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The Equestrian Performance Mindset podcast is teaching equestrians how to get the most out of themselves by training their mind alongside their riding skills. It provides actionable tips on how to: Improve performance, Reframe failure, Build courage & confidence and how to Achieve success, happiness & fulfillment in and out of the saddle. Tune in today to start making strides towards your dreams! Inspired by my own two favorite podcasts The Mindset Mentor and EquiRatings Eventing podcast! Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

Jocelin Lillienau


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    How To Reframe Mistakes & Ride With Confidence - #188

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2025 17:04


    Ever found yourself halfway around a course and suddenly thinking, “Only five fences to go, just keep the time”, only to realize you're more busy with the resume that with riding your horse? Yeah... same here. In this raw and real episode, I share exactly what happened at my last event when I got caught chasing the result instead of riding to the best of my ability. Spoiler: It got chaotic. I almost missed a fence, scrambled through a combination, and it could've haunted me for weeks. But it didn't. Why? Because I reframed it. Today, I'm walking you through the mindset tool that saved me, and can do the same for you. Reframing isn't about sugarcoating. It's about choosing a story that serves your confidence, your learning, and your future as a rider. Inside this episode: Why focusing on the result sabotages your performance What I learned from almost riding past a jump The three reframes that turned a shaky round into the most valuable ride of the season A mindset technique you can use today to bounce back after a rough round Whether you're prepping for your next step up, doubting if you're ready, or just feeling the weight of perfectionism, this episode is your permission to be human, and your toolkit for becoming a better one in the saddle. Resources mentioned:

    Show Day Surprises: Who Is This Horse? - #187

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2025 23:56


    Does your calm, rideable partner suddenly transform into an adrenaline-fueled beast the moment you trot up the centerline at a show? You're not alone! In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna unpack one of the most frustrating experiences riders face: when your horse becomes an entirely different animal at competitions; hotter, stronger, and seemingly tuned out from how they go at home. In this episode you'll learn: How your own expectations could be quietly creating tension in the saddle. Why “riding the horse you have” (not the one from training) is more than a cliché, it's a survival strategy. What happens when you hold your breath… and how it might be unraveling your round. A powerful "hula hoop" mindset to stay focused on what you can actually control. How to redefine success at shows to fuel learning instead of feeding self-criticism. Ways to use visualization and embodiment that go beyond imagining a perfect test, into truly feeling how you'll ride it. Practical competition prep tips to streamline logistics and reduce stress. Resources mentioned:

    How to Stop Caring What Others Think - #186

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 14:48


    In today's episode, join Jocelin as she shines a light on the common fear of what people think and equips you with actionable steps to ride with more confidence and joy, regardless of who's watching. She tackles the silent struggle that holds many riders back: the fear of judgment. Whether it's during training sessions, competitions, or after making a mistake, this fear can sap your confidence and steal the joy from your riding. But it doesn't have to. Learn practical steps to recognize, challenge, and overcome this mental block so you can ride with freedom and self-assurance. Resources mentioned:

    Overcoming Fear of Failure with an Experienced Horse - #185

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 17:58


    In this podcast episode, Jocelin and Lorna tackles the common fear of failure that arises when riders take on horses who have competed at a higher level and how the pressure of a horse's past achievements can lead to self-doubt and anxiety about not measuring up. In this episode, we explore: Why the pressure of a horse's past achievements can trigger fear of failure. The importance of understanding your goals with this horse (learning vs. proving). Why comparing your progress to the horse's previous rider is unhelpful. How to treat an experienced horse as a new partnership, building The common fears underlying "fear of failure" (judgment, mistakes, etc.). Reframing the idea of "doing the horse justice" by focusing on its well-being. Letting go of external expectations and focusing on your own journey. Recognizing that your internal doubts often drive your external anxieties. Key takeaway from this episode: Focus on your individual journey and goals with your horse. Release the pressure of past achievements, embrace the learning process, and remember that your mindset is key to a successful partnership. Resources mentioned:

    How We got a First World Championships Qualification - #184

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2025 32:03


    This episode is all about documenting a huge milestone in our journey — our first qualification for the World Championships for 7-year-old event horses! I'm taking you behind the scenes of the ride that made it happen, the mindset that carried us through, and the lessons you can apply to your own goals and dreams. In this episode, I share: The story of our second 2*L and how we pulled off our best performance yet Why setting big goals but releasing expectations is the key to loving the journey How trusting the process (even through frustration) leads to the big moments The power of surrendering to what's meant to be — and why the universe always has your back What it takes mentally to perform under real pressure The magic of the eventing community and how showing up for others fuels your own success How to borrow belief from the people around you when self-doubt creeps in If you take just one thing from this episode: You are capable of more than you think — and when you trust the process, celebrate the small steps, and surround yourself with the right energy, your dreams are closer than you realize. Resources mentioned:

    Why You Feel Frustrated & What To Do About It - #183

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2025 19:44


    Frustration: Your Secret Weapon or Biggest Riding Roadblock? In this powerful episode, Jocelin and Lorna unpacks the hidden potential of frustration in equestrian performance, revealing how your mental approach can transform seemingly impossible challenges into breakthrough moments. We dive deep into: ✔ Why frustration is actually a growth opportunity, not a setback ✔ How controlling outcomes sabotages your riding progress ✔ The critical difference between helpful frustration and destructive self-criticism ✔ Strategies to turn mental roadblocks into powerful learning experiences ✔ Practical techniques to shift your mindset from stuck to unstoppable Your frustration isn't your enemy it's your brain's way of signaling untapped potential. Learn to listen, adapt, and breakthrough.

    Mental Self Sabotage: 4 Common Interferences - #182

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2025 16:03


    Have you had that ride that started great and then suddenly spiraled into frustration? In this episode, Jocelin brings you behind the scenes of a pretty intense XC lesson she had last week. She's breaking down the four specific ways she sabotaged herself during that lesson, and how you can learn to spot (and stop) these mental interferences in your own riding. This one's a real peek behind the curtain into the good, the messy, and the super relatable realities of performance under pressure.If you have any questions email us at info@mindeq.euFollow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    Key Reminders for The First Event of The Season - #181

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2025 44:03


    Your mindset at competitions can either elevate your riding or sabotage your success. In this episode, we reflect on our first events of the season, sharing insights on how setting clear intentions, embracing mistakes, and staying present can drastically improve your performance and enjoyment. We also discuss: ✔ Why setting rigid expectations often leads to disappointment ✔ The importance of defining success beyond scores ✔ How laughter and relaxation transform your competitive mindset ✔ Using competitions as "measuring moments" for realistic progress checks ✔ Strategies to maintain a growth-focused mindset even during setbacks

    The Messy Middle - #180

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2025 18:18


    Do you feel like you're stuck in the “in-between”? Like you're doing the work but nothing seems to click, and you're constantly second-guessing yourself? Welcome to the messy middle, that phase in your riding, season, or growth where clarity feels miles away, self-doubt creeps in, and progress seems invisible. In this episode, Jocelin breaks down what the messy middle really is, why it's mentally challenging, and most importantly, how to keep your head in the game when things feel hard. If you're riding with confusion, frustration, or fear right now… you're not broken. You're learning. Let's talk about how to stay focused and keep trusting the process.

    10 Mind Rules to Get Out of Your Own Way - #179

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 37:09


    Your mind can either hold you back or be your greatest asset. In this episode, we break down 10 Mind Rules that will help you take control of your thoughts, build unshakable confidence, and get your mind working for you instead of against you. We also talk about: ✔ Why trying harder can actually make things worse ✔ The power of visualization (and how it works 80% as well as actually riding) ✔ How tiny, consistent changes create massive long-term progress ✔ How your thoughts literally shape your physical reactions and performance ✔ How to rewire your brain for confidence and success

    Stop Saying “Good Luck”, Here's Why... - #178

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 15:46


    Do you really need luck—or do you need confidence in your preparation? In this episode, Jocelin breaks down why the words you use matter more than you think. Saying “good luck” seems harmless, but it subtly shifts the focus away from your effort, skill, and preparation—reinforcing the idea that success is up to fate. But here's the truth: you are in control Want more mindset and performance hacks?Sign up for our weekly emails: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Let's Work Together:

    Breaking Barriers in Equestrian Sport with Ela Zembilci - #177

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 49:50


    What does it take to break barriers and pave the way for future riders? In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna sat down with the incredible Ela Zembilci, whose deep-rooted equestrian history and personal journey make for an inspiring conversation. Ela's family has played a pivotal role in shaping the horse industry in Turkey—from her grandfather founding the Turkish Jockey Club to her mother becoming the first licensed female jockey in the world. Ela shares her own competitive riding career, the challenges of training in Turkey with limited resources, and how she transitioned into equestrian fitness. We talk about resilience, adapting to change, and why strength and fitness matter just as much in the saddle as they do in life.

    How to Win Today - #176

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 19:13


    Are you ending your day frustrated by everything you didn't get done? What if success was as simple as one daily action? In this episode, Jocelin will talk about strategies on how to win the day and what to do if you miss a day (and how to bounce back fast) ACTION TIP: Define your winning action for the day, post it on social media, and tag me on Instagram (@jocelinlillienau) using the hashtag #winningtheday. Let's hold each other accountable! Sign up to receive Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau

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    Breaking Free from Spiraling Negative Thoughts - #175

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 21:32


    Found yourself spiraling in negative thoughts? In this episode, we break down why negative thoughts stick, how to stop them before they take over, and practical mindset shifts that help you ride with more confidence and clarity.You'll learn: The real reason we get stuck in worry and anxiety A simple mindset shift to stop self-sabotaging Powerful visuals (like the ‘floating cloud' and ‘inflatable ball') to help you let go of fear Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Get in touch with us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau

    React Faster in the Ring: Ride with Feel, Not Thought - #174

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 16:34


    Do you feel like your reactions in the ring are too slow? Like by the time you realize you need to adjust, it's already too late?

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    Riding for Redemption with Elizabeth Topolskaya - #173

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 65:38


    Get ready to be inspired! In this very special episode, Jocelin and Lorna welcome Elizabeth—a passionate show jumper from Dubai who reveals how she turned her ballet-trained perfectionism into unstoppable determination in the ring. Hear how she broke free from limiting beliefs and overcame life's toughest challenges to discover her true riding potential. If you're ready to unlock the mindset that fuels real transformation—both in and out of the saddle—you won't want to miss Elizabeth's remarkable story. Tune in and get fired up for your own journey!Follow Elizabeth's Journey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eli_flying_horses/Download Jocelin and Lorna's Top 5 Favorite Mental Tools Free PDF: https://www.mindeq.eu/mentaltoolsGet in touch with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    My Word of the Year: Self-Trust - #172

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 10:55


    What's your word of the year?In this episode, I'm sharing the personal story behind mine—“Self-Trust.” Learn why I chose it, how I'm applying it to my riding and daily life, and how you can discover your own guiding word to elevate your mindset this year. We'll explore setting bigger goals, trusting your decisions, and overcoming the urge to overthink. Ready to make this year your strongest one yet? Grab our Top 5 Favourite Mental Tools for Competitive Riders for FREE at www.mindeq.eu/mentaltools. Get in touch with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/Send us an email at info@mindeq.eu

    Breaking Free from Past Coaching Trauma - #171

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 21:13


    Caught yourself freezing in the saddle when flashbacks of harsh coaching or negative comments creep in?In this episode Jocelin & Lorna dive into powerful 90/10 rule to help you reclaim your mental space and regain control of your riding. Discover how you have more influence over your performance than you think. Ready for more? Download our 5 Favorite Mental Tools PDF—the same mindset strategies we use ourselves and with our riders—absolutely free.

    What Happens When You Think "It Must Work Out" - #170

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 11:02


    Have you gone into a ride thinking, 'This HAS to work out'? Whether it's a show or a challenging exercise, that pressure can feel overwhelming. I've been there and let me tell you, it didn't go as planned. In this episode, Jocelin is sharing her personal experience and what a client recently revealed about the same struggle. We'll explore why the mindset of 'it MUST work' can sabotage your performance, and how shifting your focus to trust and presence can turn everything around. Access our Top 5 Favourite Mental Tools for Competitive Riders for FREE: www.mindeq.eu/mentaltools

    Your Past Doesn't Define You - #169

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 14:51


    How to break free from old habits and patterns that keep showing up in your riding and in life? In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna share why your past does NOT have to dictate your future—and how a single thought can completely transform your experience. From practical tips on rewriting negative self-talk to insightful advice on becoming the “gatekeeper” of your own mind. You'll learn how to set a new standard for yourself simply by choosing better thoughts, so you can start 2025 with a fresh perspective and unshakable confidence in and out of the saddle.

    From Trying Hard to Riding in Flow - #168

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 11:08


    Have you felt that the harder you try in the saddle, the more everything seems to slip away? You chase that ideal stride or canter transition, yet it never quite falls into place. In this episode, we explore different riding “modes” that could be holding you back. By the end, you'll learn a practical way to shift your mindset so you can finally ride with more flow and connection without getting stuck in your head. Download our FREE PDF of five essential mental tools at www.mindeq.eu/mentaltools Follow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau

    Goals to Fuel Motivation in 2025 - #167

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2024 27:58


    Is Your End-of-Year Reflection Setting You Up for Success in 2025? In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna dive into the importance of looking back to leap forward. They discuss why honest year-end reflections are the key to forming rock-solid goals for 2025—and how to do it without letting fear of failure hold you back. From embracing the lessons in every “bad” ride to breaking big dreams into achievable action steps, this conversation is packed with practical tips to help you finish strong and set your sights on an even better year ahead.

    Improve Your Decision Making - #166

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 10:50


    Do you find yourself hesitating over the simplest of choices? In this episode, Jocelin will share how she transformed her fear of “getting it wrong” into a powerful tool for growth, both as a rider and in her everyday life. She'll uncover why decisions feel so daunting, how embracing imperfection actually leads to better outcomes, and what happens when you finally name your worst-case scenario. By the end, you'll walk away with a whole new perspective—and a plan—to approach decisions confidently and with ease. Download our FREE PDF featuring 5 of our top mental tools: mindeq.eu/mentaltools

    Keeping Faith in that You'll Achieve Your Dreams - #165

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 16:13


    Is faith in your dreams enough? In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna tackle a topic that hits close to home for many riders: how to keep faith in your dreams when setbacks and self-doubt creep in. Drawing on their own experiences and proven mental strategies, they explore why trust in yourself is the foundation for achieving big goals. From redefining your dreams as clear, actionable goals to overcoming the overwhelm of the “how,” this conversation is packed with practical tools to keep you moving forward, no matter what.

    Ride Like You're Talented - #164

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 12:55


    What if you fully believed in your talent?In this episode learn to: Quiet your inner critic Conquer fear of failure Ride with confidence This Christmas, we've got a special gift for you! Lorna and I created a

    The Truth About Progress - #163

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 20:45


    Is progress really a straight line? In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna delve into the true nature of progress in riding and mindset. They share personal stories about setbacks and plateaus, discussing how these moments are essential parts of the journey toward growth. Discover how adjusting your expectations and embracing every phase of your performance curve can lead to greater learning and ultimate success. Sign up for our weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks at www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Send us a message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/ Apply for coaching at www.mindeq.eu/coaching

    Top Riders' Best-Kept Secret - #162

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 10:36


    Is Mental Coaching a Weakness or a Power Move?In this episode, we're flipping the script on what it means to work with a mental coach. Jocelin is going to share a suprising question she got from a new client and challenge the common misconceptions about mental coaching, and also reveal how the right tools can make your journey faster, more enjoyable, and more effective.Are you ready to see how mental coaching could be your next power move?Find out more and apply for coaching: www.mindeq.eu/coaching Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks

    Reflections & Guidance to Our Younger Selves - #161

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 32:26


    What advice would you give your younger self? In this episode, Jocelin and Lorna reflect on the wisdom they'd share with their younger selves – insights that aren't just about overcoming hardship, but embracing growth and learning along the way. Sign up for our weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks at www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Send us a message on Instagram: @jocelinlillienau Check out our coaching at www.mindeq.eu/coaching

    Antidote for Fear of Failure - #160

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 13:42


    Do you fear making mistakes? In this episode, we're diving into the powerful concept of overcoming the fear of failure. We'll explore how this fear often sabotages progress and limits joy in the sport. I'll share my personal antidote a mindset shift that allows you to move beyond fear and step confidently into action.

    Escaping the Comparison Trap - #159

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 23:21


    Are you caught in the comparison trap, feeling like everyone else is progressing while you're left behind? In tthis episode, Lorna and Jocelin will dive deep into the root of comparison and how it often stems from our own insecurities. We'll unpack the mental patterns that pull you away from your strengths and focus, and share tools to break free from this cycle. You'll learn practical steps to reclaim your confidence and stay grounded on your unique path.

    Building Mental Toughness - #158

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 16:18


    Are you struggling to stay confident when the pressure's on? In today's episode, we're breaking down the key elements of mental toughness and how you can build each one like a muscle. I'll walk you through four essential components—Resilience, Emotional Control, Focus, and Confidence—so you can learn to bounce back from mistakes, manage your emotions, stay present in high-pressure moments, and trust in your abilities. I'll share practical strategies, from embracing failures as stepping stones to practicing simple breath awareness exercises.

    How to Change Your Thoughts When Worry Takes Over - #157

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2024 12:02


    Feeling overwhelmed by negative thoughts and constant worry? In today's episode, Lorna and Jocelin will dive deep into practical ways to shift your thinking when those negative spirals start taking over. We'll share tips on creating awareness, challenging unhelpful thoughts, and even a simple exercise to help you regain focus when anxiety creeps in. Ready to stop letting worry control your riding and start taking back your power? Tune in now and let's turn those worries into wins!

    4 Tips to Make Progress Throughout the Off Season - #156

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2024 15:00


    Did you just finish the eventing season? Feeling that post-season plateau creeping in?In today's episode, we'll walk you through 4 essential steps to avoid the off-season blues and make the most out of your off-season. If you're ready to stay motivated and keep your progress on track, tune in! And don't forget—accountability is key!

    Balancing Plans and Intuition in Riding - #155

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2024 26:06


    Struggling to balance planning and intuition while riding? In this week's episode, we're diving into a challenge that many riders face—knowing when to stick to a set plan and when to trust your gut. Jocelin and Lorna share their own experiences of riding under pressure, how they balance strategy with intuition, and the lessons they've learned from making mistakes in the arena. You'll also hear how shifting focus from overplanning to being present with your horse can elevate your riding performance. Tune in now and learn how to let go of judgment, trust yourself, and embrace mistakes as part of the journey! ✨ Sign up for Weekly Mindset Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks

    Why Chasing Wins Hinders Your Progress - #154

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2024 11:43


    Do you always have the feeling of needing to win at every show or competition? In this episode, we'll talk about the "Winning Fever"—that strong urge to win every time you compete. We'll discuss how focusing too much on winning can actually hold you back from getting better. If you've ever felt pressure from yourself or others to always come out on top, this episode is for you.Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklhacks Send us a message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    Building Real Confidence by Taking Action - #153

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 20:34


    Are you waiting to feel confident enough to go after your dreams? In this episode, we're tackling everyone's favourite topic "confidence". Too often, we convince ourselves we need to feel 100% ready and self-assured before taking that first step towards our goals. But the truth is, confidence is built through action, not wishing. Join Jocelin & Lorna as they share proven strategies for developing real, lasting confidence - not the superficial kind that fades the moment you're faced with a challenge.Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklhacks Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    Do More with Less - #152

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2024 10:47


    What if I told you that the secret to success isn't about having more, but about doing more with less?In this episode, we're tackling one of the biggest myths in equestrian sports: the idea that you have to "do it all" to succeed.

    Bouncing Back from Setbacks with Karolina Wernerowicz - #151

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2024 56:23


    What do you do when you face setbacks in your riding? In this episode, you'll hear Karolina's incredible story of overcoming fear, self-doubt, and even a broken hand to reach new heights in her riding. Discover how mindset coaching, visualization, and an unwavering support system helped this determined young rider reclaim her confidence and climb back to the top. If you've ever struggled with the mental side of the sport, you won't want to miss this. Follow Karolina on Instagram at @ocean.ponies_ Get in touch with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/Send us an email at info@mindeq.eu Join our ongoing Competition to get a chance to win a 1:1 Coaching with either Lorna or Jocelin. Register now at www.mindeq.eu/win

    Correcting Bad Habits in The Saddle - #150

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2024 11:54


    Is it possible to break those stubborn bad habits in the saddle? In today's episode, we're diving deep into a popular topic that came up during our recent free masterclasses: Is it possible to break bad habits in the saddle? My answer is a resounding YES, and listen in as I will share with you exactly how to do it!

    Stop Worrying of What Others Think of Your Riding - #149

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2024 17:55


    Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think of you? Are you held back by the fear of judgment from your peers, trainers, or competitors? In this episode Jocelin and Lorna dives deep into the root causes of this common struggle and share practical strategies to overcome the need for external validation. Don't miss out on these valuable insights! Follow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/ Sign up for our Weekly Mindset Hacks at www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks to receive even more tips straight to your inbox.

    One Thing to do Today to Transform Your Riding - #148

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2024 4:18


    Are you tired of second-guessing your strides or worrying about what others think when you're in the saddle? If any of this resonates with you, this week's episode is going to be a little different, and I have something even better in store. I'm inviting you to join me for a live masterclass on How to Confidently Ride a Distance in 6 Weeks. This masterclass is tailored specifically for riders who struggle with seeing strides, fear making mistakes, or simply don't believe in their own abilities. I'll be hosting two live sessions: tonight, Monday the 19th at 6 PM CET, and tomorrow, Tuesday the 20th at 8 PM CET. Both sessions are packed with value and include a live Q&A, where you can ask me your questions directly.Register now at www.mindeq.eu/masterclass See you there!

    Overcome Your Negative Thoughts - #147

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 18:33


    Are your negative thoughts sabotaging your riding performance?In this Episode, Jocelin & Lorna dive deep into strategies to overcome debilitating self-talk to confidently tackle your riding goals. Discover how to identify the triggers behind your negative thought patterns and learn practical techniques to steer your mind towards more empowering perspectives.Plus, get details on Jocelin's upcoming FREE masterclass "How to Confidently Ride a Distance in 6 Weeks" on August 19th or 20th. Register now at www.mindeq.eu/masterclass Follow us on Instagram: wwww.instagram.com/jocelinlillienauGet in touch with us through email at info@mindeq.eu

    Getting Your Distances Right - #146

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2024 12:50


    Do you want to get those distances right? In today's episode, we're diving into one of the biggest challenges we face: getting those damn distances right – or as some call it, seeing a stride.Jocelin will be sharing tips to help you tackle this tricky skill. But if you're serious about mastering it and building confidence, We've got an even better solution for you. Join the FREE Masterclass on "How to Confidently Ride a Distance in 6 Weeks" happening on the 19th and 20th of August. Register now at mindeq.eu/masterclassFollow us on Instagram: wwww.instagram.com/jocelinlillienauGet in touch with us through email at info@mindeq.eu

    Learning to Appreciate Mistakes with Valentine Emsens - #145

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2024 55:43


    How are you dealing with mistakes? In this episode Jocelin and Lorna sits down with Val, a 4-star event rider from Belgium, to discuss her incredible journey. Get to know the inspiring journey of Val and her resilience and determination in the face of immense personal challenges, and how she has developed a powerful mindset to achieve her goals in the sport. Val will share insights on building confidence, overcoming self-doubt, and the importance of having a supportive team around you. This episode is a must-listen so don't miss out! Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Send us an email at info@mindeq.eu

    Turning Failures into Successes - #144

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2024 15:08


    Are you disheartened by a less-than-stellar performance? We've all been there, feeling the sting of a so-called “failure.”In today's episode, we're diving into a mental skill crucial for success in all areas of life: the ability to turn failures into successes. Many of us struggle with viewing our setbacks from a non-judgmental standpoint and taking actionable steps to benefit from them. I'll walk you through this transformative process by sharing a recent experience from my own riding journey.Tune in to hear more about my journey and how you too can turn failures into powerful learning experiences!Download our FREE Confidence Boost Roadmap: www.mindeq.eu/confidenceroadmap Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks If you have any questions or topics you'd like us to cover send us an email at info@mindeq.eu Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    Adjusting Your Level of Pressure - #143

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 21:19


    Are you letting pressure hold you back from reaching your full potential?In this episode Jocelin & Lorna will dive deep into the topic of pressure - what it really is, how it affects performance, and whether it's always a bad thing. They'll share strategies for managing pressure levels and share personal insights on finding your ideal "pressure number" for peak performance.Download the FREE Confidence Boost Roadmap: mindeq.eu/confidenceroadmap Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks If you have any questions or topics you'd like us to cover send us an email at info@mindeq.eu Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

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    Conquer Your Limiting Beliefs with the ABCDE Model - #142

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2024 15:20


    Are you feeling that you are trapped by your own thoughts? In this episode, Jocelin will share a powerful tool from Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) called the ABCDE model that can help you break free.We'll uncover how this model helps you understand the impact of your beliefs on your emotions and actions. And how you can transform these beliefs into effective new ones that empower you to move forward.Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks If you have any questions or topics you'd like us to cover send us an email at info@mindeq.eu Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    How to Deal with Competition Anxiety - #141

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2024 18:03


    Are you struggling with anxiety when competing? Tune in to this episode as Lorna and Jocelin discusses common sources of competition anxiety They'll share practical tips for managing nerves including reframing your definition of "failure" and focusing on the present moment rather than potential future outcomes. Learn how to use emotional triggers as clues for self-improvement and separate your self-worth from your results. For additional support in working through mental blocks, visit www.mindeq.eu/coaching Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks If you have any questions or topics you'd like us to cover send us an email at info@mindeq.eu Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

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    Overcoming Fear by Dissecting it - #140

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2024 17:21


    How do you conquer the fear that holds you back in the competition ring?

    The Power of Singular Goals and Values - #139

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 22:38


    Are you struggling to set effective goals? In this episode, we'll discuss why having a singular Northstar goal can transform your riding experience. Don't miss out on these powerful insights that could be the game-changer not just in your riding but also in life in general. Sign up to receive our Weekly Mindset and Performance Hacks: www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks If you have any questions or topics you'd like us to cover send us an email at info@mindeq.eu Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau/

    Stay Motivated by Tracking Your Progress - #138

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 16:34


    Feel like giving up when your competition results don't reflect your hard work?

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