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Send a text If you feel like it's all on you — fixing your husband, fixing your marriage, fixing yourself, fixing everything — you're not walking in faith. You're walking in control. In this episode, Chelsey teaches why “fixing” is a counterfeit form of responsibility, how it blocks God from moving, and what it looks like to surrender the burden without becoming passive. This is a freedom episode.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a text Offense feels justified. It feels protective. It feels like wisdom. But it's actually spiritual poison. In this episode, Chelsey exposes how wives unknowingly nurture bitterness, rehearse wrongs, and hold onto hurt like a pet — feeding the very thing destroying their marriage. You'll learn what Scripture says about offense, how bitterness blocks intimacy, and how to finally release what's been keeping you stuck.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a text Many Christian wives say “God is first”… but their daily life reveals a different order: kids first, work first, emotions first, control first. In this episode, Chelsey calls out the hidden idols that quietly take God's place — and how wrong order produces exhaustion, resentment, and disconnection in marriage. If you want peace, intimacy, and true alignment, it starts here.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a text Knowing Scripture does not equal spiritual maturity. In this episode, Chelsey breaks down one of the biggest reasons wives stay stuck: they're hearing truth but not obeying it. You'll learn why information without obedience creates self-deception, how love is the true marker of discipleship, and what it looks like to stop consuming truth and start living it — especially inside your marriage.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a text You can quote submission, attend church, and love Jesus… and still be walking in a spirit of rebellion inside your marriage. In this episode, Chelsey teaches the difference between biblical strength and counterfeit control, and how rebellion disguises itself as independence, “discernment,” or spiritual superiority. This episode will convict, clarify, and call you into the freedom of true surrender.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a text Most wives don't realize they're doing it… but the way you speak to your husband may be slowly killing trust, intimacy, and connection. In this episode, Chelsey exposes how disrespect often hides behind “being honest,” “being the responsible one,” or “just telling the truth.” You'll learn what Scripture says about the power of your words, why honor is not optional, and how to shift your tone without shrinking your voice.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textThis one is fire—literally and spiritually. If your marriage feels like it's on its last leg, this episode is your wake-up call. I'm talking to the wife in crisis. The one holding on by a thread. The one feeling like she can't do this anymore. What if the fire isn't just here to destroy... but to refine?In this raw and Spirit-filled episode, I walk you through:What to do when everything feels like it's falling apartWhy the fire might be a holy oneHow surrender is the beginning of transformationThe hard truth about what won't save your marriageAnd the only way to walk out of the ashes with authority, wholeness, and spiritual armor as ONE FLESH.This is for the wife who's ready to fight… God's way. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textThis is the final episode of the 18-day Valentine's series—and the moment of decision.If this series stirred something in you, challenged old patterns, or awakened a hunger for deeper intimacy and alignment, this episode invites you to respond—not with effort, but with surrender.Chelsey commissions wives to move from awareness into obedience, and shares why transformation requires more than insight—it requires Spirit-led structure, right order, and community.In this episode, you'll hear:Why revelation always comes with an invitationThe danger of awareness without actionWhy self-help cannot produce holinessHow God uses order and discipleship to bring transformationWhat High Level Wife actually is—and who it's forThis episode is not about doing more. It's about saying yes. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textMany wives built emotional walls for good reasons—hurt, betrayal, disappointment, or exhaustion. But what once felt protective can quietly block intimacy, desire, and connection.In this episode, Chelsey gently exposes the difference between biblical guarding and hardened walls, and why God never intended protection to cost you tenderness.This episode will help you understand:How guarding turns into emotional walls over timeWhy walls block intimacy even when intentions are goodThe difference between wisdom and hardeningHow God softens the heart without removing discernmentWhy intimacy requires openness—not self-protectionIf your heart feels closed, distant, or numb—even while “doing everything right”—this episode will help you return to softness without fear. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textHow do you guard your heart without turning intimacy into something tense, controlled, or exhausting?In this episode, Chelsey clarifies a critical distinction many Christian wives miss: biblical guarding is not the same as control. While Scripture calls us to guard against the flesh, the world, and the enemy, guarding was never meant to replace trust in God—or become a form of fear-based management.This episode teaches how to protect intimacy from a place of authority, peace, and right order—without hyper-vigilance, micromanaging, or emotional exhaustion.Inside this episode:The difference between guarding and controllingWhy fear-based vigilance damages intimacyHow heart posture determines whether guarding brings peace or pressureWhat biblical stewardship actually looks like in marriageHow to protect intimacy without becoming the Holy SpiritIf guarding your heart has started to feel heavy, anxious, or exhausting—this episode will reset your framework and restore peace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textWhat if marriage and intimacy were never meant to feel fragile?In this episode, Chelsey unpacks a powerful biblical distinction most Christian wives have never been taught: God did not originally tell man and woman to guard the garden—He told them to rule it.You'll learn why dominion came before defense, how guarding became necessary only after the fall, and why starting from fear instead of authority quietly suffocates intimacy.This episode reframes marriage through Eden's original design and shows how Christ restores us to rule under God's order—without anxiety, control, or performance.Inside this episode:Why dominion came before guarding in God's designHow fear-based vigilance damages intimacyThe difference between authority and control in marriageWhy guarding is necessary now—but not foundationalHow restored order brings peace, softness, and fruitfulness back to intimacyIf intimacy feels tense, fragile, or over-managed—this episode will shift your framework and restore peace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textValentine's Day Isn't About Romance — It's About InvitationIn this special Valentine's Day episode of the High Level Wife Podcast, Chelsey reframes intimacy through a covenant lens — revealing why connection thrives when a woman releases pressure and becomes invitation.This episode is for wives who want deeper intimacy without striving, forcing, or proving — and who desire to experience connection God's way.Inside this episode:Why intimacy responds to safety, not demandHow invitation creates connectionThe difference between testing love and trusting covenantWhat Valentine's Day reveals about heart postureHow to stay open even when expectations fall away Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textFrom Inner Work to Shared ExperienceThis is the hinge episode.In Day 13 of the Valentine's Drop, Chelsey bridges the gap between internal heart work and shared intimacy — revealing why connection grows when a woman shifts from striving to hosting.This episode prepares wives for Valentine's Day by focusing on atmosphere, alignment, and invitation — not pressure or performance.Inside this episode:Why inner work must come before shared experienceHow heart posture shapes intimacyThe difference between control and invitationWhy men respond to space, not pressureHow to prepare for connection without forcing outcomes Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textDelight Is Covenant Fruit, Not PerformanceWhat if delight wasn't something you had to create — but something God designed to grow?In Day 12 of the Valentine's Drop, Chelsey reframes intimacy through a biblical lens, revealing why delight cannot be forced and why many wives feel exhausted instead of fulfilled.This episode explores how delight flows naturally from safety, surrender, and right order — not effort or obligation.Inside this episode:Why delight disappears under pressureHow covenant safety restores intimacyThe difference between performance and fruitWhat Scripture teaches about desire and delightWhy rest — not striving — awakens connection Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textThere is a flood of Christian-sounding advice about marriage circulating online right now—but not all of it is rooted in truth. In this bold episode, Chelsey issues a strong warning against false teachers who are twisting Scripture to make sin seem acceptable, especially in marriage.She shares a disturbing example of a “Christian coach” encouraging wives to support their husbands in porn addiction… and why that advice is not just misleading—it's demonic.You'll hear:Why discernment is critical in this age of coaching and “Christian counseling”What Scripture actually says about sin, repentance, and spiritual leadershipThe difference between grace and tolerance—and why compassion doesn't mean enablingHow to test every teaching (yes, even this one) against the Word and by the SpiritWhat holy, Spirit-led marriage looks like in contrast to cultural compromiseThis is your call to wake up, cut off what leads to sin, and rebuild your marriage God's way—grounded in the Word, not the world. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textDesire Is a Response, Not a RequirementIf desire feels complicated, inconsistent, or absent — this episode is for you.In Day 11 of the Valentine's Drop, Chelsey reframes one of the most misunderstood parts of intimacy: desire. Not as a duty to fulfill, but as fruit that grows in safety.You'll learn why pressure kills intimacy, how a woman's body responds to trust, and why God's design for desire is responsive — not performative.Inside this episode:Why desire disappears under obligationHow safety, not effort, restores intimacyThe difference between duty and delightWhat Scripture reveals about desireHow to begin repainting intimacy without shame Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send a textSubmission has been misunderstood, misused, and misapplied in Christian marriage for far too long.In this episode, Chelsey dismantles the lie that submission equals obligation and exposes why forced obedience leads to resentment, shutdown, and inner resistance.You'll learn the biblical difference between obligation and surrender, why true submission cannot exist without trust, and how heart posture—not behavior—determines whether submission feels heavy or freeing.Inside this episode:Why obligation is rooted in fear, not faithThe biblical foundation of true submissionHow right order restores peace in marriageWhy submission must flow from trust, not pressureHow to identify when your heart posture hasn't shifted yetIf submission has ever felt confusing, burdensome, or unsafe—this episode will bring clarity and freedom. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textPressure is quietly killing intimacy in more marriages than we realize.In this episode, Chelsey exposes how pressure — even pressure rooted in good intentions — suffocates desire, disconnects wives from their bodies, and turns intimacy into obligation instead of delight.You'll learn why intimacy cannot thrive under fear, how peace restores connection, and what Scripture reveals about love that casts out pressure at the root.Inside this episode:Why pressure destroys desireHow fear masquerades as responsibilityWhat God's Word says about love and intimacyWhy peace—not effort—restores connectionHow to release pressure without guilt or shameIf intimacy has felt heavy, tense, or forced, this episode will help you breathe again. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textWhat if desire in marriage isn't dangerous… but divine?In this episode, Chelsey repaints intimacy through a biblical lens, dismantling the quiet shame many Christian wives carry around desire, passion, and enjoyment in marriage.You'll discover why God designed desire on purpose, how the enemy twists it through shame and fear, and why true intimacy can't be manufactured—it flows from safety, surrender, and right heart posture.Inside this episode:Why desire is holy inside covenantHow shame disconnects women from their bodiesWhat Scripture actually says about intimacyWhy safety awakens desire—not effortHow God restores delight without pressure or performanceIf intimacy has felt tense, numb, or confusing, this episode will gently—but powerfully—reorient your heart back to God's design. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textAfter exposure, release, repainting, and anchoring… there's only one thing left.The invitation.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks why surrender doesn't happen through pressure, effort, or striving—but through responding to God's gentle, peace-filled invitation to live differently.You'll learn why resistance often shows up after clarity, how control can feel safer than trust, and why obedience is not about losing yourself—but finally becoming who God created you to be.This episode is for the woman who feels the nudge… but hesitates.Inside, you'll discover:Why God invites rather than forces transformationHow to recognize peace-led conviction vs. pressureWhat surrender actually looks like in marriage and daily lifeWhy obedience produces authority, not passivityHow saying yes from peace changes everythingIf surrender has started to feel possible—but you're standing at the edge—this episode will help you recognize what God is offering and how to respond. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textWhat if the reason surrender feels fleeting isn't because you're failing… But because what God revealed was never anchored?In this episode, Chelsey teaches why revelation without anchoring always leads to drift, and how women unintentionally return to control, striving, and self-reliance—even after powerful moments with God.You'll learn why anchoring truth in gratitude, right order, and heart posture is the missing link between momentary surrender and lasting transformation. This episode breaks down what it actually means to be rooted and grounded in Christ—and how anchoring truth changes the way you show up in your faith, your marriage, and your emotional responses.If you've ever said, “I felt surrendered… but then I lost it,” this episode will show you why—and how to stop drifting back. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textWhat if your biggest block to surrender isn't your willpower—but your heart posture?In this powerful episode, Chelsey challenges the common Christian wife question: “But how do I surrender?” The truth is—you can't surrender through striving. Because surrender doesn't begin with action. It begins with awe.You'll hear:Why striving to “figure out surrender” is a sign your heart hasn't truly shifted yetHow right order and a right view of God lead to spontaneous, full surrenderWhat Peter, John, and Isaiah have to teach us about falling to our knees in holy recognitionWhy surrender always overflows from gratitude, not gritHow this heart posture will radically change your marriage and your missionThis is the key that unlocks freedom. Because when you finally see God rightly, surrender isn't hard—it's inevitable. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textYou can't live surrendered while still believing the old story.In this episode, we dive into why surrender often feels hard even after you've released control—and the missing piece most women never address: the internal narrative driving their behavior.Chelsey unpacks how true transformation doesn't begin with trying harder, but with renewing the mind and agreeing with God where fear, trauma, and self-reliance once ruled. You'll learn why obedience feels heavy when belief hasn't shifted, and how replacing false narratives with Kingdom truth creates peace, alignment, and freedom—especially inside marriage.This episode will help you:Identify the unconscious stories shaping your reactionsUnderstand why surrender fails without mind renewalReplace pressure-driven beliefs with God's truthExperience peace as an inheritance, not a rewardStep into obedience that flows naturally from beliefIf you've ever said, “I know the truth, I just can't seem to live it,” this episode will show you why—and how to finally move forward. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textIf surrender feels threatening, it's usually because control has been acting like your safety net.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks the release phase of the Expose → Release → Repaint → Anchor → Invite framework—and why most wives struggle here more than anywhere else.This isn't about becoming passive, silent, or smaller. It's about releasing false authority—the belief that it's your job to manage outcomes, fix your marriage, or hold everything together.You'll learn:Why control often masquerades as responsibilityHow striving quietly turns into resentmentWhat Scripture actually means when it says “be still”How releasing control creates space for true conviction instead of coercionWhy release doesn't weaken you—it repositions youThis episode invites you to stop gripping what was never yours to carry and trust God with the weight of transformation. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textWhat if surrender feels hard not because you're failing… but because your heart posture hasn't shifted yet?In this episode, Chelsey dismantles one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christian marriage: the belief that surrender starts with doing. Instead, true surrender begins with right order and right view—of God, of yourself, and of your role as a wife.Drawing from Scripture and lived experience, Chelsey shows why striving to “surrender better” actually reveals a misplaced focus, and how awe, gratitude, and reverence for God unlock the posture that makes surrender natural—not forced.You'll learn:Why surrender is impossible without the right heart postureHow right order restores peace before behavior ever changesWhat Scripture reveals about awe, humility, and obedienceWhy surrender overflows from gratitude, not effortHow this shift transforms the way you show up in marriageIf surrender feels confusing, heavy, or out of reach, this episode will help you stop trying—and start seeing. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textMany wives believe surrender feels hard because they're resisting it.But what if surrender feels hard because you've been carrying responsibility that was never yours to hold?In this episode, Chelsey gently exposes how striving often disguises itself as faithfulness—and why so many women feel exhausted, tense, or restless even while “doing all the right things.”This conversation isn't about letting go of responsibility or becoming passive. It's about recognizing where trust quietly shifted into self-reliance, and why peace can't coexist with control.If you've been trying harder, explaining more, or holding everything together in the name of obedience, this episode will help you release what was never meant to be carried.Surrender doesn't begin with effort. It begins with rest. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textSurrender feels hard for many wives—not because they're unwilling, but because they've been taught to approach it as something to do instead of something that flows from the heart.In this opening episode of our daily February series leading up to Valentine's Day, Chelsey reframes surrender through a biblical lens and reveals why striving, confusion, and exhaustion often show up when heart posture and order are off.This episode is not about fixing your marriage or modifying your behavior. It's about returning to a right view of God, a right view of yourself, and allowing surrender to emerge naturally from gratitude and trust—rather than effort.If surrender has felt heavy, unclear, or out of reach, this episode will help you see why—and gently invite you back to the starting place.This is the foundation for the next 18 days. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textWelcome to a fresh start—and a holy reset.In this powerful New Year's message, Chelsey Holm flips the cultural script on goals, grit, and “new year, new me” hustle. If you're feeling burned out by chasing results, this episode will help you re-anchor in your true source of strength: wild obedience to the Spirit.You'll hear:Why most goal-setting leaves you drained, not devotedThe difference between outcome-based striving vs. obedience-based surrenderWhat the Lord spoke over Chelsey for 2026—and how it applies to YOUWhy being misunderstood in your boldness is often confirmation, not condemnationA personal call to become a set-apart vessel for God's KingdomThis isn't about doing more. It's about becoming more of who He's called you to be. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us a textAre you stuck nagging, fixing, and pointing out the obvious—then frustrated when your husband doesn't lead?In this spicy and Spirit-led episode, Chelsey challenges wives to stop calling out the fool and start speaking to the king. Because when your words are rooted in fear or control, they kill connection… but when you speak from faith and identity, they build up the man he's called to become.You'll learn:The biblical foundation for how a wife's words shape her homeWhy calling out problems reinforces dysfunctionHow to stop prophesying pain and start speaking promiseWhat to do when your husband isn't showing up spiritually or emotionallyIf you want a Kingdom marriage, you've got to stop preaching to the flesh—and speak to the Spirit. This episode is your wake-up call to power, posture, and prophetic authority as a wife. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

The Lord's Prayer is a centerpiece of the Christian tradition. Most Christians have memorized it and many pray it daily. But the very familiarity of the Lord's Prayer can mask its depth. In this video, I'm going to take you through the Lord's Prayer line-by-line, looking at what St. Augustine, St. Cyprian, Tertullian, and Origen have to say about this prayer which they believed contained the entire gospel. Book mentioned: https://amzn.to/3LjsK7NAugustine's Sermon: https://www.newadvent.org/fathers/160307.htmBible/Church Fathers Resource: https://churchwritings.comSupport the Channel:Give monthly: https://patreon.com/gospelsimplicity    Make a one-time donation: https://paypal.me/gospelsimplicityBook a meeting: https://calendly.com/gospelsimplicity/meet-with-austinRead my writings: https://austinsuggs.substack.comChurch History in a Year Reading Guide: https://shop.gospelsimplicity.com/products/church-history-in-a-year-a-reading-guide-through-2-000-yearsSupport the show

Send us a textSo many wives are trying to do all the right things — change their tone, fix their habits, communicate better — and still feel like they're failing.Why? Because they're starting in the wrong place.In this episode, Chelsey breaks down the critical difference between behavior modification and true transformation. She shares why surrendered heart posture is the foundation for lasting change — not just in marriage, but in your walk with God.You'll learn:Why most coaching, therapy, and self-help fall shortHow fear and pride sneak into Christian performanceWhat the Holy Spirit can do when we stop “trying harder”Practical steps to shift from control to surrenderIf you've been stuck in striving, white-knuckling growth, or trying to become the “perfect wife,” this episode will set you free. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textWhat if your pursuit of healing is actually leading you into deeper bondage?In this powerful episode, Chelsey Holm exposes how the enemy hijacks well-meaning paths like coaching, counseling, therapy, and self-help when they're not surrendered to the Holy Spirit. From manifestations to false peace, we explore how spiritual counterfeits disguise themselves as breakthrough—but only lead to burnout, confusion, and a deeper reliance on self instead of God.This episode will challenge you to look deeper:Are you chasing healing without surrender?Are you changing behavior without heart posture?Are you unknowingly participating in New Age practices dressed up as self-help?Inside HLW, we don't settle for behavior modification. We pursue holy transformation through truth, order, and Spirit-led surrender.Key Topics Covered:The danger of “healing” apart from the Holy SpiritFalse light, false peace & the deception of self-empowermentWhy the enemy loves manifestation cultureThe difference between surface-level change and spiritual transformationWhat true healing looks like in right order under GodThis isn't just about marriage—it's about everything: your mission, your healing, your mind, your identity.

Send us a textWe've been told to “do the work,” “fix our mindset,” “heal our trauma,” and then we'll be whole. But what if all that self-help work is actually keeping you stuck?In this episode, I challenge the lie that your marriage, identity, or future depends on you fixing yourself first. I share how the self-help movement sneaks into Christian women's lives, convincing us we're just one more breakthrough away from freedom — while subtly keeping us from the true gospel of surrender.If you've been spinning your wheels, exhausted by coaching, journaling, and striving to be a “better” version of yourself — this episode is your wake-up call. You were never meant to carry this burden. God's way is surrender, rest, and trust — and from that place, obedience and transformation flow.It's time to break the loop of self-focus and step into the freedom that comes from letting Jesus be the Savior... not you. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textWhat if your obsession with macros, workouts, and willpower isn't making you healthier—just more enslaved?In this powerful episode, Chelsey shares how God used her journey through indulgence, restriction, shame, and punishment to reveal a deeper truth: when we do health the world's way, we stay in Egypt.It's time to leave slavery behind.This is your invitation to walk in freedom—where food is fuel, movement is worship, and your body becomes a vessel for God's glory, not a battleground of control.Chelsey unpacks:What it means to leave Egypt in your health journeyWhy self-help, punishment cycles, and worldly “discipline” keep you in bondageThe spiritual root of shame, obsession, and body insecurityWhy the Promised Land includes movement, joy, and nutrition—but not controlThe launch of Well Women: a faith-first course for wives ready to steward their bodies God's wayYou were made to be free, not constantly fixing yourself. Let God lead you out of Egypt, and into the Promised Land of High Level Health.Learn more about WELL WOMEN here or grab it here. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a text In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how deep trust in the Lord isn't just theological—it's practical. From working six days and trusting God to provide on the seventh, to learning how that same surrender spills over into how we trust our husbands, this is a call to stop striving and start truly believing. God's order brings peace. And obedience brings overflow. When we trust Him, we stop needing to control every outcome—in our business, in our home, and in our marriage. This episode is a rally cry for the high-achieving woman ready to trade control for supernatural provision.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textStrong doesn't mean silent. And it doesn't mean savage either.In this empowering episode, Chelsey unpacks what it means to live as an Ezer Kenegdo—a woman created to be a powerful helper, warrior, and ally. She shares how women can confront their husbands, their own patterns, and even false doctrine without becoming controlling or combative.Inside, you'll learn:What the Ezer identity means for Christian women todayWhy submission doesn't mean suppressionThe 5-step approach to godly confrontation that flows from security, not strivingHow to remain rooted in grace and strength when standing your groundWhether you've been afraid to speak up—or you've been doing it with anger and regret—this episode will help you confront with wisdom, strength, and godly authority. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textIn this hard but holy episode, Chelsey goes deep into the difference between suffering well and suffering wrongly. Many women have confused silence with submission, believing the lie that faithfulness to God means tolerating emotional, spiritual, or even physical harm. That's not God's design.This conversation breaks down:What abuse is (and is not)Why abuse must be named biblically and confronted boldlyHow spiritual misuse, control, and emotional harm are not part of a God-honoring marriageWhat a godly confrontation actually looks like (with clarity, boundaries, and safety)How to invite wise counsel and Spirit-led action while protecting your soul and childrenIf you've felt trapped, confused, or like no one sees what's really going on behind the “Christian” marriage facade… this episode is for you. You are not crazy. You are not alone. And there is a way forward. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textWhat if the root of your exhaustion, striving, and insecurity isn't a lack of hustle... but a lack of identity?In this powerful episode, we dismantle the lies that keep women stuck in performance, perfectionism, and people-pleasing—and expose how the enemy uses confusion and comparison to keep you small.Chelsey guides you through what it means to truly be hidden in Christ, how to walk in your God-given authority, and why reclaiming your true identity changes everything—from your marriage to your motherhood to your mission.You'll hear:The real difference between confidence and godly authorityWhy striving and shame are symptoms of misplaced identityHow the enemy hijacks your significance and twists your giftsWhat it actually means to walk in boldness without prideThis is your wake-up call to walk in the truth of who God says you are. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textWhat happens when a strong, high-achieving woman realizes she's been living shackled by shame?In this raw and redemptive conversation, Katey Willman joins Chelsey to share her journey of breaking free from the silent weight of “not enough.” From people-pleasing and performance to true healing and identity in Christ, this episode exposes how shame distorts connection—with God, with others, and with self.You'll hear how Katey learned to walk bold and free, embracing spiritual authority and feminine softness through obedience, inner healing, and nervous system regulation.If you've ever felt like you had to hold it all together, or like your strength was the enemy of surrender… this one is for you. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a text Rebuilding marriage God's way. Join wife & coach Chelsey Holm for faith-filled conversations that trade control for connection, perfection for purpose, and exhaustion for alignment. What if fixing your marriage wasn't the goal — but flourishing in God's design was?I'm Chelsey Holm — wife, mom of five, and coach to women ready to rebuild their marriages from the inside out. In High Level Wife, we uncover what happens when you stop performing, start surrendering, and let God reorder your life — from the inside out.This isn't about perfection; it's about right order. Because when wives rise God's way, families flourish, and legacies change. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textLet's set the record straight: submission isn't silence, weakness, or oppression—it's a sub-mission to God's greater plan for unity, love, and transformation.In this fire-filled episode, Chelsey Holm breaks down the misunderstood and misused concept of submission, especially in Christian marriage. Rooted in Ephesians and lived through real experience, Chelsey unpacks:Why submission is about unity, not hierarchyHow trying to be your husband's Holy Spirit creates disconnectionWhat real spiritual authority and partnership look likeThe enemy's sneaky tactic of disconnect → divide → destroyHow surrender to God closes the door to division and unlocks deep connectionThis is more than theology. It's your call to reclaim your God-given power through surrender—not apart from it. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textThe world tells us that strength is loud, controlling, and independent. But what if real strength is found in surrender? In this episode, Chelsey unpacks what it means to be strong and surrendered as a woman of God.You'll hear the powerful contrast between flesh-fueled control and Spirit-led influence, why submission doesn't mean silence, and how true power flows from obedience, not dominance. If you've ever felt the tension between your fierce spirit and your call to follow God's order in marriage and life—this one's for you.Get ready to redefine what it really means to be a strong woman in the Kingdom. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textMost people think they're alive because they're busy. But busyness is not the same as growth—and if you're not growing in Christ, you're already spiritually dead.In this power-packed episode, Chelsey exposes the hard truth from Ephesians 4: growth isn't optional—it's the evidence of new life in Christ. She unpacks how our old patterns, perfectionism, vanity metrics, and desire to perform are actually signs of spiritual deadness masked in hustle. Through stories of gardening, parenting, and surrender, she shares how only the Holy Spirit can produce lasting transformation.Inside this episode:Why your striving may be a symptom of spiritual deathHow growth in the Kingdom always begins with surrenderThe gardening metaphor that reframes your walk with GodWhat keeps high-achieving women stuck in cycles of burnoutWhy High Level Wife is not a Chelsey show—it's God's movementThis is your invitation to die to self, so you can truly come alive. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textThe world says better communication will fix your marriage. But the truth? It's only a small part of the picture.In this episode, Chelsey pulls back the curtain on why communication alone can't save your marriage—and how most couples are trying to reform patterns they don't even realize were formed decades ago. She shares how to uncover the roots of unhealthy conflict, the biblical principles that redefine communication, and the practical “tone, timing, and technique” framework she and Zach use to stay united instead of divided.Inside this episode:Why communication is a learned skill, not a natural oneHow generational conflict styles shape your reactionsThe rules Chelsey and Zach live by for biblical communicationThe “tone, timing, and technique” triad that changes everythingWhy even the best communication tools fail without the Holy SpiritThis is your roadmap to communicating God's way—with peace, clarity, and unity as one flesh. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textIf you've ever been told that the solution to your marriage struggles is “just go on more dates,” this one's for you.In this raw and real episode, Chelsey dismantles the cultural myth that date nights can fix what's broken in your marriage. She shares her own story of trying to “paint over ashes” when the real issue was a missing foundation—and how only God's design and grace can rebuild what's been burned down.Inside this episode:Why the “date night fix” keeps couples stuck in cyclesHow pressure, performance, and unhealed wounds show up in physical intimacyWhy women weren't designed to carry the emotional and spiritual weight of leadingThe biblical design for marriage and how it restores peace, passion, and purposeWhat surrender actually looks like when you're exhausted from doing it allThis is not about another surface-level solution—it's about deep, holy restoration. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textWhat if the most rebellious thing you could do in today's culture was to follow Jesus fully—with your marriage, family, values, priorities, and purpose?In this fiery episode, Chelsey drops truth with urgency, conviction, and love. Inspired by Erica Kirk's powerful words and Charlie Kirk's unwavering stand for truth, she unpacks what it really means to be a rebel in 2025.Spoiler: It's not what the world thinks.Inside this episode:Why just “believing in God” isn't enoughThe shocking stat about real followers of JesusWhat it means to actually die to self and walk by the SpiritHow marriage, children, and discipline are radical in today's worldThe call to boldness, surrender, and eternal purposeThis isn't fluff. It's a wake-up call. If you've been sleepwalking through your faith or playing it safe in culture, this episode will stir your spirit and ignite holy fire. Because the time is now to live set apart. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textHave you ever stopped to ask why Jesus welcomes children—and tells us to become like them?This episode will change the way you see your parenting, your obedience, and your relationship with God. What started as a simple afternoon spreading mulch with my 5-year-old turned into a Holy Spirit download on how deeply God delights in using us to do His work—even when we slow things down, make a mess, and need help halfway through.Inside, I share:A moving story of my son's servant heart (and the bag of mulch he couldn't carry)How God wants us to partner with Him in kingdom workThe difference between obedience and performanceWhy your “help” matters even when God doesn't need itA fresh revelation on surrender, stewardship, and childlike faithThe gospel... as simple, beautiful, and miraculous as a magic trick to a toddlerThis one will hit every mama who's ever wished she could just “get it done”—but who also longs to see God more clearly through her kids. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textYou might think your marriage is too far gone. Too broken. Too betrayed. Too burned to ever be rebuilt.I used to believe that, too—until God proved otherwise.In this raw and redemptive episode, I share the full story of the miracle shower that changed everything. What was almost the final night of my marriage became the turning point of complete surrender—and the beginning of supernatural restoration.Inside, I walk you through:What surrender actually looks like when you can't fix itHow God met us on the edge of divorce—and rebuilt what we destroyedWhy manifestation is NOT biblical (and what is)How to know if you've been stuck in cruise control with your faith or marriageWhy rebuilding requires tearing down everything not built on God's orderThe 3 biblical phases of the High Level Wife process (Reset → Rebuild → Multiply)If there's even a shred of belief left in you that your marriage might be healed… This is your sign. Don't just believe—come and know. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textWhat if the root of your disconnection, pain, or avoidance in intimacy wasn't brokenness—but misunderstanding?In this powerful episode, I'm joined by guest coach Sarah Vincelli, a biblically-rooted intimacy coach who helps women release tension, trauma, and shame stored in their bodies so they can experience intimacy the way God designed it: naked and unashamed (Genesis 2:25).We talk about:The power of emotional and physical safety in marriageWhy many wives feel “pressure to perform” and how to heal itUnderstanding pain and disconnection as protective survival patternsPractical bodywork tools like vaginal massage for nervous system healingThe role of feminine softness in receiving love, connection, and pleasureGod's design for intimacy that goes beyond the act and into onenessHow to invite your husband into the journey without shame or blameWhether you're struggling with pain, avoidance, or simply want deeper intimacy in your marriage, this episode will leave you encouraged, empowered, and equipped to reclaim your body and your heart—with God at the center.Follow Sarah on IGWork with Sarah Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Send us a textMarriage isn't about your happiness—it's about your holiness.In this soul-deep episode, Chelsey walks through Ephesians 5 and unpacks the profound mystery of marriage: a reflection of Christ and the Church. This is more than submission, more than sex, and more than “doing your part.” It's a Spirit-filled, sanctifying journey toward oneness, healing, and kingdom purpose.You'll hear:Why biblical submission creates space for your husband to riseHow intimacy is a spiritual purification process—not just a physical actThe enemy's distortion of sex vs. God's design for soul-level onenessWhat it looks like to stop living lukewarm and start building God's kingdom through your marriageHow to shift from low-level problem-solving to high-level livingIf you've been stuck focusing on what's not working, this episode will show you how to shift your perspective and posture into alignment with God's original design. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599