Podcasts about messy middle

What do you do when the career path that once felt clear no longer is? What if that stuck, uneasy feeling in the middle of your career isn't a failure, it's information and an opportunity to rewrite your career story. On this episode of The Radical Candor Podcast, Adrion Porter founder of Mid-Career Mastery, host of the podcast Gen X Amplified, and a LinkedIn top voice joins Kim and Jason to talk honestly about the “Messy Middle” and what to do when your old definitions of success no longer fit.  Together, they explore Adrion's Mastery Map, a practical framework for getting unstuck by letting go of limiting beliefs, finding meaning, and making intentional choices even when the next step isn't obvious.  They also dig into navigating generational differences, the reality of different lived experiences and the divisive stories we tell ourselves and how to strengthen relationships across generations. If you're feeling stuck, uncertain about what's next, or frustrated that doing your best work feels harder than it used to, this conversation offers grounded ways to move forward. Get all of the show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RadicalCandor.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Episode Links:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Transcript⁠⁠ About Adrion Porter⁠⁠ Follow Adrion on LinkedIn⁠⁠ ⁠Learn More About Mid-Career Mastery⁠ ⁠Listen to Adrion's Podcast, Gen X Amplified⁠⁠ Explore Adrion's Framework, The Mastery Map⁠⁠ Connect: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bluesky⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Chapters: (00:00) Introduction (02:04) Adrion's Origin StoryA layoff at 40 forces Adrion to rethink what's next. (06:51) Owning Your StoryKim & Adrion explore the narratives that had Kim stuck and how she rewrote those. (09:02) Mindset & Limiting BeliefsWhy reframing how you think is the first step forward. (11:48) The Mastery Map FrameworkThe pillars of the framework: mindset, meaning, and milestones. (16:23) When You Feel TrappedNavigating change when money, family, or expectations limit options. (17:48) The Framework in ActionAdrion tells the story of  a specific application of the framework. (20:39) Breakthrough Moments from the WorkWhat Adrion sees when people finally rewrite their story. (23:04) From Messy Middle to Magical MiddleWhy mid-career can be a season of reinvention. (26:42) Generations & Work StoriesHow different generations think about success and work. (32:37) Wisdom, Age & Radical CandorWhat experience adds to communication and feedback. (37:25) One Action to Take This WeekA practical step to start changing your story now.(38:21) Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What got you here won't get you there. And the harder you cling to what worked before, the heavier everything feels. In this relaunch episode, Andrea breaks down what it actually means to lead forward– using your past as insight, not instruction– and why that shift changes everything. What you'll learn: The real reason you feel stuck (hint: it's not your strategy) Why hard work alone won't move your business forward How to create breathing room without achieving less In this episode:04:11 – Business Growth Starts With You05:42 – Broken Belief, Not Broken Strategy08:10 – Interest vs. Commitment09:13 – Your Commitment Is NOT The Problem– Your Belief IS10:46 – Ease Isn't Laziness– It's Alignment13:18 – Your Business Is Asking You To Lead Differently15:20 – Who STB Is ForIf you're ready to make this THE year everything shifts– your leadership, your momentum, your results– let's talk. ➡️  Book your free consultation HERE. ⬅️⭐ Get Andrea's newsletter, packed with practical ways to lead and grow your business without losing yourself in it: https://andrealiebrosscoaching.kit.com ⭐ Get Andrea's bestselling book – She Thinks Big: The Entrepreneurial Woman's Guide to Moving Past the Messy Middle and Into the Extraordinary: https://a.co/d/5xBdPvN Subscribe to Andrea's channel and watch all She Thinks Big episodes here: https://www.youtube.com/@andrealiebrosscoaching?sub_confirmation=1 Follow She Thinks Big and leave us a review! Apple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicConnect with Andrea and join the She Thinks Big community: InstagramTikTokFacebookLinkedInUntangle your time, reset your role, and build systems that don't depend on your every move. No more white-knuckling your way through success because you're not just scaling your business, you're scaling yourself.Get the clarity and capacity to lead differently and ascend to your next level. Learn how and join us at andrealiebross.com/ascension.

Matt (27) and Hanna (25) have a modest income ($55,000), but are entering the hardest part of The Messy Middle. From paying off over $50,000 in student loan debt to building a net worth over $80,000, their hard work has been rewarding. As they grow their family, though, they face new financial challenges including a car purchase, health insurance concerns, and the balance between living for now and for the future. After talking through all of this, we build a financial plan for their future. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jump start your journey with our FREE financial resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reach your goals faster with our products⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Take the relationship to the next level: become a client⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe on YouTube for early access and go beyond the podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media for more content⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Bring confidence to your wealth building with simplified strategies from The Money Guy. Learn how to apply financial tactics that go beyond common sense and help you reach your money goals faster. Make your assets do the heavy lifting so you can quit worrying and start living a more fulfilled life. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DRINKAG1.com/MONEYGUY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Healthy, Wealthy and Smart podcast, Dr. Karen Litzy interviews Rachel Burr about leadership, transformation, and the challenges of navigating change. They discuss the importance of understanding one's core identity, the messy process of transformation, and the significance of emotional intelligence in leadership. Rachel emphasizes the need for leaders to recognize their strengths and weaknesses through feedback and self-assessment, and she offers insights into building resilience and adapting to the evolving landscape of leadership.   Takeaways ·      Leadership is about authenticity, not fitting a mold. ·      The messy middle of change is essential for transformation. ·      Recognizing signs of stagnation can lead to personal growth. ·      Emotional intelligence is crucial for effective leadership. ·      Feedback from peers and mentors is vital for self-awareness. ·      Leaders should focus on their strengths while addressing weaknesses. ·      Humor can be a powerful tool in leadership. ·      Continuous learning is necessary to stay relevant in leadership. ·      Understanding emotions can enhance decision-making and relationships. ·      Building a path to leadership requires self-discovery and action.   Chapters ·      00:00 Introduction to Leadership and Transformation ·      03:57 The Messy Middle of Change ·      09:59 Recognizing Signs of Stagnation ·      14:45 Building Emotional Intelligence ·      19:43 Assessing Leadership Strengths and Weaknesses ·      33:43 Future of Leadership Development   More About Rachel: Rachel Burr is an executive coach, leadership consultant, and people expert with over 20 years of experience helping leaders and organizations unlock their full potential. She guides high-performing individuals, often promoted for their individual excellence, to develop authentic leadership by embracing their unique strengths, talents, and passions. Rachel's evidence-based approach involves honest assessments of strengths, weaknesses, and values, confronting challenges, and identifying actionable steps to achieve goals. With insight, action, and humor, she coaches executives and teams, facilitates transformative team sessions, and navigates complex change to build high-performing teams rooted in strength, alignment, and integrity. Rachel is the author of her book, Butterfly Goo: The Down and Dirty Truth of Transformation, which chronicles her transformative journey through mishaps and triumphs, mirroring her coaching approach of guiding leaders through change with insight and humor.   Resources from this Episode Rachel's Website Rachel on LinknedIn Rachel on Instagram Rachel on Facebook Link to Rachel's Book Free Gift: Playground Area Workbook Downloads from my book - "Butterfly Goo: The Down and Dirty Truth of Transformation." Jane Sponsorship Information: Book a one-on-one demo here Mention the code LITZY1MO for a free month   Follow Dr. Karen Litzy on Social Media: Karen's Instagram Karen's LinkedIn   Subscribe to Healthy, Wealthy & Smart: YouTube Website Apple Podcast Spotify SoundCloud Stitcher iHeart Radio

