Mind Body Alignment

Today Ralphie Jacobs is joining the MOMSET Community to empower us to be a safe parent that sees the good in her children. You can look forward to learning about positive parenting, "junk behavior," inconsequential behavior (this blew my mind) and remarkable perspective that keeps you going even when it feels really, really difficult. Look at us- breaking cycles. "We are one generation from the "that's permissive" mentality..." "Parenting is not a societal matter. It's personal, it's spiritual and it's emotional, but it's not societal..." - Ralphie JacobsSign up for Ralphie's "Teach Me How" subscription and check out her fantastic IG account for more tools and light.

Choose quiet observations and follow it with quick, intentional corrections.A few years ago, I realized that explaining every decision to my kids—why they couldn't have something, what I didn't like about their behavior—only made things worse. It fueled conflict, invited pushback, and exhausted me emotionally. So I made a change.I started quietly noticing the behavior, keeping my thoughts to myself, and then making a swift correction without fanfare. Whether it was about food dyes, screen time, or behavior after movies, this shift brought peace to our home and confidence to my parenting.You'll want to get a pen and piece of paper ready for the writing exercise in the last part of this episode. It will help you experience a huge shift in mindset and self-empowerment! More details on my coaching membership are right here. I'm excited to hear about your implementation of "quiet observations and quick corrections" to your daily parenting triumphs!

Mother's Day is the time you show up as the mom you want to be and set the tone of what the whole rest of the year will be like for you as a mother. Who you are, what you think, how you feel, what you do as a mother. If you want a perspective like that this Mother's Day then this episode is for you. Packed with 4 key mentalities that support this focus while remaining appreciative of what others do for you and intentional of what you do for others. If you need more help supporting your mental health and daily mindset in motherhood then my coaching membership is the very best place to be. Come receive coaching, be challenged and connected to likeminded expansive women.

It's interesting that moms are being told how good and admirable it is to ask for help, then in the same breath we are told not to help our kids when they ask for it. "They're old enough to do it themselves." "They're big enough to do it themselves." "That's not mine, they should do it.""If I don't do it no one else will." I'm big enough, old enough and perfectly capable of simple tasks and sometimes those are the ones I feel are too big when I have so much else going on. I want my kids to know they can always ask for my help. Even when it's a problem or task to face on their own, I'll be there with them as a listening ear and word of guidance. Why would my kids ask for help with the big stuff if I instilled a "do it yourself" belief with the small stuff? This is my perspective that nurtures my willingness to serve seamlessly, say "yes" to helping and instilling lifelong beliefs. This is the Instagram reel I mentioned in the episode. Click here to learn about my coaching membership if you struggle with your mindset in motherhood and want to be free of your own thoughts.

How long would it take you to write out a list of allll the things you tell yourself you can't do?While some people want to fight to defend this "I can't" mentality so they can feel justified, YOU and I are ready to fight for that fire inside of us that knows WE CAN. This episode walks you through why it can feel so frustrating and freeing to say "I can, I just don't want to." What is the truth we can find when we shift our perspective this way and how to keep your feet on the ground through it all. I did a little IG reel on this! Be sure to do the writing exercise I described in this episode so you can become empowered to face the heart of the "I can't" mentality. I'm cheering you on, always. Remember, I have lots of negative thoughts and poor moments, too. I just really enjoy learning from them and challenging myself to do better with you.

The transition for 3-4 kids was hands down the hardest for me. I realized it was hardest because I had failed to equip my kids with the self-esteem to be independent and responsible in the ways I really needed them to show up while I recovered postpartum. May is our Declutter Your Heart and Home 28 Day challenge in the MOMSET Membership. This is a fantastic time to create a home that serves you and your family so everyone can build their self-esteem and thrive harmoniously. Join here today! Then I realized that I was stealing their self-esteem to build my own. I did just about everything for them everyday and I LOVED doing it. I felt GREAT, but at what cost? How did they get to feel when I took the opportunities from them?I'm sharing the practical changes I have made to build my own self-esteem AND provided endless opportunities for my kids to build their own, too.

