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Proverbs 16:16 says, “How much better to get wisdom than gold! To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.”In a world that chases wealth as the ultimate goal, Scripture calls us to something better—wisdom. Because without godly wisdom, even abundance can lead us astray. Today, Jim Newheiser joins us to explore why wisdom, not money, is the true measure of success in God's economy. Dr. James (Jim) Newheiser, Jr., is the Director of the Christian Counseling Program and Professor of Christian Counseling and Pastoral Theology at RTS Charlotte. He is also the author of several books on the subject of counseling, as well as Money: Seeking God's Wisdom (31-Day Devotionals for Life).Investing in What SatisfiesIsaiah 55:2 details an account where the Lord asks, “Why do you spend money for what is not bread, and your wages for what does not satisfy?” It's a poignant reminder that many of us chase things that leave us empty. How we spend our time and money reflects what we value. Yet so often, those values are shaped by a world that overpromises and underdelivers.Instead of finding fulfillment in wealth, ultimate satisfaction comes from our relationship with God and the good gifts He provides. Time spent in Scripture, prayer, and worship is far more nourishing than any financial gain. Even the principle of rest in Scripture is God's reminder that we don't need to fill every waking moment with striving.Wisdom or Wealth? A Tale of Two WomenThe book of Proverbs is interesting because in this compilation in Scripture, wisdom is personified as a noble woman worth pursuing, while folly appears as a seductive but destructive adulteress. Proverbs sets up a contrast because Lady Wisdom is like the soul's true bride. She brings joy and delight. But Madame Folly, who represents false promises like the pursuit of money for its own sake, is spiritual adultery, and she leads to misery.The point is clear: what we pursue will shape us. Chase wisdom, and you'll find joy and lasting purpose. Chase wealth, and you may find yourself grasping at the wind.Applying Wisdom in Daily LifeHow do we actually live out this pursuit of wisdom over wealth? For someone who's not used to reading Scripture regularly, it can start with just two pages a day or with a chapter of Proverbs a day. Ask God to speak to you through it.God has promised something far better than material wealth—His presence, His wisdom, and His joy.There's such a huge connection between our hearts and our money, and God is ultimately after our hearts.If you're ready to go deeper in your walk with God by rethinking your financial life through the lens of biblical wisdom, Wisdom Over Wealth is a great place to start. This new 12-lesson study from FaithFi, based on Ecclesiastes, unpacks how true joy isn't found in accumulation but in reverence, surrender, and trust.You can receive a copy of Wisdom Over Wealth when you become a FaithFi Partner. Your monthly gift of $35, or annual gift of $400, helps us continue to share biblical financial wisdom across the globe. Visit FaithFi.com/give to partner with us today.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:I have a TIAA retirement account from my husband's time as an adjunct professor at a local community college. It's a small amount. As I'm 76, I'm required to set aside a certain amount each year. I would like to give this to my son now so that those amounts can stay in the account and start accruing interest. Can I do that?We have a credit card balance of $15,000 with an interest rate of 11%. We try to pay $2,000 a month, but the balance keeps increasing. Part of the reason is that our 29-year-old daughter, who lives and works in London, has a card on our account. We initially gave her the card for emergencies and plane tickets home, but she's using it for other expenses, such as occasional Ubers and travel. We really want to pay off this card, but we can't make any progress. What can we do?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly Magazine (Become a FaithFi Partner)Money: Seeking God's Wisdom (31-Day Devotionals for Life) by Dr. Jim NewheiserSelectQuoteNational Christian Foundation (NCF)Wisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money (Pre-Order)Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. The word triggered has become common language in our culture today. But, do you really know what it means? Today, Laura will unpack what a trigger actually is, what a trigger is not, how to identify when you are triggered and how to work through one if you are having it. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Why has Pride Month become less about tolerance and more about forced celebration—and what can faithful churches do about it? In this episode of Refining Rhetoric, Dr. Rosaria Butterfield—former lesbian activist turned pastor's wife—explains how LGBTQ ideology became a cultural idol and why the evangelical church's "winsome" approach has failed. She offers biblical guidance for churches and parents on how to faithfully respond during Pride Month by boldly proclaiming gospel truth rather than negotiating with idols. Key Discussion Points: -              How the gay rights movement evolved from privatization to mandatory celebration -              Why LGBTQ ideology functions as an idol demanding worship and child sacrifice -              The evangelical church's failed strategy of compromise over truth -              Practical advice for parents of prodigals struggling with sexual sin -              What churches should do during Pride Month instead of staying silent -              Why Gen Z is hungry for bold truth over therapeutic excuses Resources: https://rosariabutterfield.com/ "The Lust of the Flesh: Thinking Biblically About Sexual Orientation" by Jared Moore "The Enemy Within" by Chris Lundgaard John Owen's works on indwelling sin "From Transgender to Transformed" by Laura Perry Smalts Decision Point (decisionpoint.org)   This episode of Refining Rhetoric is sponsored by Copper Lodge Library 2025 New Releases  Explore the exciting new 2025 additions to the Classical Conversations Bookstore! From engaging philosophy studies with Reasoning Together to timeless classics in the Copper Lodge Library and innovative math resources like the four new domains of The Math Map and two unique math flashcard sets, these tools are designed to support classical, Christian education at every level. Visit classicalconversations.com/whatsnew/ to see all the new releases and take advantage of savings of up to $30 off in April.

Jesus promises us a life of abundance, yet many of us struggle to fully experience that promise. What are we missing? In this episode, Dr. Ray will discuss the power of letting go and the importance of surrendering. Although it can be challenging at times, surrendering can lead to incredible promises from God. John 10:10  "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.  Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here  Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

