Podcast appearances and mentions of pattie ehsaei

Financial independence isn't just about luxury purchases. It could save your life. Pattie Ehsaei joins the podcast to share the powerful story behind her new book "Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook," and shares powerful insights about financial independence as the ultimate form of self-love and protection.Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this episode delivers crucial insights about protecting your financial future. Discover how financial literacy creates the freedom to build the life you truly want. Ready to transform your relationship with money and power? This conversation is your starting point.Connect with Pattie Ehsaei:https://www.pattieehsaei.com/Pattie Ehsaei on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?_t=ZP-8wqxHU59sTu&_r=1Pattie Ehsaei on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/Link to her book: https://amzn.to/45HFkFkConnect with Sabrina:https://www.instagram.com/Sabrina_Soto/www.SabrinaSoto.com

E400– "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Pattie Ehasei. Known as "The Duchess of Decorum" by her 1M followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as one of the leading financial experts today. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum, and financial independence for women have over 8.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as "How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?" "How do I make and keep a budget?" "How do I maintain my power in the workplace?" "How do I ask for a raise?" "How do I navigate male-dominated industries?" These are the types of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, and they keep her fans begging for more. She has spent the last 20 years in a multifaceted career focused on finance. From managing divisions of banking institutions, business development, investment banking, and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry and has quickly become an authority in this space. A lawyer by trade and currently a Director of Mergers & Acquisitions financing for a major national bank, Pattie is the perfect example of "tough but fair" and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Pattie's direct approach, peppered with levity and some real takeaways, made her an instant success and a highly sought-after speaker. She has delivered keynote addresses for numerous platforms and organizations, including Create & Cultivate, the Iranian American Women's Foundation, the Women's Investment Summit, the New England Women in Banking & Mortgage Conference, and the University of Denver STEM Program. She's also been a panelist for events that inspire the next generation of women, such as the Meet Me in Malibu Influencer Panel. Pattie's voice can also be seen in print on Forbes.com and MSNBC, where she shares her wisdom as a financial contributor. We will discuss her highly anticipated book, Never Date A Broke Dude. Pattie gives readers practical advice on finance and romance in this book and breaks down exactly why "a man is not a financial plan"! www.pattieehsaei.com # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. and Pattie discussed the importance of financial independence for women in relationships. Pattie emphasized that money determines power dynamics in relationships and that women should have enough financial freedom to support themselves. They also discussed the societal expectations placed on women and the need for women to have the skills and knowledge to re-enter the workforce after raising children. Pattie shared her experience of starting her TikTok channel at 50 and the challenges women face in pursuing new opportunities after a long period of not working. They discussed the importance of having a strategy rather than just hoping for success. Pattie shared her experience of wanting to become financially responsible but relying on hope instead of planning. She emphasized the need for a plan, whether it's related to finances or career development, and the importance of budgeting and acquiring necessary skills. Dr. shared her experience of spending every dollar she made and not having a plan for the future, which led her to invest. Both agreed on the importance of having a plan for personal and financial growth. Pattie discusses the importance of investing for the future and shares her experience dating a financially unstable partner. She emphasizes that investing is simpler than many think, involving just a few steps and consistent contributions. Pattie explains that her book title, "Never Date a Broke Dude," stems from her own experience, which led her into significant debt and emotional distress. She acknowledges her complicity in the situation and highlights how societal pressures can lead people to prioritize relationships over financial stability. Pattie emphasized the importance of economic independence and self-worth in relationships, stating that when one partner feels they have no choice but to stay in a relationship, they may take advantage of the other. Pattie mentions that her book addresses this issue to help women realize their value and empower themselves to seek better treatment in relationships and life. *iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i...) *Google Play (https://play.google.com/music/m/Inpl5...) *Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/) *YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/DrFoojan) *Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/DrFoojanZeine/) *Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/Dr.FoojanZeine) *Twitter (https://www.twitter.com/DrZeine/) *LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/DrFoojanZeine) *Tiktok (https:///www.tiktok.com/dr.foojanzeine)

