Podcasts about Victim mentality

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Send us a message, we can't respond. If you'd like a response email us at rick@warriorswaymindset.comIn this conversation, Olympic coach Justin Kavanaugh shares insights on high performance coaching, emphasizing the importance of trust, accountability, and living in the present. He discusses the need for a personal code, the dangers of a victim mentality, and the significance of movement in overcoming challenges. Kavanaugh also highlights the impact of environment on performance and the necessity of authenticity in leadership. He introduces the concept of 'Man Up', which encompasses balance, accountability, lust, love, and sacrifice as essential elements for success. In this engaging conversation, Justin Kavanaugh and Rick, known as Codename: Cursebreaker, explore the profound themes of personal growth, the importance of experience, and the journey of climbing new mountains in life. They discuss the difference between credentials and competency, the challenges of competition, and the necessity of integrity in business. The dialogue also delves into the metaphor of eagles and chickens, emphasizing the need to rise above limitations and embrace one's true potential. Additionally, they touch on the pressing issue of mental health, advocating for training over therapy, and the importance of building a supportive community.Connect with Justin here  Click the HERE to choose your path! Click HERE to choose your path! Support the showBook a call to learn how you can become apart of our brotherhood!Click HERE to schedule a free 30-minute consultation if you'd like support to take the right step towards the great life you deserve.Join our Discord community for FREE, MEN click here ----- WOMEN click here⭐Thank you for listening to our podcast! We would greatly appreciate it if you could take a moment to give us a 5-star review. Your support helps us reach more listeners and continue to bring you high-quality content. Thank you!

The victim mentality is a psychological pattern where someone perceives themselves as a victim of circumstances, other people, or systems, often avoiding personal responsibility. In this Tough Things First podcast, Ray Zinn explains in detail why most people have victim mentality and how to escape the pattern. Ray Zinn: Hi Rob. Good to be with you today. Rob Artigo: Page […]

This week on Get Canceled, Sheryl and the gang conclude their discussion on victim mentality and the odd phenomenon in which America finds itself.  Once a strong nation of willful-minded individuals, America is now the breeding ground for snowflakes who have taken to social media to share their dismay of how society has wronged them.  The amount of tears pouring out of these delicate souls is enough to solve the national drought.  Consider this your official trigger warning because the kid gloves are officially off and Get Canceled is not know for it's sensitivity.We have a new segment of the show, Get Canceled Confessions.  Please continue to send your confessions - the good, the bad, and definitely the dirty -  to getcanceledinfo@gmail.com and Sheryl will read them on the show!DISCLAIMER: This show is for entertainment purposes only.  The views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of Get Canceled.  All guests remain anonymous.If you enjoy, please rate review subscribe and share!Have you or someone you love been canceled?  Sheryl wants to hear from you! Email: getcanceledinfo@gmail.comTwitter: @GetCanceledPodwww.getcanceled.com        

In today's episode I'm sitting down with the radiant, deeply intuitive and no BS woman Fiona Marie Williams for a conversation around the multifaceted journey of womanhood, spiritual awakening, emotional healing, and navigating life's transitions with grace.Fiona Marie is a transformational guide and intuitive medicine woman devoted to activating a new era of embodied leadership. After a career in the corporate world, she answered the call to sacred service—blending somatic healing, breathwork, and energetic mastery to awaken the divine within.In this conversation Fiona shares her journey of channeling guidance, embracing her psychic gifts, finding emotional healing through self-love and vulnerability, and learning to let go of victim consciousness.If you're on a path of self-discovery, spiritual growth, or looking to feel more anchored in your own inner wisdom...this is for you. We also dive into topics like:✨Psychic gifts, channeling, and trusting intuitive guidance✨Navigating relationships during spiritual transformation✨Letting go of victim mentality✨Embracing radical responsibility✨Grounding practices and self-care rituals for emotional and energetic balance✨How to stay connected during the collective ascension✨A channeled message  Connect with Fiona Marie on Instagram @fionamarie.anahata Your host: Anna Svedberg Connect with me on Instagram @nourishedwithanna 

“I am not the victim of the world I see.” – A Course in Miracles Workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, Lesson 31What if you stopped identifying with the part of you that feels powerless?What if you could claim your power, right now, from the inside out?In this episode, we explore Lesson 31 from the A Course in Miracles Workbook for Students⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which invites us to break free from the illusion of victimhood. We examine how the stories we tell about ourselves—especially ones rooted in helplessness, blame, or fear—shape the world we see. And more importantly, how we can begin to write new ones.This lesson is a call to radical responsibility. Not as a burden—but as a path back to our power, agency, and peace.Whether you've been looping in blame, waiting to be rescued, or doubting your ability to change… this episode offers a gentle but clear reminder:You are not a victim. You are a creator.Key Insights from Lesson 31✨ Freedom is an inside job: Real freedom doesn't come from changing external circumstances—it begins when we stop believing the ego's script of helplessness and choose to see through the eyes of love and strength.✨ Perception is projection: Your outer world reflects your inner beliefs. Victimhood distorts your perception and locks you into reactive loops. But when you shift your mindset, even slightly, the world reflects that softness and sovereignty back to you.✨ Responsibility is not blame—it's empowerment: To say “I am not a victim” isn't to dismiss the pain you've lived through. It's to stop giving it control over your present. You can choose again. You can write a new chapter. One rooted in compassion, clarity, and conscious choice.Reflection QuestionsWhere in my life do I feel like a victim right now—and what narrative is fueling that feeling?If I fully embraced that I am not a victim of the world I see, how might I meet today's challenges with more personal power and agency?Is there a story I've outgrown but still wear like a second skin? What belief would I need to release to return to who I truly am?What's one small way I can reclaim authorship of my life today, instead of waiting to be rescued or fixed?RESOURCES MENTIONEDThe Three Faces of Victimhood: An Overview of the Victim TriangleIdentifying the Drama TriangleMaking the Shift From Drama to EmpowermentCONNECT WITH JESSICA FLINT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ORACLE DECKS USED⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tea Leaf Fortune Cards⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Animal Spirit Deck⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Rose Oracle Deck

