Podcasts about insecure attachment

Do you often feel insecure in your relationship or worry that your partner doesn't love you enough? In this episode, I unpack the concept of attachment anxiety - where it comes from, how it develops from our earliest experiences with caregivers, and how it can lead to unhelpful patterns in our romantic relationships. I outline the main signs of attachment anxiety and the coping strategies - sometimes called defence mechanisms - that people use to feel more secure, and most importantly, I share practical tips for building a more secure relationship with yourself and your partner.Whether you catch yourself constantly checking your partner's social media, ruminating over every conversation, or feeling like you're giving too much and neglecting your own needs, this episode is packed with supportive insights and actionable advice to help you better understand and manage attachment anxiety.Want more?Check out our Attachment Anxiety Mini Guide  packed with helpful tips, self reflective prompts and tips to help you feel more secure in your relationship. Download HERE.BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Jess shares an inspiring story of synchronicity that sparks a deep dive into how people—especially women—can unknowingly leak financial potential due to insecure attachment styles. She reflects on how our past experiences, wisdom, and accumulated knowledge are often undervalued or discarded, leading to scarcity patterns and survival-mode living.Using a relatable example of a fashion journalist friend, Jess maps out how even someone with a rich professional background might find themselves financially stuck—not because they lack value, but because they're not recognizing or monetizing it.She breaks down a model of creating a high-value membership offering and uses simple math to show how it could result in multi-million-pound futures. But beyond the numbers, she brings the focus back to inner healing: the importance of cultivating secure attachment, trusting your worth, and learning to hold abundance without fear or leakage.Key TakeawaysYour past holds financial gold. Every experience, skill, and relationship you've built is valuable and potentially monetizable.Secure attachment supports financial clarity. When you're grounded in your worth, you can plan wisely for the future and build income streams aligned with your value.Scarcity often comes from wounding. Avoidant or anxious attachment patterns can block abundance by creating subconscious resistance to holding or receiving money.Build with intention. Something like a small membership community (e.g. 250 people paying £297/month) can create over £900K/year, which, wisely invested, sets up generational wealth.Your pension starts now. Think beyond work. What do you need to feel supported later in life? Design for that today.Self-worth is the foundation. Healing is essential. Until you feel worthy of holding and receiving, no strategy will feel sustainable.Quotes from Jess“All along the way, you've been investing in yourself. But have you just thrown that all away?”“A secure attachment style helps you hold. Money. Love. Safety. Legacy.”“What's leaking is your gold. But it can be reclaimed.”

In this episode, we dive deep into the body's role in healing with Kate, a physical therapist, author, and embodied freedom and transformation coach. Kate specializes in helping service-driven women who feel like they're falling apart—overwhelmed, exhausted, and trapped in cycles of chronic anxiety, pain, and fatigue. We also unpacked how shame shapes our identity and how the unhealed stress and trauma we carry doesn't just affect us—it ripples into our relationships. When we stay disconnected from our bodies, we struggle to show up fully for ourselves and others. But when we begin to listen, release, and heal, we open the door to deeper connection, compassion, and freedom. With a background in neuro and pain science, she offers a powerful lens into how stress and trauma are held in the body—and how releasing them can create real transformation. We talked about what it means to come back to your body, how physical tension reflects emotional holding, and she even guided me through some surprising exercises to uncover what I've been carrying. This conversation is a reminder that healing isn't just a mental process. It's physical. It's embodied. And it's deeply personal. Resources & Mentions: Her book: The Good Girl RX Freebie: Sneak Peek of The Good Girl RX     Connect with me: Dr. Zoe Shaw on Instagram Dr. Zoe Shaw on Facebook Dr. Zoe Shaw Website

The way we parent isn't just shaped by psychology—it's deeply influenced by culture, shaping how our children experience love, discipline, and security in ways we may not even realize. Joining me to unpack this is clinical psychologist Dr. Miguelina German.   In this episode we explore:   - Two overarching parenting frameworks, Attachment Theory and Baumrind Parenting Practices, and how understanding the nuances of each can help us in our parenting approach.    - The importance of “warmth” in parenting and what the research reveals of the positive correlation between our child's perception of high warmth with positive outcomes.   - How generational trauma, values, and cultural norms can inform differences in parenting strategies and styles.    - The impact of being separated from a caregiver as a young child and the attachment rupture that can occur during critical developmental times.   - How to repair a relationship that has undergone an attachment rupture.   Parenting is not one-size-fits-all. By understanding the interplay between attachment, cultural influences, and parenting styles, we can create stronger, more secure connections with our children.       LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. MIGUELINA: https://www.drmiguelinagerman.com/   ADDITIONAL REFERENCES AND RESOURCES: Ghosts in the Nursery: A Psychoanalytic Approach to the Problems of Impaired Infant-Mother Relationships Angels in the nursery: The intergenerational transmission of benevolent parental influences Dr. Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson - The 4 S's   CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

Have you ever felt like someone's psychological slave, as if every thought you have, you must worry what someone in your life is going to think or feel? If you have ever loved a narcissist, you may have slowly lost yourself overtime and not even realized it until you felt like you were going crazy or like you were losing your mind. A narcissist lives in a very unique fantasy world, in their mind, and you are merely an actor in their play. You do not exist as an autonomous 3D human being, with your own unique beliefs, needs, expectations, emotions or opinions, at least not in their heads you don't. No, you play a role in their life and whether you realize it or not, in their eyes, you are their psychological slave and you are to bend when they blow. Lisa A. Romano, a breakthrough life coach, and expert in codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, clearly explains in this episode how a narcissist uses their perception as a weapon of manipulation against you. Additionally, a special warning goes out to those who struggle with self-doubt, low self-worth, and the need to be understood, needed, and who identify as codependent. You have been conditioned since childhood to seek validation outside yourself to feel worthy. Dear One, you are a prime target for narcissistic abuse.  Listen good! In this episode Lisa is going to help you develop that stainless steel spine all codependents and those who have been psychologically manipulated by narcissists need to strive for on their transformation journey from inner wounds to inner strength.  Work with Lisa here: Codependency Recovery Accelerator Apply for her VIP Mastermind Groups VIP Mastermind Group Coaching Listen to One of Lisa's Books for Free Books  Join Lisa in Person at the Art of Living Center in May 3 Day Inner Child Retreat

► Get Access To Our Courses & Community:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://understandable.net/join/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠(Ad)► Download the Free Workbook full of Re-Regulation Resources & Writing techniques:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://understandable.net/book/⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Ad)If you are insecurely attached, so have an avoidant, an anxious or a fearful-avoidant attachment style, the big question is:IS IT POSSIBLE TO WORK THROUGH AND TRANSFORM AN INSECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE AND RESOLVE TOXIC RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS AND THE SYMPTOMS OF CHILDHOOD TRAUMA?I'll give you the answer straight away:Our attachment style is not determined like for example our Myer's Briggs Personality Type.Therefore, we have the ability to change and transform our attachment patterns in many areas.Usually, we need to go through these 4 stages that I will explain to you in detail in this video.And I will introduce you to the big 3 skills you need to learn and nurture in order to transform insecure attachment & live healthier relationships.► Links and Resources:Journey To Secure Attachment Blog Article: https://exquisite.love/blog/journey-to-secure-attachmentThe 4 Attachment Styles Episode: https://youtu.be/1S-YK065XLA?si=4kYlgVNI2HiLSbyGCodependency Episode: https://youtu.be/OSeR88YWwhU?si=adqBVXyu7AV-oMopToxic Shame Episode: https://youtu.be/ELUfIk0lzxU?si=iqiQDtYL1VhhK255Polyvagal Theory Episode: https://youtu.be/2iT8Msp8Vx0?si=KqfKns7ngiXYQoGw99 Positive Beliefs Episode: https://youtu.be/YKaFLo_USU0?si=thC3Rjz14czki1DsAttachment Styles Series:Episode 1/8: Avoidant Attachment Style: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/4vs3gDlmS18Episode 2/8: Working Through Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/FpNODQ7xYJgEpisode 3/8: Anxious Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/rXscvYntSpYEpisode 4/8: Working Through Anxious Attachment: https://youtu.be/lbLG9432BkYEpisode 5/8: Fearful-Avoidant Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/V5Nn_XOHFX8Episode 6/8: Working Through Fearful Avoidant Attachment: https://youtu.be/leT0-kFOSR0Episode 7/8: Secure Attachment: 10 Signs: https://youtu.be/YXdW4mwwogoEpisode 8/8: Becoming Securely Attached: https://youtu.be/wq6sRKNdUsE⁠► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform!YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠► Episode Timestamps:00:00 Intro02:29 The Path From Insecure To Secure AttachmentFinal Thoughts03:52 Stage 1: Unconscious Insecurity05:54 Stage 2: Conscious Insecurity08:12 Stage 3: Conscious Security10:51 Stage 4: Unconscious/Natural Security13:50 How To Transform Insecure Attachment14:17 Skill 1: Self Regulation17:53 Skill 2: Self-Care20:02 Skill 3: Self-Resourcing21:05 Final Thoughts► Reach Out To Me :)E-Mail: info@understandable.net► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about childhood trauma & attachment theory.My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :)► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

Support the showLet's develop relationship fitness and cultivate fulfilling, secure, and loving relationships. Specialising in relationships, attachment problems and trauma bonding, Dr Sarah is on a mission to help you end negative cycles, create a secure relationship template, improve communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional intimacy. Stop self-sabotaging behaviours now and begin to self-actualise. Working with business leaders, entrepreneurs, high achievers and perfectionists. Whether you are wanting to strengthen your current relationship and save your marriage, or you are healing from heartbreak to start a fresh, set yourself up for relationship success. Get marriage counselling near you in person or online, sign up to one of Dr Sarah's luxury retreats, and continue your path to success. www.relationshipsuccesslab.com Sign up to the exclusive retreat: www.relationshipsuccesslab.com/retreatContact: info@relationshipsuccesslab.com LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy Find resources on: https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com/relationship-quiz Subscribe to Dr Sarah: Relationship Success Lab on Spotify or Apple Podcasts

Joined by special guest, Julie Menanno, our hosts sit down to discuss how to heal insecure attachment by focusing on self-awareness, emotional regulation, and developing a secure relationship with oneself. She emphasizes that attachment wounds manifest through self-abandonment, which leads to unhealthy relational patterns. Healing involves learning to sit with and process difficult emotions rather than seeking external reassurance, shifting from self-protection to self-support. In relationships, individuals must take turns being caregivers for one another, creating an attachment-friendly environment that fosters trust and security. Listen to learn more about topics like:  Self-Abandonment as the Root Issue Emotional Processing Over Quick Regulation Building Secure Attachment with Self Discerning Between Attachment Triggers and Relationship Red Flags and more! Julies Bio & Links: Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC, is a therapist, author, and creator of The Secure Relationship, a community dedicated to helping people build secure, loving relationships. With over 1.3 million Instagram followers, Julie's relatable advice and real-time couples therapy sessions have made her a trusted voice in relational health. Her book Secure Love, published by Simon & Schuster in 2024, dives deep into attachment theory and is available worldwide.  Secure Love, written by Julie Menanno The Secure Love Podcast Give Me Discounts! Amazfit - Visit www.amazfit.com/IDO to get 10% off Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

https://quiz.attachmentproject.com In this episode, Madds dives deep into the topic of attachment styles, discussing the four main types: secure, anxious preoccupied, anxious avoidant, and dismissive avoidant. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's attachment style and how it affects relationships. Madds provides insights into healing insecure attachments and offers practical activities for each attachment style to foster personal growth and improve relationship dynamics. CHOOSE YOUR HIGHEST TIMELINE IN 2025⤵︎ Let's Work Together: https://forms.gle/kujsjtQERQb4Tfmv9 1 Spot Left for the Solaris Quantum Self Retreat in JUNE: Apply - https://www.weareendora.com/retreat Raising Unique & Gifted Children? Join ORA & Get Parenting Support Today! https://www.weareendora.com/for-parents#group-support Love the content here? Get more of it here: https://www.instagram.com/endora.inc/ Podcast Topic Request: https://forms.gle/Zc6fG9iqbLwCXAnB7 © Copyright 2025. ENDORA.inc. All rights reserved.

How does attachment security relate to codependency? The Codependent Perfectionist, Alana Carvalho, is here to explore just that!   In this episode we cover:   - How does codependency fit into the attachment system?   - Does this sound like what you're struggling with in your relationship? We're reviewing some for the most common challenges partners face when one person is more avoidant and the other is more anxious.   - Challenging perceptions of what is necessary in a relationship. When we are seeing the world through dysfunctional patterns, we are often unaware of this dysfunction.   - The differences between missatunement versus misperception and how understanding this difference can help us get on the same page on both!   - A tangible exercise you can do with your partner to help you create a stronger dynamic (and why this works to not kick up a threat response so they're more able to engage in the conversation more successfully.)   Whether you're struggling with relational patterns or looking to better understand your partner, this episode offers powerful insights and tools for cultivating healthier relationships.     LEARN MORE ABOUT ALANA: https://www.alanacarvalho.com/   TAKE THE QUIZ: https://www.alanacarvalho.com/the-codependent-perfectionist-quiz/   READ ALANA'S BOOK:

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...   - Breaking down the difference between having differing political view points versus someone having extremist views.    - How the health of our relationships with our parents is often intertwined with our relationship with ourselves, our kids, and our entire family system.    - How to manage feeling lost, un-seen, and destabilized when a parent shifts to being less of a secure attachment figure.   - Does this change in your parent's views and values mean you have to throw out all the things you have learned from them that inform your approach to raising your own kids?   - When it's best to try to compartmentalize things your parent might say, and when it's necessary to hold firm boundaries.   - Learn Dr. Sarah's simple framework for setting and holding effective boundaries.     ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:  

Dating can be tricky for anyone, but when you have an insecure attachment style, it can feel like a rollercoaster. Whether you're anxiously chasing connection, avoiding commitment, or stuck in the push-pull of a fearful avoidant cycle, dating often brings out old patterns that just aren't working.In this episode, we're diving into:Anxious daters – Why they ignore red flags, say yes when they mean no, and prioritize being in a relationship over the actual person.Avoidant daters – Why they tend to avoid dating, take forever to commit, and struggle with knowing what they really want.Fearful avoidants – How they crave connection but also fear it, leading to trust issues and a lot of internal conflict.The anxious-avoidant cycle – Why these patterns keep repeating and how to break free.If dating has ever felt frustrating, confusing, or downright exhausting, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to ditch the insecurity and date with more confidence!Discover your attachment style to break free from old relationship patterns. Take the free quiz here: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6329f75e6dd9410016a64043Follow Lit AF Relationships on Instagram: @itsmesarahcohan.comVisit the Lit AF Relationships Website: https://www.sarahcohan.com/If you're interested in one-on-one or couples coaching I'd love to help you heal old patterns to create healthy relationships where you feel like you're on the same team. Get started by applying for a free 60-minute healthy relationships call here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddL3tie849uvgD1m31l4MAH3AzH0FlWgnsG0gPEBEzeDyPyg/viewform

What role do early attachment relationships play in shaping who we become? In this episode, Dr. Alan Sroufe, a pioneering researcher in attachment, shares decades of insights from his groundbreaking longitudinal study. Together we explore: - How Dr. Sroufe's research answered the question: Do early experiences leave a lasting legacy? - Why resilience isn't just about thriving in the face of adversity, but is deeply rooted in the strength of attachment relationships. - The importance of early relationships in helping children develop a sense of safety, positive self-worth, and durable relationships. - A hopeful message that attachment isn't fixed and that secure relationships in adolescence and adulthood can change developmental trajectories, even after challenging childhoods. - Why the quality, not quantity, of time with your child matters most (and what babies can teach us about connection). - How parents can help shape the meaning children make of their world and guide them through challenges with empathy. Dr. Sroufe's work shows that while early experiences are never erased, they're always building blocks for growth—and recovery is always possible.   READ THE BOOK DR. ALAN'S RECOMMENDS PARENTS START WITH:

The societal acceptance of insecure attachment styles as a standard in modern love poses a profound dilemma. Cultural narratives surrounding love frequently romanticize the struggles associated with anxious or avoidant attachments, framing them as integral to “real love.” This normalization risks perpetuating patterns of insecurity that hinder genuine emotional connection. Are we, therefore, romanticizing insecurity and calling it love?

The societal acceptance of insecure attachment styles as a standard in modern love poses a profound dilemma. Cultural narratives surrounding love frequently romanticize the struggles associated with anxious or avoidant attachments, framing them as integral to “real love.” This normalization risks perpetuating patterns of insecurity that hinder genuine emotional connection. Are we, therefore, romanticizing insecurity and calling it love?

Has your mother ever ignored you as an attempt to punish you for challenging her or confronting her behavior? Have you ever felt like your mom was intentionally causing you emotional duress, possibly by causing you to feel indebted and obligated to her, despite her unhealthy, narcissistic, self-absorbed behavior? If so, this podcast is for you! Lisa A. Romano is an expert in the field of inner well-being, rooted in healing from the consequences of being raised by dysfunctional parents. She believes that through repetition, observation and consistency, children over time absorbed the energy, and consequences of their parent's mindsets, actions, opinion, and behaviors at the level of the subconscious. As a healing adult daughter and survivor of a covert narcissistic mother, she has successfully navigated up and out of the toxic web the trauma of being raised by a covert mother creates, and today, she is sharing with you insight, wisdom and a pathway out of the self sabotaging cycles such dynamics cause.  If you are the adult child of a narcissistic mother, you need Lisa's structured, proven 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching System. Learn more below.  Make 2025 your breakthrough year and join Lisa in her next live online course, beginning February 9th. Participate from anywhere in the world. Follow the course material online at your leisure throughout the week, and join Lisa and her life coaches daily in a private support group. Every Saturday at 9:00 am EST, join a live group coaching call where Lisa answers members' questions.  Join Lisa's grassroots efforts to awaken consciousness one breakthrough at a time despite a painful past. It's not you--it's your programming.  Join Lisa this February. Early Bird Discount Going on Now Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group  

Lit AF Relationships podcast is your resource for creating healthy relationships full of love, trust, safety, and respect. In this episode, we break down the difference between intuition and markers of insecure attachment, like emotional flooding, repeated patterns, self-sabotage, avoidance, and clinginess. Learn how to spot the quiet wisdom of intuition—it's soft, surprising, and unattached to outcomes—and why it feels so different from the turbulence of insecurity. Plus, tips to hone your intuition so you can confidently navigate life and relationships. Get ready to trust yourself like never before!Discover your attachment style to break free from old relationship patterns. Take the free quiz here: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6329f75e6dd9410016a64043Follow Lit AF Relationships on Instagram: @itsmesarahcohan.comVisit the Lit AF Relationships Website: https://www.sarahcohan.com/If you're interested in one-on-one or couples coaching I'd love to help you heal old patterns to create healthy relationships where you feel like you're on the same team. Get started by applying for a free 60-minute healthy relationships call here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddL3tie849uvgD1m31l4MAH3AzH0FlWgnsG0gPEBEzeDyPyg/viewform

In this episode, Dr. Judy Ho and Talia Bombola discuss the significance of attachment theory in understanding relationships and personal growth. They explore how early experiences shape attachment styles, the impact of trauma, and the importance of self-concept in fostering healthy relationships. The conversation emphasizes that healing from insecure attachments is possible at any stage of life and highlights the need for individual work in conjunction with relationship dynamics.

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreRemember, you cannot change what you cannot see and don't understand. Even when you can better see the problem and understand it, does not mean that you can change it - quickly. Insecure Attachment behaviours is one such pattern, which needs to be understood - to experience your "eureka moment" - the light bulb moment.Parents (or the main caregivers) are lighthouses. Babies, toddlers and children are ships on the high seas. They can go exploring the out backs of Australia on Walkabout, as long as the lighthouse did its job "good enough" for that child's brain; not necessarily perfectly.Consistent and "good enough" caregiving in the childhood developing years, provides the child with the secure base on which to investigate their world. In other words, grow and develop to become independent at the right time, with own well used tools for adulthood.When the bonding with those main caregivers is not as it needed to be, because the light went out, got dim, flickered, sometimes on, sometimes off - the developing child had to learn to adjust; not trust; not depend; not seek help; not...; not...; not...;not... (you fill in the blank for you).The repercussion and consequent is seen in how the (now adult) goes on to do their adult relationship interaction and dynamics. The well grooved, well practiced, well developed childhood pattern of relationship interaction - will likely now play out in the adult relationships and be quite visible - if you look for it.Let the Kairos Centre come alongside you to reclaim your quality of living life - without shame - bringing colour back to life.Give a little to my fund raising page here, to help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreWant to know more? Click the link and come get me.Get the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpDiscover the real, authentic you - without shame.The Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; discover the real, authentic you. www.kairos-centre.com or email info@kairos-centre.comNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt | Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing Journeys | Intimacy Building |

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreLove Addiction is often a response to Insecure Attachment. It looks like it is about sex and chasing sexual outlets, but it isn't really about sex - as the core desire.It is an attempt to gain a sense of 'being wanted', 'being a part of...','accepted', 'owned', 'wanted', 'secure', 'held', 'needed', 'wanted', 'safe', 'protected', 'belonging', The class clown will play up to that carved out role, because of a recognition that they get laughs. Through the back door, laughs gives a temporary sense of being a part of the group - where life mostly is a sense of not belonging, excluded, rejected, not acceptable.Any attention is better than no attention. The crumbs off the table is better than nothing.Friends looking on in frustration and annoyance at the behaviours - self, observing own behaviours - adds to the self-deprecation. The Addict is frustrated. Logic evades them all. The behaviours make no sense. The costs and repercussions from doing the behaviours, make no sense; don't add up.The repetition, the risk taking, the boundary crossing, the trashing own Values and trespassing beyond own comfort levels - makes no logically sense."Why do I do the things which I don't want to do and not do the things which I ought to do?"Let the Kairos Centre come alongside you to reclaim your quality of living life - without shame - bringing colour back to life.Give a little to my fund raising page here, to help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreWant to know more? Click the link and come get me.Get the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpDiscover the real, authentic you - without shame.The Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; discover the real, authentic you. www.kairos-centre.com or email info@kairos-centre.comNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt | Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing Journeys | Intimacy Building |

EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY & GET OUR LIMITED TIME BLACK FRIDAY OFFER: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN'S BOOK: Love Magnet Book FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Today's episode answers a question I get asked ALL of the time. “ How can you tell the difference between an attachment style response and your intuition?” This question often comes up when someone is spiraling, and questioning their relationship. They want to know: “Is this my intuition that is protecting me, or is it my anxious attachment style sabotaging my love life?” Inside this episode: How a dysregulated nervous system and insecure attachment prevents you from being connected to your inner knowing How to begin to move towards a secure attachment style Practices to help you distinguish between your intuition and an insecure attachment response If you know you are READY to do the work on yourself, to become the securely attached, highest and best version of you, then you do not want to miss out on the: ✨ Black Friday Secure Love Bundle ✨The Bundle includes the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program along with THREE bonus offers,, that's over $2000 of content all yours. for free! There has never been a better time to join the ESL Program and finally do the work on yourself so you can attract the loving partnership you deserve. Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreThe Insecure 'ATTACHMENT' label does not describe accurately, what is really in the can with this label on it! It is exactly the opposite. It typically is set up in the early childhood development years. Often, they are experiences which you can't readily or easily access; but your brain remembers them well and put an identification label/marker on each of them, as and when they occurred.You cannot necessarily find or access them or the details about them. The brain does it's job well and blots them out from you finding them, so that you do not have a nervous breakdown.They have been put in boxes. Nailed down and labels attached saying "DO NOT OPEN. We do not lift the lid off these boxes. They contain uncomfortable stuff. They are stored in this area of the brain, to help you get through life without them (too frequently) causing disruption".They are filed in certain parts of your brain, which are not easily accessible without the right password, situation and environment. They can be prematurely triggered out in situations like watching a Netflix movie. (We need to be balanced in our advertising of Netflix and so add.... Amazon Prime, BBC player, Apple TV, a box set etc!).EMDR beckons folks. Out of sight is not out of mind - entirely.Let the Kairos Centre come alongside you to reclaim your quality of living life - without shame - bringing colour back to life.Give a little to my fund raising page here, to help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreGet the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpThe Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; discover the real, authentic you. email info@kairos-centre.comNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt | Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing Journeys | Intim

Let's revisit the foundation of raising securely attached kids! I'm bringing back one of my first ever episodes to help parents understand the basics of how a secure attachment bond impacts children's resilience, confidence, and overall well-being.   Tune in to hear:   - What secure attachment is and how it plays a key role in nurturing a child's confidence, curiosity, and ability to handle life's ups and downs.   - The powerful influence of feeling safe and seen on a child's ability to be honest, adaptable, and resilient.   - Practical strategies for fostering secure attachment, no matter the age of your child.   - How attachment affects a child's development into a compassionate, kind individual who can build meaningful relationships throughout their life.   This episode offers science-backed insights and actionable tips and is a must-listen for all parents!     SHOW NOTES: (link)   INTERESTED IN LEARNING MORE ABOUT ATTACHMENT SCIENCE? Click HERE to download my free guide, The Four Pillars of Fostering Secure Attachment, helping you parent with a focus on attunement and trust.   LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. SARAH: https://drsarahbren.com/   FOLLOW DR. SARAH ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/drsarahbren/     CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:

Send us a textHealing, our insecurities, can go a very far away and helping our relationships to flourish. Insecurities can add a burden on the relationship and can lead to an inevitable end.This podcast covers how we could heal our insecurities which are linked to our attachment styles. This podcast will give you tips and exercises to do as well as explain why these work. Feel free to follow me across social media for everything related to being more aware of our attachment styles and healing them.Support the show

In this week's episode Manpreet talks about the link between childhood wounds and money You will learn:How childhood wounds impact our relationship with moneyAnxious and avoidant money patternsHow insecure attachment impacts entrepreneurship journeyHow we create a secure attachment To money Join the FREE 5 day tapping challenge REIGNITE your financial comeback   Sign up to FREE EXPANSION podcast seriesAccess to Trauma Informed Manifestation Framework class for £33 Magnetic Money £99 manifestation courseNew Programme Overflow launching in November 2024 with £1111 offf  you get this for £2222 in October 2022 until 21st October! To join the 12 week Heal Your Inner Child Programme for Self Healing Details here or email Manpreet at manpreet@heartshappiness.co.uk  Heart's Happiness Self Healing ShopInstagram for Heart's Happiness daily inspiration for your mental health and healing.Join mailing list here Subscribe to our videos on you tube.Everyone deserves to find their own Heart's Happiness and this podcast has been created with so much love from my heart to yours. Love Manpreet  

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"It's not about fixing yourself, because you're not broken. It's about understanding why you react the way you do and learning to respond differently."What is Disorganized Attachment Style and how do you heal from it?Hey Besties!! Today's episode is a much requested deep dive into disorganized attachment, otherwise known as fearful avoidant. I used to be wired this way, and I want to help our fellow besties to get some clarity and finally heal this pattern so you can be just like me - Happily engaged, in a healthy and secure relationship at last!But it wasn't easy. And that's why I developed some helpful and effective strategies over the years so you won't have to go through what I did. Listen in as we explore the signs of this attachment style, why it happens, some very interesting historical facts and how to heal these toxic patterns using our Feel, Heal, Attract System. Put your headphones on and enjoy this value-packed episode!______________________________________EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:What Disorganized Attachment Style is, and how the Attachment Theory came aboutMy own journey in healing it and how you can use our Feel, Heal, Attract System to heal from it tooCall to Action: Get your FREE Attachment Style Assessment & Personalized Healing Plan by booking your one-to-one breakthrough call with my coaching team here______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Listen to Episode 71: "WTF Are Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles?!"Get your FREE Attachment Style Assessment & Personalized Healing Plan by booking your one-to-one breakthrough call with my coaching team hereJoin our Facebook Community for live Q&A sessions and community support________________________________________OTHER RESOURCES:Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"_____________________________________WAS THIS HELPFUL?I'd be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 

Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramFIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Todays' episode is an EXTRA vulnerable one.This is a topic that so many of us need to revisit: The Mother WoundInside of today's episode:Signs you may have a mother woundMy own personal experience with the mother woundThe first steps you need to take to being to heal your mother woundIf today's episode hit home and you know you have healing to do, I want to invite you to enter your Secure Love Era Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program

SummaryIn this episode of Health Power, Lisa Davis interviews Dr. John Trentalange about the topic of attachment. They discuss the difference between secure and insecure attachment, the origins of attachment theory, and the impact of attachment on relationships and mental health. Dr. John explains that attachment is internal and is formed in early childhood with primary caregivers, creating a blueprint for all future relationships. He also discusses different types of insecure attachment, such as anxious ambivalent and avoidance, and the potential long-term effects of insecure attachment, including reactive attachment disorder and sociopathy. Dr. John emphasizes the importance of consistency, predictability, and gentle connections in enhancing attachment.Keywords: attachment, secure attachment, insecure attachment, attachment theory, relationships, mental health, anxious ambivalent, avoidance, reactive attachment disorder, sociopathy, consistency, predictability, gentle connectionsTakeawaysAttachment is internal and is formed in early childhood with primary caregivers, creating a blueprint for all future relationships.Insecure attachment can lead to various issues, such as anxiety, avoidance, and reactive attachment disorder.Consistency, predictability, and gentle connections are important in enhancing attachment.Attachment is a key factor in mental health and can impact relationships throughout life.Attachment can be repaired and improved through therapy and self-reflection.Sound Bites"Attachment is internal. It has to do with relationships, but much more than that.""Insecure attachment can lead to various issues, such as anxiety, avoidance, and reactive attachment disorder.""Consistency, predictability, and gentle connections are important in enhancing attachment."Chapters00:00Introduction to Dr. John Trentalange06:46The Impact of Insecure Attachment12:04Enhancing Attachment Through Consistency and Gentle Connections22:06Attachment Begins in the Womb27:05Repairing and Improving Attachment

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramYou all know I am a research nerd, and today we are diving into a research study that examined the changes in attachment style trends over time. I think these findings will give you insight into today's dating trends, and possibly give you some validation for what you are experiencing in your relationships. Inside of this episode I discuss: The shocking decline in secure attachment and a significant increase in avoidant attachment.Why the decrease in secure attachment is happening (hint: social media & an increase in fear in our society) Why I feel it is more important than ever to become securely attached If you've been on the fence when it comes to doing the work to rewire your brain for healthy love, now is the time to finally become the securely attached version of you. The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program

In this episode, Jackie talks attachment styles, healing insecure attachment and learning the language of attachment.  

Are your attachment pains and patterns impacting not only your relationships, but also your nervous system and overall health?   In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Diane Poole-Heller, an internationally recognized speaker, author, and expert in the field of attachment theory and trauma resolution. Together, we will discuss attachment and how it influences the way your form and maintain relationships, communicate (or don't!), and what you can do to start moving towards a secure attachment and healthier relationships!  You'll hear more about: Defining attachment based on your biology How the nervous system gets confused when connection isn't always safe The markers and milestones that indicate you're moving towards a secure attachment  What it means when you ghost people Why you can't just think your way out of your attachment and relationship patterns Building new relational skills for connection and authenticity And more! For more information and links for this episode, please visit our website: https://biologyoftrauma.com/biology-of-trauma-podcast/  

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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to ApplyREGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit Ever wondered how your attachment style impacts how you process a break-up? Inside today's episode we discuss: The thoughts each attachment style experiences as they go through a break-up WHY avoidantly attached folks tend to “jump into a new relationship” The ways a securely attached person navigates heartbreak Aaaaaand so much more! Make sure you don't miss my upcoming LIVE Masterclass: ✨SO OVER IT: Your 3-Step Blueprint for Getting Over Your Ex and Getting Excited to Date ✨In this LIVE event with me your host, Dr.Morgan we will ⤵️✔️ Regulate your emotions so you can feel calm & confident.✔️ Build rock-solid self-trust that helps you easily know who you should date, and who you should drop.✔️ Process and release past relational trauma so you're no longer repeating unwanted dating patterns.✔️Apply attachment theory to your life and relationships so you can finally attract secure, healthy love that lasts.REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit *SPOTS ARE LIMITED: FIRST COME FIRST SERVE*

Our past experiences shape our present behaviors and patterns, but by working toward healing our inner child, we can make meaningful shifts!   Jennifer Nurick joins me to discuss a profound way to approach healing by integrating many treatment approaches, including attachment theory, Internal Family Systems, EMDR, somatic psychotherapy, and more.   In this episode, we explore practical strategies for healing past traumas and nurturing inner and outer secure attachments through "parts work." Plus, Jennifer shares poignant examples of how this work translates into real-life interactions, especially in the realm of parenting, where attunement and repair are crucial for overall mental health and well-being.         LEARN MORE ABOUT JENNIFER: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/   READ JENNIFER'S BOOK: Heal Your Anxious Attachment: Release Past Trauma, Cultivate Secure Relationships, and Nurture a Deeper Sense of Self   INTERESTED IN LEARNING MORE ABOUT ATTACHMENT SCIENCE? Click HERE to download my free guide, The Four Pillars of Fostering Secure Attachment, helping you parent with a focus on attunement and trust.

SummaryIn this episode of Health Power, Lisa Davis interviews Dr. John Trentalange about the topic of attachment. They discuss the difference between secure and insecure attachment, the origins of attachment theory, and the impact of attachment on relationships and mental health. Dr. John explains that attachment is internal and is formed in early childhood with primary caregivers, creating a blueprint for all future relationships. He also discusses different types of insecure attachment, such as anxious ambivalent and avoidance, and the potential long-term effects of insecure attachment, including reactive attachment disorder and sociopathy. Dr. John emphasizes the importance of consistency, predictability, and gentle connections in enhancing attachment.Keywordsattachment, secure attachment, insecure attachment, attachment theory, relationships, mental health, anxious ambivalent, avoidance, reactive attachment disorder, sociopathy, consistency, predictability, gentle connectionsDr. John is available for psychological assistance in either therapy, consultation, conferences, trainings, presentations or speaking engagements. You can text him at 719-310-9495 or email: trentalange@netzero.comTakeawaysAttachment is internal and is formed in early childhood with primary caregivers, creating a blueprint for all future relationships.Insecure attachment can lead to various issues, such as anxiety, avoidance, and reactive attachment disorder.Consistency, predictability, and gentle connections are important in enhancing attachment.Attachment is a key factor in mental health and can impact relationships throughout life.Attachment can be repaired and improved through therapy and self-reflection.

Can two people with an insecure attachment style ACTUALLY be together? How do the insecure attachment styles differ? What were the seminal studies that helped us to understand more about attachment theory? Do we need to 'fix' our attachment style? All these questions answered and more in one of my favourite episodes to record ever. If you prefer to watch your podcasts, you'll find this on my youtube channel (Shona Vertue) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thevertuepodcast/message

Do you know your attachment style and how it's impacting your life? If not, you have a goldmine of wisdom waiting to be discovered… and it could completely change your life! Today, I'm joined by Dr. Judy Ho, a triple board certified and licensed Clinical and Forensic Neuropsychologist, Author, and Associate Professor at Pepperdine University. In this episode, Dr. Ho and I discuss insights from her newest book, “The New Rules of Attachment”, which teaches you how to heal insecure attachment styles (at any age) to optimize your well-being, career, goal attainment, and relationships. Whether you're going through a life transition, working to improve your relationships, trying to lose weight, or pursuing the next phase of your career, knowing your attachment style is a real game-changer. Personally, discovering my attachment style has transformed the way I show up in relationships, in business, as a parent, and so much more. If you're looking for a powerful way to improve your life, this is it. You HAVE to understand your attachment style if you want to thrive to the fullest. If it can change my life, imagine what this knowledge could do for your life… Tune in to get started on your next level of self-development!  “What's beneath self-sabotage for many, many people? Really, it goes down to the roots of your attachment because that's really the formation of who we are as people.” – Dr. Judy Ho Key Highlights: What are the 4 attachment styles and why are they important? How your attachment style affects every area of your life. Are attachment styles determined by parenting style or the child's personality? How to change your attachment style to be more secure (and maintain it). Steps to improving your life after learning your attachment style. How to start reparenting your inner child at any age (even if you're skeptical). Does over-coddling children lead to insecure attachment? The connection between attachment styles and love languages. What makes Dr. Judy Ho's approach to attachment different? Is it possible to have multiple attachment styles? Episode Resources: Buy “The New Rules of Attachment” by Dr. Judy Ho Join Amber's FREE 3-Day Challenge: ambershaw.com/trimchallenge  Connect with Dr. Judy Ho: Visit her website: com Follow on Instagram: @DrJudyHo Connect on Facebook: /doctorjudyho Connect on LinkedIn: /in/drjudyho   Connect with Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw TikTok: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com Free Weight Loss, Health & Fitness Facebook Group for Working Moms

Many of the women I have the privilege of working with are mothers. Mothers who feel touched out and need space, but feel guilt when it comes for asking or taking it, or they struggle trusting the resilience of their child and their partner to figure out their own way. I share about my background with child development and things I've learned about cultivating a prepared environment that supports the child's development and behavior.Resources:Join the Codependency Alchemy Broadcast Channel on InstagramCLICK HERE TO GET ON THE WAITLIST FOR THE MASTERMINDOn Children - By Kahlil GibranCodependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership! The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby BookstoreLet's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!Support the show

What is reasonable, or not reasonable when it comes to asking your partner for support. Additionally, what can you rely on your partner for? What are you afraid will happen or what are you afraid it might mean about you if you ask for what you need, or if you ask for support?  This was a question submitted in the Codependency Alchemy Broadcast Channel on Instagram. If you want to drop your own topic suggestions make sure you join the Broadcast Channel by clicking here: Codependency Alchemy Broadcast ChannelResources:CLICK HERE TO GET ON THE WAITLIST FOR THE MASTERMINDCatch the Healing the Mother Wound Masterclass Replay on SubstackCodependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership! The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby BookstoreLet's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!Support the show

When one partner consistently over-gives or seeks to create comfort for the other, a pattern emerges—one that often stems from deep-seated codependent tendencies rooted in fears of abandonment and rejection. In this episode we explore how these patterns manifest, the toll they take on both partners, and how to navigate towards healthier, more balanced relationships. Resources:CLICK HERE TO GET ON THE WAITLIST FOR THE MASTERMINDCodependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership! The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby BookstoreLet's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!Support the show

Insecure Attachment and Low Self-Esteem can go hand in hand! In celebration of our brand new Porgramme GLOW, this episode is dedicated to sharing 6 subtle signs that you need to pay more attention to self-esteem work. If you fall into these patterns, you don't have to stay there, there is a way out!Sign up to the FREE Workshop HEREGLOW THE WORKSHOPSubscribe now and join our thriving community of listeners who are on a journey to better relationships, improved self-esteem, and a more fulfilling life. Links: The Attachment Recovery Gym (Feb Theme: Abandonment Wounds): https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym Becoming Secure (& MORE!): https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/becoming-secure-course FREE WORKSHOP, Overcoming Insecure Attachment: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/6-skills-to-becoming-secure Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_

Yes, you can work on healing your attachment wounds even if you're not in a relationship. I got to talk to Julie Menanno about her new book, Secure Love, and how to apply its insights even if you're single. Julie and I cover steps to healing attachment if you don't work with a therapist and how to tune into your body to figure out what you need when you feel anxious, and what's at the root of your emotions. We also talk about spotting the negative cycle in early dating, the healthy way to navigate attachment in dating (no, it's not just avoiding avoidantly attached folks) and how to build a secure bond from the start.  Check out "Secure Love" Connect with Julie on Instagram @thesecurerelationship Connect with me on Instagram @dating.intentionally Get my free date-tracking template! 

Embark on a journey of self-exploration that will empower you to rewrite your attachment narrative!   Joining me to share her expertise on attachment patterns in adult relationships is psychotherapist and the author of the new book Your Pocket Therapist, Dr. Annie Zimmerman.   Together Dr. Zimmerman and I have an engaging conversation that dives deep into the nuances of matrescence and patrescence, how to begin unpacking your triggers, and the transformative 5-step process she outlines in her book, providing parents with a roadmap for increased attachment security and positive change.

Attachment Wounds are the experiences that serve as catalysts for Insecure Attachment.I'm going to define specific Attachment Wounds, describe the effect of those wounds, and point you in the direction you need to go in to heal these wounds.If you don't, these wounds bleed out into your present relationships (whether platonic or romantic, but especially romantic) and negatively effect your chances of having a healthy, happy connection.KEY WORDS: emotional intelligence, emotional maturity, rejection, abandonment, relationship trauma, projection, insecure attachment, secure attachment, emotional needsLet's work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqPThank you for your support!$taychand PayPal Venmo Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandlerThreads: @iamtaylorchandler

Codependency is a deeply ingrained pattern of behavior that can be challenging to confront and overcome. It stems from a dysfunctional relationship dynamic where one person enables and relies on another to meet their emotional and psychological needs. As a result, the codependent individual often loses touch with their identity, desires, and boundaries. Confronting codependency can be difficult for several reasons. Firstly, it often arises from childhood experiences and learned behaviors, making it a deeply rooted pattern that feels familiar and comfortable, even if it is unhealthy. Confronting codependency means facing these deeply ingrained beliefs and behaviors, which can be unsettling and uncomfortable. Furthermore, codependency often involves a fear of abandonment or rejection. The codependent individual may have developed a strong sense of responsibility for others' emotions and well-being, fearing that if they assert their own needs or boundaries, they will be met with rejection or abandonment. This fear can make it incredibly challenging to confront codependency, as it requires stepping out of the caretaker role and prioritizing one's own well-being. However, it is important to remember that confronting codependency is an essential step toward reclaiming your own autonomy, self-worth, and emotional well-being. It requires a willingness to explore and challenge deep-seated beliefs. You can learn how to expand your awareness, and become more honest with yourself, although this is incredibly challenging for someone who fears abandonment, criticism, and rocking the boat.  If you are ready to breakthrough codependency, here is a link to a FREE 10 Day Challenge! https://www.lisaaromano.com/10-day-challenge

In today's episode, Forrest and Dr. Rick focus on one of the most common, and most important, questions they get about attachment theory: can we heal our attachment wounds, and become more securely attached? They explore the basics of attachment theory, whether people can change their attachment style, and how much change is truly possible. They then discuss some common frameworks for change, the power of positive experiences, and how we can break out of the “catch-22” of attachment wounds. The episode ends with practical advice for what an anxiously or avoidantly attached person could do to become more securely attached over time. Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction1:55: An overview of how attachment develops7:40: Four components involved in changing your attachment style10:50: The difference between our tendencies and our behavior12:40: The four stages of growth, and developing “conscious competency”17:35: Recognizing the ways you're included, seen, appreciated, liked, and loved25:00: The role of individual effort, and the real driver of motivation29:10: What helps anxious people become more securely attached41:35: And what helps avoidant people49:55: How to ground ourselves when people are unreliable55:25: RecapSupport the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors:InsideTracker gives you the personalized information you need to optimize your healthspan. Get 20% off by going to my special link: InsideTracker.com/beingwell.Go to healthycell.com/beingwell and use promo code BEINGWELL to get 20% off your first order. Go to BrioAirPurifier.com and use code BEINGWELL to save $100 on a Brio Air Purifier.Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world's largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website

Masha joins us for another amazing episode of Do the Work! This week we go over befriending the nervous system, removing shame and what 'self sabotage' actually means. Want to work with Masha? Click HERE Want to join Mashas program? Click HERE Want to work with Sabrina? Click HERE