Did you know the AVERAGE home has over 300,000 items in it!? Moms have way too much STUFF to manage. Today we have Julia Ubbenga, author of "Declutter Your Heart and Your Home" as well as minimalist living coach, here to encourage us ALL to start making changes. If you're feeling overwhelmed in your home and like you spend your day managing "stuff" and find it impossible to keep up- you'll love this episode. After Julia was diagnosed with PPD and had recently left her job to become a SAHM... she knew she needed to make a change, too. Julis is partnering with the MOMSET Membership to bring a whole home decluttering challenge to us through May. We will have an daily realistic declutter task and will be reading her new book together! This challenge will focus on decluttering your mind, heart and home as Julia and I team up together! All MOMSET Members get to join!Connect with Julia Ubbenga

Listen to episode 130 for Part One "Be Quiet" before you jump into asking great questions! "To answer before listening—that is folly and shame." Proverbs 18:13Get better at seeing the real problem because behavior is a symptom of a problem. When you're quiet and ask a few good questions, you can let the problem reveal itself to you. This episode gets into WHY we are asking questions, WHAT the benefit is and HOW to do it- the words to avoid and use! Buckle up buttercup and let's dig in! :) Click here to get personal coaching from me and my team inside of our fantastic membership full of moms ready for skills, tools, healing and ownership.

Podcast Episode 130: Be Quiet - A Mindset Tool to Improve CommunicationJoin my coaching membership for personalized coaching through your circumstances. You CAN have a positive mindset during this time and it IS the way through whatever it is you're going through. Let us help! ✨In this episode of Be Quiet, I'm teaching you a mindset tool that's too easy not to implement, and I encourage you to use it in your marriage too! This tool—simply being quiet—can quickly reshape your mindset and communication skills, especially when dealing with challenging situations.I'll break down why, when, and how to “be quiet” and show you how Scripture supports this approach. We'll dive into the power of pausing, listening, and thinking before responding. Plus, I'll answer questions from listeners about how to effectively use this tool with kids and loved ones, address emotional triggers, and handle situations where silence feels uncomfortable.If you've ever found yourself reacting before thinking or struggling with emotional responses, this episode is for you. Join me as I teach you how being quiet can help you build emotional maturity, strengthen your communication, and model healthy behaviors for your family.Stay tuned for next week's episode, where we'll talk about asking effective questions after being quiet.For more support, check out the MOMSET membership !

Do you ever think that things are just going different than what you would choose for yourself?! Of course you do because we are humans living a big LIFE. This episode is expanding your mentality to be able to have a greater capacity to accept what you are given, even when it is different than what you want or would choose for yourself. This is YOUR life. YOU get to decide what you think about it. Is it happening for you, to you or just happening and has nothing to do with you? Let's get your mindset serving you. I'll coach you in my membership. You can see my free content here.

We have the incredible opportunity to learn about the power of owning your motherhood from Brooke Romney. This episode is full of encouragement and practical approaches for moms. Brooke Romney is an author, speaker and mom of four boys! She's a season ahead of me and shared fantastic insights to what works well for her and what she priorities to help her show up as her best. We can all relate to some of these pain points and benefit from the perspectives.-Own what you love in motherhood. -Double down on your influences. -Protect your headspace in home and family. -Staying real and real intentional.I love her Modern Manners Flipbook and would strongly encourage you to keep this as a focal point in your home.Brooke Romney is on Instagram!

"If I forgive then they'll be let off the hook..." "Tessa, I want to forgive them but I can't just let them back into my life after everything they've done." Gosh, do I relate and have some good news for you. I like to think I have gotten really good at forgiving because I also invite in a crucial piece that keeps me in charge of my seasons. This episode is deeply connected to the way I coach women, just like you, through the journey and throws of becoming who you want to be no matter where you go or who you're with. Join our membership to receive coaching with me! I'll teach you the tools and show you the way they work even in YOUR unique circumstances and relationships. All my love, Tessa Romero

Ever notice how when things go wrong, you blame others, and when things go right, you chalk it up to luck? I'm here to remind you that your hard work and intention deserve recognition. By breaking free from old patterns of blame and victim mentalities, you can claim ownership of your successes and learn from your challenges. Tune in, shift your perspective, and discover how to flip your mindset—celebrating every victory and lesson on your journey to becoming the best version of you. This is your chance to reclaim your power and rewrite your narrative. Join me and begin.Ready for more? Let me coach you inside of my membership. We'll be the ones to challenge you and treat you as who we believe you can be. Join our March Challenge to adopt the 5 daily habits that change the game in your energy levels!

