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While Pride is often seen as a time for parades and rainbow flags, it can also be a reminder of the trauma, shame, and disconnection that many LGBTQ+ people, especially gay men, carry within themselves. Yet Pride can also be a time of reclamation, offering an opportunity to honor queer joy and reconnect with our desires and authentic selves.In this episode, Court Vox, a leading somatic sex educator, surrogate partner, and founder of The BodyVox, joins us to discuss how we can heal through pleasure and reclaim Pride as a celebration of embodied authenticity, connection, and the radical act of embracing our fullest selves.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 5. 05. Interpersonal Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of RejectionListen to Episode 22. Deeper and Deeper: Building Emotional IntimacyListen to Episode 108. Celebrate Queer JoyListen to Episode 146. The Velvet RageAdditional Resources:The Power of Vulnerability in Building Authentic Gay RelationshipsEmotional Intimacy in Gay Relationships: Overcoming App Culture and Building Deeper ConnectionsLearn More About CourtFollow Court on InstagramFollow The Body Vox on InstagramFollow The Body Vox on TwitterFollow The Body Vox on FacebookSupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we discussed how pop culture has long served as a powerful space for gay men to find representation, expression, and community, offering both a reflection of their struggles and a source of empowerment. Within this space, dolls and collectibles further provide a medium for gay men to explore themes of identity, often becoming symbols of empowerment and nostalgia within queer culture.In this episode, Chris Angelo, a Bratz collector, joins us to discuss the intersection of his queer identity with collecting and why pop culture collectibles provide a source of community for LGBTQ+ people.Additional Resources:Follow Chris Angelo on InstagramFollow The Bratz Barista on InstagramSupport the showGet Your Merch

In recent years, "twink death"—the idea that a young, slim gay man loses social value as he ages out of the "twink" category—has gained traction as a viral online concept. Though often treated as a humorous social media trend, it highlights the deeper issues around ageism, body image, and the pressure to conform to narrow beauty standards within the gay community.In this episode, we unpack the cultural categorization of twinks, explore the origins and implications of "twink death," and discuss how gay men can challenge ageist beauty standards and embrace aging with pride.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 32. Gay Men and Body ObsessionListen to Episode 60. Is 30 Gay Death?Additional Resources:The Pressure to Achieve Perfection: Body Obsession in the Gay Community and Its Impact on Self-WorthDebunking 'Gay Death': How Gay Men Can Age with PrideTwink (Urban Dictionary)Twink (Dictionary.com)Twinkie (Collins Dictionary)What is a Twink?Twink (Wikipedia)Twink Death (Urban Dictionary)Twink Death (Know Your Meme)Twink Death and Its ConsequencesExoletus (Wikipedia)Twink Death: Is the Party Really Over?Twink DeathSupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we explored how LGBTQ+ media representation has evolved significantly since the early days of cinema, shifting from largely negative stereotypes and hidden identities to more nuanced and diverse portrayals of queer experiences. Despite this progress, there still seems to be a lack of LGBTQ+ voices and perspectives behind the cameras, ensuring that characters are authentically represented.In this episode, AJ Mattioli, a trans producer, director, and owner of Mattioli Productions, joins us to explore the critical need for authentic representation both on-screen and behind the scenes, the distinctive challenges encountered by trans-owned film production companies, and how we, as members of the LGBTQ+ community, can actively support and uplift queer filmmakers.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 07. The History of Gay Representation in TV & FilmListen to Episode 55. Gay for Pay: Should Straight Actors Play Queer Characters?Listen to Episode 97. Diversifying Queer Horror Cinema (with Jose Nateras)Listen to Episode 98. Dear Netflix: Stop Cancelling Our Queer ShowsAdditional Resources:Learn More About Mattioli ProductionsFollow Mattioli Productions on InstagramFollow Mattioli Productions on YouTubeCheck Out Mattioli Productions' Latest TrailersBrowse Mattioli Productions' FilmsSupport the showGet Your Merch

LGBTQ+ individuals often navigate the diverse landscape of the queer community to forge connections that resonate with their identities, seeking spaces where they feel seen, understood, and supported. The bear community, with its celebration of body positivity and inclusivity, provides a unique subculture within the larger LGBTQ+ spectrum, fostering a strong sense of belonging and community engagement.In this episode, Mark Singer, founder of Chumley's BearCruises, joins us to discuss his experiences within the bear community, detailing how it inspired him to create Chumley's BearCruises and how these cruises foster a strong sense of belonging and connection among bears.Additional Resources:Learn More About Chumley's BearCruisesFollow Chumley's BearCruises on InstagramSubscribe to Chumley's BearCruises on YouTubeConnect with Chumley's BearCruises on FacebookSupport the showGet Your Merch

In a time when relationships are no longer confined to traditional labels, ethical non-monogamy allows gay individuals to build connections that align with their unique desires and values. By fostering open communication, trust, and mutual consent, non-monogamous relationships can provide fulfilling connections that honor the evolving dynamics of love and partnership.In this episode, Jeff Hudson joins us to share his personal journey with ethical non-monogamy, discussing the challenges and misconceptions surrounding non-traditional relationships and how his experience reshaped his views on love and commitment.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 54. Love in the Third Degree (with Eric Praniewicz)Additional Resources:Read Exploring Polyamory Among Gay Men: Redefining Love, Connection, and AuthenticityFollow Jeff on InstagramRead Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a ThroupleEthical Non-Monogamy: Basics & Rules for ENM RelationshipsRooted ResilienceRooted Resilience: Intersectional Narratives of 2SLGBTQIA+ Creatives in MAListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we've explored the key themes of gay villages and how destinations like Fire Island and Provincetown serve as sanctuaries for the queer community. Gay men, in particular, are often passionate about travel because it provides a sense of freedom, adventure, and the chance to engage with diverse cultures, communities, and experiences that affirm their identities.In this episode, Jason Heidemann, a Los Angeles-based LGBTQ+ travel writer, to discuss the significance of gaycations, share safety tips for LGBTQ+ travelers, and explore how to travel the world on a budget.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor?Listen to Episode 65. Fire IslandListen to 114. ProvincetownAdditional Resources:Check Out Jason's WorkTune in to Best Gaycation Ever! PodcastFollow Jason on InstagramFollow Jason on BlueskyRead The Great Gay American Road TripRead 8 Must-Do Experiences in NevadaRead The 8 Best LGBTQ+ & Gay Cruises for 2025Rooted ResilienceRooted Resilience: Intersectional Narratives of 2SLGBTQIA+ Creatives in MAListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

Throughout many episodes, we've discussed how gay men continue to grapple with the shame they internalized as children growing up in a predominantly straight society that often invalidated or condemned their identities. This lingering shame can evolve into deep-rooted trauma, affecting their self-worth, relationships, and overall mental well-being.In this episode, we're exploring the theme of gay identity development from Dr. Alan Downs' groundbreaking book, The Velvet Rage, and unpacking his three-stage framework for emotional well-being to live more fulfilling lives as proud gay men.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 01. Hello, Trauma. It's Me, Rob.Listen to Episode 13. Perfectly Imperfect: Conquer Your PerfectionismListen to Episode 15. Understanding Attachment StylesListen to Episode 42. Are You Emotionally Unavailable?Listen to Episode 47. Say Goodbye to Abandonment IssuesListen to Episode 86. Turn Off Your Code-SwitchingAdditional Resources:Read The Velvet RageAuthenticity Unmasked: Navigating Mental Health for Gay MenUnderstanding and Addressing Emotional Unavailability in Gay Men: Causes, Signs, and SolutionsPerfectly Imperfect: Understanding Perfectionism and Its Impact on Gay MenNavigating Love with Attachment Styles: Building Healthier Relationships for Gay MenUnderstanding Abandonment Issues in Gay Men: Navigating Fear of Rejection and Building Healthy RelationshipsThe Living in Clarity Podcast, with Fish & Coach Do you want to live an awesome life and to also inspire others? Fish is a world...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

In past episodes, we've explored pivotal moments in LGBTQ+ history that have often been overlooked or erased, highlighting why remembering our past is so vital. With the current administration actively trying to erase our history, preserving and sharing these stories—from hidden queer figures to the fight for educational accessibility—is more urgent than ever.In this episode, Michael Venturiello, an LGBTQ+ historian and founder of Christopher Street Tours, joins us to talk about the importance of preserving LGBTQ+ history, the misconceptions that still exist, and how we can ensure these stories are passed down to future generations.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 17. Mobsters & Mos: How the Mafia Owned Gay NightlifeListen to Episode 63. The Stonewall RiotsAdditional Resources:The Mafia's Control of New York's Gay Bars: A Hidden Chapter in LGBTQ+ HistoryLearn More About Christopher Street ToursRead Christopher Street Tours' LGBTQ+ Community GuideFollow Christopher Street Tours on InstagramConnect with Christopher Street Tours on FacebookFollow Christopher Street Tours on TikTokFollow Michael Venturiello on InstagramConnect with Michael Venturiello on LinkedInSupport the showGet Your Merch

The current landscape of LGBTQ+ bullying remains pervasive, especially in schools and online, where discrimination and harassment can have devastating impacts on mental health and well-being. Not only does this isolate individuals, but it also perpetuates a culture of fear and exclusion, making it harder for the community to achieve acceptance and equality.In this episode, Mike Keller, an author and speaker focused on raising bullying awareness, joins us to discuss how we can work together to eradicate bullying against LGBTQ+ individuals, raise awareness, and advocate for inclusive, supportive environments.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 69. That's So Gay (You Really Shouldn't Say That)Listen to Episode 118. Heterosexism: Take Off the Straight JacketAdditional Resources:Learn More About Mike KellerFollow Mike on InstagramRead Mike's BooksSupport the showGet Your Merch

For gay men raised in religious environments, they often internalize harmful messages that condemn their sexual orientation, fostering a deep sense of unworthiness or fear. This religious trauma can manifest in lasting struggles with shame and self-acceptance, but through self-compassion, supportive communities, and healing practices, they can reclaim their sense of authenticity and pride in their identity.In this episode, Ann Russo, a religious trauma and queer empowerment specialist and founder of AMR Therapy, joins us to discuss how religious trauma impacts LGBTQ+ individuals and share strategies for reclaiming their sexuality and improving their mental health.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 62. Let Go of Your Religious Trauma (with Eric Feltes)Listen to Episode 76. Finally Free (with Seth Showalter)Additional Resources:Learn More About AMR Therapy & Support ServicesFollow AMR Therapy & Support Services on InstagramFollow AMR Therapy & Support Services on FacebookConnect with Ann on LinkedInSupport the showGet Your Merch

Het lag is a humorous term for the exhaustion and disorientation queer people experience after prolonged exposure to exclusively straight environments. While the term is lighthearted, it speaks to the very real psychological toll of minority stress—the mental and emotional burden of navigating predominantly heterosexual spaces, code-switching, and enduring heterosexism.In this episode, we're diving into the concept of minority stress, exploring its impact on our well-being, and discussing how building community can help alleviate its physical and emotional effects.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 08. Finding Your CommunityListen to Episode 11. Overcoming Internalized HomophobiaListen to Episode 26. Gay & AnxiousListen to Episode 53. Stop Comparing Yourself to Other GaysListen to Episode 86. Turn Off Your Code-SwitchingListen to Episode 118. Heterosexism: Take Off the Straight JacketListen to Episode 135. Don't Be A Mean GayAdditional Resources:Finding Your Community: Navigating LGBTQ+ Friendships Beyond the Party SceneUnpacking Internalized Homophobia: A Deeper Look at Self-Directed NegativityAnxiety in Gay Men: Understanding Unique Challenges and Effective Coping StrategiesHet-Lag (Reddit)Het Lag (Twitter)Minority StressTrauma, Minority Stress, and Disproportionate Health Burden Among LGBTQ+ PeopleMinority Stress Theory: Application, Critique, and Continued RelevanceMinority Stress and LGBTQ+ Patients' Mental HealthLGBTQ+ Mental Health and the Role of Minority StressSocial Isolation and Connectedness as Determinants of Well-Being: Global Evidence Mapping Focused on LGBTQ YouthThe Epidemic of Gay LonelinessSupport the showGet Your Merch

While many people equate Pride to June, Pride events happen across the world throughout the year, amplifying the voices of the LGBTQ+ community. Given the recent political climate and ongoing challenges to LGBTQ+ rights, it's more important than ever to celebrate, participate, and advocate for equality and inclusion 365 days a year.In this episode, Patrick Gevas from Miami Beach Pride joins us to dives into the significance of Pride events and shares insights on how to celebrate and amplify queer joy year-round..Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 105. The Pride Divide (with Tyrell Brown)Listen to Episode 106. Long Live Queer Nightlife (with Amin Ghaziani)Listen to Episode 108. Celebrate Queer JoyAdditional Resources:Learn More About Miami Beach PrideFollow Miami Beach Pride on InstagramFollow Patrick Gevas on InstagramSupport the showGet Your Merch

While many people support LGBTQ+ rights and equality, true allyship goes a step further by actively standing against discriminatory legislation and amplifying queer voices. In this current political climate, it's crucial that our allies remain engaged to protect hard-fought rights and continue pushing for progress toward a more inclusive future.In this episode, Greg Baird, a global lecturer and educator on LGBTQIA+ civil rights, joins us to explore how our allies can stand alongside us to challenge and dismantle hate and bigotry.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 09. Corporate Greed & Rainbow CapitalismListen to Episode 16. Being an Ally (with Cheyenne Filipczyk)Listen to Episode 110. Where Have All the Rainbows Gone?Additional Resources:Beyond the Rainbow: The Dark Side of Corporate Pride and Rainbow CapitalismTrue Allyship: Moving Beyond Performative Support for the LGBTQ+ CommunityLearn More About GregFollow Greg on InstagramSubscribe to Greg on YouTubeConnect with Greg on FacebookConnect with Greg on LinkedInWe Just CoolinWelcome to We Just Coolin, The Ultimate Chill ZoneListen on: SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

Gay stereotypes often arise from oversimplified and exaggerated portrayals in the media, which overlook the complexity of individual experiences and reinforce societal biases. While some of these stereotypes may seem harmless or humorous, they can lead to real-world consequences, including discrimination and alienation.In this episode, Mike Johnson and Kyle Getz, hosts of Gayish, join us to discuss their new book, You're Probably Gayish, which breaks down the most prevalent gay stereotypes in popular discourse.Additional Resources:Learn More About GayishBuy You're Probably GayishFollow Gayish on InstagramSubscribe to Gayish on YouTubeFollow Mike on InstagramFollow Kyle on InstagramSupport the showGet Your Merch

We've previously examined the history of gay representation in TV and film, tracing its evolution from early portrayals to groundbreaking moments like Ellen, which helped pave the way for greater visibility. Among these influential shows, Will & Grace stood out as a game-changer, bringing gay characters into mainstream sitcoms and normalizing LGBTQ+ identities for a wide audience—though its representation wasn't without flaws.In this episode, we're exploring the conception of Will & Grace, its cultural significance, and the lasting impact it had on queer representation in television.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 07. The History of Gay Representation in TV & FilmListen to Episode 12. Queer as FolkListen to Episode 55. Gay for Pay: Should Straight Actors Play Queer Characters?Additional Resources:Streaming Through Stereotypes: The Progress and Pitfalls of LGBTQ+ Representation in MediaQueer as Folk: A Groundbreaking Journey of LGBTQ+ RepresentationWill & GracePilot (Will & Grace)Biden Says He is 'Absolutely Comfortable' with Same-Sex MarriageObama Backs Gay MarriageSupport the showGet Your Merch

The term "daddy" has been used as slang for over 300 years and was embraced by the gay community in the 1970s, particularly within the leather subculture, leading to the popular phrase "leather daddy." Today, in gay culture, "daddy" represents an older, confident, and nurturing figure, often admired for their authority, maturity, and sexual appeal, while also evoking playful and affectionate dynamics within romantic relationships.In this episode, For the Love of DILFs star Sal Zambito joins us to explore what it means to be a daddy in gay culture, the journey of embracing the daddy identity, and the valuable lessons daddies and boys can learn from one another within the gay community.Additional Resources:Follow Sal on InstagramFollow Sal on TikTokCheck out Sal on For the Love of DILFs Season 2Learn More About For the Love of DILFsConception of a Question: Who's Your Daddy?Here's an Outrageously Comprehensive Guide to the Term 'Daddy'Gay Daddy (Urban Dictionary)Daddy (Know Your Meme)S and M : Studies in dominance and submissionSupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we discussed how gay men often found refuge in mafia-owned private bottle clubs, where they could drink and socialize without the fear of police raids or public hostility. These underground venues, while risky due to their illegal nature, offered a rare safe haven where gay men could express themselves more freely and form a sense of community away from the prying eyes of a largely unwelcoming society.In this episode, crime writer Chris Holcombe joins us to discuss how gay speakeasies emerged during the Prohibition era as secretive, underground venues where LGBTQ+ individuals could gather away from the scrutiny and persecution of mainstream society.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 17. Mobsters & Mos: How the Mafia Owned Gay NightlifeListen to Episode 63. The Stonewall RiotsAdditional Resources:Learn More About Chris HolcombeFollow Chris on InstagramSupport Chris on PatreonOrder the Hidden Gotham SeriesSubscribe to Chris's Monthly EmailsGay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World, 1890-1940Bulldaggers, Pansies, and Chocolate BabiesThree Plays: Sex / The Drag / The Pleasure ManThe Speakeasy Glossary – Queer Slang of the Prohibition EraSupport the showGet Your Merch

While playful putdowns and throwing shade have long been a celebrated form of humor and bonding among gay men, they can sometimes perpetuate cliques, exclusion, and toxic behaviors within the community. Not only does this behavior reinforces harmful stereotypes like the "bitchy queen" or "mean gay," but it also deepens divisions in an already marginalized community, reflecting the way we are often treated by the larger world.In this episode, we're exploring why mean gay behavior manifests, the impact it has on our community, and ways we can foster kindness and support among one another.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 34. GBF: Gay Best FriendListen to Episode 38. Learning to Accept KindnessListen to Episode 53. Stop Comparing Yourself to Other GaysAdditional Resources:The Top 10 Reasons the Gay Community Is So Competitive10 Reasons Gay Men Are Hyper CompetitiveOp-ed: Are Gay Men A Gay Man's Worst Enemy?Ask a Homo: Bitchy QueensWhen Does a Bitchy Queen Become Too Much?Gays Behaving BadlyCulture Slut: Dissecting the 'Mean Gays' TropeMatthew J. Dempsey on How Gay Men "Compare & Despair"Support the showGet Your Merch

Following the harm inflicted on the LGBTQ+ community under the Trump administration from 2017-2021, including attacks on transgender rights and the rollback of anti-discrimination protections, many fear what the new era of Trump may bring. However, it's vital that we remain unified, support one another, and continue to advocate for equality to protect and expand the progress we've made.In this episode, previous guests join us to share their messages of hope and optimism for the future of the LGBTQ+ community as we brace for the challenges that will come with this administration.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 112. Project 2025Listen to Episode 122. A Queer Review of the Trump Administration (2017 – 2021)Additional Resources:Sign the Petition to Reject Project 2025Sign the Petition Urging Congress to Pass the Equality ActSupport the showGet Your Merch

As the end of the year approaches, it's important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge gained to build a stronger foundation for the year ahead.In this episode, we're revisiting some of our featured guest episodes from 2024!Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 109. Queens Slayin', Haters Prayin': A Drag-tacular Showcase (with Bev, Philly's Queen of Comedy)Listen to Episode 111. Opening Doors: Navigate the Real Estate Rainbow (with Ryan Windt)Listen to Episode 113. Advocate Your Ass Off (with Anthony Munger)Listen to Episode 115. Spectrums of Pride (with Max Korten)Listen to Episode 116 Rainbows Don't Paint Themselves (with Jacoby Nordberg)Listen to Episode 117. Get Pop Cultured (with Carmine Davis)Listen to Episode 119. Turning the Page on Queer Book Bans (with Alexander Rigby)Listen to Episode 121. Unpack Your Gay Emotional Baggage (with Dr. Jason Durant)Listen to Episode 124. Queer Frights & New Media: Horror Beyond the Screen (with Bobby Torrez)Listen to Episode 126. Gay of the Dead: Unleashing Queer Horror (with Sean Abley)Listen to Episode 127. Gay Icons: The Queen of Pop (with Stefan Mreczko)Listen to Episode 129. The Gay Wellness Revolution (with Peter DeWitt)Listen to Episode 130. Pride in Motion: Inclusive Fitness and Body-Positive Coaching (with Roy Belzer)Support the showGet Your Merch

As the end of the year approaches, it's important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge gained to build a stronger foundation for the year ahead.In this episode, we're revisiting some of our featured guest episodes from 2024!Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 87. Breaking the Binary (with Travis McMaster)Listen to Episode 89. Beyond the Brawn: Redefining Queer Masculinity (with Erick DuPree)Listen to Episode 91. Fat and Fabulous: Embrace Body Positivity (with Matthew Simko)Listen to Episode 93. Unlock Financial Freedom (with David & John Auten-Schneider)Listen to Episode 95. Take a Page from #GayBookstagram (with Rod Lujano)Listen to Episode 97. Diversifying Queer Horror Cinema (with Jose Nateras)Listen to Episode 99. Coming Out Later in Life (with Kevin O' Connor)Listen to Episode 101. Sci-Fi: The Future is Queer (with TQ Sims)Listen to Episode 103. A Pulse Check on LGBTQ+ Healthcare (with Max Austin)Listen to Episode 105. The Pride Divide (with Tyrell Brown)Listen to Episode 106. Long Live Queer Nightlife (with Amin Ghaziani)Listen to Episode 107. Kiss & Release (with Anthony DiPietro)Support the showGet Your Merch

Since 1865, the Salvation Army has provided social services, such as shelter, food, and rehabilitation programs, to people in need. While known for its goodwill and iconic holiday red kettle campaign, the organization has faced controversy within the LGBTQ+ community over past policies and statements perceived as discriminatory.In this episode, we're exploring the Salvation Army's complex relationship with the LGBTQ+ community and the steps it has taken in recent years to improve inclusivity.Additional Resources:Committee's Inquiry into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual AbuseSuit Claims Group's Staff Is Pressured On ReligionSettlement in Salvation Army Suit on ProselytizingNo Ban on Harry Potter, Twilight Xmas Donations, Says Sally AnnThe Salvation Army's History of Anti-LGBT DiscriminationSalvation Army Cuts S.F. Programs / Charity Spurns City's Domestic Partner LawCharity Is Told It Must Abide By Antidiscrimination LawsSalvation Army Uses Homeless to Fight Gay BenefitsB.C. Salvation Army Volunteer Tells Gay Rights Supporters Not to DonateStatement in Response to Australian Radio InterviewSalvation Army Refers People to Ex-Gay GroupsSalvation Army 'Does Not Consider Homosexual Orientation a Sin'Ellie Goulding Threatens to Cancel Her Cowboys Thanksgiving Halftime Show Over Salvation Army ConcernsSalvation Army Says It's No Longer HomophobicChick-fil-A Stops Donations To Anti-LGBTQ GroupsMacy's Won't Host Salvation Army This Holiday SeasonSalvation Army Commander: Yes, We Are Faith-Based Charity. But We Serve and Love Everyone.Support the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we've delved into the complex relationship gay men often have with body image shaped by societal expectations and stereotypes that idealize a lean, muscular physique, leading many to experience feelings of inadequacy and self-consciousness about their appearance. According to the National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders, gay and bisexual boys are significantly more likely to engage in harmful behaviors such as fasting, vomiting, or using laxatives and diet pills to control their weight.In this episode, Roy Belzer, a body-positive fitness coach, joins us to share his personal journey with body image, discuss how he overcame disordered eating, and highlight the importance of inclusive fitness for the health and wellbeing of the LGBTQ+ community.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 32. Gay Men and Body ObsessionListen to Episode 82. Gay Gym CultureListen to Episode 91. Fat and Fabulous: Embrace Body Positivity (with Matthew Simko)Additional Resources:Learn More About Roy BelzerSchedule a Chat with RoyFollow Roy on InstagramFollow Roy on TikTokConnect with Roy on FacebookCheck Out Roy's Men's Health Magazine FeatureEating Disorder StatisticsSupport the showGet Your Merch

In most episodes, we often discuss how gay men face unique mental health challenges due to societal stigma, discrimination, and internalized stress, which can exacerbate issues like anxiety and depression. Prioritizing mental health and wellness can help address these specific struggles and promote overall well-being as we work to foster resilience and build a fulfilling life.In this episode, Peter DeWitt, founder of Gay Wellness, joins us to discuss how his own wellness journey led him to create an online platform that connects clients with quality gay massage therapists and wellness practitioners.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 35. Surviving the HolidaysAdditional Resources:Learn More About Gay WellnessFollow Gay Wellness on InstagramFollow Peter DeWitt on InstagramThe Latin MinuteThe Latin Minute is your new favorite bilingual comedy podcast. Latinos living in SW FlListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

Situationships are undefined romantic or sexual relationships that lack clear commitment or future plans, often leading to ambiguous expectations between partners. For some gay men, growing up in a heteronormative society can lead to attachment issues or a fear of commitment, making them more likely to find themselves in situationships where emotional vulnerability is limited.In this episode, we're examining the telltale signs and red flags of situationships, discussing how these ambiguous relationships can affect mental health, and offering guidance on how to navigate a situationship if you find yourself in one.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 15. Understanding Attachment StylesListen to Episode 70. Good Grief: How to Cope with LossListen to Episode 71. Queer GriefListen to Bonus 14. WTF America?Additional Resources:Situationship DefinitionSituationship vs Friends With BenefitsSituationships: What They Are and 5 Signs You're in One10 Signs You're in a Situationship, Whether You Know It or NotWhat to Do if Your Situationship is Screwing With Your Mental HealthWhy Situationships Can Be Toxic and How to Break FreeSupport the showGet Your Merch

Previously, we discussed our iconic pop queens and how their songs typically fit into distinct categories that hit an emotional button that appeals to gay men. These categories often include themes of empowerment, heartbreak, resilience, and self-expression, resonating deeply with the LGBTQ+ community, particularly gay men, who find solace and strength in these anthems.In this episode, we continue our Gay Icons series with Stefan Mreczko joining us to discuss none other than the Queen of Pop herself, Madonna. As host of MLVC: The Madonna Podcast, Stefan chats with us about the iconic singer, songwriter, and actress' boundary-pushing music, reinvention of image, and significant influence on pop culture over the past four decadesRelated Episodes:Listen to Episode 04. Pop Icons and Their Gay Emotional AppealListen to Episode 25. Gay Icons: My Name is KylieListen to Episode 41. Gay Icons: The Queen of DiscoListen to Episode 58. Gay Icons: Our Friend, DorothyListen to Bonus 11. Gay Icons: Amy WinehouseAdditional Resources:Learn More About Stefan MreczkoFollow Stefan on InstagramConnect with MLVC: The Madonna PodcastStraight Jacket: Overcoming Society's Legacy of Gay ShameThe Latin MinuteThe Latin Minute is your new favorite bilingual comedy podcast. Latinos living in SW FlListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we explored how queer themes have been woven into horror for over 250 years, highlighting that the genre has always had an inherently queer essence. It resonates with many members of the LGBTQ+ community since it often reflects feelings of otherness, fear, and survival, which are familiar experiences for those who have faced societal marginalization.In this episode, Sean Abley, a horror journalist, award-winning playwright, and creator of Gay of the Dead, joins us to discuss the significance of queer representation, the power of building a horror community, and his latest project, Queer Horror: A Film Guide.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 28. Gay HorrorListen to Episode 79. Queer Mysticism: Gay Men & SpiritualityListen to Episode 80. Queer Haunts: Happy Halloween (with Ralph Anthony)Listen to Episode 97. Diversifying Queer Horror Cinema (with Jose Nateras)Listen to Episode 124. Queer Frights & New Media: Horror Beyond the Screen (with Bobby Torrez)Additional Resources:Learn More About Sean AbleyFollow Sean on InstagramBuy Queer Horror: A Film GuideBecome a Gay of the Dead MemberFollow Gay of the Dead on InstagramFollow Gay of the Dead on FacebookSupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we explored the history of gay representation in TV and film, touching on stereotypes and the challenges faced by queer creators. One major roadblock has been the "Bury Your Gays" trope, which limits authentic representation by perpetuating harmful narratives that often depict LGBTQ+ characters as tragic or expendable, rather than allowing for diverse, fully realized stories.In this episode, we're diving into the origins of the "Bury Your Gays" trope, examining its ongoing presence in media, and discussing how creators can shift away from it to foster more authentic and meaningful LGBTQ+ representation in the future.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 06. Gay Panic DefenseListen to Episode 07. The History of Gay Representation in TV & FilmListen to Episode 28. Gay HorrorListen to Episode 80. Queer Haunts: Happy Halloween (with Ralph Anthony)Listen to Episode 97. Diversifying Queer Horror Cinema (with Jose Nateras)Listen to Episode 108. Celebrate Queer JoyAdditional Resources:Bury Your GaysVasquez Always DiesEver Wondered How to Kill Off a Queer Character Without Falling into the 'Bury Your Gays' Trope?Hollywood's "Bury Your Gays" Trope Explained: History & ControversyDepraved Homosexual15 Recent, Especially Brutal, Examples of the Bury Your Gays TropeSupernatural: Castiel Sacrifices Himself to Save Dean From DeathIt Chapter Two: Adrian Mellon Death SceneSupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we've explored how queer themes have been woven into horror for over 250 years, mirroring experiences of otherness, fear, and survival—common realities for those facing societal marginalization. Today, the horror genre has transcended traditional media channels, expanding its reach through platforms like YouTube and podcasts, where creators can explore these themes in fresh, innovative ways.In this episode, Bobby Torrez, a horror YouTuber and podcaster, joins us to discuss the ins and outs of his horror reviews, navigate stereotypes and tropes in horror, and discuss how queer horror can push boundaries to become even more inclusive.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 28. Gay HorrorListen to Episode 80. Queer Haunts: Happy Halloween (with Ralph Anthony)Listen to Episode 97. Diversifying Queer Horror Cinema (with Jose Nateras)Additional Resources:Follow Bobby Torrez on InstagramFollow Bobby Torrez on TwitterSubscribe to Bobby Likes It SpookyTune in to People Under the ScaresTune in to Scream Kingz PodcastSupport the showGet Your Merch

Coming out is a deeply personal and pivotal moment for LGBTQ+ individuals, encompassing the courageous act of sharing their authentic identity with others, fostering self-acceptance, and seeking understanding and validation.In this episode, I reflect on my coming out journey from a decade ago, sharing the funny, cringey, and self-discovery that have shaped me along the way.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 77. Coming OutListen to Episode 99. Coming Out Later in Life (with Kevin O' Connor)Support the showGet Your Merch

Presidential administrations significantly influence the well-being of the LGBTQ+ community through their policies on civil rights, healthcare, and anti-discrimination protections, which can either advance or hinder equality and acceptance. Additionally, an administration's public stance on LGBTQ+ issues sets a national tone, impacting societal attitudes and the lived experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals.In this episode, we're reviewing the Trump administration's stance on LGBTQ+ rights from 2017 to 2021, examining the impact of its actions on civil rights, healthcare access, and protections for the LGBTQ+ community.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 03. Surviving Another PandemicListen to Episode 27. Matthew ShepardListen to Episode 112. Project 2025Additional Resources:GLAAD's Trump Accountability TrackerTrump in 1999: "I Am Very Pro-Choice"The Advocate Interview with Donald TrumpDonald Trump's More Accepting Views on Gay Issues Set Him Apart in G.O.P."It's Not My Thing": A History of Trump's Shifting Relationship with the LGBT CommunityDonald Trump Congratulated Elton John on His Civil Partnership in 2005Donald Trump Says He's Against Gay MarriageDoes Donald Trump Support Civil Unions or Not?Gay Conservatives Bring Trump and the Party to CPACDonald Trump Has Words for Transgender Miss Universe ContestantDonald Trump Comes Out Against North Carolina's HB2LGBT Groups Blast Trump for Voicing Support for HB2 in RaleighRead Donald Trump's Speech on the Orlando ShootingTrump Has Appointed 216 New Federal Judges and it Could Be 230 By Election DayA Third of Trump's Court Nominees have Anti-LGBTQ History, Report FindsSupport the showGet Your Merch

In numerous episodes, we've learned that gay men are more likely to struggle with mental health issues due to the trauma experienced from growing up in a society that often stigmatizes their identity. Despite these challenges, we must heal from trauma so we can lead fulfilling lives and make a difference for the LGBTQ+ community, fostering both personal well-being and collective resilience.In this episode, Dr. Jason Durant, a prominent gay psychologist, joins us to discuss how his own journey has shaped his empathetic and insightful approach to therapy, how he addresses common mental health struggles gay men face, and his new book, which offers valuable guidance and support for gay men navigating their mental health journeys.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 11. Overcoming Internalized HomophobiaListen to Episode 26. Gay & AnxiousListen to Episode 42. Are You Emotionally Unavailable?Additional Resources:Learn More About Dr. Jason DurantFollow Dr. Jason Durant on InstagramBuy Boy From the North Country: A Queer Therapist Looks Back at Overcoming Trauma With MindfulnessSupport the showGet Your Merch

Since the 1890s, the term queer was initially used as a derogatory slur against gay men until it was later reclaimed by the LGBTQ+ community as a symbol of empowerment and inclusivity. Today, it's used non-offensively as an inclusive term that embraces a wide spectrum of sexual orientations and gender identities within the community.In this episode, we're taking a look into the etymology of the word queer, tracing its origins as a slur, and examining the pivotal moments and motivations behind the LGBTQ+ community's powerful reclamation of the term.Related Episodes:Listen to Bonus 12. Spooky StorytimeListen to Episode 03. Surviving Another PandemicListen to Episode 23. Let's Talk About the F WordListen to Episode 51. ACT UP: Silence = DeathAdditional Resources:Queer (Etymology)Queer (Definition)How the Word ‘Queer' was Adopted by the LGBTQ CommunityMarquess of Queensberry‘Queer' History: A History of QueerOscar Wilde TrialReviled, Reclaimed and Respected: The History of the Word 'Queer'Come Out!Support the showGet Your Merch

In recent years, several states have enacted bans on queer books, citing unsubstantiated claims ranging from content deemed inappropriate to concerns about age-appropriateness. These bans have restricted access to diverse and affirming literature for the LGBTQ+ community, leading to feelings of erasure and marginalization, and hindered the representation and visibility of queer identities, which is crucial for fostering understanding and acceptance.In this episode, Alexander Rigby, a New York Times Bestselling Editor at Penguin Random House and curator of the publisher's LGBTQ+ Network, joins us to discuss the impacts of queer book bans on LGBTQ+ people, how Penguin Random House is continuing to promote queer voices, and ways the LGBTQ+ community can support queer authors and push back against unjust book bans.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 95. Take a Page from #GayBookstagram (with Rod Lujano)Listen to Episode 101. Sci-Fi: The Future is Queer (with TQ Sims)Additional Resources:Learn More About Alexander RigbyFollow Alexander on InstagramFollow Penguin Random House LGBTQ+ Network on InstagramCheck Out Pride in Your WordsFollow Penguin Random House on InstagramSupport the showGet Your Merch

Heterosexism is a system of attitudes, biases, and discrimination that privileges heterosexuality and marginalizes and oppresses LGBTQ+ people. This pervasive bias can lead to significant negative impacts on LGBTQ+ individuals, including increased rates of mental health issues, social isolation, and barriers to accessing healthcare and other essential services.In this episode, we're delving into the concept of heterosexism, exploring how it manifests in various aspects of society, the trauma it can inflict on LGBTQ+ individuals, and strategies for overcoming this pervasive bias.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 39. We Are Family: Part 1 (with Michelle Loveless)Listen to Episode 59. Say Bye Bye Bye to Bi Erasure (with Sam McClain)Listen to Episode 63. The Stonewall RiotsListen to Episode 69. That's So Gay (You Really Shouldn't Say That)Additional Resources:Homophobia DefinitionGeorge WeinbergHeterosexism (Definition)The Stonewall Riots: Coming Out in the StreetsHeroes of Stonewall: Craig RodwellBeyond “Homophobia”: Thinking About Sexual Prejudice and Stigma in the Twenty-First CenturyPrejudice, Social Stress, and Mental Health in Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Populations: Conceptual Issues and Research EvidenceThe Context of Anti-Gay ViolenceHomophobia: A Weapon of SexismHeterosexism & HomophobiaHeterosexist Microaggressions, Student Academic Experience and Perception of Campus Climate: Findings From an Italian Higher Education ContextMicroaggressions in Everyday Life: Race, Gender, and Sexual OrientationHow Heterosexism Can Be TraumaticHow to Combat HeterosexismSupport the showGet Your Merch

In previous episodes, we explored pop culture's resonance with the LGBTQ+ community, serving as both a reflection of societal changes and a source of representation and validation. Pop icons in music, film, television, and other media often highlight diverse narratives and characters that resonate with the experiences and identities of LGBTQ+ people while advocating for equal rights and visibility.In this episode, Carmine Davis, singer and host of The Carmine Davis Show, joins us to discuss his relationship with pop culture, icons who have inspired his career, and how inclusive pop culture can be a positive force of change for the LGBTQ+ community.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 04. Pop Icons and Their Gay Emotional AppealAdditional Resources:Learn More About Carmine DavisFollow Carmine Davis on InstagramTune in to The Carmine Davis ShowStream All Friendship is RomanticBook Carmine Davis on CameoSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

Art has been a vital form of expression for queer people, providing a powerful platform to explore, celebrate, and communicate their identities, experiences, and struggles in a world where their voices are often marginalized.In this episode, Jacoby Nordberg joins us to discuss his experiences as a queer artist, exploring how art serves as a profound medium for expressing his identity and the broader impact of art in empowering and giving voice to the LGBTQ+ community.Additional Resources:Learn More About Jacoby NordbergFollow Jacoby on InstagramFollow Jacoby on TikTokCheck Out Jacoby's PortfolioSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

LGBTQ+ individuals often struggle to find their community and a place of support, encountering societal stigma and discrimination that can make it challenging to connect with others who share their experiences and understand their unique needs. LGBTQ+ individuals who also have autism often navigate a complex intersection of identities, facing distinct challenges and experiences that require support and understanding.In this episode, Max Korten joins us to discuss his experiences as a gay man with autism, queer dating with a developmental disability, and how we can all work together to make the LGBTQ+ community a more inclusive space.Additional Resources:Follow Max Korten on InstagramSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

Located at the northern tip of Cape Code in Massachusetts, Provincetown is a coastal town renowned for its vibrant arts scene and historic significance and celebrated as a premier gay tourist destination known for its inclusive atmosphere, lively LGBTQ+ events, and welcoming community.In this episode, we're diving into Provincetown's rich history, exploring how it evolved into a premier gay tourist destination and uncovering the vibrant tapestry of its queer heritage.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 17. Mobsters & Mos: How the Mafia Owned Gay NightlifeListen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor‪?Listen to Episode 65. 65. Fire Island Additional Resources:US Census BureauA Brief History of Provincetown, MassachusettsHow Ptown Got So Gay, Gay, GayWhy Is Provincetown So Gay?Cape Queer? A Case Study of Provincetown, MassachusettsThe Pilgrim HouseThe Pilgrim House Hotel (May 17, 1973)Fantasia Fair: Miscellaneous DocumentsWomencraftsProvincetown Business GuildCarnivalPtown Hacks (Towleroad 2015)Bear Week ProvincetownBear WeekSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

LGBTQ+ advocacy dates back to early 20th-century efforts, such as the formation of the Society for Human Rights in 1924, and gained momentum with landmark events like the 1969 Stonewall Riots, which galvanized a global movement for equality and rights. Despite significant progress, ongoing advocacy is crucial to combat persistent discrimination, ensure legal protections, and promote societal acceptance for LGBTQ+ individuals worldwide.In this episode, Anthony Munger, Program Manager for the Louisville Pride Foundation and a licensed social worker, joins us to discuss the importance of continued LGBTQ+ advocacy, especially around areas impacting LGBTQ+ health.Additional Resources:Follow Anthony Munger on InstagramLearn More About Louisville Pride FoundationSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

The Trump administration had a detrimental impact on LGBTQ+ rights by rolling back protections and supporting religious exemptions that allowed discrimination against LGBTQ+ individuals. Looking ahead to the 2024 election, The Heritage Foundation has published Project 2025, a 920-page extremist policy agenda and staffing blueprint with conservative ideals, for the next Republican administration to swiftly implement upon taking office in January 2025.In this episode, we're dissecting the Heritage Foundation's conservative influence, including its significant impact on the Trump administration's policies, and why Project 2025 poses a serious threat to LGBTQ+ Americans and democracy at large.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 30. Gay Sex Education (or the Lack Thereof)Listen to Episode 46. Obergefell v. Hodges and the Ongoing Fight for Marriage EqualityListen to Episode 67. 303 Creative LLC v. ElenisAdditional Resources:The Heritage FoundationMandate for LeadershipHow One Conservative Think Tank is Stocking Trump's GovernmentKevin RobertsDonations Have Surged to Groups Linked to Conservative Project 2025Mandate for Leadership: The Conservative PromiseThe White House Gender Policy CouncilCongressional Leaders Form Task Force to Counter Project 2025 and Defend DemocracySign the Petition to Reject Project 2025Sign the Petition Urging Congress to Pass the Equality ActSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

In today's challenging real estate market, aspiring home buyers grapple with rising prices, limited inventory, and intense competition, making the pursuit of homeownership more difficult than ever. To add a layer of complexity, gay home buyers may encounter challenges such as discrimination, limited representation, and concerns about acceptance in certain neighborhoods, highlighting the ongoing need for a more inclusive and affirming real estate environment.In this episode, Ryan Windt, a Philadelphia-based real estate agent, joins us to share key factors that LGBTQ+ people should be mindful of when house hunting, along with homebuying tips and myths.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor? Listen to Episode 106. Long Live Queer Nightlife (with Amin Ghaziani) Additional Resources:Send Ryan Your Real Estate InquiriesFollow Ryan on InstagramWhy You Should Let a Gay Realtor Help You Find Your Next Home!Why Gayborhoods Matter: The Street Empirics of Urban SexualitiesOnce a Crucial Refuge, ‘Gayborhoods' Lose L.G.B.T.Q. Residents in Major CitiesSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

During Pride month, many corporations and "allies" enthusiastically showcase their support, donning rainbows and sponsoring LGBTQ+ events. But once July 1st rolls around, the vibrant displays of pro-LGBTQ+ sentiments often fade from their workplaces, leaving questions about the depth of their commitment to inclusivity.In this episode, we're addressing “performative allyship,” a form of superficial activism that focuses on the appearance of allyship rather than meaningful action, and discussing how “allies” can and should do better.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 09. Corporate Greed & Rainbow CapitalismListen to Episode 16. Being an Ally (with Cheyenne Filipczyk)Additional Resources:Corporate Performative Allyship: It's Hurting Your Bottom LinePerformative Allyship: How to Spot It and Avoid Engaging with ItPerformative Allies Are Out Here Being Fake As HellThere's More to Allyship Than Pride and RainbowsPride Month Marketing: Avoid Performative AllyshipTrue Allyship: A Toolkit for Allies of the LGBTQIA+ CommunitySupport the Show.Get Your Merch

Throughout LGBTQ+ history, drag has held an essential role as a form of expression, resistance, and solidarity, offering a platform for self-discovery and challenging societal norms. From fighting back in the Stonewall Riots to raising funds for research during the AIDS crisis, it has been instrumental in fostering community, amplifying voices, and advocating for equality and acceptance.In this episode, Bev (@itsbevbitch), Philadelphia's very own Queen of Comedy, joins us to share her experiences as a fabulous drag performer and how drag continues to intersect activism while pushing back against anti-drag legislation.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 73. Brunch: The Most Important Gay Meal of the DayAdditional Resources:Learn More About BevWatch Bev's PerformancesFollow Bev on InstagramFollow Bev on TikTokFollow Bev on FacebookFollow Bev on XBook Bev on CameoSupport BevThe Extraordinary Rise of Drag Brunch: A Dining Delight or a Betrayal of Queer History?Support the Show.Get Your Merch

Despite the rainbows and parades, Pride tends to remind the LGBTQ+ people of the systemic oppression queer communities have faced, highlighting the ongoing journey toward true equality. Amidst this struggle, it's crucial to embrace and celebrate queer joy as a testament to resilience and a beacon of hope for a more inclusive future.In this episode, we're delving into the importance of queer joy and how we can embrace it year-round to challenge the narrative that being queer is rooted in trauma while continuing to raise our voices for further progress and equality.Additional Resources:Queer Joy: What It is and Why We Need More of ItSustaining Queer Joy and Potentiality: Through Independent Production with Homoground Music PodcastThe Art of Queer JoyQueer Joy As EmpowermentCelebrating Queer Joy During PrideThis is What LGBTQ+ Joy Looks LikeThe Queer Joy ProjectThe Queer Joy Project: Tell Your StoryThe Queer Joy Project: Get InvolvedSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

Poetry serves as a rich medium where the intersecting identities of gay men, encompassing aspects of sexuality, gender, race, class, and more, intertwine to craft narratives that reflect the multifaceted experiences and perspectives within the LGBTQ+ community.In this episode, Anthony DiPietro, author of kiss & release, joins us to discuss the importance of inclusive literature, the queerness of poetry, and incorporating pride in his writing.Additional Resources:Learn More About Anthony DiPietroFollow Anthony DiPietro on InstagramRead kiss & releaseSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

In previous episodes, we discussed how the shifting dynamics of gayborhoods and dating app culture have impacted queer nightlife. While the closure of traditional gay bars might be viewed by some as a cause for concern, it fosters a broader conversation about the organic evolution of queer social spaces.In this episode, Amin Ghaziani, Professor of Sociology and Canada Research Chair in Sexuality and Urban Studies at the University of British Columbia and author of six books and countless academic articles, joins us to discuss his research and findings on today's queer nightlife and how we can all work together to create a future where every individual finds belonging and celebration in our shared spaces.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 17. Mobsters & Mos: How the Mafia Owned Gay NightlifeListen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor?Listen to Episode 96. Should You Swipe Left on Gay Dating Apps?Additional Resources:Learn More About Amin GhazianiFollow Amin Ghaziani on InstagramFollow Amin Ghaziani on XRead Long Live Queer NightlifeRead Why Gayborhoods Matter: The Street Empirics of Urban SexualitiesSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

In previous episodes, we discussed the origins of Pride and the importance of continuing to stand up for equality. However, members of the LGBTQ+ community debate the meaning, purpose, and execution of modern-day Pride celebrations, which highlights the lack of diversity within mainstream events.In this episode, Tyrell Brown, Executive Director of the radical social justice organization Galaei, joins us to discuss the importance of intersectionality and the ongoing work needed to ensure that Pride truly reflects the diversity of our community.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 08. Finding Your CommunityListen to Episode 09. Corporate Greed & Rainbow CapitalismAdditional Resources:Learn More About Tyrell BrownFollow Tyrell Brown on InstagramLearn More About GalaeiLearn More About Philly Pride 365Follow Galaei on InstagramFollow Galaei on FacebookFollow Galaei on XSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

Following the Stonewall Riots, San Francisco's Castro District gained a reputation for its relative openness and soon emerged as a gay haven. During the 1970s and 1980s, a group of predominantly white, masculine-presenting gay men gained prominence for their uniform aesthetic, characterized by closely cropped hair, well-groomed mustaches, denim attire, and a rugged, hyper-masculine appearance.In this episode, we're exploring the origins and characteristics of this archetype, referred to as the Castro Clone, along with some famous Clones, and how this subculture both challenged and perpetuated narrow ideals of masculinity.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 19. The Queer History of DiscoListen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor‪?‬ Listen to Episode 81. Are Mustaches Gay?Listen to Episode 82. Gay Gym CultureListen to Episode 86. Turn Off Your Code-SwitchingListen to Episode 92. Metrosexual MadnessAdditional Resources:Castro CloneCastro District, San FranciscoThe History of the CastroCruisin' with the Mustache CrewArthur EvansHow the '70s “Clone” Look Paved the Way for the Queer Clothing of TodayThe Incredibly Gay History of Manly ClothesAfraid You're Not Butch Enough?The Fabulous Sylvester: The Legend, the Music, the Seventies in San FranciscoSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

Healthcare promotes the wellbeing of individuals and fosters societal resilience by addressing health challenges, preventing diseases, and providing essential medical support. However, marginalized communities, such as the LGBTQ+ community, have historically encountered challenges in accessing inclusive healthcare, facing discrimination, stigmatization, and inadequate understanding of their unique health needs.In this episode, Max Austin, author of How Can We Be Wrong?, joins us to discuss his experiences as a nurse coming out during the early 1990s HIV/AIDS crisis and ways to advocate for more inclusive healthcare.Additional Resources:Learn More About Max AustinBuy How Can We Be Wrong?Follow Max Austin on InstagramFollow Max Austin on TikTokFollow Max Austin on XSupport the Show.Get Your Merch