Podcasts about Mirroring

„Sie sagt: Du hörst mir nie zu. Und sofort geht es los in deinem Kopf: Das stimmt doch gar nicht. Ich höre ihr doch gerade zu. Und bevor du es merkst, bist du mitten in der Verteidigung." Wenn du dieses Muster kennst — sie macht einen Vorwurf, du erklärst dich, sie macht zu — dann ist diese Folge für dich. Wir erklären, warum dein Verteidigungsreflex jedes Gespräch zerstört — und wie Tactical Empathy diesen Kreislauf durchbricht. In dieser Episode von „Zurück ins Beziehungsglück" erklären Ralf Hofmann und Felix Heller, warum Verteidigung neurologisch wie ein Angriff wirkt — und wie du mit einer einzigen Änderung die gesamte Dynamik drehst.

Send us Fan MailBobby Ford, a seasoned cybersecurity leader and CISO turned strategist, joins us for a powerhouse discussion on how AI is reshaping social engineering threats and what organizations need to do now to stay protected. From militaristic origins to startup innovation, Bobby's insights are both visionary and urgent. This episode is a must-listen for anyone serious about defending against tomorrow's cyber threats.Timestamps:00:00 - Why social engineering AI threats are now more relevant than ever02:12 - The importance of transparency about what you don't know in cybersecurity04:25 - The ‘third why' technique to test real expertise in security conversations06:40 - How a podcast episode led to a future leadership role at Doppel08:08 - Bobby's journey from military cybersecurity to startup strategy09:52 - The early days of Pentagon incident response teams and military innovation11:45 - De-gaussing hard drives in the 1980s and the evolution of data destruction13:09 - The FBI's updated wiping standards and data recovery advances14:16 - The challenge of data forensics and how little data is enough to piece together activity14:53 - How social engineering tests can be made more realistic and effective15:49 - The importance of testing controls, not just user awareness16:46 - Building resilient organizations with layered digital and human defenses18:46 - Why preventing attacks before they land is critical in AI-driven threats19:37 - External versus internal controls and the threat from outside-in protections22:23 - Social engineering as an effort to engineer humans for good or bad23:42 - How generative AI makes it impossible for users to tell real from fake24:17 - The alarming rise in convincing, AI-generated phishing emails and calls25:54 - The necessity of shifting accountability from users to technology27:19 - AI-to-AI attack scenarios and the future of autonomous cyber conflict29:34 - Mirroring military AI strategies in digital cyber warfare31:08 - The role of internet localization and firewalls in a future of AI-enabled conflict33:41 - How security controls will evolve in an AI-powered world36:49 - Why security is a business enabler, not just a gatekeeper41:29 - The history of security's “catch-up” game and embracing digital transformation44:47 - The mindset of a cyber mercenary—focusing on outcomes and results46:45 - The rapid evolution toward zero-day, AI-enabled breaches49:57 - The four pillars of AI-fueled attacks: hyper-personalization, multi-channel, speed, and volume51:13 - How a simple online search can make attack success egregiously easy52:05 - Demonstration of AI-based social engineering at scale, terrifying yet promising defenses56:41 - Bobby's closing thoughts: security as outcome-driven and resilientDoppel:  https://www.doppel.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbyjford/Support the showFollow the Podcast on Social Media!Tesla Referral Code: https://ts.la/joseph675128YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@securityunfilteredpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secunfpodcast/Twitter: https://twitter.com/SecUnfPodcastAffiliates➡️ OffGrid Faraday Bags: https://offgrid.co/?ref=gabzvajh➡️ OffGrid Coupon Code: JOE➡️ Unplugged Phone: https://unplugged.com/Unplugged's UP Phone - The performance you expect, with the privacy you deserve. Meet the alternative. Use Code UNFILTERED at checkout*See terms and conditions at affiliated webpages. Offers are subject to change. These are affiliated/paid promotions.

In this episode of the Recovered Dad podcast, we break down a powerful truth that most men miss in recovery: this habit is not about intimacy, it is about pain. We share how building awareness around emotional triggers completely changes how we show up as husbands and fathers. Instead of reacting or escaping, we learn how to understand what is really going on beneath the surface. We walk through how this shift improves communication, strengthens connection in marriage, and allows us to be fully present with our kids. This conversation highlights the importance of emotional awareness, taking ownership, and developing the internal discipline needed to lead your family well. If you have ever felt stuck in cycles you cannot explain, this episode will help you see what is really driving them and how to start changing it. Top 10 Show Highlights: [00:00] Awareness becomes the turning point that changes how we show up in marriage and fatherhood [01:10] This habit is not about intimacy, it is about escaping pain and discomfort [02:25] How emotional triggers drive behavior without us realizing it [03:40] The impact of hidden struggles on everyday interactions with your wife [05:00] Removing the "dark cloud" and how it improves connection and communication [06:15] Learning to recognize what is actually going on internally in real time [07:30] Building the skill of awareness and why it changes everything [08:45] How presence replaces distraction in your role as a father [10:00] Why real growth comes from facing discomfort instead of escaping it [11:20] Becoming intentional in how you respond instead of reacting automatically Linked List of Sites or Resources Mentioned: Learn More About The Liberation Boot Camp: https://www.therecovereddad.com Download the Father's Freedom Framework: https://www.therecovereddad.com/fathers-freedom-framework Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recovereddad 

Dr. Lindsay Gibson joins Forrest to explore how we can reparent ourselves, recover from emotionally immature parenting, and develop greater emotional maturity. They discuss what emotional maturity actually is, the "good enough" parent, the voices we internalize, and how adults can begin to give themselves the internal security and emotional attunement they missed in childhood. Other topics include why feeling misunderstood is so painful, the lifelong dance between connection and autonomy, and the hidden costs of authoritarian parenting.  About our guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of a number of books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and her new book, How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child. Key Topics: 0:00: Intro & what emotional maturity looks like 7:45: Why our culture undervalues emotional maturity  12:56: The “good enough” parent 20:05: What happens to children with emotionally immature parents 27:15: Repair in adulthood 36:22: The importance of feeling understood 43:40: Mirroring: why it's important and how to get better at it 49:07: Balancing connection and autonomy 53:39: The appropriate level of parental authority 1:04:34: Parenting mistakes to avoid 1:15:29: Recap Support the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Level up your bedding with Quince. Go to Quince.com/BEINGWELL for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  For a limited time, your gift will be matched, to help students and teachers who need our support. Go to DonorsChoose.org/BEINGWELL to find a classroom near you and have your gift matched today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Working through history's greatest hymnal one Psalm at a time, we may not realize or remember the bigger picture of how the collection is organized. Mirroring the Books of Moses, the psalter is also a 'Pentateuch'. The psalms are arranged in five books beginning with songs 1 through 41, followed by book two: 42-72, book three: 73-89, book four: 90-106, and finally book five: 107-150. Each final song of books 1-4 closes with a doxology verse proclaiming: "Blessed be the Lord..." Finally the crescendo and universal call to worship is proclaimed in the final Psalm (150:6) "..Let everything that has breath. Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord! closing book 5. In our overview messages on the Psalter, let us consider closing themes from each set of songs and the big picture message they proclaim summarizing history's greatest hymnal. (Today we consider the first 2 examples. These will be followed in our next Psalm sermon with the same headings and 3 further points: COVENANTAL, INTERCESSION, EXILE INTERCESSION, AND WORSHIP

In this episode of The Common Good, host Doug Pagitt and Robb Ryerse dive into a difficult but necessary conversation: the profound internal brokenness of Donald Trump and how that personal fracture is manifesting as a national crisis. For years, we have analyzed the policies, the tweets, and the political maneuvers. But today, we look deeper. We explore the idea that the chaos we see in our streets, our courtrooms, and our communities is a direct reflection of a leader whose own character is defined by a lack of empathy, a disregard for truth, and an insatiable need for self-preservation. When a leader is unable to model wholeness, the nation they lead begins to splinter. Inside the Conversation: • The Anatomy of Brokenness: Why Donald Trump's personal character isn't just a "private matter," but a public health hazard for our democracy. • Mirroring the Chaos: How a presidency built on grievance and division trains a citizenry to treat one another with the same hostility. • The Moral Reckoning: Why people of faith and conscience must move beyond "lesser of two evils" thinking to demand leaders who are fundamentally whole. • Pathways to Healing: If the nation is breaking because the leadership is broken, how do we begin the work of repair from the ground up? The "Common Good" isn't just a political goal; it's a spiritual and social necessity. Join Doug and Robb as they unpack why America's recovery depends on moving past the era of the broken man and toward a future of shared integrity.

Trial consultant Phillip Miller takes a deep dive into the two papers he's written about depositions: one presents the scientific underpinnings of effective persuasion while the other focuses on experiential learning, which means getting on your feet and “actually doing the thing.” “It's great to take notes and have an idea, ‘Okay, here's the context for the behavior I need to model and adapt.' But until you actually get up and do it, you're never going to be able to integrate it into your style,” he explains to host Dan Ambrose. Tune in for his insights about depositions and how his research aligns with Dan's TLU training.Train and Connect with the Titans☑️ Phillip Miller I LinkedIn☑️ Miller Law OfficesI Facebook☑️ Trial Lawyers University☑️ TLU On Demand Instant access to live lectures, case analysis, and skills training videos☑️ TLU on X | Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn☑️ Subscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube2026 Programming☑️ Turning Witness Testimony into an Experience for the Jury, May 8 - 9, Hermosa Beach, CA☑️ TLU Beach, June 3-6, Huntington Beach, CAEpisode SnapshotPhillip began trial consulting in 1999 and has developed it into his practice, working with top plaintiff attorneys on high-stakes cases.His “Miller Mousetrap” refers to when you learn a technique but don't execute it confidently because you haven't practiced it yourself.“Mirroring” is a core deposition skill Phillip teaches: a technique to connect with and control a witness that many lawyers dismiss until they try it.Phillip emphasizes that TLU similarly prioritizes content quality over outside influence, with the only "external control" being Dan's commitment to finding speakers who can deliver and teach what matters.Produced and Powered by LawPods

In this episode I discuss the concept of reverse mirroring. When we are triggered by something negative in someone else, it's often a mirror to an aspect within ourselves that we don't like. The opposite is also true. When we resonate with or are "triggered" in a positive way seeing something in someone else, that's because it's a mirror to an aspect within ourselves that we do like! Let's flip the script and feed the positive aspects of ourselves!————————————————————You can join the conversation Live every Monday at 6 pm ET on Facebook & YouTube! Check out my new book Down to Earth The Spiritual Beings Guide to a Happy, Human Experience. Available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble, in digital and paperback!For Life Coaching, Exclusive Content, or More Info: GlennAmbrose.comHave you joined the new community Loving Nation in the Glenn Ambrose Nov 6, 2022 Academy yet?To help support my work and the free content I provide, please donate HERE

