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So you've deconstructed? Lets talk about it. We are Rachael and Molly, purity culture survivors, used to be "Jesus Freaks" and exvangelicals and the hosts of this podcast. We talk all kinds of things related to your past life of evangelicalism. Come along with us as we dive into this new world of deconstructing!

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    Ep 43 Black Church Girl Adjacent (With Yeside Davis)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 73:38


    Yeside Davis is an Intimacy Doula. This is a person who guides you to improved sexual-spiritual life. As a former church girl, She was boxed in and unable to truly step into all her gifts, as many of them were viewed as sinful. Now, she helps hundreds of women break free from what's hindering them from obtaining sexual-spiritual liberation. She provides sacred space for everyone she works with. She is here to talk about her new book thats out now. You can find Yeside's book on amazom:Black Church Girl Adjacent: A Black Woman's Journey in Faith, Feminism, and Freedom: Davis, Yeside, Jeffries, LaQueshia: 9798986129129: Amazon.com: BooksTo work with Yeside: About | Getcho BlissIG: Yeside A. Davis (@getchobliss) • Instagram photos and videos

    Ep 94 Relationships, Faith and Hot Takes

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 73:17


    Send us a textWe have things to say and we are saying them. Welcome to another manic episode where Cameron and Rachael 'shoot the shit'. They talk relationships, politics and christianity. They may even divulge never before heard secrets...so Join the conversation as they explore the highs, lows, and awkward moments that come with mixing personal beliefs, political views, and romantic connections. Whether you're looking for laughs or deep dives, this episode brings it all with a side of spicy opinions. Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 93 Christian Nationalism's Endgame: Trump, Elon, and Project 2025 (with Tia Levings)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 46:45


    Send us a textThe Christian nationalist movement isn't just a fringe ideology—it's shaping the highest levels of government. In this episode, we sit down with author Tia Levings to break down Project 2025, Trump's hand-picked cabinet, and the alarming role of Elon Musk in the new administration. We discuss the calculated rise of Christian nationalism, how it threatens democracy, and what we can do to fight back. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the news cycle, Tia offers insight into how to stay informed without burning out. Buckle up—this conversation is essential listening for anyone concerned about the future.Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 92 Jesus was a Socialist

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2025 69:02


    Send us a textToday we are talking about our favorite zombie! Jesus. We're diving into a topic that ruffles feathers across the political and religious spectrum: Would Jesus be a socialist?  Spoiler alert, we think so. Tune in to find out why! This episode will make you think, make you mad, or make you reconsider that framed picture of Jesus with an American flag. Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 91 We Die at the End of This

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 67:05


    Send us a textComing to you on inauguration day and Cameron and Rachael MIGHT be feeling a little existential. Tune in to hear more updates about Rachael and her mom, Trumps Cabinet picks, executive orders, Tiktok Ban, Meta and more. Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 90 Project 2025: A Blueprint for the Future of America

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2024 88:19


    Send us a textWe're baaaaack. Thanks for your patience during our little hiatus. Cameron was busy with his classes and Rachael had a BABY. Listen as Rachael and Cameron catch up with what's been going on in their lives, talk about the election and dive into project 2025...What is Project 2025, and why is it sparking controversy? In this episode, we critically examine the conservative movement's bold plan to reshape America's future. Project 2025 outlines a sweeping agenda to transform federal government policies, dismantle regulations, and enforce conservative ideals across social, economic, and political spheres. Critics warn it could undermine democratic institutions, erode civil liberties, and deepen societal divides. We unpack the key components of this ambitious plan, explore its potential consequences, and ask the pressing question: Is Project 2025 a roadmap to reform—or a blueprint for disaster? Shout out to our Subscriber Cathy! You're the best!Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 89 Was Everyone in my Church Experiencing Religious Psychosis?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 67:28


    Send us a textSo trending on the tiktok is spiritual psychosis. We hadn't heard this term before so we wanted to discuss it. Honestly, this sounds like it could be applied to A LOT of evangelical christians, charismatics and possibly Cameron. Was everyone in your church growing up experiencing psychosis? What exactly is it? Does it go unnoticed in church communities? Lets talk about it on todays episode!I'M SORRY IT'S LATE-CamSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 88 The Infinite Self: Bubbles, Minds, and the Cosmic Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 93:03


    Are we living in a vast interconnected reality, isolated bubbles, or is the universe just a projection of your own consciousness? Tune in as we unravel these philosophical ideas on today's episode as well as some of our own personal stories. Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 87 White Guy Thinks He's Japanese After 2 Weeks In Japan

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 60:12


    In todays episode we talk about Cameron's trip to Japan, his observations about the the culture and religion, we talk about their state religion Shintoism, interesting aspects about living in Japan, and how the one girl Cameron met there was(you guessed it) Christian. Join us on this unhinged and enlightening journey as Rachael and Cameron sleepily talk all things Japan.Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 86 Persecution, The Paris Olympics, and a Greek God.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 46:12


    In this episode Rachael gives us some life updates, talks about deconstructing as an adult child and trying to still have a relationship with a religious parent, the Paris Olympics opening, the last supper and Greek Bacchanalia - The god of wine. Sometimes I sit around and think, 'THIS IS THE BAD PLACE."The pictures mentioned in the episode will be put up on our Instagram page!Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 85 Are We Alone in the Universe?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 96:32


    In this episode we talk about the belief in Aliens. We dive deep into one of humanity's most profound questions: Are we alone in the universe? Tune in to hear our guest Alex's insights on government secrecy, the potential impact of alien contact on humanity, and what the future holds for the search for extraterrestrial intelligence. Whether you're a skeptic or a believer, this episode promises to challenge your perceptions and ignite your curiosity about the cosmos. Links to what was discussed in the episode below: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/attainablemind-aliens-and-ufos-in-medieval-art--576671927305263071/https://www.amazon.com/UFO-GOD-Extraordinary-Story-Bledsoe/dp/B0BT6Y6NLPhttps://v.redd.it/9nnb2xoafob81 Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 84 Holy Copycats: Did Christianity Borrow from Zoroastrianism?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 59:02


     Join us on an enlightening journey into one of the world's oldest monotheistic religions, Zoroastrianism. We will talk about the history, beliefs and ancient texts. We will compare the texts to that of the Bible and discover many similarities between this religion that came before the other modern monotheistic religions we know today. Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 83 Educatin' with Satan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 74:19


    Today's episode might be a mind-blowing topic for those of you who grew up in the evangelical satanic panic. Today we are talking about satanism, and you might be surprised - it has nothing to do with Satan. Our special guest today is Kyra Maddix - Kyria and I connected on TikTok - she has 50k followers and likes to talk about her beliefs surrounding satanism, philosophy, deconstruction with an aim to educate people.  Follow Kyria on TikTok @kyramaddixhttps://linktr.ee/kyramaddix?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=242a18df-b8a0-48b7-af26-9ca88b28fb2eSupport the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 82 Susan Is Getting the Toaster - A Wiccan Tale.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2024 80:03


    Join us today as we learn about Wicca. And who better to walk us through the world of Wicca than Susan Grafton, a practicing wiccan. Susan talks about what drew her to Wicca, rituals and practices, symbolization, deities, and where to start if you're interested! She is determined to get that toaster. (IYKYK) The Real Margie Mack, the Happy Medium WIPPAAuthors mentioned in the episode:Marion WeinsteinMargot Alder - Drawing Down the MoonSupport the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 81 Burning Books and Eating Babies? What Were the Early Century Christians Hiding?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 63:00


    This week on the pod we are exploring Gnosticism! Don't know what it is? No problem. Listen as Cameron and Rachael tell you all about this strange forgotten early century Christian belief that other Christians never wanted you to know about. We'll talk all things history and cosmology of this religion as well as some astrology, vibrations, how tiktok is ending and even Tom Brady!Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 80 God, Sex & Rich People: A Pastor's Kid's Journey in the Big Apple

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 82:45


    TW: Mentions of rape and sexual assaultThis is the last of our purity culture series. For this last episode we had an amazing conversation with Mattie Jo Cowsert. Before terms like “deconstruction” “purity culture” or “Exvangelical'' became hashtags all over the internet, Mattie Jo' popular blog God, Sex & Rich People exposed the sometimes painful, sometimes hilarious realities of a young female Exvangelical navigating the diversity of Big Apple, working for the 1%, and dating in a city that never sleeps (and never stops sleeping around). This is her story.Mattie Jo's book will be available September 10th, 2024 on Amazon. Blog post mentioned in the episode: https://www.mattiejocowsert.com/post/the-three-train Mattie Jo's website: God, Sex, and Rich People | mattiejo (mattiejocowsert.com)Support the Show.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 79 Devastating Sex and the Aftermath of Purity Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2024 70:31


    The word/theme for this episode is devastating.  In this episode we discuss sex expectations in purity culture, relationships, relationships during and after deconstructing, late-stage adolescence, sex therapy and much more. Our special guests today are Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson! They are the co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. They are both Boston-based licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists who work with clients in Massachusetts. They currently live in Utrecht, The Netherlands. They specialize in helping couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality that works for their partnership.Follow: Jeremiah and Julia (@sexvangelicals) • Instagram photos and videosWebsite: Sexvangelicals Leadership Lessons From The Great BooksReading great literature is better than trying to read and understand...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 78 True Love Waits

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 84:35


    This is one of the few episodes we will be releasing over the next few weeks regarding purity culture. If you've been listening to us for a while, you know purity culture is something that often comes up in our episodes and I wanted to do a mini-series focusing on it. Here to discuss their own journey with purity culture, we have Canadian queer alt-pop artist Adaline, who just released a purity culture inspired single "True Love Waits", the third single from upcoming EP "Hymnal" (out March 22), that follows her journey of reconciling queerness and the harmful religious narratives she experienced growing up as the daughter of an evangelical minister. To learn more about Adaline and hear her music visit: Adaline (adalinemusic.com)Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 77 Insulting Squirrels and Pagan Deities

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2024 83:46


    Our first episode back after the break and we are diving right in!  Join our hosts as we journey into the depths of archetypal paganism. What does a cheeky squirrel, Marvel movies, and the trinity have in common? This episode! If you wanna know what the heck we're talking about, click play!Grab your cloak and staff, and join us as we raise a toast to the ancient wisdom of archetypal paganism.Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Hiatus Ep Born Sinful (with Phil Drysdale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2024 63:02


    On our hiatus episode today we're going to explore original sin. Oh yeah, shes a doozy. But dont worry, we have an amazing guest here to walk us through the mess of being born sinful.Phil Drysdale is a companion to those going through the painful process of deconstruction. He conducts research on those who deconstruct, has various free resources, including his podcast and offers a safe space for people to anonymously explore their deconstruction. You can reach out to Phil on Instagram with a DM!Phil Drysdale (@phildrysdale) • Instagram photos and videosPhil Drysdale - YouTubeSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Hiatus Ep Purity Culture, Non Denominational Churches, and Porn, Oh My! (With Deconversion Therapy)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2024 94:59


    For this Hiatus episode we must go in the way way back machine to 2021 where Rachael Collaborates with the Deconversion Therapy pod! We talk about our individual stories, purity culture, being 'good', non denominational church's as well as porn and masturbation! You know, all the good stuff. To find out more about Deconversion Therapy: https://www.deconversiontherapypodcast.com/Heavens Gates and Hells Flames video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njG9P0JvzyIFull Porn post on the blog! https://cheerstoleaving.wordpress.com/Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Hiatus Ep Christian Weddings (Thanks, We Hate It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2024 71:54


    Bringing back a fan favorite while we're on hiatus! In this flashback episode from 2022, Molly and Rachael discuss cringey memories from christian weddings you just cant get out of your head. We talk about our cringe stories we remember, and our listeners tell us theirs! You might wanna grab a drink for this one.Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 76 Cheers to Another Year!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2023 98:08


    Exvangelicals and Heathens, welcome back to another episode of 'Cheers to Leaving'! Our final episode of the year! In this episode we share a brief recap of the podcast's theme and the topics covered throughout the season. We reflect on the journey we have taken as well as our listeners have taken, highlighting key moments, insights, and lessons learned. We share listener stories: Feature messages, emails, from listeners who have shared their own stories of leaving, transformation, and growth. And we have a special announcement at the end so make sure you listen all the way!Happy Holidays and we'll see you next year! xoxoSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 75 I Am a Walking Sin (with The Burning Eden Podcast)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 77:30


    Releasing a collaboration we did with the Burning Eden podcast 3 months ago when they had us on their show. We cover our individual stories, talk theology, sex ed, and much more. We had so much fun with Baph and Mel! Go check them out.  To watch the video see below: (94) Baph and Mel Say Cheers to Leaving! - YouTubeCheck them out: The Burning Eden Podcast: With Baph and Mel • A podcast on Spotify for PodcastersSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 74 Jezebel Spirit

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2023 67:48


    We've all heard the term 'Jezebel spirit.' Well today we are diving into the biblical story of Jezebel and what that term actually means. Jezebel Spirit: Refers to a perceived spiritual force or attitude characterized by manipulation, control, and a rebellious nature, often associated with the biblical figure Queen Jezebel. - basically, she was just a baddie before her time and we are HERE for it. Lets dissect and reckon with what being a jezebel actually means.Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 73 See You On the Other Side

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2023 107:45


    Join us for an enlightening episode of Cheers to Leaving with See You on the Side! We talk with Leah and Christine and delve deep into the world of psychedelics and their incredible potential for healing and personal transformation. In this thought-provoking discussion our two passionate and informed guests share their personal experiences and insights. Discover the profound ways in which psychedelics can aid in healing, both mentally and emotionally. Tune in to gain a fresh perspective on the role of psychedelics in modern healing and personal growth. It's an eye-opening episode that will leave you with a deeper appreciation for the profound journeys that can be embarked upon with the assistance of these remarkable substances.  See You On The Other Side | Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 72 Grease Up These Nations for Christ (with Jonathan Logerstedt)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2023 105:22


    Were you a missionary kid? Want to learn some missionary lingo?  Then this episode is for you. We go down rabbit trails including but not limited to, group edging (you heard me), comedians we like and don't like, church porn/masturbation accountability groups and much more. Jonathan is a graphic designer by day and stand-up comedian by night. The son of Southern Baptist missionaries, he was born and grew up in West Africa for the first 18 years of his life. And yes, he has seen Mean Girls. As both a designer and a stand-up, Jonathan is passionate about the art of communication, whether it's sharing his background in the evangelical world, his journey away from it, or how he's learning to make meaning today.Follow Jonathan on IG and Threads: @jonlogzSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 71 Noah's Ark-pocalypse

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2023 73:01


    Welcome babies! In this episode we discuss our favorite genocide story! Did you know Noah's ark isn't only in the Bible and actually appears in history EARLIER than the Bible but slightly different? We discuss that and more in this episode! Lets dive in and talk about that one-time God swiped right on the flood and murdered everyone. Cheers! Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 70 The Holy Dip: A Baptism Saga (with MindShift Podcast)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2023 53:14


    This is a special crossover episode with Dr Clint Heacock of the Mindshift Podcast. Clint was a pastor, Bible College teacher, and was baptized at least 2 times! We ask him about his upbringing, baptism, Christian nationalism, trump and the evangelicals and much more!  For part 2 of this episode, please check out Clint's podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/mindshift-podcast/id1199559501?i=1000629506251Follow MindShift podcast: https://www.instagram.com/mindshiftpodcast/Blog: MindShift Podcast – Reconstruction After Deconstruction, Post-ReligionSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    (Bonus Ep) Sound of Freedom Deep Dive with Cynane Shay

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 88:32


    TW: Sex trafficking Sound of freedom hit theaters July 4th and it is an independent action film directed by Alejandro Monteverde. The story is about Tim Ballard. He is a former Department of Homeland Security agent and the founder and former CEO of Operation Underground Railroad (O.U.R.) an anti-sex trafficking organization. Sound of freedom tells Tim Ballard's story of his Operation Triple Take, a joint action between OUR and the Colombian government that reportedly rescued 123 trafficked people—55 of whom were children. So why are we talking about this? Sounds like a good story, right?Well Ballard is not all he's cracked up to be. Ballard and OUR aren't actually central to the international fight against human trafficking. The majority of the [anti-trafficking] field views them as fringe. They're on the outs of this genre. They like to sell sensationalism…and they fundraise off it. Because Christians love that shit.Cynane and I discuss the new Sound of Freedom movie, Qanon, Jim Caviezel, Tim Ballard, OUR organization, sex trafficking, and much more. Follow Cynane:Instagram: @Taking.Off.The.Tinfoil.HatWebsite: TakingOffTheTinfoilHat.comSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 68 Befriending Your Inner Critic with Catherine Quiring

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2023 102:44


    Join us today as we learn how to trust ourselves, live in our bodies, find our voice, use our emotions as clues, befriend inner critics, and interact with ourselves with compassion. No easy task but if you know us, you know we love a good challenge. Thankfully we have Catherine here to help us.Catherine Quiring is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, and Self-Trust Coach.  She helps exvangelicals learn to trust their desires and reconnect to their inner wisdom.  She also helps people-pleasers learn to trust themselves and recenter themselves at the helm of their lives. The book Catherine mentioned is called Freedom from your Inner Critic by Jay Early and Bonnie Weiss.Free Masterclass about learning to trust yourself: Learn to Trust Yourself Masterclass (ck.page)Befriending Your Inner Critic Course:https://catherine-quiring.mykajabi.com/offers/5hBDzLXtWebsite: www.cqcounseling.comInstagram: @catherinequiring (https://www.instagram.com/catherinequiring/)Facebook: @cqcounseling (https://www.facebook.com/cqcounseling/)YouTube:  @catherinequiring (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaInnZ9JUbQ6CLyOTLqwdjw)LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-quiring/Spotify playlist of podcast guesting: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6IfvPWdsLK3iGynhjCu4I7Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 67 Spiritual Orgasms with Feet of Clay - Confessions of Cult Sisters

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2023 98:09


    Where to begin! Welcome to another episode of our Bi-weekly Chronicles. We are joined in this episode with Sharon and Tracey from Feet of Clay – Confessions of the Cult Sisters podcast!  If you dont know about Tracey & Sharon, they used to be in Last Days Ministries, led by Christian music super-star Keith Green. In this episode we really get to know Sharon and Tracey, we laugh, we get really serious, we talk Keith Greens music (obvs), Sharon has us listen to her WAP rendition, and we discuss the kink side of the spiritual orgasms. Its a grand ole time. TikTok video referenced in episode: https://www.tiktok.com/@lornemalvo665/video/7246334603688938779Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 66 From Fundamentalism to Priesthood: The Transformative Power of Story with Shannon TL Kearns (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2023 62:08


    We are jumping right back into this episode and continuing our conversation with Shannon TL Kearns, a former fundamentalist who became the first openly transgender man ordained to the Old Catholic priesthood. If you have not listened to Ep 65 with Shannon you may want to do that before listening to this weeks episode. We discuss trans issues, trans theology and Christianity. We also discuss how people can be in better solidarity with trans folks today and what listening to trans folks might open up for people who aren't trans.Shannon believes in the transformative power of story. As an ordained priest, a playwright, a theologian, and a writer all of his work revolves around making meaning through story. He is the co-founder of QueerTheology.com. His first book In the Margins: A Transgender Man's Journey With Scripture just released from Eerdmaan's books. He started and led Uprising Theatre Company for 6 years.http://www.shannontlkearns.com/Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 65 From Fundamentalism to Priesthood: The Transformative Power of Story with Shannon TL Kearns (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2023 63:03


    In this compelling episode, we sit down with Shannon TL Kearns, a former fundamentalist who became the first openly transgender man ordained to the Old Catholic priesthood. We discuss trans issues, trans theology and Christianity. We also discuss how people can be in better solidarity with trans folks today and what listening to trans folks might open up for people who aren't trans.Shannon believes in the transformative power of story. As an ordained priest, a playwright, a theologian, and a writer all of his work revolves around making meaning through story. He is the co-founder of QueerTheology.com. His first book In the Margins: A Transgender Man's Journey With Scripture just released from Eerdmaan's books. He started and led Uprising Theatre Company for 6 years. http://www.shannontlkearns.com/Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 64 Jaded - with Marla Taviano

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2023 69:01


    Join us in this thought-provoking episode with Marla Taviano, a woman who wears her heart on her t-shirts, embraces a colorful world of love and justice, and finds solace in the beauty of poetry. Her journey of becoming a heretic and reckoning with her past is an inspiration to us all!  Marla Taviano – a woman of many passions and a love for words that transcend boundaries. From books to love, justice to globes, and anti-racism to blue, gray, rainbows, and poems, Marla's journey through life has been nothing short of inspiring. As an author and an advocate, she embraces her authentic self, wearing her heart on her t-shirts, and is on a mission to live wholefarted (not a typo). Join us as we explore her fascinating world and delve into the depths of her soul through her powerful writings and unique perspectives.Find out more at marlataviano.comhttps://itsmemarla.com/Other social media:Twitter: @marlatavianoIG: @marlataviano and @whitegirllearningSubstack: marlataviano.substack.comSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

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    Ep 63 We Made Our Own Vacation Bible School

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2023 68:16


    It's exactly what you think it is! Welcome past trauma and past cringe VBS themes that give you the ick. Join us as we indulge in past memories of bible stories, skits, hand motions, and songs untold. We will dive into the weird ass snacks and more that made up our childhood. Prepare to cringe and embrace the Vacation Bible School stories. Lets dive in!Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 62 Trauma Doesn't Live in Our Minds (with Dr. Laura Anderson) Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2023 50:33


    Our guest today is Dr Laura Anderson here to share her EXtimony - shes founder of the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery. She has a Doctorate of Philosophy (PhD) in Mind-Body Medicine, Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, is certified in Somatic Experiencing, and is a Certified Complex Trauma Professional. We ask her listener questions and talk about BODY response to religious trauma.This episode is PART 2 of a conversation we started last week. Please go back and listen to that episode before starting this one. Dr. Laura AndersonInstagram: @drlauraeandersonTikTok: @drlauraeandersonWebsite: www.drlauraeanderson.comBook: www.drlauraeanderson.com/book or https://a.co/d/9vdcRPvCenter for Trauma Resolution and RecoveryOnline trauma coaching for individuals desiring to resolve and recover from religious trauma, adverse religious experiences, purity culture, cults, dynamics of power and control, and spiritual abuse. We also have group coaching options as well as other resources that are being developed (courses, seminars, workbooks, podcasts, etc.)Instagram: @traumaresolutionandrecoveryWebsite: www.traumaresolutionandrecovery.comSupport the showSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 61 Trauma Doesn't Live in Our Minds (with Dr. Laura Anderson) Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2023 66:54


    Our guest today is Dr Laura Anderson here to share her EXtimony - she founder of the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery. She has a Doctorate of Philosophy (PhD) in Mind-Body Medicine, Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, is certified in Somatic Experiencing, and is a Certified Complex Trauma Professional. We ask her listener questions and talk about BODY response to religious trauma. Dr. Laura AndersonInstagram: @drlauraeandersonTikTok: @drlauraeandersonWebsite: www.drlauraeanderson.comBook: www.drlauraeanderson.com/book or https://a.co/d/9vdcRPvCenter for Trauma Resolution and RecoveryOnline trauma coaching for individuals desiring to resolve and recover from religious trauma, adverse religious experiences, purity culture, cults, dynamics of power and control, and spiritual abuse. We also have group coaching options as well as other resources that are being developed (courses, seminars, workbooks, podcasts, etc.)Instagram: @traumaresolutionandrecoveryWebsite: www.traumaresolutionandrecovery.comSupport the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 60 The Hidden Realty of Christian Fundamentalism Part 2 (with Tia Levings)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2023 57:17


    You will likely recognize our guest today from her social media reels on Instagram speaking out about Christian fundamentalisms hidden realities. If not, go check them out they are great! Today's topics we cover Christian fundamentalism and how its seeping into our politics! They have a hidden agenda and yeah it sounds crazy but so does reality. I mean we're literally on a giant rotating rock floating in space so like do the math. This is part 2 of our episode that dropped on May 11th so please check that out for some back story on Tia before listening to this one. See Tia in 'Shiny Happy People' on Amazon Prime on June 2nd. Follow her, support her, order her book-shes a legend! Tia Levings shares the realities of what it's like to live in Christian fundamentalism on social media.Her work seeks out the missing female perspective in patriarchal spaces and supports the survivors of religious trauma. She will appear in the 2023 Amazon docuseries on the Institute of Basic Life Principles and her memoir,A Well-Trained Wife, will be released in 2024 (St. Martin's Press).Learn more at TiaLevings.com@tialevingswriter on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and YouTube Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 59 The Hidden Reality of Christian Fundamentalism Part 1 (with Tia Levings)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 62:26


    You will likely recognize our guest today from her social media reels on Instagram speaking out about Christian fundamentalisms hidden realities. If not, go check them out they are great! Today's topics we cover high control marriage and high control religion, and handmaid's tale shit. There is some content that will be triggering for some listeners (marital rape, infant discipline and death, violence) please be advised before listening to this episode. Tia Levings shares the realities of what it's like to live in Christian fundamentalism on social media.Her work seeks out the missing female perspective in patriarchal spaces and supports the survivors of religious trauma. She will appear in the 2023 Amazon docuseries on the Institute of Basic Life Principles and her memoir,A Well-Trained Wife, will be released in 2024 (St. Martin's Press).Learn more at TiaLevings.com@tialevingswriter on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and YouTube Support the showFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 58 IndoctriNation with Rachel Bernstein

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2023 65:36


    Ya'll ready to get real culty? Of course you are! You may recognize our guest from the Starz documentary Seduced: Inside the Nexium cult, or the Netflix series Unwell. She's also made many media appearances over the years as a cult expert on CNN, MSNBC, BBC, NPR, Bloomberg, and many other news outlets. When you're finished with this episode, you'll be thinking EVERYTHING IS A CULT. Here is our super special crossover episode with IndoctriNation podcast. You can go on over to her podcast and listen to our episode that dropped on April 19th.  Rachel Bernstein is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist from Los Angeles, California who has specialized in cult intervention and re-acclimation for over 30 years. Rachel Bernstein is also the host of IndoctriNATION: A weekly podcast covering cults, manipulators, and protecting yourself from systems of control where she has interviewed hundreds of cult survivors, journalists, and experts. Her webinar lecture for cult survivors entitled "Living In Freedom" is available at Rachelbernsteintherapy.comPodcast: https://linktr.ee/indoctrinationWebsite: https://rachelbernsteintherapy.comBook: https://www.amazon.com/Now-I-Know-Rachel-Bernstein/dp/1620867893Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 57 RachaelTales

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2023 118:02


    The moment you've all been waiting for...Rachaels dark past, REVEALED. In this episode Rachael talks about her journey from teen fundamentalist, lack of sex ed and direction, being thrown into motherhood, and on and off again of an abusive Christian boyfriend/baby daddy. Molly comes in at the end to save the day with some grounding exercises we all need after this, and we talk about the importance of grounding ourselves, and how to help someone in an abusive relationship. Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 56 Taking Off the Tin Foil Hat (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2023 60:38


    Today we are continuing our conversation with Cynane Shay. If you haven't had the chance to listen to part 1 (ep 55) we highly recommend it as we are picking up right where we left off. Cynane has a bachelor's degree in nuclear engineering from the University of Florida. Now 30, she is a civilian contractor in the United States Navy's Nuclear Propulsion Training Program. Think Kelly McGillis from Top Gun, but with submarines instead of fighter jets.Growing up, conspiracy theories were normalized in her IBLP-cult influenced community. But 2020, with COVID, Trump, and Qanon, forced her to realize this was a broader evangelical problem that affected more than just her rapture-obsessed family.Since then, Cynane has followed her friends and family down the rabbit hole, deconstructed from white Christian nationalism, and tried to document the process in her upcoming memoir: Taking Off the Tinfoil Hat: How Space Lasers and Lizard People Dismantled my Christian Worldview.To follow Cynane and learn more about her book:Instagram: @Taking.Off.The.Tinfoil.HatWebsite: TakingOffTheTinfoilHat.comFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 55 Taking Off the Tin Foil Hat (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2023 73:22


    We have a special guest today. Cynane Shay is here to talk about her book 'Taking off the Tin Foil Hat.' A book about her deconstruction and the conspiracy's surrounding covid that started it all. How much do you know about Lizard People? The Flat Earth? The impending resurrection of John F. Kennedy? Well buckle up, you're about to be an expert.(Rachael takes a brief moment to tell us about her haunted house, so apparently we are a ghost podcast now)Cynane has a bachelor's degree in nuclear engineering from the University of Florida. Now 30, she is a civilian contractor in the United States Navy's Nuclear Propulsion Training Program. Think Kelly McGillis from Top Gun, but with submarines instead of fighter jets.Growing up, conspiracy theories were normalized in her IBLP-cult influenced community. But 2020, with COVID, Trump, and Qanon, forced her to realize this was a broader evangelical problem that affected more than just her rapture-obsessed family.Since then, Cynane has followed her friends and family down the rabbit hole, deconstructed from white Christian nationalism, and tried to document the process in her upcoming memoir: Taking Off the Tinfoil Hat: How Space Lasers and Lizard People Dismantled my Christian Worldview.To follow Cynane and learn more about her book:Instagram: @Taking.Off.The.Tinfoil.HatWebsite: TakingOffTheTinfoilHat.comAd:Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 54 Asbury Revival

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 72:28


    Molly and Rachael talk about global warning(not a typo), the Ohio incident, how Molly wants a homestead and most importantly what happened at the Asbury revival and of course, share their opinions on it.  Domestic Abuse UnchurchedWelcome to the Domestic Abuse Unchurched podcast. Each week we'll be stepping into the...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 53 - A Year of Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2022 61:57


    Our last episode of 2022. Molly and I recap our episodes this year, the guests we had, the growth we've seen in ourselves and the podcast. We are taking a little break in the new year but we will be back on MARCH 3RD 2023! Cause we know you need a little Molly and Rachael in your lives. XOXOConference Link: www.decon2023.comFacebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 52 MollyTales

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2022 95:04


     We're gonna be real christian today and be nosey about Mollys personal life. This episode is vulnerable tale of self-discovery. Proceed with caution, grab a drink and listen to MollyTales.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    (Bonus Ep) Therapy vs Coaching: What You Keed to Know

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2022 41:10


    We are addressing a situation that has come to our attention, as well as educating you on what to look for when considering hiring a therapist or life coach. We discuss red flags to be aware of and how to determine which one you need. We got you. Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 50 Christian Weddings (Thanks, We Hate It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2022 71:18


    Do you have a cringey memory from that one christian wedding you just cant get out of your head? You're not alone. We talk about our cringe stories we remember, and our listeners tell us theirs! You might wanna grab a drink for this one.Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 49 I Was a Teenage Fundamentalist with Brian & Troy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2022 85:58


    This is a special crossover episode with Brian and Troy of the I was a Teenage Fundamentalist Podcast: https://pod.link/1558606464TW: Conversion Therapy and Mention of SuicideBrian and Troy used to be loyal megachurch leaders.  They're not anymore. They have an honest and hilarious podcast that peeks behind the curtain at the weird, the worrying, and sometimes traumatic world of Pentecostalism. In this episode we talk about Brian and Troy's individual stories, evangelism, DC Talk, compare scars and talk shit.For part 1 of this episode, please check out their podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts!For more information about I was a Teenage Fundamentalist check out their links here: I was a Teenage Fundamentalist | Twitter, Instagram | Linktree Facebook Suppport Group: Cheers to Leaving - Exvangelical Support Group | Facebook

    Ep 48 The Parallel Between Religion and Disordered Eating (with Rebecca Hambright)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2022 73:49


    Rebecca Hambright is an anti-diet Dietitian, and her practice is focused on weight-inclusivity, intuitive eating, and body neutrality. Her values are rooted in respect and empathy for all bodies. Rebecca understands that experiences related to food and body come withnuance and are affected by systems of oppression, and she is committed toworking against fat-phobia, weight stigma, and healthism. She is passionate about empowering others to reclaim their inherent body wisdom and she will encourage you to challenge food rules and health assumptions in order to discover a relationship with food, body, and mind that is based in compassion.Rebecca achieved both a Bachelor's and a Master's degrees in Dietetics at Appalachian State University, and still reside in lovely western North Carolina.To work with Rebecca:  www.wiseheartnutrition.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wiseheart_nutrition/ Blog: https://www.wiseheartnutrition.com/blog/religion-and-diet-culture-a-recovery-story  

    Ep 47 Halloween and A Little Devil Worship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2022 58:24


    Its spooky season bebes. You know, Satan's holiday. The infamous Halloween. Did you celebrate growing up? Or did you do Harvest parties and trunk or treats at your church? Did you ignore it all together? Lets talk about it! We cover the history of Halloween in this episode in case you never learned the truth, and yeah, its all true. John Ramirez Video: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRHHE9as/

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