I was walking on a beautiful beach in Maui and three older women collectively sighed "poor mom." Only, I know I am a lucky mom. Are you ready to know that too? Click here if you want to be a source of joy in your motherhood and KNOW who you are while you do it. My coaching membership is full of powerful tools and community that completely transform your everyday life. Your mindset is shaping your motherhood more than you realize. In this episode, we dive into the power of perspective and how the way you frame your experiences will make a difference for you. Are you focusing on lack and hardship, or are you seeing the opportunities, growth, and joy in your journey? Tune in to discover how shifting your mindset can completely transform the way you experience motherhood—because the difference between a “poor mom” and a “lucky mom” is all in how you choose to see it.

YES, the MOMSET Community App is officially launched and buzzing with excitement from moms around the world. Come join us in daily community discussions, a weekly coaching session and access to my three courses! Get the details and sign up for the coaching membership. Founding members locked in rate of $67/month is for January ONLY. The price is $97/month starting in February. Join us in this heartfelt episode as we explore the two things moms must know to inspire and motivate their kids by truly understanding their unique visions for the future. Learn how to uncover what excites your child, provide the right support, and encourage their dreams without pressure and stress. From active listening to celebrating small wins, this episode is packed with actionable tips to help moms nurture a positive connection and guide their children toward a bright future. Tune in and discover the power of understanding your child's dreams.

In this episode, we're diving into a powerful practice: writing a letter to your future self to read at the end of 2025. This is your chance to put into words who you want to become—before it even happens. This will give you direction and intention for the entire year to come. Creating a clear vision for yourself activates the brain's Reticular Activating System (RAS), which helps you focus on opportunities and actions aligned with your goals. When you know what you want, your mind naturally works to make it happen. The real trick is to actually know what you want and that is where a lot of women struggle. We'll guide you through: ✨ Envisioning the person you want to be and the life you want to create in 2025. ✨ Writing about your personal, professional, physical, and spiritual growth. ✨ Reflecting on how it feels to live as the version of yourself you've always dreamed of becoming. ✨ Setting your intentions and grounding them in gratitude for the journey ahead. Start your letter with “Dear [Your Name]” and let your vision for the year come alive on the page. This is more than just a letter—it's your declaration of what's possible for you in the year ahead. Let's create a 2025 worth celebrating.

Join the waitlist for my coaching membership that opens in January ! You can join me every week for live coaching sessions (for sure available for replay), access to ALL of my courses (happy tears) and the all around best community of women supporting each other with real tools you can even imagine! In this episode, we're closing out 2024 with gratitude, reflection, and intention by writing a heartfelt letter to the year! You'll learn how to acknowledge your highs, validate your lows, and uncover lessons that shaped you. This reflective practice will help you release the weight of anxiety and pain, while carrying forward the clarity and courage you've gained into 2025. I'll guide you through prompts like: ✨ “Dear 2024, thank you for ________.” ✨ “What challenges or wins shaped me into who I am today?” ✨ “What pain or regret am I ready to release?” This is your chance to honor your journey, let go of what no longer serves you, and step into the new year feeling lighter and more aligned. Grab a pen, find a quiet space, and let's start writing.