SUMMARY: - The conversation centers around grief, faith, and healing, featuring Dr. Amanda McNeil, an associate pastor and counselor. - Amanda shares her journey, raised in a blended family and losing her father as a teenager, impacting her deeply and leading her to her current path. - She speaks on the intersection of the Bible and science in understanding grief, discussing her book, "Overcoming the Overcast: Navigating the Storms of Life with God." - The dialogue explores the concept of grief as a journey that can coexist with hope, emphasizing the importance of community and support. - They discuss the role of childhood perceptions and shame in shaping adult grief experiences, highlighting the need for honest engagement with personal stories. - The transformative power of God in grief is emphasized, with insights into how God's presence can provide comfort and healing. - Amanda stresses the importance of allowing oneself to feel both joy and grief simultaneously, a duality that can aid in healing. - The discussion touches on identity shifts due to grief and how the church can better support those suffering. - Amanda's book serves as a practical guide combining scripture, neuroscience, and personal insights to help navigate grief. - The conversation concludes with the notion that despite the storms of grief, the constant presence of God offers hope and healing.   PODCAST INTRO: Grief is a universal experience. As I've often shared with you, there are many types of grief so if you're listening today and you haven't lost a significant person but you've been separated from something that you held near and dear to your heart then you'll be able to apply what Dr. McNeil shares in this message to your pain/your life. I say Dr. McNeil because she's certainly earned her credentials but I found her to be so down to earth I caught myself addressing her as Amanda. Dr. Amanda McNeil, is mom, wife, counselor, pastor, speaker, and an author and I'll share a little bit about her most recent book in just a minute. A Personal Journey of Grief and Faith Her journey with grief began at a young age after unexpectedly losing her father. And this personal tragedy began to shape her path, leading her to become a strong voice and advocate for those who grieve. The Interplay of Grief, Mental Health, and Faith During our discussion, Amanda highlighted how grief impacts mental health and how both the Bible and science provide insights into navigating this difficult journey. She emphasized the importance of understanding how grief can be traced through family history and how it affects us on multiple levels—emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Story Work and Healing Amanda advocates for engaging in "story work" to process grief. This involves reflecting on our life experiences and understanding the narratives we've formed, often from childhood. By doing story work, we can identify and challenge lie-based beliefs that might be rooted in shame or guilt. The purpose for bringing those emotions to the surface is because now you have a target to work with in regard to healing and wholeness. Joy and Grief Can Coexist A common struggle in grief is reconciling moments of joy with the pain of loss. Dr. McNeil reassures us that experiencing joy does not betray our grief or love that was attached to our loss. Instead, it is part of the healing process, allowing us to live fully even amidst sorrow. Overcoming the Overcast As mentioned she's an author and her latest book titled "Overcoming the Overcast: Navigating the Storms of Life with God," is her book that she describes as a “love letter” to those experiencing loss. It combines scripture, neuroscience, and counseling principles to provide a practical guide for navigating grief. She emphasizes that, like a storm, grief can feel overwhelming, but the "Son of God is still shining" above the clouds, offering hope and healing. Final Thoughts Grief is a complex journey, and faith can provide a powerful anchor. Whether through scripture, community, or personal reflection, finding ways to navigate grief with hope and resilience is crucial. Dr. Amanda's insights remind us that while loss may be a part of our story, it does not define the entirety of our lives. If you're in need of encouragement and hope today, listen in to receive the wisdom and guidance that Dr. McNeil offers those who are navigating the storms of grief and loss. Lived Loved and Thrive! @ALifeOfThrive.com Sherrie   EPISODES AND/OR BLOGS ASSOCIATED WITH THIS TOPIC: - Widows, Grief and Finding Hope, with Anne-Marie Lockyer: https://alifeofthrive.com/2024/02/14/widows-grief-and-finding-hope-with-anne-marie-lockmyer/ - Pet Loss and Grief, with Pet Loss Grief Companion, Rachel Shirley: https://alifeofthrive.com/2024/05/08/pet-loss/ - Joy in the Midst of Grief, with Author, Sonya Mack: https://alifeofthrive.com/2024/05/08/pet-loss/ - Finding Peace and Comfort After the Death of Her son, with Alicia Hodges: https://alifeofthrive.com/2023/08/30/finding-peace-and-comfort-after-the-death-of-her-son-alicia-hodges/ - Scars (blog post by Sherrie Pilkington): https://alifeofthrive.com/2021/12/28/scars/ - It's Always Been You (blog post by Sherrie Pilkington): https://alifeofthrive.com/2021/08/24/its-always-been-you/ - Suffering (blog post by Sherrie Pilkington): https://alifeofthrive.com/2021/09/21/suffering/   CONNECT WITH DR. AMANDA MCNEIL: - Website: https://www.amandacmcneil.com/ - Free Chapter to her newest book: https://www.amandacmcneil.com/free - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amandacmcneil/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/McNeilCoaching/ - Coaching with the McNeils: https://www.mcneilcoaching.com/   Bio: After losing her father tragically as a teen and later navigating infertility, Amanda learned how to lean into faith and has developed an authoritative voice of hope. Dr. Amanda McNeil is an author, counselor, and pastor from Orlando, FL. She is an expert in leadership coaching, and both premarital and grief counseling. Her first book released November 2024 as a #1 New Release on Amazon for the Christian Counseling and the Death, Grief, & Spirituality categories. She is an international speaker for leadership and mental health conferences and the cofounder of McNeil Coaching alongside her husband, Justin. She is a miracle mom and is mid at pickleball and is proudly millennial picking an oat milk latte over any other type of coffee.

