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"It depends" feels like the right answer. It sounds accommodating, flexible, like you're paying attention. But if you're an expert trying to build a scalable business, it's quietly costing you your authority - and your ability to grow.In this episode, Tara kicks off a new series on how to package your expertise. She shares why leading with "it depends" signals a lack of methodology rather than abundance of skill, why your customers don't have as unique a problem as they think, and how applying a consistent methodology actually allows every customer to feel seen - without you reinventing the wheel every time.If you're stuck in the trap of doing something custom for every single person you serve, this episode is your starting point.Key Takeaways:"It depends" erodes authority and positions you as a worker, not an expertCustomers feel unique - but their underlying problem usually isn'tA consistent methodology lets you do your best work more oftenPackaging your expertise is not a marketing fix - it's a structural oneTara Bryan is the creator of the Infinite Scale Method™ and host of The Scalable Expert podcast. She helps expert business owners, coaches, and consultants turn their expertise into a scalable business built on a signature framework and systems that deliver results without requiring more of their time. Learn more at www.thescalable.expert and www.taralbryan.comReady to build a business your expertise deserves? The Scalable Expert Audit reveals exactly where you are in the Infinite Scale Method and what to do next. Five minutes. Instant results. Take the Free Scalable Expert Audit → If this episode was useful...Share it with one expert business owner who's hit the same ceiling.A review on Apple Podcasts helps more of the right people find the show and takes less than two minutes.→ Leave a review: Apple Podcasts→ Subscribe: Apple Podcasts · Website

I used to introduce myself as a "late bloomer" on hundreds of podcast episodes. It sounded casual, even humble. But here's what I was really saying: "I should have learned this earlier. Smarter people figured this out years before I did. I'm behind." That broken soundtrack has been quietly wreaking havoc in my life for years. In this episode, I'm exposing one of the most dangerous phrases you might be saying right now and showing you the four words you should say instead. Whether you learn something new at 30, 50, or 70, whether you accomplish a goal this year or next, whether you finally clean that garage or lose those 20 pounds, there's no official age when you're supposed to do any of it. Shame cannot answer the question: "When was I supposed to know this?" Because there is no answer. You're not a late bloomer. You're right on time.In This Episode:Order Procrastination Proof!You can grab a copy of my new book Procrastination Proof from your favorite bookstore or at my website!Make sure to follow me on Instagram and share with your friends!Sign up for my newsletter, Try This!Book me to speak at your event or to your team!Sign up for the Remarkable You Community today!Keep up with my book list on GoodReads!Have me speak at your next event! Have me speak at your next event!

We've all been there. You hear your kid use a four-letter word for the first time. Or belittle someone else. Do your kids understand the power of their words? In this episode of the All Pro Dad podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how often our kids use words without thinking about the consequences and what dads can do to shape kids' language. Why This MattersThe words we use shape relationships, build trust, and influence how kids see themselves and others.Key TakeawaysKids learn the power of language primarily by listening to the adults around them.Compliments and encouragement often have a longer-lasting impact than we realize.A child's language often reveals deeper heart issues, influences, or emotional struggles.Parents should pay attention to the influences shaping their kids' communication, including friends, music, movies, and online content.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Model the language you want your kids to use.Praise your spouse, encourage others openly, and speak respectfully even when frustrated.2.    Practice “reverse gossip.”Speak highly of people behind their backs and let your kids hear it regularly.3.    Build gratitude into family rhythms.Use moments like dinner conversations to encourage thankfulness and affirmation.4.    Address hurtful language quickly.Teach kids the difference between joking around and attacking someone's dignity.5.    Talk about the “why” behind words.Ask questions that uncover the heart posture behind the language your kids use.6.    Monitor influences carefully.Pay attention to the friends, media, music, and online content shaping your child's communication habits.7.    Teach honesty as a core family value.Help kids understand that trust is built through consistent truthfulness.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] How Can We Teach Our Kids the Power of Language? Ted frames a conversation about how the words dads model at home shape the way their kids speak for years to come.[00:49] The Words We Wish We Could Take Back: Honest Stories From the Guys BJ, Ted, and Bobby share cringe-worthy moments when their words caused unintended harm.[04:12] The Surprising Power of the Right Word at the Right MomentThe dads reflect on times a well-timed compliment or word of affirmation made a lasting impact on someone.[06:01] Why Kids Already Know 42 Taboo Words by Age Five Ted shares unsettling research about how early children absorb harsh language.[07:23] How to Model the Power of Language at Home Every Day The dads discuss practical ways dads can demonstrate uplifting language in action.[10:17] Reverse Gossip, Doug Compliments, and Other Ways to Build People UpBobby introduces the concept of reverse gossip, Ted shares the Doug Compliment tradition, and BJ explains why passing along praise is one of the most powerful things a dad can do.[13:11] How Careless Words at Home Become Bullying Behavior Everywhere Else Ted and BJ connect the dots between the language kids use with siblings at home and the bullying behavior that shows up at school.[14:48] Cursing, Tone, and What Really Tears People Down BJ offers a nuanced take on cursing, arguing that tone, posture, and dehumanizing language do far more damage than any particular word.[19:01] Why Lying Is the Most Damaging Language of AllThe dads explain why dishonesty is the most common way to destroys trust, and why creating a home where kids feel safe to tell the truth is one of the most important things a dad can do.[21:30] This Week's Pro Move: Ask your kids why they think some kids use curse words. Talk about where language comes from, how words affect others, and what kind of people your family wants to be through the way you speak.Sponsor:The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.All Pro Dad ResourcesMark Merrill on CBS News: What To Do When Your Kid Starts SwearingEpisode 3 – What Are The Words My Kids Long to Hear?Episode 8 – What Are 7 Things A Son Needs From His Dad?Episode 9 – What Are 7 Things A Daughter Needs From Her Dad?Episode 118 – What Do Dads Need to Stop Saying to Their Kids?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Reach Out Via Text!In this episode of the Growing Green Podcast, Jeremiah Jennings returns to a full Monday, Wednesday, and Friday publishing schedule and shares a candid look at the challenges, lessons, and growth that have come from a difficult season in business. Jeremiah discusses the importance of embracing technology, leveraging tools like LMN and LeanScaper, and why business owners who refuse to adapt risk falling behind. He challenges listeners to rethink what it truly means to be a "professional," arguing that professionalism comes from doing the hard work, investing in systems, and continually improving rather than settling for excuses. The episode also explores customer experience, business growth, personal accountability, and the role technology and AI will play in shaping the future of the green industry. If you're looking for a mindset shift around growth, professionalism, and staying competitive in a rapidly changing world, this episode delivers a powerful challenge.Free Tickets to Chicago: https://leanscaper.link/4wsLgxbSupport the show10% off LMN Software- https://lmncompany.partnerlinks.io/growinggreenpodcastSignup for our Newsletter- https://mailchi.mp/942ae158aff5/newsletter-signupBook A Consult Call-https://stan.store/GrowingGreenPodcastLawntrepreneur Academy-https://www.lawntrepreneuracademy.com/The Landscaping Bookkeeper-https://thelandscapingbookkeeper.com/Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/growinggreenlandscapes/Email-ggreenlandscapes@gmail.comGrowing Green Website- https://www.growinggreenlandscapes.com/

Most agents are losing deals before the real conversation even starts. In this episode of Best Agent Hacks, Tom Toole breaks down 8 communication mistakes real estate agents make every day — from weak follow-up and bad texting habits to winging scripts and bringing negative energy into client conversations. Learn how top agents communicate with confidence, use OFQs effectively, improve tonality, and create more appointments and closings through proven practices that actually work.

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Send me a message.I recently attended an event at Nottingham Trent University that wasn't really aimed at me — but it got me thinking in ways I wasn't expecting. Industry designers were talking to final-year product design students about what it takes to succeed in the profession, and I found myself scribbling notes and asking: what does any of this mean for D&T classrooms?In this episode, I share my reflections on that event and dig into some of the ideas that stuck with me. We're talking about concepts like problem framing, vision, taste and judgment — the kinds of things that experienced designers do almost instinctively. But here's the thing: when knowledge becomes tacit, when you just know how to judge a good design without being able to explain how you got there, it becomes really difficult to teach.This is something I think matters enormously for D&T teachers, particularly those who've come into teaching through a design or industry route. The professional knowledge you've built up is genuinely valuable — but your role in the classroom is to recontextualise it. To select, simplify, and make it visible for your pupils. That's not straightforward, and I don't think we talk about it enough.I also reflect on how easily professional language — taste, creativity, empathy — can become the very clichés we're trying to avoid, if we don't stop to unpick what we actually mean.So here's my challenge to you: what's the tacit knowledge you have that you've never fully examined? And how might unpicking it change what you do in the classroom?Developing “Taste” in D&T: Reflections from an NTU EventSupport the showIf you like the podcast, you can always buy me a coffee to say 'thanks!'Please offer your feedback about the show or ideas for future episodes and topics by connecting with me on Threads @hardy_alison or by emailing me.If you listen to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, please take a moment to rate and/or review the show. If you want to support me by becoming a Patron click here. If you are not able to support me financially, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or sharing a link to my work on social media. Thank you!

Are Australian parents okay? If you're finding parenting deeply exhausting, a study has found you're not the only one. Monique Bowley, Amelia Lester and Stacey Hicks are unpacking why parents are feeling so stressed out. Plus, Stacey has a theory that might just be genius. Also, are you constantly saying sorry for your kids just being...kids? We're discussing why we feel the need to apologise all the time and what it might actually be teaching them. Plus, whimsical grandparent names. Everyone is now 'Mimi' and 'Zaza' instead of 'Nanna' and 'Pop'. We discuss whether this new trend is just an act of rebellion from Baby Boomers who flatly refuse to grow old.Reccos: Stacey is loving Sea Monkeys, bringing back pure 90s nostalgia for an entry-level pet experiment. Amelia recommends The Kids Book of Paper Love, a stationery-stuffed Amazon find perfect for kids to build scissor skills. Monique is loving Danny Go on YouTube, his joyful dances that support a grieving family. New Mamamia subscribers get $40 off — $20 off an annual membership and $20 off your TWOOBS order. Click here to subscribe. Already a subscriber? Click here for your $20 TWOOBS discount code. T&C's apply. Support independent women's media What To Listen To Next: Don't miss an episode of Parenting Out Loud 'Crying Cafes' & A Mother-In-Law Red Flag Signs You’re A Beta Mum & How To ‘Bounce Back’ The School Holiday Rule & The Big Bluey Stuff Up The Holiday Decision One Mum Regrets & Party Bags Are Officially Cancelled So, Are You A Popcorn Mum? The Lunchbox Theory & Our Complicated Feelings About YouTube The 3-Hour Mum & The Viral 'Jessica' Hack Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts What to read: Hannah Waddingham is known for Ted Lasso. But she's done so much more than that... 'Life goes tits-up... but I love it.' This nana's advice for new grandparents. "To all of you who help us raise our kids, thank you": An ode to grandparents. 'I've been a therapist for 25 years. Every parent asks the same question, but it's the wrong one.' GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Amelia Lester & Stacey Hicks Acting Group Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Content Manager: Talissa Bazaz Video Editor: Julian Rosario Associate Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Work with Joe What if the words “I'm busy” are programming your nervous system to stay overwhelmed?In this episode of Inspire Create Manifest, Joe dives into the hidden identity behind busyness and why so many of us feel trapped in constant motion. This conversation explores how the nervous system attaches safety to familiar patterns, even when those patterns create stress, anxiety, and disconnection.Joe shares practical steps to break the cycle, reconnect with your breath, and create space for clarity, stillness, and awareness. Because maybe your life doesn't need more productivity hacks. Maybe it needs simplicity.If you've been feeling exhausted, reactive, or disconnected from yourself, this episode is your reminder that slowing down is not weakness. It's wisdom.

Do you say “I'm sorry” all the time? Maybe when you don't even really have anything to be sorry for? I was once told that I say “sorry” too much. In fact, overusing "sorry" can undermine the meaning when you do need to apologize. I've really tried to work on only saying sorry when I have a reason to. Here are some tips for not apologizing too often.Let's connect!Follow me on TikTok @givingyourbestlifeJoin me on YouTubeShop my books hereWith gratitude, Stephanie❤️

So many women struggle with boundaries, not because they're weak, but because they care deeply about people and connection. But constantly saying yes, overgiving, and ignoring your own needs can leave you feeling resentful, exhausted, unseen, and disconnected from yourself. In this episode, we talk about why clear boundaries are one of the most important forms of self respect, how people pleasing creates confusion and emotional burnout, and why honouring your own time and energy actually creates deeper connection, healthier relationships, and more authenticity in your life. If you're someone who struggles with self doubt, overthinking, guilt, or constantly putting everyone else first, this conversation will help you start creating healthier boundaries with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Connect with me on Instagram @kristenableson

Joey's ex-wife said their daughter Jia is saying Michael Jackson's famous "HEE-HEEEE" phrase around the house too much, and it's driving her crazy. Was there a phrase you made your kids stop saying, or one you said growing up? Follow us on socials! @themorningmess

Joey's ex-wife said their daughter Jia is saying Michael Jackson's famous "HEE-HEEEE" phrase around the house too much, and it's driving her crazy. Was there a phrase you made your kids stop saying, or one you said growing up? Follow us on socials! @themorningmess

Joey's ex-wife said their daughter Jia is saying Michael Jackson's famous "HEE-HEEEE" phrase around the house too much, and it's driving her crazy. Was there a phrase you made your kids stop saying, or one you said growing up? Follow us on socials! @themorningmess

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Everybody screws up.What matters is how you handle it. In his latest podcast, Walker shares a personal story about making a mistake with his longtime business friend, Lindsey McMillan, and the one thing he did immediately to repair trust. No email. No text. No BS. Just ownership.Everyone knows mistakes happen but excuses make them worse.In this episode, you'll learn:-- Why the mistake usually isn't what breaks trust-- What to do immediately after you realize you screwed up-- Why you should pick up the phone instead of hiding behind email-- How excuses destroy credibility-- Why taking responsibility matters even when it wasn't fully your fault-- How ownership can build trust back stronger

You built your CPA firm from the ground up. So why does it feel like it is running you instead of the other way around? Geraldine Carter, Founder and Business Coach at Geraldine Carter LLC, talks about what it really takes for CPA and accounting firm owners to stop overworking, start charging what they are worth, and design a firm that fits the life they want. Geraldine has spent a decade coaching accountants out of the burnout trap and she brings the no-nonsense, practical framework to prove it.What she saw when she looked under the hood of accounting practices was a familiar pattern: massive AR balances, too many low-paying clients, long nights, and a business that was technically successful but genuinely exhausting to run. Stop saying yes to everything and start building the firm you deserve. Tune in the full episode of Stop Saying Yes: How CPAs Can Build the Firm They Deserve  with Geraldine Carter.Episode resources:● Website: https://anderscpa.com/ ● If you have questions or would like to be a guest on the show, email us at mcpasuccessshow@anderscpa.com ● Check out the Virtual CFO Playbook Course:  https://anderscpa.com/virtual-cfo-services/vcfo-playbook/   QuotesGeraldine Carter: "The better we get at defining what is in bounds and what is out, the easier it becomes to police your own packages."Tom Wadelton: "Clearly defining what is included and not included in your engagement makes it easier to hold boundaries when clients ask for more."Adam Hale: "The real challenge is learning how to qualify clients better so you're not constantly put in a position to say yes to the wrong things."Geraldine Carter is the Founder of Geraldine Carter LLC and a business coach who has spent a decade helping overworked accountants, CPAs, and EAs redesign their firms so they can work fewer hours at higher prices — with clients they actually enjoy. With a background in engineering and entrepreneurship, Geraldine brings a systems-oriented, problem-solving approach to the very specific challenges that accounting firm owners face: scope creep, underpricing, over-servicing, burnout, and the struggle to say no. Website: https://geraldine-carter.com/    LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/geraldine-carter/  IG: https://www.instagram.com/geraldinecartercpacoach/       The Modern CPA Success Show is the go-to podcast for accounting firm owners eager to enhance profitability and master Virtual CFO services. This podcast leverages combined expertise in delivering top-tier Virtual CFO services across North America.Website: https://anderscpa.com/learn/podcasts/the-modern-cpa-success-show/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndersCPA LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/anders-cpa/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anderscpa/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@andersvcfo Tom Wadelton is a Partner and Virtual CFO at Anders, bringing over 20 years of financial expertise from his tenure at a Fortune 500 company. He has extensive experience spanning financial management, accounting operations, and information technology integration. Tom specializes in delivering strategic Virtual CFO services, helping businesses optimize their financial performance through advanced accounting solutions.Website: https://anderscpa.com/about/your-anders-team/#thomas-d-wadelton LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tomwadelton/ Adam Hale, CPA, is a Partner and Virtual CFO Practice Leader at Anders, dedicated to transforming traditional accounting practices through innovative Virtual CFO services. With over 20 years in public accounting, Adam has been instrumental in the ideation and development of CPA training courses. Website: https://anderscpa.com/about/your-anders-team/#adam-hale LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamhalecpa/        

Do you ever start speaking and immediately apologize—“Sorry, my English is bad”? If you do, I want you to hear me clearly: that sentence is not helping you. It's training you to shrink, and it's teaching other people to focus on your English instead of your message.In this episode, I'm breaking down 7 real reasons that apology keeps you stuck—from job interviews to meetings to networking events to doctor appointments. You'll hear what those moments sound like in real life, why the apology shifts the energy in the room, and what to say instead so you can speak with more confidence without pretending your English is perfect.This is about reclaiming your voice. Because you don't need flawless English to be taken seriously—you need presence, clarity, and the decision that what you're saying matters.What You'll LearnWhy you're often the only one judging your English that harshlyHow apologizing puts a “microscope” on your mistakesWhy the apology makes the conversation about your English (not your idea)How it quietly asks permission to be taken seriouslyHow it trains your brain to expect failure before you speakWhy it creates a smaller, apologetic version of you that isn't realWhat confident, respectful replacement phrases sound likeKey Moments / Segment BreakdownJob interview: introducing yourself without a warning labelNetworking: responding to compliments without rejecting yourselfTeam meeting: getting to your point without losing the floorClient call: sounding professional without asking permissionPresentation/Q&A: pausing without panicking (and keeping the room with you)Social/work dinner: telling your story without disappearingParent-teacher conversation: speaking with authority about what mattersMindset Shifts“I need to apologize first” → “I'm allowed to speak as I am”“They're grading me” → “Most people respect bilingual speakers”“My English is the topic” → “My message is the topic”“A pause means I'm failing” → “A pause means I'm thinking”“I must be perfect to be heard” → “I must be present to be heard”Practical Takeaways (Replacement Phrases)Instead of “Sorry, my English is bad,” say: “Thanks—let me jump in.”When someone compliments you, say: “English is my second language—and I love using it.”To introduce your point in a meeting, say: “Here's what I want to say.”On a serious call, say: “Let me tell you what I think.”When you need a pause, say: “Give me a second—I want to say this well.”Before telling a story, say: “Okay, here we go.”For meaningful conversations, say: “I want to say this in my own words.”Listener Reflection QuestionsWhere do I apologize the most—work, social situations, or appointments?What do I fear people will think if I don't apologize first?How would my tone change if I started with a claim instead of a warning?What phrase from today's episode will I practice all week?What would happen if I decided my message mattered more than my mistakes?If you want to sign up for the free English email newsletter, go to https://speakenglishwithtiffani.com/newsletter

Roman slavery myths shattered with brutal truths historians can't ignoreRoman slavery is often portrayed as mild, civilised, or even preferable to poverty—but that comforting myth collapses under scrutiny. In this explosive episode of History Rage, historian and author Emma Southon unleashes her fury at the persistent sanitising of Roman slavery and reveals the stark, violent realities behind the Roman Empire's power.Drawing on archaeological evidence, ancient writings, and modern scholarship, Emma dismantles the comforting fiction that Roman slavery was temporary, humane, or somehow “not that bad.” Instead, she exposes a system built on terror, exploitation, and absolute lack of human rights—where millions lived in constant fear of violence, separation, and death.You'll hear how people became enslaved—from war captives to children born into bondage—and why slavery was so embedded in Roman society that even modest households often owned enslaved people. Emma also reveals the chilling legal reality: for centuries, enslaved people had virtually no protections, and violence against them was both legal and culturally accepted.From the myth of the “happy slave” taught in school textbooks to the romanticised portrayals in television and fiction, this episode challenges everything you thought you knew about Rome—and shows why understanding slavery is essential to understanding the empire itself.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy Roman slavery was widespread across every level of societyHow people entered slavery through war, birth, crime, or kidnappingThe reality of daily life under constant threat of violenceThe truth about manumission and why freedom was rarer than often claimedHow myths about Roman slavery developed—and why they still persistWhy slavery may have slowed Roman technological innovationAbout the GuestEmma Southon is a historian specialising in the Roman Empire and the social realities behind its power. She is the author of “Servus: How Slavery Made the Roman Empire”, a groundbreaking exploration of slavery's central role in Roman society.Emma is also co-host of the History Is Sexy, where she explores the ancient world through stories often overlooked in traditional history.Follow Emma Southon:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmasouthonBluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/emmasouton.bsky.social

Security incidents don't end when the threat is contained. They end when you can confirm no sensitive data left the building and most teams can't confirm that. Pranava Adduri and George Gerchow of Bedrock Data joined the show to talk through what data visibility actually looks like at enterprise scale, why the office of no is dead, and what a DBOM has to do with AI compliance. Together they make the case that data-first security isn't just a better posture, it's the only posture that survives an AI-driven enterprise.   Pranava Adduri: www.linkedin.com/in/padduri George Gerchow: www.linkedin.com/in/georgegerchow Bedrock Data: www.bedrockdata.ai Jon: www.linkedin.com/in/jon-mclachlan Sasha: www.linkedin.com/in/aliaksandr-sinkevich YSecurity: www.ysecurity.io  

Send us Fan MailLearn how to make space for and support the mission in your family. You bear your husband's authority, not to mention the power of the newness of life by the Cross. Walk in your authority and identity on SUBmission in your marriage! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Jack Daniel's is only a numbing agent. It doesn't fix the pain; it just gives you a headache in the morning while the problem remains. Most high-performing men are "white-knuckling" their way through life, relying on a brand of strength that has no spiritual depth. They are mission-driven and overworked, yet secretly isolated. In this forensic identity audit, Ted Phaëton sits down with Chris Grainger, founder of The Lion Within Us, to dismantle the "Chief Everything Officer" trap. Chris reveals the exact moment his "white-knuckle" strength failed him, following a failed marriage and the tragic loss of his daughter, and explains why your ego is currently your biggest operational liability. We deconstruct the "Meteorologist" archetype of predictive leadership and why modern men must stop "outsourcing" their spiritual authority to AI or institutions. If you are a CEO, father, or leader who feels "successful" on paper but hollow in reality, this conversation is your diagnostic tool for reclamation.   In this episode, we deconstruct: The Identity Forensic Audit: Why your body breaks before your ego does. The 3 Most Dangerous Words: Why saying "I got this" is actually a rejection of God. The Feminization of the Church: Why traditional spiritual settings are failing the modern man. The Windshield Principle: How to stop living in the "rear-view mirror" of your past failures. The Lion vs. The Passive: How to safely tap into masculine aggression without losing your integrity.   CHAPTERS 00:00 – The "Mic-Drop" Opening: Jack Daniels vs. Joy  02:16 – When "White-Knuckle" Strength Isn't Enough  04:07 – Reframing Tragedy: Turning "Kid Pain" Into Purpose  05:50 – The Diagnostic: What Silences the Lion Inside You?  08:22 – Setting the Standard: Biblical Practices for CEOs & Fathers  13:14 – Windshield vs. Rear-View: Redeeming Your Past  19:28 – THE WARNING: Why "I Got This" Is Killing Your Growth  23:45 – Called vs. Qualified: The Moses Strategy for Success  27:33 – Has the Church Failed Men? The Hard Truth  34:01 – Theology of Strength: Reliance vs. Arrogance  41:09 – Legacy: What Strength Remains When Everything is Stripped?   Grainger's Links: The Lion Within Us (Chris Grainger): https://thelionwithin.us/ The Lion Within (Book): https://www.amazon.com/The-Lion-Within-Us/dp/B08JJRFW8F  

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Are you saying yes to everything and wondering why you have no joy left? Dr. Santina Wheat, family physician, program director, and wellness coach, has lived that story and found her way through it. She shares what she has learned about alignment, boundaries, and how to build a sustainable career in medicine without leaving it behind. Timestamps: 2:00: The reality of family medicine: double bookings, no lunch, and being told you are not bringing in enough money 4:00: How she protects her team from unsustainable scheduling and why saying no for them matters 7:00: The pause: why reacting too quickly is one of the biggest drivers of burnout 13:00: Losing her mom, surviving COVID as a first year program director, and finally finding coaching 17:00: The one misconception that sent her into burnout: thinking availability meant immediate response 22:00: How coaching changed the way she has difficult conversations with residents 3 Key Takeaways: Saying Yes to Everything Is Not How You Get Ahead. Earlier in her career Dr. Wheat thought taking every opportunity was the path forward. What it actually did was fill her calendar with things she didn't enjoy and drain the joy from her career. Alignment, not busyness, is what creates sustainability. The question to ask yourself: what did the younger version of you actually want to do with this career? Availability Does Not Mean Immediate Response. One of the biggest lessons Dr. Wheat learned from coaching was that she didn't have to answer every message the moment it arrived. Sometimes waiting two minutes meant someone else handled it. Sometimes the person figured it out themselves. Being responsive and being reactive are two very different things. The Pause Is Everything. Whether it is a difficult conversation with a resident, a request to take on a new role, or a message that arrives at 10pm, the pause is the single most powerful tool available to any clinician. When you stop and ask how you actually want to respond rather than just reacting, the joy becomes so much easier to find. About Dr. Santina Wheat Dr. Santina Wheat is a family physician, program director, and wellness coach helping driven healthcare professionals find purpose, set boundaries, and build sustainable careers in medicine. Connect with Dr. Santina Wheat:

Most ambitious men are quietly dying in a "comfortable" trap. In this forensic breakdown, combat veteran and former police officer Garrett Pastor exposes why the words "I'm fine" are the most dangerous signal of a soul-killing plateau. If you feel isolated, overworked, or unfulfilled despite your success, this episode is your diagnostic tool to escape "The Drift."  Ted Phaëton sits down with Garrett Pastor to dismantle the "Chief Everything Officer" identity crisis. They deconstruct the exact mechanics of how high-performing men lose their North Star and provide the 2026 protocol for building, not finding, a life of intentional purpose. In this masterclass, we analyze: The "Fine" Diagnostic: Why comfort is the leading indicator of operational and personal failure. Identity Theft of the Soul: Rebuilding brotherhood and mission after the uniform (or the executive title) comes off.  The Beach Metaphor: How to recognize if you've drifted 100 feet down shore and the "reverse engineering" steps to get back. Sovereign Leadership: Why your most important command center is your role as a father and husband.  Chapters 00:00 – The Scroll-Stopper: Why "Fine" is a Dangerous Trap  00:45 – The High Stakes: When Purpose Disappears  01:58 – Meet Garrett Pastor: From Combat to Community  03:51 – Losing the North Star: The Reality of "The Drift"  06:17 – Finding Your Tribe: Why Men Need a Mirror, Not a Cheerleader  08:35 – THE DIAGNOSTIC: The Difference Between Integrated and Just Getting By  11:21 – Reconstructing Purpose: It's Built, Not Found  14:25 – The Garrett Pastor Story: Army, Law Enforcement, and Awakening  19:33 – Accountability: Why Real Love Requires Pressure  23:35 – Mission's Purpose: Escaping Limiting Beliefs  31:54 – The Glue of Brotherhood: Non-Negotiable Community Elements  35:37 – Leadership vs. Rank: The Power of Influence  38:08 – Parenting as the Ultimate Leadership Role  42:27 – Good Men and the Fight Against Evil  45:00 – The Final Gem: How to Start Rebuilding Today Pastor's Links: Website: www.missionspurpose.com Facebook: garrett.pastor.1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/garrett-pastor-3a5b39302/   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   

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A recognized autonomous branch of the Christian Church is referred to as a Denomination; a religious group that has slightly different beliefs from other groups that share the same belief in Jesus as God. E207. Books by Trent Horn available at https://amzn.to/3VAny1k Books about Christian Denominations at https://amzn.to/4dNPo1N ENJOY Ad-Free content, Bonus episodes, and Extra materials when joining our growing community on https://patreon.com/markvinet SUPPORT this channel by purchasing any product on Amazon using this FREE entry LINK https://amzn.to/3POlrUD (Amazon gives us credit at NO extra charge to you). Mark Vinet's TIMELINE video channel: https://youtube.com/c/TIMELINE_MarkVinet Mark's History of North America podcast: www.parthenonpodcast.com/history-of-north-america Website: https://markvinet.com/podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mark.vinet.9 X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/HistoricalJesu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/denarynovels Mark's books: https://amzn.to/3k8qrGM Audio credit: Counsel of Trent podcast with Trent Horn (episode 1005, 10mar2025, 4 Things Catholics Need to STOP Saying to Protestants). Audio excerpts reproduced under the Fair Use (Fair Dealings) Legal Doctrine for purposes such as criticism, comment, teaching, education, scholarship, research and news reporting.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ari Galper reveals why traditional sales tactics are breaking trust- and how to collapse your entire sales cycle into one conversation.If you're tired of chasing leads, doing free consulting, and hearing "let me think about it," this episode will change everything. Ari Galper, @ari_galper, founder of AriAI and the world's leading authority on trust-based selling, breaks down why follow-ups, proposals, and "Do you have any questions?" are killing your conversion rates- and what to say instead.About Ari Galper:Ari Galper is the founder and CEO of AriAI, the world's only trust-based proprietary AI sales growth advisor. With over two decades of experience, he's the world's leading authority on trust-based selling, helping business leaders eliminate sales pressure and collapse long sales cycles. Ari is the author of seven best-selling books, including Trust in a Split Second! and Unlock The Sales Game. His strategies have been featured in Forbes, CEO Magazine, and INC Magazine. Through his breakthrough "One Call Sale" system, Ari empowers leaders to thrive in today's "Trust Recession," making trust the cornerstone of business success.Resources:• Get Ari's book Trust in a Split Second for FREE (physical copy shipped to you): thetrustbook.com • Join the Selling with Trust community for free: arigalper.com/free• Learn more about AriAI: arigalper.comReady to stop chasing and start closing? Hit play and discover how trust-based selling can transform your sales process- and your business.Chapters with Timestamps and Descriptions00:00 - Introduction: Meet Ari Galper• Cam and Otis introduce Ari Galper, founder of AriAI and trust-based selling expert • Setting the stage: Why traditional sales tactics are failing in today's market • The "Trust Recession" and what it means for business owners07:13 - AI Meets Human Connection: How to Balance Both• Ari explains how he uses AI to scale while keeping interactions feeling personal • The philosophy behind cloning himself with AI without losing the human touch • Why every customer should feel like a real human reached out to them • Separating automation from authentic connection in your sales ecosystem13:16 - The Free Consulting Trap: Stop Racing to the Bottom• Why most businesses struggle with conversion rates and chase leads endlessly • The cycle of free consulting, proposals, and voicemails that break trust • How "selling behaviors" destroy trust before you even get to the close • What to do instead: Shifting from information-giving to trust-building16:33 - The One Call Sale Framework: Make Them Feel Understood• The psychology of why prospects don't care about your credentials or logos • How to make the emotional connection: "This guy just gets me" • The moment they're sold: When they feel deeply understood • Onboarding vs. selling: The rest is just logistics once trust is established17:04 - The Human Component: It's Not About the Business• Camden's question: Do you even need to know the business that well? • Why the human-to-human connection matters more than business details • Focusing on the person in front of you, not just the company behind them41:40 - Stop Saying "Follow-Up"—Say This Instead• Why "follow-up" is a sales word that signals you're chasing the sale • The trust-building alternative: "I'm calling to see if you have any feedback" • How languaging shifts change perception and increase your expert status • Why chasing decreases your credibility and pushes prospects away42:09 - Never Ask "Do You Have Any Questions?" Pre-Sale• The worst thing you can say before closing—and why it kills trust • What happens when you invite prospects to pick your brain for free • How this phrase positions you as a vendor, not&

It's YOUR time to #EdUp with Nora Miller, President, Mississippi University for Women In this episode, President Series #469, powered by ⁠⁠⁠Ellucian⁠⁠⁠, sponsored by the ​HigherEd PodCon​ II happening July 16 & 17, & the 2026 AcOps Conference July 29-31 by CoursedogYOUR host is Dr. Jodi BlincoHow does the 1st state supported college for women founded in 1884 now serve 20 to 25% male enrollment with a nursing program in the top 4% nationally?Why does partnering with rural hospitals to grow their own nurses address workforce shortages when 80% of W grads stay licensed & employed in Mississippi?What makes rebuilding after an EF5 tornado lead to pivoting from Division 2 to Division 3 athletics focused on student athletes with no athletic scholarships?Listen in to #EdUpThank YOU so much for tuning in. Join us on the next episode for YOUR time to EdUp!Connect with YOUR EdUp Team - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Elvin Freytes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Dr. Joe Sallustio⁠⁠⁠⁠● Join YOUR EdUp community at The EdUp ExperienceWe make education YOUR business!P.S. Want to access to EdUp Leadership, the only intelligence platform built exclusively from presidential conversations in higher ed?

Shelby Forsythia is a grief coach, founder of Life After Loss Academy, and author of Of Course I'm Here Right Now—a practical, compassionate guide for anyone who wants to better support someone through grief. After losing her mother unexpectedly at 21, Shelby began searching for language that could make grief feel less isolating and more understood.In this conversation, Shelby and Heather talk about the three core feelings so many grievers carry: feeling crazy, feeling alone, and fearing life will be like this forever. Shelby shares why the words we use matter more than we think, how common comfort phrases often miss the mark, and what actually helps instead. It's a thoughtful, deeply useful conversation about validation, presence, and the simple language that can help grieving people feel seen rather than shut down.Resources & Ways to ConnectShelby Forsythia Website: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/Jake's Help from Heaven Website: http://jakeshelpfromheaven.org/Jake's Help from Heaven Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jakeshelpJake's Help from Heaven Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jakeshelpAPOY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aplaceofyespodcastHeather's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heathersstraughterOur YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@aplaceofyespodcast

David committed adultery, had the woman's husband murdered, and told himself he was doing just fine. It took a friend named Nathan, someone more committed to truth-telling than to keeping the peace, to say: you've sinned and you don't even know it. And here's the remarkable part: David didn't fire back. He humbled himself and said, you're right. He later wrote that his dishonesty had made him miserable and filled his days with frustration. Most of us have surrounded ourselves with mirrors that only show our best angle. And we've been walking out the door for years with something on our face that everyone else can see and nobody will say. So ask yourself honestly: have you been living in a straitjacket and calling it fine?Pursuing God with Gene Appel is designed to help you pursue God, build community, and unleash compassion. Grounded in Scripture and shaped by Eastside's conviction that God's grace is for everyone, each episode invites you to discover God's presence and activity in your life.

Do Latter-day Saints think they'll be the God of their own planets? Do they worship Joseph Smith? Do they even read the Bible? Pastor Jeff talks about the common things Evangelicals say about Latter-day Saints... and probably need to stop saying. Support this effort: https://www.HelloCreative.life Get exclusive access to bonus content on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hellosaints Hello Saints! My name is Jeff McCullough and I'm a Christian Pastor. This channel is devoted to fighting criticism with curiosity as I invite dialogue between mainstream Christians and Latter-day Saints. Are Mormons Christians? What do Evangelicals and Latter-day Saints agree and disagree about? Join me as I compare and contrast the lifestyle, culture and beliefs of Mormons and non-LDS Christians. #LatterDaySaints #LDS #Interfaith

Saying yes isn't leadership.In this episode, Russel Lolacher explores the hidden cost of constant agreement — and how it impacts your team's capacity, priorities, and performance. Learn how to stay collaborative, set boundaries, and make better decisions about when to say yes… and when not to.And connect with me for more great content!Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on YoutubeFollow on LinkedinFollow on InstagramFollow me on ThreadsFollow on TikTokEmail me anytime 

Why Does David Stop Saying “He”? | Christ For YouPsalm 23 | Baptism of Luke TownsonWhy does Psalm 23 suddenly change? Why does David begin by saying, “He makes me lie down… He leads me… He restores my soul,” and then, right in the middle of the Psalm, stop saying “He” and start saying “You”? Why does the Psalm become more personal exactly when David enters the valley of the shadow of death?You would expect the opposite. You would expect David to feel close to God in the green pastures and far from Him in the valley. You would expect him to speak to God when life is peaceful and speak about God from a distance when death gets near. But Psalm 23 does something surprising.In this sermon, Pastor Rojas shows how the deepest comfort of Psalm 23 is found in that sudden turn: “For You are with me.” The valley is not where God becomes distant. The valley is where faith stops merely speaking about God and begins speaking to Him. And the reason David can walk through the valley without fear is not because death is weak, but because Christ, the Good Shepherd, has already gone through death for His sheep.What does Psalm 23 teach us about suffering, death, Baptism, and the comfort of Christ? What does it mean that God does not always tell us why, but He does tell us where He is? And how does the Good Shepherd bring His sheep all the way through the valley and into the house of the Lord forever?Subscribe & Share:Spotify: Christ For YouPortuguês: Cristo Para VocêWebsite: ZionWG.orgLooking for a Lutheran Church near you?Support the preaching of God's Word.

The list of phrases that Christians should really cut back on is lengthy, so Pastor Dan Burrell and host, Josh Brahm, are back in the studio with more thoughts regarding the verbiage we use. 

Back for part two of this engaging conversation, Pastor Dan Burrell and LIFETalks Producer Josh Brahm dive into the verbiage that Christians should consider eliminating from their vocabulary. 

In this episode, The Little Shaman discusses understanding outcomes when dealing with pathologically narcissistic narcissists.   Appointments, Workshops & Free Tools: https://www.littleshaman.orgBooks by The Little Shaman: https://www.littleshaman.org/productsSupport the show: https://www.paypal.me/littleshamanArticles by The Little Shaman: https://hubpages.com/sindelleNarcissistic Abuse Recovery Clinic: https://www.littleshaman.org/clinic

Ever told your child, “You're fine,” and instantly felt that pang of guilt? You're not alone, mama. This episode is for every mom who's doing her best to connect but sometimes feels unsure how to handle all those big emotions.In this heartfelt conversation, we'll talk about:Why validation is key to emotional safety and connectionWhat happens when children's feelings are dismissed (even unintentionally)Five common responses that don't validate your child's emotionsFive powerful swaps that teach your child how to feel seen, heard, and lovedYou'll walk away with practical language you can use in real moments,  the meltdowns, the fears, the frustrations, and a deeper understanding of how to build trust that lasts.This episode is a gentle reminder that motherhood isn't about perfection,  it's about presence.

Words have power, which is why it is vital that we are cautious with them. Pastor Dan Burrell ins joined with host, Josh Brahm, to discuss verbiage that Christians should really avoid. 

It's YOUR time to #EdUp with Dr. Enrique Morales-Diaz, Provost & Vice President for Academic Affairs, SUNY OneontaIn this episode, sponsored by the 2026 ⁠AcOps Conference⁠ July 29-31 by Coursedog, & the ​HigherEd PodCon​ II happening July 16 & 17,YOUR cohost is Bridget Moran, Director of Content Marketing, CoursedogYOUR host is Dr. Jodi Blinco⁠,How does a SUNY comprehensive serving 50% downstate first gen Pell students meet differently prepared post COVID learners where they are without sacrificing rigor or quality?Why does a provost keep teaching & maintain a small faculty wins whiteboard to understand classroom challenges while bringing faculty into institutional conversations beyond academics?What makes students feel we care through finding their person on campus creating Making Connections for Life where alums return to talk about faculty & staff who made the difference?Listen in to #EdUpThank YOU so much for tuning in. Join us on the next episode for YOUR time to EdUp!Connect with YOUR EdUp Team - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Elvin Freytes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Dr. Joe Sallustio⁠⁠⁠⁠● Join YOUR EdUp community at The EdUp ExperienceWe make education YOUR business!P.S.  Want access to the only intelligence platform built exclusively from presidential conversations in higher education? Join EdUp Leadership!

Is Catholicism a cult? That accusation falls apart fast. In this episode, Trent Horn shows why the word cult is often used in a sloppy, self-defeating way, and why many anti-Catholic arguments about obedience, canon law, and Church authority collapse under closer examination. To support this channel: https://www.patreon.com/counseloftrent [NEW] Counsel of Trent merch: https://shop.catholic.com/apologists-alley/trent-horn-resources/ Be sure to keep up with our socials! https://www.tiktok.com/@counseloftrent https://www.twitter.com/counseloftrent https://www.instagram.com/counseloftrentpodcast

Apply for our free $10,000 audit of your digital strategy: https://www.tiereleven.com/audit Why do some prospects respect you while others walk all over you? When you feel like you're chasing the sale instead of controlling it, you're already losing. Neediness kills deals, and most marketers don't even realize how often they signal it.In this episode, we revisit a conversation I had with Oren Klaff on why traditional sales tactics, including being polite, agreeable, and even “professional,” actually sabotage your results. We get into frame control, status dynamics, and the subtle behaviors that instantly shift power in high-stakes deals. If you're running an agency, selling high-ticket services, or managing enterprise clients, this conversation will challenge how you show up on every call. You cannot sell from a low-status position. Listen to the discussion closely, and you'll start spotting where you've been giving away leverage without even knowing it.In This Episode:- Oren's “lose my number” story- Why neediness kills deals- Stop saying please and thank you- Reframing the status and power dynamics- Anchoring your value system- Handling discount requests from buyers- The “final boss” negotiation tacticListen to the Full Episode with Oren Klaff: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3s82Goe9d2k Website: https://perpetualtraffic.com/podcast/episode-745-stop-losing-clients-master-saying-the-quiet-part-out-loud-to-close-deals/ Buy Oren Klaff's Books:Pitch Anything: https://a.co/d/fRAqAby Flip The Script: https://a.co/d/hTcp9lP Listen to This Episode on Your Favorite Podcast Channel:Follow and listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/perpetual-traffic/id1022441491 Follow and listen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/59lhtIWHw1XXsRmT5HBAuK Subscribe and watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@perpetual_traffic?sub_confirmation=1We Appreciate Your Support!Visit our website: https://perpetualtraffic.com/ Follow us on X: https://x.com/perpetualtraf Connect with Oren Klaff:Website - https://orenklaff.com/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/orenklaff/ Newsletter- https://pitchanything.com/ Connect with Ralph Burns: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ralphburns Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ralphhburns/ Hire Tier11 - https://www.tiereleven.com/apply-now Mentioned in this episode:https://www.tiereleven.com/auditWe're opening up sponsorship spots for Q1 and Q2! Ads Spothttps://www.tiereleven.com/audithttps://www.tiereleven.com/audit

-People will often do a workout, & then repeat that “same” workout months later.-This is a fair comparison if all elements of the workout remain the same each time.-However, what often happens is an athlete will use a heavier loading the second time & then be disappointed if/when they do not beat their previous score.-Comparison is a useful tool, but it is also the thief of joy.-In this episode Pat & Adrian discuss this scenario.

Telling someone to “calm down” usually does the opposite—it makes people feel dismissed, misunderstood, and even more activated. In this episode, the hosts explore why that phrase backfires in moments of anger, anxiety, disappointment, or excitement, and why it often comes from the other person feeling overwhelmed too. They unpack a better approach: co-regulation through validation, steady presence, gentler tone, and asking what support actually helps. Main Talking Points: • Validation first• Tone matters• Co-regulate together• Name the feeling• Ask what helps  Give Me Discounts! ⁠⁠AG1 - ⁠⁠AG1 has become my go to every morning. ⁠⁠Beducate⁠⁠ - Use code relationship69 for 65% off the annual pass. Check out Relationship Academy! ⁠ ⁠Cozy Earth⁠⁠ -  Black Friday has come early! Right now, you can stack my code “IDO” on top of their sitewide sale — giving you up to 40% off in savings. These deals won't last, so start your holiday shopping today! ⁠⁠Simple Practice⁠⁠ - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing??? ⁠⁠Spark My Relationship Course:⁠⁠ Get $100 off our online course. Visit⁠⁠ SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock⁠⁠ for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! ⁠⁠Skylight⁠⁠⁠ - Use code “IDO” for $30 off your 15 inch calendar.  Quince - Get Free Shipping and 365-day Returns using our link! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a⁠ review in iTunes⁠? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode of The Brad Jensen Show, Craig Smith and I dive into the sayings we cannot stand in the health, fitness, and personal development space. You know the ones. The phrases that sound harmless on the surface but actually keep people stuck, playing small, and buying into their own excuses. We break down the victim mindsets, the self-sabotaging statements, and the subtle language patterns that quietly wreck progress without people even realizing it. Between my 15 years in the health and fitness space and Craig's 20 years of clinical experience, we've heard it all and today we call it out. This one is equal parts informative and funny, but also direct as hell. If you've ever caught yourself saying things like "I just can't," "this is just how I am," or "I'll start when life slows down"… this episode might hit a little close to home. And that's the point. Because once you become aware of the language that's holding you back, you can finally start changing it and changing your life along with it.   Next Level Links: Work With a Nutrition Coach - Schedule A Consultation Nutrition Coaching - www.becomenextlevel.com   Partner Links: Try Thrive Lab Free For One Month - Start Here Order Supplements From Transform - Shop Here Order Supplements From Cured Nutrition - Shop Here Order Supplements From Legion (use code keynutrition for 20% off first order) - Shop Here   Be Featured on the Show: Apply to be a live calller guest on the show - Submit Application Here Submit Q&A Questions to be read live on the show - Submit Here   Free Guides: Eating Out Guide - Get The Guide High-Protein Fast Food Orders - Get the Guide Macro Food Options Guide - Get The Guide Join Us On Patreon - Join Here   Connect with us on Instagram: Host Brad Jensen – @thesoberbodybuilder Co-Host Craig Smith - @greatestdaymindset Next Level Nutrition – @mynextlevelnutrition

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Send a textI'm back with another RANT episode. It's been a while since I've done one. So, in today's podcast, I'm getting honest about something I see all the time in the fitness space: people saying they're “doing everything” when they really aren't. Seeing what true bodybuilding prep actually looks like gave me a whole new perspective on what going all in really means. And the truth is, most of us aren't doing everything we possibly could to reach our goals, and that's completely okay. The problem is convincing yourself that you are. I also talk about the trade-offs that come with any goal, why “fence sitting” often leads to frustration, and the powerful difference between saying “I've done everything I can” and “I've done everything I'm willing to do.” If you've been feeling stuck or resentful in your journey, this might be the mindset shift you need.Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/403Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:bicepsafterbabies.com/watchmycut