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#278: Buddhist Strategies for Financial Abundance, Featuring Zeina Halim Jan 24, 2022 Today, we feature the work of Zeina Halim, a beloved member and small group leader in our Tuesday training group at Stanford, who specializes in the treatment of anxiety. This is Zeina's third appearance on our podcast. Previously she helped us with a fabulous program on family conflicts at the start of the pandemic (Corona Cast 3, 4-06-2020) and later did live some personal work on one of the Self-Defeating Beliefs, the Achievement Addiction (Podcasts 211, 10-12-2020, and 212, 10-19-2020). Today Zeina brings us something radically different: Buddhist Strategies for Financial Abundance. What in the world does that mean, and why should you care? She starts by describing her study of Buddhist practices, and cites some books that have inspired her, including The Diamond Cutter: The Buddha on Managing Your Business and Your Life, by Geshe Michael Roach. Zeina explains the quasi-mystical concept of “Karma,” which is the idea that you get what you give. In other words, the energy and spirit you convey to others, and to the universe, will come back to you. For example, when clients who are not a good fit for her practice contact her, Zeina goes out of her way to help those clients find a great fit with another therapist. This “Karmic practice,” she explains, has paradoxically caused many patients to suddenly seem to show up, asking for treatment. In other words, when she meets the needs of others, the universe meets her needs. She says that she doesn't need to do very much at all of the kinds of traditional marketing that most other therapists do in an attempt to build their practices. This “karmic practice” has been mostly sufficient and far more effective than traditional marketing methods. This is a theme that I (David) resonated with, since I also give away almost everything for free, and have received an abundance of positive and loving gifts from the universe in return. Zeina cautions that this, and all Buddhist practices, must be done with balance and thoughtfulness: “When I started, I gave too much, and this can actually cause self-harm.” She said that some people have raised the question: “But isn't this an inherently selfish practice, since you are hoping for abundance for yourself?” Her response to this is that when you receive financial abundance, you can give even more to others for free. She also described another book of Geshe Michael Roach's, The Karma of Love, where you try to give to the other person and meet their needs instead of worrying about whether they're loving you enough or meeting your needs. In a previous relationship, this led to inner peace and, paradoxically, she felt much more loved, although nothing observable had changed in the way her partner treated her. The change in her feeling loved all came from changes SHE made, not her partner. This aligns very closely with the TEAM-CBT approach to relationships, as well as the teachings of most religions. We also discussed group TEAM-CBT vs. individual therapy. I described my phenomenal experiences in Philadelphia creating a large intensive group therapy program at my hospital, which was in a rough, inner city neighborhood. Most of our patients had few resources, and many could not read or write. Some were homeless. The program was more or less free to all of them, and our patients and their families gave us so much in return. I was absolutely thrilled that Zeina also loves doing therapy in groups. Many patients and therapists alike think of group therapy as a kind of inferior approach, but my experience has been the opposite. If given the choice, I'd treat everyone in groups. Zeina will be starting a TEAM-CBT anxiety group within a week of this podcast. The group will focus on all the anxiety disorders, such as chronic worrying, shyness, phobias, OCD, PTSD, and more. There will be one group for adults and one for young adults, aged 18-24. If you're interested, feel free to text Zeina at 1-408-412-5678, email her at ZeinaHalimTherapy@gmail.com or visit her website at ZeinaHalimTherapy.com As an aside, we'll find out if Zeina's Buddhist Karmic Marketing works. She did not ask me to promote her group. I just decided to promote it a little bit because I'm so excited about what she's doing, and I hope her practice grows and prospers to the max! Thanks for joining us today! If you like what we're doing, tell your friends about the podcasts. Your word of mouth is our main and only source of marketing. This year, we'll see the five millionth download of our podcasts. Thanks so much for your support and for making it all happen! Rhonda, Zeina and David
Photo features Taylor and her husband, Gregg, who is an ER / ICU physician in NYC. 263: OCD in Kids, Featuring Dr. Taylor Chesney Rhonda starts this podcast by reading two incredible endorsements from fans like you. Thanks so much for the many kind and thoughtful emails we receive daily! Today's podcast features Dr. Taylor Chesney, the founder and director of the Feeling Good Institute of New York City. Taylor was a member of my Tuesday training group at Stanford for several years during her doctoral training in psychology. Then she and her husband, Gregg, who is an ICU / intensive care unit doctor, returned home to NYC where she opened her clinical practice. We have featured Taylor on a number of two previous podcasts: Corona Cast 4 (published 4-09-202) and Corona Cast 6 (published 4-30-2020). We always benefit greatly from Taylor's wisdom, warmth, and superb teaching. Taylor specializes in TEAM-CBT for children and teens, and tells us today about the upsurge in OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) in young people, and how she approaches this problem using TEAM-CBT along with some family therapy. Taylor describes OCD as a pattern of intrusive thoughts, fears, and images that trigger feelings of anxiety. In addition, the patient engages in a series of repetitious, supposititious behaviors in an effort to avoid the fear. Sometimes the parents may get caught up in the child's fears as well and engage in the compulsive rituals as well. The fears Taylor sees in children are similar to the fears reported by adults with OCD, such as the fear of contamination, and the compulsive habit of repeated handwashing, and more. But especially common in kids are fears that loved ones, like parents, won't come home or will be hurt. Common OCD rituals in children include wanting things to be a certain way; for example, organizing your desk meticulously, arranging your pencils, and so forth. The patient often feels that he or she can't stop or something terrible will happen. Another common fear is getting sick, and needing repeated reassurance that the food the child is eating is safe. David asked about the Hidden Emotion Model that is common and often helpful in adults with OCD, or any anxiety disorder. For example, if a child fears that a parent will be hurt, might this suggest that the child has repressed angry feelings toward the parent? Taylor confirmed that this dynamic was, in fact, common in children as well as adults with OCD. She emphasized the need for an alliance with the parents as a part of the treatment team. This might include urging the child to express his or her anger, wants, and so forth. Taylor speculated that the increase she's seen in OCD may be the result of the COVID pandemic, and the uncertainty we all feel. Children have a great need for love, empathy, structure, and certainty, and OCD is just one pattern that the increase in anxiety can take. At the start of treatment, Taylor does an initial intake session with the parents, followed by two sessions with the child, and in both cases attempts to empathize and form an alliance via the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. She also wants to find out who the “patient” really is. Who is asking for help? Is it the child? Or the parents? She also wants to know who will do the work of the therapy. If the child doesn't see the OCD symptoms as a problem, she will work with the parents. Sometimes there's a mismatch as to what the problem is. The parents might want the child to get help with procrastination on schoolwork or household chores, but the child might want help with shyness and relationships with other kids. She describes how she uses TEAM to show the child that his or her symptoms reflect his or her core values, but that they can turn down the intensity of the fears using the Magic Dial. She emphasized a role for psychoeducation in the treatment as well, explaining the evolutionary and protective role of anxiety. It's just that sometimes the volume gets turned up to unnecessary levels. She said that the parents are a huge part of the treatment, since the problem “lives in the house,” and the parents may fear what might happen if the child does not engage in the rituals. And, of course, Exposure and Response Prevention are important keys to successful treatment, just as they are in adults. Taylor described a compelling example of a teenager with an intense fear of vomiting in the middle of the night, who had resorted to a variety of rituals including avoiding dinner, secretly sleeping in his bathroom just in case. and more. Together, she guided him in the creation of a hierarchy of exposures as well as Positive Reframing of his symptoms. He successfully completed his treated in just six sessions. Taylor offers a 12-week introductory course on TEAM-CBT with children and adolescents, and is a superb and highly esteemed teacher. For more information, you can contact Taylor@FeelingGoodInstitute.com or look for her on the website of the www,FeelingGoodInstitute.com Rhonda and David
Wow. Damit hätten wohl die Wenigsten von euch gerechnet. Nach nun fünf Coronainfektionen innerhalb weniger Tage muss die komplette Mannschaft für 14 Tage in Quarantäne. Damit fallen die Spiele gegen Mainz, Freiburg und Schalke aus. Wir sprechen über die Folgen dieser Entwicklungen und reden natürlich auch wieder über Fredi Bobic. Außerdem gehen wir ausführlich auf euer Feedback zur letzten Sendung ein. Viel Spaß! Wir wünschen euch ganz viel Spaß mit der Folge und freuen uns über eure Kommentare. Teilt den Podcast gerne mit euren Freunden, der Familie oder Bekannten. Wir freuen uns über alle Hörer*innen. Photo: IMAGO #hahohe #podcast #herthabsc #bundesliga #herthabase Besucht unsere Webseite www.herthabase.de --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/herthabase/message
Wow. Damit hätten wohl die Wenigsten von euch gerechnet. Nach nun fünf Coronainfektionen innerhalb weniger Tage muss die komplette Mannschaft für 14 Tage in Quarantäne. Damit fallen die Spiele gegen Mainz, Freiburg und Schalke aus. Wir sprechen über die Folgen dieser Entwicklungen und reden natürlich auch wieder über Fredi Bobic. Außerdem gehen wir ausführlich auf euer Feedback zur letzten Sendung ein. Viel Spaß! Wir wünschen euch ganz viel Spaß mit der Folge und freuen uns über eure Kommentare. Teilt den Podcast gerne mit euren Freunden, der Familie oder Bekannten. Wir freuen uns über alle Hörer*innen. Photo: IMAGO #hahohe #podcast #herthabsc #bundesliga #herthabase Besucht unsere Webseite www.herthabase.de --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/herthabase/message
Wow. Damit hätten wohl die Wenigsten von euch gerechnet. Nach nun fünf Coronainfektionen innerhalb weniger Tage muss die komplette Mannschaft für 14 Tage in Quarantäne. Damit fallen die Spiele gegen Mainz, Freiburg und Schalke aus. Wir sprechen über die Folgen dieser Entwicklungen und reden natürlich auch wieder über Fredi Bobic. Außerdem gehen wir ausführlich auf euer Feedback zur letzten Sendung ein. Viel Spaß! Wir wünschen euch ganz viel Spaß mit der Folge und freuen uns über eure Kommentare. Teilt den Podcast gerne mit euren Freunden, der Familie oder Bekannten. Wir freuen uns über alle Hörer*innen. Photo: IMAGO #hahohe #podcast #herthabsc #bundesliga #herthabase Besucht unsere Webseite www.herthabase.de --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/herthabase/message...
Wow. Damit hätten wohl die Wenigsten von euch gerechnet. Nach nun fünf Coronainfektionen innerhalb weniger Tage muss die komplette Mannschaft für 14 Tage in Quarantäne. Damit fallen die Spiele gegen Mainz, Freiburg und Schalke aus. Wir sprechen über die Folgen dieser Entwicklungen und reden natürlich auch wieder über Fredi Bobic. Außerdem gehen wir ausführlich auf euer Feedback zur letzten Sendung ein. Viel Spaß! Wir wünschen euch ganz viel Spaß mit der Folge und freuen uns über eure Kommentare. Teilt den Podcast gerne mit euren Freunden, der Familie oder Bekannten. Wir freuen uns über alle Hörer*innen. Photo: IMAGO #hahohe #podcast #herthabsc #bundesliga #herthabase Besucht unsere Webseite www.herthabase.de --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/herthabase/message...
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Lockdown ohne Weihnachtsgottesdienst aber mit Gebet am Ende. Wir reden unter anderem über Corona, wie sollten sich Kirchen im Lockdown verhalten und welche Weihnachtstraditionen haben wir so im Familienkreis ... super spannen
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Corona Cast 8: Live Therapy with Dan. How Could You Treat an “Existential Depression” in the Midst of a Pandemic? Today David and Dr. Jill Levitt feature live work with Dan, a licensed clinical social worker who’s been struggling with an “existential depression” for 15 years, but it has been recently exacerbated by the COVID-19 pandemic. The session took place in one hour and forty minutes on a Tuesday evening on July 23rd, 2020, in David’s and Jill’s Tuesday training group at Stanford. Live personal work is one form of training that is vital to professional growth and learning, so it is extremely beneficial for the person who volunteers for the role of “patient.” At the same time, the live work also provides superb learning for those observing the process, since you can see what is really happening during a T.E.A.M. therapy session. Hopefully, you will learn a great deal as you listen to Dan’s live and uncensored therapy session. Jill and I feel very grateful to Dan for allowing us to publish such an intensely painful and personal experience. You will likely feel grateful to Dan as well! All live therapy sessions tend to be dramatic and illuminating from a variety of perspectives. Today’s session is unique in that the A = Assessment of Resistance was outstanding and unique. The remarkable changes that occurred would not have been possible without outstanding E = Empathy and A = Assessment of Resistance, which were stellar. However, the M = Methods portion of the session was also strong, especially in the use of humor and role-reversals during the Externalization of Voices to blast Dan’s Negative Thoughts out of the water. That portion of the session confirmed by the three basic tenants of cognitive therapy: You FEEL the way you THINK. All of your negative feelings are caused by your thoughts in the here-and-now, and not by the actual events in your life. In other words, the COVID-19 pandemic cannot “cause” anyone to feel depressed or anxious. Depression and anxiety are the world’s oldest cons. When you’re depressed, anxious, or angry, the Negative Thoughts that upset you will not be valid. They’ll be distorted and illogical. Depression and anxiety are the world’s oldest cons. You can see the ten cognitive distortions I first published in my book, Feeling Good, at the bottom of Dan’s Daily Mood Log (link). You can CHANGE the way you FEEL. The very instant you stop believing your distorted thoughts, your feelings will change. Recovery is not a long, drawn-out process that requires weeks, months, years or decades, as so many people believe, including the majority of mental health professionals. Recovery happens in a flash, an unexpected “ah-ha” moment when your perceptions of the world are suddenly transformed. You will witness such an event in today’s session. Now let’s see what actually happened! T = Testing Take a look at Dan’s Brief Mood Survey (BMS) at the start of the session. He was feeling moderate to severe depression, no suicidal impulses, and just a little anxiety and anger. His Happiness score was quite low, only 7 out of 20, paralleling his depression score of 12, and his satisfaction with his relationship with his wife was a perfect 30 out of 30. He indicated he’d been doing a lot of psychotherapy homework. This, by the way, is the latest version of the BMS. We’ll ask him to complete it again at the end of the session to see what changes occurred during the session. Because the BMS asks how Dan is feeling “right now,” it’s like an emotional x-ray machine, allowing therapists to see exactly how much, or how little, a patient is changing at every therapy session. The patient’s scores at the start of the next session also allow the therapist to see exactly what happens between sessions in multiple dimensions. At the end of today’s session, Dan will also fill out the Evaluation of Therapy Session (ETS), and rate Jill and David on Empathy, Helpfulness, and Session Satisfaction, and indicate how willing he is to do psychotherapy homework, whether he had unexpressed negative feelings during the session, and whether he had difficulty filling out any of the survey questions honestly. The BMS and ETS are invaluable tools that have been game-changers in psychotherapy. To my way of thinking, it is difficult, if not impossible, to do good therapy, much less outstanding therapy, without these powerful and extremely accurate tools. They have the potential to radically transform clinical work and have been an important key in the evolution of TEAM. E = Empathy After briefly reviewing Dan’s starting scores on the BMS, Jill and David empathized while reviewing the Daily Mood Log that Dan filled out prior to the start of the session. The upsetting event was sitting at home on a Friday night with nothing to do, since his wife was studying for an upcoming exam. He points out that when he’s busy doing therapy, he generally feels fine, but sometimes when he has nothing specific to do, intense negative feelings suddenly hit him and take all the joy out of life. As you can see, his feelings on his Daily Mood Log are similar to his feelings on the Brief Mood Survey but some are far more intense, since he’s focusing on a moment of angst. If you look at his Negative Thoughts, you will see that they all revolve around a common theme that life has no meaning, since people are suffering and dying all over the world, and since all of us will also die one day. He says, “the good things that happen are just like dust in the wind,” and tells himself that “life is unfair.” Dan explains that in the last couple of years he’s experienced several painful events. He got married, but got divorced after just three months when things did not work out with his wife. But he’d sold his condo, and his practice was not going well, and he could barely pay his bills, so he had to move back home with his mother, who then died of cancer. Then, right after she died, things suddenly took a turn in a far more positive direction. He began dating and found an extremely loving and wonderful woman in 2017, whom he married last October, and his clinical practice began to blossom around the same time, so he and his wife were able to purchase a new home. But still, the Negative Thoughts kept popping unexpectedly into his mind, and they can turn feelings of joy (“Wow! I really came back”) into despair in an instant (“I’ll probably lose everything again, and it makes no difference because I’ll eventually die.") David pointed out this is a little like PTSD, when you’re suddenly reminded of a previous trauma and get overwhelmed by angst. And the frequency and intensity of these sudden despair attacks have increased since the start of the pandemic. Dan gave Jill and David an “A” on empathy after about 30 minutes of listening without trying to “help,” and this was a sign that we could move on to the next portion of the session. A = Assessment of Resistance Jill asked Dan if he wanted help tonight, or needed more time to talk and vent. He said he was ready to roll up his sleeves and get to work. His goal was to reduce or eliminate his negative thoughts and feelings, if that was possible. Jill asked if he’d press a “Magic Button,” if that would cause all of his negative thoughts and feelings to instantly disappear completely, with no effort, and he said he would. Almost everyone says they’d push it—which is completely understandable. When you’re in great pain, we all want relief! Jill indicated that we did have powerful tools, but weren’t convinced it would be such a good idea to use them to eliminate Dan’s feelings, and suggested we might first make a list of indicating: What each negative thought and feeling showed about Dan and his core values that were positive and awesome. How his negative thoughts and feelings might be helping him. Doing this skillfully is an art form, since it is radically different from the inept “cheerleading” so many therapists and family members attempt when a loved one is feeling down. You will hear this process unfolding when you listen to the audio of the session. Notice how Dan’s memories of the death of his older brother when he was just three years old and the recent death of his mother bring tears to his eyes, and help him change the way he thinks about his angst, not as something “bad,” but as something beautiful that honors his mother and his brother who passed away. But this is just the tip of the iceberg, as a long list of positives emerges during this portion of the session, which is designed to melt away subconscious “resistance” to change. The A = Assessment of Resistance is really the secret key that opens the door to the possibility of rapid, profound, and lasting change. David and Jill make it look easy, but it is, in reality, quite challenging to learn, because it goes against the very grain of our human inclination to try to “help.” Instead, Jill and David are assuming the role of Dan’s resistance, and showing him, in a gentle and loving way, that his negative thoughts and feelings are not actually symptoms of a defect or “mental disorder, but are really the manifestation of something positive and beautiful about Dan. David and Jill are selling Dan on the status quo and are still NOT trying to “help.” Paradoxically, this procedure typically has the opposite effect of greatly intensifying the patient’s determination to change. But now, the therapists have put Dan into a confusional state, and bind. On the one hand, he desperately wants to change. He doesn’t want to continue throwing cold water on the cherished positive moments in his life. But at the same time, if he presses the Magic Button, all of the positives will go down the drain along with his negative feelings. This is resolved with the Magic Dial. David and Jill ask Dan if he’d be willing to dial his negative feelings down to some lower level instead of lowering them all the way to zero. You can see his goals for each negative feeling on the “% Goal” column of his Daily Mood Log. M = Methods Now David asks Dan which Negative Thought he wants to work on first. He chooses this one: “It’s pointless in life to strive towards anything, because, in the end, we are all going to die.” Dan believes this thought 80%. While identifying some of the many distortions in this thought, he comes up with this Positive Thought: “Some things are worth striving for!” This thought is 100% true, and his belief in the Negative Thought suddenly drops to 10%, as you can see on his Daily Mood Log (Daily Mood Log.) Next, he wants to work on this thought, which he believes 60%: “People are dying in the world right now, so I don’t deserve to relax and have fun.” After identifying five distortions in this thought, he challenges it with this Positive Thought: “Although the deaths of so many people are tragic, it isn’t my fault that people are dying all over the world.” Dan rates his belief in this thought at 100%, and his belief in the Negative Thought drops to zero. Then he decides to work on this thought: “I’ve had so many good things happen in the last several years, but I can’t enjoy them, since it’s inevitable that I’ll lose those things.” He adds, “After all, what goes up, must come down!” After a couple of rounds of Externalization of Voices with Jill, he still couldn’t completely crush this thought, so David steps in to give it a try, with Dan playing the role of the Negative Thoughts and David playing the role of Dan’s Positive Thoughts. David interrupts Dan’s verbalization of this thought with some irreverent Buddhist humor. At that moment, Dan suddenly “gets it,” and the floodgates open up as Dan crushes the thought. Some people have called this “ah-ha” moments the “cognitive click.” It’s like waking up from a trance or nightmare, and the patient suddenly sees the world in a radically new and far more realistic light. Jill and David complete the M = Methods portion of the session by challenging the rest of Dan’s Negative Thoughts using Externalization of Voices, including role-reversals with the Self-Defense Paradigm and the Acceptance Paradox. I think you will find these exchange fascinating, and you will hear the tides coming in and the tides going out as Dan sometimes struggles and then defeats all of his Negative Thoughts. You can review Dan’s end-of-session mood ratings on his Daily Mood Log as well as his end-of-session Brief Mood Survey and his ratings of Jill and David on the Evaluation of Therapy Session. The Necessary and Sufficient Conditions for Emotional Change If you look at Dan's Daily Mood Log at the end of the session , you will see that the belief in each Positive Thought was high, and that his belief in the corresponding Negative Thoughts was drastically reduced. This is exactly why his feeling suddenly changed so dramatically. Cognitive Therapy (including TEAM) is NOT about telling yourself positive things or uttering positive affirmations. Instead, it's about crushing the distorted thoughts that trigger all of your negative feelings. The very moment you stop believing your Negative Thoughts, your feeling will instantly change. At the end of the session, Jill gives Dan a critically important “homework” assignment. Listening to the audio of a session and doing written work with the Daily Mood Log are vitally important aspects of TEAM. What happens between sessions is just as important as what happens within sessions! Thank you for listening today, and a HUGE thanks to Dan! I hope you learned a ton, on many different practical plus philosophical levels, and enjoyed today’s live therapy session! The Tuesday group at Stanford is free to all Bay Area mental health professionals as well as graduate students in some form of mental health training. The only “fees” involve a commitment to consistent attendance and the willingness to use the BMS and ETS with all patients, plus the willingness to do homework between Tuesday groups so you can really learn and master the very challenging TEAM techniques. Rhonda and David
We zitten in de tweede golf van Corona. En we horen van vele kanten allerlei berichten. En omdat we wat behoefte hadden aan duiding hebben we Nandine van Oosten weer uitgenodigd. Nandine is infectie preventie deskundige en houdt zich dagelijks bezig met virussen zoals Corona. En dat het drukke tijden zijn voor infectie preventie moge...
Sergio Gonzalez makes his triumphant return with Guns, Tattoos, and a brand new attitude to the Like An Adult barnyard. If you Rate and review the podcast on iTunes we will read your comment on air, and give you a shout out. No matter what you write.
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk about a cars on Carvana, finding a mechanic, Kittle and Kelce’s extensions, Ezra’s trip to Kentucky, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast! Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and check out our merch! Merch Link: https://teespring.com/stores/porchtalk Everything else: https://linktr.ee/porchtlk
Season 3 episode 11 is another Corona Cast because we are still in the throws of and can't stop talking about the pandemic. We talk about a change of scenery and how good it is for your soul. That P in pandemic stands for pissed off. And, I school Megan on what it means to pitch a Jersey fit. Bear with us as I was recording from the Jersey Shore with out electricity so it is a bit glitchy ( as the cool kids say) in spots. Please share this and or any episodes with your friends and don't forget to leave a rating and review so more peeps can laugh with us.