Money—the last standing taboo in our society and the number one cause of divorce—takes center stage in this candid conversation between Sabrina Soto and Pattie Ehsaei, the "Duchess of Decorum" on TikTok. Raw, unedited, and refreshingly honest, this discussion dives deep into why financial independence remains non-negotiable for creating balanced power dynamics in relationships.The conversation tackles Pattie's viral advice to "never date a broke dude"—clarifying that it's less about someone's bank balance and more about matching "hustle for hustle." Financial compatibility means aligning ambition, responsibility, and mindset rather than dollar amounts. They discuss practical strategies for maintaining financial independence, tactical advice for improving credit scores, and five crucial questions everyone should ask before marriage. Ready to break the money taboo in your own life? Listen now and join the conversation about how financial transparency can transform both your relationship with money and your relationships with others.To watch the segment with Pattie Ehsaei and Sabrina, The Sabrina Soto Show: https://www.sabrinasoto.com/the-sabrina-soto-show/Connect with Sabrina on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sabrina_sotoConnect with Pattie Ehsaei here:https://www.pattieehsaei.com/Pattie Ehsaei on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum

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This episode is your ultimate guide to afford the holidays without all the stress and debt that can come with it. With that said, I get that it is hard to do. The holidays always feel like a time when you are expected to spend money, even when you might not have money to spend. Maybe you have a family member who is always trying to one-up your gifts, or you feel pressured to have the best gift for your boss. And what about Dad's? I never knew a good gift to get my dad, so I always overspent when I could've just got him a new t-shirt, and he would've loved that. So, I called in my new friend, Pattie Ehsaei. If you don't know Pattie, she is known as the Duchess of Decorum on TikTok and has a raving fan base. She teaches financial literacy and social and workplace decorum. For the last 22 years, she's had a multifaceted career as a lawyer and manager in financial services and currently stands as Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions Lending. In this episode, Pattie shares her best tips to afford the holidays, why she thinks regifting is socially acceptable(I didn't even know that was a thing), and how to DIY your holiday decorations and gifts in style. Links Pattie on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum SPONSORS Thanks to Monarch for sponsoring the show. ​​You get an extended thirty-day free trial when you go to www.monarchmoney.com/ETM/. Thanks to Uncommon Goods for sponsoring the show. Get 15% off your next gift by going to www.uncommongoods.com/ETM.  Thanks to EarnIn for sponsoring the show. Just download the EarnIn app in Google Play of the Apple App Store and use code Talkin Money under Podcast. Thanks to Noom for sponsoring the show. Start taking control of your weight management and join the millions who have lost weight with Noom. Sign up for your TRIAL today at www.noom.com.   Thanks to ButcherBox for sponsoring the show. Sign up today at www.butcherbox.com/etm and use code ETM to get $20 off your first order. How To Connect with Shannah: Download 10 Money Questions to Ask Yourself Free Money Guide https://etmpod.link/10moneyq  Ask Shannah a question on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shannahgame/  Submit a money question for Shannah to answer in an upcoming episode https://tinyurl.com/askshannahq  Leave a 5-star Review here https://ratethispodcast.com/etm  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Pattie and I talk frankly about the importance of having that sometimes difficult conversation with your significant around finances BEFORE you find yourself in a situation that doesn't work for either party. As a financial expert, Pattie also dishes out her top tips for investing in your 20's and 30's as well as the best way to start saving and investing with just $100. Known as The Duchess of Decorum by her 982,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei(@duchessofdecorum TikTok ),has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum and financial independence for women have over 6.8 MILLION likes and 981K followers.  She also just launched her own podcast No Romance Without Finance, discussing the importance of financial independence for women. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions financing for a major national bank, Pattie is the perfect example of “tough, but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment.  Along with being a keynote speaker and panelist,  Pattie's voice can also be seen in print on Forbes.com where she shares her wisdom as a financial contributor.

In this episode, Pattie and I talk frankly about the importance of having that sometimes difficult conversation with your significant around finances BEFORE you find yourself in a situation that doesn't work for either party. As a financial expert, Pattie also dishes out her top tips for investing in your 20's and 30's as well as the best way to start saving and investing with just $100. Known as The Duchess of Decorum by her 982,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei(@duchessofdecorum TikTok ),has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum and financial independence for women have over 6.8 MILLION likes and 981K followers.  She also just launched her own podcast No Romance Without Finance, discussing the importance of financial independence for women. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions financing for a major national bank, Pattie is the perfect example of “tough, but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment.  Along with being a keynote speaker and panelist,  Pattie's voice can also be seen in print on Forbes.com where she shares her wisdom as a financial contributor.

E306– Inner Voice – a Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan. In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Pattie Ehsaei, Known as "The Duchess of Decorum" by her 982,000+ followers, (@duchessofdecorum TikTok ), who has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum, and financial independence for women have over 6.6 MILLION likes—answering questions such as “How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?” “How do I make and keep a budget?” “How do I maintain my power in the workplace?” “How do I ask for a raise?” “How do I navigate male-dominated industries?” These are the type of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, that keep her fans begging for more. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, Pattie is the perfect example of “tough, but fair" and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Creating her TikTok account as a way to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings, and more, Pattie's direct approach peppered with levity and some real takeaway made her an instant success and a highly sought-after speaker. She has delivered keynote addresses for numerous platforms and organizations including the Women's Investment Summit and the University of Denver STEM Program and has been a panelist for events that inspire the next generation of women such as the Meet Me in Malibu Influencer Panel. Pattie's voice can also be seen in print on Forbes.com where she shares her wisdom as a financial contributor. Born in Iran, the Persian beauty moved to Los Angeles as a youth and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused on finance. From relationship management, business development, investment banking, and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry and has quickly become an authority in this space. www.pattieehsaei.com . Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com. Remember to Subscribe, Listen, Review, and Share! Find me on these sites: *iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i...) *Google Play (https://play.google.com/music/m/Inpl5...) *Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=185544...) *YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/DrFoojanZeine ) Platforms to Like and Follow: *Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/DrFoojanZeine/) *Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/Dr.FoojanZe...) *Twitter (https://www.twitter.com/DrZeine/) *LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/DrFoojanZ...)

Personal branding is a subject that gives many people pause despite its incredible marketing potential. Whether it's the fear of failure or an overwhelming desire for instant gratification, it's easy to make excuses not to plant our flag in the ground. The Duchess of Decorum herself, Pattie Ehsaei, believes financial leaders have the time and potential to provide value to others through personal branding content. They simply have to find it in themselves to take the first step. Join us as we discuss: - Common misconceptions of social media in personal branding (12:22) - Why an attitude of helping will always trump selling (17:01) - Understanding the value of an hour in building your brand (24:03) Check out these resources we mentioned during the podcast: - Pattie Ehsaei LinkedIn - Pattie Ehsaei Instagram - Pattie Ehsaei TikTok - Pattie Ehsaei Website You can find this interview and many more by subscribing to Banking on Digital Growth on Apple Podcasts, on Spotify, or here. Listening on a desktop & can't see the links? Just search for Banking on Digital Growth in your favorite podcast player.  

Are you ready to be incredibly empowered? This is the episode you need to listen to. Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her 960,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei (@duchessofdecorum TikTok ), has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum and financial independence for women have over 6.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as “How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?” “How do I make and keep a budget?” “How do I maintain my power in the workplace?” “How do I ask for a raise?” “How do I navigate male dominated industries?” These are the type of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, that keep her fans begging for more.

Are you ready to be incredibly empowered? This is the episode you need to listen to. Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her 960,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei (@duchessofdecorum TikTok ), has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum and financial independence for women have over 6.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as “How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?” “How do I make and keep a budget?” “How do I maintain my power in the workplace?” “How do I ask for a raise?” “How do I navigate male dominated industries?” These are the type of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, that keep her fans begging for more.

Are you ready to be incredibly empowered? This is the episode you need to listen to. Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her 960,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei (@duchessofdecorum TikTok ), has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum and financial independence for women have over 6.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as “How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?” “How do I make and keep a budget?” “How do I maintain my power in the workplace?” “How do I ask for a raise?” “How do I navigate male dominated industries?” These are the type of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, that keep her fans begging for more.

▶️ Visit to know more: https://www.raphaelcollazo.com/ Welcome, and for all your questions, Raphael is here to help you with understanding SBA Loans with Pattie Ehsaei. If you are interested in learning about the many facets of commercial real estate, whether you're a business owner, investor, or just someone who's curious about the subject, you'll gain value from being a part of the group! In today's episode, Pattie Ehsaei, Senior Vice President at First Bank SBA, discusses her background and experiences in the commercial real estate industry. Along with that, she shared insights regarding the SBA loan products and how business owners can use them to expand their business and acquire commercial property. So, watch the full video until the end to learn about the nuances of SBA loans. ▶️ If you're interested in learning more about Pattie, check out the following links: ▶ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pattie-ehsaei-a785589/ ▶ Website: https://www.pattieehsaei.com ▶ Email: pehsaei@firstbanksba.com If you like the podcast, don't forget to leave a 5-Star review and share with your friends! ----------------------------------- ▶️ Check out my Website: https://www.raphaelcollazo.com/ ---------------------------------- ▶️ For business inquiries: raphael@grisantigroup.com ▶️ Call/Text me: 502-536-7315 ---------------------------------- ▶️ FREE REAL ESTATE GUIDES: https://linktr.ee/raphaelcollazocre ---------------------------------- ▶️ Follow me on: • Meetup: https://www.meetup.com/Commercial-Real-Estate-101/ • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recollaz/ • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/raphaelcrelouisville • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/raphaelcollazo/ ----------------------------------- #CommercialRealEstate #RaphaelCollazo #logisticsrealestate #logistics #realestate #commercialrealestatelouisville #commercialrealestatelouisvilleky #PattieEhsaei --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/raphael-collazo/support

As women, we tend to shrink back or lack the confidence to push for what we truly want. That ends today! This week, episode 71 of The Jen Marples Show is about Taking Risks and Going for It with Pattie Ehsaei!Known as the "The Duchess of Decorum" by her 800,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert on "P's and Q's." Pattie's TikTok teachings on social and workplace etiquette and financial literacy have over 3.7 MILLION likes. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, Pattie believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Born in Iran, the Persian beauty moved to Los Angeles as a youth and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused on finance. Within the past year, she created her TikTok account to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings, and more. Her direct approach, peppered with fun and some real takeaway, has made her an instant success!In this episode of The Jen Marples Show, Pattie Ehsaei and I share the importance of owning your voice and how you can embody confidence in your life. Some of the talking points Pattie and I go over in this episode include:Growing her TikTok through shifting and tweaking her approach based on what her audience wanted.Taking a passion for serving and turning that into a side-hustle while still rocking her day job as a finance executive.How to take a risk and not be afraid of failing when it's something you are passionate about doing.What to do if you are worried about being aged out of the workplace How to act confident, and how to strengthen your confidence muscle.Embody that future self that you want to be right now. Lean into what makes you feel powerful!Make sure to listen to the entire episode to receive inspiration, tips, and advice that will help you change your life and improve your business.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me on Instagram @jenmarples!  And don't forget to follow, rate, and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Unedited AI Transcript HereCONNECT WITH PATTIE EHSAEI:WebsiteInstagramTikTokCONNECT WITH JEN MARPLES:Subscribe to my NewsletterJoin Jen's Private, Free Facebook GroupInstagramLinkedInTikTok Work with Jen! Website

Pattie Ehsaei has been in financial services for over 20 years and has considerable experience in SBA and commercial lending. She started her career as a lawyer, transitioning to financial services in various roles as a top performing regional manager, investment banker, and SBA lender. Having funded more than $350MM in transactions, Pattie's extensive background makes her an expert in thinking outside of the box and providing customized solutions to help small business owners achieve their goals. https://www.linkedin.com/in/pattie-ehsaei-a785589/ The CRE SharkEye Show https://www.youtube.com/c/YishaiBreslauer The best 6 secrets of commercial real estate download free https://lnkd.in/dZkCUFR The CRE Crash Course - Everything you need in order to get the Must Have Skills for Commercial Real Estate, in only 2 weeks https://www.crelaunchpad.com/cre-crash-course

The Commercial Real Estate Academy podcast was created to demystify the commercial real estate industry for the masses. During our weekly episodes, we interview industry experts on a host of different commercial real estate-related topics. Through these interviews, we hope to arm you with the knowledge, references, and tools you'll need to confidently pursue commercial real estate opportunities as a business owner and/or an investor. Raphael Collazo and Jeff Walston are excited to introduce their guest for this week! In today's episode, we hosted Pattie Ehsaei, Senior Vice President at First Bank SBA, for a lively conversation about the benefits the SBA offers to business owners. ▶️ During our conversation, we explored topics such as: • How she got interested in commercial lending & finance, • What are some of the early struggles she faced as she looked to grow in her career, • What are some etiquette tips she would like to share with those just getting started in their career, • How has social media impacted her business, • As well as much more... ▶️ If you're interested in learning more about Pattie, feel free to reach out to her via the following links: ▶ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pattie-ehsaei-a785589/ ▶ Website: https://www.pattieehsaei.com/ ▶ Email: pehsaei@firstbanksba.com Below I've provided links to books that were referenced during the episode: 1) The Five Dysfunctions of a Team - https://www.amazon.com/Five-Dysfunctions-Team-Leadership-Fable/dp/0787960756 If you find value in these episodes, please SUBSCRIBE and don't forget to leave us a 5

Duchess of Decorum Pattie Ehsaei holds many esteemed positions as a lawyer, financial advisor, workplace and social decorum expert, as well as being a TikTok star. While she has made a name for herself guiding others around social and work-related pitfalls, these lessons were hard won. When Pattie arrived in the U.S., she knew little of the culture and even less of the language; she now maintains her popular social media accounts because of her desire to help others in the hopes that they may learn from her early mistakes. It's no secret that Pattie's other favorite topic is women's financial independence. She is clearly passionate about how and why women maintain power and equilibrium within and without relationships, encouraging women to work twice as hard and be twice as confident as any man in the room! Thanks for listening! Don't forget to order Rebecca's new book, Fearless: The New Rules for Unlocking Creativity, Courage, and Success. Follow Superwomen on Instagram. Guest Website Pattieehsaei.com Social Media @duchessofdecorum Big Ideas How to maintain power and independence within a relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/superwomen/support

Do you know which fork to use at a fancy dinner? How to ask for a raise? How to decipher a thirst trap?? All these questions and more are answered when Dean, Jared and guest co-host Sydney Lotuaco talk to the “Duchess of Decorum”! We're hanging out with Pattie Ehsaei who went viral on Tik Tok teaching young people how to navigate through situations no one prepared us for!   Plus, find out why Dean thinks he and Caelynn are “total opposites”! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

When it comes to finance, etiquette and romance, TikTok's first viral etiquette influencer, Pattie Ehsaei comes to the rescue! With over 850,000 TikTok followers, Pattie is known for answering any questions regarding finance and teaching thousands how to mind their Ps & Qs! Originally from Iran, Pattie moved to Los Angeles in her youth. For 20 years, she worked in relationship management, business development, investment banking and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity. Her TikTok was created to educate the general public with proper etiquette, finance, manners in the workplace and more. In this live Instagram interview we spoke with Pattie about finance, relationships, and specifically finance in relationships. We also hit her with some common etiquette FAQ's and got her advice on general manners and decorum. This interview is so informational, you won't want to miss it! To watch the live interview on our Instagram page, click here . To read the women.com article about this interview, click here . Remember to follow womendotcom on instagram and subscribe to The Women.com Podcast for more exclusive interviews empowering women.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of “tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2pm Pacific or listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or tonydurso.com/podcast.

In this episode, Ray talks with Pattie Ehsaei, a former prosecutor turned private equity, turned banking, turned top-producing SBA lender, and now has a TikTok under the handle @duchessofdecorum with over 850,000 followers. What can't she do?! Tune in to learn how the right mindset can make anything possible.    To contact Pattie:   Pattie Ehsaei  Senior Vice President National SBA M&A Lending First Bank SBA pehsaei@firstbanksba.com

Iran is one of the great destinations of the world, but many travelers are hesitant to go. After listening to Pattie Ehsaei, born and raised in Iran, you'll want to, soon. She describes her birth-country's beauty, history and culture in cities including Tehran, Esfahan, Persepolis and Shiraz. She tells of castles, mosques, ziggurats, lagoons, islands, beaches, scenic mountain roads, and ancient pigeon towers.Pattie came to the U.S. when she was seven, on the last plane out, in the Iranian Revolution. Pattie and Lea discuss the expat community of Persians in the U.S. and  what travelers need to do in terms of visas and such. Besides the sites, Pattie reflects on family gatherings in Iran, the food and drink, and friendliness of the people.She ends, as all our episodes do,  with a favorite travel memory.  And we end knowing so much more of what makes Iran an exceptional country to visit._____Born in Iran, Pattie Ehsaei (TikTok: “duchessofdecorum”),has established herself as the expert of “P's and Q's” on the platform where she's received over 1.8 million likes and nearly a half million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she believes that success comes from information and empowerment. _____Podcast host Lea Lane blogs at forbes.com, has traveled to over 100 countries, written nine books, including Places I Remember, and contributed to guidebooks. She's @lealane on Twitter; PlacesIRememberLeaLane on Insta; on  Facebook, it's Places I Remember with Lea Lane. Website: placesirememberlealane.com.  Please follow, rate and review this award-winning travel podcast!And exciting news! In 2022  we'll be dropping podcasts bi-weekly, on Tuesdays. Every other week, starting mid- February, we'll be on YouTube with travel tips and trips. Now you can watch us one week and listen the next!

The Duchess of Decorum is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. She is best known for her very successful TikTok channel, duchessofdecorum, of almost 859K followers where she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade, Pattie is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Aquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. Pattie didn't always have the answers to all social and workplace questions and etiquette including when to ask for a raise, how much to spend on a car, how to make and keep a budget to what fork to use while dining out with high-end clients. Today, we talk about why she decided to go on TikTok provide education, advice and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more.

The Duchess of Decorum is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. She is best known for her very successful TikTok channel, duchessofdecorum, of almost 859K followers where she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade, Pattie is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Aquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. Pattie didn't always have the answers to all social and workplace questions and etiquette including when to ask for a raise, how much to spend on a car, how to make and keep a budget to what fork to use while dining out with high-end clients. Today, we talk about why she decided to go on TikTok provide education, advice and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more.

The Duchess of Decorum is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. She is best known for her very successful TikTok channel, duchessofdecorum, of almost 859K followers where she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade, Pattie is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Aquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. Pattie didn't always have the answers to all social and workplace questions and etiquette including when to ask for a raise, how much to spend on a car, how to make and keep a budget to what fork to use while dining out with high-end clients. Today, we talk about why she decided to go on TikTok provide education, advice and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more.

Born in Iran, the Persian beauty moved to Los Angeles as a youth and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. She attended Loyola Law School and it was during this time that she taught herself proper etiquette with limited resources. From relationship management, business development, investment banking, and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry. In this episode, we discuss how Pattie created her TikTok account as a way to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more. Her direct approach peppered with levity and some real takeaway, has made her an instant success. Pattie's account grew to 400,000 followers in less than six months and has become appointment television for her growing audience. Connect with Pattie

Pattie Ehsaei provides her more than 400,000 followers on TikTok (“thesifactor”) with tips and tricks for social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy, and now she's providing a crash course on her lessons in etiquette to the Next Steps Forward audience. Having established herself as an expert of “P's and Q's,” her followers look to her to help answer their questions on topics ranging from how to make and keep a budget to guidance on what the little fork is used for. Program host Chris Meek sits down with the modern day Emily Post to discuss her etiquette tips, including proper table manners, job and workplace etiquette, financial success, and relationship tips. Pattie is also a fierce advocate for empowering women and grounds her advice in wanting all women to succeed on their respective paths. Women of all ages, backgrounds and experiences will take to Pattie's unique manner of imparting the rules of social conventions and etiquette. Having come to the United States as a young girl without speaking English and growing up less than affluent, Pattie will provide an inside look into how she cultivated her knowledge despite her background and honed her skills and passion to inspire other women to cultivate the same knowledge and empowerment to ultimately be their best selves.

Pattie Ehsaei provides her more than 400,000 followers on TikTok (“thesifactor”) with tips and tricks for social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy, and now she's providing a crash course on her lessons in etiquette to the Next Steps Forward audience. Having established herself as an expert of “P's and Q's,” her followers look to her to help answer their questions on topics ranging from how to make and keep a budget to guidance on what the little fork is used for. Program host Chris Meek sits down with the modern day Emily Post to discuss her etiquette tips, including proper table manners, job and workplace etiquette, financial success, and relationship tips. Pattie is also a fierce advocate for empowering women and grounds her advice in wanting all women to succeed on their respective paths. Women of all ages, backgrounds and experiences will take to Pattie's unique manner of imparting the rules of social conventions and etiquette. Having come to the United States as a young girl without speaking English and growing up less than affluent, Pattie will provide an inside look into how she cultivated her knowledge despite her background and honed her skills and passion to inspire other women to cultivate the same knowledge and empowerment to ultimately be their best selves.