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This Q and A style parenting podcast takes the sting out of the birds & bees talks! Got a question or funny story? Leave a VM 206-926-1522.

Amy Lang


    • Oct 9, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 15m AVG DURATION
    • 201 EPISODES

    4.9 from 142 ratings Listeners of Just Say This! that love the show mention: amy, bodies, sex, irreverent, parents, healthy, approach, helpful, thoughtful, advice, listen, talk, need, love, show, great, informed kids.


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    The Just Say This! podcast is an incredible resource for parents and educators alike who want to navigate the often challenging topic of sex education with their children. Hosted by Amy Lang, this podcast provides a wealth of information, advice, and practical tips on how to approach conversations about sex, relationships, and consent. With her expertise and engaging personality, Amy tackles these subjects with intelligence, humor, and sensitivity.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is Amy's ability to address difficult topics in a relatable and accessible way. Her deep level of knowledge and expertise shines through as she distills complex subjects into easily understandable concepts. Amy's approach is non-judgmental and inclusive, making it easier for listeners to feel comfortable discussing these sensitive issues with their children. She provides practical scripts and strategies that parents can use to initiate conversations about sex and relationships at different stages of their child's development.

    Another standout aspect of this podcast is Amy's genuine and likable personality. Listeners are drawn to her authenticity as she shares personal anecdotes and insights from her own experiences as both a parent and a professional in the field of sex education. Her warmth and empathy create a safe environment where listeners can feel understood, supported, and empowered.

    While the Just Say This! podcast offers invaluable guidance on tackling important topics related to kids' sexuality, some listeners may find that it lacks depth or more nuanced discussions on certain subjects. Although Amy covers a wide range of topics, there may be instances where listeners desire more in-depth exploration or additional perspectives.

    In conclusion, the Just Say This! podcast is an indispensable resource for anyone seeking guidance on how to have open, honest conversations about sex education with their children. Amy Lang's expertise combined with her humorous yet down-to-earth approach makes for an enjoyable listening experience that leaves listeners feeling informed, empowered, and ready to engage in meaningful discussions with their kids. Whether you're a parent or educator, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate the often challenging terrain of sex education with grace and confidence.



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    Crazy sex-talk on the playground and at lunchtime!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 70:11


    Want to invest in your child's future? Check out one of these! Or snag my book, Sex Talks with Tweens and get a ton of scripts.   

    So long and thanks for all the calls! Plus 20 tips for the sex talks from Sex Talks with Tweens -- Episode 200

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 7:06


    Hiya! Here are a bunch of ways you can stay in touch with me! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Resources Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is here. My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention, and even some videos you can watch with your kids. Sign up for my newsletter and get 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –  Birds & Bees & Kids. You'll be the first to know about upcoming classes and get regular tips to keep the talks going. The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center ($89) can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes a massive library of resources that include what they need to know by when, talking about porn, puberty and so much more. Membership includes one Quickie Consultation! A $90 value so it's a wash! Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Monitoring and filtering BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside the US) Sexual abuse concerns Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. Socials Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Thank you again for being a listener (and caller)! Together we've helped thousands of kids be safer and smarter and have a much better chance of growing up to become sexually healthy and happy people! Take care! Amy PS Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote! It works! Areas that get the postcards see an increase in voting!

    Librarian needs script for teachers who are complaining about sex ed books and lesbian moms need to buy condoms for their kid and need some pointers -- Episode 199

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 9:16


    This episode's notes! Amaze video: How to Use Condoms Effectively A Brief Guide to Choosing the Right Size Condom Unite Against Banned Books How to Talk About Book Bans with Friends, Library Patrons, and More: Book Censorship News BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    How to make all your convos with your kids short and sweet! With Mary Wilcox Smith -- Episode 198

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 67:47


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! My guest star Mary Wilcox Smith! Her book, The MicroStep Method for the Overwhelmed Parent is terrific! Get a free chapter here. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Explaining STIs to kids under 10 -- Episode 197

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 5:04


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Health officials recommend more syphilis testing after U.S. newborn cases skyrocketed in 2022 What are STDs? BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Boy masturbating in mom's bedroom; should you buy condoms in front of your kids; and is a body pillow OK for my teen? -- Episode 196

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 14:11


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Good old Amaze has great videos on masturbation (and more)! Show your kids ages 9+. Masturbation Females and Masturbation Birth Control Basics: Condoms, The Pill and The Patch  Anime Body Pillows! Check some out here. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    What does sex positive mean? -- Episode 195

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 7:57


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! The Meaning of Sex Positivity, Explained - My pal and colleague Nadine Thornhill is interviewed for this article! She's fab. Check her out here.  Peggy Orenstein BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    The Valentines Edition: Telling a 6 year-old they can have a "girlfriend" as long as they get good grades; helping tweens navigate crushes; and are trans kiddo romantic sleepovers damaging? -- Episode 194

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 17:22


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Sugar dating with Casey O'Roarty and Christy Keating -- Episode 193

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2024 42:06


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Joyful Courage with Casey O'Roarty The Heartful Parent with Christy Keating BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Neurodivergent kid struggles with impulse control and gal can't keep her hands out of her pants -- Episode 192

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2024 20:31


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Helping Women Period - provides FREE period products for homeless and low-income bleeders. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    How to tell adults to respect your kids' body-boundaries -- Episode 191

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2023 10:31


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes!

    Funny sex talk stories from Huff Post part 2 -- Episode 190

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 5:54


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Funny sex talk stories from Huff Post part 1 -- Episode 189

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 7:04


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post Sugar Dating podcast BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    4-year-old obsessed with private parts and a funny story about getting caught in the act -- Episode 188

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2023 13:41


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! RAINN.org - To find a child advocacy center in your area Consent Parenting for support for surviors. Consent Parenting for support for surviors.  Savvy Parents Safe Kids for general info to keep kids safe. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    My two superpowers, Thanksgiving, and talking about Two-Spirit people -- Episode 187

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2023 5:57


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! These folks do a great job of explaining the two-spirit identity.  A terrifc list of books for kids and teens! Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Children's and YA Book Lists  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    A fetus isn't a baby and gay marriage doesn't mean people will marry their pets, idiot! -- Episode 186

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 8:34


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Fetal Development Stages of Fetal Development Illustration   Other resources BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    How to talk about C-Sections -- Episode 185

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2023 5:07


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Kiddo thinks he isn't horny enough and the connection between sex talk freak out and porn exposure -- Episode 184

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 14:49


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! What's wrong with a lack of interest in or desire for sex? Nothing.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    How to talk about kink -- Episode 183

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2023 5:21


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Working the kinks out BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Talking with neurodiverse kids about masturbation and what to do if your kiddo REALLY doesn't want to talk about sex -- Episode 182

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 15:08


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! If your kid is neurodiverse and you'd like to be part of my focus group and get on my special newsletter list, send me an email. Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    The top 3 STIs and how to talk about them -- Episode 181

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2023 11:19


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! What Are the 3 Most Common STIs? STDs and HIV (from Amaze.org for kids age 10+) BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    9-year-old is pushing boundaries with clothes and makeup, how to handle anime with a teen, and a funny sex talk story --Episode 180

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2023 21:23


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Check out my Instagram How to Talk to Your Daughter About Her Clothes  Celebrate Your Body book Common Sense Media Assasination Classroom - watch here  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Chirp: When is it okay for someone to have sex? -- Episode 179

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2023 4:45


    In this episode, Amy assigns a bit of homework.  When is it okay for someone to have sex?  You have to be able to answer this question for yourself before you can help your kids find the answer. Resources: My book: Birds & Bees & Your Kids: A Guide to Sharing Your Beliefs about Sexuality, Love, & Relationships GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources: My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)  Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Should younger teens be put on birth control and kid majorly breaks down (and shuts down the talks) after sex ed at school -- Episode 178

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2023 24:49


    In this episode, Amy answers a question about when to start birth control and offers help for a parent whose kid has shut down after sex ed at school. Resources: Learn more about Christy Keating and her amazing work at The Heartful Parent Collective. Safety of oral contraceptives for teenagers Amaze.org Every Body Curious GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)  Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Chirp: How to find your child a therapist if they have been porn exposed -- Episode 177

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2023 5:28


    In this episode, you'll learn how to find a therapist for your child if they have been porn exposed. Resources Join the postcarding movement!   Safer Society Press to find a provider in your area if you have concerns about sexual abuse or porn exposure.  GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)  Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Sex is on the table for 15-year-old kid with first girlfriend and kid watching "breast spanking" videos -- Episode 176

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2023 16:48


    In this episode, Amy answers a question from a mom about her 15 year-old and his interest in sex.  Also, Amy offers advice to a parent who is concerned about her 12 year-old who is watching porn. Resources Join the postcarding movement!   My dated (2014) book for teens Dating Smarts: What Teens Need to Know to Date, Relate or Wait! Helps with values clarifcation and making sure they know what they are getting into (like that's a thing).  Safer Society Press to find a provider in your area if you have concerns about sexual abuse or porn exposure.  GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)  Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    Chirp: What a healthy vagina smells like (usually) -- Episode 175

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 5:35


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain how a vagina should smell. Great article on vaginal smells The Body Drama Book has great info about female bodies and more - including a bunch of photographs of different vulvas! Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    Porn exposed kiddo acting out and mom's abuse triggering her. Daughter cries when mom tries to talk to her. -- Episode 174

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2023 13:21


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions from the mail bag about porn exposure and how to talk with a kiddo who is distraught by the talks. Resources: Book: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Amaze.org Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Chirp: Emergency Contraception -- Episode 173

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2023 4:42


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain emergency contraception. Effect of levonorgestrel emergency contraception on implantation  What is EC and How Does it Work? Info from the World Health Organization  Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    Kid buys tubular masturbation assistant and how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling -- Episode 172

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 15:18


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions about how a mom should handle a kid who bought a tubular masturbation assistant.  Also, how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling Resources: Babeland has great sex toys! Feminist and birthed in Seattle Catamenial epilepsy   Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Chirp: Midwife -- Episode 171

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2023 5:47


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain what a midwife is. Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    Mom overhears gay son say he's going to 'slut his way through high school' and questions from kids with special guest star Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 170

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2023 20:31


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    REPLAY - Chirp: Sixty-nine (how could I resist?) -- Episode 169

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2023 5:07


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain 69 to your kiddos. Resources How do you have oral sex?  From Planned Parenthood - don't let the title freak you out!  Also, throw a little cash their way if you can afford it! Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    Phubbing and birth control for teens -- Episode 168

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2023 15:20


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Parental Phubbing Leaves Kids Feeling Ignored and May Increase Depression How to Deal with People Who Won't Make Eye Contact   Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    F-you detrans movement; explaining Mx. to a preschooler, and navigating friends' phones -- Episode 167

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2023 23:37


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on talking to a kiddo about a new teacher with the Mx. prefix.  She also helps a mom whose 10-year-old doesn't have a phone when all of the 10-year-old friends do. Resources: The Trans "Detransition" Wars Study Examines The "Social Contagion" Hypotheses of Transgender and Gender Diverse Identities Books: Annie's Plaid Shirt I'm Not A Girl I Am Jazz Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    REPLAY - How to explain what being a lesbian means -- Episode 166

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 3:45


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy explains what being a lesbian means. Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    REPLAY - Alternatives to porn: The Joy of Sex! The Joy of Gay Sex! The Lesbian Sex Bible! -- Episode 165

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2023 7:00


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy discusses alternatives to porn for teenagers. Show notes: The Joy of Gay Sex The Lesbian Sex Bible The Joy of Sex   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    REPLAY - Gay guy and his gal-pal sexually bullied by 10-year-olds. True story. -- Episode 164

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 35:36


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy interviews two college students about their weird experience with a group of young kids. Show notes: Be a Positive Bystander What is Sexual Bullying and Why Do Kids Engage in It?   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

    Gay Pride Episode! -- Episode 163

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2023 21:29


    REPLAY - A 13-Year Old With a Newly Transgender Friend... Who He Kissed Before, A 9 Year Old Who Wants to Dress Sexy, and Explaining Rape Scenes in Movies -- Episode 163 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who wants to know how to support her son whose friend has recently come out as transgender - after the son and his friend shared their first kiss.  She also talks to a mom who wants to know what to say when her 9 year-old daughter wants to dress in sexy clothes.  And she talks through how to explain rape scenes from movies to kids. How many youth and adults identify as transgender in the United States? (This isn't the study I referred to but has the same info) 3.7 million more children in poverty in Jan 2022 without monthly Child Tax Credit   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website

    Slut -- Episode 162

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 5:57


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the term 'slut'. List of sexual slang terms from Bark BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Personal baggage but still needing to do the sex talks. And comments about kids' bodies -- Episode 161

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2023 20:25


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a parent who is worried about their past experiences with their own sex education creeping into their talks with their kids.  Amy also gives advice to a parent who is worried that her partner, through his conversations with their kids, could be introducing body issues for their children. Book: Fat Talk   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Mifepristone and a never-ending period --Episode 160

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2023 6:58


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about medication abortion, plus a story about a never-ending period. Great video for kids about medication abortion BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Ejaculate Responsibly! And vasectomies --Episode 159

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 10:52


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Ejaculate Responisbly. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Guest Star! Questions from kids and more with Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 158

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 44:50


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Rowena from Amazing Me, who provides sex education resources for families and schools. Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Article: Empathy in children  BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    IVF -- Episode 157

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 7:00


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about IVF. Books for kids about kids concieved through fertility treatments  BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Ganged by the Ski Patrol and parents on different pages about the talks -- Episode 156

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2023 22:11


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a mom about what to do after her young son gets ahold of a racy book on Kindle Unlimited.  Also, how to handle the talks when parents disagree on how to have them. If you want to check it out (and buy it) Ganged by the Ski Patrol Sexual Values & Attitudes handout Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website  

    Guest Star! First Period Pointers with Liz from Raising Flora -- Episode 155

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 52:41


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Liz from Raising Flora, who offers first period pointers for kids and caregivers. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Our Bodies, Ourselves -- Episode 154

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 4:39


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Our Bodies, Ourselves. Our Bodies, Ourselves Today BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    Guest Star! Emily Cherkin talks about how to get a grip on screen time -- Episode 153

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 39:36


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with The Screen Time Consultant, Emily Cherkin, about ways to help your kids manage their screen time. Screen Time Consultant - check out Emily's freebies: Top 3 Tech-Intentional Tips Webinar and her eBook "7 Ingredients for Screentime Balance" on the top of her website. Which Parental Controls Do I Recommend? None.  I'm 43. I Made a Fake Snapchat Account Pretending to Be 15. Seattle lawsuit against social media and Emily's interview about it. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

    IUD -- Episode 152

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 3:50


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy explains IUDs. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website  

    Abortion and fertility BS; girl wants mom to smell her fingers; boy wants to see mom's privates up close; and a funny about an angry penis -- Episode 151

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 19:39


    GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about abortion and fertility.  She also disucsses young, developmentally typical kiddos' antics. Abortion Care 101: The different types and their impact on fertility BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

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