The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Is Your Marriage Truly Intimate? It's Not About Frequency—It's About Fulfillment.Intimacy isn't a scoreboard. It's not about how often you're having sex compared to other couples, it's about whether it's meeting the emotional, physical, and relational needs of both spouses.Sex in marriage goes far beyond the physical. It's neurological. It's hormonal. It's deeply emotional. Science shows that regular sexual intimacy literally rewires your brain to feel more love, more trust, and more connection with your spouse.In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into eye-opening stats, surprising research, and real talk about what makes a marriage truly intimate. and how to know if yours is. We even have a quiz to help you find out.Don't miss this one, it might just change everything.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

If you sat your kids down and asked them what they think about your marriage, what would they say? Would they describe a relationship filled with love, kindness, respect, and affection—or would they notice tension, distance, or disconnection?In this thought-provoking episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore the powerful impact your marriage has on your children. Whether you realize it or not, your kids are watching, learning, and forming beliefs about love, commitment, and connection based on what they see between you and your spouse.We dive into the intentional choices couples can make to model a healthy, loving relationship—one that teaches your children what a strong marriage truly looks like. From the way you communicate and resolve conflict to how you prioritize time together, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want to leave a lasting legacy of love.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share our thoughts on why a good spouse doesn't deserve to be in a "non intimate" marriage. We are not just talking about sexual intimacy, but also emotional intimacy, because intimacy is not just a bonus in marriage, it is a CORE part of marriage.It's not at all selfish to want sex or affection. It's human. A good spouse who pours into the marriage emotionally and physically shouldn't be told to “just deal with it” if their needs go unmet. A good spouse deserves mutual care—not emotional starvation or punishment through neglect. We also talk about the negative impacts to the relationship when intimacy is not prioritized in the relationship. Join us for this great episode!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage—but when it's broken, it can feel impossible to get back. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into five essential steps couples must take to truly rebuild trust and connection after betrayal or hurt. We talk about what it really means to take full responsibility, why complete honesty and transparency are non-negotiable, and how emotional vulnerability can heal even the deepest wounds. We also explore the importance of patience, consistency, and daily reassurance—and why couples must go beyond “fixing” things and instead create a brand new foundation for their relationship.We share our personal experience and the things we had to do to build back the trust after almost ending our marriage.Whether you're trying to rebuild after a breach of trust or simply want to strengthen your marriage, this episode offers hope, guidance, and real tools to reconnect.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We asked our audience: "What is the BEST marriage advice you've ever been given that actually works in your marriage?"And you delivered—big time!In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the top responses from our community and share the real, raw, and practical advice that's made a difference in real marriages. From mindset shifts to daily habits to those simple-but-powerful tips, this episode is packed with wisdom you'll want to remember (and maybe even write down).If you're looking for tried-and-true tips that couples swear by, this episode is full of gold. You might just walk away with one piece of advice that changes everything in your own marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us:“Why do I need to keep dating you? We're already married.”And of course, we had to do a full episode on it.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we talk about why dating your spouse is not just important—it's essential. Marriage doesn't mean the pursuit ends. In fact, that's when the real pursuit should begin.We share:The reasons why dating your spouse is so important. Our most memorable dates :) How dating each other again literally turned our marriage aroundWhether you're in a dry spell or just need a little inspiration to bring fun and connection back, this episode is for you.Because the truth is: dating isn't something you stop doing when you're married—it's what keeps the marriage alive and thriving.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We (Amy and I) were having a discussion the other day about why we felt men get married and why women get married. I gave my reasons and of course she gave hers, but we wanted to see what you thought and if our reasons were in line with what other men and women thoughts, so of course we decided we had to poll our audience about this.We asked both men and women, what are the top 5 reasons you got married? We share the answers we got from the poll and they were in line with what we thought, but more importantly, what do you think? Join us for this fun episode!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We had a wife reach out to us and ask how she could make her husband feel like he is #1 in their marriage. We thought it was great that she was asking that question, and that she truly desired to make him feel that way!Life can get so busy and for many of us, we tend to assume that our spouse knows that we love them, so we can focus on other things. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share the ways "most" husbands feel like they are #1 to their wife and the things a wife can do to make her husband truly feel #1.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into a hot topic: What should be expected from a good husband?We didn't just guess — we went straight to our audience and asked real wives (and husbands!) what they think makes a man a great spouse. Their candid answers and heartfelt comments range from sweet and sincere to brutally honest — and you might just see your own marriage reflected in them.But that's not all… we took it one step further and asked wives: "Are your expectations of your husband too high?" And let's just say… the results were higher than we expected.Whether you're a husband wanting to step up, or a wife wondering if you're asking for too much (or not enough), this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of insights that every couple can learn from.Don't miss this powerful episode — because sometimes the key to a stronger marriage is understanding what your spouse really hopes for... and why it matters.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this can't-miss episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into one of the biggest sources of stress—and connection—in marriage: finances. Whether you're newlyweds or 20 years in, money matters can make or break intimacy and trust.We're joined by Dan and Kay Ockey, financial experts who specialize in helping couples thrive in their financial journey together. They break down the real talk around money—how to get on the same page, why most couples avoid the topic, and simple yet powerful steps you can take to build a strong financial foundation without the stress.From practical budgeting advice to tools for healthy communication, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughs, and eye-opening moments.Ready to replace tension with teamwork when it comes to money?Tune in now and start turning your finances into one of your marriage's greatest strengths.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.www.centseifinance.comEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Have you ever wondered what it really takes to unlock female pleasure and orgasm? Let's be honest—most men don't fully understand the female body, and what works one night might not work the next. The female sexual response can be complex and often feels confusing to navigate. That's why we brought in Cindy Sharkey, a nurse and expert on the female body, to help decode it all. In this episode, we dive into the secrets of female pleasure and orgasm—what truly matters, and how couples can create deeper, more satisfying intimate experiences together. This is one episode you definitely won't want to miss.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're joined by one of our favorite guests, Cindy Sharkey—a nurse and expert on the female body. Cindy dives into the topic of perimenopause, sharing essential information every couple (both husbands and wives) should know, along with practical tips to navigate this season of life while keeping intimacy strong. Statistics show that sex can actually become even better for couples over the age of 50, so don't let this stage hold you back. There's so much hope—and potential—for an amazing intimate life during and after perimenopause!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Have you ever initiated with your spouse only to be denied time and time again? In this fun lighthearted episode, we share the ways to "successfully" initiate with your spouse, and the fun ways to do so!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're joined by Nate Whitson, the founder of Get in the Fight—an impactful organization dedicated to helping men become better husbands, fathers, and leaders in their homes and communities. Nate shares the four key attributes that define a great husband and explains how mastering these traits can transform your marriage and elevate your intimate connection. Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship, grow as a man, or create a deeper emotional and physical bond with your spouse, this episode is packed with powerful insight and encouragement. Don't miss this inspiring and practical conversation!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Can a strong marriage actually lead to greater financial success? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore how a thriving relationship can often produce greater financial success in life, and the reasons why it often does.Couples who are emotionally, physically, and spiritually connected often find they're more aligned in their goals, values, and daily decisions. This unity leads to smarter financial choices, better communication about money, and a shared vision for the future. Instead of working against each other, you're building something together—and that creates momentum not just in your relationship, but in your finances too.This episode will help you see how a good marriage impacts every area of your life, including your ability to succeed financially.Tune in to discover why investing in your marriage may be one of the smartest financial decisions you'll ever make!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode with Nate Whitson, we dive into the harmful effects of pornography and why it can be so damaging to marriages—often leading to deeper and even more disturbing issues. Whether you're struggling with porn or simply want to better understand its impact, this episode is eye-opening and explains why pornography should be avoided like the plague. If you are struggling with porn, we also want you to know there is hope!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Do you wish you wanted sex more often—or actually looked forward to it? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking all about how to increase your sexual desire and libido so you can enjoy being intimate with your spouse more.The truth is there are several things you can do to help increase your sexual desire and libido. We're not saying after listening to the episode you are going to be throwing your husband (or wife) against the wall with passion when they walk through the door... but there are several things that you can do help that desire increase and continue to grow so you can enjoy that special connection more, because it is so vital for your marriage!Whether your libido has taken a dip lately or you just want to feel more connected and passionate in your marriage, this episode is full of inspiration and tools to help you enjoy intimacy more often and more fully. Join us for this great episode!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into the essential ground rules that every married couple should follow to experience deeper, more connected, and more satisfying sexual intimacy. Sexual connection doesn't just happen—it thrives in marriages where trust, communication, and mutual respect are non-negotiable.Whether your sex life needs a reset or you're looking to level up an already strong connection, these rules will bring clarity and spark back into the bedroom.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We talk quite a bit about all the barriers that keep couples from having the intimacy and connection they desire. These include, kids, technology, busyness, work, hobbies and so many other distractions. In this episode, we share more wisdom that Greg and Julie Gorman shared recently at the 2025 Intimacy and Adventure Retreat about barriers that keep couples from connecting, and of course what we can do about it.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We recently wrapped up our Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat, and it was truly an incredible experience! A couple of weeks later, we're still reflecting on the powerful moments and deep connections that were made.Greg and Julie are world-renowned coaches—easily some of the most inspiring and insightful people we've ever had the privilege of learning from. Every time they speak, they share an incredible depth of wisdom and knowledge that resonates deeply with couples striving for a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.This year, we made sure to write down some of their most impactful insights, and in this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're excited to share them with you. Get ready for some wisdom that could transform your marriage!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We took a poll with our audience, and the results were shocking—so many spouses feel like they aren't receiving the love and affection they desire in their marriage! Love and affection often look different for men and women, and when we experience and express love in different ways, it can create challenges in truly connecting with our spouse.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the eye-opening poll results, share insightful comments from our audience, and discuss simple yet powerful ways couples can show love and affection to each other in ways that truly resonate. Don't miss this important conversation—it could transform the way you connect with your spouse!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about one of the biggest challenges couples face — misaligned priorities. For many marriages, what starts as small shifts in focus can quickly create distance and tension. Maybe a wife unintentionally places the kids above her husband, or a husband becomes so focused on his career that his wife starts feeling neglected. When your priorities no longer align, it can leave your relationship feeling disconnected — and even put your marriage at risk.We'll discuss why keeping your priorities in check is crucial and how those priorities can change depending on your season of life. For most Christian couples, the ideal order is God, marriage, kids, career, and so on — but what happens when that balance gets thrown off?Tune in as we share practical ways to realign your priorities, communicate openly with your spouse, and create a relationship that feels secure, fulfilling, and deeply connected. Don't miss this important conversation!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Stress is inevitable, but it doesn't have to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into how stress impacts both emotional and physical intimacy, sharing real responses from our audience about what happens in their marriages during stressful times.We'll discuss practical ways couples can stay connected even when life feels overwhelming, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, teamwork, and emotional awareness. Tune in for actionable strategies to strengthen your bond and keep intimacy alive, no matter what challenges come your way!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into the difference between connected and disconnected conversations in marriage—and why it matters for EVERY aspect of your marriage whether it be emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, or even spiritual intimacy. Have you ever had a conversation with your spouse that left you feeling deeply understood and emotionally closer? That's a connected conversation. Now, compare that to the surface-level, distracted, or even frustrating exchanges that leave you feeling unheard or distant. These disconnected conversations create gaps in all aspects of your relationship.So if you want to feel closer to your spouse in every way, and have more connected conversations, then this episode is for you! This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

When people hear the word "intimacy," they often think of sex — but there's a big difference between the two. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we break down what sets sexual intimacy apart from just sex and why it matters so much in your marriage.Sex can be purely physical — a moment of pleasure without deeper emotional connection. Sexual intimacy, on the other hand, is about closeness, vulnerability, and feeling truly connected to your spouse — both emotionally and physically.We'll discuss how building sexual intimacy can lead to better communication, deeper trust, and a stronger bond. It's about creating moments that leave you feeling loved, desired, and emotionally fulfilled — not just checking a box.If you've ever felt like something's missing in your intimate life or want to create deeper passion and connection with your spouse, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how shifting your focus from “just sex” to true sexual intimacy can transform your relationship!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Did you know that regular sexual intimacy isn't just good for your relationship — it's great for your health too? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into the surprising science-backed benefits of sex.From reducing stress and boosting your immune system to improving heart health and enhancing sleep, sex plays a powerful role in your overall well-being. Plus, we'll share how a healthy sex life strengthens emotional connection, reduces pain, and even increases marital happiness... all back by statistics and studies!Whether you're looking to improve your health, deepen your connection, or just enjoy more meaningful intimacy, this episode is packed with insights you won't want to miss!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Last episode we talked about the 5 C's your husband needs from you. In this weeks episode we slip the script and talk about the S's your wife needs from you! If you are a husband that feels like your marriage is a bit disconnected, and isn't where you want it to be, then this episode might be a great help for you.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into the five essential things every husband needs from his wife.Men and women may express love differently, but understanding these five C's—Contentment, Connection, Companionship, Commitment, and Care—can transform your relationship. Are you showing appreciation for what you have together? Are you prioritizing emotional and physical connection? Do you still have fun as best friends? These simple but powerful shifts can strengthen your bond and bring more joy into your marriage.Join us as we share the five C's to help you love your husband in ways that truly matter to him. Don't miss this episode—it might be the key to unlocking deeper intimacy in your marriage!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Ever feel like you're carrying the weight of everything in your marriage — from managing the kids' schedules to remembering what's running low in the pantry? The mental load can leave one spouse feeling overwhelmed and disconnected.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about how to balance that mental load as a team. We'll dive into practical ways couples can divide household tasks, parenting duties, and daily responsibilities to reduce stress and create more connection.From simple communication strategies to setting clear expectations, this episode will help you and your spouse find a rhythm that feels fair — and keeps intimacy thriving. Don't miss it!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about something that can feel uncomfortable for many wives — letting your husband see you naked. But did you know that this simple act can have a powerful impact on your marriage?We'll share how embracing vulnerability strengthens your emotional connection, builds trust, and keeps the spark alive. Plus, we'll explain why men are so visual and how seeing you — fully, confidently — boosts his desire and his confidence as a husband.If you've ever wondered why your husband wants to see you naked in your relationship, and the mutual benefits of it, then this episode is for you. Tune in for practical tips and real talk about how embracing your body can deepen intimacy and bring you closer together.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Every marriage faces challenges, but those hard moments can become powerful opportunities to grow closer if you choose to approach them with the right mindset. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're sharing the ways you and your spouse can turn trials into opportunities to strengthen your relationship:See Challenges as a Team EffortUse Hard Times to Strengthen CommunicationTurn Conflict into a Learning MomentLean on Your Faith & Shared ValuesPrioritize Emotional & Physical IntimacyChoose Growth Over ResentmentTune in to this episode for practical tips, and encouragement to face your trials hand in hand—and turn them into meaningful opportunities to strengthen your marriage.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the red flags that can show up during conflict in marriage and how to prevent them before they escalate.We talk about how to keep conflict healthy, choosing the right time and place to argue, focusing on solutions, to keep your relationship strong.Remember, it's about being a team, not about winning the argument. Tune in to learn more on how to handle conflicts in a way that strengthens your marriage, and what red flags to look out for when you are having conflict.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In today's episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving deep into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about openly—the difference between awakening and harnessing sexual desire.For most men, sexual desire is always "on." They're ready to go at any moment and often can't understand why their wives don't feel the same way. On the flip side, many women often need to awaken their sexual desire, which can feel like a chore when life is already so overwhelming. It's not about a lack of love or attraction—it's simply a different sexual wiring.We'll talk about why these differences exist, how they affect intimacy, and why understanding this can be a game-changer in your marriage. Plus, we'll discuss the common dynamic where wives often hold the power over “if” and “when” sex happens—and how couples can navigate this dynamic in a healthy and loving way.Whether you're the one who's always ready or the one who needs a little warming up, this episode will help you connect, communicate, and create more balance in your intimate life.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Did you know that social media algorithms might be intentionally targeting and sabotaging your marriage? It's true—while men are being bombarded with sexualized content, women are getting hit with videos about appearance, weight loss, and anything to make them feel “not enough.”It's not an accident. These platforms know exactly what they're doing—and it's devastating on marriages everywhere. From creating trust issues to fueling insecurities, the damage can be deep and often goes unnoticed until it's too late.In this eye-opening episode, we're diving into real stories (including our own!) and breaking down how to spot these sneaky tactics. Plus, we'll share practical tips to guard your relationship and reclaim control over what influences your marriage.This is an episode every couple needs to hear—because your marriage is worth protecting!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the fascinating topic of sex languages and explore how understanding them can transform your relationship. Just as love languages help couples connect emotionally, sex languages reveal how each person experiences and enjoys sexual intimacy.We break down the different sex languages, offering insights into what they mean and how it would look. Whether your sex language is about connection, adventure, fun, or safety, knowing this can bridge gaps in intimacy and reduce misunderstandings in the bedroom. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that might just be the key to unlocking deeper intimacy and connection in your marriage!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In our videos, podcasts, and other things that we do, we sometimes get feedback from people that make comments that leave us wondering "how in the world did they come to that impression?" or "what podcast are they listening to?"  Or they interpret something from the podcast, newsletter or video that in reality had nothing to do with what we were even stating. People see and hear what they want to based upon their experiences, emotions and many times what they are going through.The human brain is wired to interpret information based on past experiences, emotions, and current circumstances. This phenomenon is called confirmation bias — the tendency to search for, interpret, and remember information that aligns with our existing beliefs and feelings.We often do this in our marriages as well which can cause great harm or damage, especially if there is not open communication, or our pride and ego is too high. Also, one of the reasons why this is so serious is Miscommunication is one of the top three causes of divorce, according to a study by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers?In this episode, we discuss this important topic and solutions as well as statistics to help you combat this in you marriage.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

If you've been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The two are inseparable—when one is lacking, the other suffers. And when sexual intimacy begins to fade in a marriage, the emotional toll can be devastating.In this episode, we tackle a difficult but necessary conversation: the emotional impacts of a sexless (or nearly sexless) marriage and why, if left unaddressed, it often leads to divorce.We'll discuss:Why sex is more than just physical—It's a bonding experience that builds trust, connection, and closeness.How emotional and physical intimacy fuel each other—When physical affection disappears, so does emotional security, leading to loneliness, resentment, and disconnection.What happens to a marriage when one spouse feels rejected—Lack of intimacy can make one or both spouses feel unwanted, unseen, or unloved, creating a wedge in the relationship.Why resentment builds over time—When needs aren't met, frustration and bitterness take over, making it even harder to reconnect.And much more!But we're not just here to talk about the problems—we're here to offer real solutions. If you're struggling in this area, or you don't want to ever struggle in this area, this podcast episode is for you! This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy, health or sexual desire, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We have been working on this project for nearly a year, pouring our hearts and souls into creating something truly special for married couples—and it's finally here!

Regardless of whether your marriage is thriving, or just surviving, a Marriage Audit can greatly improve your relationship. It isn't just a casual check-in—it's a deep dive into the strengths, struggles, and blind spots in your relationship. What would your spouse really say if they were 100% honest?In this episode, you'll find out how to ask the tough but necessary questions to ask your spouse, how to create a safe space for raw honesty, and why facing the truth (even when it's uncomfortable) is the key to deeper connection.Are you ready to uncover what's really working—and what needs attention? Tune in as we break down the why, the how, and the life-changing benefits of a Marriage Audit. Because the strongest marriages aren't the ones that avoid hard conversations—they're the ones that embrace them.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband's perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it's Nate's turn to reveal the things men wish they could tell their wives—but often don't know how to say.If you've ever wondered what's really going on in your husband's mind when it comes to intimacy, this episode is a must-listen. Nate dives into helping wives understand what their husbands wish their spouse new.Here's just a glimpse of what we're covering:Don't Use Sex as a Weapon – How intimacy should never be used as punishment, leverage, or control.He Wants to See You – Why visual connection is important for him and how body confidence plays a role.Tell Him Clearly – Husbands aren't mind readers—here's why clear communication makes all the difference.Flirt with Him – How small moments of playfulness, teasing, and attraction fuel long-term intimacy.He Wants You to Want It – Why feeling desired (not just obligated) is a game-changer for your marriage.It's Not You, It's Him – Understanding how stress, performance anxiety, and external pressures can impact a husband's intimacy.Many wives assume that men just “want sex” without deeper emotional needs, but the truth is, intimacy is about so much more for husbands. They long to feel wanted, respected, and deeply connected—and when that happens, everything in marriage gets better.This is an episode you don't want to miss! Whether you're a wife who wants to better understand your husband or a husband who's struggling to express what you truly need, this conversation will bring clarity, connection, and maybe even some breakthroughs in your marriage.Get the book Let's Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don't Know How To Tell You.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we're thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:

In this episode, we dive into a question that isn't talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is important to them, and the responses might surprise you! Spoiler alert: romance isn't just for wives.We break down what romance actually looks like for both husbands and wives because let's be honest—men and women often experience romance in completely different ways. While many women crave thoughtful gestures, words of affirmation, and deep emotional connection, men often appreciate romance in ways that might not be as obvious. Whether it's physical touch, playful flirtation, or simply feeling appreciated, every spouse wants to feel desired and pursued.And since Valentine's Day isn't just a day—it should be a mindset—we've created three free printables to help you make the entire month (and beyond) more romantic, meaningful, and exciting for your marriage. These are simple, fun, and designed to bring you closer together, whether you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, deepen your emotional connection, or simply add more joy to your everyday moments.Tune in to this episode, grab your free printables, and get ready to make this Valentine's Day (month, year, and marriage) the best one yet! ❤️This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We hear from so many spouses who tell us they don't feel like their spouse respects them. Of course, what respect looks like can look very different for every couple, depending on their unique dynamics, values, and needs. However, one thing remains true: when a spouse doesn't feel respected in the relationship for ANY reason, it can lead to severe consequences—both emotionally and sexually. Respect is foundational to intimacy, trust, and connection, and its absence can create barriers that are difficult to overcome.To gain deeper insight, we decided to poll our audience and ask them (you!) what respect—or the lack of it—looks like in their marriages. The responses we received were eye-opening and revealed just how differently respect is perceived and experienced in relationships.In this episode, we share the surprising results of our poll and dive into the various ways couples can show respect to one another in meaningful, practical ways. From small daily gestures to deeper acts of consideration, we'll explore how respect can transform a marriage and create a stronger, more connected bond between spouses.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There are so many hidden poisons out there that have profound negative impacts on our relationships, and for many of us, we don't even recognize that we are being poisoned. For example, how are the movies or TV shows we watch influencing us? Do the things we consume on social media poison our relationships? We think they do! What we consume absolutely shapes our views about our relationships, and we generally become what we consume.In this episode, we share 10 common and hidden poisons that may be hurting your marriage without you even knowing it!This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Have you ever wondered what makes some couples seem effortlessly happy while others struggle with constant dissatisfaction? The truth is, it often comes down to a few key habits and attitudes that happy couples practice consistently. These behaviors foster deeper emotional connections, better communication, and more fulfilling intimacy. On the flip side, unhappy couples tend to fall into negative patterns that erode their relationship over time.In this episode we explore what happy couples do differently, share real-life examples, and offer practical remedies to help you cultivate a thriving marriage.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We hear from spouses all the time that the bar is set too high and that their spouse requires too much from them before being willing to be intimate.If you want to be happy in your marriage, you should naturally be doing things like providing emotional intimacy and connecting as a couple. There shouldn't be certain achievements that must be met in order to experience the intimacy you should already be sharing. In healthy marriages, why do we often set prerequisites for sexual intimacy too high? In this episode, we talk about the things that shouldn't have to always be done prior to connecting intimately.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

If you find yourself constantly unhappy in your marriage or dissatisfied with your sex life, it might be time to take a hard look at your attitude. While external factors like busy schedules, stress, and unmet expectations can contribute to intimacy issues, your mindset and approach toward your relationship play a far bigger role than most people realize.Here's the truth: Your attitude shapes your reality. If you're harboring resentment, negativity, or unrealistic expectations, it's likely that your sex life and marriage are suffering because of it. How could you enjoy being intimate if you keep telling yourself you dont like to be intimate?In this episode, we share the signs that your attitude might be the issue as to why you are unhappy about your marriage and sex life. We also share our poll results and statistics that may surprise you. If you want to have a better relationship then this episode is for you.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We did a podcast like this a few years ago, but we felt is was such an important topic that we needed to do it again.In a video on social media for the men titled “the reasons your wife doesn't want to make love to you” we heard from a lot of the women that it is because their emotional needs are not being met. In one of the comments from the video, a husband stated: “A man's emotional needs are linked to his wife making love to him, which she won't do unless her emotional needs are met first, Thus the man becomes responsible for his and his wife's emotional needs.” This was a powerful statement which caused us to do this podcast, and reflect on this in our marriage as well.Most women want an emotional connection before having a physical connection with their husband. And for most men, they need to have the physical connection before they will feel safe enough for the emotional vulnerability and connection with their wife.So for MANY marriages it looks like this: The wife will withhold sexual intimacy (and sometimes use it as a weapon) as a punishment to try to get the emotional intimacy she wants from her husband. The husband is usually upset and doesn't meet his wife's emotional needs because his wife won't meet the physical needs in the relationship (because a husband needs the physical connection first). Sound familiar? This toxic game (or standoff) is played in many relationships.. and in this game, no one ever wins and the marriage suffers from it, many times ending in divorce, especially if they are not willing to talk about it and resolve it. In this episode, we discuss the things couples can do to get both of their needs met so they can have a fulfilling marriage.This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We often do things in our marriages that have profound impacts without even recognizing we are doing them. Sometimes we do them unintentionally, and other times intentionally. When it comes to our kids, it is not uncommon for spouses to prioritize their kids over their relationship with their spouse. This can, of course, have a big impact on the relationship.Join us for this episode where we talk about the ways couples can put their marriage first to have a much better relationship!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

As the 2024 year wraps up, we decided that we were going to set some new goals to help our marriage thrive in 2025 and we think these goals can really help your marriage as well. However, these goals don't have to just be new years goals, you could set them anytime of the year! Some of these goals include:Daily physical touch such as holding hands, hugging etcDo an adventure together monthly Try to laugh together dailySurprise each other with something at least once a monthIf you want to hear the rest you will have to listen to the episode :)If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

My parents got divorced when I was about 15 years old. As that happened over 30 years ago, I have been able to reflect and look back on the things I noticed that had caused the marriage to fail. I also learned valuable lessons of what "not" to do in my relationship.In this episode Nick shares the things he learned from his parents divorce and the vital things couples should do to keep their marriage from ending up in divorce as well. This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.comIf you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!