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In today's episode of Stand Firm Parents, Jake McCandless teams up with Jon Dodson, tech expert and Director at LifeWord, to tackle the toughest parenting questions in the digital age. How do we decide when our kids are ready for a device? What loopholes do kids exploit to sidestep our rules? Jon offers actionable advice to help parents: Gauge their child's maturity and readiness for a device. Understand the risks and tools needed to monitor device use. Build a trusting relationship where kids come to parents first. With tools like Qustodio and Bark, and Jon's practical tips, you'll gain confidence in navigating this challenging terrain.

El programa analiza el ciberacoso en los juegos en línea, a los menores de edad, con la ayuda de Emily Lawrenson, portavoz de Qustodio, una herramienta de control parental multiplataforma.

Hablamos de la edad a la que deben acceder los más pequeños a las redes sociales. Hay estimaciones y hay datos que llaman mucho la atención… Dice un informe de Qustodio, que es una plataforma de control parental, que casi 1 de cada 4 niños entre 7 y 9 años ya tiene TikTok. Y ahí se pasan hora y media viendo vídeos de gente bailando, enseñando sus cuerpos completamente sexualizados, desinformando, explotando granos y también haciendo manualidades y cambios de estilo imposibles. Entre otras muchas cosas más.

Desde que se ha generalizado el acceso a internet y sus diversos portales de búsqueda, se ha normalizado la consulta de diversos síntomas que podemos presentar en ciertas situaciones. El riesgo de auto diagnosticarse y desinformarse a través de las páginas no verificadas que encontramos online es bastante alto, por lo que analizamos el fenómeno de la "Cibercondría", la obsesión de la Generación Z y los menores de edad de buscar información de sus dolencias en RRSS. Para ello, tendremos con nosotros a Gloria R.B., psicóloga experta de Qustodio, quien nos ayudará a comprender las desventajas de esta práctica tan generalizada en las nuevas generaciones.

- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centrePorn-Blockers won't stop those who are determined to act out. Their use is, however, essential for those serious about achieving sobriety. It buys you time. It might get you through that day and enable you to add one more day to your sobriety count. Here are some Porn-Blockers:Chrome BlockX/Blocker X,Safe Surfer,Covenant Eyes,Qustodio,Famisafe Ourpast,Norton Online Family,Xblock,AdGuard,Tech LockdownPluckeye,Accountable2you,Focus.me,Antidopamine,Adultblocker,X3WatchBark,Net Nanny,AVG Family Safety,McAfee Family Protection,Canopy, Canopy,Kidslox,PureSight Owl2011,Safe Eyes,Websafety PC,CyberpurifyWould you help fund someone else's Recovery? Go on - give back a little and help make a significant difference in someones life - changing the trajectory of the quality of their life - where they cannot afford the help needed. Give a little to my fund raising page here: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreWant to know more? Click the link and come get me.Get the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpThe Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; discover the real, authentic you. www.kairos-centre.com or email info@kairos-centre.comNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Support Our Show Linktree - https://linktr.ee/garymcfarlaneEpisode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt | Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing Journeys | Intimacy Building | 

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! The Meaning of Sex Positivity, Explained - My pal and colleague Nadine Thornhill is interviewed for this article! She's fab. Check her out here.  Peggy Orenstein BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

Episode 1083 : Youpi, c'est lundi et on vous offre les dernières actualités social servies sur un podcastUsages social media chez les - 18Rapport de Qustodio qui analyse les tendances d'utilisation des adolescentsPour ceux que ça tente le rapport fait 115 pages et s'intitule Né connecté : La montée de la génération de l'IA.Un rapport d'enquête sur l'utilisation d'applications et d'outils en ligne menées auprès de plus de 400 000 familles avec des enfants âgés de 4 à 18 ans.2h 10 quotidien passés sur roblox pour les - définir 18.1h30 sur snapchat qui reste la 2 eme plateforme 1h52 / jours sur tiktok. Pour la France +120% de plus que l'an dernier+ 27% d'augmentation de la consultation de streaming YouTube / Netflix et DisneyTiktok projette des vidéos de 3O minutes15s 30s 1min 1min30 3min 5 min 10min en 2022 ce sont toutes les évolutions qu'a fait TikTok en terme de durée d'upload de vidéos ces 4 dernières années.Adjan tu as misé sur le retour de la vidéo longue en 2024 pour l'instant tu es dans le vrai !L'actualité nous vient de Matt Navarra, expert social media et super consultant .Lui il ne trifouille pas dans les algorithmes mais il a plutôt accès aux version Alpha avant les autres.En Octobre Tiktok commencait à expérimenter des téléchargements de 15 minutes mettant une pièce de plus sur le rallongement des vidéos .Et cette fois ce sont des vidéos de 30 minutes qui sont en test sur TikTok.BeReal lance RealBrandLe 24 janvier, dans un poste de blog, les deux patrons de l'application Be, Real ont annoncé qu'ils aller en 2024 souffrir au Marc et aux célébrités.Après une super année 2022, on a vu ces derniers mois, l'application stagner.Mais le cœur de cette plate-forme social était de jouer le contre-pied de TikTok ou de Instagram.On savait que l'application allez devoir trouver de nouvelles fonctionnalités pour continuer à progresser. Il existait un côté trop répétitif. L'élément différenciant de la plate-forme et le fait qu'on joue l'authenticité, avec peu de relations et qu'on ne cherche pas la quantité.La proximité est extrêmement forte avec ses amis sur la plate-forme.Tendance sur TikTok.On n'en a déjà parlé plusieurs fois dans le super délit mais TikTok est de plus en plus utilisé comme moteur de recherche. Et en ce mois de janvier Adobe a publié une étude sur ces recherches !C'est principalement la gen Z qui considère tik tok comme un moteur de recherche.Alors qu'est-ce qu'il recherche sur la plate-forme ?En numéro un avec 36 %, des nouvelles recettesAvec 35 % de la nouvelle musique.34 % des DIY ou des Tips - 30 % des conseils de mode - 29 % des conseils de Sport - 29 % des conseils beauté -26 % des recommandations de produits Retrouvez toutes les notes de l'épisode sur www.lesuperdaily.com ! . . . Le Super Daily est le podcast quotidien sur les réseaux sociaux. Il est fabriqué avec une pluie d'amour par les équipes de Supernatifs. Nous sommes une agence social media basée à Lyon : https://supernatifs.com. Ensemble, nous aidons les entreprises à créer des relations durables et rentables avec leurs audiences. Ensemble, nous inventons, produisons et diffusons des contenus qui engagent vos collaborateurs, vos prospects et vos consommateurs. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Dans cet épisode, 4 actualités sont décodées. La première concerne une étude de Qustodio, qui révèle que les enfants entre 4 et 18 ans passent près de deux heures par jour sur TikTok, et que leur temps d'écran global augmente. La deuxième actualité porte sur les États-Unis, qui préparent un nouveau plan de subvention pour l'industrie des semi-conducteurs. Sans oublier : Samsung va intégrer l'IA de Baidu à ses smartphones chinois, et Reddit serait valorisé à 5 milliards de dollars.Les épisodes de Signaux faibles sont disponibles sur Siècle Digital et les plateformes de streaming. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Joyful Courage with Casey O'Roarty The Heartful Parent with Christy Keating BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post Sugar Dating podcast BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Fetal Development Stages of Fetal Development Illustration   Other resources BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! What's wrong with a lack of interest in or desire for sex? Nothing.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Working the kinks out BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!  Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram YouTube Website Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain how a vagina should smell. Great article on vaginal smells The Body Drama Book has great info about female bodies and more - including a bunch of photographs of different vulvas! Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions from the mail bag about porn exposure and how to talk with a kiddo who is distraught by the talks. Resources: Book: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Amaze.org Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain what a midwife is. Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Parental Phubbing Leaves Kids Feeling Ignored and May Increase Depression How to Deal with People Who Won't Make Eye Contact   Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on talking to a kiddo about a new teacher with the Mx. prefix.  She also helps a mom whose 10-year-old doesn't have a phone when all of the 10-year-old friends do. Resources: The Trans "Detransition" Wars Study Examines The "Social Contagion" Hypotheses of Transgender and Gender Diverse Identities Books: Annie's Plaid Shirt I'm Not A Girl I Am Jazz Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Even more resources: Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

Amb un concepte anglosaxó, el 'phubbing' (contracció de 'phone' i 'snubbing' -menysteniment-) defineix aquelles situacions en les quals les pantalles interfereixen obertament en la comunicació entre persones. Segons l'informe anual de la plataforma de control parental Qustodio, el 52% dels pares espanyols confessa que les pantalles redueixen el temps de convivència familiar, el 34% afirma que creen conflictes més d'un cop a la setmana, i el 16% admet que generen problemes diaris a la llar. L'entrada Temps de família: la comunicació fa vincles. Les pantalles no. ha aparegut primer a Radio Maricel.

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy discusses alternatives to porn for teenagers. Show notes: The Joy of Gay Sex The Lesbian Sex Bible The Joy of Sex   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website QUESTIONS? FUNNY STORY? (206)926-1522 Leave a voicemail any time of the day or night and your call may be featured on the show!

Does this sound familiar? You tell your teenager to be careful on social media, but you're not seeing any improvement in their behavior or safety. It can be frustrating to feel like you're not making a difference in your child's online life, especially when there are real dangers lurking on social media. But simply telling your teen to be careful isn't enough. In fact, it can even backfire, leading to resentment and rebellion. Don't let the fear and confusion of social media use overwhelm you. With the right tools and guidance, you can help your teenager navigate the online world safely and responsibly.In this episode, you will be able to:Examine the challenges of social media consumption for minors.Investigate the heated debate regarding TikTok and its potential hazards.Understand the significance of privacy and personal choice for teens on social media.Discuss the effectiveness of content policing on social networking platforms.Find out ways through which teenagers can practice mindful social media usage.Join Podpage: https://www.podpage.com/?via=radellJoin Podmatch: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/purplepoliticalbreakdownMy special guest is Chris MacKenzieChris MacKenzie is an experienced communications director who has dedicated his career to advocating for a technologically progressive future. With a background in working for Democratic campaigns and lawmakers in red states and rural communities, Chris has a unique perspective on the potential impact of social media use among minors. As a key figure in the Chamber of Progress, he has extensive knowledge on related policies and the intersection of technology and progressive values. His insights are invaluable for parents aiming to ensure their teenagers' responsible use of social media.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Visit Chamber of Progress website (www.chamberofprogress.org) to learn more about their work promoting technology's progressive future.Support The Purple Political Breakdown podcast by sharing and leaving a review.Monitor your child's social media use and be involved in their life.Use parental control settings to limit your child's access to certain apps or content.Consider using apps like Bark or Qustodio to monitor your child's online activity.Educate yourself and your child on digital safety and responsible social media use.Encourage your child to report any inappropriate or concerning behavior they come across on social media.Advocate for national legislation on social media use for teenagers and children to protect their privacy and well-being.Contact your elected representatives to voice your support for such legislation.Consider supporting organizations like Common Sense Media or the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children that work to promote online safety for children and teenagers.

Does this sound familiar? You tell your teenager to be careful on social media, but you're not seeing any improvement in their behavior or safety. It can be frustrating to feel like you're not making a difference in your child's online life, especially when there are real dangers lurking on social media. But simply telling your teen to be careful isn't enough. In fact, it can even backfire, leading to resentment and rebellion. Don't let the fear and confusion of social media use overwhelm you. With the right tools and guidance, you can help your teenager navigate the online world safely and responsibly.In this episode, you will be able to:Examine the challenges of social media consumption for minors.Investigate the heated debate regarding TikTok and its potential hazards.Understand the significance of privacy and personal choice for teens on social media.Discuss the effectiveness of content policing on social networking platforms.Find out ways through which teenagers can practice mindful social media usage.Join Podpage: https://www.podpage.com/?via=radellJoin Podmatch: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/purplepoliticalbreakdownMy special guest is Chris MacKenzieChris MacKenzie is an experienced communications director who has dedicated his career to advocating for a technologically progressive future. With a background in working for Democratic campaigns and lawmakers in red states and rural communities, Chris has a unique perspective on the potential impact of social media use among minors. As a key figure in the Chamber of Progress, he has extensive knowledge on related policies and the intersection of technology and progressive values. His insights are invaluable for parents aiming to ensure their teenagers' responsible use of social media.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Visit Chamber of Progress website (www.chamberofprogress.org) to learn more about their work promoting technology's progressive future.Support The Purple Political Breakdown podcast by sharing and leaving a review.Monitor your child's social media use and be involved in their life.Use parental control settings to limit your child's access to certain apps or content.Consider using apps like Bark or Qustodio to monitor your child's online activity.Educate yourself and your child on digital safety and responsible social media use.Encourage your child to report any inappropriate or concerning behavior they come across on social media.Advocate for national legislation on social media use for teenagers and children to protect their privacy and well-being.Contact your elected representatives to voice your support for such legislation.Consider supporting organizations like Common Sense Media or the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children that work to promote online safety for children and teenagers.

REPLAY - A 13-Year Old With a Newly Transgender Friend... Who He Kissed Before, A 9 Year Old Who Wants to Dress Sexy, and Explaining Rape Scenes in Movies -- Episode 163 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who wants to know how to support her son whose friend has recently come out as transgender - after the son and his friend shared their first kiss.  She also talks to a mom who wants to know what to say when her 9 year-old daughter wants to dress in sexy clothes.  And she talks through how to explain rape scenes from movies to kids. How many youth and adults identify as transgender in the United States? (This isn't the study I referred to but has the same info) 3.7 million more children in poverty in Jan 2022 without monthly Child Tax Credit   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   Facebook Instagram Website

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the term 'slut'. List of sexual slang terms from Bark BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

The all-in-one parental control and digital wellbeing solution, Qustodio protects children from all of the dangers lurking in cyberspace, including cyberbullying, inappropriate content, and online predators. With features such as content filtering, time management, and activity reporting, Qustodio helps parents create a safer and healthier online environment for their children. Visit https://qustodio.com

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Rowena from Amazing Me, who provides sex education resources for families and schools. Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Article: Empathy in children  BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

Esta semana nos vamos a Málaga donde se celebra la cuarta edición del Congreso SSIF (Small Satellites and Services International Forum) una cita con todo lo relacionado a los pequeños satélites que nos hacen la vida más fácil. Desde las aplicaciones de geolocalización a servicios cotidianos pasando por una mejor conexión a Internet... todo tiene que ve con un sector, el satelital que ha crecido en los últimos tiempos. Charlamos con dos de sus responsables y luego analizamos qué pasa con los jóvenes que no están en redes sociales. Según un estudio de Qustodio, en España sólo 1 de cada 10 chavales no tiene perfil en alguna red... ¿están aislados o viven más protegidos?Escuchar audio

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Liz from Raising Flora, who offers first period pointers for kids and caregivers. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

In this episode, Amy explains the labia. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

In this episode, Amy answers mail bag questions.   BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)    Facebook Instagram Website

Heads up: This is a parents-only podcast episode. The kids probably don't want to listen to this one.In this podcast episode, we're getting down and dirty and being very frank in our conversation with our guest Amy Lang, MA, who's been a sexual health educator for over 25 years. We talk about the discomfort so many of us feel when talking to our kids not only about sex, but sexuality, masturbation, and everything else in between. Amy gives us some amazing tips on how to start those uncomfortable (but necessary) conversations with your kids about sex, what you can start doing to now to protect your child online, and why it's important to make a mind-shift from negative prevention to intellectual preparation. Resources We Shared:Be Resilient Summit - The Be Resilient Summit is a free online event that gives kids & parents the tools to be kind, manage stress and persevere through challenges. This summit will be held live October 17th-24th, 2002.Bark- Bark's affordable, award-winning dashboard proactively monitors text messages, YouTube, emails, and over 30 other different social apps for potential safety concerns, so busy parents can save time and gain peace of mind. Use the code NOGUILT to get a lifetime discount of 15% off your monthly subscription.Qustodio - a world-wide all-in-one parental control and digital well-being solution for parents. Amy Lang, MA - Simple and effective tips and tools to start the sex talksSex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It by Amy LangJust Say This PodcastBehind Their Screens by Emily WeinsteinVisit No Guilt MomRate & Review the No Guilt Mom Podcast on Apple here. We'd love to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Rate us on Spotify here!The Be Resilient Summit is a free online event that gives you everything you need to help your kids be kind, manage stress, and persevere through challenges. This summit will be held live October 17th-24th, 2002. Grab your FREE ticket today!

Cada vez el tiempo que pasamos en las redes sociales es mayor. Además las nuevas actualizaciones de estas redes han impulsado el formato video y las cuentas públicas, provocando que muchos menores expongan su privacidad e intimidad en las redes. Hablamos con Eduardo Cruz, CEO de Qustodio.

En España, antes de la pandemia se celebraron 805 festivales a los que asistieron 6 millones de personas. Pero muchos asistentes han denunciado una mala organización por diferentes motivos. Con Belén Álvarez, abogada de la Asociación de Festivales de Música, analizamos todo lo que hay detrás de la organización de un festival.El número de animales de compañía ha crecido casi un 45%, ahora muchas personas se plantean llevar su mascota al trabajo. Nos explica este fenómeno Sonia Sáez portavoz y veterinaria de Purina. Y con el uso de la tecnología en los más pequeños muchos padres utilizan apps de control parental, Eduardo Cruz, cofundador de Qustodio, la app española de control parental, desvela cómo lo hacen.

Con el uso de la tecnología en los más pequeños muchos padres utilizan apps de control parental, Eduardo Cruz, cofundador de Qustodio, la app española de control parental, desvela cómo lo hacen.

In this weeks episode we talk about the START method that the organization We Start Now has provided on their website www.westartnow.org and on their instagram @we.start.now.  Below is their "Rules of Thumb" method and START method that have helped hundreds of families navigate social media standards and norms.S - START WITH YOURSELFModel healthy tech use for your kids. When studies show the average person checks a smartphone 80 times per day, we need to think about what we are modeling for our kids.  Of course, we will never be perfect...but an honest look at our own digital habits is a great first step toward building empathy, trust, and digital health as a family .T - TURN IN ZONESCreate device free rhythms and spaces. Establish device-free zones throughout your daily routine—a time to recharge and reconnect with one another.  A great place to start is mealtimes and bedtimes—keep phones out of sight when you are eating and have kids charge their devices outside of their bedrooms at night.  The benefits are powerful, and can create lifelong habits that foster your child's mental health and digital well-being. A - ACCOUNTABILITYApply filters + settings + openness. While there is no filtering or parental control product that is 100% foolproof, our kids deserve the highest level filters we can provide. These are only safety nets; the first line of defense should be open relationships with trusted adults who can help children navigate the dangers they run into online. Accidents are bound to happen, and when they do, adults should be prepared to remain calm so kids know we are safe harbor.R - RIDE. PRACTICE. DRIVE.Use a driver's ed approach to tech training. Before you hand your kids the keys to a car, you prepare them to navigate risky situations and road hazards.  They spend many years shadowing you in the backseat, followed by driving with a learner's permit—with  you logging hours by their side to equip them with the needed skills.  Just like a car, tech comes with great responsibility—and requires an intentional training process. T - TIME WELL SPENTConnect online & offline. Keep your eye on what matters most—the life right in front of you.  Be intentional about deepening connections with people in your family and community—both online and offline.  Show your kids how to be captivated by life—not screens.  Teach them to ask this simple question:  at the end of my life, what will I say was time well spent?RESOURCES They have a Social Media Playbook which is can be a starter for families struggling keep social media in the proper place with their children. Westartnow.org 2020 Annual Report on Children's Digital Habitshttps://qweb.cdn.prismic.io/qweb/e59c2e0f-ef4f-4598-b330-10c430e2ec71_Qustodio+2020+Annual+Report+on+Children%27s+Digital+Habits.pdf The complete guide to Chromebook parental controlshttps://protectyoungeyes.com/devices/chromebook-parental-controls/ Video Game Decision Treehttps://www.westartnow.org/videogames

Son los chavales que van de los 10 a 24 años, una generación que va a quedar marcada por la pandemia y por el impacto que la tecnología ha tenido en ellos para sobrellevarla. ¿Cómo deben manejar el acceso a la sociedad de las pantallas?. Hoy charlamos con los expertos de Qustodio sobre el tema. Luego os resolvemos todas las dudas acerca de los discos duros para las consolas y el gaming, ¿cuáles son los mejores? y terminamos conociendo una app valenciana que ayuda a los comercios a controlar su aforo, sólo necesitas un móvil Android antiguo, se llama XCount. Escuchar audio

Este fenómeno consiste en documentar las primeras sonrisas, palabras, pasos... y cada una de las anécdotas de los más pequeños en Facebook, Instagram y otras redes sociales. De hecho, tal es el boom que se ha generado en torno a él que el diccionario británico Collins ya lo ha incluido entre sus páginas. Desde entonces, no ha dejado de crecer. Hasta ahora no ha existido otra generación de niños con una infancia tan pública y es probable que, cuando crezcan, muchos de ellos no estén de acuerdo con todo lo que han hecho sus progenitores con su privacidad. Pero, ¿hasta que punto resulta tan dañino? ¿Qué consecuencias puede tener en unos años? Para averiguarlo, en 'Click, Click, Click' acudimos Eduardo Cruz y María Guerrero, CEO y psicológica de familia de Qustodio, la plataforma de seguridad y bienestar digital para familias.

In today's 8-minute [8 track] mini-episode, my friend Gretchen Brown joins me to detail her recent experience using Qustodio to monitor and control her son's phone screentime.

My guest this week is Georgie Powell, a former Google executive turned entrepreneur and now founder of Sentient Digital. Georgie is a recognized expert & and speaker on Digital Wellbeing, committed to helping millions of people consciously connect with technology. Her company, Sentient Digital, is Responsible Technology & Digital Wellbeing Consultancy that works with organizations to build strategies and products which have a positive impact on their teams and the world. Georgie works with researchers around the world to better understand the relationship between technology and humans. Georgie has worked with start-ups building Digital Wellbeing and Responsible Technology products and is an ambassador to leading parental control app, Qustodio. In this episode, Georgie and I discuss how to cultivate digital wellbeing for children and adults. Georgie covers a range of useful tips for parents finding it difficult to manage their children's digital use habits, as well as, struggles with their own personal tech habits. Georgie shares alarming research findings around children and adolescent's use of technology and empowers parents to take action by setting attainable and appropriate boundaries for the whole family.   Where to learn more about Georgie Powell... SentientDigitalConsulting.com Sentient Digital Insights Blog Qustodio App Common Sense Media   Connect with Dr. Nicole Beurkens on... Instagram Facebook Drbeurkens.com   Need help with improving your child's behavior naturally?  My book Life Will Get Better is available for purchase, click here to learn more.  Looking for more? Check out my Blog and the Better Behavior Naturally Parent Membership- a resource guide for parents who want to be more effective with improving their child's behavior.  Interested in becoming a patient? Contact us here.

Hoy hablamos de dispositivos móviles y niños, sobre todo para hacernos reflexionar sobre qué debemos hacer.Todos recordamos la primera mitad del año 2020, donde nos confinaron y la vida de la mayoría de las personas se convirtió en un caos.Así que comenzamos a hacer uso de las nuevas tecnologías, tanto para el trabajo como para el ocio.Hoy quiero hacer un pequeño resumen de lo que sucedió y de futuros consejos y recomendaciones según algunas fuentes (Xataka, Qustodi…) y yo mismo.Debemos tener en cuenta que las pantallas son adictivas y, en consecuencia, pueden provocar en los niños irritabilidad, nerviosismo, trastornos de ansiedad, depresión, alteración del sueño, peor rendimiento académico, inapetencia por las actividades físicas y aislamiento”, María Guerrero, psicóloga infantil de Qustodio.Lo ideal sería razonar con los niños, la psicologa infantil Leticia Ballesteros señala que, es fundamental intentar limitar el uso de las nuevas tecnologías siempre desde el diálogo y nunca mediante imposición. Aunque con los más pequeños es difícil, podemos invitarles a colaborar en las tareas del hogar.La sociedad también está cada vez más digitalizada y nos empuja a conocer el funcionamiento de estas herramientas. Así que una ausencia total de estas tambien puede poner en desventaja a algunos niños.De todas formas es un tema controvertido porque ni los propios psicólogos se ponen de acuerdo. Ya que también es cierto que los niños tienen muchas habilidades que deben desarrollar para relacionarse con este mundo, cada vez más digital. Pero hay habilidades que se aprenden fuera del ámbito digital como todo lo relacionado con la inteligencia emocional, y necesitan desarrollarlas con una interacción cara a cara con sus iguales y sus mayores.Descubre más información en https://carmelosena.com/controlparental/cp30 donde también encontraréis formas de contactar conmigo y no olvidéis suscribiros a la newsletter de Control Parental.Si os gusta el podcast, os animo a que me escribáis valoraciones positivas en la plataforma en la que me escuchéis, y que os suscribáis, porque así haréis más visible el podcast y más gente podrá conocerlo.

Jaime Pinilla nos habla del tratamiento de los datos en la pandemia. Sandra Maunac nos avanza los actos de la segunda edición del Premio Trobades Albert Camus y el I Premio Incipiens. En la sección del Orfeón Mahonés hablamos de teatro infantil, nueva sección para niños y niñas de entre 4 y 7 años. María Guerrero de Qustodio nos habla en SER Tecnología de apps para aprender en el ámbito escolar. Rebeca Morris nos habla de la alianza de cinco entidades que se plantan contra la presencia de plástico en Menorca. Repasamos lo más interesante de la pantalla (cine y televisión) en el primer fin de semana en el que no habrá cine en la isla por el cierre de las salas. Y más.

Today we have a special episode of Ask the Expert instead of our usual All Wrapped Up' episode. Ask the Expert segment hits all the hard places and offers tips and solutions to help us move to the next level. Episode Summary In this episode of Ask the Expert, Dr. Brittanie Clacken continues the discussion on the 'Biological Dangers of Premarital Sex' and gives us a long list of tips that we can use to help us break away from the habits formed once we engage in premarital sex, as well as habits to apply to not repeat the mistakes. Key Takeaways We expose ourselves to sexual images all the time and they play in our minds, even when we go to sleep (4:14) We should pray and ask God to help us to hate sin as much as He hates sin (5:20) If you struggle with sexual sin, get a woman who is more spiritually mature, one who has overcome sexual sin or who doesn't struggle with it, to be a mentor/ accountability partner (7:17) Know your triggers and figure out how to do things differently (14:44) Top Quotes It means being aware of what you put in. We say good in good out.What are you listening to? What are you watching? What books are you reading? (3:47) Commit to feeling godly shame not condemnation that you're dirty or bad, you're unloved but a godly shame that leads to repentance (4:36) You come across something just bounce your eyes. Don't look at it. Change the channel. Keep your head up. Good morning and keep walking (6:20) We use this acronym HALT. Am I hungry? Am I angry? Am I lonely? Am I tired? Try to address those things first before getting into whatever the temptation is (7:58) For those who have made mistakes as we all have. There is redemption. There is repentance. There is purpose in your pain (25:13) When you expose those dark places, that's when God can come in and bring renewal, bring refreshing, bring healing (27:51) Resources The Safest Sex Fight The New Drug, Qustodio https://www.joinfortify.com/ https://k9-web-protection.en.softonic.com/download Scripture references: 1 Corinthians 10:13, Luke 22:54-62, Matthew 27:1-10, Philippians 4:8 Stay Connected Thanks for listening to this episode. If you want to be notified when new episodes are available subscribe HERE. Also, stay connected by following me on Facebook, Instagram and Youtube. Email me at pod@sfswoman.com if you have topic ideas, want show notes, want to be a guest or have questions/comments.

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¿A qué peligros se enfrentan nuestros hijos cuando navegan por Internet? ¿Cómo podemos protegerles? En este capítulo profundizamos sobre el uso de tablets, smartphones y demás dispositivos por parte de los más pequeños y cómo podemos actuar para asegurar un uso responsable. Para hablar de todo ello hemos invitado a Manuel Bruscas, Vicepresidente de Producto de Qustodio que además dirige la estrategia que permite a Qustodio garantizar a las familias la mejor experiencia de seguridad y bienestar digital del mercado. La pasión de Manuel es contar historias a través de los datos y, como padre, está firmemente comprometido con la construcción de un futuro digital más seguro para nuestros hijos.

It's not just a guy's problem!This week, Leah invites speaker and author Kelsey Skoch to share her insights on missionary discipleship and evangelization, but also to address some really hard topics. Kelsey's book Uncompromising Purity, co-authored with Everett Fritz, engages with the often taboo topic of personal purity. There are a lot of women who are affected by pornography, masturbation, and who want to overcome their challenges. Kelsey provides encouragement and practical strategies to overcome addictions and temptations that keep women from living in freedom: everything from getting rid of some devices or getting an accountability filter to having a community of women to talk to.Order a copy of Kelsey's book, and one to share!Catechism references: CCC 2331, 2352, 2354Kelsey's recommendations: Qustodio as a resource for filtering your digital content. They are doing a 10% off worldwide promotion during the month of April due to the quarantine and more people needing this resource. The code for 10% off is STAYATHOME!Integrity RestoredKelsey's Challenge: Continue praying every single day, even if it's just 5 minutes! Give the Lord an opportunity to remind you of his love for you.You can support the Do Something Beautiful Podcast NOW on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/leahdarrow. Help us create great content that you want to hear!Come join us on the Lux app! The Church and the world need you to be a light and to become who you were meant to be, and we believe in your ability to do it! Come join the community, be joined in prayer with a priest chaplain, get Catholic content and formation, and become the leader the world needs.Support the show (http://www.patreon.com/leahdarrow)

In this episode of the Healthy Family Project, we talk to Theresa Desuyo, mom of three and Digital Family Expert at Qustodio, the leader in digital safety and wellbeing for kids and families.  Nowadays, there’s no avoiding technology. Kids are using laptops and tablets at school and opt to spend a lot of their free time surfing the web. Theresa shares ways that parents can help their kids navigate the internet, keep them safe from harmful content, manage screen time, and how Qustodio can help.    About Qustodio: Qustodio enables millions of families to filter out dangerous online content and activities, limit screen time and avoid screen addiction and privately share location. The app-based platform increases online safety and creates daily opportunities to talk with kids about their online experiences, aiding in the digital parenting process that is constantly changing and becoming more complicated.   Listener Survey! Thank you so much for supporting the Healthy Family Project Podcast from Produce for Kids! We'd love if you could take 5 minutes to let us know how we can bring you the best possible content future episodes. By completing the survey, you'll also be entered to win a $50 Amazon gift card! Take the survey here. Healthy Recipes & Tips in Your Inbox Sign up for the Produce for Kids e-newsletter to receive healthy recipe inspiration, our latest blog posts and more directly to your inbox each week.  Healthy Family Project Facebook GroupJoin our new Healthy Family Project Facebook group! This group will serve as a safe space for parents and caregivers to talk all about raising a healthy family - from dealing with a picky eater and tips to get more fruits and veggies onto plates to exercising as a family and mental health. We welcome all of you to join in! Relevant Links  How does Qustodio work? Create your free Qustodio account Use code: SPEAKUP15 for 15% discount on premium plans through March 15 Follow Qustodio on Instagram and Facebook Ask the Psychologist: Screen Time & Kids   Other Podcast Episodes to Check Out: Episode 42: Teaching Kids Financial Responsibility Episode 35: Helping Kids Make Good Choices Episode 31: Balancing Career & Family Episod 3: Managing Screen Time   Timestamps 2:47 What is Qustodio? & how did Theresa get involved? 6:46 How do parents navigate the battle of online content? 10:40 Ways to protect kids from harmful content 14:28 How to manage screen time 20:31 How does Qustodio work?  24:30 What does a healthy family mean to you?  

Digital family expert Theresa Desuyo discusses “digital wellness” for children and the importance of staying safe online. Theresa is an expert with Qustodio.com, a global leader in digital safety and well-being for kids and families. She discusses some tips and tricks parents can use when approaching digital wellness with their children, and also how to […]

Last year we started to dig into the idea of what it’s like to be an IT professional with a strong religious, ethical, or moral point of view, who is also a parent. In that episode we discussed some of the concerns we have with technology, and how we get around those concerns. But like most topics in tech, there is a lot more to say. So today we’re revisiting this topic to extend and deepen the information we shared. In this podcast, Leon Adato, Keith Townsend, Al Rasheed, and Destiny Bertucci about parenting with a bible in one hand and a packet sniffer in the other. Listen or read the transcript for part 2, below. Leon: 00:06 Wlcome to our podcast where we talk about the interesting, frustrating and inspiring experiences we have as people with strongly held religious views working in corporate IT. We're not here to preach or teach you our religion. We're here to explore ways we make our career as IT professionals mesh or at least not conflict with our religious life. This is Technically Religious.Leon: 00:53 This is a continuation of the discussion we started last week. Thank you for coming back to join our conversation.Leon: 00:59 Okay, so I'll, I'll run down, uh, my setup, I'm using what, what I officially call pro-sumer. It's not really consumer. It's, it's in between professional and consumer equipment. Qustodio uh, sorry, Ubiquity, uh, network year, which, um, the, the security gateway that they provide, which you don't have to buy if you don't want to, you can actually run it - okay. really geeky - on a container. You can run it in a container or you can run it on a raspberry pi. Uh, that's what I'm doing. Or you can run it in a virtual machine or you can buy the security key and put it on your network. And that gives you actually NetFlow data. So you can not only tell how much bandwidth you're using, but you can tell by, uh, by source and destination. And so you can tell which device was accessing which targets at any given moment and see a breakdown, and see a breakdown by categories. You can see how much social media traffic, how much video, you know, YouTube or Netflix or Hulu traffic, et cetera. So that lets me see that. Um, it has allows me to create multiple networks so I can segregate my IOT devices. Again, Destiny, going back to the whole Ring and Wise camera thing, I can put those on a completely separate network, which doesn't fix the problems we were talking about, about them being hacked. But it does allow me to lock down those devices a lot more than I would my cell phones or the tablets in the house. I can have separate, you know, lockdowns and controls. Um, and unless you create filters, uh, whether they are access control lists or other kinds of filtering that you can do. Uh, I also have Qustodio on every device in the house. So every Tuesday.Destiny: 02:44 I used to use that.Leon: 02:44 Well you're the one that told me about it. Uh, so that's the one I'm using. Yeah. Qustodio on every cell phone, every tablet, every laptop. It even runs on Linux. Yay Linux! So I run that on everything. And that allows you to have per-user controls. It also lets you have really granular settings. Like I can say that my son is able to watch YouTube videos from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. And that's it. But he can watch, you know, Netflix or Hulu at different times. And the overall device usage is up to four hours a day and after four hours it shuts down. And you know, on Saturdays there's absolutely no usage until after sundown because obviously he shouldn't be using it. But Keith, to your point, temptation is temptation. You never know. So it lets you have really granular controls about the who, the what and the where that devices and that follows my kids everywhere they go that use the device. So it doesn't matter if they're inside my house or outside my house. Qustodio goes with them. And it does give you some other really nice benefits, like Destiny you told me about, uh, your daughter was in, uh, an accident and you knew immediately she couldn't tell you where she was, but her phone was able to tell you where it was and you were able to get there really quickly because you know, your daughter who was already sort of in crisis and not able to process the information, wasn't able to give over that information. So it has a lot of,Destiny: 04:16 Yeah, I got an alert immediately that something had happened and I had a kid see her GPS location, knew everything that was going on and I was already on my way to get her before she even found her phone.Leon: 04:27 So yeah, it's really, really good stuff. So Qustodio goes on every device. Ubiquity is the network gear. I have a little app called pi-hole, which will, uh, run on a Linux machine or you can run it again on a raspberry pi. It was meant for raspberry pi, hence the name pie hole. And what that does, it's, it's security, but it's also almost an internet speed up. It filters out, uh, spam ads that come into your house. They just never come into your house. The pie hole captures them. So you'll see a page and there's gonna be three ads you can see. And two, you can't because the two, you can't were span ads. So that speeds up the webpage. But it also means that there's a whole bunch of garbage that me and my kids are not even seeing. And that's on a element by element basis on every website.Destiny: 05:16 Which also protects you from the cyber attack. So...Leon: 05:19 okay, there you go. And, and finally, uh, OpenDNS or a Cisco Umbrella, depending what you would call it. And the benefit of Cisco umbrella. It's not just that it's a DNS protector, it's crowdsourced everybody who's using it. Every corporation, when, when the Umbrella system sees a bunch of attacks coming in from a particular IP address, Umbrella blacklists, it automatically, and nobody who is using Umbrella can get to that site. So if an enterprise is suddenly seeing a new cyber attack, you're not going to even get it because that IP address, that destination is automatically puts, you know, black holed, so you're never going to get there. So...Destiny: 06:01 And the cool thing about that, if you remember right when I was talking about this in Australia was the main thing that I loved about Cisco Umbrella is like SD-Wan, especially like the way that they're running their network and the way that they're testing and getting things done. Like you were saying on the blacklist and everything, you are getting that enterprise level new technology and new hacks that are coming to SD-Wan that you are getting prevented from as well.Leon: 06:25 And I will say that for the basic level it's free.Destiny: 06:28 Yup. And then you can get, you know, a little crazy with it, with your little cloud access, security blockers and everything.Leon: 06:33 I will say for those people who are interested in it, um, and again, you know, thinking about the Orthodox Jewish community which tends to go with whitelist only. So I can't get to any site that I haven't purposely white listed that, um, you're only, you can only have a certain number of white list items before you have to pay for it. But anyway, that's my setup. Um, what does everyone else have?Al: 06:52 I actually have something similar to what you just described. I'm just getting into Ubiquity, so I'm curious to learn more about it. Everybody speaks very highly of their products and their services, but I want to filter the content that's coming in or trying to go out. I want to be able to see what, uh, is being viewed online. And this way this can provide me with something to go back to whoever the guilty party is and say, look, this is why I'm here. This is why we implement this and this is why we're going to prevent it moving forward.Destiny: 07:23 So some of the things that I've also implemented, because obviously you know the Qustodio and everything in which that that I've set up before, but I've helped a lot of people use the Mobisip as well. But it also depends on what devices you like. Right? Like like if you have Kindles versus you know, iOS updates or if you have Android versus... There's different things that you can grab. But mobi, sip is one of the ones that I like for like a Windows / Apple kind of a household that you have. And I like setting that up, especially for teenagers because they can request like when they're like trying to do homework, like for health and it has to do with sex or something like that, it'll automatically go to my phone and I can look at the link, bring it up, see if I approve it and approve it from my phone. And it automatically allows them to start engaging with that content. So it's not like, you know something that's not very like quick, if that makes sense. Cause if they're in school using their laptop, cause here they get to use their own laptop or iPads or Kindles or things like that at school then it's something that I can easily like switch on and off. So much so to where even the school now is trying to implement that on their tablets because they were like "how did you do that?" But um, same thing is another product is Net Nanny. I don't know if you guys have heard of that, but net nanny as well. Those are some of the things that I've helped a lot of families set up on with those. A NetGear, they also have NetGear Armor. So here around in New Mexico, a lot of the free wear of which they give people. So a lot of the times, you know a lot of the people that are going to be on the internet will have NetGear. Right? It's usually a Nighthawk in this area and like you can get extenders and things of that nature. But it comes with something called NetArmor that can help you visually like be able to, to track and to do things and to block things at the actual router itself. Something that I do like about that product in the way that they have it set up though is that it's very user driven, if that makes sense. So like if you are new to it, as we were talking about earlier, protect your networks. It'll say "guest network: enable or not?", You just click the box and it'll disable it, right? So disabled that guest network if you're not using it and it'll ha so you can set up reminders, you can do dynamic QoS, like you can block people, you can do scheduling when you can shut down your network, shut it down per device, you know, things like that. But it's very user, um, uh, has a lot of user accessibility to it that I like because it's one of those things where if you're new to it and you're going to be given a router and you're going to be giving everything out of the box and "Here, welcome to the internet." Right? It's very step-by-step on how do I protect myself. And that's something that they've actually started doing in the past six months when they engage that NetArmor. So I think that NetGear is coming around and understanding that Hey there's people out there that don't know what they're doing per se to secure themselves in their home network. So let's see if we could make it wizard driven. Right? Cause anytime it's wizard driven it's fun. So those are some of the things and it comes with the device, right? So I think that it's one of those things that if you are listening and you have NetGear or if you have something that your provider, your ISP has given you to connect to the internet, make the phone call the tech support. Right? Like ask them "What's my username and password ?"if you don't already know it. Cause I know several people who have no idea and ask them, what did you set this up for? How do I log in? Okay cool. Let me turn off my guest network. Let me change my password, let me see what I have going on here. And they will walk you through those, but you can also Google it and figure it out just as much. But you, you have to be the proactive one to protect your fort, right? Like you have to want to protect yourself, which means you're going to have to understand and use the GUI, use the actual website, like dial into it, see what it's doing, look at those logs, set up your alerts, update it, right? Like set it to automatic updates so you get those security updates. So just so that you're implementing that basic cyber hygiene.Leon: 11:28 Right. And there's a few other points of, of that basic cyber hygiene I think that are worth talking about. Um, Al, you hinted at it earlier, but I want to hit it again. Uh, password managers: Period. End of sentence. Whether regardless of what device, regardless of what environment we're talking about, use a password manager for two reasons. First of all, that way you don't have to have everything set to the same password because your password manager will remember it. And two, closely to related. It will generate strong, secure passwords that you don't have to remember. And it will automatically input those passwords into all of your apps. And that is the number one attack vector for people who are trying to get your information is they'll just, you know... When you see in the news, Oh, there was a Amazon S3 bucket that had 2 million usernames and password hashes that were in there. What that means is they now have a library of 2 million people and their password that they say, "Oh, this person uses this password. They probably use it in a few places. Let me try it against this site, this site, this site." And suddenly they have their bank or they have your Facebook or they have your Instagram. And from there they can get into your this and your that and your other thing. And that's how people build an a, you know, an attack against a particular individual. And by the way, these things can all be automated. I think sometimes we think of hackers as "Well, who's really gonna worry about little old me." Nobody's going to worry about little old you. There's a bot for that. There's a, there's a machine that is automatically walking through those 2 million accounts and just running a whole set of predefined processes. And when it finally gets a hit and goes through every other possibility, it sends a report back to somebody and then they start digging.Al: 13:12 Right. And if I could add to it, a lot of people underestimate two factor authentication. It literally takes two minutes to set up and it saves you hours upon hours moving forward.Leon: 13:24 Yes. Everything. They can have two factor authentication, turn it on.Destiny: 13:29 And here's the thing, you have more information and this is statistically shown on your phone than you do in your home. Think about that. Used to, we used to keep files or mortgages or information or bank accounts or statements and everything in our house. You're all accessible from your phone and an application or a website. So if you have stored passwords, things like that and you're not changing them, you're kind of at a disadvantage anyway. And some of the things that me and you have talked about, Leon, especially, ESPECIALLY at conferences, is securing your line, encrypt your phone. I was like, we literally... me in Leon. We're in a conversation one day when the lady was like, "Oh, I don't care if they get my phone, who cares?" I was like, "Oh, I don't know. But if you pay attention over there, they're like literally going through everybody's photos and putting them on display because they can. And they're displaying your bank account that's overdrawn. So I don't know what to tell you right now. Feel like you should probably secure that." And it's those little things like, I mean, I use Avast Secure Line. I mean, it's like cheap for a year to use it. I can constantly connect it and it's encrypted the whole time. It constantly keeps me protected. My kids are that way as well because they're going to school and I'm sorry, but their school does not even have an IT person and like they're in an open network. I'm like, "no." This just isn't gonna work for me. So I, but it's one of those things where it's like you teach them to protect themselves and now they do it on their own. Like my kids will tell you if they see something that doesn't make sense, right? Cause you see something, you say something. And like if they get sent something from their teachers or like, cause now they're using third party applications are using Google drives, they're using all this stuff and people are sharing passwords and my daughter's like "you really shouldn't do that." Well then they found out that one of their friends got all their homework deleted, right? Like it's like they're seeing it in their daily transactions of school to where they are more ahead of changing passwords, not giving your information. Make sure you have more than a four digit code on your phone because they're have friends who break into them like they are figuring out the cyber waters way faster than most parents are right now. And that's, that's okay. But if you have that open forum or if you're having those conversations, you can actually help each other.Roddie: 15:47 Thank you for making time for us this week to hear more of technically religious visit our website at http://technicallyreligious.com where you can find our other episodes. Leave us ideas for future discussions or connect with us on social media.

 Smart Social Founder Josh Ochs caught up with Theresa Desuyo, the Screen Time & Digital Family Expert for the Qustodio app. What is the Qustodio app? It's a parental control app. Their goal is to give visibility to parents with information about how their students are using games and apps on their devices. Currently two million families use the app, which allows families to see how much time they are spending on apps and games so they can set healthy limits for themselves and their students. The app also helps to filter out harmful content such as cyberbullying, explicit content, and predators.Theresa talked with Josh about some of the negative effects of TikTok and gave some tips on how to talk with your students about using TikTok and screen time as a whole.Based on Qustodio usership, TikTok is one of the most popular apps for kids ages 4-18. It's at the top of the list followed by Pinterest, Instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook. Theresa noted that TikTok is actually more popular among younger users, with interest falling away for older kids.Theresa shared Qustodio's data for the average time spent in the TikTok app by age:4 to 6-year-olds spend 45 minutes per day in the app.7 to 9-year-olds spend 60 minutes per day in the app.10 to 12-year-olds spend 1 hour and 15 minutes per day in the app.13 to 15-year-olds spend 65 minutes per day in the app.16 to 18-year olds spend 57 min per day in the app.Negative Effects of TikTokTikTok May Affect Attention SpanEach TikTok video is 15 seconds long, with the option of putting together many clips into a 60 second video. If on average a user is on TikTok for an hour per day, users will watch around 240 videos in that hour, depending on the length and amount of times a user watches each video.TikTok Allows Messaging from StrangersTikTok has 800 million monthly users worldwide, with 26.5 million users just in the US. 50% of those global users are under the age of 34. That's a lot of strangers for kids to interact with.TikTok has Very Little Restrictions on Explicit ContentTikTok videos have no obvious pause button, so the videos play on an endless loop. There are no warnings for explicit content in videos and students could hear or see dangerous and inappropriate behavior without even looking for it.So, what can parents do? Theresa and Josh agree that parents should have open conversations with their kids about the apps they are using. Create a social media agreement and lay down the ground rules and consequences to breaking those rules.Theresa mentions three things to teach your kids around screen time:Teach accountability – talk about the rules and consequences if they don’t follow them.Remember that not all screen time is equal - what are your students doing on their phone that is productive? What is purely entertainment?Teach healthy use of their devices – take breaks and be connected with the world around you.Theresa also warns parents to monitor their own behavior with their devices. What might you be doing that you want to discourage your students from doing? Model good screen time behavior in your home.Become a Byte app expert (before your kids!) by taking Smart Social's Byte App Course for Parents: https://learn.smartsocial.com/courses/byte-app-course-for-parentsTake our Digital Driver's Ed course: https://learn.smartsocial.com/Subscribe on:Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id1269872857Google Podcasts: https://play.google.com/music/listen?u=0#/ps/Ikvg45xcfqi3cz5vxy7vsryf3uqYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/user/SafeSmartSocial/videosDownload the Smart Social app https://smartsocial.com/appLearn the top 100 popular teen apps: https://smartsocial.com/app-guide-parents-teachers/View the top parental control software https://smartsocial.com/parental-control-software/Learn the top Teen Slang, Emojis & Hashtags https://smartsocial.com/teen-slang-emojis-hashtags-list/Get ideas for offline activities for your students https://smartsocial.com/offline-activities-reduce-screentime/Schools & Educators: Schedule a free phone consultation to get ideas on how to protect your students and community https://smartsocial.com/hire-us/Free Webinar: "How To Navigate The Negative Effects of Student Social Media (And Help Your Student Shine Online)" https://smartsocial.com/webinarSupport the Smart Social Movement and get access to all of our courses with a membership bundle https://Learn.smartsocial.com

Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year listeners of the Down the Security Rabbithole Podcast! This week the show focuses on one of the most important things any of us really have - our children. Protecting kids in an increasingly digital world is tough, but not impossible. We decided to bring Theresa Desuyo from Qustodio on the show this week to discuss what her company is doing, and the broader theme of protecting children online. Apologies in advance for Theresa's audio quality. Couldn't fix that in post. Highlights from this week's episode include... Rafal takes a shot at a sinister human being Theresa talks through some of the more ominous things kids can face online James is curious Theresa gives us a look into the crystal ball... Guest Theresa Desuyo of Qustodio - Theresa is Qustodio’s Digital Family expert, leading Qustodio’s insights into how to best generate talking points around technology use adapted to each family’s reality. In addition, she leads growth, partnerships and operations in the US. Before joining Qustodio, Theresa worked in gamification for enterprises and a social enterprise, leveraging technologies to engage employees and for cause marketing initiatives respectively. She holds a B.A. from UCLA and an MBA from ESADE, is fluent in Spanish, Catalán and native English speaker from California. As a mother of 3 school-aged children (13, 11, and 5), decisions around technology use is an everyday topic and different for every child. She believes in educating kids and openly discussing the good and the risks associated to digital devices and the internet for them to build the resilience needed today. Read her professional bio here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theresadesuyo/ 

Has your child ever been bullied? Cyberbullied? The range of emotions I experienced as a parent when my child was bullied swung from one extreme to another. My generation dealt with bullying. I remember very well my first day of high school, being on the receiving end of bullying. However, our children also have cyberbullying to add to the list of things they have to deal with. Cyberbullying and Social Media Cyberbullying can happen with complete strangers, or it can occur with classmates. In some cases, cyberbullying leads to bullying at school. Even with all the measures schools put into place with anti-bullying programs, it still happens. Sometimes bullying can even be fatal.  Social media presents a unique set of challenges for youth today. It's a place where a mistake can be made in a matter of seconds, that will have a lasting impact. Cyberbullying can cause some children to feel that their situation is completely hopeless and could lead to suicide. This is the case as I mentioned in this episode of a young man who took his life after being cyberbullied. Not only can users be bullied on social media, but it's also a place where teens can be influenced to cause self-harm. There is a culture of suicidal ideation that is pervasive on social media. Sadly, in some worst-case scenarios, this culture can lead to suicide. We see this in the case of a young 14-year-old girl who took her own life after exploring depression on Instagram. What can parents do? All of this can lead parents to feel overwhelmed and helpless. Kids have access to the entire world with their devices. That doesn't mean that parents are helpless. (Make sure to check out my other posts about using Qustodio: Potentially Dangerous Discrepancy Between the Games Kids Play and the Ones Parents Block Less than half of parents are using parental control tools. Educating and Empowering Parents to Help their Children Dr. Nicole Beurkens is helping us figure out how to deal with bullying, in particular, cyberbullying. She's sharing her tips on how to help our children not only when they are being bullied, but when they are the bully. Dr. Nicole supports parents in engaging with their kids about how they use their devices and keeping the lines of communication open. Another tip she shares is how to deal with a strong-willed child and physical power struggles, for example, when a kid won't give up the phone. Using Qustodio means you don't need to get into that kind of physical altercation; a parent can simply shut the access off to the phone with Qustodio. Save 10% off a subscription to Qustodio using coupon code ORGANICMOM. Dr. Beurkens specializes in resolving problems that many families and professionals deem unsolvable. She recognizes that beneath the many challenging symptoms children and young adults exhibit are people capable of more. Her patients and their families affectionately refer to her as the learning and behavior “detective.” Many people believe that the symptoms they experience are the problem, but the symptoms are actually clues to the real problems. A unique combination of psychologist, nutritionist, and special educator, Dr. Beurkens has 22 years of experience supporting children, young adults, and families.  She is an expert in evaluating and treating a wide range of learning, mood, and behavior challenges including ADHD, autism, anxiety, mood disorders, brain injury, and sensory processing disorder. Dr. Beurkens holds a doctorate in Clinical Psychology, master's degrees in Special Education and Nutrition, and is a Board Certified Nutrition Specialist.  She is the Founder and Director of Horizons Developmental Resource Center in Grand Rapids, Michigan where she leads a multidisciplinary team dedicated to exceptional evaluation and integrative treatment services, research on innovative treatment protocols, and professional training on best practices. She is a highly sought-after international consultant and speaker,

We went out to a CyberSafety night for parents at Lewis & Clark Elementary School to find out what parents would like to know about keeping kids safe on their devices and online. Fort Zumwalt Director of Technology JB Mette answers a few of their questions, providing a few tips, tricks and tools to help track usage and create conversation on the role of technology in our lives.

#TheBetrayedToday we had a casual cast. We gave an update on Natalie Grace and talked about the dangers of apps and online sites. Be aware of what your children are doing on cell phones, tablets, computers, and video games. Thank you for listening, commenting, liking, subscribing and leaving reviews on apple podcasts we truly appreciate it.

Technology is here to stay and leaves many parents wondering, what are they doing online? There are lots of questions when it comes to kids and online activities.  We can't just bury our heads in the sand and hope for the best. Instead, we need to be proactive. Ask questions, and keep the lines of communication open. Kids are on social media, in chat rooms, and they're playing addictive video games. As parents, it's our job to stay on top of what kids are doing. We need to know who they are talking to online.  Video Games You may be asking, "Will letting my child play violent video games make them more violent? Probably not, but psychologists agree it may be harming them in other ways" according to Nicole Beurkens, PhD, Clinical Psychologist. At first glance, it seems logical that more exposure to violence would lead to more violent behavior. But, given the massive exposure to violent games kids have, wouldn't kids today, after years of violent gameplay, be far more violent? Yet, they are not." Did you know that watching videos on YouTube is the main activity for kids aged 5 to 11, and one of the main activities enjoyed by all kids up to age 17? YouTube is the most used social network for kids aged 5 to 14 in Spain and all kids in the U.S. Kids with iOS devices spend a massive 40% of their time on YouTube, while 25% of active kid's devices report browsing activity on youtube.com.  An announcement by Qustodio introduces a new feature for parents to monitor their children's experience on YouTube; to keep them safe from inappropriate and harmful content. Recently, Qustodio mined it's platform (see infographic at the bottom of this post) for data from 200,000+ users in the U.S. over one month and developed an infographic of its findings, including: Data shows a potentially dangerous discrepancy between which games kids play most and which games parents blockParents are blocking only half of the most addictive video games All of the top games kids play contain some violence The top 3 games played by girls: Roblox, Fortnite, MinecraftThe top 3 games played by boys: Roblox, Minecraft, Clash Royale  In this episode of A Healthy Bite, Qustodio's Head of Product and Analytics, Manuel Bruscas, joins me for a chat about video game data and what their findings mean for parents.  Watch this episode on youtube: Read also: How to protect children from internet dangersInternet Addiction is Real & How Parents Can Reduce the Risk for ChildrenAdolescent Internet Dangers; What Every Parent Needs to Know Manuel Bruscas, VP of Product & InsightsManuel Bruscas BellidoVP of Product & Insights Manuel Bruscas Bellido (Castellón de la Plana, Spain, 1975) is Qustodio's VP of Product & Insights. He leads the company's product strategy to ensure we provide families with the best digital safety and wellbeing experience in the world. Prior to Qustodio, he spent 20 years in analytics, mobile, digital commerce, and product roles, working across the globe for various companies including Vistaprint, Desigual, and eDreams. He holds a degree in Business Administration from ESADE in Barcelona and participated in an exchange with Georgetown University in Washington D.C. Manuel loves telling stories with data and co-founded BcnAnalytics, a non-profit organization, to help Barcelona become a European hub for analytics. His other mission is to curb food waste. Manuel co-authored a book to increase awareness about the issue, “Los Tomates de Verdad Son Feos”, in 2018. He also loves music, especially heavy-metal. He admits to being a not-so-good guitar player but an excellent listener. Above all, his greatest loves are his wife Celia and his daughter Andrea.In general, he likes people who show passion and a willingness to question the status quo in order to make the world a better place. His current motto is a quote from Nelson Mandela: “It always seems impossible until it's done”.

Devorah Heitner is not just another mom concerned about raising a digital native. She uses her Ph.D. in Technology to research, teach, write, and lecture about how families everyday lives are affected by digital media, smartphones, and video games. She’s the author of Screenwise: Helping Kids Thrive (and Survive) in Their Digital World. And her work has appeared in the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal and TIME magazine. Devorah did a great TEDx talk about cultivating a culture of empathy and social/emotional literacy around kids and technology. She recently wrote a fantastic article for the Washington Post about how a smartphone would’ve saved her mother who had learning disabilities. Anytime parents find out her line of work, she gets cornered because every parent is anxious about their kids' multi-tasking, their social skills, them taking and receiving naughty pictures, cyberbullying, and well…the list can go on. But Devorah paints a brighter picture. She’s a media historian here today to let us know our concerns over digital media are a normal cycle of historical anxiety, and although we need to be cautious about the technology, we also need to celebrate the freedom the technology allows us and our families.     Show Note Links: Raising Digital Natives   Devorah Heitner's book, "Screenwise"   Devorah Heitner's "Washington Post" article- "My Mother Struggled with Learning Disabilities. A Smartphone would have Helped her Find her Way."   Qustodio   "This American Life- Status Update"- Ninth graders talking about being relevant.   Unitarian Universalist Sex Education Curriculum   The Fosters TV Show   "Now You See It: How Technology and Brain Science Will Transform Schools and Business for the 21st Century" by Cathy Davidson   "The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to Our Brains" by Nicholas Carr   NAMI- Ending the Silence Program   Rachel Steinman's Article, "Is There an App to Stop Parents from Screaming at their Kids over Device Use?" *Sex Education Resources: *Scarlateen   *Deborah Roffman's book, "Talk to Me First"   *Amy Lang's book "Birds and Bees and Kids"   *Specifically on Porn- Cindy Pierce- Social sexuality educator and comic storyteller    Connect with us! Dear Family, the Podcast Page Write Now Rachel Website Rachel's Blog Page- @Medium Rachel Steinman's Twitter Dear Family, and Write Now Rachel's Facebook Page Dear Family, and Write Now Rachel's Instagram Page   WAYS TO HELP THE PODCAST Subscribe via iTunes and leave a review. It's free and so helpful!!!  Subscribe via Stitcher and leave a review. It's free and so helpful!!!    

Mom puts a filter on the router, and daughter Mary installs a VPN. Dad sets up cell phone monitoring software, and son Donny learns how to soft-boot Android to remove it. For households that strongly ascribe to a specific religious, moral, or ethical outlook, the standards for what is appropriate can be even more strict, and send those cat and mouse games spiraling to new levels. Unless Mom or Dad happen to work in tech. Then things get a whole lot more interesting. In this podcast, Leon, Josh, and guest Keith Townsend of CTO Advisor talk about parenting with a bible in one hand and a packet sniffer in the other. Listen or read the transcript below: Leon: 00:25 Hey everyone. It's Leon. Before we start this episode, I wanted to let you know about a book I wrote. It's called The Four Questions Every Monitoring Engineer is Asked", and if you like this podcast, you're going to love this book. It combines 30 years of insight into the world of IT with wisdom gleaned from Torah, Talmud, and Passover. You can read more about it including where you can get a digital or print copy over on adatosystems.com. Thanks! Josh: 00:25 Welcome to our podcast where we talk about the interesting, frustrating and inspiring experience we have as people with strongly held religious views working in corporate IT. We're not here to preach or teach you our religion. We're here to explore ways we make our career as IT professionals mesh - or at least not conflict - with our religious life. This is Technically Religious. Leon: 00:48 Mom puts a filter on the router, and daughter Mary installs a VPN. Dad sets up a cell phone monitoring software and Donnie learns how to soft boot android into safe mode to remove it. Keith: 00:57 The game of parental cat and mouse seems never ending for households that strongly ascribe to specific religious, moral, or ethical outlook. The standards for what is appropriate, can be even more strict and send those cat and mouse game spiraling to new levels. Josh: 01:15 Unless mom and dad happened to work in tech. Then things get all whole lot more interesting. In today's podcast we're going to talk about exactly that situation. IT professionals with a Bible in one hand at a packet sniffer in the other and what it means to the kids who have to live with us. Joining in the conversation today and telling us the age of the kids in their house are Leon Adato Leon: 01:41 Hello everyone. Okay, so I have a 27 and 24 year old daughter and then I have a 19 year old and 16 year old son and we also have my 27 year old daughter's two kids, so my grandkids, who are three and two. Josh: 01:55 All right, perfect. And Keith Townsend of CTO advisor. Keith: 01:58 All right. I have a 31 year old daughter who has an 11 year old granddaughter that visits us every day after school. I have a 28 year old son, any 25 year old son, Josh: 02:11 And I'm Josh Biggley, and in my house I've got kids ranging from the ages of 16 to 25 and everything in between, it feels like. Leon: 02:19 All right. So the first thing in this podcast that I would like to clarify is that we're not talking about VPNs, or that you should have a good password manager, or any of that stuff. That that's all important, and we will definitely do a podcast episode about that later. But what we're talking about is the fact that we as religious, moral, ethical parents have already decided that there's things that we need to keep our kids away from. And that's part of our job as a parent. So this is all about how we as IT professionals keep our kids away from the "nasty stuff." So I think the first part of the conversation for the three of us is what's the nasty stuff? Josh: 03:00 Okay, "warez"? Do we know what...? Oh, I'm old, aren't I. Warez? Pirated software? Sorry? Right? You know, I can't... "ware-ez"? Aw man, I might be only one. Leon: 03:15 Yes. Yes. You're that old. We are all that old. Keith: 03:17 Yeah. We're all that old that we, the seeing that we have all have grandkids. Leon: 03:25 Yeah, exactly. Um, okay, so warez, okay, so let, let's extend that to let's see. Napster? No, no, that's still old. Uh, BitTorrent. Josh: 03:37 Limewire? Leon: 03:40 Fine. Okay. So we're talking about, uh, illegally acquired stuff. Keith: 03:47 That was very controversial in my home. The other thing is a porn. So we are in the US so, you know, we really hate, as religious folks, we hate porn. Leon: 03:59 It's challenging and I think we're going to get into why it's challenging in a minute. So how about specific types of music or a specific type? Not, not things that are flat out pornographic, but things that are in some way just the content is objectionable to us. So, whether that's music with particular lyrics or movies with particular themes or things like that, is that, does that fit into the topic? Keith: 04:25 I think that does. Leon: 04:26 Okay. Um, one of the things that I was talk about because it's actually not an issue for myself and especially in my kids, but what we call "metal on metal" violence. So you know, like Transformers, which we might consider that movie to be offensive artistically or in terms of the canon of the Transformers that we may have grown up with, but the idea that it's violence, but it's so clearly animated or non human violence that maybe we give that one a pass. I don't know how you folks feel about it. Keith: 04:59 Yeah. We, we had a rule in my family that you can play first shooter if it wasn't people shooting people. Leon: 05:06 Okay. So like doom where you're shooting zombies and stuff. Keith: 05:10 That was a little bit too, you know, the whole demon thing was a little bit too much for me. So you could do like robot shooting similar transformers or robots shooting other robots, etc. Leon: 05:21 Okay. Or duck hunting or hunting. Okay. Got It. All right. Josh: 05:25 Those poor defenseless ducks! Leon: 05:28 Right! Except the thing, some versions of the ducks were armed too. But anyway, we're off track as we do. How about like mature themes? Like what would we consider, what are we talking about when we say mature themes? Keith: 05:42 So you don't, we're a getting in an area that, uh, you know, so, we're in the US... So the concept of a same sex marriage is obviously a right that as Americans we respect, but as Christians or religious people in general, you know what, that's, that's a gray area. And what, what age do you want expose your child to. It is a pretty interesting debate these days. Leon: 06:09 So when do you want to have the conversation about how, you know, Sally has a girlfriend or a Bobby has a boyfriend or stuff like that, whether or not as individuals and as adults we are okay with that idea. But to explain it to our kids, we might find that it's difficult within the context, again of a religious conversation. "But wait a minute in Sunday school I just learned Xyz," you know, we want to have a consistent message. I can see that in fact our last episode was specifically about how our religions are approaching same sex relationships and things like that. So it's interesting that it comes up as a theme that we might still want to filter in the house. Josh: 06:55 As a Canadian, right? Politics in some contexts can be touchy. Right? I'd really love to ban a certain individual from being able to be seen in my house. But you know, I think when it comes to... Leon: 07:15 So... from the south. Government from the south is what you're talking about like American, as a Canadian having to deal with American politics... Josh: 07:20 That's no way to talk about South America. Leon, you leave South America out of this. Leon: 07:26 I wasn't talking about Argentinian politics. Not for a second. Keith: 07:29 Okay. I don't know. I want to blog, but race is also a really tough conversation at a young age. And how much, you know, do you want to say, "This is the reality of what's in the world, that even at a young age you may run into, but I still want to protect your ideal of what a wholesome relationship with other humans will look like." Leon: 07:54 So I think what we're getting at here is that we're not blocking things because necessarily we find it objectionable. It's that we're concerned that the viewer may not have the maturity to understand the context and therefore it's going to cause them more confusion or frustration, than it's going to... Than the material, whether it's a song or a movie or a comic book or whatever is going to open their eyes to. Josh: 08:20 Yeah. And you know, I love that you just mentioned comic books because I grew up in an era in the eighties and being being formerly Mormon I remember being counseled quite explicitly, "do not watch R-rated movies." But that advice was given in the 80s. Well what was an R-rated movie in the 80s is maybe PG today, PG 13 if you really want to stretch it. So what does that mean? Does that mean that we need to - and I remember having this thought - if I'm going to sit down and watch a movie and it's PG today, do I need to consider what it would have been rated in 1984? Or is it okay that I just accept it? And then I would then I would turn around and I would look at my comic book collection as like, you know, 12 or 13 or 14 year old a kid and I'd be like, "Oh, these comic books are rather racy. And the movie I just watched looked like, you know, it was Walt Disney." So yes, today we're arguing about, "oh, you know, the Internet gives our kids access to," but now are we going to filter what they also can get from the library? I mean, I met read some racy books as a kid from the library. And my parents were like, "Yeah, go to the library, have a grand old time. It's books. What could possibly go wrong?" Oh my goodness, mom and dad. Leon: 09:46 Right. And the interesting part there is that they expected the library to do a certain task, to fill a certain role of filtering that, you weren't going to be able to get pornographic - true pornographic - magazines from, but there was a lot of material that was at the very least titillating and certainly challenging from a political, again, Keith, to your point, racial social view. There's a lot of things like that. So you're right. It's, I think two points. One is that a parent's role hasn't changed in the sense that we still need to be communicating with our kids and talking about what they're consuming. However they're consuming the internet just adds a particular modality. It doesn't change the nature of our job. But I think also that what is objectionable really rests on our shoulders because it's based on family values, religious community values, and also what we know about our kid. Some things that I would allow my 16 year old who has a much more solid footing in terms of, you know, "this is just beyond the pale and I don't even want to deal with it", aren't things that I'm comfortable with my 19 year old seeing because his impulse control is a lot less strong. So you have to know your kid too. Josh: 11:06 Yeah. And that's a great point, right? Because there are some things that we want to shelter our kids from and things that we would have sheltered one child from that we're not going to shelter another child from. For example I have a similar scenario. My youngest has a fairly broad scope of what we're willing to allow him to watch. Now when it comes to music, he's not allowed to listen to music on his portable speaker that has vulgar language and whatnot because I just don't want to hear it. If I'm going to sit down, also rap, you're not allowed to listen to, to filthy rap on your speaker. But if he wants to listen to what I was headphones, I'm giving him that latitude. Now. Part of that is my transition away from Mormonism over the last year, admittedly. But those views have been very much formed by having older children and watching how they struggled or didn't struggle with certain things. And realizing that sometimes when I set the boundaries too close to the, or I guess too far away from the edge of "I want to approach this mom and dad", that it really entices them to go forward. Versus, "Hey, you know what, look, this stuff is out there. I really don't think that you should look at it. I don't you should listen to it, read it, whatever. But if you do come and ask, let's have a discussion about it." And that's the way we chose to approach it. When we get to talk about the security tips, I have a funny story, and I'll bring it up later, but let's just say sometimes your very best efforts as an IT professional parent are undermined by the most wily of children. Keith: 12:46 Yeah. Josh: 12:47 I'm going to put the, I to put it off to the side. We'll, we'll talk about that. Keith: 12:50 Yeah. it's a really interesting delta between my kids. Some of them, a couple of them embraced boundaries and, the oldest just... Boundaries were explicit signs to, "yes, I must go there. There's a boundary there. Then there's obviously something good behind that door!" Leon: 13:13 Right? Sometimes the worst thing you can do is tell your child "you may never...", and the sad part is when you figure it out and you try to tell your child, "you may never eat broccoli! Never!!" They figure that out real fast. So I, I think it's worth asking why, what are we objecting to and why? I mean, we've talked about the topics, the categories, but you know, this stuff is in the world and are we doing our kids a disservice? This is, as an Orthodox Jew, I hear this a lot in conversations around the water cooler at work. "Are you really doing your kids a disservice by sheltering them from information so that when they finally get to it either it's so enticing, they can't stop themselves because they didn't learn early?" And the other part of it is, are we not serving them because we're making them so naive that they don't know how to deal with things later. That's at least those are things I've heard. So why are we objecting to this? Like what, what's going on here? Speaker 3: 14:15 So I have an interesting view on this. We all are older so we have the benefit of experience. So one of the things I'm morphed from was trying to always protect the oldest of the kids from seeing stuff, to saying, "You know what, our house (and we've extended this to the granddaughter now) our house is a Godly home. And in our home we want to maintain a Spirit. You're going to see stuff out in the world that I can't protect you against. But our home is where we make kind of a hedge around the world and we respect our religious views." You know, kind of the whole Joshua "As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord" type of perspective. So the thing I can control is the spirit of my house. I can't control the spirit of the world. Leon: 15:14 Nice. Josh: 15:15 I like it. And I also approve of the use of Joshua. You know, a good prophet name. Leon: 15:22 You might be a little biased. Josh: 15:24 I may be a little biased. You know, I think that this question is, this is a tough question, right? So the people who might say to us, "Hey, you should really let your child see X because your blocking them from understanding Y scenarios," those discussions get really complicated. It's like, and this is, this is really a straw man argument, but it's like saying to somebody, "Hey, you should let your children watch child pornography because if not, they're not going to know it when they see it." Or "You should let your children watch a racially charged hate rant by somebody because you want them to have those discussions with them" or "hey you should smoke weed or do crack or..." You know, like those things are, are really challenging. And I think Keith, I love your idea of "hey, I'm going to make my house a place where people can be comfortable coming in, where they can feel the spirit of my home. They can feel the spirit of my family. That this is a sanctuary for my family. You come in, it's just the rules of the household." When my when my youngest has his friends over, we tell them like, look, I don't care what you do outside. I don't care what you do in your own, your own home. But when you come into our house and these are the rules, we expect you to abide by the rules. You're a guest in our home. You're welcome in our home anytime, but don't break the rules. Keith: 16:59 Yeah. One quick point on that whole household thing and our friend, our kids obviously are going to have friends that don't share the same morals. So, you know, for those of you don't know, I'm Black and I grew up in the inner city and for period of time, my family lived in the inner city, but our house was a gathering point for all of the young men, all of the boys to come and play basketball and hang out. And for me to mentor, and I had this one rule for when you played basketball - no one could curse. And if anyone cursed the game's over, "We'll see you guys. Please come back tomorrow, the next day." And that was a very difficult thing for the kids to initially grasp. But over a period of a couple of weeks, they, they get it. And our home was, they came and they drank Gatorade. They cookies, they played basketball. They didn't curse even if they did it at school. Leon: 17:56 On a completely separate point, one of my friends is Lee Unkrich. He's one of the directors, or was until just recently one of the directors at Pixar, he directed 'Toy Story 3'. He's been around since almost the very beginning. And I was talking with him one day about 'Finding Nemo'. It had been out for a while. And I said, "What do your kids think about it?" And he says, "They're actually not allowed to watch it." Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. It's Finding Nemo. I mean, like, this is the quintessential Disney G-rated perfectly wholesome... Like, why would you not let your kids watch it? He said "They get too wrapped up in it. They are at that age where they identify with the characters so much that when the shark is chasing the dad, they're terrified because they can't disassociate their emotions of what's happening to them and what's happening to the character on the screen. So I can't let them watch it until I know that they're able to watch the movie, get excited about the themes or the ideas or the scene that's going on there, but at the same time that they, they don't feel actual terror." And I thought that was an interesting perspective for a parent to have about their child. And I think it lends itself to hear that we have to understand the ability of our kids to... Keith, to your point, to understand that, "yep, my friends swear at school and, you know, but that's not something that we do in our house." And my kids knew they could code switch. They knew exactly what words were okay in the house and what words weren't okay in the house. And we knew that they used other words, other places. And I think that as parents, we have to recognize when they have that sophistication and when they don't. And that also goes into our decisions about what to filter, whether again, it's library books or Internet and what we don't Josh: 19:55 Got down, sat on a bentch, cheese and rice, Leon! Leon: 20:01 Shut the front door! Right? Josh: 20:06 Yeah, those are, those are the interesting batteries that I don't think we can control. Um, I'm really interested because, and this is a perfect time for me to tell my story. So my oldest son has autism. And one of his, one of the things he loves most in all the world is to watch movies, but he doesn't like to watch movies like you and I like to watch movies. He likes to watch movies and then pause them and rewind them and then pause them and then go forward frame by frame. And of course, you know, youtube is just an awful thing for him because it allows him to indulge in those stimulations. So we tried to block it and I spent hours and hours trying to configure this blocking software without blocking the rest of my family because I wanted them to be able to use the computer. And I was like, "oh my goodness, this is, I think I've got it." And we said, okay, come and sit down. And he came, he must've been, I don't know, 14 or 15 at the time. And he came and he sat down. I thought, "okay, great clicking, wonderful..." I turned around and walked away. Came back and there he was on the internet watching Youtube. And I'm like, "Are you kidding? You just undid like hours of effort." And I still don't know what he did. I don't know where he figured out how to turn it off. So I'm interested as an IT pro parent who quite honestly, I've really struggled with the best security practices for my family and myself, aside from, "Hey, I'm just taking away your Internet access." What can I do? How do I handle this? And, you know, what are my options for "Oh my goodness I'm cutting the the cable from the house to the Internet." And I'm like literally cutting it... to "All right. You know, you can have access to some things." What can I do here guys? Leon: 21:47 Right. So before we go into that, I think it's important that our listeners, and we, as parents, have to answer one question, which you started to get at, which is "what is it that you're trying to accomplish?" And, and that's an IT question, that's not a religious or moral or ethical or a parenting question because if you're trying to block 'oopsies' - you know, once upon a time, my daughter was eight years old and she misspelled play House Disney, she got an eyeful, and that was at the time when there were popups and pop unders and it was, it was festive and she was eight. So she didn't really know what she was seeing, but she knew it wasn't what she wanted. Are we blocking that? Are we blocking momentary weakness? You know, it's 10:30 at night and no one's looking and you're thinking, you know, and, and whoever it is at the computers, just thinking, "Why don't I just check that out?" Are we blocking? And Josh said it like, "I just don't want to hear that. I just, that does not need to be in my brain." Or are we blocking, like, like you said, "I have a determined person in my house who is, you know, going full guns to go find this thing" and so I think that's the first thing is that you need to define what you're doing. Having said that, I don't think we can answer that for all of our listeners right now, but I just want to be clear. You have to know what you're trying to accomplish or else you're going to get the wrong technology. Keith: 23:17 So I tried a ton of things. Well my case when I was raising kids and I had this specific problem, MySpace was all the rage. So that dates me and my kids, and I tried a ton of things - going into the cache of my sons Windows XP thing. And he ended up finding a way to install shadow profiles, so I wouldn't go under his profile to look at the cash. He got really good. So what I had to basically... for it to end - and I think this is specifically for teenagers - I had to basically lay down the law. Like, "You know, I am the god of the Internet when it leaves this house." So I installed a key logger on his laptop. And I told him, "There's nothing you can do on the Internet that I don't know." He said, "That's, that's not possible." I said, "You know what? I know you're your MySpace password." He said, "no you don't." I said, "Yeah, it is. It's 'monkeybutt1234'." "What?!? How'd you know that?" And so as you know, when his peers came over, they, he like, "No, no, no, don't do anything. Because my dad, I'm telling you, I don't know what he does in that room of his, but he can tell anything. He can, he even knew my, my space password." Right. So for teenagers, you know, the fear that there's nothing you can do that I can't discover, kind of killed the cat and mouse in my house, my household. Leon: 24:47 But that's, that's almost like security by obscurity, right? Like we've, instilled the fear of our technical prowess and until they're much more sophisticated, they don't get it. In terms of like things that people would, you know, can do today. Uh, I think one of the things that I use a lot is OpenDNS or any basically any DNS redirector. I think that's a really powerful tool in a parent's arsenal because not only does it block whole sites, but it also blocks the popups, the sidebars, the ads, you know, it may be fine the site that they're on, but that site may be repeating ads that we would really prefer don't show up both for ourselves and for others. There's actually a Raspberry Pi How-to that is not about blocking things for your kids. It's about speeding up your internet overall. Because what they do is they use an in-house DNS redirector. And so all those ads don't take time to load because they all are redirected to 127.0.0.1 and that speeds up your browsing immensely. So there's a secondary benefit. SO OpenDNS is one. What else do we got? Keith: 26:00 So I use these Arrow Mesh network Wifi routers and you could subscribe to kind of the security plus and the security plus is also that basically OpenDSN type of a DNS protections. But also, you know, one of the practical - it's not keeping my granddaughter away from bad stuff. She just won't get off her iPad at 11 o'clock at night. So being able to control, by Mac address, who can access, creating these profiles, you know, I want my wife to be able to watch Game of Thrones at 11 o'clock, but I don't want my granddaughter to be able to surf disney.com at 11 o'clock. She should be asleep. Leon: 26:51 Right, right. Okay. So I'm same thing. I use a ubiquity. I like their gear. Now it's considered prosumer. But it gives you a really high degree of control over the same thing, the Mac addresses, and the granularity that you can control devices. You can see devices, you can also see the other wifi systems that are around you to make sure that your kids aren't hopping onto the neighbor's Wifi and just completely busting out of the system. So you can see that going on as well. And the other thing that ubiquity gives is netflow insight, which is really good because it's not just that my son's laptop or his whatever is using 277 Gig per second of bandwidth. But this is the breakdown of where it's going. So netflow by itself, however you get it. But also, again, Ubiquiti gear is the same thing as Arrow mesh. It's that pro-sumer it gives you that deck granularity. Josh: 27:54 So I'm really curious and I hope that our listeners will weigh in and let us know how many parents out there are getting the netflow, S-flow J-flow data off of their network gear and logging it. Like, I get it, you know, we're geeks. That might be something that we're going to do, but is anyone else out there doing this? Is Leon the only one? I don't know. I think this is great. You know, hey, we can install this pro-sumer gear. Even OpenDNS for people who don't practice or live in the IT world might seem a little daunting. Is there something that they can do that is straight-forward or are they just going to have to do the Keith Townsend parenting methodology, put the fear of God into them and be like, "If you, if you don't, you know, I'm going to..." Leon: 28:44 It's a good question. So for the Orthodox community in Cleveland, myself, and there's another association that actually will do some of this stuff for families. So, you know, I'll do it for some of the people that are in my circle is to set up OpenDNS and I'll manage their exceptions and things like that. That doesn't scale particularly well. But there are a lot of services like that, that will help you out. And I think that for the nontechnical parent, that's one of the things. One of the other things, one of the other technologies that I use is much more manageable for, I would say the mere mortal Qustodio, which is spelled with a Q - Qustodio is something that goes on both phones and also compute devices. So laptops, I think it goes on raspberry Pi, things like that. It blocks both applications and also browsing, and it has very specific controls for social media. But as a parent it's much easier to manage than some of those pro-sumer tools that that are usable. And so there's really... This market is a fantastic market right now because they really are reaching out to the less technical. The fact is you're going to have to be somewhat technical. You're going to have to be somewhat savvy in the same way that, you know, when, when rap and that really hard rap was just coming out. Parents were like, "But I don't listen to my kids' music." Well, you're going to need to start, you know, or you're going to need to throw your hands up and say, what am I supposed to do? Like listening to your kids. Music is not the biggest challenge on earth, but you can't say, "I don't like what they're listening to, but I refuse to actually listen with them in some way." And to that point, I think that going back to netflow, it isn't something that you need to have the "eye of prophecy" upon you to be able to do. There are some wonderful tools that will make netflow easy to install, easy to digest, and will even set up alerts so that you don't have any traffic going to limewire or whatever, but if something starts, you'll get an alert when that happens. You know, there's stuff like that. And so I just want, again, even the non-technical parents to know netflow is one of those technologies that can give you a high degree of control. Keith: 31:06 And then there's some are like consumer grade, like friendly. I don't know how well they are because I don't have kids that young that I would install it. But you know, they have Disney. Disney has bought a, I think some companies or web protection companies and make it kind of disney-easy. I was trying to find the guy's name. He does, "This Week in Tech" with Leo LaPorte sometimes, Larry.. I want to say it's Magid, or... I can't pronounce, I can't remember the exact last name. I've tried to Google him and he runs something to the effect SafeKids.com. And he gives a lot of great tips on just protecting your kids online from, you know, kind of a kid friendly social media, to tools like this is, that's how I remembered the Disney tool. Because if, and when I give my granddaughter a phone, which, you know, I'm kind of, you know, this, this conversation station scares me. The fact what happened is when she just has naked LTE and I, you know, I'm trying to protect her from naked LTE. How do I do that exactly. And that name and product kind of stood up in my mind. Leon: 32:20 Got It. Yeah. And that's a good point is when you control the Internet, it's a simpler time, but once they have that cell phone in their hand and that cell phone can act as a hotspot or whatever, that was why I discovered Custodio honestly. And, and the person who turned me onto it was actually Destiny Bertucci, one of the other Technically Religious speakers. Because that works on the device regardless of where the Internet is coming from and you have control of it. Like, I literally, when my son is two states away, I can see that he's on a site I don't want and I can push a button and that site is no longer available to him. Period. End of sentence. Keith: 33:02 So what happens, uh, going into a little bit more technical, so if your child does a VPN somewhere, is that an automatic conversation? Like how do we protect against that? Josh: 33:13 Oh, you know, I'm just sitting here listening because I honestly have no sweet clue. I follow, I really, I honestly follow the Keith Townsend parenting model. I tell my kids, "Look, don't do that. If you do I might have to sell you." And so far so good. Keith: 33:32 Yeah, know, I think that's the thing. Once they get to that age, it becomes a conversation of... You guys, we have older kids, so you know, our kids have made life decisions sometimes that we don't necessarily agree with and learning to balance between, okay, I'm a father that's giving great advice, to I'm a father that's trying to nag my child to live their life the way that I want them to live. There's a balance and you know, once you get to that age that they can figure out VPN, they're actively going after this stuff. And that's a different conversation. You know, this People-Process-Technology... this is a people and process problem versus a technology problem. Leon: 34:11 I 100% degree. That doesn't mean that we necessarily throw our hands up because you know, one of the first things that my son went on youtube to find after we put Qustodio on was "how do you disable Qustodio" and the tutorials are all over the place and he was not particularly old or sophisticated. It was just, "you told me the name of the thing and I want to get rid of the thing and so I'm going to go find the...", but it was a conversation like, "Look it, you can get rid of this, you can probably find a way to work around it. And I will know sooner or later I'm going to find out. And at that point, you know, I'm going to have to fix the problem some other way." So Keith, to your question, I think that once your kids are starting to actively work around it, you're right, you may not be Johnny on the spot. You won't know it instantaneously. They're going to say, "Well, you know, I have a window of hours or days or weeks before mom and dad are going to notice." But I think that we have to impress upon them. We're gonna notice. And at that point we're going to have a really hard conversation about what that means. And my 19 year old who's, you know, in school with younger kids, you know, and those kids have burner phones to get around these particular things and stuff like that. And he's like, "You can do that, but they're going to find out - your teacher's going to find out and they're going to tell your parents... Like, it's not going to last that long. You're not, you haven't really fooled them. You've bought yourself maybe a day or two." And then a world of hurt comes after that, not to mention loss of trust. Keith: 35:46 And I think the key part is that world of hurt has to come. If the world of hurt doesn't come then. Leon: 35:53 Right, and not to say that it has to be punitive. I think that when your kids are at the age where they can install a VPN, unless they're really, really sophisticated at young age, but it's not about punitive, it's about "now we're going to talk about how you've broken my trust. Now we're going to talk about the interpersonal consequences of what that means. That that was a grownup choice and there's a grownup consequences about that." New Speaker: 36:20 Thanks for making time for us this week to hear more of technically religious visit our website, TechnicallyReligious.com where you can find our other episodes, leave us ideas for future discussions and connect to us on social media. Josh: 36:32 Did you click on a link for Geeks gone wild last night? Keith: 36:35 And don't lie to me because I've already checked the log files!

Camilo y Jualo conversan sobre ¿qué es una herramienta de control parental?, ¿para qué sirven? y ¿cuáles son las más recomendadas? y ¿por qué es importante como padres o tutores contar con una herramienta de control parental?. #TodoIniciaEnCasa Notas del Episodio: Artículo sobre ¿cómo configurar el control parental en Netflix?: https://revista.internetseguro.org/lo-que-debe…en-netflix/ Camilo menciona un artículo de la constitución (obviamente de Colombia), el artículo es el 67 de la constitución política de Colombia, que entre lo que dice está: "(...)El Estado, la sociedad y la familia son responsables de la educación (...)" En este vídeo hablan del Grooming y el caso de Micaela Ortega en Argentina: https://internetseguro.org/blog/grooming/micaela-ortega Estos son enlaces a algunas herramientas de control parental: Control parental de MAC: https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/mac Control parental en Windows: https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/windows Control parental ChromeOS (Google Family Link): https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/family-link Control Parental en PS4: https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/ps4 Control Parental en XBox: https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/xbox Qustodio: https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/qustodio K9 Web Protection: https://internetseguro.org/blog/control-parental/k9 Puedes seguirnos en: Facebook: https://fb.me/internetseguropodcast Web: https://internetseguropodcast.com Youtube: https://internetseguro.org/podcast/youtube Contáctenos a través de: correo@internetseguropodcast.com WhatsApp: +573192020102 Deja tus preguntas por Whatsapp --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/internetseguropodcast/message

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Il SOUVENIR DIGITALE di questa settimana è il Qustodio ( https://www.qustodio.com/it/family/how-it-works/ ) un servizio per fare parental control installabile su tutti i dispositivi accessibili in famiglia (ma anche in azienda) che ci permette di conoscere, filtrare, limitare e ottimizzare l'utilizzo di internet da parte dei ragazzi (o dei dipendenti) in modo da evitare pericoli e sviluppare un utilizzo sano del Web. Grazie a Piero Salomoni per l'ispirazione.☞ ISCRIVITI, CONDIVIDI, SCRIVI UNA RECENSIONE o FAI UNA DOMANDA > http://strategiadigitale.info

Il SOUVENIR DIGITALE di questa settimana è il Qustodio ( https://www.qustodio.com/it/family/how-it-works/ ) un servizio per fare parental control installabile su tutti i dispositivi accessibili in famiglia (ma anche in azienda) che ci permette di conoscere, filtrare, limitare e ottimizzare l'utilizzo di internet da parte dei ragazzi (o dei dipendenti) in modo da evitare pericoli e sviluppare un utilizzo sano del Web. Grazie a Piero Salomoni per l'ispirazione.☞ ISCRIVITI, CONDIVIDI, SCRIVI UNA RECENSIONE o FAI UNA DOMANDA > http://strategiadigitale.info

Barb McGrath (mom of 2) joins Tenille for a chat about screen time, one of the biggest barriers to getting kids moving. In addition to the surprising stat that the average Canadian kid spends 6-7 hours a day in front of a screen, they talk: finding a method of managing screen time that works for your family tools to help parents monitor and control screen time, including ChoreMonster and Qustodio whether it’s realistic to expect kids to regulate their own screen time setting a good example in an age where many adults spend most of their time on screens for work, entertainment, socializing and everyday tasks Barb and Tenille also discuss recent headlines, including: a Forbes article about the American Academy of Pediatrics revising its guidelines for screen time A Psychology Today post that claims screen time is making kids moody, crazy and lazy For more ideas and inspiration visit www.saskatchewaninmotion.ca. To recommend a mom who'd make a great guest on Mom2Mom, email us at podcast@saskinmotion.ca.

Kelly is here for Episode 11, and we are talking all about summer! In this episode, we start as always with Awesome of the Week. Then, we each share our top summer finds - recipes, activities, treats, and more! Later in the show, I beg advice from her on how she handles screen time and scheduling in the summer. We would love to hear about your top summer finds, too! Find us on Twitter @SortaAwesomeMeg or in the Facebook Group: Sorta Awesome Hangout SHOW NOTES: 1) Dude Perfect 2) Mastrad Ice Pop Molds 3) Cajun Turkey Burgers 4) Talenti Gelato 5) Kelly’s favorite summer skirts at Athleta 6) Gortimer Gibbon’s Life on Normal Street 7) The Style Scout: The Only Five Steamy, Dreamy Beauty Looks You Need for Summer; the Style Scouting Podcast 8) Buzz Feed: 29 Dollar Store Finds 9) Megan’s favorite Peppermint essential oil 10) L-Theanine 11) Moment, Qustodio, Curbi 12) unlimited screen time at Narrowback Slacker Find Kelly on her blog, Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram! As always, thanks to Progger for allowing us to use the song Strut! Find more from Progger at Proggermusic.comFeedback on today’s show? Sign up for the show’s mailing list at tinyletter.com/SortaAwesome or leave a comment below (click the date link). And don’t forget to find us in the Sorta Awesome Hangout on Facebook! You can find me on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram!

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