This week on Get Canceled, Sheryl and the gang decide to call out the victim mentality which has permeated American culture.  The rise of social media has shown the world that there is nothing Americans do best than complain about shit that does not matter.  Yep, we're talking first world problems of the seemingly "oppressed" or the "trauma" one has endured when things don't go his way.  Everyone needs to stop their crying, put their phones down, and have a little perspective - because you look like a damn fool!We have a new segment of the show, Get Canceled Confessions.  Please continue to send your confessions - the good, the bad, and definitely the dirty -  to getcanceledinfo@gmail.com and Sheryl will read them on the show!DISCLAIMER: This show is for entertainment purposes only.  The views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of Get Canceled.  All guests remain anonymous.If you enjoy, please rate review subscribe and share!Have you or someone you love been canceled?  Sheryl wants to hear from you! Email: getcanceledinfo@gmail.comTwitter: @GetCanceledPodwww.getcanceled.com        

Send us a textBefore recovery, I had no idea how many areas of my life I didn't even perceive as having a choice in. I thought, ‘This is just the way it is; this is just how life works.' But one of the greatest freedoms recovery has given me is learning that I actually do have choices, and the greatest of those freedoms is the freedom to choose what I think and believe. This week's episode 313 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to go from victim mentality to empowered living!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I share how I went from feeling powerless to living an empowered life by recognizing that I have choices! I delve into the concept of victim mentality, how our internalized beliefs can limit our choices and keep us feeling trapped in destructive patterns, and ultimately, how to choose peace and intentionality over reactivity. I encourage you to start by identifying one area in your life where you've been playing the victim. Make a conscious choice today to approach that situation with intention, personal responsibility, and hope.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!Sign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callGETTING OUT OF VICTIM MENTALITY EPISODES:Ep #3 Victim Mentality (8 min)Ep #106 How to Overcome Victim Mentality Even If You've Been Victimized (15 min)Ep # 126 How Understanding Your Part in Things Brings You Out of Victim Mentality (15 min)Ep. #152 How to Stop Taking Things Personally and Come Out of Victim Mentality (14 min)Ep. #172 Seven Steps to Coming Out of Victim Mentality (21 min)Ep #176 What Is the Dreaded Drama Triangle and How to Get Out of It (19 min)Ep. 266 How to Stop Victimizing Yourself and Reclaim Your Power (23 min)CONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebook

Brien Gearin is a partner and podcast host at Millionaire University, an organization that seeks to mold the next generation of entrepreneurs. He is also the founder and CEO of Ricochet Digital Marketing, where he and his team serve Residential Service Providers across the country by building and maintaining marketing systems that lead to massive growth. Website:  https://www.millionaireuniversity.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MillionaireUniversityMU Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/millionaire_university_mu/ LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/company/97175862 Podcast:  https://www.youtube.com/@millionaireuniversity_mu   The Critical Role of Google Business Profiles Michael and Brien dove into the game-changing impact of Google Business Profiles for businesses. They emphasized that these free profiles can dramatically boost online visibility and customer engagement. With Google shifting towards a "zero-click conversion" experience, optimizing these profiles is more crucial than ever. Brien pointed out that many businesses make the mistake of focusing solely on social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok while neglecting Google—where most customers search first. Michael reinforced the point, urging business owners to prioritize their Google presence as a foundational piece of their digital strategy. Why Outsourcing Marketing is Key to Business Growth Michael and Brien explored the vital role of marketing and brand reputation in scaling a business. They discussed how small business owners often struggle with marketing because it's outside their core expertise. Michael stressed that business leaders should focus on what they do best and delegate marketing to professionals who can drive better results. Brien agreed, drawing a comparison to other essential services—just as business owners don't handle their taxes or bookkeeping, marketing should be outsourced to experts. The key takeaway? Investing in professional marketing saves time, delivers more substantial outcomes, and ultimately fuels business growth. Empowering Youth Through Mentorship and Entrepreneurship Michael and Brien discussed the power of mentorship in shaping future entrepreneurs. Michael expressed his passion for guiding the next generation of business leaders, while Brien shared the backstory of Millionaire University, a venture he co-founded with Justin and Tara Williams. The university provides aspiring entrepreneurs with education and resources as an alternative to traditional college education. They also highlighted the impact of the Millionaire University Podcast, which shares real-world success stories, struggles, and actionable strategies to help young entrepreneurs carve their oaths. Breaking Free from Victim Mentality in Entrepreneurship Brien and Michael tackled a critical mindset shift for entrepreneurs—overcoming the victim mentality. Michael shared the inspiring story of his brother, who turned his passion for guitar pedals into a thriving business and financial success. They emphasized that resilience, adaptability, and a problem-solving mindset are the keys to winning in entrepreneurship. Brien also underscored how Millionaire University teaches these principles, helping entrepreneurs break free from limiting beliefs and take ownership of their success. 

Send us a textBefore recovery, I had no idea how many areas of my life I didn't even perceive as having a choice in. I thought, ‘This is just the way it is; this is just how life works.' But one of the greatest freedoms recovery has given me is learning that I actually do have choices, and the greatest of those freedoms is the freedom to choose what I think and believe. This week's episode 313 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to go from victim mentality to empowered living!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I share how I went from feeling powerless to living an empowered life by recognizing that I have choices! I delve into the concept of victim mentality, how our internalized beliefs can limit our choices and keep us feeling trapped in destructive patterns, and ultimately, how to choose peace and intentionality over reactivity. I encourage you to start by identifying one area in your life where you've been playing the victim. Make a conscious choice today to approach that situation with intention, personal responsibility, and hope.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!Sign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callGETTING OUT OF VICTIM MENTALITY EPISODES:Ep #3 Victim Mentality (8 min)Ep #106 How to Overcome Victim Mentality Even If You've Been Victimized (15 min)Ep # 126 How Understanding Your Part in Things Brings You Out of Victim Mentality (15 min)Ep. #152 How to Stop Taking Things Personally and Come Out of Victim Mentality (14 min)Ep. #172 Seven Steps to Coming Out of Victim Mentality (21 min)Ep #176 What Is the Dreaded Drama Triangle and How to Get Out of It (19 min)Ep. 266 How to Stop Victimizing Yourself and Reclaim Your Power (23 min)CONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebook

Ever feel like your inner voice is your biggest critic? Like you're trapped in your own thoughts, repeating stories of self-doubt, fear, and uncertainty? You're not alone—and the good news is, there's a way out.In this energizing and heartfelt episode, we sit down with Kimberly Kesting, mindset coach and trainer with Enlifted, to uncover how the words we speak—and think—shape our reality. From breaking free of the victim mindset to using "language magic" to rewire your brain, Kimberly guides you through real, practical steps to shift your story and reclaim your confidence. Her warmth, relatability, and deep understanding of how young women think make her the perfect guide for anyone ready to rewrite the narrative in their head.This is more than a conversation—it's a language game, a mindset reset, and a heart-to-heart reminder that you already have the power to cast your own spell of confidence, clarity, and change.Quotes:● “The way we talk to ourselves directly shapes our mindset and emotional responses.” – Kimberly Kesting● “We are not victims of our circumstances; we are the creators of our stories.” – Kimberly Kesting● “Our words have the power to create magic or reinforce limits—choose them wisely.” – Kimberly KestingTakeaways:● Pay attention to how you talk to yourself. The words you use shape how you feel.● Shift your mindset. Instead of seeing yourself as a victim, think of yourself as someone who can make things better.● Focus on solutions. Change the way you speak so that it helps you find answers to problems.● Slow down when you feel stressed. Take a deep breath, think things through, and focus on what you can control.● Reframe your thoughts. Use words that reflect your strengths and what you can achieve.Conclusion: Kimberly's message is clear: the stories we tell ourselves matter. By changing the way we think and speak, we can face challenges with confidence and take control of our lives. Her approach isn't just about feeling good—it's about taking action and becoming the best version of ourselves. With the right mindset, we can all rewrite our stories and achieve the things we've always wanted.

Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, a psychology professor at Columbia University, explores self-actualization and the importance of taking responsibility for our lives. He discusses the impact of trauma, the distinction between being a victim and an empowered individual, and how embracing uncomfortable feelings fosters growth. Dr. Kaufman emphasizes emotional regulation, the power of sensitivity combined with kindness, and the significance of gratitude, encouraging us to choose growth over fear.Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):(0:00) Intro/Teaser(4:00) Empowerment Mindset vs. Victim Mentality(13:00) Navigating Victim Mindset to Empowerment(27:00) Embracing Vulnerability and Empathy(36:00) Harnessing HSP and Emotional Intelligence(43:00) Exploring Honest Love and Personal Growth(44:00) The “After Party” with Dr. StephanieResources mentioned in this episode found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep413/A huge thank you to our sponsors:BIOPTIMIZERS MASSZYME - Life is too short to suffer from digestion problems. So go to https://bioptimizers.com/better and use code BETTER to get 10% off your order.Maui Nui Venison - Packed with essential vitamins, minerals, and bioavailable compounds that support energy, performance, and overall health. Head over to  https://mauinuivenison.com/better to checkout their premium collection of snack sticks and fresh starter boxesLUMEN - Measure your metabolism through your breath to know if you're burning fat or carbs, and get tailored guidance to improve your nutrition, workouts, sleep, and stress. Visit https://lumen.me/BETTER and use code BETTER to get 20% off your purchase.KETONE-IQ  - boosts energy, focus, endurance, and athletic performance with this daily supplement that puts you in ketosis within minutes. Get 30% off when you Subscribe & Save at https://ketone.com/STEPHANIE

Parenting comes with a great deal of sacrifice. Sometimes those sacrifices feel beautiful and holy. But sometimes, when we feel like we don't have a choice in what we sacrifice, we end up feeling resentful.. We can even start to feel like a victim in our own lives. Today we're talking about how to change that. We'll discuss how to recognize when you're making yourself a victim, and what you can do instead.

Sarah's Type 6 mind moves fast—so fast it can create instant connection and obscure deeper intimacy. In this episode, she unpacks the whirlwind: the pull between independence and support, the trap of victimhood, and how unchecked reactivity nearly derailed a past relationship. With raw honesty, she explores self-sabotage, emotional spirals, and the slow work of learning self-trust. This is a conversation about growing beyond fear into real, grounded connection. LINKS Sarah's Music https://open.spotify.com/artist/6VAheMN9FSGheExTVAlBXD?si=rbz8XlbPQqaQx3mEr9De0A The Enneagram School https://theenneagramschool.com/ Intro Course https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Get Typed https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Sinsomnia Podcast (Dreams) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sinsomnia/id1684154994 House of Enneagram https://www.youtube.com/@houseofenneagram TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro 03:08 - Reviewing the “bullet points” 07:39 - Therapy, working on self-needs rather than attachment structure reflecting needs of others 10:07 - What's hard about ‘touching ground' 25:11 - Victim mentality, self-sabotage, and type 6 ‘underdog' 32:43 - Reactive attachment 39:41 - Seeking a dimension of parental qualities in partners 47:20 - 6 dividing from one extreme pole to the other, finding balance in the center 52:28 - 6s entitlement of collective ‘markers' 1:02:42 - The horror of “it's all 6, it always has been” 1:17:50 - Outro CREDITS Interview by Josh Lavine Edited by Kristen Oberly Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/ Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ --- #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram6

In this episode of the Young Dad Podcast, host Jay Young and guest Melanie Yates explore the journey to happiness, the importance of taking responsibility for one's emotions, and the power of choice in shaping our lives. They discuss practical tools for building self-esteem, the significance of intentional daily routines, and the necessity of human connection in overcoming challenges. The conversation emphasizes that small changes can lead to significant transformations and encourages listeners to focus on hope and personal growth.TakeawaysPain often drives us to seek change.Taking responsibility for our emotions is crucial.Our choices shape our feelings and behaviors.Self-love is directly proportional to our peace.Intentionality in daily routines can lead to success.Human connection is essential for emotional well-being.Starting small is key to achieving big goals.Asking for help fosters connection and support.Focusing on hope can lead to positive change.Every challenge presents an opportunity for growth.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Happiness and Relationships01:52 Melanie's Journey Through Pain04:09 Taking Responsibility for Emotions07:52 The Victim Mentality and Choices10:47 Self-Love and Peace Equation12:32 The 'To-Be' Routine for Self-Improvement16:26 Tracking Progress and Building Confidence22:08 Building Relationships and Human Connection25:12 Navigating Fear and Connection Post-Pandemic26:14 Setting Achievable Goals with AI Assistance28:51 Rebuilding Social Skills in a New Normal31:09 The Power of Body Language in Self-Perception35:44 Finding Grounding Techniques for Confidence37:46 Accountability and Support in Achieving Goals43:43 Embracing Hope and Change in Life's JourneyCheck out the Website for Interactive Activity Guides, Resources, Full Transcripts, all things YDP- ⁠⁠www.youngdadpod.com Clink the Link for YDP Deals (Joon, Forefathers &more)- ⁠https://linktr.ee/youngdadpod Want to be a guest on Young Dad Podcast? Send Jey Young a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/youngdadLastly consider a monetary donation to support the Pod, https://buymeacoffee.com/youngdadpod

