FILL IN THE BLANK with Carlos Whittaker

Something I posted on Instagram this week is kind of blowing up… and I think it's because it gave language to some things that we're all feeling. How do we stay human when the world feels like it's falling apart?  I'm back with more thoughts on current events! This episode kind of piggybacks off of last week's when we talked about the ICE raids in LA. This week I want to dig deeper into the specifics of what's happening—from a human level. I didn't post a political argument. I posted a human one. And that's what I want to talk about today. Behind every protest sign, policy, and headline is a human.  If we're going to keep our humanity in tact, we have to hold empathy in one hand and accountability in the other. . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com and use the code CARLOS at checkout. FUNCTION: Join now! The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to own your health. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a deeply personal episode. But it's also a very public episode, as what we're talking about has been all over the news and social media. Today I'm addressing what's going on in LA right now.  As the son of immigrants, this isn't theoretical for me, but I'm not pretending to have all the answers. I want to help us ask better questions, because when we ask better questions, we hear better stories. And when we hear better stories, we become better humans.  This isn't a hot take, and I'm not pushing an agenda. I truly believe that curiosity is more powerful than certainty. And proximity is more powerful than politics. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . ACORNS: Head to ⁠acornsearly.com/carlos⁠ or download the Acorns Early app to help your kids grow their money skills today. AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com and use the code CARLOS at checkout. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're breaking the agreement with a lie that I battle constantly: I should be further along by now. If you've ever caught yourself thinking that, this is the episode for you. I'm pulling the curtain back on the thing that is quietly crushing us. Maybe you feel like you're behind in your relationships or career or finances or healing or whatever. Maybe you look around and it feels like everyone around you is crossing a finish life that you're not even close to. Can I tell you something? You're not behind; you're just still building.  . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . ACORNS: Head to acornsearly.com/carlos or download the Acorns Early app to help your kids grow their money skills today. FUNCTION: Join now! The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to own your health. SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is all about fear--fear that camps out in your gut, that screams about the worst case scenario, that pretends to be wisdom but is actually just panic in a business suit. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com and use the code CARLOS at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Scott's story has made the big screen, and today he's sharing it with us.  Scott is the father behind the hit movie The Unbreakable Boy, which is a story about navigating life with a son who has autism. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly recommend it!   Scott talks about receiving criticism, life with his son Austin, and following your dreams! (You know you can do that, right?!?) Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Stream The Unbreakable Boy today on AppleTV+ and Prime. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! FUNCTION: Join now! The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to own your health. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is unlike any I've done before! I'm out in the field with Bo, our EcoTour Adventures Wildlife Guide in Grand Teton National Park.  We saw bears and other wildlife with him, and he graciously said yes when I asked if I could interview him!  He's bringing all the wisdom of a nature guide who not only interacts with animals but deals with all of the people on his tours. You might be surprised! This is what a professional wildlife guide learns about human beings. Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Heading to the Tetons? Book a tour with Bo at Eco Tours Wildlife Adventures here: https://www.jhecotouradventures.com/    . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's episode is a little different. No guest. No interview. Just me, catching you up on my life. I'm sharing honestly about what it's been like navigating the loss of my dad, stepping into the new role of caring for my mom, and figuring out what boundaries look like in this season of shifting family dynamics. I also talk about the disappointment that comes when people say they'll show up—and don't. If you've ever found yourself holding more than you thought you could carry, this one's for you. Class is still in session… just a little more personal today. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my latest book Reconnected. Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates.  Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak. . . . . . AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com and use the code CARLOS at checkout. DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When I tell you that this episode will not only change your life but may also change your dying, I mean it! Joon humbly shares his gentle wisdom with us as he shares about his experience as a hospital chaplain. He shares a bit about how a hard childhood led him to a compassionate career and where we can find and offer dignity at the end of a life. He has the ability to make a topic we all shy away from feel hopeful. Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Find Joon "J.S." Park on Instagram here: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jspark3000/ ⁠ Order Joon's book here: ⁠https://www.thomasnelson.com/p/as-long-as-you-need/⁠ . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The two most hospitable people I know are on the show today to share alllll their wisdom.  Heather and I were visiting our good friends up in Amish country, and it was such a gift that I wanted to share it with you. Lee Ann's hospitality has moved me and made me feel seen in ways that a lot of people don't.  There's something inside all of us that hesitates to go all in when it comes to being hospitable—we're scared that we're not good hosts or we can't cook well enough or we don't have the right space for it. Let Lee Ann and Heather help you realize what kind of hospitality you're actually capable of!  Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Learn more about Lee Ann here. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com and use the code CARLOS at checkout. SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My good friend John O'Leary is joining us today, and he's sharing some good good wisdom.  John is a master of turning his pain into a hope that he can share with others.  We cover everything from encouraging strangers, living with chronic pain, caring for aging parents, and the importance of community. You don't want to miss this. Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Listen to Carlos on John's Live Inspired podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/20JDgh1AQwWphxsoFQp9oa?si=5fcaed6b6d694a26 Learn more about John here: https://johnolearyinspires.com/ . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com and use the code CARLOS at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

That's right. I'm the guest this week. LOL.  If you've been online this week, you'll know that I launched an online course called Human School. However, what you don't know is how anxious it has made me feel. As an online creator, I battle all kinds of feelings like anxiety, imposter syndrome, and fear of failure. Selling anything online feels like a huge risk. So today I'm pulling back the curtain and giving you a peek into my brain.  AND I'm sharing about why I believe in the content that I create. Here's a tip: Believing in what you're doing is the antidote to imposter syndrome. Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Want to join Human School? Email whitney@carloswhittaker.com before April 14th for exclusive access! . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my latest book Reconnected. Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates.  Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak.  . . . . . SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm so excited for you to meet today's guest! Jess Burke is one of the most inspirational stories of rags-to-riches. From cleaning toilets in an office complex with her kids in a playback next to her to now being an executive in corporate America, running a team of thousands of people.  It's never too late to chase your dreams. It's never too late to change the trajectory of your life. Jess has done this so well and shares such a humble and beautiful outlook on what it means to believe for new things in your life.  Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is Part 2 of our incredible conversation with Evan!  We left off with Evan being taken to prison for the first time. But what happens in the next 24 hours and for years to come will shock you. This is a story of courage, hope, community, and resilience.  Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Buy Evan's book here: https://amzn.to/4228VqT  Follow Evan here: instagram.com/pastorevanlive/ . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Y'all. I mean it when I say I can't stop thinking about this interview. This conversation deserves your FULL attention. It was so good that we had to make it two parts. Get ready! Evan's story is actually your story. He's going to inspire strength and courage in you. With just a cell phone (see these things aren't TOTALLY bad), Evan sparked a movement throughout the nation of Zimbabwe that instilled hope in the hearts of citizens who had been under dictatorship for 37 years. Despite whatever situation you find yourself in, know that you have more courage within you than you think. Grab some tissues, lean in, and get curious. Class is in session! . . . . . Buy Evan's book here: https://amzn.to/4228VqT Follow Evan here: instagram.com/pastorevanlive/ . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . DOSE: Go to dosedaily.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Joseph joins us to share about his career as an ethical hacker. First of all, I didn't know that there were good hackers out there. What a relief! You're going to love this conversation. We cover everything from hacking to faith and AI to international adoption.  This stuff is all so fascinating to me, and it was so fun to get to share these thoughts with you! Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . Visit CatchingWhimsyBook.com to learn more and download a free chapter sampler today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I LOVED this conversation with my new friend Joe. Joe reminds us how radical curiosity can be, especially when we work to stay curious about the things we come face to face with every day.  Joe shares a piece of his story of a time when he and his family were unhoused, living in a car. He's going to challenge a lot of your ideas about homelessness and hopefully encourage you to find ways to support your unhoused neighbors. Joe is a mental health professional, a loving father, and a resilient community member.  Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . DOSE: Go to dailydose.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Before Heather's mom and my dad passed, I was really scared of death. I'd never been in a room with a body after death before, but now I've seen it up close with two people I love. And it was sad and horrible but it was also really peaceful and hopeful. Even though we're all going to die, our current culture avoids thinking about mortality. It feels like I've been surrounded by death lately, and I feel like we need to talk about it. Sara joins us on this episode to talk about mortality and what it looks like to be living with a life-ending disease.  Sara talks about parenting with cancer, how her diagnosis has changed her and her family's perspective on life and death.  Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Learn more about One Day To Remember. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here. . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected.  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates.  Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak. . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. BETTER HELP: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HUMANHOPE and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My dad passed away last week, so don't mind my tears. Every day I'm learning more about what it means to grieve, and so far I've learned that it's grueling and exhausting. My dad has influenced every part of my being, and that fact doesn't escape this podcast series. I hear him in the questions I ask; I see him in the way I approach the world. I know my dad would want me to continue to help people become better humans and become more other-focused. And today's conversation is going to do just that!  My new friend Valerie is going to absolutely transform your idea of what a food pantry is and what it means to really be a neighbor. Valerie teaches us about taking risks, being okay with questions, and boldly treating others with dignity. Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Learn more about Nourish MKE here: nourishmke.org https://www.facebook.com/friedenspantry/ https://www.instagram.com/nourishmilwaukee/ . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on Human School. . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected. Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak.  . . . . . FUNCTION: Go to functionhealth.com/CARLOSW to skip the waitlist and take ownership over your health today! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. DOSE: Go to dailydose.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Human School! In this episode, I'm sitting down with my new friend Ann, who generously shares her incredible story with us. Ann was a Donut Dollie in the Vietnam War, which was a Red Cross position that sought to bring a shining example of womanhood to the GIs. She shares about her experience before, during, and after the war. I guarantee you'll gain a new appreciation for the unsung women who served in this sliver of history. Class is in session. Let's get curious! . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a Human School guest here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . BETTER HELP: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HUMANHOPE and get on your way to being your best self. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if I told you that the most extraordinary people you'll ever meet aren't celebrities? They're the people you pass on the street–the ones you wouldn't think twice about: a donut dolly who handed out joy in the middle of the Vietnam War; a political fixer who operates in the shadows of power; an ethical hacker who protects people from digital destruction. These are everyday humans living extraordinary stories. So, every week I'm sitting down with people who see the world through a different lens than I do–not to debate, but to listen. And I want you to come with me, because the world doesn't need more opinions, it needs more understanding. So, let's get curious. Subscribe now and never miss an episode! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My family has been hit by wave after wave after wave of blows these last few weeks. Heather's grandma Nani lost her home in the California wildfires, and then Heather's mom Bridgette passed away last week. If I had to describe this season with one word, it'd be unrelenting.  As we were reminiscing about these lives, I found this conversation between Heather and Nani from 11 years ago.  In the living room of the home that just burned down, 11 years ago, Nani shares the story of her life.  I'm so excited for you to dive into this story. . . . . . Watch my Midlife vlog here.  . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here. . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected. Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak here. . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. DOSE: Go to dailydose.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I may be biased, but this is one of my favorite stories (and guests) EVER.  Okay, I'm totally biased, but her story will help you get curious about people who are living with chronic conditions and what happens when you pray for something for decades and don't see a result. My daughter is one of the strongest people I know, and she is wise beyond her years. And I think a lot of you will be able to identify as someone going through a chronic condition or knowing someone who is.  Let's get curious!! . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . DOSE: Go to dailydose.co/CARLOS and get 30% off your first month's subscription! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're continuing the story from the last episode, but this time we get to hear from Lee Ann's husband D! D grew up Amish, and is no longer Amish, but so much of who he is has been shaped by his history and community. D is honest, loyal, hardworking, and a dear friend of mine. I can't wait for you to join me around the dinner table and enjoy this conversation. This is such a beautiful peek into D and Lee Ann's life, full of insight and laughter. If you missed part one, listen here: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/79a5f7f0819be5fdb010eeb01013a0e9 . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Learn more about Lee Ann HERE: https://www.leeannmiller.net/  Follow Lee Ann HERE: https://www.instagram.com/leeannmiller/ . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2025 is here, and I'm READY. I've got some new stuff in the works, and I'm so excited to share it all with you.  One of the new things is this podcast! I'm setting out to tell your jaw-dropping stories. If you have one to tell, fill out the form below!  This week's story is a rerun, but it's worth retelling. Lee Ann is a good friend of mine and the person who actually connected me with the Amish community in my book Reconnected!! This is her story of falling in love with an Amish man. (Plot twist: Lee Ann isn't Amish… ) You're gonna LOVE this. . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Learn more about Lee Ann HERE: https://www.leeannmiller.net/  Follow Lee Ann HERE: https://www.instagram.com/leeannmiller/ . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . Visit CatchingWhimsyBook.com to learn more and download a free chapter sampler today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! How is it already 2025?!! This year on the podcast, I want to focus more on people's stories. I want to BREW curiosity. And I'm starting with an oldie but a goodie. I know many of you love my mom and my dad. And as you probably know, my dad has dementia, and I moved my parents into the house across the street from mine last year so I could see them more and help out. This episode contains a very special interview, and a story I think you're all curious about. This is the last fully recorded conversation I had with my father before he wasn't able to have conversations like this anymore.  . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . QUINCE: Go to Quince.com/CARLOS for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is IT. The last podcast of 2024. WHAT!! This episode has it all. I recount a Christmas tragedy. I dissect the difference between happiness and joy. (Hint: Joy isn't a feeling; happiness is.) And I get into a tangent about the humanity of Jesus. HAHA.  How can we find joy in a world that feels like it wants to suck the joy out of everything? (I mean, have you been to the mall lately??

In a world where everything feels like a war zone—Instagram comment sections, dinner tables, even just interpersonal relationships—how are we ever supposed to find peace? Advent's version of peace isn't about magically fixing everything or pretending that chaos doesn't exist. The peace of advent is a deep, steady sense of calm even when the world feels like it's spinning off its axis. It's the kind of peace that can stand strong in the middle of the storm.  This kind of peace comes from Jesus. I don't know about you, but I need that non-manmade peace more than anything right now.  Listen for a few tips on how to step into peace this week.  . . . . . Check out Braver Angels here: braverangels.org . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . QUINCE: Go to Quince.com/CARLOS for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. AURA FRAMES: Exclusive $35-off Carver Mat at AuraFrames.com. Use code CARLOS at checkout to save! AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'll be honest, I haven't always understood Advent. Traditionally, our family celebrates with a Trader Joe's chocolate Advent calendar.  So I want to dive into what Advent is—beyond the chocolate. What is Advent? Why would we celebrate it? Is it something that non-Christians would want to celebrate? I don't think I've celebrated Advent since I was six, but this year, I'm doing it! And I'm bringing you with me. This week is all about HOPE.  Let's dig in!  . . . . . Have a secretly extraordinary life? Apply to be a guest on my podcast in 2025 here: https://forms.gle/Z13WGj63oEfgmtjJ9 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . AURA FRAMES: Exclusive $35-off Carver Mat at AuraFrames.com. Use code CARLOS at checkout to save! AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I did not have 3 million people watching me cry over an Australian cartoon on my bingo (no pun intended) card for 2024. But here we are! In this episode we're talking about how I met Bluey, a social media conundrum I recently faced, and how curiosity can lead us to have better conversations—even in a heated political season.  Plus, at the end I'm sharing about an exciting new project, so you won't want to miss this episode! Remember: Curiosity leads to empathy. Empathy leads to trust. Trust leads to conversation. Conversation can lead to change.  . . . . . Apply to be a guest on my show in 2025 HERE: https://forms.gle/pugy33FpcqbXnF4u5 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . KC360: Go to KC360.com/CARLOS for a free high school college timeline and exclusive discounts for listeners. AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE BETTERHELP: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HUMANHOPE and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People are in more need of joy than they want to admit—especially in this post-election season. A simple way that I bring joy to my neighborhood is by decorating my yard for Christmas on November 1st.  I LOVE IT. And so do my neighbors!!  I'm giving you a tour of my yard and some tips on how you can bring joy to your home—whether it's with a single strand of lights or a Clark Griswald level of decor.  . . . . . Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/GmFtZE1M0fY Find ALL of the tools I use here: https://amzn.to/4i1iXyL . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . KC360: Go to KC360.com/CARLOS for a free high school college timeline and exclusive discounts for listeners. AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's two days post-election, and there are LOTS of feelings happening all over the political spectrum. Whether you're feeling joy or grief over this election's results, you're welcome here. I hope you know that this is a safe place, even if we don't agree on everything. Today I'm just talking through my thoughts, sharing a few opinions, and urging you on to continue the good work we've already been doing.  May this be the season when we learn to work together and get tired of hating each other.  . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. KC360: Go to KC360.com/CARLOS for a free high school college timeline and exclusive discounts for listeners. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Y'all know I LOVE Christmas. And I've finally found someone who loves Christmas just as much as I do. (Maybe even more!) Today, I have the honor of talking with Dallas Jenkins, the creator of The Chosen series, about his upcoming movie The Best Christmas Pageant Ever. We talk Christmas, creativity, and convictions. 'Tis the season, people!! snowman ⛄️

I'm keeping this one short and sweet but AUTHENTIC.  Today I'm screening my documentary for the FIRST TIME in Nashville. And I thought today would be full of excitement, but the truth is that I'm scared. I'm scared of people not liking it.  I've never done something like this before. What do you do when you feel the overwhelming stress of fear?  Don't get me wrong, I'm excited. I LOVE this movie that we've made. But it's new. And new things are scary!  . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE BETTER HELP: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HUMANHOPE and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My friend and mental health professional Debra Fileta is on this episode. And she's here to help you become HAPPY and WHOLE. Don't we all need that?? Her new book Soul Care gives you tools to nourish your soul, which is exactly what I've been preaching with my book Reconnected.  This book couldn't be a more perfect companion to becoming more human on the other side of screens. . . . . . Buy your copy of Soul Care here: https://amzn.to/3Yp3sIZ Follow Debra on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/debrafileta/ Listen to Debra's podcast here: https://truelovedates.com/talktome/ Learn more about Debra here: http://debrafileta.com . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today.AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! QUINCE: Go to Quince.com/CARLOS for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. CHRISTIAN PARENTING: Go to ChristianParenting.Org/SignUp and get free parenting resources each week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When's the last time you truly trusted your gut? Like REALLY trusted it. All on its own. No googling. No looking up the reviews before you show up to a new restaurant. No 57 open tabs with conflicting information when you already know what decision you want to make. Screens have disconnected us from this ability that I really believe every single human being has.  I'm sharing stats and stories that will encourage you to trust your God-given gut again.  How many decisions have you made today based on something you saw/read on a screen? What are decisions you can make today where you don't open your screen to make it?  Intuition is a powerful tool. Get back to basic decision-making. . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! CHRISTIAN PARENTING: Go to ChristianParenting.Org/SignUp and get free parenting resources each week QUINCE: Go to Quince.com/CARLOS for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I just spent the day with children's gaming specialists at Children's Hospital Colorado, and I am blown away.  As someone who spent 7 weeks without looking at a screen and has written a BOOK about how beautiful life is on the other side of them, the irony of my speaking at this gaming symposium does not escape me. But today was such a beautiful reminder of why screens themselves are not bad. These professionals are using screens to create, receive, and rescue moments for children all across America. That's powerful. Today was inspiring and FASCINATING. And I want to share it with you! . . . . . Listen to Sohaila talk about her time in hospital here: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/0f0a235138aba991006e64938f166830 . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. QUINCE: Go to Quince.com/CARLOS for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. CHRISTIAN PARENTING: Go to ChristianParenting.Org/SignUp and get free parenting resources each week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode we're talking about savoring.  I've been in the midst of book launch MADNESS, but I'm really trying to SAVOR the excitement of my book being out in the world.  It's not always going to be like this, so I want to savor it. The moment that you're living right now is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. So savor it. This is something we have to continue to practice doing, and I'm going to tell you how. . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE: ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. BETTER HELP: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HUMANHOPE and get on your way to being your best self. AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We made a BEST SELLER list!!! YOU DID THIS.  I have been BUSY this past week, traveling all across the country, promoting this book, and I. am. exhausted.  So I figured what a better episode to talk about slowing down than this one? We are living way too fast. How do we fix that? I've got some data to share about living at a slower pace and how it can really help you. Godspeed, my friends. God speed. . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. OUR PLACE: Go to FromOurPlace.com and use code CARLOS to get 10% off site wide  HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Coming to you LIVE FROM NEW YORK!! My book Reconnected: How 7 Screen-Free Weeks With Monks And Amish Famers Helped Me Recover The Lost Art Of Being Human released THIS WEEK.  I'm sharing my unfettered thoughts as an author releasing my fifth book. Yes, I'm hopeful and I'm dreaming of a best seller and I get vulnerable about that. But mostly I'm just so excited for this message to get into the hands of those who need it. Because I LEGITIMATELY think this message will change lives. THANK YOU to everyone who has supported me thus far. And don't forget to get your copy if you haven't already!!! . . . . . Order your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm 51. Can someone please send me the over 55 community with the deepest vibes? I'm ready. Today I let you in some thoughts I have on turning 51 and holding joy and grief at the same time. Celebrating my upcoming book while grieving my father's dementia progressing. This was a sort of stream of conciseness episode and hope you enjoy it! . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! OUR PLACE: Go to FromOurPlace.com and use code CARLOS to get 10% off site wide  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone's favorite podcast guest is back! Heather is here to talk about how she's stewarding her role as a mom now that our kids are growing up and moving out.  If the question “What do you do?” brings up shame in you—whether you work or stay home—this episode is for you.  Every mom is different, but no mom is “just” a mom. Heather breaks away the qualifier speaks grace over the nuances of motherhood. How do you reconcile not going to work once your kids are in the next life stage? How do you know if your family is an idol in your life? How do you break free from other people's expectations and find peace in your story? Listen for ALLLL of Heather's wisdom!  . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . BETTER HELP: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HUMANHOPE and get on your way to being your best self. AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. CHRISTIAN PARENTING: Go to ChristianParenting.Org/SignUp and get free parenting resources each week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I got an invite that I couldn't turn down... I took a last-minute trip to Chicago this week to attend the DNC, and I walked away with A LOT of feelings. I imagine the RNC felt similar—unifying, discouraging, hopeful, hopeless. What I was mostly reminded of was that our political systems can't save us. They're too unstable. Not to mention the fact that they're guaranteed to change every 4-or-so years!! I get vulnerable on this episode. I know that we've been working through the 6 pillars this summer, and they're hard practices to hold. I had a hard time living it out this week. I touch on Pillar 5: We are not naive. We know that walking with those who disagree can be messy, challenging, and even infuriating. But we believe the alternative—a world fractured by division—is far worse. We're not too far gone. We don't have to continue to live in a rage-fueled society that feels like our only hope is in politics. We can vote better. We can do better. We can be better. . . . . . Listen here for an overview of all 6 pillars: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d  . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . OUR PLACE: Go to FromOurPlace.com and use code CARLOS to get 10% off site wide  INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I've been trying to lean into what's been happening in society and culture as we unpack our 6 pillars.  This episode is unpacking Pillar 4: We chase civility, not silence. We reject the false choice between conviction and kindness. We can disagree fiercely, but with respect and a commitment to finding common ground. Let me tell you, choosing civility is usually harder and will cost you more than choosing silence. But it is the MORE REWARDING choice.  I believe I chose civility over silence when I posted a prayer for President Trump after the assassination attempt last month. That cost me followers, but I don't regret it because seeing the humanity in someone who went through something traumatic was the right thing to do, rather than staying silent to keep my follower count up.  So how in the world do we make the hard choice to respectfully disagree while still engaging in conversation? Here's a few ideas: Think before you speak. Don't assume. Seek out shared values.  Take stock of the voices you're paying attention to. . . . . . Listen here for an overview of all 6 pillars: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d  . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! AQUATRU: Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier! Visit aquatru.com/HUMANHOPE and use the code HUMANHOPE at checkout. GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're unpacking the six pillars of our motto: Don't stand on issues, walk with people. This episode focuses on the third pillar: We walk alongside, not ahead or behind. We acknowledge the complexities of human experience. We understand that the path to a better future is paved with diverse perspectives. This is where it gets hard. We can work towards having civil and honoring conversations, but how do we actually walk alongside someone—especially when the disagreements just feel too big?  We're going to break down what it looks like to walk ahead, walk behind, and what you can do to walk alongside instead.  . . . . . Listen here for an overview of all 6 pillars: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d  . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . OUR PLACE: Go to FromOurPlace.com and use code CARLOS to get 10% off site wide  INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're unpacking the six pillars of our motto: Don't stand on issues, walk with people. This episode focuses on the second pillar: We hold conviction alongside compassion. The Olympics Opening Ceremony has been a HOT topic, especially among Christians. People were angry, sad, offended, confused—a lot of things. And honestly, I was surprised by the outrage. I'm digging deep and unpacking my thoughts in the context of our second pillar.  So how do we do this conviction and compassion thing? Is it possible? I believe it is! Here are a few tips: Hold a generous view of the other person in your mind Be curious and gentle with other's stories Be confident in your conviction Listen to the episode on Pillar 1 here: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/fad4bb481248713cd5589e08fb4066bf  Listen here for an overview of all 6 pillars: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d  Find Dan McClellan on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/maklelan/ . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! CHRISTIAN PARENTING: Go to ChristianParenting.Org/SignUp and get free parenting resources each week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're unpacking the six pillars of our motto: Don't stand on issues, walk with people. This episode focuses on the first pillar: We seek understanding not victory.  We prioritize listening and learning over winning arguments. We believe both are possible. We hold our beliefs fiercely, but we hold them with open hands, not clenched fists. In the age of TikTok, X, and a 24-hour news cycle, it's easy to feel like an expert on topics we actually don't know much about. And when we feel like an expert on something, seeking understanding can feel pointless, because we already know everything, right?  