"Living The Hotmoms Life w/Sheema"

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Motherhood is rewarding yet challenging and you can never have too much support. This show is here to help moms find solutions to everyday mom life challenges. We talk about real issues and real topics that are relevant to moms going through their journey. No topic is off limits!

YaSheema Marshall


    • Feb 4, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 24m AVG DURATION
    • 66 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from "Living The Hotmoms Life w/Sheema"

    How will the public school system recover!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 24:20


    The public school system, students and parents have been through so much in the past two years. How will they ever recover? The students are behind, teachers are burned out and parents don't know where, when or how to help. I've heard horror stories about going to school and teaching school that I just had to get on here and talk about it for a few minutes.

    Lets Talk Kids & Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021 60:20


    YaSheema joins one of her clients on an Instagram LIVE where they talked about issues surrounding kids and sex. They discussed age-appropriate conversations to have and what type of information we should be talking to our kids about. We both agreed that you can't wait until they ask to talk and if you're waiting until 13 to talk about the birds and the bees, you're late!! LaToya is a homeschooler who you can find on Instagram at @thrivinghomeschooler

    Let's Talk Setting Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 29:51


    Setting heathy boundaries and limits in our relationships is necessary in order to protect our sanity and to let peole know how you want to be treated. Let's talk about boundaries and some tips on setting some healthy ones,

    School Drama and Self Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 28:24


    Let's talk about all of the mask/no mask school drama and self care. Make time for self care on a daily basis. It's not just about manicures and pedicures but a consistent and intentional action plan and commitment to put yourself first.

    Self Care Talk Continues: Take a BREAK woman!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 24:19


    Women have the knack to keep going until we're sometimes forced to take a break! In this episode, Sheema is telling moms to take a break woman!! African American women have sometimes been made to feel like we are not allowed to take a break and that we have to continue to operate at a pace that is not humane and healthy in any way. Our examples have not always been the best but we have also failed to realize that we were engaging in self care by having parties, going to church, listening to music, etc. Self care is not selfish it is necessary!

    Kids Aren't the Problem...Parents YOU Are!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2021 24:30


    It's funny when I start working with a new parent coaching client and when they begin to tell me what's going on. They immediately start talking about all of the "things" their child is doing and all of the problems their having. They want me to help them fix their child and I'm sitting their thinking hell...there's nothing wrong with your child! You're the problem. Let's talk about parent accountability and responsibility in the problems we complain about.

    Black Women and Mental Health: I'm Too Strong To Be Depressed!"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2021 77:59


    Join Sheema and some of her friends for a real girl talk about black women and mental health. For so many years black women didn't have the luxury of going to therapy or better yet being vulnerable enough to even talk about feeling depressed, anxious or that something wasn't right. I don't know how many times I've heard or been told lies such as "black people are too strong to be depressed" or "therapy is for white folks". The stigma that runs rampant in our community and society has left many black women suffering alone without the help and support they need and deserve. In this one hour conversation, we are opening the door of opportunity to share, be vulnerable and just talk about mental health. My guests Dr. Max, Shameka Allen-Lane, Meeka Thompson and Joy Benson share their experiences and their thoughts from their hearts.

    What to do when your child says they’re gay!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2021 49:48


    There are so many kids who are suffering alone at home or in the streets because they have identified themselves as LGBTQ-I and their families don’t accept them. Coming out can be one of the most difficult things to do especially when you know loved ones who will no longer accept you. It’s hard enough for youth who identify as LGBTQ-I in society so home is the last place they should be bullied, hurt, or mistreated.

    Part 2: Parenting A Child with emotional, behavioral or mental health challenges.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2021 25:45


    In this episode Sheema shares some of her parenting journey in dealing with the challenges of raising a child with ADHD and shares some inspiration and tips that she hopes are helpful to another parent during their journey. Some times can be tough as we try to navigate the various systems that are created to help us but we must stay the course for the sake of our children.

    Part 1: Parenting A Child With Emotional, behavioral and mental challenges

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2021 18:08


    In this episode Sheema shares some of her parenting journey in dealing with the challenges of raising a child with ADHD and shares some inspiration and tips that she hopes are helpful to another parent during their journey. Some times can be tough as we try to navigate the various systems that are created to help us but we must stay the course for the sake of our children.

    Change May Be Hard But It's Necessary!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2021 30:03


    In this episode, Coach Sheema discusses the importance of making changes as parents in order to cause lasting change in your famiies. It is difficult to make changes in any area of your life but if you are finding that you are having lots of challenges in your family, then some changes may need to begin with you.

    No More Harsh Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 35:47


    Whatever the reason may be, it shouldn't hurt to go home. Our kids shouldn't have to walk on egg shells to avoid seeing the monster in us or experience a hurtful childhood. It is our responsibility, obligation and purpose as parents to provide a loving, nurturing and safe home environment for our children.

    Child Abuse Prevention

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 20:25


    April is Child Abuse Prevention Month and I’ll be sharing how everyone especially parents and caretakers can make sure kids have great childhoods. Yasheema talks about what is abuse and why kids are abused by their parents in this episode. Join her all month as she shares her expertise in the area of keeping kids safe.

    How the Strong Black Woman Phenomenon is detrimental to black women,

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 28:47


    Black women are well aware of what strength it took and continues to take in order to overcome the barriers and obstacles in order to be treated with respect and decency. The expectation of black women to always be strong becomes a burden and detriment to their wellbeing. Yasheema analyzes this phenomenon and shares some tips on how to treat the black women in your life and community.

    5 Things I learned in 2020 To Take Into 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2021 21:08


    2020 was one of those years like none other and not in a good way for everyone. Loss seemed to be at the forefront but there were also a lot of gains whether forced or wanted. Let’s talk about a few things that I learned in 2020 that I’m taking into 2020! What did you learn?

    5 Keys To Weathering a Storm in Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 29:20


    In the midst of everything that has happened and is happening in the world today, lots of people had their own personal storms they were dealing with. 2020 has been a challenge for the best of us whether you loss a job or business or loved one, the climate of loss and grief has just been circulating for the past 6 months. Sheema shares her personal story about the storm she had to weather and how she did it!

    5 Keys To Weathering a Storm in Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 29:20


    In the midst of everything that has happened and is happening in the world today, lots of people had their own personal storms they were dealing with. 2020 has been a challenge for the best of us whether you loss a job or business or loved one, the climate of loss and grief has just been circulating for the past 6 months. Sheema shares her personal story about the storm she had to weather and how she did it!

    S.H.I.T. Happens! But you can’t get stuck in it!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2020 12:24


    Things happen in life that are a result of circumstances that may or may not be in our control. 2020 seems to be turning out to be a year where a lot of SHIT Happens to people and those they love. Sheema talks about the importance of not getting stuck in the S.H.I.T. and what can happen if we stay stuck too long.

    S.H.I.T. Happens! But you can’t get stuck in it!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2020 12:24


    Things happen in life that are a result of circumstances that may or may not be in our control. 2020 seems to be turning out to be a year where a lot of SHIT Happens to people and those they love. Sheema talks about the importance of not getting stuck in the S.H.I.T. and what can happen if we stay stuck too long.

    Is Your Parenting Style Influencing Your Child's Bad Behavior

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 27:35


    Have you ever had a supervisor whose managerial style rubbed you the wrong way and sometimes made your life miserable? Sometimes our personality style clashes with others who are in authority over us like at work and we can't do anything about it except continue to do our job or find another one. Unfortunately, our kids can't find another household because they don't like your parenting style. If you are having challenges with your child's behavior and are in constant power struggles with them, it may be your parenting style that is influencing their behavior. YaSheema shares 4 main parenting styles and the behavior you may see from your child when you use a particular style and how you can change it to get the results you desire!

    Is Your Parenting Style Influencing Your Child's Bad Behavior

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 27:35


    Have you ever had a supervisor whose managerial style rubbed you the wrong way and sometimes made your life miserable? Sometimes our personality style clashes with others who are in authority over us like at work and we can't do anything about it except continue to do our job or find another one. Unfortunately, our kids can't find another household because they don't like your parenting style. If you are having challenges with your child's behavior and are in constant power struggles with them, it may be your parenting style that is influencing their behavior. YaSheema shares 4 main parenting styles and the behavior you may see from your child when you use a particular style and how you can change it to get the results you desire!

    Keeping My Sanity During This Pandemic

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2020 20:57


    Coach Sheema talks about her 3 main tips to moving through the challenges of the covid-19 pandemic. How she deals with the mental stress of circumstances that have occurred in her life and those around her in the past 30 days!

    Keeping My Sanity During This Pandemic

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2020 20:57


    Coach Sheema talks about her 3 main tips to moving through the challenges of the covid-19 pandemic. How she deals with the mental stress of circumstances that have occurred in her life and those around her in the past 30 days!

    Talking Covid-19 Crisis Education Tips w/Dr. Alecia Blackwood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2020 45:34


    Are you frustrated with trying to tackling being a substitute teacher, stay-at-home mom, employee, business owner, etc.? Struggling to manage and feeling a little overwhelmed? She's sharing some encouragement and 5 Tips to help during this Covid-19 Crisis Education process.Dr. Blackwood is the Founding Director of Orlando's African Kulcha School. She is bringing us her professional and personal knowledge and insight from over 20 years inthe educational system, school administration, distance learning and homeschooling.

    Talking Covid-19 Crisis Education Tips w/Dr. Alecia Blackwood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2020 45:34


    Are you frustrated with trying to tackling being a substitute teacher, stay-at-home mom, employee, business owner, etc.? Struggling to manage and feeling a little overwhelmed? She's sharing some encouragement and 5 Tips to help during this Covid-19 Crisis Education process.Dr. Blackwood is the Founding Director of Orlando's African Kulcha School. She is bringing us her professional and personal knowledge and insight from over 20 years inthe educational system, school administration, distance learning and homeschooling.

    Child Abuse Prevention Month Series: Family Goals and Dreams.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 5:10


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 4 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Child Abuse Prevention Month Series: Establishing Authority and Order

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 6:03


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 3 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Child Abuse Prevention Month Series: Creating a nurturing and loving atmosphere.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 4:55


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 2 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Child Abuse & Prevention Month Series: Determine Your Family Values

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 3:17


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 1 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Real Mom Talk about Covid-19 w/Yolonda Tyler

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 69:04


    Covid-19 has caused lots of challenges for moms, businesses, families, etc. with everyone being quarantined and forced to stay at home. I have a real talk with the owner of Playspace Solutions, LLC. about the impact of covid-19 on families and parents and her journey through entrepreneurship over the years.

    Child Abuse Prevention Month Series: Family Goals and Dreams.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 5:10


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 4 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Child Abuse Prevention Month Series: Establishing Authority and Order

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 6:03


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 3 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Child Abuse Prevention Month Series: Creating a nurturing and loving atmosphere.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 4:55


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 2 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Child Abuse & Prevention Month Series: Determine Your Family Values

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 3:17


    Creating a safe home environment is important to protecting your children and making sure they are safe. This is Part 1 of a 4 part series where Parent Coach YaSheema Marshall talks about 4 keys to helping you maintain a safe home environment.

    Real Mom Talk about Covid-19 w/Yolonda Tyler

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 69:04


    Covid-19 has caused lots of challenges for moms, businesses, families, etc. with everyone being quarantined and forced to stay at home. I have a real talk with the owner of Playspace Solutions, LLC. about the impact of covid-19 on families and parents and her journey through entrepreneurship over the years.

    EVENT COACHING w/SHAMEKA ALLEN-LANE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 38:49


    Today we interviewed Mrs. Shameka Allen-Lane, Owner of Catalyst Event Coaching. After many years of working in the Hospitality and Event Industry, she has taken her skills and knowledge and started a business. She shares some great tips for the event planners and business owners who may need a little help with the logistics of their events to make them more successful. And of course we talked about how she's making it all happen as a mom of an energetic three year old.

    EVENT COACHING w/SHAMEKA ALLEN-LANE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 38:49


    Today we interviewed Mrs. Shameka Allen-Lane, Owner of Catalyst Event Coaching. After many years of working in the Hospitality and Event Industry, she has taken her skills and knowledge and started a business. She shares some great tips for the event planners and business owners who may need a little help with the logistics of their events to make them more successful. And of course we talked about how she's making it all happen as a mom of an energetic three year old.

    Women's History Month Highlight--Special Guest Shameka Thompson

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 38:22


    In celebration of Women's History Month, I'm highlighting some special H.O.T.M.O.M.S. on the podcast for the entire month of March. Our first guest, Shameka Thompson will share with us her mompreneur journey and a lot about what she does in her lifetime!!

    Women's History Month Highlight--Special Guest Shameka Thompson

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 38:22


    In celebration of Women's History Month, I'm highlighting some special H.O.T.M.O.M.S. on the podcast for the entire month of March. Our first guest, Shameka Thompson will share with us her mompreneur journey and a lot about what she does in her lifetime!!

    Parents Are The Problem Not Just The Teachers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2020 36:12


    Over the years, I've listened to and read Facebook posts of teachers talking about how difficult the kids are today I've read about teachers walking out on the job or leaving the profession because of the kids and the atmosphere of seemingly uncooperative parents. Sheema talks about this and 5 reasons she says the parents are the blame not just the teachers and schools.

    Parents Are The Problem Not Just The Teachers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2020 36:12


    Over the years, I've listened to and read Facebook posts of teachers talking about how difficult the kids are today I've read about teachers walking out on the job or leaving the profession because of the kids and the atmosphere of seemingly uncooperative parents. Sheema talks about this and 5 reasons she says the parents are the blame not just the teachers and schools.

    Black Moms and Babies Are Dying!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 29:01


    Black moms and babies have the worst childbirth outcomes of any group in our nation. This is not just because of a lack of education, prenatal care or socioeconomic status but something else deep routed in the fabric of our nation--racism.

    Black Mothers in America

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2020 13:17


    Black Women/Black Moms have carried a heavy burden on our shoulders for many years. We have been the catalyst for change and the backbone to our families, communities and the world. Yet we are one of the most underrepresented and undervalued and unprotected persons in this world despite our contributions and undeniable power and influence. Let's talk about being a black mama today!

    Beyond Mothehood: Becoming Ourselves!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2020 26:01


    I am not the same woman I was last year, 20 years ago, when I got married, when I had children. I've actually transitioned and morphed into several different women over the years to become the woman I am today! When you are transiitioning back into focusing on yourself they are some things you'll need. Sheema talks about some of them in this episode.

    Episode 22 - "Don't Be Afraid to Be Your Authentic Self"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 16:11


    As women and moms we face lots of criticism sometimes for being our authentic selves. For making choices about our families and children that doesn't always fit the status quo. Sometimes it's a matter of self awareness and self confidence to speak our truth and be the person we truly are no matter who doesn't agree. It takes women until they turn 40 or 50 to be so comfortable in their own skin that they no longer seek another person's approval to just BE!

    Stop the Mom-Bullying

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2020 28:05


    Sheema tallks about the epidemic with moms bullying other moms because they are living life and raising their kids different than them. Why are moms doing this? Let's talk about it! Have you been bullied? I'd love to hear about it.

    How To Deal With Difficult People At The Holiday Dinner

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2019 17:05


    Do you have a relative that always causes drama at the family shindig? Are you tired of dealing with their mess? Sheema shares what she would do and if they should get the invite this year?

    Lets Talk Suicide with Stacey Clark

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2019 36:37


    Suicide is a sensitive topic but there's no question that it is a life experience that people need to talk more about because it happens. It probably happens more than we want to think about but nonetheless families are suffering. Stacey Clark will share her story of losing her sisiter to suicide at the young age of 16 years old with no explanation. Hear her means of coping and share her truth candidly with us!.

    The Importance of Breastfeeding in the Black Community

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2019 25:37


    This week has been coined black breastfeeding week to bring awareness to the disparities and barriers to Black Moms breastfeeding. August is breastfeeding month but experts and people thought it was necessary to highlight and discuss some of the unique issues surrounding black moms regarding breastfeeding our babies.

    Hurt Moms Hurt Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2019 22:23


    When we are hurting as moms and are not healed from those things that have hurt us we will hurt our children. How you say? Take a listen while Sheema talks a little about it today!

    Episode 16 -Being mentally ill In The Black Community

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2019 15:01


    Yasheema talks about the stigma of being black and mentally ill and the negative impact it has on the black community and the next generation.

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