Podcast appearances and mentions of Matthias J Barker

Do you know when to listen, when to help, and when to just make s'mores? How often do we rush to fix, solve, or advise when a friend is hurting? In this episode, we take a heartfelt and humorous look at what it means to truly be present in Christian relationships. Inspired by a poignant Instagram reel from psychotherapist Matthias J. Barker (@matthiasjbarker), we explore how simply showing up—without judgment or solutions—can bring comfort and healing to those we love. Sometimes the best ministry is as simple as s'mores and silence.

Episode 148: The Importance of Effective Communication: What You Can Do to Create Amazing Bonds In this episode, we dive deep into the power of effective communication and how it can strengthen your relationships—whether with your partner, friends, family, or even colleagues. We'll explore the key elements of clear, compassionate communication and offer practical strategies you can start using today to create deeper, more meaningful connections. From active listening to expressing appreciation, I'll guide you through simple yet powerful techniques that can transform the way you relate to others. Plus, we'll touch on the wisdom of Matthias J Barker, a licensed therapist known for his incredible insights on relationships, healing, and personal growth. His approach to appreciation in relationships is a game-changer, and I'll share how you can apply his principles to build stronger bonds. If you want to learn more from Matthias or follow his work, you can connect with him on Instagram @matthiasjbarker or visit his website at www.matthiasjbarker.com Book your free discovery call at ⁠www.zennya.ca/discovery⁠  Connect with Tanya and discover her offerings at ⁠⁠www.zennya.ca/links ⁠⁠  Join the conversation on Instagram ⁠ ⁠@tanya_monuma⁠⁠ and connect on ⁠LinkedIn⁠! Explore my online community for ongoing wellness support. Rewire your brain and alleviate stress with 10 transformative modules and weekly sessions. Prioritize yourself, reconnect with nature, and nurture your well-being. Stay balanced and be well!

Psychotherapist Matthias Barker (@matthiasjbarker) and Joe respectfully debate a hot topic: Is the word "trauma" over- and misused in conversation? Or is our widespread adoption of the term actually getting us to address mental health sooner and more effectively?

Talking points: AI, porn, relationships, conflict Yowza. So grateful for Matthia's thoughtful and nuanced ideas on everything from artificial intelligence to therapy-speak to anger and approaching relationships. We go from the esoteric to the practical and back again, so listen in team. This is a great one to share with a partner. (00:00:00) - Intro, Matthia's adventures with AI, and how it's already shifting culture (00:16:42) - When AI does things TOO well (00:20:32 ) - How AI will impact intimate relationships and the porn industry (00:30:37) - What do AI and AI porn mean for the next generation, and how they'll be impacted (00:35:17) - How technology always has unintended consequences (00:43:05) - Why does everyone seem like a narcissist according to online commentary? (00:50:40) - On villain/powerlessness dynamics, and mature anger, and how trauma therapy is like a software update (00:58:20) - How couples can end cycling or repeat conflicts (01:05:55) - Mathia's non-negotiables for lasting intimacy and deep relationship Matthias is a psychotherapist and the CEO and co-founder of the Trauma Institute with Dr. Frank Anderson, providing clinical training for psychotherapists and education for the general public on healing from trauma. He is widely recognized for his unique approach to making mental health knowledge and skills accessible to the wider public. Through platforms like Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and his top-ranking Spotify podcast, Matthias delivers psychoeducational content to a following of over 3 million people. Barker's innovative blend of engaging content and relevant mental health advice has fostered a vibrant online community centered on healing, personal growth, and moving toward what's meaningful despite hardship. Connect with Matthias -Website: https://matthiasjbarker.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matthiasjbarker/ -YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCim71w-GtC46Vr48RbowBSw *** This episode is brought to you by Miracle Made. These are wildly good sheets, team. Silver-infused threads inspired by NASA, antibacterial, and thermoregulating. Head to TryMiracle.com/ManTalks to save 40% if you order today, PLUS another 20% (and 3 free towels) if you use the code MANTALKS. Build brotherhood in person. Join a Men's Weekend Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

Welcome to the first episode of These Guys Need Therapy. Hosted by Matthias J Barker & Joey Kidney. Join us in a ‘Get To Know You' conversation filled with vulnerability, laughs, and a deep dive into our lives.Follow us on social media:These Guys Need TherapyJoey Kidney: Instagram | TikTok | YouTubeMatthias Barker: Instagram | TikTok | YouTubeListen to Angel by Cathartic Fall (the song Matthias's friend Jeoff made for his mom)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On this weeks episode of Do the Work, Sabrina is joined by Matthias J Barker and Masha Kay to go over how important conflict is in dating, steps for resolution and why the 'cool girl' doesn't exist. Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Please support our sponsors! Want to shop Softwear? Get 20% off your first order with code- DOTHEWORK Receive your first month of Henry Meds and $50 off your first month HERE! CODE- DOTHEWORK Get free shipping and 365 Day returns on Quince.com HERE! Get 20% off and free shipping with Manscaped HERE! Code- DOTHEWORK

Matthias J. Barker is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who, through his engaging content about mental health, has gained a significant following on TikTok and Instagram. As his reach has grown, Matthias has worked with other experts in the field of mental health to create workshops and meets with clients in his own practice.During the episode, Matthias provides valuable insights into the potential connection between unwanted behaviors and our childhood experiences. He also shares practical tools that can help individuals overcome such behaviors, including identifying the root cause of avoidance, confiding in trusted individuals, and understanding that genuine healing is possible.You can find Matthias on TikTok, Instagram, at @matthiasjbarker or at matthiasjbarker.com.Article: What Past Issues Are You Trying to Escape From When You Watch Porn?Find Support:  Relay, the #1 group-based program for overcoming pornography usePodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 49: Matthias J. BarkerMatthias' Podcast: Matthias J. Barker Podcast: If You're Struggling with Porn

Has parenting a teenager ever left you feeling like you're navigating uncharted waters? Ever wished you could extract wisdom from a seasoned pro who knows the ropes? You're in luck! On this episode, we are joined by Janet, a specialist in teen psychology, who shares her fascinating journey through the world of mental health and how it led her to work with teenagers and their families. Janet's rich background ranges from acquiring a Master's in public health to earning a doctorate in psychology, which equipped her with the skills to work in a residential treatment center for emotionally distressed teens. Our conversation with Janet is a treasure trove of insights into the art of parenting teens. We debunk myths around teenage behavior and discuss the vital balance of compassion and accountability. Janet enlightens us on how to implement consequences that are not punishments and how to establish and maintain a meaningful connection with your teenager. She also shares her views on respectful parenting and explains how it supports the development of a healthy relationship with your teenager. If you've ever found yourself at wit's end with your teenager's behavior, Janet's guidance on addressing it without resorting to lectures will be a game-changer.As we round up our eye-opening chat with Janet, we touch on some overlooked aspects of parenting like gender differences and how cultural attitudes influence the way we parent boys and girls differently. You'll want to hear the interesting perspective Janet offers on this topic. Also, if you're in search of reading material to help you on your parenting journey, Janet has you covered. She shares a wealth of online resources for parents of teenagers, promising to arm listeners with tools to navigate the challenging yet rewarding world of parenting teens. This episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone else involved with teenagers. Tune in, and prepare to see the world of parenting teens in a whole new light.Bio:Dr. Janet Sasson Edgette is a clinical psychologist with 30 years of experience offering evaluation, counseling, and psychotherapy to children, preteens, teenagers, young adults, and their parents. She has spent her career thinking about how to provide services to kids and teenagers that they actually value and respect, and therefore want to participate in, eliminating the miserable and degrading tug of war and other power struggles that many clinicians endure when working with this population. Besides speaking to professional audiences, Janet has written seven books and dozens of articles in the areas of parenting, counseling, boys, masculinity and gender norms, and sport psychology. Resources:1. Matthias J Barker. https://matthiasjbarker.com2. Dr. Becky  https://www.goodinside.com/workshop/1558/parenting-strategies-problem-behaviors/3. Lori Gottlieb https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/Follow us on instagram http://www.instagram.com/forparentsofteens_podcast@mindfulgrouppracticehttps://www.facebook.com/mindfulgrouppractice

Today we have Matthias J. Barker on the show. Matthias is a psychotherapist based in Nashville, TN, and is all about moving towards what's meaningful amid hardship. You may know him from the various social media platforms that he creates content for, but whatever the case, you are in for a treat. We define words like wounds, trauma, and triggering and how God heals these parts of our lives. We also talk about self-criticism in parenting and the importance of going on the inner journey with Jesus. Trauma = An overwhelming experience that inspires a manner of engaging in the world around or with yourself that creates dysfunctional self-reinforcing cycles.    Follow us on Instagram:@intentional_parents@brook_mosser@Emosser@philmcomer@dianewcomer Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!)https://amzn.to/3ReOgc4 Website: intentionalparents.org Join our Legacy Builders: https://www.intentionalparents.org/donate-index-impact Blog: https://www.intentionalparents./blog GET: The Intentional Film Serieshttps://www.intentionalparents.org/film-series The Intentional Leadership Retreat:https://www.intentionalparents.org/leadership-retreat Matthias J. Barkerhttps://linktr.ee/matthiasjbarker Tik Tokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@matthiasjbarker?lang=en

On this episode, I (Pedro) chatted with a man who wanted to be a pastor, but instead became a depressed bank teller, and is now a brilliant Psychotherapist. This conversation with Matthias J. Barker is insightful, inspiring, and deeply relevant for all of us. He's become a leading voice in the mental health space while guiding countless individuals toward freedom and health. Below is a little more on Matthias so you can get to know him. He holds a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and has been formally trained for treating complex trauma, anxiety, and marital issues. You have probably seen his content on social media because so many people are discovering healing in his words and tools. Here are a couple of themes that really impacted me from our conversation: His definition of trauma was unbelievably clear & deeply helpful. Spiritual trauma and the predispositions we carry with us from our stories. What do first responders of 9/11 and childhood trauma have to teach us? The parts of us that long to be heard and what can happen when we feel safe to share. Tools for navigating fear and stress. Matthias treats a large variety of mental disorders and difficult life circumstances in his clinical practice. He is the author of two e-books, On Grief and On Avoiding Burnout. In addition, he has released over 8 public workshops focusing on Trauma, Anxiety, Boundaries with Parents, and Couples Conflict. He lives in Nashville, Tennessee with his wife and two children. You can find him on all social media platforms, @matthiasjbarker, and you can learn more about his available workshops through his website, www.matthiasjbarker.com ||||||| We also are excited to highlight 'This Belongs To' on this episode! They created a really rad buy-one-give-one model. That's right! For every bag you purchase, they're making sure a bag ends up in the hands of a child in foster care. Each bag has a blank space on it, which means that each child can write their own name on the bag! How rad is that?!!! At checkout use the promo code BRAVE to receive an additional 20% off your entire purchase! Go to www.thisbelongsto.shop ||||||| Sonic Stories is a one-stop music production company led by CEO Adam Agin. (Adam & his team curate my podcast) Adam's music has been featured on over 70 networks with some of the world's biggest brands. He and his team can handle anything your throw at them! So here's some cool news, tell him Brave Wrk sent you and get 20% off on your first project with Sonic Stories. Start your next project by going to sonicstories.co

My guest today is Matthias J Barker. I first discovered Matthias on TikTok and was impressed by his compassion, clinical knowledge and insights.  This episode is in response to a listener's request to please address the issue of "when you are the one who has been extremely limited and/or cut out of a loved one's life."  Matthias joins me today to discuss this family issue that is quite common in therapists' offices.  A little bit more about Matthias: Matthias Barker has a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and has been formally trained for treating complex trauma, anxiety, and marital issues. He treats a large variety of mental disorders and difficult life circumstances in his clinical practice. Matthias is the author of two e-books, On Grief and On Avoiding Burnout. In addition, he has released over 8 public workshops focusing on Trauma, Anxiety, Boundaries with Parents, and Couples Conflict. He lives in Nashville, Tennessee with his wife and two children. You can find him on all social media platforms, @matthiasjbarker, and you can learn more about his available workshops through his website, www.matthiasjbarker.com.  Subscribe, rate and review the podcast. Thank you! And for all your nutritional supplement needs, it is Athletic Greens. Go to www.athleticgreens.com/ANNA for a one year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs! Mad love!

