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Welcome back to 8th season of Someone Had to Say it!Heidi and Julia are back with your most scandalous topics: why do Christians celebrate Passover and do Seder? How we love arguing with morons on social media, California torturous winters, women running the world and more!Don't forget to subscribe to our NEW YouTube channel here to watch all the videos and to send us a message!Thank you for listening, subscribe if you haven't and rate Someone Had to say it on Apple Podcasts and on Spotify.Enjoy!For more about Julia Bendis, visit linktree.com/juliabendisFor more about Heidi Shertok, visit heidishertok.com

On today's episode Julia and Heidi talked about cleaning dead people before burial, which is something Heidi does through her synagogue, Zionists and why gentile women want to date Jewish men and other stereotypes about the Jewish community. Thank you for listening, subscribe if you haven't and rate Someone Had to say it on Apple Podcasts and on SpotifyFor more about Julia Bendis, visit linktree.com/juliabendisFor more about Heidi Shertok, visit heidishertok.com

On today's episode Julia and Heidi spoke to a best-selling women's fiction author Sara Goodman Confino. Sara is an English teacher who started writing romance novels and they are a huge success. They talked about writing historical fiction, about life in the 60s, how her stories come to be, why old ladies wear dark red lipstick, abortion and so much more. Our conversation took many directions and pivoted many times. Don't forget to order Confino's new book Good Grief - for all her books, social media and info, visit: saraconfino.comThank you for listening, subscribe if you haven't and rate Someone Had to say it on Apple Podcasts and on SpotifyFor more about Julia Bendis, visit linktree.com/juliabendisFor more about Heidi Shertok, visit heidishertok.com

On today's episode Julia and Heidi talked about paying their bills with Only Fans account, selling organs on the black market to pay for kid's college, how they both have crazy, vivid dreams, solving problems with violence, the cure to all of our problems - can you guess what it is? S-E-X Heidi turning in her final draft for upcoming book Match Made in Brooklyn, Julia making jewelry and much more!Thank you for listening, subscribe if you haven't and rate Someone Had to say it on Apple and Spotify.For more about Julia Bendis, visit linktree.com/juliabendisFor more about Heidi Shertok, visit heidishertok.com

On today's episode Julia and Heidi had a fun time talking about what it would be like to have sister wives to help with the everyday life, why Polygamy was eventually outlawed, matchmakers promoting older men dating young women and why all of Eastern Europe leaves babies outside while parents enjoy dinner out. If you want to laugh and escape the reality of life for an hour - this is the episode for that! You won't be sorry.Thank you for listening, subscribe if you haven't and rate us on Apple Podcasts and on Spotify. For more about Julia Bendis, visit linktree.com/juliabendisFor more about Heidi Shertok, visit heidishertok.com

On today's episode we interview a best-selling author and one of our favorite authors, Rochelle B. Weinstein. Her new book just came out this week called 'We Are Made of Stars'. Her other works include: What you do to me, When we let go, This is not how it ends, What we leave behind, and more. We discussed the background of her writing journey, how she went from self-publishing to having multiple book deals, the inspiration behind her novels and what it takes to write a bestseller. You can find more about Rochelle Weinstein and her books at rochelleweinstein.com and get her books on Amazon and in bookstores everywhere. We hope you enjoy her story as much as we enjoyed it and as always please subscribe if you haven't, rate and review Someone Had to Say it on Apple Podcasts and on Spotify. Thank you for listening and enjoy!For more about Julia Bendis, visit linktree.com/juliabendisFor more about Heidi Shertok, visit heidishertok.com

Please welcome Heidi Shertok back! Julia and Heidi Shertok interviewed Zach Silverman aka Z.E. Silver. Zach is creating content on TikTok and Substack since October 7th educating people on Israeli history, politics, and Jewish peoplehood.  They talked about his platform where Jewish writers and creators showcase their stories, why it's so important right now and a little bit of Israel's history along the way.We hope you enjoy and as always don't forget to follow Someone Had to say it, rate and review us and come back for more interesting guests and stories. To learn more about Zach:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@silver_z.eInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gam_v.gam/Substack: https://gamvgam.substack.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GamvGamMedia

On this Thanksgiving week episode, we followed up on Julia's homework of meditating and taking time off to quiet the mind. We talked about ADHD, manifesting and #robots from #Tesla that Kim #Kardashian owns. We even talked about a new cologne that guarantees women will be attracted to you and contains pheromones.  We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com  For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

We talked to Dr. Sara Gallup, psychologist and host of 'Behind the walls of the world's psychiatric hospitals' podcast. Dr. Gallup talked about why she chose her profession, her interest with now defunct and abandoned mental health hospitals as well as the history of those facilities. You can listen to Behind the walls podcast on all platforms. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com  For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Julia spoke with Ishita Bhama - who is a clairvoyant, healer and medium. She started feeling and seeing auras when she was just a child. We talked about what she does, her courses and workshops for those who want to improve their intuition and clairvoyant abilities, and we dove right into an actual reading. I wanted to see if my dad would come through, watch and listen to see how it went, it was fascinating to say the least. For more information about Ishita's readings and workshops - visit linktree.com/clairvoyanthealerishita We hope you enjoy this episode and as always please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com  For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

On this episode, we discussed Julia's weekend at the Willow Springs race track where her son competed. Scott attempted to do a therapy session on Julia - find out how that went and much more! We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com  For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

On this episode we spoke with a family and marriage therapist Reesa Morala.  Reesa is the owner of Embrace Renewal Therapy & Wellness Collective and host of The Real Family Eats. She is dedicated to being a parenting ally, helping parents create thriving families by prioritizing their relationship. Her goal is helping parents feel less alone in the hard times and supporting their success as a family. You can find more about Reesa here: linktr.ee/EmbraceRenewalTherapy We discussed mental health issues, whether people can truly change and what it takes to break generational trauma. We hope you enjoy and thank you for sharing, rating us and for listening. For all the links and more info on matchmaking, dating and relationship support visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

On today's episode Julia and J had an unexpected guest, Julia's husband Scott... They decided to bring him on to talk about sports which is completely out of Julia's realm, and how being a Cleveland native affects every aspect of their marriage. Cleveland Browns suck and why people continue to support that team, as well as so much more. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠

Today is elecetion day in America! We discussed everything you need to know about this election including abortion, what we believe and who we support and much more! We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠⁠

On this episode Julia and J discussed how messed up the state of California is, their prisoner early release program, religion, fasting on Yom Kippur and World Series games of baseball. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening. If you have an interesting story to share or a funny one and would like to be a guest on Someone Had to Say it, email us at hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠

Nurhan Ora, who was a guest in episode 45, is a manifestation mentor helping people unlock their true potential and create a more meaningful life. Nurhan's expertise is in holistic and spiritual approach to personal growth. She guides people to shift their mindset, clear limiting beliefs, and align their goals through the power of manifestation. To learn more visit her website and schedule a session today: nurhanora.com

We were joined by Heidi Shertok, a novelist and author of Unorthodox Love to talk all about our collective anxiety and the need to take Ativan in order to get through a Shabbat dinner. Julia and J discussed how Americans seem to always have the need to yell and talk over each other, strange nicknames and how a privileged childhood can be very damaging.

Seriously, what the hell is going on with real estate? New rules, prices and interest rates in real estate? I interviewed my friend and real estate extraordinaire, rated the Top 40 under 40 agents - Bryan Suarez. I wanted to get an understanding of what is going on with real estate in America and more specifically in CA - will young people ever be able to buy their first home? More importantly, I wanted to hear the craziest things he has ever seen walking into a home (sex dungeon anyone) Take a listen and give him a follow on Instagram @bryansuarezrealtor. For more info, visit: linktree.com/BryanSuarezRealtor We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please review, share and subscribe! For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠⁠

On this episode we talked about how technologically inept we still are, Cleveland sports, Walgreens and CVS locking up all their products and P. Diddy, aka Puff Daddy, aka Sean Combs who is finally in prison. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share and subscribe. For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠

On this episode which we should call part 2 of the previous episode (51) - Julia and Jay discussed his addiction and recovery, whether it's hard for former addicts to talk about it or watch films that depict drug use or alcohol abuse. They talked about rehab facilities and how some are corrupt. Does drug and alcohol abuse change the molecular and chemical structure of the brain? Tune in for all that and more. Enjoy and don't forget to share, like and subscribe!

Part 1 - On this episode Julia is joined by her long time co-host Scott Jacobson, aka Jay. They caught up on what's been going on in their lives, death, being technologically inept, getting old, Hailey Welch and how easy it is to become an influencer if you're young and hot. They talked about Julia's latest clients who can't seem to make a decision to save their life and American sayings that she is constantly getting wrong. Watch and listen for many laughs! We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share and subscribe. For all the links and info, visit ⁠⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠⁠

On this episode Julia interviewed a long time Astrologer (over 40 years in practice) - Suzanne Gerber. Suzanne offers insightful, supportive astrology readings that blend classical astrology, modern psychology, Buddhist teachings, quantum physics plus decades of personal experience (including shamanic, Reiki and energy-healing training). Readings are deep, personal and reveal your gifts, challenges and life purpose. Each session looks at the birth chart as well as upcoming transits from the moving planets, with guidance. They discussed how it works, the common misconceptions and why everyone needs to understand their chart. To learn more and to join Suzanne's private Facebook group, visit her website here: https://starsandstoneshealing.com/ We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share and subscribe. For all the links and info, visit ⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠

On today's episode Julia interviewed an acclaimed writer and author of The Matchmaker's Gift, Wartime Sisters, The Two Family House and an upcoming book called The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern. Lynda Cohen Loigman goes to great length to research her novels, making sure they're historically correct. They talked about the inspiration behind her books, how different they are from a traditional love stories we're used to and generational trauma each of her characters deal with. To find more about Loigman's novels, visit her website l⁠yndacohenloigman.com ⁠ as well as on social media. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share and subscribe. For all the links and info, visit ⁠linktree.com/juliabendis⁠

On this episode Julia talked about her matchmaking clients, unrealistic criteria, shallow requests and overall how her matchmaking service operates. For more information about matchmaking, to be added to her database or more on numerology, visit matchbyjulia.com

Julia interviewed author Heidi Shertok about her novel Unorthodox Love, and her book in the works about a matchmaker. They talked about what her faith means to her, writing books about Orthodox Jewish characters and her battle with breast cancer. Of course they went off topic and ended up chatting about Israel, debunking stereotypes and fake news as well as so much more. You can find her book on Amazon and anywhere that books are sold. For more information about Heidi Shertok, her books and life, visit her website heidishertok.com and follow her on social media. Enjoy this episode and as always, please share and subscribe if you haven't yet.

Julia Bendis and her husband interviewed @TomEckert  about his Numerology teachings, his podcast Numerology GPS for the soul, what the numbers in your birthdate and name say about you, your life path, personality and what you are meant to be in this life! Tom is a Numerology and Dharma expert and teacher who has been studying and helping people for over twenty years. They discussed the meaning of our birth dates and what the numbers in our names can tell us about our life path, our personality and how we related to others. You can learn more about Tom and his teachings on his website at tom-eckert.com and through his podcast and youtube channel Numerology-GPS for the soul. For more information about Numerology, Julia's database and matchmaking - please visit matchbyjulia.com and feel free to share and subscribe for more episodes.

On this episode, Julia spoke with a very special mother and daughter duo, Layla and Nurhan from laylaorahealing.com After Julia's father passed away she was searching for a medium to see if she can connect with him. Because his death was so sudden and completely unexpected - she was trying to come to terms with it and make sure he was still somehow around. They met almost by accident at a Psychic and Medium convention, but listen to hear the whole story and what Layla shared with Julia about her father's visits to her! Layla is a certified Quantum Bio Energy Healer who has worked with people all over the world. She utilizes quantum energy for personalized healing sessions, addressing physical or emotional health issues. Nurhan is a life and wellness coach who helps people  uncover practical, real-life solutions to their challenges and struggles. Enjoy and don't forget to subscribe and share this episode. For more information about Julia's work and numerology charts visit matchbyjulia.com or all the links at: linktree.com/juliabendis To learn more about Layla and Nurhan, visit their website: laylaorahealing.com

On this episode, Julia spoke with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, who are friendship and dating coaches teaching strategies and skills that empower autistic and neurodivergent adults to find community, make friends, start dating, and build relationships.  Ilana has over 16 years of experience as a special education teacher in New York City and Jeremy has over 14 years of experience as a social coach for autistic and neurodivergent adults.  Their passion is their cutting-edge strategy and skills program, called Social Life 360, which teaches their clients how to confidently meet new people, and bring them into their life. You can find more information about their work and program at mybestsociallife.com - don't forget to subscribe and share this episode matchbyjulia.com linktree.com/juliabendis

On this episode Julia spoke with her old co host and friend Scott Jacobson. They talked about how Israel is always held to a different standard, the friends they lost because of what's going on there, Julia shared messages she has received from people she thought were friends and where all the hatred is stemming from. Hope you enjoy the show - don't forget to subscribe and share!

Julia Bendis talks to Andrea LaRosa about managing expectations in relationships, creating challenges where there shouldn't be any and what good sex for women truly means! Julia also does a Tarot card reading for Andrea. Just in time for Valentine's Day get some insights from these two matchmakers and relationship coaches.

Israel, PTSD & our collective mental health. Julia speaks with psychotherapist Dr. Lappen about the events of October 7th, the massacre in Israel and how the Jewish people globally are struggling. You can get more info on Dr. Lappen at amylappenphd.com - Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode

Julia talks about the crazy dating stories and client's criteria. Do you have a crazy dating story you'd like to share? Email it to julia@matchbyjulia.com or message on Instagram @matchbyjulia

What is it about accomplished and established women that sends men packing? Why are them intimidated by success? And what does it say about you when you refuse to work with a matchmaker, even if it's free... Listener feedback is encouraged. Send your comments and questions to juliabendis@gmail.com

Julia and Lori talk about the lack of communication in life and dating these days, how dating has changed and how young people only text! They discussed what we pass down to our kids through our genes, doing online dating while not fully present, negativity and being jaded. And so much more... Don't forget to subscribe!

How does one go from being a famous fashion designer appearing on magazine covers to matchmaking? Julia talks to Lori about her intuition, matchmaking, needing to know yourself first prior to looking for a relationship as well as our honest opinion about therapy. They talk about their own childhood trauma as well meditation and its healing powers. Tune in to hear it all and laugh your butts off too! To learn more about Lori Mendelsohn's services visit: smartfunnysingle.com More about Julia's services: linktree.com/juliabendis

Julia and her guest Andrea LaRosa dive into the matchmaking industry, how to date like a PRO, what not to put on your profile and the shallow world of dating today. Andrea is a relationship and dating coach as well an author of a book for men called Get the Girl: Dating the high-value woman available on Amazon. You can find more information on her website: datesmartermatchmaking.com To find more about Julia's services, visit: matchbyjulia.com or comment below

It's been a year since the last episode, welcome back. We talk about kids going off to college, new chapter of life, therapy and how does one find their purpose in life?

Society and women themselves put so much pressure on having perfect bodies, so what do you do when you lose your perfect tits to breast cancer? You turn it into an acclaimed comedic theatre production of course! I chatted with Amy Marcs, a voiceover artist, actor and educator who turned a tragedy into an amazing show, all along helping others heal in their journey. Tips on what NOT to say to someone battling cancer, how to deal with the process and why everyone has a story to tell, no matter how small or painful it might be. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Leeza Steindorf shares her 20+ year experience, practice & how she heals one person at a time. Leeza is a Forbes Coaches Council executive coach, a Canfield Success Trainer, former Tony Robbins Results Coach and host of the public TV show “Live With Leeza”. Generational trauma, healing, gender societal roles, feminine and masculine qualities as well as her answers to many pressing questions. For more information visit leezasteindorf.com or coresuccess.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Sharmin Smith - Presidential candidate, author describes what it's really like for women who decide to run for government office. Her story of overcoming abuse, harassment and what she continues to endure because of her campaign and being a woman. They discussed the Royal Blood theory and its relation to all of U.S. Presidents, her life before and after starting a bid for Presidency and why being a woman in politics is not for the faint of heart. You can find her book 'Taming the Tita' on all online book sellers like Barnes 'n Noble and Amazon. She is currently writing her second book, make sure to follow her on Twitter and Facebook to hear the latest news about it and her campaign for Presidency. Visit sharminsmith.com for more information --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Replay of Julia's talk on Valentine's Day with Matthew Solomon, Sequoia Stafford and Sharmin Smith on #clubhouse #app Why most of us do not like #ValentinesDay, the pressure to perform, when no means no and why men are still programmed to force #sex on their partner. They discussed everything from #tantra #bdsm and why porn is killing relationships, especially in young generations. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Julia spoke with Dr. Jai about her thoughts on older women dating younger men, international dating scene, and how you marry the entire family and not just the person. What do you think? Listen and let us know your thoughts! To learn more about Dr. Jai, follow her on Instagram @askdrjai and on her website at strategicladies.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Julia and Scott spoke to Matthew Solomon about his best-selling book 'Man School: Relating with Women in the #metoo era', mansplaining, coaching and his new film 'Sex in Cars' that's out in the film festivals now. For more on his work visit: matthewsolomonconsulting.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Another episode that covered many topics - do you suffer from SAD (seasonal affective disorder), winter blues? Doctors and people of power who take advantage of their status and abuse patience, Julia shares her own experience with a chiropractor who operated next door to a strip club, sports doctors and more! Subscribe and let us know what you think! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Julia interviewed Rebecca Adams whose podcast has garnered thousands of listeners due to the many true stories of female infidelity. Rebecca opened up about her own story and the reason she wanted to do her podcast. Are you curious about why women cheat? This was a very deep and interesting discussion. Does our society still hold only the women responsible for the affair? Is it always just about sex or is it more? Are people craving a connection? Listen to this episode and follow Rebecca's podcast on all platforms - Raw Truth: Stories of female infidelity Don't forget to subscribe, follow and leave your comments! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Julia talks to Erika Ettin from alittlenudge.com all about online dating. Do's and Don'ts, what photos to use and which to delete. Etiquette, messaging, how they both hate group photos (and sunglasses), they went over all the labels, abbreviations, preferences and pronouns! So much to learn. Make sure to follow @alittlenudge on Instagram as well as @juliabendis for funny stories, crazy clients and real advice on dating. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Julia spoke with comedian Alyce Chan about her journey into comedy, post-partum depression and how isolating and lonely motherhood can be. Alyce created BYOB (bring your own baby) comedy shows that continue to be a huge hit with new parents. You can find her funny videos and more on Instagram @momcomnyc Make sure to subscribe! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We talked about the tragedy on #rust set, #alecbaldwin shooting a cinematographer, #davechapelle and his unfunny #closer special on #netflix. I guess there are #spacejews ... And I asked Scott what it was like to be in a #psychward Don't miss it. Follow us on Youtube for the video of each podcast, review, leave us a comment and share! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We talked about mixing vaccines and how that's not smart, HPV vaccine and how we do not trust Doctors... Oh and police conducting "Coffee with a Cop" in the wrong communities. As you can imagine they are doing it in wealthy, white neighborhoods instead of where they should be doing those in... Don't forget to subscribe, leave us a review and send us comments to hadtosayitpodcast@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We started with football and how Julian Edelman is still the hottest dude ever, teaching dogs how to speak with buttons and online dating. Mainly why there are way too many labels, abbreviations and too many pronouns to remember. Whatever happed to just straight, gay, bisexual? People can't expect anyone over the age of 40 to understand and remember most of them... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Sequoia Stafford is on a mission to take the pain and suffering out of love and sex. She's the bestselling author of It's Hard! Sexual Satisfaction Secrets to Beat ED and I'm Not Jealous: The Ethical Non-Monogamist's Guide to Free Love Relationships Without Suffering. She guides couples to find reverence in moments of intimacy and supports them to open doors to sacred partnerships, whether those are monogamous or not. We invite you to listen and open your mind to the possibilities of multiple relationships, healing yourself from your past and being able to live in the present. Sequioa is offering a FREE 30 minute consultation to all our listeners (for a limited time). Visit her website at freelovemodel.com to heal, learn what possibilities are out there for a happy and fulfilling life and relationships, as well as gain knowledge on meditation, self-love and being able to stay in the present. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app