreakfastclub #busdrivers #dating #relationships #blackwomen #single --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    You Are Whole, Sis! Ep. 248

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2023 22:48


    Goddess, if you ever wonder if you are enough for all that you desire. Listen up! #blackwomen #blacklove #love #dating #relationships #growth #wellness --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loving-relationships/message

    Zero Tolerance for The BS! Ep. 247

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2023 40:06


    What's the distinction between accepting and tolerating? How do we avoid tolerating too much? dating. relationships. single black women. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/love-life-skills/message

    Why Black Women Don't Get Married Ep. 246

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2023 30:21


    What's the real reason black women aren't getting married at rates as high as others and is it such a bad thing? #blackwomen #marriage #relationshipcoach --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/love-life-skills/message

    If I were asked to do a TED talk... Ep. 245

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2023 12:51


    Let's talk about creating a love life that loves you back. My TED Talk. #relationships #relationshipcoach #tedtalk #lovelife --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/love-life-skills/message

    Unexpectedly Blocked!? Ep. 244

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2023 30:24


    You didn't just get ghosted. You got BLOCKED! What now? Here's a 7-step triage. #relationshipcoach #blackrelationshipcoach #blacklove #datingandrelationships #coachingforwomen --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/love-life-skills/message

    Your Love Life Dealbreaker Ep: 243

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2023 29:43


    The one thing that will make or break your love life. Tune in. #relationships #compatibility #findinglove #datingtips --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/love-life-skills/message

    Addicted to An Unavailable Man? Ep. 242

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2023 49:33


    Some people are addicted to drugs, some people are addicted to sugar, some people are addicted to alcohol, and some people are addicted to unavailable men. What's your poison? Does it have a 9-inch p*nis and a whole other relationship? #loveaddiction #limerence #relationships #healthypartners #relationshipcoach --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/love-life-skills/message

    It's homey. Yo stay, Sis! Ep. 241

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2023 16:32


    Why do so many women of color have a controversial relationship with home? What's your story? Homeless Dream Home Women Relationships --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/love-life-skills/message

    Are they loving every piece of you? Ep. 240

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2023 15:00


    5 steps to experience unconditional acceptance from your partner. When it comes to compatibility, how do we deal with the things that don't work? Core value alignment is great but what if he likes burgers and you like salad? #relating #relationship #communication --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/love-life-skills/message

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