Podcasts about intimate marriage

Top Ten from 2024: #7 Her Desires and His Desires in the Bedroom with Dr. Jennifer Konzen   *DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults   Her Desires and His Desires in the Bedroom with Dr. Jennifer Konzen   1 Corinthians 7:3 (AMP) “The husband must fulfill his [marital] duty to his wife [with good will and kindness], and likewise the wife to her husband."   **Transcription of original episode**  BONUS: Special Patreon Release: His Desires and Her Desires in the Bedroom with Dr. Jennifer Konzen   Dr. Jennifer Konzen is a certified sex therapist, award winning researcher, and international speaker who lives in San Diego, California. She and her husband Time have four kids. She has been a parent educator, a marriage, parenting, and sexuality seminar and conference speaker, and yes, a Broadway showtimes performer (her undergraduate degree is in Musical Theater and Vocal Performance).    Dr. Jennifer Konzen's Website    Art of Intimate Marriage by Tim Konzen and Dr. Jennifer Konzen   Redeemed Sexuality by Tim Konzen and Dr. Jennifer Konzen   Intimate Marriage Cards by Tim Konzen and Dr. Jennifer Konzen   The Gottman Institute   hotholyhumorous.com   christianfriendlysexpositions.com   christiannymphos.org    Thank You to Our Sponsor: The Sue Neihouser Team   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook, Instagram or Our Website.   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Porn addiction among high-performing men is more common—and more misunderstood—than most people realize.  In this eye-opening episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell welcomes back expert Roland Cochrun to discuss his new book, 'The High Achiever's Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery'. Known for his groundbreaking insights into sex and porn addiction, Roland breaks down the crucial difference between substance and process addiction—where individuals become hooked not on external substances but on internal thought patterns and behaviors. Together, Dr. Alexandra and Roland explore why high achievers are especially vulnerable to these compulsions, how porn addiction impacts relationships, and why many of these behaviors are deeply misunderstood. Roland offers powerful guidance for healing, challenges societal norms around sex and desire, and encourages a new narrative of recovery, responsibility, and reconnection.   Also in this episode: What Process Addiction Is: Being hooked on mental patterns and habits, not substances like drugs or alcohol. How It Affects Relationships: A partner's porn addiction can feel like betrayal and cause emotional pain. Challenging Norms: Society's views on sex and porn aren't always healthy—it's important to question them. The Role of Self-Awareness: Recognizing your own patterns is key to breaking free from addiction. Moral and Legal Questions: Roland challenges the ethics of porn and strip clubs, comparing them to modern slavery.   About The Guest: Roland Cochrun is the founder of The Successful Addict, a sex addiction recovery group designed specifically for high-achievers, executives, and entrepreneurs. As a recovering sex addict himself, Roland found blind spots in the treatment of process addiction, especially as it applies to successful men. Roland hopes to shine a light on a preventable issue that is destroying couples and families all over the world.   Connect with Roland: Get his latest book: The High Achiever's Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery: A Proven Blueprint for Successful Professionals to Overcome Sex and Porn Addiction  Website: The Successful Addict YouTube: The Successful Addict   Listen to the previous interview with Roland Cochrun: “Sex and Success”: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/the-hidden-addictions-of-high-performers/   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact  

Porn addiction among high-performing men is more common—and more misunderstood—than most people realize.  In this eye-opening episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell welcomes back expert Roland Cochrun to discuss his new book, 'The High Achiever's Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery'. Known for his groundbreaking insights into sex and porn addiction, Roland breaks down the crucial difference between substance and process addiction—where individuals become hooked not on external substances but on internal thought patterns and behaviors. Together, Dr. Alexandra and Roland explore why high achievers are especially vulnerable to these compulsions, how porn addiction impacts relationships, and why many of these behaviors are deeply misunderstood. Roland offers powerful guidance for healing, challenges societal norms around sex and desire, and encourages a new narrative of recovery, responsibility, and reconnection.   Also in this episode: What Process Addiction Is: Being hooked on mental patterns and habits, not substances like drugs or alcohol. How It Affects Relationships: A partner's porn addiction can feel like betrayal and cause emotional pain. Challenging Norms: Society's views on sex and porn aren't always healthy—it's important to question them. The Role of Self-Awareness: Recognizing your own patterns is key to breaking free from addiction. Moral and Legal Questions: Roland challenges the ethics of porn and strip clubs, comparing them to modern slavery.   About The Guest: Roland Cochrun is the founder of The Successful Addict, a sex addiction recovery group designed specifically for high-achievers, executives, and entrepreneurs. As a recovering sex addict himself, Roland found blind spots in the treatment of process addiction, especially as it applies to successful men. Roland hopes to shine a light on a preventable issue that is destroying couples and families all over the world.   Connect with Roland: Get his latest book: The High Achiever's Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery: A Proven Blueprint for Successful Professionals to Overcome Sex and Porn Addiction  Website: The Successful Addict YouTube: The Successful Addict   Listen to the previous interview with Roland Cochrun: “Sex and Success”: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/the-hidden-addictions-of-high-performers/   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact  

Perhaps now more than ever, people misunderstand the relationship between men and women in marriage. Today, R.C. Sproul looks to the Bible to explain the roles that God has ordained for husbands and wives. Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD, plus lifetime digital access to the messages and study guide, with your donation of any amount: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/3879/donate   Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was known for his ability to winsomely and clearly communicate deep, practical truths from God's Word. He was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine.   Meet the Host:   Nathan W. Bingham is vice president of ministry engagement for Ligonier Ministries, executive producer and host of Renewing Your Mind, host of the Ask Ligonier podcast, and a graduate of Presbyterian Theological College in Melbourne, Australia. Nathan joined Ligonier in 2012 and lives in Central Florida with his wife and four children. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

In a moment, we can utter a harsh word that scars our spouse for years. Today, R.C. Sproul considers the powerful effect of our tongues—both to build up and to tear down. Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD, plus lifetime digital access to the messages and study guide, with your donation of any amount: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/3879/donate   Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was known for his ability to winsomely and clearly communicate deep, practical truths from God's Word. He was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine.   Meet the Host:   Nathan W. Bingham is vice president of ministry engagement for Ligonier Ministries, executive producer and host of Renewing Your Mind, host of the Ask Ligonier podcast, and a graduate of Presbyterian Theological College in Melbourne, Australia. Nathan joined Ligonier in 2012 and lives in Central Florida with his wife and four children. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

Marriage isn't just about saying “I do”—it's about building something deep, lasting, and intimate. But what does true intimacy in marriage really look like? How do you cultivate it in a way that strengthens your relationship emotionally, spiritually, and physically? Preston & Holly get real about what's worked for them, sharing practical ways to deepen your connection and raise the bar in your marriage. Whether you're already married or hoping to be one day, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to pursue a love that goes beyond the surface.

The Bible is not silent on issues related to marriage and physical intimacy. Today, R.C. Sproul delivers a straightforward, biblical perspective on this important element in the relationship between a husband and wife. Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD, plus lifetime digital access to the messages and study guide, with your donation of any amount: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/3879/donate   Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was known for his ability to winsomely and clearly communicate deep, practical truths from God's Word. He was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine.   Meet the Host:   Nathan W. Bingham is vice president of ministry engagement for Ligonier Ministries, executive producer and host of Renewing Your Mind, host of the Ask Ligonier podcast, and a graduate of Presbyterian Theological College in Melbourne, Australia. Nathan joined Ligonier in 2012 and lives in Central Florida with his wife and four children. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

A healthy marriage isn't sustained by feelings alone. Husbands and wives must know one another deeply. Today, R.C. Sproul reveals what it takes to develop a thriving marriage that honors the Lord. Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD, plus lifetime digital access to the messages and study guide, with your donation of any amount: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/3879/donate   Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was known for his ability to winsomely and clearly communicate deep, practical truths from God's Word. He was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine.   Meet the Host:   Nathan W. Bingham is vice president of ministry engagement for Ligonier Ministries, executive producer and host of Renewing Your Mind, host of the Ask Ligonier podcast, and a graduate of Presbyterian Theological College in Melbourne, Australia. Nathan joined Ligonier in 2012 and lives in Central Florida with his wife and four children. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

Marriage is meant to be a safe haven where shame does not exist. Today, R.C. Sproul uncovers the connection in Scripture between nakedness and shame. Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD, plus lifetime digital access to the messages and study guide, with your donation of any amount: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/3879/donate   Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was known for his ability to winsomely and clearly communicate deep, practical truths from God's Word. He was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine.   Meet the Host:   Nathan W. Bingham is vice president of ministry engagement for Ligonier Ministries, executive producer and host of Renewing Your Mind, host of the Ask Ligonier podcast, and a graduate of Presbyterian Theological College in Melbourne, Australia. Nathan joined Ligonier in 2012 and lives in Central Florida with his wife and four children. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

Request R.C. Sproul's teaching series The Intimate Marriage on DVD, plus lifetime digital access to the messages and study guide, with your donation of any amount: https://gift.renewingyourmind.org/3879/donate Meet Today's Teacher:   R.C. Sproul (1939–2017) was known for his ability to winsomely and clearly communicate deep, practical truths from God's Word. He was founder of Ligonier Ministries, first minister of preaching and teaching at Saint Andrew's Chapel, first president of Reformation Bible College, and executive editor of Tabletalk magazine.   Meet the Host:   Nathan W. Bingham is vice president of ministry engagement for Ligonier Ministries, executive producer and host of Renewing Your Mind, host of the Ask Ligonier podcast, and a graduate of Presbyterian Theological College in Melbourne, Australia. Nathan joined Ligonier in 2012 and lives in Central Florida with his wife and four children. Renewing Your Mind is a donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts

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In Episode 277, we explored the habits wives should stop doing to foster a more peaceful and intimate marriage. Now, it's time to turn the spotlight on husbands.There's no question that as men, we can develop some bad habits or make mistakes that create conflict in our relationships. Nick can personally attest to this. Often, we don't even recognize these habits or the impact they have on our marriages.In this episode, we will identify the common habits that husbands tend to fall into that prevent marriages from reaching their full potential. From neglecting communication and emotional expression to avoiding responsibilities and taking our spouse for granted, we will discuss the behaviors that can create distance and tension.Join us as we delve into the ways men can improve their marital relationships by recognizing and addressing their own behaviors. This episode is an opportunity for husbands to reflect, learn, and grow, paving the way for a stronger and more fulfilling marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Have you ever wondered how to navigate the tricky waters of a marriage where faith and commitment levels differ between partners? In this heartfelt episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," we promise you'll gain actionable insights into enhancing your relationship and finding fulfillment. We open up about the importance of self-examination and living a godly lifestyle to influence your spouse positively.iMOM PodcastIf you need a mom friend right now, you've come to the right place. On iMOM.com we...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888Support Our Ministry: https://myalivechurch.org/giveConnect with us:- Website:https://www.kenclaytor.comhttps://www.tabathaclaytor.comhttps://www.myalivechurch.org- Socials:Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/TikTok-@Ken_Claytor@Tabathaclaytor@myalivechurchFacebook-https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytorhttps://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytorhttps://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch- Ask us questions: info@kenandtabatha.com

There are many habits that a wife can get into if she is not careful, which can cause disconnect and conflict in the marriage. Habits are things that are done or said constantly and can include nagging, complaining, and other behaviors. Sometimes these habits are completely understandable and justified, but often they can turn into "habits" that occur regularly and become normal in the relationship.In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the habits that wives should stop doing to have a better and more intimate marriage. Don't worry, ladies, we are going to do an episode on the men as well!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by relationship and intimacy coaches, Jodie Milton and Reece Stockhausen to discuss emotional intimacy and the way they see relational happiness as rooted in emotional, not just physical, fulfillment. The discussion dives into the essence of passionate sex, debunking common myths perpetuated by culture and the media. They explore the intricate dance of intimacy and passion beyond surface level interactions, focusing on the emotional and sensual connection that results in fulfilling sexual experiences. Also in this episode:  Passionate sex is more about the emotional and sensual connection than the physical act or performance. Elements such as presence, slowing down, and emotional intimacy are key ingredients to creating fulfilling and passionate sexual experiences. Regularly expressing appreciation, and desires, greatly deepens the connection between partners and fosters an environment for passionate sex to thrive. About Jodie Milton & Reece Stockhausen Jodie Milton & Reece Stockhausen are relationship and intimacy coaches and married co-creators of Practical Intimacy. Since 2014, they've helped hundreds of couples and over 1 million readers to have the best relationship possible, all while traveling full-time and running a business together. Their no-BS relationship advice draws upon the best research based-strategies, while also drawing upon insights from their own marriage. Visit their website: https://practicalintimacy.com/ Take the free Intimacy Type quiz: https://practicalintimacy.com/intimacy-quiz-for-couples/ Learn about the online intimacy course for couples: https://practicalintimacy.com/online-connection-intimacy-course-for-couples   Connect with them on Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/practicalintimacy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@practicalintimacy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/practicalintimacy   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD talks about transforming everyday experiences into pleasurable moments. She explores the nuanced world of delight and pleasure within relationship, offering actionable insights for couples wanting to enhance emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. Dr. Alexandra makes distinctions in the best ways to pursue more pleasure when it comes to men versus women. She shares practical tips on how to incorporate sensual awareness into your daily life and how to enhance connection with your partner.  Also in this episode: Cultivate a lifestyle that prioritizes sensory pleasure in order to enhance erotic intimacy. Simple actions like complimenting a partner, or smiling, profoundly impact intimacy and the quality of your marriage. Open communication and specificity when giving feedback significantly improves understanding and satisfaction in your relationship.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores the vital role of intimate connection, when navigating struggles couples commonly encounter in their sexual relationship, particularly after facing significant life challenges such as infertility and loss. Offering gentle, compassionate guidance, she describes effective methods to recreate emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. Dr. Alexandra discusses the challenges faced by couples when they experience disconnection during erotic intimacy. It often leads to functional sex rather than pleasure-driven passion. She  emphasizes the importance of reconnecting from a starting point of comfort and familiarity, slowly rekindling passion through tender, patient, calibrated moments together.   Also in this episode:  Recognize the impact of life events, such as infertility treatments and personal loss, on a couple's sexual intimacy. Understand the significance of starting with small, comfortable steps to re-establish physical connection. Acknowledge that both partners have changed throughout the challenging life circumstances, in unique ways, and the importance of integrating new aspects into the relationship. Utilize basic, soothing methods like eye gazing, hand-holding, or embracing, to facilitate a gradual and sustainable return to intimacy.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Tilly Storm, focus on the pleasure principle as they explore ways to foster passionate relationships and venture into new dimensions of erotic intimacy. Tilly has extensive expertise in women's sexuality and guides couples to renew the spark and access more pleasure in their intimate lives. The two of them discuss "wholeness" as an essential ingredient for pleasure, ways to foster pleasure-positive attitudes in children, and marital challenges such as sexual incompatibility and how to talk about it.    Also in this episode:  Normalizing the conversation around pleasure with children contributes to a healthier understanding of sexuality as they mature. Couples often experience a "turn on mismatch," which should be navigated by learning and understanding one another's erotic blueprints. Guided sex experiences are a safe, exploratory space for couples to reignite their sexual connection and learn new ways to engage with each other.   About Tilly Storm: When not at home in Hollywood, FL, Tilly loves traveling the world with her 2 teenage boys for the next hot surf spot, and going on personal growth and development retreats with her life partner, Chris. Tilly's been studying women's bodies and sexuality for over 20 years, first as a pre-med biochemistry major and aspiring OB/GYN, then as a doula and midwife apprentice, and now as a somatic sex coach since 2017. After 350,000+ downloads on her podcast - The Multiorgasmic Millionaire, being voted one of the top 20 sex coaches in the world, and working with hundreds of paying clients, she's learned a lot about what it takes to help high-achieving women integrate things like lack of desire, shame, guilt, fear, and numbness and help them feel amazing in their body and sexuality.   Listen to my past episode discussing the Erotic Blueprints in detail: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/sensual-vs-sexual-exploring-the-mysteries-of-erotic-power-through...   Tilly's Erotic Explorations book club: https://www.tillystorm.com/book-club   Learn more about Tilly's 5 Days to Epic Pleasure & Passion free mini-course: https://www.tillystorm.com/5daytraining   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses important considerations when it comes to creating fulfilling and passionate relationships. Dr. Alexandra describes how embracing failure and personal growth play pivotal roles in deepening marital connection. She emphasizes the value of learning from both failures and 'near wins' to achieve mastery. By analyzing potentially frustrating moments with curiosity and compassion, couples can reach new heights of intimacy and fulfillment.    Also in this episode:  Embracing and learning from failures and 'near wins' enhances intimacy and connection. Self-acceptance is crucial for building and sustaining a thriving connection with your partner. Discomfort is a profound teacher, leading to self-discovery and a more robust connection with others.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.    This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Dr. Ann Tsung for a deep dive into the art and science of achieving peak performance, in both our professional lives and our personal lives. The conversation transcends traditional concepts of peak performance, expanding into a more holistic approach to living optimally. The discussion explores the importance of enjoying moments of passion and connection with a spouse while maintaining momentum and advancement in a career. Such a balance requires aligning effort with the level of significance you give to your relationship.   Also in this episode: Harmonizing the level of effort, with the rank in importance for each area of your life, is crucial for peak performance in intimacy and marriage. Achieving peak performance requires focusing on all aspects of life, including health, financial freedom, emotional stability, and time management. Emotional intimacy is a prerequisite for sensual and erotic intimacy and is a major contributor to satisfaction and fulfillment in your relationship. Effective time management and honoring the intimate connection with your partner are vital for nurturing and maintaining a passionate relationship. About Ann Tsung MD: Ann Tsung MD is a NASA Flight Surgeon, Critical Care/Emergency Medicine physician, peak performance/productivity coach at Productivity MD, real estate investor, podcast show host of Productivity MD, and a mother of a 19-month-old. With a unique fusion of medical precision and entrepreneurial success, she guides top physician entrepreneurs to unlock over 10 hours a week, master their mindset, scale their businesses, and achieve unparalleled freedom and leadership excellence.   Book a 1 Year 1-1 Peak Performance Coaching Qualification Call Call: www.zoomann.com   Complimentary Peak Performance and Productivity Resources: https://form.jotform.com/233045660320041   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.    This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into confidence and how it shapes success in love and life. She sheds light on the crucial role of self-confidence and how attractive it is within intimate relationships, and more specifically, how it plays out among ambitious, educated couples.  Dr Alexandra explores the common scenario where one partner craves more from their relationship while the other seems content with the status quo. She provides guidance on how to reignite passion and cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, emphasizing the magnetic power of confidence as one of the ultimate keys to a more fulfilling and vibrant partnership.    Also in this episode: Confidence is the most attractive quality in a partner and a fundamental ingredient for a passionate and thriving marriage. Seeking affirmation and validation from a partner creates an unhealthy parent-child dynamic, which is detrimental for erotic connection. The best course of action for someone feeling needy or rejected is to focus on developing their own sense of value and self-worth. Bringing one's confident, successful self (with authenticity, not bravado) from your professional life into your personal relationship is a pivot that will result in a significant improvement in intimacy.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.    This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the intriguing subject of evolving desires within marriages. The conversation offers a deep dive into understanding, embracing, and communicating our desires, especially as they change over time. Dr Alexandra touches upon the natural progression of tastes and preferences, illustrating how something as simple as a shift in food likes can symbolize the broader dynamic of changing desires. She then moves on to explore the more complex and sensitive evolution of sexual preferences within a committed relationship while emphasizing the importance of open communication and adaptability. Also in this episode: Rather than judging or ignoring shifting desires, it's important to acknowledge them and consciously choose how to respond. Sexual preferences and needs can change as relationships mature, and discussing these changes enhances intimacy. Approach conversations about changing desires with respect, connection, and collaboration. Growth and change in preferences are normal, and sharing these developments leads to a more fulfilling relationship.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.    This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, responds to questions submitted by listeners, providing  emotional and erotic intimacy insights to help improve your marriage. The themes of the questions are varied, as they focus on the role of commitment when it comes to creating intimacy, the pursuit of individual passions and hobbies when a partner isn't interested but wants to do things together, and the impact of birth trauma in rebuilding your sexual connection. Also in this episode: The crucial role of commitment in enhancing intimacy. The pursuit of individual passions and hobbies is advocated for, provided they contribute positively to marital fulfillment. The significance of gentle, patient healing and reconnection. The necessity of open, curious, and non-blaming communication when differences in marital commitment and desires arise.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.    This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

*DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults   BONUS: Special Patreon Release: His Desires and Her Desires in the Bedroom with Dr. Jennifer Konzen   1 Corinthians 7:3 (AMP) “The husband must fulfill his [marital] duty to his wife [with good will and kindness], and likewise the wife to her husband."   Dr. Jennifer Konzen is a certified sex therapist, award winning researcher, and international speaker who lives in San Diego, California. She and her husband Time have four kids. She has been a parent educator, a marriage, parenting, and sexuality seminar and conference speaker, and yes, a Broadway showtimes performer (her undergraduate degree is in Musical Theater and Vocal Performance).  Dr. Jennifer Konzen's Website  Art of Intimate Marriage by Tim Konzen and Dr. Jennifer Konzen Redeemed Sexuality by Tim Konzen and Dr. Jennifer Konzen Intimate Marriage Cards by Tim Konzen and Dr. Jennifer Konzen The Gottman Institute hotholyhumorous.com christianfriendlysexpositions.com christiannymphos.org    Thank You to Our Sponsor: T Photography   Connect with The Savvy Sauce through Our Website    Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into the intricate connection between individual happiness and the quality of marital relationships. She begins by dismissing a common misconception, namely that our happiness depends on our partner's behavior and actions. With a blend of anecdotes, research, and practical advice, Alexandra invites listeners to explore how personal fulfillment can blossom from within and subsequently enrich marital bonds.  Furthermore, she shares an enticing announcement about her free Valentine's Day course which she designed to help you boost romance and joy during the upcoming season of love, as she invites everyone to participate and spread the word.   Also in this episode: Marriage happiness is not contingent on a partner's behavior but on being a happy and fulfilled individual. Increased income contributes to happiness more in those who are already happy. Alexandra posits a similar trend in marital satisfaction. Four aspects to consider when increasing personal happiness: spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical. Feelings of appreciation need to be internalized in order for marital changes to positively impact happiness levels. Sign up for the FREE Valentine's Day course: alexandrastockwell.com/valentines   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

I know if you listen to the Permission Slip Podcast that you are ready to bring your Best Self to 2024, but you're not ready to throw in the towel on 2023!  In this podcast series together we will continue our success in 2023 and build a strong foundation, strategy, innovation, and alignment with our highest self for 2024.  I am so enthusiastically excited for you to connect and tune into this episode and series!   In Part 5 we are talking about reaching our best self AND our best relationship with our significant other in 2024!  My #1 joins us again on the podcast and we give all of the tips, even the small everyday things that we do to make our relationship deeper, richer, and more intimate each year!  Be sure to share your takeaways on social with us, @joaltraynor and @carmenohling!   If you're interested in applying to join our Couple Retreat, you can do that HERE.   https://forms.gle/A2uvXf6whn9MpNei6 Applications are due by the end of December 2023 and we will be making invitation calls to those chosen in January!   Download our Best Relationship 2024 Question Guide HERE. https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/laql23sid6d1g3v2uitg6/Couples-Expansion-Questions.pdf?rlkey=1hzdrp11bem839hivowmpbmmw&dl=0   If you are still looking for that community of like-minded women who deeply desire connection, join our community, the Permission Slip Community.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1694102717488088   Resources: Find out your Unique Superpower HERE!   https://carmenohling.com/superpower/   Join the Permission Slip Community for FREE HERE!   https://www.facebook.com/groups/1694102717488088   Connect: Facebook Community   https://www.facebook.com/groups/carmenohling.eat.move.live Carmen's Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/carmenohling/ Permission Slip Community Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/permissionslipcommunity/ Website   https://carmenohling.com/

Are you looking for a big shift in your relationship? The men in my coaching program continually see these shifts in amazing ways. They feel more grounded. They see themselves more clearly. They feel more confident in their own skin. They stand on their own two feet better. They're at more peace with their God-given sexuality and who they are, and their wives take notice and often make changes and adjustments themselves too. I am so excited that we are starting another men's coaching cohort on Sunday, November 8! In this episode, you'll learn all about the program and what kind of things you can expect to learn and ways you can grow to achieve the marriage you've always dreamed of. Register now for the men's only coaching program! You can also hear from other men who have gone through this program. I look forward to seeing you next week!

