Podcast appearances and mentions of Christian counseling

Join the mission! Visit donate.accessmore.com to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Does mental health ever become a crutch more than healing? In today's episode, Laura will discuss how the answer is yes, and it happens to all of us. She will be talking about the role of discomfort in the healing process, when mental health becomes a shield from feeling that discomfort, how to identify when avoidance interrupts growth and some tools to help navigate when you get stuck. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Many people go through life unaware of the influences shaping their present and future. While your past does not define you, it can significantly impact your life if you have not addressed it in a healthy way. Dr. Ray discusses how to overcome these challenges and find freedom, enabling you to successfully embrace all that God has planned for you. Isaiah_54:4  "Fear not, for you will not be put to shame; And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced; But you will forget the shame of your youth, And the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more. Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here  Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever wondered if it's ok to have boundaries in marriage? Today, Laura will be talking about how it's not only ok but it's actually good for your marriage. She will talk about what boundaries in marriage are, how to establish them, what to do if there are obstacles, and how it will actually benefit you and your marriage. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode. Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here.

In today's powerful episode, we're joined by Christian counselor Jamie Nelson for an honest, grace-filled conversation about mental health, therapy, and faith. Whether you've been considering therapy but feel unsure of where to start, or you're wondering if it's “Christian enough” to seek professional help, this episode will meet you with clarity and encouragement. Jamie shares when it might be time to seek therapy, how to find the right Christian counselor, and why learning to advocate for yourself in the healing process is both courageous and necessary. We talk about what it means to hold grace and truth together, how therapy can support your spiritual growth, and the freedom that comes with letting God meet you in your pain. If you've ever struggled with anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or shame around getting help—this conversation is for you. Healing is holy. And taking that next brave step might be the most faith-filled move you make.

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Do you ever find it easier just to keep doing what you're doing, rather than what's healthy? In today's episode, Laura is going to have a frank conversation about why you might feel this way. She will be unpacking identifying how these situations are indicative of unhealed woundings, how to connect with this inner "teen" and ways to use the technique of reparenting to help you heal. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode. Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here.

On today's easter broadcast of HOPE Talks we are joined by Ally Padilla, Ally serves as the clinical director at Journey counseling ministries, and she joins us today to share about the ministry that they do. If you want more information about Journey Counseling and the services, they offer you can visit their website at https://www.journeycounselingministries.orgWe pray that today's broadcast will be a half hour of hope for your life! We would love to hear your feedback on HOPE Talks! Below is the link to a short survey! https://forms.office.com/Pages/DesignPageV2.aspx?prevorigin=shell&origin=NeoPortalPage&subpage=design&id=rMtAr_aDl02Dki0XlUrGIhYk-WuZPbRHkFKyO4BJJKdURTIyS1JBNU1TSjRYQjA3VVo5RlNPT0dSWS4u

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Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Do you ever wonder how trauma might manifest in your adult life in ways you don't expect? Today, Laura will be talking about what to look out for. Whether it's perfectionism, inner criticism, difficulty with emotional regulation, struggle in relationships, she is going to help you identify them and give you some practical tools to navigate healing. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Send us a textIs the Church silent where it should be healing?In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Dr. Carol Tanksley—physician, minister, and intimacy coach—dives into the deep waters of sexual brokenness, healing, intimacy, and the role of the Church. Joined by host Karen Potter, Dr. Carol shares her personal story, the transformative journey of her ministry, and why real healing requires honesty, community, and God's redemptive love.

Teens Draw Near to God: Understanding God's PlanIn this episode of 'Teens Draw Near to God,' Shirah Chante, Relationship Artist, invites teenagers, parents, youth ministers, and counselors to explore how poetry can bring them closer to God. She shares her original poem God's Plan, reflecting on the concept of following Jesus genuinely and not in vain. Shirah emphasizes the importance of being authentic in one's faith, striving for godly perfection through love, and overcoming personal struggles. She encourages listeners to download her Relationship Rescue Plan to draw nearer to God through reflective questions.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:13 Purpose of the Podcast01:57 Personal Journey to Knowing God03:46 Introduction to the Poem 'God's Plan'07:33 Reading and Analyzing 'God's Plan'14:00 Reflections on Perfection and Mistakes20:45 Conclusion and Next Steps

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever had trouble identifying your feelings? In today's episode, Laura is going to talk about one of the major reasons this might be difficult. She will discuss what carried feelings are, how to identify them and what to do with them. You can subscribe today at AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Send us a textGreg got to sit down with infamous psychologist John Rosemond. John made his case for all of psychology being forged, twisted, and made up. He schooled Greg on the falsehood of "chemical imbalance" and how not one psychological diagnosis can be proven with peer reviewed study. John has been sued in federal court and has won. This was an interesting episode. Enjoy! Dominion Wealth Strategists: Full Service Financial Planning! Click HERE for a free consultation today! Covenant Real Estate: "Confidence from Contract to Close" Facebook: Dead Men Walking PodcastYoutube: Dead Men Walking PodcastInstagram: @DeadMenWalkingPodcastTwitter X: @RealDMWPodcastExclusive Content: PubTV App

There are many ways people can be controlled. Sometimes without an awareness that something is pulling us away from our true identity and purpose. Today, I explain 5 common ways that people are controlled. At the end is a detailed prayer to take back your true identity and break free of control. 0:00" Introduction to this episode3:10" Labels6:00" Trauma and Vows8:03" Addictions10:00" Cultural Trends12:20" Extreme Self-Promotion or Rebellion13:40" A life aligned with God19:23" Prayer for Break Through from Control✅ Important Links:

NOTE: This episode is a re-release of a conversation that was previously recorded in November of 2023.  As a perennially relevant topic at Regents, we are releasing it again for those of you who may have missed it the first time around. Dr. Ed Welch, faculty member at the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF), talks with Dr. Dan Peterson and Dr. Ryan Lister about a biblical approach to dealing with anxiety.

Drawing Closer to God: Addressing Trauma and Abortion Through PoetryIn this episode of 'Teens Draw Near to God,' host Shirah Chante welcomes teenagers, parents, youth ministers, and counselors who work with teenagers. She shares her personal journey of seeking God and studying at a divinity school, emphasizing the spiritual rewards of drawing near to God. Shirah reads and analyzes her poem 'Mystery,' which delves into themes of brokenness, trauma, and the emotional aftermath of an abortion. Through her reflections and experiences, she encourages listeners to seek God, understand the consequences of their actions, and offer support to those in need. The episode concludes with a prayer and a mention of her relationship rescue plan, aiming to assist listeners in their spiritual and relational journeys.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:27 Host's Personal Journey to Knowing God03:31 The Poem 'Mystery'06:36 Analyzing 'Mystery' Line by Line15:54 The Impact of Trauma and Seeking Healing17:14 Hell Bent or Heaven Sent26:54 Call to Action and ConclusionDownload the Relationship Rescue Plan for help:https://shirahchante.com/relationship-rescue-plan/

Dean Doug Sweeney sits down with Gordon Bals, who leads Beeson's Master of Arts in Christian Counseling, and MACC student Jeffrey Heine, who earned both an MDiv and DMin at Beeson prior to coming back for MACC studies.

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever wondered how to tell the difference between anxiety and intuition? In today's episode, Laura will be discussing the difference between the two, how to identify it in your life, and how to strengthen intuition and calm anxiety. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! Find out more from Hope For The Heart Here.

If you are looking for more peace and order in your life, you may need to look at your boundaries! This is episode #153 of #lifewithoutbaggage . This is taken from a chapter from my book "Anxiety, Depression & Helplessness: Keys to Break Free"

In this episode of 'Speak The Truth' podcast, hosts Michael and Jeremy, without their partner Shauna, engage in an enlightening discussion with beloved author and esteemed Sister in Christ, Elyse Fitzpatrick. They dive deep into her latest book, 'Unloved: The Rejected Saints God Calls Beloved,' exploring its profound themes. Elyse enlightens listeners on the common struggle among Christians to accept God's unconditional love, pushing against the merit-based mentality(meritocracy). She reflects on biblical figures considered heroes, exposing their flawed humanity to illustrate God's unwavering love for his own, regardless of their imperfections. Elyse also teases her forthcoming projects, including a refreshed edition of 'Give Them Grace' and a new Lenten devotional, 'The Unexpected King.' The conversation encapsulates the essence of grace, redemption, and hope in God's steadfast love.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:48 Special Guest: Elyse Fitzpatrick01:08 Elyses' Recent Works and Projects04:15 Writing Process and Challenges05:36 Discussion on 'Unloved'15:41 Understanding God's Love20:14 Final Thoughts and EncouragementEpisode Resources Unloved: The Rejected Saints God Calls Beloved Idols of The Heart Give Them Grace The Afternoon of Life Home 

 Do you ever feel invisible? In this episode, Dr. Self discusses how Satan attempts to play hide and seek with us. He wants us to remain hidden and never be found. However, there is an answer to this serious problem. Every human being desires to be fully known. It's wonderful when we encounter people who truly understand us, but the ultimate answer can be found in our Lord.  Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here  Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self atdrrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

A short bit of encouragement from my personal studies on how to protect your true self in spite of the chaos or discouragement around you. This is a Bonus episode of #lifewithoutbaggage. ✅ Important Links:

Get Victory from Addiction:  https://cvnteyes.co/41YU8OdIn today's episode, we dive deep into the struggles of overcoming addiction, building authentic connections, and staying rooted in Christ. Hannah Williamson, a preacher, teacher, and passionate advocate for purity and accountability, shares her journey of faith, how she helps others navigate their struggles with pornography addiction and the importance of community and accountability.Hannah talks about the crucial steps of breaking free from shame cycles and sin, highlighting the power of confession, setting boundaries, and finding freedom through Covenant Eyes. She emphasizes the importance of identity in Christ and the role of local churches and friendships in fostering lasting change.From overcoming the pressures of social media and staying true to your authentic self to finding deep connections outside of the virtual world, this conversation offers practical advice for young people and anyone seeking to grow in their relationship with Jesus.Tune in for insights on navigating the challenges of modern life while focusing on Jesus. If you're struggling with pornography addiction or any other challenge, remember you're not alone—there is freedom, and it starts with accountability, community, and a heart centered on Christ.__________________________________FOLLOW HANNAH:YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@HannahJanelWilliamsonINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hannahjanelwilliamson/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Hannahwilliamsonministries/X: https://x.com/hannwilliamson___________________________________LEARN MORE ABOUT COVENANT EYES:https://cvnteyes.co/41YU8Od___________________________________CHAPTERS:00:00 - Introduction and Speaker Introductions02:30 - The Importance of Accountability and Covenant Eyes08:15 - Understanding Purity Culture and Its Relevance Today12:45 - Breaking the Chains of Shame: Stories of Freedom18:32 - Biblical Foundations for Purity23:58 - Encouraging Spouses and Partners in Recovery28:10 - The Role of Scripture and Prayer in Overcoming Struggles31:15 - Practical Steps to Overcome Pornography Addiction35:42 -Navigating Relationships in a Digital World29:34 - Boundaries in Relationships and Guardrails to Honor God30:00 - Asking Hard Questions Early in Relationships30:38 - Challenges of Building Real-Life Connections32:02 - The Importance of Intentionality and Church Community33:12 -Guiding Those Struggling with Addiction34:01 - Breaking Shame Cycles and Walking in Freedom35:40 - Plugging into Local Churches for Accountability36:04 - Favorite Scriptures and Encouragement from Romans38:07 - Being Authentic Online: Encouraging Realness41:35 - Closing Words: Fixing Eyes on Jesus#HannahWilliamson #addictionrecovery #covenanteyespodcast #genzTry Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

My guest today is Dr. Uejin Kim, a Christian psychiatrist. She shares her insights on the proper use of medication in the journey to personal wholeness. 0:00" Introduction to the episode and to Dr. Kim 2:49" Dr. Kim's "calling" into psychiatry 7:28" The process of acceptance, healing, and freedom 10:50" When is medication necessary? 14:20" The role of counseling and the role of medication 19:39" The difference between what your family doctor can do and what a psychiatrist will do for you 24:00" "Burnt Out Brain", Stress & Social Media 26:18" Self-care and expectations in relationships32:28" Closing remarks Here are the websites for Dr. Kim:

In today's enlightening conversation, Carol McLeod speaks with Dr. Patricia Boyce, a licensed professional counselor, about her journey of faith, mental health, and the importance of community support. They discuss the challenges women face with depression, the significance of reaching out for help, and powerful lessons from the Book of Ezekiel. Listen in for your dose of scriptural truth and encouragement!Order Patricia's book ‘Light for the Journey Through Dry Bone Valley: How Points of Connection in You, Your Relationships, and Your Community Can Reinvigorate Your Life' at https://a.co/d/dJ5CCMo Connect with Carol at https://www.carolmcleodministries.com/ or email her at carolmcleod@carolmcleodministries.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/carolmcleodministriesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolmcleodministriesYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQE6z9U5VR9tjoJB1NAsgMw

What if the very institutions meant to uplift us are the ones holding us back? That's the question at the heart of my conversation today with therapist and author Andrew Bauman. Through years of research and interviews, Andrew has uncovered a troubling reality within the church, one where women often feel marginalized, silenced and forced to make themselves smaller just to keep the peace, one where sexism, abuse and misogyny are happening. This stands in stark contrast to the vision of the Church that Jesus proclaimed, a community of radical equality, justice and love. So how did we get here? And more importantly, how do we find a way forward? Andrew believes one of the answers lies in men like himself doing the hard work of confronting their own biases and misuse of power. It means churches created spaces for Open dialog, for elevating women's voices, for building a culture of true mutuality and respect. This is a vital conversation for the future of the church. Andrew is convinced that change is possible that men and women can work together to embody Jesus, to look more like Him. Join me and Andrew as we confront sexism and abuse in the church, and see if we can uncover a path towards the beloved community that God intends.Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Dr. Andrew J. Bauman is a licensed mental health counselor with a Doctorate from Northeastern University. His dissertation was on studying the impact of sexism and abuse on women in the Protestant Church. Andrew is the author of seven books, and his newest book is called SAFE CHURCH: How to Guard Against Sexism & Abuse in Christian Communities (2024)Andrew's Book:Safe ChurchAndrew's Recommendations:Becoming the Pastor's WifeThe Deep-Rooted MarriageSubscribe to Our Substack: Shifting CultureConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@allnations.usGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link belowEmail jjohnson@allnations.us, so we can get your creative project off the ground! Funny news, Real Talk & Spiritual Growth - Faith that's honest, Deep & Intentional Breaking down faith, culture & big questions - a mix of humor with real spiritual growth. Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

In this powerful episode of The Integrated Life, host Diana welcomes the inspiring Dr. Shannan Crawford, a celebrated clinical psychologist and founder of Crawford Clinics. Dr. Crawford's unique approach to therapy combines deep healing with personal growth, guiding individuals to overcome past traumas and step into their full potential. Discover how unresolved hurts can hinder your true self and learn transformative insights on healing and empowerment. Whether you're seeking personal growth or professional success, this episode offers invaluable wisdom to help you break free from limitations and thrive. Don't miss this opportunity to reshape your journey toward a more integrated and fulfilled life. Tune in now and start your path to transformation! Dr. Shannan Crawford's Contact Information: https://drshannancrawford.com/ Christian Counseling in Southlake Keller| Crawford Clinics Call/text 817-601-5540 or email Info@CrawfordClinics.com to work with a Certified Restoring-Self-Cohesion therapists who will tailor therapy to YOU! drshannancrawford.com https://crawfordclinics.com/ https://www.facebook.com/DrShannanCrawford1/ Dr. Shannan Crawford - Facebook Instagram: drshannancrawford Join us for the Crawford Clinics Open House Reception. Date: February 1, 2025 Time: 2:00 - 4:00 PM Where: 2419 W. Southlake Blvd, STE 110, Southlake, TX 76092 Quick Episode Summary: Diana Romero welcomes Dr. Shannon Crawford, CEO of Crawford Clinics, to discuss her journey and holistic therapy model, Restoring Self Cohesion (RSC). Shannon shares her transformation from struggling with trauma to developing innovative mental health methods. She introduces the "internal board meeting" method to resolve internal conflicts and achieve harmony. Shannon emphasizes healing trauma at its root to unlock God-given purpose and emotional well-being. Diana reflects on how struggles prepare individuals for their divine purpose. Shannon highlights the second phase of RSC, focused on discovering and pursuing personal potential. Crawford Clinics' new location in Southlake, Texas, will offer expanded mental health and wellness services. Shannon encourages listeners to embrace healing and take steps toward fulfilling their purpose. Diana concludes with a call to live an integrated life and share testimonies using #GodGetsMe.

Pastor Phelps raises questions about the Christian counseling movement, and examines some of the cracks in the movement. Message originally preached Wednesday evening January 15, 2024.

Pastor Jim Osman interviews Joel Baker, a candidate for a lead biblical counseling role at Kootenai Church. Questions and AnswersSalvation Testimony: How did you come to know the Lord? What are the details of that, and tell us that story?Southern California Transition: What was your dad doing in Southern California?Theological and Spiritual Influences: Who were your early theological and spiritual influences?Theological Convictions: Have you always had your current theological convictions, and how would you characterize them?Family Introduction: Tell us a little bit about your family. What is your wife's name, and how did you meet?Educational Background: Can you share the steps you went through in your education and the degrees you earned?Biblical Counseling Definition: Can you define biblical counseling?Difference in Counseling Approaches: How is biblical counseling different from other forms of counseling?Hobbies and Non-Ministry Interests: What are your hobbies and interests outside of ministry?Influential Books: What five books have most influenced and shaped you?...and more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Do you feel highly offended? Or do you find yourself offending others? In today's episode, Laura is going to talk about this very important topic. She will talk about what it means to be offensive and what it means to be offended, how to manage extremes, and what to do if I have offended someone or am offended by someone. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

Joined by Dr Natalie Atwell, LCMHT and adjunct professor to discuss mental health from a Christian Counseling approach. We speak on the dark side of mental health ranging from occult practices, new ageism, and psychedelics to manifestation. We dive into spiritual abuse, narcissism, labels, crutches/excuses, biblical guidance, parenting tips, and "treating". Follow Dr Natalie on X @DrNatwarrior IG @natalieatwellcounseling  @mentalwarriorconsulting @drnatalieatwell Facebook: Natalie Atwell   www.mentalwarriorconsulting.com linktr.ee/natalieatwell   https://natalie-atwell.mykajabi.com/offers/xYYgGTK6/checkout   $50.00 off course purchase just for Deplorable Nation Listeners!

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”     You've seen the shirt… but did you die… it's supposed to be funny… but truly when I see it I always shrug with a little disappointment and say no unfortunately I did not…. Death I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it. - Mark Twain Death The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time. - Mark Twain   DEATH   Lisa Rotgrak is the author of a book called Death Warmed Over, a combination cookbook and sociological study of funeral meals and rituals. She starts it with the story of a man dying at home in bed. He could smell the aroma of chocolate chip cookies--his favorite--baking downstairs. He wanted one more cookie before he died.   He dragged his body out of bed, rolled down the stairs, crawled into the kitchen, and reached out a trembling arm to grasp one final cookie, when he felt the sting of a spatula smack his hand. "Put that back," his wife said. "They're for the funeral."   The rich fool had many cookies, and he thought they were all for him. "This is what I'll do," says the rich fool. "I will tear down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods."   One more barn. One more crop. One more cookie. Then one night out comes the spatula. "Whack." "They don't belong to you. They're for the funeral."   Ask not for whom the spatula whacks. It whacks for thee.   --as reported in John Ortberg's new book, When the Game Is Over It All Goes Back in the Box (Zondervan, 2007):     “If it weren't for death, life would be unbearable.” –Malcolm Muggeridge. We have eternal life to look forward to; if we didn't, life would be meaningless     No one escapes death… A driver, who crashed into the side of a 3000-ton wheat train and was dragged in his car more than a kilometer before being slammed into a pylon at the edge of a cliff, fell to his death as he walked for help.  The Queensland, Australia man, 63, and his female companion, 64, were driving along the Newell Highway near Moree, in Northwestern New South Wales, on Wednesday night, police said.  Their car crashed into the side of a fully laden, 600-meter long train at a level crossing. (I guess that would be harder to miss than the side of a barn!) The vehicle became wedged between the second last and last carriages and was dragged sideways beside the track as the train continued towards Moree, a police spokeswoman said.  After being carried more than a kilometer and a half they approached an unfenced bridge with a 10-meter drop, the spokeswoman said. Moments before they reached the precipice, the car was struck by a pylon, dislodged from the train and spun several times. When it came to rest, the pair managed to free themselves from the wreck (I wonder if it was a Volvo?) with minor bruising and the man set off along the railway line for help. But he slipped on the bridge and fell to his death, the spokeswoman said.  The woman was eventually able to raise the alarm and was recovering in Moree hospital with chest injuries.   Are you ready to die… I am, I can't wait…  Jim Elliot (slain missionary) "When the time comes to die, make sure that all you have to do is die!"

Send us a text"Christian Counseling" directly opposes the ACA Code of EthicsCounselors' political biases creating division with clientsThe new-age drama of "right and wrong think"Therapists should not be truth-seekersThe importance of sitting with clients that have different ideologiesMelissa shares about her love of Ricky MartinWhy is the counseling profession becoming a banner flag for social justice and advocacy?Approaching a client relationship similarly to visiting a foreign countryWe are entering the client's world, not inviting them to ours Support the showHave any questions or insights about this episode? Reach out to us at contactus@tellmeaboutyourmother.run

Unfortunately, the holidays seem to cause toxic people to manifest more than usual. How do we respond as Christians? How can we handle these relationships and keep our peace? Dr. Ray Self will answer these questions in this crucial show for the holidays and as you move into the new year.  Proverbs 13:20  He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will suffer harm.  Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll  Buy Dr. Ray Self's new book "The Call" for a minimum donation of $15 to Cash App $drrayself or www.icmcollege.org/donate Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Check out our new store at – www.icmcollege.org/merch  Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Did you know that you can hold someone accountable without blaming or holding a grudge? There is a very big different between acknowledging hurt that someone has caused and holding a grudge. In today's episode, Laura is going to discuss the differences and why it is important, and how to move from a grudge into accountability. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss and episode.

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”     Research data gathered by he marriage and families studies group at catholic university in Washington D.C. happy couples often disagree as frequently as unhappy ones. The difference is that happy couples are far better at ending spats or as it is called “exiting”. Both couples have a negative experience, they follow the loop which is exchange negative experience and negative behavior. Maybe a harsh word and a harsh word. A harsh comparison with a harsh comparison…b ut then one of the partners will take a positive step and look at things that do work things that they are happy with things that they are doing well. And they close the loop with that. But unhappy couples follow the loop after loop after loop and replay negative experiences, negative behavior, all the wrongs you did since birth… they literally wear a pathway into their neural pathways in their brain. So next time it happens your brain literally jumps right into the negative deep level loop… and that person will always bring out the worst in you because that is the way you programmed your brain.  HOW DO YOU STOP THIS MADNESS IN A REAL PRACTICAL WAY? Romans 12:2 Romans 12:2: "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect” Some say that renewing your mind means interpreting life through God's Word and the Holy Spirit, rather than your own experiences, preferences, or the opinions of others. And they would be correct, but I also believe that renewing your mind would mean keep from creating negative neural pathways… and in turn creating negative spiritual inroads to our heart and life.  You focus on the bitterness that someone creates in your life… it will invite more spiritual darkness - more demonic activity in your life… and what does that do? It creates even more of a negative neural network and spiritual darkness in your life.    Here are some other Bible verses about mental transformation:    2 Corinthians 10:5 Psalm 1:2 Proverbs 4:23 Philippians 4:8 1 Peter 2:9 Psalm 139:13 Zephaniah 3:17   So what are some practical steps to renew your mind and blitzkrieg the demonic pathways into your life : Recognizing false beliefs or negative thoughts by mirroring your reactions with what scripture says, Calling out negative thoughts or lies according to what scripture says, Replacing lies with Gods truth, Studying and meditating on Scripture, and Praying over these type of situations.  

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  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   I love a good kiss…and Im not gonna lie, I love a good French kiss. When I go to kiss my wife hello goodby or for any reason and she French kisses me… wow knocks me off my feet… and thats where we are going today.     Proverbs 27:5-7 5 An open rebuke is better than hidden love! 6 Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy. 7 A person who is full refuses honey, but even bitter food tastes sweet to the hungry.     2 - Consider the friend  Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy Ok, so we covered verse 5 that any rebuke even an open rebuke is better than No rebuke at all. Don't worry about the heart, the source or the situation or even the environment… be glad that you got the rebuke… but now we see how it can even get better if we get a rebuke from a friend.  6 Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy. **A better way is to hear it from a friend, than an enemy.  “Bob can we talk about something”?      IT HAS BEEN SAID: God does not change us 100% -he changes us 70% and then gives us friends to work on the other 30% Maybe a good idea is to surround ourselves with with Godly friends so we get Godly friendly rebukes…    Power Vs Force by David R. Hawkins, MD., Ph.D.  There was one other phenomenon that Diamond noted to its extraordinary implications. Subjects listening to tapes of ( known deceits—even though the speakers seemed to be telling the truth and sounded convincing-tested weak physically.  AND THE OPPOSITE WAS ALSO TRUE: Subjects listening to truths though the speakers told these things in aggressive and hurtful ways, the listeners tested strong.  WHERE AM I GOING WITH THIS… The rest of the verse says kisses from an enemy do you no good. Regardless of what they say and how good it feels… they are lies.  **So kisses may feel good, but if they are lies you don't change and even become weaker physically!     Kisses prove nothing.  Kisses mean nothing to a person… they only make you feel good.   Beware of these three kisses  - the kiss of flattery. Just what it is… flattery. It simply makes you feel good, but adds nothing to your character.   - the kiss of comparison. I think you are so much better, smarter, stronger, younger, etc… than the other person.   - The kiss of bitterness dripping in guile They disapprove of someone and let you know that you are so much better.    Wounds from a friend Don. Catch the 54 inch Muskie Pulling up to brag to my other friends… Hooze quietly mutters “Hex, be humble, remember who caught that fish”

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  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Quick intro… before I head a different direction… don't let the new incoming president cause you to believe that life will be better… it will only be better when we have a revival in our country and world. Keep pushing, praying and sharing Christ with those you come in contact with.    The largest game of Simon Says involved 12,215 participants at the Utah Summer Games Opening Ceremony in Cedar City, Utah, on June 14, 2007. To play simon says you have to follow simon and you have to know your body parts.  Same with God and his body.  Or your out! But think about when your growing up and your siblings play copy cat and it drives you nuts. We can do that in the body of christ and it's frustrating for both people!  "Theres something different about you.."  That used to be a sly way cutting someone down but really in gods eyes that's a compliment.    Romans 12:4,5 Each one is a part of that body, and each part belongs to all the other parts. We all have different gifts, each of which came because of the grace God gave us.    Look we all have arms… but that doesn't mean we all have big biceps, we don't all have the same flexibility, we don't all have the same skin color, we don't all have the same skill set with our arms… I can't juggle, but I can throw a knife… Point is - quit trying to be someone else. Find out who your are supposed to be in Christ and be that.  You might have the gift of wisdom, but it might be best used with teenagers… you humor, your insight, your ability to connect etc… might rub adults the wrong way, but may be exactly what teens relate to.  My thought specifically on this is that the worst thing about social media is that it tells us who we should be, how we should act, what we should believe, what our strengths should be, what are gifts should be…  When was the last time you followed an influencer that was huge who's gifting was the Mercy or compassion or hospitality…    What if God was Simon… would he tell all of us to be the same and do the same? That would be a pretty boring noncreative God. But thats not him, he is the original originator of the pure creative… he creates stuff out of NOTHING… NOTHING. He can use your gifts to do the unbelievable.  Give him some space to be God and to show him who you ought to be

Dr. Ray Self conducts an interview with Dr. Sandrew Wright about sanctified dysfunction, which we often justify in the name of ministry. Many Christians sacrifice their lives, relationships, and mental health on the altar of their ministry. This informative show can help you break this destructive habit and learn to rest in God. God has called us to do our part and only to carry His burden, which is not heavy. That means it is time for many of us to rest.  Mat 11:28 - 29 "Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS.”   Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at www.icmcollege.org/enroll Receive an autographed copy of Dr. Ray Self's new book "The Call" for a minimum donation of $15 to Cash App $drrayself or www.icmcollege.org/donate Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.   Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. Check out our new store at – www.icmcollege.org/merch  Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804   Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at www.icmcollege.org/donate  For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses Show host bio - Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Todays podcast isn't for everybody… look there are lots of people out there who just refuse to think for themselves… they want to be told what to do, what to think, who to believe, what is right what is wrong and simply just want life made simple… this is not for you. This is for the person who refused to just swallow whatever anyone shoves at them. You like to challenge people, you like to challenge the current thought trend and the current media bias and belief. You don't care what people think… Then you are listening to the right podcast.  So you may think this is you… but honestly its probably just for a few people today… maybe only 5 out of the thousands who listen to it. Because many of us think we like to think for ourselves and many of us think we don't mind getting picked on for pushing back on the trend of thought… but very very very few actually thrive on it.    The proof is in the pudding.  Professors - teaching in areas they have never succeeded in.  People who work for your local state or government telling you how to run your business and they have never started anything in their life.  Whiners  telling you how unfair a particular are of life is but have never sacrificed, worked 80 hours a week or even went all in on a goal. Politicians - who are lifers who have never had a real job.  The rich… from inheritance Even the proven… on luck   I was in a store years ago and someone ended up talking to a kid who worked there who was into guitar… we were talking about guitarists we love - I mention one and he gives me a word for word description of why this guy sucked and he actually quoted word for word out of guitar one magazine… I was like DUDE, do you have an original thought?    In Mark chapter 11 the pharisees question where He gets his authority to do these things… they want to know how come you think your special… we are the special ones. So Jesus says “riddle me this batman”… ok not really, but he says tell me was Johns authority from man or God…. Well well well… one of the few times the religious leaders were speechless… they said we don't know. Right! So I will not answer you nor listen to you.  Jesus is saying why should I listen to you… you only have a portion, you have not proven yourself nor do you have any real power.  I will listen to those who are proven in multiple areas of their life before I give them the honor of my time, money, or even mind space. You do the same… but again I am probably only speaking to about 5 of you.

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   John 7:12 And there was much murmuring among the people concerning him: for some said, He is a good man: others said, Nay; but he deceiveth the people. 13Yet no one would speak publicly about Him for fear of the Jews     NAY Sayer here is a quote from Daniel Gilbert from his book Stumbling on Happiness.  Even Wilbur Wright, who proved Kelvin and Newcomb wrong, admitted that in 1901 he had said to his brother that “man would not fly for fifty years.” He was off by forty-eight. The number of respected scientists and accomplished inventors who declared the airplane an impossibility is exceeded only by the number who said the same thing about space travel, television sets, microwave ovens, nuclear power, heart transplants, and female senators.   Stumbling on Happiness, Daniel Gilbert, pg. 124   There is always a nay sayer in the crowd. I once heard a joke that said if you are ever lost, pull out a deck of cards and play solitaire - because it wont take long before you will put a card down and someone will lean over your shoulder and say “I wouldn't have used that card there”.    Three reasons you need Nay Sayers in your life.  - They will help you clarify and intensify your reasons and choices.    They really do you a favor by causing you to dig into your beliefs and do a gut check. Many times give you an advantage to look over your motives and goals and gain even more invaluable insight. You become even more skilled at what you are attempting to do.   J.K. Rowling: Before becoming a global phenomenon, Rowling's manuscript for "Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone" was rejected by twelve publishers. The rejections fueled her determination and forced her to refine her writing, ultimately leading to the creation of one of the most successful book series of all time… that small little series called Harry Potter, sold over 600 million copies… not to mention the royalties on movies, cartoons, toys and products like cereal and clothing…           - They will help you build a thick skin. One of the biggest problems in todays world is the noise… the noise of the crowd. You can't escape it… but given enough time and enough resolve you learn to become deaf to it. You not only just disregard it, but you become deaf to it. I have many times had my wife, friends even antagonists ask me “doesn't it bother you what they are saying”?  I honestly can look at them and say… I didn't notice it. The deafness and silence it creates actually becomes the fuel to your motivation and to your drive…. Because you can't hear them anymore you gain greater focus.   Maybe you have heard of the term flow? Its when seemingly the world stops, time stands still and you hear nothing… athletes speak of this all the time. Its a beautiful skill gained by learning how to block out the noise of the Nay Sayers.       - They prove you are moving forward and not backward.  If you want to know if you are moving in the right direction, check the crowd. Typically if more people think your goals are ludicrous you are on your way… if most people agree with your goals they are probably to easy, to unfaltering… they won't change you, they are not worth your time and effort. Look there will always be some people who like what you are trying to do, the majority will be silent for many reasons, but the loudest voices will be the Nay Sayers… thats a good sign… keep pushing on.     - Here is a bonus thought. The best way to hone your instincts and your judgement and critical eye is constantly having people call you out….  REMEMBER  Haters produce creators. 

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”     Sin's definition is missing the mark… But it means we are shooting at something. All of us, we are at least trying to make a point out of our life…  But if we miss… well…   Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Usage: The verb "hustereó" primarily conveys the idea of lacking or being deficient in something. It can refer to material needs, such as lacking food or resources, as well as spiritual or moral deficiencies. The term is often used in the New Testament to describe situations where individuals or groups fall short of God's standards or expectations. Cultural and Historical Background: In the Greco-Roman world, the concept of lacking or falling short was not only a material concern but also a moral and philosophical one. The idea of deficiency was often linked to the pursuit of virtue and the ideal of self-sufficiency. In the Jewish context, lacking could also imply a failure to meet the covenantal obligations or to live up to the righteousness required by the Law. But the question today is… what are you shooting for? What have you been shooting for and when you do hit the target - do you get what you thought you would get out of it?    And if not… why not shoot for what God has for you… He will help you hit the target every time.    Crazy story in Mark 10 and I think we might miss the underlying theme… 17 As Jesus started on his way, a man ran up to him and fell on his knees before him. “Good teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” 18 “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. 19 You know the commandments: ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, you shall not defraud, honor your father and mother.'[d]” 20 “Teacher,” he declared, “all these I have kept since I was a boy.” 21 Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” 22 At this the man's face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth. 23 Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!”   The man had all the things he had aimed for. He hit the mark on obeying the commands… Jesus didn't argue that point with him. He hit all the targets with money, popularity, prestige… he had it all. On the outside this guy was killing it… but he trusted his accomplishments, his toys, his resources more than he was willing to trust God. 

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University.Do you ever wonder why it is difficult to feel the fruit of the spirit? Many people struggle with these because they haven't tackled wounds in their stories. Without certain skills, the fruit of the spirit may feel out of reach. Today, Laura will unpack the last four fruits of the spirit and talk about why you may struggle. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode.

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Its true that communication is the key to any important relationship… when I used AI it said this…   Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship, fostering understanding, trust, and intimacy. Here are the top five reasons why communication is so important: Builds Trust: Open and honest communication creates a safe space where both partners can share their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or criticism. This vulnerability strengthens the bond of trust between them. Resolves Conflicts: Effective communication allows couples to address disagreements and conflicts calmly and respectfully. By actively listening and expressing their needs, they can find solutions that work for both parties, preventing resentment and maintaining harmony. Deepens Intimacy: Sharing personal experiences, dreams, and fears creates a deeper emotional connection between partners. This vulnerability and understanding foster a sense of intimacy that goes beyond physical attraction. Strengthens the Bond: Consistent and meaningful communication strengthens the emotional bond between partners. It allows them to celebrate shared experiences, support each other through challenges, and grow together as individuals and as a couple. Avoids Misunderstandings: Clear and open communication minimizes the risk of misunderstandings, which can lead to hurt feelings, arguments, and even breakups. By expressing themselves clearly and actively listening to their partner, couples can avoid unnecessary conflicts and maintain a healthy relationship.     Of course it has to go both ways…  So we must also understand it is most important in our relationship with God. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAGiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Parenting in the presence evil Join us for a 3 week series on the perils of parenting in the new realm. The enemy is out to destroy your kids, your family and your future. What does Gods word say about victory in the middle of viciousness. How do you train your kids for battle in todays Spiritual War. The questions may be different, but the answer is always found in Gods word.  NOV> 3rd     Here is a word for you and I . GOD awards us with attacks . Just like JOB. He told me to quit being concerned about being attacked (your demon in the first service for example). I'm building your faith and responsibility (my response to HIS ability). Garths thought on this: is the man who invested the talents got even more and we know that when you invest talents, there's risk this hard work, but it's a test.   Thick skin people get things done.    Paul said In Galatians 1:10 For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.   Prov. 29:25 The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe.   Jer. 17:5 Thus says the Lord: “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord.   Matthew 10:32-33 So everyone who acknowledges me before men, I also will acknowledge before my Father who is in heaven, but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven.   Paul himself told stories of being whipped, stoned, beaten with rods, shipwrecked, robbed and numerous times. In fact in Galatians 6:17 He said I wear the scars of standing for Christ.    Just recently on social media I have been called a cult pastor of a gun church, I have been called someone who thinks they are chosen by God to speak for him… I kind of am… and so are you, I have been called a hypocrite a pedophile, a sicko,  In person I have been told to be quiet, to get out of my face, I have been told of F off…  I don't find delight in it, I actually pray for the people because I truly want them to know Jesus.    Here are five ways to cultivate grit: Embrace Challenges: Seek out situations that push you outside of your comfort zone. Challenges help build resilience and determination. Cultivate a Growth Mindset: Believe that your abilities can be developed through hard work and dedication. This mindset fuels perseverance. Set Meaningful Goals: Having clear objectives gives you direction and motivation to overcome obstacles. Practice Deliberate Practice: Focus on specific areas for improvement and engage in consistent, focused practice. Learn from Failure: View setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning. Analyze what went wrong and adjust your approach. Not that these are not good, and they apply to many things… however the best way to become thick skinned and take on a greater influence as a follower of Christ is simply - serve him publicly, speak of him publicly, be his example publicly, You will get thick skinned pretty fast when you pray for people in public, share Christ with people in your neighborhood  or work place. You gotta step out to step up and you will step on a lot of rough patches… but it is worth it.  All five of these are all wrapped up in being a follower of Christ Daily. 

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Parenting in the presence evil Join us for a 3 week series on the perils of parenting in the new realm. The enemy is out to destroy your kids, your family and your future. What does Gods word say about victory in the middle of viciousness. How do you train your kids for battle in todays Spiritual War. The questions may be different, but the answer is always found in Gods word.  NOV> 3rd     reality tv - when leave it to beaver was on, lots of kids grew up thinking that was reality. we all know now that it's not. but what we see today on tv is no more real as leave it to beaver was back then.     Reality tv - ha is there anything more NOT reality than reality TV? It is the same with social media, its not reality, even the stuff I post isn't true reality in the form of you knowing everything about me. I was really under attack yesterday… but I don't post that stuff on Social media. I spent most of the day in my underwear… aren't we glad I don't post that on social media… but what is reality?    REALITY  A woman was showing a friend her new baby  The friend said ”she's beautiful “ the mother exclaimed  “this is nothing you should see her picture”.       The Bible has many things to say about reality, including: God is the basis for reality The Bible says that God created the heavens and earth, and that everything visible and invisible was created by God…. God sees beyond what people want you to see or what they think God sees. God's Word is the foundation of reality The Bible says that God cannot lie, and that reality would change to comply with God's Word if He did. If God can only tell the truth than he is definitely the one you want to understand reality through correct? Humans can choose to align with God's Word - you can choose reality. The Bible says that humans can choose to live in accordance with God's Word, or they can choose death…. Think of it, if you choose to believe what is not real - whether its a social media post, a political leader or a rock star, superstar athlete or movie star… you are choosing what is not real… you get to choose. Accepting Gods reality opens us to hope The Bible says that accepting God's reality opens us up to hope because it invites God into our reality.  The wise person looks ahead and faces reality The Bible says that the wise person looks ahead and faces reality, while the fool tries to fool himself and won't face facts.  The Holy Spirit helps us discern truth The Bible says that the Holy Spirit helps us discern truth from lies, authenticity from deception, and holiness from hypocrisy. I was sitting in the house of an amazing guitar player in an award winning secular band, he had it all, the GF who was smoking hot, the great career, a killer guitar player and money to boot. I asked him as we sat alone and were jamming together what else he needed in order to be happy… he stopped and with a solemn look said “I was just asking myself that today”… Im not sure. NOW HERE IS A GUY WHO THOUGHT THE WORLDS REALITY WOULD BRING FULFILLMENT… it hadn't. The worlds reality over promises and under delivers… seek Gods reality. 

Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     Website: www.aegisdefensesolutions.com Insta:   For anyone in IL. Luke is a linseed professional counselor who specializes with kids, teens, and families in Christian Counseling. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety, mood challenges, ADHD, and other mental health concerns, reach out to Luke   https://www.whitestoneresources.com/counselors-list/lmerrill   My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Text me 30 second interviews of you asking people “whats it take to be a man”   Parenting in the presence evil Join us for a 3 week series on the perils of parenting in the new realm. The enemy is out to destroy your kids, your family and your future. What does Gods word say about victory in the middle of viciousness. How do you train your kids for battle in todays Spiritual War. The questions may be different, but the answer is always found in Gods word.  NOV> 3rd   VOTE VOTE VOTE VOTE… Pray for Trump Pray for Kamala… but vote.  Garth who are you voting for??? I am voting for the person who has the most biblical policies and that would be Donald Trump. My take - but either way vote.    What an amazing book - the book of Acts. It is called the book of acts because it lists the lives and the acts of the Holy Spirit. And it is still for us today… the power of the Holy Spirit still heals, delivers, prophecies, still gives words on knowledge…. But what we might miss is all the times the Apostle Paul wants to travel to certain places and the Holy Spirit keeps him from going. He goes to other cities and leaves when they are not open to his message and even says your blood is on your own hands. And yet when God says stay and take your shots - he does. But what you might miss is a story in Chapter 18:9 During the night, the Lord told Paul in a vision: “Don't be afraid. Continue talking to people and don't be quiet. 10 I am with you, and no one will hurt you because many of my people are in this city.” 11 Paul stayed there for a year and a half, teaching God's word to the people. Paul Is Brought Before Gallio 12 When Gallio was the governor of the country of Southern Greece, some people came together against Paul and took him to the court. 13 They said, “This man is teaching people to worship God in a way that is against our law.” 14 Paul was about to say something, but Gallio spoke, saying, “I would listen to you if you were complaining about a crime or some wrong. 15 But the things you are saying are only questions about words and names—arguments about your own law. So you must solve this problem yourselves. I don't want to be a judge of these things.” 16 And Gallio made them leave the court. 17 Then they all grabbed Sosthenes, the leader of the synagogue, and beat him there before the court. But this did not bother Gallio. Sometimes you gotta leave Sometimes you gotta stay and take your punches Sometimes God says I got your back Sometimes God not only has your back but will beat the back of your oppressors and attackers.   Bottom line, speak up for Jesus and don't worry about how it all works out. 

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