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Send a text Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textChelsey shares the story of her Papa—the man who became her grandfather when she was five years old and who faithfully modeled the love, truth, and steadiness of God for decades.After his recent passing, Chelsey reflects on the powerful celebration of his life and the legacy he leaves behind: a life marked by faithfulness to the Lord, a family shaped by the gospel, and a testimony that continues even after death.His funeral was not just a memorial—it was a proclamation of the gospel, a reminder that a life lived for Christ echoes far beyond our years.But this moment also surfaced something deeper. In the quiet spaces of grief, Chelsey confronted a lie the enemy had whispered for years: the feeling of being an outsider who doesn't quite belong.Through a meaningful conversation with her grandmother after the funeral, God gently ministered to Chelsey's heart and reminded her of the truth—she has always belonged, and the love and faith of her Papa helped shape the woman she is today.In this episode Chelsey shares:• The legacy of a life faithfully devoted to God • Why Christian funerals are powerful opportunities to proclaim the gospel • The bittersweet reality of grieving with the hope of heaven • How the enemy uses subtle lies about belonging and identity • The healing moment that reminded her of God's steadfast loveThis episode is a reminder that a life lived for Christ never ends quietly—it continues through testimony, through family, and through the gospel that transforms generations. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textWhat does it really mean when the Bible calls wives the “weaker vessel”?For many women, that phrase has been misunderstood, misused, or rejected altogether. But in this episode, Chelsey reframes the biblical meaning in a way that restores the beauty and dignity of God's design.Being the “weaker vessel” is not about inferiority—it's about value.Like fine china, something delicate is not treated carelessly. It is handled with intention, protected, honored, and cherished. In the same way, God designed women with unique strengths, sensitivities, and capacities that bring life, beauty, and depth into marriage and the home.In this episode Chelsey unpacks:• What the Bible actually means by “the weaker vessel” (1 Peter 3:7) • Why men and women were created with distinct roles in marriage • How culture has distorted God's design for masculinity and femininity • Why being cherished, protected, and honored is part of God's intention for wives • How understanding your role as a wife strengthens—not weakens—your marriageThis conversation is a powerful reminder that God's design for men and women in marriage is not about hierarchy or competition—it's about complementary strength, honor, and unity as one flesh.When husbands and wives embrace their God-given roles, marriage begins to flourish the way it was always meant to. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textWhere did High Level Wife come from?In this deeply personal episode, Chelsey shares the full story behind how the High Level Wife community was born—from a marriage retreat with High Level Husband founder Tommy McAllister to a moment in the back of a taxi where God used Scripture in Haggai to radically redirect her path.What began as a simple message asking Chelsey to create a program for wives quickly became something much deeper: a season of breaking, surrender, and preparation as God reshaped her calling.Chelsey shares the behind-the-scenes journey of:• How she and her husband first discovered High Level Husband • The moment Tommy McAllister prophetically saw a future partnership • Why God had to break down her own ambitions before building High Level Wife • The powerful confirmation God gave through the book of Haggai • How the Holy Spirit is transforming marriages inside the HLW community today • Why High Level Wife is not about one person—but about the body of Christ working togetherThis episode is a powerful reminder that God often prepares us in seasons of breaking before releasing the calling He has planned.Because when we stop building our own houses and start building His… He multiplies the work in ways we could never orchestrate ourselves. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textIn this raw and personal episode, Chelsey pauses the current podcast mini-series to share a behind-the-scenes look at a powerful shift happening in her own home—and the conviction the Holy Spirit brought that exposed something deeper.For years Chelsey taught biblical submission while unknowingly walking in a subtle spirit of rebellion rooted in control. It wasn't loud or obvious. It looked like leadership, conviction, and even spiritual passion.But underneath it was something damaging to her husband's faith and leadership.In this honest conversation, Chelsey shares the moment the Holy Spirit revealed how control, manipulation, and pressure can quietly replace true surrender—and how releasing that control created space for her husband to step into leadership in powerful new ways.You'll hear:• How a wife can teach submission while still resisting it in her heart • Why control is the root of rebellion and even mirrors the spirit behind witchcraft • The moment Chelsey realized she was unintentionally damaging her husband's spiritual growth • How stepping out of the Holy Spirit's way allows God to work in your husband • What happens when a husband begins leading his family spirituallyThis episode is a call to radical humility, honest self-examination, and trust in God's design for marriage.Because sometimes the breakthrough your marriage needs begins when you stop trying to control the outcome and finally create space for God to move. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHeart Posture Mini Series, Ep 5Why does surrender to God feel difficult for so many women?Often, the issue isn't behavior—it's order.In the final episode of The Heart Posture Series, Chelsey explains how right order in your life naturally creates the right heart posture toward God, your husband, and your responsibilities.When God is not truly first, pressure, control, resentment, and frustration begin to take root. But when God is restored to His rightful place, humility, peace, and surrender begin to flow naturally.Through Scripture and practical examples, this episode reveals why many wives struggle with surrender—and how realigning your life around God changes everything.In this episode you'll learn:Why surrender feels difficult when life is out of orderThe biblical order God designed for life and marriageHow a right view of God produces humility and trustWhy wives often carry burdens that were never theirs to carryHow restoring God to first place transforms your heart posture and your marriage Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHeart Posture Mini Series, Ep 4You can be doing all the “right things” in your marriage… and still have the wrong heart posture.In Episode 4 of The Heart Posture Series, Chelsey shares a personal story about a season in her marriage when her behavior looked obedient on the outside—but internally her heart was still trying to control the outcome.Through this honest reflection, you'll see how subtle pride, frustration, and control can hide behind spiritual language and “good behavior.”Real transformation didn't begin when the behavior changed.It began when the heart posture shifted.In this episode you'll learn:How behavior can appear righteous while the heart remains misalignedWhy trying to fix your husband creates deeper tension in marriageThe difference between surrendering to God and trying to manage the outcomeHow God uses marriage to refine and humble our heartsWhy true peace begins when you release control and trust God with the process Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHeart Posture Mini Series, Ep 3Why do two people experience the same situation but respond completely differently?In Episode 3 of The Heart Posture Series, Chelsey walks through powerful biblical examples showing how God consistently responds to the posture of the heart rather than circumstances or outward behavior.From Judas and Peter, to the two criminals on the cross, to King Saul and King David, Scripture reveals a consistent truth: the difference between destruction and restoration often comes down to heart posture.This episode will challenge you to examine how your heart responds when life, marriage, and conflict press in.Because the situation you face isn't what determines your direction.Your heart posture does.In this episode you'll learn:Why God responds differently to people in the same situationThe difference between shame and repentanceHow pride and humility shape outcomes in ScriptureWhy pressure reveals your heart postureHow this principle directly affects your marriage and spiritual growth Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHeart Posture Mini Series, Ep 2You can do all the right things… and still have a heart that is far from God.In Episode 2 of The Heart Posture Series, Chelsey walks through powerful biblical examples that reveal why behavior alone doesn't impress God—and why heart posture matters far more than outward actions.From the poor widow's offering to the rich young ruler, Ananias and Sapphira, and Jesus' warnings to the Pharisees, this episode exposes the difference between religious performance and true surrender.If you've ever wondered why doing “all the right things” still isn't producing peace or transformation in your marriage, this conversation will challenge you to look deeper.God is not looking for perfect behavior.He is looking for a surrendered heart.In this episode you'll learn:Why God rejects outward obedience when the heart is wrongThe difference between sacrifice and surrenderHow religious performance sneaks into marriageWhy behavior modification cannot produce true transformationThe heart posture that invites God to work in your life and marriage Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHeart Posture Mini Series, Ep. 1You can do all the right things… and still have the wrong heart posture.In this first episode of The Heart Posture Series, Chelsey breaks down what heart posture actually means, why God cares about it so deeply, and how it affects everything from your obedience to your marriage.Through powerful biblical examples—including the Pharisee and the tax collector, King Saul's disobedience, and God's warning that He looks at the heart—you'll discover why behavior alone isn't enough.God is not impressed by outward performance.He is looking for a heart fully surrendered to Him.In this episode you'll learn:What “heart posture” actually meansWhy behavior without the right heart posture still leads to tensionHow pride, fear, and resentment quietly shape your obedienceThe difference between compliance and surrenderWhy heart posture is the starting point for transformation in marriageIf you want to experience real change in your marriage and your walk with God, it starts here. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textWhat if marriage wasn't just about companionship OR happiness… but about multiplication?In this powerful vision-setting episode, Chelsey paints a bigger picture of what marriage looks like when it's done God's way — not centered on happiness, but holiness. Not self-focused, but Spirit-led.Every believer has been given a spiritual gift. Every believer has talents. And every believer has weaknesses. But when two people come together in covenant — fully surrendered to the Holy Spirit — those gifts don't just coexist… they complement, strengthen, and multiply kingdom impact.In this episode, you'll hear:How spiritual gifts function inside marriageWhy your weakness becomes your superpower in the SpiritThe connection between prophecy and wisdom in covenantWhy marriage exposes your rough edges (on purpose)What it means to “get out of God's way” as a wifeWhy marriage is about holiness, not happinessHow unity multiplies your kingdom impactMarriage God's way isn't survival. It's sanctification. It's spiritual multiplication.When both husband and wife walk in surrender, their gifts begin to operate like a well-oiled machine — powerful, aligned, and deeply effective for the Kingdom.Blessings upon blessings isn't hype.It's the overflow of obedience. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textIn Exodus, God gives intricate instructions for the Ark of the Covenant — precise measurements, detailed materials, sacred garments, holy order.Why?Because our God is a God of order. A God of detail. A God of holiness.But tucked inside those instructions is something powerful:“I will put My testimony in it.”In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the revelation that you are now that dwelling place. You are the temple of the Holy Spirit. And God has placed a testimony inside you — not by accident, not randomly, but intentionally and strategically for His purposes.You'll hear:Why your struggles were never wastedHow Joseph's story reveals the purpose of painThe connection between your spiritual gifts and your weaknessesWhy God designs your personality to depend on HimHow your testimony aligns with works He predestined for youWhat it means to steward your calling instead of hiding from itWhat the enemy meant for evil, God is refining into testimony.You are not wandering without purpose.There is an anointing on your life. There is a testimony inside you. And there are good works prepared for you to walk in.The question is: will you get out of your own way and let Him use it? Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textBefore you start mothering your husband, your nervous system gives you physical indicators of a deeper underlying need for self-protection. In this episode Chelsey teaches you how to move from stress-fueled reaction to Spirit- led response that honors your husband, expresses yourself, and creates space for vulnerability and deeper connection than you've ever experienced yet. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHow often do you say, “I'm trying…” — and then follow it with something you've been stuck in for months… maybe years?In this fiery and convicting episode, Chelsey exposes the subtle lie behind “I'm trying” language and why it may actually be keeping you stuck in weakness instead of walking in the power of the Holy Spirit.You'll hear:Why “I'm trying” is flesh language, not faith languageHow this phrase quietly partners with passivity and excusesThe difference between walking for victory and walking from victoryWhy discipline is not punishment — it's a giftHow spiritual and physical discipline create space for the Spirit to moveWhat it means to shift from “I'm trying” to “I AM” in ChristGod never says, “I'm trying.” He says, “I AM.”If you're ready to stop squandering grace and start walking in authority, obedience, and Spirit-led discipline — this episode will wake you up in the best way. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Are you healing… or just consuming? In the final episode of this series, Chelsey exposes one of the most dangerous traps Christian wives fall into: collecting “breakthrough moments” without stepping into obedience. You'll learn why hearing truth without doing it is spiritual deception, how self-help can become counterfeit transformation, and the difference between emotional “healing highs” and real fruit. This is your commissioning episode: stop screenshotting your healing — God is inviting you to obey. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textThis episode is a gut punch — in the best way. Chelsey exposes one of the hardest truths for wives to face: your marriage isn't the main problem… your heart posture is. In this episode, you'll learn how pride, offense, fear, and self-protection block God's work in both you and your husband — and how surrender is the key that unlocks restoration, peace, and God's bigger mission for your marriage. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Your words are not neutral. They are either partnering with Heaven… or partnering with hell. In this episode, Chelsey teaches how wives unknowingly speak death over their husband, their kids, their marriage, and themselves — through sarcasm, complaining, fear-based language, and unbelief. You'll learn how Scripture describes the power of the tongue, and how to start speaking life from a renewed heart posture. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Most marriage problems aren't “new.” They're patterns. Cycles. Scripts. And if you don't disrupt them intentionally, you will repeat them — and eventually pass them down. In this episode, Chelsey exposes why wives stay stuck in destructive cycles, how generational patterns show up in conflict, and what it takes to stop reacting and start walking in Spirit-led self-control. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text If you feel like it's all on you — fixing your husband, fixing your marriage, fixing yourself, fixing everything — you're not walking in faith. You're walking in control. In this episode, Chelsey teaches why “fixing” is a counterfeit form of responsibility, how it blocks God from moving, and what it looks like to surrender the burden without becoming passive. This is a freedom episode. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Offense feels justified. It feels protective. It feels like wisdom. But it's actually spiritual poison. In this episode, Chelsey exposes how wives unknowingly nurture bitterness, rehearse wrongs, and hold onto hurt like a pet — feeding the very thing destroying their marriage. You'll learn what Scripture says about offense, how bitterness blocks intimacy, and how to finally release what's been keeping you stuck. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Many Christian wives say “God is first”… but their daily life reveals a different order: kids first, work first, emotions first, control first. In this episode, Chelsey calls out the hidden idols that quietly take God's place — and how wrong order produces exhaustion, resentment, and disconnection in marriage. If you want peace, intimacy, and true alignment, it starts here. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Knowing Scripture does not equal spiritual maturity. In this episode, Chelsey breaks down one of the biggest reasons wives stay stuck: they're hearing truth but not obeying it. You'll learn why information without obedience creates self-deception, how love is the true marker of discipleship, and what it looks like to stop consuming truth and start living it — especially inside your marriage. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text You can quote submission, attend church, and love Jesus… and still be walking in a spirit of rebellion inside your marriage. In this episode, Chelsey teaches the difference between biblical strength and counterfeit control, and how rebellion disguises itself as independence, “discernment,” or spiritual superiority. This episode will convict, clarify, and call you into the freedom of true surrender. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a text Most wives don't realize they're doing it… but the way you speak to your husband may be slowly killing trust, intimacy, and connection. In this episode, Chelsey exposes how disrespect often hides behind “being honest,” “being the responsible one,” or “just telling the truth.” You'll learn what Scripture says about the power of your words, why honor is not optional, and how to shift your tone without shrinking your voice. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textThis one is fire—literally and spiritually. If your marriage feels like it's on its last leg, this episode is your wake-up call. I'm talking to the wife in crisis. The one holding on by a thread. The one feeling like she can't do this anymore. What if the fire isn't just here to destroy... but to refine?In this raw and Spirit-filled episode, I walk you through:What to do when everything feels like it's falling apartWhy the fire might be a holy oneHow surrender is the beginning of transformationThe hard truth about what won't save your marriageAnd the only way to walk out of the ashes with authority, wholeness, and spiritual armor as ONE FLESH.This is for the wife who's ready to fight… God's way. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textThis is the final episode of the 18-day Valentine's series—and the moment of decision.If this series stirred something in you, challenged old patterns, or awakened a hunger for deeper intimacy and alignment, this episode invites you to respond—not with effort, but with surrender.Chelsey commissions wives to move from awareness into obedience, and shares why transformation requires more than insight—it requires Spirit-led structure, right order, and community.In this episode, you'll hear:Why revelation always comes with an invitationThe danger of awareness without actionWhy self-help cannot produce holinessHow God uses order and discipleship to bring transformationWhat High Level Wife actually is—and who it's forThis episode is not about doing more. It's about saying yes. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textMany wives built emotional walls for good reasons—hurt, betrayal, disappointment, or exhaustion. But what once felt protective can quietly block intimacy, desire, and connection.In this episode, Chelsey gently exposes the difference between biblical guarding and hardened walls, and why God never intended protection to cost you tenderness.This episode will help you understand:How guarding turns into emotional walls over timeWhy walls block intimacy even when intentions are goodThe difference between wisdom and hardeningHow God softens the heart without removing discernmentWhy intimacy requires openness—not self-protectionIf your heart feels closed, distant, or numb—even while “doing everything right”—this episode will help you return to softness without fear. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textHow do you guard your heart without turning intimacy into something tense, controlled, or exhausting?In this episode, Chelsey clarifies a critical distinction many Christian wives miss: biblical guarding is not the same as control. While Scripture calls us to guard against the flesh, the world, and the enemy, guarding was never meant to replace trust in God—or become a form of fear-based management.This episode teaches how to protect intimacy from a place of authority, peace, and right order—without hyper-vigilance, micromanaging, or emotional exhaustion.Inside this episode:The difference between guarding and controllingWhy fear-based vigilance damages intimacyHow heart posture determines whether guarding brings peace or pressureWhat biblical stewardship actually looks like in marriageHow to protect intimacy without becoming the Holy SpiritIf guarding your heart has started to feel heavy, anxious, or exhausting—this episode will reset your framework and restore peace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textWhat if marriage and intimacy were never meant to feel fragile?In this episode, Chelsey unpacks a powerful biblical distinction most Christian wives have never been taught: God did not originally tell man and woman to guard the garden—He told them to rule it.You'll learn why dominion came before defense, how guarding became necessary only after the fall, and why starting from fear instead of authority quietly suffocates intimacy.This episode reframes marriage through Eden's original design and shows how Christ restores us to rule under God's order—without anxiety, control, or performance.Inside this episode:Why dominion came before guarding in God's designHow fear-based vigilance damages intimacyThe difference between authority and control in marriageWhy guarding is necessary now—but not foundationalHow restored order brings peace, softness, and fruitfulness back to intimacyIf intimacy feels tense, fragile, or over-managed—this episode will shift your framework and restore peace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textValentine's Day Isn't About Romance — It's About InvitationIn this special Valentine's Day episode of the High Level Wife Podcast, Chelsey reframes intimacy through a covenant lens — revealing why connection thrives when a woman releases pressure and becomes invitation.This episode is for wives who want deeper intimacy without striving, forcing, or proving — and who desire to experience connection God's way.Inside this episode:Why intimacy responds to safety, not demandHow invitation creates connectionThe difference between testing love and trusting covenantWhat Valentine's Day reveals about heart postureHow to stay open even when expectations fall away Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textFrom Inner Work to Shared ExperienceThis is the hinge episode.In Day 13 of the Valentine's Drop, Chelsey bridges the gap between internal heart work and shared intimacy — revealing why connection grows when a woman shifts from striving to hosting.This episode prepares wives for Valentine's Day by focusing on atmosphere, alignment, and invitation — not pressure or performance.Inside this episode:Why inner work must come before shared experienceHow heart posture shapes intimacyThe difference between control and invitationWhy men respond to space, not pressureHow to prepare for connection without forcing outcomes Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textDelight Is Covenant Fruit, Not PerformanceWhat if delight wasn't something you had to create — but something God designed to grow?In Day 12 of the Valentine's Drop, Chelsey reframes intimacy through a biblical lens, revealing why delight cannot be forced and why many wives feel exhausted instead of fulfilled.This episode explores how delight flows naturally from safety, surrender, and right order — not effort or obligation.Inside this episode:Why delight disappears under pressureHow covenant safety restores intimacyThe difference between performance and fruitWhat Scripture teaches about desire and delightWhy rest — not striving — awakens connection Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textThere is a flood of Christian-sounding advice about marriage circulating online right now—but not all of it is rooted in truth. In this bold episode, Chelsey issues a strong warning against false teachers who are twisting Scripture to make sin seem acceptable, especially in marriage.She shares a disturbing example of a “Christian coach” encouraging wives to support their husbands in porn addiction… and why that advice is not just misleading—it's demonic.You'll hear:Why discernment is critical in this age of coaching and “Christian counseling”What Scripture actually says about sin, repentance, and spiritual leadershipThe difference between grace and tolerance—and why compassion doesn't mean enablingHow to test every teaching (yes, even this one) against the Word and by the SpiritWhat holy, Spirit-led marriage looks like in contrast to cultural compromiseThis is your call to wake up, cut off what leads to sin, and rebuild your marriage God's way—grounded in the Word, not the world. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textDesire Is a Response, Not a RequirementIf desire feels complicated, inconsistent, or absent — this episode is for you.In Day 11 of the Valentine's Drop, Chelsey reframes one of the most misunderstood parts of intimacy: desire. Not as a duty to fulfill, but as fruit that grows in safety.You'll learn why pressure kills intimacy, how a woman's body responds to trust, and why God's design for desire is responsive — not performative.Inside this episode:Why desire disappears under obligationHow safety, not effort, restores intimacyThe difference between duty and delightWhat Scripture reveals about desireHow to begin repainting intimacy without shame Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send a textSubmission has been misunderstood, misused, and misapplied in Christian marriage for far too long.In this episode, Chelsey dismantles the lie that submission equals obligation and exposes why forced obedience leads to resentment, shutdown, and inner resistance.You'll learn the biblical difference between obligation and surrender, why true submission cannot exist without trust, and how heart posture—not behavior—determines whether submission feels heavy or freeing.Inside this episode:Why obligation is rooted in fear, not faithThe biblical foundation of true submissionHow right order restores peace in marriageWhy submission must flow from trust, not pressureHow to identify when your heart posture hasn't shifted yetIf submission has ever felt confusing, burdensome, or unsafe—this episode will bring clarity and freedom. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textPressure is quietly killing intimacy in more marriages than we realize.In this episode, Chelsey exposes how pressure — even pressure rooted in good intentions — suffocates desire, disconnects wives from their bodies, and turns intimacy into obligation instead of delight.You'll learn why intimacy cannot thrive under fear, how peace restores connection, and what Scripture reveals about love that casts out pressure at the root.Inside this episode:Why pressure destroys desireHow fear masquerades as responsibilityWhat God's Word says about love and intimacyWhy peace—not effort—restores connectionHow to release pressure without guilt or shameIf intimacy has felt heavy, tense, or forced, this episode will help you breathe again. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textWhat if desire in marriage isn't dangerous… but divine?In this episode, Chelsey repaints intimacy through a biblical lens, dismantling the quiet shame many Christian wives carry around desire, passion, and enjoyment in marriage.You'll discover why God designed desire on purpose, how the enemy twists it through shame and fear, and why true intimacy can't be manufactured—it flows from safety, surrender, and right heart posture.Inside this episode:Why desire is holy inside covenantHow shame disconnects women from their bodiesWhat Scripture actually says about intimacyWhy safety awakens desire—not effortHow God restores delight without pressure or performanceIf intimacy has felt tense, numb, or confusing, this episode will gently—but powerfully—reorient your heart back to God's design. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textAfter exposure, release, repainting, and anchoring… there's only one thing left.The invitation.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks why surrender doesn't happen through pressure, effort, or striving—but through responding to God's gentle, peace-filled invitation to live differently.You'll learn why resistance often shows up after clarity, how control can feel safer than trust, and why obedience is not about losing yourself—but finally becoming who God created you to be.This episode is for the woman who feels the nudge… but hesitates.Inside, you'll discover:Why God invites rather than forces transformationHow to recognize peace-led conviction vs. pressureWhat surrender actually looks like in marriage and daily lifeWhy obedience produces authority, not passivityHow saying yes from peace changes everythingIf surrender has started to feel possible—but you're standing at the edge—this episode will help you recognize what God is offering and how to respond. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textWhat if the reason surrender feels fleeting isn't because you're failing… But because what God revealed was never anchored?In this episode, Chelsey teaches why revelation without anchoring always leads to drift, and how women unintentionally return to control, striving, and self-reliance—even after powerful moments with God.You'll learn why anchoring truth in gratitude, right order, and heart posture is the missing link between momentary surrender and lasting transformation. This episode breaks down what it actually means to be rooted and grounded in Christ—and how anchoring truth changes the way you show up in your faith, your marriage, and your emotional responses.If you've ever said, “I felt surrendered… but then I lost it,” this episode will show you why—and how to stop drifting back. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textYou can't live surrendered while still believing the old story.In this episode, we dive into why surrender often feels hard even after you've released control—and the missing piece most women never address: the internal narrative driving their behavior.Chelsey unpacks how true transformation doesn't begin with trying harder, but with renewing the mind and agreeing with God where fear, trauma, and self-reliance once ruled. You'll learn why obedience feels heavy when belief hasn't shifted, and how replacing false narratives with Kingdom truth creates peace, alignment, and freedom—especially inside marriage.This episode will help you:Identify the unconscious stories shaping your reactionsUnderstand why surrender fails without mind renewalReplace pressure-driven beliefs with God's truthExperience peace as an inheritance, not a rewardStep into obedience that flows naturally from beliefIf you've ever said, “I know the truth, I just can't seem to live it,” this episode will show you why—and how to finally move forward. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textWhat if your biggest block to surrender isn't your willpower—but your heart posture?In this powerful episode, Chelsey challenges the common Christian wife question: “But how do I surrender?” The truth is—you can't surrender through striving. Because surrender doesn't begin with action. It begins with awe.You'll hear:Why striving to “figure out surrender” is a sign your heart hasn't truly shifted yetHow right order and a right view of God lead to spontaneous, full surrenderWhat Peter, John, and Isaiah have to teach us about falling to our knees in holy recognitionWhy surrender always overflows from gratitude, not gritHow this heart posture will radically change your marriage and your missionThis is the key that unlocks freedom. Because when you finally see God rightly, surrender isn't hard—it's inevitable. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textIf surrender feels threatening, it's usually because control has been acting like your safety net.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the release phase of the Expose → Release → Repaint → Anchor → Invite framework—and why most wives struggle here more than anywhere else.This isn't about becoming passive, silent, or smaller. It's about releasing false authority—the belief that it's your job to manage outcomes, fix your marriage, or hold everything together.You'll learn:Why control often masquerades as responsibilityHow striving quietly turns into resentmentWhat Scripture actually means when it says “be still”How releasing control creates space for true conviction instead of coercionWhy release doesn't weaken you—it repositions youThis episode invites you to stop gripping what was never yours to carry and trust God with the weight of transformation. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textWhat if surrender feels hard not because you're failing… but because your heart posture hasn't shifted yet?In this episode, Chelsey dismantles one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christian marriage: the belief that surrender starts with doing. Instead, true surrender begins with right order and right view—of God, of yourself, and of your role as a wife.Drawing from Scripture and lived experience, Chelsey shows why striving to “surrender better” actually reveals a misplaced focus, and how awe, gratitude, and reverence for God unlock the posture that makes surrender natural—not forced.You'll learn:Why surrender is impossible without the right heart postureHow right order restores peace before behavior ever changesWhat Scripture reveals about awe, humility, and obedienceWhy surrender overflows from gratitude, not effortHow this shift transforms the way you show up in marriageIf surrender feels confusing, heavy, or out of reach, this episode will help you stop trying—and start seeing. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textMany wives believe surrender feels hard because they're resisting it.But what if surrender feels hard because you've been carrying responsibility that was never yours to hold?In this episode, Chelsey gently exposes how striving often disguises itself as faithfulness—and why so many women feel exhausted, tense, or restless even while “doing all the right things.”This conversation isn't about letting go of responsibility or becoming passive. It's about recognizing where trust quietly shifted into self-reliance, and why peace can't coexist with control.If you've been trying harder, explaining more, or holding everything together in the name of obedience, this episode will help you release what was never meant to be carried.Surrender doesn't begin with effort. It begins with rest. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textSurrender feels hard for many wives—not because they're unwilling, but because they've been taught to approach it as something to do instead of something that flows from the heart.In this opening episode of our daily February series leading up to Valentine's Day, Chelsey reframes surrender through a biblical lens and reveals why striving, confusion, and exhaustion often show up when heart posture and order are off.This episode is not about fixing your marriage or modifying your behavior. It's about returning to a right view of God, a right view of yourself, and allowing surrender to emerge naturally from gratitude and trust—rather than effort.If surrender has felt heavy, unclear, or out of reach, this episode will help you see why—and gently invite you back to the starting place.This is the foundation for the next 18 days. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textWelcome to a fresh start—and a holy reset.In this powerful New Year's message, Chelsey Holm flips the cultural script on goals, grit, and “new year, new me” hustle. If you're feeling burned out by chasing results, this episode will help you re-anchor in your true source of strength: wild obedience to the Spirit.You'll hear:Why most goal-setting leaves you drained, not devotedThe difference between outcome-based striving vs. obedience-based surrenderWhat the Lord spoke over Chelsey for 2026—and how it applies to YOUWhy being misunderstood in your boldness is often confirmation, not condemnationA personal call to become a set-apart vessel for God's KingdomThis isn't about doing more. It's about becoming more of who He's called you to be. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Send us a textAre you stuck nagging, fixing, and pointing out the obvious—then frustrated when your husband doesn't lead?In this spicy and Spirit-led episode, Chelsey challenges wives to stop calling out the fool and start speaking to the king. Because when your words are rooted in fear or control, they kill connection… but when you speak from faith and identity, they build up the man he's called to become.You'll learn:The biblical foundation for how a wife's words shape her homeWhy calling out problems reinforces dysfunctionHow to stop prophesying pain and start speaking promiseWhat to do when your husband isn't showing up spiritually or emotionallyIf you want a Kingdom marriage, you've got to stop preaching to the flesh—and speak to the Spirit. This episode is your wake-up call to power, posture, and prophetic authority as a wife. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
The Lord's Prayer is a centerpiece of the Christian tradition. Most Christians have memorized it and many pray it daily. But the very familiarity of the Lord's Prayer can mask its depth. In this video, I'm going to take you through the Lord's Prayer line-by-line, looking at what St. Augustine, St. Cyprian, Tertullian, and Origen have to say about this prayer which they believed contained the entire gospel. Book mentioned: https://amzn.to/3LjsK7NAugustine's Sermon: https://www.newadvent.org/fathers/160307.htmBible/Church Fathers Resource: https://churchwritings.comSupport the Channel:Give monthly: https://patreon.com/gospelsimplicity Make a one-time donation: https://paypal.me/gospelsimplicityBook a meeting: https://calendly.com/gospelsimplicity/meet-with-austinRead my writings: https://austinsuggs.substack.comChurch History in a Year Reading Guide: https://shop.gospelsimplicity.com/products/church-history-in-a-year-a-reading-guide-through-2-000-yearsSupport the show
Send us a textSo many wives are trying to do all the right things — change their tone, fix their habits, communicate better — and still feel like they're failing.Why? Because they're starting in the wrong place.In this episode, Chelsey breaks down the critical difference between behavior modification and true transformation. She shares why surrendered heart posture is the foundation for lasting change — not just in marriage, but in your walk with God.You'll learn:Why most coaching, therapy, and self-help fall shortHow fear and pride sneak into Christian performanceWhat the Holy Spirit can do when we stop “trying harder”Practical steps to shift from control to surrenderIf you've been stuck in striving, white-knuckling growth, or trying to become the “perfect wife,” this episode will set you free. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599
Send us a textWhat if your pursuit of healing is actually leading you into deeper bondage?In this powerful episode, Chelsey Holm exposes how the enemy hijacks well-meaning paths like coaching, counseling, therapy, and self-help when they're not surrendered to the Holy Spirit. From manifestations to false peace, we explore how spiritual counterfeits disguise themselves as breakthrough—but only lead to burnout, confusion, and a deeper reliance on self instead of God.This episode will challenge you to look deeper:Are you chasing healing without surrender?Are you changing behavior without heart posture?Are you unknowingly participating in New Age practices dressed up as self-help?Inside HLW, we don't settle for behavior modification. We pursue holy transformation through truth, order, and Spirit-led surrender.Key Topics Covered:The danger of “healing” apart from the Holy SpiritFalse light, false peace & the deception of self-empowermentWhy the enemy loves manifestation cultureThe difference between surface-level change and spiritual transformationWhat true healing looks like in right order under GodThis isn't just about marriage—it's about everything: your mission, your healing, your mind, your identity.