In this episode of Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the issue of loneliness within relationships, especially in marriages. She acknowledges that feeling lonely in a relationship is more common than one might think, even in seemingly successful and happy marriages.  This episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and exploring loneliness and fostering curiosity and vulnerability within the relationship in order to bridge the gap between feeling unseen and disconnected, and cherished and respected. Alexandra provides a four-step process for transforming loneliness into connection, in order to enjoy a more fulfilling and intimate marriage.   Also in this episode: Intimacy and relationships with a focus on feeling fully alive. Relationship loneliness can stem from a lack of emotional connection and feeling unseen or unheard. How to acknowledge and explore loneliness to transform it into a positive feeling. Exploring loneliness through journaling and curious questions to a spouse. The best way to invest time and resources for profound results in marriage.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

There's a price to be paid if you want sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in your marriage.And it's NOT sacrificing what you want for what she wants.It's NOT putting her needs before your own.It's definitely NOT happy wife, happy life.Learn what it is in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou'll fill out an application, then I'll get back to you with your best next steps. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

On this episode of the Viva La Vulva podcast, Dr. Cara brings on guest, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, a renowned intimate marriage expert, as she shares her insights and expertise on how to maintain a healthy and fulfilling long-term relationship. In this episode, Dr. Stockwell discusses the importance of communication and intimacy in a healthy long-term relationship, and provides practical tips and advice for couples who want to deepen their connection and build a stronger emotional bond. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been with your partner for years, this podcast is a valuable resource for anyone who wants to improve their intimacy and communication skills and create a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship. Tune in to the Viva La Vulva podcast with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell to learn more about how to cultivate a healthy and intimate relationship with your partner.   Resources:  Visit Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's website to learn more about her authored books, podcast, and how to work with her.    Follow Dr. Cara and Viva La Vulva on social media: @vivalavulvala and @drcaraquant    

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, celebrates the milestone of 100K downloads on the podcast with her son Chris Stockwell! A few weeks back, I hit 100,000 downloads and that means people have been interested in,  and listened to, what I have to say on The Intimate Marriage podcast 100,000 times! For me, it's such an incredible celebration. It's a celebration that belongs for me because I created this podcast and it's my vision. It's also a celebration that belongs to you, the listener, because you have created this with me. What's most important in my view, is that it's a celebration that really belongs to the world, because the more individuals and couples that know how to create a truly wonderful, intimate marriage, the more likely the world becomes a better place. Today is also a celebration, because my incredible son, Christopher Stockwell, is joining me for the show! We have a wide ranging conversation about intimacy in film, building communities and being present in relationships. Also in this episode: An incredible review from a listener that really touched my heart The privilege for an adult parent to feel seen, not just as a mother or father, but to be seen more fully, in wholeness My mission to change the cultural narrative around long term relationships, so that people know long term relationships are not where passion just tapers off and fades away Intimacy in the movies, and the pace at which relationships evolve in films The best way to center yourself and find yourself present in the moment The importance of respect in relationships and reflections on the volcanic communication style Chris and I navigated when he was in high school Why Chris has accepted that he can have different energy around different people, and connect on different levels with everyone around him.   Get My Course "The Surprising Secret To Having A Fantastic Relationship" For Free! Use this code at checkout: 100K Go here to claim your free course: https://alexandrastockwell.com/secret   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

What do you do when you feel like nobody REALLY sees you? In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Konzen returns to the podcast to discuss the impact of truly believing that God is attentive to us as individuals. Jen shares a bajillion beautiful scriptures and unpacks the POWERFUL spiritual, emotional and physical implications of living “seen & heard” in our walks with God as followers of Jesus. Woven in Truth proudly promotes the Beloved & Dignified Conference happening ONLINE May 5-6, 2023.Conference Blurb: “Women Helping Women Heal”Many of our lives have been touched by suffering not of our own choosing. Biblically, hell (sheol in the Hebrew) can be used to designate the lowest valley, the place “under the mountains” where hope seems hidden from view (see Job 24:8). These kind of situations stir longing for the next life. In the pain, moving beyond survival is difficult and finding a safe circle that understands isn't always easy. No matter what has happened (or may happen ahead), we are beloved and dignified daughters of God. Join us as we sit with the pain, affirm how low these valleys can be, and explore where to find God in our lowest times.YOU are invited! Register today if this resonates with you- it is exclusively online and classes will not be recorded. Should be an amazing experience!About this Episode's Guest:Dr. Konzen is the director for the Center for Sexuality in San Diego, CA. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a certified sex therapist, and a certified chemical dependency counselor. She is also a two-time nationally award-winning researcher, an international speaker, and an adjunct professor.  Dr. Konzen is the author of The Art of Intimate Marriage, Redeemed Sexuality and The Ransomed Journey: Couples Recovery from Addiction.Episode Notes:“You are the God who sees me.."- Genesis 16:13Q: What makes you feel seen & heard?He Sees Ps 139:2Deut 32:10-11Ps 34 Ps 32:8Ps 121:5Psalm 31:7Psalm 31:21Gen 28:15He sees our joys & victoriesJohn 16:22Romans 12:15Ps 149:4Zeph 3:17 Psalm 116:1Psalm 55:17Click here to see Jen's scripture resource“I AM WITH YOU…” Exercise Practicing the PresencePs 27:8Num 6:25Ps 17:15Psalm 16:9-11Psalm 31:20Jeremiah 6:16Jesus's Words to Women“This woman will be remembered”“Daughter”“She has chosen what is better”“She has given everything”“Mary!” “Jennifer!”“She has loved much”“Leave her alone”“Your faith is great”“Go in peace”“I don't condemn you”Resource Recommendations:Centering Prayer AppThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry (Comer)Journey of the Soul (IPI, Sumerlin)Meditations (Virginia Lefler)Invitation to Solitude and Silence (Barton) Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver about expanding intimacy in your relationship[p through practicing tantra and tantric exercises.  If you're not familiar with tantra, this conversation will be a great introduction for you, as this isn't about tantric sex but more so the mind-body connection and meditation practice within the realm of intimacy. It's about both your sexual center and your love center.  As Freddy says in this episode, “tantra is one of the most effective yogas in terms of shifting something in your life.”  So if you have something you'd like to shift, whether it's around your relationship or another aspect of your life, I hope you listen to this fascinating conversation.    Also in this episode: How exactly they define the concept of “tantra” Details on the practice of sexual meditation How these sexual practices impact men and women differently The differences in Freddy and Elsbeth's upbringings in terms of sexual openness and sexual oppression What it's like for this couple working together day-to-day with completely different work styles and personality types   Stay Connected with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver: Free online workshop: Ignite Your Relationship: https://tantranova.lpages.co/ignite-your-relationship-webinar/ TantraNova website: https://www.tantranova.com/ Sexual Enlightenment Book: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Enlightenment-Lasting-Fulfillment-Intimacy/dp/B09N5JTC2L/ TantraNova YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKincrF-VHfsabcIvsbQEhQ/videos   About Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver are a beautiful couple who work together to bring more love and intimacy, pleasure and bliss into the world. They have built an approach through integrating sex and meditation. Within their practice, TantraNova, they work with couples and singles to discover the secrets to lasting intimacy through private programs and retreats centered around tantra yoga and meditation practices.    Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram    If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you're ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra's acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day.   For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.  

What is the run down on the female anatomy? How do we come to understand our cycles and our hormones and our bodies? How does being knowledgeable about all of this aid in better intimacy with our spouses? How can we raise our children to know and understand what we do not first know and understand? In this episode, Amanda takes us through more of an educational episode regarding all things sex, anatomy, and intimacy. Grab a notebook and a coffee and join us for this girls talk! This episode is explicit and we would recommend headphones for listening! 

Adam Griffin, Chelsea Griffin, and Cassie Bryant are joined by Jim Burns to discuss how we can navigate our role as a parent changing as our kids get older.Questions Covered in This Episode:Could you tell us a little about your family and your ministry?Do you find a lot of young families asking you about how to prevent failure to launch, walking away from their faith, or walking away from their family?How does the fact that “we will spend more time as a parent of an adult child than we will as the parent of a young child and adolescent” change the way we think about raising our kids when they are still in our homes?You write about the role of a parent changing as your kids get older, how would you help parents navigate the role that grandparents should play in the life of their family?How does letting kids experience hurt and hardship help us reach our goals as parents?What wisdom do you have for parents who don't want to dwell on what could have been better?What if parents of young children are having conflict with their own parents that they don't want to let their kids be exposed to? Do you have any wisdom for situations like that?What role does “boundary setting” play in having healthy multigenerational relationships in our family?How can we encourage and bless our parents and our kids grandparents?What do you say to, or what encouragement do you have for the family who is dealing with grandparent conflict because they are discipling their family?What are some ways that we can pray for you?Guest Bio:Jim Burns is the president of HomeWord, which has four core values; Strong Marriages, Confident Parents, Empowered Kids, and Healthy Leaders. Some of his most popular books are: Doing Life With Your Adult Children, The Purity Code, Creating an Intimate Marriage, Have Serious Fun and Finding Joy in the Empty Nest. Jim and his wife, Cathy, live in Southern California and have three grown daughters, Christy, Rebecca, and Heidi; three sons-in-law, Steve, Andy and Matt; and three grandchildren, James, Charlotte and Huxley.Helpful Definitions:Enabling: Not letting kids experience all of the consequences of their behavior.Tough Love: Allowing them to experience the circumstances of their poor choices without getting in the way.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:HomeWord“Uncommon Youth Ministry” by Jim Burns“Partnering with Parents in Youth Ministry” by Jim Burns“Doing Life With Your Adult Children” by Jim BurnsNew Life Live!Amazon affiliate links are used where appropriate. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases, thank you for supporting Training the Church.Follow Us:Instagram | Facebook | TwitterOur Sister Shows:Knowing Faith | Confronting Christianity | Starting PlaceThe Family Discipleship Podcast is a podcast of Training the Church. For ad-free episodes and more content check out our Patreon.

It's the 100th episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and we discuss why intimacy matters! I am elated to be celebrating this beautiful milestone. In honor of the occasion I invited my own coach, Anne Rose Hart, to join me. We talk about intimacy, why it matters, my zone of genius in serving couples, and the need for this type of work in the world. This is a refreshingly unique episode, as I am the one who is interviewed, on my own podcast! It's such a great way to mark 100 episodes of the show. Also in this episode: Exactly how I define intimacy Why intimacy is a learned skill (including a foray into my teachings!) The importance of growing within your marriage, not just for you as a couple, but for what it creates on a much larger scale in terms of influence and impact My vision and goals for the future of relationships This is a tender and intimate glimpse into what a private conversation looks like between me and my amazing coach and you'll get to hear the beauty of our mutual respect, and the foundation of love that informs our communication. Connect with Anne Rose Hart on her website: https://annerosehart.com/   Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you're ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra's acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.

All aspects of our lives contribute to the health of our relationships, including physical health and well-being. The couple I'm speaking with today with Jared and Joni McDonald. Jared is a health coach I have worked with as a client and has made an enormous difference in my life. Jared and Joni are beautiful examples of a couple who focus on physical well-being in a way that enhances their connection and brings them closer together. In this episode, you'll hear: The significant event in my life that triggered me to gain weight The happenstance story of how Jared and Joni met All about Jared and Joni's health journeys and how a mold problem in their home triggered their lifestyle change How focusing on health and wellness enhances Jared and Joni's marriage today How Jared and Joni balance the lack of time of being parents with their physical health routine Learn more at: The Metabolism Reboot  Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you're ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra's acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.

The third installment of "Sister Wives Sesh," is (finally!) here. As always, Sister Casey is joined in prayer by wife June Diane Raphael and wife Elizabeth Laime and the topic is of course, Season 17. The gals must grapple with the fact that it seems the first SIXTEEN seasons of Sister Wives were...previews? As Elizabeth said, "The first 16 seasons walked so season 17 could run." There is so much to process. Christine is fleeing, Meri is a ghost haunting the family, Janelle remains our steady rock and Kody is being driven MAD by Covid 19 while working out of his red convertible. WARNING: If you or a loved one is suffering from continuing to be on Robin's side, proceed with caution. Enjoy.

"Hi, my name is Alexandra Stockwell, MD and I am an Intimate Marriage Expert. After twelve years in medicine helping families heal their bodies, I studied the science and art of emotional and sensual connection to help my patients heal their relationships as well. My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and companionship to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis."Get the Book!Delivered straight to your door or your device, my acclaimed bestselling book. Uncompromising Intimacy is a great place to start your journey to a relationship rekindled.Sometimes great things come in small packages, and this book is just that. You know what you want, so get this book now and learn how to create it!Fall in love with your partner all over again.-Do you want more passion and intimacy?-Are you afraid that without it you'll eventually end up divorced?– Do you yearn to fall in love again…adored, cherished, and enjoy the feeling that comes with knowing your partner is deeply devoted to you?A wife of 25 years and a mother of 4, Alexandra Stockwell, MD started her career as a medical doctor and went on to become a Relationship and Intimacy Expert. She has coached hundreds of men and women to transform their relationships and in this book, she will help you too.In this book you'll learn how to:Escape the trap of being roommates with your spouse.Make love as if you're on your honeymoon.Fall deeply in love again, no matter how distant you are today.Move from sexless and affection starved to cherished and adored.Learn to communicate so you and your partner are working towards the same goals.Create and maintain a sensual, intimate, dynamic relationship.Be a role model for your kids so they know what a great relationship looks like.Evoking Brene Brown, Esther Perel, and a voice that is uniquely her own, Alexandra Stockwell, MD's writing is part inspiration, part practical application, and part invitation to a new worldview–one where you get to bring all of who you are into your relationship and be loved because of it.www.alexandrastockwell.comhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_NFfwXTz2n6C_2QdmrfEVghttps://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage

In this episode, Lauren Peterson joins us to unpack the historically ambiguous concept of living life in physical bodies as Christian women. There's a distinct duality that many of us face: in religious circles we may have learned to view life in a body as something to be tamed or ignored. Then we have the opposite messaging of our secular culture which can place an inordinate degree of value and pressure on all that is physical. Lauren invites us to identify and separate unhealthy ideologies from God's divine intention for us to exist as fully-integrated human beings.  About the SpeakerLauren is a therapist with Strength & Serenity Counseling LLC. She received her undergraduate degree in Psychology from Drury University and her MSW from Loyola University Chicago. She currently resides in the Quad Cities where she and her husband Craig have been married for 10 years and have 3 wonderful children: Eliana, Cael and Enya. Episode Notes:Goal: To normalize the questions and frustrations many Christian women experience about their bodies and encourage gentle curiosity. Matthew Anderson in Earthen Vessels, “more often than not, we don't know which lies and bad arguments we have formed our lives around. After all, the ideas that are deepest in us are almost never learned in books, but are forged and engrained through the habitual patterns of life that make up our embodied existence”“May we be women who filter these messages through the Word of God so our deepest ideas about our precious bodies are not built by habit or unwittingly adopted patterns but by the Holy Spirit himself.”The “problem” of the body. We tend to:Ignore itDemonize itFeel overwhelmed/confused by itInternalize the world's misuse and objectification of it.Medicalize the body“Dualisms that are embedded in our religious traditions have created a false separation between the spiritual realm and the material world, leaving us an “ambiguous legacy” regarding the body…” Ruth Haley Barton. Consequences of separating from the body:Cannot experience joy and positive emotion to their fullest extent.Disconnection can open the door to sin. When we are disconnected from our bodies, we are unaware of the good but also deeply unaware of our deep seeded anger, fear, etc. Satan uses this as fuel.The Solution: Recognize the body as essential to the human spiritual experience and as GOOD in its original form.Learn to parse out what is original from what is broken.Learn to differentiate biblically between body and “flesh”/“sarx”: ‘Romans 8:5.Be a student of the Word when it comes to Scriptures on the body.1 Corinthians 6:19-20Paul's writings are built on the Old Testament foundation of a perfectly created body, knitted together in our mother's wombs. Integrate the body as a part of the WHOLE and bring praise and gratitude to the areas of the body the world ignoresIncorporate the physical spiritual disciplines- sabbath, silence and solitude, slow movement-taste, touch,etcIn Hopeful Summary- the scriptures on resurrectional embodiment teach us that the body is originally good, built for pleasure, and will be perfectly good again.We can be a part of a culture shift that challenges both the cultural objectification but also the religious silencing of the body. Resources:Real Sex by Lauren WinnerUnwanted by Jay StringerRedeemed Sexuality and Art of Intimate Marriage by Jennifer KonzenEarthen Vessels by Matthew AndersonSoul Virgins Doug RosenauSupport the show

My husband and I had a solid, collaborative, and intimate marriage. Our foundation was strong and we could envision what it would be like to go from good to great, and were on our way there… However, suddenly, things started to feel strange to me. I experienced a disconnect in our marriage but couldn't see a single reason why this was happening. The cause, however, had nothing to do with a present-day occurrence; it was something from my husband's past that was creating the disconnect in our marriage. He didn't want it to. He didn't even know it was. Nevertheless, it was definitely happening. In this episode, you'll hear: How I realized what was causing us to become disconnected What happened when I shared the theory with my husband Why challenging times with your spouse may have nothing to do with you A real client example of how past experiences can come up in your present … and much more! I'm hoping today's episode opens your eyes to seeing challenging times with your spouse in a whole new light, and also poses the question to you: do you have feelings coming up that might belong to another time in your life? Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you're ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra's acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare. One Way Your Intimate Marriage Of Today Is Impacted By Your Relationships Of The Past

{EXPLICIT} YES, YOU CAN HAVE A SEXY, INTIMATE, LOVING & FUN MARRIAGE...even after over 20+ years together. Laurie Gerber did not always believe that. There was a time when she and her husband were a sinking ship. They weren't having sex, they were hardly talking. And then, she caught him flirting with her assistant. (Eek!)  Sit in on my conversation with Laurie and hear everything she's learned since about building a hot, intimate relationship.

Today I have a special gift for you. My husband Rodd is here to talk about how we keep our relationship intimate and thriving.  We're very busy people and we don't have a ton of extra time for date nights and romantic getaways, but we do know how to prioritize one another and feed our relationship. We know how to let the erotic energy flow and enjoy our emotional connection.  We used to spend too much energy on mundane things, and end up compromising and holding back with each other when it mattered. This lead to a buildup of resentment and frustration that would inevitably explode and leave Rodd feeling he had to navigate emotional land mines. Using the 6 Keys to an Intimate Marriage has transformed our relationship to one of closeness and intimacy, mutual support, laughter and fun. The communication in our marriage, companionship, and passion are deeply satisfying and we credit our capacity to Cultivate Curiosity, Embrace Honesty, Be Kind, Choose Happiness, Take Responsibility, and Seek Growth.   Program mentioned: ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE http://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ (www.alignedhotmarriage.com) If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit http://www.alexandrastockwell.com (www.alexandrastockwell.com) Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/) Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl ( https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl) IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ (https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/) Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach (https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach) Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 (https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7) Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage (https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage)

When children are young, it's fascinating to watch their growth and milestones. It's easy to be excited about watching them learn how to roll over, crawl, talk, walk, and tie their shoes. As we all get older, there's a sameness about us that isn't so exciting.  The sixth and final Key to an Intimate Marriage is to “Seek Growth”. In your marriage, that means: If you're doing the same things over and over, it gets boring and unfulfilling no matter how wonderful it was the first time. You need to check in with yourself and your partner about what you each know about yourselves and each other that you didn't know 10 years ago, 10 days ago, or even 10 minutes ago. What do you desire now? How has that changed? Be clear and intentional about how you prioritize growth. No matter what happens in your relationship, you can see it through the lens of growth. Ask yourself what you can focus on and what there is to learn, so that whatever you are experiencing will be inspiration for you to grow and evolve. Programs:   ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE http://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ (www.alignedhotmarriage.com) If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit http://www.alexandrastockwell.com (www.alexandrastockwell.com) Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/) Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl ( https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl) IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ (https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/) Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach (https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach) Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 (https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7) Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage (https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage)

The fifth Key to an Intimate Marriage is “Take Responsibility”. That may be a loaded phrase for some, but hear me out.  Very often among educated, successful couples, we have this idea that everything should be split 50/50, fair and equal. You may be familiar with the phrases, “it takes two to tango,” and “we are both in this together.” While those are true in their context, meeting each other halfway isn't the way to a passionate marriage. The only way all aspects of the marriage will be addressed and taken care of is if you take 100% responsibility for the quality of your relationship. Ideally, your partner will take 100% as well, but when you take all the responsibility you won't be waiting around for your partner to do their part and instead will go ahead and improve things. That does NOT mean that you're 100% a caretaker or nurturer. That doesn't mean you do all the work. It may mean taking the initiative to make some plans for yourself to go to the spa, asking your partner for help with household matters, stepping into the hard conversations, or just being responsible for making interactions feel good and respectful. Basically, it means you stop waiting for your spouse to change before bettering yourself and how you show up in your relationship. Programs:   ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE http://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ (www.alignedhotmarriage.com) If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit http://www.alexandrastockwell.com (www.alexandrastockwell.com) Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/) Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl ( https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl) IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ (https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/) Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach (https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach) Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 (https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7) Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage (https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage)

During my studies in college, I took many philosophy courses and one constant all the way from Ancient Greece to the present was that all human beings seek happiness. Based on what I had seen in my life so far, I didn't really believe that was true. Now, after my decades of work with clients and couples, I agree with the wisdom of that assertion. The problem is that most people don't really know how to get the happiness they seek. In my 6 Keys of an Intimate Marriage, the key of “Choose Happiness” ties in with uncompromising intimacy in that you are honoring the truth that lives within you. Listen for a story about a couple I've worked with and how choosing happiness has improved communication in their marriage, reduced resentment, and made them both feel much better as they worked through the keys. I'd really love to hear what came up for you in this episode. Contact Alexandra and share your thoughts here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/) ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE http://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ (www.alignedhotmarriage.com) DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN within https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/) Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ (https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/) If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit http://www.alexandrastockwell.com (www.alexandrastockwell.com) Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl ( https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl) https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ (https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/) https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 (https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7) https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach (https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach) Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage (https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage)

If you're just joining the podcast now, I recommend going back to the beginning of Season 2 to gain some context for what I'm about to cover in this episode. We have an epidemic of conflict-free, passion-free relationships going on right now. My prescription for an intimate marriage comes from my years of experience, medical training, my own research, and my own marriage.  I have come to the 6 keys of a fantastic marriage. They don't have to come in this order: Cultivate curiosity. Embrace honesty. Be kind. Choose happiness. Take responsibility. Seek growth. I have seen these work in many different contexts and the results are wonderful. We'll go into more depth with each of these in upcoming episodes.  If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit http://www.theintimatemarriagepodcast.com/ (theintimatemarriagepodcast.com) to get started. Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl ( https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl) https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ (https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/) https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 (https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7) https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach (https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach) Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage (https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage)

Dr. Jennifer Konzen joins us in this fascinating episode as we explore the sacred space between life's stimuli and our reactions. Jennifer teaches us how to honor our initial feelings and thoughts while ultimately responding based on our values and who we want to be before God. About the Speaker: Dr. Konzen is the director for the Center for Sexuality in San Diego, CA. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a certified sex therapist, and a certified chemical dependency counselor. She is also a two-time nationally award-winning researcher, an international speaker, and an adjunct professor in San Diego at Bethel Seminary and Alliant International University, and online at Rocky Mountain School of Ministry and Theology.  Dr. Konzen is the author of The Art of Intimate Marriage and Redeemed Sexuality and the newly released The Ransomed Journey: Couples Recovery from Addiction. Jennifer lives with her family in beautiful San Diego, California where she has been involved with shepherding and leading in the married and youth and family ministries.Episode Notes:“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom” - Viktor Frankl"People want to be able to genuinely express what they think or feel from a place that does not feel out of control."Scriptures: 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 NIV - When we have distressed emotions we can remember that we have a compassionate God. Isaiah 63:9- "In all their distress, he too was distressed" - God sits beside us in our distress, He doesn't wag His finger in our distress. 2 Corinthians 10:5- "Take every thought captive"- this scripture is used out of context very often; this isn't about your emotions and thoughts. We can respond based on our values instead of our initial, emotional reactionsStewarding the Sacred Space: Before we can respond based on our values, we have to soothe psychologically if we are highly triggered. Adrenaline floods the body when we are activated in .05 seconds; it takes about 20 minutes for adrenaline to calm back down.Let the feelings talk:God is kind enough to give us the space to sit with our emotions and let them talk for a minute before we try to either squash them or give them full vent. Give yourself time to honor your feelings and reactions but ultimately responding to life's stimuli based on your values and who you want to be."I can feel myself getting reactive to this, I want to be able to share this with you in the best way possible- can I come back and try again later?"Blame Game: Isaiah 58:9-10: “do away...with the pointing finger..."Ephesians 4:15 - Speak the truth in love.Psalm 16:8Jen's Recommended Resources:Book: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality  Book: The Ruthless Elimination of HurryACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Resources – Hayes, HarrisRuss Harris Videos on YouTubePodcast: theartofintimatemarriage.comRetreats: Alaska RetreatsSabbath RestSupport the show (https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/678206?giving_to=Woven%20In%20Truth%20Podcast)