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Now, THAT's a vague episode title! And it's vague on purpose! None of us want to admit to … well, our less than healthy behaviors. Yet the truth is, we all engage in behaviors we would be mortified if others were to witness. The topic of this episode describes a type of behavior and mindset I would bet every one of us has engaged in at some points in time. For a percentage of people, this becomes a way of life. Others can see it clearly, but the one entrenched in this is usually oblivious… because they are hurting. Their attitude and behaviors results in continued self-sabotage and pushing others away. Enough of the mysteriousness…. Buckle your seatbelt, open your mind and let's take a look at this topic. If you're honest enough to see how this describes you, there are suggestions for pivoting into a healthier, more productive way of dealing. Let's get started!Resources:BariAfterare: www.bariaftercare.comConnie Stapleton PhD website: www.conniestapletonphd.comBariAftercare website: https://www.conniestapletonphd.com/bariaftercareBariAftercare Facebook page (for members only): https://www.facebook.com/groups/BariAftercareKevin Stephens: Your Bariatric Buddy   https://www.facebook.com/groups/yourbariatricbuddy/peopleInstagram: @cale101 (Caleshia Haynes)Instagram: @therealbariboss (Tabitha Johnson)Instagram @drsusanmitchell (Dr. Susan Mitchell)Instagram: @lauraleepreston (Laura Preston)ProCare Vitamins (10% off with code ConnieStapleton)Rob DiMedio: https://www.busybariatrics.com/Dr. Joan Brugman: drjbrugman@outlook.comDr. Susan Mitchell:https://www.facebook.com/DrSusanMitchellhttps://www.facebook.com/bariatricsurgerystrategies Victim Mentality: 10 Ways to Help Clients Conquer Victimhood https://positivepsychology.com/victim-mentality/The Agony and Ecstasy of Victimhood https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/putting-psyche-back-into-psychotherapy/202401/the-agony-and-ecstasy-of-victimhoodVictim Mentality: Definition, Causes, and Ways to Cope https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-victim-mentality-5120615Please subscribe to the show and rate it on Apple Podcasts, download free information at www.conniestapletonphd.com, and follow me on Twitter (@cstapletonphd), Instagram (@cstapletonphd), YouTube, LinkedIn, and on Facebook.

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Welcome to today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you fix your marriage! Join Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner as they dive into the topic of the Martyr Complex—an unhealthy mindset that can trap us in conflict and distance within our relationships. In this episode, we discuss the signs of a martyr or savior complex, how they show up in our marriages, and how to break free from the victim mentality that holds us back. We also explore ways to retrain your thinking and embrace personal responsibility to bring healing to your marriage.

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In this episode, I'll discuss escaping the victim mentality and how you can create the life you've always wanted quickly and easily. You have the power to create your reality, regardless of the what is happening in the world around you. Follow @sixfigurehoneyJoin Six Figure Sales Academy

Tonight, our friend the spirit mom, transcending ascension is back for her second appearance! We'll be breaking down how we can overcome the victim mentality not just on a personal level but also collectively, how we can integrate "Downloads" or new realizations without them fragmenting us, and the dueling dance of the divine masculine and feminine energies!Dyanna's links:https://youtube.com/@TranscendingAscension?si=N5BDPQvlRXEzhEJ0https://rumble.com/user/Spirit_Momhttps://transcendingascension.com/Check out Forbidden Knowledge Network and support BOTH documentaries:www.forbiddenknowledge.newshttps://watch.amazon.com/detail?gti=amzn1.dv.gti.763483a7-ad3f-4990-b5b3-98897169249c&territory=US&ref_=share_ios_movie&r=webCheck out We Are Change Colorado!http://www.wearechangecolorado.com/http://www.youtube.com/user/WACCTVCheck out Gaia Avani Naturals!www.gaiaavaninaturals.comCheck out Root to Bloom!http://rtbwholehealth.com/Check out Milagro Mushroomswww.milagromushrooms.comWatch Jones Plantation!https://jonesplantationfilm.com/?fbclid=IwAR0zE6457BtHWhrH1iyHKUscUsnPCPZNkE7tS0wPfw8n3N1Jd6RakDNX38w I do not own the songPendulum - witchcraft

Do you get offended if a date doesn't immediately get back to you?  How about when you ask a friend to call you later and they don't? When you pass a stranger on the street and they glance at you, looking annoyed, do you assume their annoyance is directed at you? Or do you cut others slack in these situations, rather than take it personally?  In this episode, I'm sharing what the research says are the four dimensions of the tendency for interpersonal victimhood, breaking down the difference between having a victim mentality and being a victim, and giving you ideas on how you can shift from a victim mindset into a growth mindset. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/703

Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of blame and resentment in your marriage?

Are you tired of feeling like your happiness in marriage is constantly dependent on your spouse's actions? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle of blame, resentment, and negativity? If so, you might be struggling with a victim mentality. In this episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, we're diving deep into the destructive impact of a victim mentality on marital relationships. We'll explore: What a victim mentality is and how it manifests in marriage. The signs to look out for in yourself and your partner. How this mindset erodes intimacy, communication, and trust. Practical, biblical strategies to break free from this pattern. How to take responsibility for your own happiness and build a stronger, more resilient marriage. We'll equip you with actionable tools and biblical wisdom to shift your perspective, foster healthier communication, and cultivate a relationship built on grace, forgiveness, and personal responsibility. Don't let a destructive mindset steal your joy and sabotage your marriage. Join us as we explore how to break free from the blame game and start building the marriage God intended for you! Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

In our upcoming podcast, we'll be discussing the dangerous effects of a victim mentality in marriage. A victim mentality can be a major obstacle to a healthy, fulfilling, and (most importantly) God-honoring relationship. It can lead to resentment, bitterness, and a general sense of unhappiness.   In this podcast, we'll explore the signs of a victim mentality in marriage, as well as the ways to overcome it. We'll also talk about the importance of taking responsibility for your own actions and well-being.   Key Points:   -The signs of a victim mentality in marriage. -The dangers of a victim mentality. -How to overcome a victim mentality. -The importance of taking responsibility for your own actions.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

The most successful designers have one thing in common: an empowered mindset. They don't get stuck and complain, they find solutions to keep it moving when challenges arise. In this episode, we're calling out the victim mentality that keeps so many creatives broke, overwhelmed, and burned out. If you're constantly blaming your circumstances, you're giving away your power. ⁠⁠Join Social Butterfly Club (Marketing Membership For Designers)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Brief Collective Design Biz Academy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Unlock Secret Podcast Episodes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Share Your Unapologetic Opinion⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

What's your typical response when life paralyzes you? When you feel your pain more than your purpose? For most people - it's the Victim Mentality (aka “Why is this happening to me?”). That's why I'm excited to get on the mic with a guy who knows all about dealing with pain. And the way he's dealing with it is BEYOND INSPIRATIONAL. Today, I have the honor of sitting down with former University of Florida basketball standout and professional basketball player turned ESPN Analyst, Patric Young. Just 10 days before his wedding, Patric was involved in a car accident that left him paralyzed from the waist down. But as Patric will tell you, his accident wasn't life-changing…it was life-affirming. As Patric shares his stories, he shares insights on overcoming the Runner-up Mindset and the sheer determination that turns adversity into a mission. In this episode, we unpack the paradox of control versus management, leaning into the idea that sometimes, letting go is the first step to truly grasping what matters. From the Parable of the Talents to the wisdom of managing life's manageables, Patric's narrative instills a sense of purpose and calls us to a deeper understanding of our true identity and the power of perseverance, even when life throws its hardest curveballs. Patric's infectious humor and spirited anecdotes offer a fresh perspective on integrating purpose and faith into our daily lives. If you want a new perspective about overcoming life's toughest pains, then don't miss today's episode. In this episode, you'll hear: Overcoming the Runner Up Mindset™. The revelations Patric experienced while being in the hospital for 128 days. What you must realize before you make any transition in life. The concept of "managing the manageables" instead of trying to control everything. Discovering true identity and purpose through self-awareness and aligning with one's true self. Embracing challenges with gratitude and an "even if" mentality inspired by faith and resilience. Key Quotes “Take care of your house.” - Patric Young “As long as I'm living, ‘Why not?'” - Patric Young Connect with Patric Instagram: @patricyoung4 | https://www.instagram.com/patricyoung4/ Twitter: @patricyoung4 | https://twitter.com/PatricYoung4 Book: Sit to Rise: Turning Your Darkest Pain into Your Brightest Victory Website: https://www.patricyoung.com/ Patric's Foundation: https://www.py4foundation.org/ Connect with J.R.  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid Website: jamesreid.com Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only) Follow and Review: We'd love for you to follow us if you haven't yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com. Let them know we sent you.

Send us a textJoin Steve and Matt as they dive deep into how self-pity and victim mentality can become energy drains in recovery. Steve vulnerably shares his current struggles at home and how he's navigating difficult emotions without turning to alcohol. The hosts explore how shifting from "Why is this happening to me?" to "What's my next step?" can transform recovery journeys. Learn practical strategies for managing expectations, connecting with your higher power, and finding community support when life feels overwhelming. Whether you're newly sober or an old-timer, this honest conversation offers valuable insights on conserving emotional energy and staying the course when life gets tough.Support the show

Victim Mentality is sneaky- and no one wants to own it! Myself included!This episode helps you shift from "its not fair" and "why does this keep happening to me?" to >>> Now what?! From victim to empowerment!NEW ** 12 Month group Life coaching and Mentorship Membership Founding members for $99/monthConnect with Kaitlynn on IGLearn more about how to work with Kaitlynn{Thank you for leaving a rating or review here}

In this episode of The Mind Change Podcast, Heather McKean sits down with Monja Delport, a Mind Change practitioner who unexpectedly found her calling after witnessing her husband's recovery from chronic pain. Monja opens up about her journey from skepticism to empowerment, revealing how changing subconscious patterns transformed her life, relationships, and parenting. They discuss the power of self-tending, the impact of childhood trauma, and how reprogramming the mind can create lasting, positive change. If you've ever felt trapped by your thoughts or circumstances, this conversation will show you another way forward.

In our society a victim mentality is promoted and rewarded. On this episode we dive into some of the topics we'll discuss like Lebron vs SAS and how that correlates. Also Lizzo's weight loss reaction, Pacman Jones, NFL trades and plenty more! #lebronjames #stephenasmith #lizzo #nfltrade Checkout this episode's show on YouTube: https://youtube.com/live/04Fh-RTHjh8Don't forget to catch up on past episodes and run downs on our YouTube channel: ​https://www.youtube.com/@ThePrezExTVBe sure to SUBSCRIBE and LIKE the videos!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theprezexLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theprezexSend all requests and business inquiries via Email: theprezex@gmail.com

In this episode of The Financial Guys Podcast, hosts Mike Sperrazza, Mike Lomas, and Glenn Wiggle dive into the latest political chaos. They break down the shocking state of public education, the fallout from reckless government spending, and the absurdity of liberal policies. From Canada's leadership debacle to Zelensky's questionable demands, no topic is off-limits. Tune in for unfiltered takes, bold insights, and plenty of laughs as the hosts tackle the issues that matter most to conservatives.(00:02:04) Enhancing Education System through Department Elimination(00:05:03) Accountability in Education: Sports Team Comparison(00:08:57) Democrats' Victim Mentality and Political Strategy(00:20:09) Supply-Side Economics and Tax Policy Debate(00:22:37) Incentivizing Suppliers for Economic Growth Strategy(00:27:23) Boosting Housing Market through Tax Incentives(00:30:57) Global Aid Disparity and National Disaster Relief(00:36:41) Corruption and Accountability in Ukrainian War Funding(00:44:30) Canada's Political Landscape Amid Leadership Changes(00:48:15) Debating National Debt: Balancing Budget Priorities(00:58:41) Empowering Individuals for Poverty Alleviation(01:04:28) Penis Flaccidity Banter on Gender Identity Debate

A Know It All coach and client with a strong Victim Mentality walk into a bar... well, into a coaching session. What happens?DISCLAIMER: Kimberly and Mark recorded this episode at night while drinking whiskey. Enjoy.Get more from Enlifted:Apply Now for Spring 2025 Enlifted Level 1 Coaches CertificaitonWebsite: enlifted.me + FREE TRAININGKimberly's Instagram: @kimberly.kestingEnlifted Coaches on Instagram: @enliftedcoachesEnlifted Coaches on YouTube

Send us a textOne of the promises of ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families) is that we go from being a reactor to an actor in our lives. This means taking a proactive approach to our lives rather than reacting to what is happening. It means that we are being thoughtful, giving conscious consideration to what's going on around us, and making conscious decisions instead of reacting based on habits or patterns from the past. This week's episode 305 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to go from reactor to responder: breaking free from old patterns!Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:The difference between reacting and responding, and why it's a significant paradigm shift in recovery. The role that awareness, decision-making, and learning to pause play in becoming a proactive person. Practical strategies for experimenting with different behaviors and getting feedback to determine what works best for you. Learning to view yourself as the solution, not the problem, and take empowered action towards the life you desire. Moving from being a reactor to a responder is a journey that requires patience and practice, but the rewards are immense. By becoming more aware, making conscious choices, and experimenting with new ways of being, you can break free from old patterns and start living a life of purpose and fulfillment. Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!Sign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callLINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Ep 8 - My #1 Tool of Recovery: PausingEp 217 - Why Pausing Is So Important and What to DO When You PauseCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

Send us a textOne of the promises of ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families) is that we go from being a reactor to an actor in our lives. This means taking a proactive approach to our lives rather than reacting to what is happening. It means that we are being thoughtful, giving conscious consideration to what's going on around us, and making conscious decisions instead of reacting based on habits or patterns from the past. This week's episode 305 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to go from reactor to responder: breaking free from old patterns!Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:The difference between reacting and responding, and why it's a significant paradigm shift in recovery. The role that awareness, decision-making, and learning to pause play in becoming a proactive person. Practical strategies for experimenting with different behaviors and getting feedback to determine what works best for you. Learning to view yourself as the solution, not the problem, and take empowered action towards the life you desire. Moving from being a reactor to a responder is a journey that requires patience and practice, but the rewards are immense. By becoming more aware, making conscious choices, and experimenting with new ways of being, you can break free from old patterns and start living a life of purpose and fulfillment. Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!Sign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callLINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Ep 8 - My #1 Tool of Recovery: PausingEp 217 - Why Pausing Is So Important and What to DO When You PauseCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

Send us a textIf you feel like life is against you, like nothing ever goes right and you're stuck in a cycle of frustration...this 7-minute episode is exactly what you need. When big/small, daily challenges pile up, it's easy to slip into a victim mindset, but staying there only keeps you stuck and creates so much pain and negative energy. This episode will help you shift your perspective, break free from resistance, and start seeing setbacks as stepping stones. What if life isn't out to get you? But instead it's guiding you?Other useful links: The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN) Becoming Secure (Starting Feb 2025) FREE RESOURCES Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Why is this so much harder for me than everyone else?” or “No matter what I do, nothing ever changes”? That's victim mentality creeping in—and trust me, it's sneakier than you think.   As high-achieving moms, we work so hard, yet it's easy to fall into self-pity when we feel unappreciated, overwhelmed, or just plain exhausted.   In this episode, I'm diving into the difference between real challenges and a victim mindset, why self-pity keeps you stuck, and how to shift from “Why me?” to “What now?”—because you have more power than you realize.   If you've been feeling frustrated, drained, or resentful lately, this one is for you. Let's break free from victim mentality and step into a life where you feel in control again.   Join the Mom On Purpose Membership: momonpurpose.com/coaching Follow Natalie on Instagram: instagram.com/mom.onpurpose Sign up for the Mom On Purpose Newsletter here: momonpurpose.com/subscribe Get full show notes and more information here: momonpurpose.com/336 Call the Podcast Hotline here: 8-333-ASKNAT (833-327-5628)

Ever notice how when things go wrong, you blame others, and when things go right, you chalk it up to luck? I'm here to remind you that your hard work and intention deserve recognition. By breaking free from old patterns of blame and victim mentalities, you can claim ownership of your successes and learn from your challenges. Tune in, shift your perspective, and discover how to flip your mindset—celebrating every victory and lesson on your journey to becoming the best version of you. This is your chance to reclaim your power and rewrite your narrative. Join me and begin.Ready for more? Let me coach you inside of my membership. We'll be the ones to challenge you and treat you as who we believe you can be. Join our March Challenge to adopt the 5 daily habits that change the game in your energy levels!

Feel like you're doing all the work but still getting overlooked? Watching teammates get opportunities you know you've earned? It's frustrating, but you don't have to stay stuck. In this episode, Coach Bre breaks down exactly how to handle it so you can take back control, improve your game, and get noticed for the right reasons.Inside this episode: ✅ The #1 mindset shift that stops frustration in its tracks ✅ How to focus on what you can control (and why it matters) ✅ The right way to talk to your coach without sounding like you're complaining ✅ How to turn this situation into fuel instead of a roadblock ✅ The key to making yourself impossible to ignoreThe best athletes don't let setbacks stop them; they use them to get better. Don't miss this episode! Hit play now and take back control.Episode Highlights: [00:00:00] Introduction. Feel like you're putting in the work but not getting the opportunities? In this episode, you'll learn three key strategies to help you take back control and continue growing as an athlete.[00:01:00] Focus on What You Can Control. You can't control your coach's decisions, but you can control your effort, attitude, and response. Shifting your focus to what's in your control will help you grow rather than stay stuck in frustration.[00:02:00] Avoid the Victim Mentality. Complaining, gossiping, or blaming your coach won't change your situation. Instead, ask yourself how you can show up with the right work ethic, body language, and mindset to earn trust.[00:03:00] Communicate the Right Way. Your coach isn't a mind reader, so if you're unsure about your role or playing time, ask for clarity. Use solution-focused questions like, “Coach, how can I contribute more to the team?” instead of comparing yourself to others.[00:04:00] Seek Solutions, Not Just Venting. Coaches respect players who want to improve. Choose the right time to talk (not after a tough game) and approach the conversation with an open mind.[00:05:00] Use This as Fuel, Not a Roadblock. Great athletes use setbacks as motivation to work harder. Instead of dwelling on what's unfair, outwork everyone and make it impossible for your coach to ignore you.[00:06:00] Final Takeaway. You have more control than you think. Keep showing up, taking action, and growing as an athlete. If this episode helped, check out the Elite Mental Game program for more tools to build confidence and mental strength.Next Steps:Join our FREE Training for Sports Moms - How to Strengthen Your Athlete Daughter's Mental Game so She Believes in Herself as Much as You DoVisit our podcast website for more great episodesThank you in advance for joining us on our mission and leaving a rating and review on Apple Podcasts.

 In this episode find out how to avoid a victim mentality, and how only by taking 100% ownership of your life and restaurant you will succeed. Be a Victor not a victim. Listen now.Contact Me at:yourlifeandrestaurant.com

Tune in as Dr. Kevin Chapman shares some practical steps we can take to overcome the victim mentality, walking free.

February 07, 2025 Victim Mentality, Intimacy and Vulnerability, call from a listener by Dr. Farid Holakouee

In this episode, you'll learn:The deceptive nature of procrastination and how it keeps you stuck.The role of self-worth and external validation in fueling procrastination.The importance of setting and enforcing boundaries in personal and professional life.Practical steps to embrace messy, immediate, and imperfect action.How to reframe mistakes as opportunities for growth rather than reflections of self-worth.✨ Key Takeaway:Perfectionism and over-planning are just fancy forms of procrastination. The best way to break free is to take messy, imperfect action—because waiting for the "perfect" moment only keeps you stuck.Timestamps:[00:00] Introduction: The Sneaky Nature of Procrastination[01:20] The Allure of Planning and Its Pitfalls[02:10] The Fear of Criticism and Seeking External Validation[02:25] Overextending for Clients and the Need for Self-Validation[03:30] The Victim Mentality in Over-Giving[04:20] Disassociating Self-Worth from Mistakes[05:01] The Oxygen Mask Analogy: Self-Care First[06:07] The Importance of Consistency and Maintenance[07:11] Identifying the Root Causes of Procrastination[08:27] Taking Risks and Learning from Mistakes[09:46] The Value of Making Decisions and Taking Action[11:04] Enforcing Boundaries and Policies in Business[12:14] Sharing Personal Mistakes to Build Connection[13:17] Overcoming Feelings of Unworthiness[14:30] The Impact of Self-Worth on Client Relationships[16:05] The Role of Boundaries in Reducing Frustration[17:01] Taking Immediate Action Despite Fear[18:07] Addressing the Root Fears Behind ProcrastinationLinks & Resources:Join Rock Your Business to align your decisions with your goals.Follow me: Instagram: www.instagram.com/dawnbradleyYoutube: www.youtube.com/dawnbradley  For more info on RYB, Retreats etc: www.dawnbradley.comFree Workshop: www.dawnbradley.com/freeclass

Send us a textIf you're anything like me, you have used food, substances, or other people to numb your feelings. That's why reconnecting with your feelings is a crucial step in recovery. Today, I will be reading some excerpts from ACA's “Loving Parent Guidebook” that offer helpful insights on the importance of understanding and honoring your feelings. This week's episode 301 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to reconnect with your feelings- a key step in recovery!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm reading from chapter 10, Feeling is Healing of ACA's “Loving Parent Guidebook, and sharing with you some of the profound insights I have gleaned from these readings. Reconnecting with your feelings is a powerful step towards healing and personal growth. By understanding and honoring your feelings, you can break free from victim mentality and take constructive action in your life. Embrace this journey of self-discovery and unlock the transformative power of emotional intelligence. Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!After Participating in Private Coaching with Barb, You'll...*Be able to feel peaceful and calm when setting boundaries*Know how to communicate directly with people*Your feelings will become more "right-sized"*Do things because you really want to do them, not because you feel obligated*Live your life by your own values and feel proud of that*Learn to keep the focus on yourself and still be kind and helpful*Come closer to realizing your authentic identitySign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callLINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Loving Parent GuidebookThe Language of Emotions: What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You  by Karen McLarenCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

In this episode, host Jay Young engages with Sasha, author of 'Victims of Virtue', to explore the complexities of victim mentality, personal responsibility, and the societal narratives surrounding masculinity and gender ideology. They discuss Sasha's personal journey through trauma, the impact of school policies on self-defense, and the consequences of medical interventions for minors. The conversation emphasizes the importance of accountability and the dangers of a victimhood mentality in today's society. In this conversation, Sasha and Jey Young discuss critical issues surrounding parental rights, gender affirming care, abortion, adoption, and the societal implications of these topics. They explore the complexities of parental love, the impact of censorship, and the challenges of mental health in today's society. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and accountability in navigating these contentious issues. Takeaways The conversation addresses sensitive topics that may be uncomfortable for some listeners. Sasha's book critiques the pervasive victim mentality in modern culture. Personal responsibility is crucial for overcoming adversity and trauma. Victimhood can be a choice that limits personal power and control. School policies often discourage self-defense, reinforcing victimhood. Toxic masculinity is often misunderstood and conflated with normal male behavior. Children lack the cognitive ability to understand long-term consequences of their choices. Medical interventions for minors raise ethical concerns regarding informed consent. The narrative of interchangeable genders contributes to societal misunderstandings. Healthy masculinity should be distinguished from harmful behaviors. Parents have limited control over children's access to gender affirming care. The conversation around abortion often overlooks the option of adoption. Many parents regret their decisions regarding abortion years later. The depth of parental love is often underestimated until one becomes a parent. Censorship plays a significant role in shaping societal narratives. Victim mentality can hinder personal accountability and growth. Mental health issues are often misdiagnosed due to self-diagnosis trends. The impact of COVID-19 on children's social skills is yet to be fully understood. There is a significant gap between children in foster care and families wanting to adopt. Societal pressures can lead to poor decision-making regarding family and parenting. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Conversation 02:58 Sasha's Journey and Victim Mentality 05:31 The Impact of Victimhood on Society 08:22 Personal Responsibility and Healing 11:16 Children, Bullying, and Self-Defense 14:09 Toxic Masculinity vs. Masculinity 16:55 The Role of Gender in Society 19:47 The Consequences of Victim Mentality 22:32 Legislation and Societal Changes 30:38 Debating Curriculum Changes and Historical Focus 31:58 Censorship and Control in Education 32:52 Child Trafficking and Media Silence 33:44 Public Response to Violence and Safety 37:46 Children's Autonomy and Medical Interventions 45:52 Abortion Rights and Parental Control 54:08 Adoption vs. Abortion: A Moral Dilemma 59:08 The Complexity of Motherhood and Regret 01:02:45 Selflessness in Parenting and Societal Expectations 01:04:47 Transformation Through Faith and Personal Responsibility 01:07:52 The Impact of Ideologies on Society 01:12:03 Victim Mentality and Accountability 01:14:54 Gender Identity and Societal Norms 01:18:23 Narcissism and Mental Health Challenges 01:21:36 The Effects of COVID-19 on Child Development 01:26:00 Hope for the Future and Societal Change Check out the Website for Interactive Activity Guides, Resources, Full Transcripts, all things YDP- ⁠⁠www.youngdadpod.com⁠⁠ Clink the Link for YDP Deals (Joon, Forefathers &more)- ⁠https://linktr.ee/youngdadpod

To receive a free written summary of the podcast, sign up for our newsletter here.   In this transformative episode, Dr. Vignesh Devraj sits down with world-renowned therapist and author, Marisa Peer, to explore the psychology of the victim mindset. Why do we get stuck in cycles of self-doubt and limitation? More importantly, how can we break free? Marisa shares powerful insights on reprogramming the subconscious mind, reclaiming personal power, and cultivating a mindset that fosters success and well-being. If you're ready to step out of limiting beliefs and into self-mastery, this conversation is for you.  Topics Covered: Freedom from Victim Mentality  Baby Steps to Rewiring Your Life Forgiving yourself from Blame & Shame Moving On from Your Past Life  Timestamps: 00:00 - 05:09: Free yourself from Victim Mentality  05:09 - 07:55: Baby Steps to rewire life 07:55 - 10:51: Flip the Story 10:51 - 12:05: Case Study 1 12:05 - 13:19: Getting Better at Forgiveness 13:19 - 14:56: Shame & Guilt 14:56 - 19:05: Redirecting Your Life 19:05 - 21:35: The Power To Move On 21:35 - 23:23: Magic of RTT Therapy 23:23 - 30:39: Using the Right Words 30:39 - 33:18: Conclusion Dr Vignesh Devraj  If you are interested in doing one on one Ayurvedic consultation with Dr Vignesh Devraj please find the details in this link:  https://calendly.com/drvignesh/30-minute-session-with-dr-vignesh-devraj-md-ay-ist If you are economically challenged, please use the form provided to request a free Ayurvedic consultation here.  (or copy paste this in your browser:  https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd29nHcrC1RssR-6WAqWCWQWKKJo7nGcEm8ITEl2-ErcnfVEg/viewform ) BALANCE THE MIGHTY VATA - ONLINE COURSE NOW AVAILABLE  What makes Ayurveda unique in its treatment approach is its practical wisdom on the concept of Vata. Vata is responsible for Prana - the life energy, nervous system - the master panel of our body, and our emotions. In Ayurveda, it is mentioned that controlling Vata is the most difficult part of healing and recovery.  Recently I have recorded a workshop on - Balancing The Mighty Vata which has over 6 hrs of content, with notes filled with practical inputs that can be integrated into our life.  You can access this at https://drvignesh.teachable.com/ For further information about Dr Vignesh Devraj, kindly visit www.vigneshdevraj.com and www.sitaramretreat.com  Instagram -  @sitarambeachretreat | @vigneshdevraj Twitter - @VigneshDevraj We truly hope you are enjoying our content. Want to help us shape and grow this show faster? Leave your review and subscribe to the podcast, so you'll never miss out on any new episodes. Thanks for your support. Disclaimer: - The content of the podcast episodes is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical procedures, consultations, diagnosis, or treatment in any manner. We strongly do not recommend using the content of these episodes as medical advice for any medical conditions for you, others, or for treating your patients.

Send us a textWe learn in recovery that the reason we continue to carry the message of recovery is that, yes, we want other people to recover. Still, first and foremost, we carry the message to continue recovering ourselves. So, for my 300th podcast episode, I wanted to reflect on my journey from numbing myself to finding freedom through recovery and how continuing to share the message of recovery has been transformative in my life. This week's episode 300 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about my journey from numbing to freedom!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm celebrating the milestone of reaching 300 podcast episodes and recapping my story, highlighting the tools that aided my recovery and the spiritual awakenings that changed my life. Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:How my numbing behaviors evolved throughout my life before recovery. The series of events that brought me to recovery in the first place. Tools and lessons learned along the way that I now help others with. Some of the spiritual awakenings that shifted the way I view my life and situations. Why I continue to carry on the message of recovery. Again, thank you so much for joining me on this journey to 300 podcast episodes. I hope my story of growth inspires you on your own journey in recovery. Don't forget to review the podcast and let me know what stood out with you the most. Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Watch the YouTube video of this episode here!Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!Sign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callLINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Ep 2: AcceptanceEp 8:  My Tools of Recovery Part I: PausingEp 9: My Tools of Recovery Part II: Reaching OutEp 10: My Tools of Recovery Part III: Focus On MeCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery