The Disciple-Making Parent

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we introduce a brand new Q & A format. Together, we'll look at crucial parenting topics including establishing parental authority in early years, handling temper tantrums, navigating disagreements between spouses on discipline methods, and responding to children's constant "why" questions. We'll consider practical wisdom on raising children who are both obedient and creative, emphasizing the importance of balancing firm boundaries with warm affection.-----Featured ResourcesParenting with Confidence Video Course: Get free access to this comprehensive parenting course with the purchase of a workbook. Perfect for individual study or small groups, covering topics like discipline, routines, and building authority with affection.The Disciple Making Parent Audiobook: Sign up for the weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com to receive the complete audiobook free. Part of our mission to help parents raise children who love the Lord and become disciple-makers.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we explore the concept of "disenculturation" as an alternative to "deconstruction." We sit down with Collin Hansen, Vice President for content and editor in chief at the Gospel Coalition, to understand how Christians can evaluate their cultural practices through a biblical lens.Through engaging examples from church history, we examine how to distinguish between essential biblical truths and cultural practices that have become intertwined with faith. From worship styles to dress codes, we discuss how different generations navigate these distinctions. We also tackle challenging topics like historical Christian responses to racism and segregation, while offering practical advice for parents and pastors on helping their communities distinguish between non-negotiable faith elements and cultural expressions.Drawing from examples like the Jesus Revolution and contemporary church practices, we learn how to maintain strong biblical convictions while showing grace toward different cultural expressions of faith. ----NEW RESOURCE: "Launch: Biblical Help to Move Your Teen or Young Adult Into the Real World" - A concise one-hour read packed with essential guidance for parents navigating the challenging transition of teens into adulthood. Available on our website and Amazon. FREEAUDIOBOOK: Get "The Disciple Making Parent" audiobook completely free when you subscribe to our weekly newsletter at disciplemakingparent.com. Join our mission to equip parents, grandparents, and pastors with the tools to pass the gospel to the next generation.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Podcast, we sit down with Melissa Kruger to explore the challenges and joys of raising teenagers in today's world.We discuss how to create meaningful family connections in a tech-saturated age, establish healthy boundaries while showing acceptance, and maintain availability without sacrificing personal boundaries. Through practical examples and heartfelt insights, we learn how to balance rules with grace, consequences with compassion, and discover why our relationship with God remains the foundation for effective parenting.Whether you're navigating the teenage years or preparing for them, this conversation offers encouraging perspectives on raising teens with biblical wisdom in a secular age.----Resources From This Week's Podcast:Parenting with Hope: Raising Teens for Christ In a Secular Age, by Melissa Kruger Walking With God In the Season of Motherhood, by Melissa KrugerThe Gospel CoalitionThe New City CatechismOutliers, by Malcolm GladwellDavid and Goliath, by Malcolm GladwellOur new book "Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World" offers practical guidance for parents navigating the transition period, and you can get a free audiobook of "The Disciple Making Parent" by signing up for our newsletter. You can find all of this and more at thedisciplemakingparent.com.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Podcast, we journey into the powerful testimony of Banele Ndlovu, a young Zulu man from South Africa who assists with translation work at Imprint ministry.We explore his upbringing in a complex spiritual environment, where traditional ancestor worship met Catholicism. Through his mother's battle with cancer and his own search for truth, we witness how a crisis of faith led him from planning to become an atheist to finding authentic Christianity. His story showcases the contrast between the endless cycle of appeasing ancestors and the transformative power of discovering truth through Scripture.From believing he was the only true Christian in the world to finding a community of believers, Banele's journey reminds us of how genuine faith can emerge from the depths of spiritual confusion.---A brand-new resource is coming this June for pastors, deacons, and aspiring church leaders! Managing Your Households Well: How Family Leadership Trains You for Church Leadership is based on Paul's wisdom in 1 Timothy 3:4 and is designed for church leadership teams to study together.Pre-order now on Amazon and get ready to strengthen both your home and church leadership! 

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we hear an inspiring story of transformation and ministry in South Africa. We meet Tommie Van Der Walt, the executive director of Imprint Ministries, who shares his journey from being a rebellious prodigal to becoming a passionate minister. Through a powerful testimony involving a car accident and faithful friends, we learn how God's grace and a praying mother's persistence led to his dramatic conversion. After his conversion, Tommie's path led him from teaching English in Thailand to establishing Imprint Ministries, an organization dedicated to training pastors and providing affordable Christian resources across Africa. We also gain fascinating insights into the diverse landscape of South African churches, from traditional denominations to unique cultural expressions of faith.The episode concludes with valuable wisdom on intentional discipleship and the importance of maintaining strong family connections within the church community. -----Don't miss out on these two valuable resources from The Disciple Making Parent:Weekly Family Discipleship Email: Sign up at thedisciplemakingparent.com to receive weekly prompts for family discipleship. As a bonus, you'll get the audiobook of The Disciple Making Parent completely free⁠⁠.The Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog: Listen to over 150 blog posts in audio format, perfect for learning on the go. Find it on your favorite podcast provider by searching "The Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog".Visit thedisciplemakingparent.com today to access these free resources and strengthen your family's discipleship journey.

Do you have teenagers in the house? Are you navigating the transition from childhood to the teenage years—and wondering how to guide them into adulthood? Whether you're helping them choose a college, explore training opportunities after high school, or seeking wisdom on how to disciple your young adult, this episode is here to help.Today, we will look at the first two chapters of Chap's newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, I explore the spiritual discipline of making plans and resolutions for the new year. I look at how making noble plans is not just acceptable for Christians, but is actually an aspect of godliness.Through biblical examples and practical wisdom, I discuss how planning can be an act of imitating God, while also learning to hold our plans with an open hand. I share insights on seeking godly counsel, setting meaningful goals, and understanding how to approach personal growth in wisdom, physical health, spiritual life, and social relationships.Whether you're skeptical about New Year's resolutions or eager to make positive changes, this episode provides biblical perspective on how we can thoughtfully approach planning while staying anchored in God's guidance.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we welcome Jason Hsieh as we explore thoughts on biblical hospitality. We dive into the biblical foundations of hospitality, discussing passages from Romans, Deuteronomy, and Hebrews that shed light on this often misunderstood practice. Jason and I discuss the common cultural misconceptions about hospitality, emphasizing that it's not just about fancy meals or social gatherings, but a profound way of showing love to strangers and those in vulnerable positions. We examine how hospitality reflects God's grace towards us and how we can embody this in our own lives. Join us as we unpack the surprising depth and counter-cultural nature of true biblical hospitality.Resources From This PodcastWhy Pursue Hospitality?– Sermon by Jason Hsieh A Portrait of Hospitality– Sermon by Jason HsiehMessage by Chris McGrady on David's hospitality to MephiboshethTopics Covered In This Week's Podcast03:03 What is hospitality?9:35 Hospitality as an implication of the gospel13:52 Biblical hospitality vs. the world's hospitality16:21 Examples of hospitality in Scripture20:51 Personal experiences of hospitality

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore Eden Parker's faith journey and her work with Bible.net. We discuss the impact of growing up in a Christian home, the challenges faced during college years, and how these experiences led to the creation of a unique online resource for Bible study. We talk about the importance of discipleship, the role of mentors, and how Bible.net aims to provide curated, reliable Christian content for those seeking answers to life's big questions.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the question "Does marriage really matter?" We examine whether marriage is beneficial for individuals and society, or if it hinders personal fulfillment. We discuss surprising statistics about declining marriage rates and changing attitudes towards marriage among younger generations.Our guest, Professor Brad Wilcox, presents scientific evidence challenging popular myths about marriage and argues for its importance in creating happier individuals and flourishing children. We also look at the concept of "inverted hypocrisy" in how elites portray marriage in media versus their personal lives.Join us as we navigate through current ideas about marriage, explore which groups are succeeding in maintaining strong marriages, and uncover the statistics that demonstrate the benefits of marriage for men and women.-----Don't miss our latest resource for parents! Our new book "Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World" is now available. This quick read offers practical guidance for parents navigating the challenging transition of their teens and young adults into adulthood. In just about an hour, you'll gain valuable insights on:Foundational principles for guiding teens through their later yearsStrategies for three common scenarios: leaving for college, staying at home after graduation, and staying at home longer than expectedAs a parent who's been through this journey, I understand the confusion and challenges firsthand. That's why I created this resource to fill the gap in guidance for parents during this crucial time. Get your copy of "Launch" today on our bookstore at thedisciplemakingparent.com or on Amazon, and equip yourself to better support your teen or young adult in their next big step.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we celebrate a major milestone—our 100th episode! We'll take a moment to reflect on highlights from some standout episodes throughout the years.Highlights include:Episode 1: Solid Gold Advice from Seasoned Christian Pediatrician - Dr. Tom HinesEpisode 20: A Baby's First Year - Dr. Tom HinesEpisode 6: Bullying and the Gospel - Kevin McKayEpisode 65: Current Issues Teens Face (Part 1) - Travis RymerEpisode 66: Current Issues Teens Face (Part 2) - Travis RymerEpisode 68: Respect the Image: How to Communicate Well - Tim ShoreyEpisode 94: God at Work Aboard Mercy Ships - Bekah BettisEpisode 83: Marriage Panel: Real-Life Conversation and Encouragment - Chap and Sharon BettisEpisode 32: Gospel Infused Parenting - Bob and Julie KauflinEpisode 73: How to Shepherd Troubled and Angry Teens - Dr. Rick HorneEpisode 89: The Toxic War on Masculinity - Nancy PearceyEpisode 77: Glimpses of God's Glory - Chap BettisEpisode 78: Glimpses of Christ's Glory - Chap BettisEpisode 79: Glimpses of the Believer's Glory - Chap BettisEpisode 86: Honor: Our Duty to God and Others - Chap BettisEpisode 90: Understanding and Helping the Pastor's Kid - Barnabas PiperEpisode 59: Hope When You Lose a Child - Cameron ColeEpisode 72: Walking Through Deep Sorrows and Loss - Tim ChalliesEpisode 96: Characters of Easter - Dan DarlingEpisode 39: Characters of Christmas - Dan DarlingEpisode 54: Making Our Church a Safe Place - Jeff DalrympleThank you for being part of this journey. Here's to many more episodes to come! Be sure to check out my OTHER podcast The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we have the privilege of speaking with Dr. Albert Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky.Dr. Mohler shares his personal journey of faith, from his childhood and early influences to his current views on the future for parents and church leaders. We discuss the importance of grounding children in the gospel and the challenges parents face in today's cultural climate.Additionally, Dr. Mohler offers valuable advice for young parents and reflects on the joy and responsibility of raising the next generation.Join us for an insightful conversation that aims to equip and encourage parents and grandparents in their mission to pass on the gospel. -----Be sure to check out my newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent podcast, we embark on a journey through an ocean of ideas, recognizing the importance of discernment in navigating the truths and falsehoods that surround us. As we consider the influence we have on our children's understanding of the world, we'll explore the critical role of discernment in their growth.In this episode I share a thought-provoking sermon from my associate pastor, Travis Rymer, who guides us through the warnings God gives in 2 Peter 2. As the sermon unfolds, he progressively applies biblical insights to the younger generation.So join us as we reflect on the impact of false teachers and explore how to equip ourselves and our children to discern truth in a world teeming with ideas. -----Be sure to check out my newest book Launch: Biblical Help for Moving Your Teen or Young Adult into the Real World.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we share a sermon on Financial Instructions from The Master, where I share biblical teaching and practical suggestions on personal finance and generosity.At the end of the sermon, we'll reflecting on the importance of understanding that everything we have is a blessing from God, and our role is to be good stewards of these resources. So, join us as we navigate the complex world of finance through a biblical lens.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we engage in a compelling conversation with Dan Darling about his book, "The Characters of Easter". We explore the surprising insights into the lives of Peter, John, Judas, Pilate, and other figures from the Easter story.We discuss how these real people with complex emotions and decisions bring depth to the biblical narrative. We also touch on the challenges and rewards of parenting, and how the sacrifices made by the parents of James and John provide a powerful example for modern families.Join us as we reflect on the transformative power of Easter and its characters, and the lessons we can learn from them today. -----If you're enjoying this podcast, don't forget to subscribe to our Family Discipleship email. This weekly email is designed to help parents, grandparents, and pastors equip the next generation.You'll receive valuable resources to aid you in passing the gospel to your children or grandchildren. To subscribe, head over to our website, thedisciplemakingparent.com, and sign up for the weekly newsletter.

In this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we present a special message from Ed Moore. Drawing from his extensive personal and pastoral experience, Ed shares valuable insights on parenting.He underscores the significance of expressing love to our children frequently and the impact of creating memories through spontaneous, fun, and creative activities.Ed further highlights the role of faith and grace in parenting, narrating his own journey of learning from failure and defeat. This episode is full of wisdom about raising children in a godly, impactful, and joyful manner. -----Be sure to check out the Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog. This short-form podcast features blog posts read in audio format, perfect for consumption on the go or during chores. Search for and subscribe to the Disciple Making Parent Audio Blog for valuable, bite-sized content.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, I have a captivating conversation with my daughter Bekah Bettis, a nurse serving with Mercy Ships in Sierra Leone. Join us as we explore the incredible work of Mercy Ships in providing essential surgical care to those in need. Discover how Mercy Ships collaborates with local healthcare professionals and government ministries to address the specific healthcare needs of the community. Be inspired by Bekah's personal journey and her commitment to training and empowering local healthcare workers. Don't miss this eye-opening discussion on the impact of Mercy Ships and their mission to bring hope and healing to the world.-----Get a free copy of The Disciple-Making Parent audiobook and start receiving my weekly parenting emails.

In this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent podcast, we delve into how a biblical understanding of heaven can profoundly impact family dynamics and relationships. We'll explore themes of heaven, holiness, and their relevance to daily life, emphasizing the importance of actions that please God rather than seeking human approval.The episode highlights the anticipation of heaven as a motivation for Christians to live holy lives, especially in family contexts. We also discuss the reality of judgment and grace, offering practical advice for believers to apply in their daily lives and relationships.-----For more information about The Disciple-Making Parent or to join our newsletter visit: www.thedisciplemakingparent.com

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we have a thought-provoking conversation about the concept of heaven and its significance in our lives. We are joined by special guest Dr. Andy Davis, senior pastor of the First Baptist Church of Durham, North Carolina, and author of the book "The Glory Now Revealed."We discuss the transformative power of remembering and learning about God's glory, the impact of rewards in shaping our eternal perspective, and the profound connection between our past experiences and the fullness of God's redemptive story. Discover how this understanding can bring hope, joy, and a renewed sense of purpose to our daily lives. Don't miss this enlightening and inspiring conversation.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we dive into the powerful testimony of Brit Redfield and the struggles she faced as a young person turning away from Christianity. In this episode, we explore the challenges of reconciling personal feelings with biblical teachings and the transformative power of God's love. Through Brit's story, we are reminded of the importance of understanding and embracing the gospel in our lives.Resources From This Podcast:Brit Redfield at Converge.org– profile and support pagee-mail BritBaptist Student MinistryLiving Hope: Support and resources for leaving homosexualityIs God Anti-Gay? by Sam AllberryTopics Covered InThis Week's Podcast:00:11 Introduction 04:05 Brit's childhood and upbringing09:53 The progression of same-sex attraction in Brit's teen years13:12 Turning away from God in college20:04 A softening heart, and God speaking into it32:25 Where Brit is today35:39 Brit's advice for parents40:18 What Brit would tell her teenage self42:12 Recommended resources

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we delve into the unique challenges and blessings of being a pastor's kid. Join us as we explore the pressures of being on display and the expectations that come with it.We discuss the importance of genuine friendships and the need for pastors to advocate for their children. Discover the nuances of being a pastor's kid in different church sizes and roles, and how parents can navigate the balance of modeling their faith while allowing space for their children's questions. Tune in to gain insights and encouragement for raising children in the ministry.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we explore the topic of toxic masculinity and its impact on society. In it, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with bestselling author and professor Nancy Pearcey about her latest book, "The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes."We discuss the societal pressures faced by men and the importance of understanding the difference between the good man and the real man. We also discuss the origins of the toxic masculinity narrative and how it has affected the younger generation. Join us as we navigate this urgent issue and discover how biblical principles can shape a positive view of masculinity.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we engage in a discussion about the concept of authority with our guest Jonathan Leeman.Our conversation today revolves around Jonathan's new book Authority: How Godly Rule Protects the Vulnerable, Strengthens Communities, and Promotes Human Flourishing.We delve into what authority is, the principles of good authority, and different types of ways we exercise authority. We also discuss how the topic of authority is applied in our homes as husbands, wives, parents, and children. We further explore the importance of submitting to higher authorities, the dangers of bad authority, and the essence of good authority. Tune in to hear more about this enlightening conversation on authority.--Jonathan Lehman serves as the editorial director for 9 Marks and he's co host of the Pastors Talk Podcast. He's the author or editor of over a dozen books and teaches at several seminaries. Jonathan lives with his wife and four daughters in a suburb of Washington, D. C., and he's an elder at Cheverly Baptist Church.-- I want to remind you that we have a second podcast, The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog. It's a short form podcast where I read my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. So you can consume good content while on the go or doing chores. Simply search for and subscribe to The Disciple-Making Parent Audio Blog.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we continue our look at honoring parents. In this thought-provoking episode, we'll hear from Matt Schmucker as he walks us through Exodus 20:12 and provides a strong foundation for understanding the calling to honor parents. This sermon covers the biblical foundation of honor, the challenges of honoring non-believing or difficult parents, and the lifelong impact of honoring our parents.Tune in as we explore this essential aspect of raising godly children and equipping parents and churches in passing the gospel to the next generation.----If you're struggling with anger in your home, then Parenting with Patience may be perfect for you. We've received numerous testimonies about how this five week, video driven Bible study has transformed people's lives. So if you're a mom or dad that's struggling with anger, you should check out Parenting with Patience.For more information, visit parentingwithpatientstudy.com.

On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent, we delve into the concept of honor and its significance in our modern world. Join us as we explore the meaning of honor and its relevance in today's narcissistic and therapeutic age. As we reflect on the duty and recipients of honor, we examine the potential impact of embracing this concept in our families and navigating the challenges of our current culture.For more information about The Disciple-Making Parent, visit thedisciplemakingparent.com.

On this episode, I share my personal experience as a homeschool parent, reflecting on the importance of not losing sight of the big picture in the day-to-day of parenting. We'll look at some key gospel principles that we may have forgotten in the midst of the busyness of raising our children. I highlight the importance of making discipleship the true goal of homeschooling and of finding our identity and significance in Christ. Even if you don't homeschool, but you're in the middle of your parenting years, I think that you will find this information immediately applicable.

Life moves quickly for parents and children alike. As a parent, I was reminded of this when my children shared something they learned in history class. What was once real life to me had become history to them, passed down through a textbook. Passing on God's great works and truths from generation to generation is a responsibility of parents, grandparents, and churches. In this episode, we look at Psalm 78 and its commands for us to leave a legacy of faith and encourage the next generation to put their hope in God.-----We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/

Marriage conferences can encourage and challenge us with the principles they teach. But how does it work in real life? Would you like to hear from some not so perfect couples? We're continuing a short three-episode series on marriage and in this episode, you're going to hear from two couples who have been married a while. They talk about how their marriages have endured and flourished over the years.-----We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/

In today's episode, I want to share with you some information that's helped me. Our church recently hosted a marriage conference where Deepak Reju was the speaker. I found his third session on handling conflict especially helpful. In it, he talked about how to deal with fights, how to pursue understanding your spouse, and how to make a genuine apology.I believe you are going to be truly blessed by this episode.Deepak Reju serves as the pastor of Biblical Counseling and Family Ministry at Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC. He and his wife Sarah, have five children, and Deepak is the author of several books, including Great Kings of the Bible, On Guard, The Pastor and Counseling, and Pornography: Fighting for Purity. He serves also on the board of directors of the Biblical Counseling Coalition and is a trustee for the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation.-----We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/

We know that marriage is the most intimate of relationships. Our marriages display the gospel to our children and to the world. And yet marriage can be difficult. when two sinners are that close, problems arise.In this episode, you will learn to serve Jesus in your closest relationship.

In today's episode, we will be thinking about social media. We know our devices go with us everywhere. We also know that one specific application, social media, influences us and everyone around us—including our children.So what are we to do? In this interview, we talk with Chris Martin about his new book, The Wolf in Their Pocket, 13 Ways the Social Internet Threatens the People You Lead. We cover a variety of different topics surrounding social media. To learn more about The Disciple-Making Parent Ministry, visit thedisciplemakingparent.com.

Have you thought biblically and clearly about your coming glory? That's right. Your glory. Does that sound heretical to you? Then, you'll want to listen to this episode.In this episode, you'll be surprised at the findings that we, as believers, are headed for a glorious existence that we can't even imagine and will receive rewards or glory from Christ that will shock us. This is the third episode in a three-part series on glory.

Do you feel stuck in your spiritual walk? Are you an older Christian who opens his Bible and thinks, "I've heard this before?" Do you worry that you are coasting in your Christian life? In this episode, we will look at the key to finishing strong, which is pressing more into the glory of Christ. We will learn Jesus is the focal point of God's glory, and we are to sense that glory increasingly. This is the second episode in a three-part series on glory.

What does it mean to glorify God? How do we live for the glory of God, and how does it apply to our family? In the next three podcasts, we will explore the subject of glory. Glory is a word we use regularly, but we don't actually know what it means. I've had the privilege of thinking about the answer and preaching several Sunday messages on that topic. In this first podcast, Glimpses of God's Glory, you can listen to a short topical sermon. We will see four different uses of the word, which explains why we struggle to understand it. And we will think about how the word glory is used in a survey of scripture. Once you understand this teaching, the word glory will pop out at you all over scripture.Why is this important on a podcast, usually devoted to family discipleship? It's to remind us that everything is not about family discipleship. Everything is ultimately about Jesus; when parents and pastors are reminded of this truth, we'll be healthier leaders.______________We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/

In any marriage, there will be disagreements, but do you know how to keep your conflict constructive rather than destructive? The issue is not whether we'll have conflict or not, but whether that conflict will be destructive or constructive. Constructive conflict leads to a new understanding of each other, the issue, and ourselves. You end up closer together at the end. Destructive conflict, on the other hand, results in continued upset and bitterness. It leads the parties to pull away emotionally. So how do we prevent destructive marriage conflict? It's vitally important that we understand this because our marriage displays Christ to a watching world and to our watching children. Well, that's the subject of this podcast. We're gonna talk about Preventing Destructive Martial Conflict.-----This podcast is a crossover from my other podcast The Disciple-Making Parent Audioblog. In that podcast, I read my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. If you enjoy today's short podcast, I urge you to subscribe.

You're a person who loves the material that The Disciple-Making Parent produces, but how do you help others catch the vision? What can you do to help others pass the gospel to their children and keep them from becoming spiritual casualties? In today's episode, Guy Wilcox, a youth pastor out of Fayetteville, Arkansas, gets very specific about how he used the book, The Disciple-Making Parent to equip the parents in his large church.

"If only I had some scientific proof that Christianity is true that would really strengthen my faith." Have you ever found yourself thinking something like that? Or maybe your teen has also wished that there was scientific proof for Christianity? If that's true, then this podcast is for you. In today's podcast, we're going to be thinking about the blessing and limitations of science.We live in a time when we're blessed and amazed at the scientific discoveries that enrich our lives. But a belief in science can morph into the idea that science itself is how we know reality. This belief is certainly held by many around us, and it can affect our faith and the faith of our children.In today's podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Keith Plummer, a professor of theology and dean in the School of Divinity at Cairn University and a contributing author to the book Before You Lose Your Faith: Deconstructing Doubt in the Church.-----We want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ, who can stand strong in today's culture, and you can get the audiobook of the Disciple Making Parent absolutely free.Simply visit: http://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook/

The teenage years can be tumultuous. Suddenly we wake up and find that we have an angry and unmotivated teen. Where did that come from? We're talking with Dr. Rick Horne about the contents of his book, Get Outta My Face: How to Reach Angry and Unmotivated Teens with Biblical Counsel. The interview and his book will give you some very practical handles on how to speak with teens who are troubled.-----I'd like to let you know that we've started another podcast. It's the disciple Making Parent audio blog, and in that podcast I read some of my blog posts in audio format for your convenience. https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/audioblog/

It's every parent's nightmare. An unexpected phone call, an unexpected funeral burying your own child. How do we react in the days and months and years ahead? On November 3rd, 2020, Tim Challies received just such a call. He received the shocking news that his son Nick had died. During those days, months, and year of loss, Tim began to write. And the content of that writing is what we're going to talk about in this episode. We're going to talk about his most recent book, Seasons of Sorrow: The Pain of Loss and the Comfort of God. ——I want to remind you that we give away the audio book of The Disciple Making Parent absolutely free. We're on a mission to equip parents to pass the gospel to their children, and the Disciple Making parent book is at the centerpiece of our ministry. You can have the audio book for free. Just simply visit the www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook

Could it be that we're ignoring a large group in our worship service, even when they show up week after week? I planted and pastor to church for 25 years, and I know that everyone has a wonderful idea about what you should be doing with your time. But I would ask you to think about one little section of your sermon. That's what we're gonna be talking about in today's podcast. We're talking with Dr. Ray Van Neste about his recent blog post entitled: Preacher, Don't Forget to Speak to the Children. And in that post, he lays out several different reasons it's good for preachers to address the children in their sermon. I invite you to listen in on my conversation with Ray Van Neste about the Reasons a Preacher Should Address the Children.

This Sunday, hundreds of thousands of parents will drop off their children at the children's ministry of a church. And hundreds of thousands of volunteer hours will have been spent in preparation, but is the ministry safe? And is it effective? We're going to be talking with Deepak Reju about two of his very helpful books. In the first part of the interview, we will talk about the, his book Build on Jesus: A Comprehensive Guide for Gospel Based Children's Ministry. In the second half of our conversation, we talk about a second book On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse in the Church. We talk about why we should be on guard and what parents and church leaders can do. Whether you're a pastor, a parent, a children's minister, or a volunteer, you will find the conversation with Deepak helpful

God cares about our words. Our words are powerful. They can encourage someone made in God's image or discourage them. Do you need some challenge to honor the Lord with your words?I recently preached on Ephesians 4:29. In that passage, God tells us that we're not to let any on wholesome or corrupting talk, come out of our mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up others according to their needs.All of us need to grow in becoming a godly communicator and I think this sermon might help you in that process. ——I'd like to remind you about our video Bible study Parenting with Patience.It's perfect for those who are in a sin confess, sin confess cycle with anger in the home. I struggled with anger and the truths contained in this study helped me tremendously. And in the launch period, we're giving away a one year subscription of the videos for free with the purchase of a workbook.Visit www.parentingwithpatiencestudy.com for more information.

Our homes are filled with words. Some of these words are helpful and unfortunately, some are not.What if we had some help thinking biblically about communication?In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with my friend, Tim Shorey about his book Respect the Image. In that book, Tim uses the acrostic COMMUNICATE to give us biblical principles of communication.ChillOpen UpMake TimeMean What You SayUnderstand What You HearNourish with GraceInitiate PeaceCelebrate OthersAssume You are WrongThink the BestExamine Your HeartI think you'll find our conversation enjoyable and practical as you seek to speak in a godly way and as you seek to train your children to speak in a godly way.Tim has been a believer for over 40 years and has been in active pastoral ministry since 1982. He is Risen Hope's primary preaching pastor. He is the author of Respect the Image: Reflecting Human Worth in How We Listen and Talk.He has also written An ABC Prayer to Jesus: Praise for Hearts Both Young and Old; along with two devotional books, Worship Worthy: Alliterative Adoration, and 30/30 Hindsight: 30 Reflections on a 30-Year Headache.He and his wife, Gayline, have six adult children and more than a dozen grandchildren.You can find out more about Tim at his website www.timothyshorey.com or on his Respect the Image Facebook account.

It's easy as Christians to get into a sin confess cycle that we don't actually back up and think about what comes before the sin. Once you start looking, you'll find that both the concept and the word temptation are all over scripture.We would do well to recover and think about the biblical teaching on temptation and how it benefits those of us seeking to live out the gospel in our home.In this episode we'll look at a proper understanding of temptation and how it can help frame the way we understand ourselves and shepherd our children.

We give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.

We give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.

How important is the local church in your life? And when you think of your church, what metaphors come to mind? Is one of the first the household of God? What does leadership in the home have to do with leadership in the church? In today's podcast, we're going to be talking with Alexander Strauch about your household, the household of God, and the overlap between the two. ----We give away the audio book of my book The Disciple-Making Parent, absolutely free. Simply email audiobook@theapollosproject.com letting us know you heard about the offer on the podcast.

Do you have teens at home? If so, how's it going? Would you say that your heart is connected to theirs? Would they say their heart is connected to yours? In today's episode of the podcast, we're going to talk with Dr. Richard Ross about two very important subjects.The first is, how do we stay connected to the heart of our teen? What tends to destroy those connections? And second, how do we give our teen a vision for the glorious reign of Christ? I think you're going to love this episode. It's going to be well worth your time.

We are raising children in the information age. We need a new unit of measurement – the exabyte. Experts predict in 2025, 463 exabytes will be created online everyday. That's the equivalent of over 270 million DVDS. Even more amazingly, that data is all available from a device I carry in my hand.But what if all this information was not making my family more wise, but instead more foolish?In this today's podcast we are going to talk to Brett McCracken about his book – The Wisdom Pyramid. In it McCracken lays out a vision for the living a wise life by feeding on contents that are good for our souls. With a glimpse at the food pyramid, he is going to encourage us to have large portions of those things that nourish us, and tiny amounts of those that don't. I think you will find application for yourself and the discipleship of your children.

Christians usually take church attendance for granted. That is, until Covid struck in March of 2020. But the pandemic merely exposed some of our unclear thinking. After all, why should we go to church? With all the pressures on us as parents, why make church a priority?

Today I am sharing a sermon I just preached in my home church on Isaiah 9:1-7. It is a fascinating passage and one of the most famous incarnation passages. That's why it is so appropriate around Christmas. I don't want to give away all the surprises, but in this sermon Isaiah is writing from the mid 700s BC. But he writes and speaks as if he is standing in 100AD looking back on the events of Jesus. We have one coming of light. And we long for the greater fulfillment of light coming into the world.