The Art of The Pivot  It happens to the best of us. The calendar is set, the mic is hot, and then the notification pops up—a last-minute cancellation. This week on A New Direction, I faced a choice: scramble to replay an old hit or walk the walk. I chose the latter. This unexpected gap in the schedule wasn’t a setback; it was a perfect metaphor for what we discuss on this show every week. It was a clear sign to talk about the one skill that separates the successful from the stagnant: The Art of the Pivot. If I had to adjust my direction on the fly, it seemed like the perfect time to teach you how to do the same. How do you know when it's time to change course? We often wait for a catastrophe to force our hand, but the real signs are much subtler. In this episode, I break down the red flags you might be ignoring, specifically the “Sunday Night Dread”—that physical rejection of your current reality—and the “Competence Trap,” where being good at your job actually becomes the cage that keeps you from being great. We also have a hard conversation about why your jealousy of others is actually a roadmap disguised as envy. Recognizing these signals is the first step out of the drift and into the driver’s seat, and start your pivot Identifying the problem is easy; navigating the transition to pivot is where most people quit. I call this the “Messy Middle”—that terrifying space between letting go of the old trapeze bar and catching the new one. In this solo session, I share the specific tool kit you need to survive the gap, including shifting your mindset from “How do I do this?” to “Who can help me?” and conducting “15-Minute Experiments” to test the waters without drowning. You don't need to burn the ships to make a change; you just need a better strategy to handle the uncertainty. Finally, we move from information to execution. I am not interested in you just listening; I want you moving. I'm issuing a “24-Hour Challenge” to every listener with three specific options to get you started on your pivot. Whether it's sending a “scary email” to a mentor or making a micro-commitment, I'm asking you to take one concrete step today. A “New Direction” isn't a destination you wish for; it's a decision you make. Tune in to hear the full breakdown, and let's turn this unexpected solo show into your pivot. Please thank the sponsors of A New Direction Linda Craft Team, Realtors   Linda built her business in 1985 one relationship at a time, and her team and her continue to do the same things she did 40 years later. They have provided thousands of people the ability to help people sell or buy their next home with personalized legendary customer service. They have the experience, knowledge, and understanding of the home industry.  They also understand you and what you want and need from your next home purchase or sale. What is more they can help you regardless of where you live.  Ready to buy or sell your next home or your first…click on over to to www.LindaCraft.com Enhance Your Audiobook Experience with Zoundy! If you're an author or narrator looking to produce high-quality audiobooks with ease, Zoundy is the ultimate tool you need. Designed specifically for audiobook creation, Zoundy delivers crystal-clear sound, seamless editing capabilities, and professional-grade production tools—all in one intuitive platform. Whether you're recording your own book or refining your narration, Zoundy ensures every word is heard with perfection. And here's the best part: As a listener of A New Direction, you get an exclusive deal! Head over to zoundy.com/jay and use the code JAY25 at checkout to unlock special savings on your audiobook production. Don't settle for anything less than studio-quality sound—power up your audiobook journey today with Zoundy! Here is the truth: You tune into A New Direction because you want to grow. But consuming content and executing strategy are two different things. If you are leading a company between $5M and $50M and you feel like you are hitting a ceiling, the problem isn't a lack of information. It's likely a “human” bottleneck. I am Coach Jay, a Behavioral Strategist who specializes in fixing the friction that kills profit. I don't just look at your P&L; I look at the psychology of the people driving it. I recently helped a stalled mid-market firm save $3 Million and secure new capital—not by firing people, but by realigning their behavior. Stop guessing. Let's find the millions trapped in your org chart. Reach out for a discreet conversation: 919-369-2121 or visit TheCoachJay.com.

Dr. Maya Shankar experienced devastating identity loss twice. First, a sudden injury ended her dreams of becoming a professional violinist; later, repeated miscarriages shattered her vision of motherhood. These losses forced her to confront how deeply she had tied her self-worth to specific roles and imagined futures. Drawing from cognitive science and human psychology, she learned to redefine her identity beyond self-imposed labels. In this episode, Maya explores the psychology of change, revealing why we experience “identity paralysis” when unexpected changes occur, and how we can use that to our advantage. In this episode, Hala and Dr. Maya will discuss: (00:00) Introduction  (02:59) Understanding Identity Paralysis  (07:21) The Science Behind Change  (17:00) Unlocking Potential Future Selves  (24:09) The Difference Between Resilience and Reinvention  (33:14) How Change Reshapes Values and Beliefs  (36:56) Self-Affirmation Exercises That Boost Positivity (40:40) The Change Toolkit: Navigating Life Transitions  (57:16) Navigating the Messy Middle of Change  (01:00:34) Mastering Career Pivots and Starting Fresh Dr. Maya Shankar is a cognitive scientist and host of the podcast A Slight Change of Plans. She serves as Senior Director of Behavioral Economics at Google and previously founded the White House Behavioral Science Team under President Obama as a Senior Advisor. A Rhodes Scholar with a Ph.D. from Oxford and a B.A. from Yale, Dr. Maya completed her postdoctoral fellowship at Stanford. Her new book, The Other Side of Change, explores the psychology and stories behind life's most disruptive transitions. Sponsored By: Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/PROFITING  Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting.  Spectrum Business - Visit Spectrum.com/FreeForLife to learn how you can get Business Internet Free Forever. Northwest Registered Agent - Build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes at northwestregisteredagent.com/paidyap Framer - Publish beautiful and production-ready websites. Go to Framer.com/profiting and get 30% off their Framer Pro annual plan. Intuit QuickBooks - Start the new year strong and take control of your cash flow at QuickBooks.com/money  Quo - Run your business communications the smart way. Try Quo for free, plus get 20% off your first 6 months when you go to quo.com/profiting   Working Genius - Take the Working Genius assessment and discover your natural gifts and thrive at work. Go to workinggenius.com and get 20% off with code PROFITING Resources Mentioned: Dr. Maya's Book, The Other Side of Change: bit.ly/TOSOC  Dr. Maya's Podcast, A Slight Change of Plans: bit.ly/ASCOP-apple  Dr. Maya's Instagram: instagram.com/drmayashankar  Dr. Maya's Website: mayashankar.com Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals  Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Newsletter - youngandprofiting.co/newsletter  LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new  Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Habits, Human Nature, Critical Thinking, Robert Greene, Chris Voss, Robert Cialdini 

Ed Troxell, founder of Ed Troxell Creative, a strategic advisory and personal brand coaching business that helps growth-minded solopreneurs, CEOs, and executives simplify their marketing so they can show up confidently online and grow with ease.Through his signature Just 15™ GPS Method, Ed guides clients to build clarity, visibility, and momentum in just 15 minutes a day, using practical systems across social media, video, and email marketing.Now, Ed's journey from watching his mum's hard work in a 9-to-5 job to creating a business built around freedom and sustainability demonstrates his deep commitment to helping others design work that supports their life, not the other way around.And while navigating his own growth season, Ed continues to model what it means to stay consistent, confident, and visible – proving that success is about showing up, not burning out.Here's where to find more:https://edtroxell.comhttps://linkedin.com/in/edtroxellhttps://www.instagram.com/edtroxellcreativeighttps://facebook.com/EdTroxellCreative________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

Danielle Thompson, founder of Goldspun Support, Goldspun Training, and Fractional Link, a trio of businesses that help ambitious entrepreneurs and leaders cut through the noise, build strong brands, and create future-proof companies.Through operational support, no-fluff training, and her new verification platform for Fractional C-suite leaders, Danielle simplifies the chaos and empowers business owners to grow with clarity and confidence.Now, Danielle's leap from corporate marketing to building three aligned ventures demonstrates how resilience and reinvention can turn uncertainty into impact.And while navigating the “messy middle” of business growth, she continues to show that it is possible to build ventures that truly reflect who you are and the difference you want to make.Here's where to find more:www.goldspunsupport.comwww.instagram.com/goldspunsupportwww.linkedin.com/in/daniellethompson-goldspunsupportwww.tiktok.com/itsdaniellethompsonwww.fractionallink.comwww.linkedin.com/company/fractional-link________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

Meghan Joyce, CEO of Duckbill, says people who see AI as completely deflationary are "only seeing half the picture." She points to the pricing pressure that go into data centers and talent behind them. Maghan later notes her key takeaways from this year's Consumer Electronics Show and the quality of life improvements she sees coming from tech at the conference. She notes headwinds ahead for a "messy middle" of AI, but expects long-term promise. ======== Schwab Network ========Empowering every investor and trader, every market day. Subscribe to the Market Minute newsletter - https://schwabnetwork.com/subscribeDownload the iOS app - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/schwab-network/id1460719185Download the Amazon Fire Tv App - https://www.amazon.com/TD-Ameritrade-Network/dp/B07KRD76C7Watch on Sling - https://watch.sling.com/1/asset/191928615bd8d47686f94682aefaa007/watchWatch on Vizio - https://www.vizio.com/en/watchfreeplus-exploreWatch on DistroTV - https://www.distro.tv/live/schwab-network/Follow us on X – https://twitter.com/schwabnetworkFollow us on Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/schwabnetworkFollow us on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/schwab-network/ About Schwab Network - https://schwabnetwork.com/about

This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of steps has helped to keep me afloat and feeling like myself. As always, I encourage you to get messy, too!  Here to Stay Drive: join the ⁠Supporters Club⁠ to keep About Progress around + participate in a whole month of special prizes. A little from many makes this work sustainable! Podcast Anni: (Still ongoing!) Celebrate 9 years of About Progress by submitting to our annual Favorite Things Giveaway! Simply leave a rating/review on Apple Podcasts. Favorite things + details on who won ⁠HERE⁠. Join the free ⁠⁠DSL Training for 2026⁠⁠! Join me for 90-minutes on January 16th to learn what a Do Something List is and create your own for 2026 1-on-1 COACHING ENROLLMENT OPEN NOW! BOOK A CURIOSITY CALL NOW to be considered for one of my limited spots for 1-on-1 coaching this Winter. More for Moms Conference use code “LISTENER” for $20 off Leave a rating and review Check out my ⁠workshops⁠! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee ⁠Free DSL Training⁠ Full Show Notes Transform your space now. Go to https://www.quince.com/monica for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns; Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Text Kristen your thoughts or feedback about the showWhat if the hardest part of building a business isn't the beginning… or the end — but the middle?In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful lesson that hit me in the middle of a long, sweaty run while training for my upcoming half marathon. My instructor introduced the concept of No Man's Land — the point in a long run where you're too far from the start to feel excited, but too far from the finish to see the payoff.And honestly? It felt exactly like solopreneurship.We talk about:Why the “messy middle” is where so many business owners get stuckThe mindset shifts that help you keep going when motivation dipsWhy discomfort doesn't mean you're doing something wrong — it often means you're growingHow working smarter (not harder) becomes essential as your business growsThe systems that help reduce mental load and create breathing room againAnd to kick off the new year, I'm excited to be partnering with 17hats on a giveaway designed to support solopreneurs in this exact season. One winner will receive a one-year 17hats membership (open to new and existing users), plus a 60-minute 1:1 session with me to help you figure out the best place to start. Enter here.✨ Because the messy middle shouldn't be the thing that stops you from building your fairytale.

She Thinks Big is the podcast for ambitious women building real businesses—and real lives alongside them.Hosted by Andrea Liebross, business coach, keynote speaker, and bestselling author, the show delivers strategic thinking, practical frameworks, and clear, grounded guidance for women navigating leadership, growth, and decision-making as the stakes rise.This isn't about hustle. And it's not about chasing balance.It's about building a business that actually works— without burning out, overcomplicating everything, or shrinking your life to make it succeed.On She Thinks Big, you'll learn how to:Make confident decisions without overthinkingLead your business instead of constantly reacting to itBuild a business that supports your real life—not one you need a break fromIf you're done compartmentalizing, done second-guessing, and ready to lead with clarity, strategy, and sanity—you're in the right place.New episodes every Tuesday.It's time to think bigger about what's possible—in your business and your life._____________________If you're ready to stop overthinking and start leading with clarity and confidence, here's what to do next —➡️ Book your free consultation. ➡️ Visit Andrea's website. ➡️ Grab Andrea's bestselling book titled She Thinks Big: The Entrepreneurial Woman's Guide to Moving Past the Messy Middle and Into the Extraordinary.➡️ Subscribe to Andrea's newsletter for women entrepreneurs who want more time, money and energy. Follow She Thinks Big wherever you listen to your podcasts!➡️ Apple Podcasts ➡️ Spotify➡️ YouTubeConnect with Andrea on Instagram & LinkedIn to stay up to date on new episodes, insights, and resources.Untangle your time, reset your role, and build systems that don't depend on your every move. No more white-knuckling your way through success because you're not just scaling your business, you're scaling yourself.Get the clarity and capacity to lead differently and ascend to your next level. Learn how and join us at andrealiebross.com/ascension.

ノイズを増やさず、本当に必要なサポートを届けるために準備するために、投稿やプロモーションを意図的に少なくしていました。 これまでのビジネスコーチとしての経験、300名以上の女性と共に生み出してきた結果、 そして今のMessy Middle（過程の混沌）を正直にシェアします。 今回のエピソードでは、私が気づいたコーチングや自己成長の世界にある大きなギャップについても話します。西洋で生まれた手法は、日本人女性の自己や関係性、調和の中でうまく機能しないことがあります。その理由と、私がどのようにこのギャップに向き合っているのかをお伝えします。 次回のエピソードでは、このギャップがあなたにどう影響するか、具体的な例をシェアしていきます。 鍵付き限定公開　Podcast

We're kicking off the calendar year in a familiar way on Real Estate Team OS - with Lauren Bowen sharing practical tips on lead sources and lead conversion for the third year in a row!A thoughtful and generous expert on this topic, Lauren now serves as SVP of Lead Generation and Conversion for LPT Realty. In the role, she consults with teams of all sizes. In this episode, she shares what she's learning and teaching!For 2026, Lauren delivers for you a simple process to improve lead conversion and ROI, the most common issues she sees in the databases of small, medium, and large sized teams, specific tech recommendations by team size, the what, who, why, and how of “living in the leads,” and other ways to drive big results with incremental improvements.Watch or listen for the Jon Cheplak-inspired mantra: tiny hinges swing big doors.Watch or listen for Lauren's insights into:The value of getting clear on your purposeHow she developed an expertise in lead sources and lead conversion, one small step at a timeA simple process to improve lead follow up (do this right now)Why and how she became SVP of Lead Generation and Conversion with LPT Realty after a decade with Robert Slack Real Estate The most common issue when she gets into a team leader's CRM and database and how to solve it (note: the ROI of PPC)Primary issues team leaders and ops leaders face by team sizeSpecific tech for retargeting, texting, database, and accountability by team sizeThe what, who, how, and why of “living in the leads”What's never changed about lead conversion in the decade she's been in the businessAt the end, learn about Magic basketball, frivolous chickens, and physical books.Mentioned in this episode:→ Ep 011 Lauren Bowen on 16 Lead Sources for 800 Agents https://www.realestateteamos.com/episode/lauren-bowen-robert-slack-coo-lead-sources-team-leaders → Ep 051 Lauren Bowen on Lead Quality vs Lead Quantity https://www.realestateteamos.com/episode/real-estate-lead-source-quality-quantity-lauren-bowen-robert-slack → Techtember and Julia O'Buckley: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCJiXNo93cVoSlXhdFv_RC9V8G5tUw1QX → FUBCON Sessions and Jon Cheplak: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCJiXNo93cVopyNz34nrcV-kVacpWjvAmConnect with Lauren Bowen:→ Email: Lauren.Bowen at LPT dot com→ Call or text: (352) 843 3434Connect with Real Estate Team OS:→ https://www.realestateteamos.com→ https://linktr.ee/realestateteamos→ https://www.instagram.com/realestateteamos/

We all love a good before-and-after photo but what no one shows you is the middle. The messy, frustrating, emotional part where progress feels slow, the scale fluctuates, and self-doubt creeps in.In this episode of Candidly with Coffee, we talk honestly about the messy middle of fat loss, the phase where most people quit, even though they're actually doing things right. From mindset struggles and unrealistic expectations to comparing yourself to highlight reels online, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what real transformations actually look like.What you'll learn:✔️ Why fat loss is never linear and why that's normal✔️ What scale fluctuations really mean during a cut✔️ Why the middle phase feels mentally harder than the beginning✔️ How comparison kills momentum and confidence✔️ What real progress looks like when results aren't obvious yet✔️ How to stay consistent when motivation fadesIf you've ever wondered, “Why does this feel so hard even though I'm doing everything right?” , this episode is your reminder to keep going. The messy middle isn't failure… it's where transformation actually happens.#FatLossJourney #TheMessyMiddle #WeightLossReality #MidlifeFitness #ConsistencyOverPerfection #MindsetMatters #CandidlyWithCoffee #PodcastJoin this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_8nonbBsA-mTli1KLlHlrA/joinWork with Jeaninehttps://www.jeanineescobar.comMike's YouTube Channel:  @escoelitemindsetMike's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@escoelitemindsetSupport our Sponsors1UP Nutrition Code: JEANINEhttps://www.1upnutrition.com /discount/jeanineTranscendhttps://www.transcendcompany.com/escoeliteMegaFit Meals - Code Jeanine https://megafitmeals.rfrl.co/p75q7Built Bar Code: MRSCEOJhttps://builtbar.com?baapp=MRSCEOJSupport us by following on Social MediaAmazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/mrsceo_jLTK Fashion Links: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/MrsCEO_JInstagram: https://instagram.com/mrsceo_jInstagram: https://instagram.com/candidly_withcoffeeWeight Loss IG: https://instagram.com/@jsbodybootcampTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mrsceo_j

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In this episode, Rachel speaks directly to the faith-led athlete navigating the tension between discipline and discomfort — the one doing “everything right” but still feeling off. Whether you're bloated, constantly hungry, mentally overwhelmed, or frustrated with your body not reflecting your efforts, this one's for you. This isn't about chasing perfection. It's about anchoring your identity and leading yourself with Grit & Grace when the emotions don't match the evidence yet. What You'll Learn: Why hunger swings, bloating, and hormone chaos aren't signs of failure — but refinement How to lead yourself through “off” weeks without spiraling Practical strategies to regain clarity: protein focus, digestion cues, daily mindset resets The mindset shift that separates average from elite athletes What to do when your body doesn't match your effort — yet A truth-filled reminder that you are not behind — you're being built Resources Mentioned: Join the GRIT & GRACE Competition Team — www.rachelrampton.com Connect with Rachel on Instagram: @rachelrampton_ Tag the show with your biggest takeaway using #RachelRampton so we can celebrate and reshare! Connect + Share: Love this episode? Screenshot it and share it on Instagram — tag @rachelrampton_ and use #RachelRampton to help other warrior women find it. Want to go deeper in your athlete journey? Apply for coaching or learn more at www.rachelrampton.com You don't need a perfect day to keep showing up. You need faith. You need grit. You need God's grace — and that's already available. Let's keep building. She's coming.

Today I'm sitting down with one of my clients. Stacy is currently in the messy middle and is bravely sharing her story. Tune in to hear Stacy's story and to learn what she's currently doing to get to the other side of the mess. Get started now with the Inventory Genius Academy. Click here to save $250! Work with Me - https://www.ciarastockeland.com/work-with-meVisit the Bookstore - https://www.ciarastockeland.com/bookstoreSign Up for Free Weekly Tips and Trainings - https://www.ciarastockeland.com/subscribe

We love a good strategy here at Entrepreneur School, but what happens when the only plan is to just… wing it?Honestly, this is one of the main reasons I started this show—to have real, unfiltered conversations about what it actually takes to build a business and a family at the same time. And let me tell you, it's never a perfectly executed 5-step plan.Today, I'm talking to Jessica Lamb, host of the Mama Making podcast and founder of Collabs Creative. She's in the thick of it with a young son, and she gets brutally honest about operating without a roadmap, ditching the comparison game, and redefining what success even means.This episode is a permission slip to let your journey be messy. We talk about everything from leveraging ADHD and procrastination to your advantage, to the complicated feelings that come up when your partner is the primary breadwinner.If you've ever felt like you're making it up as you go while everyone else on Instagram has it figured out, this one's for you.You'll learn:How to embrace flexibility as a superpower when your schedule is dictated by sick days and nap times.Why working with your unique brain (procrastination and all) is more effective than forcing someone else's systems.The truth about comparison culture and how to put on “blinders” to stay on your own path, at your own pace.How to redefine your value beyond the dollar amount you bring in (because your contribution is so much more than that).The strategic power of starting small to build a sustainable foundation without burning yourself out.Why your version of success is the only one that matters—whether that's hitting seven figures or making it to the school field trip.

We love a good strategy here at Entrepreneur School, but what happens when the only plan is to just… wing it?Honestly, this is one of the main reasons I started this show—to have real, unfiltered conversations about what it actually takes to build a business and a family at the same time. And let me tell you, it's never a perfectly executed 5-step plan.Today, I'm talking to Jessica Lamb, host of the Mama Making podcast and founder of Collabs Creative. She's in the thick of it with a young son, and she gets brutally honest about operating without a roadmap, ditching the comparison game, and redefining what success even means.This episode is a permission slip to let your journey be messy. We talk about everything from leveraging ADHD and procrastination to your advantage, to the complicated feelings that come up when your partner is the primary breadwinner.If you've ever felt like you're making it up as you go while everyone else on Instagram has it figured out, this one's for you.You'll learn:How to embrace flexibility as a superpower when your schedule is dictated by sick days and nap times.Why working with your unique brain (procrastination and all) is more effective than forcing someone else's systems.The truth about comparison culture and how to put on “blinders” to stay on your own path, at your own pace.How to redefine your value beyond the dollar amount you bring in (because your contribution is so much more than that).The strategic power of starting small to build a sustainable foundation without burning yourself out.Why your version of success is the only one that matters—whether that's hitting seven figures or making it to the school field trip.

Today I'm sitting down with one of my clients. Stacy is currently in the messy middle and is bravely sharing her story. Tune in to hear Stacy's story and to learn what she's currently doing to get to the other side of the mess. Get started now with the Inventory Genius Academy. Click here to save $250! Work with Me - https://www.ciarastockeland.com/work-with-meVisit the Bookstore - https://www.ciarastockeland.com/bookstoreSign Up for Free Weekly Tips and Trainings - https://www.ciarastockeland.com/subscribe

Looking to get out of your sex rut? Book a free consultation with a member of the Ask A Sex Therapist coaching team! https://form.jotform.com/253156356665060AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and host Heather Shannon speaks with Naturopathic Doctor Jordin Wiggins about the challenges faced by high achieving women in their intimate relationships. In particular, Jordin share how women's "supertraits" can lead to burnout and hinder their ability to connect emotionally. The discussion covers the importance of understanding emotional needs, setting boundaries, and recognizing coercive control in relationships. Jordin emphasizes the need for self-care and the prioritization of pleasure in both personal and sexual life, offering insights into how women can learn to receive and create fulfilling relationships.Find out more about Dr. Jordin Wiggins and her work with Supertraits here: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/educationFollow Dr. Jordin Wiggins on IG - https://www.instagram.com/drjordinwiggins/Chapters00:00 Introduction to High Achieving Women and Pleasure02:34 Understanding Burnout and the Pleasure Problem05:27 Super Traits and Their Impact on Relationships08:08 The Connection Between Childhood and Adult Relationships10:43 Navigating Boundaries and Emotional Safety13:27 The Role of Sensitivity and Empathy16:05 The Importance of Emotional Needs in Relationships18:42 The Messy Middle of Change21:15 Learning to Receive and Shift Dynamics23:37 Creating a Pleasure-Centered Life31:44 Navigating Life's Pleasures and Challenges33:38 The Cultural Disconnect from Pleasure35:46 The Shift Towards a Pleasure-Centered Life37:42 Understanding Power Dynamics in Relationships39:55 The Impact of Coercive Control45:54 Transforming Sexual Relationships53:44 Finding Support and Resources58:32 Embracing Change and VulnerabilityCheck out the video version of this episode on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/bWUnwluNffIKeywordspleasure, high achieving women, super traits, burnout, intimacy, relationships, emotional needs, coercive control, self-care, sexual healthThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

Creating Organizational Cultures That Actually Work In this episode, Michael and cultural anthropologist Jitske Kramer dive deep into the heart of organizational culture. Michael shares a story from a startup he supported, where a crystal clear sense of purpose created unity, loyalty, and a genuine feeling of belonging. Employees stayed because they felt connected to something bigger than a job description. Jitske expands on this by highlighting how leaders shape culture through the behaviors, values, and norms they model. She stresses that culture is never an accident. It is a series of daily choices and conversations. When leaders fail to engage with their teams or invite them into meaningful decision making, organizations lose clarity and people lose their sense of belonging. Both Michael and Jitske agree that leaders miss countless opportunities to build trust simply because they are not intentionally engaging with their people. Transformative Leadership and the Power of Human Connection Michael brings up a powerful metaphor involving an orchestra conductor to show how communication and knowledge flow can transform the relationship between leaders and their teams. When the conductor shifts from directing to connecting, the entire ensemble transforms. The energy changes. People take ownership. Collaboration becomes natural rather than forced. Jitske builds on this idea by contrasting transactional interactions with transformative ones. Transactional moments keep the lights on, but transformative moments build the future. She emphasizes the need for what she calls campfire conversations. These are the unhurried, human centered discussions where ideas form, trust deepens, and innovation actually has space to emerge. They conclude that the most successful organizations are the ones that prioritize human to human connection over rigid systems and corporate scripts. Finding Clarity in the Messy Middle of Change Jitske introduces her latest book, Tricky Times, which explores liminality. Liminality refers to the messy middle stage of change when the old story no longer works and the new story is not yet formed. She describes this phase as uncomfortable but deeply necessary. She explains that societies worldwide are wrestling with a kind of midlife crisis. People are questioning the expectation of nonstop economic growth and the conflict it creates with environmental and social realities. In these liminal spaces, power dynamics shift. Cultural identities get rewritten. Leaders are challenged to redefine what truly matters. Michael shares how timely these insights feel, especially given the current political climate in the United States and abroad. He highlights how difficult but essential conversations shape whether we move forward with intention or stay stuck in old patterns. Leading with Courage in Tricky Times Jitske describes the leadership challenges she writes about in Tricky Times. She warns against leaders who act like tricksters, constantly pushing boundaries without offering guidance or stability. True leadership requires bold honesty, grounded decision making, and the willingness to enter uncomfortable conversations. She emphasizes that balanced leadership is essential. Leaders must be willing to question assumptions, tell the truth about what is working and what is not, and invite their organizations into deeper reflection. Tricky Times has become a bestseller in the Netherlands, and Jitske is sharing its message with influential political leaders who are navigating uncertainty on a national scale. The book is available as an e-book on Amazon and offers a grounded, human centered framework for leading through cultural transformation. Jitske Kramer is a renowned Dutch corporate anthropologist who translates real-world lessons from communities around the globe into practical tools for modern workplaces.    She travels the world to learn from traditional healers, innovators, random passers-by, and everyday communities, studying how humans bond, lead, and resolve conflict — and brings those insights into the boardroom.   Her latest book, Tricky Times (a #1 Dutch bestseller), explores what it takes to lead in “the messy middle” — those uncertain in-between phases where old systems break down before new ones emerge.    With 25+ years of experience, she has shaped transformation for Nike, Unilever, Calvin Klein, and Philips, authored 9 bestselling books (150,000+ copies sold), and spoken alongside Simon Sinek, Amy Edmondson, Yuval Noah Harari on stages like TEDx and Workhuman Live.   Jitske's sharp, funny, and “aha”-filled style makes anthropology highly accessible for leaders facing change, culture challenges, and transformation.   Topics:  The messy middle: Leading effectively through uncertainty and liminal times The real drivers of company culture: Rituals, symbols, and hidden power structures How to “think like an anthropologist” to sense change and spot unseen dynamics The difference between formal power and cultural power — and why rank-awareness is critical for leaders What tribes can teach today's organizations about handling dilemmas and conflict   More about Jitske:  Founder of HumanDimensions, a pioneering training company that helps organizations strengthen teamwork and company culture.  Featured in the Patterns of Life documentary series, in which she traveled to India as an anthropologist.  Former Fellow at the Oxford Leadership Academy; holds a master's degree in cultural anthropology from Utrecht University.  Other books by Jitske: Building Tribes, Wow! What a Difference, Work Has Left the Building, Jam Cultures, andThe Corporate Tribe (which won the prestigious 2016 Management book of the Year Award). Take a look at Jitske's keynotes, other public speeches, TV appearances, and writings.    To get a sense of Jitske, here's an appearance she made on The Culture Lab podcast, talking about the making of a corporate tribe and how to effectively deal with diversity in a team. 

Have you moved beyond the initial steps of your caregiving journey and now find yourself needing to take more control while your loved one still believes they can do most things independently? Are you noticing that simple tasks are becoming increasingly challenging for them, yet they resist your help? You're not alone! You've entered what we call the “messy middle” stage of your caregiving journey. We created for you the comprehensive, 20-step caregiving journey roadmap guide, Navigating Dementia Caregiving Roadmap Connect with us and share your tips: Website: https://thecaregiversjourney.org/Donate: https://give.cornerstone.cc/thecaregiversjourneyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecaregiversjourney/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecaregiversjourneys/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suearmstrongryan/, https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancytreaster/Email: sue@thecaregiversjourney.org, nancy@thecaregiversjourney.org Full Show Notes Additional Resources Mentioned Messy Middle First Steps - You recognize it's time to assert more control  11. Focus on safety.  Listen to these podcasts or read these blogs.Home Alone - Hear about the deal breakers for living home alone:21 minute TCJ podcast: 6. Home AloneTCJ blog: 6. Home Alone.Medication - Understand strategies to safely manage medication:20 minute TCJ podcast: 20. Medication ManagementTCJ blog: 20. Medication Management.Home Safety - Find approaches to the basics of home safety:25 minute TCJ podcast: 7. Home Safety TCJ blog: 7. Home SafetyWandering - Learn ways to manage three types of wandering: outside, inside and during the night.20 minute TCJ podcast: 4. Wandering TCJ blog: 4. Wandering. 12. Continue to prioritize your self-care.  Understand how to approach the realities of self-care:23 minute TCJ podcast: 27. The Realities of Caregiver Self-CareTCJ blog: 27. The Reality of Caregiver Self-Care. 13. Educate yourself on activities of daily living (ADLs). Prepare for changes in your loved ones ability to manage their ADLs.Listen to these podcasts or read these blogs on activities of daily living:26 minute TCJ podcast: 9. Preparing for Incontinence TCJ blog: 9. Preparing for Incontinence21 minute TCJ podcast: 14. Bathing and DressingTCJ blog: 14. Bathing and Dressing21 minute TCJ podcast: 15. Personal Care e.g. brushing teeth, trimming hair TCJ blog: 15. Personal Care21 minute TCJ podcast: 16. Eating and Drinking TCJ blog: 16. Eating and Drinking. 14.Create a Care Plan - at minimum a Family Emergency Plan. 25 minute TCJ podcast: 33. How to Create a Care Plan TCJ blog: 33. Creating a Care Plan. Messy Middle - Continued Second Steps - It's time for more support 15. Start or increase leveraging dementia/adult day programs.  Community resource finder: Select Community Services and choose Adult Day Centers for your search. 16. Start thinking about professional help. Educate yourself: Evaluate continuing care communities (even if you never plan to use one) just in case.33 minute TCJ podcast: 28. Home and Community Living Options TCJ blog: 28. Home and Community Living Options.Understand the types of paid caregivers:26 minute TCJ podcast: 32. Hiring a Paid Caregiver TCJ blog: 32. Hiring a Paid Caregiver.Find an organization to help. Search online: ‘Senior Care Advisor' + ‘your area'.Look for options yourself. Go to the Community Resource Finder sponsored by the Alzheimer's Association and AARP. 17. Continue your education. Take the Savvy Caregiver Advanced training (this can be taken in-person or virtually).Delusions:38 minute TCJ podcast: 23. DelusionsTCJ blog: 23. Delusions.Incontinence:26 minute TCJ podcast: 10. Incontinence Begins TCJ blog: 10. Incontinence Begins. Support the nonprofit The Caregiver's Journey: https://give.cornerstone.cc/thecaregiversjourney

 Because the middle that uncertain, tangled, emotional space is where most of us want to give up. 

