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The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, hosted by Jamie Scrimgeour, is a raw and real conversation about all the things motherhood, step-motherhood and living a KICK-ASS Life. As a second wife, stepmom/mom to four kids ranging in age from 6-19 and creator of the highly acclaimed online platform for stepmoms, Jamie Scrimgeour brings you real life conversations about family, relationships, personal development and more. With tips, strategies, mindset shifts and KICK-ASS Guests, Jamie’s goal is to inspire you to live your own version of a KICK-ASS Life while bringing you along as she creates her own.

Jamie Scrimgeour


    • Oct 15, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 43m AVG DURATION
    • 249 EPISODES

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    The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is an incredible resource for stepmoms and blended families. Jamie Scrimgeour, the host of the podcast, provides a comforting and relatable space for stepmoms to navigate the complexities of their role. The podcast offers a variety of topics that cover everything from co-parenting struggles to maintaining a thriving marriage in the midst of high conflict situations. Jamie's guests bring different perspectives and advice, making each episode insightful and helpful.

    One of the best aspects of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is Jamie's ability to address the unique challenges that stepmoms face with empathy and understanding. She shares her own experiences openly, which helps listeners feel validated and less alone in their journey. The interviews provide valuable insights and practical tips that can be applied to real-life situations. Whether it's setting boundaries or finding beauty in simplicity, Jamie offers guidance that goes beyond just being a stepmom but also applies to other areas of life.

    Despite its many strengths, one potential downside of this podcast is its focus solely on stepmoms. While this makes sense given the podcast's theme, it may limit its appeal to those who are not stepmothers themselves. Additionally, it would be beneficial for the podcast to include perspectives from other family members involved in blended families, such as stepfathers or biological parents navigating co-parenting relationships.

    In conclusion, The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is a phenomenal resource for stepmoms and anyone involved in blended families. Jamie Scrimgeour's honest approach and relatable content make each episode both comforting and informative. Through this podcast, listeners can find support, advice, and a sense of community in navigating the challenges of being a stepmom.



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    Latest episodes from The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

    The Ex Only Gets 15 Minutes + Wills That Don't Feel Morbid with Kerri Koen

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 59:26


    This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, fellow stepmom and Estate Planner Kerri Koen is on to dive into all things estate planning and stepmom life. This interview was originally recorded for KICK-ASS Stepmom, my online platform for stepmoms however the conversation was so valuable we are sharing it here too. We talk about: Tough conversations all stepfamilies need to have Ways to make estate planning feel less daunting and final How to avoid conflict in your stepfamily Things stepfamilies need to consider when creating their wills and estate planning and more!  For more from Kerri head to www.modernlegacylawgroup.com Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Thanks to our sponsors: Better Help | Visit betterhelp.com/stepmom today to get 10% off your first month Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off Metabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com

    The Aftermath Of Emotionally Abusive Parents with Dr. Sherri Campbell Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 51:22


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Best-Selling Author Dr. Sherrie Campbell is back on the show. Sherri specializes in helping healthy people cut ties with toxic people in their lives and the story she shares today goes deep on how (and why) this work is so important. In this episode, we dive into her personal experience as a child of divorce with multiple step-parents and how it has shown up in her relationships today, including her role as a stepmom. This interview is raw, personable and vulnerable and an important one for all stepmoms to hear.  For more from Dr. Sherrie, find her on IG @dr.sherrie Listen to: 239. Parental Alienation, Narcissism + High-Conflict Ex with Dr. Sherrie Campbell here. Upcoming Masterclass: Beat Stepmom Burnout Secure your spot at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/burnout Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See Thanks to our sponsors: Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off at checkout Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off

    Co-Parenting Plans + Joint Birthday Parties With A High-Conflict Ex with Samantha Boss

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 50:06


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Divorce and Co-Parenting Coach Samantha Boss is on the show to dive into all things co-parenting plans and dealing with a high-conflict ex. Through her personal experience and 8-year battle dealing with a high-conflict and narcissistic ex-husband, Samantha started supporting other women going through the same thing to help them feel empowered and less alone.  In this episode, we talk about her life as a single mom and the things she does to make sure her kids are taken care of (even if it means checking her ego), how her high-conflict ex affected the way her kids showed up, why you need to think long-game when writing your co-parenting plan and her thoughts about having joint events.  For more from Samantha, connect with her at @the_samantha_boss Inside KICK-ASS Stepmom: A Co-Parenting Plan That Leaves No Room For Grey with Samantha Boss | Click Here To Join Upcoming Masterclass: Beat Stepmom Burnout Secure your spot at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/burnout Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off

    Stepmom Burnout & When It's All About The Kids With Darren

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 41:17


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Darren and I are diving into something that is not talked about enough in the stepmom space - burnout. As a stepmom you're showing up, doing all the things and simultaneously feeling resentful. We've all been there… and a lot of you are there right now. In this episode, we discuss how to talk to your partner about the way you're feeling, how to create change in your stepfamily life, how to take a step back without feeling bad and what partners can do to support the stepmom when they're burnt out.  Upcoming Masterclass: Beat Stepmom Burnout Secure your spot at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/burnout Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Free Quiz and See Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. Kajabi | Visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi today to start your free trial.

    Debunking Assumptions About Our Marriage, Stepkids + The Ex with Darren

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 35:31


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Darren is back and we are getting real by diving into the assumptions that people online make about our marriage, stepkids and the ex. From my relationship with my stepdaughter to the strength of our marriage, having strict rules at home and does the ex really hate me? We are covering it all!  Upcoming Masterclass: Beat Stepmom Burnout Secure your spot at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/burnout Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See Thanks to our sponsors: Better Help | Visit betterhelp.com/stepmom today to get 10% off your first month Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off

    Rocked By Stepmotherhood + True Authenticity In Stepmom Life with Kat John

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 55:13


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Stepmom and Authenticity Coach Kat Jon is back on the show to talk about what it means to be an authentic stepmom. In this episode, we chat about how her life has changed as a stepmom now that she has her stepkids full time, her new book “Authentic” and how the real stepmom experience can truly rock us to our core.  For more from Kat, connect with her at @kat.jon Listen to: 191. The Real Stepmom Experience + The Zero F*cks Movement with Kat Jon here. Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Take the Free Quiz: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See Thanks to our sponsors: Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com

    SOLO: Boob Job, If The Ex Won't Pay, Stop Feeling Frumpy + Stepmom Life Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 39:08


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am flying solo to give you a big life update + dive into some of the questions you asked on Instagram.   An update on the ex, how to stop feeling frumpy, how I manage my home and keep it clean, what to do when the ex won't pay for anything, getting your sparkle back, how my biggest insecurity encouraged me to get a boob lift, my fav stepmom resources - we are covering it all.    Plus, fast forward to our stepkids' weddings with me and see how I plan to handle that, too!    Listen to: 214. How I Finally Lost Weight + Balanced My Hormones with Jen Vasey here.   Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off at checkout

    How To Negotiate (Or Co-Parent) With A Narcissist with Rebecca Zung

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 52:01


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am chatting with Best-Selling Author and lawyer Rebecca Zung. As a globally sought-after expert in negotiation and co-parenting with a high-conflict personality, Rebecca shares tips and strategies to help you effectively negotiate with a high-conflict ex, and win.    We also dive into why narcissism and gaslighting go hand in hand and how to navigate this effectively.    For more from Rebecca, find her on IG @rebeccazung   Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. Kajabi | Visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi today to start your free trial  

    Boundaries, True Blended Families + Special Needs Co-Parenting with Mindy Wender

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 55:01


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am interviewing Stepmom, Bio Mom and Podcast Host Mindy Wender about her unique perspective on blended family life.  Mindy and I dive into co-parenting special needs children and what people really need to understand, sending rage texts (and why it's not the most productive form of communication) and how to properly deal with a high-conflict ex.  She also shares how different her two co-parenting situations are (with her ex and her partner's ex) and how she navigates the different dynamics. For more from Mindy, find her on IG @mindywender   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE"  via the link below or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app Metabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com Better Help | Visit betterhelp.com/stepmom today to get 10% off your first month

    Parental Alienation, Narcissism + High-Conflict Ex with Dr. Sherrie Campbell

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 55:35


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am chatting with Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Best-Selling Author Dr. Sherrie Campbell who specializes in helping healthy people cut ties with toxic people in their lives. In this episode, we talk about strategies for co-parenting with a high-conflict ex who is trying to interfere with your relationship with your stepkids, setting boundaries with a narcissist and the useful tips and strategies she used in her own life navigating dating someone with kids.  For more from Dr. Sherrie, find her on IG @dr.sherrie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off at checkout HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% off your order  

    LeAnn Rimes Talks About Stepmom Life [Re-release]

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 46:46


    That's right, LeAnn Rimes is on the show! In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, LeAnn Rimes and I talk about her experience as a stepmom. We dive into the healing that it forced her to do, how she dealt with her personal life being blasted in the media, the narratives that it created, boundaries, personal values and the feeling of being an outsider (which is so common in stepmom life). This episode is a good reminder that the real human experience is similar for everyone, famous country singer or not. For more from LeAnn, find her on IG @leannrimes   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE"  via the link below or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app Metabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com

    Q+A With My Stepdaughter [Re-release]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 33:23


    In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, my stepdaughter Madison and I dive into the questions you asked us on Instagram. We talk about what it was like for her to have divorced parents, if she prefers joint celebrations, what I did or didn't do right when I first started dating her dad, whether she feels loyalty to her mom, what it was like when we had our daughter Reese, and so much more!   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off at checkout Tonic Site Shop | Use the code JAMIE15 for 15% off at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% off your order  

    Addicted To Chaos, High Conflict Ex + When A Stepmom Should Call It Quits with Naja Hall [Re-release]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 40:03


    In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Stepmom coach and creator of VIP Stepmom Naja Hall is going to call you out, inspire you and have you in tears of laughter. We dive into: Dealing with a high-conflict ex Being addicted to the chaos Stepmom insecurity When we think a Stepmom should call it quits and so much more! For more from Naja connect with her at @vipstepmom on IG   Listen to Ep. 14 How To Deal With A High-Conflict Ex with Naja Hall here. Listen to Ep. 21 Co-parenting With A Narcissist with Naja Hall here.   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: Better Help | Visit betterhelp.com/stepmom today to get 10% off your first month Metabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com  

    Stop Dwelling On The Ex with Mary T Kelly [re-release]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 53:32


    In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Psychotherapist and Marriage Counsellor Mary T. Kelly and I get real about stepmom life.   In this episode we tackle why stepmoms are so consumed with the ex, how to get out of that head space, the competition between moms and stepmoms and important boundaries that all step-couples need to set.   This is a must-listen for ALL Stepmoms.   For more from Mary connect with her at https://realstepfamilies.com   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off at checkout Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% your order

    Setting Boundaries, High-Functioning Codependency + A Game-Changing Stepmom Perspective with Terri Cole [re-release]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 60:26


    In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Terri Cole, author of The Boundary Boss, shares game-changing information on how to set boundaries and stop being a high-functioning codependent. For more from Terri, connect with her on Instagram at @terricole For all links mentioned visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com/podcast/113   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE"  via the link below or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app Tonic Site Shop | Use the code JAMIE15 for 15% off at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic Metabolic Balance | Get $100 off Jen's Metabolic Reset program with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com

    Advice For New Stepmoms + What You Need To Know If You're Dating A Man With Kids with Brooke Leslie [re-release]

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 60:44


    In this episode, I chat with Brooke Leslie from The Struggling Stepmom about our experiences as stepmoms, including what we wish we would have known about the court process and what you need to know if you are dating a man with kids. Disclaimer: this episode includes advice we didn't take ourselves, but wish we did. For more from Brooke, connect with her on Instagram at @thestrugglingstepmom   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to our sponsors: Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 30% off OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off at checkout Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off.

    Adult Stepkids, Step-Grandbabies + The Secret To Stepmom Success with Mindy Kyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 57:52


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am interviewing fellow Stepmom Coach Mindy Kyle to dive into all things stepmom life.   We discuss:   Adult stepchildren Step grand babies How stepmom stress doesn't even when they turn 18 Mindset around step parenting Making the decision to divorce, or change her mindset around stepmom life What happened when we started doing the work on our selves The things we wish we would have done in those early days Her evolution of her relationship with the ex   There are so many takeaways for stepmoms in this episode!   MENTIONED EPISODES: Listen to Ep. 135: When The Stepkids Grow Up + How Stepmoms Unknowingly Create Pain For Themselves with Mindy Kyle   Listen to Ep 097: Improve (Stepfamily) Relationships With The Enneagram with Sara Jane Case     WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community FREE GUIDE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   FOR MORE FROM MINDY: Check out her website Follow her on Instagram Find her on Facebook   EPISODE SPONSORS: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase.   CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE" via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app   Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off. Better Help | Visit betterhelp.com/stepmom today to get 10% off your first month.

    Q+A with Darren: Finances, Adult "Kid" Child Support, Venting About The Ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 32:00


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Darren is back to answer the questions about stepmom and blended family life that were submitted on Instagram. In this episode: Do we keep our finances together or separate? When does child support end in our agreement and why it's important to make sure the end is clear, not assumed Our communication with the ex now that the kids are getting older Our thoughts on venting about stepmom life and co-parenting to family and friends Co-parenting now that kids are older and what that looks like and more!   WANT MORE FROM JAMIE?Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   RESOURCES FOR STEPMOMS: Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community FREE GUIDE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience  FREE GUIDE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   EPISODE SPONSORS + LINKSLMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. RITUAL | Get 25% off your first month at www.ritual.com/stepmom Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off.

    People Pleasing, Overcoming Resentment, Finding Yourself Post Divorce + Ending Unaligned Friendships with Drew Holst

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 51:30


    This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am interviewing Happiness and Self Love Advocate Drew Holst. After his marriage ended a few years ago, Drew went on a journey of healing and self-love and really finding himself post-divorce. Now, he shares his experience openly and candidly on social media. In this episode, we talk about: Finding yourself post-divorce What self-love really is How people pleasing and self-sacrifice can lead to resentment His healing journey post-divorce Having a positive co-parenting relationship and what that looks like for Drew and his ex Ending unaligned friendships and more!   WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community FREE GUIDE: Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience  FREE GUIDE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   FOR MORE FROM DREW: Follow him on Instagram: @the_drew_holst   THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE" via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off

    Disengaging As A Stepmom (The Right Way) with Darren + Jamie

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 33:07


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie and Darren dive into how disengaging has been one of the best strategies Jamie has used to thrive in her role as a stepmom and how Darren supports this strategy. They share: The right (and wrong) way to disengage How to know if a stepmom needs to take a step back How to communicate your needs with your family What partners need to understand about disengaging  and more!    Want more from Jamie? Check out her website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience  When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. RITUAL | Get 25% off your first month at www.ritual.com/stepmom OSEA | Clean skincare. Head to www.oseamailibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off at checkout.

    Domestic + Emotional Load Of The Mom/Stepmom: Negotiating Fairplay with Eve Rodsky

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 57:15


    This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am chatting with New York Times Bestselling Author and the founder of Fairplay, Eve Rodsky about the unfair distribution of unpaid labour in marriages and how it comes into play for stepmoms. We cover: The importance of communication Creating shifts in how you're running your home Fairplay being a gender issue, not a money issue Negotiating the domestic workload The emotional labour of women (and stepmoms) Fairplay in the stepfamily dynamic Why Jamie was resentful of Darren in the beginning and more!   Want more from Jamie? Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community:  Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience  When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See.   For More From Eve: Instagram: @everodsky Grab copy of her book, Fairplay: https://amzn.to/44zq0bn Get the deck: https://amzn.to/44v8bdq   Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE" via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off

    The Invisible Load, Why Marriages Fail + Overstepping Stepmoms with Kate Anthony

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 55:37


    Divorce Coach and Author Kate Anthony is back on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast for a candid conversation about the mental load and division of responsibilities between husbands and wives.  In this episode: Why Kate believes the institution of marriage is set up to serve and benefit men The unfair mental load in marriages Understanding that just because it's not done the way you want, doesn't mean its wrong Why wives have had enough The overstepping stepmom  and more! Plus, Kate and Jamie get raw and real about their different perspectives.   Want more from Jamie?  Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience  When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   For more from Kate: Follow her on Instagram Check out her Facebook page Join her Facebook group Connect on TikTok Grab a copy of her new book, The D Word here.   Thanks to our sponsors:  LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE" via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app RITUAL | Get 25% off your first month at www.ritual.com/stepmom

    Build Strong Intimacy With Masculine + Feminine Polarity with Jake Woodard

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 62:25


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie Interviews Relationship and Intimacy Coach Jake Woodard. Jake shares about the power of polarity in relationships and how men embracing their masculine and women embracing their feminine energy, can lead to more intimacy and satisfaction in life. In this episode:  Masculine and feminine energy The man's role in protecting his wife How Jake thinks boundaries should be set His thoughts on the husband's responsibility to protect their partner from the ex Why you can't lead a healthy family until you become emotionally healthy yourself Where women's desire for control is coming from Protecting stepmoms from issues with the ex Healing from childhood trauma Grief and forgiveness ...and so much more!   Want more from Jamie? Check out her website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Resources for stepmoms: Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   For more from Jake Woodard: Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cri2ceyg3uD/?hl=en Watch them on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0B_eQCJOM6k Listen to their Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-awake-with-jake-show/id1390684172   Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Tonic Site Shop | www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic and use the code JAMIE15 for 15% off CUPLA | Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE" via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app

    224: Perfectionism, Anxiety, Jealousy + When Being a Stepmom Doesn't Feel How You Thought It Would with Jennifer Teplin

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 59:33


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews Jennifer Teplin. Jennifer is the founder and clinical director of Manhattan Wellness, a boutique psychotherapy practice in New York. With mentions in Cosmopolitan and Oprah magazine, along with her master's degree from Columbia University, Jennifer has not only created a space for therapeutic healing - she has created a movement that changes the landscape of therapy and counselling.   In this episode, we dive into...   Stepmom/Mom guilt for not feeling the way they think they should about motherhood. Navigating jealousy and comparison to the ex. Perfectionism, anxiety and our need for control.   And so much more!   WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community:   Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience   When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See.   For More From Jennifer Teplin: Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/manhattan.wellness/ Check out her website: https://manhattanwellness.org/jennifer   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Jen the RHN | Metabolic Reset program: https://www.jentherhn.com save $100 with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM   LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.   Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off

    225: Stepmoms Constantly In Flight or Fight + Why You're Feeling Like An Outsider with Amber Trejo

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 56:54


    This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews Amber Trejo. Amber is a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified clinical trauma professional who specializes in complex childhood trauma and the family system. She is the founder and CEO of Holding Hearts Counseling in Indianapolis. She is also a wife and mama to 3 wild boys on her own journey to heal from childhood trauma and break generational cycles of trauma and abuse.   Jamie and Amber discuss -How our childhood trauma affects us as adult -Learning to regulate emotions when you grew up in chaos -Why stepmoms may feel like an outsider -Challenging the stories and narratives in our head -Strategies for regulating our nervous system     WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community:   Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience   When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See.     For More From Amber Trejo: Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ambertrejo_/ Check out her Website: www.holdingheartscounselingindy.com Get her Nervous System Guide: https://www.holdingheartscounselingindy.com/nervous-system-guide   Thanks to Our Sponsors:   Moonbird | Head to moonbird.life and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for $20 off.   LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.   Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off  

    223: SOLO: Adult Stepkids, Finances + Stop Looking At The Exes Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2024 40:35


    In this solo episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie sits down to the mic and answers questions submitted by her community over on Instagram. She's talking about: What to do if you don't agree with the financial support for your stepkids How to repair when there is a fight in front of the kids Self care routines Her go-to make-up Wellness routines Challenges that come with having adult stepkids Tips for moving into the house your husband lived in with the ex and more...   Let's get social:  Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Want more from Jamie? Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See 1:1 Coaching & Mentorship: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Jen the RHN | Metabolic Reset program: https://www.jentherhn.com save $100 with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase. Val Fleury Skin | Jamie's LED Mask. Head to https://valfleuryskin.com?glow=4087HFH and use coupon code Jamie20 for 20% off.

    222: The Gaslight Effect With Dr. Robin Stern

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 54:16


    This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast we are sharing an exclusive interview from inside KICK-ASS Stepmom Community.   Dr. Robin Stern, is a licensed psychoanalyst, educator, author, and commentator. As a renowned expert in gaslight manipulation, emotional intelligence and women in leadership, she coined the term "gaslight effect". In this interview we talk about the different types of gaslighters, the behaviours that can sometimes lead to gaslighting, how you can redirect when you feel like you are being gaslit and so much more!   To get access to extra podcast episodes, my workshops, private chatroom and more join KICK-ASS Stepmom Today.     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage Get The Free Ebook 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/redefine     For More From Dr. Robin Stern: Follow them on Instagram: @drrobinstern Listen to her podcast: The Gaslight Effect Podcast Check out her Books: Robin Stern Books   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Moonbird | Head to moonbird.life and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for $20 off.   LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.   Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off

    221: Divorce, Grief, Co-Parenting + Happiness As A Single Mom with Kaitlyn Nilles

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 49:03


    In this week's episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast Jamie interviews Kaitlyn Nilles of Honesty Kaitlyn. Jamie and Kaitlyn dive into her divorce, her new co-parenting relationship, her commitment to remaining friends with her co-parent, and the power of language in referring to the ex.   We also talk about how Kaitlyn's experience as a child of divorce has influenced how she co-parents with her former husband, how they navigated their separation and so much more...   WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out her website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community:   Free Guide 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   For More From Kaitlyn Nilles: Follow them on Instagram: @honestly.kaitlyn Check out her Tik Tok: @honestly.kaitlyn Listen to her podcast: I didn't sign up for this   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Jen the RHN | Metabolic Reset program: https://www.jentherhn.com save $100 with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM   LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.   HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% your order

    220: Finding A Good Lawyer, A Stepmoms Role In Court + How Not To Suck At Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 54:21


    Jamie sits down with Divorce Lawyer Morgan Stogsdill and Comedian Andrea Rappaport of The How Not To Suck A Divorce Podcast.   They discuss: Why you need a good lawyer Why you should interview 3 lawyers before hiring one What holds people back in the divorce process A stepmoms role in court The truth about child support   and more...   WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out the website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community:   Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience   When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See.     For More From How not to suck at Divorce: Follow them on Instagram: @hownottosuckatdivorce Check out their Website: hownottosuckatdivorce.com Listen to their Podcast: How Not to Suck at Divorce on Apple Podcasts Check out their Divorce Crash Course: How not to Suck at Divorce - Divorce Guide   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth: cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off   Stepmom life Coaching and Mentorship: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Jen's Metabolic Reset program: https://www.jentherhn.com save $100 with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM

    219: Navigating Stepkids With Mini-Wife Syndrome with Mary T Kelly (from the membership)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 41:21


    This week we are sharing one of our most popular conversations from The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community. Jamie chats with one of our favourite experts, Marriage Therapist and Stepmom Coach Mary T. Kelly.   This conversation is full of practical tips and advice including:   What 'mini-wife' syndrome is and strategies on how to respond Why Jamie + Mary dislike the term What should come first, the kids or your marriage? Being jealous of your stepkids   and so much more!   Hey Stepmom, looking for ways to minimize conflict with the "high-conflict" ex? Grab a seat at our live Masterclass on March 26th at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/highconflilctmasterclass   WANT MORE FROM JAMIE? Check out her website Follow along on Instagram Follow along on Facebook   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community   Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience   When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See   For More From Mary T Kelly: Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realstepmoms/ Check out her website: https://realstepfamilies.com/   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Moonbird | Head to moonbird.life and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for $20 off.   LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.

    218: Loyalty Binds, Co-Parenting Mistakes + Reconnection with Dr. Jody Carrington

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 58:07


    In this week's episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews renowned psychologist Dr. Jody Carrington. Jody has a no-nonsense and candid approach backed by her clinical knowledge, it's that combination that makes her one of our favourite guests.   Join them for an unfiltered conversation on -   Life in your 40's Parenting and anxiety in the digital age The power of reconnection Loyalty binds and what's really going on for our kids in transitions How we can use acknowledgement and reconnection to improve the mom stepmom relationship   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Dr. Jody Carrington: Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjodycarrington Check out their website:https://www.drjodycarrington.com/ Listen to their podcast: https://www.drjodycarrington.com/podcast/   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Attend The Masterclass With The High Conflict Ex www.jamiescrimgeour.com/highconflictmasterclass   Cozy Earth - cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off   LMNT - My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase

    217: Stepmoms In The Media, Personal Growth As A Stepmom with Kit Rich

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 48:57


    This week, Jamie interviews Kit Rich for the second time. Kit Rich is a fitness entrepreneur, writer, and feature film director. As a top fitness coach, she's trained some of the world's most recognizable and award-winning actors and musicians. Kit has also built a popular online community where she's helped thousands learn to love their bodies and achieve their health and fitness goals. Named one of the Top Five Trainers in Los Angeles by SHAPE Magazine, Kit has been featured for her work on TV and in magazines, and her writing has been seen on the stage, in the LA Times, SELF, and more.    They discuss: Life update since Kit was last on the pod Her transition from celebrity fitness trainer to writer Her Movie, A Stepmom's Story Dynamics when entering a family as a new stepmom Navigating jealousy and so much more!     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide   Attend The Masterclass With The High Conflict Ex www.jamiescrimgeour.com/highconflictmasterclass   For more from Kit: Website: https://www.kitrich.com IG: @onlykitrich   Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT - My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase   HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% your order

    216: Her Husband Died at 34. Grief, Healing + Holistic Wealth with Keisha Blair

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 60:52


    This week's guest Keisha Blair, is an award-winning international best selling author, who took the most tragic situation - the death of her husband - and completely transformed her life.   In this episode:   Holistic wealth and what it actually means Following your gut Not listening to what other people say The process of doing the work Not playing the victim       For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage Get The Free Ebook 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/redefine     For More From Keisha: Follow her on Instagram: @KeishaOBlair Website: www.keishablair.com/the-book Check out her viral article: My Husband Died at 34: Here are 40 Life Lessons I Learned From It   Thanks To Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off   HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% off your order   Moonbird | moonbird.life and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for $20 off

    215: Life Update + Answering Stepmom Questions With Darren

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 44:15


    Darren is back for a life update and to answer all of your stepmom questions. Plus we are diving into a few "what would we do" questions submitted by other stepmoms based on real things going on in their lives.   In this episode: how we will treat our daughter when my adult stepkids move out dealing with stepmom resentment handling adult stepkids living at home what does bio mom really think?   and more!     Mentioned Resources: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching for next-level stepmom coaching with Jamie LMNT | Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom HB Face | hbface.com/jamiescrimgeour and use code HBJAMIE for 20% your order   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide

    214: How I Finally Lost Weight + The Metabolic Reset With Jen Vasey

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 52:25


    Trigger warning, I am talking about weight loss. It feels like such a taboo subject but we are going there because for too long I was feeling uncomfortable in my body. I felt like I was doing everything right and yet nothing was working. Until I found today's guest, Jen Vasey and her Metabolic Reset program that not only reset my metabolism but truly changed the way I look at my health and habits, too.   Jen is a Registered Holistic Nutritionist and Top Metabolic Balance Coach in Canada and her program is truly transformative.   In this episode, we dive into:   What self-love and loving your body really means to me Finding a lifestyle that works for you The importance of stress and sleep management Being conscious of how your habits make you feel How The Metabolic Reset works and who it's for   and more!     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Jen: Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jen.the.rhn/ Website: https://www.jentherhn.com/   Mentioned Resources: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching for next-level stepmom coaching with Jamie   Get $100 off Jen's Metabolic Reset program with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com

    213: Parenting Teens, Divorce, Co-Parenting + Marrying A Younger Man with Caroline Stanbury

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 48:44


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie interviews Caroline Stanbury from the Real Housewives of Dubai. Outside of her role on the RHOD, Caroline is also a mother, wife, creator, entrepreneur and host of the Uncut and Uncensored podcast. Join them for an unfiltered conversation on - Marriage Divorce Life after 40 Marrying a much younger man + Her kids reaction to him Co-parenting Facelifts and BJ's ...They literally cover it all!   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Caroline: Follow them on Instagram: @carolinestanbury Watch them on YouTube: Caroline Stanbury Youtube Listen to their podcast: Uncut and Uncensored with Caroline Stanbury   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth - cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off LMNT - My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase Moonbird - moonbird.life use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for $20 off

    212: Why I'm jealous of my stepdaughter, women judging women, all things Motherwound with Bethany Webster

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 70:11


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie sits down for her second interview with one of our favourite past guests, Bethany Webster. Bethany is a coach, speaker, and author, renowned for her work on healing the Mother Wound. Jamie and Bethany dive into the transformative impact of Bethany's work, exploring how it has influenced Jamie's relationships, perspective, and overall life. Listen in and find out why Jamie says this is one of the most important books she has ever read!   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Bethany Webster: Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themotherwound/ Download the Mother Wound E Book: https://www.bethanywebster.com/     Thanks to Our Sponsors: Tonic Site Shop - www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic and use the code JAMIE15 for 15% off LMNT - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase CUPLA - Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE"  via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app

    211: Parental Alienation, Dysfunctional Families + Repairing Broken Relationships with Nedra Glover Tawwab

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 56:33


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie sits down for a second time with Nedra Glover Tawwab. Nedra is a licensed therapist, renowned relationship and boundary expert and a NYT best-selling author. It's no surprise our first conversation was one of our most popular episodes, and she's here to share even more.   Together we dive into:   The power of language in stepfamilies Setting and holding boundaries, even when no one else respects them Addressing parental alienation How a simple mindset shift can improve your relationship with the ex Dysfunctional families, repairing relationships and so much more!   Be sure to also check out episode 122 if you want to hear more with Jamie and Nedra.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Nedra Glover Tawwab: Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nedratawwab Read their book: Set Boundaries Find Peace Check out: Set Boundaries Find Peace Deck Listen to their podcast: You Need to Hear This     Thanks to Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Head to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off LMNT | Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase

    210: Recovering From Burnout + Permission To Rest Ashley Neese

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 49:29


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie sits down with Ashley Neese, a renowned breathwork teacher, author and self-care advocate. This conversation comes at the perfect time as Jamie navigates her own personal experience with burnout. Tune in as Ashley shares practical strategies for prioritizing rest, reconnecting with yourself, and recovering from burnout.   Together they discuss Prioritizing Rest in Real Life Tools for Self-Reconnection Sitting in Discomfort for Growth Intentional Self-Check-Ins Recovering from Burnout, and so much more...   Don't miss this opportunity to learn from Ashley Neese's wealth of knowledge and experience!     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Ashley: Follow them on Instagram: wwww.instargam.com/ashley_neese Check our their website: www.ashleyneese.com Listen to their podcast: The Deeper Call Permission to Rest book Substack Newsletter   Thanks to Our Sponsors:   Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off   LMNT My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase

    209: Affects of Divorce on Children + Understanding Your Origin Wounds, Vienna Pharaon

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2024 66:02


    In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie engages in a thought-provoking discussion with Vienna Pharaon, a renowned therapist and author. They discuss the profound concept of "origin wounds" and how understanding and addressing them can pave the way for healing and growth in the present day.   The dive into their shared experience as children of divorce the power or apologizing and repairing your relationship with your stepkids/kids how our childhood experiences impact our adult relationships how to prevent your children from carrying the same wounds strategies to heal old wounds, and so much more!     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Vienna: Follow them on Instagram: @MindfulMFT Facebook.com/MindfulMFT ViennaPharaon.com     Thanks to Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off LMNT My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase Superhuman - www.superhuman.app/register use code: KICKASSSTEPMOM for 1 month free CUPLA - Get 3 Months Free using the code "JAMIE"  via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app

    208: Power in the Pause, Recovering from Burnout, Business Fails + What Now?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2024 18:11


    Welcome Back! In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie returns after a long pause at the end of 2023. From navigating business failures to recovering from burnout, this episode is a raw and honest exploration of setbacks and the resilience to move forward and importance of intentional pauses and stepping back to gain clarity.       For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     Thanks to our sponsors: Check out jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi for 3 months of Kajabi for only $99 until January 25th

    BRB. Pressing Pause.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 7:34


    Jamie makes an announcement she didn't see coming.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Get the Ebook: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook   Join The Masterclass: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freemasterclass

    206: Stepparenting Teenagers + Young Adults

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 42:38


    Jamie and her husband Darren reflect on changes in their relationship with the kids as they have become young adults and teenagers. They dive into how Jamie's role has changed, struggles with adult stepkids living at home and how they view "their time" with the kids.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Join The Mastermind: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/mastermind   Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase Poppy and Barley: www.poppybarley.com and use code KICKASSTEPMOM for 10% off

    205: Gina Kirschenheiter on Co-Parenting, Stepmom Life + Forgiveness

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 48:30


    In this episode of The Kick Ass Stepmom Podcast, Jamie sits down to chat with Gina Kirschenheiter from the cast of The Real Housewives of Orange County.   Gina shares her story of how she went from a high-conflict divorce to a thriving co-parenting relationship with both her ex and her kids new stepmom.   In addition to being on a hit Bravo show, Gina is the co-host of the podcast Orange County, co-founder of CaraGala Skincare and a proud mom to her three children and three bonus children.   Her refreshing take on navigating blended family life will have you quickly understanding why she became a fan favorite for her authenticity and captivating presence.   For More From Gina Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginakirschenheiter/ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@ginakirschenheiter Twitter: https://twitter.com/gkirschenheiter CaraGala Skincare Website: https://www.caragala.com/   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off LMNT My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase Superhuman - www.superhuman.app/register use code: KICKASSSTEPMOM for 1 month free

    204: Clutter = Cortisol. The Psychology Behind Your Decluttering with Megan Golightly

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2023 46:46


    Jamie talks with Megan Golightly of Go Simplified about the psychology behind decluttering and getting organized.   As one of the most popular organizing and decluttering influencers in North America, Megan is best known for weaving her psychology background and interest in neuroscience into her content. She promotes the importance of mental health and positivity in her content… it's not just organizing tips. It goes so much deeper.   This episode is a convo about how we can change the way we look at clutter and organizing… and how the stories about our STUFF are holding us back…   Megan also shares a great strategy for transitioning clothes between parents' homes and minimizing the stress it can cause.     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership FREE GUIDE: Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide FREE GUIDE: How To Transition Clothes Between Homes Stress-Free: (insert URL here) FREE GUIDE: How To Co-Parent With A HIgh Conflict Ex www.jamiescrimgeour.com/high-conflict-ex     For More From Megan Follow along on Instagram or check out her website at www.go-simplified.com     Thanks to Our Sponsors: Poppy and Barley: www.poppybarley.com and use code KICKASSTEPMOM for 10% off Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off LMNT My Go To Electrolyte Drink - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase  

    203: How You Show Up In The Bedroom is How You Show Up In Life with Vanessa and Xander Marin

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 51:37


    In this episode, Jamie interviews New York Times Best Selling authors Vanessa and Xander Marin. She's a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, he's a regular dude, and together they wrote Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.   They're the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you'll be calling your new besties in no time. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.   Follow them on Instagram @vanessaandxander, and tune in to their podcast, Pillow Talks, for totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It's the sex education you WISH you'd had!     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership FREE GUIDE: The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide FREE GUIDE: How To Coparent With A High Conflict Ex: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/https://jamiescrimgeour.com/how-to-co-parent-with-high-conflict-ex     For More From  Vanessa and Xander Marin Follow them on Instagram Listen to their podcast: Pillow Talk   Get Your Copy: Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.     Thanks to Our Sponsors: LMNT - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with your purchase   OSEA - www.oseamalibu.com and use the code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off your order   Tonic Site Shop - www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic and use the code JAMIE15 for 15% off  

    202: Stepmom Burnout + Anxiety: How To Deal with Michaela Bucchianeri

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 58:58


    Michaela Bucchianeri PHD is a therapist and stepmom coach specializing in anxiety. In this episode Michalea and Jamie openly talk about the stepmom experience and why it's so common for stepmoms to experience anxiety.   They dive into: burnout as a stepmom signs of burnout different types of anxiety why anxiety is so common for stepmoms the power of mindful disengaging communicating with your partner about your stepfamily stress what to do if your partner isn't receptive to your experience.   For more from Michaela head to https://www.theanxiousstepmom.com/jamie and follow her on IG https://www.instagram.com/theanxiousstepmom/   You can also connect with Michaela in the chatroom of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Should You Disengage? Take The Quiz: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage     Thanks to Our Sponsors: Poppy Barley – use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off OSEA Malibu use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off  LMNT - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom for a free sample pack with purchase

    201: How To Minimize Stepmom Stress This School Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 38:53


    Back to school can be a stressful time when it comes to co-parenting. Communication between schools, diving responsibilities between houses, getting aligned with routine and homework. It's another situation where when you're in a stepfamily, even the simplest things aren't simple.   In this solo episode, Jamie shares tips for minimizing stress at back-to-school and responds to back-to-school stressors you submitted on IG.   Stressors include: Who pays for what? What to do if other parent doesn't want to pay their share How to handle the stress of "meet the teacher night" with the other parent Should stepmom go to meet the teacher night? What to do is mom wants control of all back-to-school shopping.   and more...   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour, visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie Work With Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership   FREE GUIDES: The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Tips For Getting Your Stepkids Stuff Back From Their Moms www.jamiescrimgeour.com/givetheclothesback How To Co-Parent With A High Conflict Ex www.jamiescrimgeour.com/high-conflict-ex TAKE THE QUIZ: Is it time to Disengage?  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage   SHOW SPONSORS: Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off LMNT - www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom for a free sample pack with purchase

    200: Why Boundaries are Key to Your Stepmom Life with Terri Cole

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2023 67:35


    For the 200th episode, I decided to share an exclusive podcast episode from the archive in The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community.   Fellow stepmom, psychotherapist best-selling author, and global relationship and empowerment expert Terri Cole came into the membership to have a next-level conversation on boundaries.   For more with Terri Cole, check out her book here: https://boundarybossbook.com/   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Get the Ebook: 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook   Sponsors:  Visit LMNT for a free sample pack with purchase Cozy Earth – Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off Poppy Barley – Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for 10% off

    199: Life Update: Stepmom Stress, Burnout, Anxiety, Business + Self-Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 41:21


    In this week's episode Jamie reflects on life lately.   She shares an update on her anxiety, business, self care, and how it's mirroring her step-motherhood journey.   Listen in to see how she's navigating it all.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Get 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook Book A Coaching Call: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching     SHOW SPONSORS: LMNT: www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase Better Help: Get 10% off your first month at www.betterhelp.com/stepmom

    198: Should You Invite The Ex To Your Wedding? The Low Down On Our Wedding Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2023 32:57


    Darren and Jamie share about their wedding day drama and stressors.   They dive into: how they involved the kids in the wedding the legal hiccup they had before the wedding why they almost didn't get married drama with Jamie's divorced parents how they handled childcare what happened with the engagement Why Darren didn't ask Jamie's dad's permission what jamie wishes she were like on their wedding day   and more.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership   Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide   Get The Ebook: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook   Get Jamie's step-by-step framework for thriving as a stepmom. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/mastermind   SHOW SPONSORS: LMNT: www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase CUPLA: Code JAMIE for 50% off one year subscription via this link or find Cupla in the app store. To learn more visit https://cupla.app/  

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