We've got to get to the place where we know that we don't know everything. And that's okay. So how do we seek understanding? Here are a few ideas: Be an active listener. (Hint: it's impossible to be an active listener on social media, so maybe have those conversations offline.) Limit distractions. Leave your phone in another room. Remember that just because someone stops talking, doesn't mean you need to start. Flip the funnel: ask open-ended questions to gain a fuller picture of what the other person believes Remember that the other person and their beliefs are not a problem to solve. And a single conversation isn't going to change that. . . . . . Listen to last week's episode for an overview of the six pillars here: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d  . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events . . . . . HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're diving into the madness. The madness that America is living in (yes, we're talking about Trump). The madness that is social media. And the rage that's seemingly all around us right now. We're talking about hard things with the hopes of pointing us toward some semblance of a plan and some pillars.  We're digging in deep to what it really means to not stand on issues but walk with people and to get in their chariot.  This episode will equip you with six principles to pursue unity and reject rage. Let's do it together. It's time. . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! GOFUNDME:Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE LUMEN: Go to Lumen.me/Carlos and get 15% off your Lumen! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THE ONE, THE ONLY Annie F. Downs is on the podcast this episode!!  This is historical, people. Somehow, in all our years of friendship, Annie hasn't been on my podcast before!  Grab a pen and paper because you're not going to want to miss what Annie has to say about leadership, humility, dreaming, leaving, and when to stick around a little longer.  This conversation is for anyone who is a leader in ANY capacity, whether that be a company, a small group, or even your family. . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events . . . . . AROMATRU: Go to AromaTruOrganics.com/HumanHope and get a free waterless oil diffuser with a free lemon eucalyptus oil! INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're having breakfast in the middle of nowhere. In the SERENGETI. With one of my new favorite people. If you've ever been on the fence about going on a safari experience, Hassan will convince you. Hassan shares with us about his life, what it takes to become a safari guide, and how he deals with difficult tourists. LOL. If you've ever wondered what it's like to face a hippo and live to tell the tale, this episode is for you. PLUS we're visited by a surprise guest! . . . . . Join the Instafamilia in sponsoring a child in the Kilimanjaro area with Compassion HERE! . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now. AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. CLARITIN: Go to claritin.com for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My friend Jordan Montgomery is joining us to teach us about the art and science of ENCOURAGEMENT.  Encouragement is a universal language that the whole world will understand in your personal life or your professional life.  Jordan gives us great examples on how to encourage others including  Putting others first Taking responsibility outside of your lane Noticing others AND letting them know they matter If it isn't obvious, you'll leave these conversation feeling ENCOURAGED and empowered to encourage others. . . . . . Preorder your copy of Jordan's new book The Art of Encouragement: How to Lead Teams, Spread Love, and Serve from the Heart here: https://amzn.to/3xtoM5p Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . GOFUNDME: Go to GoFundMe.com/CARLOS and receive a free coaching session with a GoFundMe expert! HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! CLARITIN: Go to claritin.com for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's almost Father's Day, so who better to have on my show than MY OWN DAD, Dr. Fermin Whittaker?! Many of you have been on the journey with me as I walk with my parents through my dad's dementia. And they currently live across the street from me!!  You've fallen in love with the sweet, sweet old man he's become. And you've fallen in love with my mom, who is his caretaker and is LITERALLY living out her vows every. single. day. Many of you love this version of my dad, and I realized it's the only version of my dad that you know.  But for the majority of my life, the version of my father that I had, you don't know. And I actually have kind of forgotten about that version myself.  So today I'm introducing you to the father I knew growing up.  . . . . . Listen to Episode 44: Dementia Won't Steal My Father's Story... With Fermin Whittaker HERE: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/1c0b212b17244f84f84eb416333ee401 Listen to Episode 101: Interviewing My Mom And Dad As They Battle Dad's Dementia. And 7 Ways To Care For A Caregiver HERE: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/ff455208a5724cdb704f8e647fd82af9 . . . . . Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com  Let's keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/ Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here. Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events  . . . . . SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/humanhope to take your business to the next level today. AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you'll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! CLARITIN: Go to claritin.com for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices