Sex Ed Debunked

As we hit the pause button on Sex Ed Debunked, a wave of nostalgia washes over us—Shannon's about to tie the knot, and Christine is diving headfirst into academia. It's been an epic journey of myth-shattering and sexual empowerment, from an AASECT award to a whopping 20,000 downloads, and we couldn't be more grateful. Celebrate with us one last time before our sabbatical as we crush the myth of "normal" sexuality and champion the spectrum of positive sexual experiences. It's not a farewell, but a promise to return with even more eye-opening conversations.Throughout our series, we've ignited discussions on everything from sexual response to polyamory, sparking shifts in societal norms and challenging stereotypes. Dorothy Colvon and Dr. Cailey graced us with their insights, reminding us of the power in conversations that push boundaries and redefine expectations. We've become a springboard for dialogue that doesn't shy away from any topic—because when it comes to sexuality, every voice matters. As we step back to celebrate personal milestones, carry forward the spirit of our discussions and keep the dialogue alive in your own circles.We owe a universe of thanks to our extraordinary volunteers—Meghan, Bella, Shaina, and Ezra—whose contributions have been critical to our success. Their dedication and the enlightening energy of our guests have allowed us to foster an inclusive approach to sex education that honors the evolving nature of sexuality and gender identities. So, while we take a break to recharge and focus on personal endeavors, remember that the journey of discovery and growth continues. Keep exploring, challenging norms, and breaking down barriers. We'll be back before you know it, ready to debunk more myths and share more wisdom. Keep the spirit of 'Sex Ed Debunked' thriving!Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Imagine if your childhood attachment styles were echoing in your adult relationships - intriguing thought, isn't it? Join us, Christine and Shannon Curley, as we demystify the world of attachment styles and reveal how they're not just confined to your early years. We're cracking open the research, and we promise you'll understand why Gen Z seems to be gravitating towards insecure attachment styles and why it's a trend worth noting.We're going to navigate the terrain of four primary attachment styles - secure, anxious, avoidant dismissive, and avoidant fearful. We'll show you how these styles are formed during the early years and how they intricately weave into your adult relationships. Equipped with this knowledge, we bet you'll encounter some aha moments regarding your relationship patterns. And if you're curious about what an "insecure attachment style" means, we've got you covered. We also dissect the avoidant fearful style, highlighting the paradox of craving a relationship while being scared of getting hurt.Ever thought about the impact of your attachment style on your behaviors and communication? We're throwing light on that too! We stand by the importance of humility and adaptability in communication and believe firmly that it's possible to rise above your attachment style. As we prepare for the holiday season, remember to embrace grace and lean on your secure networks. And yes, we're also debunking myths surrounding sex and sexuality and stressing the necessity of inclusivity in our understanding. So let's challenge conventional wisdom, expand our horizons, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This is going to be a journey of self-discovery you wouldn't want to miss!Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

We're rolling up our sleeves and taking a deep-dive into the turbulent world of sex education in today's episode. With insights right from the frontline of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality conference, we're tackling the shocking rise in rough sex, heavily influenced by internet pornography and social media. We share some staggering statistics and discuss these distressing trends with our esteemed guest, researcher Dr. Renee Rena Evans Paulson. She highlights the pivotal role of critical media literacy as a safeguard, stressing the need for open dialogues with young individuals about their digital consumption.Switching gears, we shift focus to the importance of comprehensive sex education and its much-needed societal adoption. Remember GPT-3? We're exploring its potential footprint in sex education, celebrating some successful initiatives like Rhode Island's Department of Health's comprehensive sex ed app, and dissecting a study that reveals the overestimation of sexual health knowledge among college students. Our key takeaway? Comprehensive sex education is not just an option; it's a necessity to bridge the knowledge gap and promote safer sexual behaviors. Join us as we champion the power of research evidence and its crucial role in advocating for comprehensive sex education to policymakers. Tune in, get informed, and help us rewrite the narrative.Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Do you know the extent to which purity culture and abstinence-only education can infiltrate your life? We've got a promise for you: by the end of this episode, you'll have a deeper understanding of this complex and controversial topic. We're joined by special guests Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Pastema, hosts of the podcast and educational platform, Sexvangelicals. Together, we dissect and discuss the defining features of purity culture, strict gender norms, and the harmful impacts these ideologies have on relationships and sexuality.On our journey into purity culture, we also highlight its paradoxical effects. From the double bind faced by men taught to control their impulses while being encouraged to pursue sexual relationships, to the heightened risks and lack of sexual communication, we confront the harsh realities of this belief system. We reference the insightful book "Real Sex" by Lauren Winner, posing provocative questions about the so-called "slippery slope" of sexual activity.Wrapping up our discussion, we delve into the personal experiences of Jeremiah and Julia. They share their transformative journey from music ministry and therapy to becoming sex therapists, and how their beliefs in evangelical Christianity were challenged. They reveal a new understanding of consent, and we extend our support to those affected by purity culture. Join us as we emphasize the importance of comprehensive, inclusive education around relationships and sexuality. Listen in as we shed light on the broader impacts of purity culture, and how we as a society can move forward.Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Ever wondered how the medieval Church navigated gender diversity within its fold? Prepare yourself for an enlightening journey through the less-trodden paths of Church history, featuring tales of transgender saints and the societal repercussions of modern anti-trans legislation.In this exceptional episode, we are privileged to host Professor Maeve Doyle, a seasoned scholar with profound insights into the medieval history of gender. Together, we uncover compelling stories of women who donned the masculinity cloak to join the Church, and saints depicted with intentional gender fluidity in religious artwork. From the intriguing story of St. Eugenia, celebrated on Christmas day, to the gender-fluid portrayal of Saint Athanasia and Christ's transcendence of the gender binary, we challenge and broaden your understanding of gender in the Church. As we delve into these historical narratives, we also emphasize the contemporary, highlighting recent research on the detrimental mental health effects of anti-trans laws and the crucial role of activism in safeguarding transgender youth. Join us, as we weave together past and present, history and activism, community and individual identity in this enlightening exploration of gender diversity in the Church.Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Picture this: You just said "I do" and you're staring at the love of your life. Now what? We'll walk you through it in this episode of Sex Ed Debunked. To celebrate our sound engineer, Ezra's, wedding, we've compiled a heap of insights, research, and personal anecdotes on what it takes to build and maintain a successful marriage. We're talking about everything from being your partner's best friend to the power of routine communication, and the importance of understanding and responding to each other's feelings. Have you ever wondered how some couples keep the spark alive? How do they navigate through the challenges and come out stronger on the other side? We're unmasking the secrets to making your relationship not just survive, but thrive. In this episode, we're breaking down the art of positive communication, the essence of overcoming the "honeymoon phase," and the tact of choosing your battles wisely. We'll also discuss the impact of negative comments and projection, and reveal ways to sprinkle positive feedback into your everyday conversations. But there's more. We venture further into the love labyrinth, guiding you on how to cultivate a relationship pulsating with appreciation and gratitude. Discover why it's crucial to express gratitude to your partner regularly, why hobbies outside your relationship are essential for self-expansion, and the magic of shared adventures. We wrap things up with the role of open communication in understanding your partner's needs and the magic ingredients for maintaining a romantic and sexual connection in your relationship. So grab your headphones and tune in for an enlightening journey into the world of successful relationships.Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Ever thought about the evolutionary purpose of pubic hair, or why societal norms around it change? Buckle up, as we reveal the science of body hair and debunk some myths along the way. We'll dive into the benefits of pubic hair, from helping prevent friction, to fending off pathogens and bacteria, and even its part in signaling fertility. We also have a fun discussion about the Reddit perspective on body hair and preferences around shaving. Remember, no matter what your grooming style, vaginas are self-cleaning!Fasten your seatbelts as we journey through the history of the adult film industry and its influence on pubic hair norms. We're also going to touch upon the pros and cons of shaving or trimming, and the potential risks involved. It's not all serious though - to cap off this enlightening chat, we'll give you a sneak peek into our upcoming episode that will dig into the role of media and the importance of comprehensive sex education in shaping our understanding of topics as intimate as body hair. So, tune in, be ready to unlearn and relearn, and let's challenge what you thought you knew about body hair!Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Ready for a mind-expanding trip into the realm of BDSM? You're about to unlearn some deeply ingrained misconceptions! We're debunking the myth that BDSM is a trauma response, a stereotype rooted in heteronormative and socially normative perspectives. We'll expose how this practice ranges from mild to wild, can be a tool for working through trauma, and is even part of asexual people's lives.BDSM is more than just kink – it's a journey of self-discovery, healing, and liberation. It's about restructuring self-concept, repurposing behaviors, and redefining relationships with pain. We discuss how BDSM provides opportunities for role switch, self-exploration, and experimenting with different types of connectedness. We'll shed light on the often overlooked, intimate, and tender connection that BDSM fosters, essential for understanding trust in these specialized relationships.We also explore how BDSM can be therapeutic, similar to meditation, mindfulness, and relaxation. It can make one feel more attuned and alive, similar to the runner's high. You'll learn about the concept of "subspace," an altered state of consciousness achieved through BDSM that some practitioners describe as a heightened state of eroticism. We highlight the role of BDSM in identity exploration, negotiating power dynamics, developing trust and communication skills, and creating a safe space for exploration and discovery. Get ready for a fresh, inclusive perspective on sex education and BDSM.Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

What if the societal obsession with size was the true culprit behind sexual dissatisfaction? Find out as we debunk myths, bust taboos, and bring hard science to the bedroom in this refreshingly candid Study Session. With an insightful lens, we explore the oft-asked question, "Does size matter?" and reveal fascinating truths. Tune in as we dissect this topic from both biological and psychological perspectives, shedding light on prevalent misconceptions about size and its correlation to pleasure, function, and health. Our discussions reveal an intriguing paradox - while size does matter to an extent, it does so not in the ways you would expect. We underline the role of individual preference and comfort, as opposed to societal standards dictated by media and pornography. You'll be intrigued by our exploration of studies revealing the true average preference, debunking the harmful obsession with size comparison. We even talk about a study highlighting how nearly a third of people are dissatisfied with their genitalia. Join us as we challenge societal norms, question cultural biases, and strive to shift the focus where it truly belongs - to health, satisfaction, and consent.Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Have you ever felt like you're at the crossroads of your faith and sexual identity? Are you struggling to reconcile the two? Today's episode takes us on the journey of debunking the myth that Coming Out and religion don't mix and we're fortunate to have Reverend Tracy Mehr-Muska, DMin, from Wesleyan University sharing invaluable insights and wisdom. She brings her first-hand experience counseling students who are grappling with their sexual identity within the sphere of their faith. We're diving into the heart of Wesleyan University, exploring the dynamics of religion and LGBTQ identity amongst its students. Gone are the days when most students at Wesleyan identified with a religion. In stark contrast, over half of the student body now identifies as agnostic or atheist. In the midst of this shift, we explore how to celebrate both identities without losing hope in finding accepting and supportive spiritual communities. We also stir up the conversation on the relationship between the divine and oneself, and whether a religious community is inseparable from the divine.Finally, brace yourself as we decode the interpretation and relevance of the Bible in affirming the LGBTQ community. We're thrilled to have Brian Blunt from Union Theological Seminary share that the Bible is a living word, capable of unveiling new understandings. He brings to light Jesus's ministry of radical love and inclusion, which counteracts any form of discrimination. As we wrap up our conversation, we spotlight various faith communities that uplift and celebrate the LGBTQ community and guide on how to identify genuinely inclusive spaces. This episode promises to be a revelation in itself, let's navigate these complex intersections together!Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Ever wondered how a simple handkerchief or a pair of Doc Martens can tell a captivating story of identity and preference? Brace yourself for an enlightening journey through the intriguing world of non-verbal communication within the LGBTQ+ community. This episode promises to deepen your understanding of this lesser-known aspect of queer culture, commonly known as flagging. Discover how a color-coded bandana or the pocket it's tucked into can signal different preferences, and how earrings and keys play their part too. We also explore how flagging has evolved with pop culture influences, specifically hip-hop, and its role in the often delicate process of coming out.But that's not all! We also decode modern signaling trends you may have noticed but never understood. Carabiners, not just for rock climbing anymore, are now a proud symbol of the lesbian community. Doc Martens, a fashion statement for some, for others they're a subtle indicator of non-heterosexuality. Even nail polish isn't just about vanity, but can signal relationship status. Ever seen an upside-down pineapple and wondered why it's upside-down? Well, it's a sign of polyamory. And who would've thought that the color of a Loofah could carry a special meaning in certain adult communities in Florida! Prepare to have your mind blown as we reveal the hidden language of symbols within the LGBTQ+ community. Tune in and let's start this fascinating exploration together!Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon debunk the myth that sex has a negative effect on sports performance, a myth proliferated by popular media and especially in men's sports. Want to know the truth? Tune in to learn more! Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon discuss what's going on in dating in 2023 – especially the latest and greatest apps, including ... Gluten Free Singles? Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

Hey listeners! Shannon and Dr. Christine M. Curley here, and we're back to kick off a fresh semester of debunking and discussing. In this episode, we celebrate Brazil's monumental stance against homophobia and give you a sneak peek of what's ahead this season....Oh, and while we're on the topic of achievements, let's not forget Christine's newly minted Ph.D. title. And, as her granddaughter lovingly puts it, she's also known as "Dr. Grandma Chrissy".We then  Dive into our discussion on the empowering Netflix's "Heartstopper" and the upcoming delights of "Sex Education". We'll also delve into Christine's research, shedding light on the positive impacts of a healthy sexual outlook on psychological well-being. From pop culture to academic insights and essential advocacy, we've got an exciting journey ahead. Let's navigate the fascinating world of sexuality together!Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon interview Tara Galeano, author of Reconnecting with My Body about the importance of staying connected to your body throughout life stages and phases in order to experience true pleasure and intimacy. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine calls in LIVE from Hedonism II resort in Jamaica and talks about clothing-optional resorts and the freeing nature of "letting it all hang loose." Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss a brief history of drag and debunk myths around drag culture and community. Plus, they bring back J to talk about their experience in the Providence drag scene. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon discuss some of the recent LGBTQ+ legislation in the U.S. – with a focus on positive legislation in the face of some historically awful rulings nationwide. Resource: REAHA Legislation (2023)Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk about the Kama Sutra (no, not Karma) and myths about its physical focus versus mental, spiritual, and emotional history. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon are joined by Nina Carbone to discuss their research on bi-erasure and specific stigma around multisexuality. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon discuss "gaydar" – including "gay eye contact," "pleasebegaydar," and what the research says – or doesn't say – about this phenomenon. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon chat about the connection between body, mind, stress, and performance anxiety. Then, guest interviewer Bob Curley chats with Dr. Sarah Mellecon about premature ejaculation (PE)  and the relationship between mental health and sexual performance. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's study session, Shannon and her dad (and health journalist), Bob Curley, discuss the truth (and long, long history) behind aphrodisiacs – the so-called "foods of love."  Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss recent studies regarding sexual health and sexual experience from adolescence into adulthood, and the positive impacts of comprehensive sex education on longterm satisfaction in intimate and sexual relationships. Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's study session, Katelyn Pitcher joins Christine and Shannon again to talk about some emerging sexuality terminology ... and debunk the myth that it's easy to keep up with it all! Follow us on social @sexeddebunked or send us a message at sexeddebunked@gmail.com

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss identity theory, non-binary identities, and gender identity and interview Nina, Jill, and Alex about their gender journeys. 

On this week's episode, Shannon is joined by her dad, sex & health journalist Bob Curley, to talk about blue balls -- and are they even a real thing?

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon interview Katelyn Pitcher (M.S.), a researcher in queer identities and asexuality, about what it means to be aesexual, some of the common myths around asexuality, and the unique stigma faced by the ACE community. Link: Asexuality Resources 

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon cover a brief timeline of (slightly unknown) LGBTQ history, including landmark legal cases and where the rainbow flag came from.

On this week's episode, Shannon is joined by special guest, her dad, Bob Curley, to talk about a recent study on "kisspeptin," an experimental hormone that just might help increase sex drives. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss body autonomy, generally and from the male perspective – with the help of Pat Corcoran, a recently confirmed candidate for the "big snip." 

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon chat about the science behind heartbreak – and what it really means to have a broken heart, or be heartsick. Then, they pick up the mood with a discussion of NRE – New Relationship Energy – as a way to kick off 2023. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss sex on the Internet and the impacts of the web on body image, sexual identity and more. Then, the duo sits down with tech journalist Samantha Cole to talk about her new book, How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex. 

On this week's Study Session, Christine and Shannon talk about the relationship between mental and cognitive health and sex/intimacy. 

On today's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss what it means to "get wet," and talk with Renee El-Krab about myths around lube, types of lube, and how lube can be used for... fun? 

On this Study Session, Shannon and Christine talk about anticipated stigma, minority stress, and "passing," including personal experience and lasting impacts. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon interview Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce about how to healthily open up a relationship, and why "open" relationships don't necessarily mean adding another person to the party. 

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon discuss what they have to be thankful this Turkey season – including positive election outcomes and supportive communities. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon recap some of the most recent studies in sex and sexuality research across the lifespan from SSSS 2022 in Vancouver, CAN. 

On this week's Study Session, Christine and Shannon discuss marital (and lesbian) bed death, the importance of keeping an open mind, and how to get the spark! Fire! Heat! Electricity! back in your intimate relationships. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon talk with Christie Idiong, MS about cultural competency and how stereotypes around sex can create unrealistic expectations and negative perceptions for people of all backgrounds. 

In this minisode, Christine and Shannon talk givers and receivers, tops and bottoms, and what sharing is caring means in the bedroom. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss what “self-care” means and bring in Katrina Shepard, LICSW to talk about when it can cross a line into potentially being self defeating. 

On this week's study session, Christine and Shannon chat loose vaginas, medical truths, and what Reddit has to say about, well, everything. 

In this minisode, Christine and Shannon talk about monogamy and why it keeps getting a bad rap. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon discuss the myth that you can "choose" to be one sexuality or another. Instead, they unpack ideas around sexual identity, outdated terminology, and the ongoing debate of whether or not "bicurious" and "heteroflexible" are appropriate terms. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon return for the third semester of Sex Ed Debunked with an episode on skill-building in the bedroom, and what it means to be “good in bed.” The duo is joined by intimacy and pleasure experts Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers of  The Pleasure Movement. 

On this week's episode, Christine and Shannon recap the Spring semester, tease topics for the Fall semester, and give recommended reading and watch lists to get you through the summer.