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Send us a textThis episode challenges the myth of the “perfect submissive” and explores how chasing flawlessness can lead to burnout, self-doubt, and disconnection. Instead of striving for an impossible ideal, submissives are encouraged to embrace authenticity, growth, and the beauty of their unique journey. Real submission isn't about being perfect—it's about being present, vulnerable, and enough just as you are.

Send us a textUsing your safeword is never something to be afraid of. While it may sometimes mean stopping the scene, it also prevents you from going to places you're not ready to explore. Yet, guilt or self-disappointment can make using a safeword feel like a failure for many. Fortunately, there are ways to address the guilt, disappointment, or fear around using or not using your safeword when it truly matters.Thoughts to PonderWhat is your opinion about safewords? What value do they have in a relationship?If you have withheld a safeword in the past, why did you do it? What were you trying to gain by doing so?What other issues arise from using your safeword?Interesting LinksThings You Need to Know: Why Safewords Are Not SafeSome Thoughts About SafewordsBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://patreon.com/subguideA very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Send us a textMost people say ‘sorry' or ‘I'm sorry' far too often. You're probably aware of whether this is an issue for you. If you struggle with frequent apologizing, you may need to take a different approach to find ways to express what you really mean.The Art of Apology Series - Submissive GuideBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://patreon.com/subguideA very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Send us a textGet Your Copy of “Becoming a Service Submissive” Today!  Sub drop is a natural part of the BDSM experience, but it doesn't have to derail your enjoyment. Learn how to recognize the signs, prevent severe symptoms, and create a personalized aftercare plan that supports both your physical and emotional recovery. From building a drop kit to mastering self-care strategies, this guide empowers you to take control of your well-being and embrace every part of the journey with confidence.Hormone Junkies Series:AdrenalineOxytocinTestosteroneEndorphinsMore Resources:Sub Drop in Long-term relationshipsWhat is Aftercare, Why Do You Need It, and How to Ask for ItSix Important Activities to Include in Your Aftercare RoutineSelf-AftercareSubmissive Guide FetLife GroupBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://patreon.com/subguideA very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

We'll cover the complexities of online submission, offering various safe environments to explore and learn the nuances of BDSM and discuss the potential benefits and dangers. We'll help you navigate the online BDSM landscape with confidence and care.Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

A question I see asked all the time is, "How can I be a better submissive?" Here are a few things you can do to improve your submission and service without much work.Resources - Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your DynamicHow Making a Cup of Coffee Centers MeRitual Ideas: High Tea, Japanese Tea Ceremony and Formal Dining3 Reasons a "Perpetual Student" Mindset Is Vital to KinkCreate SMART Goals For Your New Year's Resolutions and Reach Your Goals This Year!The Importance of Journaling Your Submission5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra365 Days of SubmissionLearning Good Observation Skills for Better Submissive AwarenessEntering the Community: The Different Ways to Socialize with Local KinkstersFinding Your Submissive Voice: Speak Up for Better, Honest CommunicationActive Submission Means Always Improving YourselfA Submissive's Prime Directive: Take Care of the PropertySubmissive Guide FetLife GroupBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Let's discuss how to build healthy communication skills in our D/s relationship and what a safe environment for difficult conversations looks like. I'll give you the tools to develop a report with your partner that is full of trust, shared vulnerability, and compassion. You'll learn that a safe environment for those challenging talks requires planning and mutual agreements to work as they should. Resources:Conversation Starters for Difficult Conversations: https://www.wikihow.com/images/sampledocs/f/Conversation-Starters-for-Difficult-Conversations.pdf Kink Friendly Therapists:Psychology Today - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sex-positive-kink-alliedKink Friendly Therapy - http://kinkfriendlytherapy.com/resources-3/resources/Kink Aware Professionals Directory - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/Domestic Abuse Hotlines:US: https://www.thehotline.org/UK: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/EU: https://www.improve-horizon.eu/helplines Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Often, we discover our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. Let's cover what you should do to prepare to talk to your partner about your newfound interest, how you can encourage a submissive mindset on your own, and how you can slowly bring kink into the bedroom. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/making-him-the-dom-of-your-dreams-working-with-the-man-you-have Initiating a Discussion about BDSM with Your Partner:Initiating a Discussion about BDSM Interest with Your Partner - ted_subby - Part 1 of a 3-part series. Highly recommended.Ask SehAnru | Communicating Kinky Needs to a Vanilla Partner - SehAnruEstablishing a Safe, Trusting Environment for Talk - lunaKMResources:Recommended Reading ListsCreating a Personal Submissive ProtocolJoin our Discord Server - https://subgui.de/chat Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let's discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you can build a formal ceremony around declaring your commitment to each other.Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/how-to-plan-a-formal-collaring-ceremony Resources: Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One?Here is a list of collaring ceremony stories I found online to get you started in your research to build your ceremony.Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring by Mrs DarlingOur Collaring Ceremony on the space betweenMy collaring ceremony script from my polyamorous commitment ceremony on Offbeat WedPlanning Our Collaring Ceremony on The ChateauCollaring Ceremony and Ceremony of the Roses on House of DaseinCeremony From The Heart: The Collaring Ceremony by NorischeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

 Let's break down what topping from the bottom is, why it's so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/why-you-should-know-the-truth-about-topping-from-the-bottomChat with the Discord community! https://subgui.de/chatResources:Arcane Advice article on Topping from the Bottom: https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/topping-from-the-bottom-why-its-bad-and-when-its-good/Resistance Play: https://www.kinkly.com/definition/810/resistance-playHealthy Communication Skills on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/search?query=healthy+communicationBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Communication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/every-good-conversation-starts-with-good-listeningBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

One of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/learning-good-observation-skillsFurther Reading:Anticipatory ServicePersonality and Behavior Tests:Meyers-Briggs Type IndicatorThe Big FivePredictive IndexStrengths FinderBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Your limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-everyone-ought-to-know-about-finding-and-managing-limits Further Reading:BDSM Limits ExplainedUsing Checklists to Figure Out Your Kinky LimitsEstablishing Boundaries & Limits in BDSMNovices and Newbies Group on FetLifeNew Guide on Anal Play - OUT NOW! https://subgui.de/analplayBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Explore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/how-to-talk-dirtyFurther Reading:How to Be Responsive During PlayExhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot! by Carol QueenSex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On by Lauren DockettThe Dirty Slang DictionaryNew Guide on Anal Play - OUT NOW! https://subgui.de/analplayBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics:Orgasm Control by RoverOrgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLifeTrain Your Body to Orgasm on CommandOrgasm Control Training: They Can't ResistOrgasm Control by ginaStudy: Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching OrgasmBook: The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm" by Vivienne Cass, Ph.DPart 2 of the Orgasm Control Training Series: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/orgasm-on-command-training-the-process-for-the-submissive Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

In D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission and the expectations of our Dominant partner.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/structure-rulesBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

 Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It's also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn.Read the article on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/how-to-beg-when-asked Submissive Guide FetLife Group: http://subgui.de/fetlifeOther people's thoughts on begging:Begging In BDSM by Raven ShadowborneA Kinkster's Guide to Begging on A Kinkster's GuideHow Do I Beg/Plead Better? on BDSM Training AcademyBegging For It Podcast on Pleasure MechanicsEnough to Make You Blush by Princess Kali - https://amzn.to/42zIEi7Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Wearing a Dominant's collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let's tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared for what a collar may mean for you and your relationship.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/expectations-of-a-collar-how-ready-are-you-to-accept-oneHere are a few more posts on collars you might find interesting:A Complete Guide to BDSM CollarsThe Role of the Collar in a Long Distance Relationship by kallistaThe Impact of Velcro Collars on the Symbolism and Value of Collars in D/s RelationshipsWhat Is a Collar in a D/s Relationship?What it Means to be Collared by LadySneakHow to Plan a Formal Collaring CeremonyTiered Collar System:Collar of ConsiderationTraining CollarFormal CollarSeries on Limits on Submissive GuideBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

I've gathered seven of the best books to help you get started on your exploration of BDSM and the submissive role. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/recommended-reading-submissivesAll links to the book reviews, GoodReads, and Amazon are linked in the above article.Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Relationships, even ones with power exchange, are built the old-fashioned way; dating, mutual compatibility, and communication. We all have a common ground to start from, even if we don't realize it. Unlike what many forums may say about D/s relationships and how they start, knowing the terms to use for your desires and being able to voice them to others does not produce an instant connection and a relationship. It's work from the start and continues to need nurturing for as long as you want the relationship to develop and succeed.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/new-to-ds-relationships-heres-your-foolproof-guide-to-starting-out-part-1Links Mentioned:How to Identify your Submissive Wants and NeedsCommunication Section of Submissive GuideNew to D/s Relationships - Part 2Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/slave Relationships by Raven KalderaOur Discord Server - Kink NetworkBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Submissives all over seem to know what they want out of a relationship; it's always on their minds: the play, the sex, love, or the strictness of dominance. Wants are very valid to the happiness in your life, but more important are the needs. When you think of needs, the list seems to become harder, and people struggle more with defining what they really need.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/know-what-you-want-learn-what-you-needBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

A Submissive's primary focus should be taking care of the property. There are common ways we are not adhering to the prime directive, and there are ways we can make it more of a foundation for our lives. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/take-care-of-the-propertyBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

When people ask me what a D/s relationship is like, my first response is 'it looks like any other relationship,' but that's not entirely accurate. All relationships are unique and personal to the people in them, making a sound basis for any D/s relationship. In this article, I’ll cover a few common misconceptions of D/s dynamics, what a D/s relationship is not, and some core traits you can use to identify a healthy dynamic. You may be surprised to learn that they aren't as foreign as you think.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/an-open-letter-to-everyone-who-wants-to-know-what-a-ds-relationship-is-supposed-to-look-likeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Negotiation and consent are the primary ways BDSM is distinguished from abuse - they are essential parts of kinky play. But far too many people gloss over how important it is to be really good at negotiating so that you can have great kinky fun. And you want to have kinky fun, right?Read the Article: [link]The Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Anyone can learn to be a good service submissive, even if you don't feel you are a people pleaser, because the key traits are all ones that can be learned and refined. When you take steps to improve yourself now, you'll be able to tackle a variety of service challenges and refine the services you wish to provide for your Dominant.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/the-key-traits-of-a-service-submissive---theyThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

We need to make sure we take an active role in submission to help open up the dynamic and not wait for our Dominant to come up with a command to give us. By taking on an active role in our submission, we not only have more opportunities to be submissive, but we build a dynamic that provides an open exchange of power.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/active-submission---make-yourself-available-tThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Using my experience as a service submissive, I'd like to share what non-sexual service is and help you figure out if service is something you want to explore. I'll talk about a few different styles of service you could learn. Then we'll cover how you can start adding aspects of service into your relationship. Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/non-sexual-service-and-how-to-add-it-to-yourThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Sexual Power Exchange involves submissive partners who willingly and voluntarily relinquish control to their dominant partners, either in certain situations, for a specified period of time, or completely. As long as you keep it fun and enjoyable, a bedroom power exchange can bring variety and playfulness to your sex life.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/a-beginners-guide-to-sexual-power-exchange The Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

If you’re brand new to BDSM or even if you’ve got a few years under your belt, it’s good to sit down and figure out what submission means for you and how it works in your dynamic. Once you know what you need as a submissive, you can work with your Dominant to make your D/s relationship exactly what you desire.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/the-basic-tenets-of-being-a-submissive-in-a-dThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store

Whether you are kinky only in the bedroom or participating in D/s as a lifestyle, developing rituals for your BDSM play is an intimate and powerful way to connect. Using rituals will strengthen your roles, build dynamic scenes, and amplify your playtime to create the ideal atmosphere for BDSM activities. Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/how-rituals-can-enhance-your-bdsm-scenesThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store