In this episode, we're diving deep into the powerful phrase “They watch them, they study me” and what it means for moms striving to strengthen their mindset and hold themselves accountable as role models for their children. While outside influences—peers, media, and even family members—may play a role in shaping our kids, it's our actions, attitudes, and reactions that leave the most lasting impact. Join me as we explore how to embrace this truth, even when it feels overwhelming, and how to use it as a guiding principle to set a strong, positive example for your kids. Understanding that while peers and media might capture their attention, your example shapes their character. How to focus on what you can control and let go of what you can't. Using the phrase “They watch them, they study me” as a grounding mantra to respond with intention. Kids may watch others around them, but it's your actions they truly study and emulate. Ready to Strengthen Your Mindset? Tune in now to hear how “They watch them, they study me” can empower you to show up as the mom you want to be—even in a world full of strong influences. Let's Stay Connected: Instagram: @TessaRomero_ Email: support@momset.com Please subscribe, rate, and review! Let's spread the message of empowered, intentional motherhood.

In this episode, I'm sharing a simple practice that transformed my perspective and strengthened my marriage during one of the most full times of my life: writing a daily letter of appreciation to my husband. When preparing to welcome our fourth baby, I wanted to prioritize grace and connection in our marriage. This daily habit became my anchor and a tool to focus on gratitude rather than victim thoughts and unmet expectations. Tune in to learn: The science behind appreciation: How gratitude boosts happiness and connection by rewiring your brain. Why this is for YOU: Shift your mindset, see the good, and show up as the wife you aspire to be. What to appreciate: Practical examples to notice and honor what your spouse is doing right. The ripple effect: How this practice not only transforms your mindset but can also inspire more positive behaviors in your marriage. Whether you keep this journal as a personal tool or surprise your spouse with it as a heartfelt gift, this simple challenge can transform the way you see your marriage. Ready to take the appreciation challenge? Let's dive in!

In this episode, I share a raw and honest moment we commonly find ourselves in as moms. I talk about a challenging experience where I put myself in a dark room to help my baby fall asleep, only to find myself overwhelmed by the situation. As I reflect, I realize how I resisted help, even when it's offered, and how the victim mindset took me under for a few moments. Explore the importance of recognizing when we're stuck, learning to regulate our emotions, and accepting support when we need it. Join me as I talk about the power of resetting, self-compassion, and the choices we can make to empower ourselves on this journey of motherhood and personal growth. Follow along for daily mindset in motherhood on Instagram

I like to get back into my morning routine when my baby turns about three months old... which can feel V E R Y difficult to start back into and even maintain when sleep can be unpredictable. Personally, I feel better making that time for myself in the morning. Even when it feels difficult, I rely on these two perspectives to help me jump on out bed! You've got this, mama! You have the time, you just need to make it. Follow along on Instagram @tessaromero_

Bust out that basket of laundry and prepare to be leveled up in your motherhood while getting all the clothes folded and sorted. Com on- you know you have some to get done. This episode breaks down the four biggest reasons why I avoid saying "you can't" to my kids. You'll be able to shift your language once the WHY to do it is there. Keep up with me on IG @tessaromero_ I'm the mindset coach for moms that teaches you how to use a pen and piece of paper to create the mindset that you want- no matter the circumstances.

Motherhood is an endless teacher and there are four lessons I have learned now that I have four children, that would have helped me tremendously to understand when I had my first. This show is diving into the perspectives that can give you freedom to be the mom you want to be early on. Follow along for daily mindset on my IG @tessaromero_ Get started in my journaling course to change the pattern of your daily thoughts.

Do you love hearing positive birth stories and all of the highs and lows that can accompany a birth experience? This episode is for you. Marcus and Tessa Romero team up to share the home birth story and all of the fun little details and perspectives while welcoming their fourth son while answering some commonly asked questions along the way. This is an emotional one and we are hopeful it reignites your fire for raising babies and being the mom you want to be. Here is Tessas birth playlist. Follow Tessa on IG Grab the Alignment Journaling Course for step-by-step "how to journal" your way to a stronger mindset.

Just know that my water broke as I wrote the fifth perspective into the notes of my phone! I've got the birth story of my fourth sweet baby coming soon! Use these five perspectives if you are nearing or go over your "due date" or guess date! Baby is coming soon either way, let's make sure you feel your best with a great mindset and vision. Learn to write a better mindset following the Alignment Journaling Course with me.

When you choose to view all that is happening as something that you need, you start learning A LOT very quickly. I completely thought I was in labor and called our family 2.5 hours away so they could be there for it, only to have every contraction stop by 11:00 pm! I felt so disappointed and like I had let everyone down or wasted their time... which is NOT how I want to spend the last bit of my pregnancy. Fortunately, I have more tools and landed on three refreshing perspectives that lifted me up by the very next morning. I'm opening up and sharing those with you here so that people pleasing tendencies are something you can actively work on overcoming too! Let's stay connected on Instagram and start your journaling practice with me following my proven method!

You're feeling tired, hormonal, uncomfortable and excited. There's a lot going on during the last bit of pregnancy before welcoming your baby! Let's make sure your mindset is in a strong place to be of service to you and your family! This one question will invite a whole new perspective into the mix that increases your intentionality and accountability- even in the last bit of pregnancy! Let's connect on Instagram :) Completely overhaul your mindset in motherhood here.

I don't want my first thoughts to be negative and swimming in the "happening to me..." mentality. Yet, sometimes they are. Here's a question I ask myself that lifts me up and out of that victim mentality and sets me on the high road of being who I WANT to be, no matter where I go or who I am with. This one might feel challenging to take in so know 1. I LOVE YOU and all people in your life and mine. 2. We are meant to be challenged. 3. If it feels hard it's probably because you need to do it. Give this a try and reach out to us at connect@momset.com for personal coaching options and episode requests! Tessa ✨

It seems a bit odd to me that when I share about serving seamlessly, the biggest objections that come up against it are fear based thoughts around "doing too much." Doing too much for our kids, spouse and others. Seamless service is not about doing everything for someone else. It is taking opportunities to serve others well when and how you can. To see a need and fill it with the same attitude you want your kids to have when they see a need to fill. We need the right attitude married to our behaviors! Enjoy this episode to nudge your perspective into new open territory that breathes life and change into your attitude. For additional resources, start the 24 Days To A Renewed Mind video coaching guide I created for YOU to have a better overall mindset as you begin this work with me. All my best, Tessa Romero

How will I get my kids to listen.  How will I get them to get along with each other.  How will they be okay in the world we have today?  How will I know I did right by them? Trying to control "how" and "when" will leave you swimming against a raging current of negative thoughts. It's completely hopeless and exhausting. Today we are unpacking the faithful thought "Trust that it will rain." As well as what it would look like as a journaling prompt with several examples. Truly, this fresh perspective has been shedding layers of fear and anxiety for me and I know this sweet relief is too good to keep to myself. Let me know where you're at and what you need so I can create episodes just for YOU. Reach out with what you'd love to hear next at connect@momset.com You're a treasure in my life, Tessa Romero

Is your mind ranting and raving about how "disrespectful" and "selfish" or "anxious" your kids are? Time to change that with this podcast episode! You can find the MOMMY Mindset Course mentioned in this episode! This is incredibly sustainable work to do and I have it all prepared for you to thrive with in that course. Calm your mind and feel renewed when you implement these four simple ways to speak life over your kids- no matter their behavior or the circumstances. Follow along with Tessa on Instagram Reach out for personal and small group coaching to connect@momset.com

On a recent family trip I got to take the role of "that mom" on an airplane. The one that holds a screaming baby while battling the negative thoughts in her head, swimming in the victim mentality and even making a snarky comment to her husband. That was me AND I didn't let it end there. I'm sharing the mindset I used to practically realize where my thoughts were at and what I needed to do instead so I could be who I want to be no matter where I am or who I am with. This is completely possible for you, too! If you're noticing a lot of negative thoughts in your mind then you need to use Alignment Journaling to set them straight on a proactive and consistent basis!

Have you ever had a "I'm going to spray him with the hose! That'll teach him..." kind of moment where you feel so, so frustrated at the choice your child made and the reaction is to do something that could be pretty mean?! I have, that's what I'm sharing here today. The mean and negative thoughts that swirled my mind. The complete urge to grab my son and spray him down. The clear display of anger on my face. All of that going on and what I chose to do instead that I hope plants a seed in your mind and more hope in your heart for what is possible for YOU and YOUR motherhood. This is good work we are doing. If you need MORE help getting your mindset into a place that can slow the moments down and see your actions aligned with the mother you want to be, then you need to journal. Use the Alignment Journaling Course to start a daily 5 minute practice that equips you to do better than before. All my best, Tessa Romero

"How do you have a strong mindset on Mother's Day when _____?" I asked this question to my community and the answers came flooding in ranging from "it's just like every other day" to "you still do everything you normally do" and "my MIL makes it all about her." I've got your back annnd your mind with these 3 key steps that will be a game changer for you! Well, it's really 4 steps because we needed to lay a good foundation first! Take in this episode and get your very special Mother's Day ready to be unforgettable and truly restorative for you and your sweet family! I'm cheering you on today and everyday. Tessa Romero

This episode is packed with helpful perspective about leaving your kids while you go on a trip and more perspective to get you parenting with your spouse. If you've ever cringed at your spouse parenting different from you or swore you need to do everrrrything the same as each other AND felt angry when that doesn't happen- this is for you. Email connect@momset.com with the subject "coaching" if you are looking to join one of our small group sessions or 1:1 coaching spots for the remainder of 2024! We'd love to get the whole 12 week framework and tools into your mind and home. Stay connected on Instagram @tessaromero_ I referenced journaling as I prepared to come home. I use the Alignment Journaling method in all of my entires. You can now get the kids companion journal "Raising Writers" completely free when you join the course!

My youngest son recently burnt his hand to the point of second degree burns covering his palms and fingertips, and I immediately knew it was something I could have prevented. The mom guilt was intense and the night was long for us. I'm sharing the story here in the hopes of helping you navigate mom guilt that comes in recognizing our part and how to learn lessons that make you BETTER and allow the feeling of guilt to pass in it's good time. Here is the link to the Shannon Tripp First Aid Kit I mentioned in this episode. It is SO good to have on hand and includes video tutorials. We are amazing and it is a honor to be a mother. You are meant for your babies and I know that with certainty. Tessa Romero

It is a SPECIAL time to have our first podcast guest on the show! Ashley Emerick has been in my courses and shares her incredible work into transformation over the past 15 months. I know her story will instill hope that this is all possible for you, too. We then dive deeper into the meaning and perspective of having all that we need and how we, as mothers, can see that through with a better vision and devotion to what is meant for us. I'm looking forward to sharing more of the incredible people and influences in my life with you. Thank you for growing with me in all areas. I appreciate you! Read the book "Don't Give The Enemy A Seat At Your Table" by Louie Giglio that Ashley and I referred to in this episode. Grab the Alignment Journaling Course to begin your work!

My boys got into a heated fight while playing together and in my best efforts to help them create space from one another, I was met with "NO!!" I, personally, choose to keep my expectations very clear and focus on saying what I mean and meaning what I say. Hearing "no" in response does not deter me. HOOOOOW?! You're told "no"... now what? How do we keep the calm? How do we stay patient?! How do we stay the course?! I've got this episode loaded up and ready to teach you just that so you can be the calm, steady, constant. Setting the tone of your family and keeping your mind still. I'm constantly sharing mindset like this over on my Instagram if you'd like more daily examples and encouragement. I'll say it once and every day after, START WRITING. Your mind is desperate for some exercise and I have just what you need in the Alignment Journaling Course.

It's episode ONE HUNDRED and time to share the whole dang story of how I got started in this work and three key pieces of encouragement for YOU. This is the whole story of where I started and desperately wanting to be a stay at home mom leading me to my first business venture that eventually became MOMSET we have today! Whew, buckle up for this one my friend and I truly hope you leave with an "I can do this, too" mentality. I adore you and this life so dang much! Take the three pieces of encouragement and get the heck after the life you WANT to experience, even if it takes a journey of 8 years and beyond like me. Thank you for being here! xoxo Tessa Romero p.s. You better believe I journaled SO MUCH about each step and the vision I've held on to using Alignment Journaling. I'd love to teach you how to do that, too!

Man, the feeling of the "ah-ha" that comes when you uncover a harmful belief you've had for over 20 years is quite astounding. Let's call my weekend astounding then! I'm opening up about the hardship of my weekend, what was uncovered and how I decided to rise above it by BEING REBELLIOUS in the face of it. You'll learn what it means to be rebellious, where your beliefs are coming from and more of what to do when you catch a harmful one. Journaling is an incredible way to rewrite the story of your beliefs and grow into someone new- that you WANT to be! You can have me coach you through my Alignment Journaling technique now!

You've been working really hard to pull yourself up and out of the victim mentality. Catching yourself in the "happening to me" shenanigans and steering clear of complaining the best you can. You've chosen to do this work annnd you have friends and relationships with others that are not on the same page! Now what?! You don't need to cut out every person and end every relationship. You also don't need to feel dragged down after a few hours with your friends. This episode has you covered with a fresh perspective on where you're at and what some powerful steps can look like for you! Enjoy this one AND remember your last chance to work with me in 2024 is ending soon! Mind Body Alignment only opens enrollment twice a year and you can find our amazing bonuses and details on this link! I'll see you in the group and catch you here next week! Tessa Romero

Can you imagine a day in your life that you didn't think you're angry? You no longer saw yourself as the drowning mom that blows up over the little things and lost her sense of self? Let me tell you from personal experience, you are so much closer to change than you can even imagine!!! I'm so excited for you because I came from where you are at and you are going to love where you are headed. It's time you knew how to stop being angry! This is one of the single best things I have ever done in my healing journey and if I were to go back 6 years ago, knowing what I know now, this is still the first thing I'd do. Enjoy the episode!! Next, you need to save your spot in the Spring Group Coaching with me through my all new and improved signature course Mind Body Alignment. This is my last group coaching before having my fourth baby and I want to make sure I got YOU where you NEED to be before I step into my postpartum season! You'll know if you NEED to make a big change in your life, marriage and motherhood and I know that MBA Coaching is freaking it! Make sure you sign up for the additional three bonuses that are in-freaking-credible! All my love and so much more, Tessa

This entire grocery trip and even the relationship with my son would be completely different if I had settled for a victim mentality. You can see the best of yourself shine through when the circumstances seem the hardest. Take your next hard moment as your opportunity to show up, learn and grow, and you will know exactly what I mean. If you want to master the victim mentality that has been tainting your daily experience in motherhood then you'll want to join my NEW and FREE 3 day Workshop! You can sign up for free right here. I'll teach you what the victim mentality is, why you use it and what to do instead that will empower you to meet your needs and desires while remaining in alignment with who you want to be. The workshop is live March 13, 14 and 15th, 2024! Join now to save your spot and take on the victim mentality with me.  All the golden goodness headed towards you, Tessa Romero

Have you noticed yourself lacking compassion in one relationship or another? I have a mindset tool that you can easily apply in those moments and soften back into compassion for yourself and others. This episode provides the new mindset and several examples of how it works and what it would look like for you! You can join the Mind Body Alignment Spring Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens and save your spot for my last 12 week coaching session of 2024 before I have my baby. The Spring session is SPECIAL with all new video modules, course materials and coaching within the course. If you've been on the fence, this is the time to take full advantage of my most up to date coaching and exercises. Mind Body Alignment is for mothers needing renewal. You will be able to know who you are, align a new mindset with this identity, heal past shame and painful experiences and set strong boundaries, as well as start a daily writing practice that keeps you in alignment long after our 12 weeks together. This is self-discovery and healing work s you can finally be who you want to BE.

This may be my unpopular opinion or maybe it's a shared perspective with you. Either way, I hope you'll take the time to consider just how necessary and beneficial reminders are in every season of life, especially the hard ones. I adore you and would love to see your mindset flourish in motherhood. Click here to receive details on my last group coaching session for the Spring of 2024 before I have my fourth baby in July!

Goodness, I am completely thrilled to be expecting our fourth baby this July and grateful to be sharing the news with you today! This episode includes some personal details of my pregnancy that I haven't shared yet, as well as three key perspectives that help me so much during pregnancy as a good frame of mind to keep myself in. I hope this serves you and please remember that wherever you are in your motherhood, the miracle of pregnancy is not lost on me. You can visit the pregnancy symptoms highlight I mentioned on my Instagram account that has more actionable recommendations of what helps me during pregnancy! This is Beehive meals that I mentioned for easy dinners that taste delicious and keep great in the freezer for those extra tired days! I highly recommend them for your family or a gift to someone!

Oh man, does reading that title fire something up in you?! Well, if you take the time to allow this perspective to be delivered to you throughout this episode, there's a very high chance that you will receive it and the benefits that it can give you. Come in here with an open mind and know that there's a very good chance that your mind is choosing to believe something harmful about daily circumstances that actually makes them harder on you instead of easier. This mentality I shared here is about bringing more ease and acceptance to your circumstances so you can see the purpose that is there and utilize what you are given AS something you did need. You can join me in the Alignment Journaling Course to build a daily writing practice that actually serves you in your growth! You really can do this and I know that with my whole heart, Tessa Romero

Motherhood, marriage and liiife are constantly giving us the opportunity to think greater and develop new ways to help ourselves be who we want to be through it all. That's what mindset work is to me. This constant focus and unraveling of who I am and what she thinks. This new tool is one that graciously found it's way to me in the middle of a hard moment with my kiddos and goodness I have used it almost daily since then. Put this into practice and remember that the best way to change your mindset is not picking out all of the negativity, it's flushing out the negativity with a whole new perspective! I adore you and love that we get to do this together. I'll see you in the Alignment Journaling Course for more "flushing out the negativity" as we have our Marriage topic this February!

You know how when you leave a dark movie theater and walk back out into the sun it can really sting your eyes? There's an adjustment period when going from darkness to light and that may be what you're experiencing right now in your growth! This episode will encourage you to stay the course as you continue making good decisions and persevere through the discomfort that comes as you adjust. You CAN be who you want to be and we can do it together. The REVIVE Retreat enrollment closes on January 31, 2024 for our February 21-25, 2024 retreat. Find the details here!

I love this community and this episode was directly requested by a fellow member in our MOMSET Tribe. She said "I wanted to make a podcast suggestion in case there are other moms like me feeling this. I love allll the podcasts but I constantly have this underlying anxiety feeling of "agh, it's too late. I've messed this up for my kids so much their whole childhood, If I only found Tessa years ago... I wish I could just start over." I am here to reassure you that none of us are alone and the anxious feelings of "too late to change" are coming from the thoughts associated with it. This episode is ready to give you four helpful perspectives that can uproot the belief system around change and get you grounded in new empowerment that fires you up. You can change now and it matters! If you need a real fresh start and to smack the reset button of your life so you can hold yourself to a new vision of who you are and what you decide to create, come to my REVIVE Retreat. This is the last retreat for close to two years and we are letting it ALL out at this one- nothing to hold back! Enrollment closes January 31, 2024 Let's get to work, Tessa Romero

I love it when I have a story to share of a recent experience and that is just what I have in store for you today. My husband baked my sourdough starter (that I have tenderly babied for a month to get going) to 300 degrees ... wowza. Now, I could have harshly reacted and expressed disappointment on to him and justified every second of my behavior, and I didn't. What if we didn't do what we could justify, and instead chose to do what could lead to better interactions and truly teaching others how to treat us through the way we treat them? Ironically, I did the same thing to my sourdough starter the very next day and that is when the power of my chosen response really clicked for me. Listen along and reflect on where and how you'd like to intentionally shift your chosen responses. The REVIVE Retreat enrollment closes on January 31 and this is my LAST self-discovery and healing retreat for close to two years. Get yourself to this transformative event with us. I am in your corner and cheering you on like a proud mama! Tessa Romero