If you're typing “Celebrate Recovery near me” into Google because you’re desperate for help after discovering that your husband has been lying to you about his infidelity or his use of inappropriate material, you're not alone. BEFORE GOING TO CELEBRATE RECOVERY NEAR ME, CONSIDER THIS: 1. Recovery Programs Only work If He's Honest A recovery environment only works if your husband is completely honest about his behavior. Even in cases where he’s willing to attend a program, some women discover their husband takes “chips,” confesses slips, or shares breakthroughs in group without ever telling her. Not because he's changing, but because he's using the system to make it look like he's changing. 2. celebrate recovery near me Can't Fix Emotional Abuse When women search “Celebrate Recovery near me,” they often think the program will help heal their marriage by helping their husbands understand the root causes of their addiction and behaviors, especially if he seems willing to go meetings. But the root issue isn't addiction, it's entitlement, control, and dishonesty. Most recovery programs aren't designed to assess or confront coercive control. So instead of getting safer, some women end up feeling more confused. Before you invest your hope in any program, you deserve to understand the full picture. To discover if your husband is emotionally abusive, take this free emotional abuse quiz. 3. Some Men Use Recovery or Language as a Shield Many women report that once their husband joined a recovery group like Celebrate Recovery near me, he just learned to speak the language of recovery without actually changing. Instead of becoming more honest, some men become more skilled at hiding, using the right words, sharing at the right times, and appearing accountable…while the underlying patterns stay the same. This isn't necessarily the program's fault. Recovery culture tends to take disclosures at face value. But for some men, it becomes a stage rather than a mirror. 4. If He Gets Praise in Group but You Get Hurt at Home, Pay Attention The applause of a group like Celebrate Recovery near me can unintentionally reward performance. Your lived experience matters more than his report. If his recovery looks great publicly, but privately you feel scared, confused, dismissed, or blamed, that's a sign to step back and observe what’s happening. You don’t have to announce this to anyone 5. RECOVERY Programs Don't Replace Betrayal Trauma Support A program like Celebrate Recovery near me often uses a model that focuses on his trauma from childhood or his triggers. They may encourage couples to build routines that reduce his stress or triggers, sometimes placing more responsibility on her to monitor or support his progress. These might be good tools for people who genuinely want to heal. But they don't address lying, manipulation and entitlement. A woman in an emotionally abusive marriage needs support that centers her emotional safety, not his recovery timeline. 6. If You Feel Worse After the Program Starts, That Matters Many women assume feeling worse is a sign that they're a part of “the problem,” or they need to be “more supportive.” When his patterns of behavior become a shared problem…something you're both expected to manage…it often creates more emotional chaos for her. Her emotional safety needs to be addressed separately, not tied to how well he's doing or how much effort he appears to be making. Feeling confused, blamed, responsible for his recovery, or pressured to forgive and move forward…is a sign something else is happening. 7. Your EMOTIONAL SAFETY COMES BEFORE HIS RECOVERY STORY If you’re searching “Celebrate Recovery near me” to save your marriage, here's the most important thing: his recovery is not the foundation of your emotional safety. Your clarity is. It’s important to have your own support community in place that is educated in the dynamics of emotional and psychological abuse and can help you decide what you need for emotional safety. If you need support in addressing what's really happening, and whether a recovery program can help, you can start with the Living Free Workshop or BTR Group Sessions. They're designed to give you immediate clarity. Transcript: What Happened When I Googled “Celebrate Recovery Near Me” Anne: I’ve talked to hundreds of women who have typed things like “Celebrate Recovery near me”, or “addiction recovery program” into Google. Especially when their husband said he was an addict and he is willing to go to a program. So if he’s willing and goes to this program, it’s totally normal for a woman to think that things are gonna get better. But over the years, I’ve interviewed countless women who tell me things actually got worse. And I’m interviewing one of those women today. We’re gonna call her. Nancy. Here’s part of her story. Nancy: His coworker called me. She told me she was out with some friends. And he flirted with her and tried to pick her up. We were Going to Celebrate Recovery. He supposedly had been sober for months. Anne: We’re gonna get to her whole story, but before we do, I wanna stress that it’s important to understand that a manipulative man can use anything, a recovery program, therapy, even meeting with clergy to manipulate a woman further, and that causes a lot more harm and trauma. So before you start searching for a recovery program for your husband, it is important to consider what his recovery would be for and how abusers manipulate their victims. Most of the time, the therapist will say something like childhood wounds or addiction recovery. When really what you’re actually experiencing is emotional and psychological abuse. And I’ve even interviewed women who have tried to find an abuse program for their husband, and they still tell me the same things. So as you listen to Nancy’s story, I think it will help put into perspective what’s really going on and what steps you wanna take next. When I met him I thought he was a good guy Anne: That’s why I created the Living Free Workshop. It helps women know what’s going on, if he’s really abusive or not. Some women find out he’s not. And then what steps to take to create emotional safety in your life. It’s much faster to figure that out first, before spending tons of time and money in therapy or a recovery or Celebrate Recovery near me program. Living Free total run time is about two hours and 50 minutes, which is much shorter than three or four years to find out it’s not working. So Nancy, thank you so much for sharing your story today. Welcome, can you tell us how you met? Nancy: When I met him, he went to church. He served on the worship team, and he could talk like a preacher. So I thought he was a good guy. It was confusing, because we were play wrestling, and I wouldn’t have remembered this except I had written in a journal and I read it after everything fell apart. He held me down and said some things like, did you think you were stronger than me? Did you think I would let you go? It really scared me. I was very close to breaking up with him, but he actually cried and apologized. So I thought, he’s sorry. It’s not gonna happen again, and that sort of thing never happened again. He realized he had to be more subtle. He did tell me about his past sexual history. Mirroring my desire to serve missions Nancy: He was in the Navy and with several prostitutes. And he was honest, it felt like to me at the time. That he struggled with porn. I thought after we married, that wouldn’t be an issue. And honestly, I don’t know that anyone would’ve told me anything different. I wanted to serve in medical missions. He didn’t seem interested in this, so I prayed and left the relationship in God’s hands. I told him about how I prayed. And the next time we got together, he said, “He had been thinking and praying, and he really felt God moving his heart to missions. That everyone always thought he should be a missionary. It really blew me away, because I thought God had answered my prayer really fast. He knew that he was not only lying to me, he was also lying about God, and he chose it. Which makes him a really evil person. In pre-marital counseling, I was clear that I didn’t see myself as a housewife. I wanted things to be equal, and I didn’t plan to stop working. He acted like he was on the same page and that he was fine with this. So we married. Things were not good. In less than a year, he turned me down for sexual intimacy. Which was surprising and incredibly hurtful. Especially when I realized he was looking at porn. We went to see the movie Fireproof, and afterwards he admitted he was taking off his ring to flirt with people. I was trying to be very understanding, but I did feel hurt, and he got angry at me. He said this was the thanks he gets for staying away from porn for a couple weeks, which is not funny, but I’m laughing at the audacity. He Pushed Me to Quit Working While Avoiding Any Real Recovery or Celebrate Recovery Near Me Programs Nancy: I think I blocked a lot of it out, because somehow things were good enough back and forth between nice, the Christian thing, and when he would be not so nice. I didn’t recognize abuse. The only thing I could put my finger on was the sexual things. We never could solve how things were to be run. And now that we had children, he could step away and I would be forced to do more house duties, cooking, cleaning, et cetera. Because someone had to do all the things for the children. I would tell him what we had agreed before marriage, and he said, “Yeah, but I thought you would change after we had kids.” Anne: I said the same thing. I said, I’m not gonna cook. And he was like, no problem. Then later told me, I thought you would change. And I’m like, I was so clear. Nancy: Exactly, we’re both honest and open. It’s like, that doesn’t mean I have to change, just ’cause you thought I would change. Well, it did because we had children now that needed to be taken care of. Anne: Right. Nancy: The same thing I said, I didn’t wanna stop working.” And he would constantly try to get me to stop working. I was only working part-time. He wanted me to not have an escape route. We separated, but I was so exhausted and overwhelmed with a baby, 2-year-old, and a 5-year-old. We got back together pretty quickly. Discovering he was flirting with coworker Nancy: A year later, we separated again and went to couples counseling, ’cause I still had not seen how that was harmful. I was really hopeful, which seems funny after just like a week or two of separation. But his coworker called me and told me she had been out with some friends, and he was flirting with her and trying to pick her up. I thought this would be his rock bottom, because he’s almost lost his family. Anyway, we got back together and things were up and down. I was dealing with a lot of anger and depression, social anxiety. At the time, I thought I needed counseling to deal with my issues. We were going to Celebrate Recovery near me. His stated problems in Celebrate Recovery were sex addiction and anger. It’s so crazy knowing that, how could everybody there not believe anything I was saying? He supposedly had been sober for months because of all the addiction model stuff. We agreed that he would tell me if he ever had a slip within a certain amount of time. So at Celebrate Recovery, he went forward for a one-day chip, and that really shocked me because he wasn’t ever gonna tell me. When we agreed that he would. After that we had sex that was definitely, obviously coercive. I don’t think I had the words at the time, but I definitely felt that way because we had an agreement and he didn’t follow it. That was the last time we ever were together. He said he would throw me a 30th birthday party Nancy: I took a step back, and I was observing him because I felt like we were at the best place, and I’m actually an okay person. That means there’s nothing I’ve done wrong, literally. And there’s nothing I can do to change this. It just became increasingly clear to me. So I started looking for more information and came across BTR, but I didn’t listen to the episodes because I saw the word abuse. And thought that doesn’t apply to me. And I found a couple other podcasts. They didn’t fully explain everything, and then a really bad incident happened when I turned 30, a big birthday. Anne: They always do it on birthdays and holidays. Nancy: I know, I had always thrown him birthday parties. He’s an extrovert and that was something that he enjoyed and I didn’t mind, he didn’t throw me anything because I’m more of an introvert. So when I was going to turn 30, I told him that I’d like a birthday party and would like him to throw it for me. I said if he didn’t want to, let me know. ‘Cause it was important enough to me that I would throw it for myself. He said he would throw me the birthday party. But when I wasn’t seeing any preparations, I checked in with him. And the motions he made came across like he was planning a surprise birthday party. Anne: Like, let’s not talk about it. Or you might ruin your surprise. Nancy: Exactly, I had said, “I will throw it for myself.” I repeated that again, that time. He knew. He Claimed He ‘Forgot' My Birthday While Pretending Recovery Through SAA and Celebrate Recovery Near Me Groups Nancy: So my birthday comes up. I expect a surprise party around any corner. I come to the end of the day and nothing happened, nothing. And his excuse was forgetfulness. Anne: I never gave you the impression I was gonna throw you a party. Nancy: Yeah, It was always that gaslighting and blame shifting. I feel like I dissociated a little bit around that time. ‘Cause it was really hurtful, because I would have thrown it for myself. Anne: And he knew that and he gave you the impression that he was throwing you a party on purpose to ensure that you didn’t have a party. Nancy: Exactly, I actually believed him that it was on accident, but that was just as hurtful. Now, I believe it was fully on purpose. At the time I was going to COSA and he was going to an SAA group. Anne: When she says COSA or SAA, she’s talking about 12-Step recovery for pornography addicts or sexual addicts. There are other programs like Celebrate Recovery near me. And the COSA is a co sex addict’s 12-Step for a wife of an addict, where she basically does the same program he does and tries to fix her character defects. Nancy: Yeah, I’d been talking about giving him another chance to throw me a party, and they said if he already didn’t do it, you should not do that. So I ended up throwing myself a party. After that 30th birthday, I would get down around my birthday every year. I ended up telling him that, not in a way to blame him, because like I said, I didn’t think he had done it on purpose. I just thought I should let him know I wasn’t myself. Recognizing Gaslighting in real time Nancy: And it was the first time I recognized what he was doing in the moment, he started to say. “That had not happened. That didn’t sound like something he would’ve done, that my memory must be a little off.” So many different ways he was trying to convince me that it hadn’t happened, and he couldn’t convince me because I knew it had happened. So he switched tactics and said that maybe he should get counseling for being abused. Anne: He’s claiming that you’re abusing him. Nancy: Exactly, I was so confused. I asked him, “Abuse, what are you talking about? Am I being abusive right now?” And he goes, “No, the abuse I’ve had to endure for the last how many years.” And then I realized oh, that was gaslighting. That’s blame shifting, and I ended up leaving the room and cried on my own. It shook me up that he could take something very vulnerable and turn it on me like that. I was talking about that incident and how he was saying I was abusive and I heard myself saying, “It was surprising he would call me abusive when he’s been so much worse.” And that was the first time I thought maybe he is abusive, and that reminded me about BTR. I thought, let me listen to that, ’cause maybe I can get some insight. That brought me back to listening to the BTR podcast. And I vividly remember I was binging all these episodes, hearing women’s stories. It felt like my life. And it just blew my mind to realize I’ve been abused this whole time. Anne: I’m so sorry. You were experiencing Betrayal Trauma and were not aware that recovery or Celebrate Recovery near me programs wouldn’t help you. Addict model says he’s struggling, he’s not in control Nancy: It made sense. It felt like everything clicked into place. Everything else I was told didn’t make sense. I always talked about stuff. I was always looking for answers. And I never felt like I was codependent or that I needed codependents anonymous. None of that stuff seemed to fit. In fact, the advice I was given, “Don’t pay attention to what he’s doing. Only work on yourself.” While they’re also saying, “Don’t be codependent, ignore what he’s doing,” which just doesn’t work. The addict model, like he’s struggling, he’s trying, he’s not in control. I mean, that’s like step one. You’re powerless to control your behavior. He accepted the addiction model early on, and we were in and out of groups the whole time. But I don’t believe now that he’s an addict, and I don’t think he even thinks he’s an addict. It’s a great excuse to keep doing what you’re doing. Because there’s no accountability, and everyone applauds your efforts. Even if you’re not reaching the goal, you actually have a choice. He would say to me that he could not promise that he would never do any of the sexual stuff again. So it was like basically just saying, I’m gonna be doing this my whole life. Anne: My ex wouldn’t promise either. He said if I promised, “I wouldn’t be on my toes. Like I don’t want to think I couldn’t do that, because then maybe I would be in danger of doing it.” Which doesn’t even make sense. Like I can legit say, I will never have an affair. finding BTR helped me wrap my head around the abuse, Celebrate Recovery near me didn’t Nancy: Right, yeah. I found BTR. And the abuse model is they have a choice, and they’re choosing to be harmful and abusive. All these years he had been a liar. I stepped back and observed behavior for me to fully wrap my head around it. I believe he feels entitled to do what he wants. He doesn’t see people as people. Or maybe it’s just women as women. Objectification is a huge thing. I don’t think he ever saw me as an equal partner or a person. And I don’t believe he ever loved me. I was a desirable object he acquired, and that was it. When I started listening to BTR, it helped me understand abuse and the subtleties of it. Because before, I had only been thinking physical abuse or yelling insults, which my ex did not do. Listening to the stories helped me see how this plays out in marriage, even in a Christian marriage. It was helpful to see the ways men could twist faith things, because many of these men and my ex are very manipulative. Like it has to slowly play out over time to see what they’re doing. And a lot of it goes back to intent, and it’s hard to see intent. It was hard for me to imagine my husband is lying to me. So that was a shift too, to start looking at actions instead of words. BTR gave me a lot of insight into what I was living through and what was helpful, especially getting into the BTR groups. Celebrate Recovery near me didn’t do that. It helps build you up so that you can go through the hard stuff. We were going to counseling around the time I started going to BTR group. Going to couple counseling Nancy: Because of BTR, I had the words for it. I was able to express better what was happening. The counselor didn’t help my situation, of course. Individual counseling and couple counseling are unhelpful, because an abuser’s goal, my ex’s goal, was not to get better. His goal is to get whatever he wants. He’ll say whatever he needs to say to get what he needs from the counselor. We’ve gone to quite a few couple counselors. We would go into a new counselor, and he would bring up a new issue. He had never told me about me. Anne: Suddenly you’re a kleptomaniac or something. Nancy: Yeah, things that he thought I did that were hurtful to him, that I had never heard of before. But I felt so bad that I was hurting him without knowing it. What a callous person I am. Anne: Not knowing he was bearing false witness and that he literally made it up. Nancy: Yeah, completely distracted from why we went to counseling in the first place is sexual issues. Like I would have to be a safe person so he could be honest with me. Because I’m an actual caring person, I would feel like this was an actual issue that I needed to fix. And that is the part about the psychological abuse that is hard to describe. Because a lot of it could sound valid, and I thought these things were valid. But later realizing they were lies. They were lies, because he would’ve said them before. Anne: Exactly. creepy experience with new counselor Nancy: We did an in-home separation, At first. His abuse escalated the freer that I was getting. I never completely stopped working. I got a job and started after the in-home separation. He actually shut off the internet. Luckily, I prepared ahead of time. I had my own phone plan with the hotspot, So I could just switch over and just didn’t even engage with him. It has been a process of combing through my life, and I have wondered that how many lies I won’t even know about or remember. Because, I believed him and he was so good at lying. One of the new things he said was I wasn’t being vocal enough in bed. It felt so humiliating for him to say that to the new counselor. When he had never said that before. This male counselor wanted us to do an exercise right then on the sofa in front of him. He wanted my ex to touch like my foot or my leg, and then slowly move closer to my private areas. And as he moved closer. I was supposed to make more and more noise. Anne: No. Nancy: Isn’t that crazy? Anne: That’s so creepy. Nancy: I did feel incredibly creeped out, and I refused to do it. Anne: Good for you. He said there would be no equality in our marriage – Celebrate Recovery near me didn’t help with that Nancy: I wish I had just walked out, But after we left, I said, “I will never go back to that counselor again.” And we never did. I said, “What I would need to continue in the marriage was for him to be seeing his own personal counselor, to have a full disclosure with a lie detector test.” Which he said no to. And I know now it wouldn’t have been helpful. Just like Celebrate Recovery near me wasn’t helpful. Anne: I know, thank goodness. Nancy: Right. Anne: Mine never did that either. And I think I would’ve just been in the abuse for so much longer had he said yes. Nancy: Right, and then the second thing I said is that, “I wanted equality in our marriage.” And he said no. Anne: He said no, he didn’t want equality? Nancy: Correct. Anne: Wow. Nancy: So I was like, then literally that’s the end of it. And I was going to BTR group. I remember one of the coaches said to me, “It was a blessing that he actually had been honest.” At the time, I didn’t understand, now I do. And I’m so glad I asked those questions. I don’t know why he was honest. There are two possibilities. He didn’t think I would leave, because I hadn’t yet. We’d been married for almost 14 years, and he was only saying what was already true. You don’t need to be perfect to be loved Nancy: I just didn’t realize it was true. Or maybe he did want me to leave. I had some conversations with his mom. Because I found BTR, and surprisingly, she said it made her realize she was in an abusive relationship with my ex’s dad. However, she still felt like I should stay. Because she felt like the Lord had taught her so much and she had grown through all these trials. I have sympathy for her, but it’s so wrong. All of a sudden it just became very clear to me that if I stayed for the kids, it was actually putting them more at risk. And honestly, that conversation solidified that I had to leave for the kids. If you’re not sure yet if your partner is abusive, Just listen to some BTR stories and see what jumps out at you. You are a worthy human being that does not have to be perfect to be loved and treated with respect. Reconciliation is not necessary for forgiveness, and you don’t have to forgive anyone. It’s more of a process that can happen on its own time, and no one should force it. Pay much closer attention to someone’s actions over time than the words they say. And it’s never too late to make different choices when you learn or understand new information. I feel like having to make a choice that is wildly unpopular with people around you. Church, that I had to learn in a new way. Maybe for the first time, to not let what people thought about me affect the decisions that I make that part has been really hard because a church we were going to was not supportive at first. Call from somebody in Celebrate Recovery near me group Nancy: Some of them seemed supportive, and even the ones I thought were supportive, in the end weren’t. I actually got a phone call from somebody in my Celebrate Recovery near me group. She called me up to ask me if I was seeing a counselor. Because I still seemed angry. I was speechless, of course I’m angry. Anne: Yeah Nancy: I didn’t even know how to respond to her. I just told her yes, I’m in BTR group and got off the phone. There’s nothing wrong with being angry about the situation. I feel like church tells women they shouldn’t be angry. But Jesus was angry. There’s nothing wrong with being angry. Anne: Yeah, I feel like if you’re not angry, something’s wrong. Nancy: Right. Anne: I mean, nothing is wrong with you. You might be numb, you might be sad. I went through periods where I wasn’t super angry. I was just really depressed, but on the whole oppressed, abused, exploited people, their anger is from God to help liberate themselves from the oppression. But of course, the abuser does not want you to liberate yourself. He said flat out he didn’t want you to be equal. That is infuriating. Nancy: And now he wanted 50/50 custody. It was very upsetting, because my ex had been very non-helpful around the house and with the kids. It was hard to think that he would want 50/50. Anne: But of course he did. Nancy: I didn’t see that coming, and I wish I had been more prepared and could have been more strategic. Listening to him lie in the courtroom Nancy: I could not wrap my mind around that at the time. I had seen more and more abuse as my eyes were open. So I couldn’t wrap my mind around 50/50 custody. I was under the delusion that justice was in the court system. I found out, even though I know he lies, it was a big shock to listen to him lying in the Courtroom. It’s hard to witness. It’s something I wish I had processed before, because I’m sure that was pointed out to me. But I couldn’t process that as a reality back then. The Living Free Workshop was so helpful. And going to group and getting help constantly. The Living Free Workshop is so different than anything you’ve ever been taught. I don’t know how I would’ve made it through this, honestly. That was another thing that was really helpful. There were some scripts in Living Free to get him on Our Family Wizard, and he actually got on it easily. I was surprised. I didn’t think he would get on as easily as he did, and just not responding in any other way. Anne: That’s the thing, they’re desperate to talk to you. With the workshop, everybody says, how am I gonna make him go on OFW? And if you do the script and stick to it and do not deviate. Legit, don’t deviate. Once you’re on Our Family Wizard, literally block him on your phone, so he has no other way of contacting you. He is desperate to get your attention and your belief, like Living Free says, yeah, they’re so transactional. And if you respond through Our Family Wizard, he will find a way to do it. he performs for others in groups like Celebrate Recovery near me and in court Anne: They’re like, well, this is what I gotta do to talk to her, because I’m blocked otherwise. They will move. It might take a month. I’ve had it take the longest six weeks with one woman that I was working with. Every single time he texted, she said, “Hey, I’ve responded on Our Family Wizard.” Nancy: Right. It felt overwhelming, because he kept sending me long, manipulative messages, but I responded on Our Family Wizard. It only took me once for him to switch. Being on OFW was better. Oh, one of the books BTR recommends, The Woman They Could Not Silence. I read it and that was awesome. It helped open up my mind to spiritual abuse. It’s been inspiring to me this whole time. What she went through being separated from her children. That book has been really inspiring. The thought of leaving them with him, terrifying to me. We went through two rounds of court. He would make it sound like I was controlling and not letting him do things. Like why wouldn’t I let him take the kids to half of the doctor’s appointments when he never came to a pregnancy appointment? And same with field trips. He’ll go on field trips now, and I feel like it’s just to keep me from going. It. He never wanted to before. Anne: If he was actually a good dad, he would’ve been doing it before, but since he’s only doing it now, he is just performing. Nancy: Yes, it’s a performance because he’s getting something out of it from other people, like in in celebrate recovery near me, and it’s punishment for me because he knows how much I like being there for the kids. Reluctance to support anything he can’t control Nancy: When we married, he didn’t want us to do extracurricular activities. He didn’t even want free after school activities, much less anything you would have to pay for. He was only okay with youth group attached to his job, not the free after school activities. But since we’ve been divorced, he has them interested in hockey, which is one of the most expensive and time consuming sports there is. It’s very strange from my entire experience with him. He never talked about hockey, and he never wanted them involved. At the same time, he is not wanting to pay half of necessary expenses, like medical or orchestra uniforms. For a long time, I was not asking for half of necessary expenses. Because I didn’t wanna have to deal with him because he makes it such a struggle. Anne: My ex is exactly like that, exactly. When my book comes out, I’m anxious for you to read it, because it was all about control. Like, if I’m paying you anything or if I’m involved in any way, I have to control it. Nancy: Yeah, like my youngest wanted to do karate. His dad would not participate even when I offered to pay the whole thing. Other son was invited to concert band, and his dad said no. Anne: Think about the power trip that gives him that he’s able to manipulate them away from their natural interests. And maybe hockey is something that he wants to do. Like he thinks karate’s dumb, but he thinks hockey’s interesting. Draining my bank account and controlling my time Nancy: It is a huge expense that is very draining. When he won’t even pay half of an AP test. Anne: And that might be part of it. He’s, let’s pick the most expensive thing to drain her bank account. Nancy: Yeah, it was a double bind to drain my bank account and control my time. And at the same time, if I have to back out of it. He’ll say, sorry, kids, Mom won’t let us go to hockey. Anne: He’s calculating ways to set you up to be the bad guy. Nancy: Yes, he is an expert at setting up situations, so my bank account is being drained, and I cover a hundred percent of their insurance. Anne: With a lot of these post-separation abuse situations. They get the benefits, but they don’t have any of the responsibilities, and they can use it against you, but it never works for you. They can bend the rules in order to benefit them, but you can’t bend the rules. Nancy: In the Living Free Workshop. It was helpful to see how to deal with narcissistic abuse in marriage and how it plays out in separation, to find a way out of it. There was one thing you said, and this is when you’re moving away from his harm. You said, “If he escalates, remember that protecting yourself from the harm is not the cause of the harm. Just like evacuating a building was not the cause of the exploding gas lines.” He still wants to get together Nancy: That really hit me. One of the things that keeps haunting me is did I do the right thing? He still tries to get together personally with me. It constantly comes up that he wants to get together for coffee, or would I go to counseling with him, co-parenting counseling. I mostly ignore it at this point because he’s asked so many times. I don’t even answer him. Then if something goes wrong with the money situations or if there’s a point of disagreement, he will say, if you would’ve only met with me like I’ve asked, then this would’ve already been stopped. Anne: Yeah, we could’ve worked it out somehow, no. He would still lie. Nancy: It’s a trap. There’s that little 2% of me left that feels like, well, maybe I should meet with him, but no, it’s a trap. Anne: Yeah, no. Nancy: Because he never intends to do a nice thing. He just wants to get me in front of him again. I don’t think any good would come of it. Anne: A hundred percent, no. It might seem good, ’cause once you get there, it might seem good. He might like to turn on the manipulative lies to make you feel like he cares. I think one of the most abusive things people can say is, I love you or that I care. So manipulating you in that way is actually dangerous, and that’s probably what would happen. Nancy: I don’t think I could keep a straight face. It would skive me out so bad to be around him and hear stuff like that. Everything he says is the opposite of the truth Anne: Well, it’s just further evidence of his controlling nature, because he desperately wants to hang on to control. And so he’s increasing his lies because it’s getting away from him. That’s definitely a sign that he’s been lying the whole time. Nancy: I completely agree. I know that this is better for them in the long run, but in the short run, that sentence helps me right now. That was probably one of the hardest things for me to come to terms with, is that he never loved me. He doesn’t love the children. None of it’s real. It’s all lies, and he still does it. It’s mind-boggling. Everything he says is the opposite of what the truth is. He continues lying as he did in programs like Celebrate Recovery near me. As we were moving through the separation process, the boys did not want to leave and crying and like holding onto the car seats. It was horrible. I knew if I said anything to him, he wouldn’t care. Any altercation would be scary for the kids. So I started getting third party exchange people through a new church. I actually found a church with a woman pastor, which is quite lovely. The new church was helpful and supportive, and there were several people that would help me with exchanges. And things changed, like taking the Living Free Workshop, and suddenly I felt a lot stronger. I had a new understanding and confidence, so I stopped doing the third party exchanges. He actually met with the principal to try to get the principal to agree with him that I’m not allowed to go into the school on his parenting weeks. like in celebrate recovery near me, A clear example of him lying, controlling and abusing Nancy: Which isn’t true. You’re allowed to visit your kid in the school. Anne: Absolutely. Nancy: Unless there’s a restraining order, which there’s not. We have shared custody, but he made it sound like the principal agreed with him. I didn’t think it was the truth, but it scared me at the time. And we were about to have a party, and I signed up to bring food, so I worried I would be kicked out. But the principal didn’t say anything. Isn’t that a clear example of parental alienation? Anne: It’s a clear way of him undermining your relationship with your kids, lying, controlling, and abusing you. This is how he’s literally abusing you and your children. Nancy: Everybody heard about this incident, and it didn’t matter. He made it sound like he had just been concerned for the children’s wellbeing. Anne: Yeah, no. Nancy: My being around them upset them. Anne: Lies. That’s the issue they lie in programs like Celebrate Recovery near me and fool the leaders. Nancy: It’s lies at times it is possible that they might be upset, but it’s not because they’re scared of me. It’s more that they’re sad about the situation. My one son, he told me, it makes him sad to see me when he knows he has to go back to his dad’s. My daughter had a phone before we separated, but he wouldn’t allow communication between the boys and me ever. Once, my son called me using his sister’s phone. He was crying. I was only on the phone for about two or three minutes, and then the phone cut off. And they told me when they came back that he had been mad at them for calling me. Even if there is a court order they will find away around it Nancy: He wouldn’t allow them to have a watch phones either. That’s one of the reasons we went back to court. Anne: That’s the problem with court. You think if we get it in writing, then he’ll do it, but it doesn’t matter. He is not gonna do it no matter what. Nancy: This is what I have learned. I don’t ever wanna go back to court again, because it doesn’t help. No matter what you do, they’ll find a new way to cause harm. So there’s no point in any kind of new order. ‘Cause then they’ll find a new way around it. Anne: Exactly. Nancy: I’m still glad I went, because before I had been worried I had to do everything exactly perfectly or something would go wrong. And then I realized he’s doing wrong things on purpose. He just says stuff to get what he wants and nobody cares. So that has relieved a lot of fear. Anne: What would you share with listeners about what you’ve learned so far about finding help, maybe from Celebrate Recovery near me or elsewhere? Nancy: You know, hearing other people’s stories have meant so much to me, Living Free and the BTR coaches set me up for success. They told me to transfer half of our money to a separate bank account before I even told him that I might be leaving. That was incredibly helpful because I’m not sure if it would’ve been easy for me to get the money. I never used the word abuse or narcissism to him. That played out well, because he would’ve twisted it against me. Anne: A hundred percent. Kids need to know what a safe place feels like Nancy: Getting on the parenting app, super helpful, third parties for switches. Finding people to help with the things you need is just a lifesaver. I do feel like it will be better for the kids in the future, because they can be in a peaceful setting that’s not manipulative. So when they’re making decisions. About how they want to live and their future partners, that they know what it feels like to be in a safe place and being able to have discussions with them about men’s and women’s roles. Anne: Nancy, thank you so much for sharing your story today. And helping others who are searching, to find something truly helpful. Nancy: Thank you.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2994: Dr. James Stein explores subtle, often overlooked behaviors that can reveal whether someone has a crush on you, from mimicking your speech to creating shared routines. By understanding these psychological cues, you can better distinguish genuine interest from coincidence. Recognizing these signs might just give you the confidence to take the next step. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/ways-to-tell-if-your-crush-is-into-you/ Quotes to ponder: "People will tend to mimic the catch phrases, accents, speech rate, or even tone of someone who they want to like them." "Mirroring is more like a complimentary behavior." "When it comes to initiating or developing relationships, people like predictability." Episode references: Scarcity Principle: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarcity_(social_psychology) Mirroring (psychology): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mirroring_(psychology) Communication Accommodation Theory: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Communication_accommodation_theory Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Perché alcune persone “prendono” subito l'accento degli altri, mentre altre restano identiche ovunque vadano? La phonetic convergence: il modo in cui il nostro cervello si sintonizza sull'accento dell'interlocutore per capirlo meglio e costruire relazione. Parliamo di mirroring, di quanto contano davvero gli accenti nella percezione sociale (credibilità, simpatia, pregiudizi) e di come la nostra voce sia una playlist plastica che si adatta al contesto più di quanto pensiamo. Vai su Klarna e ottieni flessibilità e cashback, tutto in un'unica app per pagamenti, premi, shopping intelligente e controllo delle tue finanze. #accento #accentiitaliani #linguistica #psicolinguistica #voce #podcastitaliani #comunicazione #sociolinguistica #phoneticconvergence #mirroring #psicologia #identità #cervello #cosemoltoumane #podcastconsigliati #stereotipi #accentism #dialetti #linguaeidentità Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Barbara Rawlings is a retired sociologist originally gaining her PhD in 1980 from Manchester University with an ethnography of a therapeutic community.  She has specialised in qualitive research in a variety of public sector settings and particularly in therapeutic communities.  These have been in both community and forensic settings, and have been both democratic therapeutic communities and the more hierarchical TCs which  work with drug addiction.  She is a co-opted member of CSAAP (Correctional Services Acccreditation and Advice Panel) and most recently has worked on research into the Living Learning Experience (LLE) which is an international training programme for therapeutic community staff.  summary This interview with Barbara Rawlings explores the world of therapeutic communities, contrasting hierarchical and democratic models, their histories, and their impact on treatment outcomes. Discover insights into staff roles, community dynamics, and the importance of environment in recovery.  keywords therapeutic communities, hierarchical vs democratic, addiction treatment, mental health, prison rehabilitation, community therapy, personality disorders, recovery models  key  topics Differences between hierarchical and democratic therapeutic communities History and origins of therapeutic communities in addiction and psychiatry Role of staff and residents in community dynamics Impact of environment and social time on recovery Challenges and successes in prison therapeutic communities  sound bites "In democratic communities, everyone is almost an equal." "Enabling environments reflect real community life." "Mirroring behavior helps understand and change actions." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Therapeutic Communities 03:16 Understanding Hierarchical vs. Democratic Therapeutic Communities 06:40 The Role of Staff in Therapeutic Communities 10:23 Length of Stay and Treatment Duration 13:54 Research Insights on Therapeutic Communities 18:37 Defining Success in Therapeutic Communities 29:52 The Importance of Aftercare in Reintegration 32:48 Evolution of Therapeutic Communities 34:30 Active Ingredients of Democratic Therapeutic Communities 36:19 Understanding Offence Paralleling Behavior 39:58 Creating a Reflective Environment in Prisons 43:24 Accreditation and Program Integrity in Therapeutic Communities 49:35 The Role of Community and Fun in Therapeutic Settings 52:50 Ten second outro video.mp4

  Barbara Rawlings is a retired sociologist originally gaining her PhD in 1980 from Manchester University with an ethnography of a therapeutic community.  She has specialised in qualitive research in a variety of public sector settings and particularly in therapeutic communities.  These have been in both community and forensic settings, and have been both democratic therapeutic communities and the more hierarchical TCs which  work with drug addiction.  She is a co-opted member of CSAAP (Correctional Services Acccreditation and Advice Panel) and most recently has worked on research into the Living Learning Experience (LLE) which is an international training programme for therapeutic community staff.  summary This interview with Barbara Rawlings explores the world of therapeutic communities, contrasting hierarchical and democratic models, their histories, and their impact on treatment outcomes. Discover insights into staff roles, community dynamics, and the importance of environment in recovery.  keywords therapeutic communities, hierarchical vs democratic, addiction treatment, mental health, prison rehabilitation, community therapy, personality disorders, recovery models  key  topics Differences between hierarchical and democratic therapeutic communities History and origins of therapeutic communities in addiction and psychiatry Role of staff and residents in community dynamics Impact of environment and social time on recovery Challenges and successes in prison therapeutic communities  sound bites "In democratic communities, everyone is almost an equal." "Enabling environments reflect real community life." "Mirroring behavior helps understand and change actions." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Therapeutic Communities 03:16 Understanding Hierarchical vs. Democratic Therapeutic Communities 06:40 The Role of Staff in Therapeutic Communities 10:23 Length of Stay and Treatment Duration 13:54 Research Insights on Therapeutic Communities 18:37 Defining Success in Therapeutic Communities 29:52 The Importance of Aftercare in Reintegration 32:48 Evolution of Therapeutic Communities 34:30 Active Ingredients of Democratic Therapeutic Communities 36:19 Understanding Offence Paralleling Behavior 39:58 Creating a Reflective Environment in Prisons 43:24 Accreditation and Program Integrity in Therapeutic Communities 49:35 The Role of Community and Fun in Therapeutic Settings 52:50 Ten second outro video.mp4  

Dr. Una McCormack is a New York Times and USA Today bestselling science fiction author known for bringing depth, politics, and humanity to some of the genre's most beloved universes. With more than twenty novels, she has written acclaimed stories for Star Trek, Doctor Who, and Firefly, including Star Trek: Picard – The Last Best Hope and the autobiographies of Spock and Kathryn Janeway.  An academic with a PhD in sociology and a longtime lecturer in creative writing, Una blends rigorous thought with compelling storytelling, exploring themes of identity, power, and culture within science fiction worlds.  Her work has earned numerous award nominations and widespread praise from fans and critics alike, making her one of the most respected voices writing in modern science fiction tie-in fiction today.  On this episode, we talk with Una about the craft of writing in iconic universes, what makes Star Trek such fertile ground for storytelling, and how great science fiction can illuminate the world we live in. https://linktr.ee/studiotembo

God isn't looking for better "church-goers"; He is looking for a voice crying in the wilderness.   Why does God take His most used servants into the desert before He brings them into the light? Discover what it means to be a modern-day forerunner, bearing the burden of the Lord for the lost, and preparing the way for the Second Coming.   Click here to go to the official Revival Cry YouTube channel. To see the Revival Cry podcast on another streaming service, click here.   To support Revival Cry or find out more information, go to revivalcry.org Email us at info@revivalcry.org  Follow @RevivalCryInternational on Facebook and Instagram.   Eric's 30-Day Devotional Books:  ⏵ “How to Become a Burning Bush”, available in English and Italian ⏵ “Hearing God through His Creation”, available in English, Italian, Spanish, and Japanese

Are you leading your classroom culture based on data or just "best guesses"? In this raw, unscripted, and mostly unedited episode, Jocelynn pulls back the curtain on "The Consultation" by interviewing her own five children (ages 5–14).Moving from Youngest to Oldest, you will hear a developmental crescendo of what students actually need to feel seen and powerful in a classroom. Jocelynn models the Mirroring and Mapping strategy in real-time, showing how to "prep the heart" of a student so they show up as a consultant. From the pure joy-sparkers of Pre-K to the systemic insights of an 8th grader, this episode is a masterclass in clearing the blur and listening to the experts.Key Takeaways:Prep the Heart, Not the Script: The "Prep Protocol" for setting up a consultation so students feel safe to share their truth.The "Plan" Pivot: Why switching from abstract language to asking for "The Plan" is the secret to consulting with younger students.Quality Over Quantity: Why the "Gold" in a consultation is found in the unscripted detours—going an inch wide and a mile deep.The Full Circle Moment: Hear what happens when a 6th grader uses the Mirroring strategy on her own mother.The Coaching Corner:Instructional Anchor Questions:Self: How does the way I phrase my questions (e.g., using 'Plan' vs. 'Map') impact a student's confidence in their own expertise?Peers: How can I use a student's "Plan" to create a classroom environment that honors everyone's 'Joy Sparkers'?World: By asking students to help me 'Plan,' am I teaching them that they have the agency to change the systems they belong to?The AAA Reflection:Awareness: Where did I use "education jargon" (like 'Mapping') this week that might have blurred the message for my students?Acceptance: Can I reject the pressure of the "pacing guide" for 5 minutes to accept the heart-breaking or heart-warming truth a student is trying to tell me?Action: Identify one "Gold Statement" a student made this week—a moment where they shared a feeling of being left out or unseen—and follow up with: "Can you tell me more about that?"The Implementation Intention:“This week, I will [Action] at [Time] for [Specific Person/Group] in [Location].”Example: "This week, I will prep two students for a consultation by giving them their 3 questions 24 hours in advance."Resources Mentioned:Student Connection Profile Tool: Available at Customteachingsolutions.comLesson Planning Guide: Student Learning Perspective Edition: Available at the TPT Store.

UTXO The Webmaster joins to discuss his new android nostr client Wisp, spark wallet integration, encrypted nsec seed backups, and his controversial "Send Money" normie mode that denominates zaps in dollars. We get into follower count philosophy, what actually counts as a user on an open protocol, and why half of bitcoin twitter still hates nostr. Then we go deep on AI: his local rig running Qwen 3.6, on device spam filtering with nspam, whether Claude is subsidizing us into oblivion, and what happens to big tech jobs when a unicorn only needs three employees.UTXO on Nostr: https://primal.net/utxoWisp: https://wisp.mobile/EPISODE: 200BLOCK: 946079PRICE: 1320 sats per dollar(00:02:05) Wisp origin story(00:02:39) Why Wisp? Stability, UX focus, and the outbox model(00:05:30) Availability: Android, beta rollout, and Zap Store install(00:06:14) Onboarding with Spark, Zaps, and wallet backups via nsec(00:09:02) Custody, risk, and privacy tradeoffs for Nostr Zaps(00:11:27) Wisp's "send money" UX and fiat denomination debate(00:16:39) Do small zaps feel insulting? Behavioral effects of denominating in fiat(00:17:06) Follower counts: definitions, reputation, and network-relative views(00:23:07) Bots, fake metrics, and survivorship bias on open networks(00:31:23) Keys, compromises, and practical key rotation culture(00:38:05) AI tools in Wisp development and local vs cloud models(00:45:49) nspam: on-device reply filtering without killing good bots(00:47:53) Bots with their own feeds, rate limits, and unstoppable relays(00:53:08) Growth via creators: streaming, ZapStream, and multi-platform outreach(00:58:58) Mirroring vs authentic posting: does it feel stale or disrespectful?(01:02:11) Businesses living on multiple platforms and Bitcoin payments(01:03:04) Daily AI workflow: Claude, APIs, local models, and cost control(01:06:44) Privacy, local hardware as luxury, and pay-per-query services(01:11:11) Five-year AI outlook: limits, jobs, bubbles, and lean megacorps(01:21:26) Closing thoughts and next steps: try Wisp, share feedbackmore info on the show: https://citadeldispatch.comlearn more about me: https://odell.xyzmonitor the situation: https://citadelwire.com

What Are You Mirroring? The Neuroscience Of Emotional Bonding  |  'ask dorothy' The WISDOM podcast  Season 5  Episode 140 ~    In this Episode:   We'll look at the mechanism and function of mirror neurons; how they came to be discovered ~ and what we know from indirect evidence through fMSI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) in humans. All to which sheds light on why we learn through observing the behavior of others ~ and why being in the presence of difficult, angry, unkind and toxic people, whether we are watching them in the media or they are in front of us, has such an negative, diminishing and at times an aggressive influence on how we feel and act. ~    I also want to share how... Understanding and using mirroring behavior is actually a skill that you can develop ~ that will enable you to create rapport and connection with others. Helpful in business and in your relationships, mirroring behavior is a life skill.  As you mindfully live confident, calm, and self-empowered, you mirror this widely positive behavior with all others ~ and it becomes a tool of healing conflict and unresolved hurts of the past. Let me show you.   ~ Namaste

Watch every episode ad-free & uncensored on Patreon: https://patreon.com/dannyjones David Holthouse is a gonzo journalist, writer & filmmaker. His documentaries include Operation Odessa, the Last Narc, Sasquatch & Krishnas. https://davidholthouse.com SPONSORS https://amentara.com/go/dj - Use code DJ22 for 22% off your first order. https://shopify.com/dannyjones - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today. https://liquid-iv.com - Use code DANNY for 20% off your first order. https://mengotomars.com - Use code DANNY for 50% Off & 3 Free Gifts. https://whiterabbitenergy.com/?ref=DJP - Use code DJP for 20% off. EPISODE LINKS https://davidholthouse.com FOLLOW DANNY JONES https://www.instagram.com/dannyjones https://twitter.com/jonesdanny OUTLINE 00:00 - Operation Odessa 05:38 - Surveillance in Russia 12:07 - Cartel's access to technology & intel 14:44 - Cartel Influencers 18:13 - Why Chihuaua City, Mexico is terrifying 21:06 - Gonzo journalism 24:39 - The Last Narc & who killed Kiki Camarena 30:53 - Felix Rodriguez responds to Kiki Camerana rumors 35:59 - The trauma of Vietnam veterans 39:18 - More veterans die at home than at war 42:07 - Felix Rodriguez's relationship with CIA 45:03 - California's unsolved Sasquatch murder 49:13 - The scariest moment of filming Sasquatch documentary 53:32 - The scariest part of California 01:01:31 - "Mirroring" for good documentary filmmaking 01:04:51 - What Chinese cartels are up to 01:06:19 - Narco Mennonites 01:11:25 - Crazy story about El Chapo 01:15:14 - Staying up for 72 hours with meth heads 01:20:34 - Embedding with Skinheads 01:29:48 - Visiting Aryan Fest 01:37:59 - How to spot Scientologists 01:41:14 - The Hare Krishna movement 01:48:39 - David's production style 01:55:44 - David's secret to finding new projects 02:02:13 - Supernatural beliefs in Mendocino, CA 02:07:53 - Interdimensional portals in the woods 02:08:55 - David saw the Pheonix Lights 02:15:17 - Link between Epstein Files & UFOs 02:19:33 - California's energy policy relies on Iran oil 02:26:17 - Why we need nuclear power Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Send us Fan MailTyler Barnett on Late Autism Self-Diagnosis, Masking, and Creating “Gap Music” for Regulation Host Tony Mantor welcomes Tyler Barnett, founder of Tyler Barnett PR and an artistic music creator focused on empowering the autism community through intentional sound design and storytelling. Tyler shares that he is autistic and was diagnosed six months ago through self-diagnosis supported by years of personal data and extensive testing, after his 10-year-old daughter repeatedly told him he was autistic and he explored the topic through ChatGPT. He describes lifelong differences including deep special interests, pattern recognition, challenges in educational environments, learned eye contact, and complex masking as a professional communicator, as well as past misdiagnoses such as bipolar disorder and being medicated incorrectly. T yler discusses mixed reactions when disclosing autism, including denial from some family members and acceptance from others, and explains how masking involved mirroring facial expressions and behavior to make others comfortable. T yler also talks about his daughter Lucy's official autism diagnosis, her strengths (friends, eye contact, dance talent) alongside daily school distress, meltdowns, and limited understanding from her school team about autism in girls. He explains how the diagnosis has improved family dynamics, increased empathy, and helped Lucy feel less isolated, while also describing how he can help regulate her during meltdowns. The conversation shifts to Tyler's music: electronic, lyric-driven work combining traditional production with AI vocals and emergent elements. He explains his “gap music” concept—music designed for emotional regulation using structures like 3-6-9 tension/expansion/release loops and pattern shifts across genres (classical, choir/mantra, dubstep, hip hop) to create soothing but unpredictable listening experiences. Tyler says he has not formally released the project widely but has received strong feedback from neurodivergent listeners and notes that his daughter, wife, and dog fell asleep when hearing it. He shares where to find his work: YouTube channel “Gap Music for beautiful Brains” (@GapMusicforRegulation), Instagram @enzo, tylerbarnettpr.com, and TikTok @MillennialDad, and says he plans to release tracks over the next month from a catalog of about 80. Welcome to ‘Why Not Me' — Autism & Mental Health Worldwide Meet Tyler Barnett: PR Strategist, Artist & Sound Designer Realizing He's Autistic: ‘I've Always Been Different' ChatGPT, Self-Testing & the Emotional Breakthrough Telling Others: Family Pushback vs. Community Support Masking 101: Mirroring, Eye Contact & ‘Dog and Pony Show' Lucy's Diagnosis: School Struggles, Meltdowns & Support Gaps A Stronger Bond: Co-Regulation and Parenting Shifts at Home To Disclose or Not: Labels, Stigma, and Protecting Your Peace Finding the Flow: How Autism Changed His PR Work & Creativity Inside ‘Gap Music': 3-6-9 Patterns, AI Emergence & Regulation Where to Listen + Final Thanks and Sign-Off INTRO/OUTRO: T.Wild Mantor Music BMI The content on Why Not Me: Embracing Autism amd Mental Health Worldwide, including discussions on mental health, autism, and related topics, is provided for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not reflect those of the podcast, its hosts, or affiliates.Why Not Me is not a medical or mental health professional and does not endorse or verify the accuracy, efficacy, safety of any treatments, programs, or advice discusshttps://tonymantor.comhttps://Facebook.com/tonymantorhttps://instagram.com/tonymantorhttps://twitter.com/tonymantorhttps://youtube.com/tonymantormusicintro/outro music bed written by T. WildWhy Not Me the World music published by Mantor Music (BMI)

In this episode, you'll hear Eli Frankel, author of “The Black Dahlia, The Prairie Heiress and Their Hunter” discuss the lesser-known Prairie Heiress case, the murder of a woman named Leela Welsh. It mirrors the Black Dahlia case in many ways, and Frankel argues that the same killer was behind both gruesome crimes. We'll also dive in to the case of a Hawaii doctor who has been accused of trying to kill his wife on her birthday, the guilty plea of the Gilgo Beach murderer who authorities tried to track down for decades, the trial of a FedEx driver accused of murdering a 7-year-old girl and other cases from across the country. Featuring audio from KNX News in Los Angeles, KCBS Radio in the Bay Area, WWJ Newsradio in Detroit, KRLD 1080 in Dallas, 1010 WINS in New York, KDKA Radio in Pittsburgh and the Dana & Parks Show out of KMBZ in Kansas City.

In this episode, you'll hear Eli Frankel, author of “The Black Dahlia, The Prairie Heiress and Their Hunter” discuss the lesser-known Prairie Heiress case, the murder of a woman named Leela Welsh. It mirrors the Black Dahlia case in many ways, and Frankel argues that the same killer was behind both gruesome crimes. We'll also dive in to the case of a Hawaii doctor who has been accused of trying to kill his wife on her birthday, the guilty plea of the Gilgo Beach murderer who authorities tried to track down for decades, the trial of a FedEx driver accused of murdering a 7-year-old girl and other cases from across the country. Featuring audio from KNX News in Los Angeles, KCBS Radio in the Bay Area, WWJ Newsradio in Detroit, KRLD 1080 in Dallas, 1010 WINS in New York, KDKA Radio in Pittsburgh and the Dana & Parks Show out of KMBZ in Kansas City.

In this episode, you'll hear Eli Frankel, author of “The Black Dahlia, The Prairie Heiress and Their Hunter” discuss the lesser-known Prairie Heiress case, the murder of a woman named Leela Welsh. It mirrors the Black Dahlia case in many ways, and Frankel argues that the same killer was behind both gruesome crimes. We'll also dive in to the case of a Hawaii doctor who has been accused of trying to kill his wife on her birthday, the guilty plea of the Gilgo Beach murderer who authorities tried to track down for decades, the trial of a FedEx driver accused of murdering a 7-year-old girl and other cases from across the country. Featuring audio from KNX News in Los Angeles, KCBS Radio in the Bay Area, WWJ Newsradio in Detroit, KRLD 1080 in Dallas, 1010 WINS in New York, KDKA Radio in Pittsburgh and the Dana & Parks Show out of KMBZ in Kansas City.

In this episode, you'll hear Eli Frankel, author of “The Black Dahlia, The Prairie Heiress and Their Hunter” discuss the lesser-known Prairie Heiress case, the murder of a woman named Leela Welsh. It mirrors the Black Dahlia case in many ways, and Frankel argues that the same killer was behind both gruesome crimes. We'll also dive in to the case of a Hawaii doctor who has been accused of trying to kill his wife on her birthday, the guilty plea of the Gilgo Beach murderer who authorities tried to track down for decades, the trial of a FedEx driver accused of murdering a 7-year-old girl and other cases from across the country. Featuring audio from KNX News in Los Angeles, KCBS Radio in the Bay Area, WWJ Newsradio in Detroit, KRLD 1080 in Dallas, 1010 WINS in New York, KDKA Radio in Pittsburgh and the Dana & Parks Show out of KMBZ in Kansas City.

In this episode, you'll hear Eli Frankel, author of “The Black Dahlia, The Prairie Heiress and Their Hunter” discuss the lesser-known Prairie Heiress case, the murder of a woman named Leela Welsh. It mirrors the Black Dahlia case in many ways, and Frankel argues that the same killer was behind both gruesome crimes. We'll also dive in to the case of a Hawaii doctor who has been accused of trying to kill his wife on her birthday, the guilty plea of the Gilgo Beach murderer who authorities tried to track down for decades, the trial of a FedEx driver accused of murdering a 7-year-old girl and other cases from across the country. Featuring audio from KNX News in Los Angeles, KCBS Radio in the Bay Area, WWJ Newsradio in Detroit, KRLD 1080 in Dallas, 1010 WINS in New York, KDKA Radio in Pittsburgh and the Dana & Parks Show out of KMBZ in Kansas City.

In this episode, you'll hear Eli Frankel, author of “The Black Dahlia, The Prairie Heiress and Their Hunter” discuss the lesser-known Prairie Heiress case, the murder of a woman named Leela Welsh. It mirrors the Black Dahlia case in many ways, and Frankel argues that the same killer was behind both gruesome crimes. We'll also dive in to the case of a Hawaii doctor who has been accused of trying to kill his wife on her birthday, the guilty plea of the Gilgo Beach murderer who authorities tried to track down for decades, the trial of a FedEx driver accused of murdering a 7-year-old girl and other cases from across the country. Featuring audio from KNX News in Los Angeles, KCBS Radio in the Bay Area, WWJ Newsradio in Detroit, KRLD 1080 in Dallas, 1010 WINS in New York, KDKA Radio in Pittsburgh and the Dana & Parks Show out of KMBZ in Kansas City.

Are you leading your classroom culture, or just surviving it? We can look at spreadsheets and participation charts all day, but if we want to know if our classroom is truly a place of belonging, we have to talk to the real experts: the students.In this episode, Jocelynn shifts the focus from observation to consultation. By reframing the "student-teacher conference" as a professional consultation, we acknowledge that students are the primary consultants on their own learning experiences. Jocelynn shares battle-tested tools and strategies developed through her classroom experience and her coaching work with districts like Moorhead Area Public Schools, Rock Hill Public Schools, and Annunciation Catholic School.KEY TAKEAWAYSThe Power of Consultation: Why synonymous terms like "conference" or "check-in" take on new life when we treat students as experts.Proactive Planning: How to use the Lesson Planning Guide: Student Learning Perspective Edition to answer the "Why are we doing this?" question before it's even asked.Mirroring & Mapping: A deep dive into a narrative coaching strategy that validates student reality and co-designs a more inclusive future.Actionable Data: Using the Student Connection Profile Tool to document joy-sparkers, talents, and love languages in a way that informs pivots and satisfies administrative requirements.COACHING CORNER:Instructional Anchor Questions:Self: How does this student's feedback provide an opportunity for them to reflect on their own beliefs or future possibilities?Peers: How can I use this lesson to help students empathize with the diverse lived experiences of their classmates?World: How does this prepare them to see their impact on the greater world?The AAA Reflection (Mini-PD Moment):Awareness: Identify one student you haven't sat down with. What assumptions are you making about them?Acceptance or Rejection: Can you reject the idea that you are the only expert? Can you accept that a child is a valid consultant for your growth?Action: Schedule one 5-minute Consultation this week to identify two Joy Sparkers for that student's profile.The Implementation Intention:The goal this week is to move from intention to habit. Use the frame:“This week, I will [Action] at [Time] for [Specific Person/Group] in [Location].”

Whatever your message, the manner in which you deliver it is just as important.You found the right words. You picked the right time to say them. You even tailored them to your audience. Why did your message fall flat? “It's your tone,” says Jefferson Fisher.Fisher is a trial attorney, New York Times bestselling author, podcast host, and one of the most-followed experts in communication today. From handling high-stakes communication in the courtroom to navigating everyday conversations, he says successful messaging isn't just about what you say, but how you say it. “It's not your words, it's your tone,” he says, “The words might be right, but the way you [say them] — that's what ends up controlling the day. Tone controls everything.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Fisher and host Matt Abrahams explore how to set the right tone in all kinds of communication. Whether you're navigating conflict, giving and receiving feedback, or just trying to connect, Fisher offers practical techniques for ensuring the manner of your communication matches what you mean.Episode Reference Links:Jefferson FisherJefferson's Book: The Next Conversation WorkbookJefferson's Podcast: The Jefferson Fisher PodcastEp.228 Negotiate Your Way to Success: Empathy, Mirroring, and Labeling Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:28) - Stop Winning Arguments (04:02) - Ask, Don't Persuade (04:33) - Defuse Tension Fast (05:40) - Read the Room (07:36) - Observing vs. Absorbing (09:08) - Framing Conversations (11:21) - Fix Digital Communication (13:01) - Improve Your Tone (15:53) - Break People-Pleasing (17:18) - Setting Clear Boundaries (20:54) - The Final Three Questions (23:55) - Conclusion  ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is sponsored by Grammarly. Let Grammarly take the busywork off your plate so you can focus on high-impact work. Download Grammarly for free today Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be. 

Here's what we're reading, recommending, and revisiting this week.Catherine's library find is the joy of putting items on hold. It's like ordering yourself a gift: It will arrive at some undetermined future date (surprise!), you'll get something you know you want, and it's completely free.Terri's random recommendation is a handy piece of technology that she recently discovered: Mirroring her iPhone to her new Apple laptop.In the archives, we checked in on an episode from 2023 in which we recalled those rare good mom moments.Next week's lineup:Shrinking S3 E10, "The Bodyguard of Sadness," on Tuesday, April 7Lost S5 E8, "LaFleur," on Wednesday, April 8Weekly roundup on Thursday, April 9Until then (and anytime you're in need), the archives are available.

Most entrepreneurs don't burn out because the business gets too hard — they burn out because they never stopped being the operator. In this keynote, recorded live at the LeanScaper Operations Intensive in Cape Coral, Florida, Dwayne Kerrigan makes the case that the real battle isn't strategic, it's psychological. Until you understand the most powerful force in the human condition, no framework, system, or tool will save you. In this episode: Dwayne breaks down the operator's mindset vs. the owner's mindset — and why operators get tired while owners get rich Why your purpose has to be large enough to keep you out of "the tyranny of how" — the trap that pulls owners back into the weeds The identity principle Dwayne calls the single most important lesson from 10+ years at Tony Robbins' side: the most powerful force in the human condition is to remain congruent with how we identify ourselves The event–meaning–emotion–behavior chain, and how changing the meaning you attach to an event changes your results How physiology, language, and focus (the triad) function as your meaning-making filter — and how to use them to access empowering states more consistently Episode Highlights: 00:00 - Purpose Over How 00:27 - Podcast Welcome 00:59 - Event Introduction 02:53 - Dwayne Takes Stage 04:12 - Finding The Why 05:40 - Mentors And Lessons 08:58 - Business Root Causes 11:55 - Operator Vs Owner 14:48 - Core Values And Purpose 19:37 - Identity Drives Action 21:20 - Bus Fight Identity Shift 24:14 - Reframing a Past Bully 25:17 - Identity and No Negotiation 25:51 - Procrastination Becomes Identity 27:47 - Event Meaning Emotion Loop 31:34 - The Triad Explained 32:45 - Physiology Power Positions 36:31 - Energy Thermostat and Mirroring 40:47 - Language Questions Shape Reality 45:21 - Focus Habits and Meaning 47:49 - Closing Thanks and Disclaimer Resources Mentioned: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People — Stephen Covey Keith Cunningham — referenced as the "Rich Dad" in Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad Poor Dad Tony Robbins — Platinum Partners immersion program Simon Sinek — referenced in the context of finding your why John Grinder — creator of NLP, mirroring and matching technique LMN (Landscape Management Network) — referenced by Dwayne and Mark Bradley Quotes: “Taking your passion and turning it into a business is usually not a good wealth strategy.” - Dwayne Kerrigan “If you stand like this for 10 minutes a day, it will increase your testosterone 20%. You can look this up. This is true 20%. It'll increase your testosterone. If you stand like this, it will reduce your cortisol from anywhere from 23 to 25% and it will increase the odds of you being able to make a decision by 33%.” - Dwayne Kerrigan “I'm in the ground and I'm down there and I'm like, and I remember thinking, and through the course of this whole thing, this whole event, is that I am never, ever going to get beaten up again. "From that day forward, I started working out…” - Dwayne Kerrigan “The most powerful force in the human condition is to remain congruent with how we identify ourselves.” - Dwayne Kerrigan “Change the meaning, change the emotion, change your life.” - Dwayne Kerrigan “Operators get tired and owners get rich.” - Dwayne Kerrigan Connect with Dwayne Kerrigan Facebook Instagram Linked In Website Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed by guests during The Dwayne Kerrigan Podcast are solely those of the individuals involved and do not necessarily represent those of Dwayne Kerrigan and his affiliates. Dwayne Kerrigan or The Dwayne Kerrigan Podcast is not responsible for and does not verify the accuracy of any of the information contained in the podcast series. The primary purpose of this podcast is to educate and inform. Listeners are advised to consult with a qualified professional or specialist before making any decisions based on the content of this podcast.

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon explores how mirroring, future faking, and quick trust-building shaped Jenna Lee's story. What felt intimate and meaningful at first slowly became controlling, confusing, and isolating. Brandon also breaks down the fear, obligation, guilt, and shame that kept Jenna Lee stuck inside the relationship. Click if you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@pm.me Click on the title to read about Coercive Control as Care: Signs & Patterns Sign up to our Domestic Violence Newsletter    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When Gisèle Pelicot waived her anonymity in 2024 and exposed her husband's crimes to the world, many assumed what happened in Mazan was an isolated case. It wasn't. A 66-year-old carer from Norfolk subjected a woman to almost three decades of sexual exploitation. He operated in plain sight, using digital networks to recruit men, threatened his victim into silence, and recorded everything…If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, please contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 or visit https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/*** LISTENER CAUTION IS ADVISED *** This episode was researched and written by Eileen Macfarlane.Script editing, additional writing, illustrations and production direction by Rosanna Fitton.Audio editing by Joel Porter at Dot Dot Dot Productions.Narration, additional audio editing and mixing, and script editing by Benjamin Fitton.To get early ad-free access, including Season 1, sign up for They Walk Among PLUS, available from Patreon or Apple Podcasts.More information and episode references can be found on our website https://theywalkamonguspodcast.comSOCIAL MEDIA: https://linktr.ee/TheyWalkAmongUsSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/theywalkamongus. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Vanessa Lively of Austin, and Ben Bedford of Springfield, are musicians, songwriters, and visual artists. They perform in Springfield before the release of the album Mirroring the Wilderness.

Ever walked into two teams inside the same company and felt like you crossed into two completely different cultures? Same company. Same values. Same training. Totally different behavior. That's not random. That's leadership. In this episode of The Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond breaks down behavioral mirroring — and why your team reflects your behavior more than your policies, training, or mission statement ever will. You'll learn: • Why teams mirror leadership behavior automatically • How emotional contagion shapes workplace culture • The real reason two teams can feel like different companies • How toxic leadership behaviors spread and get reinforced • What leaders must do to change culture at the root If you don't like the behavior on your team, this episode will challenge you to look in the mirror first. Because culture isn't what you say. It's what you model. Learn more about the COMMAND™ Leadership Behavior Operating System:

Why do so many meetings feel like a waste of time? The same few voices dominate. Updates go in circles. And when the meeting ends, nobody is actually clear on what happens next. In this final episode of the Buy-In Blocker Series, leadership expert Dave Garrison breaks down the final leadership mistake that prevents teams from fully engaging: one-way communication. Many leaders assume they're communicating clearly simply because they're speaking. But when leaders respond to their interpretation of what others say instead of deeply listening, meetings become inefficient, teams feel unheard, and collaboration breaks down. Dave explains how something as simple as a single word can mean completely different things to different people and how these misunderstandings create confusion and disengagement across organizations. The good news? The solution is simple, immediate, and costs nothing. Dave shares a powerful framework leaders can implement instantly: mirror what you hear, ask clarifying questions, validate perspectives, and create real understanding. These small shifts turn meetings into spaces where trust grows and buy-in becomes possible. What You'll Learn In This Episode: Why one-way communication destroys buy-in inside teams The hidden reason most meetings feel unproductive Why leaders often respond to what they think they heard instead of what was actually said How misunderstanding simple words can create major organizational confusion The leadership skill that instantly improves communication and trust A simple listening framework to create better conversations and stronger teams   Key Takeaways: ✔️Listening is a leadership skill, not just a communication skill. ✔️Most leaders unintentionally create one-way communication in meetings. ✔️When leaders assume meaning instead of clarifying it, misunderstanding grows quickly. ✔️Mirroring what someone says helps ensure true understanding. ✔️Clarifying questions uncover the real meaning behind someone's message. ✔️Validation builds trust, even when you don't agree. ✔️Deep listening creates the psychological safety required for real buy-in.   Timestamps & Highlights: [00:00] – Introduction to the fourth Buy-In blocker: one-way communication [01:05] – Why meetings often feel like a waste of time [02:00] – The difference between speaking and truly communicating [03:00] – How simple words can mean different things to different people [04:15] – Why leaders often respond to their interpretation instead of reality [05:20] – How one-way communication turns meetings into debates [06:10] – The framework for authentic listening [07:05] – Mirroring what you hear to confirm understanding [08:00] – The power of clarifying questions and validation [09:00] – How deep listening builds trust and real buy-in Connect with Dave Garrison: Book: The Buy-In Advantage Website:GarrisonGrowth.com LinkedIn: Dave Garrison Email: engage@garrisongrowth.com Join the Leadership Sprint: DM “Leadership Sprint” to Dave on LinkedIn for exclusive access Your Challenge This Week: If this episode helped you see leadership communication in a new way, share it with another leader on your team. Take a screenshot of the episode and tag @itsgeorgebryant with your biggest takeaway. Ask yourself: Are your meetings building buy-in or just sharing updates? Join The Alliance: The Relationship Beats Algorithms™ community where entrepreneurs learn how to grow their businesses through trust, relationships, and authentic connection. Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Ready to build a business rooted in clarity, leadership, and sustainable growth? Apply to work directly with George. Live Events Experience the conversations, strategies, and relationships that transform businesses. Learn more at mindofgeorge.com/retreat/

Jessica Dalcanton, Theatre Assistant Professor, reflects on the role theatre plays in telling the story of America as part of “The American Mosaic” the ongoing series commemorating the 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence. Montco's A “More Perfect Union”: Voices of the American Past, Present, and Future, a 250th U.S. Anniversary project, has been made possible in part by a major grant from the National Endowment for the Humanities. Any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this event do not necessarily represent those of the National Endowment for the Humanities.This project has also been sponsored in part by the Division of Liberal of Liberal Arts in partnership with the Erb Charitable Fund and Montco's Student Government Association.Recorded and editied by Quinn Szente from the College's Sound Recording and Music Technology Program

Episode Summary Host Janet Michael visits Winchester Little Theatre to preview their upcoming production "Decision Height," opening March 13th. This powerful play tells the overlooked story of the Women Airforce Service Pilots (WASPs) of World War II—courageous women who left everything to fly military planes and free up male pilots for combat. Director Theresa Apple and cast members share insights into bringing these real historical figures to life during Women's History Month, discussing their research process, military training exercises, and the bonds they've formed as an all-female ensemble. Guests: Tim Bambera (Publicity Director), Theresa Apple (Director), Ella Drury, Lyla Samet, Shelby Brown, Ash James (Cast Members) Production Details & Ticket Information Show dates: March 13-28, 2025 Ticket prices: Adults $25, Seniors $23, Students $18 IMPORTANT: Only purchase tickets from winchesterlittletheatre.org Warning about third-party ticket resellers The Story Behind Decision Height Who were the WASPs? 25,000 applied, only 1,100 accepted 38 killed during service 40 years to receive military recognition Director Theresa Apple on the Production Research at the National WASP Museum in Sweetwater, Texas Authentic set design with replica WWII cockpits Drill sergeant training on audition day Teaching young actors about 1940s women's comportment Meet the Cast: Ella Drury (Alice Hawkins) Playing a maternal figure in the group First all-female cast experience Watching documentaries and video interviews with real WASPs The pressure and honor of portraying real historical figures Lyla Samet (Carol Henderson) Playing the youngest, most energetic character How she and Ella met at the theater doing "Alice in Wonderland" Carol's backstory: Oklahoma farm girl whose mother left First main stage audition experience Shelby Brown (Mildred Simmons) Creating a distinctive voice for her character Coming from a military family and being a history buff Knowledge of the British Spitfires (precursor to WASPs) Building character depth beyond the script Ash James (Edith "Eddie" Harknell) Playing a tomboy character who grew up with all men Personal connection: grew up with brothers, played sports The rarity of non-feminine female roles Emotional reflection on female service members' discrimination Cast Bonding & Ensemble Building Deliberately spending time together outside rehearsals Mirroring the real WASPs' journey from strangers to family How relationships evolve throughout the show The importance of authentic connections on stage Special Events & Upcoming Productions March 15th: Special talkback with author Patricia O'Connell Pearson ("Fly Girls: The Daring American Women Pilots Who Helped Win WWII") April 3rd: Illusionist Ryan Schaffer (family-friendly, 50/50 door split) May 15-30: "Calendar Girls" (auditions March 22-23) WLT Kids 2026: "Three Musketeers" (June 20-27) & "James and the Giant Peach Jr." (July 18-25) Resources & Links Winchester Little Theatre: Website: winchesterlittletheatre.org Phone: 540-662-3331 Box Office Hours: Mondays & Wednesdays, 4-6 PM Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/winlit Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winchesterlittletheatre Production Information: "Decision Height" runs March 13-28, 2025 93% sold out as of recording Opening night sold out Join waiting list for sold-out shows by calling the box office About the WASPs The Women Airforce Service Pilots (WASPs) served from 1942-1944, flying every type of military aircraft to free male pilots for combat duty. Despite their service: They were not recognized as military until 1977 (President Jimmy Carter) Full military benefits not granted until 2009 (President Barack Obama) Congressional Medal of Honor awarded in 2010 Museum located in Sweetwater, Texas at the original Avenger Field training site

"Send Ben a text"Do you ever find yourself reacting just like your teen?They get angry… and you get angry. They panic… and you panic. They shut down… and you shut down.Most parents don't mean to do this. But when we mirror our teen's bad behavior, we actually make things worse.In this episode, I talk about the difference between mirroring and modeling.You'll learn:Why awareness is so powerfulHow to catch yourself in the momentHow to stay calm when your teen isn't3 simple steps to model the behavior you want to seeYou can't control your teen. But you can control how you show up.And when you change, your home starts to change too.If this episode helps you, please leave a review. It helps other parents find the support they need.Let's build rock solid relationships and have a powerful impact.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you're falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

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Jerry Norton and Brent Daniels break down the essential pre-qualification framework that prevents investors from wasting time on unmotivated sellers. Brent highlights the "four pillars" of every quality conversation, explaining how to simplify complex negotiations into a streamlined process for finding deals.From mastering the art of "mirroring and matching" a seller's tone to understanding why you should almost never see a property before making an offer, this episode provides a masterclass in lead conversion. Brent shares real-world examples of how sellers will trade equity for speed and convenience when you solve their specific problems. Check out the TTP Training Program for more information.---------Show notes:(0:30) Beginning of today's episode(1:10) Why talking to sellers is the single most important skill in wholesaling (2:44) The "I'm coming right over" trap: Why running to every house leads to burnout (4:28) Mirroring and matching: Using non-verbal cues to build rapport and trust (6:24) Pillar #1: Condition—Using open-ended questions about kitchens and baths to gauge the house (8:13) Why "time kills all deals" and why you shouldn't wait for a walkthrough to make an offer (9:54) Pillar #2: Timeline—How to identify high motivation using the 14-to-30-day closing window (10:33) The "Magic Wand" question: Finding out where a seller is moving next (11:49) Pillar #3: Motivation—A Scottsdale case study on a $150,000 discount (12:54) Pillar #4: Price—The "Net Offer" strategy and why the seller should always name their price first (15:05) Final encouragement: Solving problems for the 5-10% of the market in distress ----------Resources:Follow Jerry Norton for more flipping and wholesaling strategies To speak with Brent or one of our other expert coaches call (281) 835-4201 or schedule your free discovery call here to learn about our mentorship programs and become part of the TribeGo to Wholesalingincgroup.com to become part of one of the fastest growing Facebook communities in the Wholesaling space. Get all of your burning Wholesaling questions answered, gain access to JV partnerships, and connect with other "success minded" Rhinos in the community.It's 100% free to join. The opportunities in this community are endless, what are you waiting for?

Lent is coming. It's not too close. Not too far. I didn't want to do a lent prep video. It's too early. I also didn't want to do a filler episode. Y'all don't deserve that.So here is an episode where we linger. No script. No outline. Just seeing where lent takes us. We discuss medieval history, the real meaning of devotion, Christian mysticism and end with a guided meditation on a psalm.Thank you for lingering with me.To support my work please consider joining my Patreon: www.patreon.com/anthonystongue

School Based Nutrition - Why is it happening this way? There is a quiet experiment happening in American childhood, and we should stop pretending it's benign. In the 1970s and 1980s, when I attended school, school food was far from perfect, but it existed in the context of something essential: it was mostly prepared on site, minimally processed (but changing in that direction) and not laden with additives and chemicals (Yet). Oh, and most children still ate meals prepared at home at almost every other occasion. Dinner wasn't aspirational or Instagram-worthy, but it was routine. Real food. Cooked by someone who knew the child, at a table where nervous systems could downshift. School lunch was a supplement to that structure, not the metabolic foundation of a child's life. That has all changed in a short 50 years. Mirroring the change in weight and childhood disease prevalence. • 1970s – some processed foods begin to enter school cafeterias at scale • 1980s – preservatives and additives become routine • 1990s – ultra-processed foods dominate In 1994, new standards were added: This table lays out how much of each food group schools were supposed to offer over a week under the 1994 standards. These were the first nutrition-focused meal standards the USDA put into place: For Breakfast (all grades K–12): Fruit: 2.5 cups/week Vegetables: 0 cups/week Grains/Bread: 0–10 oz equivalent/week (depending on combinations of grains and protein) Meat/Meat-alternative: 0–10 oz equivalent/week Milk: 5 cups/week For Lunch (split by grade levels): Fruit: K–3 also 2.5 cups; grades 4–12 get 3.75 cups/week Vegetables: still 0 cups/week (no separate vegetable requirement yet) Grains/Bread: at least 8 oz eq/week Meat/Meat-alternative: 7.5 oz eq/week for breakfast; 10 oz eq/week for lunch Milk: 5 cups/week (Hopkins 2015) What's notable, reflected in the structure of this table, is that vegetables weren't required at all yet, and the standards were very much food-group based, not ingredient-level nutrient quality checks. That created space for schools to rely on industrially produced entrées and sides that technically met volumes of grains or proteins but could still be ultra-processed products with long ingredient lists, many of these foods would meet a NOVA class 4 classification (the worst type). Think fruit cup in sugary syrup..... Dr. M

Marcie Hume Vs The World: We get some more insight from a recent interview with Corey Feldman Vs The World director Marcie HumeDeleted Scenes: We also get some additional scenes cut from the movie! Give us the 12 hour cut already!Sway Interview: The infamous Sway interview with Corey Feldman where he can't help but put on a Michael Jackson voice with a blaccent. Classic Corey.COREY FELDMAN!, SHOW STOPPER!, LET'S JUST TALK!, DON CHEADLE!, BOOGIE NIGHTS!, JIM AND THEM IS POP CULTURE!, ANTI-COREY POD!, REAL ONES!, FILTH PIGS!, SNOW!, FROZEN TUNDRA!, WEATHER!, CHALLENGER EXPLOSION!, HOAX!, STILL ALIVE!, PATRICK WARBURTON!, SHORT CALLS!, SPACE ISN'T REAL!, AIN'T SHIT IN THAT POCKET BOY!, SUPERCHATS!, PO BOX!, MOUTH MINIFIGS!, LEGO!, GOONIES!, CALLERS!, TRUTH MOVEMENT!, JAPAN!, DREW!, FRISCO!, MARCIE HUME!, STRANGER THINGS!, INDIEWIRE!, VISUAL ANALOGY!, DOCUMENTARY!, AMAZON!, LAWSUIT!, THE SHINING!, DISTRIBUTION!, OZARKS!, LAKE PEOPLE!, CRAZY!, GAS LEAK!, POLLYANNA!, OUTTAKES!, MICROPHONE!, FACE!, LO SERV ILL!, BUFFOON!, REMEMBER THE TIME!, MICHAEL JACKSON!, DOO DOO!, TAKE IT AWAY!, CRINGE!, B HOWARD!, DEBUNKED!, COREY HAIM!, OPPS!, GOT ME TWISTED!, MIRRORING!, APPROPRIATION!, PLAYBOY MANSION!, YN!, OG!, SKATER BOY! You can find the videos from this episode at our Discord RIGHT HERE!