Mental, emotional, and spiritual healing requires more than clinical technique—it demands sacrificial empathy, institutional trust, and a profound affirmation of the image of God in every human being. In this episode, clinical psychologist and Pine Rest CEO Mark Eastburg joins Mark Labberton to discuss the rising need for mental health care—especially for children, adolescents, and those recovering from severe trauma. Eastburg offers insights about the post-pandemic mental health landscape; psychological and emotional resilience; trauma-informed therapy; deep listening; and the theological, moral, and social commitments that drive Eastburg's approach to mental and spiritual health. They also discuss the systemic injustice underlying many mental health disparities, inviting us to see mental health care as a vital form of justice work rooted in compassion, dignity, and Christian witness. Episode Highlights “We're in the healing moments business. That's what we do … and I think those healing moments are the building blocks of the kingdom of God—just like atoms are the building blocks of the material world.” “We're in the healing moments business. … Those healing moments are the building blocks of the kingdom of God.” “Mental health work is justice work … especially when we're helping people who've been victims of injustice get back into community.” “If you just react to people's symptoms, you'll get more symptoms. But if you can see the beautiful human being underneath, you'll see more of that.” “A Christian approach to therapy starts with the belief that every person is made in the image of God—and they are someone's favourite brother or sister.” “Jesus's care for the outsider, for the downtrodden, the excluded—that has to define what we mean when we say we express the healing ministry of Christ.” About Mark Eastburg Mark Eastburg, PhD, is president and chief executive officer of Pine Rest Christian Mental Health Services, one of the five largest free-standing behavioural health organizations in the United States. With a doctorate in clinical psychology from Fuller Theological Seminary, Eastburg has served in both clinical and leadership roles at Pine Rest for over three decades. He is a passionate advocate for trauma-informed care, access to mental health services, and a faith-integrated approach to healing grounded in human dignity and Christian compassion. Helpful Links and Resources Pine Rest Christian Mental Health Services American Rescue Plan Show Notes Mental Health Landscape post-Covid Surge in mental health needs for children and adolescents, especially after pandemic lockdowns Dramatic increase in psychiatric crises among youth: anxiety, self-harm, aggression Tele-therapy rose during Covid, but adolescents strongly prefer in-person care “The post-Covid world—everything seems to have become more intense.” The symptoms of the adolescent mental health crisis Rise in social media use and marijuana legalization amplifying symptoms Anxiety, substance abuse “We are really shaped and developed by practices.” The experience of children in foster care Trauma-informed care essential for children with abuse and neglect histories Empathy requires the therapist to engage in “sacrificial vulnerability” Human mutual vulnerability—”The therapist, to express such empathy, has to themselves be prepared to manifest their own vulnerability to the person who has their own underlying vulnerabilities.” Sage advice for therapists: “If you just react to people symptoms, you're going to get more symptoms. But if you could look past the symptoms and see what he liked to call ‘the beautiful human being underneath everybody,' anyone that you interact with, you'll see more of that.” Sacrificial empathy Working toward healing moments—the building blocks for the kingdom of God Christian psychotherapy: “the ability to look at people as made in God's image.” Mental illness is another form of marginalization and exclusion “People are more than a set of symptoms to be treated.” Managing a crisis versus seeing a person How Pine Rest approaches mental health care Pine Rest's new $100 million pediatric behavioural health center in Michigan “Instead of waiting months for care, kids can just walk in and we'll sort it out.” New specialty clinics for autism, depression, eating disorders, and anxiety The universality of how mental health touches our lives Who sustains mental health care financially? What stokes a readiness for empathy? Deeper friendships and safe relationships of belonging as the foundation for mental health Stories of youth overcoming institutionalization and abuse through care “When a therapist sees the image of God, not just the behaviour, healing begins.” Cyprian of Carthage: “Let us be philosophers not in words, but in deeds.” “We often misperceive one another and then we misname one another and then we act in relationship to that person with the wrong name and the wrong perception.” Empathy, trauma, and Christian therapy “Our actions, our words can re-traumatize if we're not approaching with care.” Connection between sacred empathy and human flourishing “You can't manage people like machines—you have to wish for their flourishing.” The church, community, and mental health The role of church and community institutions in fostering resilience “You can't train enough therapists to solve the crisis—we have to go upstream.” Stories of church communities embracing those with mental illness “Belonging precedes healing. If someone feels cared for, they're more likely to show empathy.” Global suffering, Western understanding of “avoiding suffering,” and the search for meaning Contrast between global Christians and Western assumptions about suffering “While I think our work here at Pine Rest Mental Health—we're here to relieve suffering—there is suffering that is full of meaning and full of lessons to teach.” Christian healing values clashing with other predominant Western medical approaches “Suffering doesn't equal God's abandonment—it's often where God meets us.” Concerns about over-medicalizing suffering and ignoring its spiritual richness Lessons from early Christian health-care pioneers—“the reckless ones” who ran toward the sick “There is suffering full of meaning and lessons that Western models tend to miss.” Justice, dignity, and the Christian vocation to empathic care “Mental health care is justice work—especially for those traumatized or left out.” “People suffering, struggling with mental illness are often the victims of injustices.” The practice of psychotherapy and mental health care as pursuing social justice Connections between structural injustice and mental illness Biblical vision of justice includes care for those seen as defective or excluded Production Credits Conversing is produced and distributed in partnership with Comment magazine and Fuller Seminary.

In this episode, I talk about the ways that trauma or abuse impacts a person physically, emotionally, relationally, and spiritually. This is episode #156 of my podcast #lifewithoutbaggage .0:00" Introduction to the Episode1:30" The impact on the body4:23" The impact of unmet needs, overdriven needs, and addictions6:30" Getting stuck in emotions. defenses, being overly busy, or control and rescuing14:15" Becoming passive (learned helplessness)17:10" Spiritual impact of abuse or trauma19:45" Tips and Strategies for growth23:15" A Prayer of Blessing✅ Important Links:

Join the mission! Visit donate.accessmore.com to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Does mental health ever become a crutch more than healing? In today's episode, Laura will discuss how the answer is yes, and it happens to all of us. She will be talking about the role of discomfort in the healing process, when mental health becomes a shield from feeling that discomfort, how to identify when avoidance interrupts growth and some tools to help navigate when you get stuck. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

In this episode Pastor Raef interviews Ellen, a member of his Church and an ACBC Certified Biblical Counselor. They discuss the differences between Biblical Counseling, Secular Therapy, and Christian Counseling, and why Christians ought to prioritize true Biblical Counseling.

Spirit, Soul, and Body: What Happens To Each When We Die?Interview with Pastor Tom LoganIn this Faith and Family Fellowship episode, Dallas interviews Pastor Tom Logan.About the Guest:Tom Logan is the Senior Pastor at Faith Outreach Community Church in Fort Washington, MD. He holds Diplomas in Christian Apologetics from the International Institute of Christian Apologetics, The RZIM Academy, and the Reasons Institute. Additionally, he is certified to teach Bible Prophecy by the School of Prophets Institute at Louisiana Baptist University and holds various certifications in Christian Counseling.Pastor Tom graduated from South Carolina State College with a Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration and earned Master's Degrees in both Accounting and Taxation from Long Island University. His career includes serving as a Senior Internal Revenue Agent in NYC and Washington, DC.An accomplished author, his works include “Spirit, Soul, and Body: What Happens to Each When We Die?”, and “Race, Racism, and Slavery: The Biblical Perspective.” and “The Empire Of The United States: Why It's Not Specifically Mentioned in Bible Prophecy.” Known for his compassion and integrity, Tom lives with his wife, Jan in Clinton, MD, and continues to inspire through his faith, teaching, and leadership.About the Book:In Spirit, Soul, and Body: What Happens to Each When We Die?, author Tom Logan explores the realities of Heaven, Hell, and the afterlife through a biblical and scientific lens. Motivated by personal experiences with loss, Logan seeks to clarify what happens to our spirit, soul, and body after death. Drawing from Scripture and the insights of biblical scholars, he examines topics like resurrection, the nature of the afterlife, and the alignment of our being with God's will, offering hope and understanding to those seeking answers about life after death.Connect with our Guest: https://thomaslogan.org/Thank you for listening and supporting the 'Faith and Family Fellowship PODCAST SHOW'. We are excited to connect with our listeners on our various platforms. Below are just some of the ways you can connect with us and support our various Christian Ministry projects worldwide.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Support the Show⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://cash.app/$laymedownministry)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on Various Platforms⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://linktr.ee/faithandfamilyfellowship)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Lay Me Down Ministries ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠(https://www.facebook.com/LayMeDownMinistries)For Marketing and Publishing needs, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Buscher's Social Media Marketing LLC⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://www.facebook.com/buscherssmm)

Many people go through life unaware of the influences shaping their present and future. While your past does not define you, it can significantly impact your life if you have not addressed it in a healthy way. Dr. Ray discusses how to overcome these challenges and find freedom, enabling you to successfully embrace all that God has planned for you. Isaiah_54:4  "Fear not, for you will not be put to shame; And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced; But you will forget the shame of your youth, And the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here  Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever wondered if it's ok to have boundaries in marriage? Today, Laura will be talking about how it's not only ok but it's actually good for your marriage. She will talk about what boundaries in marriage are, how to establish them, what to do if there are obstacles, and how it will actually benefit you and your marriage. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode. Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here.

In today's powerful episode, we're joined by Christian counselor Jamie Nelson for an honest, grace-filled conversation about mental health, therapy, and faith. Whether you've been considering therapy but feel unsure of where to start, or you're wondering if it's “Christian enough” to seek professional help, this episode will meet you with clarity and encouragement. Jamie shares when it might be time to seek therapy, how to find the right Christian counselor, and why learning to advocate for yourself in the healing process is both courageous and necessary. We talk about what it means to hold grace and truth together, how therapy can support your spiritual growth, and the freedom that comes with letting God meet you in your pain. If you've ever struggled with anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or shame around getting help—this conversation is for you. Healing is holy. And taking that next brave step might be the most faith-filled move you make.

Do you know how to fight for yourself spiritually? My brother, Vince Didato, LPCC-S joins me to explain how. 0:00" Introduction to the Episode2:36" WHY you need to know how to fight SPIRITUALLY5:37" Understanding God's LOVE helps us know how to fight 8:04" DISTORTIONS that Interfere with our prayers12:45" EFFECTIVE prayers for PROTECTION17:50" Develop YOUR spirit19:50" STRATEGIES and Modes of Spiritual Empowerment27:30" Prayer to EMPOWER you✅ Important Links:

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Do you ever find it easier just to keep doing what you're doing, rather than what's healthy? In today's episode, Laura is going to have a frank conversation about why you might feel this way. She will be unpacking identifying how these situations are indicative of unhealed woundings, how to connect with this inner "teen" and ways to use the technique of reparenting to help you heal. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode. Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here.

On today's easter broadcast of HOPE Talks we are joined by Ally Padilla, Ally serves as the clinical director at Journey counseling ministries, and she joins us today to share about the ministry that they do. If you want more information about Journey Counseling and the services, they offer you can visit their website at https://www.journeycounselingministries.orgWe pray that today's broadcast will be a half hour of hope for your life! We would love to hear your feedback on HOPE Talks! Below is the link to a short survey! https://forms.office.com/Pages/DesignPageV2.aspx?prevorigin=shell&origin=NeoPortalPage&subpage=design&id=rMtAr_aDl02Dki0XlUrGIhYk-WuZPbRHkFKyO4BJJKdURTIyS1JBNU1TSjRYQjA3VVo5RlNPT0dSWS4u

A short video that explains HOW to pray for your protection and the protection of your loved ones, finances, health, etc. using principles from the Bible. I use this for myself and my daughter.✅ Important Links:

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Do you ever wonder how trauma might manifest in your adult life in ways you don't expect? Today, Laura will be talking about what to look out for. Whether it's perfectionism, inner criticism, difficulty with emotional regulation, struggle in relationships, she is going to help you identify them and give you some practical tools to navigate healing. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Send us a textIs the Church silent where it should be healing?In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Dr. Carol Tanksley—physician, minister, and intimacy coach—dives into the deep waters of sexual brokenness, healing, intimacy, and the role of the Church. Joined by host Karen Potter, Dr. Carol shares her personal story, the transformative journey of her ministry, and why real healing requires honesty, community, and God's redemptive love.

Teens Draw Near to God: Understanding God's PlanIn this episode of 'Teens Draw Near to God,' Shirah Chante, Relationship Artist, invites teenagers, parents, youth ministers, and counselors to explore how poetry can bring them closer to God. She shares her original poem God's Plan, reflecting on the concept of following Jesus genuinely and not in vain. Shirah emphasizes the importance of being authentic in one's faith, striving for godly perfection through love, and overcoming personal struggles. She encourages listeners to download her Relationship Rescue Plan to draw nearer to God through reflective questions.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:13 Purpose of the Podcast01:57 Personal Journey to Knowing God03:46 Introduction to the Poem 'God's Plan'07:33 Reading and Analyzing 'God's Plan'14:00 Reflections on Perfection and Mistakes20:45 Conclusion and Next Steps

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever had trouble identifying your feelings? In today's episode, Laura is going to talk about one of the major reasons this might be difficult. She will discuss what carried feelings are, how to identify them and what to do with them. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Send us a textGreg got to sit down with infamous psychologist John Rosemond. John made his case for all of psychology being forged, twisted, and made up. He schooled Greg on the falsehood of "chemical imbalance" and how not one psychological diagnosis can be proven with peer reviewed study. John has been sued in federal court and has won. This was an interesting episode. Enjoy! Dominion Wealth Strategists: Full Service Financial Planning! Click HERE for a free consultation today! Covenant Real Estate: "Confidence from Contract to Close" Facebook: Dead Men Walking PodcastYoutube: Dead Men Walking PodcastInstagram: @DeadMenWalkingPodcastTwitter X: @RealDMWPodcastExclusive Content: PubTV App

There are many ways people can be controlled. Sometimes without an awareness that something is pulling us away from our true identity and purpose. Today, I explain 5 common ways that people are controlled. At the end is a detailed prayer to take back your true identity and break free of control. 0:00" Introduction to this episode3:10" Labels6:00" Trauma and Vows8:03" Addictions10:00" Cultural Trends12:20" Extreme Self-Promotion or Rebellion13:40" A life aligned with God19:23" Prayer for Break Through from Control✅ Important Links:

NOTE: This episode is a re-release of a conversation that was previously recorded in November of 2023.  As a perennially relevant topic at Regents, we are releasing it again for those of you who may have missed it the first time around. Dr. Ed Welch, faculty member at the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF), talks with Dr. Dan Peterson and Dr. Ryan Lister about a biblical approach to dealing with anxiety.

Drawing Closer to God: Addressing Trauma and Abortion Through PoetryIn this episode of 'Teens Draw Near to God,' host Shirah Chante welcomes teenagers, parents, youth ministers, and counselors who work with teenagers. She shares her personal journey of seeking God and studying at a divinity school, emphasizing the spiritual rewards of drawing near to God. Shirah reads and analyzes her poem 'Mystery,' which delves into themes of brokenness, trauma, and the emotional aftermath of an abortion. Through her reflections and experiences, she encourages listeners to seek God, understand the consequences of their actions, and offer support to those in need. The episode concludes with a prayer and a mention of her relationship rescue plan, aiming to assist listeners in their spiritual and relational journeys.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:27 Host's Personal Journey to Knowing God03:31 The Poem 'Mystery'06:36 Analyzing 'Mystery' Line by Line15:54 The Impact of Trauma and Seeking Healing17:14 Hell Bent or Heaven Sent26:54 Call to Action and ConclusionDownload the Relationship Rescue Plan for help:https://shirahchante.com/relationship-rescue-plan/

Dean Doug Sweeney sits down with Gordon Bals, who leads Beeson's Master of Arts in Christian Counseling, and MACC student Jeffrey Heine, who earned both an MDiv and DMin at Beeson prior to coming back for MACC studies.

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever wondered how to tell the difference between anxiety and intuition? In today's episode, Laura will be discussing the difference between the two, how to identify it in your life, and how to strengthen intuition and calm anxiety. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! Find out more from Hope For The Heart Here.

If you are looking for more peace and order in your life, you may need to look at your boundaries! This is episode #153 of #lifewithoutbaggage . This is taken from a chapter from my book "Anxiety, Depression & Helplessness: Keys to Break Free"

In this episode of 'Speak The Truth' podcast, hosts Michael and Jeremy, without their partner Shauna, engage in an enlightening discussion with beloved author and esteemed Sister in Christ, Elyse Fitzpatrick. They dive deep into her latest book, 'Unloved: The Rejected Saints God Calls Beloved,' exploring its profound themes. Elyse enlightens listeners on the common struggle among Christians to accept God's unconditional love, pushing against the merit-based mentality(meritocracy). She reflects on biblical figures considered heroes, exposing their flawed humanity to illustrate God's unwavering love for his own, regardless of their imperfections. Elyse also teases her forthcoming projects, including a refreshed edition of 'Give Them Grace' and a new Lenten devotional, 'The Unexpected King.' The conversation encapsulates the essence of grace, redemption, and hope in God's steadfast love.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:48 Special Guest: Elyse Fitzpatrick01:08 Elyses' Recent Works and Projects04:15 Writing Process and Challenges05:36 Discussion on 'Unloved'15:41 Understanding God's Love20:14 Final Thoughts and EncouragementEpisode Resources Unloved: The Rejected Saints God Calls Beloved Idols of The Heart Give Them Grace The Afternoon of Life Home 

 Do you ever feel invisible? In this episode, Dr. Self discusses how Satan attempts to play hide and seek with us. He wants us to remain hidden and never be found. However, there is an answer to this serious problem. Every human being desires to be fully known. It's wonderful when we encounter people who truly understand us, but the ultimate answer can be found in our Lord.  Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here  Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

A short bit of encouragement from my personal studies on how to protect your true self in spite of the chaos or discouragement around you. This is a Bonus episode of #lifewithoutbaggage. ✅ Important Links:

Get Victory from Addiction:  https://cvnteyes.co/41YU8OdIn today's episode, we dive deep into the struggles of overcoming addiction, building authentic connections, and staying rooted in Christ. Hannah Williamson, a preacher, teacher, and passionate advocate for purity and accountability, shares her journey of faith, how she helps others navigate their struggles with pornography addiction and the importance of community and accountability.Hannah talks about the crucial steps of breaking free from shame cycles and sin, highlighting the power of confession, setting boundaries, and finding freedom through Covenant Eyes. She emphasizes the importance of identity in Christ and the role of local churches and friendships in fostering lasting change.From overcoming the pressures of social media and staying true to your authentic self to finding deep connections outside of the virtual world, this conversation offers practical advice for young people and anyone seeking to grow in their relationship with Jesus.Tune in for insights on navigating the challenges of modern life while focusing on Jesus. If you're struggling with pornography addiction or any other challenge, remember you're not alone—there is freedom, and it starts with accountability, community, and a heart centered on Christ.__________________________________FOLLOW HANNAH:YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@HannahJanelWilliamsonINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hannahjanelwilliamson/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Hannahwilliamsonministries/X: https://x.com/hannwilliamson___________________________________LEARN MORE ABOUT COVENANT EYES:https://cvnteyes.co/41YU8Od___________________________________CHAPTERS:00:00 - Introduction and Speaker Introductions02:30 - The Importance of Accountability and Covenant Eyes08:15 - Understanding Purity Culture and Its Relevance Today12:45 - Breaking the Chains of Shame: Stories of Freedom18:32 - Biblical Foundations for Purity23:58 - Encouraging Spouses and Partners in Recovery28:10 - The Role of Scripture and Prayer in Overcoming Struggles31:15 - Practical Steps to Overcome Pornography Addiction35:42 -Navigating Relationships in a Digital World29:34 - Boundaries in Relationships and Guardrails to Honor God30:00 - Asking Hard Questions Early in Relationships30:38 - Challenges of Building Real-Life Connections32:02 - The Importance of Intentionality and Church Community33:12 -Guiding Those Struggling with Addiction34:01 - Breaking Shame Cycles and Walking in Freedom35:40 - Plugging into Local Churches for Accountability36:04 - Favorite Scriptures and Encouragement from Romans38:07 - Being Authentic Online: Encouraging Realness41:35 - Closing Words: Fixing Eyes on Jesus#HannahWilliamson #addictionrecovery #covenanteyespodcast #genzTry Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

In today's enlightening conversation, Carol McLeod speaks with Dr. Patricia Boyce, a licensed professional counselor, about her journey of faith, mental health, and the importance of community support. They discuss the challenges women face with depression, the significance of reaching out for help, and powerful lessons from the Book of Ezekiel. Listen in for your dose of scriptural truth and encouragement!Order Patricia's book ‘Light for the Journey Through Dry Bone Valley: How Points of Connection in You, Your Relationships, and Your Community Can Reinvigorate Your Life' at https://a.co/d/dJ5CCMo Connect with Carol at https://www.carolmcleodministries.com/ or email her at carolmcleod@carolmcleodministries.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/carolmcleodministriesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolmcleodministriesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQE6z9U5VR9tjoJB1NAsgMw

What if the very institutions meant to uplift us are the ones holding us back? That's the question at the heart of my conversation today with therapist and author Andrew Bauman. Through years of research and interviews, Andrew has uncovered a troubling reality within the church, one where women often feel marginalized, silenced and forced to make themselves smaller just to keep the peace, one where sexism, abuse and misogyny are happening. This stands in stark contrast to the vision of the Church that Jesus proclaimed, a community of radical equality, justice and love. So how did we get here? And more importantly, how do we find a way forward? Andrew believes one of the answers lies in men like himself doing the hard work of confronting their own biases and misuse of power. It means churches created spaces for Open dialog, for elevating women's voices, for building a culture of true mutuality and respect. This is a vital conversation for the future of the church. Andrew is convinced that change is possible that men and women can work together to embody Jesus, to look more like Him. Join me and Andrew as we confront sexism and abuse in the church, and see if we can uncover a path towards the beloved community that God intends.Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Dr. Andrew J. Bauman is a licensed mental health counselor with a Doctorate from Northeastern University. His dissertation was on studying the impact of sexism and abuse on women in the Protestant Church. Andrew is the author of seven books, and his newest book is called SAFE CHURCH: How to Guard Against Sexism & Abuse in Christian Communities (2024)Andrew's Book:Safe ChurchAndrew's Recommendations:Becoming the Pastor's WifeThe Deep-Rooted MarriageSubscribe to Our Substack: Shifting CultureConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@allnations.usGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link belowEmail jjohnson@allnations.us, so we can get your creative project off the ground! Funny news, Real Talk & Spiritual Growth - Faith that's honest, Deep & Intentional Breaking down faith, culture & big questions - a mix of humor with real spiritual growth. Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

In this powerful episode of The Integrated Life, host Diana welcomes the inspiring Dr. Shannan Crawford, a celebrated clinical psychologist and founder of Crawford Clinics. Dr. Crawford's unique approach to therapy combines deep healing with personal growth, guiding individuals to overcome past traumas and step into their full potential. Discover how unresolved hurts can hinder your true self and learn transformative insights on healing and empowerment. Whether you're seeking personal growth or professional success, this episode offers invaluable wisdom to help you break free from limitations and thrive. Don't miss this opportunity to reshape your journey toward a more integrated and fulfilled life. Tune in now and start your path to transformation! Dr. Shannan Crawford's Contact Information: https://drshannancrawford.com/ Christian Counseling in Southlake Keller| Crawford Clinics Call/text 817-601-5540 or email Info@CrawfordClinics.com to work with a Certified Restoring-Self-Cohesion therapists who will tailor therapy to YOU! drshannancrawford.com https://crawfordclinics.com/ https://www.facebook.com/DrShannanCrawford1/ Dr. Shannan Crawford - Facebook Instagram: drshannancrawford Join us for the Crawford Clinics Open House Reception. Date: February 1, 2025 Time: 2:00 - 4:00 PM Where: 2419 W. Southlake Blvd, STE 110, Southlake, TX 76092 Quick Episode Summary: Diana Romero welcomes Dr. Shannon Crawford, CEO of Crawford Clinics, to discuss her journey and holistic therapy model, Restoring Self Cohesion (RSC). Shannon shares her transformation from struggling with trauma to developing innovative mental health methods. She introduces the "internal board meeting" method to resolve internal conflicts and achieve harmony. Shannon emphasizes healing trauma at its root to unlock God-given purpose and emotional well-being. Diana reflects on how struggles prepare individuals for their divine purpose. Shannon highlights the second phase of RSC, focused on discovering and pursuing personal potential. Crawford Clinics' new location in Southlake, Texas, will offer expanded mental health and wellness services. Shannon encourages listeners to embrace healing and take steps toward fulfilling their purpose. Diana concludes with a call to live an integrated life and share testimonies using #GodGetsMe.

Pastor Phelps raises questions about the Christian counseling movement, and examines some of the cracks in the movement. Message originally preached Wednesday evening January 15, 2024.

Do you feel highly offended? Or do you find yourself offending others? In today's episode, Laura is going to talk about this very important topic. She will talk about what it means to be offensive and what it means to be offended, how to manage extremes, and what to do if I have offended someone or am offended by someone. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Joined by Dr Natalie Atwell, LCMHT and adjunct professor to discuss mental health from a Christian Counseling approach. We speak on the dark side of mental health ranging from occult practices, new ageism, and psychedelics to manifestation. We dive into spiritual abuse, narcissism, labels, crutches/excuses, biblical guidance, parenting tips, and "treating". Follow Dr Natalie on X @DrNatwarrior IG @natalieatwellcounseling  @mentalwarriorconsulting @drnatalieatwell Facebook: Natalie Atwell   www.mentalwarriorconsulting.com linktr.ee/natalieatwell   https://natalie-atwell.mykajabi.com/offers/xYYgGTK6/checkout   $50.00 off course purchase just for Deplorable Nation Listeners!

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”     You've seen the shirt… but did you die… it's supposed to be funny… but truly when I see it I always shrug with a little disappointment and say no unfortunately I did not…. Death I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it. - Mark Twain Death The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time. - Mark Twain   DEATH   Lisa Rotgrak is the author of a book called Death Warmed Over, a combination cookbook and sociological study of funeral meals and rituals. She starts it with the story of a man dying at home in bed. He could smell the aroma of chocolate chip cookies--his favorite--baking downstairs. He wanted one more cookie before he died.   He dragged his body out of bed, rolled down the stairs, crawled into the kitchen, and reached out a trembling arm to grasp one final cookie, when he felt the sting of a spatula smack his hand. "Put that back," his wife said. "They're for the funeral."   The rich fool had many cookies, and he thought they were all for him. "This is what I'll do," says the rich fool. "I will tear down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods."   One more barn. One more crop. One more cookie. Then one night out comes the spatula. "Whack." "They don't belong to you. They're for the funeral."   Ask not for whom the spatula whacks. It whacks for thee.   --as reported in John Ortberg's new book, When the Game Is Over It All Goes Back in the Box (Zondervan, 2007):     “If it weren't for death, life would be unbearable.” –Malcolm Muggeridge. We have eternal life to look forward to; if we didn't, life would be meaningless     No one escapes death… A driver, who crashed into the side of a 3000-ton wheat train and was dragged in his car more than a kilometer before being slammed into a pylon at the edge of a cliff, fell to his death as he walked for help.  The Queensland, Australia man, 63, and his female companion, 64, were driving along the Newell Highway near Moree, in Northwestern New South Wales, on Wednesday night, police said.  Their car crashed into the side of a fully laden, 600-meter long train at a level crossing. (I guess that would be harder to miss than the side of a barn!) The vehicle became wedged between the second last and last carriages and was dragged sideways beside the track as the train continued towards Moree, a police spokeswoman said.  After being carried more than a kilometer and a half they approached an unfenced bridge with a 10-meter drop, the spokeswoman said. Moments before they reached the precipice, the car was struck by a pylon, dislodged from the train and spun several times. When it came to rest, the pair managed to free themselves from the wreck (I wonder if it was a Volvo?) with minor bruising and the man set off along the railway line for help. But he slipped on the bridge and fell to his death, the spokeswoman said.  The woman was eventually able to raise the alarm and was recovering in Moree hospital with chest injuries.   Are you ready to die… I am, I can't wait…  Jim Elliot (slain missionary) "When the time comes to die, make sure that all you have to do is die!"

Unfortunately, the holidays seem to cause toxic people to manifest more than usual. How do we respond as Christians? How can we handle these relationships and keep our peace? Dr. Ray Self will answer these questions in this crucial show for the holidays and as you move into the new year.  Proverbs 13:20  He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will suffer harm.  Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Buy Dr. Ray Self's new book "The Call" for a minimum donation of $15 to Cash App $drrayself or www.icmcollege.org/donate Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Check out our new store at – www.icmcollege.org/merch  Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Did you know that you can hold someone accountable without blaming or holding a grudge? There is a very big different between acknowledging hurt that someone has caused and holding a grudge. In today's episode, Laura is going to discuss the differences and why it is important, and how to move from a grudge into accountability. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss and episode.

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”     Research data gathered by he marriage and families studies group at catholic university in Washington D.C. happy couples often disagree as frequently as unhappy ones. The difference is that happy couples are far better at ending spats or as it is called “exiting”. Both couples have a negative experience, they follow the loop which is exchange negative experience and negative behavior. Maybe a harsh word and a harsh word. A harsh comparison with a harsh comparison…b ut then one of the partners will take a positive step and look at things that do work things that they are happy with things that they are doing well. And they close the loop with that. But unhappy couples follow the loop after loop after loop and replay negative experiences, negative behavior, all the wrongs you did since birth… they literally wear a pathway into their neural pathways in their brain. So next time it happens your brain literally jumps right into the negative deep level loop… and that person will always bring out the worst in you because that is the way you programmed your brain.  HOW DO YOU STOP THIS MADNESS IN A REAL PRACTICAL WAY? Romans 12:2 Romans 12:2: "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect” Some say that renewing your mind means interpreting life through God's Word and the Holy Spirit, rather than your own experiences, preferences, or the opinions of others. And they would be correct, but I also believe that renewing your mind would mean keep from creating negative neural pathways… and in turn creating negative spiritual inroads to our heart and life.  You focus on the bitterness that someone creates in your life… it will invite more spiritual darkness - more demonic activity in your life… and what does that do? It creates even more of a negative neural network and spiritual darkness in your life.    Here are some other Bible verses about mental transformation:    2 Corinthians 10:5 Psalm 1:2 Proverbs 4:23 Philippians 4:8 1 Peter 2:9 Psalm 139:13 Zephaniah 3:17   So what are some practical steps to renew your mind and blitzkrieg the demonic pathways into your life : Recognizing false beliefs or negative thoughts by mirroring your reactions with what scripture says, Calling out negative thoughts or lies according to what scripture says, Replacing lies with Gods truth, Studying and meditating on Scripture, and Praying over these type of situations.  

Wondering what all this reparenting talk is about? In today's episode, Laura is going to discuss reparenting, why it's vital to your healing, the biology behind it, and actually how to do it. It's an important part of your healing journey so you are not going to want to miss this episode. You can subscribe today on Accessmore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   I love a good kiss…and Im not gonna lie, I love a good French kiss. When I go to kiss my wife hello goodby or for any reason and she French kisses me… wow knocks me off my feet… and thats where we are going today.     Proverbs 27:5-7 5 An open rebuke is better than hidden love! 6 Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy. 7 A person who is full refuses honey, but even bitter food tastes sweet to the hungry.     2 - Consider the friend  Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy Ok, so we covered verse 5 that any rebuke even an open rebuke is better than No rebuke at all. Don't worry about the heart, the source or the situation or even the environment… be glad that you got the rebuke… but now we see how it can even get better if we get a rebuke from a friend.  6 Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy. **A better way is to hear it from a friend, than an enemy.  “Bob can we talk about something”?      IT HAS BEEN SAID: God does not change us 100% -he changes us 70% and then gives us friends to work on the other 30% Maybe a good idea is to surround ourselves with with Godly friends so we get Godly friendly rebukes…    Power Vs Force by David R. Hawkins, MD., Ph.D.  There was one other phenomenon that Diamond noted to its extraordinary implications. Subjects listening to tapes of ( known deceits—even though the speakers seemed to be telling the truth and sounded convincing-tested weak physically.  AND THE OPPOSITE WAS ALSO TRUE: Subjects listening to truths though the speakers told these things in aggressive and hurtful ways, the listeners tested strong.  WHERE AM I GOING WITH THIS… The rest of the verse says kisses from an enemy do you no good. Regardless of what they say and how good it feels… they are lies.  **So kisses may feel good, but if they are lies you don't change and even become weaker physically!     Kisses prove nothing.  Kisses mean nothing to a person… they only make you feel good.   Beware of these three kisses  - the kiss of flattery. Just what it is… flattery. It simply makes you feel good, but adds nothing to your character.   - the kiss of comparison. I think you are so much better, smarter, stronger, younger, etc… than the other person.   - The kiss of bitterness dripping in guile They disapprove of someone and let you know that you are so much better.    Wounds from a friend Don. Catch the 54 inch Muskie Pulling up to brag to my other friends… Hooze quietly mutters “Hex, be humble, remember who caught that fish”

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  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Quick intro… before I head a different direction… don't let the new incoming president cause you to believe that life will be better… it will only be better when we have a revival in our country and world. Keep pushing, praying and sharing Christ with those you come in contact with.    The largest game of Simon Says involved 12,215 participants at the Utah Summer Games Opening Ceremony in Cedar City, Utah, on June 14, 2007. To play simon says you have to follow simon and you have to know your body parts.  Same with God and his body.  Or your out! But think about when your growing up and your siblings play copy cat and it drives you nuts. We can do that in the body of christ and it's frustrating for both people!  "Theres something different about you.."  That used to be a sly way cutting someone down but really in gods eyes that's a compliment.    Romans 12:4,5 Each one is a part of that body, and each part belongs to all the other parts. We all have different gifts, each of which came because of the grace God gave us.    Look we all have arms… but that doesn't mean we all have big biceps, we don't all have the same flexibility, we don't all have the same skin color, we don't all have the same skill set with our arms… I can't juggle, but I can throw a knife… Point is - quit trying to be someone else. Find out who your are supposed to be in Christ and be that.  You might have the gift of wisdom, but it might be best used with teenagers… you humor, your insight, your ability to connect etc… might rub adults the wrong way, but may be exactly what teens relate to.  My thought specifically on this is that the worst thing about social media is that it tells us who we should be, how we should act, what we should believe, what our strengths should be, what are gifts should be…  When was the last time you followed an influencer that was huge who's gifting was the Mercy or compassion or hospitality…    What if God was Simon… would he tell all of us to be the same and do the same? That would be a pretty boring noncreative God. But thats not him, he is the original originator of the pure creative… he creates stuff out of NOTHING… NOTHING. He can use your gifts to do the unbelievable.  Give him some space to be God and to show him who you ought to be

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Todays podcast isn't for everybody… look there are lots of people out there who just refuse to think for themselves… they want to be told what to do, what to think, who to believe, what is right what is wrong and simply just want life made simple… this is not for you. This is for the person who refused to just swallow whatever anyone shoves at them. You like to challenge people, you like to challenge the current thought trend and the current media bias and belief. You don't care what people think… Then you are listening to the right podcast.  So you may think this is you… but honestly its probably just for a few people today… maybe only 5 out of the thousands who listen to it. Because many of us think we like to think for ourselves and many of us think we don't mind getting picked on for pushing back on the trend of thought… but very very very few actually thrive on it.    The proof is in the pudding.  Professors - teaching in areas they have never succeeded in.  People who work for your local state or government telling you how to run your business and they have never started anything in their life.  Whiners  telling you how unfair a particular are of life is but have never sacrificed, worked 80 hours a week or even went all in on a goal. Politicians - who are lifers who have never had a real job.  The rich… from inheritance Even the proven… on luck   I was in a store years ago and someone ended up talking to a kid who worked there who was into guitar… we were talking about guitarists we love - I mention one and he gives me a word for word description of why this guy sucked and he actually quoted word for word out of guitar one magazine… I was like DUDE, do you have an original thought?    In Mark chapter 11 the pharisees question where He gets his authority to do these things… they want to know how come you think your special… we are the special ones. So Jesus says “riddle me this batman”… ok not really, but he says tell me was Johns authority from man or God…. Well well well… one of the few times the religious leaders were speechless… they said we don't know. Right! So I will not answer you nor listen to you.  Jesus is saying why should I listen to you… you only have a portion, you have not proven yourself nor do you have any real power.  I will listen to those who are proven in multiple areas of their life before I give them the honor of my time, money, or even mind space. You do the same… but again I am probably only speaking to about 5 of you.

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   John 7:12 And there was much murmuring among the people concerning him: for some said, He is a good man: others said, Nay; but he deceiveth the people. 13Yet no one would speak publicly about Him for fear of the Jews     NAY Sayer here is a quote from Daniel Gilbert from his book Stumbling on Happiness.  Even Wilbur Wright, who proved Kelvin and Newcomb wrong, admitted that in 1901 he had said to his brother that “man would not fly for fifty years.” He was off by forty-eight. The number of respected scientists and accomplished inventors who declared the airplane an impossibility is exceeded only by the number who said the same thing about space travel, television sets, microwave ovens, nuclear power, heart transplants, and female senators.   Stumbling on Happiness, Daniel Gilbert, pg. 124   There is always a nay sayer in the crowd. I once heard a joke that said if you are ever lost, pull out a deck of cards and play solitaire - because it wont take long before you will put a card down and someone will lean over your shoulder and say “I wouldn't have used that card there”.    Three reasons you need Nay Sayers in your life.  - They will help you clarify and intensify your reasons and choices.    They really do you a favor by causing you to dig into your beliefs and do a gut check. Many times give you an advantage to look over your motives and goals and gain even more invaluable insight. You become even more skilled at what you are attempting to do.   J.K. Rowling: Before becoming a global phenomenon, Rowling's manuscript for "Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone" was rejected by twelve publishers. The rejections fueled her determination and forced her to refine her writing, ultimately leading to the creation of one of the most successful book series of all time… that small little series called Harry Potter, sold over 600 million copies… not to mention the royalties on movies, cartoons, toys and products like cereal and clothing…           - They will help you build a thick skin. One of the biggest problems in todays world is the noise… the noise of the crowd. You can't escape it… but given enough time and enough resolve you learn to become deaf to it. You not only just disregard it, but you become deaf to it. I have many times had my wife, friends even antagonists ask me “doesn't it bother you what they are saying”?  I honestly can look at them and say… I didn't notice it. The deafness and silence it creates actually becomes the fuel to your motivation and to your drive…. Because you can't hear them anymore you gain greater focus.   Maybe you have heard of the term flow? Its when seemingly the world stops, time stands still and you hear nothing… athletes speak of this all the time. Its a beautiful skill gained by learning how to block out the noise of the Nay Sayers.       - They prove you are moving forward and not backward.  If you want to know if you are moving in the right direction, check the crowd. Typically if more people think your goals are ludicrous you are on your way… if most people agree with your goals they are probably to easy, to unfaltering… they won't change you, they are not worth your time and effort. Look there will always be some people who like what you are trying to do, the majority will be silent for many reasons, but the loudest voices will be the Nay Sayers… thats a good sign… keep pushing on.     - Here is a bonus thought. The best way to hone your instincts and your judgement and critical eye is constantly having people call you out….  REMEMBER  Haters produce creators. 

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