Miss Congeniality with Eli Rallo

Hello my loves, I will be logging off for the next week, but first here's an ASK ME ANYTHING episode, equipped with the most traumatic episode of my college career, some dating advice, some career advice, and a few trips down memory lane. Feedback is always good, I love you, sending you a big hug. Xx Music by: @domenicosounds

When I say I'm an open book... I never lie. Here's the ins and outs of making it as an influencer, how to make money, sign with a management team and advocate for yourself. Answering all your burning questions & taking you through my content creator journey! Love you love you love you. Music by: @domenicosounds

SOO before today's episode, I knew nothing about conspiracy theories or blind items, but luckily Shannon of @fluentlyforward told me (and us tbh) everything we need to know. From Justin to Selena to Taylor to Lea Michele, we get into it all... but not without our usual routine updates of course. This is one of TWO episodes you get this week sooo... brace yourselves and don't get tired of me. Remember that all blind items discussed are *alleged* and I don't know enough about celebs to even have a great opinion on them. Except Pete Davidson, I love him. ANYWAY.. music by : @domenicosounds guest: @fluentlyforward SEE YOU SOON XX

Welcome to my friendship soap box: friendship breakups, makeups, my vendetta against friend groups and how TF to have friends in your 20s.  These are the ins and outs of friendships from someone who has failed and succeeded many times in the friend department, and is still here (with friends!) to tell the tale. Xx Music: @domenicosounds

Ever wondered how to handle a talking stage? Or what a talking stage even IS? Ever tried to figure out 'am I being ghosted?' or 'does he like me' or 'is he just love bombing me?' ... well this is the episode for you. Based on personal experiences (of course), I break down all you need to know about talking stages, winning your friends with benefits sneaky links, how to know if you're being loved bombed, what to do if you're being ghosted... and more. OH & some fun updates of course! Xx, music by: @domenicosounds

Welcome back to another episode of Miss Congeniality! This week we're breaking down all my random theories and the abbreviations and overall language that rules my TikTok and Instagram pages, doing a deep dive into Euphoria, talking about TedX, my IUD, my upcoming trip to LA and how to manipulate men, most importantly. I love you guys. Drink enough water and put a man in his place if he hurts your feelings. Sending big love! Music: @domenicosounds

Join me and Twitter superstar Ellie Schnitt to talk all things dating in NYC, her social media career, her unending love for Taylor Swift, being an ex-theatre kid and performing at 54 Below for the first time & more! where to find Ellie: Late Night Drive (podcast) Taylor Talk (Spotify Green Room) @ellie_schnitt (instagram) @holy_schnitt (twitter) @ellieschnitt (TikTok) Music by: @domenicosounds

I answer all your burning questions about sex and intimacy, help you unpack sexual shame and stigma, and teach you how to... EFF LIKE A MAN. And of course, don't forget the perfume on the hipbones ;) Also of course, lots of updates, travel plans and TEA about next week's amazing GUEST! Music: @domenicosounds

To my singles, my sneaky links, my besties, my taken women, my girls, gays and theys... welcome to the Valentines Day episode! We cover all the tea of my failed Valentines Days of the past, why I love Valentines Day so much, where 'no label no gift' originated, my plans for this year AND my thoughts on Euphoria (random, I know, just started it). Music: domenicosounds

I really wanted to name this episode 'you can't have disciples without receipts' but it has nothing to do with it (its just an inside joke that came up toward the end). Anyway, the answer is, there's NOTHING wrong with being confident, and in this episode, I tell you why. Sending big love your way. extended watching: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLFEvHWD_NE music by: @domenicosounds

My lovers, my besties, my hate listeners and my girls, gays and theys—WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE. Let's dive into a round of crazy updates, and all about how we can become THIS GIRL instead of forcing ourselves to try and be THAT GIRL. Also we add in some new segments (the deep segment, the funny segment and the pop culture segment). Sending big love! Music: @domenicosounds

Happy 2022!!! Let's talk lip flips, dating, sex, breakups, my hot take on golden goose sneakers, influencer culture + so much more. I hope to do more AMA style episodes because I was truly overwhelmed with all the amazing questions! Here for you always besties. Xx music by: domenicosounds

Hello to my besties old and new and welcome to the very last episode of 2021. We laughed, we cried, we fell in love with Scorpios, we quit our jobs, we got a female Vice President, Kim and Kanye got divorced... there's a lot to cover. I couldn't have done this year without you and your amazing support, so this one, and every one... is for you! I love you guys, Happy New Year & my DMs are always open. Xx Music by: @domenicosounds

To all my broken hearted BABIES... if you've ever had a broken heart, if you're brokenhearted right now, if you've been dumped, you've done the dumping, if you feel like you'll *never love again* or you're stressing about meeting the love of your life... or even if you've lost a friend... this is an episode for you. I tell the tale of all my previous relationships and all my brokenhearted-ness and I give you the fool proof guide to managing and handling a broken heart, figuring out WTF to do after a breakup and how to live your most lovely and passionate life on your own. See you next week, DMs are always open! Music: @domenicosounds

I promise you that even if you think your post grad life is going to suck... or you're dreading the eventually day you graduate from college... POST GRAD DOESN'T HAVE TO SUCK. Join me as I chat all things post grad from maintaining friendships, to budgeting, to post grad dating, to expectations and pressures, to career, to spicing up your life so you're not depressed and anxious in this weird, pandemic ridden post grad world. Peaking in college is for people who actually peaked in high school. Life is an ascent baby, let's ascend together !!!! DMs are always open. See you next week! xx Music: domenicosounds

Join me and another one of my TikTok crushes Miss Alexis Barber, as we discuss all things Northwestern University, Greek Life culture, body positivity and the Instagram fitfluencer diet culture, having it all in NYC, working at Google and making incredible content! Also enjoy a brief life update about visiting SB's family in Houston, my take on the first season of 'You' (listen, I get it, I'm late to the game) and why I love Kelly Clarkson's new Christmas album. Love you guys! Find Alexis: Alexis Barber (YouTube) @alexisbarber (Instagram) @urtoosmartforthis (Podcast) @alexisbarber (TikTok) Music by: @domenicosounds

My besties old & new... welcome to the HOLIDAYY solo episode. I discuss the holidays in the lens of eating disorder recovery, dealing with mental health and family trauma, being single, hooking up with people (old and new), gift giving on a budget, how to enjoy the holidays a little bit more, anxiety surrounding the holidays & I tell an epic and tragic story about the Wednesday Night before Thanksgiving.... Enjoy a run-on sentence answering all your HOLIDAY themed questions. Cheers, I love you! Music: @domenicosounds

TW: Suicide/ self harm Join me & Cedoni Frances—queen of literal GOOGLE— to discuss her college experience as a Black woman at Vanderbilt University, her full time career at Google, her amazing TikTok, Instagram and YouTube platforms, being an ex Kappa Kappa Gamma and of course... what its like to date men in New York City (it's horrible, if you were curious). Cedoni knew my sneaky link before I did, has all the wisdom on crushing interviews, designer handbags and going to college in the south. Before our interview I get into some life updates, and randomly word vomit for 15 minutes. Cheers! Where to find Cedoni: TikTok - @cedonifrancis Instagram - @cedonifrancis YouTube - Cedoni Francis Music by @domenicosounds

If she doesn't already live on your for you page... you might be living under a rock. I got to sit down with queen of PR Moves Robyn (@girlbosstown) to unpack her quick rise to TikTok fame, what it's like to connect to celebrities she used to idolize, how she comes up with the PR moves content and how important it is to never give up and always believe in yourself. As a 27 year old Kardashian-obsessed icon with the same big 3 as Kanye West, Robyn is punchy, funny and a PR genius. I also give some updates about Halloweekend + my upcoming travels to Nashville! Where to find Robyn: TikTok & Insta @girlbosstown Music by @domenicosounds

Born on Halloween in upstate New York to a family of psychics and mediums—Terry always knew she was different. When her brother taught her to read the Tarot and she moved to New York City in the era of hippies and LSD, her career as a celebrity professional psychic took off. Today, Terry is retired—and she both teaches and writes in her free time—but her incredible intuition and her life's work are very embedded in her daily life. Join us in talking about love, what it's like to be psychic and her career on this spooky episode of Miss Congeniality! Find Terry: http://www.terryiacuzzo.com/ Music by @domenicosounds

Hiiiii guysssss :) Welcome back to another episode of Miss Congeniality! I go over some updates about my random illness, my weekend and my halloween plans in addition to a lengthy, heated Bachelorette recap. THEN my TikTok girl crush Miss Justine Snacks and I finally got together to chat about everything from the 'wellness' craze, to eating disorder recovery, to recipe development and book recommendations and living in New York City! Where to find Justine: https://justinesnacks.com/ https://www.instagram.com/justine_snacks/ TikTok: justine_snacks music by @domenicosounds See you next week ;)

LIGHTS, MICROPHONE, ACTION I AM BACK AND BETTER THAN EVER BABY. I feel so professional because we're debuting season 2 and by we I mean me, my oat milk latte and you but also because I'm legit...getting a podcast studio. OKAY like renting one for an hour but you understand the gist. COME join me while I talk you through my rules, tell you about why Sunday is the new Friday afternoon and how to start HONORING your life. As always: @eli.rallo (instagram) @themisscongeniality (instagram) @thejarr (TikTok) MUSIC BY @domenicosounds

Join me, my roommate Rachel (aka cool girl) & my dogs who wouldn't shut up to talk all things social media. We dive into living in New York City, TikTok hate, cancel culture, the D'amelios, Emma Chamberlain and the pertinence of a strong private story. Love you so very much!

This week I sat down with Kinsey Grant—podcast host (Thinking is Cool) and journalist—to discuss the ins and outs of saying f*ck it in your 20s, quitting your job and setting your sights on being your own BOSS. Given that I just took the leap of faith to pursue content full time this week, this conversation was just what I needed (and psst I give all the updates about how leaving my 9-5 went, and my plans for future content!). I love you all so much and hope this episode can inspire you to be your own boss, take the risk when you have the itch and pursue something new!

The amazing, wonderful, fantastic Kate Glavan joined me to talk sustainability, feminism, climate, dating in New York, wellness culture, rising to social media stardom and of course men being fans. Kate is a TikToker, Instagrammer, Climate Change Activist, law school bound baddie and astute woman of New York! Find Kate: podcast- @seamossgirlies, What the F*ck is Sea Moss? instagram - kateglavan TikTok - kateglavan Book Reccos: The Uninhabitable Earth by David Wallace-Wells Braiding Sweetgrass - Robin Wall Kimmer On Fire - Naomi Klein All We Can Save - Ayana Elizabeth Johnson

Tw: Eating disorders, body dysmorphia, sexual violence We're talking body... literally everything that has to do with 'em. How they function in a world that tells them they're wrong, how we overcome and conquer our traumas around eating and body dysmorphia, how we can intuitively exercise and how we understand our bodies as they relate to sex and intimacy. I'm not a doctor, therapist, registered dietician or nutritionist, so I am only speaking from my experience with my body, but I hope it can help you to realize, nonetheless, that there are no 'supposed to'(s) in this world, and you are wonderfully made. Pour yourself a glass of pinot grigio or go on a juicy hot girl walk and listen to a rant about body acceptance and the beauty we all have within us! Xx

Join me and YouTube superstar Brooke Miccio as we unpack our traumatic sorority rush outfits circa 2015, discuss all things NYC, boys, book recommendations and being an ambivert on episode 17!! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxuIZVhOmQQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brookemiccio/

okay so 70% of life is apparently in your head... including orgasms, running and of course social anxiety. If you want to know what I now do for a living, I recommend you tune in. Including advice on how to flirt (lie), life advice (positive affirmations), rando updates (job) and my throat hurting halfway bc I don't talk out loud enough on week days. ILY a MILLI. bye. Just spilled liquid on my laptop and entire clean sheets :)))) love my life

Everything is about quarters right now... financial quarters, quarter of a million, a quarter of my life, a quarter of my patience, a quarter of a year with MY BOYFRIEND... the not so enigma, everyone's favorite NJB Avery "Scorpio Boy" Tiras. If you want to hear his side of the 'how we met' story, hear us have some excellent banter, and listen to some emacky sound quality because he bought me a microphone as a gift.... LISTEN IN! It's short, it's sweet, it's sassy, it's lowkey seductive, it's kind of cringe-y (I think I said I was missing a piece of my heart that he now fills? disgusting, but true). ANYWAY the white claw is luke warm, the party has just begun, and I'm nervous. See u next time! XO

Listen at your own risk. This is chaos. I had so much to tell you, it was 7 am. I was vibing, it was a visceral experience. I tried to postmates a hard boiled egg mid recording—the raw energy is truly infectious. If anyone knows Koko and Kimberly (as in Kardashian), I did shout them out and ask if they wanna come sit on my bed and record a little podcast with me :) could be fun! Also answered a ton of questions including: how to get men to like you (gag), fashion staples, grad school ish, my new obsessions (picante!) annnnnd spilled some iced tea because I can't spill hot tea on the first thirsty Thursday back in the lowkey self congratulating podcast sphere. Lol I am really rambling and it is almost Freudian in nature. BYE besties see u in TWO WEEKIES :)

MY LOVERS, MY GIRLS, MY GAYS, MY THEYS... WE'RE BACK BABY! I am actually out of breath with how many updates I had for you—between NYC/Columbia stuff, TikTok stuff and PERSONAL life STUFF, I tried to quickly recap the last month in the most succinct way possible. I also touch a bit on self love and confidence, dating and manifestation, thyroid PROBLEMZ & losing my graduation. Also, scorpio boy facetimes me during it and I make him talk about Trisha Paytas for 5 minutes so stay until the end if you want to be introduced to the man of the hour. LUV U XOXOOX

Have you ever wondered what Jeremy's favorite pasta dish is? What it's like to be freshman year roommates with my brother? And how it feels to get bullied on TikTok for pronouncing Italian words correctly? Well, you're in luck, because now you get to know. Join me and Jeremy Scheck in talking all things TikTok creation, Cornell University, carbohydrate and realness. The bad news is, I'm apparently 'obsessed' with Jeremy and he should "run before it is too late". But the good news is he knows I'm obsessed and has decided to stay put. Enjoy!

What do I owe the honor to finally connect with my first TikTok friend—KATE NORKELIUNAS—on MISS CONGENIALITY. Join us as we share first date and NYC dating ~horror stories, chat about body positivity, TikTok hate comments AND big daddy burgers. Also Kate's gram lowkey joins us for a quick cameo, and she's the true star of the show. Also, this runs long because I read both Kate and her boyfriend's entire birth charts. ENJOY, CHEERS, AND LOVE YOU BIG DADDY JARR BABIES!

Join my parents and twin brothers in discussion about relationships, family vibes, the Jarr going viral and of course....food.

Perhaps the most confident woman on TikTok with all the dirt of NYC's hot spots, I had the PLEASURE to speak with friend, legend and TikTok creator THE Audrey Peters on this week's episode. Join us as we talk about college Audrey (cough Audrina) the key to Audrey's success and confidence, what it's like to be recognized on the street during a stride of PRIDE, and why no man should under any circumstance, risk it all for the Chainsmokers. DEEETS: @theaudreypeters (insta/tiktok)

INTRODUCIIINNGGG my BEST FRIEND ALLISON! She's social media silent so she's not on TikTok, but as you guys know, every relationship needs one influencer and one social media hater. Join us while we laugh hysterically (and cry) over not seeing each other for 8 months, talk about hiding in a closet in our sorority house to have some quiet snack time, eating dinner at 4 pm, our obsession with murder documentaries and Love Island, being each other's maid of honor and most importantly, protein bars. idk who needs to hear this but...she's my best friend. KIDDING, ENJOY! #themisscongeniality

Sit back, do not relax, and join me and my childhood best friend (and Shark Week fanatic) Kelly Danaher as we lay down the laws: 1. don't venmo your significant other 2. you have to soft debut a significant other on Insta before the hard debut 3. it is sexier to put effort into a halloween costume than to dress up like a mouse 4. never purchase your significant other pants We go through our best dating advice, some of our favorite childhood memories and a FULL rundown of COVID-19 halloween.

"Based on the way I behave, Les Mis is my favorite musical," - Leo Scheck, of @schxleo on Insta, @leoscheck on TikTok. At this point, if you know Jeremy Scheck, you know his (hot) older brother Leo, who, might just have better opinions on theatre than I do. Let's talk Les Mis, working on Broadway, what it's like to have a famous brother, jukebox musicals and the only school in the midwest that is ranked better than Michigan (this is me being salty, but also, go wildcats). From a family of superstars, I get the inside scoop from Leo, who, immediately needs to move to NYC or else. Happy listening!

Happy Thursday babies :) Today I take a pencil dive into Q&A part 2! This lovely round we head into my favorite books, men named Mike, boy cleanses and self care Octobers, FeMinIsM, Gilmore squirrels, the zodiac signs of every Glee character and most importantly the ONLY rule I have when it comes to serious relationships (a rule I scarcely even follow at this rate). Looking forward to hanging out with you guys next week and... rumor has it I'm talking halloween with sister Kel and Broadway baby with Mr. Leo Scheck, stay tuned!

Today I introduce my first ever guest, *before I learned how to use Garageband so the audio is kind of erratic* WARD of @bakingbuzzed (ig). He's a graduate of the Cornell University School of Hotel or something like that #Hotelie,,, and we met because he slid into my DMs but in a cool way, not in a weird way. Since we both grew up LOSERS at schools full of bULLIES (half kidding) we have a mutual tale of high school drama to tell. Kidding. Let's dive into first kisses, Hamilton conspiracies, cocktails, mocktails, scones, Cornell's LGBTQ+ hookup culture and MOST importantly our favorite first lady. LISTEN in and REVEL in the madness that is our chaotic relationship. 

Welcome to Episode 1 of Miss Congeniality! I answer Q & A questions left on my TikTok including—relationship advice, astrology questions, how to flirt (tread lightly), how to handle a breakup, a secret I used to keep that I don't any more—and talk a bit about the University of Michigan, how I got to grad school and a (brief) history of every relationship I've ever been in. Episodes launch Thursday at MIDNIGHT ET, and will include weekly guests, including, hopefully, my mother, the Libra.

Join me, Ruby Saracino and Kit Keenan to break down everything female friendship, long term friendship and how to handle friendships as they mold and change when we do (young 20s in NYC edition).Also (don't worry) we have some Tony updates, Gov Ball updates and a sneak teaser of my thoughts on Summer I Turned Pretty! Kit (@kitkeenan) Ruby (@rubysaracino, @rubyrubyrubyrubyrubay)Music: @domenicosoundsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Join me and my lovely pal from college to discuss all things The University of Michigan, making friends in college, post grad and our college experiences!music by: @domenicosoundsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

WELCOME TO MY BDAY (AND SELENA GOMEZ'S BDAY) EPISODE! 24 questions for 24 years. Please, and I beg you please—get a cake, drink a margarita or some champagne, have some birthday sex, pop some confetti and buy yourself a gift today. I FUCKIN LOVE U. Music by: @domenicosounds Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Join me and THE celebrity memoir book club to discuss all things celeb memoirs, pop culture and book tok!Podcast: Celebrity Memoir Book ClubInstagram and TikTok: @celebritymemoirbookclubInstagram: @clairethescare @ashleyhammmMusic by: @domenicosoundsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Happy Friday my lovely chicks and welcome to the New York, New York Episode! Have a great week Xx.DISCLOSURE: I am not a NYC local and I didn't grow up here. These are recommendations I have as someone who has lived here for a few years and grown up nearby! It is extremely easy and common for privileged individuals to move to NYC as a 'pitstop' in their 20s, and romanticize the city while ignoring the fabric and diverse communities that make up and sustain New York. This discourse was communicated to me and I want to make sure I shared it. I also wanted to share some mutual aid and community aid organizations you can get involved with if you're moving to New York, live here or recently moved here. https://www.instagram.com/wspmutualaid/?hl=enhttps://mutualaid.nyc/www.bowery.orghttps://www.facebook.com/groups/eastvillageneighbors/https://www.henrystreet.org/https://nycommonpantry.org/https://northbrooklynmutualaid.org/Hetrick Martin Institute: https://hmi.org/Spencer Olson: @spencerolson62 (TikTok) spencer.tyler.olson@gmail.commusic by: @domenicosoundsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

For today's episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Kim Johnson, the Head of Community at Geneva. We get into her time at Glossier — where she built Community — as well as her journey to get to where she is now and what the concept of "community" means to her. Enjoy loves

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FRESH from my trip to Barcelona and London with Scorpio Boy... let's talk about how to travel with others. From girls trips, to significant others, to significant other's families... we cover it all. How to go to the bathroom, avoid arguments, plan and pay forAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy