Podcasts about transform your marriage

Dr. Gary Chapman explains that just like people have different “love languages,” they also have different “apology languages.” If you don’t apologize in the way the offended person needs, they may doubt that you’re truly regretful, which can lead to resentment. Listen in to refine your apology skills. Receive a copy of The 5 Apology Languages plus a free audio download of “Transform Your Marriage with the Power of a Sincere Apology.” Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Sometimes, saying “I'm sorry” just isn't good enough. Dr. Gary Chapman will encourage you to make better apologies by learning the “apology language” of the person you've wronged; especially if it's your spouse. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29?v=20251111

What if the fastest way to improve your marriage had less to do with winning arguments and more to do with changing your mindset? In this conversation, Beth Bauss shares three powerful Scripture-based principles every man can apply right away: remember your spouse is not the enemy, be quick to listen and slow to speak, and choose humility over pride. With practical wisdom and a clear biblical foundation, this episode explores how one small shift in attitude can protect unity, calm conflict, and strengthen a marriage for the long run.

Most of us have experienced that shift in marriage—where the little quirks that once felt endearing during dating suddenly become everyday annoyances. The real challenge comes when those small frustrations start to build, creating distance, resentment, and barriers to connection. And often, it's not just the habits themselves—but the assumptions we attach to them—that carry the most power, quietly shaping how we see and respond to our spouse. In this episode, Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy share practical ways to keep the small things from becoming big issues. They talk about the power of open and honest communication, setting realistic expectations, and choosing grace in the moments it's needed most—especially when assumptions threaten to take over. Our hope is that this conversation encourages you to strengthen your connection and approach the little things in your marriage with greater understanding, intention, and grace. Episode Highlights: Assumptions do not help the marriage relationship. Open communication is key to highlighting the differences in your relationship and developing an alternate way to move forward together. Quotes from this Episode: You begin to think God made a mistake, which He doesn't. The way I think about Nancy, is going to impact the way I treat her. When you start thinking negatively toward someone, just stop and lay it at the Lords' feet.  God wants us to have a good marriage. He gave it as a gift to us so He wants it to be good. It's hard to build a case against Nancy, when I'm taking her to the Lord in prayer. Marriage doesn't have to be complicated. God didn't create it as this maze we have to figure our way through. Time to Talk About it:  When's the last time you prayed for the Lord to help you see your spouse the way He sees them.  Is there something you need to share with you spouse that you've been viewing negatively? Something that is going unmentioned and ignored? Take time to write down 10 things you love or admire about your spouse. Now share it with them.  Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you and how connected your marriage feels. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship in Marriage Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!

Most of us have experienced that shift in marriage—where the little quirks that once felt endearing during dating suddenly become everyday annoyances. The real challenge comes when those small frustrations start to build, creating distance, resentment, and barriers to connection. And often, it's not just the habits themselves—but the assumptions we attach to them—that carry the most power, quietly shaping how we see and respond to our spouse. In this episode, Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy share practical ways to keep the small things from becoming big issues. They talk about the power of open and honest communication, setting realistic expectations, and choosing grace in the moments it's needed most—especially when assumptions threaten to take over. Our hope is that this conversation encourages you to strengthen your connection and approach the little things in your marriage with greater understanding, intention, and grace. Episode Highlights: Assumptions do not help the marriage relationship. Open communication is key to highlighting the differences in your relationship and developing an alternate way to move forward together. Quotes from this Episode: You begin to think God made a mistake, which He doesn't. The way I think about Nancy, is going to impact the way I treat her. When you start thinking negatively toward someone, just stop and lay it at the Lords' feet.  God wants us to have a good marriage. He gave it as a gift to us so He wants it to be good. It's hard to build a case against Nancy, when I'm taking her to the Lord in prayer. Marriage doesn't have to be complicated. God didn't create it as this maze we have to figure our way through. Time to Talk About it:  When's the last time you prayed for the Lord to help you see your spouse the way He sees them.  Is there something you need to share with you spouse that you've been viewing negatively? Something that is going unmentioned and ignored? Take time to write down 10 things you love or admire about your spouse. Now share it with them.  Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you and how connected your marriage feels. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship in Marriage Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!

We've all heard the proverb that pride comes before the fall—but is there a place for pride in our relationships at all? Today, Dr. Kim takes an honest look at pride in marriage: its roots, its power, and its ability to divide even the strongest relationships. You'll be encouraged to recognize where pride may be creeping in, what it's actually revealing about your own heart, and practical ways to get it under control. Dr. Kim also addresses how to love and set healthy boundaries with a spouse who is struggling with pride—without enabling, escalating conflict, or losing yourself in the process.   Episode Highlights: Pride quietly erodes connection. Pride reveals what's happening in the heart. Healthy humility creates stronger, safer relationships. It's ok to name the unhealthy rhythms in your marriage. It's not ok to remain in them.    Quotes from this Episode: Unchecked pride leads to chronic resentment. Many affairs and separations trace back to one thing. One spouse spends years feeling like they couldn't be heard, valued or respected.  When we make a mistake pride tells us to minimize it or justify it.  Healthy confidence says "I have value and so does my spouse." Pride says "I have value and my spouse needs to recognize it." Confidence can receive correction. Pride can't.  Pride builds a wall one brick at a time. Every unapologized offense was a brick. Every conversation where one spouse lectured instead of listened. Every eye roll- a brick. You don't want to just endure an unhealthy dynamic without ever naming it. That's not humility that is enabling.  Time to Talk About it:  Where do you think pride shows up most in our relationship—during conflict, communication, or something else? When you feel unheard or unvalued, how do you usually respond—and do you think pride plays a role in that reaction? What's one practical way we could replace pride with humility in our marriage this week? Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you and how connected your marriage feels. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship in Marriage Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer this month, you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!  

We've all heard the proverb that pride comes before the fall—but is there a place for pride in our relationships at all? Today, Dr. Kim takes an honest look at pride in marriage: its roots, its power, and its ability to divide even the strongest relationships. You'll be encouraged to recognize where pride may be creeping in, what it's actually revealing about your own heart, and practical ways to get it under control. Dr. Kim also addresses how to love and set healthy boundaries with a spouse who is struggling with pride—without enabling, escalating conflict, or losing yourself in the process.   Episode Highlights: Pride quietly erodes connection. Pride reveals what's happening in the heart. Healthy humility creates stronger, safer relationships. It's ok to name the unhealthy rhythms in your marriage. It's not ok to remain in them.    Quotes from this Episode: Unchecked pride leads to chronic resentment. Many affairs and separations trace back to one thing. One spouse spends years feeling like they couldn't be heard, valued or respected.  When we make a mistake pride tells us to minimize it or justify it.  Healthy confidence says "I have value and so does my spouse." Pride says "I have value and my spouse needs to recognize it." Confidence can receive correction. Pride can't.  Pride builds a wall one brick at a time. Every unapologized offense was a brick. Every conversation where one spouse lectured instead of listened. Every eye roll- a brick. You don't want to just endure an unhealthy dynamic without ever naming it. That's not humility that is enabling.  Time to Talk About it:  Where do you think pride shows up most in our relationship—during conflict, communication, or something else? When you feel unheard or unvalued, how do you usually respond—and do you think pride plays a role in that reaction? What's one practical way we could replace pride with humility in our marriage this week? Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you and how connected your marriage feels. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship in Marriage Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer this month, you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!  

Whether you're married, dating, or flying solo, Dr. Nicole McNichols has some sex advice for you. And you may want to pay attention because McNichols is not only the professor of University of Washington's most sought-after class in its history, she's one of social media's most popular educators on the topic of sex. Pulling from her book, You Could Be Having Better Sex, McNichols shares the latest data that shows good sex is one of the most powerful and effective sources of joy. Good sex, McNichols argues, is a gateway to better health, stronger relationships, and the diverse forms of self-actualization we all crave. And yet, the data suggests that good sex is not happening as often as it could. So how do we start having better sex? As a renowned human sexuality expert, McNichols explains through data how to elevate our sex life through practical tools and relatable case studies. She offers all of it with a gender and orientation inclusive, pleasure-forward perspective. Covering everything from sexual anatomy to orgasm and response, hook-up culture, long-term relationships, ethical non-monogamy, kink, pornography, and consent, McNichols emphasizes a holistic philosophy that eliminates shame and stigma. She aims to normalize open and frank conversations and illustrate how connected sex is a pathway to self-awareness, self-expression, true thriving, and happiness. McNichols wants you to know just how important good sex is, and that she has the advice on how to get it. Dr. Nicole McNichols is an internationally renowned human sexuality professor, author, and speaker whose groundbreaking course, The Diversity of Human Sexuality, is the most popular in the history of the University of Washington, enrolling over 4,000 students annually. Dr. Nicole McNichols received her undergraduate degree from Cornell University and completed her master's in psychology at NYU and PhD in social psychology at the University of Washington. She currently lives in the Seattle area with her husband and three children. Dr. Julie Gottman is a highly respected licensed clinical psychologist and educator and the co-founder of the Gottman Institute. She is sought internationally as an expert advisor on marriage, the treatment of trauma and affairs, sexual harassment and rape, domestic violence, same-sex marriage, and gay and lesbian parenting. She is author or co-author of many books, including best-sellers like Fight Right, The Love Prescription, and Eight Dates, as well as The New Marriage Clinic, and The Marriage Clinic Casebook, Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage, The Man's Guide To Women, and And Baby Makes Three. Buy the Book You Could Be Having Better Sex: The Definitive Guide to a Happier, Healthier, and Hotter Sex Life Third Place Books

Marriage has a way of bringing our imperfections to the surface—and if we're honest, that can feel frustrating, discouraging, and even isolating at times. But what if those struggles aren't something to hide…what if they're actually where God's grace shows up most? In this episode, we're talking about how the imperfect stories we see throughout Scripture mirror our own and remind us that we're not alone in the mess. We'll unpack what it really looks like to build intimacy through vulnerability, why accepting each other's brokenness matters more than having it all together, and how God's unconditional love can shift the way you see yourself and your spouse. If you've ever felt like your marriage falls short of the ideal, this conversation will remind you that God does some of His best work right in the middle of it. Episode Highlights: The people in the Bible weren't perfect—and that's exactly where God's grace shows up, just like it does in our marriages. Real intimacy doesn't come from having it all together—it comes from being honest, letting your guard down, and choosing to love each other in the middle of the imperfections. When we truly understand God's unconditional love, it changes everything.   Quotes from this Episode: I think we all have a tendency to let other people define who we are and we've got to keep our eyes on him." I love that scripture in 1 John 4 all the time, you know, we love because He first loved us.- Dana Che People have this idea that people in the Bible are saints… I really wanted to show the humanity of the people in scripture. Just like us they struggled with their faith.- Dana Che Williams We can't project the image of God if we are hiding. If we are pretending. -Dana Che We are broken people who married broken people. - Dana Che Even if people reject you, God does not reject you. - Dana Che Williams We must get our worth and our value from the Lord.- Dana Che Williams We have to be tethered in. We have to be tied together, so that when the storms of life or the gentle everyday situations of life, we aren't disconnecting.  I can't be led by my feelings. I have to pray about my feelings. I have to submit my heart before the Lord. He wants your marriage to work. He wants every marriage to work.- Dr. Kim There is so much beauty in the suffering if we will just endure it.  Time to Talk About it:  Do you feel like you play second fiddle to anything in your spouse's life? Have you shared that with them? What routines and rhythms can we put in place to fight against the disconnect?  Are there things we did before marriage, that we have stopped doing? How can we bring that excitement back to our marriage today? What can the two of you be working on together to grow the Kingdom of God? (If you don't have an answer, take the time now to go to the Lord in prayer) Mentioned in This Episode: Connect with Dana Che Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Our Reframing Challenge will help you view your spouse through the lens of God. Once a year we do something HUGE! 10 resources for one donation. Don't miss our April bundle- your marriage will thank you for it! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!  

Marriage has a way of bringing our imperfections to the surface—and if we're honest, that can feel frustrating, discouraging, and even isolating at times. But what if those struggles aren't something to hide…what if they're actually where God's grace shows up most? In this episode, we're talking about how the imperfect stories we see throughout Scripture mirror our own and remind us that we're not alone in the mess. We'll unpack what it really looks like to build intimacy through vulnerability, why accepting each other's brokenness matters more than having it all together, and how God's unconditional love can shift the way you see yourself and your spouse. If you've ever felt like your marriage falls short of the ideal, this conversation will remind you that God does some of His best work right in the middle of it. Episode Highlights: The people in the Bible weren't perfect—and that's exactly where God's grace shows up, just like it does in our marriages. Real intimacy doesn't come from having it all together—it comes from being honest, letting your guard down, and choosing to love each other in the middle of the imperfections. When we truly understand God's unconditional love, it changes everything.   Quotes from this Episode: I think we all have a tendency to let other people define who we are and we've got to keep our eyes on him." I love that scripture in 1 John 4 all the time, you know, we love because He first loved us.- Dana Che People have this idea that people in the Bible are saints… I really wanted to show the humanity of the people in scripture. Just like us they struggled with their faith.- Dana Che Williams We can't project the image of God if we are hiding. If we are pretending. -Dana Che We are broken people who married broken people. - Dana Che Even if people reject you, God does not reject you. - Dana Che Williams We must get our worth and our value from the Lord.- Dana Che Williams We have to be tethered in. We have to be tied together, so that when the storms of life or the gentle everyday situations of life, we aren't disconnecting.  I can't be led by my feelings. I have to pray about my feelings. I have to submit my heart before the Lord. He wants your marriage to work. He wants every marriage to work.- Dr. Kim There is so much beauty in the suffering if we will just endure it.  Time to Talk About it:  Do you feel like you play second fiddle to anything in your spouse's life? Have you shared that with them? What routines and rhythms can we put in place to fight against the disconnect?  Are there things we did before marriage, that we have stopped doing? How can we bring that excitement back to our marriage today? What can the two of you be working on together to grow the Kingdom of God? (If you don't have an answer, take the time now to go to the Lord in prayer) Mentioned in This Episode: Connect with Dana Che Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Our Reframing Challenge will help you view your spouse through the lens of God. Once a year we do something HUGE! 10 resources for one donation. Don't miss our April bundle- your marriage will thank you for it! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!  

Marriage isn't built in a single defining moment—it's formed in the everyday choices couples make with their words, attitudes and actions. Dave and Ashley Willis explore how small, intentional shifts in marriage can lead to lasting change. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29?v=20251111

Marriage isn’t built in a single defining moment—it’s formed in the everyday choices couples make with their words, their attitudes, and their actions. Dave and Ashley Willis join us to explore how small, intentional shifts in marriage can lead to lasting change. Drawing on Scripture and decades of family ministry experience, they offer practical tools to help you strengthen your connection and build a marriage that reflects Christ’s love. Receive a copy of Do Marriage Better and an audio download of "Transform Your Marriage Through Simple Lifestyle Shifts" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Marriage isn’t built in a single defining moment—it’s formed in the everyday choices couples make with their words, their attitudes, and their actions. Dave and Ashley Willis join us to explore how small, intentional shifts in marriage can lead to lasting change. Drawing on Scripture and decades of family ministry experience, they offer practical tools to help you strengthen your connection and build a marriage that reflects Christ’s love. Receive a copy of Do Marriage Better and an audio download of "Transform Your Marriage Through Simple Lifestyle Shifts" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

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Today, Dr. Kim is joined by his bride, Mrs. Nancy, to talk about the freedom that comes from allowing yourself, your spouse, and your marriage to have a bad day without making it something bigger than it is. They share how they navigate the hard days, avoid the spiral of negative thoughts, and bounce back with grace and compassion toward one another. Your marriage is a gift—be encouraged to let bad days simply be days without letting them erode your view of your marriage.   Episode Highlights: Everyone has bad days. Early warning signs that you're starting to spiral. The danger of turning your spouse into your opponent. The Lord has seen you through bad days in the past, be encouraged He can do it again this time. The powerful role grace plays when your spouse has little to give. See how our marriages are the textbooks for our children to learn from for their future marriages.   Quotes from this Episode: When I try to force something and Nancy isn't ready, it's not going to go well. In everything you have to realize you're still on the same team. So, how can you help your spouse? The problem is the opponent. Satan rejoices when we are fighting, when we are angry with one another. -Mrs. Nancy Satan hates marriage. He hates christian marriages. He loves to destroy them. Every marriage can be a witness for the Lord.  Being a role model for your kids, being the text book on marriage that your children need is a huge responsibility.  Sometimes you have to dig down deep and find that love for your spouse. You don't have to feel it all the time, but remember that it's there. - Mrs. Nancy Once I learned to get past myself and get past my pride, and start giving you grace, it was a great feeling. -Mrs. Nancy Be vulnerable enough to say "I don't have much to give." Then as a spouse, "what can I do to help you." Just that is a step forward in growing your marriage.  Take whatever is bothering you and give it to the Lord. As a christian you are forgiven anyway! - Mrs. Nancy Worrying about your marriage shows you care about it. Showing up for counseling means you care about your marriage.  Don't compare your marriage to someone else's by what they post on Facebook. Time to Talk About It: How are we viewing our marriage right now?  Think about the last time we had a "bad day" in our marriage. What helped us move past it, and how can we remember to do that again next time? What helps each of us reset after a hard moment or a tense day—space, reassurance, prayer, a conversation, or something else? What is one simple way we could extend more grace to each other the next time one of us is having a bad day?   Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you and how connected your marriage feels. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship in Marriage Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer before March 31, you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!  

Today, Dr. Kim is joined by his bride, Mrs. Nancy, to talk about the freedom that comes from allowing yourself, your spouse, and your marriage to have a bad day without making it something bigger than it is. They share how they navigate the hard days, avoid the spiral of negative thoughts, and bounce back with grace and compassion toward one another. Your marriage is a gift—be encouraged to let bad days simply be days without letting them erode your view of your marriage.   Episode Highlights: Everyone has bad days. Early warning signs that you're starting to spiral. The danger of turning your spouse into your opponent. The Lord has seen you through bad days in the past, be encouraged He can do it again this time. The powerful role grace plays when your spouse has little to give. See how our marriages are the textbooks for our children to learn from for their future marriages.   Quotes from this Episode: When I try to force something and Nancy isn't ready, it's not going to go well. In everything you have to realize you're still on the same team. So, how can you help your spouse? The problem is the opponent. Satan rejoices when we are fighting, when we are angry with one another. -Mrs. Nancy Satan hates marriage. He hates christian marriages. He loves to destroy them. Every marriage can be a witness for the Lord.  Being a role model for your kids, being the text book on marriage that your children need is a huge responsibility.  Sometimes you have to dig down deep and find that love for your spouse. You don't have to feel it all the time, but remember that it's there. - Mrs. Nancy Once I learned to get past myself and get past my pride, and start giving you grace, it was a great feeling. -Mrs. Nancy Be vulnerable enough to say "I don't have much to give." Then as a spouse, "what can I do to help you." Just that is a step forward in growing your marriage.  Take whatever is bothering you and give it to the Lord. As a christian you are forgiven anyway! - Mrs. Nancy Worrying about your marriage shows you care about it. Showing up for counseling means you care about your marriage.  Don't compare your marriage to someone else's by what they post on Facebook. Time to Talk About It: How are we viewing our marriage right now?  Think about the last time we had a "bad day" in our marriage. What helped us move past it, and how can we remember to do that again next time? What helps each of us reset after a hard moment or a tense day—space, reassurance, prayer, a conversation, or something else? What is one simple way we could extend more grace to each other the next time one of us is having a bad day?   Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Make sure you're checking in with your spouse every week with our FREE Weekly Marriage Check in Guide! Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you and how connected your marriage feels. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship in Marriage Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have negative thoughts about your spouse slowly replaced the positive ones? You need to start Mind Craft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage today! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer before March 31, you'll receive our Most Popular Resource Bundle — 10 powerful marriage tools with a combined value of $185. Become a Marriage Changer today!  

What does it look like when someone who only knew two emotions — anger and joy — finally faces the full spectrum of what they feel?That's the story Han and Alicia Lau bring to the table this week. Married 31 years, parents to six kids, grandparents to six more — and coaches who almost skipped the Core Emotion Wheel entirely.Alicia grew up in a world that told her to stifle her emotions, be a "good Christian girl," and never be "too much." The result? A life where anger and joy were the only acceptable exits — until a poolside audiobook moment changed everything.In this episode, Glenn, Phyllis, Han, and Alicia unpack what it actually takes to go from emotional resistance to emotional fluency — including the 45-minute wheel session that helped Alicia finally process her father's suicide, more than a decade after his death.In This Episode:Why Alicia threw the Core Emotion Wheel across the room (metaphorically) — and why she came back to itHow blended family dynamics (and two very different cultures) shaped emotional patterns for both Han and AliciaThe moment on their 30th anniversary that changed their marriage — doing the entire Foundations course in one weekendHan's breakthrough: how advising a client led him to take his own advice about shame and guiltAlicia's 45-minute grief wheel — and why she no longer feels her dad's death the same way in her bodyWhat it means to practice the wheel "like bad first sex" and why that's the most honest description of growth we've heardGlenn and Phyllis share their own middle-of-the-night wheel moments — and what lonely really feels like when you go deepResources Mentioned:Get the Core Emotion Wheel: www.connectioncodes.co/podcastWork with a Connection Codes Coach: connectioncodes.co/coachesFoundations Masterclass: connectioncodes.co/foundationsSEO Keywords:emotional intelligence in marriage, blended family communication, how to process grief, Core Emotion Wheel, emotional avoidance, marriage coaching, emotional health tools, processing shame and guilt, trauma healing tools, long-term marriage, mental health and relationships, connection codes, emotional fluency, suicide loss grief

Do you ever feel disconnected in your marriage—but you can't quite explain why? Maybe there's no big issue. No major conflict. But something just feels… off. The conversations aren't as easy. The connection feels thinner. And you're not sure how you got here—or how to fix it. In this episode, we continue the “small things” series, this time focusing on marriage. Because just like in parenting, the health of your marriage isn't usually shaped by big, dramatic moments—it's shaped by the small, daily interactions that either build connection or slowly create distance. In this conversation, we talk about simple, practical ways to nurture your marriage in everyday life—without needing more time, more energy, or a complete relationship overhaul. These are the kinds of shifts that may seem small in the moment… but over time, they can completely change the tone, connection, and intimacy in your relationship. If you've been feeling distant, discouraged, or unsure how to reconnect with your spouse, this episode will give you a clear and doable place to start. love, Brittany    Ready to become a peaceful wife and Mama? Sign Up for the Pain to Peace Academy HERE. Come say hi and join the Morning Mama Facebook Group! I would love to hear your story and know your name.    ALL THE LINKS FOR ALL THE THINGS! Morning Mama Website Pain to Peace Academy Morning Mama Facebook Group Follow Us on Instagram Find a Restoration Therapist Come say hi by emailing hello@morningmamapodcast.com

What if improving your marriage didn't require a major overhaul—but a return to a few simple, intentional habits?In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we break down four powerful marriage habits inspired by a viral clip from Arthur Brooks (Harvard professor and happiness researcher) that he shared on the Tim Ferriss Podcast. While Arthur Brooks approaches marriage from science and psychology, we show how his insights beautifully align with Catholic teaching, Sacred Scripture, and the wisdom of the saints.Arthur Brooks challenges the idea that struggling marriages should immediately default to therapy alone. While therapy can help, he argues that many marriages heal not by digging up more past wounds—but by pouring in more joy, connection, and intentional love.Using his “dirty cup” analogy, we explore how adding the right habits can push out resentment and rebuild intimacy.In this episode, we discuss:✔️ Why having more fun together matters and how many couples stop dating after marriage ✔️ How praying together—not just saying prayers—deepens spiritual and emotional intimacy ✔️ Why eye contact is essential for connection, trust, and feeling truly seen ✔️ The importance of physical touch in marriage, especially for men, and how it communicates love beyond wordsWe connect each habit to: 

Episode Description:What if one vulnerable conversation could completely transform your marriage? Dan Purcell, marriage intimacy coach and creator of the Intimately Us app, shares the pivotal moment when a friend's honesty about his sex life turned Dan's world upside down—and ultimately changed the trajectory of his marriage and career.In this raw and honest conversation, Dan opens up about growing up in a conservative environment where sex was taboo, the anxiety that carried into his marriage, and the courage it took to have a five-hour vulnerable conversation with his wife at 9 PM that didn't end until 2 AM. What emerged wasn't just better sex—it was better communication, better parenting, and a completely different level of connection.Glenn and Phyllis explore with Dan the common barriers that keep couples from experiencing rich intimacy, the danger of viewing yourself as superior to your spouse, and why solving sexual problems requires "second-order change"—not just redecorating the kitchen, but remodeling it entirely.Key Topics:- Mental health and emotional vulnerability in marriage- Breaking through sexual shame and conservative upbringings- The courage required for authentic conversations about intimacy- Desire discrepancy and what really causes it- How superiority thinking destroys sexual connection- Moving from transactional to transformational intimacy- The power of one vulnerable conversation to change everything- Creating play and creativity in your sex life- Leadership development through emotional honestyWhat You'll Learn:- Why most couples miss on authentic connection (even when they think they're doing fine)- How to have the scary conversation that could transform your marriage- The real reason behind sexual desire discrepancy (hint: it's not about being too busy)- Why solution-oriented approaches often backfire in intimacy- How to move from wearing masks to true vulnerability with your spouse- Practical tools and games to bring playfulness back to foreplayAbout Our Guest: Dan Purcell is a marriage intimacy coach who helps couples create deeper sexual and emotional connection. After a career-changing conversation eight years ago, he developed the Intimately Us app and now coaches couples full-time, helping them experience breakthrough moments in their marriages.Get your free resources: getyourmarriageon.com/connection-codes - 100 Creative Ways to Initiate Sex guide - 101 Ways to Have Sex guide - Jump Start Guide (books, articles, podcasts, frameworks)Get Your Free Core Emotion Wheel: www.connectioncodes.co/podcastReady to Transform Your Marriage? Book a Connection Codes certified coach: https://connectioncodes.co/coaches

This week on Married and Connected, we dive deep into the cost of comfort in marriage and how playing it safe can quietly erode intimacy, trust, and growth. Comfort in a relationship isn't inherently bad—but when it becomes a default, a hiding place, or a shield, it can quietly sabotage your connection. In this short episode, Kameran Thompson Alareqi breaks down practical, research-backed strategies to reignite growth, deepen connection, and break free from ego-driven patterns that leave couples stuck.

Jason and Tori Benham provide a series of practical, Bible-based principles to help couples experience stronger, healthier, and more godly marriages. They describe better ways to handle conflict, deal with expectations, and develop a “team” mindset with your spouse. Receive the book Marriage A to Z and an audio download of "Practical Tips to Transform Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Your Gift DOUBLES to Help Deliver Hope and Joy! Save 2X the marriages and families this Christmas with your life-changing gift today! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram: what actually happens at a retreat, costs, hesitant spouses, and how are marriages will be impacted from this weekend away. Use the code SPICE IT UP to get 50% off Unite & Ignite for the rest of 2025!  Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Weekend To Remember: Use our code KINGOM for $100 off Family Life website ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the biggest breakthroughs in your life and marriage don't happen overnight—but gradually, then suddenly? In this episode, we sit down with bestselling author and pastor Mark Batterson to talk about his new book Gradually, Then Suddenly and how God's long-game approach shapes everything from our dreams to our relationships. Mark unpacks what it means to play the long game in faith, how to take every thought captive to Christ, and why success—whether in ministry or marriage—always grows at the "speed of a seed." We'll also explore how small, intentional choices today can create generational impact tomorrow. If you've ever felt like growth is too slow or that your prayers are taking too long to be answered, this conversation will remind you that God is always working—gradually, then suddenly.   Episode Takeaways: Instead of focusing on how long something takes, we're invited to stay faithful to His good, pleasing, and perfect will—even when the outcome isn't immediate. Success isn't about avoiding failure—it's about learning to manage it. We don't need to see the whole plan to take the first step. Quotes from Today's Episode: "Whatever it is God's called you to do, it's probably going to take longer than you like and be harder than you hope for." "We overestimate what we can do in a year or two, but we underestimate what God can do in 10 or 20 or 30." "The cure for the fear of failure is not success. It's failure in small enough doses that you build up an immunity to it." Success is usually well-managed failure. It's not about pinpointing dates. It's about being faithful to his good pleasing and perfect will. Whatever it is God is calling you to do is probably going to take longer than you like and be harder than you hoped for. Good ideas are good but God ideas change the course of history. By faith you take the first step, even if God hasn't revealed the second step. You aren't going to be married very long without some curveballs.    Couples Conversation Starters:  How can we support each other in staying patient and faithful when God's timing feels slower than we hoped in our marriage or personal goals? What are some "small failures" we've experienced together, and how can we use them to grow stronger as a couple rather than letting them discourage us? Is there a step of faith—big or small—that God might be calling us to take together, even if we don't see the full path yet? Mentioned in this Episode: Learn more about Mark Batterson and connect with him on socials. Mark Batterson's new book is out! Purchase it HERE! We gathered all 685 answers, organized them into the top 10 themes, and added 1 practical step for each theme so husbands can better meet their wife's needs.

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!If you've ever felt like you're reacting instead of responding in your marriage, this episode is your invitation to slow down.In this powerful conversation with Buddhist meditation teacher and author Kimberly Brown, we explore how mindfulness and self-compassion can transform not just your relationship with yourself, but with your partner and kids too.We discuss:What meditation really is (and isn't)How slowing down your inner world changes how you show up in conflictWhy managing your own emotions is one of the best ways to care for your marriagePractical, beginner-friendly ways to start meditating (even if you hate sitting still)How meditation helps you become a more grounded, compassionate partner and parentKimberly also shares a guided meditation practice in the bonus track following this episode — perfect for anyone curious to experience the benefits firsthand.Listen in to learn how creating space for yourself can help you create more connection in your marriage.Connect with Kimberly:Website: www.meditationwithheart.comSubstack: kimberlybrown.substack.comIG: @kimberlyjbrownThanks for listening!Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!Support the show

A shift in your mindset could strengthen or even transform your marriage! Rhonda Stoppe reminds women about God’s purpose for marriage: that they would get to know God better and offer grace to their husbands. Receive a copy of If My Husband Would Change, I’d be Happy and an audio download of "How Reframing Your Perspective Can Transform Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

So many women are doing everything right, eating well, exercising, managing the mental load, and still feel off. If that's you, this conversation will be a breath of relief.In this episode, I'm joined by registered dietitian Dr. Heather Finley to explore how physical health and gut health play a powerful role in how we show up in our marriages. We talk about the often-overlooked ways that depletion, hormones, and stress affect your mood, connection, and ability to feel good in your body, and why finding the right answers can completely change how you relate to yourself and your partner.If you've ever thought, “My labs say I'm fine, but I don't feel fine,” this episode will help you see that you're not crazy and that your health and happiness in marriage are deeply connected.Tune in to discover:• How gut and hormone health impact your energy, mood, and connection in marriage• Why so many women feel dismissed by “normal” lab results• The role of stress, sleep, and mineral depletion in feeling off balance• How to start the right conversations with your partner about getting support• Small, foundational shifts that can change how you feel in your body and your relationshipConnect with Heather:• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drheatherfinley• Website: https://www.guttogetherprogram.com/• Love Your Gut Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/love-your-gut/id1620578740• Free Mineral Guide: https://nourish-functional-health.kit.com/mineralguide?utm_source=link+in+bio&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=mineral-ig&utm_id=mineral-ig&utm_term=mineral-ig&utm_content=mineral-ig• Mineral Testing ($30 off!): https://drheatherfinley.thrivecart.com/htma/?coupon=MARRIEDWITHKIDSConnect with Lindsay:• The Us System: https://marriedafterkids.com/the-us-system• FREE Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin• Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call• Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids

The 3 specific benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:  1. You'll know simple ways of breaking free from SSDD scheduled time and entering into spontaneous play with your Queen leaving both of you giggling like teenagers again. 2. You'll understand how getting locked in chronos time is one of the most poisonous things for killing your marriage aliveness. 3. You'll be able to create a relaxed and happy feeling at home by being able to conscious master the balance between using the two types of universal time. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don't Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment: Home - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you'd love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now To connect with Mark's Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast  

If you're married, you don't need us to tell you that understanding your personalities is key—because the differences between you and your spouse can sometimes collide. In our marriage, we experienced this recently when a concert was coming to our town.What sounded like a fun date night to one of us sounded like a miserable night to the other. In the end, we each walked away feeling a little misunderstood and frustrated. The truth is, mismatched expectations and preferences affect every couple when they share life together. And if they aren't addressed in a healthy way, they have the potential to drive a wedge further and further between us.This is why taking the time to learn your spouse's personality is so important to growing a close and supportive relationship, and our guest for this conversation, Linda Goldfarb, is here to show us how.Linda is an author, speaker, certified personality trainer, life coach, and the co-founder of the LINKED® Personality System. She is passionate about helping individuals discover their God-designed personalities.In this episode, Linda shares:Each personality type and its motivationsHow our differences bring value and personal growthAdvice on approaching our personalities with the intent to encourageAnd much more!We hope you enjoy this conversation!Show Notes: growinghometogether.com/linda-goldfarb-116

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!In today's world, we're drowning in advice—over 200 million life hacks and more than 500,000 marriage hacks out there promising quick fixes and magical solutions. But let's be real: which ones actually work?In this episode, we take the concept of "LIF HACKS" and how to make them effective and applicable to your journey. Drawing from over 15 years of intentional growth, real-life experience, and plenty of trial and error, we're unpacking the most powerful, practical, and transformative marriage hacks we've found. These aren't just trendy tips—they're the tools and insights that have helped us build a stronger, more connected relationship over time.Whether you're newly married, hitting a rough patch, or just looking to grow together, this conversation will give you clarity, direction, and plenty of aha moments. These aha moments will be your opportunity to change your life and your relationship!A better marriage isn't built overnight, It's not built in a week, it's built over time and with intention—And that can start NOW!hook a brother up! Rate us and review us!Yo Bro! or Sis :) Help us BUILD the brand and change lives where you are!VIST www.quincymoran.com/apparel right now! buy our clothing and represent in you local area. Let's change lives together!want to contact me?email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com to get in touch!Check out our youtube! We are NEW on youtube and excited to grow the platform within the YT community!https://www.youtube.com/@manvsmarriagepodcast3348/videos#COMMUNICATION #pornaddiction #sex #marriedsex #marriage #mariagehelp #marriageandrelationships #relationship101 #marriagepodcast #marriagehelp #marriagebootcamp #love #lovestory #couples #faith #Relationship #relationships #Problem #Problems #CognitivePower #Opinion #Opinions #Trust #Marriage #Married #Truth #TruthTeller #Standard #Standards #Negotiate #Negotiating #Romance #romantic#reconciliation #selfimprovement #help #christian #redemption #narcissist #narcissism

On this Episode Podcast #12, Matthew, Ambassador of Hope, Richerzhagen, shares 5 shifts you can make today even if it seems there all hope is lost. What you do really does make a difference. You will be inspired and encouraged with his heart for your marriage. Cracking the Code on Making a Passionate Marriage Paradise. Transcript“Hey my dearly beloved, today we're talking about transforming your marriage with simple acts of love and service.I know when you're in the fire, it can feel overwhelming—like all you can see is what's wrong.But hear me: you are always only one shift away from a breakthrough.”[00:40] Relatable Story“I remember when my wife and I were stuck in the crazy cycle.I kept focusing on how she was treating me, until I realized—no matter what she does, I'm in charge of me.Think about it: if someone flips you off in traffic, you don't have to flip them off back. You can wave.Never let where your spouse isn't determine where you are.”[01:30] Shift #1 – Take Your Marriage Off the Throne“Marriage is the most important human relationship, but it's not meant to be your god.Put God first. Matthew 6:33 says: Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you.”[02:10] Shift #2 – Be Your Best Self“Stop magnifying your spouse's flaws. Quit keeping score.Focus on being the best you—and let God handle the rest.”[02:45] Shift #3 – Pray Blessing Over Your Spouse“When you pray for them, gratitude and empathy shift your heart.The number one key to transforming a marriage is goodwill—truly liking and seeking to bless your spouse.”[03:30] Shift #4 – Do Good Before You Feel Like It“Feelings come and go.If you only act on feelings, your marriage will suffer.Instead, show love and serve even when the tingles aren't there.”[04:15] Shift #5 – Listen With Your Heart“Ask: ‘What could I do to love you better this week?'And when they share—even if it stings—just respond, ‘Thanks for bringing that to my attention. I'll work on it.'”[05:00] Closing / Vision“At the root of every conflict is hurt feelings. Proverbs 13:10 says: Only by pride comes contention.But humility, prayer, goodwill, and action can flip your marriage around.So if you're ready, start with these five shifts today.And don't forget to subscribe, comment, and share—because my dream is to see marriages transformed so that every man feels respected and every woman feels loved.I'm Matthew, Ambassador of Hope—and together, we can do this for Him.”

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!How can things go from Great to WT-Heck just happened? We may never know, what we can be certain of is many if not all of us find ourselves there at one point along the way. How do we offload the negative burden and change direction for victory over these time in life?Family, Work, Health, Finances, how is it that they seem to pile on at once AT JUST THE WRONG TIME? What can I do to make a difference you say? That is what this podcast is all about.LET'S TURN THAT HOPLESS LOAD OF ADVERSITY INTO LIFE CHANGING VICTORY!No this is not click bait...THIS is mine and Jeanne's true to life journey from the last 2 weeks and we are here to teach you how to shift gears and hit the gas!!! Real talk!Yo Bro! or Sis :) Help us BUILD the brand and change lives where you are!VIST www.quincymoran.com/apparel right now! buy our clothing and represent in you local area. Let's change lives together!want to contact me?email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com to get in touch! Check out our youtube! We are NEW on youtube and excited to grow the platform within the YT community!https://www.youtube.com/@manvsmarriagepodcast3348/videos#COMMUNICATION #pornaddiction #sex #marriedsex #marriage #mariagehelp #marriageandrelationships #relationship101 #marriagepodcast #marriagehelp #marriagebootcamp #love #lovestory #couples #faith #Relationship #relationships #Problem #Problems #CognitivePower #Opinion #Opinions #Trust #Marriage #Married #Truth #TruthTeller #Standard #Standards #Negotiate #Negotiating #Romance #romantic #reconciliation #selfimprovement #help #christian

Ever wondered why modern women feel stuck and often struggle to build lasting and loving relationships?In this episode, I chat with renowned spiritual teacher Premmayi Gurumaa, affectionately known as Gurumaa, who shares insights from her journey of helping countless people find peace amid chaos. We discuss why relationships struggle today, the simple secrets to happiness she swears by, and how managing your time can truly change your life. Join us as Premmayi Gurumaa reveals her practical wisdom about chakras, positive auras, and why sometimes the best therapy is just clapping your hands—500 times.IN THIS EPISODE(00:00) The Real Reason Modern Women Feel Stuck(02:41) Ever Wondered Why Your Best Never Feels Enough?(03:21) The Most Precious Asset You're Probably Wasting(04:55) The Secret Habit for Better Communication(06:50) One Small Change to Transform Your Marriage(07:21) The Hidden Truth Behind Divorce(09:52) Who Really Wins When Your Ego Takes Over?(10:58) Karma Isn't What You Think It Is(13:12) Can Your Bad Feelings Actually Help You?(13:53) Is Your Life Destiny or Just Poor Decisions?(14:44) Why You Shouldn't Fall in Love Before Doing This(16:33) The Biggest Regret You'll Have (If You Wait Too Long)(17:35) The Art of Having Deeper Conversations(18:49) This Common Social Habit is Draining Your Energy(19:27) How One Simple Word Can Change Your Entire Day(20:22) What Your Aura Secretly Tells People About You(21:46) You Are Being Watched—But Not by Who You Think(22:33) The Mess You Didn't Realise You Need to Clean(24:35) Unlock Your Life's Potential by Doing This One Thing(25:37) Your Body is Worth More Than You Think(27:32) Are You Too Nice for Your Own Good?(28:16) The One Thing Affecting Your Family More Than Money(32:20) Could Disconnecting Solve All Your Problems?(33:29) A Better Way to Fuel Your Life(34:24) Tiny Habits That Could Add Years to Your Life(37:25) Why You're Unhappy Even When You Have Everything(38:33) The Person You're Forgetting to LovePremmayi GurumaaMeet Premmayi Gurumaa – A Global Spiritual Guide

"We're just not compatible." "Why is marriage this hard?" "I keep getting the ick every time he does that thing." "Maybe I married the wrong person." You didn't think it would feel like this. The silence. The tension. The resentment that creeps in even when he's just breathing. You're not dramatic. You're not broken. But something isn't right — and no one prepared you for what happens when the story in your head about your marriage starts to shift. You've Googled it. You've tried to talk about it. You've done everything “right”… and still feel more alone than ever. This episode isn't about blaming anyone — not you, not him. It's about one shift — a new perspective you've likely never heard put this way — that might completely reframe the story you've been telling yourself… and give you a way back to what you've been aching for. Listen to the end. It changes everything.  

Do you want to reach more people with your message, writing or creative gift, but you're worried that trying too hard will risk damaging your family and closest relationships? There's hope in the story behind one of our culture's foremost mentors on marriage and building impactful Kingcom culture! Author, coach, and creator of The 7 Rings of Marriage, Jackie Bledsoe, is joining  us to share how he's  impacting hundreds of thousands while keeping family and God first. We dive into balancing entrepreneurship, content creation, ministry, and marriage—and how you can authentically share your message, build a lasting legacy, and still honor your closest relationships.After listening, you'll be able to:Share your creative message authentically without sacrificing family or faith.Apply key spiritual principles to overcome creative and business challenges.Build a content platform with practical steps from an experienced author and coach.Utilize strategies like “borrowed audiences” and daily writing to expand your reach.Embrace vulnerability and transparency for deeper relationship and audience impact.Whether you're a Christian entrepreneur, author, creative, or simply looking to balance your purpose with your home life, this episode offers inspiring, real-world advice you can start using now.Tap to send us a text! Support the showJoin our Creative Community In our 360 Membership, you get focused encouragement, guidance, and training on how to thrive as a faith-focused creative. Joining gives you access to our exclusive app, workshops and community conversations, as we change from being creatively confused to creatively confident! GodandGigs.com/membership PODCAST MERCHGet God and Gigs themed gear, clothing and accessories HERE! GOT VALUE FROM THIS PODCAST? If so, please share your: TIME: Send this episode to someone who you know would enjoy it TALENT: Email your art or music to add to our community to allen@godandgigs.com TREASURE: Tap HERE to help support God and Gigs with a donation!

In Today's Episode... Speaker, founder, and Amazon best-selling author, Chris Felton shares his personal journey with money and how it impacted his relationships. He discusses his financial struggles, including a quarter of a million dollars in credit card debt and a divorce. Chris emphasizes the importance of letting go of control and highlights the need for humility and acceptance to create positive change.  Chris and Jordan discuss the misconception of middle-class comfort and the resistance to accepting responsibility for one's actions. They also explore the dynamics of couples with different personalities and how they can find common ground when it comes to money.   Connect with Chris Website  Instagram LinkedIn   About Chris Felton Chris is an Amazon best-selling author, a 7-figure entrepreneur, and the Founder and Principal of his own financial services firm which he started in 1999. He has helped tens of thousands of people, internationally, to overcome their resistance to change and to create more success, peace and impact in their lives. Chris speaks from his own experience of being on the edge of financial ruin, business failure, and divorce. He shares the secrets that allowed him to avert the potential disaster and transform all areas of his life. Chris leads and trains hundreds of agents across the US and has helped over 17,000 people become more financially literate and experience financial relief. With his latest book and speaking series “Think and Grow You”, Chris is focused on helping driven entrepreneurs break through plateaus in their growth by learning how to get out of their own way and take their success, peace, and impact to the next level.   Don't forget about this amazing free offer from Jordan. She put a lot of time and effort into this project to be able to offer it to you, absolutely free! Take advantage now while you can! eBook: Couples Guide to Getting on the Same Page About Money   Reminder: Subscribe, Rate & Review this podcast!   Whatever platform you are listening on, make sure to follow or subscribe & sign up for notifications for when weekly episodes drop every week! And if you feel called, please leave a rating and review. This helps us to reach more people!  JordanPendleton.com

In this episode of The Evolved Caveman Podcast, Dr. John sits down with Rich Heller—a marriage whisperer with two decades of experience and the brains behind the *Rich in Relationship* podcast. Think of Rich as a relationship mechanic who helps couples stop setting emotional fires and start building actual connection (without needing a fire extinguisher or a therapist on speed dial).They dig into the juicy stuff: Rich's own WTF moments that shaped his career, how generational trauma likes to crash your relationship uninvited, and why shame is the sneaky gremlin screwing things up behind the scenes without your knowledge or permission. They also take a sledgehammer to outdated ideas of masculinity (spoiler: being emotionally clueless isn't sexy), and explore how to create relationships that don't suck—with actual tools, not just good vibes.This one's for anyone who wants less drama and more connection—minus the woo-woo fluff.01:32 Rich Heller's Journey to Marriage Coaching04:16 Personal Reflections on Divorce05:08 Managing Anger and Emotional Triggers11:33 Conflict Resolution in Relationships17:22 Understanding and Releasing Trauma30:05 The Metaphor of Cleaning the House30:49 Exploring Masculinity Myths31:43 The High Plains Drifter and Masculine Myths32:48 Replacing Outdated Masculine Myths35:39 The Importance of Connection and Vulnerability36:16 From Fixer to Feeler: Helping Men Connect39:48 Understanding Men's Root Fears in Relationships42:41 The Role of Shame in Men's Lives47:55 The Difference Between Shame and Guilt53:08 Relational Wealth and Personal FulfillmentAbout Dr. John's Cool Guest;Rich Heller, MSW, PCC, ELI-MP, Rich is the podcast host of Rich in Relationship, and Marriage Transformation Coach. He helps couples move from conflict to synergy, from parallel lives to true connection, and from routine to transformation.Rich holds a BA from Vassar College in sustainable social change and an MSW from Hunter School of Social Work, specializing in relational dynamics. He is a Professional Certified Coach (PCC), Master Practitioner of MER and NLP, and a trained mediator and parent coordinator.  Rich has helped thousands of couples break free from old patterns and build relationships rooted in love, partnership, and prosperity—including his own marriage of 20+ years.

Join Nancy Sabato as she interviews Dr. Gary Chapman, who shares transformative biblical wisdom on marriage, including how faith shaped his own relationship, why humility is key, and how serving your spouse can reignite love. Dr. Chapman offers practical tips for communication, resolving conflict, and rebuilding trust after hurt, all rooted in Christ's example. Perfect for couples seeking hope, healing, and a deeper connection through God's love. #marriageadvice #christianmarriage #drgarychapman #thefivelovelanguages #faithandrelationships #marriagecounseling #marriagecommunication #forgivenessinmarriage #unconditionallove #biblicalmarriageYouTubehttps://youtu.be/FLucHqlcu8wThanks for tuning in! If you enjoyed this interview, I'd love to hear your thoughts—drop a comment below! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more Christ-centered conversations. Visit thecallwithnancysabato.com Until next time, let's give all glory and honor to King Jesus!

Katelyn @gemsandpearlswithlove is a homemaker and entrepreneur, has 5 children, and has been married for almost 14 years.  Katelyn is passionate about marriage and the transformation God has done in her as a wife and wants to inspire other wives and wives to be the best they can while having a beautiful marriage.Katelyn can be found on social media and YouTube @gemsandpearlswithloveOn YouTube, she has the option to become a member where you can get exclusive content, and more one-on-one encouragement and support.--Vibrant Flow Links:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FREE Softness Reset Audio Series⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FREE guided embodiment activations ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Schedule a FREE clarity call with me HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Fill out the pre-call questionnaire HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Read more about my coaching and testimonials HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠email: johanna@thevibrantflowpodcast.comMusic: my ownKeywords: marriage, empowerment, femininity, self-discovery, personal growth, communication, respect, motherhood, faith, happiness.

In this episode of Master Your Marriage, we explore the concept of small, consistent improvements in relationships, drawing parallels to the success of the British cycling team under Dave Brailsford. Real transformation occurs not through grand gestures but through tiny, daily efforts that accumulate over time. The discussion includes practical strategies for couples to enhance their relationships by focusing on self-governance, conflict resolution, friendship, and shared meaning systems. We encourage our listeners to adopt a mindset of iterative improvements, aiming for just 1% better each day, leading to significant long-term changes in their relationships.Takeaways:Real transformation happens in small, simple moments.The aggregation of marginal gains can lead to significant improvements.Success is often the result of thousands of tiny, often invisible moments.Couples often overestimate the power of grand gestures.Focusing on small daily improvements can change the trajectory of a relationship.Self-governance, conflict resolution, friendship, and shared meaning are key areas for improvement.Iterative improvements can be applied to everyday interactions in relationships.1% better each day can lead to extraordinary results over time.It's important to notice and seize small moments for connection.The journey of improvement is ongoing and requires consistent effort.Next Steps:For more practical tools and tips, follow Robert and Sharla on Instagram, and leave a review if this episode resonated with you.

Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage!Let's talk transformative connection and communication! Now that I have your attention, todays episode WILL deliver just that! Jason and Tina Marie bring over 30 years of Marriage to our program and deliver incredible insights to what true communication and connection can look like with the proper tools and experience at your disposal. Along with their amazing marriage they also bring a broad history of success with their Speaking and coaching careers. We had an extremely engaging conversation with Jason and Tina Marie! Be sure to check out their book Manifest a joy-filled relationship available here: https://www.amazon.com/Manifest-Joy-Filled-Relationship-Universal/dp/B0DCTSSF3NAlso check out their 20 Emotional intimacy questions so you can create a deeper connection with your spouse today! https://pages.legendaryrelationship.com/bb30cc6areach out to Jason and Tina Marie email: team@legendaryrelationship.comwant to contact me?email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com to get in touch! Check out our youtube! We are NEW on youtube and excited to grow the platform within the YT community!https://www.youtube.com/@manvsmarriagepodcast3348/videos#pornaddiction #sex #marriedsex #marriage #mariagehelp #marriageandrelationships #relationship101 #marriagepodcast #marriagehelp #marriagebootcamp #love #lovestory #couples #faith #Relationship #relationships #Problem #Problems #CognitivePower #Opinion #Opinions #Trust #Marriage #Married #Truth #TruthTeller #Standard #Standards #Negotiate #Negotiating #Romance #romantic #reconciliation #selfimprovement #help #christian

Kris and Kalenn Krohn get real about the highs and lows of their 17-year marriage, sharing the game that saved their relationship. They break down a powerful four-step process to shift from transactional to unconditional love—without expecting anything in return. Discover how a simple daily question can rekindle connection, eliminate resentment, and inspire your partner to do the same. Plus, get a bonus strategy: spousal advocation—learning to want what your spouse wants simply because they do. Ready to level up your relationship? Try this 30-day challenge and watch what happens!

What if the key to healing a struggling marriage was as simple as understanding the power of spiritual growth? Join us as we explore how nurturing one's spiritual condition can transform relationships, using God's Word as a guiding light. We also are talking about the role of fellow believers in walking alongside those facing marital difficulties, offering support grounded in the teachings of Jesus Christ. Whether you're looking to support marriages in your community or enhance your own, this episode provides the tools and inspiration to foster Christlike relationships, inviting you to participate in a holistic journey of discipleship and spiritual growth.Don't miss it!Support the showFor episode transcripts, click HERE.For more marriage encouragement, visit: www.VowsToKeep.com | V2K Blog | Marriage Counseling | Insta | FBApple Podcast listener? Would you consider leaving us a review, as this helps more couple's to find our resources?! Leave your review HERE.

In this episode, I'm sharing a simple practice that transformed my perspective and strengthened my marriage during one of the most full times of my life: writing a daily letter of appreciation to my husband. When preparing to welcome our fourth baby, I wanted to prioritize grace and connection in our marriage. This daily habit became my anchor and a tool to focus on gratitude rather than victim thoughts and unmet expectations. Tune in to learn: The science behind appreciation: How gratitude boosts happiness and connection by rewiring your brain. Why this is for YOU: Shift your mindset, see the good, and show up as the wife you aspire to be. What to appreciate: Practical examples to notice and honor what your spouse is doing right. The ripple effect: How this practice not only transforms your mindset but can also inspire more positive behaviors in your marriage. Whether you keep this journal as a personal tool or surprise your spouse with it as a heartfelt gift, this simple challenge can transform the way you see your marriage. Ready to take the appreciation challenge? Let's dive in!

Join Hannah Keeley and Dr. Doug Weiss as they dive into the hidden struggles of intimacy anorexia and its impact on marriage and motherhood. Discover powerful tools, biblical wisdom, and proven strategies to heal emotional, spiritual, and physical disconnection in relationships. Whether you're feeling married but alone or seeking restoration in your relationship, this conversation is your step toward hope and transformation.

In this episode of The Mind Change Podcast, Heather and Kent McKean sit down with Diane and Casey Lynch to share a journey of profound transformation. After 30 years of battling mental health challenges, Diane discovered Mind Change and began to address the subconscious beliefs that kept her trapped. Casey's own path with Mind Change soon followed, allowing him to overcome patterns of isolation and hypervigilance. Together, they reveal how this work healed their marriage, reshaped their family dynamic, and set a powerful example for their children. A pivotal part of their story unfolds at a Mind Change wellness retreat in Belize, where uninterrupted time and immersive sessions deepened their healing and reconnected them on a life-changing level. Tune in to explore how Mind Change can transform personal and relational challenges, bringing lasting peace, connection, and resilience.

Have you ever wondered how to navigate the real struggles in your marriage? Do you want to learn how to see your partner through God's eyes? Ever wondered how faith can transform your marriage?    Well Sister Friend, I got all that and more for you in this episode!    This is part two of my chat with the amazing Shayla Huber, an inspiring author and advocate for women, about her latest book, '10 Things I Hate About My Husband.' Shayla speaks candidly about the divine inspiration behind her book, her deeply personal journey of writing it, and the powerful revelations that come from trusting God's wisdom over worldly advice.    We'll dive into Shayla's experiences of placing faith at the center of her marriage, the struggle of waiting for her husband's spiritual revelation, and the importance of personal spiritual growth and prayer. Discover how focusing on internal reflection and God's love can lead to transformational changes in marriage and even impact future generations. Tune in for practical insights, encouragement for women, and learn how Shayla's journey can resonate with aspiring authors. Don't miss out on the chance to join Shayla's incredible journey and participate in an exciting book giveaway!   Mic Drop Moments: “I believe that the only way we can truly influence people for the kingdom of heaven is to show God's love.” - Shayla “The identity part of my book is how God showed me the lies that I was believing, gave me the identity of his daughter, and as I operated from that identity, that is when everything started to transform.” - Shayla “My husband is my want, he's my bonus, but Christ is my need And I do believe that God wants us to have beautiful, transformational marriages.” - Shayla Are you ready to walk in all God has for you? Let's chat to see if 1-on-1 coaching is for you: http://bit.ly/discoverycallwithHSB   Connect with Shayla: Text List: 641-732-8051 Website: www.shaylamariehuber.com Tiktok: shaylahuber30 Instagram: www.instagram.com/shaylamariehuber Facebook: Shayla Marie Huber Shayla is a rodeo wife to Cody, boy mom to Leroy and Wacey and lives in Iowa on their family farm. She is passionate about helping women discover their true identity in Christ to help marriages and families flourish. For more information on connecting with Shayla (see links). "10 Things I Hate About My Husband" is her first book.    Related Episodes: //222. Student Spotlight: How Letting Go of Success Led Shayla to Her True Identity and Calling   //204: Is The Orphan Spirit Impacting Your Business?   //211. How to Navigate Distractions and Embrace Faith with Christine Jewell   //193. From Wounds to Wisdom: Trusting the Holy Spirit for Deep Healing with Miranda Wendler

Are you ready to transform your marriage with one simple change?

Are you ready to transform your marriage with one simple change?