Today, Rhonda and David discuss seven great questions submitted by podcast fans like you! Are depression and anxiety states of self-hypnosis? How do you deal with somatic symptoms in TEAM? Should we forgive Hitler and Stalin? What if a patient feels stuck and unable to identify emotions? Do you still really believe that depression and anxiety, regardless how severe, can be treated even without the use of prescription drugs? Do you have to work on your negative thoughts the moment they appear? What role, from your years of practice, does spirituality have in the psychotherapy? Are depression and anxiety states of self-hypnosis? Hi David, I have two questions after listening to Corona Cast 7: “My Struggle with Covid-19! Is it REALLY True that only Our Thoughts Can Upset Us?” I was struck by thinking of anxiety as the result of hypnotizing ourselves into believing our fears. Can depression by thought of in a similar way, except that we hypnotize ourselves into believing our distorted thoughts about ourselves? How do you deal with somatic symptoms in TEAM? Can you do an episode about how to deal with unpleasant somatic situations, as Michael was experiencing during the recording, that suggest there might be some psychological distress but don't seem to have thoughts associated with them? Thanks! Hi Derek, Another great couple of questions, thanks! Will add these to the next Ask David podcast, but the short story is yes, for sure—both depression and anxiety can be thought of as states of self-hypnosis, or trances, because you believe the messages you give yourself, (eg your negative thoughts) that are not true. I think one could add other positive and negative emotions to the list as well, including anger--believing the other person really IS wrong, bad, inferior, and so forth--as well as mania and narcissism, telling yourself that you really ARE a superior person, etc. This is a hugely important topic, and "emotional reasoning" fuels these trances: I FEEL worthless / inferior, so I must BE worthless / inferior, and so forth. With regard to your second question, you might want to listen to yesterday’s live session with Sarah, (Podcast 193, https://feelinggood.com/category/dr-davids-blogs/feeling-good-podcast/) since it focuses on intense somatic sensations generated by emotions, and you can actually hear the exact moment of recovery, when the physical sensations disappeared. David Should we forgive Hitler and Stalin? Hi Dr. Burns, Do you honestly think what Hitler and Stalin did should be forgiven? Albert Ellis said one should. I disagree! Tom Hi Tom, I only help people with problems they are asking for help with. I am not an evangelist or moral authority! David What if a patient feels stuck and unable to identify emotions? A new comment on the post "Uncovering Self-Defeating Beliefs (SDBs)--For Therapists (and Interested Patients) Only!"/ Hi Dr. Burns, Awesome blog post! Your accessible and kind demeanor shine through clearly. What if a client feels stuck and unable to identify emotions? Holly Do you still really believe that depression and anxiety, regardless how severe can be treated even without the use of prescription drugs? Hi Doctor Burns, My name is Jasmine, and I just started going back to therapy about a year ago. I have really improved, and both my mom AND my therapist recommended you HIGHLY. I’m a millennial and I’m just happy you are still alive! I also wanted to ask, do you still really believe even today that depression and anxiety, regardless how severe can treated even without the use of prescription drugs? I am asking because I just bought about three of your books and want to make sure that your confidence in these theories has not wavered. Sometimes I feel like a lost cause because this is the first time in my life that I am truly dealing with and facing my own problems instead of turning the other cheek. Also, how are you doing, sir? Jasmine Hi Jasmine, Doing great, thanks! The new techniques have added even more power to cognitive therapy. Check out my free Feeling Good Podcasts, free depression class, and more on my website, www.feelinggood.com. All the best, David PS My latest book, Feeling Great, can be pre-ordered on Amazon and will be released in Sept. Check our the link below. Do you have to work on your negative thoughts the moment they appear? Hello David, My name is Shivam, I wanted to ask you a question regarding the double column technique for disputing your thoughts. Do we have to work on that moment(upsetting) immediately as it happens or we can work on it later when we get free time? How often should we do it? Its very effective but consumes a lot of time as I keep writing on and on. Any suggestions? I really appreciate that you reply me back. Thanks for everything. love Shivam. What role, from your years of practice, does spirituality have in the psychotherapy? From: Jerry Souta Subject: spirituality in psychotherapy David: Your seminar today (Psychotherapy Leading Voices) was awesome! What role, from your years of practice, does spirituality have in the psychotherapy? Is there a correlation between spirituality and between feeling good/feeling great? Thank you for time taken in response to my in questions! Blessings! Jerry Souta, Jr. (MSW/LCSW/MDIV) Thanks, Jerry. I will answer this on an Ask David, we will be recording it soon. Your question will be featured on a Feeling Good podcast. The short answer is yes. Deep and rapid change nearly always involves a spiritual dimension, for example, one of the four “Great Deaths” of the self. There’s a whole section on this in my new book, Feeling Great.
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk Ezra's recent alcohol adventure, states and their liquor laws, Jake Paul's fight, Mike Tyson's fight, NFL 100, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast! Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and check out our merch! Merch Link: https://teespring.com/stores/porchtalk Everything else: https://linktr.ee/porchtlk
This week Fran and Alvin discuss Pazuzu Algarad and the unsolved murder of Kanika Powell.Alvin's Story (18:00)Fran's Story (44:02)Good Vibes (01:14:31)Click The link below and try Instacart Today!https://instacart.oloiyb.net/NreRqIntro/Outro (prod. JKBeatz)Wear a mask, stay safe.
Finishing off my Corona-cast series of looking at pandemic films comes my final review of the feature. For this episode I chose 2013's The Flu as something a bit different within the genre that most people would not have heard of. Does it do the genre justice and is it worth watching? Listen and find out.
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We have Porch Talk's official DJ, DJ TC3 on and he came with the topics for us! We discuss the growth and future of the podcast, DeSean Jackson's comments, TikTok fame, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast! Follow him on Instagram and Twitter @djtc3!
Continuing my Corona-Cast feature looking at pandemic films, I've made my way up to 2011's Contagion. Is this a film I think you'll want to catch or lockdown yourself to avoid? Listen and find out.
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We discuss Paige's vacation, Ezra's new job, the wild kids Ezra works with, guns, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
Mike, Ross, Heather and Nathan get together and get nostalgic about some of their favorite video games ever. Join them as they reminisce about old Atari games and obscure titles that only Ross has heard of. Starring Mike Robertson, Ross Harris, Heather Marie Boling and Nathan Davenport. dungeoneerspodcast.com | facebook.com/dungeoneerspodcast | @dungeoneerspod
Tom, Arie & Berry zitten eindelijk weer om tafel om het er eens goed over te hebben. Er gebeurt natuurlijk niet zoveel, maar ook weer wel. Ouwehoeren over tijdritten, we bellen met Paultje Muta, we bespreken maar eens hoe het met ons zelf gaat en uiteraard komt de Harry Witterholt Classic aan bod. Gordels vast!
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We have the big Anna vs Ezra moonshine debate, talk Chris D'elia and Danny Masterson, mystery questions, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
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This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk about the Jonas Brothers, Tattoos, a potential podcast sponsor, Anna’s rats, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
Corona Cast Part 13! Follow Megan! Instagram: @msgigggles OF: @thatfatbabe CashApp: $msgigggles Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @billyisprocida Venmo: @BillyProcida CashApp: $manwhorepod Become a member of our sex-positive fanwhore communities on Patreon! Join today and support the podcast at patreon.com/manwhorepodcast! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com
In this podcast staff writers Oliver Clark and Axel Macharia talk about the 2nd phase of the state’s stay-in-place laws. They explain the rules and why it is so important for the public’s health to follow them.
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk about how tired we are of all of this, Hailey makes he return, working for Google seems lit, some Virgil memes, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
Corona Cast Part 12! Follow Megan! Instagram: @msgigggles OF: @thatfatbabe CashApp: $msgigggles Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @billyisprocida Venmo: @BillyProcida CashApp: $manwhorepod Become a member of our sex-positive fanwhore communities on Patreon! Join today and support the podcast at patreon.com/manwhorepodcast! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com
This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk about how tired we are of all of this, Paige’s only fans experience, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
Corona Cast Grokesis Edition by Moke
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No, I have not been wearing a mask.
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This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk about the Joe Rogan Spotify deal, the Call Her Daddy Drama, Trumps beef with Virginia, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
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This is the Happy Hour edition of Porch Talk, no edits, no topics, just drinking and talking s**t! This is the Corona Cast edition we took some shots drank some drinks and had a good time. Per usual when we get drunk we start talking about wild stuff in general the old days in general! We talk about the country starting to to open up, Ezra is back in the Burg, the best strategy for monopoly, and who knows what else! Don't know how often this will be a thing but with all this coronavirus stuff going on we might as well put out some more episodes! Enjoy, share with your friends, and binge the podcast!
Wir sind zurück!!!
In this episode Leonard is joined by Moji of the TV Movie Mistress Podcast and Mr. Spann from the Spann Report Podcast to discuss COVID-19. Websites: www.lbrothersmedia.com www.audibletrial.com/LookListenPod www.TheSpannReport.com https://www.houseofraeford.com/news/house-of-raeford-farms-meeting-the-community-chicken-demand/ Twitter: Leonard: @LBrothersMedia @LookListenPod @SouthEndCinema Moji: @BookDreamer01 @TvMovieMistress Spann: @Mr_Spann
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THIS EPISODE: • The Warm Up: Recap • Intermittent Fasting • After a Breakup can you go back? • Mother’s Day Specials: Gifts from the Heart Florist and Cornucopia’s Noshery • Breaking News: Coming to You Live on ZOOM! • Special Guest Alexa’s Coronavirus advice --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ilovebabylon/support
We're baaaaack, in the midst of a pandemic. We talk about our questionable health, love life (or lack there of) and what's going on in 2020.
The coronavirus is rockin' the world, but the University of Badassery is rockin' the lockdown as “Coronacation,” so this is our special “Coronacast” episode as Mac & C. J. broadcast remotely in order to keep the blaze alive! AND… in this episode we announce something brand new… something you're going to be pumped about! For two years, Mac & C. J. have discussed a project that is now launching, and it's a private, online, video-based coaching community called… “Pat Mac's Keep the Blaze Alive Coaching Squad!” The Squad is a video-based coaching community where you'll have access to premium content that Mac doesn't share on YouTube or social media including Sentinel instruction, Basic Dude Stuff, Combat Strength Training, motivation, and more. The purpose is to turn you into an absolute badass, so you can maximize every area of your life and achieve all of your goals! This is not just a place to post videos. It's a community… it's a squadron… and Mac is the squadron leader! With help from C. J. - The Metal Motivator! Mac says… “The only other people in the Squad are people just like you. Motivated people who are trying to improve their lives. No negativity. No naysayers. No haters. Just a positive community of badasses accountable to each other in order to create the best version of themselves. You'll be making some new friends—I guarantee it.” There are three levels of access, so you get to choose how you want to engage this squad. To learn more, and sign up today, visit http://patreon.com/coachingsquad. Episode 11: Question & Answers 1. I have an interview for a police job coming up. I can get the job, however, I will be explaining the dumb shit I've done in my past (specifically smoking weed for damn near 20 years and breaking into a convenience store after hours and robbing the cash register). I'm not that guy anymore and I was wondering how you would articulate that, and the fact I'd like to make up for my less than honorable past. How do you make real-world statements to political entities (they operate in the black and white, the rest of the world lives in the grey)? 2. Hey, big fan of the podcast. My friends and I were discussing this today and I thought it would be a great question/ discussion topic for the podcast: 5 finger death punch seems to me like it is becoming the Nickleback of metal. Everyone will listen to them but no one really wants to admit it. Do y'all see this as a trend, and if so why do you think that is? 3. Hello! I have another question, again about minimums. Considering the idea of the combat chassis, of course, we always strive for more and better, but what would be a good minimum body fat % to strive for? 3% is very hard, 25% is too much. 4. I've never had much interest in hobbies and Mac says he's “hobby heavy.” Does he think something like that can be developed in someone who isn't into hobbies? He makes it look like a blast. 5. How does Mac maintain his cool dealing with dumb questions… like this one?! 6. What's something about either one of you that most people don't know? 7. What do you guys think about events like concerts now? They're saying that may not come back until 2021. 8. What's the most important thing(s) to start teaching my kids about being sentinels themselves? Or more aware? 9. I'm struggling with my attitude and negativity during this crisis? Honestly, I'm anxious about it for me and my family. How do I deal with this? 10. Learning to love heavy metal, but it's weirding my wife out. What I do, dudes?! How do I explain it to her? The University of Badassery Podcast is Sponsored by Invader Coffee and Taconic Distillery PLUS... the badass heavy metal music featured at the beginning and end of this podcast is provided by our badass brother, Metal Mike Chlasciak (Halford, Sebastian Bach, Testament, Painmuseum). Get more from Metal Mike!
Join Luke and Dominic as they talk about the what's been going on since the virus sent everyone into quarantine and what they thought of Tiger King!
While Heather, Ross and Mike figure out online remote recording, they discuss some of their favorite board games that you could check out during your quarantine times. Starring Mike Robertson, Ross Harris and Heather Marie Boling. dungeoneerspodcast.com | facebook.com/dungeoneerspodcast | @dungeoneerspod
In a very different episode, when the campaign recording is impacted by the pandemic, Mike, Marshall and Mary get together to talk about the video game Death Stranding. Join us for a laid back discussion of this very weird and wild game. Starring Mike Robertson, Marshall Mills and Mary Mills. dungeoneerspodcast.com | facebook.com/dungeoneerspodcast | @dungeoneerspod
In this episode Jay and Camille discuss the impacts the Corona Virus has had on the life of college students with their daughter, Annie, and friend, Darby. We also learn about the acronym BYOBB. Don't forget to subscribe!
Welcome to the fifth episode of Herron Homies with Rebecca Entrican, Karan, and Mailinh Hồ! Today features guest stars Ben Woolford and Pim (Chanya) Ruby! In this episode we discuss corona closing down campus, hair and hygiene, and much more! Socials: Becky: https://www.instagram.com/flourescendence/ Mailinh: https://www.instagram.com/mickiesen/?hl=en Karan: https://www.instagram.com/lookatmystrong/ Ben: https://www.instagram.com/benmajean/ Pim: https://www.instagram.com/praewpraow_art/ Music: Graftin Gubocki : https://www.instagram.com/graftingubocki/