In this episode of The Messy Middle, Ali sits down with Carly Matthews—a motherhood and newborn photographer, mom of four, and TMA member—to talk about building a profitable photography business while raising babies. Carly shares her biggest wins from 2025, including how she pivoted her scheduling to better serve her family, traveled for three weeks without stopping her business momentum, and shifted her mindset around client communication. This conversation is full of practical encouragement for photographers navigating the beautiful chaos of motherhood and entrepreneurship. Topics Covered: Pivoting your schedule to fit your season of life (weekdays vs. weekends) Running your business while traveling with young kids Staying neutral in client communication to reduce stress Building long-term client relationships through genuine connection Knowing yourself as a creative and setting boundaries accordingly Finding work-life balance when you're a mom of multiples Check out Pic-Time: ⁠https://motherhoodanthology.pic-time.com/referral⁠ Check out Picture Perfect Rankings: Group Coaching: ⁠https://pictureperfectrankings.com/found-booked/⁠ Learn more: ⁠https://pictureperfectrankings.com/⁠ Connect with The Motherhood Anthology Join TMA! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Enrollment link ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- https://themotherhoodanthology.com/photography-mentoring/ Connect with TMA: Website | Membership | Courses:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.themotherhoodanthology.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Community:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/themotherhoodanthology ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Our Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/themotherhoodanthology⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Kim: Site:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kimbox.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kimbox 

Regenerative agriculture can feel like a buzzword, a badge, or a list of practices you're supposed to follow. But in real life, and especially in a challenging climate, regeneration is a process of learning, comparing ideas against your own environment, testing small changes, observing what your land and animals are telling you, and adjusting as you go. In this episode, I'm sharing the decision-making loop we use on our ranch with both goats and cattle, and why I see multi-species grazing as a long-term benefit—even though it adds complexity in the beginning. I also walk through our big-picture goal of reducing supplemental hay by extending the grazing season, and the real constraints we have to work within, like limited moisture, fragile pasture, frozen ground, predators, and wildlife pressure. You'll hear how we're approaching water infiltration and soil building in a dry climate, why we're testing straw bales to slow runoff first, and what we've already observed from years of intensive rotational grazing, chicken tractors, and summer bale grazing. I also explain why certain popular practices don't translate well to goat management in our conditions—and how we adapt without abandoning the principles. In This Episode, I Cover: Why regenerative agriculture is a process, not a destination The decision-making loop: Learn → Compare Context → Clarify Goals → Test → Observe → Adjust → Repeat How to learn from other producers without copy-pasting their practices Shifting from “this won't work in my climate” to “how do these principles apply here?” Why nature is the best teacher and how to use observation as your guide Our big-picture goal: reducing hay by extending spring and fall grazing The resource bottleneck in dry country: water infiltration and water-holding capacity Why soil cover and organic matter are critical in moisture-limited environments Using straw bales to slow runoff as a low-risk way to test water flow paths What we've observed after 5 years of intensive rotational grazing The forage improvements we've seen from chicken tractors and summer bale grazing Why winter bale grazing is risky/not feasible for us right now (electric netting in frozen ground, elk pressure) A winter feeding strategy that works within predator pressure and management reality A soil-building feeding approach we're preparing to test (and why snow cover matters) Why we're not buying a no-till drill right now—and what we want in place first Why starting with annuals can make sense before investing in expensive perennial seed Key Takeaways: Regenerative practices aren't universal—principles transfer, but application must fit your climate and animals. Nature is the best teacher: observation turns theory into real management decisions. Start with clear goals and real constraints, then break big objectives into small, testable steps. Moisture-limited land requires prioritizing water infiltration, water-holding capacity, and soil cover. Testing small and reversible ideas (like straw bales) can prevent expensive mistakes. Multi-species grazing is a long-term benefit, but it adds complexity—especially in the beginning. “Not yet” is a valid answer on tools and investments; timing matters. Progress comes from repeated cycles of learning, testing, observing, and adjusting—not from perfection. Mentions: Gabe Brown — Dirt to Soil Related Episodes: 84 | The Messy Middle of Regenerative Ranching: Key Insights from “A Bold Return to Giving a Damn” by Will Harris 78 | Winter Grazing: Low Cost, Regenerative Strategies for Goats and Other Livestock 53 | Livestock and Land Management that Works WITH Your Environment and Resources, Not Against Them 21 | Seeking Sustainability? How to Evaluate Options and Make Decisions with a Sustainability Mindset All the Best, Millie   Resources & Links: Leave a review on Apple Podcasts + grab the free Kidding Due Date Chart: https://www.getgoatwise.com/kidding-chart Get Dry Creek meat: https://drycreekheritagemeats.com Join my insider email list: https://www.getgoatwise.com/insider Join the FB community: https://www.getgoatwise.com/community Email me:millie@drycreekpastures.com See ranch life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drycreekpastures/ Disclaimer: The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and should not be considered veterinary advice. Always consult a licensed veterinarian for animal health guidance. *As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases

Sales in 2025 were… weird. And this isn't just a “vibe,” Google actually researched it and is calling it the Messy Middle. So what does that mean for your 2026 content plan?In this episode I talk about:• what the Messy Middle looks like in real buying behavior• why people are taking longer, circling offers, and lurking before they decide• why trendy content and old funnel templates aren't pulling their weight anymore• how to shift your content toward more connection and actual conversations• the changes I'm making in my own marketing for 2026, including in-person connection• how to think about “slow” buying without assuming something is wrong with your offerIf you're planning Q1 and want a strategy that matches how people are actually making decisions right now, this episode walks you through it.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Content to Client ClubBuyer Journey Content Plan

This week on AND/BOTH, I'm joined by Lauryn Warnick, CEO and founder of Villain Branding. Lauryn shares how she went from film school to tech startups to leading a verbal-first brand consultancy—and how the business has grown and shifted alongside marriage, motherhood, and the many seasons real life brings.We talk about:Building a business that doesn't pretend life at home is pausedWhy B2B storytelling has more impact (and heart) than most people expectWorking with a spouse and figuring out routines that actually workThe pressure of being the primary income earner while raising young kidsMoving away from “balance” and toward navigating what each season asks of youThe Disney moment that unexpectedly reframed flexibility, boundaries, and perspectiveThis episode is full of the conversations that don't always make it into the highlight reel—how we work, how we parent, and how we keep adjusting the picture as life keeps changing.Connect with Lauryn:Website: www.villainbranding.comLinkedIn: Lauryn WarnickConnect with Ashley:Website: https://www.ashleyblackington.comPodcast website: https://www.andbothpodcast.com/Dovetail® App: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dovetail-app/id6744341822Instagram: @mydovetail.appLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/

Ever had that quiet voice inside you saying, “This isn't who I'm supposed to be,” but you keep pushing it down because life looks fine on the surface?That was Michael Dolan's reality for years. He built a career that made sense to everyone else, yet deep down he felt disconnected, unsettled, and unsure of where he truly belonged. Instead of listening to himself, he kept performing, hoping the feeling would fade. It didn't.In today's conversation, Michael shares how he found a sense of direction by questioning old assumptions, slowing down, and trusting the faint pull toward something more honest. You'll hear how stepping into uncertainty became the catalyst for a life anchored in authenticity, meaning, and a renewed sense of self.What You'll Learn:

Description:In this raw and relatable episode, Kristen invites listeners into an honest conversation about one of the most overlooked—but essential—parts of any transformation: the messy middle. From career pivots to personal growth, Kristen shares why this unglamorous phase is where true change actually happens.Using stories from her own life—unexpected setbacks, frustrating gym reps, snow days without WiFi, and even a drooping houseplant—Kristen makes a powerful case for why resilience, self-compassion, and showing up when it's boring and hard are the keys to sustainable success.Whether you're building something new, working through a tough season, or just tired of not seeing quick results, this episode is a must-listen. Kristen gives practical mindset shifts to help you stick with your goals after the excitement wears off—and before the big wins arrive.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why most people quit in the messy middle—and how you can be differentHow boredom, frustration, and slow progress are actually signs you're on the right trackThe importance of building "frustration tolerance"How to retrain your brain to spot micro-wins and signs of lifeWhy downsizing your goals can help you actually follow throughHow to find purpose and pride, even when the results aren't visible (yet)Key Takeaways:Progress is often quiet, slow, and unsexy—but it's still progress.The “messy middle” isn't a problem; it's the process that transforms you.You don't need motivation to stay committed—you need consistency.Building something meaningful requires boring, repetitive reps over time.Boredom is a gateway to creativity, not something to run from.Timestamps:0:58 – Recording from the basement: Life without internet2:45 – Why we love beginnings and endings—but struggle with the middle4:44 – What Kristen's “skyscraper year” taught her about digging deep foundations7:34 – Lessons from her daughter's piano practice (and adult frustration tolerance)10:13 – Why high achievers struggle when they're not good at something right away13:18 – Training your brain to look for signs of life15:21 – How to stay in the game when results are slow17:23 – 5 ways to thrive in the messy middle20:03 – Reflecting on 2025: Measuring internal wins, not just external resultsConnect with Kristen:Visit www.kristenboss.com for coaching, courses, and more resources.Loved the episode?Screenshot and share it on Instagram—tag @thekristenboss so she can shout you out!Leave a rating and review to help others discover the show.Send it to a friend who's stuck in the messy middle and needs a dose of real talk

Welcome back to The Don't Cut Your Own Bangs Countdown: Best Lessons of the Year — your cozy December rewind of the conversations that cracked me open, cracked me up, or came back to whisper, "Hey… you needed to hear that again." This week we're celebrating two big themes we ALL lived through this year: 1. Learning in real time (aka: The Messy Middle) 2. The courage to say a brave, wholehearted "No" You'll hear moments from my solo cast on "Tech Sweats" (yes, the kind where you curse at software and question your entire identity), plus one of my favorite conversations of the year with CityMom founder Janine Bobmeyer. Her story of burnout, truth-telling, and redefining success is one of those episodes you feel in your chest. A few moments you'll hear: • "Learning is rarely graceful. It's… sweaty." • "A 'no' spoken from truth is always a 'yes' to something better." • "Being in the middle of a mess doesn't mean you're doing it wrong — it just means you're in the middle." If you want the full episodes these clips came from, you can watch them here: • Full Jeanine Interview • Full Solo Cast: What It Feels Like to Learn in Real Time Please rate, subscribe, and leave a comment — it truly helps grow our community and connects these conversations with people like you :) Connect with The CityMoms:  https://thecitymoms.org/ Connect with Danielle Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0VFZulonTvaa2HIPyJa4Tq Podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-cut-your-own-bangs/id1427579922 Watch the show on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DontCutYourOwnBangs Community: Substack: https://danielleireland.substack.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielleireland_lcsw Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielleireland.LCSW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dontcutyourownbangspod For purchase: The Treasured Journal: https://danielleireland.com/journal Wrestling a Walrus (Children's Book): https://danielleireland.com/wrestling-a-walrus Free Gift for You: https://danielleireland.com/free

This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of steps has helped to keep me afloat and feeling like myself. As always, I encourage you to get messy, too!  Celebrate 9 years of About Progress by submitting to our annual Favorite Things Giveaway! Simply leave a rating/review on Apple Podcasts. Favorite things + details on who won HERE. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! More for Moms Conference use code “LISTENER” for $20 off Leave a rating and review Check out my ⁠workshops⁠! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth, get up to 40% off at ⁠⁠Cozy Earth⁠⁠ with code "COZYPROGRESS" and by goPure Beauty, get 25% off @goPure with code PROGRESS at https://www.goPurebeauty.com/PROGRESS #goPurepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The messy middle is that maddening stretch of the journey where your body hasn't quite caught up to your effort. You're showing up, you're doing the work, yet the scale is stubborn, your energy is unpredictable, and every part of you wonders, “Is this even working?”This is the part most people never talk about—the plateaus, the doubt, the second-guessing, the temptation to throw in the towel. But this season right here? This is the refining fire. This is where real transformation is forged. The women who stay consistent through the messy middle are the ones who actually cross the finish line.In today's episode, we're unpacking the truth about the messy middle—and why it matters far more than you think.We'll cover:What the messy middle actually isWhy it's a non-negotiable part of every transformationThe most common sticking points in your health and fitness journeyThe danger of quitting right before the breakthroughHow to reconnect with your “why” when motivation fadesWhy you need to simplify instead of overcomplicateHow to get curious, not judgmental, about your habitsThe power of support, accountability, and honest feedbackWhy you should adjust the strategy—not the goalIf you're in that uncomfortable in-between where nothing feels like it's working… this episode is your reminder that you're not stuck—you're being shaped.___________________________________________________________Join me on the 'gram! Get free recipes and tips delivered right to your inbox every Friday!Learn more about your options for working with me, including private personalized coaching, consultations and functional testing, and mentorships for new and blossoming coaches: here Schedule a free consultation call with me hereTry Syntrax! To try to the most delicious, gluten free, lactose free "top of the line" whey isolate AND save 15% follow this link. Discount automatically provided at checkout!Want some FREE LMNT? Use this link for a FREE s...

Senior leaders who listen to this episode recognize the moment it speaks to immediately. The pressure to perform has not eased. The demands have not slowed. And yet the strategies that once delivered certainty now require recalibration. This conversation meets leaders in that exact space, offering perspective, grounding, and a steadier way forward without walking away from what they have built.We sit down with author and radio host Lisa Parda to explore what leadership looks like in the in-between season so many leaders quietly navigate. Together, we reflect on identity, wellness, reinvention, and the inner shifts that occur when pushing harder is no longer the answer.This is a conversation for leaders who are carrying responsibility with strength and curiosity, and who are ready to relate to their leadership and their lives with greater intention.Listeners walk away with:A new lens for navigating leadership identity during seasons of constant changeInsight into how to redesign how they lead without abandoning what they have builtA steadier framework for sustaining performance, clarity, and self-trust over time

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on something I've never really said out loud: for a long time, I felt like a complete imposter teaching anything related to social media. I didn't have a huge following. I wasn't “aesthetically perfect.” I didn't look like the typical content coach.And yet… my clients were getting results. Big results. Sales. Confidence. Clarity. Freedom.This episode walks you through the exact moment I realized my approach to visibility wasn't actually about social media, it was about sales psychology, emotional connection, and helping doulas feel safe enough to take up space online.We talk about letting go of comparison, tapping into your natural gifts, turning your story into your strategy, and why standing out online isn't about trends… it's about truth.If you've ever questioned whether you're “qualified enough” to teach, lead, show up online, or sell your offers, this one will matter.You'll walk away with a deeper understanding of why your voice is your most powerful sales tool and how embracing your uniqueness is the key to signing more clients.Struggling to grow your doula business? Tired of chasing pregnant mothers online? Imagine effortlessly attracting your dream clients and reaching the mamas you're meant to serve!? ⬇️ START HERE ⬇️FREE: Book Out Your Doula Calendar With These 3 Questions The Booked AF Doula Toolkit

Stephen, the first Christian martyr, was an ordinary man chosen to serve the early church community. When faced with false accusations and hostility, he responded with grace and boldness, maintaining a Spirit-filled attitude even under pressure. His peaceful demeanor and willingness to speak truth demonstrated that our response doesn't have to depend on others' attitudes. Even as he was stoned to death, Stephen forgave his persecutors and saw Jesus standing to welcome him home. His faithful witness planted seeds that would later contribute to the conversion of Saul, who became the apostle Paul. Stephen's story teaches us to be faithful where we are, fix our eyes on Jesus during difficult times, and trust that God will use our faithfulness in ways we cannot imagine.

If you've ever looked at someone's success and assumed they're gliding through life with confidence and clarity… this episode will free you. In Episode 3 of the Reinvention Series, Erika pulls back the curtain on what success actually looks like behind the scenes — the stretch, the doubt, the quiet fear, and the faith it takes to keep going when life feels heavy. She shares the real story of the season that almost broke her while building her first conference, how she trusted God through uncertainty, and why the messy middle is where your identity shifts the most. You'll walk away knowing you're not falling apart — you're being stretched into the woman you're becoming. This episode covers: • what the “messy middle” looks and feels like • why fear doesn't disappear when you become successful • how to reframe your thoughts through answered prayers • why stretching is necessary for elevation • the lie about success that keeps most women stuck • how to keep moving even when things feel uncertain • an invitation into the OILI Mastermind for women ready to live life on their own terms If you're tired of doing life alone and want more breathing room, options, and clarity — this is your episode. ✨ FREE GIFT:Download the Reinvention Prompt Guide — your first step toward clarity in your next season. https://erikab.kit.com/a24b3bf66d  ✨ Register for my Last Class of the Year for FREE!:Make Work Optional with Real Estate. Click the link below to register! https://owningitandlivingit.com/make-work-optional-webinar/ ✨ UPCOMING:Super Early Bird for The OILI Experience 2026 is now open. -https://experience.owningitandlivingit.com ✨ Book a Call to work with me in 2026!: https://calendar.app.google/NMFNL2CYYPMP1FZn7 ✨ FOLLOW FOR MORE:YouTube for long-form episodes + IG for daily reinvention content. https://www.instagram.com/erikabrowninvestor/

The “messy middle” is the part most of us want to skip—after the rush of a new beginning and long before the satisfying finish. In this solo episode, I share why this season is not a mistake, how it shows up in creative work, business, and relationships, and what actually helps you stay with it instead of self-isolating or burning it all down.I tell two behind-the-scenes stories:Subway Dreams: the indie documentary I stopped promoting after a harsh review—plus the counter-example of a director who kept iterating, resubmitting, and ultimately premiered at Tribeca.Marriage in real life: what it looked like to stay through a rocky, high-conflict period with my now-husband—and the specific supports that got us through.You'll hear:What the messy middle is (and why it feels like tangled spaghetti)Why the instinct to self-isolate makes it harder—and what to do insteadHow to use pacing, breaks, and co-regulation so you don't crash and torch the projectWhy holding a clear vision and finding pleasure now keeps you movingThe mindset reframe: care more about connection than “saving face”Try this:Get support (coach or buddy up)Pace yourself and take real breaksKeep your vision close—and let yourself enjoy the process nowWhen fear of “how it looks” spikes, return to connection (clients, audience, partner, community, self)Work with meIf you're in your own messy middle and want steady support—nervous-system-safe, compassionate, and practical—I offer 1:1 coaching and a small group space.Website: www.annaholtzman.comEmail: anna@annaholtzman.comIG: @anna_holtzmanThanks for listening—and for staying with your process. You're not behind; you're in it.

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

Hey Beautiful,  Do you find yourself in a transitional moment?  Maybe your work life feels a bit wobbly.  Maybe your finances feel a bit shaky.  Maybe your intimate relationship has been rocky.   Maybe some big things ended and you haven't quite settled into the new things.   This is the Messy Middle.   The In Between.   Or, as I like to call it, the chrysalis (explained later).  It Can Be Uncomfortable Here Painful, even. The Messy Middle is just that - messy.  There are so many logistics and emotions and thoughts moving around at the same time, often making us feel confused.   Unsettled.   Uprooted.   Like we don't quite have solid footing in our life.   And when we feel this way, it can often show up as…

What to do when you're in the messy middle of grief? Sandi Waters' story highlights the complex challenges—and unexpected sources of strength—faced by widows.In this episode, she candidly describes the overwhelming experience of watching her partner's abilities slip away, caring for him, and the support she received from Rodney's family and their adult daughter, who moved in to help.Sandi and I talk about:Faith as Anchor: how faith became her main source of strength, especially in the darkest moments. She speaks openly about wrestling with anger, asking “why,” and ultimately trusting that something bigger was at work.The Messy Middle of Grief: the ongoing challenges of widowhood—the fear of being alone, learning to manage a household independently, and the uncertain “middle” phase of grief where the future feels unclear.Finding Community & Healing: Support from children, friends, church family, and fellow widows proved essential. Sandi also found solace and inspiration in the Widow 180 Podcast and started her own YouTube channel to document Rodney's journey and help others facing dementia and loss.Giving Back & Looking Forward: She stepped out of her comfort zone with solo travels and is now leading a GriefShare group, discovering purpose in helping others. She emphasizes that healing comes from connection and support, not rushing the process.Key Takeaways:Everyone's grief journey is unique—there is no timeline for healing.Sharing stories and hearing from others who “get it” is crucial for widows feeling isolated.Allowing yourself to feel, to cry, and not judge your progress is important in the messy middle of grief.Faith, community, and giving back can become lifelines through the darkness.Practical steps—getting affairs in order, accepting help, and finding new routines—make the path a bit easier.Supporting others through grief (like leading support groups) can offer light, purpose, and even hope for the future.Tune in to this episode for honest wisdom, real encouragement, and a reminder that even in the hardest seasons, hope and healing are possible.Connect with Sandi:Follow her journey and support others facing Alzheimer's and widowhood on her YouTube channel: @thewaters9111Join The Widow 180 Holiday Club here: https://www.widow180.com/holidayclub Be sure to join our Facebook group, Widow 180 The Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/312036956454927Also follow us on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/widow_180/Check us out on YouTube at Widow 180: The Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-DK_dl31qMilJ5cE6t9MVQFor more blog posts and resources go to www.widow180.comQuestions? Email me at jen@widow180.com

Most of life isn't a launch or a finish line. It's the middle, mundane, conflicted, unglamorous, and that's exactly where God grows our maturity, resilience, and trust.Jennie names the “messy middle” we all live in: between starting and celebrating, between intention and fruit. Looking at scripture, parenting moments, and the behind-the-scenes of launching Gather25, she reframes the middle as holy ground. This is where perseverance forms character, trust replaces control, and faithfulness becomes the measure of a life with God.Resources & Links:REGISTER TO HOST AN IF:LOCALListen to more episodes: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTubeLearn More About JennieFollow Jennie on social:InstagramFacebookJennie's new book "The Lie You Don't Know You Believe" is available for pre-order NOW - GRAB A COPY HERE!

This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of steps has helped to keep me afloat and feeling like myself. As always, I encourage you to get messy, too!  Celebrate 9 years of About Progress by submitting to our annual Favorite Things Giveaway! Simply leave a rating/review on Apple Podcasts. Favorite things + details on who won HERE. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! More for Moms Conference use code “LISTENER” for $20 off Leave a rating and review Check out my ⁠workshops⁠! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices