Adulting

Hello and welcome to this new season of Adulting, where we will be discussing a different topic each week. Let's Talk About... is a feature I host on my Instagram, which I absolutely adore, so I thought I would try out developing it further by adding an audio element.This is the first episode and so things may change from here on out; please do send me your thoughts and feedback I would love to hear from you.As mentioned in the episode, here is the link to my Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/oenonef/p/the-wriggliest-path?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=webI hope you enjoy,Oenone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Demi Colleen is a content creator and writer, who was diagnosed with ADHD last year. In this episode we discuss living with ADHD, getting diagnosed, medication, and how it has affected her timeline both now and retrospectively looking back pre-diagnosis.I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Caggie Dunlop is a podcaster, content creator and author. In this episode we talk about Saturn returns, the subject matter of her successful podcast and new book of the same name, feeling like your timeline is falling behind, an uneasy relationship with fame, her love affair with music, the courage to create, sobriety and so much more. Caggie's book 'Saturn Returns' is out now.I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Poorna Bell is an award winning journalist, author and public speaker and specialises in women's issues, diversity, fitness and mental health.In this episode we talk dating, how timelines are nonsense, getting off the relationship escalator, feeling comfortable in your age, turning 40 and so much more.Poorna's novel 'In Case of Emergency' is out in paperback on March 30th.I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.This week I'm talking to Shelley Syme. Shelley's timeline completely shifted when at the age of 29 she found a lump under her armpit and was subsequently diagnosed with breast cancer, which had spread to her lymph nodes as well, which led her to make the brave decision to have a mastectomy. We connected online after Shelley wrote a gorgeous poem about her feelings towards her breasts on a post I did for Breast Cancer Awareness month. We talk about finding that life changing lump, reframing your mentality around your body, dating, not wanting children and her love of snooker. I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Annie Lord is a journalist and author. Her debut book 'Notes on Heartbreak' was released in 2022 and I loved it. You will also find Annie writing her dating column in Vogue.In this episode we discuss breakups, partying, fears of aging, being single in your mid-late twenties, the importance of friendships and so much more. I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Liv Little is a creator, author, producer and the founder of gal-dem, a publication committed to telling the stories of people of colour from marginalised genders. Since founding gal-dem at uni she's gone on to write her debut novel 'Rosewater' and has stepped away from gal-dem to pursue a career in writing and tv.In this episode we discuss her new book, and how losing a parent, founding a business at a young age, and learning to protect your mental health affect the timeline of your life. Liv's novel 'Rosewater' is released on 20th April and is available to pre-order now. I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Ellie Flynn is journalist and broadcaster. Her timeline changed when at 27 Ellie got her fertility checked and as a result of the findings made the decision to have a baby earlier than a lot of her peers.In this episode we discuss motherhood, the pressure surrounding the decision of if and when to have a baby, her work undercover and how this has impacted her as a woman, a broadcaster and a mother of a son. Please do check out Ellie's documentary on All4, it's called 'Undercover: Sexual Harassment - The Truth'. I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Welcome to Adulting 2.0: The Timelines.Shon Faye is journalist, podcaster and author of the best-selling non-fiction book, ‘The Transgender Issue: An Argument for Justice'. Following graduation from Oxford University and a subsequent job as a lawyer in the city, Shon's timeline shifted when she 'had a complete implosion, quit her job, moved back to Bristol and came out as a trans woman.In this episode we chat about all of these moments, as well as addiction, dating, friendship, childlessness as an identity and so much more.I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello Podulters! I've got some very exciting news...Adulting 2.0: The Timelines is coming next Sunday. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey Podulters! Apologies for the sporadic episodesi I hope you will forgive me. In this week’s episode, I speak to Cristina Lopez. Cristina is a neuro-performance coach, living and working in Madrid. I first met her about 8 or 9 years ago when I went travelling, and we reminisce a bit in the episode. We discuss the three things she wishes she had been taught in school, namely; learning how to heal and work with nature / speaking to nature, the philosophy of yoga and how to leverage your own personal assets to create personal wealth/ learn how to be a smart investor over a corporate agent. I really hope you enjoy! Oenone See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well! In this week's episode I speak to model, speaker and soon to be coach, Kitty Underhill. I came across Kitty after a discussion over on my instagram about boobs and we discuss this in the episode, as well as the three things Kitty wishes she had been taught in school. Kitty's three things are body acceptance, media literacy and self love. I hope you enjoy and as always please do rate, review and subscribe! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, in this episode I speak to Jason Okundaye. Jason is a journalist and he is currently writing his first book, Revolutionary Acts : Stories of Love, Brotherhood, and Resilience from Black Gay Britain . We discuss the three things he wishes he had been taught in school, namely social history, media and media ethics, and public speaking. At the end we speak about identity politics and how our attitudes towards it and the ‘privilege’ discourse are changing, which I personally think is quite an interesting topic. Especially as this podcast has centred itself around those things for a while so it’s always refreshing and interesting when you find yourself growing out of - or growing beyond - an idea! I hope you enjoy listening (can’t believe this is episode 101) as always please do rate, review and subscribe! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters! We made it to 100 episodes, I can't quite believe it. That's over 6018 minutes (I could be wrong here, but I tried to add it up), and so so close to 4 million downloads. To celebrate this, I thought I would do a solo episode about what I've learnt doing this podcast over the past three years. It took me a few goes (APOLOGIES FOR THE DELAY), but hopefully this one sort of encapsulates just how transformative this podcast has been for me. I am sure there are a million things I have forgotten to mention, but 100 episodes is a lot! Thank you all so much for listening, thank you to all of my guests, and thank you as well to Acast, I hope you enjoy mwah xxx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters! In this week’s episode I speak to Rutger Bregman, he is a historian, author and speaker. I’m sure if you listen to the podcast regularly you will have heard me mention his book, Utopia For Realists, multiple times. Unlike pretty much anyone else I have spoken to, Rutger said he was pretty happy with everything he had learnt in school

Hey Podulters, I hope you’re well! In this week’s episode I speak to writer Nikesh Shukla, about what three things he wishes he was taught in school, namely confidence and self worth, an instrument and The British Empire. Nikesh’s latest book, Brown Baby is a memoir about race, family and home and we reference it a bit throughout, and he also has a podcast of the same name which you can check out too, I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, I hope you’re well! This week I speak to life coach, author and TedXSpeaker, Michelle Elman. The three things she wishes she was taught in school are that women can be selfish, how to communicate and how to do taxes. Michelle’s new book The Joy of Being Selfish, all about boundaries and how to set them, is out now, and will definitely be right up your street if you enjoy this conversation! As always please do rate review and subscribe, bye! X See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you’re well! In this week's episode I speak to the politics editor at gal-dem, Moya Lothian-McLean. We discuss which three things she wishes she had been taught in school, namely political philosophy, addiction and achievement myths. We talk a lot about social media, and the way that online discourse often dominates our perception of world events and compels us to form opinions on everything all the time, perhaps to our detriment. We also speak about fitness addiction, body image and dieting - so content warning for that. I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe.link to NHS therapy https://www.nhs.uk/Service-Search/other-services/NHS%20psychological%20therapies%20services%20(IAPT),%20including%20cognitive%20behavioural%20therapy%20(CBT)/LocationSearch/10008 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Hey Podulters, I hope you're well! This special bonus episode of Adulting is sponsored by Oatly, my absolute favourite dairy alternative drink! As this is a special episode, we also have a special guest; Namely, my dad. He is a consultant cardiologist, car enthusiast and very amateur rugby player. We discuss the impact of food on the climate crisis, what his relationship with food was like when he was younger and the generational differences between him and I, when it comes to attitudes towards sustainability. This was so much fun to record and I think I learnt more from my dad than he did from me! I hope you enjoy :) If you want to get chatting to your dad - or any family member for that matter - about making sustainable swaps, visit oatly.com/helpdad. i See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, this is the last episode of season 9!! I’ve absolutely loved this season - I think it might just be one of my favourites yet - and this episode is definitely a fab one to end on. I speak to Nadia Whittome, Labour mp for Nottingham East who also happened to become the youngest MP at 23, in 2019. We discuss the three things she wishes she had been taught in school, namely, being taught in a way that she learns, a fuller curriculum; including black history, the climate crisis and trade unionism, as well as how to cook properly. I really hope you enjoy, and as always thank you so much for listening x See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, happy Sunday & I hope you’re well. In this week’s episode I speak to Aja Barber, about the three things she wishes she had been taught in school, namely; that consumption is a trap, the history of colonisation and how it effects people today, and how to manage money. Aja is a writer and fashion consultation who specialities in writing about sustainable fashion and helping you to buy better! She also has a book coming out later on this year. I loved speaking to Aja and I really hope you enjoy listening

Hey Podulters, in this week's episode I speak to Mikaela Loach. Mikaela is a writer, climate justice and anti-racism activist and she’s also in her 4th year at medical school. We discussed the UK civil rights movement, white supremacy and climate justice. This is one of my favourite Adulting episodes ever so I hope you really enjoy, Mikaela was such a wonderful guest and as she says ‘human bean’. As always, please do rate, review and susbcirbe See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well. In this weeks episode I speak to the vivacious, hilarious and ridiculously intelligent Shona Vertue. She is quite frankly, one of my favourite people to speak to. In this episode we discuss the three things Shona wishes she was taught in school, namely; the how and why of meditation, how to survive under capitalism and what it means to be human. I love this episode and I hope you do too! As always please do rate, review and subscribe!O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, happy new year. This is a bit of a rambly episode with just me, myself and I. xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, omg happy almost Christmas! In this weeks episode I speak to Em Clarkson, she’s a content creator, writer and champion of exercising to make you feel good. We discuss the three things she wishes she was taught in school, namely the benefits of exercise, female sexual pleasure and how to do a tax return. I loved speaking to Em, it’s a very giggly episode and I hope you enjoy! As always, please do rate, review & subscribe! Oenone See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well! In this week's episode I speak to my big sister, Emily. We talk about the importance of sun lotion, the inevitability of death and how to avoid a fuck boy.I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe,O See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well. In this week's episode I ask Travis Alabanza what three things they wish they were taught in school. Travis is a performance artist, theatre maker, poet and writer. Their latest show overflow is now on at the bush theatre. We discuss gender binaries, conflict resolution and flirting. I adored speaking to Travis and I hope you enjoy! As always please do rate, review and subscribe xxx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, welcome back to what is technically season 9 of Adulting, even though there was only a week between episodes! In this season I’m asking each guest what they wish they were taught in school. We’re kicking off this season with Maxine Williamson who is 18 years old and currently applying to university. Maxine reached out to me on Instagram and I asked her to guest on the podcast, and I’m so glad I did. I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well. In this weeks episode I speak to writer, podcaster and activist Remi Sadé. We discuss motherhood, how it's changing across generations, and why COVID-19 has shown us that children are better at understanding the concept of responsibility than we maybe previously thought.Remi's Books:Sulwe - Lupita Nyong'oAll About Love - Bell HooksThe Colour Purple - Alice Walker See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you’re having an ok lockdown so far! This week's episode is with writer and editor based in New York, Haley Nahman. She was the features director and deputy editor of Man Repeller, and now she runs her own blog ‘maybe baby’ with 30 thousand subscribers. I found her when I read her blog ‘the Emily Ratajkowski effect’, that she wrote in response to Emily’s essay on reclaiming her own image. Here is the piece if you haven't read it yet; https://haleynahman.substack.com/p/24-the-cult-of-emily-ratajkowski. We discuss lots of the themes in Haley's blog but mostly consider 'choice feminism'. I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate review and subscribe. Haley's Books -No Time To Spare, Ursula Le GuinNever Let Me Go, Kazuo IshiguroOn Writing Well, William See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well! In this week's episode I speak to the inspirational Patricia Bright about her career, financial freedom and becoming a creator. Patricia is the host of Caught Off Guard podcast, creator of The Break platform and Influencer and Youtuber!Patricia's BooksFeel The Fear and Do It Anyway, Susan JeffersAtomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones, James ClearHeart and Hustle, Patricia Bright See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well! In this episode I speak to Jamie Windust about their new book, their favourite makeup lewks and a traumatic experience they had this summer. Their new book 'In Their Shoes' is out now! I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe.Jamie's BooksKnow My Name, Chanel MillerHappy Fat, Sofie HagenThis Book Will Make You Kinder, Henry James Garret See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, I hope you're well! In this week's episode I speak to Vaani Kaur. Vaani is a secondary school English teacher and qualified yoga, fitness and mindfulness instructor. She reached out to me as she had recently (successfully) started a conversation about the problematic nature of cultural appropriation in wellness spaces especially yoga. We discuss this and more as well as the book that Vaani is in the process of writing! I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you're well! In this episode I speak to Dawn O'Porter about her latest book Life In Pieces, as well as how lockdown has changed her approach to parenting, and why we shouldn't always be available to everyone all the time!Dawn's Top Three Books;Ghosts, Dolly AldertonOranges Are Not The Only Fruit, Jeanette WintersonJane Eyre, Charlottte BronteI hope you enjoy :) as always please do rate, review & subscribe. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, in this episode I speak to former spokesman for Tony Blair, mental health ambassador, and sixteen times author, Alastair Campbell. We talk about depression, the taboo of mental illness and a little about private versus state education at the very endYou can buy Alastair's new book Living Better: How I Learned to Survive Depression from all good book stores and retailers. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, welcome back for season 8! In this episode I speak to Ash Sarkar about why politics is so polarised, if we could ever have a unified left, and what a world without capitalism might look like! I hope you enjoy and as always please do rate, review, subscribe & share!!Ash's Top Three Books:The Wretched of The Earth, Frantz FanonThe Lonely Londoners, Sam SelvonRiding for Deliveroo: Resistance in the New Economy, Callum Cant See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, I hope you’re well! This episode is brought to you in collaboration with M•A•C Cosmetics and their iconic Fix+ setting spray, the holy-grail of hydrating mists. Simply spritz to hydrate, refresh and set makeup. In this episode I speak to Natalie Lee, otherwise known as @stylemesunday, about self care and what that truly means to her in 2020. I hope you enjoy and as always please rate, review and subscribe.Enjoy 10% off M•A•C Cosmetics when you enter code GOODVIBES at checkout. Terms and Conditions Apply. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you’re well! In this episode I speak to Sarah O’Brien about being autistic, the language around neuro-diversity and why the correct representation is so important. I hope you enjoy! As always please do rate, review and subscribe! O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, in this episode I speak to journalist, presenter and soon to be author Chanté Joseph. We discuss her recent appearance on ITV's 'Has Britain Changed', what cancel culture really is and why police abolition isn't that radical. I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, hope you’re well! In this weeks episode I speak to journalist, education campaigner and former advisor to Cherie Blair, Fiona Millar. We discuss a private versus state education, where our system is failing, and what Fiona’s ideal model would be! I loved speaking to Fiona and I really hope that you enjoy the episode! As always please do rate, review and subscribe O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, I hope you’re well! In this episode I speak to author, illustrator and influencer, Florence Given. We discuss her debut book ‘Women Don’t Owe You Pretty’, what it took for Florence to become the woman she is today, and why we should always be aiming to grow and evolve. Enjoy! As always please do rate, review and subscribe! O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, in this episode I speak to beauty-journalist, director and producer (to name a few of her roles), Ateh Jewel. We discuss her career, racism in the beauty industry, the history of a 'fashionable' tan and much, much more. I learnt a lot from Ateh in this conversastion and I think you will too, so If you want to support Ateh's new venture - her foundation - then click the link and donate here > https://www.gofundme.com/f/21lx1u4thc?utm_medium=copy_link&utm_source=customer&utm_campaign=p_na+share-sheet&rcid=adecb351f6c94b64b3ad8061f081ee28. Thanks so much for listening, as always please do rate, review and subscribe! O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, hope you’re all good! In this week’s episode I speak to Ione Gamble, founding editor-in-chief of Polyesterzine, and Olivia Graham, visual and audio artist based in Liverpool. Together they host the Polyester Podcast. Polyester is a self-published, intersectional feminist arts and culture platform aiming to bridge the gap of URL feminism with the IRL world. We discuss intersectionality, what that actually means, how to not centre yourself as white woman and lots more, I hope you enjoy O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, this week I speak to author and journalist Daisy Buchanan! We discuss friendship in lockdown, friendship-breakups, friendship-flings and so much more. I hope you enjoy, and as always please do rate, review and subscribe. Thanks so much for listening, O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, this week I speak to author, influencer and (sometimes termed by other people), 'mummy blogger', Candice Brathwaite. We discuss diversity in the influencer industry, her new book I Am Not Your Baby Mother and the current conversations about anti-racism online. Thanks so much for listening, as always please do rate, review and subscribe! O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, this episode was recorded live on the 10th February, however the sound quality wasn't very good so it never got released. In light of recents events I felt it needed to be shared more than ever so my fantastic producer Spike worked really hard to make it listenable! This episode is with Adam Pugh and Africa Daley-Clarke and it is about systemic racism in the UK. I hope you find it insightful and enlightening. I have included some resources below. O xxActions and resources to support #BlackLivesMatterhttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1AFnmIdUcMf2E5ywEj18yWXBfdGz4k25SRc82mqtKYkQ/mobilebasichttps://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/Anti-racism resources for white people https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BRlF2_zhNe86SGgHa6-VlBO-QgirITwCTugSfKie5Fs/mobilebasicLink to Housemans Books instagramhttps://instagram.com/housmans_books?igshid=dlwd47ukgm41Link to Reni Eddo-Lodge initial blog; http://renieddolodge.co.uk/why-im-no-longer-talking-to-white-people-about-race/Survey to lobby for Britain’s colonial past to be taught in schoolshttps://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc5AzoKpB904HmXAXlzJxKAt41YJ0cQ1zRlhMNe7PyfqEdxWA/viewformThe difference between equity and equality https://everydayfeminism.com/2014/09/equality-is-not-enough/Some people to follow on Instagram:@thevitamindproject@adampugh@renieddolodge@laylafsaad@stephanieyeboah@stylemesunday@rachel.cargle@kelechnekoff@candicebrathwaite @munroebergdorf@nowhitesaviors@slayinyourlane@galdemzine@askapoc@freddieharrel@remi.sade@officialmillennialblack @emmadabiri See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey podulters, I hope you're well :). In today's episode I speak to personal trainer, motivational speaker and soon to be author, Adrienne Herbert. Adrienne explains what 'The Power Hour' is, we discuss the importance of a good nights sleep and touch a little on whether or not it's ok to have a weight-loss goal. I hope you enjoy :) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, today is a special Q&A episode with my boyfriend Matt... we answer questions submitted via my Instagram. Is Matt a feminist? What are our top three pic'n'mix? who is the most stubborn? all answered! I hope you enjoy! xxx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, in this episode I speak to Lou Northcote, ex-model and creator of #freethepimple. We discus, beauty standards, the discourse around acne and 'bad skin' and why glowing up shouldn''t about losing weight or getting clear skin, but learning to accept the way you are! I hope you enjoy, as always please do rate, review and subscribe! O xxx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey Podulters, this week I speak to Liv Little and Charlie Brinkhurst-Cuff from Gal-dem (@galdemzine), about their platform, book and new podcast (find here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/growing-up-with-gal-dem/id1509199829). These two women are part of a huge movement, their magazine is award winning and aims to 'share perspectives from women and non binary people of colour. Liv dreamed up Gal-dem whilst still at uni and since it has grown into a huge platform that challenges much of traditional media with its 360 approach to reporting on news from marginalised groups. I hope you enjoy! Please do rate, review and subscribe! O xx See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.