Insecurity and building Confidence with guest Matthias J. Barker. Want to watch the video podcast? Join MI PLUS+ Join us as we really plunge into a deep discussion about insecurity and building confidence! Guest Matthias J. Barker joins us sharing his expertise in trauma. This rich conversation is well worth a listen as our conversation navigates the challenges with insecurity as well as how can we restore confidence? In this podcast we discuss: Labels and false summitsAnxietyFight or FlightValuesBlameDepressionShame, guilt and personal responsibilityControl About our guest:  Matthias Barker has a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and has been formally trained for treating complex trauma, anxiety, and marital issues. He treats a large variety of mental disorders and difficult life circumstances in his clinical practice based in Spokane, Washington. Matthias is the author of two e-books, On Grief and On Avoiding Burnout. In addition, he has released three public workshops focusing on Anxiety, Trauma, and a Couples Workshop. Want a transcript? See below! Tami: [00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to the communication solution podcast. Here at IFIOC, we love to talk communication. We love to talk motivational interviewing, and we love talking about improving outcomes for individuals, organizations, and the communities that they serve today. We've got Casey Jackson on the line. John Gilbert and I'm Tammy. Welcome to the conversation. John Gilbert: Hello. Again, everyone. We have yet another guest on our IFIOC podcast today. This is a wonderful human being that I've just met. And I'm really looking forward to this conversation because he has some particular questions in mind. Um, his name is Mathias Barker and he will share his contact info and he is quite the. Instagrammer, among many other things out there with his own podcasts that Casey was on. And so, [00:01:00] we will make sure you get some sort of direction or link to that in our notes. We just want to, as you said, play around with some thoughts today, uh, particularly with your expertise in, trauma and some different projects you're working on. So first I just want to say welcome. And, uh, what would you like to talk about today? Matthias Barker: Thank you. It's an honor to be here. Yeah, I, I encounter Casey at one of his workshops back when I was in my masters program. And so I've kind of been, um, continually gleaning wisdom from afar. And so anytime I get to be in a room with Casey, I just, I just try to get him talking and steal all the secrets. So that's all I've tried to do, but I'm happy to be here. It's a generous, yeah. Title of the. Trauma expert title. I, I think I'm learning just the same as everyone else. It's uh, most of my clientele is in complex trauma and in working particularly with sexual trauma, that's where I've done most of my training. Insecurity and trauma And so that's where a lot of. Um, yeah, a lot of my reading, a lot of my supervision, a lot of my mentorship has been in that [00:02:00] world. So yeah. It's, it's an honor to get to hang out. Yeah. I, you know, right before we started recording, I just kinda threw out the idea. I'm like, you know, it would be interesting to discuss, cause I have some thoughts front of mind, but I'd love to get both of your views on it is, is just the dynamic of insecurity as it relates to trauma. And, um, you know, so I'm on social media. I, I make a lot of like Instagram and Tik TOK videos. I have a popular podcast. And so I'm kind of like almost in this like pop psychology field, even though maybe I spend most of my time reading. I don't know. The academic journals and the literature on different interventions. So it's confusing. Cause people are like, well, what psychology books would you recommend? And I'm like, you wouldn't like any of this stuff, I'm reading it. Like, I don't know. All the stuff I've read is like out a way in the weeds....

Matthias is an internationally known therapist with over 3 million followers across his social media platforms. Matthias has been featured on national television. Matthias is known for his insights around childhood trauma as well as intimate relationships. Today on the podcast we discuss both of these topics and where they overlap. You can find more of the resources we mention on the podcast here at Matthias's website https://matthiasjbarker.com You can find more free resources from me as well as paid resources here at my LinkTree Site. Thank you for listening. For couples counseling in Hawaii please visit https://www.anuecounseling.com/

A little different from previous episodes; I quote notes I took from an episode on the Matthias J Barker podcast in 'Forgiving Your Parents' and relate what he says to my personal experiences growing up. His profound ways of explaining forgiveness in relation to parental debt has helped me on my journey with healing and I am happy to pass on some of what I have learned through him in this episode.

Renown Psychotherapist Matthias Barker shares some incredible insights into mental flourishing, the dangers of pornography for kids, and making your relationship work.

This episode is with well-known TikTok personality and psychotherapist Matthias J. Barker. As a licensed therapist, Matthias focuses on helping people overcome childhood trauma and marital issues and helping people move towards what's meaningful in the midst of hardship. In this episode, listen to Matthias talk to podcast host, Garrett Jonsson, about the issue of shame when dealing with your own compulsion to view pornography, how betrayal trauma can impact partners of porn consumers, and how to overcome a struggle with pornography with compassion for yourself and your partner.You can find Matthias on TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube at @matthiasjbarker or at matthiasjbarker.com.Click here to learn more about the guest, and access the resources discussed in this episode.To support this podcast, click here.To learn more about the harms of pornography on consumers, relationships, and its larger societal impacts, visit FTND.org.As you go about your day we invite you to increase your self-awareness, look both ways, check your blindspots, and consider before consuming.

Alex and Shane chat about getting under each other's skin, and reaching 100,000 followers on TikTok.    Psychotherapist Matthias J. Barker discusses marriage, the positive implications of having kids, why communicating about the little things matters in a relationship, pornography, reconciling different attachment styles, and coping with anxiety.   Leslie Bangamba is a safety advocate and mother. She candidly shares her harrowing experience dealing with the medical complications incurred when her young child swallowed a battery, causing life threatening damage.    Listener questions are answered in the mailbag segment, hitting topics like favourite concerts, heading back to work, getting back with exes, Canada's gun issues, and the compatibility of Alex and Shane's star signs.   . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .    This episode is proudly supported by:   The Dove Self Esteem Project is the worlds largest provider of self-esteem education. Dove has partnered with educators around the world to provide evidence-based printable resources to help young girls and boy's reach their full potential. You can find those at https://bit.ly/36FQxbd   Hello Bello - for 30% off of your first plant-based diaper and wipes bundle, use promo code THISFAMILYTREE30 or click the following link: https://hellobello.ca/products/diaper-bundle?discount=thisfamilytree30&utm_source=familytree&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=30off (Canadian listeners only).   Tushy - Get 10% off and FREE shipping (avail in Canada & US) for your very own Hello Tushy 3.0 bidet attachment at www.hellotushy.com/THISFAMILYTREE.    Miku Smart Baby Monitor - visit www.mikucare.com and use promo code FAMILYTREE10 for 10% off the best smart monitor on the market!   Mabel's Labels - visit www.mabelslabels.ca to start creating your very own labels, and use promo code THISFAMILYTREE15 for 15% your order!   Mini Mioche - use promo code THISFAMILYTREE15 at www.minimioche.com for 15% off of your ethically made, organic, and sustainable kids' apparel.   Bravado Designs - Use promo code THISFAMILYTREE20 for 20% off of what will become your favourite nursing bra at www.bravadodesigns.com, or try their new Everyday Collection (not nursing bras/no clips/for all womxn) at ca.bravadodesigns.com.   Seedlip - Go to www.seedlipdrinks.com or www.seedlipdrinks.ca, and use promo code THISFAMILYTREE10 for 10% off the world's first nonalcoholic spirit!   My Brest Friend - Buy the #1 choice of nursing pillow by moms and lactation consultants, at www.buybuybaby.com, www.target.com, www.walmart.com, and www.babylist.com! 

An engaging conversation with psychotherapist Matthias J. Barker who has seen tremendous success on social media over the past year for his deep and insightful content. We talked about topics like How to deal with a partner who brings up problems from the past? And how to properly apologize. etc. 

We are back with Edmund Kemper Part 2! In this episode, his psychology and astrology are discussed. Makenna details the odd Sigmund Freud and his psychoanalytical theory while Cynthia navigates Kemper's chart. It's an episode jam packed with interesting information about the phallic stage, Armie Hammer's disturbing behavior, fun podcast recommendations, and aquarians' alien good looks. *Correction: Edmund Kemper's leo moon is located in the 11th house, not the 10th. His 10th house is in the sign Gemini. Click the link below to read more. I will discuss the error in the next episode and how that changes what I said about Kemper's personality and relationship with the public. Resources/More Readings:Edmund Kemper's Natal Chart https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/calculate-birth-chart-horoscope-online/?narozeni_den=18&narozeni_mesic=12&narozeni_rok=1948&narozeni_hodina=23&narozeni_minuta=04&narozeni_mesto_hidden=Burbank&narozeni_stat_hidden=US&narozeni_podstat_kratky_hidden=California&narozeni_city=Burbank,%20United%20States&narozeni_sirka_stupne=34&narozeni_sirka_minuty=11&narozeni_sirka_smer=0&narozeni_delka_stupne=118&narozeni_delka_minuty=18&narozeni_delka_smer=1&narozeni_timezone_form=auto&narozeni_timezone_dst_form=auto&house_system=placidus&hide_aspects=0&&nick=Edmund%20Kemper Griffith University Edmund Kemper Case Study https://www.studocu.com/en-au/document/griffith-university/psychology-of -crime/assignments/edmund-kemper-case-study/9110647/viewSigmund Freud's Psychoanalytical Theory https://www.simplypsychology.org/psyche.htmlPoetry Unbound Podcast https://onbeing.org/series/poetry-unbound/Talk Me Down Podcast with Dylan https://anchor.fm/dylan-haynes4Matthias J. Barker Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/matthias-j-barker-podcast/id1546281199